The most fucked up part is when none of the boys stood up for you and instead of trying to fix things to keep the friendship healthy, them shrugging the entire situation under the rug and leaving you in the dark. No other person deserves to be treated like that... And the years you've been holding on, I feel for you and now that the cat's outta the bag, I hope you find peace within yourself and find all the success and joy
Making fun of someone's grief is the lowest of low. Whoever it was is disgusting and I wish I knew who it was because I wouldn't support someone with that character. You definitely deserved better.
Them not responding to you is crazy, especially after sending a long thoughtful message, not one person reaching out is crazy, your feelings are valid af, sorry you had to go through that, nobody deserves to be treated that way ever.
Having a huge friend group you’re bound to have issues. And others in the friend group don’t have to choose sides, HOWEVER they should have tried to mediate the situation and not just leave Oscar on his own. That’s not a true friend. And I do believe it’s Nezza & Crawf, only because Oscar unfollowed them both first. And he unfollowed the rest later on. And Nezza had held events for her Sola release and NYE party around that time. Its fucked up because everyone loss Corey that day. No one greater than the other, so to belittle a friend of Corey’s is so shallow. You’re definitely owed an apology from every single person in that friend group, but I’m glad you walked away for the sake of your sanity. I know it hurt, but they all really did show you no empathy or respect. So sorry for you. I wish you the best 2024!
I have never resonated with something so much. Between last year and this year I also lost a friend group (we were about 6-7) and it was in a very similar fashion to you, where at the end of it all, I'm seen as the bad/dramatic/confrontational one. And that is the furthest from the truth. Thank you for sharing. Not because we are able to know what happened between y'all, but because it helped me feel less alone with my own situation.
Corey was definitely looking out for you when you saw those text from the computer. He will continue to do that from heaven and love on you how he feels he can. Your grief even if you didnt know him long is valid! Im so sorry whoever this is did this to you and learns from their mistakes...
Everyone grieves in a different way. That sucks that your feelings were invalidated by that person. It isn’t about who knew Corey “better” or for how long, at the end of the day you all witnessed a tragic thing. You were all apart of the same friend group. I hope that person can one day reflect back on this situation and grow from it. & I Hope that you are able to move on from this and have some peace of mind 🙏🏼
Very true, esp. regarding who "knew Corey 'better' or longer", seeing as how Corey touched so many lives, through his videos and his appearances in others' videos, that even those of us that didn't know Corey in real life, as Oscar did, felt and grieved his loss as well. So it stands to reason that Oscar would feel that grief profoundly, having known Corey in real life and having spent time with him. To lose someone so quickly and in such a manner, is a jarring experience. It wasn't called for, for someone to then call Oscar's grief into question after something like that.
Really disappointed in the group. No one should be treated this way, but please know that you are not alone. I went through something similar years ago with people I thought were my "friends" as well. Sending lots of love!
As painful as it must have been to go through, maybe this needed to happen so you wouldn’t continue to be around people who didn’t have good intentions and just didn’t really care about you. You deserve friends who validate you, who support you, and who stick by you. How sad that they turned grieving a mutual friend into a “who knew him better” or “who should miss him more” contest. The fact that even after all the hurt they caused you, you still tried to reach out and have a conversation to potentially resolve the issue and even understand their point of view- and they ignored you speaks volumes. You were their friend, but they weren’t yours. I’m sorry you went through that, especially during such a painful time.
Oscar, I know how hard this is for you to go through this shit and process. I really understand your frustration and being the one who would stand up for people that you ride for and you calling them a friend because I am the same way. I don’t know if it is a Gemini thing or not, but one thing is to stay true to yourself and try to get through life with the fewest issues as possible. You have given me so big pointers here that I really appreciate. Continue being the genuine guy you are, a littke bit of hope in the world is enough to possibly help someone who may need it. You will attract the right people at the right time. Sending love and support!!❤
Everyone handles grief differently. Everyone who comes into someone’s life changes their life a little bit. No matter how long or short of a time you guys knew Corey he still affected y’all in a positive way. Your feelings towards the matter are valid. He still considered all of yall his friends and that’s what really matters. For those who have judged you for grief were grieving as well but should’ve handled the situation differently. Edit: in a big group of friends that the one you’re talking about, not everyone is going to like you, not everyone is going to be your friend. You have to be careful who you trust and who you depend on. I’m truly sorry something like this happened but you did what you felt was best for you and I’m proud of you for that.
That must have made you feel so isolated! I was always like where Oscar? What happened to him? Glad to see you again. Happy you spoke your truth. Friend should never say to keep your feelings quiet.
I always wondered where you went or what happened. I'm glad you opened up and are currently still processing and healing thru all this. I hope soon it all comes to light because it's just fkkkd up how its all superficial and monetary gain. Tienes mi apoyo Oscar!
Glad you put this out. Not that you owe anyone anything, but it lets others know that you weren’t the “drama”. Although you technically could be lying, I believe you. I can tell that the way you are saying these things that it is true. I see those people in a different light now. Thank you for sharing. Keep pushing and being a good person. Karma is real. Happy New Year Oscar & to anyone else dealing with disloyalty and their own battles!🥂🎉
Thank you for your vulnerability. Your feelings are valid, you deserved better. So sad to hear how this all ended. But so proud of you for sticking up for yourself in this way. 💙
the people talking shit & dragging your name real quiet now huh..just proves that they knew nothing and prayed on your downfall; good for you for posting this fr, it shows how much it took outta you & everyone who supports you can see that :)
WOW!!! I’m soo sorry that happened to you. I hope you find peace with everything and that you are able to move on. I hope you have someone to talk to about all this bc this is heavy shit!!
& That is what you call fake friends tbh - I'm really sorry you had to go through this, but it really reveals to you who your real friends are. I feel like SO many of those people in that group are just there because of the fame, which is why everyone hushed up because no one wanted to be "kicked out" of the group if that makes sense. I hope this new year is full of a little bit more peace and clarity for you Oscar. You'll find your true friends in life
Sending you love Oscar. I have been wondering this whole time. Thanks for the update and as a long time fan of the group, I am disappointed and probably won’t support. It is clear there are some weird hierarchy differences in the group and as some said, it’s the same people that are being teased. Wishing you a wonderful year. & like most people are saying, making fun of the way someone grieves is probably one of the lowest things you could do. Everyone deals with it differently. I’ve lost someone I think at around the same time as Corey passed and I would be heart broken if someone ever did that to me.
internet is crazy because it was a dream of mine to have a friendgroup like this, but nothing is what it looks like… i’m sorry oscar. i guess high school is never really over…
What I’ve noticed and learned throughout life is our biggest downfall is expecting other people to give us the same effort, love, respect, time, etc. like we do. And then we have the realization that it ain’t like that. As effed as it sounds u needed to see those messages. Some of those people weren’t your true friends and others didnt handle the situation well and should have stood by you when it all went down. I’m sorry this happened to u and from now on surround yourself with people who will ALWAYS cheer u on and be there for u genuinely ❤️
I only just came across this video now and MAN do I wish I'd seen it sooner. leaving a comment in the hopes that it boosts your engagement so that more people see this!! I've followed the friend group for years & years & genuinely wondered what had happened to you, & I suspected some kind of fallout had been caused bc of Corey's passing - I always sort of felt like he was the glue in that friend group. but they all seem to be going their own ways now anyway, for good & bad reasons, so hopefully once enough time has passed & there's enough distance in the group, people might wake up to the error of their ways & reach out to you to apologise for their actions, or lack thereof. if they want to be good role models - especially the ones currently starting families! - then I think an apology for not having your back is the least you deserve.
Vanessa and franny used to have this one roommate (Sole) when they were doing the Univision thing and sole basically had the same issue with Vanessa/ franny being mean girls so much that Sole left that whole home. Sole made a video but not really going into details but sole was super sweet it was sad she went through that with them girls and now Oscar went the same with them. I’m not surprised they are mean girls
I’m trying to look for the video too but the only video I could find was Franny and Nezza just mocking the situation of Sole moving out. Literally mean girls. Franny lost weight and practiced her duck lip pose so her ego 📈
i'm so glad you said this because i remember this!!! that's the reason i stopped watching franny and nezza. they would both give her weird looks and just seemed off everytime they filmed with her. i'm not sure if any of her videos are still up but i know at the time sole posted a video crying saying something about how everything would come out
Wow. I feel so disappointed on how the group just handled the situation. As someone who has watched the group and their individual channels for years it makes me look at all of them differently. So proud that you stood up for yourself. Your feelings are very much valid and should not be belittled or ignored. Moving forward Oscar, I hope you find peace within yourself and go about your own self healing journey. Remember shit happens for a reason and nothing ever goes unseen. Karma is very much real. Sending you lots of love 🫶🏻
I fucking love you Oscar. I respect you so much and I’m very proud of you for handling this situation maturely and so happy you got out of it! You deserve to be respected and have friends that are loyal to you, have your back no matter what! You deserve so much! I am just shocked that no one from that group had your back or said anything!? Totally shows they are aren’t true friends! We all go through a lot and some people just stay quiet or makes situations worse but you did what was best for you and I hope are doing much better! I admire you a lot and will always be a supporting fan! I wish you the best and hope 2024 is a brand new fresh amazing year for you!
This was a well put video. Men’s mental health is important and everything you said is valid and much love bro. Sometimes things happen for a reason and a new chapter can begin. Corey would be very proud of you and is with you along your journey. 💙
Thank you for sharing your story Oscar, you’re right you didn’t need to but I’m glad you did. I’m so disappointed in these people, I don’t know exactly who but the group as a whole. I thought it was just me but, it always seemed that you and another individual weren’t treated as equals compared to the rest, always getting picked on and being the butt of the joke, like I know certain members have said that that’s just how they are and that’s how they show they care but it never sat well with me, I’ve been bullied so I can spot it from a mile away. I hope that you heal from this and put it behind you for your own sake. You deserve peace and Corey wouldn’t want you to be hurting ❤ loves up!
You don't have to do ALL things on your own :) It's hard finding trust in a bunch; especially when you had a group for a good few years. Give it time to feel your inner self and not give in to the dark side of mental health. Acknowledge and move forward, distinguish and move forward, feel and move forward. Don’t change of course, but learning from experiences makes some changes (in a good way)! You can take what I said in a good way or say “damn what is girl onn right now” lmaooo. You got this Vato, come on somos chingones! Sending lots of love 💜
love you oscar. your the chosen one out if that group. god knew what you didnt see feel or know before that happened. it was meant to be, your all you need , stay strong and in uplifting spirits please, god is only redirecting you onto a higher path
i dont usually leave comments but the way you spoke about expectations of loyalty and only standing for urself and ur family at the end of the day resonated with me. your mindset is so rare nowadays. these people are shallow minded but everything happens for a reason and God knew you were always meant for so much more. your morals and values can be seen from a mile away and i really pray for your peace of mind and hope you live the happiest of lives 🤍
It’s not fair you get left in the dark in such a horrible way, they stooped so low, how low can some people get, especially if you were their best friend. Bestfriends shouldnt do that to their best friends. I’m so sorry Oscar. You don’t deserve any of this at all. Sending you love and support 🩷 We hear you, we see you x
Sending much love to you Oscar 💙 I know Corey is so proud of all the accomplishment you are doing . I will forever support you no matter what , love and appreciate you so much ❤
Oscar, sorry that it sounds like people chose FOMO over friendship. Everyone could see through your videos how you would help others. And if a bunch of people online, who didn't even know Corey personally, myself included, grieved for the loss of his spirit in this world, it stands to reason that you, who knew him personally and called him a friend would as well. Esp. after having witnessed his passing first hand. Corey touched a lot of lives, whether in real life or through his and others videos. No one had a right to call your grief into question. May you find peace going forward, and a better support system as well. 🕊🕊
I'm so sorry honey that you had to go through all this especially all alone. I figured it was something Iike this for you to move out on your own. Unfortunately, this is how we learn who our true friends are or not. Some people can see you for who you truly are & that is a kind, loyal, & big hearted person. Much love to you.
as a viewer of that friend group (mainly knj) i’m truly upset that i’m just now seeing this. i did wonder what happened between you guys & truthfully, i found it easier to assume you were the problem without even holding the group accountable. which was dumb especially since i went through a similar situation myself in 2020 after i had lost my mom and went through a breakup which became too much for my “friends” since i truly wasn’t at my best. i notice you continuously brought up loyalty & that’s something that i value more than anything so for you to speak up on certain things while spending so long having held your tongue is apparent to your character. it shouldn’t have taken away from everything you had been through w them as well as done for them. i also went to a friend who i expected to have my back, but she pretty much said the same things yours did. it’s a shame what greed for clout, fame, or even merely a good time can do for someone. you just gained a new fan, im sorry for what you went through 😕
whoa I went thru something so similar. I lost my mom and then my gf broke up with me basically immediately after. and it was too much for my friends to support bc ‘everyone is going thru shit’… truly horrible. sending you love and healing
A lesson I hope you learned is never to let an issue fester. Address things that bother you immediately and head on. They gave you bad advice not to address it right then and there. It only snowballed into bigger resentment.
For those people to say “hey that’s not our issue” is fucked up. That just tells you that they are not your friend bc what friend basically tells you to figure it out on your own and not BE a friend? I see that group a bit differently now and it’s sad. I’ve always liked them and they preach about not chasing clout & friendship is more important. Sounds like lies. I haven’t watched either ones videos for a long time and I’m going to continue to do so bc what in the world. I’m really sorry you went through that.
I think that this whole thing includes a lot of lessons. There are times for action and times for inaction. There are times for reasonable expectations for others and times when one needs to be vulnerable and ask directly for what one needs/wants. There are also numerous examples here where we can do things or not do things which make a bad situation exponentially worse. All of this could have been avoided... and there are dozens of times in this story where it could have been stopped from escalating and snowballing. So, if it all happened all over again.... What have you learned from this situation? What would you have done differently? What would you now do differently? (And, if you think it is unfair for anyone to ask you that, just remember.... we should all ask ourselves that in every instance.) It doesn't matter who was more wrong or less wrong or more right or less right. There is no "fair meter." There is essentially only you getting through the realities of life. Unfair and horrible things happen to all of us a lot of the time. Life = trials and joys and sorrows and challenges and (hopefully) learning lessons. We shouldn't waste time with, "Why?" Our time is much better spent asking, "What can I learn from this situation?" WHY do that? Because, at the end of the day, whether others (or circumstances of life) treat us well or horribly or kindly or with cruelty, all we can ultimately do is control our own selves in those situations. And, then we have to walk forward with our own conscience. We can ask, request, try to influence, persuade, etc. But, our own words and actions are the part we can control. And, I hope you can see parts that could have been drastically changed before there is a "next time." Because there almost surely will be a "next time." Maybe not with these exact people or this same exact kind of situation. But, the wounds that each of us have tend to follow us. They are vulnerable spots for each of us. And, each time the wound gets hit and we don't treat it properly (and don't learn what we're supposed to learn from it), the pain gets deeper and reinforces how we do things next time - often in unhealthy or unhelpful ways. I hope you can see and reflect on what you were supposed to learn and that they are the right things to move you forward. I am sorry that people you cared about and who you thought were close friends wrote hurtful messages and had hurtful opinions about you. Most of us understand how devastating that can be. I wish that could have been dealt with immediately and directly so that the misunderstandings and assumptions and additional fallout could have been avoided. You have lots of people who are rooting for you and want the best for you. I am one of them. At the same time, we don't want you to miss the lessons or make it worse for yourself. I hope 2024 is an awesome year for you - better than you can even imagine.
Wow. You really have NO idea about what’s going with people. They’re actions was deplorable and making fun of how you displayed your grief despite others doing the SAME things suggests it wasn’t the ‘what’ but the ‘who’. These peoples are adults. Old enough to drink, vote, drive, own a weapon and just don’t have the ability to address their misdeeds. What painful to go through and I’m sorry Oscar. I was a huge fan of these people
I had always wondered what had happened. So sorry for what you went through 😢 but thank you for sharing and handling it so much better than how many other people would. Stay strong 💪🏻💙
It's really fucked up that Oscar went through that, one of the hardest thing to recover from is a friendship breakup. In the same breath, I'm glad he's out and found out before investing more of himself on ppl that aren't worth it. Also, Karma is a bitch! I'm sure he doesn't wish them bad but I ain't crying when it comes to them... No me alegra pero si me da un fresquito! Fuck it, Si me alegra 🤷♀
i always knew they had some sort of passive animosity towards you, now they all flopping. camboys broken up, kian & jc's controversy. you keep doing you oscar. we love you.
Something similar happened to me and I cut everyone off and now I’m doing so much better, some of them reach out to apologize and I forgive them but I would never talk to them
I can’t believe they would treat him like this. This is sick. He was so close with Corey. And the fact they would fucking bully him for being heartbroken about his best friend passing is sick. Truly sick. I’m so sorry Oscar. They made you out to be the bad guy. Classic bully behavior.
Never like any of them after coreys accident. They all where so quick to start asking for money for this huge documentary about Corey. Where is its? Yes things happen but where did allllllll that money go they got. And 2 never liked nezza i seen right throw her. 3 Oscar you have a right to be mad ,you where there! you where one of the first people to get to Corey on that day. You seen shit no one should ever have to see. And you stopped so said person from running. Grief comes in stages and you deserve to be able to be sad angry drained all of them your a human. Stay strong. Also if crawford didnt see how much corey loved you hes blind. He talked about you all the time.
So what i have analised is that Crawford is the one who's from the house and Nezza is the one who you had tension with , Dyl and Wyl is who were in your side at first. and David who said that you had put your hand on one of the females. my advice to u is that you forget all about them and move forward and try your best to succeed in life and make a new friends.
Im sorry that happened to you Oscar. No one has any right to invalidate what you felt when you lost Corey. I lost a friend a few years ago and he had a large friend group. I knew everyone but i was never close to any of them. They didn't know the friendship and memories that we had. When he passed, i was never invited to the memorial they held, they never asked how i was doing. No one will ever know the bond we had besides him and I. Find peace in the fact that Corey knows your heart and no one can ever take all of the moments yall had together. Not everyone is there to see the laughs, the tears, the meaningfull moments or the nonsense between the two of you. There should have been at least one person to be a true friend to you. I know they feel like they're picking sides if they werent directly involved but real friends will help find a way to come up with a solution.
I’ve always seen you as genuinely good hearted. But sometimes relationships just don’t mesh. Some ppl care more about this portion of their salvation and others care more about another part. Sad reality but we weren’t all built the same. Sucks. If only we could totally, completely understand why ppl do what they do. You just keep doing you❤
One day I wondered where you went but I wasn't actively keeping up with anyone's social medias or watching every video every week so I never looked into it much. I enjoyed you being in KNJ videos. This whole situation is very unfortunate and all sounds very High school to me. It's odd to me that someone would make fun of a person for grieving. Very cruel of them. Also very interesting that everyone threw their hands up and said "figure it out" grown adults don't want to cause waves and potentially not be included in videos or invited to parties. That's very childish behavior. Not speaking up for what right for fear of losing your spot in the group is crazy. It's difficult to find real "friends" these days. I look at the friend group you had and I look at their bigger friend group now and sometimes wish I had a big ass group of friends like that but now I see I shouldn't wish for what others have because all that glitters ain't gold
A group that big. It’s fake. You’re acquaintances, not real friends. You’re lucky if you get one real friend in this life. So to say that whole group is real friends nah. Some are closer to others, sure but it’s too many people to be loyal to. I ride solo because of these things.
I wish you would put names, why do I have I feeling that it’s Nezza. You can just tell she’s that way. But if it was her that’s crazy because she knew Corey shorter time than everyone
I think it was nezza he had problems with and crawford who was messaging her. And fanny is nezzas best friend she probably the one who said he out hus hands on a girl just make it worse
Hey oscar, I see that you are hurt and confused as to why not a single person stick-up for you and if you are just unloveble person. And why would the ppl you called friends abandoned you quick and if it is you thatbis the problem. Or you just want to be in the friend group so badly but all you need is yourself, love your self and work hard on your self on your passion, wheather it is TH-cam or anything. We often forget that we need to be kind to ourselves and not take any crap from anyone. In short just be yourself and work on your self and the right kind of friends will cone to you. Dont beg to be someone's friend. You are going to be just fine. We love you 💜
I've been watching this group for years and wondered why you left. This just goes to show that people on the internet never know the full story. You can't invalidate someone's grief or how they feel. I'm sorry but I feel like a lot of people in this group are the types not to address things and just sweep them under the rug, until it makes them look bad. The fact that you were mature enough to ask for other's perspective before you reacted or said anything says a lot about your character. It says you take people's feelings into consideration, but no one seemed to do the same for you. I had can understand how you feel being an outsider and feeling misplaced. The universe always shows you who your true friends are. Baby, if i have to tip toe around my so called "friends" I don't em. Proud of you for telling your truth. Continue to heal and focus on yourself and the true ones around you. You don't have to do that by yourself 💙
that entire friend group is so weird to me, they seem like they are just friends for the videos and photos. I watch nearly all of them and it seems like they always just ignore or pretend like there is no drama. None of them ever actually address anything. and when JC did that month-long 24/7 live stream on Twitch the cracks really did show. The amount of times Chelsey and her roommate free load of JC is wild! and also David, the way he just uses JC is so weird to me and I wonder if JC even sees it himself. To make fun of someone's grief is so immature and disgusting but also if it is who everyone in the comments thinks it is then its not at all surprising. I lost a friend in high school and it was weird how people who had only known that friend for a couple of years acted like their grief was more important than mine. It shouldn't be a competition. The text messages in the beginning aren't even the most fucked part of the story though, it's everything that comes after that. I guess moving forward you know now that it is better to just confront things head-on rather than stew on them. You shouldn't have to make yourself uncomfortable to make others comfortable. And never assume that people who treat you the way you treat them, they will just disappoint you that way. You deserve good and supportive friends and I don't know if that's a thing you can find in the "influencer" world.
Oscar, the way I see you is that you move and lift shadows. You mirror people back their shadow selves and they get triggered. It is a them issue as you already know. I am proud of you for standing in your truth and seeing it for what it is. You will find what you are looking for, it is also looking for you. Trust. Much love 💙
Your feelings are valid one hundred percent , no one knows what eachother feels when something occurs like this . Shame to those who made you feel like this and did not help you or reach out. You did the best for your self in leaving those toxic individuals who did not care about you or you feelings/mental health. Stay strong
It sucks to deal with stuff like that, but honestly you already did what is best for you. Truth is every group that’s gotten big like that usually comes to a downfall for one thing or another, just look at the vlog squad. Just be happy you already distanced yourself from the poison that is social media delusion.
We have only got to see these people the way they want to be seen, you are showing everyone their true colors. im not gunna lie i assumed you were the toxic one after you left the group. They never mentioned you, but EVERYONE noticed you were missing.. Now I know that not everything is as it seems with that situation. I sincerely hope you get some form of apology after speaking from your heart the way you have in this video. Clowning on somebody's grief, especially when they are part of your friend group and they knew the pain you were in because they experienced it too, ESPECIALLY when they claim to be your friend.... thats incredibly shady. I wish you mentioned names so we could not show love to someone whose like that. You lost your group when you needed them most and I feel for you on that. I'm sure Corey would be heartbroken to see the way they treated you.
Yeah dude, i know you always tried to come off as real as possible in your videos and not to say that you wasn't but Daim bro i didn't know this is what was going on and when i seen how you were just (not) getting the best out of the situation you were in with all your friends who could of guessed that it was their fault when it was spiralling down for you like that man that is so fuked up. i feel for you bro they just don't know what it's like to gain real friends and what true loyalty is and i'm sure Corey is thinking the same thing as me if he knew about it because that is what he was all about too, i'm sure you will get the respect you need elsewhere and friends come and go but Corey will be a friend forever just know you did the right thing i'm sorry it had to come to this. i hope to god everything is okay lysm bro... R.I.P Corey La Barrie 💙
You should’ve took a picture of the messages and posted it with this video! Guilty ones will react! Guilty ones will talk! Start defending! But your “friends” are ugly please don’t hang out with them! If anything I’ll watch your videos like share etc you don’t need toxic people like them! I’m sorry Kian JC and all them are bad friends who can’t stick up for you! I wish you would say who it is DM hahahaha
Where's this video that you're talking about the tears and the video that this female edited, Who invented you to what thing exactly, and how many exact people did you reach out to?
Good Luck with future endeavors, it sucks that you’re left to fend for yourself and deal with this alone… you sound like you know what the issue is and you should work on it… your attitude is like “eff you I’m me u don’t like it that’s your fault I can say and do whatever I want” but your mood is “ I want friends and happiness nobody talks to me” I think you should reevaluate your attitude and reactions to things … it really does suck how the whole thing ended up being like this… likes and followers really go to some peoples heads.
That friend group seems so superficial to me... like they have such a big group yet they don’t really know each other or care. Idk I just would never be friends with those people and I won’t have watch kian and Jc since I was a teen.. I’m now an adult and yea I only like them and Bobby and yea that’s about it. The rest are just shallow in my eyes..
It also sounds like they wanted to be the main friend to Corey!… it’s always ugly people who say “I did this I did that and you didn’t” etc etc I hate them
it’s okay oscar, karma works in wonderful ways. you may have lost ur “friend group” but u gained angel. corey. he’s the reason why ur no longer friends with these people. he’s watching out for u because he knows u have the purest intentions. fck everyone else who even thought it was a good idea to clown on ur grief.
bro...go get some help. go heal from this so you can move on. "i dont think ill ever process"??? it's obvious you haven't healed and i hope better for you. also you can't be mad when you present yourself one way and people use what you give them to make their own opinion. unfortunately that's just what people do. like i said i hope you find healing and good friends. lastly. if they dont fuck with you dont expect anything from them and dont extend yourself to them. period
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The most fucked up part is when none of the boys stood up for you and instead of trying to fix things to keep the friendship healthy, them shrugging the entire situation under the rug and leaving you in the dark. No other person deserves to be treated like that...
And the years you've been holding on, I feel for you and now that the cat's outta the bag, I hope you find peace within yourself and find all the success and joy
Making fun of someone's grief is the lowest of low. Whoever it was is disgusting and I wish I knew who it was because I wouldn't support someone with that character. You definitely deserved better.
What happened?
The fact that almost everyone in that group made a video dedicated to Corey yet they wanna talk shit about your video is crazy
Them not responding to you is crazy, especially after sending a long thoughtful message, not one person reaching out is crazy, your feelings are valid af, sorry you had to go through that, nobody deserves to be treated that way ever.
that message popped up for a reason
Having a huge friend group you’re bound to have issues. And others in the friend group don’t have to choose sides, HOWEVER they should have tried to mediate the situation and not just leave Oscar on his own. That’s not a true friend. And I do believe it’s Nezza & Crawf, only because Oscar unfollowed them both first. And he unfollowed the rest later on. And Nezza had held events for her Sola release and NYE party around that time. Its fucked up because everyone loss Corey that day. No one greater than the other, so to belittle a friend of Corey’s is so shallow.
You’re definitely owed an apology from every single person in that friend group, but I’m glad you walked away for the sake of your sanity. I know it hurt, but they all really did show you no empathy or respect. So sorry for you. I wish you the best 2024!
this is so sad. you never really know how a person is behind the scenes.... much love oscar
I have never resonated with something so much. Between last year and this year I also lost a friend group (we were about 6-7) and it was in a very similar fashion to you, where at the end of it all, I'm seen as the bad/dramatic/confrontational one. And that is the furthest from the truth. Thank you for sharing. Not because we are able to know what happened between y'all, but because it helped me feel less alone with my own situation.
Corey was definitely looking out for you when you saw those text from the computer. He will continue to do that from heaven and love on you how he feels he can. Your grief even if you didnt know him long is valid! Im so sorry whoever this is did this to you and learns from their mistakes...
why this isn't viral omg i just found out about this video... hope you're doing better and okay now. i really want to know who are these ppl :")
Everyone grieves in a different way. That sucks that your feelings were invalidated by that person. It isn’t about who knew Corey “better” or for how long, at the end of the day you all witnessed a tragic thing. You were all apart of the same friend group. I hope that person can one day reflect back on this situation and grow from it.
& I Hope that you are able to move on from this and have some peace of mind 🙏🏼
Very true, esp. regarding who "knew Corey 'better' or longer", seeing as how Corey touched so many lives, through his videos and his appearances in others' videos, that even those of us that didn't know Corey in real life, as Oscar did, felt and grieved his loss as well. So it stands to reason that Oscar would feel that grief profoundly, having known Corey in real life and having spent time with him. To lose someone so quickly and in such a manner, is a jarring experience. It wasn't called for, for someone to then call Oscar's grief into question after something like that.
Really disappointed in the group. No one should be treated this way, but please know that you are not alone. I went through something similar years ago with people I thought were my "friends" as well. Sending lots of love!
As painful as it must have been to go through, maybe this needed to happen so you wouldn’t continue to be around people who didn’t have good intentions and just didn’t really care about you. You deserve friends who validate you, who support you, and who stick by you. How sad that they turned grieving a mutual friend into a “who knew him better” or “who should miss him more” contest.
The fact that even after all the hurt they caused you, you still tried to reach out and have a conversation to potentially resolve the issue and even understand their point of view- and they ignored you speaks volumes. You were their friend, but they weren’t yours. I’m sorry you went through that, especially during such a painful time.
Oscar, I know how hard this is for you to go through this shit and process. I really understand your frustration and being the one who would stand up for people that you ride for and you calling them a friend because I am the same way. I don’t know if it is a Gemini thing or not, but one thing is to stay true to yourself and try to get through life with the fewest issues as possible. You have given me so big pointers here that I really appreciate. Continue being the genuine guy you are, a littke bit of hope in the world is enough to possibly help someone who may need it. You will attract the right people at the right time. Sending love and support!!❤
This video needs more recognition. I wish more people saw this or end up seeing this
Everyone handles grief differently. Everyone who comes into someone’s life changes their life a little bit. No matter how long or short of a time you guys knew Corey he still affected y’all in a positive way. Your feelings towards the matter are valid. He still considered all of yall his friends and that’s what really matters. For those who have judged you for grief were grieving as well but should’ve handled the situation differently.
Edit: in a big group of friends that the one you’re talking about, not everyone is going to like you, not everyone is going to be your friend. You have to be careful who you trust and who you depend on. I’m truly sorry something like this happened but you did what you felt was best for you and I’m proud of you for that.
That must have made you feel so isolated! I was always like where Oscar? What happened to him? Glad to see you again. Happy you spoke your truth. Friend should never say to keep your feelings quiet.
I always wondered where you went or what happened. I'm glad you opened up and are currently still processing and healing thru all this. I hope soon it all comes to light because it's just fkkkd up how its all superficial and monetary gain. Tienes mi apoyo Oscar!
Superficial for sure
Glad you put this out. Not that you owe anyone anything, but it lets others know that you weren’t the “drama”. Although you technically could be lying, I believe you. I can tell that the way you are saying these things that it is true. I see those people in a different light now. Thank you for sharing. Keep pushing and being a good person. Karma is real. Happy New Year Oscar & to anyone else dealing with disloyalty and their own battles!🥂🎉
What did they do?
Thank you for your vulnerability. Your feelings are valid, you deserved better. So sad to hear how this all ended. But so proud of you for sticking up for yourself in this way. 💙
i see crawford n nezza different now.. im sorry this happend to you and nobody was there for you.
the people talking shit & dragging your name real quiet now huh..just proves that they knew nothing and prayed on your downfall; good for you for posting this fr, it shows how much it took outta you & everyone who supports you can see that :)
Well said!
WOW!!! I’m soo sorry that happened to you. I hope you find peace with everything and that you are able to move on. I hope you have someone to talk to about all this bc this is heavy shit!!
So proud of you for doing this. Love you and will be here for you and supporting you through everything you do. Keep your head up 💙
& That is what you call fake friends tbh - I'm really sorry you had to go through this, but it really reveals to you who your real friends are. I feel like SO many of those people in that group are just there because of the fame, which is why everyone hushed up because no one wanted to be "kicked out" of the group if that makes sense. I hope this new year is full of a little bit more peace and clarity for you Oscar. You'll find your true friends in life
Sending you love Oscar. I have been wondering this whole time. Thanks for the update and as a long time fan of the group, I am disappointed and probably won’t support. It is clear there are some weird hierarchy differences in the group and as some said, it’s the same people that are being teased. Wishing you a wonderful year. & like most people are saying, making fun of the way someone grieves is probably one of the lowest things you could do. Everyone deals with it differently. I’ve lost someone I think at around the same time as Corey passed and I would be heart broken if someone ever did that to me.
internet is crazy because it was a dream of mine to have a friendgroup like this, but nothing is what it looks like… i’m sorry oscar. i guess high school is never really over…
What I’ve noticed and learned throughout life is our biggest downfall is expecting other people to give us the same effort, love, respect, time, etc. like we do. And then we have the realization that it ain’t like that. As effed as it sounds u needed to see those messages. Some of those people weren’t your true friends and others didnt handle the situation well and should have stood by you when it all went down. I’m sorry this happened to u and from now on surround yourself with people who will ALWAYS cheer u on and be there for u genuinely ❤️
I only just came across this video now and MAN do I wish I'd seen it sooner. leaving a comment in the hopes that it boosts your engagement so that more people see this!! I've followed the friend group for years & years & genuinely wondered what had happened to you, & I suspected some kind of fallout had been caused bc of Corey's passing - I always sort of felt like he was the glue in that friend group. but they all seem to be going their own ways now anyway, for good & bad reasons, so hopefully once enough time has passed & there's enough distance in the group, people might wake up to the error of their ways & reach out to you to apologise for their actions, or lack thereof. if they want to be good role models - especially the ones currently starting families! - then I think an apology for not having your back is the least you deserve.
Vanessa and franny used to have this one roommate (Sole) when they were doing the Univision thing and sole basically had the same issue with Vanessa/ franny being mean girls so much that Sole left that whole home. Sole made a video but not really going into details but sole was super sweet it was sad she went through that with them girls and now Oscar went the same with them. I’m not surprised they are mean girls
can u send link of the vid that sole made?
I’m trying to look for the video too but the only video I could find was Franny and Nezza just mocking the situation of Sole moving out. Literally mean girls.
Franny lost weight and practiced her duck lip pose so her ego 📈
i'm so glad you said this because i remember this!!! that's the reason i stopped watching franny and nezza. they would both give her weird looks and just seemed off everytime they filmed with her. i'm not sure if any of her videos are still up but i know at the time sole posted a video crying saying something about how everything would come out
Wow. I feel so disappointed on how the group just handled the situation. As someone who has watched the group and their individual channels for years it makes me look at all of them differently. So proud that you stood up for yourself. Your feelings are very much valid and should not be belittled or ignored. Moving forward Oscar, I hope you find peace within yourself and go about your own self healing journey. Remember shit happens for a reason and nothing ever goes unseen. Karma is very much real. Sending you lots of love 🫶🏻
Sending you love and support, man. I’m sorry this happened. ❤
I fucking love you Oscar. I respect you so much and I’m very proud of you for handling this situation maturely and so happy you got out of it! You deserve to be respected and have friends that are loyal to you, have your back no matter what! You deserve so much! I am just shocked that no one from that group had your back or said anything!? Totally shows they are aren’t true friends! We all go through a lot and some people just stay quiet or makes situations worse but you did what was best for you and I hope are doing much better! I admire you a lot and will always be a supporting fan! I wish you the best and hope 2024 is a brand new fresh amazing year for you!
everybody owes oscar an apology. the fact that nobody has came forward on this is absolutely insane.
Sometimes you outgrow people
This was a well put video. Men’s mental health is important and everything you said is valid and much love bro. Sometimes things happen for a reason and a new chapter can begin. Corey would be very proud of you and is with you along your journey. 💙
Thank you for sharing your story Oscar, you’re right you didn’t need to but I’m glad you did. I’m so disappointed in these people, I don’t know exactly who but the group as a whole. I thought it was just me but, it always seemed that you and another individual weren’t treated as equals compared to the rest, always getting picked on and being the butt of the joke, like I know certain members have said that that’s just how they are and that’s how they show they care but it never sat well with me, I’ve been bullied so I can spot it from a mile away. I hope that you heal from this and put it behind you for your own sake. You deserve peace and Corey wouldn’t want you to be hurting ❤ loves up!
Please tell us who it was. I dont want to support people like that.
You don't have to do ALL things on your own :) It's hard finding trust in a bunch; especially when you had a group for a good few years. Give it time to feel your inner self and not give in to the dark side of mental health. Acknowledge and move forward, distinguish and move forward, feel and move forward. Don’t change of course, but learning from experiences makes some changes (in a good way)! You can take what I said in a good way or say “damn what is girl onn right now” lmaooo. You got this Vato, come on somos chingones! Sending lots of love 💜
love you oscar. your the chosen one out if that group. god knew what you didnt see feel or know before that happened. it was meant to be, your all you need , stay strong and in uplifting spirits please, god is only redirecting you onto a higher path
i dont usually leave comments but the way you spoke about expectations of loyalty and only standing for urself and ur family at the end of the day resonated with me. your mindset is so rare nowadays. these people are shallow minded but everything happens for a reason and God knew you were always meant for so much more. your morals and values can be seen from a mile away and i really pray for your peace of mind and hope you live the happiest of lives 🤍
It’s not fair you get left in the dark in such a horrible way, they stooped so low, how low can some people get, especially if you were their best friend. Bestfriends shouldnt do that to their best friends. I’m so sorry Oscar. You don’t deserve any of this at all. Sending you love and support 🩷 We hear you, we see you x
Sending much love to you Oscar 💙 I know Corey is so proud of all the accomplishment you are doing . I will forever support you no matter what , love and appreciate you so much ❤
Oscar, sorry that it sounds like people chose FOMO over friendship. Everyone could see through your videos how you would help others. And if a bunch of people online, who didn't even know Corey personally, myself included, grieved for the loss of his spirit in this world, it stands to reason that you, who knew him personally and called him a friend would as well. Esp. after having witnessed his passing first hand. Corey touched a lot of lives, whether in real life or through his and others videos. No one had a right to call your grief into question. May you find peace going forward, and a better support system as well. 🕊🕊
I'm so sorry honey that you had to go through all this especially all alone. I figured it was something Iike this for you to move out on your own. Unfortunately, this is how we learn who our true friends are or not. Some people can see you for who you truly are & that is a kind, loyal, & big hearted person. Much love to you.
as a viewer of that friend group (mainly knj) i’m truly upset that i’m just now seeing this. i did wonder what happened between you guys & truthfully, i found it easier to assume you were the problem without even holding the group accountable. which was dumb especially since i went through a similar situation myself in 2020 after i had lost my mom and went through a breakup which became too much for my “friends” since i truly wasn’t at my best. i notice you continuously brought up loyalty & that’s something that i value more than anything so for you to speak up on certain things while spending so long having held your tongue is apparent to your character. it shouldn’t have taken away from everything you had been through w them as well as done for them. i also went to a friend who i expected to have my back, but she pretty much said the same things yours did. it’s a shame what greed for clout, fame, or even merely a good time can do for someone. you just gained a new fan, im sorry for what you went through 😕
Took the words right out my mouth!! Definitely makes me look at them different, after years of watching.
whoa I went thru something so similar. I lost my mom and then my gf broke up with me basically immediately after. and it was too much for my friends to support bc ‘everyone is going thru shit’… truly horrible. sending you love and healing
A lesson I hope you learned is never to let an issue fester. Address things that bother you immediately and head on. They gave you bad advice not to address it right then and there. It only snowballed into bigger resentment.
Sending you love and light Oscar. Your feelings are valid!
For those people to say “hey that’s not our issue” is fucked up. That just tells you that they are not your friend bc what friend basically tells you to figure it out on your own and not BE a friend? I see that group a bit differently now and it’s sad. I’ve always liked them and they preach about not chasing clout & friendship is more important. Sounds like lies. I haven’t watched either ones videos for a long time and I’m going to continue to do so bc what in the world. I’m really sorry you went through that.
I think that this whole thing includes a lot of lessons. There are times for action and times for inaction. There are times for reasonable expectations for others and times when one needs to be vulnerable and ask directly for what one needs/wants. There are also numerous examples here where we can do things or not do things which make a bad situation exponentially worse. All of this could have been avoided... and there are dozens of times in this story where it could have been stopped from escalating and snowballing. So, if it all happened all over again.... What have you learned from this situation? What would you have done differently? What would you now do differently? (And, if you think it is unfair for anyone to ask you that, just remember.... we should all ask ourselves that in every instance.) It doesn't matter who was more wrong or less wrong or more right or less right. There is no "fair meter." There is essentially only you getting through the realities of life. Unfair and horrible things happen to all of us a lot of the time. Life = trials and joys and sorrows and challenges and (hopefully) learning lessons. We shouldn't waste time with, "Why?" Our time is much better spent asking, "What can I learn from this situation?" WHY do that? Because, at the end of the day, whether others (or circumstances of life) treat us well or horribly or kindly or with cruelty, all we can ultimately do is control our own selves in those situations. And, then we have to walk forward with our own conscience. We can ask, request, try to influence, persuade, etc. But, our own words and actions are the part we can control. And, I hope you can see parts that could have been drastically changed before there is a "next time." Because there almost surely will be a "next time." Maybe not with these exact people or this same exact kind of situation. But, the wounds that each of us have tend to follow us. They are vulnerable spots for each of us. And, each time the wound gets hit and we don't treat it properly (and don't learn what we're supposed to learn from it), the pain gets deeper and reinforces how we do things next time - often in unhealthy or unhelpful ways. I hope you can see and reflect on what you were supposed to learn and that they are the right things to move you forward. I am sorry that people you cared about and who you thought were close friends wrote hurtful messages and had hurtful opinions about you. Most of us understand how devastating that can be. I wish that could have been dealt with immediately and directly so that the misunderstandings and assumptions and additional fallout could have been avoided. You have lots of people who are rooting for you and want the best for you. I am one of them. At the same time, we don't want you to miss the lessons or make it worse for yourself. I hope 2024 is an awesome year for you - better than you can even imagine.
you are so strong Oscar💙I have always wondered why you left, but I didn't except this. we will always love you. And keep ur head high 💙
Wow. You really have NO idea about what’s going with people. They’re actions was deplorable and making fun of how you displayed your grief despite others doing the SAME things suggests it wasn’t the ‘what’ but the ‘who’. These peoples are adults. Old enough to drink, vote, drive, own a weapon and just don’t have the ability to address their misdeeds. What painful to go through and I’m sorry Oscar. I was a huge fan of these people
I had always wondered what had happened. So sorry for what you went through 😢 but thank you for sharing and handling it so much better than how many other people would. Stay strong 💪🏻💙
It's really fucked up that Oscar went through that, one of the hardest thing to recover from is a friendship breakup. In the same breath, I'm glad he's out and found out before investing more of himself on ppl that aren't worth it.
Also, Karma is a bitch! I'm sure he doesn't wish them bad but I ain't crying when it comes to them... No me alegra pero si me da un fresquito! Fuck it, Si me alegra 🤷♀
i always knew they had some sort of passive animosity towards you, now they all flopping. camboys broken up, kian & jc's controversy. you keep doing you oscar. we love you.
Wait what happened with kian and jc?
Something similar happened to me and I cut everyone off and now I’m doing so much better, some of them reach out to apologize and I forgive them but I would never talk to them
I can’t believe they would treat him like this. This is sick. He was so close with Corey. And the fact they would fucking bully him for being heartbroken about his best friend passing is sick. Truly sick. I’m so sorry Oscar. They made you out to be the bad guy. Classic bully behavior.
Never like any of them after coreys accident. They all where so quick to start asking for money for this huge documentary about Corey. Where is its? Yes things happen but where did allllllll that money go they got. And 2 never liked nezza i seen right throw her. 3 Oscar you have a right to be mad ,you where there! you where one of the first people to get to Corey on that day. You seen shit no one should ever have to see. And you stopped so said person from running. Grief comes in stages and you deserve to be able to be sad angry drained all of them your a human. Stay strong. Also if crawford didnt see how much corey loved you hes blind. He talked about you all the time.
what did nezza do
So what i have analised is that Crawford is the one who's from the house and Nezza is the one who you had tension with , Dyl and Wyl is who were in your side at first. and David who said that you had put your hand on one of the females. my advice to u is that you forget all about them and move forward and try your best to succeed in life and make a new friends.
Why do you think it’s David that spread that rumor??
I would guess Fran was the rumor starter.
This honestly makes me really sad because they all seemed like sweet, genuine people
I never really liked Nezza.. I could see right through her
After Oscar's video I start seeing her in very different way I was foolish by her @@neriannc
I wanna find the video he was talking about
this makes me feel so sad. i hope you can heal
Their loss. Your feelings and grief should have been respected.
Im sorry that happened to you Oscar. No one has any right to invalidate what you felt when you lost Corey.
I lost a friend a few years ago and he had a large friend group. I knew everyone but i was never close to any of them. They didn't know the friendship and memories that we had. When he passed, i was never invited to the memorial they held, they never asked how i was doing. No one will ever know the bond we had besides him and I.
Find peace in the fact that Corey knows your heart and no one can ever take all of the moments yall had together. Not everyone is there to see the laughs, the tears, the meaningfull moments or the nonsense between the two of you.
There should have been at least one person to be a true friend to you. I know they feel like they're picking sides if they werent directly involved but real friends will help find a way to come up with a solution.
I’ve always seen you as genuinely good hearted. But sometimes relationships just don’t mesh. Some ppl care more about this portion of their salvation and others care more about another part. Sad reality but we weren’t all built the same. Sucks. If only we could totally, completely understand why ppl do what they do. You just keep doing you❤
One day I wondered where you went but I wasn't actively keeping up with anyone's social medias or watching every video every week so I never looked into it much. I enjoyed you being in KNJ videos. This whole situation is very unfortunate and all sounds very High school to me. It's odd to me that someone would make fun of a person for grieving. Very cruel of them. Also very interesting that everyone threw their hands up and said "figure it out" grown adults don't want to cause waves and potentially not be included in videos or invited to parties. That's very childish behavior. Not speaking up for what right for fear of losing your spot in the group is crazy. It's difficult to find real "friends" these days. I look at the friend group you had and I look at their bigger friend group now and sometimes wish I had a big ass group of friends like that but now I see I shouldn't wish for what others have because all that glitters ain't gold
A group that big. It’s fake. You’re acquaintances, not real friends. You’re lucky if you get one real friend in this life. So to say that whole group is real friends nah. Some are closer to others, sure but it’s too many people to be loyal to. I ride solo because of these things.
I wish you would put names, why do I have I feeling that it’s Nezza. You can just tell she’s that way. But if it was her that’s crazy because she knew Corey shorter time than everyone
I think its nezza and franny
its crawf and nezza - but franny was in on it too@@esc6781
At one point he said “her” so we know one of the individuals is a girl
nezza was always weird and conceited tbh
I think it was nezza he had problems with and crawford who was messaging her. And fanny is nezzas best friend she probably the one who said he out hus hands on a girl just make it worse
Ppl just follow where the party /group is sadly - no one’s gonna risk being ostracized. Human behavior. It sucks
They don’t reach out out of guilt
Hey oscar,
I see that you are hurt and confused as to why not a single person stick-up for you and if you are just unloveble person. And why would the ppl you called friends abandoned you quick and if it is you thatbis the problem.
Or you just want to be in the friend group so badly but all you need is yourself, love your self and work hard on your self on your passion, wheather it is TH-cam or anything.
We often forget that we need to be kind to ourselves and not take any crap from anyone.
In short just be yourself and work on your self and the right kind of friends will cone to you. Dont beg to be someone's friend.
You are going to be just fine.
We love you 💜
I've been watching this group for years and wondered why you left. This just goes to show that people on the internet never know the full story. You can't invalidate someone's grief or how they feel. I'm sorry but I feel like a lot of people in this group are the types not to address things and just sweep them under the rug, until it makes them look bad. The fact that you were mature enough to ask for other's perspective before you reacted or said anything says a lot about your character. It says you take people's feelings into consideration, but no one seemed to do the same for you. I had can understand how you feel being an outsider and feeling misplaced. The universe always shows you who your true friends are. Baby, if i have to tip toe around my so called "friends" I don't em. Proud of you for telling your truth. Continue to heal and focus on yourself and the true ones around you. You don't have to do that by yourself 💙
that entire friend group is so weird to me, they seem like they are just friends for the videos and photos. I watch nearly all of them and it seems like they always just ignore or pretend like there is no drama. None of them ever actually address anything. and when JC did that month-long 24/7 live stream on Twitch the cracks really did show. The amount of times Chelsey and her roommate free load of JC is wild! and also David, the way he just uses JC is so weird to me and I wonder if JC even sees it himself.
To make fun of someone's grief is so immature and disgusting but also if it is who everyone in the comments thinks it is then its not at all surprising. I lost a friend in high school and it was weird how people who had only known that friend for a couple of years acted like their grief was more important than mine. It shouldn't be a competition. The text messages in the beginning aren't even the most fucked part of the story though, it's everything that comes after that.
I guess moving forward you know now that it is better to just confront things head-on rather than stew on them. You shouldn't have to make yourself uncomfortable to make others comfortable. And never assume that people who treat you the way you treat them, they will just disappoint you that way. You deserve good and supportive friends and I don't know if that's a thing you can find in the "influencer" world.
Love you OG forever and always 💙
Oscar, the way I see you is that you move and lift shadows. You mirror people back their shadow selves and they get triggered. It is a them issue as you already know. I am proud of you for standing in your truth and seeing it for what it is. You will find what you are looking for, it is also looking for you. Trust. Much love 💙
Who do you guys think are the other 2 that we're grouped out with Oscar?
Drop the names 💯💯💯 youd be saving us of liking immoral people
who do you think those individuals might be?
Your feelings are valid one hundred percent , no one knows what eachother feels when something occurs like this . Shame to those who made you feel like this and did not help you or reach out. You did the best for your self in leaving those toxic individuals who did not care about you or you feelings/mental health.
Stay strong
It sucks to deal with stuff like that, but honestly you already did what is best for you. Truth is every group that’s gotten big like that usually comes to a downfall for one thing or another, just look at the vlog squad. Just be happy you already distanced yourself from the poison that is social media delusion.
We have only got to see these people the way they want to be seen, you are showing everyone their true colors. im not gunna lie i assumed you were the toxic one after you left the group. They never mentioned you, but EVERYONE noticed you were missing.. Now I know that not everything is as it seems with that situation.
I sincerely hope you get some form of apology after speaking from your heart the way you have in this video.
Clowning on somebody's grief, especially when they are part of your friend group and they knew the pain you were in because they experienced it too, ESPECIALLY when they claim to be your friend.... thats incredibly shady. I wish you mentioned names so we could not show love to someone whose like that.
You lost your group when you needed them most and I feel for you on that. I'm sure Corey would be heartbroken to see the way they treated you.
I love you Oscar 🧡 so sorry this happened to you
Love you forever oscar no matter what
sending love to u!!
Yeah dude, i know you always tried to come off as real as possible in your videos and not to say that you wasn't but Daim bro i didn't know this is what was going on and when i seen how you were just (not) getting the best out of the situation you were in with all your friends who could of guessed that it was their fault when it was spiralling down for you like that man that is so fuked up. i feel for you bro they just don't know what it's like to gain real friends and what true loyalty is and i'm sure Corey is thinking the same thing as me if he knew about it because that is what he was all about too, i'm sure you will get the respect you need elsewhere and friends come and go but Corey will be a friend forever just know you did the right thing i'm sorry it had to come to this. i hope to god everything is okay lysm bro... R.I.P Corey La Barrie 💙
You should’ve took a picture of the messages and posted it with this video! Guilty ones will react! Guilty ones will talk! Start defending!
But your “friends” are ugly please don’t hang out with them! If anything I’ll watch your videos like share etc you don’t need toxic people like them! I’m sorry Kian JC and all them are bad friends who can’t stick up for you! I wish you would say who it is DM hahahaha
I was nervous about you doing this, but I'm so proud of you. I'll be here for you always. Love you always Oscar
You know Oscar?
They'll get their karma. Just look how JC got exposed. Even AM left them, time will tell who's gonna root in hell
She did?
What did Jc get exposed for?
plz elaborate on both of these plz
Didn't see her in any video since Franny dated her childhood friend and her break up @@timmyturner8724
@@polina7195 Google is free
This is definitely nezza
Definitely david, he came over all the time and filmed for jc
You're a good dude Oscar, you're real to a fault and there's nothing wrong with that. Stay you❤
You will heal.
Where's this video that you're talking about the tears and the video that this female edited, Who invented you to what thing exactly, and how many exact people did you reach out to?
Good Luck with future endeavors, it sucks that you’re left to fend for yourself and deal with this alone… you sound like you know what the issue is and you should work on it… your attitude is like “eff you I’m me u don’t like it that’s your fault I can say and do whatever I want” but your mood is “ I want friends and happiness nobody talks to me” I think you should reevaluate your attitude and reactions to things … it really does suck how the whole thing ended up being like this… likes and followers really go to some peoples heads.
That friend group seems so superficial to me... like they have such a big group yet they don’t really know each other or care. Idk I just would never be friends with those people and I won’t have watch kian and Jc since I was a teen.. I’m now an adult and yea I only like them and Bobby and yea that’s about it. The rest are just shallow in my eyes..
And I have watched ***
It also sounds like they wanted to be the main friend to Corey!… it’s always ugly people who say “I did this I did that and you didn’t” etc etc I hate them
Sigh you deserve better oscar 😪 sending love!!!
i’ve stopped watching nezza and franny. do you not talk to anyone at all?? even like marcus.. or wyl? dyl? christian? kevin?
If this person is nezza then we fosho know what kind of person she is 😣
Damn how she like?
@@paydro25 She sleeps with everyone and bullies everyone who exposes her
@@S_raellol wait who else did she sleep with besides crawford?
we love you oscar
I’m unfollowing the whole group cuz wtf that’s not fair.
Same!! I love them but this is messed up
it’s okay oscar, karma works in wonderful ways. you may have lost ur “friend group” but u gained angel. corey. he’s the reason why ur no longer friends with these people. he’s watching out for u because he knows u have the purest intentions. fck everyone else who even thought it was a good idea to clown on ur grief.
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bro...go get some help. go heal from this so you can move on. "i dont think ill ever process"??? it's obvious you haven't healed and i hope better for you.
also you can't be mad when you present yourself one way and people use what you give them to make their own opinion. unfortunately that's just what people do. like i said i hope you find healing and good friends.
lastly. if they dont fuck with you dont expect anything from them and dont extend yourself to them. period