It doesn't take a "real" man to look after their kids cos black women do this everyday. It just takes a decent human being. As a species, we've been taking care of our offspring gor millenia. Black men are just behaving unnaturally and we can all see the end result.
@@tamsinwood2 This is NOT the days of slavery where young Black bucks were put out to stud for ole massa, so he'd never have to buy more slaves when his buck could keep the women pregnant. That is long past. You don't want to be called "BOY?" that's what you'll always be when you don't take care of your babies.
I'll never understand people (particularly men) who are afraid of commitment, but then carelessly procreate an entire new human being in this world. What bigger commitment is there in life than starting a new life? 🤦🏾♂️
I’ll never understand women who lay up and birth children by men who won’t commit (marriage) to them either….It wouldn’t be me, so I guess it isn’t for me to understand. 🤷🏾♀️
@@kamwilliams5541 you can stay childless or try to be financially stable which won't ever happen in a country like Haiti. So do these people just stay childless
He was crying about not be able to afford the child support, but he wasn’t crying when he was kmockin them boots. 🤦🏾♀️ J this was straight up FACTS! 💜
" Didn't I blow your mind didn't I" lmao 😭😭😭 You should pay More!! Great uncle talk tell him he's a 🐕🐕🐕 lmao it should be 2800 😭😭😭😭 I CAN'T BREATH love you man
“Good, good, good she should’ve been done it, good fo her, good for her”…. I ❤it 👏🏾👏🏾 you a GOOD MAN and all the women should appreciate this message 💫🥰
This needs to go viral. I’m so tired of seeing these boys mistreat their children because things didn’t work out with the mother. The child still has needs and if he’s paying $1,800 a month, a judge looked at both of their incomes and did the calculations. He probably had to consider child care too. I pray that more fathers and uncles speak truth just like this to our young men. I especially pray that our ladies be more cautious. Thanks for posting ❤
Quick question and what needs to happen to the woman who make it hard for the father because things didn’t work out? Me personally I think whoever can financially provide for the child should have them all that cause you make a 100 and she make 0 shouldn’t reward the mother with CS it should be the person financially responsible
Ladies who like this keep that same energy when it's time for him to have his visitations ordered by the court. Hand the child over with no complaints and on time with no games.
This was one of your best ones yet! Kudos to you, sir! I don't care what race you are...black white or purple or green! If you want to lay down and make an unexpected baby, then make sure you help that girl take care of it! Don't think you can just play and NOT PAY! Same thing goes for the girl, as well! Whatever happened to using condoms or better yet, try self respect! Think more of yourself! Act as if YOU are important! Ya know? Ya understand?
Maaaan my son's dad always throw that up in my face about me putting him on child support when in actuality the state did it when I needed assistance and couldn't work. I damn near lost my baby and myself cause they said I waited to long and he was no longer in water that both our heart rates were dropping so fast they had to do an emergency cesarean section all praises be to God cause my baby boy is now 6 and he is something else and keeps me laughing lil funny self
So sad but this is the reality. For a lot of young need to understand that once they bring a child in the world, they must man up and take responsibility. JOne8 you hit this topic right point!!!
😂😂😂 Funny, but Factual!!! Unc said it best..... Good Good ! She should've been done it! "Good for her took me out. I laughed so hard before he could say. She should get more. 😂😂😂
The the truth hurt don't it. And that's the way it go. Your children are blessings bruh I got three girls. They grown and love their Pops l. I still help them whenever they need it. Forever my babies.
My oldest nephew is in a similar situation. But the baby mama don't have the courage to take him to court and request alimony. He ain't worth nothing, but still barely makes enough to support even himself.
Wait did he say give me her number so I can send her a teddybear and balloons. I'm weakkkkkkkk! Bravo 👏 for preaching the truth bro amen 🙏 on it! Amen on it! Most love making them but hate taking care of them!
For 3 children I received $260/Month. It started back in 2000-2019. I would save up the child support money and use it for Birthdays, Christmas and School Uniforms and Supplies.
Great video. I wish more men were this way specially my kids father. He won't work so he don't pay. It sad. He is the one missing out on these amazing kids.
Great advice for all young men. Women don't put out so easy, either. A roll in the hay doesn't guarantee you have a good man, or a man that wants anything serious.
I am a woman and we are responsible for protecting ourselves it's not the man's fault. Even when the dude don't care. I am not blaming the man only it takes two to tango and it's his as well as hers half and half
Very true. If a man is pushing not to wear condoms and she either feels pressured into it, doesn't want to say no anyway, or has no birth control, then that is her loss too. It takes 2 to make a baby for sure. Unfortunately, a lot of these men feel like women do it on purpose. They are right. Some women do. However, what about the ones that honestly need the help and the man is sending them through the ringer? Those are the ones that need to put on lockdown for sure. But a good man won't need to be put on child support because whether he and the mother work out or not, he'll be there for his kids. She won't have to ask for money because he's doing his part. Not that the money is the most important aspect of the relationship anyway. It's the time.
You just contradicted yourself first you said it's not the mans fault then you said it's both the man and womans fault?!?!? You are right it's both the woman and man's fault. So if a woman ends up pregnant...does that make it right for a man to not take responsibility for his "accident" both physically and financially?
1. DNA test 2. Put yourself on C.S. The court sees your efforts as a gift. Get it court ordered and pay It. 3. See your kids regularly. Not when you can. Share custody and responsibility. My husband and I taught my son and daughter these lessons.
This video is so refreshing. I get too many videos or comments of dues jokingly saying how they're going to abandon the chick when they find out she's pregnant. It's good to see a man who's willing to take responsibility and take care of his kids you didn't work out with the mother. Now I know there are some snake women out there but in a general principle of taking responsibility for your child is a must. Evil women is another conversation (I hate those type of women).
“It should’ve been $2,800!!” 💀😂😂😂😂
Checkmate 👍👍😊
REAL FACTS by a REAL ONE 💪🏿💯
Why stop at 2800? 🤭😏
😂😂😂😂😂
COLD BLOODED 🥶 🧊
This man speaks three things, English, clearly, and facts 💯
What's the third thing he speaks? Clear English, facts, and?
@@GodofLovers Clear and English are two things.
He speaks truth
truth😂
@@AlienSix I know. Justbthe way I read it, sounded like h was saying he speaks English, clearly. Also, you play DDR?
Uncles who look after their families like their own deserves praises 👏
I'm 38 and I never had to do any moral talks with younger people.. I guess I should count myself fortunate
Amen
Amen
Uncle Phil's spirit lives on. R.I.P. BIG GUY!
This skit is actually a PSA ✊🏾
🫵🏾You said it 💯
We need more child support skits 🤣🤣🤣
No doubt, I was laughin at first then I started cheering for Unc!
It takes a real man to take care of his responsibility. Handle your business Nephew.
It doesn't take a "real" man to look after their kids cos black women do this everyday. It just takes a decent human being. As a species, we've been taking care of our offspring gor millenia. Black men are just behaving unnaturally and we can all see the end result.
@@tamsinwood2 sadly the truth.
@@tamsinwood2 Truth. Decent is real.
I miss watching judge Joe brown how he talks to the men children how to treat women to get off their pitty.selves and do right..
@@tamsinwood2 This is NOT the days of slavery where young Black bucks were put out to stud for ole massa, so he'd never have to buy more slaves when his buck could keep the women pregnant. That is long past. You don't want to be called "BOY?" that's what you'll always be when you don't take care of your babies.
As soon as he said "GOOD!", I fell out!😂
"Something in your line makes you a dog" ....LOL!
Now, from which side of the family line??? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
We deserve to know that too... 😂
Something ain't right with in your head 🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣Unc ain't got no sympathy for nephew 🤣🤣🤣
The uncle singing is everything! LMAO
The Delfonics Didn't I Blow Your Mind
I'll never understand people (particularly men) who are afraid of commitment, but then carelessly procreate an entire new human being in this world.
What bigger commitment is there in life than starting a new life? 🤦🏾♂️
If you were in a poor country , you wouldn't say that.
I’ll never understand women who lay up and birth children by men who won’t commit (marriage) to them either….It wouldn’t be me, so I guess it isn’t for me to understand. 🤷🏾♀️
@@hallalwayah When I was born, my parents were homeless. Hood life is pretty poor. Daddy still stuck around. 🤷🏾♂️
@@kamwilliams5541 As I like to say, it takes two to be that stupid.
@@kamwilliams5541 you can stay childless or try to be financially stable which won't ever happen in a country like Haiti. So do these people just stay childless
I can only assume that this is a different nephew…not Beverly’s boyfriend. Goodness, these nephews😆😆!
Forgot about Bev for a second 😂😂😂Hope she’s doing well !!! 😂😂😂
Yeah I was wondering since she had mentioned that he may not have been the dad LOL
Can't be Beverly because she doesn't talk!😂😂😂 Gotta be another one 😳 He's going to get these boys right because him and Bae don't play!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@@Blondeazy My goodness another one in the mix… This will be surely (Shirley) entertaining 🍿cant wait to hear more ..
😆 🤣 😂
"Its gone catch up to you one day" it ALWAYS does!!
Uncle said it should have been $2800.00 🤣🤣🤣
The additional 1,000 is a definite checkmate 😊😊😊😊😊😊
Fr tho the same ones complaining about child support REFUSE to buy condoms and insist on going in raw like make it make financial sense 🤦🏾♀️
Looks like nephew learned his lesson the hard way. Child support and a chastising! 😳
Unc's right! You wanna sleep around but then you say you can't afford it? 🤑 What were you thinking???
Good talk uncle!😂
Exactly, you wanna sleep around, not thinking you can get someone pregnant. You entertain us and send good messages at the same time.
Yet these idiot females would allow a dude to still hit raw & have they baby & know they ain’t shit
It’s not just the possibility of pregnancy… it’s the total abuse of women.
Uncle speaking nothing but truth!
🎶Didn’t I blow Ya mind This Time, didn’t I 🎶 😂😂😂😂😂
I hope this type of “life wisdom” skit becomes a series. Excellent!
Uncle J kicking his nephew hard while he's down. Tough love ain't no joke. 😆
Can we talk about how clean that mirror is 😂😂😂
There' somethin' in yo mind that makes you a dog!!!
That line is GOLDEN!!!
Yes, good for her...she deserves it! Uncle, please call and congratulate her, and send a teddy bear!💰 🧸
More singing...please! 🎶🎵😉👍
Lawd, this is the Nick Cannon of nephews. Beverly is still pregnant. 🤣
😂😂😂
LMAO Beverly wilding
He was crying about not be able to afford the child support, but he wasn’t crying when he was kmockin them boots. 🤦🏾♀️
J this was straight up FACTS! 💜
Unc is a beast!!! We'd make good friends 😂
" Didn't I blow your mind didn't I" lmao 😭😭😭 You should pay More!! Great uncle talk tell him he's a 🐕🐕🐕 lmao it should be 2800 😭😭😭😭 I CAN'T BREATH love you man
Yep responsibility is a hell of a wake up call..
I love how he always gets the nephew or the son to repeat themselves whenever they first tell him the bad news
This ain't nothing but the TRUTH! Let the church say amen!
Amen!
“Good, good, good she should’ve been done it, good fo her, good for her”…. I ❤it 👏🏾👏🏾 you a GOOD MAN and all the women should appreciate this message 💫🥰
Nephew said "I can't even afford it". I bet he had money to afford Trojans at the time, but he didn't.
This needs to go viral. I’m so tired of seeing these boys mistreat their children because things didn’t work out with the mother. The child still has needs and if he’s paying $1,800 a month, a judge looked at both of their incomes and did the calculations. He probably had to consider child care too. I pray that more fathers and uncles speak truth just like this to our young men. I especially pray that our ladies be more cautious. Thanks for posting ❤
Quick question and what needs to happen to the woman who make it hard for the father because things didn’t work out? Me personally I think whoever can financially provide for the child should have them all that cause you make a 100 and she make 0 shouldn’t reward the mother with CS it should be the person financially responsible
Ladies who like this keep that same energy when it's time for him to have his visitations ordered by the court. Hand the child over with no complaints and on time with no games.
My brother never complains about paying child support.... Because he got it ijs
Facts
@@devantewinston4865 preach
“It should’ve been more” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love all your content!! singing the delfonics 😉
👍👍
I was waiting for the high note 😃
This was one of your best ones yet! Kudos to you, sir! I don't care what race you are...black white or purple or green! If you want to lay down and make an unexpected baby, then make sure you help that girl take care of it! Don't think you can just play and NOT PAY! Same thing goes for the girl, as well! Whatever happened to using condoms or better yet, try self respect! Think more of yourself! Act as if YOU are important! Ya know? Ya understand?
"Try self respect!" 👍
Maaaan my son's dad always throw that up in my face about me putting him on child support when in actuality the state did it when I needed assistance and couldn't work. I damn near lost my baby and myself cause they said I waited to long and he was no longer in water that both our heart rates were dropping so fast they had to do an emergency cesarean section all praises be to God cause my baby boy is now 6 and he is something else and keeps me laughing lil funny self
I'ma call her and tell her it Should've been more. A REAL TRUE MAN🔥
🤣🤣🤣 Send her a teddy bear or some balloons 💀💀💀
That’s right Unc!!!! Make him stand up!!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Checkmate!!😂😂😂😂So true!!
"Didn't I blow ya mind this time🎶🎶...Didn't I???"🎵🎙🎤.....Sang Unc😂😂
Oh man this is so good! Focus on the child!!!
So sad but this is the reality. For a lot of young need to understand that once they bring a child in the world, they must man up and take responsibility. JOne8 you hit this topic right point!!!
PRRREEEEAAAACCCHHHH this good word in here tuh-day pastor J! I'm here for it!
I just love how he just called him out as a mess up!!
😁 $1800 month ... The judge went stupid - raw dawg, no Vaseline. 👮🏿
Forreal tho lol straight raw ahhh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@Mark-3819 $21.5K a year (x) 18yrs = $400K ... ... That's a whole retirement plan. 😆😆😆 "Ls"
😂😂😂 Funny, but Factual!!! Unc said it best..... Good Good ! She should've been done it! "Good for her took me out. I laughed so hard before he could say. She should get more. 😂😂😂
😄😄😄 Cold hard FACTS!!!
NOW YOU SAID IT ALL!!! Definitely CORRECT!!! GLAD SOMEBODY SAID IT RIGHT 🙏🏽💯
The the truth hurt don't it. And that's the way it go. Your children are blessings bruh I got three girls. They grown and love their Pops l. I still help them whenever they need it. Forever my babies.
Speak on it brother.
I know they heard you in the back row, because it got real quiet. 🤣
That’s real talk though YALL dudes lay up get her pregnant and you back out from your responsibilities smh
My oldest nephew is in a similar situation. But the baby mama don't have the courage to take him to court and request alimony. He ain't worth nothing, but still barely makes enough to support even himself.
and that baby deserves to have time with his dad...baby deserved parents who were committed to eachother and the little one...
Sing it son! 🎶
Loving the singing voice. You need your own variety show. Comedy, singing. I'd watch. 💛
Wish I had an uncle like you.
Nephew going to learn today unk 🤣🤣😂
See, you're a mess up! Checkmate 🤣🤣🤑
PREACH!!!! 🤣🤣🤣
Pay up bruuu😂😂😂😂
Yes, send her balloons and teddy bear 😃
"A little old school, If you dance to the music 🎶, you pay to the piper!"😡
A true OG aka Uncle… 💯
Respect tht.. love uncle
Great advice!!❤ Too many women caring for their kids without help from the fathers.
Wait did he say give me her number so I can send her a teddybear and balloons. I'm weakkkkkkkk!
Bravo 👏 for preaching the truth bro amen 🙏 on it! Amen on it! Most love making them but hate taking care of them!
For 3 children I received $260/Month. It started back in 2000-2019. I would save up the child support money and use it for Birthdays, Christmas and School Uniforms and Supplies.
The culmination of the Unc and Neph saga.. BEST ANIME OF 2023!!!
I love this Man!! So honest, tell these young people how life truly is!!!
I love that little "diddy" at the beginning of the skit, "Didn't I blow your mind this time, didn't I?"
That was the jam back in the day.
WAO,HE IS NO JOKE OF A UNCLE MAN ,HE REAL MAN !!!! ☺️
Didn’t I blow Ur Mind This Time 😂😂😂 & A Teddy Bear 🧸 😂😂😂!!!!💙💙💙THIS!!😂😂😂
A teddy bear or balloons .... funny funny funny🎈
Keep em coming! U r hilariously gifted and blessed!!!!
You don't get PUT on child support. You put YOURSELF on child support.
He said he gone call her so she can get more 🤣🤣🤣🤣
He in their dancing lol 😆
That's why I never believed in having kids before marriage lol
Great video. I wish more men were this way specially my kids father. He won't work so he don't pay. It sad. He is the one missing out on these amazing kids.
I guess you blew his mind this time 🎤🎶💃🏾🕺🏾
What a great uncle! Lol
👏🏼🙌🏼👏🏼The new spokesman! ❤ your singing… at the beginning.. beautiful voice!
Good, clean comedy! I love it ❤
This man is the truth
"You gon B raking....and scraping...but it ain't t gon b enough" the accuracy...
😂😂😂😂😂check mate😂😂😂😂 very nice lesson!👏👏👏
Wow! I wished all men thought like this. Your wife is so lucky to have you.
Great advice for all young men. Women don't put out so easy, either. A roll in the hay doesn't guarantee you have a good man, or a man that wants anything serious.
I am a woman and we are responsible for protecting ourselves it's not the man's fault. Even when the dude don't care. I am not blaming the man only it takes two to tango and it's his as well as hers half and half
Very true. If a man is pushing not to wear condoms and she either feels pressured into it, doesn't want to say no anyway, or has no birth control, then that is her loss too. It takes 2 to make a baby for sure. Unfortunately, a lot of these men feel like women do it on purpose. They are right. Some women do. However, what about the ones that honestly need the help and the man is sending them through the ringer? Those are the ones that need to put on lockdown for sure. But a good man won't need to be put on child support because whether he and the mother work out or not, he'll be there for his kids. She won't have to ask for money because he's doing his part. Not that the money is the most important aspect of the relationship anyway. It's the time.
You just contradicted yourself first you said it's not the mans fault then you said it's both the man and womans fault?!?!? You are right it's both the woman and man's fault. So if a woman ends up pregnant...does that make it right for a man to not take responsibility for his "accident" both physically and financially?
Tell the truth, Uncle J!👏🏾
1. DNA test
2. Put yourself on C.S. The court sees your efforts as a gift. Get it court ordered and pay It.
3. See your kids regularly. Not when you can. Share custody and responsibility.
My husband and I taught my son and daughter these lessons.
NUFF SAID! 💥💥💥
This video is so refreshing. I get too many videos or comments of dues jokingly saying how they're going to abandon the chick when they find out she's pregnant. It's good to see a man who's willing to take responsibility and take care of his kids you didn't work out with the mother.
Now I know there are some snake women out there but in a general principle of taking responsibility for your child is a must. Evil women is another conversation (I hate those type of women).
HUHN!..CHECKMATE! ✅️ 🙌🏽😹😹😹
That sure is a clean mirror. He cleaned it the whole time he was talking. Lol
I was also wondering how large is the mirror? He was just steady wiping it. Lol
😂🤣😂🤣 CHECK MATE😝😝😝mannnn I can't even watch the whole VIDEO all the way through for 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣l love this dude 🤣😂🤣