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- “It is not darkness in my heart, but emptiness, waiting for the sun.” - Connor Franta
If you relate to this quote, then you’ve most likely already realized the terrifying truth that the emptiness and meaninglessness of life is something a lot of us have had to confront at some point in our lives.
If you are struggling with deep feelings of emptiness in your life right now, here are a few signs to help you figure out why (and what you can do about it)
Are you feeling empty but don't know why? This video might help: • 4 Reason Why You Feel ...
Remember, this video is for educational purposes and is not a substitute for professional advice.
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I don’t really feel empty…just numb. I can laugh and cry and get angry, but it feels more like a reflex at this point. Im so mentally and emotionally drained I don’t really enjoy my hobbies anymore. I usually just surf the internet mindlessly.
Can you please stop quoting my life?
Me too
same i really don't have any interest anymore nothing interest me
Sound a lot like me :(
It sounds like you’re tired, mentally and emotionally, and you need a break from life. Maybe try find some new friends?
To the *worthwhile person* seeing this, Don’t allow the past and current pains and hurts stop and define you. You’re more than a conqueror. Rise up and put yourself together. Keep pushing your future depends on it. I wish you all the best in life ❤️.
I hope i can but just lost my dog of 14 years. Feeling lost and guilty.
@@sherleengibb9454 I am so sorry. My girl is 12 and I live in fear of losing her. I play it out in my head against my will what life is gonna be like and it causes me so much pain. I love her so much. So, my heart breaks for you but you will never forget the memories and I hope the universe permits an after life and if it does, I know there is a 14 year old tail wagging on the other side waiting for you.
My only issue with this thought process is that ....you are pushing the value of those experiences away
I rise from the scars I am strong enough to build bridges after they have been burned
I am stronger and because of that I don't mind mending my scars
Thank you.
It's not as easy as stopping. Stopping would mean getting over my traumas. Which also means I have to scrap all the life lessons and skills I've learned throughout all the pain.
I've dealt with deep emptiness since i've been a kid, it's... such a pain, cause it's a void that nothing fills in. Well the only thing that fills it in is when i hyperfocus and get super passionate about something, though it doesnt last long
same. i wonder how can we fix this.
Same. If I’m not obsessed and consumed with something, then I’m absolutely bored and numb.
I feel the same way and I have tried everything to fill it writing dating nothing works out of me the excitement fullfillingness wears off so fast
THIS!!!
Is there any common thread throughout your life that doesn't require hyper focus?
7 signs you feel deep emptiness
1. Your relationships aren't fulfilling 0:50
2. You struggle with overdependence 1:34
3. You're perpetually bored with your life 2:12
4. You feel emotionally numb alot 2:48
5. You feel alone and isolated from everyone else 3:28
6. You've lost touch with yourself 3:58
7. You have what you want but you're still not happy 4:30
Hope this helps ! Feel free to vent in the reply section, I'll be here for u
thanks for this!
That was fast
6 was finding something important and the whole world wants to derail me.
definitely accurate
Hi, can you hep me?
I relate with everything except the “feeling bored” part. In fact, I have too many aspirations and _wish_ I could feel bored sometimes. But I’m always afraid of falling behind :/
I, too, have a lot of aspirations and I want to try to fulfill them before my time is up. But sometimes I guess you just have to not be afraid to try, and if you fail, it's not the end of the world because you're still here to try again. I'm sure whatever your aspirations are, you'll fulfill them.
@Dooblevoo that's just how some people feel, whether you're right or not.
Same
@@marygacha777 nice to meet you
thats that Nietzsche drive. I dont experience that, I fully understand the boredom and it is accompanied by the feeling of falling behind due to not progressing, but soemtimes it feels like there is no way to progress and the feeling is a stuck stagnant feeling that can feel akin to boredom, but its punctuated by panic and fear that the wrong choices are furthering the undesirable outcomes.
Its scary when I can relate to this cause I've felt this from childhood growing up and it fucks with your head when you've grown so accustomed to the emptiness that your mind and thoughts constantly goes down the dark path to the point of wanting to "self delete" (the S word is a trigger for me ) cause nothing you try ever seems to fix or fill the heavy endless void in your soul.
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You're not alone. This video seriously came at the time I need to see it most and reading the comments made me at least feel a little less alone. I wish I could give you all the love in the world, friend. Stay strong and I hope to meet you in the comments again one day. I look forward to it.
@@maddy.8915 Thank you for the words of enouragment. I hope to see you as well, even though all is not well with me mentally and emotionally
Suicide
I just constantly mirror others to try and fit in because it helps me mask my autism, but then I feel like I don't have my own personality. I feel isolated and I don't even know what thoughts are my own. I'm just disconnected.
Maybe try to find communities where you can be yourself?
I just want to say that your autism doesn't make you, and people should not judge because of it. You'll always be you and always be considered a great person.
same haha
Yep, I've faced every one of these issues.
Would hang out with friends yet feel like I didn't belong. I'd just participate with the conversation and pretend to know what they're talking about when I honestly don't more often than not.
I'd also be clingy with a certain friend, looking to them to help me define who I should be. There would be friction when they'd become annoyed and impatient with me after a prolonged bout of this. "That's up to you to figure out, stop asking me about it!"
I've also found that I'm bored quite often, even when doing hobbies or things I once enjoyed. Constantly seeking out media or other things to distract myself from myself, so to speak.
Also felt disconnected from my emotions for the most part, which took a lot of work to finally feel something again. Even then, I'm mostly numb unless it's a very strong emotion I feel in the moment, and it's quite fleeting more often than not. (Brief pangs of happiness, followed by nothing for days on end as an example.)
Even felt isolated many times in my life, despite being surrounded by people who love me and look up to me. I still feel a profound loneliness at times, and have to constantly remind myself that I'm not alone. It's a difficult feeling to shake off.
Especially feel like I lost touch with who I am! Like I'm a wandering soul trying to find my place in this world, and nothing seems to feel "right" to me no matter what I try. I also struggle with disassociation of my own body, lacking a certain awareness of where my body is in relation to the world, so I'm constantly running into things and knocking stuff over inadvertently. I try to meditate and become more aware of my body, yet I still struggle doing so.
Then there's the lack of satisfaction with my life, despite accomplishing many things I've wanted. Left with that sense of "what now?"
It's profound how this single video described the past 20 or so years of my life...
You're pretty good at describing the way I feel about life. I wish I could come up with anything constructive or helpful to say. But I can't as I don't even know how to get out of this myself. I guess I've just come to accept that most people will find their place in this world and there are the few who don't fit in. And I'm one of those who don't fit in.
Thank you for sharing this.
“You have what you want and you not happy”
I’m definitely feeling like Shikamaru. Everything just feels like a drag. My motivation and self esteem are at negative and can’t find interest in anything. My job is the only thing that keeps me busy but I feel totally drained and don’t want to do this anymore. I want to disappear somewhere where no one will bother me and I can just “exist” since I can’t bring myself to do the alternative.
What a drag 😪
What a drag 😩
I don't know why, but I feel like hugging you.
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honestly, same here... i just wish time could just pause for a while for us to rest, but sadly, life never stops 🥲
Liked how I became feeling empty not to long ago and this video popped up and immediately i relate to every points you made which is scary…but just seeing how people also relate..makes me feel somewhat happy knowing I’m not alone, even tho I feel alone most of time in my days, I can always think I’m not alone facing my own knowing people also deal with this.
You're very special and you'll never be alone. Whatever things you face, I'm positive you'll get through them, and I don't care if I don't know you yet.
hey dear, if u wanna talk im here
all the best to you!
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I've been feeling alot of emptiness . Feel like there is no meaning in my life right now. Thanks for the video..i love to watch them.👍
You'll always mean something. . Don't ever feel down on yourself. Just keep your head up.
Find your purpose and you meaning to life in Jesus Christ,he fills the emptiness in our heart with his love and grace
Move to ukraine
@@davidbaillie2403 is this supposed to be some sort of joke?
it has meaning, dear. are you going through anything bad in particular?
That's how I'm feeling right now. I've lost all interest in everything I used to like & I feel no emotion.
It's all meaningless sex ...
@@lawrup
That's why I don't chase after women anymore.
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Pray 🙏 it help makes it better
It’s incredible how you sum of feelings we can’t even define on our own. Every video you post somehow enlightens me to a new idea or understanding of myself. Thank you 🙏🏽💜
This.
1. Your relationships aren't fulfilling 0:50
2. You struggle with overdependence 1:34
3. You're perpetually bored with your life 2:12
4. You feel emotionally numb a lot 2:48
5. You feel alone and isolated from everyone else 3:28
6. You've lost touch with yourself 3:58
How?●●●●
Where is 7?
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7. You have what you want but you're still unhappy 4:29
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Honestly, reading all of these comments comforts me letting me know that I am not alone in my ever-going struggle for self-worth and search for life-meaning. 💙
I realized that I always rely on someone to make me happy. I was always known as the "cheerful" one at school. By making everyone happy and seeing the smile on their faces makes me happy, but now that school's over and all of my friends are moving on with their lifes, i somehow feel empty as I have no one to talk to. I find myself desperate to seek someone to feel in that emptiness. During this period, I feel like I'm slowly changing, from being talkative to no talking at all, laughing to feeling no emotions and leaving texts on read or ignoring them. Idk why im doing this but for once I just want someone to be there for me like how I did for them, to listen to my problem as how I gave them my ears to their problems..
You just described my life 😕 i hope you get ur someone who can listen to your probelm and make you happy ❤
...thats exactly how i feel
Me: Who am I?
Brain: A good question. Let’s save it for the next day and the next.
The best question to ask yourself, although, is there an answer? And I mean a true answer, that rings into your being. Not what another person thinks you are.
I used to feel empty or very down I used to prefer feeling intense sadness than emptiness because at least I was feeling something. I was bored with my life, I wanted something but didn't know what. I didn't think I'd get out of that state and had come to accept that. I'm doing better now and I got out of that fog and storm. For anyone reading this, you'll get out of this.
I need help :(
Yessss, I am actually relating in these. I always felt that life was boring and I am currently trying to find something that could interest me. Hopefully I find it soon.
honestly.. anything i do just seems so boring. even thing i used to get excited about. it feels like a whole lot of just existing in the moments, but not enjoying it
Seems like you enjoy anime..stick to that
All this happens to us because we don't give importance to ourselves. By ourselves, I mean the "Soul". Yes, we are not this body nor this mind but we are Soul. That's why we feel emptiness.... I have also gone through this period but I am able to get out of this by knowing the "science of Soul" or Spirituality. Hope I have helped somebody through this comment.... And I also hope that may everyone who is going through all this will get out of it. You may also seek my help if you want....
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@@botato5110 did you consider talking to a therapist about it? im not saying you have it, but that could be a symptom of depression
i hope you'll find it too!! update us
All these signs resonate with me right now. I find meditation has helped me to connect to myself and find my true self. I struggle with over dependency, so when I’m alone I’m lost in my thoughts. Not good thoughts. But recognizing and finding ways to cope have definitely lessened the inner pain.
ik the feeling. if u wanna talk, im here
Yoga and meditation do help - but sometimes I’d love to be LESS self aware lol. Sigh :/ or maybe it’s just to re direct the negative thoughts since we know that those are NOT true, not based on facts at all. Who knows. Growing up is over rated :(
Went through it last week, it's hard ngl but you just have to think positive and think about how beautiful the world could be. For me personally I like the quote "it's LIFE , you just gotta move on". Though it didn't really make much sense but it did in my mind and help me through tough times. To all y'all out there, I hope you a blessed day and life, good luck.
Nah, you just gotta keep doing what you wanna do and keep hope. No need to lie to yourself that you ain't in the ditches
You just gotta take it carefree and say well yea my life is shit but I'm gonna enjoy it or attempt to 💀
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@@crazymadstriker766 they didnt say anything about lying to themselves
@@userm180 the world ain't beautiful mate, it's a mix of horror and greatness. Its unreleastic to say it's just beautiful
I related to this more in the past than I do now because after discovering my core values and lots of journaling to understand myself, I see a little light at the end of the tunnel. I think I finally know what I want in life, I just don’t know how to get there
im really proud of you
@@userm180 Healthy fulfilling friendships :) I wanna attract the right people in my life
@@karlijackson8580 good job!😌hoping you'll gets what u want. maybe we can be friends too
Are there any harmless ways to end myself?
that meow at 5:03 just made everything a little bit better. so cute 💜
Saw this video at perfect timing, always love watching your videos. I feel your videos really help people learn more about themselves, feel less alone and maybe even connected with others that experience similar things/situations/emotions, and help people feel more human or confident knowing that it’s ok to feel certain things (or the “flaws” that are actually attractive video). Keep up the great work❤️
same buddy i was just thinking about this and luckily this video came in my recommendations
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I feel lonely and emptiness often and I'm often thinking about and worrying about what I want and how I want my life to be I feel isolated your video was very helpful and calming
worrying wont help you at all. yes, you can think about your future, but worrying about it will only make you anxious without actually giving you a solution and a way to make it better. try to think of it in a positive manner. ik it seems like it wont change much, but it really does.
@@userm180 hi and ok thank you
@@nikkimckay860
I relate to every single point that you have made but the HUGE one that I related to was the perpetual boredom. I can almost cry at how bored I feel every single day… everything I loved to do isn’t enough to get me on my feet anymore. Everyday is just a routine, wake up, clean the house, walk the dog, make dinner, clean up again, and go to bed. I own a business at home and I don’t start working until 8pm and go to bed at 5am sometimes just because I have no motivation to start early. My days are wasted deep inside my head while my body is on autopilot.
Emptiness. Complete emptiness
sounds like anhedonia
I feel so scared when I find and start doing something I'm interested in and then suddenly the next day I just can't bring myself to do it anymore... it's like every time I may have found something to look forward to it just... evaporates and makes me feel numb, scared and like everything is worthless...
I think you may have described what happens to me whenever I find something new. Like the moment you realize that the new thing doesn't last as long as you wish it would, everything just feels pointless again... :(
I wonder what one should do in the face of emotional numbness. What do you do when everything you do suddenly becomes.....unsatisfying? Even when you have everything you wanted?
I wonder the same.
I re-evaluate my situation... Do I really get what I wanted... OR do I settle for this crap I've got because I've got it and other people seem to think it's "great"...
What DO you really want? What's really worth working for to YOU??? Damn anybody else's answer... It doesn't matter what they want or like or feel about it. They're NOT you.
Often, I figure out I've got a bunch of crap I never really appreciated... SO step 1 is moving it on. Usually, that's selling it off. No good comes of wasting it, like tossing it in the trash or burning it outside... AND it doesn't really matter what it's worth to ME, but what I can get for it... That takes research and focus... It's not easy getting "top dollar" for things... BUT it can be done... AND if you don't, since you didn't want the "crap" anyway... what difference does it make? Get a price that you'd rather have the money than the crap... and move it along.
Figuring out what you want is the hard part. I can find a way to get just about anything, but figuring out whatever it is I want to chase down next is the tough bit...
It can be fun exploring...Hunting down and buying things cheap to play with them a while, figure out if each one is truly what I want or just more crap... and then fixing or shining it up and re-selling... Sometimes all I can do is "cut losses" on the thing... AND sometimes I make money. I still find out that I didn't much care for one thing or I pick through and find more of the things I really AM after... I really DO like or want...
Hobbies can pay for themselves, too... AND they're still fun so long as you never let them quite become "full time jobs" chasing deadlines and trying to balance responsibilities between "actual work" and family and yourself... and then the hobby that pays... It's just too much...
...until you land on a passion. That's the thing that starts keeping you up at night... excites you about getting up in the morning (or wishing morning would hurry its ass up so you can get back at "it")... It's somehow worth MAKING the time for. If it can be worked into a business model to pay the bills, or even better free you from a "9-to-5 Grinder" to chase adventure and begin to live... even if it's occasionally terrifying.
Nothing wrong with playing at gardening until you figure out the crop you actually enjoy tending and nurturing, cultivating and taking to market or mill... It's all part of finding our way... and unfortunately I can't answer those kinds of questions for anyone but me. I've had a hell of a time figuring ME out... and I'm not remotely "done" with that project even at 45... haha... BUT I've still got sh*t to do tomorrow... hope the rest of this little project works out, so I can get back to rebuilding a welder... left over from winter catching me flat-footed... THEN maybe... I might even make some progress learning how to weld... provided I can get this silly yellow "crackle-box" to work!
...and nope... I've read up some on electronics... BUT I'm no engineer. Half the time I'm lucky to get the g** d*** wire-nuts to stay put when I install an over-head light fixture. It may well be a thousand wonders I haven't electrocuted myself or burnt the house to the ground... BUT I'm not going to let those 'trons kick my butt either... It can be learned, so I'm GOING to learn it. ;o)
have you tried a therapist for that feeling?
I'm currently 15 years old with 4 months to 16, and ofc I'm at senior high school. I feel so.... Empty, I just don't know how to explain it. It's hard for to make bond with others with truly feeling happy with them, I always find myself wondering around in my negative minds rather than actually seeing in reality perspective. And I feel like I don't want to do my favorite hobbies, dance, which I has been loving since child. But after I got into my teenager phase, I feel Soo bored and gets tired easily. I just, want take s long rest, but I want to do something useful for society, but again I don't really have the motivation to do it. I cried alot at night, for no... Reason. I just feel like I don't know what to do with my life and it frustrates me so so so so so much guys, it almost make me Want to throw up. All I do is wake up, phone, school, eat, phone, sleep.
All I do is school, school, and school.
I just don't know guys, I just feel so maddd because I don't know myself. I'm scared that my mental health will get worse at 16-18 years old. 😭
Guys, I feel tired. I want to sleep forever.
I've been where you are and I was so tired, constantly. I took a break from everything for a few weeks. I used that time to learn a bit about myself: what I enjoy, what my morals are, what I want to accomplish in life. But I didn't do it alone.
My honest and best advice is to talk to someone and ask for help. It's so much easier having someone to guide you through everything.
(And trust me, it's not a burden. Being able to help someone through a tough time is extremely rewarding.)
i hope you're doing ok!
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The fact that I also think the thought 'I want to sleep forever' nearly every single day too.........
You're not alone here buddy :)
It can get better, while describing yourself it sounded just how I would describe myself at that point in my life, morning and evening say aloud at least one thing you are grateful for, even if you have to lie about it, next is time, and being kind to yourself.
I’m afraid to say that your mental health may worsen during 16-18 years old and could last longer than that, but of course it depends on your current situation at that time. I hope someone guide you so you don’t get lost.
I cannot express the amount of gratitude I have for making this video. You speak my mind so splendidly that is even better than I try to describe it myself. I am feeling just totally isolated from this outside world, and lost touch with what is happening right now, such as the COVID and Ukraine war, issues which I used to care a great deal of in the past - now I am just kind of cramming myself just to avoid looking ignorant in social conversations. And I don't have anyone I can talk about these issues they're just old school people like “don't think too much just tough it up, you'll be alright” kind of things. psychotherapy? Too much bucks for a prolonged treatment I'm afraid...But you already helped me a lot by speaking out my mind. Please keep doing the great work！
BTW who's that Naruto character who gets perpetually bored? I don't get that one...
Literally every one of your videos calls me out and it's funny and kinda sad at the same time
I don't know how but when I'm going through something you always upload a video with the exact situation I'm going through. This is something I've been going for several months. I'm currently struggling with teenage years, autism, exams and the pandemic and all these different emotions. My family fight every morning and all I do is run up and down the stairs listening to the same songs,drawing the same stuff and watching the same video everyday. And I sometimes just want to give up. But this video has now pointed out what's wrong and I want to thank you so so much for helping me and so many other people. Keep up the great work 💖💖💖
Thank you for writing this. Yes it helps us🌟❤️
Does anyone feel like they took their childhood for granted or not remember much about it? I feel guilty for not making the most out of it. :/
Anytime I remember my childhood now, I feel sad because I miss how happy and careless I used to be. Now, I'm too miserable, jaded, self-conscious to ever feel any real sense of joy and happiness. I try to pretend to be happy by distracting myself with different subcultures and fandoms and stuff, but I feel empty after I'm done. Maybe it's due to the hopelessness of life and the future that permanently affected me in some sorta way. :'(
Me. I used to feel like at least I could always go back home with my non and dad. But since lives move on people divorce and move etc, there is no home anymore. I didn't do enough while I had that freedom of responsibilities I didn't make enough friends. It sucks and its hard to not feel regret and want a time machine.
@@johnbakasmoothhotchocolate Well, I used to be in the K-pop fandom for a long time. I was a fan of groups like BTS, EXO, TWICE, SNSD, SUPER M, NCT, BLACKPINK, and Dreamcatcher! ^^
@@Layleyphillips Here's a hug from me to you! :)
Hopefully, we'll both make it through this loneliness together.
Ive been cynical since I was like 8 and I think i missed out on a lot bc of that. I was never able to be care free. Especially after ending up in an honors class in 4th grade that left me with no free time because of the amount of work that teacher would give. Students would be up till 4 am bc shes “preparing us for high school” and i never developed many hobbies or gotten to enjoy myself much
@@YourFaulty Oh no! I hope you're in a much better place now. D:
The last few months have been some of the hardest I've been through. I've really struggled with knowing who I want to be. The kind of person I want to become. I used to have great aspirations. A dream I used to chase relentlessly. But recently, I just don't see the point in those dreams, I want now, more than ever, to leave something behind when I die some day. To accomplish something beyond myself. Maybe not quite to inspire those that come after me, but rather to accomplish something more long lasting.
Oh my gosh yes exactly
your voice is so calming 🥺
Pretty much exactly how I've felt for the longest time. Life be rough :(
do u wanna talk ab it?
To me life isn't even rough. It's just the same shit all over again
Pls start doing meditation
@@tvaccount6896 doesn't help
@@isaklal518 ok cool
I don’t have anything necessarily awful going on in my own life. But I’ve been thinking a ton the past week about my purpose and what I’m called to do in my heart. With all the conflict in the world and all the violence, I just have felt sad.
I know that the world will always be messed up in some ways. I can’t change that. But I just started crying because of it all. And yesterday I was just tired and didn’t feel anything. Then this video was posted today.
Amanda’s voice is so soothing. I could listen to her for hours.
For me, ever since at the start of March, I feel like this deep emptiness that I couldn't understand. Whether or not that you're satisfied with your life or you feel like life goes by fast. For me I just feel miserable especially with my job that dealing with this kind of loneliness and other people's BS on a daily basis.
hey, if its not too personal, whats your job? and cant you maybe find another place to work at? ik its easier said than done but i feel like taking care of our mental health is more important than our jobs. but ofc, that depends on the job too
i hope you're doing ok
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Your video came in just in time. Was thinking about this.
I relate to everything but the bored part, I can find new things to look forward too.
Thank you for this
I absolutely have nothing to look forward to but another day of the same. I stopped dreaming that I'll have my own place some day. Last winter, no heat in my car, I found myself waking up and it looked like I was sitting on my own patio. But once I cleared my eyes, I realize it was just an illusion. I used to be optimistic but no more. Hoping wishing and praying for me hasn't worked in 4 years off and on. Now I have nothing left inside, and my mind goes blank. And this all centers around not being able to get an apt, because the illegals are living off my fukn tax dollars. Maybe if I disappear.. I'm of no use. Tired of struggling and crying, especially when I feel like my prayers are returning to my own bosom. Even the strongest of us need a crutch some times. I f don't have one.
i fit in basically all of these. but one strange thing is ive always been kind of immune to manipulation. including manipulation from myself. i usually always tell right and wrong. so i'm mostly sure i'm empty. but.. i don't really care. i have 1 friend that i relate to on a perfect level. 1 is enough. but they aren't always online. so i try to get more friends finally, but it feels empty.
it's weird. pets, youtube (kinda), and that one friend. is all that makes me not empty. but once they aren't there. i'm just empty. even when playing games i never feel any reaction sometimes.
just... nothingness? usually that is.
and i do sometimes have thoughts about my purpose. feeling like i'll just be nothing without anyone. but i really do connect with nature and atmospheric music. so maybe that's my purpose.
it would be, is adhd never gave me the middle finger. ugh i'll never succeed school.
The third one struck the most for me. Been feeling it a while
I'm glad I found this channel.
Sometimes I feel like disappearing to find myself.
Number 2 in this video really read me like a book, its definitely me The struggle with overdependence. Its even more so the case with my current partner moving to a different state after all the years together. Thank you for the video, would appreciate another one on how to deal with said feelings in this video.
Why is my mental health this bad, there videos about mental health I can relate to💀
Man, this hits really hard.
I spent the last 6 years working security. The long 12 hour shifts, the loneliness, and seeing people do nasty things for a long time has made me numb and hopelessly lost. I’m afraid of humans now and heavily medicated.
I badly need a change in life but I’m afraid I’m too far gone to get any better.
Oh, you said that quote so beautifully.
If anything, this past 2 years has made everyone feel empty deep down in some way.
I've felt everything this video said after starting my senior year so many things happened where I just can't find myself anymore I'm so lost and lonely even with so many people in my life. I just want somebody that understands me but I also want to take care of them also I don't want to be burden to them
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This is exactly how i feel i started my senior year four months ago and I haven’t been the same since so much is going on and I feel like I can’t keep up. I’m doing stuff that I usually would never agree with stopped drawing and stopped enjoying the things that I loved I don’t know what to do. Did it get better for you?
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I just came here for your calming voice, thank you.
Edit: Had a headache because of exams...
I relate to basically everyone of these but in particolar the "you feel isolated from everyone else" one. I started not to trust anyone and i also feel like nobody really trust me and this makes me feel alone and isolated.
I feel the same way since most of my friends dont help me if I'm down or initialize a conversation, but what can I do, cry? No I rather just keep holding onto hope despite the emptiness
I have been feeling like this and not knowing why and can't even explain why am i feeling this way.... I have been feeling like this twice and still don't know it yet...I relate mostly to all of this sign, so i very thankfull to find this video to help me understand
Its been always fun to watch your video and learning about emotion and mental health, once again, thank you PSych2go ❤️❤️
Glad to help!! Which signs did you relate to the most?
The video got so relatable before even covering half the points that I had to keep my phone, collect myself and then watch it again for the second time.
If you too are struggling with this just know that you have a stranger sailing in the same boat. And I assure not be a creepy one :) Please be there for yourself and take your time. Lastly thank you for the video☘️
this video made me cry, i can relate so much
I can relate from the first, third, fifth and seventh sign, all because of my toxic parents and friends. I know that my choices will lead me to poverty or anything similar to that but if they only let me chase my truth and happiness, they might see the bigger chances and opportunities I mean. I am never a people pleaser, though I have no energy to defend or explain myself anymore-- so everything sucks above all that I should be grateful for. Thank you for discussing this topic today, psych2go.
With all the seriousness intact around this topic, Shikamaru is an all time favorite to represent perfect expression of boredom!
I was happy, loving life, for nearly 2 years. I had got over my former neighbour friend, going no contact, trying to destroy me, wrecking my carport & other horrible things & then moving in with a woman, down the road. Then 3 weeks later, early this year, he moved back to his house. I'm now walking on eggshells again, trying not to upset him or make him go off, again. He has a kid to her, too ! But I hardly see him or the little kid, who mostly lives with his mother .They're very quiet. But I still can't forget how he tried to destroy me nearly 2 years ago. I have got my depression back, I feel numb, empty inside & I don't feel like coming out of my house. Friends ask me out, but I say "I'm sick", so I won't need to leave my house. I get through work, because I work alone. It's part-time work. Then I come home & avoid coming out, again. Or I'll drive around after work, if I know next door will be home. He hardly works !. I do this to avoid him. Even though he's quiet now & keeps to himself, I'm still wary of him. I don't sleep well at night. Any noise will wake me, when I do sleep. If my dog barks during the night, I get up & check my doors & look outside, in case my neighbour is sneaking around,( like he used to do years ago ). I'm on edge. 😮
What a nice video, very professional.
Had a feeling I been feeling deep emptiness but this video confirms it. I can relate to 1, 3, 4, 5 and 6
wanna talk ab it?
5 for 7 on this one. All but the last 2. I know the things I want but getting it feels impossible. And right now for me it is impossible but later on when I have the chance to get what I want what I'm afraid of is 1. Not getting it. or 2. Getting it but still feeling unsatisfied.
It is a comfort to know others feel the same . There is a lot of pressure nowadays to project the image of contentment and completeness which can have the effect of doing the exact opposite. Sometimes just letting go of that thought that you are being watched constantly and judged can be enough to set the reset button ......sometimes!
I relate to a lot of this. Yet it always feels like a bandaid fix when I try to work on these issues. At this point, it sometimes feels like I have no idea who I even am as a person other than what I laugh at online or what video games I play. Every waking thought otherwise revolves around “why aren’t you being productive like everyone irl tells you to be constantly? You could be more, but you waste away.” It’s nothing but guilt and I never feel like I deserve relaxation, but am too much of a nervous and depressed wreck to actually get things done.
I relate to almost everything. Still trying to find my purpose in life
Same here 🥲
This was iconic I just uploaded a vent video- your videos always make me feel better though!!
You're like 11
@@capyfanvok so young people aren’t allowed to have problems? How privileged you must have been to not feel such emotions as a kid.
@@capyfanvok I’m 14- and most young teens have mental problems- ever think of that?
@@bandito3322 yeah, they must’ve had a very good childhood-
@@FreePalestineAllEyesOnRafah oui I’m 14 and I’m messed up, lol
I’m 16 and struggle with quite a few mental health problems with the most upsetting ones being my OCD and loneliness. I don’t really have anyone I can call a friend and the girl i thought liked me seems to be fading away. I don’t have much to do and I’m injured at the moment so that means I’m inside even more. There’s nothing more that I want apart from someone to talk to and someone that cares about me apart from my mum haha. Psy2go thank you for what you do you help me and you all seem so kind and make me feel more relaxed 😊
Thank you for the video, sometimes these hit home way more than I'd like to admit. but there's something comforting and helping to them!...
Incredible person reading this, you have everything there is to succeed in life, whatever that is for you. Go after the life you truly want NOW! ✨
I believe in you! Love - Nat ❤️
Thanks Nat ❤️
What is the solution for this 😭
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It helped me
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@@angelablacksmith9653 thank you so much....i need this
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If my comment come off as arrogant I’m sorry.
For such a long time I could relate to almost every single thing listed in this video, walking through life with emptiness in my heart and life feeling unfulfilled.
But for the first time in a long time I actually feel happy and appreciate the life that I’m blessed to live every single day.
So to everyone who is somewhere in life where this video speaks to you, keep going, work on yourself and find something that you truly enjoy doing with your life.
And though times are tough and it all might even seem hopeless at times, try to remember: you too are an amazing person who is worthy of love and who deserves to be happy.
Thank you Psych2Go for all your amazing video and hard work.
I'm like this for practically 4years and I just always feel "happy" but can't really just be carry by any emotions... positive or negative...😮💨
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it not like people care about anything or have any feelings
its more like technology has turned love into a disease
i am still here mind you i behave like Clovis who carries a large Frankish battle axe everywhere
but that is due to survival
I just want to cry all the time
It’s so sad that you feel every single one but the first bc you have never felt like someone would be with you it’s a scary thought. But I have found what gives every single one meaning. You need to find a person you feel like you can talk about everything with. And just talk, talk about everything that goes on in your mind and don’t think you are nothing bc that’s the feeling that always is the biggest feel. I want you to think that you are enough by being yourself. Don’t compare yourself to anyone else. Just find one that you can talk to and then start talking to an other and then on and on. Until you feel like you are who you are it might take years. But just you know I like you for you and you should never put yourself away.
Why you posting at 1:12 in the morning
Same as my time zone
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mine is 3:19pm lol-
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@@jasper.or.Jas.-. southeast asia lol- wait why are u here then
Thank you PsychGo... I can relate with all the symptoms you mentioned. I even approached a healthcare professional and took some medications. But it is getting aggravated. I tried engaging myself with new things, but I am losing interest in all those things. I have wasted a lot of hard earned money. Now I am scared to waste my money on new things according to my moods. I am simply saving that money on term deposits for no reason I could explain. I am contenting myself by forcefully reminding myself of how grateful I am as conpared to millions of other people around me.
it describes me perfectly. and skowly day by day i am being devoured by these feeling. keeping my sanity is my only friend i have.
Im just fine but not happy
Thank u for this I will take time on this! keep up your work! 👍
A relationship with Christ both vertically through the Word and prayer and horizontally through other believers is the real answer!
My fears and confidence is keeping me back... And igot alot of family issues im so tired of this life.
If you enjoy your company you are never lonely
This video put into words what I have not been able to do in regards to what I have been going through for a few yrs w teeny breaks of a happy moment or escaping reality. I am lost, but I don't think I have given up yet. Thank you.
I’m extremely close to it. Giving up has been crossing my mind lately. There’s no one who’d care. Maybe that will end my pain and suffering. I’m truly tired.
Thank you for helping us out
Hi psych! Thank you for another amazing video
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As someone who feels alot of these things this video really hit hard for me and helped my narrow down the reason y I feel this way
I love this channel!
All of them are there. But that was more informative and it really hit me. It was really emptiness i'm feeling. I feel like even if i do new things, it is still not enough for me to push through. It sucks, but i'm still working for myself to be at the level, way back in my younger years. Thirst for knowledge, thirst of anything. I hope i can go back to the path i'm taking, right now.
I feel like crying but my tears are not coming out no matter how i try the emptiness would not go away. I keep telling myself that I’m learning something from this but i get impatient so easily. This is the worst feeling in the world to feel nothing.
Hey, I am there for you if you want to talk
I always knew that I have lost touch with myself and my thoughts were correct I have lost touch with myself
This video described everything i am experiencing and feeling right now. I can feel im growing up. At first i felt a lot of emotions at once like anxiety, stress frustrasion even. Now I feel empty. Im not angry, sad, anxious,..
At first i thought there was something wrong with me but now that i made my research about it, i dont think theres anything wrong. But sometimes it can get scary. Growing up is scary (in my opinion) especially when im just 13, it is very confusing.
This never hit more close to home
Thank you, have a nice day ya.
dude I relate so much with this video it's scary, especially the over-dependent part, Idk how to change for the better but I'll try my best :)
I'm having all these symptoms for years 🙃 I sometimes just cry or just sit without any emotions ...
I knew I'm not moving forward in my life if I'm being like this. So slowly I started distracting my mind from unnecessary thoughts by doing simple tasks ... I got myself busy ..
Like watching or reading or cleaning or anything ...it helped me . I'm not fully recovered or feel alive suddenly but for that little time i feels like I'm living..I hope we all can continue live our lives at it's best!
I usually look for the people who post the list in comments, so I don't have to watch the video. But I've scrolled, seen two, and BOTH of them missed 7, so I might have to watch the end. List videos are aggravating.
Holy moly this hit me hard! I have jokingly told coworkers that I don't have a heart, and I think this clues me into some reasons as to why that is
I just want to point this out that you have the perfect voice for asmr for sleeping