The Truth about my High School Experience...

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  • Hey guys! In today's video, I talk about my school experience. I hope you enjoy me being more open on my channels. If your struggling remember you are not alone. Love you guys!
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  • @sophiajuarez-valerio6893
    @sophiajuarez-valerio6893 2 ปีที่แล้ว +346

    As someone who aspires to be as successful as you and having the same story of bullying and not having many friends I want to say thank you. This is almost comforting knowing that influencers have similar experiences

    • @EllaMendelsohn
      @EllaMendelsohn  2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      I’m sorry to hear that love. You are not alone

    • @sophiajuarez-valerio6893
      @sophiajuarez-valerio6893 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@EllaMendelsohn thank you and I hope you’re doing well!

    • @Julien-zm3np
      @Julien-zm3np 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@EllaMendelsohn juilen

    • @Julien-zm3np
      @Julien-zm3np 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@EllaMendelsohn juilen

    • @Julien-zm3np
      @Julien-zm3np 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@EllaMendelsohn juilen

  • @SanaaASMR
    @SanaaASMR 2 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    leaving high school was such a sigh of relief to me. I used to skip lunch, go to the library, or just walk around the school during lunch bc I had like 2 friends and didn't share lunch with either of them. You're stunning and seem like a super genuine person. So sorry you had to deal with that 💖.

    • @EllaMendelsohn
      @EllaMendelsohn  2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I’m sorry you had to deal with that babe:(

    • @jaydenpizza10
      @jaydenpizza10 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@EllaMendelsohn Love you so much babe my name is Jayden Lo 😊😅

  • @oprahakamba631
    @oprahakamba631 2 ปีที่แล้ว +298

    Your voice shaking while you tell the story just breaks my heart , I’m sorry you had to go through this , you deserve everything good , thank you for your kind word and advices on Instagram and for taking time to talk to me , your such a good role model keep going Ella ♥️

    • @EllaMendelsohn
      @EllaMendelsohn  2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Thank you babe! Your support means so much:) muah

    • @ellaharari9528
      @ellaharari9528 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@blujay9025 what’s your problem

    • @Julien-zm3np
      @Julien-zm3np 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@EllaMendelsohn juilen

    • @Julien-zm3np
      @Julien-zm3np 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@EllaMendelsohn juilen

    • @Julien-zm3np
      @Julien-zm3np 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@EllaMendelsohn juilen

  • @MsBombastix
    @MsBombastix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Ella, I'm 26 so much older than you but I also had experience with loneliness and no friends in High School. When I entered High School I had 4 close friends but all of them dropped out or switched schools and by senior year I had no friends left in school :( Nobody talked to me or invited me to lunch, I always sat alone and had high absence so I barely graduated. But I made it out, and have moved on, I have a super nice and close friend group today :) They are like family.

  • @carmennnnnnn
    @carmennnnnnn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    girl i really just wanna let you know that was all pure jealousy from everyone around you. they know how pretty you are and they were scared by the potential of what you could become, everyone always hates on the best it’s just naturally what humans do. and you know that’s the best part about being disliked by others is that’s clear indication that they are alreays below you, watching your every move, and praying on your downfall. im sure they all see you doing so good now getting big brand deals, blowing up on all your socials, attending events, while they sit at home in their room. much love girl

  • @user-xo1jk1zc5v
    @user-xo1jk1zc5v 2 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    during this whole video every time you said you sat alone at lunch I just felt so bad and I was like I wish I could just walk up to you and sit next to you 🥺 I know the feeling and how much it means to even just have that one person that makes your whole day so much better, thank you for sharing the story you have a pure soul and good heart love you ❣️❣️❣️

    • @EllaMendelsohn
      @EllaMendelsohn  2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I’m sorry girl you’ve been through it too:( wish we could sit together!! Thank you for your support ❤️

  • @kianamehrany2101
    @kianamehrany2101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    litteraly crying five min in this vid. my hert hurts i feel so bad oh my god, this reminded me of some hard times in school of being so stressed about who to eat with and stupid stuff, i also remember eating on the bathroom floor and crying in the stall some days. Your my fav youtuber/tiktoker and hearing this shows how strong and ammazing you are. Thank you for telling us this!

    • @EllaMendelsohn
      @EllaMendelsohn  2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Aw I’m so sorry to hear that love😢 thank you for your support means so much to me

  • @les7881
    @les7881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I absolutely love this video! Obviously, I am so sorry that you went through these things, but it makes me feel like I am not left alone with this. I seriously can’t wait to graduate and start to actually live my life! I hope anyone who shares this dreadful feeling is going to achieve great things soon! You deserve happiness and don’t give up! We need you. I need you.❤️stay strong!

  • @madisonlee6595
    @madisonlee6595 2 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    Watching this I felt that you were so genuine and honest🤍 I am so sorry for how this happened to you nobody deserves that! your a beautiful soul and an amazing influencer, i’m so glad you opened up about this❤️

    • @EllaMendelsohn
      @EllaMendelsohn  2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Thank you for your kind words 🥰

    • @Julien-zm3np
      @Julien-zm3np 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@EllaMendelsohn juilen

    • @Julien-zm3np
      @Julien-zm3np 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@EllaMendelsohn juilen

    • @Julien-zm3np
      @Julien-zm3np 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@EllaMendelsohn juilen

  • @saniageorge9955
    @saniageorge9955 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    im sorry u had to deal with tht terrible principal .tht school seems awful ,no one deserves to go thru tht also the reason why those girls hate you is cuz they r obviously jealous of ur success on tiktok , it suks tht there r people out there who find the need to put others down to feel good about thwmselves but karma will get to them one day. Its amazing tht u decided to speak up about this cuz there r a lot of people who go thru this and hearing this wud help then feel like they are not alone . u seem like a genuinely nice person . sending love 😌❤️

  • @emirath9299
    @emirath9299 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    This actually made me a bit emotional because I can relate. I am so so sorry you had to go through that but I am so glad you are feeling happy now. You are striving and we are all so proud of you. Ly.

  • @sandraramos5915
    @sandraramos5915 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    As a mother I can relate to you as a daughter to your mom because my daughter was bullied in her high school and it was horrible and I feel so bad for my daughter because sometimes as a mother we feel hopeless but thank God my daughter got over it and she’s stronger now for it and now she’s driving to be a nurse she has two jobs and I’m so proud of my precious daughter Priscilla

  • @toolsfortradi
    @toolsfortradi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    bro the anger i felt during this video towards those teachers and students im actually so mad rn. but we love you so much ella im so happy youre feeling better and dw soo many poeple your age are going thru the same different difficulties and ik u know that so its going to be ok and you are the best, literally.❤

    • @EllaMendelsohn
      @EllaMendelsohn  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you so much! Yes so many kids go through the same thing! Hoping my video helps

  • @iamjohnporter67
    @iamjohnporter67 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I was a very angry and stern student. I hide my feelings because I had so many issues happening back at home but I could not even say it since I was told to shut up about it by my teachers who was like "We don't want to hear about your problems". I was angry at everyone in the school. All the students were being noisy and the teachers were becoming more boastful and stubborn. I only cared about fishing my schoolwork and trying to get pass all of this nonsense. I did get straight A's but I didn't even care because I wanted to be done with this.
    By the time I graduated back in May 2013 I felt nothing, just the feeling of "thank god this is over" and I didn't have to worry about doing this again. Needless to say the school really damaged me mentally and it didn't help that I had problems back at home but nobody seemed to care about me at the time. It was a dark moment for me thats for sure.

  • @jenplasha7792
    @jenplasha7792 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    honestly I feel like people feel threatened and insecure over all ur amazing successes. u are stunning and making a career for yourself… obviously they are going to hate and be jealous. I have gone through a similar situation with girls just talking behind my back and being really rude to me. just keep smiling and push through the haters 💗 focus on yourself and what brings u happiness

    • @EllaMendelsohn
      @EllaMendelsohn  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Very true! I’m sorry to hear that you have had similar situations. Sending much love

  • @jackielane0
    @jackielane0 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Speaking as a senior in college, I had the same high school experience. Thank you for sharing because I went through something similar and the internet makes it seem like high school is easy ❤️

    • @user-ig3uc6ne5v
      @user-ig3uc6ne5v ปีที่แล้ว

      Unfortunately, we've all had the same experience 😢
      What's high school? I mean i'm not American and I don't know what's stage it is

    • @netguy888
      @netguy888 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-ig3uc6ne5v school for pupils aged 13 - 19

  • @miamcdougal8933
    @miamcdougal8933 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Love you girl❤️ just look at where you are and how far you’ve come you’re young and successful, majority of your followers adore you, and just look at the people who disrespected you at school, it’s clear as day they’re jealous girl, I’ve been through the same thing, the girls decide they don’t like you because they’re jealous and see you as a threat , and then guys are probably into you but don’t say anything because they don’t want to be “looked down on” by the “popular” girls. It’s so toxic, but I look back now and wouldn’t change it for a thing because it shapes you into the strong independent person you become🤍
    You’re so loved girl, you’re the brightest light and the best soul🤍

    • @EllaMendelsohn
      @EllaMendelsohn  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Mia! I’m sorry you had to go through something like that. Your words mean so much to me! Fr made my day

    • @miamcdougal8933
      @miamcdougal8933 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@EllaMendelsohn love you so much girly😘 wish there were more like you❤️

  • @arodplayz6723
    @arodplayz6723 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    its great to see influencers share their story, social media can be so draining when it seems like everyone just lives the perfect life. I applaud you for sharing your story and happy that your doing way better now, much love.

  • @zahraa1
    @zahraa1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    im so sorry any of this happened to you, people can be really mean. it sucks that the teachers weren't even professional and involving themselves. never forget how amazing and hard working you are, your doing amazing things at such a young age ♥️ never let others comments define you, your old school was filled with jealousy, hatred and pettiness. im so glad you were able to get out of that school and hopefully none of that has to happen again ♥️ hope your in a much better place & that your days are filled with happiness

    • @EllaMendelsohn
      @EllaMendelsohn  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you so much for your kind words! Yes I’m doing so much better luckily

  • @Mellys123
    @Mellys123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Don’t worry i also i had bad high school experience too, students being mean to me i was so scared to tell the teachers cause i thought I’m gonna be in trouble but it’s ok show them how strong you are so When i graduated i move on i didn’t care i been focusing myself. 💕

  • @willcorrigan7862
    @willcorrigan7862 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is so weird to see you opening up about your true self your always so bright and happy and confident when you are on this platform. Ella forget about the old school and all the bad memories your bright beautiful smart and will and already be a huge success don’t give up ignore anyone who gives you hate or chats about you because they are not worth your time Xxxxxxxx 🥰🤪

  • @brookiepeden3230
    @brookiepeden3230 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank u so much Ella for telling us about your experience I feel not alone as much anymore knowing that someone else has experienced bullying and how much it can change and affect a person. To be honest u are so sweet qnd don't deserve what u experience love u xx🤍👼🏼

  • @rickharding7209
    @rickharding7209 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I watched this video hoping to see what it's like for teens out there these days, I worked with troubled kids as a counselor for a time, but a decade ago, but still have heard many a similar story from many people, both boys and girls, but girls are definitely hard on each other than boys. I am going through this with my 14yr old daughter right now. I have this piece of hope to give you, though I know that it's very hard to look to the future when the now is more than you can handle as is ... But... Once you finish high school, it literally doesnt matter in the slightest. You hit 18, and your an adult, so your able to stand up for yourself and be respected in a different way, you get to choose your peers and social life, the world opens up to you and you begin to completely forget the b.s., so long as you don't dwell on it. It just kinda fades into a place where it doesnt matter any more, your free from it and beyond it, and it doesn't take but a month or two after you graduate till all these are just distant memories. Life is pretty spectacular, and your getting pretty close to leaving all these small, petty little people behind you, and you will live a life they will be completely jealous of, with more money, more freedom, more friends and people seeking your time and business. Your peers know this, and so your dealing with their jealousy among other things... Just hang in there. Your doing just fine from the standpoint of gauging your preparedness for life. I wish you the best of luck, your clearly a very intelligent girl, and your gonna rock at life!z

  • @hannahlang9983
    @hannahlang9983 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Love you Ella. Thank you for sharing this. If anyone gets mad about this video that u went to school with ignore it this was such an important video to make

  • @somebodyyxx-1605
    @somebodyyxx-1605 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am so proud of you for getting through all that horrible stuff

    • @EllaMendelsohn
      @EllaMendelsohn  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You are not alone. I’m so sorry to hear this I wish I could sit with you:( sending love

    • @somebodyyxx-1605
      @somebodyyxx-1605 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@EllaMendelsohn

  • @Godgod-wdadadawdawdawdwad
    @Godgod-wdadadawdawdawdwad ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ah, the classic high school experience. Even though I'm a guy, and it's been four years since I graduated high school, and headed straight into university, I still kinda miss being a kid, you know.. Even though at the time, being bullied and stuff seemed unbearable, right now, being mature, with a lot on my shoulders seems and feels even worse...

  • @deniselaratan6182
    @deniselaratan6182 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Ive never been in this situation until now and its great to know that other people are going through this too❤️

    • @EllaMendelsohn
      @EllaMendelsohn  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes you are not alone! Sending hugs ❤️

  • @mariam.zmnnnnn
    @mariam.zmnnnnn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    i’ve been waiting this this video! i haven’t watched it yet but i’m sure when i’m done i’ll be sending you so much love❤️ thank you for uploading for this because i asked for this is the last videos💘 you’re my favourite influencer💜

    • @EllaMendelsohn
      @EllaMendelsohn  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks babe means the world. I hope you enjoy the video

    • @mariam.zmnnnnn
      @mariam.zmnnnnn 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@EllaMendelsohn i loved it, thank you so much, we appreciate you so much💖

  • @Sophia-wz8do
    @Sophia-wz8do 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is why public school is better even though there’s more issues

  • @coryt93
    @coryt93 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The best people I know are people who blossomed after high school.

  • @annielindgaardhansen6756
    @annielindgaardhansen6756 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can not begin to tell you that I love this video so much, Ofc you didn’t deserve any of this, you seem like such a nice and genuine person. But it’s so nice to hear someone talking about their life behind the curtains! LOVE IT AND LOVE U

  • @elifrohlich8344
    @elifrohlich8344 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I find it quite inspiring that you can talk about it like that. It’s a shame that so many people go through such phases in their lives. I am impressed that you are still so confident and strong.

  • @tessallon4355
    @tessallon4355 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    girl you are so brave for opening up about this! You are so beautiful inside and out always remember that. I am 25 years old, and I know exactly how you feel. I was bullied in middle school and high school as well. It's definitely normal to feel alone sometimes even outside of high school etc. Its normal to feel alone in general even when you aren't alone. I am so glad that you are happy now and opening up about this girl. Most people wouldn't be able to open up about this kind of stuff, but you are inspiring to many to change that.

  • @karos3389
    @karos3389 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i am also in junior year and i never had and still do not have any friends not in school and not private. i am so proud of you and how far you have come. talking about something like this is not easy and it is just so calming to see that other people go trough things like this too.

  • @nadia5193
    @nadia5193 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    she is so honest, and i love how she posted this. she's a very strong person. you're my inspiration:)

  • @camiannnn
    @camiannnn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I’m so sorry that happened to you! In middle and high school something really similar actually happened to me too! I now do online school and I feel sm better! 🤍

    • @EllaMendelsohn
      @EllaMendelsohn  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Omg babe I’m so happy to hear you are doing well! Sending love

    • @mariam.zmnnnnn
      @mariam.zmnnnnn 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      same!! that’s why i really appreciate Ella since we’ve gone through similar things she makes me feel like i can do anything :) i’m glad you’re happier

  • @sarahbattula4634
    @sarahbattula4634 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is so reassuring to so many girls out there who struggling in a similar situation I can’t imagine being treated like this. But I too also deal with loneliness and it is really hard sometimes. You are so brave Ella to share your story bc so many influencers like you don’t share a lot real deep things that happen. Your so blessed to have the ability to share your life w your followers on social media. I already know you made the right decision.

  • @dishajawali9434
    @dishajawali9434 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    girl thank you so much for talking about loneliness it made me feel less alone. I really needed to hear that.

  • @troysitkowski9459
    @troysitkowski9459 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Omg, social media really does show a different side🥺. Really proud that you were able to make this video.😁🤩

    • @EllaMendelsohn
      @EllaMendelsohn  2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes social media is all fake. Working on being more real on my channels:)

  • @sana.slm4
    @sana.slm4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I literally began crying cuz i felt so bad for you :( I'm so sorry u had to go through a horrible experience i hope you're better now i love you🤍

  • @taylorgoetz2926
    @taylorgoetz2926 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Awww I know we never talked in middle school but I wish I knew you felt like this because it would have been great for us to get to know each other. I thought most of the kids in our school were rude too. I ended up leaving and going online as well. I’m glad you’re happy and successful now!

  • @catsareetuc7022
    @catsareetuc7022 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish I could handle those situations like how mature you handled it. Just know that you’re an amazing person!

  • @sez1124
    @sez1124 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I struggled with such a similar problem, you have no idea. I know exactly how you felt, I'm so proud of you for pushing through this and still being able to talk about it. I remember dealing with something like this and I felt so unheard and misunderstood. You've got this, you inspire me to be able to talk about this one day. It's not easy to overcome and get your mind off it sometimes even if you have let the situation go. You have so much strength for getting through that. I'm so happy for you

  • @angelamparo
    @angelamparo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yikes! That school sounds horrible. Sorry to hear about those bad experiences. Hopefully the situation is better now.

  • @jeremyyyy20
    @jeremyyyy20 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Ella, first let me say I’m so proud of all that you’ve achieved. You definitely did not deserve this, from our conversations on tiktok dms I can tell that you’re truly a sweet girl! I was actually in public school until the middle of 10th grade. For high school, I went to a different school other than my home school for a special Ed program. I was bullied by the teachers and even tackled by a senior as a freshman, staff in the program did nothing because “it was the end of the day” teachers called me out in class for random stuff, and eventually I had to go to a private school. I can understand where you’re coming from with this story, and I know for you this has improved who you are. You seen so happy now, and I’m so proud of everything you achieved.
    Also, for the longest time, I didn’t have friends in school at all, even at private school. I haven’t had friends at school until college really. At least true friends. You deserved so much better, and I’m so happy that you seem to be in a much better place! Much love❤️

  • @user-nw1nw2kn7s
    @user-nw1nw2kn7s 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you so much for talking about this, it makes me feel less alone. I have been struggling to keep solid friend groups as well because of falling out as well. I'm so sorry you had to go through all this.

    • @EllaMendelsohn
      @EllaMendelsohn  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Awe sending you so much love I hope everything works out for you

    • @user-nw1nw2kn7s
      @user-nw1nw2kn7s 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@EllaMendelsohn thanks girl

  • @sylviazhang3086
    @sylviazhang3086 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    After watching this video! I just want to say that you are one of the best influencers I have ever followed! YOU ARE THE BEST!!!!!!!!!!

    • @EllaMendelsohn
      @EllaMendelsohn  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Means so much to me thank you❤️❤️😢

  • @metallfusion5452
    @metallfusion5452 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Actually interesting because i thought a pretty girl like u has many friends. Some people are just jealous. Keep on going you will have more success than most of them will ever have.

  • @renewyou19
    @renewyou19 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for sharing this. ❤️ You are so strong. As someone who just recently started working in a school (studying to be a school psychotherapist), PLEASE remember that social work/counseling staff are paid to help you. While many schools have terrible SW’s, some have great ones…if you’re in a dark place- try reaching out to them. I hope they can help. (Oof…I’m farther into the video now. Now I know the staff were cruel too…awful)

    • @EllaMendelsohn
      @EllaMendelsohn  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The social worker was very sweet and always helped me when I came in crying. She couldn’t do much about the principals decisions I don’t blame her at all. Your completely right they are amazing to have access to in school!!

  • @amyahdavis2155
    @amyahdavis2155 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    thank you so much for sharing this, I went through something very similar at school and it's really good to know that i'm not alone. I'm glad you're doing better now people can be so harsh :/

  • @anthimavridou9519
    @anthimavridou9519 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow. I started following you when I saw the infamous tik Tok in the bathroom. Since then I’m a loyal fan of your tik tok and ig and I’ve considered you flawless. Watching this made me realise that looks don’t represent someone’s mental health. I’m very sorry that you had to go through this but always remember that it helped you turn into the person you are. Hope that your are doing great. Keep inspiring people with your courage and content. Xx❤️

  • @victoriajune06
    @victoriajune06 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm so sorry what you have gone through. ily ella

  • @jadziak6997
    @jadziak6997 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I experienced bullying in High School, but I still had a group I could sit, eat and talk with....I can't imagine it on that level and even being bullied by teachers. I'm sorry Ella, but you are so young and have achieved so much already. The vindictive side of me would be seeking a lawsuit against that school. But the best way, and the high road, is to be as happy and successful as you always wanted to be....and leave those memories and people in the dust where they belong.

    • @EllaMendelsohn
      @EllaMendelsohn  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for your kind words! The school was so scared my parents would sue and tried to beg me to stay haha. I’m totally better leaving them behind me and moving on with my life❤️

  • @jamesbeck6401
    @jamesbeck6401 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So now that you have gone through that I hope you take a look around you and if you see someone going through what you went through i hope you have the fortitude to do something about it...but you seem to be very intelligent and articulate

  • @TheHomieMC1
    @TheHomieMC1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I know you posted this video 2 months ago but I just watched it and I truly wish the utmost best for you in life

  • @phistic6618
    @phistic6618 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow your strong El, people are just so jealous, it’s insane to think that adults can be this mean to teenagers.

  • @saishashrestha22
    @saishashrestha22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ella I have no words atm..you’re one strong girl. have been following u since ur school viral tiktok days and you’ve always been my favorite. never imagined you went through smt horrible like this. i hope you get what u deserve and obvi u deserve the world love xx❤️❤️

    • @EllaMendelsohn
      @EllaMendelsohn  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you angel. Appreciate all your support ❤️

  • @beccaviana9944
    @beccaviana9944 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i am so sorry you had to go through that. you are so loved and i am so glad you left that horrible place. you are an amazing human and deserve the world🖤🖤

  • @veeasad
    @veeasad 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m so sorry this happened to you. It really does show that you don’t know everyone abs what they go through. I personally feel like I have friends but am just lonely. Like everyone is popular with their friend groups etc and I’m just an outsider:( thank you for telling us this story ur literally such an inspiration❤️❤️stay strong❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Gigi-gh3nt
    @Gigi-gh3nt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ella, I'm very sorry for everything you went through, I hope you feel better and I think you look happier. Those girls only envy you what you have been able to achieve and you as a person and be so strong. I do not know you but I think you are a very nice and kind girl with people and you are looking for problems, continue like this and do not respond to things / people who have so much time in their life to envy / criticize yours. I send you a lot of love, you are incredible, never forget it 💕💕💕💕

  • @sabrinabaker5339
    @sabrinabaker5339 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for making this video Ella!! You are so strong and so much more than those awful things people said and did to you. You are doing so well and I'm glad you are happy doing what you are doing!

  • @user-kp8do9bp8c
    @user-kp8do9bp8c 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I never had a high school experience cause I experienced bullying ever since in elementary I was quiet and certain people would avoid sitting with me and when I repeated a grade level I started doing online homeschool where I cheated on all of my courses to graduate

  • @lilymartin8541
    @lilymartin8541 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for sharing this Ella. I know that this was hard to make. You are such a strong person. Much love ❤️🤍

  • @tea1980
    @tea1980 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    girl youre such an amazing person, ever since i started watching ur tt vids, yt vids i’ve realized how humble u are and ur honestly such an inspo to me

  • @doublexedits2069
    @doublexedits2069 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just wanted to say that this is really inspirational. In 3rd grade I fought my parents to go to school bc I was kind of alone. I would scream and cry bc I didn’t want to go to school. Someone actually called me slow as well. This video makes me appreciate u even more bc you have gone through the experiences that I have. But now I have made friends and life couldn’t be any better. Made the 8th grade baseball and team play ice hockey. Life’s pretty good 👍. Thank you Ella for making this video and coming out and telling everyone what you have went through. You are an angel 😊

  • @marielenamoncada3795
    @marielenamoncada3795 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i love u so much thanks for sharing your story bc i’m going through the same thing and it makes me feel better that u got out of there and now you are successful ❤️❤️

  • @micadegani
    @micadegani 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    its horrible that this happened and i wish no one goes through this. i’ve been there and its awful. hope your are happy now! im still working on it and i hope some day i’ll be happy to🙌🏼💘

    • @EllaMendelsohn
      @EllaMendelsohn  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you and I’m sorry you have had similar experiences:( wishing you the best!

  • @milalouis5530
    @milalouis5530 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    omg ella i am so sorry about your bad experience!! you are such beautiful soul with such a great heart and you didn't deserve to go through this!! i'm glad you are doing better now!! just know that you are so loved

  • @williamssportsworld1537
    @williamssportsworld1537 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Ella, my name is will, I’m also a youtuber, I also got bullied in school like you did, that doesn’t seem fair, I got bullied on my first day of sixth grade on my bus going to school, this boy sitting right across from me in the front row told me I had no friends, when I got to my middle school, I just didn’t say anything to anybody after that, I can relate to going through this kind of thing,, I’m so sorry you got bullied Ella, your not alone

  • @ameliarobinson9273
    @ameliarobinson9273 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish you could know how much this video comforted me, thank you for sharing. ❤️

  • @yahircervantes4451
    @yahircervantes4451 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m so sorry that you went through this and it just sucks that the way it made you feel honestly. I’m genuinely so happy to hear that ur doing better and feel much better because that’s so important ! Love the vids and all your content Ella !! Keep up the great work ❤️❤️

  • @MahaneyMedia
    @MahaneyMedia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There’s definitely a stigma thats attached to kids who transfer from a public school to a private one. Same thing happened to me, I had the principle and teachers just treat me like a lesser human because I came from a public school and didn’t grow up in this Catholic school pipeline. It was tough but I luckily made the greatest friends I’ll ever have there, and still have to this day so it makes the experience worth it. So just want you to know, you aren’t alone. Stay strong ❤️

  • @paolapetkova2612
    @paolapetkova2612 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm so sorry for what you had to go through...i was literally crying while listening to your story...

    • @EllaMendelsohn
      @EllaMendelsohn  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you angel I’m so much better now no worries :)

  • @julianmedia
    @julianmedia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hello Ella, listening to you tell your story is like forming the title of a book with the sweetest love story.

  • @gabriellesedita4810
    @gabriellesedita4810 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    oh my goodness. i am so sry this happened to u!! u deserve sm better and i hope ur doing well now ❤️i love you so much

    • @EllaMendelsohn
      @EllaMendelsohn  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you for your concern! I’m doing so much better☺️ love you!

  • @ce1inehwang92
    @ce1inehwang92 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing your stories. Hey, You are not alone anymore. Everybody loves you here!! You are such a beautiful than I thought. You shake my heart. I also get the feeling sadness like you. Hey beautiful! I truly hope you to be a better person in outside of school. The best school is the world :) I just subscribed your TH-cam channel even I fallen your appearance on Instagram…. Now I just know little bit about you who you are! Thank you for sharing us! I support you from Seoul, South Korea. Have a nice and beautiful day!! 💛🙌🏻🥰

  • @sarabowin6298
    @sarabowin6298 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i hope you’re doing better beautiful! u seem like an incredibly kind person with a big heart

  • @malakyasser6510
    @malakyasser6510 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No one should go through that, reminded me of things I went through I'm so sorry u had to go through that.. And I'm so happy you're in a better place. 💕💕

    • @EllaMendelsohn
      @EllaMendelsohn  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m so sorry you had to go through that! Love you babe💜

  • @kwnstantinatsismalidou5332
    @kwnstantinatsismalidou5332 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ella, thank u for sharing your story and I know how hard it is but u made me feel I wasn’t the only one that went through those toxic stuff in school. We are here for you. WE LOVE YOU AND BETTER DAYS ARE COMING🌻❤️✨

  • @katiegomez8983
    @katiegomez8983 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i experienced similar situations during highschool especially grade 9 and 10, but its getting better and im on my last year. I love you so much and i hope you do better, and homeschooling is the best option and its so much more fun.

  • @lilians.3375
    @lilians.3375 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m proud you had the courage to come and speak up here !! Sending u all the love you deserve 🤍✨

  • @hellohelloooo2797
    @hellohelloooo2797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    hearing this is making me cry. I’m at a new school and I feel exactly the same

  • @user-hf6gb6ey1t
    @user-hf6gb6ey1t 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    glad ur doing better now, i admire u for being strong ilysm🥺💗

  • @imogenpost2466
    @imogenpost2466 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If I’d have been in school with you ella I would have been friends with you:) I’m from the UK but secondary school is still just as toxic and horrible as high school. If you don’t fit a certain category of people then you aren’t deemed ‘popular’ so you just get made fun of. I was dropped from friend group after friend group for 3 years and then finally made a nice group of friends and then I moved to a new school and ended up in the exact same position that I was in, got kicked out of friend groups and now I’m in a small group of girls and I couldn’t be happier so I feel like once you find the right people it gets so much better but finding those people sometimes comes with horrible experiences of getting dropped and feeling lonely. Thank you for sharing this and a lot of us relate to you and I’m glad you are doing better and I wish you all the best!! ❤️

  • @laurahowardsmith9820
    @laurahowardsmith9820 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for posting this video. I truly appreciate you talking about this experience because I also feel this way and I am so comforted I am not the only person who has experienced this. I am so so so proud of you and your growth. You are such an amazing and kind-hearted person, I could just tell you would never judge me from the way you are in your videos. I love you ❤️

    • @EllaMendelsohn
      @EllaMendelsohn  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aw Laura this is so sweet♥️😢 sending love

  • @alihusseini6121
    @alihusseini6121 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm so sorry what you have been through. ILY ella

  • @dianacastro4730
    @dianacastro4730 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    we’re here for u girl i’m so sorry for everything that happened to u but thank god ur doing good now and left that school ❤️❤️

    • @EllaMendelsohn
      @EllaMendelsohn  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! Yes I’m doing so much better:)

  • @vanessabouvin6648
    @vanessabouvin6648 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m so sorry you had to go through all of this. I loved your middle school insta posts and videos. you were my idol in sixth grade and you still are💗💜🤍

    • @EllaMendelsohn
      @EllaMendelsohn  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Awee thank you for all the support always 😌

  • @sabriele
    @sabriele 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Please don’t say your middle school outfits were stupid!! I was in my 20s and I literally started following you because of those outfits because they looked fresh and young and they were super wearable anywhere and everywhere (I’m super sad they’re no longer on your Instagram now btw).
    As someone who was bullied as a teenager too I just wanna say it gets better. This is not to be cliche or to invalidate the daily struggles you experience right now. But it gets better because you get more mature and you get better at looking out for people who gel well with you. You’re spending so much time having fun with your favourite people that what other people are saying about you matters less, and after a while of seeing that their negative energy doesn’t work on you they move on to target other people. (Also when people grow up they tend to try to be less cruel because being cruel just isn’t a cool look anymore - mostly - when you grow up.)
    Being bullied is difficult. I’m sorry that you (and everyone here in the comments section) has to go through it. If there’s one thing that I’m “glad” came out of the bullying is that it made me a stronger person, a smarter person when it comes to negotiating social settings, and someone who is proud in their own uniqueness and not perpetually worrying about whether people will think I’m weird (well not always anyway, I’m human lol). I hope you will grow up to look back on this episode of your life with no pain. Lots of love to you and everyone reading this comment ❤️

  • @karamendelsohn9836
    @karamendelsohn9836 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    This was obviously a really hard video to make. I love you and I am so glad you are happy now 🥺

  • @ratatouilleouioui8659
    @ratatouilleouioui8659 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Harrased a student behind their back, as professional teachers is just pure disgusting. I’m so sorry of what had happened to you and I’m so glad you’re in a better place now. Love you girl xoxo

  • @hockeygoal24
    @hockeygoal24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sounds to me like lots of girls were jealous of you, trust me that’s what it was.
    You might not know this now but this is all “small things in life” You Ella, have much Bigger Fish to Fry in this World! It won’t come by itself, So Keep focused and pushing yourself because your going to be a Massive Success!!
    I’m support you 1 million %!!!!

  • @juliannalinas9467
    @juliannalinas9467 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m so so sorry this happened to you Ella you didn’t deserve this I hope your doing well now I actually struggled with similar stuff through elementary school and middle school and I know exactly how you feel it was so hard to deal with seeing this video really helped I love you so much and your such an inspiration❤️❤️💓💓

  • @chrisnigro3859
    @chrisnigro3859 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Expressing your feelings shows more strength then you’ll ever know. I hope other people see this and believe In themselves. Wish you the best 👑🙏💪

  • @matthewcarroll2648
    @matthewcarroll2648 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your the most beautiful person inside and out

  • @drawingcupcakes9123
    @drawingcupcakes9123 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    hi sweetie I understand u gurl I just had one best friend before and I always was with her and had no other close friends but then she left the school and it was really difficult after 1 year finally I made friends and got in there group and then after some time they fought with me for no reason and pushed me out of the group and they are popular so basically I am so popular now all those hate me now and spread rumours about me and make me feel like nothing and I am a loner even I'm not able to change schools due to registration I wanna cry I don't know how to escape this horrible situation

  • @alyssapartney9423
    @alyssapartney9423 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so sorry to hear that you had such a rough time in school. I am in online school as well and it is so much better not having to deal with people and I still struggle with friends but I am learning to better myself everyday. Just know that you are absolutely stunning and you are better than everyone says! ❤️

    • @EllaMendelsohn
      @EllaMendelsohn  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you love! Happy you are thriving in online school. Wish you the best going foward

    • @alyssapartney9423
      @alyssapartney9423 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! 😁

  • @trevorball2511
    @trevorball2511 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ella, I just want you to know that I’m glad your winning. Keep your head up and know that we are all here for you 😊

  • @skylartaylor4069
    @skylartaylor4069 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They just envy you. So whatever they did them feel better

  • @joeyhuber604
    @joeyhuber604 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I had the same thing happen to me. I had no friends in middle school so I left for catholic school also on Long Island. I was friends with everyone and loved everyone in my grade. Unfortunately the hockey coach said some things that made me feel uncomfortable in the locker room so I reported it to the church. They fired the coach. I was bullied out of the school by the upperclassman for reporting the coach. They gave me death threats, called me a snitch among other horrible things, and I lost all of my friends except maybe 2 of them. I had to leave the school and go back to my old school where I had no friends. Now I’m a senior I finally have friends, but I never had friends until senior year. I never got invited places or to do anything. Things have changed but it’s still hard to recover from all the years of being lonely.