These days, many women choose to focus on their careers, personal growth, and enjoying an independent life instead of rushing into dating or marriage. This is great because it allows them to be financially self-sufficient and live on their own terms without relying on anyone. However, sometimes being too focused on independence can make us accustomed to solitude and hesitant to open up to others. Happiness doesn’t just come from personal success but also from meaningful connections. Whether choosing independence or seeking a relationship, the most important thing is to feel fulfilled and happy in our own way!
Thank you so much for this video. I loved this so much ❤. I wish i had someone like you in real life, you are the kind of bestfriend/mentor im searching for in my life. Everything you said and how you said it was so beautiful 🫶🏻 I really did mature a bit watching this and help me come back and reassure me of my choices, values and way of thinking. I think and feel exactly what you feel/think but could never put it to words. So i am so extremely grateful for this post. Thank you so much 🙏🏼 lots of love and God blessing to you 💕💝💖💗
Fantastic video ❤ Thank you for speaking out against the arrogance of a movement choosing the collective over the individual. Hive mind mentality has made many women so miserable. I'm sorry some women only experience negative, but I also feel like some women attract and create their own narrative. Sometimes we have to change our desires or decisions to bring better into our lives. Bad judgment brings bad people and karma. I grew up surrounded by that mostly. But my grandparents had a very good marriage that gave me enough hope to hold out for the right one and desire to form myself into a suitable partner for a good man. Now I am about to celebrate 6 years and 2 kids later with my husband who has brought me nothing but stability, love, and an easier life
Seeing how difficult some women around my have had it with their fathers and relationships, it made me thankful that my father was there. He was not, as no one is, perfect but he was there and he loves his children. He set a good example for his sons and has helped the next generation(s) of stable and wonderful men and set a good example for his daughters what it is to find a good man. I don't take it for granted and I am grateful to have a God who I can thank for this!
I'm sorry you've only experienced that. I grew up surrounded by that mostly. But my grandparents had a very good marriage that gave me enough hope to hold out for the right one. Now I am about to celebrate 6 years and 2 kids later with my husband who has brought me nothing but stability, love, and an easier life
I like the video, however you are not addressing or exploring WHY this movement gains traction or why it even exists: the difficult position of women in society. Why do women in this movement go this extreme way. May it be they feel ignored for so long and they don't see any other way to make their voice be heard?
I don’t subscribe to any female movement that outcasts all men. That makes no sense to my values, logic, or lived experience. But I think the election thing is a bit more complicated: the “no men” stance is mostly supported by young women (who remain a minority though). And among young people the gender gap in the election was in fact quite wide, with some statistics showing a Kamala Harris lead of 33 points among young women. So the young women who now want nothing to do with men have made the experience that their peers, among whom they would be choosing potential partners, have voted for someone that they perceive as a threat to their physical integrity and life choices. And they also view the older women who voted for Trump as women who have lost awareness of this threat because they have inhabited a patriarchal world for so long. Now I don’t share this stance because I feel it simplifies a few things, but keeping in mind the gender gap amongst young people during the elections, it makes at least a little bit more sense than it would otherwise.
Also (sorry for the lengthy comment, you made me think😂) I honestly think that women in this no men movement probably are not surrounded by good men. I really don’t think you can come to that personal conclusion if the men in your life are anything like the ones that are thankfully in mine, or as it seems, in yours. So maybe this is a testament to failed social structures in which women experience men as a threat to their health and safety. I should think that that is the problem we need to fix, and the extreme views against whole genders might fix themselves. Anyways, thanks so much for the video and the food for thought!
These days, many women choose to focus on their careers, personal growth, and enjoying an independent life instead of rushing into dating or marriage. This is great because it allows them to be financially self-sufficient and live on their own terms without relying on anyone.
However, sometimes being too focused on independence can make us accustomed to solitude and hesitant to open up to others. Happiness doesn’t just come from personal success but also from meaningful connections. Whether choosing independence or seeking a relationship, the most important thing is to feel fulfilled and happy in our own way!
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Thank you so much for this video. I loved this so much ❤. I wish i had someone like you in real life, you are the kind of bestfriend/mentor im searching for in my life. Everything you said and how you said it was so beautiful 🫶🏻
I really did mature a bit watching this and help me come back and reassure me of my choices, values and way of thinking. I think and feel exactly what you feel/think but could never put it to words. So i am so extremely grateful for this post. Thank you so much 🙏🏼 lots of love and God blessing to you 💕💝💖💗
Fantastic video ❤ Thank you for speaking out against the arrogance of a movement choosing the collective over the individual. Hive mind mentality has made many women so miserable. I'm sorry some women only experience negative, but I also feel like some women attract and create their own narrative. Sometimes we have to change our desires or decisions to bring better into our lives. Bad judgment brings bad people and karma. I grew up surrounded by that mostly. But my grandparents had a very good marriage that gave me enough hope to hold out for the right one and desire to form myself into a suitable partner for a good man. Now I am about to celebrate 6 years and 2 kids later with my husband who has brought me nothing but stability, love, and an easier life
Seeing how difficult some women around my have had it with their fathers and relationships, it made me thankful that my father was there. He was not, as no one is, perfect but he was there and he loves his children. He set a good example for his sons and has helped the next generation(s) of stable and wonderful men and set a good example for his daughters what it is to find a good man.
I don't take it for granted and I am grateful to have a God who I can thank for this!
THANK you for the comment that sacrifice provides meaning for people!!!!! Finally, truth!
.... my opinión a men gives you more work than goodlife...
That's a sad thing. I can only say that my father, my 3 brothers, my husband have only made my life better, easier and safer.
I'm sorry you've only experienced that. I grew up surrounded by that mostly. But my grandparents had a very good marriage that gave me enough hope to hold out for the right one. Now I am about to celebrate 6 years and 2 kids later with my husband who has brought me nothing but stability, love, and an easier life
I like the video, however you are not addressing or exploring WHY this movement gains traction or why it even exists: the difficult position of women in society. Why do women in this movement go this extreme way. May it be they feel ignored for so long and they don't see any other way to make their voice be heard?
I don’t subscribe to any female movement that outcasts all men. That makes no sense to my values, logic, or lived experience. But I think the election thing is a bit more complicated: the “no men” stance is mostly supported by young women (who remain a minority though). And among young people the gender gap in the election was in fact quite wide, with some statistics showing a Kamala Harris lead of 33 points among young women. So the young women who now want nothing to do with men have made the experience that their peers, among whom they would be choosing potential partners, have voted for someone that they perceive as a threat to their physical integrity and life choices. And they also view the older women who voted for Trump as women who have lost awareness of this threat because they have inhabited a patriarchal world for so long. Now I don’t share this stance because I feel it simplifies a few things, but keeping in mind the gender gap amongst young people during the elections, it makes at least a little bit more sense than it would otherwise.
Also (sorry for the lengthy comment, you made me think😂) I honestly think that women in this no men movement probably are not surrounded by good men. I really don’t think you can come to that personal conclusion if the men in your life are anything like the ones that are thankfully in mine, or as it seems, in yours. So maybe this is a testament to failed social structures in which women experience men as a threat to their health and safety. I should think that that is the problem we need to fix, and the extreme views against whole genders might fix themselves. Anyways, thanks so much for the video and the food for thought!