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ความคิดเห็น • 110

  • @keanescenes3157
    @keanescenes3157 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +99

    Oscar, I understand you not wanting to add drama to your life by not releasing names, but please let us know who was involved because I do not want to support anyone that treats others like this, especially during a time of grievance and need.

    • @annakatie7347
      @annakatie7347 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      In the end they ALL knew what happened & moved the way they did. That's enough for me!

    • @iCynnie
      @iCynnie 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Definitely not. You're just curious. They know who they are, we don't. Need to know

  • @annakatie7347
    @annakatie7347 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +110

    Oscar, thank you for being so damn brave & posting this. For years I used to be so invested in the content from everyone & always kind of had...feelings about the others. Especially after Coreys passing. & then those feelings were validated by actions - as an example, Franny deleting her instagram tribute to Corey. Something like that that is beyond disrespect. It's unthinkable. Most everyone publicly moved on in ways that made me look at them sideways. I personally went through several untimely deaths very close together almost 3 years ago now & I'm STILL processing it - still trying to heal from those traumas. When you truly love someone & you witness losing them (tragically) - it shifts the way you move in this world. I hope you know that you have a LOT of people that still are here, & care about you. Thank you for sharing your truth.

    • @ambercollinsworth4000
      @ambercollinsworth4000 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Big on this! you summed this up perfectly ❤️ proud of you Oscar we love you and you are definitely not alone ❤️

    • @sturniololove05
      @sturniololove05 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The only one person I forgive is Daniel

  • @sturniololove05
    @sturniololove05 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    Im glad that your finally comfortable enough with telling the truth about the situation

  • @SarahChristian-s2w
    @SarahChristian-s2w 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I’m gonna leave this here.. “ I was taught that keeping quiet kept the peace, until I realized whose peace is it keeping” keep you’re head up❤

  • @torisloan7010
    @torisloan7010 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    You where always my favorite in that group and still are you will always have great supports we love you Oscar so sorry you have to go through bc I had people like that to and it wasn’t the best in a different situation but god leads us in the right people in are life for reasons!! ❤

  • @bethnichols2875
    @bethnichols2875 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    May you find the healing and solace you seek, Oscar. 🙏🕊 And if people keep asking about it, then just tell their nosy behinds to go watch the dang video.

  • @RandiFlippin
    @RandiFlippin 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    This feels very genuine, and for that I’m sorry because I can feel you went through some painful stuff. I’m really similar to you when it comes to friendships. When we ride, we ride hard. But.. (this is about to sound so cliche, but it’s so true) Sometimes things fall apart so that other things can fall together. It might be stormy now, but it can’t last forever. Get through this and it will pay off. Coming from someone who is unfortunately too familiar with pain. Hang in there, Oscar. You got this! Sending you lots of love -Randi

  • @alicereneecervantes6545
    @alicereneecervantes6545 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    The fact that even I know you don’t act without reason. I knew something bad really had to have happened for you to pull yourself away from that situation. Im sorry Oscar. No one should feel alone when you are surrounded by people that you thought were your friends. It’s an ugly feeling. Now that you release this video, they’re gonna try to validate themselves and see why they didn’t back you up or stayed being your friend. They’re gonna be talking about this on their group chat trying to see how they could recover from it because they know they fucked up.

  • @stephanielupercio3168
    @stephanielupercio3168 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    ima be honest, la is fake af and once you left the content hasn't been the same on their end. hopefully you find yourself and put out content. Latinos support Latinos 💪🏽

  • @sarahlouisa26
    @sarahlouisa26 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    This is actually so fcked up, it’s another level of betrayal, i hope you find real soulmates Oscar who deserve you, treat and respect you right 😢

  • @Jessicabarreno
    @Jessicabarreno 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I am so sorry that you have been through that. If you on being very outspoken and it rubs people off the wrong way, if makes you feel like it feels right to you say or do things that makes people uncomfortable because they made you uncomfortable always confront or even just talk to them about it. Your feelings are valid and you don’t need to be around people that make you uncomfortable or otherwise hurt you in anyway.

  • @britt__legit
    @britt__legit 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I’ve only watched half of this, but already I feel so bad. Unfortunately I think when people are grieving, they need someone to blame for their pain. And it sounds like you were the target. ☹️ I’m sorry this happened, but I’m glad you were able to separate yourself and do your own thing.

  • @xocrystal97
    @xocrystal97 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I've been in a similar situation as you oscar, I know all the feelings you were feeling and it does suck cuz you think these ppl are your friends but they're not, but I'm happy you are not friends with those people anymore, those people were not meant to be a part of your life, you were the bigger person and you did everything right. You're a good person oscar, you did nothing wrong love, they were never really real "friends", love you oscar and I will continue to support you always.

  • @alyiahcaron2239
    @alyiahcaron2239 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Love supporting you always ❤

  • @LayeLaye99
    @LayeLaye99 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I love you oscar! Always here to support you! ❤

  • @jennifercavazos5739
    @jennifercavazos5739 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Love you Oscar I’m so sorry you are going through this and I can’t believe anyone would say they are Corey’s friend and ridicule a heartfelt video that you made for Corey
    I will always support you love you 😘

  • @Ashtronautsky
    @Ashtronautsky 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I went thru a similar situation after dealing with death. My ‘friends’ just completely flaked and believed I was being dramatic. It still hurts me every day & I feel like the not processing is bc that time period plays on a loop. The way you were recalling months so vividly, I do the exact same bro. It’s trauma at this point, and our brains have a hard time gaining back that trust from ANYONE. Hope you can be kind to yourself. Sending love & healing brother

  • @sturniololove05
    @sturniololove05 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

    Oscar definitely should've exposed the names i feel like there feelings should not be protected as bad as they hurt Oscar

    • @annakatie7347
      @annakatie7347 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I understand why he didn't. But that's not the point - in the end, it didn't matter who started it. (& I'm 99% sure whose who in it all).

    • @sirafef
      @sirafef 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@annakatie7347can u tell me the names please cuz I’m confused

    • @unknownn1073
      @unknownn1073 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@annakatie7347who do you think?

    • @annakatie7347
      @annakatie7347 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@unknownn1073 I'm not going to speculate out of respect to Oscar not naming names in this. I will say if you've watched the group for a long time, it seemed obvious to me. 🤷‍♀️

    • @shawnxoxo8417
      @shawnxoxo8417 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      i think are the messages are between crawford and nezza and the 2 friends he talked to were dyl and wyl. could be wrong tho

  • @lilibcmv
    @lilibcmv 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Tbh you are doing these ppl a favor by not saying their names bcus no way in hell would I support a creator who talks one way on camera and treats ppl another behind the scenes. This was a painful experience for everyone and no one has the right to tell someone whether they can or cannot grieve, let alone how. I’m starting to doubt whether or not I like this entire group anymore. And if anyone from the group is reading this, BAD ON YOU for not being a voice for others and a voice for respect and equitable friendships. Shameful really.

  • @kiarac1252
    @kiarac1252 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    corey on the mic🥹

  • @stephanielupercio3168
    @stephanielupercio3168 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    im 3 minutes in and i'm so ready to hear your truth !also rip Corey 🙏🏽

  • @emmysera2818
    @emmysera2818 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I feel like people haven’t truly been in a position like this to really understand why you were being so cordial with people that were surrounded by the people you loved and considered your friend. I feel for you Oscar! Moving on and staying in the right path you have yourself on is the biggest flex in my opinion. Your own success no matter what type of success it is, proves to show your intentions, purity, and the true you. With everything you’re going through I hope you know that Corey does know how much you loved him and how much you tried! All the love to you Oscar 🩷.

  • @virginiagastelum2280
    @virginiagastelum2280 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This made me so sad and it sucks that we are probably still supporting them, Oscar I respect the fact you don’t mention anybody, stay strong dude remember that C💙 would probably be proud of you for separating yourself, focus on yourself, respect yourself, love yourself, mentally physically spiritually stay strong ❤

  • @sanasalman6439
    @sanasalman6439 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Oscar this breaks my heart and I really wish I could do something for you through this screen and be the friend that you need. I really hope truly that you find the peace that you are looking for. Please don’t blame yourself and lots and lots of love and good wishes ❤️

  • @Junebug2908
    @Junebug2908 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Its definitely nezza her and oscar always kinda had tension and not the good kind

    • @ResaSunRay
      @ResaSunRay 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No this bc also do u remember when she made that sexu@l a$$ video with him and then like weeks later she was w crawf 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @Jpark0615
    @Jpark0615 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Yea they all don’t sit right w me Jc is literally the next Jason Nash 💀

  • @kaylastone2255
    @kaylastone2255 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Your feelings are all valid and the fact that your own friends did that to you is beyond nasty. I'm glad you stuck up for yourself and took yourself out of that toxic environment. Love you Oscar

  • @allisondenham4785
    @allisondenham4785 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I had a similar situation happen when I was in high school where people I was closest to told me I wasn’t able to grieve or support them because I didn’t know the person as well as they did and they treated me terribly. I tried to be the bigger person and be kind but they continued to do things that really hurt me. It really takes a toll on your mental health when those you trust and care for don’t reciprocate that. In case anyone needs to hear this you are allowed to grieve and your feelings are valid!

  • @SpookyBooCilla
    @SpookyBooCilla 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    I stopped watching that entire group. They are nothing but users.

  • @lizzcastles4678
    @lizzcastles4678 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    It’s nezza and Crawford. I know she gets paid to edit everyone’s videos

  • @ashleigh7453
    @ashleigh7453 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    i love you, always got your back ❤️

  • @loganratzlaff8054
    @loganratzlaff8054 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Their downfall has been coming… this hopefully will be the icing on the cake. I hate that at one point I supported then fully and questioned others

  • @aiglkat
    @aiglkat 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    we have your back Oscar.

  • @camileon610
    @camileon610 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Sending love to you. Keep positive, keep smiling, life is too short

  • @brookemorgan5085
    @brookemorgan5085 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    i appreciate you posting this I know it couldn’t have been easy.. no one understands what someone is really going through & I hope you’re able to move on :/ i’ve missed you in a lot of the videos but I completely understand 💚💚💚

  • @Victoria-fw2nb
    @Victoria-fw2nb 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Love you!!!!❤❤❤❤

  • @Noname78624
    @Noname78624 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Idk if you witnessed the crash scene and seeing Corey but if you did, please seek therapy. I witnessed my mother take her last breath and it still haunts me, gives me constant nightmares. It gives us PTSD weather short term or long term but seek professional help, don’t rely on friends.

  • @ebonytuiaki2011
    @ebonytuiaki2011 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    We’re behind you!! ❤️‍🩹

  • @marikuna750
    @marikuna750 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    we love you Oscar!!!

  • @jennifercavazos5739
    @jennifercavazos5739 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love you Oscar

  • @katiecanizales9055
    @katiecanizales9055 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    We luv u Oscar 🫶🏼

  • @heyitsdini3380
    @heyitsdini3380 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I wish we knew who, bc last May was the baby shower as well

  • @aashnasawlani
    @aashnasawlani 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Missed you!!! I always wondered where you disappeared

  • @melissaspak9052
    @melissaspak9052 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yanno the worst thing that ever happened to me was losing the glue to my entire friend group. It was my brother in law. My little sister’s fiancé. I live in a small town in PA and he kept basically everyone we went to high school with, together. I never had to worry about anything and I mean ANYTHING. From being respected by basically everyone, paying for my own drink at a bar to walking alone at night, being SAFE. The second everything settled down after his wake all of that went away. I’m still not ok lol. Idk if I’ll ever be ok tbh…. I’ll keep you in my prayers buddy bc it’s hard af. Trust me I unfortunately know😢

  • @iselamartinez3188
    @iselamartinez3188 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Hey Oscar :) Jesus loves you and hears the cries of your heart! He wants to set you free from pain and trauma.
    Psalms 34:18 “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit”
    He can heal you from anything! But only if you allow him to. God will remove the wrong people or things that are holding you back from your life because He has great things for you! He comes to give life and give it abundantly to those who believe in Him❤️ Just wanted to leave this with you and I hope that it touches your heart, I love you and God loves you more 🫶🏽

    • @catlover5656
      @catlover5656 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤❤❤ Amen

  • @kokichiouma4267
    @kokichiouma4267 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    oh.

  • @Kam___kam
    @Kam___kam 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i love u so freakin much oscar you mean the world to me. im always going to support you im always going to be here. ive been here since the very begaing you are amazing thank you for everything i appeicte you so much.

  • @Nayamarie29
    @Nayamarie29 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Wishing you would have name dropped because we are all blind to how people really are and I personally don't want to support these people who have treated you in this way. I want to just unfollow, unsubscribe the whole group at this point

  • @Lol0918
    @Lol0918 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Unsubscribed to everyone 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @piercequi
    @piercequi 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    thank you so much for sharing 🖤

  • @Lol0918
    @Lol0918 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Damn. Went through something like this a few months ago. It was hard. I really wonder who it is smh

  • @lfgmbby
    @lfgmbby 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Why did you reupload it?

    • @OscarDGuerra
      @OscarDGuerra  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      it was uploaded to a vod channel... originally and people would still ask me so i just uploaded it to this channel (my main)

    • @lfgmbby
      @lfgmbby 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@OscarDGuerra ohhh I didn’t realise it was on your VOD channel

  • @rainnbhll810
    @rainnbhll810 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I know you are absolutely not looking for any pity but just know there are people who are willing to hear you. I’m glad you’ve spoken about what’s been on your heart. I hope you continue to gain the peace you deserve. Sending you love 💗

  • @OhDess
    @OhDess 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I know this video isn’t about guessing who is who. I know Oscar just wanted to get it off his chest but… I can’t help but try to guess who it is. From just old tweets I think it might be Savage. I know they used to throw some shade to each other a while ago.. again, I shouldn’t be guessing and throwing out name but I just remember the tweets.

  • @alexiscaschera
    @alexiscaschera 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    That’s so disgusting I had so called friends like that in HS, and once i graduated the true colors showed. I loved Kian and Jc for the longest but if they’ll act like this I don’t wanna support them even David. Being fake friends just for social media is embarrassing. Literally going to unfollow them all I hate that toxic bs. To each their own in my opinion you should’ve took that laptop directly to the source and called out the bs. I’ve always noticed how they acted towards you in “joking” way. Proud you took the high road it shows your growth as a person. Ugh that gives me the ick with them. I really hope you find your people wish you the best.

  • @A_love08
    @A_love08 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I hope you find Peace and Happiness in life no matter what it is you choose to do 🙏

  • @oscarzambrano5655
    @oscarzambrano5655 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Was definitely Nezza and David

    • @susievelasquez4988
      @susievelasquez4988 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      but David and Nezza didn’t live with Oscar…

    • @samanthayanez5658
      @samanthayanez5658 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@susievelasquez4988im not sure ab both, but he said one person didnt live there. Bc they would complain if he brought certain pol over when he would pay part of his bill too. Like someone that didnt live there.

    • @Garrrimaaaa
      @Garrrimaaaa 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      nezza and crawford. makes sense because they were dating at the time and oscar still follows David.

    • @susievelasquez4988
      @susievelasquez4988 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Garrrimaaaa yeah I saw that, it’s someone who edit’s videos for sure and I saw that he slipped up and said her. So it’s definitely a male and female.

    • @lekya22
      @lekya22 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's crawford and nezza cas someone commented on why they think it's crawford and nezza and Oscar liked that comment

  • @nancymassiattie3892
    @nancymassiattie3892 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Dang that’s messed up. This feels genuine because you put this on TH-cam vs they kept it to themselves but spread it amongst themselves. That’s awful and defamation of your name so they know they lying otherwise if it were true they would’ve uploaded it to TH-cam. If they were about it they would’ve done sum. That’s foul of them.

  • @wanderjasmint
    @wanderjasmint 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Please name drop so we can unsubscribe and not support these kind of people

  • @lizethbailon5109
    @lizethbailon5109 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙

  • @Mungiez
    @Mungiez 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Did he reupload this? Ive seen this before

    • @OscarDGuerra
      @OscarDGuerra  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      is that an issue for me to upload this to my main channel?

    • @zeowolfrider200
      @zeowolfrider200 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@OscarDGuerranot at all anyone who does have a problem are more than welcome to to leave and join the vlogsquads content

    • @Mungiez
      @Mungiez 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@OscarDGuerra No of course not :( Didn't mean to come off that way.

    • @Mungiez
      @Mungiez 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@OscarDGuerra Genuinely seems like just a fucked situation and sorry that you went through that.

    • @madzgonzalez5940
      @madzgonzalez5940 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@OscarDGuerradam bro it was just a question…

  • @ryanrowe1975
    @ryanrowe1975 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    💙

  • @QueenD91
    @QueenD91 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    💙💙💙💙

  • @farkhundafatima6805
    @farkhundafatima6805 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    ❤❤

  • @wi_wi_wAaA
    @wi_wi_wAaA 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hola Amor

  • @_bruh23
    @_bruh23 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ur so handsome tbh im sorry about what u went through, I hope you are okay 💕

  • @t3kiv
    @t3kiv หลายเดือนก่อน

    your username is getting used in a scam

  • @Junebug2908
    @Junebug2908 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    So kian invited you for his baby reveal party and then ignored u 💀

  • @pavelgovoruha
    @pavelgovoruha 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🤗

  • @brandylynnx
    @brandylynnx 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have a friend who expected me to stop speaking to a mutual coworker because they had an ugly breakup… that’s kind of what this reminds me of. I didn’t stop talking to our coworker and we are no longer friends. It’s kind of crazy to expect others to act some sort of way based on what you would do. Idk.

    • @MK-zs7jl
      @MK-zs7jl 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Just because you did it, doesn’t make it right. If it’s your friend then you should support them when someone else hurts them. It’s kind of crazy to still want to talk to people even if they’ve mistreated your “friend”. I hope they’re doing much better without you.

    • @brandylynnx
      @brandylynnx 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MK-zs7jl LOL

  • @cyanbino
    @cyanbino 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I was put in very similar situation with my group of friends and some family, now I stand with grief from losing someone and also losing their friendships along with it. I was worried for this when Oscar went silent about 2 years ago. We stand with you and glad to finally hear your voice again. 🤍 nobody should be treated like this, real friends support their friends no matter what.

  • @chachagomez7969
    @chachagomez7969 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Am I going crazy? Or did he post this already?

    • @MandieeJaiiiiii
      @MandieeJaiiiiii 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He def did cause I’ve seen this already like a month or more ago

  • @Junebug2908
    @Junebug2908 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Man i hate when influencers give us their drama with no names like say who did what and let us understande fully