This is totally cool, some people are just better friends!! She spent a lot of her life with him, it would be hard to just cut someone out of your life and act like they don’t exist after sharing so much with someone. Family. Secrets. I love this.
I am actually good friends with my husband’s ex-wife. They were married for 8 years… he and I have been married for 16 years. When her father passed away, I encouraged him to attend the funeral to be with her and her family. Just because they weren’t together anymore doesn’t mean that her father wasn’t still a father figure to my husband. They didn’t work out as a couple, but that doesn’t mean they couldn’t be civil or even be friends afterwards. She is actually a very nice person and I quite like her a lot.
This is a beautiful episode, when I saw the title"Bride brings ex husband and new wife Wedding Dress Shopping" I had to watch it, my late husband and I had been separated since 2006 but he was always present in our lives, he was at all of my family celebrations and events involving both his Son's, sometimes with his girlfriend whom I would sit and talk and laugh with. He passed away suddenly just over a week ago and this episode spoke to me and I found myself relating to this bride and her relationship with her ex husband. My heart needed this episode :(
@mgichndz Seriously? Isn't it like an unwritten rule that the fiance should never see his future wife in a wedding dress before the wedding? Some do go, but very rarely. If she finds the one, she doesn't want the superstition that the marriage won't last if he sees her in it before they get married.
Kenny seems like the sweetest man ever. Perfect for her. I am so glad she was able to stay good friends with her ex-husband, some people truly are better off as friends
Gok is such a sweetheart. He knows exactly how to address the bride’s concerns and reservations, and his choices always make the bride look her absolute best. I loved how the ex-husband was so supportive with his comments. This was a great episode!❤
Those who would criticize her for remaining friends with her ex and his new wife are people who are used to ending relationships on a bad note. THIS is healthy. When my parents divorced, we all still had family holidays and parties with ZERO animosity.
That's awesome! I'm glad your parents did that for you, it's great that they were able to give you that time to be together with all your family at once without things being weird or tense.
What a pretty woman! And that was just the pop she needed. Her fiancé sounds as crazy as her...THEY are a couple! It is wonderful when divorced couples realize the mistake they made marrying for lust and not love. Now both couple will be happy...together!
That is divorce goals! The dress is very nice and suits her, but I don't think the halter is the most flattering option. Maybe a regular strap would have been better. The flowers will most likely look very nice, when done properly instead just pinning them to see the look.
This was a lovely set of people and very nice to watch. I have known a few people who stayed friends. Basically, they just grew apart as time passed; it was no one’s fault. Obviously, an abusive former partner should be be avoided and the partnership followed by therapy!
the top flower bunch kind of reminded me of a corsage which isn't my style, but she makes it beautiful. I think they stayed away from putting the roses on the train so it wouldn't look like Ms. monthly visited on her wedding day. I do think it would be cool if she has a short/midlength veil and they put a scattering of roses cascading down that (avoiding putting any directly on top or on the bottom part).
*Can you imagine a veil the color of the flowers, or the flowers but smaller, also on veil? Haven't seen the end yet, but that image popped into my mind and had to say it before seeing the ending.*
My husband and his ex are not friends and hated each other for several years before and after their divorce. I didn't break them up, she had left him two years before he met me. They kept arguing about the terms of divorce, but when he met me, he ended up giving her everything she wanted, because he loved me. Long story short, we have been married thirty-five years and today is the anniversary of our first date. His ex is quite ill and calls regularly just to talk, as most of her friends have died and the kids don't see her often. I told my husband she may need to move in with us as her health is quite bad. He thought I was joking, but I am not. The only way it will work is if she does not talk politics and isn't hateful. I think it would work, but I am not positive. But family does for family, so we are willing to try.
That's wonderful the two of you found each other. It's very compassionate of you to be willing to help take care of your husband's ex, but you don't need to feel obligated to or feel guilty not to helping. I watched my mom help care for her mom towards the end of her life and I saw how hard it was for her at times, so I can't imagine how things might feel after a while of living that way when the person you're caring for wasn't someone you were very close with in the first place.
@@lizard3755 I cared for my mother the last five years of her life. She had dementia, which we jokingly said said was"Irish Dementia," one forgets everything but a grudge. It was pretty true. Linda doesn't have that, so it would not be as difficult. However, she, I know, will stay independent as long as possible. But, I would be willing to try. My eldest sister, thirteen years my senior, will be moving in with us at some point, and she is, well, let's just say, she is eccentric. Oh, life does bring challenges, doesn't it?
The flowers don't go and look weird but if she must have flowers, take them off her shoulder and keep it on her waist instead! It looks very weird on her shoulder
I like the dress but the halter neck strap thingy makes her look like she's hunching her shoulders - I think an off-the-shoulder might have suited her more.
Why didn,t she just opt for a coloured or floral print dress?? The placement of the roses looked strange and the halter awful. Just my opinion! The bride made her choice and that,s what we,re here for. Just think that Gok has been off his game recently...used to love his picks, now not so much.
I love when couples can be friends after divorce, especially if there are kids involved. That's what I wanted...but my first husband's new wife won't let him talk to me, and my 2nd ex husband treats me like some sort of disease.
The roses would have looked gorgeous sporadically placed on the skirt of the dress. And then her carrying a beautiful hanging rose bouquet in the same color. The first halter was nice with all the crystals. Although the top looked too tight in itself. It looked like they changed it up at the end and just used plain material for the halter.
Gorgeous gorgeous use of theme to add colour. In the dress though, instead of halter, they should take the straps all the way to the back in a criss cross so her bare neck doesn't appear to bulge. If she's wearing her hair down, then halter is fine as well.
The bride seems lovely but those additions just weren't it. The halter wasn't super flattering and the shoulder rose was just bizarre. But the bride was happy, and in the end that's all that really matters.
Umm that’s fine keeping your connection with your ex husband friendly but taking your ex to your bridal appointment is a bit much his current wife must be an extraordinary woman but really?
Nope to the ex husband and new wife being there, nope to the dress, nope to the flowers, just nope to everything in this one. P.s. I bet they're swingers.
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I like the whole idea of just because the marriage ends, doesn't mean the friendship has to. It's a peaceful way of continuing your life
Maybe not needed for weeding dress shopping.
This is totally cool, some people are just better friends!! She spent a lot of her life with him, it would be hard to just cut someone out of your life and act like they don’t exist after sharing so much with someone. Family. Secrets. I love this.
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I am actually good friends with my husband’s ex-wife. They were married for 8 years… he and I have been married for 16 years. When her father passed away, I encouraged him to attend the funeral to be with her and her family. Just because they weren’t together anymore doesn’t mean that her father wasn’t still a father figure to my husband. They didn’t work out as a couple, but that doesn’t mean they couldn’t be civil or even be friends afterwards. She is actually a very nice person and I quite like her a lot.
This is a beautiful episode, when I saw the title"Bride brings ex husband and new wife Wedding Dress Shopping" I had to watch it, my late husband and I had been separated since 2006 but he was always present in our lives, he was at all of my family celebrations and events involving both his Son's, sometimes with his girlfriend whom I would sit and talk and laugh with. He passed away suddenly just over a week ago and this episode spoke to me and I found myself relating to this bride and her relationship with her ex husband. My heart needed this episode :(
thinking of you as a fellow griever ❤
I'm so sorry for your loss 😔
My condolences on your loss. I hope your ex's girlfriend has continued to be a friend to you for the past four months. How are you doing?
@@haplessasshole9615 she is a great friend, we have leaned on each other and check in with each other all the time. I'm ok thank you for asking xoxo
I truly commend all couples who can still be good friends after divorcing. That is hard for many couples to do.
Her new man seems really sweet and genuine, happy for her
We never got to meet him though except for that brief video. How come the ex husband was there but the fiancé wasn’t? Lol
@mgichndz Seriously? Isn't it like an unwritten rule that the fiance should never see his future wife in a wedding dress before the wedding? Some do go, but very rarely. If she finds the one, she doesn't want the superstition that the marriage won't last if he sees her in it before they get married.
The ex-husband definitely has a type, his current wife and ex-wife look very much alike. The current wife must be a very understanding woman.
The same name as well 🤔😆
Haha😂❤
My husband, his ex, her husband and I get along beautifully. It's a wonderful thing!
This is how it should be!
Amazing!! ❤
I like how Gok gets the women to see themselves and then adding the touches that make the dress for the women!
Kenny seems like the sweetest man ever. Perfect for her. I am so glad she was able to stay good friends with her ex-husband, some people truly are better off as friends
She was on Say Yes To The Dress before when she helped her ex’s new wife choose her wedding dress.
Nice that they’ve been able to remain good friends. Looks like they wish the best for each other . Cheers !
Good for them! I love that they are still good friends. It’s beautiful to see.
I love that their one happy big family. That usually doesn’t happen but there’s hope for others. I love this group of people.
I love that they’re good friends and not mean to eachother ❤
Gok is such a sweetheart. He knows exactly how to address the bride’s concerns and reservations, and his choices always make the bride look her absolute best. I loved how the ex-husband was so supportive with his comments. This was a great episode!❤
Interesting how the new wife looks so much like the bride/ex wife. It’s nice that she and her ex are so civil and nice to each other.
I think she's so charming!
Those who would criticize her for remaining friends with her ex and his new wife are people who are used to ending relationships on a bad note. THIS is healthy. When my parents divorced, we all still had family holidays and parties with ZERO animosity.
100% I wish everyone could have this. Children would be a lot healthier with the divorce of their parents if it was this way
That's awesome! I'm glad your parents did that for you, it's great that they were able to give you that time to be together with all your family at once without things being weird or tense.
What a pretty woman! And that was just the pop she needed. Her fiancé sounds as crazy as her...THEY are a couple!
It is wonderful when divorced couples realize the mistake they made marrying for lust and not love. Now both couple will be happy...together!
She said they were very young. Many people's tastes change/mature as they hit their late 20's. Perhaps they just outgrew each other.
@@peachygal4153 Thanks for agreeing with me. I'm not alone...
The flowers look weird. Maybe the ones at the waist. Maybe a belt of them on the waist, but as long as she is happy…
I would love to just meet Gok - love his energy and kindness 💛
That is divorce goals!
The dress is very nice and suits her, but I don't think the halter is the most flattering option. Maybe a regular strap would have been better. The flowers will most likely look very nice, when done properly instead just pinning them to see the look.
The dress balances her out perfectly. Love Gok ❤❤
I mean good for them that they get along that well.
This is absolutely beautiful, it’s wonderful when adults can actually be mature about life❤❤❤❤
SHE TOTALLY made this dreas beautiful ❤️
This was a lovely set of people and very nice to watch. I have known a few people who stayed friends. Basically, they just grew apart as time passed; it was no one’s fault. Obviously, an abusive former partner should be be avoided and the partnership followed by therapy!
Gok you are amazing how you can make a bride look amazing for her day and confidence ❤❤❤❤
Ideal outcome! Nothing wrong with staying friends with your past relationships! It sure works for me!!!
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She looks like a gorgeous princess, such a sweet face.
I have heard of exes having a strong friendship after divorce. It must have taken a lot of work to get there. Bravo!
The placement of the roses was weird. They would look better if a bit smaller, and trailing down the skirt somehow, rather than two big blobs.
ExActly what I was thinking.
the top flower bunch kind of reminded me of a corsage which isn't my style, but she makes it beautiful. I think they stayed away from putting the roses on the train so it wouldn't look like Ms. monthly visited on her wedding day. I do think it would be cool if she has a short/midlength veil and they put a scattering of roses cascading down that (avoiding putting any directly on top or on the bottom part).
@@johannakoster8374 It can look beautiful though. Google image "Ann Lowe roses gown" for vintage couture examples.
I like the dress without roses but if she likes it why not
Aunty Gok, you are absolutely the BEST!!!! Every time you go from fabulous to superb to just jaw-droppingly awesome !!
*Can you imagine a veil the color of the flowers, or the flowers but smaller, also on veil? Haven't seen the end yet, but that image popped into my mind and had to say it before seeing the ending.*
Some people are just better friends than a couple and that's okay!!!!🌈❗❗❗🍺🍻
I would've like to see like 1 sheet of red tulle woven underneath just peaking out to really bring it all together!
I'm adding glitter tulle under my dress to give it more sparkle
Perfection. Gok does it again.
“Going to the seaside on a Wednesday after work?!” 😂😂😂
Gok, you and your team are magical
Wishing them all much happiness ❤
I love your Family!!!!
I didn't really like the flowers. It was distracting.
True. She should get her color from her bouquet and how the church and reception are decorated.
I think the roses would have looked better on the first dress against the plain smooth satin.
The roses cheapen it. Makes it look like a school fashion project
Did anyone else believe him for a moment when he said 3 months??
I did
Wow that’s very adult of them I don’t think I could do it more power to them This would be a great TV show ❤️
Love the dress, not so crazy about the added roses...
I really wanted to see the new Tracy tell her she looks beautiful in the dress.
My husband and his ex are not friends and hated each other for several years before and after their divorce. I didn't break them up, she had left him two years before he met me. They kept arguing about the terms of divorce, but when he met me, he ended up giving her everything she wanted, because he loved me.
Long story short, we have been married thirty-five years and today is the anniversary of our first date.
His ex is quite ill and calls regularly just to talk, as most of her friends have died and the kids don't see her often. I told my husband she may need to move in with us as her health is quite bad. He thought I was joking, but I am not. The only way it will work is if she does not talk politics and isn't hateful. I think it would work, but I am not positive. But family does for family, so we are willing to try.
Taking in someone who needs care can break you even when you like this person very much
That's wonderful the two of you found each other. It's very compassionate of you to be willing to help take care of your husband's ex, but you don't need to feel obligated to or feel guilty not to helping. I watched my mom help care for her mom towards the end of her life and I saw how hard it was for her at times, so I can't imagine how things might feel after a while of living that way when the person you're caring for wasn't someone you were very close with in the first place.
@@lizard3755 I cared for my mother the last five years of her life. She had dementia, which we jokingly said said was"Irish Dementia," one forgets everything but a grudge. It was pretty true.
Linda doesn't have that, so it would not be as difficult. However, she, I know, will stay independent as long as possible. But, I would be willing to try.
My eldest sister, thirteen years my senior, will be moving in with us at some point, and she is, well, let's just say, she is eccentric.
Oh, life does bring challenges, doesn't it?
If more people were this enlightened like this…
New wife didn't act excited about being there, or about the dress. They don't seem close.
I would have liked the flowers spread over the skirt
The flowers look tacky and distracting. 👎
The flowers don't go and look weird but if she must have flowers, take them off her shoulder and keep it on her waist instead! It looks very weird on her shoulder
The roses ruin the whole look
The constant comparisons makes it seems like they aren’t over each other and may possibly dibble and dabble
Absolutely not! When it’s over it’s over. No can do!
No to theflowers
The most amazing episode ❤❤❤❤❤
I like the dress but the halter neck strap thingy makes her look like she's hunching her shoulders - I think an off-the-shoulder might have suited her more.
Why didn,t she just opt for a coloured or floral print dress?? The placement of the roses looked strange and the halter awful. Just my opinion! The bride made her choice and that,s what we,re here for. Just think that Gok has been off his game recently...used to love his picks, now not so much.
I love when couples can be friends after divorce, especially if there are kids involved. That's what I wanted...but my first husband's new wife won't let him talk to me, and my 2nd ex husband treats me like some sort of disease.
Love goks choices normally, but this wasn’t it
Oh my gosh INCREDIBLE X
The roses would have looked gorgeous sporadically placed on the skirt of the dress. And then her carrying a beautiful hanging rose bouquet in the same color. The first halter was nice with all the crystals. Although the top looked too tight in itself. It looked like they changed it up at the end and just used plain material for the halter.
The positioning of those red roses on the dress looks awful.
I love Gok.
I guess 🤔
No thanks
No to those flowers.😳
I couldn't. Too awkward.
I don't think Gok has particularly nice dresses. I think the roses could have been placed better, perhaps a few all over the skirt instead.
Seems weird to me. Wow!!
Gorgeous gorgeous use of theme to add colour. In the dress though, instead of halter, they should take the straps all the way to the back in a criss cross so her bare neck doesn't appear to bulge. If she's wearing her hair down, then halter is fine as well.
Wow!
What in the Jerry Springer is going on here
He just puts flowers on a dress she wasn’t 100% about- did he just not wanna do more dresses with her? So weird .looks horrible
The bride seems lovely but those additions just weren't it. The halter wasn't super flattering and the shoulder rose was just bizarre. But the bride was happy, and in the end that's all that really matters.
A rare miss for Gok. Looks homemade.
Do these people have style? The red roses looks so bad....
Stop introducing yourself as exes and just say your friends. People done need to know how.
May be they'd get less attention 😂
What a dumb idea...
Those dresses must look better in person, because none are flattering.
Just wonder are X invited to go with on honey moon....just wonder 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Are there any normal scenarios anymore?? These episodes are getting so weird.
Umm that’s fine keeping your connection with your ex husband friendly but taking your ex to your bridal appointment is a bit much his current wife must be an extraordinary woman but really?
This is weird af. Idc what anyone says lol
Your bouquet is the color, wear and carry real roses, and get a better dress, halter is not hot.
Agree. Everything about this is a NO to me
Both men she has chosen are strange.
I like the first one
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Nope to the ex husband and new wife being there, nope to the dress, nope to the flowers, just nope to everything in this one.
P.s. I bet they're swingers.
Other people got that vibe too. No idea but interesting that multiple people have that impression 🤔😅
Sorry, no Ex-husband does not belong there. That is so tacky and what is wrong with the bride?
😂 you have issues
Swingers
Definitely swingers 😅 First thing that crossed my mind.
Definitely swingers 😅 First thing that crossed my mind.
Lovely bride, lovely dress but with the too dark roses on those weird places it look like a heron on her period flew over and dropped something.
😂😂😂
Hilarious! I think it could have been done better.
Behaviours Aptitudes and core traits
forget the supposed personality
It's not easy to get over yourself and your nonsense, but it's worth it in the end.
Friends dont get divorce.its not ok to be this close to ur ex.some shit eventually happens