I was a single mom with my daughter cause I ended up leaving my abusive husband for her safety and mine. Now I have a supportive fiance who cares about both of us and takes care of us.
My son is due in 4 weeks & my baby’s father left me & is making me move out & go back with my parents. He left me twice throughout this journey… This gave me peace & definitely gave me inspiration. Thank you ❤ you’re a wonderful mom❤ Praying 4 all the moms out there, we got this 😊
I’m so happy I ran across your channel. My whole life has been changed after finding out I was pregnant with my son. While I am very excited I find it deeply comforting to see another single mom doing it too. Keep up the good work.
It'll be okay ladies, the father may not be here but please know that no matter what you believe GOD is here and he is our ultimate father and your newborn babies too, and he has a soft spot for babies whose mother or father are not there so know you're not alone and that he is always with you and your baby. Good job and God bless
I’m due in October with my first ..I’ll be having a baby girl … your video is very comforting on so many levels you are such a beautiful spirit inside and out thank you for your strength support & for blessing me with the most beautiful smile please never lose it …sending love and light from my little family to yours❤
First time momma here, I'm very nervous to be a mom, I'm alone thru this with family support. Im nervous but you give ne hope boo. Love this video. Great job beautiful mama
My ex left me while I was 7 months pregnant, pretending that it was not his baby ….. worst part is that we wanted this kid together 😒 but yeah now I am fine alone with my 3 months old son❤️ (i am 22 btw)
Trust me you’re better off. Imagine coparenting with someone who was toxic. I almost wish my unborn son’s father didn’t want to know his child. That way we could just fully move on and be at peace without having to endure his highly poisonous behavior.
I am a single mom of a 6 week old with no help from family. I got lucky and got a live in nanny job where I watch 2 other girls; 5yrs old and 1yr old. I love my daughter so much and am so happy to care for her, but it is hard and I find myself resenting her absent father so much. He was very cruel to me throughout my pregnancy and continues to deny it, which is so invalidating. I finally got him out of my life, but unfortunately, he is not out of my head. I can't seem to let go of the resentment I feel for him and I hate giving him that power. Do you have this same issue at all?
My husband is deployed and I was getting upset watching the other moms routines since they all had their partners to take shifts and relieve them. It’s nice to hear that other moms have rough days. Yesterday my baby wouldn’t stop crying unless I held him. I had to let him cry to go pee. I didn’t eat all day. Single momming is not for the weak! 😅
I am currently pregnant, but I am going to be in the same boat as you. My husband is also deployed and won't be here for the baby's first six months of life. You're not alone momma! Lots of Mil wives out there with you.
I was impregnated against my wishes. He was an emotional abusive narcissist who tried to trap me in a relationship I was ready to get out of. I know I can do all I need to do for my baby on my own, but i do feel outcasted from the majority of moms who do have that support from the father, physically, emotionally and financially. Im glad i came across this video because the majority of mom videos i see on TH-cam are videos i just can't relate to because they have their partners. Not trying to make that sound bitter at all but it's nice to see a video I can realy learn from. I'm 34 weeks pregnant. Wish me luck and i wish all of you single mothers luck as well.
I’m in the same situation, he tried to trap me after only dating for 2 months!! Very toxic narcissist! I’m 6 months pregnant & finally kicked him to the curb! We can do this! We don’t need these toxic men.
Making the bed/cleaning up as quietly as possible, not getting yourself dressed and ready before noon, forgetting to eat breakfast/lunch, getting groceries and a moment to breathe while sis babysits, just overal planning your day between naps and feedings.. yep, very familiar. Dreading going back to work in a month..
I'm so happy to find inspiring women ☺️. I just found out that I'm expecting and I feel so lonely because I am doing this all by myself but I know I'll get through safely❤
Is single moms can get any financial support from government, most of single moms are not able to work if they don’t have a help from parents or somebody
This is exacly my day! And I'm so glad I watched this! Just to know this is all completely normal! Its exhausting, amazing... but exhausting! Lol. Well done!❤👏
Thanks for the video! I'm 32 weeks and have minor varicose veins like you did. Do you find that postpartum it went away? My doctor said it will take about 2 weeks, did you find that to be the case for you?
Kristen Adams it definitely goes away! I know how uncomfortable you may be feeling & thinking it won’t ever go away. But they almost instantly went away after having her!
My partner hasn't been interested in my pregnancy. I'm currently 34 weeks pregnant and have been going to my appointments by myself. I will be having a c-section at 37 weeks because I was diagnosed with placenta previa. I made it this far by myself with him not being there, and I plan to continue on this amazing journey on my own. Thank you for inspiring me.
@Kennedy-yy7qo Yes, I had my little boy at 36 weeks. 3 days before my schedule c-section. I went in early because I had pre-eclampsia, and I started to have contractions.
Hi so this is my first video of yours and if you dont mind sharing, would you please tell me what bassinet and nursing pillow you are using. I am pregnant with my first angel and I think I am going to be a single mom as well. Thank you for sharing your day with us!!
Just found your channel and you are so real and I love it! I’m 38w4d and I’m glad there’s someone out there that is ahead of me that I can look up to as a single mom! Def subscribed. I hope you do a postpartum video or maybe even a breast feeding video eventually! Just a thought :) keep up the good work!
Thanks for this. I've struggled with dating and haven't found "the one", but I'm running out of time to have a child. I'm doing research before committing, but I will most likely make the choice to become a single mother through an anonymous donor. I wish I had more time to meet a lifelong partner, but my biological clock is counting down.
@@winning3329 I don't want to skip infancy. There's serious bonding during that time. Besides that, I don't want to be a senior citizen when my kid is in high school, so adoption doesn't make any more sense than having my own child.
I'm preparing to be a single mother by choice as well. I am ace so a partner is not really what I want because it's hard to find someone who is tolerable of never wanting a sexual relationship and I am almost 30 so I'm getting an iui treatment this coming month to hopefully get pregnant by the new year.
lol I give birth in 11 days. Let me go to bed so I can prepare. Not that I get much rest now anyways 😩 it continues. How long did it take for you to get her on a schedule?
I feel like the baby here. I have a wonderful supportive husband and I'm still terrified of all this. I'll have my first in 2 months. He got a job in another state and we will move probably sometime next month. I won't have family around to help me and it will be an hour commute for him. Even though it's a hybrid job (3 days in office a week) I'm still terrified of the responsibility and being alone. I've also had a history of anxiety and panic attacks :( all the life change at once is overwhelming to say the least. I work from home and he's worked from home since the pandemic. So being alone for 10 hours a day without help with a newborn is intimidating. Also, he won't get paternity leave because he would have just started work. I don't want him to be up with the baby the nights before he has to commute so the days he goes in, i'll be the one up all night with her. These types of videos help. I think the love for the baby makes you strong and I love the ending how you describe being selfless but how rewarding it is. I'm only focusing on the bad because I haven't met her yet and all the love and bonding hasn't happened yet. I also appreciate how you say it gets easier. Thank you
I was a single mom with my daughter cause I ended up leaving my abusive husband for her safety and mine. Now I have a supportive fiance who cares about both of us and takes care of us.
so happy for you and your family 🤍
Wow that’s cool 😎
My son is due in 4 weeks & my baby’s father left me & is making me move out & go back with my parents. He left me twice throughout this journey… This gave me peace & definitely gave me inspiration. Thank you ❤ you’re a wonderful mom❤
Praying 4 all the moms out there, we got this 😊
My partner ghosted me when I told him I was pregnant so I’m getting ready to do this alone as well. Thanks for the inspiration, mama 💕
same here, wishing you the best mama💟
Same here hun.. we got this
My partner thought I would take care of him financially because I’m “trapped” with his baby. We got this girl!
My baby daddy ghosted me also but I made sure to put him on child support because babies are expensive.
same we got this
I’m SOBBING. The ending killed me. I’m pregnant and I’m going to be doing it alone. I’m terrified but so thankful for this.
Hope you’re doing well. Isn’t it hard? Just the pregnancy alone is hard. I could have never done that alone.
I hope you are doing ok, sweetheart. 💕
The lord is your strength if you need anyone to talk to I’m here for you
My fiancé left me with a 4 week old, I need this haha just need to know I can do this, I’m not a natural but glad I’m not the only one doing it alone
I hope you are doing ok, sweetheart. 🤗
Dame… I hope your not damage goods
@@ayuanabradford3206 You should read the viral article by psychology today " the rise of single lonely men " and get a clue.
I’m so happy I ran across your channel. My whole life has been changed after finding out I was pregnant with my son. While I am very excited I find it deeply comforting to see another single mom doing it too. Keep up the good work.
It'll be okay ladies, the father may not be here but please know that no matter what you believe GOD is here and he is our ultimate father and your newborn babies too, and he has a soft spot for babies whose mother or father are not there so know you're not alone and that he is always with you and your baby. Good job and God bless
I’m due in October with my first ..I’ll be having a baby girl … your video is very comforting on so many levels you are such a beautiful spirit inside and out thank you for your strength support & for blessing me with the most beautiful smile please never lose it …sending love and light from my little family to yours❤
First time momma here, I'm very nervous to be a mom, I'm alone thru this with family support. Im nervous but you give ne hope boo. Love this video. Great job beautiful mama
My ex left me while I was 7 months pregnant, pretending that it was not his baby ….. worst part is that we wanted this kid together 😒 but yeah now I am fine alone with my 3 months old son❤️ (i am 22 btw)
Trust me you’re better off. Imagine coparenting with someone who was toxic. I almost wish my unborn son’s father didn’t want to know his child. That way we could just fully move on and be at peace without having to endure his highly poisonous behavior.
I am a single mom of a 6 week old with no help from family. I got lucky and got a live in nanny job where I watch 2 other girls; 5yrs old and 1yr old. I love my daughter so much and am so happy to care for her, but it is hard and I find myself resenting her absent father so much. He was very cruel to me throughout my pregnancy and continues to deny it, which is so invalidating. I finally got him out of my life, but unfortunately, he is not out of my head. I can't seem to let go of the resentment I feel for him and I hate giving him that power. Do you have this same issue at all?
My husband is deployed and I was getting upset watching the other moms routines since they all had their partners to take shifts and relieve them. It’s nice to hear that other moms have rough days. Yesterday my baby wouldn’t stop crying unless I held him. I had to let him cry to go pee. I didn’t eat all day. Single momming is not for the weak! 😅
I am currently pregnant, but I am going to be in the same boat as you. My husband is also deployed and won't be here for the baby's first six months of life. You're not alone momma! Lots of Mil wives out there with you.
That universal mum freeze when the baby stirs in their sleep 😂😂😂
I was impregnated against my wishes. He was an emotional abusive narcissist who tried to trap me in a relationship I was ready to get out of. I know I can do all I need to do for my baby on my own, but i do feel outcasted from the majority of moms who do have that support from the father, physically, emotionally and financially. Im glad i came across this video because the majority of mom videos i see on TH-cam are videos i just can't relate to because they have their partners. Not trying to make that sound bitter at all but it's nice to see a video I can realy learn from. I'm 34 weeks pregnant. Wish me luck and i wish all of you single mothers luck as well.
I’m in the same situation, he tried to trap me after only dating for 2 months!! Very toxic narcissist! I’m 6 months pregnant & finally kicked him to the curb! We can do this! We don’t need these toxic men.
@@JessicaOceanLover Yes! We got this. So nice to see I'm not alone. 🤗
Hope you are doing well. Just checking in ❤
Making the bed/cleaning up as quietly as possible, not getting yourself dressed and ready before noon, forgetting to eat breakfast/lunch, getting groceries and a moment to breathe while sis babysits, just overal planning your day between naps and feedings.. yep, very familiar. Dreading going back to work in a month..
I'm so happy to find inspiring women ☺️. I just found out that I'm expecting and I feel so lonely because I am doing this all by myself but I know I'll get through safely❤
Love this as I am due any day now and preparing to do this alone
you got this momma! I believe in you!! 💞
I was married when I had my kids and didn't have help at night. I hardly had help when he was home from work during the day! Divorced now, but doable.
Amazing and so inspiring ❤❤❤❤
Is single moms can get any financial support from government, most of single moms are not able to work if they don’t have a help from parents or somebody
Thankyou, this video was so helpful! You are doing an amazing job :)
This is exacly my day! And I'm so glad I watched this! Just to know this is all completely normal! Its exhausting, amazing... but exhausting! Lol. Well done!❤👏
pregnant and going to be doing it alone. hopefully i can stay strong and give me and baby some stability.
Did this on my own 2 times.
Thanks for the video! I'm 32 weeks and have minor varicose veins like you did. Do you find that postpartum it went away? My doctor said it will take about 2 weeks, did you find that to be the case for you?
Kristen Adams it definitely goes away! I know how uncomfortable you may be feeling & thinking it won’t ever go away. But they almost instantly went away after having her!
My partner hasn't been interested in my pregnancy. I'm currently 34 weeks pregnant and have been going to my appointments by myself. I will be having a c-section at 37 weeks because I was diagnosed with placenta previa. I made it this far by myself with him not being there, and I plan to continue on this amazing journey on my own. Thank you for inspiring me.
Is your baby girl or boy born yet
@Kennedy-yy7qo Yes, I had my little boy at 36 weeks. 3 days before my schedule c-section. I went in early because I had pre-eclampsia, and I started to have contractions.
Thank you for this, you're helping so many people
Did you do the Baby momma dance when you were pageant
Hi so this is my first video of yours and if you dont mind sharing, would you please tell me what bassinet and nursing pillow you are using. I am pregnant with my first angel and I think I am going to be a single mom as well. Thank you for sharing your day with us!!
I love watching your videos! I think youre awesome, I’m 34 weeks preggo with a lil boy.. hope you post more soon😋
Just found your channel and you are so real and I love it! I’m 38w4d and I’m glad there’s someone out there that is ahead of me that I can look up to as a single mom! Def subscribed. I hope you do a postpartum video or maybe even a breast feeding video eventually! Just a thought :) keep up the good work!
your doing good mama💜
i absolutely love that coffee mug!
I’m.a single mom of two I totally understand.
Thanks for this. I've struggled with dating and haven't found "the one", but I'm running out of time to have a child. I'm doing research before committing, but I will most likely make the choice to become a single mother through an anonymous donor. I wish I had more time to meet a lifelong partner, but my biological clock is counting down.
You are always adopt?
Lots of great children and the option of skipping infancy.
@@winning3329 I don't want to skip infancy. There's serious bonding during that time. Besides that, I don't want to be a senior citizen when my kid is in high school, so adoption doesn't make any more sense than having my own child.
I'm preparing to be a single mother by choice as well. I am ace so a partner is not really what I want because it's hard to find someone who is tolerable of never wanting a sexual relationship and I am almost 30 so I'm getting an iui treatment this coming month to hopefully get pregnant by the new year.
@@RemyKaiRoseCosplay good luck on your journey!
@@heathern4052 thank you!
I just found that I m pregnant and I want to keep the baby. My boyfriend left me and I m super scared. Any advice?
The ending 😭..I needed to hear that
lol I give birth in 11 days. Let me go to bed so I can prepare. Not that I get much rest now anyways 😩 it continues. How long did it take for you to get her on a schedule?
You are so beautiful! ❤️
Would love more vlogs
U are so pretty
You are soo beautiful. Can you make him her/him a good human being.
You have beautiful tattoo you have beautiful eyes I love it
A shoe rack in baby's room,😭😭😭
I feel like the baby here. I have a wonderful supportive husband and I'm still terrified of all this. I'll have my first in 2 months. He got a job in another state and we will move probably sometime next month. I won't have family around to help me and it will be an hour commute for him. Even though it's a hybrid job (3 days in office a week) I'm still terrified of the responsibility and being alone. I've also had a history of anxiety and panic attacks :( all the life change at once is overwhelming to say the least. I work from home and he's worked from home since the pandemic. So being alone for 10 hours a day without help with a newborn is intimidating. Also, he won't get paternity leave because he would have just started work. I don't want him to be up with the baby the nights before he has to commute so the days he goes in, i'll be the one up all night with her. These types of videos help. I think the love for the baby makes you strong and I love the ending how you describe being selfless but how rewarding it is. I'm only focusing on the bad because I haven't met her yet and all the love and bonding hasn't happened yet. I also appreciate how you say it gets easier. Thank you
Did you give birth barefooted or socks in the hospital bed momma
I just found that I m pregnant and I want to keep the baby. My boyfriend left me and I m super scared. Any advice?