Ninja I love you to a point where I saw videos that are about you I don't watch them because what I learned is that always take the good things you hear or see in someone it will build you as a woman I've learnt a lot from you thank you so much keep up doing the best much love
one day she discovered that she was fierce, and strong, and full of fire, and that not even she could hold herself back because her passion burned brighter than her fears. Kuzodlula Owami🤗💓😘
Even if you asked him to clean, there was nothing wrong with that. Our spouses are supposed to help us with house chores because we all doing the most to make a home.
One thing we should learn from this is ‘never never ever lower your standards for a man, never’ i feel like him cheating saved you from a lot of abuse you endured in that marriage. Guys financial abuse is crazy, it makes you bitter, you find yourself fighting and hating on people unnecessarily, financial abuse from a man is hectic. Rather be called a gold digger then you’ll live a peaceful life.
When he was explaining why he was cheating I thought to myself that she should’ve realised that her source was a fraud. He even exposed himself. What a fool!
Like..duuude! No instead she said, who hasn't been cheated on and that most men cheat and the she further goes and says "many of YOU have been cheated on". Heeeeee 👏👏👏classic. That woooooman. The liver in her
Honestly, it sounds like he knew you were too good for him. The proof is that you're flourishing without him. He was keeping you down. You loved him, but you've got to love yourself more.
Him and that TH-camr I swear ngiyabahalela Chiilllleeee if I was Owami I was going to end up in jail cause I was going to act crazy n deal with these two physically bajwayela Amakaka laba 🙄
Exactly Owamie, it's the upgrade for me, I can remember when my ex called me when we were still going through the divorce out of the blue one evening, maybe when he realised the person he tried to replaced me with did not work out, he then thought let me call and see if I still have power over her, so I've picked up my phone thinking he want to talk about the kids, he said hi whats up, and this was my replied to him, my standards BYE!!!
Speak your truth sis. You worked super hard to be here♥️. No one should getaway with tarnishing your name😷. As for preying on kids whilst being a teacher 🤢. You’ve been through so much Queen, and you left with your dignity in tact! I died at 34:00 when Owamie said “it’s always the ones who don’t have money that say, they want to use me for my money”😂😂😂💀 thee accuracy
Thank you Owamie, for standing up for your self, I was cheated by a boyfriend whom I gave my car so he can go drop off cvs instead he used to carry girls with my car I know how you feel.
As a entertainment channel I'm learning a lot here especially about the fair use policy. I honestly thought I could say anything as long as I have a disclaimer in my channel. Thank you Queen your channel is very informative
@@bongieyana4018 hahahaaa. She says thats what owamie called her and she says it with that look of pride on her face. She wears the title well tho defending a man like big guy and she has a daughter . She has no business defending such filth
No one ever wins a war. It's a sad state of affairs to witness two ppl who once loved each other tearing each other to pieces in the midst of their divorce. There are some parts of their lives that should not be for public ears aka content consumers. The death of any marriage is aweful. This is painful to witness.
Yhooo after God fear men🙆. Here I am thinking I've been through hell and back, Mara Hai shame, after your story sis, I now feel like am crying for peanuts yhoo. I wonder what is he trying to gain for all these lies😔. Am starting to believe that this guy never loved you, you don't do this to someone you once loved, especially when they never did you wrong. Am so sorry for what you're going through Ninja, I hope you get through this soon. Love and light to you Owami🤗 I love you sis
I believe u sis actually that man has exposed himself the fact that he can't even get himself to say the good part u played in his life like u have told us his good part
Please Owami and ninjas pray for me.I’m in a pain of going to December,when my mom my brother and my sister passed on and I was the only one left with kids it happened last year.please just put me in your prayers thanks ninjas
I was so disgusted by the fact that he said that you don't bath for 3days. I mean how can you sleep next to a man everyday and not bath? I was annoyed by that lie!😠
It was quite shocking really and when other women bought this and were laughing about it, I was like really now😔😔😳😳? I mean from where I am standing no woman can go for more than four days without bathing let alone more than a day. Yooooo, I was numb 😞😞😞😞.
When he started talking about bath issue i was lyk where are we? in primary school? You didn't have to defend your personal hygiene in public Ninja, this man is disgusting.
You actually used to say that financially you were doing better than you have ever done. You said this last year before you knew you had to defend yourself
Owamie can sue for defamation. The statements were wrongful, defamatory to her character, intentional and published to the public. And all of this harmed her. Think about other ninjas who now think Owamie is a liar. Her mental health suffered. We saw with our own EYES she CRIED infront of us. And the thing with suing someone you can sue them for an amount they do not have, the court DOES NOT CARE if you cannot afford- should have not gone defaming someone’s name 👐🏾.
No my love. There element of harm hasn’t been satisfied yet, In terms of the elements of defamation. It would be harm if she had lost money/ brand deals. There has to be some sort of Percuniary loss in order to found an action
@@kagisomabutho1997 Well I hear what you’re saying but according to the Bill of rights and will land you in Equality Court- you have a right to dignity. Bigguy and this other channel stripped her of dignity and ruined her reputation. This can be proof as we see the comments underneath the other channel who actively call Owami a liar and so forth. Defamation is classified if it’s wrongful, defamatory and intentional in SA. In suing Big guy, Owami can even just ask for anything he’s asking for from the marriage back. A famous case in SA is the 2013 Heroldt v Wills case. One parent (not famous) posted the other was a drug addict on FB. It was proven false. Wills had to pay HEAVY legal fees.
@@motherland2023 but she clearly stated that she was speaking up about them because they “allegedly” have been spreading degrading and false rumours about her,she had to retaliate ,which is fair!
@@lungileringani2693 im sure she has witnesses who can give an account of what his family said. Why did they insult umakoti? We r too used to such things and its okay for owami to use her platform to fight back for her dignity
Kunzima mos kwa divorce xa abantu abadala bekhupha isecrets zabo kwi social media yho, i cant wait for this whole thing to end abantu abadala bajike bangabantwana😏
He used to eat a spatlho😭🤣😭. Guys it saddens me how you’d turn out to be enemies with someone who was once your world and speak about each other izinto ezinjena . it breaks my heart because even in relationships it’s like this💔💔💔
I have been silently praying for you to talk & silent the haters. Your story, your truth. I used to love this song by Mariah Carey, " they can say anything they want to say, try to bring me down.......... but I won't let them win...... "it's a nice song. When you have time please listen to it ninja 💕💞💕💞💕💞
Big guy is a LIAR of note. He is a *DISPICABLE* , broke human being who is trying to break the woman who loved him. He is a weak and broken man who is now preying on children on line (allegedly). This is not a man. And the 1 who is giving him air play is just as appalling. These allegations against owami r disgusting
@@motherland2023Agreed. So far though I am def leaning towards her side. In almost any situation we will never know the truth but i dont think she is lying. Will wait and see the outcome of the court since she says she is taking them to court.
One psychologist once said, run from a man with a low self esteem, run & never look back, Big guy has a low self esteem and that is a dangerous man, this is a blessing in disguise, this will bring you closure..
A blessing in disguise not having kids with that disgusting man... I'm sorry that you had to hear this from that man, he's bitter because he thought you won't go far.. he will get exactly what's coming to him let him play dump
I watched his videos and cant help but think he is fake like he wants sympathy. I really hope the court demands access to his fb DMz for the sake of those kids he teaches..and others
Shame, in the throwback video he legit admitted to loving you for your cooking - then went on to cheat with a cook from the side of the road. Food is his priority, clearly.
I don’t understand why people are saying you should keep this private and how this is getting out of hand when he is the one that brought you here. Nako ya goba ‘bigger person’ is gone. He went low, you go lower!!
Those labeling Owamie as bitter because she's now sueing the lady got it all wrong, if she really was bitter she would've sued that lady the 1st time she reported about her...this time around umqhele kakubi reporting ubuxoki about her. Ninja has been in this game for too long, she understands it very well and is not dumb...just so you know, nunjus🙄
What I took from all of this. These are 2 individuals both hurting. No one gets married to get divorced. May their story not be just another entertainment story but something to learn from. No-ones divorce is to be treated as exciting gossip that every blogger want to report about first. God be with us all. We all deserve his love.
She thought that she was Mzansi’s Tasha K 😅 not knowing the reason why Tasha is so big it’s her integrity. To be an exposè and exclusive channel you need to do your due diligence. Tasha always wants proof from her sources, to back up the claims and then she keeps the information for 5 years just in case someone sues her. Manje she’s being sued by Cardi B but Cardi’s case doesn’t seem promising because they are pulling medical records and those records collaborate with Tasha’s exclusive.
Tasha k has not worn the case Cardi b doesn’t have the disease n proof was there but Tasha K went as far as asking that the test be taken in a video form to see that they really belong to Cardi n Cardi B said Yes that is fine, which is the next step why are you lying , it already looks like Tasha K is not going to win because why would Cardi even agree to do the test by video knowing that she has those disease 🤷♀️🤷♀️that should tell you she knows she’s clean n she will prove her wrong
Owami is defending herself from all The rubbish this man has spoken about her. Rightfully so. There’s no private resolution anymore. Women must get over the need to take shit for peace sake by keeping kak from men private. Enough with this self sacrificing mentality already 🙄
@@Vv-fl2rm , Exactly, and then suffer in silence, It is good that Owamie put things out there, this could help someone out there that is going through the same thing,
What's going on is just wrong on many levels really, this is gonna cause the both of you long term damage even in a long run, internet never forgets, there's life after divorce. I honestly wish the pain you both feel God can just take it away instead of destroying each other. Should it really have to go on like this.
@@rosemulaudzi4656 my heart bleeds for the both of them. I just hope one can just be at least mature about this and let go, the pain is too much and the details that keeps coming out not nice at all. They both loved each other. We need to understand that in marriage we are not each others enemy even if the marriage does not work, Satan is the enemy. It's painful to see two people who once loved each so much do this and worse in public 😢 they were each others confidante, now everything shared in their union will be for public domain, it's difficult to repair reputation. Sometimes you need to let go and let God, fighting battles on behalf of God we are saying God is not capable, God doesn't need help.. this is not right.
Hektik. When you find your man hitting on other girls and they're just ignoring him in the DMs. Lol it's actually sad for you because you feel like you're here with him and he wants people that don't want him.
i know right!its as if u are sitting there with a reject that nobody wants and hes only with you because nobody wants him!and i honestky think thats why he stuck with owamie.she outgrew him and he saw it, but she was soo in love she didnt realise she was a whole new gorgeous independent creature that was waaaaaay out of his league!he only stayed because nobody else wanted him.thats why he was checking for young girls9even they didnt want him),because the only grown woman that wanted him was owamie and the pap-selling women by the road.
I wanna cry I see how much you loved him I saw it even then, it’s just that he is jealous and doesn’t want to own up to his mistakes, you never claimed to be perfect you shared your main, you just wanted to hustle for yourself and then man you love
By the looks of things it looks like he is the one who don't bath though guys have u seen this man.. Owamie is not on his level 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤣 he is just bitter.
Owamie sis, I respect you for this. Watching you go through this divorce reminds me of the saying “They tried to bury us, they did not know we were seeds”. It’s amazing to see you use your voice to say no when people try to spread lies about you and you’re showing women that it’s ok to do the same. It matters! ❤️👏🏾
I am obviously on Owamie's side and share a certain level of biasness towards her but I just hope that you guys both heal becuase wow, it doesn't get nastier than this! It is really painful to watch both Big Guy's and your videos, the things that you are saying about each other...
The publisher was lowkey warned by the very same person that was responding that you will retaliate🤔. Legal papers are scary as hell, I watched those vids cringing at the info that was served at the same time saying 'girl you are brave I hope you have energy to finish what you started bcos lawsuits will clean your pocket'. People need to understand that you do not fight battles of other people if you were not there when it all started. I asked myself what was the price that will be bagged for one to go this far on cyberspace. I battled to understand why pple were comparing what is happening on this channel and the other channel because what is done here is stuff that is already out there in the public eye except maybe the personal comments that go with the story.
@@vfabach2874 the part where she says she will exceed owamis subscribers😣Thats when it dawned on me that nooooo man, pull her down syndrome. Mona! Jealousy! Sbindi! So its "i will drag u down so i can rise ka le ina la ha o". The devil is a liar!
Absolutely right. What Owamie talks about is stories that are available everywhere but when you break an exclusive, something that is not public knowledge, you have the responsibility to ensure that it's 100% true. May Owamie sue and sue and sue until she gets that money!
omg the house chores part , i remember watching your lockdown vlogs and you asked him to help with washing or something i just remember he complained saying you are turning him into a women doing house chores, like Owamie laughed it off but i really felt like it was a weird thing to say and clearly showed his stand on old fashion gender roles
I watched all the videos where Big guy is a source and he mentioned that he watches your videos to gather information to use with his lawyer 😥 be careful not to say your next steps and May God help you pass through this difficult time
I don’t like how he chose not to walk away from this peacefully instead he tried to snatch your peace and now he is trying to drag your name in the mud 😩Bathong Queen Ninja how did you survive this marriage for so long ???🥺He needs to man up and let this go yooooh Aowa hle 😔
My sister please stay safe, this guy can get dangerous... I dont watch a lot of your videos. I see signs of bitterness and a big inferiority complex, it can get violent, please please stay safe. You are an amazing woman
not Owami saying that he will not speak about the Facebook messages because they will get him into trouble and says she will still not talk about it even but then goes on to spill all those beans. this divorce is hectic 🙆♀🙆♀
Yhooo yhooo ubenzani u Big guy pulling lies like that🤭🤭🤭, am sure where ever he is uyazisola. Ay kodwa nawe Big guy uyabhayiza. Owamie you so strong I respect you👏👏. God is still gonna bless you abundantly❤️.
First of all. You look gorgeous. Secondly, thank you for being candid. I laughed when you laughed because love makes us tolerate things we should have never. I wish you all the best in suing him and go snatch every cent that man has.
Dang! Our lives are similar.. I feel like you are my big sister who went through first and I am following the footsteps on how to get it right...losing a mom, bad relationship, looking out for siblings.. Gurrl!! Is you my mirror
Divorce is a like a storm. It leaves a trail of destruction in the lives of all. The ones who were in the union and the lives of their loved ones. Some of us really loved the beautiful parts of your marriage. Never in our wildest dreams did we ever think it would get this ugly.
And BigGuy always looked weird in those videos, almost like he's just not up for it...didn't wanna be featured or something- he just looked odd or off-ish man
Big guy looks sick. Not the look I expected for a happy man who just been set free from a horrible marriage he wanted to walk away from🤷♀️. Queen ninja you did well by leavin and I'm loving the upgrade on yourself. For you held that man up. Since you were not bathing then why does it look like you left with his bathing water? Anyway let me tool🤐
Im glad this video came out. After watching the other I felt you needed to say something. I mean the guy unleashed info that u could hear needed to be clarified. Him and the other lady should just date, they are both bitter. 🚮🚮🚮I mean the woman already took his side😒Ninja you should also do a make up video hle. You makeup is really beautiful 😍😍
Keep lovingself Owami am with you all the way ,as a woman and as a human you not talking only for yourself you talking for a lot who are voiceless nyukis'ivolume sis
Ninja I love you to a point where I saw videos that are about you I don't watch them because what I learned is that always take the good things you hear or see in someone it will build you as a woman I've learnt a lot from you thank you so much keep up doing the best much love
Thank you mamma🙏
This is exactly what I do, I even blocked bishes🤬 I love Owamie man so much❤️
That's exactly what I did. The disgust I felt when I saw that ish in my recommendations.
I thought I was the only one who doesn't watch those videos
Yerrr I was so angry I couldn’t hold myself 🤧I hate it when someone is being lied on it pisses me off
I'm currently in a beautiful relationship but the lesson I'm learning is never to love a person blindly, they can change
Yes more especially if divorce is happening. Their ego just go from 0 to 100
Love with your heart not the eyes mntase
And please protect your union abantu abayifuni into enhle
That's the essence of life. People change and that's how we are but enjoy what you have in the moment.
@@vuyokazi1797 I love with my mind dear, the heart can lead us astray never the mind. If my heart and mind don't agree, I go with my mind.
one day she discovered that she was fierce, and strong, and full of fire, and that not even she could hold herself back because her passion burned brighter than her fears. Kuzodlula Owami🤗💓😘
Yooh losis uyavutha thleng she is on fire 🔥 and she knows it 😁
When she looks at the camera & stop talking for a bit. 😬 You can tell she’s seething inside. Man I feel her pain.
A QUEEN!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I respect Owamie. They thought she would sit quietly and not sue for defamtion.
You sue them.💃💃💃💃
🤣🤣 they thought she was gonna come here and cry or hide herself
Even if you asked him to clean, there was nothing wrong with that.
Our spouses are supposed to help us with house chores because we all doing the most to make a home.
Exactly! Does he not have hands after all? Team work women also wake up early to make mani.
Ndi Lost mna guys. Are we not in a partnership 😭😭😭
One thing we should learn from this is ‘never never ever lower your standards for a man, never’ i feel like him cheating saved you from a lot of abuse you endured in that marriage. Guys financial abuse is crazy, it makes you bitter, you find yourself fighting and hating on people unnecessarily, financial abuse from a man is hectic. Rather be called a gold digger then you’ll live a peaceful life.
Amen 🙏
Thats true
True
"Yazi kubuhlungu kanjani ukujolelwa indoda e BROKE??" 😩😩 I felt that
One thing about Owami that woman is so smart and intelligent she will pull evidence and facts!!!!! I learn so much from Owami!!!
When he was explaining why he was cheating I thought to myself that she should’ve realised that her source was a fraud. He even exposed himself. What a fool!
Like..duuude! No instead she said, who hasn't been cheated on and that most men cheat and the she further goes and says "many of YOU have been cheated on". Heeeeee 👏👏👏classic. That woooooman. The liver in her
Yooh that lady bruhh she is sooo obsessed with Owamie, she is building her channel using Owamie🤧
🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️
Honestly, it sounds like he knew you were too good for him. The proof is that you're flourishing without him. He was keeping you down. You loved him, but you've got to love yourself more.
use your weapon and talk until you feel you are satisfied you are a youtuber and this is the platform you have
Danko
I love ur words🥰❤️🙌🏽who r we to tell her what to say
The internet is on fire shem... I don't even watch Soapies on TV anymore
Look, I don't even have a TV 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Zikhala left,right and centre😅🤞🏾🙆🏾♀️
🤣🤣🤣me too
I sold my tv to buy data
@@noxiek 😅😅
Ayi mina ngikhathele ngu Big guy, uhlalaphi ngimshaye once🤨...love you Queen ninja
Him and that TH-camr I swear ngiyabahalela Chiilllleeee if I was Owami I was going to end up in jail cause I was going to act crazy n deal with these two physically bajwayela Amakaka laba 🙄
@@mrsx2596 yoooooh like hayi bayadina bo
Exactly Owamie, it's the upgrade for me, I can remember when my ex called me when we were still going through the divorce out of the blue one evening, maybe when he realised the person he tried to replaced me with did not work out, he then thought let me call and see if I still have power over her, so I've picked up my phone thinking he want to talk about the kids, he said hi whats up, and this was my replied to him, my standards BYE!!!
Speak your truth sis. You worked super hard to be here♥️. No one should getaway with tarnishing your name😷. As for preying on kids whilst being a teacher 🤢. You’ve been through so much Queen, and you left with your dignity in tact!
I died at 34:00 when Owamie said “it’s always the ones who don’t have money that say, they want to use me for my money”😂😂😂💀 thee accuracy
Listen I was rolling on the floor laughing 😝 .
@@Mvula_90 the fact that it’s accurate makes it even funnier 😂
Thank you Owamie, for standing up for your self, I was cheated by a boyfriend whom I gave my car so he can go drop off cvs instead he used to carry girls with my car I know how you feel.
As a entertainment channel I'm learning a lot here especially about the fair use policy. I honestly thought I could say anything as long as I have a disclaimer in my channel. Thank you Queen your channel is very informative
Please sue this girl on behalf of everyone also that she’s bashed
Uyaphapha that ant
@@nelzg5819 😂😂😂😂 not an ant child
@@bongieyana4018 hahahaaa. She says thats what owamie called her and she says it with that look of pride on her face. She wears the title well tho defending a man like big guy and she has a daughter . She has no business defending such filth
What a bitter man ,mxm,Girl walk tall no one can break you sis🇧🇼
Please!!!!! She is disgusting! I unfollowed, and actually blocked her channel. She is vile!
No one ever wins a war. It's a sad state of affairs to witness two ppl who once loved each other tearing each other to pieces in the midst of their divorce. There are some parts of their lives that should not be for public ears aka content consumers. The death of any marriage is aweful. This is painful to witness.
This 🥺🥺
It is, it's so sad that it got to this
Public like this 🤮
I thank God there are no kids involved. Somehow I wish she can stop coz really it's too sad
Uncede wamshiya...lying ,cheating
Yhuu owam 2022 close this chapter, andimfuni lobhutie mntase kuwe, you deserve better
I’m only 28 but I know how men can be trust me, I’m a big advocate of self love…keep winning queen, you look amazing❤️
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Yhooo after God fear men🙆. Here I am thinking I've been through hell and back, Mara Hai shame, after your story sis, I now feel like am crying for peanuts yhoo. I wonder what is he trying to gain for all these lies😔. Am starting to believe that this guy never loved you, you don't do this to someone you once loved, especially when they never did you wrong.
Am so sorry for what you're going through Ninja, I hope you get through this soon. Love and light to you Owami🤗 I love you sis
💔💔i honestly don't like watching you guys fighting like this.😢
I believe u sis actually that man has exposed himself the fact that he can't even get himself to say the good part u played in his life like u have told us his good part
Please Owami and ninjas pray for me.I’m in a pain of going to December,when my mom my brother and my sister passed on and I was the only one left with kids it happened last year.please just put me in your prayers thanks ninjas
I was so disgusted by the fact that he said that you don't bath for 3days. I mean how can you sleep next to a man everyday and not bath? I was annoyed by that lie!😠
It was quite shocking really and when other women bought this and were laughing about it, I was like really now😔😔😳😳? I mean from where I am standing no woman can go for more than four days without bathing let alone more than a day. Yooooo, I was numb 😞😞😞😞.
The worst why would I want to be intimate with a wife who does not bath😲
She was too busy making mani to bail his broke behind. U help them they turn on u.
When he started talking about bath issue i was lyk where are we? in primary school? You didn't have to defend your personal hygiene in public Ninja, this man is disgusting.
You actually used to say that financially you were doing better than you have ever done. You said this last year before you knew you had to defend yourself
Owamie can sue for defamation. The statements were wrongful, defamatory to her character, intentional and published to the public. And all of this harmed her. Think about other ninjas who now think Owamie is a liar. Her mental health suffered. We saw with our own EYES she CRIED infront of us. And the thing with suing someone you can sue them for an amount they do not have, the court DOES NOT CARE if you cannot afford- should have not gone defaming someone’s name 👐🏾.
No my love. There element of harm hasn’t been satisfied yet, In terms of the elements of defamation. It would be harm if she had lost money/ brand deals. There has to be some sort of Percuniary loss in order to found an action
@@kagisomabutho1997 Well I hear what you’re saying but according to the Bill of rights and will land you in Equality Court- you have a right to dignity. Bigguy and this other channel stripped her of dignity and ruined her reputation. This can be proof as we see the comments underneath the other channel who actively call Owami a liar and so forth. Defamation is classified if it’s wrongful, defamatory and intentional in SA. In suing Big guy, Owami can even just ask for anything he’s asking for from the marriage back. A famous case in SA is the 2013 Heroldt v Wills case. One parent (not famous) posted the other was a drug addict on FB. It was proven false. Wills had to pay HEAVY legal fees.
@@motherland2023 but she clearly stated that she was speaking up about them because they “allegedly” have been spreading degrading and false rumours about her,she had to retaliate ,which is fair!
@@lungileringani2693 im sure she has witnesses who can give an account of what his family said. Why did they insult umakoti? We r too used to such things and its okay for owami to use her platform to fight back for her dignity
@@motherland2023 bbes konje where is your icon😂😂😂😂she seems quiet lately
Kunzima mos kwa divorce xa abantu abadala bekhupha isecrets zabo kwi social media yho, i cant wait for this whole thing to end abantu abadala bajike bangabantwana😏
Yes! Future loss of income …. Angeke! Siya Suwisha! Bazohamba ecaleni kwezihlangu after you are done with them
He used to eat a spatlho😭🤣😭. Guys it saddens me how you’d turn out to be enemies with someone who was once your world and speak about each other izinto ezinjena . it breaks my heart because even in relationships it’s like this💔💔💔
What's spatlho by the way?
@@likopomakhofola2 bunny chow
@@lebohangntshiba7523 OK thanks 😊
I have been silently praying for you to talk & silent the haters. Your story, your truth. I used to love this song by Mariah Carey, " they can say anything they want to say, try to bring me down.......... but I won't let them win...... "it's a nice song. When you have time please listen to it ninja 💕💞💕💞💕💞
I am proud of having people like you, vho netshandama, and benjamin zulu in my life . I surely learnt a lot
Benjamin zulu from kenya
Big guy is a LIAR of note. He is a *DISPICABLE* , broke human being who is trying to break the woman who loved him. He is a weak and broken man who is now preying on children on line (allegedly). This is not a man. And the 1 who is giving him air play is just as appalling. These allegations against owami r disgusting
You girl have Been on That other channel talking nonsense of Owami now you are here.... You should be ashamed of yourself... Two faced
@@motherland2023Agreed. So far though I am def leaning towards her side. In almost any situation we will never know the truth but i dont think she is lying. Will wait and see the outcome of the court since she says she is taking them to court.
@@nelzg5819 my message poses to the lady who has responded to your comment, I really don't even understand why you are calling me names...
@@mapula5851 i am sorry babes. I thot ur lying about me. My apologies❤
@@nelzg5819 it's OK I have just realized that I did not tag her name instead I just commented under you..... My bad.
One psychologist once said, run from a man with a low self esteem, run & never look back, Big guy has a low self esteem and that is a dangerous man, this is a blessing in disguise, this will bring you closure..
A blessing in disguise not having kids with that disgusting man... I'm sorry that you had to hear this from that man, he's bitter because he thought you won't go far.. he will get exactly what's coming to him let him play dump
I watched his videos and cant help but think he is fake like he wants sympathy. I really hope the court demands access to his fb DMz for the sake of those kids he teaches..and others
"Do you know the pain yoku jolelwa indoda e broke" the audacity that man has. Im honestly getting chest pains cause woow, whott an embarrazzment🤦♀️
Can u believe that mans audacity👏sies
Whenever Owamie says, " That's fine," I feel so calm like everything is alright. 😅😅😅
That man was siiiiccccckkkkkk. I'm so sorry that you were married to a man that was doing all this behind your back. You deserve better
Yhooo nkosiyam, I pray that this fight ends it’s really not nice seeing ppl that used to love each other like that , fighting like this in public 😭
This guy is busy running after young girls and he's a teacher 🚩🚩🚩🚩
Imagine yho
Our colleagues. There’s plenty of them outhea.
@@katlegomalatji1231 noooo. Gosh!
Ninja you are a warrior, you will conquer. There will be challanges but you will emerge victorious.
Shame, in the throwback video he legit admitted to loving you for your cooking - then went on to cheat with a cook from the side of the road. Food is his priority, clearly.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 @food is his priority
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The side of the road thing kills me everytime 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🤣
I don’t understand why people are saying you should keep this private and how this is getting out of hand when he is the one that brought you here. Nako ya goba ‘bigger person’ is gone. He went low, you go lower!!
Amen Chelly!!!
It's a thin line between love and hate💔
Those labeling Owamie as bitter because she's now sueing the lady got it all wrong, if she really was bitter she would've sued that lady the 1st time she reported about her...this time around umqhele kakubi reporting ubuxoki about her. Ninja has been in this game for too long, she understands it very well and is not dumb...just so you know, nunjus🙄
Tell the Nunjus Sis...
When u said "biggest financial mistake" I felt that. I been there
What I took from all of this. These are 2 individuals both hurting. No one gets married to get divorced. May their story not be just another entertainment story but something to learn from. No-ones divorce is to be treated as exciting gossip that every blogger want to report about first. God be with us all. We all deserve his love.
Thank God Enhle and Black coffee choose to no longer do this.
What do you mean ??I am happy for them
Enhle did well by keeping quiet. Besides they have kids together...
@@ntsiki_badela1451 thank I learn something today
@@ntsiki_badela1451 I bet you one day Enhle will tell it ALL.
She thought that she was Mzansi’s Tasha K 😅 not knowing the reason why Tasha is so big it’s her integrity. To be an exposè and exclusive channel you need to do your due diligence. Tasha always wants proof from her sources, to back up the claims and then she keeps the information for 5 years just in case someone sues her. Manje she’s being sued by Cardi B but Cardi’s case doesn’t seem promising because they are pulling medical records and those records collaborate with Tasha’s exclusive.
She hasn't even gotten 10k for a single video of Owamie considering Owamie's numbers
Tasha K actualy won
she really thought shem
Tasha k has not worn the case Cardi b doesn’t have the disease n proof was there but Tasha K went as far as asking that the test be taken in a video form to see that they really belong to Cardi n Cardi B said Yes that is fine, which is the next step why are you lying , it already looks like Tasha K is not going to win because why would Cardi even agree to do the test by video knowing that she has those disease 🤷♀️🤷♀️that should tell you she knows she’s clean n she will prove her wrong
Tasha k is not a credible blogger, she's admitted to releasing false information in the past, just so she can trend
Everything thing Owamie said on this channel was to respond to his lies through word of mouth around free state
Yeah, I am also puzzled 🤔. The internet never forgets for sure.
I just wish you guys can resolve this in a more peaceful and private manner because this way you only hurting yourselves.
Don't you think they tried though?
@@nwabisapbodlo3246 i think they tried cause Her reason of talking about this after He was spreading lies and gossiping about Her.
she tried and he didnt want its too late now
Owami is defending herself from all
The rubbish this man has spoken about her. Rightfully so. There’s no private resolution anymore. Women must get over the need to take shit for peace sake by keeping kak from men private. Enough with this self sacrificing mentality already 🙄
@@Vv-fl2rm , Exactly, and then suffer in silence, It is good that Owamie put things out there, this could help someone out there that is going through the same thing,
What's going on is just wrong on many levels really, this is gonna cause the both of you long term damage even in a long run, internet never forgets, there's life after divorce. I honestly wish the pain you both feel God can just take it away instead of destroying each other. Should it really have to go on like this.
I agree
@@rosemulaudzi4656 my heart bleeds for the both of them. I just hope one can just be at least mature about this and let go, the pain is too much and the details that keeps coming out not nice at all. They both loved each other. We need to understand that in marriage we are not each others enemy even if the marriage does not work, Satan is the enemy. It's painful to see two people who once loved each so much do this and worse in public 😢 they were each others confidante, now everything shared in their union will be for public domain, it's difficult to repair reputation. Sometimes you need to let go and let God, fighting battles on behalf of God we are saying God is not capable, God doesn't need help.. this is not right.
I agree with you darling
@@keneilwemarwane yoh Keneilwe, I'm soo confused by all this unnecessary fights.
Dear owami I just want you to know that I believe you and I’m 100% behind you.❤️
and I like fact that you are calling him out for slacking in hustling because you are a hustler yourself
Hektik. When you find your man hitting on other girls and they're just ignoring him in the DMs. Lol it's actually sad for you because you feel like you're here with him and he wants people that don't want him.
i know right!its as if u are sitting there with a reject that nobody wants and hes only with you because nobody wants him!and i honestky think thats why he stuck with owamie.she outgrew him and he saw it, but she was soo in love she didnt realise she was a whole new gorgeous independent creature that was waaaaaay out of his league!he only stayed because nobody else wanted him.thats why he was checking for young girls9even they didnt want him),because the only grown woman that wanted him was owamie and the pap-selling women by the road.
@@mgeijho the first part is funny. Lol stuck with a reject who's practically rejecting you because you want him.
@@refiloe.b imagine😂😂😂😂issa mess!
sies what a turn off. that would make my love for my man disappear so quick.
@@OngezwaDumel same. Lol I just won't want him anymore.
I wanna cry I see how much you loved him I saw it even then, it’s just that he is jealous and doesn’t want to own up to his mistakes, you never claimed to be perfect you shared your main, you just wanted to hustle for yourself and then man you love
Hair, makeup, outfit 🔥🔥🔥. You look amazing
Owami you went straight for the jugular... lol the violence. We shall refer to 'Big man' as 'Small man' from hereon. #
I knew those were lies. When I heard what he said. He's obviously trying to tarnish your name. Don't let him
The bit about preying on kids really doesn’t sit well with me 💔💔💔 “remember I don’t want to use a condom” 💔💔💔💔
Imagine. Whoz child will he be abusing by that time? Yoh the courts must zoom in on this particular allegation. Plsss
Eish that part 😪
By the looks of things it looks like he is the one who don't bath though guys have u seen this man.. Owamie is not on his level 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤣 he is just bitter.
and he has said on VIDEO that he goes days without bathing shuu
Women let's be honest some of us hv dated a big guy🙄🙄🙄😣😣😥
I did love I hate that guy
I have🤮🤮🤮
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I love how everything is adding up...such a smart and intelligent woman 🥰🥰🥰
Owamie sis, I respect you for this. Watching you go through this divorce reminds me of the saying “They tried to bury us, they did not know we were seeds”. It’s amazing to see you use your voice to say no when people try to spread lies about you and you’re showing women that it’s ok to do the same. It matters! ❤️👏🏾
I am obviously on Owamie's side and share a certain level of biasness towards her but I just hope that you guys both heal becuase wow, it doesn't get nastier than this! It is really painful to watch both Big Guy's and your videos, the things that you are saying about each other...
Owamie you really look so beautiful after leaving that man😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️ That man made u look old...that man is such a prblm
Owami is talking her shit and bossing up in this video and I’m LIVING FOR IT!!
The glo up after leaving him is incredible! 😍😍
The publisher was lowkey warned by the very same person that was responding that you will retaliate🤔. Legal papers are scary as hell, I watched those vids cringing at the info that was served at the same time saying 'girl you are brave I hope you have energy to finish what you started bcos lawsuits will clean your pocket'. People need to understand that you do not fight battles of other people if you were not there when it all started. I asked myself what was the price that will be bagged for one to go this far on cyberspace. I battled to understand why pple were comparing what is happening on this channel and the other channel because what is done here is stuff that is already out there in the public eye except maybe the personal comments that go with the story.
So true....the other channel reeked of jealousy from the beginning.
@@vfabach2874 the part where she says she will exceed owamis subscribers😣Thats when it dawned on me that nooooo man, pull her down syndrome. Mona! Jealousy! Sbindi! So its "i will drag u down so i can rise ka le ina la ha o". The devil is a liar!
Absolutely right. What Owamie talks about is stories that are available everywhere but when you break an exclusive, something that is not public knowledge, you have the responsibility to ensure that it's 100% true. May Owamie sue and sue and sue until she gets that money!
Congratulations ninja for continuing speaking the truth and not backing down. I was hurt on your behalf.
Don't apologize for giving us details... If it frees you do it mugirl😍💖💓🥰
omg the house chores part , i remember watching your lockdown vlogs and you asked him to help with washing or something i just remember he complained saying you are turning him into a women doing house chores, like Owamie laughed it off but i really felt like it was a weird thing to say and clearly showed his stand on old fashion gender roles
Am glad u have pruf cc, izinto abazisho ngawe ziphula inhliziyo, bopha umuntu umfundise isifundo
I watched all the videos where Big guy is a source and he mentioned that he watches your videos to gather information to use with his lawyer 😥 be careful not to say your next steps and May God help you pass through this difficult time
I hope this will end soon . Two people loved each other and now this. Sending prayers. Maybe my ninja don't give them anything to talk about.
Ngaze ngakthanda❤️I love a woman who has her ish together
I don’t like how he chose not to walk away from this peacefully instead he tried to snatch your peace and now he is trying to drag your name in the mud 😩Bathong Queen Ninja how did you survive this marriage for so long ???🥺He needs to man up and let this go yooooh Aowa hle 😔
😂"they want to use me for my money.. WHICH MONEY!?"
My sister please stay safe, this guy can get dangerous... I dont watch a lot of your videos. I see signs of bitterness and a big inferiority complex, it can get violent, please please stay safe. You are an amazing woman
True
Good advice 🙏 especially if the other party doesn’t have much to lose. Let’s keep her in our prayers 😇😇😇
True. Big guy truly sounds like my ex in the sense that he clearly has a low self esteem. He can be dangerous for sure . Stay safe
Ziyakhala manje.. Yaazzz My Owamie splitting Fire 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥.. I love you mama 😘😘😘😘😘
not Owami saying that he will not speak about the Facebook messages because they will get him into trouble and says she will still not talk about it even but then goes on to spill all those beans. this divorce is hectic 🙆♀🙆♀
Shems 😭 ke utlwa botlhoko gore bathong..can this divorce get finalised ngwana batho a heme phefo 😭
Kore motho a late mathata from far🤦🏾♀️
Hai bo big guy!
Congratulations sir,you have earned yourself a unprovoked lawsuit🤡
Yhooo yhooo ubenzani u Big guy pulling lies like that🤭🤭🤭, am sure where ever he is uyazisola. Ay kodwa nawe Big guy uyabhayiza.
Owamie you so strong I respect you👏👏. God is still gonna bless you abundantly❤️.
First of all. You look gorgeous. Secondly, thank you for being candid. I laughed when you laughed because love makes us tolerate things we should have never. I wish you all the best in suing him and go snatch every cent that man has.
When owamie says: "you know when you get cheated on by a broke guy"...ndivele ndaziva ndisithi Amen.
Dang! Our lives are similar.. I feel like you are my big sister who went through first and I am following the footsteps on how to get it right...losing a mom, bad relationship, looking out for siblings.. Gurrl!! Is you my mirror
"Let me tell you Mr Hlongwane, since YOU'VE NEVER DRIVEN A BRAND NEW CAR..." 🙈😄🔥🔥 The Shade Owami😅😂😩·
Yoh so many levels of shade 😂😂😂😩 she went in …. Abuthi big guy taking videos in the sun “I’m the source “ 😂😂😂😂
Owami have LINES🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The way I’m obsessed with Owamie I don’t even want to view anyone’s nonsense 😴😴❤️Ninja you have our support ❤️
Divorce is a like a storm. It leaves a trail of destruction in the lives of all. The ones who were in the union and the lives of their loved ones. Some of us really loved the beautiful parts of your marriage. Never in our wildest dreams did we ever think it would get this ugly.
Hug 💕
Sana🤣😂🤣 I know how embarrassing and painful to be cheated on by a broke guy.
I know people who committed suicide after being cheated on by a rich guy.
So the real pain is being cheated by the person you loved and trusted
Lol the IQ part is true. 😂🤣
Just because he is not well spoken doesn’t mean he has a low IQ
This is sad, I remember watching their vlogs all along, the way she was so inlove with him and just happy. Yoh life happens
And BigGuy always looked weird in those videos, almost like he's just not up for it...didn't wanna be featured or something- he just looked odd or off-ish man
@@likopomakhofola2 maybe he didnt want his prospects to know that he has a wife. Cheaters are creepy vele
I respect you.. Owamie o khipa ama Files 👏👏👏...
After watching this, I can finally say iam tired of this lol
Yoh me too, its too much now
Big guy looks sick. Not the look I expected for a happy man who just been set free from a horrible marriage he wanted to walk away from🤷♀️. Queen ninja you did well by leavin and I'm loving the upgrade on yourself. For you held that man up. Since you were not bathing then why does it look like you left with his bathing water? Anyway let me tool🤐
Hahaha loool... that's what I saw. He looks horrible n hungry
He looked slimmer
@@basanibaloyi2093 hungry??😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He looks dirty 😩😩😩
Ha ha ha ha let me tool
Im glad this video came out. After watching the other I felt you needed to say something. I mean the guy unleashed info that u could hear needed to be clarified. Him and the other lady should just date, they are both bitter. 🚮🚮🚮I mean the woman already took his side😒Ninja you should also do a make up video hle. You makeup is really beautiful 😍😍
Keep lovingself Owami am with you all the way ,as a woman and as a human you not talking only for yourself you talking for a lot who are voiceless nyukis'ivolume sis
This is getting out of hand now...I really hope you both decide to keep this matter private going forward this back and forth is really not healthy