Simone Biles, The Pick Me | @Jouelzy
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Have you seent the ReesamTeesa tiktoks? GWOOORRLLLLL Her husband was a pathological liar and she made a 50 part series and its better than Zola
"locker room talk is never kind to women" YEP THAT’S IT!
And barber shop talk too
That one hit me too!
HARRIYANNAAAAAAAA OMG
First off, that's not true! Secondly, is no worse than what females say outside the locker room all of the time. At least we've mostly kept it in the locker room....
@@robertwright4220 'females'... yes it is worse. It's misogyny within a society that is itself misogynistic. A society that is relentlessly abusive to women in which women are killed every day. You cannot keep locker room talk in the locker room - you influence younger men, you carry it with you in your attitude towards and treatment of women. Only men think they can compartmentalise their prejudice.
That boy was weaned on manosphere podcasts. The dog whistles were all there.
Exactly. I wish more black women got better dating advice and got to see more healthy relationships around them because, they may not think they are, but many are repeating the mistakes of older generations of women.
You called it 100%!!! Sad that Simone doesn't have more self-love to be able recognize how disgusting and problematic her man is....
And there's NOTHING wrong with that! We're not in the habit of bashing females without cause. You all just don't like men having standards.
@@robertwright4220 Those podcasts should have encouraged you to have standards for literacy , wearing condoms, and staying employed. 😂
@@robertwright4220 thinking this way is why too many are caping for a dude who diminished the woman he deemed good enough to marry. It’s embarrassing really.
A little correction: She has 5 moves named after her.
2 on vault, 2 on floor exercise and 1 on balance beam
Wowww….thats impressive
Goat
Men don't care, we only care how we are treated
@@jacobharris954You're right about that, because men want women to treat you like kings while you treat them like used tissue.
I don't have a problem with Simon Biles. I was just stunned to hear her husband speak of her the way that he did. It's such a contrast to how someone like Alexis Ohanian talks about his wife Serena Williams.
Just say you want a white zaddy, lol.
Same I understand boosting your man cause you think he's so great as well. But he seemed to go outta his way....to put her down.
You're comparing a corporate whyit daevil all about capitalism to a bIk Football player where egos shine. There are different levels of acceptable expression depending on the career field. Besides, Jonathan pretty much told the story of what happened and who he thinks the "prize" is. Nothing to be stunned by. If it were some average chick instead of Simone, no one would've cared really.
But that is exactly the point, she is NOT some average chick. She is the worldwide GOAT in her field and a public figure. @@SeveredEverlastingWorldLore
Y'all wanted Simone to get with some white zaddy...just admit it😂.
My husband literally stopped going to the gym because “locker room talk” is so vile and disgusting, he didn’t want to hear it anymore.
He sounds like a woman 😂
We make all kinds of excuses for not wanting to go to the gym lol
I feel like you can go to the gym and avoid locker room talk. All you have to do is not go in the locker room… idk maybe it’s different for men lol.
I never hear it and if it’s in the locker room he doesn’t have to go in there 💀
@@secretstorecovery2404???
The worst part is that because of all the criticism she's received, she's most likely going to tolerate any future disrespect from him. Just to prove that their relationship can last.
So true. She's going to stay way past the expiration date because she won't want believe that ppl were right.
She not thinking about any of you!
Or she loves him and he loves her and they are right for each other regardless of how people who only know them from an hour long video feel
Or maybe she doesn't care about our opinions 🤷🏾♀️
@kaydee6555 well according to him, simone not even right for him 💀
“I was fighting it” was crazy
Incel idiot. Kevin Samuels demonic work lives on
100%
He's a young millionaire! He wasn't necessarily looking to settle down! Nothing crazy about it, you all hear what you want! He was actually giving her a compliment as she won him over because she's clearly a high quality woman and partner! Not because she's "SIMONE BILES GREATEST OLYMPIAN EVER!" How many of your icons can't find or keep a man, we don't prioritize your so-called accomplishments....
@@robertwright4220 bye Robert
@@niakendall777 You could've kept that but I know you all are wired to have the last word even when you clearly have noting to say! So feel free to add one last insult and maybe some emojis.... I made my point!
This was cathartic 😮💨
I love how you ignored all the vile things Blk Women were saying about Jonathan and Blk Men during the aftermath of this interview. You can only tow the line for so long. Truth can only stay in the dark for so long, just make sure you don’t say anything political incorrect or else they’ll be gunning for you next…
@@azraelfirstofhisname8695sir what?
This dude has a career, wife, and kids. Its possible he didnt see them the 17 hateful comments by black women. Or maybe he did, and rightfully dismissed them as one offs from miserable people. Maybe you should ammend your algorithm so you dont see so much of that@@azraelfirstofhisname8695
@@azraelfirstofhisname8695 was it just like the vile things blk men were saying about Meg Thee Stallion after she was shot? Haven't seen too many apologies about that, in fact I see most brothas are doubling down.
@@fangal12stay on topic; this video was not talking about that situation.
Jonathan really thinks he's the prize when Simone Biles is Simone Biles is wild
Out of all the men in the universe, the one and only Simone Biles you people praise so much picked Jonathan. I'd rub it in yall salty faces too.
He's going by his looks, and so is she.
@@kayrup3712 ???? He looks like any other, average man. If this is how he thinks, that's WILD 💀
He’s going to punish and embarrass her often because of it
He knows better than that.
Jonathan Owens: "this gotta be fake" also Jonathan Owens: "I didn't know who she was"
Lmaoooo right
Yea he told on himself
He said that because she had hella followers.
U mean Mr.Biles.
Thats Mr. Biles ma'am 😂 I read this and was wondering who you were talking about at first 😅
A pick me is actually a woman who feeds into sexism or incel rhetoric. Doesn’t necessarily have have to do with dating.
There's a lot of overlap though therefore dating should be considered in the conversation
A pick me is a woman who is quick to throw other women and themselves under the bus for the approval of men, so it does have to do with dating - incels are "involuntary celibate" and believe women are to blame for their inability to get into relationships or have success in dating. Either are rooted in sexism but these terms are getting confused and misused as they come into popular use.
Exactly a woman who tries to elevate or specialize herself at the expense of other women.
@@docfabzFacts ...bcus sum women r male identified or lean into misogyny 2 get the attention of certain males or b "chosen" 2 date by particular guys ...
A Pickme is a Pickme whether single, married, divorced whatever. A Pickme is a woman who puts males above all else while acting like males can do NO wrong, no matter how stupid they are.🙄
You made such a good point talking about who really is Simone’s equal. Her equal truly does not exist AT ALL. She’s doing her best like every other black woman who truly wants to be in love. I wish HER the best.
I just don't get why wanting to be in love comes with devaluing yourself, especially as black women, when society devalues us enough. I truly want better for black women because currently, it's not it.
males don't marry for love. they don't approach women looking for love. they want to use women. it's clear, mr. Biles didn't marry for "love". he wants Simone to "love" him; so she will be a f00L for him.
That's funny! So she's just doing her best like the rest of you lol!
If she does have a equal he’s probably not black. But a lot of black women are race loyal and suffer from it.
Why doesn’t hear equal exist because she has money and fame what man cares about that when looking for wife that’s what yall don’t understand if you don’t have traits such as those your not worth marrying
Simone Biles, is being studied by universities and physicists...He is the catch...HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Why does he care though?
And she agrees.
Yall hate BM more than you love BW.
Being accomplished doesn't make you accomplished.
Im not Black, so my context is a bit removed..that being said Mr Biles' narrative and use of language are major red flags for me
Bruh definitely grew up on “those” podcasts.
We know you’re not black because only the black men have been thinking this man is making sense. Every other race of men thinks he is delusional af. (Sorry if you’re a woman lol)
And to any other rational person regardless of race
I'm glad to hear your input bc so many Black Women will gaslight us into oblivion about these mediocre males because Simone got the ring.🙄🙄🙄
"Mr Bile" 😂😂😂
He says he didn't know who she was,but then says when he saw her message he didn't believe it was really her. So which is it man?!
He most likely said that in relation to her followers, not because he was lying about knowing who she was! If I hit up a female I don't know on an app to see she has hundreds of thousands of followers that would be surprising to me as well! I swear you all hear what you want to hear.
@@robertwright4220That makes no sense
@seroquelz they have the receipts on him tweeting about Simone. So he lies…
@@robertwright4220the app is literally for people of a certain status caliber though
@@robertwright4220 You are in every comment defending Mr.Biles.
I think women really want to protect Simone Biles and shield her from what is to come if Mr. Biles continues down this path of public embarrassment, because that’s what it was. He didn’t protect her publicly and that says a lot.
No he didn't self-deprecate and constantly put her on a pedestal at his expense is what you mean.
@@robertwright4220you spent part of your weekend responding to every damn comment on this video
It took me maybe 5-10 minutes genius! What’s your point? I can say you took the time to respond to me without adding anything of value! You clearly have more time on your hands than I do….
This is to @CB__• by the way
@@robertwright4220why would that question deprecate him though? Why stating all that mess not make HIM look just as bad?
Why would Ciara not leave Future to get with Russel Simmons?
Future ain’t shit.
Wilson*
Right!! It doesn't make sense. Dudes and their backwards logic. I believe that they preferred for Ciara to remain with future only for her to suffer bc they literally and inherently hate women.
Because misogynists think other misogynists are the epitome of a man and any man who respects a woman is a loser
Her marketing her marriage feels like damage control to appease him. Like he won’t let her be successful w/o him getting a kickback.
You all sound ridiculous! Because this silly rabbit alleged they are marketing their relationship doesn't make it true! She provided zero evidence of that. That man has half her net worth and the potential to eclipse what she earned by the time he retires....
Exactly. She’s paying for their lifestyle too.
I agree. Every time she posts, it's flashbacks from their wedding or him giving her flowers to where I don't keep up as much and miss when she's posting something different like training videos. I want her to be happy in her marriage, but marketing it isn't a good idea, especially since she tried to avoid Twitter due to the negativity it brings. Constantly posting him isn't gonna make people like him lol but I still hope their marriage lasts if he truly loves her
my toxic trait is i sure would’ve divorced his ass , swiftly. To embarrass me in the public eye and double down on it ?? wild.
Nah sameeee 😭
I feel like even if he cheats on her, she'll stay. If he hasn't already.
Not toxic at all. It's sad that more women wouldn't leave
I'm glad you admit to your toxicity! All needed now is the delusion and you'll be making real progress....
😂😭
Calling SIMONE BILES a quitter is insane. Crazy. Mad. Omg
Mm mm.. he didn’t have “poor storytelling skills”.. he said exactly what he meant and he meant to embarrass her and boast himself. Stop excusing ppls ill intent and coddling their immature behavior. He said what he said and I don’t believe for one second that he wasn’t fully aware of the response that it would render from the public.
I like Jouelzy but I don’t agree with her saying black women mostly had smoke with Simone and not Johnathan. The internet rightfully so dragged him for the reasons you stated. He told the story in a way that he knew would embarrass her. He knows he only gets attention because of her and is very clearly insecure about it.
@@blahhoopla2 girl, it was so bad even yt ppl were dragging him!!
@@kaylad1669Simone a national treasure and the goat in a yt centric sport so they was gon ride regardless 😂
@@EniasSmith23 I mean it was yt ppl tryna keep her from doing certain moves tho wasn’t it?? I mean now they have named moves after her, but they were being pretty rac!st to her at first if I correctly recall..
@@kaylad1669 Yea some of her skills are undervalued bc they are deemed “too dangerous” so that other gymnasts won’t try them.
I have a magazine with Simone on the front.
It's beautiful.
Good dating and relationship advice isn't given to most women, particularly to black women.
Agreed
It's out there, you refuse to listen! Many of you tap danced on Kevin Samuels grave....
@@robertwright4220 😂😂😂😂😂 your god is dead. I wonder how y'all can think since the brain is dead.
@@robertwright4220Why are you defending a dead man and not the living Savior Jesus Christ?
@@90ejb Why not defend a dead man who can no longer defend himself! For the record I was not even defending him but making a point... Samuels was trying to give women and men solid advice, but many black women hated him and celebrated when he died! What's Christian about that and why are you talking to me about Jesus?
I think it happens because there is no culturally recognizable blueprint for holding men responsible for this type of behavior. It takes a level of imagination and deep uncomfortable thinking that most people are not used to, to even get the ball rolling. But outside of it being an individual/community issue I think it’s also a matter of systemic failure in helping to solve the problem. The only repercussions men face when they behave harmfully in relationships is when it gets intense and evolves into physical violence. Those repercussions take the form of going to prison if it even gets to that point, and we all know prison doesn’t transform men or anybody into better people, or mild public shaming that rarely impacts their pockets.
This!
"This type of behavior!" Projection if I've EVER heard it....
@@robertwright4220 Have you? Are you confused about what I meant?
@@lorettahoffmann4226 Have I what? If I'm confused it's because you're not making any sense. You're talking about "holding men responsible!" Responsible for what? And it's not "evolve" into physical violence but devolve.... Not to mention if you're black, intimate partner violence and even murder is roughly bi-directional in our community. Cheating is as well, I would say females cheat more.
“Every game I pee on myself!” 😂😂😂😂
Yeah like WHAT!? I'm not sure why he had to tell us he's crusty 🤢
@@misosouperman 😂🤣😂
@@misosouperman crusty, dusty,and disgusting.
The man Nasss-tttayyy
😂
@@jadakiss228 yesss so sad 😂😭
The idea of “Power couple” needs to die. If you want your relationship to last you don’t sell it.
"Good" dating advice matters not when you're raised in a patriarchy.
The so called black community is a matriarchy as evidenced by the fragility sparked by the interview
I think it's the Zendaya wanting to play her makes people thinks she's either colorist color struck or self hating
for sure, it was so weird when she said that
It's also the obvious preference for light skinned, curly haired men. But I don't think she should be shamed for it. Poor girl.
What other explanation could there be? Zendaya is tall for one and for two, they look nothing alike.
Who do you think she would know from her age group though?
@@carrington2949 marsai martin for one, china ann mclain for 2. Even yara shahidi despite still being lightskin. Zendaya is a very wild pick even for that age range.
“Maybe not Channing because you can’t expect much from him-“
Channing: “Every game I pee on myself.”
🤣🤣🤣😂😂😅😅😅 I needed that laugh! What a DOOFUS. 🙄😅
I laughed so hard
I love that you dropped this on Valentine's Day. You always got us.
I just dont get how her self worth, self respect and self esteem is this low. She is a powerhouse talent, an Olympic gold medalist! She will go down in history as the greatest atheletes ever.
She's the greatest gymnast, not athlete and you're not going to like this fact but females don't complete against men for a reason! Yes, she has the most medals overall for a gymnast (only 7 Olympic, the rest world titles)! So by definition she could NEVER be the greatest athlete ever. Biles is a champion, but according to you because you were offended by something she wasn't she has a low self-worth!
Being amazing, as she factually is, doesn't stop you from having low self-esteem. What trauma has she had to deal with? Low self-esteem is a symptom of trauma. Let's support this treasure and build her up.
@@christinewatson1346I heard she came from a difficult childhood with abusive step parent or something about a foster care system and severe neglect and stuff like that so it makes sense.
As another black woman with ADHD, it does an absolute number on your self esteem. Also it comes with bad memory and people pleasing that can lead to gaslighting by the wrong types.
It's because she's a human. Even though she's a champion she's still like the rest of us. I used to have extremely low self esteem even with a few accomplishments.
To call someone square from a man peeing in his jersey pants at every game! He needs to be potty trained again!
I’m starting to think the idea of what is seen as light skin for men and women is different cause that man is my complexion and I don’t consider myself light skin and I would say most people would consider me brown skinned.
I consider him brown-skinned too, & I think most would. So I think he’s self hating really … but still it’s very true that the rules for men & women in terms of colorism are different
Him saying “pretty red dime” is diabolical 😂 cuz why would he say that??!?!?
This is generally true, however for American Blacks from the south/west- when you have light eyes, lose hair, or any of the features generally attributed to light skinned Blacks, you are called 'red'
That guy ain't light skin, he only slightly lighter than Simone!
@@senoracheapee1864 what part of the south?? In Texas a red bone is a brown skin or light brown skin person with red undertones. It has nothing to do with hair texture or eye color. At least not where I’m from.
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You strategically cutting to the clip of Channing saying that he peed/pees on himself...I can't 🤣. From all of us "in front of the pay wall" girlies, shout out to Audible.
if you listen to the podcast Channing Crowder says stuff that will make you laugh, sigh & go in a bush & weep all in one video 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 he’s TOXIC & HILARIOUS
I didnt know which moment you were talking about until I got there and Oh lord it took me out ☠️
🤣 I hollered every time bc I was never ready
Yes that was hilarious!!!
Yes that was hilarious!!!
I don't even think Matt Walsh can beat Simone in mental gymnastics...... and he's quite decorated in it.
Wait so the same man who admitted to peeing himself is also the same man who claims does not NEED to wash that often!!??
The average male is truly gro$$. I hope women are paying attention, learning, and choosing cats and themselves over these trashy "relationships". These males are walking red flags.
Filthy bastard!
People are allowed to have personal preference
I don't know why you keep referring to him as "misspeaking" on that podcast. He didn't misspeak. He said what he said. Let's stop making excuses for him.
In the words of Maya Angelou, "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time."
How about we simply consider he told the truth to a question HE was asked! All of you internet Inspector Gadget's, please provide the proof he had them ask him that question solely so he should demean her!
Two things can be true at once.. ppl were already colorist and racist towards Simone before her husband ever came into the picture.. that doesn’t mean the criticism of her actions toward and the interview regarding her husband are not valid. To allow a man to publicly and continuously embarrass you on purpose is definitely pick-me behavior 🤷🏽♀️ like let’s bffr here. She can, and should do better than getting with a man who is constantly looking to belittle her in the public eye. And ppl are right to call a spade a spade, especially if you’re going to continue to put it out for public consumption. Smh.
Where does putting her and women of the likes down get anyone though? To say you are a fool, etc etc for who you love doesn't make them wake up. It pushes them away and into the arms of that man more. When do we lean in with empathy cause most women have been th
ere and hell many are still there?
@@aneshiadarling that’s not putting her down tho.. if you can’t accept the truth in any form, you simply just don’t want to. Lots of ppl were showing her empathy. Lots of ppl were warning her. Lots of ppl were also being mean. You should still be able to decipher the hate from the genuine concern regardless. Ppl hear what they wanna hear and see why they wanna see 🤷🏽♀️ bottom line is she put her business out there (or he did) to the public, and now they can’t be upset with the public’s response.
Why is she being berated instead of her husband who said the wrong things? Because the women may have lost hope and trust in Black men, as this behavior is a recurring motif among Black male celebrities. Just like how many Black people gave up trust and hope in Whites. The pressure is now on to at least get out of harm's way.
Exactly. Did you watch her interview with Kenan Thompson and Kevin Hart where she kept saying that he refused to admit that her workout routine was harder than his even though she did his easily and he quit halfway through hers. And he wasn’t even there. She was the one that said this. If this isn’t their relationship it’s the narrative that they’re spreading of it. People aren’t wrong for believing it. To say that she “did nothing wrong” is simply incorrect. She created an environment for this dynamic to flourish and she’s continuing to encourage it. 🥴
@@kaylad1669 This. I'm tired of, when women, but especially black women, give other women advice (good advice, too) about dating and relationships, everyone jumps to say they're being jealous or bitter or putting them down. So many of us can SEE this man's attitude for what it is and we are saying so. I remember watching Tia through the years with her husband and I could SEE he didn't want to be there. She was in love with that man, but he was not in love with her. I see the same in pictures with Simone and her husband. Where she's all smiles and hugging up on him and looking at him like he's the last spoonful of ice cream on a hot day... and he's kind of just there. Like, an ornament. The way things are going, they will not last if she wakes up or HE decides he doesn't want to be in it, anymore. Because anyone who speaks on their woman like that in public doesn't respect her or care about her in the way he should. That is plain as day to see. Simone just doesn't want to see it and thinks we are all jealous. Like, girl, I didn't even know who your man was UNTIL y'all got married. I still don't really know who he is and am not that interested in finding out.
OMG Jouelzy😂😂😂 I can't with you and this " I pee on myself" clip!!! I trained abs yesterday and I am in so much pain laughing every single time you play it.
I've spoken on Mrs. Biles before (unfortunately, the respect I had for her has been tarnished a bit by all this)... all I can say is I hope she doesn't come out of this with heartbreak or having a bunch of kids from a man who, let's be honest, most likely sees her as beneath him because she's darker or just not his preference. Though I'm sure all this criticism will make him act better. I feel for women who are pick mes because, while they MIGHT get picked, they do it at the cost of their self esteem. You are a GOAT, no man should have you acting like this or feeling less than. That's just wild, to me, because I'll never be on her level, but I would not tolerate someone embarrassing me in public like he did (this wasn't just poor talking, he was hitting a lot of podcast bro stuff, lol). I won't fight to defend some wild stuff he said about me. Like, can't stop you from thinking it, but to SAY it where others can hear it? What decent man would ever think to even do that? But when your ultimate goal is getting married and to your preference, you will put yourself down to make sure you get it and keep it. And that fact that he lied about not knowing who she was, likely to humble her, that right there is a huge no. How you know about Gabby Douglas (and apparently said some unkind things about her), but you knew NOTHING about the most talked about gymnast in who knows how long? And the fact that Simone believed it. And I would never get with someone who says they were fighting the relationship with me, because that means I was running at him while he was running away from me. Just insane. He married her for the clout; don't care what anyone says.
And with the way dating is now, and the available choices, oh, I'm staying single if this is the type of mess you have to put up with. And I guess I'm hating because I'm going t call a pick me a pick me. We might all be trying to be picked, but some of us (who have been to therapy and gotten boundaries and standards) won't just let anyone pick us. I do know some advice goes too far, but wanting better for black women is what I see a lot of advice doing. It probably could do without the name calling, but I also think a lot of y'all feel shamed over simple advice that would actually be beneficial. Like, I see women being called "bitter" for telling women to have standards (she's jealous, too, if she isn't in a relationship while saying this, lol)... yeah, if you're feeling shamed by that, that's the least of your problems.
Okay period
Excellent video! The interview didn’t need any other reaction than the gasp we all let out when he said he didn’t know who she was at first. There was no need for all the rest. Nowadays, everyone wants to be seen as a thinker and go viral on the internet. When something un-noteworthy happens, people sit down and try to dissect it and think of the real deep meaning of said thing. Any subject at any moment can be a break in their internet career. Sometimes (a lot of the time), it’s not that deep. As for you Jouelzy, analyzing the whole thing after it has died down is actually a great idea. You are right on time.
"Like a dog with a bone!' You all REFUSE to even consider he was telling the truth, but even if you did, it wouldn't matter! How dare he tell a truth that really only made insecure females feel uncomfortable.
@robertwright4220 get a job. 😂😂😂😂 Your moms basement couch must stink
So many of you accept the bare minimum
@@hmmm2564 you mean her marrying an attractive man with no children whose a millionaire of his own accord! Got it….
Great Commentary. I recall several outlets saying that when asked who she would cast to play herself in a biopic, Simone referenced Zendaya. I can see issues with this as it relates to colorism. The public is putting together pieces of the puzzle that we are granted access to in these celebrities' lives. We are referencing women that we have met and familiar situations. I agree with everything you said but also understand why many women took their stance.
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Wanting the blackest person on the planet implies what? Wasn't it black women who were attacking her edges not too long ago and many haven't gone outside with their natural hair in decades.... Colorism can and does go both ways! Wanting a dark skinned person does not make one more pro black or conscious than anyone else
@@robertwright4220Simone never been on code and has a history of making questionable comments so OPs comment is valid.
“Everyday I pee on myself” sent me to the moon 😂😂 yet another phenomenal video Jouelzy! I love watching your deep dives.
These are the same black man y'all cry for and want to look at you. Crying about why rich black athletes don't choose black women. Are y'all ready for this? 😂😂😂
The constant playback of “Every game I peed myself” got funnier and funnier every time 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Calling this man “ Mr. Biles” 😂🤣🤣
A man who fits the archetype of what most of you claim you want is funny to you to demean him
@@robertwright4220 🙄 you under every damn comment.. I hope Mr.Biles is paying you...
@@FarrahChataigne Mr. Biles..., who is that! Another unoriginal and unnecessary comment from the sisterhood of the hive minded. This woman made a 40 minute video that made no sense and there are dozens of comments but you worried about me because you disagree but can't refute a single point. So in typical fashion you resort to insult and deflection....
I must be color blind because her husband looks brown skin to me. Anywho, let's be real he's a FINE young man, but I knew he didn't want her. She saying she slipped into his DM's confirmed it, not once did he say anything endearing about her in that interview. Someone pulled up picks of his past becKKKy's, oops I meant girlfriends and Symone is definitely not his "preference. "
He looks light skin. Light brown is light skin. Dark brown is dark skin.
@@LadyOOMost people think Tisha Campbell when they think lightskin. Not his skin tone.
@@madlie2452 most ppl think he is light skin where actually black aka dark skin ppl exist. He’s the same complexion as the man in my profile picture and the man in my profile picture has always been considered light skin. If you don’t live amongst actual Black people just say that.
@@madlie2452 and using your logic, most people think Wesley Snipes when they think of dark skin men. Does that mean Tupac who is lighter is not a dark skin man now???
@@LadyOO Okay? I know that. I don’t know why you’re acting all aggressive and upset over me simply making a comment about how black Americans likely are approaching the situation. It does not really matter what people from other places think because cultural relativism has to be taken into account. Here, light skin is much lighter than other places because we have a long history of forced mixing between white men and black women. Most black light skins here are far removed from that mixing and therefore are not considered mixed her. Plus phenotype does not equal genotype. Many dark skinned people in America have higher amounts of European ancestry than lightskins that aren’t directly mixed.
1st Simone is beautiful inside and out,she just don't know better..2 Jonathan is from my home town of st louis ,don't get me started on the men here😂..3 It appears he was trying to save face in front of the otr men ,especially when he mentioned she dm'd him 1st,so we know it was all cap,he could have left that out..great vid❤
But Simone has told that same story herself before that interview. It was only news to ppl who don't really follow her (apparently) because we knew.
That's why it's not a surprise or shock at how she feels.
why does she agree to embrace that narrative? what's in it for her? she's already on the top of her game with a spotless, aspirational image. her husband is only hurting it
People with success can still be broken
They want to live in their truth
Maybe because she really is happy and she believes he telling the truth, but surely that can't be the case!
@@robertwright4220 that would explain why she is with him. And if it's so, I'm happy for them. But it doesn't justify why she's willing to hurt her public image with promoting her marriage
@@evildoesnotsleep-x2b Who says she's promoting the marriage! As you all keep harping on, she's famous! And maybe she's actually happy so she wants to be with her husband and support him as he's still a professional athlete.
Lastly, only bitter delusional women had a problem with Owens most likely telling the truth to a question he was asked! This will or should hardly tarnish her image....
They said they used to debate on who is the best athlete & she said later on people will stop saying Simon Biles’s husband but Jonathan Owen’s wife.. issa red flag.. he is really insecure & he needs to feel bigger or more accomplished & that’s impossible..
I’m just here to say, the Pivot knew EXACTLY what they were doing!
They are a podcast and EVERYONES trying to go viral! They new the sisterhood of failure would blow his answer out of proportion!
@@robertwright4220 1000000%
Simone is a very beautiful, talented, and accomplished girl, but let's bffr its very clear she's not that confident in her looks or has the best self esteem. Being with a guy that keeps emphasizing over and over and over again that SHE had to chase down HIM and that he would've never looked her way is crazy. And my opinions of him were solidified when she went on Kevin and Keenan's show and said that he REFUSES to admit that she's a better athlete than him, even tho she killed his workout routine but he struggled with hers. That they apparently argued so much over the topic that they promised to not bring it up ever again after they got married. Like what??? And the fact that they still bring it up anyway and he still argues that they're athletic equals....
Now, i don't think he hates her like how others have expressed, but i don't know if I'd bet they'd last forever, especially now with the public against him. But simone loves her a bright yellow man (her exes look the same) and she gonna stick beside him
Good thing your opinion doesn't matter. She's married and winning while all these single people are talking about her.
Best of luck 🎉
@@Jahmall841 Marriage to a man that looks down on you is simply not a flex. Best of luck to her.
Let's watch it age and circle back
@@Jahmall841Good thing this is a public fucking forum and I'm more than able to express my opinion on this topic😊 Be blessed and figure out most of the ppl calling her out are in relationships ❤️ Having a man ain't the accomplishment, you need a good man Savannah
@@Jahmall841 Y'all need to stop thinking being married is some sort of accomplishment. If a woman is willing to lower herself enough and deal with a bunch of BS, every woman in the world could be married right now, lol.
Your hair is beautiful!
Everyone in the situation using Simone Biles, while insulting her. Including the women "influencers " calling her pick me for an audience
I didn’t even know his name, I just found out he was a football player when he insulted her. Up into that point I just knew she got married.😂
You call that an insult? Y'all are ridiculous, lol.
Good thing YOU knowing his name or even her's for that matter is completely irrelevant! You all just refuse to understand her fame or accomplishments translate to little or nothing in her marriage! Nevertheless, it's on brand with the collective delusion so I'm not surprised.
Jouelzy at it again with the quality content!!!! Ugh I loved this video so much girl! I didn’t even want to comment on the interview in conversations because she’s been through so much. So many girls allow projections of shame to really allow them to never become true girls girls. I’m just happy Simone is happy after everything she’s been through. Like everyone forgets when they were dragging her hair!!! Multiple times?! Like the people criticizing her hair are the same ones telling her she ain’t ish for chasing something she wanted. Shit at least Simone does what she wants and doesn’t care! She inspires me so much! Love you Jouelzy!!!! 💛💛💛👏🏾🦋💋
Joulezy I’ve been watching since your 4C wash and style videos ♥️ i don’t have 4C but you taught me a lot about how to work with textured hair. You always have something good To say. You have no wasted words! ♥️
He meant what he meant. He thinks he the catch “physically” bc he does not find her attractive and he knows that he is with her for status and unfortunately bc of the constant attacks Simone has faced, she also believes he is the best she can do. So she will put up with this. As embarrassing and degrading as this is. And I really hate that for her bc he’s a loser and she can absolutely do better than him in every way.
Why would he marry her if he wasn't attracted to her?? 😂
5:45 There is a Biles I too lol
Biles has earned five moves that bear her name in the international rule book: 1 on the balance beam, 2 on the floor exercise and 2 on vault!
impeccable editing lmao "Peed on myself" clip was perfectly used🤣
Your hair is so gorgeous
I agree, it looks so nice
Thank you!!!
Its also interesting that he said he didn’t know who she was, but people have pulled his old tweets being a fan of simone biles when she first came on the olympic scene.
I think calling her a pick me or mannish or aggressive is misognoir at its best. Frankly the issue isn’t him calling himself a catch. That could be playfully cute and if she was more interested in him in the beginning than he was in her, who cares. Yes she’s Simone Biles but I am sure she wants someone who likes her for her and not just her accomplishments.
The problem is that he seemed really comfortable with putting her down and she backed him up in it. Also when the host said their skin color was a part of it, and he went along with it, it’s blatant colorism and the devaluing of dark skin Black women. She isn’t a pick me, she’s being dimmed by the same misogyny that all women experience. That our achievements have to be made lesser in order to make men feel more comfortable. She has insecurities that she unfortunately made very public and that do send a bad message to the young girls that look up to her, but it wasn’t intentional and she’s allowed to be an imperfect human being.
30:37 To answer the question of: "What did Simone really do wrong in this situation", she is staying in a situation that benefits her husband while degrading herself. He can't be dismissive of her if she's not around.
I think degrading is a strong word
I've watched so many videos on this topic, but this was the most nuanced take out there by far. Because I never realized the interviewers were fellow athletes, which adds context to the banter. Never considered Jonathan being a Safety, meaning he isn't even at the top of his own field and why he might be prone not to big up his wife, I even missed how the one interviewer gave him a chance to clean things up and he continued down the same path posturing himself as the catch she had to work hard to get. Your take was the one we were all missing from this conversation. Well said.
I real life HOLLERED at those Niecy Nash clips!! I wasn’t ready. Omggg CRINE. 🌴
Dr.Jouelzy!!!! 👏🏾 this content is your lane.
The revelation at the end was spot on…we honestly don’t know how much the public plays a part in the decisions a person makes based on ridicule or praise and perhaps we bear some of the responsibility for the things we don’t like to see
It’s the fact that Jouelzy says she’s going to address him by his name, and then proceeds to call him Mr. Biles throughout the video 😂😂😂
Why are we surprised that women act as how they are taught and take what we’ve been given. Simone is an icon and a beauty. She has my respect and support as a fan. Period.
Great point
One of Aesop's fables basically goes,
"Once upon a time a lion was trying to eat a goat, the goat headbutted him, and he got angry. How dare his food have the ability to cause him harm? So, he declares that all animals with horns must leave the kingdom the next day. All of the animals with horns fearfully planned where they'd move the next day, and so did the hare. He spent the night unable to sleep, and finally rushed to pack his things. The next day, he walked out of his burrow and said to his friend, the grasshopper, "I'm off, my neighbor. My ears are too much like horns to be comfortable here." "Horns?!" the grasshopper shouts, "you no more have horns than I do!" "Say what you want," the hare replies, "were my ears only half as long as they are, they would be quite long enough for any one to lay hold of who wished to make them out to be horns." Respectability and desirability politics for black women is just a long game of tamping your ears down and hoping no one decides they're horns that day. There is really no relationship worth that level of manipulation and chaos imo. I'm gay as hell so I might be biased but like,
Men and pick-me’s cause harm to ALOT of people and I think when we see that dynamic people get triggered. And react from an emotional place.
Also the response I saw was very much in defense for Simone which isn’t typical for black women I think people were angered that she received so much support and defended her relationship instead of turning on him.
I think about how this clip would have been seen differently if Simone was light skin, with light eyes, and “good hair” etc? If Simone and him were seen as more equally attractive, would this have just been a cute/funny story about how Simone flipped gender roles on their head? What if Simone looked like Zendaya? How would that affect our reaction to that clip?
I think the reaction might have been different, and I don’t necessarily think that’s a bad thing. I’m not talking about the silly reaction of blaming Simone for her man’s bad behavior. I mean considering his response “bad behavior” at all.
If Simone looked like Zendaya (I am NOT saying Simone isn’t attractive) then the public would place she and her husband on a similar playing field of attractiveness, and it might not feel so much like he’s “punching down” with that story. Because right now it feels like he’s saying “do you see my wife who isn’t necessarily the Eurocentric standard of beauty? Yeah her? I didn’t even want her ass.” And it’s like uhhh??? Do you need to be saying all that? But if she WAS the Eurocentric standard of beauty, and he was saying “do you see her?? I didn’t even want her!!!” We might be more likely to laugh at how silly of a notion that is, and at Simone taking on a more masculine posture in courting him. I think we would see it as cute or at the very least harmless for him to say that.
But because we all have a sense that Simone is up against these beauty standards to begin with, it feels very harmful for the person who should be her biggest fan to say anything disparaging about her desirability. I think we have the sense that he should be trying to offset the idea that she isn’t the beauty standard by propping her up.
This leads me to my next thought about this: what if…and hear me out…what if, the fact that the two of them DO think this is a worthy story of telling over and over again…means both of them DO see her as more desirable, and this story as harmless because to them, it’s absurd of him to act like he wasn’t falling all over himself to be with her. Maybe..just maybe..this ridiculous story is a sign that to him, she is the prize and so it’s harmless for him to tell this story because in his mind it should be abundantly clear to the audience that she’s the catch, and that he was being a bonehead in the beginning.
Do I believe that to be true? Not at all. I think for some reason he feels the need to remind everyone that he’s the conventionally attractive one, that he wasn’t a fanboy because he has value, and he’s all too ready to shit on her to make his point. I think Simone is blind to this because of trauma that’s causing her to be pulled towards someone who reaffirms her fears about herself.
But that’s all speculation. Wtf do I know, these people are strangers to me.
@jouelzy I love you girl, keep the content coming!!!!
Good points
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If he said this and they both looked the same, this would STILL be weird. Not to mention "fighting" the relationship, because he didn't want it. Why would you ever chase behind a man? Or anyone, tbh? You should want to be with someone who wants to be with you, not someone who dated you because you were steadily in their face.
No, we would like at him crazy asf if he said this about Zendaya.
Like wtf he mean “I didn’t know who she was” 🤣. I have seen all types of attractive women get ridiculed by insecure men and it’s not ‘cute’. It happens, regardless of what you look like when you are with one. People are right to call him out on what he said. It didn’t sit right.
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I just love you! Thank you for always giving us quality, slow simmered and not half baked takes! Sending you and your beautiful family love during this time! 💜💜💜💜
This was the smartest discourse on this topic I’ve seen.
I’m in England never watched gymnastics for Olympics and even I know her. The girls in china know her. So for this American fellow athlete not knowing the biggest star in his country is crazy. It’s like being from England and not knowing who David Beckham is😑
I dont believe for one second he didn’t know who she was. That was a stunt he probably pulls all the time where he belittles her. In a few years all of this will come out!
@@takyrica Ofcourse his lying. There’s an old tweet of his that was dug up where he mentioned Gabby Douglass a fellow gymnast, and was congratulating her. And he supposedly has never heard of Simon 🤔if you’ve heard of messi surely you’ve heard of Ronaldo right?
@@Royalty05 EXACTLY! I dont watch soccer but I know who’s the best of the best. What a jerk!
Ugh, drag me. While I would never wish harm or trauma on her I can absolutely see where too much of my focus was on wanting her to stand up and less on Mr.Biles' terrible narrative crafting.
Now, I'm not ready to chalk all that up to mispeaking on his part 👀 but I hear you.
Great video!
Once again a perspective and analysis unlike any other. Thank you!
This video is great to see in conjuction with the @Intelexual Media's video recently on black love. Love your way of presenting your thoughts as always!
🥰 you just reminded me to put Lex on my playlist too 👌🏾
It does parallel well!!
Always great discourse with you!
Jonathan Biles' career is just about over. Simone has to put her man on to other opportunities because he has nothing else to offer the world 💅🏾
Nah, the way it's going, SHE is going to be taking care of him while he sits at home. Like, girl, why would you ever want that for yourself?
He was literally just in the playoffs tho
@@trenttotten7202 his team was in the playoffs. The average lifespan of an NFL career is 3.3 years.
@@truettadevilthey are almost worth the same what do you women get from, devaluing him it’s weird just picture men talking shit about savanna james because she doesn’t have a career like her husband
@@storyteller6777 not sure why you chose to lie, but men love lying... Simone's net worth is $16 million because she has endorsement deals, her husband's is around $5 million... until he gets let go.
Secondly, Savanna James is why Lebron is successful and she created his family, i.e. his legacy, she isn't just some housewife he just met. Unlike Mr. Biles...
Lol your edits are everything 😅.
As always Jouelzy coming through with the insight we needed ❤
Simone Biles is an institution. Her impact will be studied long before we have all turned into dust. I still don’t know who this man is🤷🏾♀️ That’s no shade to him, but I just assumed she’s a Serana William & pick a mate who knows she’s all that and more. I hate being wrong on this. My heart aches but I hope she gets to a point where she sees herself the way we see her❤
I hope they can customize their relationship for their particular needs and ignore the usual project of misogynoir that people like the podcast hosts continue to perpetuate. With dating and relationship advice, it is so infused with gender role rhetoric and assertions about the "nature" of gender, that it doesn't leave much room for individual needs and realities, and are punished for being outside of societal expectations. Thanks for the video!
Glad you’re back on TH-cam!!!
I've never laughed so loud at her videos like this lmao!
That blogs and media today...shock value and outrage pays!
Most dating advice focuses on all the wrong things. Appearance, earning, earning potential, possession of material things.
We gotta stop engaging with other humans on a capitalistic level.
“Every game I pee on myself” dating pool is crazy LOL
I know some slightly famous folks who don’t always deal well with fame & attention, and they all seem to have this thing about wanting a partner who doesn’t know/care about the thing they’re known for. That was the vibe I got when Mr. Biles claimed not to know who she was.
This man is considered light-skinned?! I no agree. Not being dark doesn't make one light.
To this day he’s still Simone biles husband. 😂😂😂
The glob from the mario movie 😂😂 I'm dying
This video made made me laugh so much, ty for this !
I don’t think Simone is a pick me. I think Simone went through a lot of trauma and doesn’t realize how amazing and talented and valuable Simone Biles is. She never deserved one OUNCE of abuse she endured and I genuinely hope she continues to heal. And that she finds peace and happiness. 💖
I love that Audible sponsors you but I hope you also get other audiobook sponsorships. Not only cos you and the book club deserve but because it’d be nice for you to get them Spotify coins.
That man peed himself every game & bathes twice a week😱
Loved the commentary. Love you sis. ✌🏽
Ok I’m convinced TH-cam is shadow banning your content. Bc I’m subscribed and have notifications and still some how find out about your videos days later.