I get "you've changed" sometimes as well, which I never really understood. As if after 7 years of making videos I would still be exactly the same person as I was when I started. Why would that be a good thing anyway? I don't get much hate though, thanks in no small part to your #1 rule, I think. It's hard sometimes, but the more you ignore it, the less it happens from my experience.
+PeanutButterGamer A) You're a very nice person, and B) because of this your fans got your back. The few times I notice people try to hate on you they get stomped out of existence by people who support you.
Totally agreed!! The less you acknowledge it, the fewer people will think they'll get your attention! I wish I knew this a couple of years back hahaha. Also -- if you hadn't changed in 7 years, people would complain that your videos were 'stale' and 'he just does the same thing every week'. You can't win!
I kinda take pride in the fact that I respond to every single comment ever no matter what (unless youtube does the dumb thing where there's no "reply" button). I have under 6,000 subscribers so its pretty easy to put in the time to make sure I respond to everyone. But this leaves me at a loss for what to do when haters crawl into my comment section. It feels like I'm breaking my streak by not replying to comments just because they are hate (which I know is dumb) but I also know I shouldn't give them any encouragement...
+ThisIsNotAMarisa You can delete or block comments on your own youtube videos so I suggest doing that. There is no reason you should have to deal with that kind of negativity in your life. Not only will deleting them provide a more positive environment for people who want to leave comments, but it will shut the haters up. Just my advice! Good luck!
Thanks so much Emma, I recently just released a couple of new videos on my channel, and I have received the most hate I've ever received. This really got to me as I spent so much time editing and scripting jokes... But after watching your video, I feel so much better! Your humour and advice really is a blessing to me. Thanks so much! 😊
When I was 13 my dad tried to get me to fight him, so I just looked him dead cold in the eyes and said' no' then just kept up the stare until he stormed off. That was getting close to 10 years ago and the man has been afraid of me ever since. Not engaging with hate and aggression is a powerful and effective statement on a one on one level.
Thumbnail 11/10 I agree I usually either ignore and report a hater, kill them with kindness, or, if I'm feeling salty af, I reply really sarcastically lmao
This is the first honest video I've seen on hate, everyone else's is so polished and generic, but your advice is real and raw. And the fact that you say what to do when all the generic things don't work. Keep being awesome Emma :)
I like this video. Not as much for the message (don't get me wrong what you said is 100% correct, every little bit) but for the actual emotion behind your expressions and words. I can tell you've been through all this sort of abuse and you've learned to deal with it. Don't get me wrong it still gets to you and it probably always will to some extent, but you've found ways to deal with it. One suggestion (Constructive criticism not "hate"): You may want to try and not swear so much depending on who your target audience is. If you're target audience is 13 to 19yo then swearing is good because it will drive them to your channel (uuu naughty words) but if you're targeting a more mature audience (20-30?) you may want to make your insults a little more... subtle and creative. If you don't agree with what I've said of course I won't be heartbroken over it but I'd appreciate if you can drop your point of view on the matter as well since I'd like to get your view (as a professional youtuber) on the matter.
My main demographic is whoever wants to watch, dude. I'm not swearing to be 'cool'. If kids like it, great! If adults don't, well, that's their choice! I'm just going to continue being me.
+Justin Popa I'm sure her demographic is almost fully comprised of people who enjoy hearing a lot of swearing on youtube, and a few people that god only knows what are doing here. 1,1 million swearword-lovers sass-drinkers all at one place, oh the beauty of TH-cam.
2:26 feels like i know what you're referring to here and if it is what i'm thinking it is, just know that i sat there smiling by my computer while you didn't give it the attention it didn't deserve, t'was beautiful. xx
Lollipop girl I hate it when TH-camrs like you try to stir up drama, when it's not necessary and you overly (and incorrectly) analyse the lives of others for entertainment. Trying to pass off genuine comments as farces is ludicrous. My comments are genuine responses to content I watch. I like this video and I like Emma as my friend. People like you attack us for not commenting on others content, then you attack us for the comments we make if they aren't too happy, then you attack us for making happy and supportive comments. Unfortunately, you'll never be happy. I shall continue commenting on content I like, regardless of what you think about it :D.
Holy crap I saw this girl on revel mode and wanted to watch one of her videos may I say I do not regret it one bit she is super awesome and one of my new favorite youtubers keep up the good work love your hair!!
I just presumed that this was prompted by Hazel on Twitter tbh, who I thought was being really rude, but this video was just really great, and I actually was really happy when Emma didn't respond because it just didn't feel worth it
That's what I assumed it was from. I'm also glad she didn't respond on Twitter because I think it would've just started a whole unnecessary argument, which other people would've probably made themselves a part of. Plus some comments just shouldn't even be dignified with a response. This video was perfect!
+friday13thirteen Emma tweeted that she was really sad that her hamster had died, and then she sent another tweet about just hearing about Alan Rickman's death, so she said something along the lines of 'first my hamster died and now Alan Rickman, fuck today' basically saying that she was upset about both and Hazel basically jumped on it saying how could she compare one the worlds greatest actors to a hamster. And it was pretty obvious that Emma wasn't comparing the two she was just saying she was really upset about both of them and the way Hazel said it was just unnecessarily rude and uncalled for. Like, how dare Emma also be upset about her pet that she's taken care of and loved on the same day that Alan Rickman died.
+cupcakekitty Her full name is Hazel Hayes. I don't know her exact twitter name but if you type her name in, it should come up. I assume you're just going to investigate and not to be mean to her. What she said to Emma was cruel and I disagree with what she said but I can't condone people then being mean to her for it. Two wrongs don't make a right.
"If someone doesn't like your shit, you do your shit, you continue your shit in spite of them." This is especially useful advice for when you're in the toilet cubicle in work/school the morning after a curry.
but what if a person that hates you makes fake accounts with your name, spreading literally shitty things to irl people/friends of yours.. and even though that happened a while ago.. the accounts are still there, they're still there when you Google your name- and it's just so frustrating! because you know you cannot do anything to make it go away, and you thought it would go away because you've been strong and actually ignored it for so so long.... :/
+Sɨɛяяǟ tђє Ƈгɛɛթ (Le Koala) fucking with people accounts and with people isn't okay. although you might feel like its funny or fun, it's a fucking rude and bad thing to do.
Emma please watch this video th-cam.com/video/w2RRpeVKu4ca/w-d-xo.htmlnd tell me this guy doesn't make you want to hate him cause HOLY SHIT HE IS ANNOYING THE FUCK OUTTA EVERYBODY THAT WATCHES THE VIDEO!
Omg I love your hair thanks for this video it helped me because I'm in high school and well popular but not in the right way people make fun of me because my long hair so loved the video please read
You're a riot when you are "energized". I am going to have you going back and forth on the screen going "fuckemfuckemfuckemfuckemfuckem" in my head for days! Thank you!!! : - ) [ You should try playing lacrosse with live hand grenades when you're in this state. You'd wind hands down every time. ]
Emma there is nothing particularly rude about your shirt. In fact, since it loosely translates to 'I don't care' it is in fact a rather appropriate way of underlining one of your main points. As to you having changed, yes you have, you have matured and become better at what you are doing. The only people who never change are fools and corpses
"my bra strap is just fallin' down because it's a fuckin hater"
First world problems
Hey Allie!
Hey Allie!
Hey Allie!
aaallliiiieee 😄😄
'I still see you tubers quoting hate' *cough cough* alfie deyes
youtubers*
What do you mean?
he said he was getting hate when there was none, I think he just wanted a reaction imo xD
+electricparis *cough* *cough* Tyler Oakley
+iHeartBitchStew haven't watched tyler for the past few months but does he really do that? :/
I get "you've changed" sometimes as well, which I never really understood. As if after 7 years of making videos I would still be exactly the same person as I was when I started. Why would that be a good thing anyway?
I don't get much hate though, thanks in no small part to your #1 rule, I think. It's hard sometimes, but the more you ignore it, the less it happens from my experience.
Hey pbg! I love your videos :D
+PeanutButterGamer My mind has just been blown...
Nice moves, keep it up
Proud of you
+PeanutButterGamer A) You're a very nice person, and B) because of this your fans got your back. The few times I notice people try to hate on you they get stomped out of existence by people who support you.
Totally agreed!! The less you acknowledge it, the fewer people will think they'll get your attention! I wish I knew this a couple of years back hahaha. Also -- if you hadn't changed in 7 years, people would complain that your videos were 'stale' and 'he just does the same thing every week'. You can't win!
+emmablackery nice video
I kinda take pride in the fact that I respond to every single comment ever no matter what (unless youtube does the dumb thing where there's no "reply" button). I have under 6,000 subscribers so its pretty easy to put in the time to make sure I respond to everyone. But this leaves me at a loss for what to do when haters crawl into my comment section. It feels like I'm breaking my streak by not replying to comments just because they are hate (which I know is dumb) but I also know I shouldn't give them any encouragement...
Do not reply to this comment.
+BritanniaGamer noooooo that's not fair! 😫 too bad haha
turn there hate comment into a joke
+ThisIsNotAMarisa You can delete or block comments on your own youtube videos so I suggest doing that. There is no reason you should have to deal with that kind of negativity in your life. Not only will deleting them provide a more positive environment for people who want to leave comments, but it will shut the haters up. Just my advice! Good luck!
I love you're videos and you're awesome for replying!!
Emma looks so on fleek recently :)
+Marcus Connolly she always is jus sayin
+Marcus Connolly She always does
Agreed
Agreed
Thanks so much Emma, I recently just released a couple of new videos on my channel, and I have received the most hate I've ever received. This really got to me as I spent so much time editing and scripting jokes... But after watching your video, I feel so much better! Your humour and advice really is a blessing to me. Thanks so much! 😊
Joshua Kyan fuck the haters
Joshua Kyan She's awesome
Joshua Kyan helped me too lol
Joshua Kyan I was receiving a lot but after the vid I feel better
Joshua Kyan thanks!
shirt says "I don't care"
nothing too bad ;)
+Authentik great advice btw, "fuck em fuck em fuck em fuck em fuck em"
+Authentik it's more like "i dont give a shit/fuck" :P
Titouan_Rch mmmmm kinda, kinda not
no one here says anything else than "je m'en fous" for "I don't care". No one says "je m'en fiche"
***** maybe in europe. haven't heard that here in quebec in a long time
+Authentik who is the other quebecois here *.*
When I was 13 my dad tried to get me to fight him, so I just looked him dead cold in the eyes and said' no' then just kept up the stare until he stormed off. That was getting close to 10 years ago and the man has been afraid of me ever since. Not engaging with hate and aggression is a powerful and effective statement on a one on one level.
Thumbnail 11/10 I agree
I usually either ignore and report a hater, kill them with kindness, or, if I'm feeling salty af, I reply really sarcastically lmao
YOU ARE EVERYWHERE
+alex cameron thanks? lmao I love how ironic your comment is 😂
I find it fun to type out a huge long "fuck you too bro" reply then just delete it.
I totally owned them, they just don't know it.
B)
Eep I can't get over how fabulous your hair is!!😍😻
+William Incledon phandom is love. Phandom is life
+Chloe Nash nopety nope nope. No.
Same
Your username is me trying to go to bed when I'm really tired at 5am
+Placenta Phan phandom💞💞🦁
This is the first honest video I've seen on hate, everyone else's is so polished and generic, but your advice is real and raw. And the fact that you say what to do when all the generic things don't work. Keep being awesome Emma :)
PREACH
+Cray YES SISTER
I love high-per Emma. There was so much energy I just wanted to jump around my room.
"hate hate hate negativity hate 10/10 meanness wow mean slurs n shit
no offence " 90% of hate comments on the internet tbh... Love you Emma
Oh hey fancy seeing you here gggg
// Nelli // Ohhh heyyyy Nelli ggggg
Your energy is absolutely amazing and slightly surprising in this video and I love it! xD
I still ship her and Doodie
Dodie**
+Mechanical Organism Designed Only For Killing
*Doodly bop
Doodie omg
Doodlyoodly
Doodie hahaha
This was a sassy Emma video. I love it when Emma displays her sassiness .
Emma is pretty on edge in this video. Almost like she did coke before the video started.
+Bartman was that a fucking pun?
+Joseph Toner (°u° )
+Bartman ayyyyy
...
+Lavinia S >•
Man. The excess swearing was like a throwback to Emma 2012 - 2014 videos. I LOVE IT!
They just hate u cuz they aint u
*anus 😂😂😂
+Alacrix it's weird that I'm reading this just minutes after watching that movie The Interview
+Alacrix they hate us cause they anas?
de hetus becasa de entus
agreed!!!
I love Emma when she's energetic, even if she's talking about haters! ❤️
This is actually amazing, fking hilarious and educational at the same time. Nice one
+Charlotte Lyon 'educational' wow how fking lame am I
Well hi Phandom
Meera 2003 Hey there ^-^
I like this video. Not as much for the message (don't get me wrong what you said is 100% correct, every little bit) but for the actual emotion behind your expressions and words. I can tell you've been through all this sort of abuse and you've learned to deal with it. Don't get me wrong it still gets to you and it probably always will to some extent, but you've found ways to deal with it.
One suggestion (Constructive criticism not "hate"): You may want to try and not swear so much depending on who your target audience is. If you're target audience is 13 to 19yo then swearing is good because it will drive them to your channel (uuu naughty words) but if you're targeting a more mature audience (20-30?) you may want to make your insults a little more... subtle and creative. If you don't agree with what I've said of course I won't be heartbroken over it but I'd appreciate if you can drop your point of view on the matter as well since I'd like to get your view (as a professional youtuber) on the matter.
My main demographic is whoever wants to watch, dude. I'm not swearing to be 'cool'. If kids like it, great! If adults don't, well, that's their choice! I'm just going to continue being me.
+emmablackery makes sense. Thanks for the reply
+emmablackery P.S. Have a good day and don't let the haters get to ya!
+Justin Popa I'm sure her demographic is almost fully comprised of people who enjoy hearing a lot of swearing on youtube, and a few people that god only knows what are doing here.
1,1 million swearword-lovers sass-drinkers all at one place, oh the beauty of TH-cam.
2:26 feels like i know what you're referring to here and if it is what i'm thinking it is, just know that i sat there smiling by my computer while you didn't give it the attention it didn't deserve, t'was beautiful. xx
+felucca ;) ;)
+emmablackery your amazing (:
+felucca what was it?
whooooOoooooooOOOoo?
+emmablackery 14 seconds ago 0.0
thank u so much for this!!!!! i feel so much better now and u inspire me so much
oh boy and that fuckin swag thumbnail 👌👌👌✌✌
mmmm nice profile pic 🤑
+Chris Plant Your username is the best
Your profile picture :D
Thug af 😂😂😂😂😎
+Nyan KitKat (abandoned quiche) HELLO
fuck the haters! nice hair by the way i like it
How to deal with haters: activate your inner Emma Blackery
This appears to be a hate video towards haters.
Help French dudes. We need Emma's shirt translated!
+derMemory It says 'I do not care' xxx
+derMemory i dont give a fuck.
+Georgia xox no
Sorry! My mistake ♥️ xx
+Blaze AndMarley it's actually "I don't care" :P
the shirt says I don't care
Emma slays my entire existence.
You are awesome...The End.
-HORRAY for the burst of energy!
Hey Beckie!! :)
I hate when popular TH-camrs have to comment something too nice, sweet, just to get likes and people who think they are lovely will subscribe to them.
Lollipop girl I hate it when TH-camrs like you try to stir up drama, when it's not necessary and you overly (and incorrectly) analyse the lives of others for entertainment. Trying to pass off genuine comments as farces is ludicrous.
My comments are genuine responses to content I watch. I like this video and I like Emma as my friend.
People like you attack us for not commenting on others content, then you attack us for the comments we make if they aren't too happy, then you attack us for making happy and supportive comments.
Unfortunately, you'll never be happy.
I shall continue commenting on content I like, regardless of what you think about it :D.
+Beckie Jane Brown You go girl!
+Beckie Jane Brown I saw your comment on Perfume - Sia and I haven't stopped watching your videos
Holy crap I saw this girl on revel mode and wanted to watch one of her videos may I say I do not regret it one bit she is super awesome and one of my new favorite youtubers keep up the good work love your hair!!
I'm so ill so I'm recovering by watching Emma videos
Great video thingy.
Your shirt says I do not care in french. Thank you google
i think it means a more rude version of that, friend.
+Kaitlyn Hutchinson WAIT WHAT DOES IT MEAN
+Kaitlyn Hutchinson "I don't give a fuck", to be more specific in case anyone was wondering. 😏
+Lily May Maughan Hehe, thank goodness for Google Translate right? 😄
it's more like "i don't give a shit"
Hahhahahah Emma sats was awful
just remember the hate emma-ounts (amounts??) to nothing!! (im sorry)
Was she high or "on someting"
Energized Emma is the rarest Pepe
je m'en fous = i do not car
I get hate from... fandoms.. and other people
throwing shade at the phandom 😂
(I love you Emma
I'm in the phandom
+Tennant91011 yeah same
+araneedsalife it's simultaneously the best and worst thing ever...kinda like tumblr
+Tennant91011 ikr, the phandom has that effect on people
+araneedsalife yup
haters to the left. -Tyler Oakley 2011
I just presumed that this was prompted by Hazel on Twitter tbh, who I thought was being really rude, but this video was just really great, and I actually was really happy when Emma didn't respond because it just didn't feel worth it
That's what I assumed it was from. I'm also glad she didn't respond on Twitter because I think it would've just started a whole unnecessary argument, which other people would've probably made themselves a part of. Plus some comments just shouldn't even be dignified with a response. This video was perfect!
+Mollie Lee what did she say?
+friday13thirteen Emma tweeted that she was really sad that her hamster had died, and then she sent another tweet about just hearing about Alan Rickman's death, so she said something along the lines of 'first my hamster died and now Alan Rickman, fuck today' basically saying that she was upset about both and Hazel basically jumped on it saying how could she compare one the worlds greatest actors to a hamster. And it was pretty obvious that Emma wasn't comparing the two she was just saying she was really upset about both of them and the way Hazel said it was just unnecessarily rude and uncalled for. Like, how dare Emma also be upset about her pet that she's taken care of and loved on the same day that Alan Rickman died.
+Francesca Fox whats hazels full name or twitter
+cupcakekitty Her full name is Hazel Hayes. I don't know her exact twitter name but if you type her name in, it should come up. I assume you're just going to investigate and not to be mean to her. What she said to Emma was cruel and I disagree with what she said but I can't condone people then being mean to her for it. Two wrongs don't make a right.
"If someone doesn't like your shit, you do your shit, you continue your shit in spite of them."
This is especially useful advice for when you're in the toilet cubicle in work/school the morning after a curry.
I have 65 years left to take up cross stitch
fuck em fuck em fuck em fuck em fuck em
TH-cam wouldn't be much fun without our haters, right? ;)
Strangely enough, I agree with this.
+lucas tatlock MERICA*
fuck em fuck em fuck em fuck em
Haters follow me like twitterrrr
+Robby weird to se ur coment without any like or coment o.o like yeah u have a new chanel, but ur stil big on youtube xD
Caffeinated Emma is the best
i miss read the title as hatters... i was disappointed when it wasn't a rant about hatters :(
DAMN TEA PARTIES!
+emmablackery the video was great and then to read this comment just made my day lol
Did you play in a movie called get smart ?
but what if a person that hates you makes fake accounts with your name, spreading literally shitty things to irl people/friends of yours.. and even though that happened a while ago.. the accounts are still there, they're still there when you Google your name- and it's just so frustrating! because you know you cannot do anything to make it go away, and you thought it would go away because you've been strong and actually ignored it for so so long.... :/
Report the accounts!
+Sɨɛяяǟ tђє Ƈгɛɛթ (Le Koala) fucking with people accounts and with people isn't okay. although you might feel like its funny or fun, it's a fucking rude and bad thing to do.
Your T-shirt is not actually offending or anything, don't worry. "Je m'en fous" just means "I don't care" ;)
tomsdog.com is my new favourite thing :D
+Emily Snell The music is amazing
+Emily Snell Isn't that the music from Ed's world or something?
faissialoo I'm not sure, I've never been on Ed's world but it does sound like stuff that TomSka's used :p
+faissialoo it's used in asdf movie
+Emily Snell it made me so happy
Literally gunna go through the rest of my life with "fuck 'em fuck 'em fuck 'em fuck 'em" constantly running through my head.
You're a gay nerd
Yes I'm gay and also I know I'm a nerd what's wrong with that
You can't spell
I also know that(I'm dyslexic)
I used to cut up Green Day stickers and stick them in places so they said "gay nerd". Fun times.
I had a lot of leftover E's though...
All My Best Friends Wear Turtlenecks lol i'm dead
lol whenever annoying hates on me by saying in something I'm obviously not, I just say 'yes, yes I am'
2:52-2:59 fuckin' killed me
Haters are Heretics
Heresy grows from idleness. So pretty much watching TH-cam.
RaidEus
and of course fapping to TH-cam is Slaanesh worship and therefore DOUBLE HERESY!
Dear god you are everywhere!
Xyla A
yes I am, mainly cos I watch a lot of videos and am a snarky bastard, plus shameless self promotion of my FB page :P
God she's cute when she has energy.
you needed to talk faster and shout harder this was to long 👌
+HyperPixel I'm really confused
We're here for vlogs, not zero punctuation
+Chris Plant I think she's talking about your profile picture
+Naveed shakeel I understood that I just didn't quite understand what he put.
***** oh whoops sorry :P
You have changed emma. alot. but I love that. you've grown as a person and I can tell. you're awesome :D
I love ur chicken head bobbing across the screen
i am the 13,000th liker
Emma please watch this video th-cam.com/video/w2RRpeVKu4ca/w-d-xo.htmlnd tell me this guy doesn't make you want to hate him cause HOLY SHIT HE IS ANNOYING THE FUCK OUTTA EVERYBODY THAT WATCHES THE VIDEO!
Your shirt just says "I do not care" in French just btw ;)
Thank you +emmablackery
Awesome vid. I'm gonna be using that tomsdog.com trick too!
word
5:15 fuck'em fuck'em fuck'em fuck'em Part 2 return of the fucking
2:55 fuck'em fuck'em fuck'em fuck'em
her shirt says: i dont care
emma please learn electric guitar and you will be more badass
Omg I love your hair thanks for this video it helped me because I'm in high school and well popular but not in the right way people make fun of me because my long hair so loved the video please read
it says i do not care...
thats not naughty
lol but cute anyway
thank you so inspiring thanks that helped alot with a problem i just had
Emma (sighs) your left eyebrow!
Holy shit Emma's had to many blue smarties. I love it. :p
You're a riot when you are "energized". I am going to have you going back and forth on the screen going "fuckemfuckemfuckemfuckemfuckem" in my head for days!
Thank you!!! : - )
[ You should try playing lacrosse with live hand grenades when you're in this state. You'd wind hands down every time. ]
have you ever thought you may say f**k a bit too much?
(constructive criticism)
Why are you sorry for ur t shirt?!?! It's not like it says fuck you, it's just I don't careXD
I actuallt really like it cause you don't even know what it meansX)
An easier way to deal with haters:
Give them a snickers bar
Emma there is nothing particularly rude about your shirt. In fact, since it loosely translates to 'I don't care' it is in fact a rather appropriate way of underlining one of your main points.
As to you having changed, yes you have, you have matured and become better at what you are doing. The only people who never change are fools and corpses
Emma blackery is possibly one of the most awesome motivationers ever GO EMMA
thanks for say that
love this :D
Hyped Emma is probably my favorite Emma
Small tip: If you just can't stand and ignore hate, shut down your connection and listen to whatever music you like.
This video has made me feel very self-conscious of how I open essays in school...
Haha lol what is your real hair color
It's winter, emma.
This actually really helps......
This is a super good video dude, had both good tips and was hilarious :D
I love how happy this video was about something so shitty. You go, Emma!
Emma, I love you, your videos, and your positivity.
The opposite of love isn't hate, it is indifference. If someone is hating on you, they are still bothering to hate on you.
This actually helped me a lot
Thank you so much for making this video and making videos you always manage to make me smile :D