Au Pair & Husband's Affair Leads to Double Homicide? The Christine Banfield & Joseph Ryan Case

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  • @belaryann
    @belaryann 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1985

    I’ve watched your videos for years and seeing you do a video on my cousin makes me incredibly emotional. Thank you for covering.

    • @tiffanymeyer0504
      @tiffanymeyer0504 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +135

      Very sorry for the loss of your cousin. 😢 sending positive thoughts, vibes, prayers, and light to you and your family❤❤

    • @victoriaevee
      @victoriaevee 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +45

      Your cousin sounds exactly as she was describe by her patient, an angel. I’m not religious, but to some people, they might think God saw her angelic help down here on earth, and he needed her help up with him as well. So sad she got her wings so soon.

    • @ewangewin
      @ewangewin 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      im sorry for your loss ❤

    • @juliagritzbach
      @juliagritzbach 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      I’m so sorry for your loss ;(

    • @belaryann
      @belaryann 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +113

      @@victoriaevee my cousin was Joe not Christine but you are correct she seemed like an amazing person. It’s heartbreaking that her daughter will no longer have her mother

  • @shandizzleb7609
    @shandizzleb7609 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2684

    I don’t understand why a divorce is scarier than life in prison these people make zero sense

    • @jaybee2337
      @jaybee2337 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +177

      They all think they’re soooo much smarter than everyone else and will get away with their crimes.

    • @ayokeoo0101
      @ayokeoo0101 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@jaybee2337exactly

    • @krysivory493
      @krysivory493 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +32

      In the US, they have to give
      away half of their wealth IF
      they didn't sign the pre-nup.

    • @divingduck9
      @divingduck9 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +70

      @@krysivory493 u mean they both work & they split everything 50/50. he dont OWN her share.

    • @hydracygnus
      @hydracygnus 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +83

      @@krysivory493how is this worse than literal murder and prison

  • @leyladivine
    @leyladivine 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1724

    I’m so confused by the women who are so intent on “stealing” a women’s man. Like ma’am he is not the prize.

    • @zoetaughtme
      @zoetaughtme 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +35

      this

    • @bimobop
      @bimobop 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +74

      So pathetic i knew immediately where this was going before the video finished

    • @MeriweatherDesigns
      @MeriweatherDesigns 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Facts

    • @AamuAurora
      @AamuAurora 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +71

      You can't steal anybody's partner. He was a person in power, an older man who was an employee. She was aware and guilty, behaved immorally and bad, but the whole situation wouldn't take place if the man conducted himself properly. I highly doubt that he was stolen from his wife, because the person he went after was his employee, someone he felt superior to. Stop infantilising grown a(s)² men who betray and destroy their families, talking about them like beasts who just roam around, and romance any person that is up to it, unwillingly. Like the only person who has any obligations to the man's family is not himself but all women, because nobody can expect loyalty from a man. If they don't refuse, it's their fault that a family falls apart because men are thoughtless machines. Of course, people who engage with people in committed relationships are weird and deserve condemnation but damn. Stealing? Really?

    • @tv-21
      @tv-21 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Maybe he has the goods

  • @smolexfundie6458
    @smolexfundie6458 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2123

    Why can’t people just get a damn divorce????

    • @pingu_enjoyer2003
      @pingu_enjoyer2003 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +69

      Honestly, the most common reason seems to be a desire for control over their spouse. Either that or fear of taking responsibility for their actions that led to the divorce. Both, in a lot of cases.

    • @c4arla
      @c4arla 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +50

      maybe money and they want to keepp the kids themselves and not have to deal with ex spouse and sharing custody dividing assets...

    • @Tori-op3mx
      @Tori-op3mx 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

      Also IQ lol

    • @sandybowers5085
      @sandybowers5085 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      Also he seems like a Narcissistic personality disorder. (NPD) God be with the child he completely abandoned in his sick sociopathic or even psychopathic behavior. #JusticeForChristine
      #JusticefortheirChild
      I would be totally interested in how the trials are explained!

    • @omgitzpaige2013
      @omgitzpaige2013 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      came here to say this. like why

  • @victoriaberned5901
    @victoriaberned5901 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +629

    I will NEVER understand how someone can look at a small, innocent child and willingly and purposefully take their mommy away from them. Pure evil.

    • @morgangarber
      @morgangarber 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

      Because they are selfish and only thinking about themselves. Like Kendall said, no one who truly loves their child would willingly put them through anything like this.

    • @a.wanderer5006
      @a.wanderer5006 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      F-ed up but surrogate parents also take a kid's mommy away, - somehow that is socially acceptable.

  • @Poddycat-z4x
    @Poddycat-z4x 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +820

    It’s genuinely insane how anybody fully believes that in this day and age, that you can get away with any sort of crime like this!
    You got it absolutely right Kendall, saying there is no chance you could possibly love your child/children if you chose to take away their parent. Seriously despicable.

    • @KahootaShoota
      @KahootaShoota 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      Yeah, this isn’t the 1500s where you can literally just go on horseback for a day, go to another village, and live a new life as you claim your wife died to the hands of demons or some shit
      If you want out of a relationship, get a divorce. You can make more money and come back from that, but you can’t come back from offing someone.
      These guys are idiots.

    • @KahootaShoota
      @KahootaShoota 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@Poddycat-z4x you have every right to be cautious. I hope any relationship you enter or what not has someone who respects you deeply. Also, you don’t need marriage to feel fulfilled.
      And may all these people, regardless of gender, who even think of hurting the ones they love, suffer in this life and any that may come next.

  • @Honigprinzessin
    @Honigprinzessin 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +238

    Just imagining how Christine might have been so relieved to see her husband come to her rescue since she had no idea what’s going on only to get stabbed to death by him makes me sick to my stomach

  • @lisaslay391
    @lisaslay391 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +622

    The fact that Juliana left the 4-year-old daughter in the basement alone says a lot, and none of it good.

  • @Aversong15
    @Aversong15 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +260

    So life in prison and your child without a mother is better than a divorce ? Ok!

    • @caseyw.6550
      @caseyw.6550 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

      That's the thing...people who do this are delusional. They think they are smart enough to get away with it.

    • @Musicalsfangirl
      @Musicalsfangirl 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Exactly!! Divorcing your wife for your affair partner will make everyone judge/hate you, but they’ll think you are so much worse if you kill them just to get them out of the way just to peruse the new relationship.

    • @kimmca
      @kimmca 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ⁠@@caseyw.6550 exactly! he thought he was gonna get away with it!! so dumb 🤦🏻‍♀️ I can never understand men like this. So sad! Rip Christine & Joseph

    • @vera_siempre
      @vera_siempre วันที่ผ่านมา

      Especially when they do it, and now I speak in most of the situations that happens in the states, not this particular case, in states that have capital punishment enforced. The level of delusion is absolutely baffling.

  • @meganveronicaG
    @meganveronicaG 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +250

    Im mortified by this case. I was an Au pair from Australia, and I lived in the US for a year. Like you go there to work and travel and the families are so generous and supportive of you. This kind of betrayal of trust and the planning makes me cringe. Im sad for Christine, who would have never seen this coming.

    • @djoyne391
      @djoyne391 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Why are you mortified?

    • @Krisgrace5
      @Krisgrace5 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      @@djoyne391well… she just said, because of the betrayal. Maybe read the comment

    • @Smithpolly
      @Smithpolly 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      It's great that you had a positive experience but it's helps to bear in mind if giving advice to someone to be an au pair that not all families are generous and supportive of their au pairs. Equally, if giving advice to someone to get an au pair, that not all au pairs are overly enthusiastic about the work part.

  • @ilovediscus94
    @ilovediscus94 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +156

    So they letting her get away with murder to catch him is ridiculous…. She’s just as complicit and needs the same punishment

  • @milknhoneyhoney
    @milknhoneyhoney 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +369

    It’s so refreshing to hear you just speak about this like a normal person, not using stupid words like “un-alived” etc, like soooo many creators are now. Also love that you swear as much as I do lmao. ❤ Thank you for staying genuine Kendall ❤

    • @jessicaDd9692
      @jessicaDd9692 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

      I didn’t even notice until you said that but yeah wow it’s great

    • @LovelyLorely23
      @LovelyLorely23 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Channels only censor their content about true crime stories because they’re smaller channels and TH-cam bullies them
      They demonitize them and they take down their videos or won’t let them post it up at all
      TH-cam lets bigger channels with bigger following get away with more and aren’t as strict with the guidelines with them
      This issue has been talked about so much by Kendal and Josh in the past when their following was smaller

    • @allisonovo
      @allisonovo 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

      Still love those creators nonetheless

    • @jackselle4607
      @jackselle4607 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +56

      Its so they don't get demonetized, I love Kendall and her integrity

    • @milknhoneyhoney
      @milknhoneyhoney 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

      @@allisonovo Oh for sure! I totally understand why some creators censor their videos like that, I still watch them and love them nonetheless, it just can come off as unnatural and disingenuous sometimes.

  • @lolafairchild88
    @lolafairchild88 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +494

    Juliana wanted a green card, and he's delusional if he thinks Juliana was ever really into him.... He was LUCKY to have the wife that he had!

    • @CaseyMarie11-11
      @CaseyMarie11-11 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +60

      Right! Christine was way out of his league 💯

    • @blakelive2624
      @blakelive2624 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

      he literally had the life many can only dream of! (including the nanny ig)

    • @jamiegonsalves2555
      @jamiegonsalves2555 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She had a visa

    • @ritaserrano216
      @ritaserrano216 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I think au pair system it’s controversial because I had seen fb groups/forums where au pairs over stay their visas, flirt with the parents and neglect the child’s. And they talk about it casually.
      For the people using au pairs seems like cheap labor. Also, even when I might sounds mean, when you are married don’t bring friends to stays for long period of time to your house, this girl was cute, remember the Hollywood stars that husband cheated with their nannies, if men have no values and the nanny, au pair, friend or whatever want your life they will take it!

  • @jay-wp8ii
    @jay-wp8ii 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +91

    it seriously needs to be studied why so many men are comfortable/willing/WANT to commit murder instead of a divorce or even separation 😭😭 like its absolutely horrible how common this kind of story is.

    • @KittyD859
      @KittyD859 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Have you gone through a divorce? 😂 It is absolute hell, especially when there’s things to split up. This isn’t the way to go of course, most people just don’t divorce and stay together.

    • @perkele6969
      @perkele6969 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

      @@KittyD859 imagine even kind-of-defending murder instead of divorce. your reply was really distasteful.

    • @prettygalsaz5075
      @prettygalsaz5075 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@KittyD859have you ever been in a small dirty pissy jail cell? I’m sure it’s absolute HELL 😂😂😩 like huh you sound so ignorant trying to casually defend murder by saying Divorce is just that torturing. Baby I promise it ain’t got SHIT on life in mf prison!!

    • @amber-8019
      @amber-8019 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@KittyD859someone should check your search history

  • @Renatiinha42
    @Renatiinha42 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +164

    I am a Brazilian, and am in the process of becoming an aupair.
    I was terrified to see this news.
    Why does a person leave his country to do harm to another person in another country? I don't understand.

    • @laurenvcouto
      @laurenvcouto 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Essa safada já foi com segundas intenções, não é possível

    • @blakelive2624
      @blakelive2624 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

      i can only imagine she was desperate for the “american dream” and thought this was the only option. also she was possibly a psychopath too

    • @caseyw.6550
      @caseyw.6550 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

      ​@blakelive2624 She was in a vulnerable position, no doubt. Very young in a foreign country and being influenced by a much older, successful, American man. This is no excuse whatsoever, but HE deserves the most blame. That was HIS wife.

    • @beckyortiz9077
      @beckyortiz9077 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

      @@caseyw.6550she is as equally responsible. She is grown and should have known better to have gotten involved with a married man and especially to get involved in the murders!

    • @caseyw.6550
      @caseyw.6550 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      @beckyortiz9077 Well, our legal system certainly disagrees.

  • @brynleehassan3614
    @brynleehassan3614 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +86

    There’s an especially sick aspect of this where Christine must have been so utterly confused and terrified. To imagine being in her situation is pure hell. Not only did her husband murder her but first, a stranger comes into her house, cuts off her clothes, etc. how sick of Brendan and the other to set this up. The torture they put her through and then to just murder a random person as well. This one was especially sick to me.

  • @NoUsername-s9t
    @NoUsername-s9t 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +281

    You should do the Na'Ziyah Harris case. Please it needs more attention!

    • @mimimadrid9420
      @mimimadrid9420 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      yesss! i’d love to see her cover it.

    • @cheyfaith
      @cheyfaith 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +32

      I agree. I think she’s likely waiting for her to be recovered, and for the trial to begin/conclude. There’s just not enough info, or she may not want to spread misinformation.

    • @heathernikki5734
      @heathernikki5734 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Yes please please

    • @ashantaemagee3794
      @ashantaemagee3794 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Yes I’m waiting on that one 💔

    • @LE-zy2od
      @LE-zy2od 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      Its sad that theres always more cases people need to stop killing other people

  • @erica.roseee16
    @erica.roseee16 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +149

    It’s truly so horrible to think about what Joseph and Christine had to endure at the end of their life. It’s unbelievable how selfish and evil people can be to someone they “love” and to a complete stranger.

  • @kathleenoboyle9741
    @kathleenoboyle9741 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +265

    Please follow up on this. Two horrible, disgusting people and two innocent people. Worst is that innocent little girl.

  • @jessicabedingfield3471
    @jessicabedingfield3471 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +54

    I am Brazilian and I was also an Au pair for 2 years. This case makes me sick to my stomach. I hope these two pays for what they have done. My heart goes out to this kid that will have to leave without her mom 😢

  • @danmir17
    @danmir17 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    My sister was murdered by her husband while their 3 yo daughter was present. Even with all the love and care my beautiful niece has had a VERY difficult life. Drugs, ETOH and destructive relationships played a large part in her life. She is now 40 and living her life w/o all the destructive behaviors. She still deals with the pain and depression. So I pray for this sweet 4yo. Hope she is surrounded by loving, open people.

  • @pig3292
    @pig3292 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +124

    Definitely one of the more elaborate murder plots I've ever heard. Catfishing someone into being the fall guy? Insane

  • @cdwoodward
    @cdwoodward 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +73

    Would appreciate coverage on the trial. You do a great job recapping the stories and would do an amazing job with courtroom information. Thank you.

  •  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +89

    My heart breaks seeing the daughter standing in the midst of all this on the body cam footage 💔

  • @niallsno1girl
    @niallsno1girl 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +84

    I heard this story before and yes the family had a pervious Au Pair. They attended her wedding and still kept in close contact with her. Christine posted it on her Instagram. This is lowkey a big factor as to why they hired another Au Pair and why she was trusting of having another enter her house. The information is there.

    • @LuciaVillarreal07
      @LuciaVillarreal07 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

      Yes! Thank you for this. And some people think the old Au Pair "quit" because of some hidden issues with the family (Christine) when it really was because she got married. It's so sad that Christine loved the experience of having an Au Pair so much that she wanted another one and that unfortunately led to her death 💔

  • @iviebelle
    @iviebelle 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +40

    Juliana’s excuse of “she didn’t know he was going to go through with it” makes absolutely no sense, since she TEXTED HIM when Joseph arrived at the house?!
    like if she didn’t want to be apart of it and didn’t think he’d actually do it, she would’ve went to the Zoo

  • @larryhall2009
    @larryhall2009 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +156

    The Nanny looks like the Temu version of Camila Cabello 😂

    • @heathernikki5734
      @heathernikki5734 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

      Lmao I thought she resembled a puffer fish

    • @larryhall2009
      @larryhall2009 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @heathernikki5734 I definitely wouldn't kill my wife for her 😂😂

    • @juliagritzbach
      @juliagritzbach 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@heathernikki5734this 🤣

    • @CaseyMarie11-11
      @CaseyMarie11-11 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

      😂😂😂 definitely a step down from Christine,a couple steps actually 😬

    • @jackselle4607
      @jackselle4607 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      💯 this. He probably thought she was so exotic because she's from Brazil. Such a typical weak man troupe

  • @Bpthg
    @Bpthg 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    I'm Brazilian and I've seen a lot about the case. In this case, the old nanny was so close to the family that when she got married, they were her best men.

  • @GigiRulesTheRoost
    @GigiRulesTheRoost 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +70

    You are so right, Kendall. The child(ren) was not actually loved by the murdering parent in the first place. There is no way you could love your little child(ren) and sentence them to a life of pain and misery by taking away their beloved mother or father. Crazy crap right there.

  • @BreannaLynnVlogs
    @BreannaLynnVlogs 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +102

    I was an Au-Pair in 2018-2019 in Germany and it was the best experience of my life. My host family was amazing and I still keep in touch with them to this day.

    • @LibraInSeattle
      @LibraInSeattle 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Same, I was an au pair in Germany from 1988-1991. I lived in Köln. I went to university during the day while the kids were at school.

    • @Halezyeah
      @Halezyeah 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      My in laws had one from Spain and went to visit her family this year!! It is such a special connection

  • @TrewCrimeTime
    @TrewCrimeTime 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +39

    GET A DIVORCE!! For the love of god, I will never understand these spouses!!

  • @alpal122
    @alpal122 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +81

    Unrelated to the case, but thankyou for calling those who worked in healthcare during the height of the pandemic heroes. Nurses, physicians, assistants, techs, phlebotomists, and other staff all faced the virus head on and now 5 years later it seems to be all forgotten. I still remember the horrible things that happened during it, like moving bodies onto shelves to make room in full morges and seeing families grieve in waiting rooms since they couldn't go onto the room.
    Related to the case: Christine being a NICU RN tells you everything you need to know. A strong, empathetic, and kind woman.
    I sincerely hope those two beautiful souls are at peace.

  • @karengreenberry9010
    @karengreenberry9010 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    I have become invested in this case. Please continue to keep us updated and let us know the verdict. I can never understand how a woman can be in cahoots with a man to kill another woman. If he does it to the mother of his child, how can they feel safe.

  • @taylatrejo51
    @taylatrejo51 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +79

    This case makes me so upset. 😢 Joseph was such a pawn and used his “kink” against him.. they killed an innocent man. Christine was just a mom who thought maybe nothing was going on and she ultimately gets killed too.

    • @aceshigh5157
      @aceshigh5157 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      it's really interesting that joseph felt comfortable and safe to go to some stranger's house without meeting them in a neutral location first. it reminds me a bit of the french woman who was raped by 70+ men and didn't know it. i guess talking on the phone to confirm was something, but it wasn't enough to obtain consent. 2 innocent people are now dead. they didn't even know each other...

    • @taylatrejo51
      @taylatrejo51 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @ yeah I can see that and never thought about it that way.. maybe the phone conversations were very in depth making him feel comfortable and they said he didn’t hid this fact of his life so maybe he’s used to meeting at there house.

  • @kath8440
    @kath8440 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +65

    I think the Au pair is just as culpable as the husband. She obviously wanted Christine’s life enough to usurp it. If Joseph was also still alive when she shot him, she was essentially his killer.

    • @joshlyndavenport443
      @joshlyndavenport443 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Yes, I do believe that’s already been established.. what she was charged and ultimately convicted of.. killing Joseph. She delivered the fatal shot

    • @CaseyMarie11-11
      @CaseyMarie11-11 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      She was convicted? I thought she took a plea deal, under the condition she testify against Brendon?

    • @joshlyndavenport443
      @joshlyndavenport443 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@CaseyMarie11-11 yes if we want to be technical then yes she took a plea for a lesser charge of manslaughter. That really wasnt the point though, ultimately she was found responsible for the victims death which is what I was trying to convey as a response to the original post.

    • @Puppynessaz
      @Puppynessaz 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      The sad thing is shs getting time served so about 2 years in jail only. Bc she’s needed more to proof Brendans guilt and mastermind

    • @Puppynessaz
      @Puppynessaz 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@CaseyMarie11-11 The sad thing is shs getting time served so about 2 years in jail only. Bc she’s needed more to proof Brendans guilt and mastermind

  • @chandlerbond6308
    @chandlerbond6308 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +43

    So sick to my stomach when the officer says to the child to follow the other officers “he has some cool stickers for you”
    I just can’t handle it, it hurts so badly that she just lost her mom, that she has to witness this. Why why why why is the child there.

  • @ilisafonua2798
    @ilisafonua2798 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +93

    Thank you, Kendall, for always being sensitive and respectful about the cases you cover.
    I commented on your previous video asking if you could cover a certain case and someone replied that the case had been done to death and was basically irrelevant at this point. She seemed to think murder is like fashion and certain trends will come and go 🙄 that was a morbid moment. I honestly think that when it comes to true crime some people can forget that these things happened to real people.

    • @joshlyndavenport443
      @joshlyndavenport443 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

      Kendall has a case request form all of her subscribers so that would likely be the best way to go in hopes of having a specific case covered.

    • @ilisafonua2798
      @ilisafonua2798 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@joshlyndavenport443oh okay, that makes sense. Thank you!

    • @shaleecarpenter3536
      @shaleecarpenter3536 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😂 be ea❤ ok

    • @ilisafonua2798
      @ilisafonua2798 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@joshlyndavenport443that makes sense. Thank you!

    • @ilisafonua2798
      @ilisafonua2798 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@shaleecarpenter3536 ???

  • @miriamiuricich6636
    @miriamiuricich6636 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    I agree with you Kendall. If you love your children, as a parent, regardless how you feel about the other parent, you would not commit murder and take that parent away from your children. My heart goes out to the little girl in this case. Such a burden for this innocent, little girl to carry for the rest of her life. I hope she gets the help she needs on her path to healing. Hi from Down Under. 🇦🇺

  • @Sharon-lz8dw
    @Sharon-lz8dw 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +53

    Heartbreaking. Praying for justice for Christine, and Joseph. Hope they get life, and Christine's daughter is able to go on for a good life...sad

  • @briseidar6688
    @briseidar6688 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +151

    the kitty stretch at 15:49 🫶🏻🖤

    • @Supertrooper_00
      @Supertrooper_00 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I just recently started watching this channel, but have watched the Sesh for a while. Do you happen to know which kitty it is?

    • @bethsexton456
      @bethsexton456 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I want to say Lily

  • @rulistening7777
    @rulistening7777 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    Kendall, You are absolutly my favorite personality in true crime. Your calmming, smooth voice, and pleasant demeanor are the reasons that I am stll here after all these years.

  • @carolelangat-fortune4557
    @carolelangat-fortune4557 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +32

    Thank you Kendall, yes, it will be useful to have one session like this either during the court case or after

  • @kalibear1998
    @kalibear1998 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +49

    I could never in my right mind get together with someone who literally MURDERED their wife to be with me because how am I so sure he isn't going to do the same thing to me when someone younger and hotter comes along

  • @mslatif3378
    @mslatif3378 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    I think Brendan believed that being an FBI agent made him untouchable, and that he's more intelligent than anyone. By committing this heinous act, he planned on getting way with it, getting sympathy from friends & family, life insurance payout, and live happily ever after!! Hopefully he will get life in prison, without parole!!

    • @lauramason9250
      @lauramason9250 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      @mslatif3378
      I believe Kendall said he's an IRS Investigative Agent. Still a Fed, but definitely not FBI agent.

  • @inglishbjork794
    @inglishbjork794 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +59

    Pls do Naziyah Harris !! Her case needs for recognition

    • @jessicaDd9692
      @jessicaDd9692 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Fill out her case form in the description if you haven’t already

    • @tyesharichardson8395
      @tyesharichardson8395 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Yes please do Naziyah case! I live in Detroit and I can’t believe what happened, she needs justice

  • @frankcalderon3931
    @frankcalderon3931 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    I live in NOVA and I remember seeing headlines about this on our local news when it happened. I still find it hard to believe why people choose to do things like this and not get a divorce 🙄. RIP to Christine and Joseph, and I hope justice gets brought HARD down on those perps. Thank you for covering this case Kendall

  • @StephanieandJays
    @StephanieandJays 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +40

    What is a divorce? Do people not know about getting a divorce?

    • @user-nm4mn9ow1e
      @user-nm4mn9ow1e 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Americans would rather k1ll eachother apparently

    • @janiner2783
      @janiner2783 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Exactly!
      It's mind boggling that these people are so greedy and dumb that they think they can have it all, which includes bypassing divorce. I'm sure they were expecting to get sympathy, support, and money thrown at them.

    • @Danig1rl
      @Danig1rl 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I'd like to understand the psychology behind this too.

  • @Lucysimmonss
    @Lucysimmonss 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    The pauses before “allegedly” cracking me up , I love these videos so much ❤

  • @Miracle4missing
    @Miracle4missing 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

    WHY just why. Leave her leave them, don’t murder them and leave your child parentless it’s so sickeningly stupid. Such a waste of precious life. Prayers to the little one and the families xx

  • @xoxo.cc1
    @xoxo.cc1 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    The fact that they not only took that little girls mom away from her but also had her in the house during the murder is just beyond despicable. That poor child

  • @nicool4935
    @nicool4935 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    Love that you’ve been vocal on your IG about the chaos that is ensuing on the world. So many people w platforms aren’t saying a word. Thank you, Kendall. We gotta keep talking about it!

  • @kellyblake8925
    @kellyblake8925 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +46

    So sad, I hope Joseph‘s dogs are ok

    • @heathernikki5734
      @heathernikki5734 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Right , that part made me extra extra mad. Many dogs won’t get saved now bc Mr narcissist wanted to get his wang wet by that hamster looking au pair

    • @heathernikki5734
      @heathernikki5734 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      Right, that part made me extra extra angry. Many dogs won’t get saved bc he couldn’t get a divorce!!! And that au pair is so unattractive!!!

    • @heathernikki5734
      @heathernikki5734 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I left two comments bc I thought YT deleted one 😂

  • @CrimeDocumentaryfiles
    @CrimeDocumentaryfiles 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    "This case is absolutely chilling and heart-wrenching. The level of deceit and manipulation involved is beyond comprehension, especially considering the betrayal by someone Christine trusted the most-her own husband. The way Brendan and Juliana allegedly conspired, not just to commit such horrific acts but to also tarnish the victims’ reputations, is truly vile. It's a stark reminder of how greed, lust, and a complete lack of empathy can lead to unimaginable tragedy. My heart breaks for their young daughter, who has to grow up with this nightmare as her reality. Justice can't come soon enough for Christine and Joseph."

  • @lilbfly02
    @lilbfly02 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Please do follow up/trial coverage on this case! ❤

  • @laurenmarie7045
    @laurenmarie7045 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Christine was a nurse at my hospital when this happened. We don’t work on the same floor, but this blew my mind when I heard it. I actually even thought that this sounded like something that would end up being covered by true crime accounts. My heart went/goes out to her and Joseph’s family.

  • @hannabanana592
    @hannabanana592 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    This happened 15 minutes from where I live. Our whole community was shocked.
    Thanks for covering the case!

  • @SandraWade-g1e
    @SandraWade-g1e 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Anyone ever go way back to Kendall’s old TH-cam’s 9-10 years ago???
    SOOOO FRICKEN CUTE!!!
    Watching you mature and grow into your own solid style is precious Kendall…You were such a young innocent tryin to make your way and look at you now.
    Love it❤️🙏❤️

  • @Shelbysanzguerrero
    @Shelbysanzguerrero 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    My husband is a homicide detective in VA and is on an OIS task force and the reason why he doesn’t have to be mirandized for the administrative investigation is because they do two separate investigations, one through the federal government for administrative purposes (whether he’ll be fired and/or receive disciplinary action through work), and the local police do a criminal investigation to see if the shooter was justified in self defense or defense of the home, or if criminal charges need to be pressed. So Miranda wouldn’t be applicable for an administrative investigation, just the criminal one done by local police

  • @bhavayagarg
    @bhavayagarg 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    How can a divorce be scarier than the prospect of murder and life in prison

  • @meyahthebarbie
    @meyahthebarbie 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    The way I turned all the lights off , snuggled in my bed with my dogs and pressed playyyy 🥰

  • @edgarallenhoe4656
    @edgarallenhoe4656 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    she did all that … over that ?? 😭

    • @CaseyMarie11-11
      @CaseyMarie11-11 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Right 🤢 but she honestly isn't mych better 😬 christine was in a completely different League than both of them 💯

  • @amyjustice1702
    @amyjustice1702 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I’m a first time listener. Please continue to cover this case. It’s so crazy and almost no one is covering it. I live a few minutes from this neighborhood, and things like this just don’t happen around here!

  • @lauramorsilli8111
    @lauramorsilli8111 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    That was crazy. Definitely want to have an update video once everything is done.

  • @theladieclair
    @theladieclair 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +31

    Why does an IRS agent need a gun?

  • @peppiholliday4525
    @peppiholliday4525 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Yes, please keep us updated on the trial and what happens. Thank you for covering this as this is the first time that I've heard of it and seems like it's such a devastating issue that I would have heard about it a long time ago, but maybe not. Thank you for bringing this to our attention and I am looking forward to hearing about the conclusion

  • @tigger144144
    @tigger144144 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    This is literally so crazy, they are so sick. Definitely interested in trial coverage.!! very interested to see how this all plays out

  • @Ririkxo
    @Ririkxo 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    Yes please do a trial coverage!

  • @irenedgchannel
    @irenedgchannel 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    I was an au pair and is such a wonderful experience, this type of stories piss me off. Also - she should spend her sentence back in Brazil in my opinion

  • @anawise24
    @anawise24 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    09:40 Yes, the family had a Brazilian Aupair before. They became very close to the Brazilian girl to the point where she got married and Christine was hers bridesmaid. Because of this first good experience, they decided to hire a new Aupair also from Brazil.

  • @DarkSoulMom
    @DarkSoulMom 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I’m shaming this chick just because she is a murderer but I will never understand why men trade a 10 for a 4.1 at best.

  • @Lilmisscostumedrama
    @Lilmisscostumedrama 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    Juliana may only get 10 measly years for killing such a kind soul?!!!! I feel so awful for poor Christine too! She was a nurse, a carinv role, and her POS husband was having affairs and wishing she wasn’t around 😢😢😢

  • @KatieF26
    @KatieF26 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    It really annoys me that in situations like this, the man always gets a tougher sentence than the woman, even though the woman was just as involved.

  • @julia8150-k6f
    @julia8150-k6f 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    This is horrible!!
    I have followed you for years Kendall, but this story is close to home - I was an Au Pair in Fairfax almost ten years ago. Back then, I knew there was some rumours that some au pairs (never knew them directly) had affairs with their host dads, but I could never imagine how someone would want to do something like that. To do that to the family who lets you into their home, or to the kids that you love and take care of. I can’t even grasp that, so how can anyone be okay with breaking up a family and kill somebody?!
    My heart truly goes out to all the victims, to Joseph and Christine, but also the little girl who lost her family 😢❤ I hope justice will come soon!

  • @Vgs183
    @Vgs183 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    “How could a parent do that” is very easy to answer, having kids doesn’t magically make you a good human. Parents don’t have a moral high ground magically.

    • @CaseyMarie11-11
      @CaseyMarie11-11 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      I understand what you're saying, but it takes a pretty awful person to murder their child's other parent.. there's a difference between being a parent and randomly killing someone, and being a parent and murdering your child's other parent. I think that is what Kendall was trying to say..

  • @bettinaamado4296
    @bettinaamado4296 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I do hope you continue to keep us informed on this twisted case. I pray justice will come for Christine and Joe. Very sad for Christine s daughter to grow up knowing her father went to such lengths to kill her mom and smear her character for another woman 😢😠

  • @starryadventure8922
    @starryadventure8922 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    I feel that for that poor girl, she is going to grow up and realize what her father did for an affair. I really hope she's like her mother.

  • @Emrose93
    @Emrose93 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    It never fails to upset me when a parent has a hand in killing another parent ultimately leaving their kids with no one, it’s just awful. I hope justice comes soon.

  • @ravsocials
    @ravsocials 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    This is so heartbreaking. The wife 🥺 if he wanted to cheat do that and leave. Don’t murder!!! what is wrong with people

  • @JUST_COMMENTARY
    @JUST_COMMENTARY 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Definitely would love trial coverage

  • @Flattipatti9
    @Flattipatti9 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m absolutely shocked that I live in the next county over, ruffly 20 minutes away, and I’ve heard nothing about this case until now. I have been watching your videos for years and I love how you bring awareness to these cases. It gets scary when you realize that these things don’t just happen far from you. I have faith in the system here and know that justice will be served. Thank you for shedding light on this!

  • @clivematthews95
    @clivematthews95 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +52

    I hope Juliana is made to admit uncomfortable, embarrassing tmi truths during the trial

    • @CaseyMarie11-11
      @CaseyMarie11-11 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      She's VILE 🤢

    • @caseyw.6550
      @caseyw.6550 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Just nosy??

    • @scarletohhaha6938
      @scarletohhaha6938 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@caseyw.6550No, to humiliate her in the same way she & Brendan wanted to humiliate Christine's family by destroying her reputation.

  • @TimeSkipChapters
    @TimeSkipChapters 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +37

    ⏱️ Timestamps by TimeSkip ⏱️
    00:00:00 - Introduction to True Crime
    00:01:42 - Overview of Today's Case
    00:04:03 - Victims: Christine Banfield & Joseph Ryan
    00:05:00 - Christine's Background and Career
    00:06:52 - Brendan Banfield's Role
    00:09:16 - The Aupair: Juliana Perez
    00:11:35 - Details of the Crime Scene
    00:13:49 - Investigation Begins: Red Flags
    00:15:47 - Brendan's Account of Events
    00:20:01 - Brendan's Confrontation with Joseph
    00:21:15 - Inconsistencies in the Shooting Story
    00:23:37 - Juliana's Body Cam Footage Insights
    00:26:01 - Discovery of Evidence at the Scene
    00:29:10 - Investigation into FetLife Profile
    00:33:22 - Alleged Affair and Murder Plot
    00:36:22 - Juliana's Arrest and Evidence Found
    00:39:32 - Brendan's Communication with Juliana
    00:41:42 - Brendan's Indictment
    00:47:29 - Juliana's Plea Deal
    00:54:31 - Brendan's Charges Explained
    00:57:18 - Final Thoughts on the Case

  • @scrumpyminklemonk
    @scrumpyminklemonk 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +126

    Being an Au pair just feels so dangerous. Exploitation and slavery runs rampant. We need stronger laws to protect them. The same with backpackers.

    • @morgan7183
      @morgan7183 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +38

      Protect the ones who don't have affairs w the husbands sure.....

    • @GraceGreen-x4d
      @GraceGreen-x4d 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

      I was an au pair and had a wonderful experience. I understand the concern and fears but nobody should be discouraged from being an au pair. There are plenty of ways to protect yourself, the biggest one being signing with an agency who does extensive background checks on the families. Do your research and you’ll be fine!

    • @janewilliams6777
      @janewilliams6777 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I never heard of Au pair before this case. But I have heard of a live-in care giver or babysitter.

    • @EvansLuckystar2
      @EvansLuckystar2 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@morgan7183Obviously

    • @cameronquigley6486
      @cameronquigley6486 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Most go through companies that do background checks and have rules set in place for the safety and comfort of the au pair, honestly there’s not much that goes wrong aside from similar situations to this. The only horror stories I’ve ever heard about start with the au pair starting an inappropriate relationship with the husband.

  • @tam2729
    @tam2729 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    it's pretty much impossible to get away with murder these days so why people continue to try rather than just leaving the situation is crazy

  • @AbigailKennedy123
    @AbigailKennedy123 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I am local-ish to this area and I remember when this was first being covered in the news! Absolutely wild.

  • @ajaleedelgado8056
    @ajaleedelgado8056 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love the way you tell the stories , so respectful! Very demure

  • @CaseyMarie11-11
    @CaseyMarie11-11 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    This whole case is wild and I can't believe they believed that Nanny's story for a second. She was a terrible liar 💯

    • @caseyw.6550
      @caseyw.6550 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I'm pretty sure they didn't. You can't arrest someone just because you think they are lying. Lol

    • @CaseyMarie11-11
      @CaseyMarie11-11 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yeah thats what i was saying,im not convinced they were buying it,not even for a second​ @@caseyw.6550. I did word it kinda weird I guess..
      Also super random but my maiden name starts with a W. So for have my life i was also a "CaseyW" lol

  • @ashleylee4297
    @ashleylee4297 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love how much care you take in reporting cases and making sure to not report anything that you can’t verify. Thank you for the love and care you take for each case!

  • @shelbyjarrell3067
    @shelbyjarrell3067 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    I just don’t understand how someone’s brain can go to this. Why wouldn’t their brain go to *divorce*

  • @AngelaNPerez-su9sg
    @AngelaNPerez-su9sg 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love the way you narrate any story , you got me hooked. ❤

  • @JoAnnR-nb8gq
    @JoAnnR-nb8gq 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    I absolutely hate plea deals. They have the evidence … do your job for crying out loud. She deserves prison for a long, long time 😡😡😡

    • @jackselle4607
      @jackselle4607 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      They didn't need a plea deal with all this evidence. It's infuriating

  • @jackievagnone1140
    @jackievagnone1140 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    As someone who went to Quinnipiac my jaw DROPPED I had no idea this case was ongoing… so upsetting.

  • @mollieerobinson
    @mollieerobinson 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Please cover the trial of this case as well!! Love your videos so much! 🩷

  • @amandabeach669
    @amandabeach669 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Kendall I love how you talk about the victims and I am so happy about Higher Hope. You and Josh are so gracious and we can all tell how you are so kind and generous. We really feel how much you care about people.

  • @shirleybartolo59
    @shirleybartolo59 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    What a horrific story 2 innocent people died for 2 murdering creeps 😢

  • @itsamand4
    @itsamand4 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +45

    Kendall, I'm a brazilian who's done three exchange programs in the US (2 Disney College Programs and an internship in L.A. when I was about to graduate medical school) and I'm THRILLED you covered this case! Can't wait 😅❤

    • @save_bandit
      @save_bandit 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      why? are you looking for ideas or something?

    • @heathernikki5734
      @heathernikki5734 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@save_bandit😂😂😂

    • @save_bandit
      @save_bandit 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@Peace_luv_educ888 cause i thought it was funny how she was so THRILLED to have kendall cover this case, as if she's proud of her countrywoman or something 😭😭

    • @sourgirrll
      @sourgirrll 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@save_banditLMFAOOOOO…. relax
      i’m Brazilian too and one thing about us, even when it’s something bad, if it pertains to Brazilian people we all want to watch it and know what’s going on
      she’s probably saying she’s “thrilled” because it’s an American channel covering something about a Brazilian chick. as bad as it is

    • @save_bandit
      @save_bandit 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@sourgirrll i am relaxed. it was literally a joke. don't need the anthropology lesson idrc

  • @milenabianca9787
    @milenabianca9787 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +45

    The Au Pair’s mugshot looks like Sophia Richie. This whole story is so scary because you think you’re safe in your relationship next thing you know your husband is having an affair and killing you for it!! Have these wife killing scumbags ever heard of divorce? Or just running away after going for a carton of milk like the good old days? Why is killing the first thing?

    • @JenAgrippa
      @JenAgrippa 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Because there is no respect for life. The entire life is a sham. If someone can plot to kill their own partner that person is a degenerate.

    • @SheDetective
      @SheDetective 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Research the selfish gene. Unfortunately human nature is selfish.
      That being said Most people are decent human beings & would never cause violence in a situation like this

    • @runawaypacman
      @runawaypacman 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      🤔 I feel like some people who do this don't want there spouse anymore but they don't want there spouse to move on so they end up killing them sadly.😥

    • @SweetCaroline10X
      @SweetCaroline10X 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Right? Just go get milk 😅

    • @jessicaDd9692
      @jessicaDd9692 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sadly it’s bc divorce is expensive and people don’t want to spend the money and lose custody/assets

  • @GigiRulesTheRoost
    @GigiRulesTheRoost 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    Why is the court date so far off in the future and YES we would like updates from you Kendall. Thank you

  • @kristiegillett8752
    @kristiegillett8752 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Would love to have more content after or during the trial . Really hope the little girl is being well taken care of and loved

  • @kayetaye333
    @kayetaye333 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    The absolute disregard for life - from an innocent stranger to his own wife - makes this man very dangerous. hopefully they’ll get him and he’ll rot in prison.