This blew me away!!! Wow, just wow. These lyrics are nothing short of straight classy. I haven't heard anything like it. Although, I have lived something very similar. He's gone to heaven now, but went holding her hand, with a few hints from another woman. He would love this song and your voice! You've gained a fan💖💯🙌
Clayton, you’ve got a fan for life, just from this one song! I’m currently watching my 32 yr marriage crumble around me. Subtle signs of cheating for about 6-8 months and right around our 32 anniversary in March, she said she was tired of our marriage and wanted a divorce. After raising 3 young men, 2 were twins, and going through the ups and downs that come with raising children, while keeping a roof over your head and the lights on, this hit me like Tyson! But I’m not begging anyone to love me. If the embers are cold in her mind, I don’t want to be around someone who doesn’t truly give it their all. This song is so beautiful and so rare for one to still care that much for the other, that they want them to be truly happy even after the heartbreak. In my situation, I don’t feel this way, simply because what I had to endure from a psychotic covert narcissist with BPD for 32 years because I didn’t want my sons to grow up hating me for leaving and I felt it was my responsibility to guide them through their young lives. Sadly I exchanged my internal happiness for the sake of my children and now that my life is in the sundown years, I feel as though I’ve been cheated out of 32 yrs. Thanks to anyone who took the time to read the story of my life ..
I read it. I'm going through same thing only a 18 year relationship and no together kids. His affair just started a couple months ago but just like that he was checked out. Good luck to you
@@kellykountouris7193 No. it's not. The video is specifically about the heartbreak of loving someone who doesn't love you back. Men need to hear the truth, we aren't living in a fantasyland. So I stand by what I said, I've been there and I freaking grew a backbone and got over it. Don't wallow in self pity, it's shameful for a grown ass man to do that.
Why does my all feel like I'm supposed to take something when I was told no. Also, what do I have to take? I do not want to be the cause of someone's trauma 😭
I will always want the best for my babe. Austin Booth, I pray you find your way, someone who can love you the way you need, and joy in this life. May God always keep you and anyone who reads this in His Grace and Mercy. Amen
This needs to be released to country radio & pop. I can imagine y’all at the CMA’s performing live. That’s how beautiful & haunting this cover is. Awesome!
my buddy keeps telling me I just need to get over her and no matter what I do I can't we never dated probably never will but it's funny how the only ones who could help me don't care 😂 this probably don't relate but ima post it any ways only a couple deep
If I were to guess. Its probably because.. As you said you're "..a full grown man.." Takes a real man to let his spirit speak to his heart and embrace what it feels .. Then the mind connects and we cry. Stay true.
I’ve been happily married for 30 years this year. That hit me hard too. It’s great song writing. I wonder if he wrote the song. He sang it just as good as it is written.
I absolutely love this song and the concept behind it. When you love someone so much that you want them happy even if it's not with you and being grown enough to understand what you had and moving on healthily.
How for is your absolute on yourself for absolutely clarity in understanding growth applying your gift of knowledge on a God-given match maker other woman than wasting your angel. I’m very hopeful Our Way-maker has forgiven an unwanted outburst. May the other guy prosper from the pebble curse to glorify his true forum. Amen Blessing to you Mikode on hearing
Does moving on healthily count if you kinda accidentally became the persons best friend and pretty much surrogate sibling bc youd rather have them in your life than not at all
Just happened to stumble upon this song. The title intrigued me, so I clicked on it. Wow. Hits you smack in the chest. Letting go is one thing. Doing it with class and grace is another. Exceptionally well done. 👍
@@ClaytonShay Love that song went through similar thing myself after a while it got worse ... Finally Got the woman i should have waited for be together 16 great years ... tyvm for putting this song out it reminds me of how great life could be if people treat ALL the way they want to be treated in return
@@hydrothunder49028 hey thanks for the kind words! I have a brand new music video for my single “Island”! If ya got a sec can you let me know what you think of it in the comment section? 🙏🏻
@@Chelle337 Thanks so much for watching! I have a brand new music video for my single “Island”! If ya got a sec can you let me know what you think of it in the comment section? 🙏🏻
Sorry to hear you’re going through that, but I’m glad the song helps! Stay strong 💪🏼 Check out some of my other music videos/songs on my channel if ya got a sec! 🙏🏻 let me know what ya think in the comments!
Found out about my ex's new guy a few days ago and even after a few months it's a gut punch the first time you hear about it or see them. I gave her to God though and I hope He works everything out for good in His plan for us both! Great song, man. This guy has real potential. 💯
I feel you I got told Thursday at school she had a new man and I was sad af cuz it is a homie but oh well she said I didn't make her happy anymore but I got a new girl Friday night so I'm happy
Finally a song that is not toxic and is not about making there life worse by thinking about negative things in there mind. The song is fire and wonderful and your an amazing singer and I’m glad your talking good about your ex and not bad
Can't believe I just found this! God's timing can't be wrong, especially since my marriage of 25 years has been hit by the big D. I WILL ALWAYS HAVE MY JESUS, HE WILL NEVER HURT OR LEAVE ME❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
[Verse 1] Hey Bartender, can I borrow that pen? I've got a list of things I need to get down on this napkin And she's been goin' out with somebody new And he's sittin' there drinkin' a beer across from me and you And if you could pass this along with his next drink But don't tell him it's from me [Chorus] She likes movies in black and white The summer rain and red wine And she needs someone who knows how to make her smile She talks to her momma on the phone About babies and country homes And how someday she'll want one of her own So love her the best way that you can Signed another man [Verse 2] Hey bartender thanks for helpin' me out It wasn't easy for me to get these words down He's sittin' there reading what I wrote And I know that she'll be better off 'cause now he knows [Chorus] She likes movies in black and white The summer rain and red wine And she needs someone who knows how to make her smile She talks to her momma on the phone About babies and country homes And how someday she'll want one of her own So love her the best way that you can Signed another man [Bridge] I couldn't fit everything on this note It's just a few things I think you should know [Chorus] She likes movies in black and white The summer rain and red wine And she needs someone who knows how to make her smile She talks to her momma on the phone About babies and country homes And how someday she'll want one of her own So love her the best way that you can And be everything I cant Signed another man Signed another man
the pure intentions in this song are so rare for humans to have in todays world. it’s such a bitter sweet feeling hearing this song and knowing that there is still hope for love and relationships without the toxicity of an ex. don’t ever stop making music, this was amazing.
The most prolific, thought provoking song in the longest. Definitely gives meaning to absolute unselfish love, without limitation. You know you love someone when you can want for nothing but their every happiness, even if its not with you.
Hello! I don’t mean to bother you, but for some reason your profile come up under Eddie and it’s nice viewing your profile because I do not think I know you, I thought I just write and say hello, maybe we could be friends, I hope you are comfortable with that ?
I'm speechless..... Every word is who I am, how I feel.... It's like you have been there every step of my life, thank you for what you do, it feels good to finally know that someone can relate to every little set back, feeling, emotion.
This song made me actually come to terms with the breakup with the woman I thought was going to be my wife. Moves me to tears and I hardly cry anymore. Thanks for this song helped me and probably others out there going through their own struggles.
This song is a great eye opener for people that every freedom given doesn't require hate and revenge in return. It's a really good masterpiece. If Mr. Clayton Shay is a new man in producing songs this heartwarming that removes hatred from people's system, you bet I'mma support him on this a hundred percent.
Hey Clayton, TH-cam randomly recommended me this, and I gotta say I'm really glad it did. You are by far one of the best singers I've heard in a good minute, on the Country side of music. Being a man who has done this before, it really hit me hard. It was one of those things I kind of regretted doing because i still loved the woman at the time, and I wanted her to be happy, even if it wasn't with me. Thank you for making this, and letting others know people like us exist in this world.
We don't fall out of love... We fall out of trust, respect, appreciation, happiness. But we don't just leave, we leave slowly... Men taking us for granted blocks their ability to see us distancing, and therefore they never stop us from leaving.
If you truly love someone, you'll want them to be truly happy, even if that happy is with someone else... I needed this song today, and I'm glad I found it.
Clayton Shay, this Sunday will make a year I lost my husband at a very young age. I take this song as him telling whoever man I end up with the words you are writing as the other man. Like he is letting him know from above all the things i like and still keeping watch over me! This song makes be bawl just thinking of him! I love this song always! Keep making more great music Clayton!
Clayton I’m a fan for life, when I first heard this song it made me think of two things one how my dad treated my momma before he left her and how I’ve been treated in my past
Gorgeous song needs to heard more often. True love, when u want them to be happy even if that means them not being with u. He’s been blessed with an amazing voice.
Love is a partnership both people have to put in 100%. You have some really great men that get passed over or used by women who are chasing men that will use and abuse them.
This song is extremely relatable. Last year I was friends with two people that were dating. I worked with the the boyfriend at the time. We weren’t close but we talked at work. I didn’t talk much to his girlfriend much just got a vibe from her so didn’t talk much. And I seen a post on her Facebook that she was depressed and it was concerning coming from someone who has personally lived through a suicide attempt. We started hanging out and grew really close. We would go out to eat , movies, and we’d drive through the river bottoms hitting every mud hole we could and park under the bridge and pass out with her laying her head on my chest listening to the radio. But they got back together. Before her it’d been three years since I’d been involved with anyone since my last girlfriend took her own life in 2018. But I texted him and told him he was going to lose her and I told him what all she had told me and how to fix things and just as many things I could think of I knew that just made her light up like no other by the time I was done I was in tears. To care so much about someone that you want to see them happy even if it’s with someone else. Luckily for me. Two days later I was going to Nashville to get my teeth looked at turns out I need all of them cut out before I can do my heart surgery but she wanted to go with me. She knew everything was getting to me and she wanted to support me. She’d broken up with him again. And by the time we stopped in Knoxville I just couldn’t handle it. I didn’t want to risk losing a friend like her but I couldn’t stay silent. I’ve had different girlfriends but I never broke down to the point I cried trying to hold feelings back. And the best thing I did was tell her because she kissed me and told me she felt the same way. We drove into gatlinburg and made it back to southern Indiana all within 24 hours. We’ve been married now 6 months and have a baby due in September. I’m sorry your situation didn’t have a similar outcome. But there’s someone out there for you. You have a good heart it takes a lot out of a person to put that kind of love out there.
Love this story! Sounds like you’ve live the song. Thanks for watching! Check out some of my other music videos on my channel if ya got a sec, I think you’ll like them too!
This song hit my soul and heart, imagine someone who loves you so much that they still want you happy even if its not with them.?! I couldn't help but cry. So beautiful
So glad ya felt something from the song!! Thanks for watching! I have a brand new music video for my single “Island”! If ya got a sec can you let me know what you think of it in the comment section? 🙏🏻
Hello! I don’t mean to bother you, but for some reason your profile come up under Eddie and it’s nice viewing your profile because I do not think I know you, I thought I just write and say hello, maybe we could be friends, I hope you are comfortable with that
Listening on repeat… in tears… this hits. I hope you’re doing okay. You’re the epitome of a prince- no a King. I think a lot of people can agree no man is telling someone else things so she would be better off 🥺💔 you’re an amazing human being and such a kind genuine soul… ✨🥺
@@ClaytonShay I don’t think there’s many men like you in this world. She was lucky to have you and so is your future wife, hun! We all go though what we go though for a reason. 🤍
I absolutely love this song. This is something that is rare, you don't see this very often with my generation sadly. I often wish to have been born in an older generation but it's songs like this that give me hope. Even though I'm only 19, for some reason this song speaks to me, and I absolutely adore this song. I'm so glad someone can write a decent 'newer country' song without it sounding toxic, and it's respectful, not about girls in bikinis, or trucks. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!!❤️❤️
@@ClaytonShay you are a really good artist. It's nice to actually like some more of the music from my generation. I normally stick to the older songs for almost all the genres especially country. You are right up there with them, thank you for giving me a little more hope for my generation.
Wow. I totally get this song. I am 54 yrs old & I have been in love with my ex for 37 years. I think of him everyday & have for 37 years. No matter who I was with, my heart has always been his. When we broke up, it nearly killed me. But I let him go bcuz I wanted him to be happy in life. If I couldn't make him happy, I wanted him to find someone that did. It hurt me so bad, but I really loved him so it was more important. I have never stopped loving him tho.
I noticed the same…it’s rare to see an artist interact with their fans, and it shows how appreciative he is of how his gift of music touches each one of individually… He has a new fan in me today, as well!❤️🩹
Great song, so meaningful. That's all I ever asked my ex husband to do, to just let me go and let me be happy. He once in awhile calls me of course for our boys, but also to make sure my husband is treating me right. Guess it really makes em think. My good Lord continue blessing you with your talent ❤🙏
I feel this mans pain. Im going through this conflicyion the last month, and it's like every day something else comes up. I mean, im struggling, but my husband and I ask God everyday to help others because no matter what we know he has a plan for us
Thanks so much! I have a brand new music video for my single “Island”! If ya got a sec can you let me know what you think of it in the comment section? 🙏🏻
Wow Uncle Glenn! That was so good. You did it very well. That being said....how long hasn't been since my great grandfather passed? It's been a long time since I laid eyes on him I was just a little girl when he left this world. But I tell you this, I see him in you in this video especially with those glasses on. This took me back to seeing him sitting in that vinyl rocking chair and his snuff can on the floor beside him. Thanks for that memory.
Thanks for fucking my day up, man. No, really. Most new music is about bud light labels and short shorts on tan girls. You really hit home with this one and for me. Ill definitely be waiting for more music from you, you’ve earned my attention
This is somehow the first time this song has been suggested to me. Clayton Shay has managed to embody & captured the pain, hurt and despair, but through the lens and actions of the Unconditional Love of Christ and God’s Word. While it’s a role reversal for me…Just like another user said about being so broken and don’t believe you’re enough any more. If it’s not an abusive relationship…I’m Always left for another woman or some other excuse/reason…heart shattered beyond words, but yet I still always see the good in them. It’s so hard to continue to walk out that Unconditional Love of Christ in reality, time after time…and even harder to believe what God says about you, and if you’re ever going to be good enough for anyone.
Omg. This song is such a Heartbreaker. It hits really hard for me right now especially since I'm going through such a turmulous break up myself. Love this song.❤
This song I have the upmost love for. Randomly found it on my recommended and now it’s in every playlist. Getting out of a long relationship and even though she’s with someone else it puts a smile on my face knowing she’s happy. Even if I’m not. Thanks
“…with… a bun…😐”. Really though, the humility, wisdom & grace within this message are hard to know without the personal experience, & impossible without God.
Seriously all a woman needs is a man to love her like this. I've been with my husband 21 1/2 yrs and we are so in love ❤️ it's literally feels like it's been a month or two. We have 4 beautiful daughters and he is my world my everything. Some ppl don't know what they have until it's gone. I see it way to much couples yelling Devorce! Once that's said it sticks to the wall and it will be repeated until it happens. Great song! Forever fan
This song popped up after another song. I could feel the heartbreak at the beginning, but the selflessness just sent me crying like a baby! Wanting them to be happy, with or without you, is the truest love, imo. My heart breaks for this "other man."
Thanks so much for watching! I have a brand new music video for my single “Island”! If ya got a sec can you let me know what you think of it in the comment section? 🙏🏻
Thank you so much for this song! I’ve never related to anything more. It explains exactly how I feel about my best friend who I’ve always wished we could be more but she doesn’t wanna complicate our friendship. Watching her date a bunch of guys that treat her like crap and constantly break her heart is just so hard. I wish I could give them a list of all the things she loves and how to treat her right.
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Now the world is clear closed forgotten but foll what I know but 4th episode canceled
@@maryhall1532 huh?
This blew me away!!! Wow, just wow. These lyrics are nothing short of straight classy. I haven't heard anything like it. Although, I have lived something very similar. He's gone to heaven now, but went holding her hand, with a few hints from another woman. He would love this song and your voice! You've gained a fan💖💯🙌
@@GriffMom2 wow... that’s a powerful story. Thanks for sharing
Great song my man! The first one I’ve heard from you, but I’m for sure a sub now. This is some real country music that takes me back.
Clayton, you’ve got a fan for life, just from this one song! I’m currently watching my 32 yr marriage crumble around me. Subtle signs of cheating for about 6-8 months and right around our 32 anniversary in March, she said she was tired of our marriage and wanted a divorce. After raising 3 young men, 2 were twins, and going through the ups and downs that come with raising children, while keeping a roof over your head and the lights on, this hit me like Tyson! But I’m not begging anyone to love me. If the embers are cold in her mind, I don’t want to be around someone who doesn’t truly give it their all. This song is so beautiful and so rare for one to still care that much for the other, that they want them to be truly happy even after the heartbreak. In my situation, I don’t feel this way, simply because what I had to endure from a psychotic covert narcissist with BPD for 32 years because I didn’t want my sons to grow up hating me for leaving and I felt it was my responsibility to guide them through their young lives. Sadly I exchanged my internal happiness for the sake of my children and now that my life is in the sundown years, I feel as though I’ve been cheated out of 32 yrs. Thanks to anyone who took the time to read the story of my life ..
I read it. I'm going through same thing only a 18 year relationship and no together kids. His affair just started a couple months ago but just like that he was checked out. Good luck to you
Hope the song helps! Stay strong 💪🏼
Shit brother I got you. I feel you I’m going through right now
Hugs 💜💜💜💜
Definitely feel your story. Feeling cheated out of your years. That hits me.. I felt that too. It gets better hang in there.
I love how this song is about a man who genuinely loved her and wants the best for her, even if it isn't him.
Thanks so much!! 🙏🏻
@@ClaytonShay I love this bro
@@allisonneumeister8106 thanks so much!!
@@ClaytonShay aww your Sweet your welcome this is my favorite country in less it kane brown
@@ClaytonShay Clayton your amazing
This is the most beautiful non toxic break up song and I respect it so much
Thank you so much!
This is the break up song the world needs.
Have you heard “grew apart” by logan mize? It’s very non toxic
Its probably the healthiest thing to do even if that was hard at first
Shit this song is what I would do lol
The pain never goes away. You just learn to live with it.....
Exactly right
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Or you could grow a backbone and move on.
Why cry over someone who doesn't want you?
Grow up.
@ajs96350 what a fkd up thing to say to someone...especially someone you don't know. Deal with your shit.
@@kellykountouris7193 No. it's not.
The video is specifically about the heartbreak of loving someone who doesn't love you back.
Men need to hear the truth, we aren't living in a fantasyland.
So I stand by what I said, I've been there and I freaking grew a backbone and got over it.
Don't wallow in self pity, it's shameful for a grown ass man to do that.
You didnt waste your years bud. You got those boys for life ❤
That’s right
Why does my all feel like I'm supposed to take something when I was told no. Also, what do I have to take? I do not want to be the cause of someone's trauma 😭
Absolutely 💯 percent correct! The other half can always be replaced!? Lol. ❤
Blood is thicker than water
Finally a song not talking bad about there ex but you just want them to be happy even if that's without you
You got it! Thanks for watching!
I mean are you serious?. That's like saying post Malone made ozzy famous... Listen man.... George Straight- you look so good in love
Give it a listen
@@bradleydavis6460 yep!
It’s not the first but it’s a pretty awesome song.
Try listening to Grew apart by donovan woods
This one really made me cry. You know the music is good when it makes you feel.
This hits so hard. Especially when you’re so broken you don’t even know if you’re enough anymore
You’re enough for the right person. Hang in there!
You are ALWAYS ENOUGH for the RIGHT ONE 💙❤
I feel you! I’m wondering the same thing. What was I thinking?😔
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Hang in there champ. The boys got you
To let someone you love exit your life, no matter how bad it hurts, with such grace is the truest display of love.
You get it. Thanks for watching
@@davidbrian2039 Hello there
@@ClaytonShay I do. Thank you for combining such a love story with music-my lifeline.
I let my first wife go her happiness was more important then mine and she is happy I never forget to text or call on special days
I am not sure who I am replying to. I am not sure why I never saw your response a year ago. I would feel rude if I were not to respond, so “Hello”.
I will always want the best for my babe.
Austin Booth, I pray you find your way, someone who can love you the way you need, and joy in this life. May God always keep you and anyone who reads this in His Grace and Mercy. Amen
This needs to be released to country radio & pop. I can imagine y’all at the CMA’s performing live. That’s how beautiful & haunting this cover is. Awesome!
I’m a girl but I feel like I can relate to this just the other way around, I want him to be happy even if it’s not with me! 🥺
Glad the message can reach both sides. Thanks for watching!
I feel the exact same way
@@devilheart1015 so glad ya can relate!
@@ClaytonShay me too lol
my buddy keeps telling me I just need to get over her and no matter what I do I can't we never dated probably never will but it's funny how the only ones who could help me don't care 😂 this probably don't relate but ima post it any ways only a couple deep
I’m a full grown man, first time hearing this song. Can someone tell me why I bawled as soon as he said “she likes movies in black n white”
It’s a heavy one for sure! Thanks for watching buddy! 🙏🏻
That’s where I starting bawling too
Same here
If I were to guess. Its probably because.. As you said you're "..a full grown man.." Takes a real man to let his spirit speak to his heart and embrace what it feels .. Then the mind connects and we cry. Stay true.
I’ve been happily married for 30 years this year. That hit me hard too. It’s great song writing. I wonder if he wrote the song. He sang it just as good as it is written.
Never heard of you and don't even know how I came across this video, but I am glad I did. Good stuff
Thanks so much! Check me out on IG/Spotify/TikTok!!
Hi
@@katiebazewicz9479 🙋🏼♂️
You are married to someone
Are you married or single forever
I absolutely love this song and the concept behind it. When you love someone so much that you want them happy even if it's not with you and being grown enough to understand what you had and moving on healthily.
Thanks so much! I’m glad you connected with the message! 🙏🏻
How for is your absolute on yourself for absolutely clarity in understanding growth applying your gift of knowledge on a God-given match maker other woman than wasting your angel. I’m very hopeful Our Way-maker has forgiven an unwanted outburst. May the other guy prosper from the pebble curse to glorify his true forum. Amen
Blessing to you Mikode on hearing
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Does moving on healthily count if you kinda accidentally became the persons best friend and pretty much surrogate sibling bc youd rather have them in your life than not at all
No its just settling. You will always have an emptiness. @prestonlong7261
Finally a song that isn’t talking about how country someone is. Less gimmicks and more lyrics. Keep it up
So glad ya like it!! 🙏🏻 Feel free to shoot me a follow on IG & Spotify, I’ve got some more music you might like!
@@ClaytonShay hey Clayton I love your music it speaks about me and my girlfriend
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I allways love ur music clayton
Just because she fell out of love with you, that doesn’t mean you don’t hope she’s still loved right
Absolutely!!
Haven’t heard a word of this song but that comment hit hard
@@bennettmorrissette5501 hi
😭😢 That is the hardest part.
Just happened to stumble upon this song. The title intrigued me, so I clicked on it. Wow. Hits you smack in the chest. Letting go is one thing. Doing it with class and grace is another. Exceptionally well done. 👍
Hey thanks so much for taking a chance on me! Check out my other songs if ya got a sec! 🙏🏻
@@ClaytonShay Love that song went through similar thing myself after a while it got worse ... Finally Got the woman i should have waited for be together 16 great years ... tyvm for putting this song out it reminds me of how great life could be if people treat ALL the way they want to be treated in return
Just got Smacked with this one!! ♥️♥️
@@hydrothunder49028 hey thanks for the kind words! I have a brand new music video for my single “Island”! If ya got a sec can you let me know what you think of it in the comment section? 🙏🏻
@@Chelle337 Thanks so much for watching! I have a brand new music video for my single “Island”! If ya got a sec can you let me know what you think of it in the comment section? 🙏🏻
My wife is calling it quits on our marriage and I miss her more and more everyday. This is one of the songs that is helping me through all of this
Sorry to hear you’re going through that, but I’m glad the song helps! Stay strong 💪🏼 Check out some of my other music videos/songs on my channel if ya got a sec! 🙏🏻 let me know what ya think in the comments!
I feel that, same situation
I went through what you're going through 2yrs. ago, still feels like yesterday. You will get through this, it's hard at times, but you will.
That is what I consider Unconditional love. No requirements and willing to step aside for the other person well being over your own. ❤️
You nailed it! I love it when a listener connects with the message 🙏🏻 make sure to check out my other songs/music videos if ya got a second!
Found out about my ex's new guy a few days ago and even after a few months it's a gut punch the first time you hear about it or see them. I gave her to God though and I hope He works everything out for good in His plan for us both! Great song, man. This guy has real potential. 💯
Thanks so much buddy!
Hi
How are you
Aww you gave her to GOD that beautiful. I pray happiness unmatched for you 😊
I feel you I got told Thursday at school she had a new man and I was sad af cuz it is a homie but oh well she said I didn't make her happy anymore but I got a new girl Friday night so I'm happy
Finally a song that is not toxic and is not about making there life worse by thinking about negative things in there mind. The song is fire and wonderful and your an amazing singer and I’m glad your talking good about your ex and not bad
Thank you!
Can't believe I just found this! God's timing can't be wrong, especially since my marriage of 25 years has been hit by the big D. I WILL ALWAYS HAVE MY JESUS, HE WILL NEVER HURT OR LEAVE ME❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I hope the song helps! Thank you for watching 🙏🏻
@ClaytonShay Thank-you so much, I ❤️ this song!
@@tjohnson1074 So glad ya like it! It’s available on all streaming platforms if ya want to add it to your playlist!
@@ClaytonShay Thank-you ♡
The fact he just wants her to be happy!! Even if it’s not with him! Is everything!🥺❤️
So glad ya like it!
[Verse 1]
Hey Bartender, can I borrow that pen?
I've got a list of things I need to get down on this napkin
And she's been goin' out with somebody new
And he's sittin' there drinkin' a beer across from me and you
And if you could pass this along with his next drink
But don't tell him it's from me
[Chorus]
She likes movies in black and white
The summer rain and red wine
And she needs someone who knows how to make her smile
She talks to her momma on the phone
About babies and country homes
And how someday she'll want one of her own
So love her the best way that you can
Signed another man
[Verse 2]
Hey bartender thanks for helpin' me out
It wasn't easy for me to get these words down
He's sittin' there reading what I wrote
And I know that she'll be better off 'cause now he knows
[Chorus]
She likes movies in black and white
The summer rain and red wine
And she needs someone who knows how to make her smile
She talks to her momma on the phone
About babies and country homes
And how someday she'll want one of her own
So love her the best way that you can
Signed another man
[Bridge]
I couldn't fit everything on this note
It's just a few things I think you should know
[Chorus]
She likes movies in black and white
The summer rain and red wine
And she needs someone who knows how to make her smile
She talks to her momma on the phone
About babies and country homes
And how someday she'll want one of her own
So love her the best way that you can
And be everything I cant
Signed another man
Signed another man
🙏🏻
@@ClaytonShay at the end is it be everything I can or everything I can't?
@@ashleycarr5152 “everything I can’t”
Mahgoodness...
Luv these lyrics! Break ups r so hard to do!
the pure intentions in this song are so rare for humans to have in todays world. it’s such a bitter sweet feeling hearing this song and knowing that there is still hope for love and relationships without the toxicity of an ex.
don’t ever stop making music, this was amazing.
Thanks so much for watching! Glad you got the message 👌🏻
I miss you so much
I miss you CJ...... Right person wrong time.. I love you at first sight
Song about a man setting himself free and wishing happiness 💪🏼💪🏼
The most prolific, thought provoking song in the longest. Definitely gives meaning to absolute unselfish love, without limitation. You know you love someone when you can want for nothing but their every happiness, even if its not with you.
That’s it! Glad you got the message. Thanks for watching! 🙏🏻
Hello! I don’t mean to bother you, but for some reason your profile come up under Eddie and it’s nice viewing your profile because I do not think I know you, I thought I just write and say hello, maybe we could be friends, I hope you are comfortable with that ?
Can Confirm!
I guess in possessive because I havent been able to move on
Except inside you..personally.
This is probably one of the most hearfelt and sad songs I've ever heard in my life....
Did anyone else cry like a baby to this song? So good!
I don’t think you’re alone 😂
Cry everytime 😟
I'm speechless..... Every word is who I am, how I feel.... It's like you have been there every step of my life, thank you for what you do, it feels good to finally know that someone can relate to every little set back, feeling, emotion.
This song made me actually come to terms with the breakup with the woman I thought was going to be my wife. Moves me to tears and I hardly cry anymore. Thanks for this song helped me and probably others out there going through their own struggles.
So glad the song helped buddy! Thanks for watching 🙏🏻
One day you will find your match and you will never be disappointed 🙂
@@rebekahbernedette2304 Thank you so much
Congratulations 🎉
That's a beautiful picture and I love the thought of happily ever after ❤
This song is a great eye opener for people that every freedom given doesn't require hate and revenge in return. It's a really good masterpiece. If Mr. Clayton Shay is a new man in producing songs this heartwarming that removes hatred from people's system, you bet I'mma support him on this a hundred percent.
Thank you! That means a lot 🙏🏻
Words sung as a real man who truly loves. ❤
INSTANT SUBSCRIBER BRO.
Fantastic song.
I hope she is happy now.
Country songs just hit different. This is bomb. The message is just *chef’s kisses*. Who’s cutting onions? 😭❤️
Thanks so much!! I’ve got more music coming soon, so make sure to give me a follow on your favorite streaming platform and subscribe on here!
Cut that bun
Hey Clayton, TH-cam randomly recommended me this, and I gotta say I'm really glad it did. You are by far one of the best singers I've heard in a good minute, on the Country side of music. Being a man who has done this before, it really hit me hard. It was one of those things I kind of regretted doing because i still loved the woman at the time, and I wanted her to be happy, even if it wasn't with me. Thank you for making this, and letting others know people like us exist in this world.
Hey thanks so much for watching! Glad ya connected with the message!
Infe
Hits different when you feel it in your chest
A song for any man who has watched the woman he had fall outta love!
You got it!Thanks so much for watching! Feel free to subscribe and share if ya got a sec!
Etj
😭
We don't fall out of love... We fall out of trust, respect, appreciation, happiness. But we don't just leave, we leave slowly... Men taking us for granted blocks their ability to see us distancing, and therefore they never stop us from leaving.
@@e.drenalin6138 AMEN to that!
Could not have gotten the two best boys together. Literal teddy bears! I love this!
This is a PRIME example of what truly loving someone is. Wanting them to be happy even if it isn't with you.
So glad the message resonates with you! Thanks for watching. Checkout some of my other songs/music videos if ya got a sec 🙏🏻
I do want that...
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Famous last words, "there's no such thing as forever"," there's always an ending". "Everything has an ending"
This is the kind of country music we need more of. Absolutely beautiful!
Thanks so much!!!
Came from tiktok added you to my Spotify this hit home
Thanks so much!! Appreciate ya!!
Love the song
If you truly love someone, you'll want them to be truly happy, even if that happy is with someone else... I needed this song today, and I'm glad I found it.
Well said, and I’m glad that the song helped you in some way! 🙏🏻
I just released a brand new music video for my single “Island”! If ya got a sec can you let me know what ya think of it in the comment section? 🙏🏻
Such an amazing group. Sound, substance talent
There should be more men that actually think this way 💓
That means girls as well. Not just one sided.
I agree! Thought this message needed to get out there
Clayton Shay, this Sunday will make a year I lost my husband at a very young age. I take this song as him telling whoever man I end up with the words you are writing as the other man. Like he is letting him know from above all the things i like and still keeping watch over me! This song makes be bawl just thinking of him! I love this song always! Keep making more great music Clayton!
Wow thanks for sharing that ❤️ and thanks for watching 🙏🏻
That’s amazing!! It’s a great song
I hope someone thinks of me that way when I’m gone
I’m so sorry for your loss
Its still hard to let her go but this helped me understand that she'll be happier with someone else. Thank you.
Glad the song helped buddy!
Clayton I’m a fan for life, when I first heard this song it made me think of two things one how my dad treated my momma before he left her and how I’ve been treated in my past
Hmmmm that’s deep
That song hit home. Literally walked down this road this week. I needed to hear this. Thank you
I hope the song helps ya! Thanks for watching
Great song. Sometimes unfortunately love just ain't enough. I pray that nobody has to go through that pain but it's a part of life.
You got that right! Thanks for watching 🙏🏻
Life goes on,keep your head up.....there's better DayZ ahead
Gorgeous song needs to heard more often. True love, when u want them to be happy even if that means them not being with u. He’s been blessed with an amazing voice.
Thanks so much! Share with your friends and help me get it heard! 🙏🏻
@@ClaytonShay this made me cry , I hope my ex will do this after 11 years together
This is the first time I'm hearing this song and the voice, lyrics and storyline really made me cry, dang! I'm your fan, now 😢❤
This song breaks my heart. Why can’t they strive to be the man we need them to be. 😢😢
Sometimes it just doesn’t work out. Nothing wrong with that 🤷🏼♂️
Because no one should have to change who they are for someone else. It just wasn’t meant to be that’s all.
End up realizing it too late...such as the situation I'm in. 💔
Who (or whom) pray tell, are the '"they" to which you refer? Thr poor guy who was dumped in this video because little miss was bored? Sigh
Love is a partnership both people have to put in 100%. You have some really great men that get passed over or used by women who are chasing men that will use and abuse them.
You ain’t a man until you’ve had your heart broken.
Ain't that the truth!!!!!!!! 😔
💪
You're not a man to you've learned to let go
This song is extremely relatable. Last year I was friends with two people that were dating. I worked with the the boyfriend at the time. We weren’t close but we talked at work. I didn’t talk much to his girlfriend much just got a vibe from her so didn’t talk much. And I seen a post on her Facebook that she was depressed and it was concerning coming from someone who has personally lived through a suicide attempt. We started hanging out and grew really close. We would go out to eat , movies, and we’d drive through the river bottoms hitting every mud hole we could and park under the bridge and pass out with her laying her head on my chest listening to the radio. But they got back together. Before her it’d been three years since I’d been involved with anyone since my last girlfriend took her own life in 2018. But I texted him and told him he was going to lose her and I told him what all she had told me and how to fix things and just as many things I could think of I knew that just made her light up like no other by the time I was done I was in tears. To care so much about someone that you want to see them happy even if it’s with someone else. Luckily for me. Two days later I was going to Nashville to get my teeth looked at turns out I need all of them cut out before I can do my heart surgery but she wanted to go with me. She knew everything was getting to me and she wanted to support me. She’d broken up with him again. And by the time we stopped in Knoxville I just couldn’t handle it. I didn’t want to risk losing a friend like her but I couldn’t stay silent. I’ve had different girlfriends but I never broke down to the point I cried trying to hold feelings back. And the best thing I did was tell her because she kissed me and told me she felt the same way. We drove into gatlinburg and made it back to southern Indiana all within 24 hours. We’ve been married now 6 months and have a baby due in September. I’m sorry your situation didn’t have a similar outcome. But there’s someone out there for you. You have a good heart it takes a lot out of a person to put that kind of love out there.
Love this story! Sounds like you’ve live the song. Thanks for watching! Check out some of my other music videos on my channel if ya got a sec, I think you’ll like them too!
What a wonderful story with a great ending ❤️
@@ruthannkramer907 🙏🏻
Love this song
well you know, it was inspired by those very same folks mr 5cent piece
You turned something sad, into a positive. THAT takes a lot of talent! Love this song. Can't wait to hear more.
This song hit my soul and heart, imagine someone who loves you so much that they still want you happy even if its not with them.?! I couldn't help but cry. So beautiful
So glad ya felt something from the song!! Thanks for watching! I have a brand new music video for my single “Island”! If ya got a sec can you let me know what you think of it in the comment section? 🙏🏻
It's awesome showing respect for the others relationship and just wanting them to be happy. Great message :)
Thanks so much! 🙏🏻
That's deep and hits home for many of us. I learned the hard way that sometimes God has other better plans.
Wow! Beautiful voice, and message! Good man! I need me a real southern man. It’s time for a change.
First time I’ve heard your music, I’m happy TH-cam suggested this.
Thanks so much for watching! Feel free to hit that subscribe button!!
Absolutely beautiful, this song actually made me cry.
Glad ya felt something from it!
Awww I absolutely loved this!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😭😭😭
So glad ya like it!!
Hello! I don’t mean to bother you, but for some reason your profile come up under Eddie and it’s nice viewing your profile because I do not think I know you, I thought I just write and say hello, maybe we could be friends, I hope you are comfortable with that
Beautiful love the song
Listening on repeat… in tears… this hits. I hope you’re doing okay.
You’re the epitome of a prince- no a King.
I think a lot of people can agree no man is telling someone else things so she would be better off 🥺💔 you’re an amazing human being and such a kind genuine soul… ✨🥺
Thanks for the kind words! And thanks for watching! 🙏🏻
@@ClaytonShay I don’t think there’s many men like you in this world. She was lucky to have you and so is your future wife, hun! We all go though what we go though for a reason. 🤍
Kids should really be shown that not every break up has to be toxic and dogging the other person just because there not with them. Love the song
Thank you so much!
I actually love this song n that's from someone who always gets there heart broken
Glad ya love it! Grab it off iTunes to help me climb the charts!!
Give Jesus a try,He won't break your heart,He loves you i promise
You will be loved some day I promise you
Songs are so beautiful and hit where they should!! Crazy how words can tell it just like it is sometimes
I love my man more today then the first day we meet, it’s been 36 years now. I can’t imagine my life without him. Beautiful song thank you 🙏🤗
Glad ya like it! Thanks for watching 🙏🏻
I absolutely love this song. This is something that is rare, you don't see this very often with my generation sadly. I often wish to have been born in an older generation but it's songs like this that give me hope. Even though I'm only 19, for some reason this song speaks to me, and I absolutely adore this song. I'm so glad someone can write a decent 'newer country' song without it sounding toxic, and it's respectful, not about girls in bikinis, or trucks. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!!❤️❤️
So glad ya like it! Check out some of my other music videos/songs on my channel if ya got a sec! 🙏🏻 let me know what ya think in the comments!
@@ClaytonShay you are a really good artist. It's nice to actually like some more of the music from my generation. I normally stick to the older songs for almost all the genres especially country. You are right up there with them, thank you for giving me a little more hope for my generation.
Right to the heart here man, sometimes we just want someone to love em right, when we didn't. Absolutely perfect.
Hey thanks so much! Make sure to check out my other music videos/songs if ya got a second! 🙏🏻
Wow. I totally get this song. I am 54 yrs old & I have been in love with my ex for 37 years. I think of him everyday & have for 37 years. No matter who I was with, my heart has always been his. When we broke up, it nearly killed me. But I let him go bcuz I wanted him to be happy in life. If I couldn't make him happy, I wanted him to find someone that did. It hurt me so bad, but I really loved him so it was more important. I have never stopped loving him tho.
A great song without a doubt. And I like how he takes the time to read and respond to the comments left about his music. You have a new fan here!!👏👏👏
I do my best! Thank you!! 🙏🏻
@@ClaytonShay your welcome!
I noticed the same…it’s rare to see an artist interact with their fans, and it shows how appreciative he is of how his gift of music touches each one of individually…
He has a new fan in me today, as well!❤️🩹
Great song, so meaningful. That's all I ever asked my ex husband to do, to just let me go and let me be happy. He once in awhile calls me of course for our boys, but also to make sure my husband is treating me right. Guess it really makes em think.
My good Lord continue blessing you with your talent ❤🙏
Thanks for watching!!
Beautiful song such a gentleman I wish you well I’m your career you have a fan for life ❤. Keep striving
Thank you so much! Check out my other music if ya got a sec! 🙏🏻
I feel this mans pain. Im going through this conflicyion the last month, and it's like every day something else comes up. I mean, im struggling, but my husband and I ask God everyday to help others because no matter what we know he has a plan for us
@@ednagillum7342 stay strong 💪 thanks for watching!
I absolutely LOVE this song. Thank you for sharing this with the world
So glad ya like it!
I'm not crying, you're crying 🥺🥺. This song is so beautifully written and sung ❤
Thanks so much!! 🙏🏻
Giving happiness to another is pure love!
This song is beautiful and your true brother 💗
Thanks so much! I have a brand new music video for my single “Island”! If ya got a sec can you let me know what you think of it in the comment section? 🙏🏻
Wow Uncle Glenn! That was so good. You did it very well. That being said....how long hasn't been since my great grandfather passed? It's been a long time since I laid eyes on him I was just a little girl when he left this world. But I tell you this, I see him in you in this video especially with those glasses on. This took me back to seeing him sitting in that vinyl rocking chair and his snuff can on the floor beside him. Thanks for that memory.
Thanks for fucking my day up, man. No, really. Most new music is about bud light labels and short shorts on tan girls. You really hit home with this one and for me. Ill definitely be waiting for more music from you, you’ve earned my attention
Glad ya like it! Thank you!
I'm grateful I came across this beautiful song. Pure Love does this, love the best for someone even when they aren't with you anymore.
So glad you like the song! 🙏🏻 check out my newest video for my single “Good For Nuthin’”!
This song hits so hard…. Especially when you are living these feelings
It's relatable for sure. Been there a few times.
Glad you can relate, hope the song helps!
Hopefully you come to Vegas
Beautiful song. Thank you for this.
Moving outta Illinois was the best thing to ever happen to your career! Your original songs continue to slay man! 👊🏼
Thanks for your support! 🙏🏻
Just wanted to say you're a phenomenal vocalist. So happy I stumbled across this song as it introduced me to a new favorite artist
Thanks so much! Check me out on your favorite streaming platform, I’ve got more music coming!
Same sweets! I love this
@@ClaytonShay I love this!
@@paulamay9227 thank you! It’s out on all platforms! Make sure to add to your playlist!
I've literally listened to this 20x already!!! Such a good song 😭♥️
His voice is EVERYTHING!!
Thanks so much!
This is somehow the first time this song has been suggested to me. Clayton Shay has managed to embody & captured the pain, hurt and despair, but through the lens and actions of the Unconditional Love of Christ and God’s Word.
While it’s a role reversal for me…Just like another user said about being so broken and don’t believe you’re enough any more. If it’s not an abusive relationship…I’m Always left for another woman or some other excuse/reason…heart shattered beyond words, but yet I still always see the good in them. It’s so hard to continue to walk out that Unconditional Love of Christ in reality, time after time…and even harder to believe what God says about you, and if you’re ever going to be good enough for anyone.
Came here from TT absolutely love this song!
Thanks so much!!
Omg. This song is such a Heartbreaker. It hits really hard for me right now especially since I'm going through such a turmulous break up myself. Love this song.❤
This song I have the upmost love for. Randomly found it on my recommended and now it’s in every playlist. Getting out of a long relationship and even though she’s with someone else it puts a smile on my face knowing she’s happy. Even if I’m not. Thanks
That’s amazing, thank you!!!
“…with… a bun…😐”. Really though, the humility, wisdom & grace within this message are hard to know without the personal experience, & impossible without God.
🤔 thanks for watching 🤷♂️
Seriously all a woman needs is a man to love her like this. I've been with my husband 21 1/2 yrs and we are so in love ❤️ it's literally feels like it's been a month or two. We have 4 beautiful daughters and he is my world my everything. Some ppl don't know what they have until it's gone. I see it way to much couples yelling Devorce! Once that's said it sticks to the wall and it will be repeated until it happens. Great song! Forever fan
This song popped up after another song. I could feel the heartbreak at the beginning, but the selflessness just sent me crying like a baby! Wanting them to be happy, with or without you, is the truest love, imo. My heart breaks for this "other man."
Thanks so much for watching! I have a brand new music video for my single “Island”! If ya got a sec can you let me know what you think of it in the comment section? 🙏🏻
Thank you so much for this song! I’ve never related to anything more. It explains exactly how I feel about my best friend who I’ve always wished we could be more but she doesn’t wanna complicate our friendship. Watching her date a bunch of guys that treat her like crap and constantly break her heart is just so hard. I wish I could give them a list of all the things she loves and how to treat her right.
Glad you can relate to the message. Thanks for watching buddy!
Love your music
@@dawnlynn9443 thanks!
Damn I've got the Goosebumps
I'm loving it from Houston
Hearing this by chance and I've not stopped listening to all your music, amazing lyrics and voice to match 🤗
Awesome, thanks so much for listening! 🙏🏻
I’ve literally watched this 6 times today. Such a great song and story.
Thank you! Feel free to watch it 6 more times 😂
I knew someone that used to go by sterling, now he goes by chrome
This song hit the nail on the head for me. Keep up the excellent music.
Thanks so much!! Check out my other music/music videos 🙏🏻