Losing Me in Marriage Ft. Dr Umar Johnson

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  • On this session of Counsel Culture, Nick Cannon sits down with Dr. Umar Johnson for a thought-provoking exploration of relationships and self-awareness. Nick opens up about his views on monogamy, emotional availability, and the fears that often hold people back from fully committing. From the benefits of marriage for successful men to his own personal journey, this episode offers candid insights and fresh perspectives-making it one for the books.
    #NickCannon #DrUmarJohnson #CounselCulture ‪@NickCannon‬

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  • @Cdlboy.214
    @Cdlboy.214 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +949

    We need an Umar & Bryant sit down

    • @blessings28
      @blessings28 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

      Now that would be interesting🤔

    • @Cdlboy.214
      @Cdlboy.214 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @ facts

    • @yangasidziya3245
      @yangasidziya3245 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Definitely

    • @briarob83
      @briarob83 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      That podcast would be great

    • @83aceventura
      @83aceventura หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      I don’t think Umar want them problems, he’d attempt to talk over her

  • @kendawgMCMXCV
    @kendawgMCMXCV หลายเดือนก่อน +429

    Dr. Umar broke Nick down like a math equation

    • @lb1798
      @lb1798 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      OooooWeeee....he broke it doooowwwn‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

    • @robertdavenport9095
      @robertdavenport9095 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      FACTS HE"S A BEAST.

    • @rome2568
      @rome2568 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@robertdavenport9095 If by beast you mean a con artist who just talks and does nothing then yes, he is a beast!

    • @robertdavenport9095
      @robertdavenport9095 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@rome2568 How do you know he does nothing?

    • @rome2568
      @rome2568 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ What have you seen him accomplish?

  • @lasgidisultan
    @lasgidisultan หลายเดือนก่อน +510

    Dr Umar fresh from a 1992 Queen Latifah video

    • @jamesshelton5379
      @jamesshelton5379 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      Who u calling a b, U N I T Y

    • @dionnepanton1831
      @dionnepanton1831 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      😂😂😂

    • @chaundadon2612
      @chaundadon2612 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      GIMME FIVE ON THE BLACK HAND SIDE 😂

    • @judithj446
      @judithj446 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Luv it😂😂

    • @TopFlight-e5m
      @TopFlight-e5m หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤣🤣🤣

  • @TheTreemark
    @TheTreemark 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1048

    I see Dr. Umar, I click 😁

    • @candidlycrystal
      @candidlycrystal 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Same! Clicked and liked 😆

    • @jbdp7526
      @jbdp7526 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Me too

    • @czhanell
      @czhanell 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      With no hesitation. Funny with truth and facts mixed with education

    • @therachelexchange
      @therachelexchange 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yesss!!

    • @Ggurl707
      @Ggurl707 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Me too😊

  • @tamirajohnellestyle
    @tamirajohnellestyle หลายเดือนก่อน +312

    Marriage and who we have kids with are ultimately the two most important decisions we will ever make. Many people take neither one seriously.

    • @BluEx22329
      @BluEx22329 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So why do so many women in our community CHOOSE/AGREE to have raw sx outside of marriage multiple times?

    • @Nappy2theRoot
      @Nappy2theRoot หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      No, it's not. There's other important decisions to make because MOST of ya'll don't even make good decisions with who ya'll procreate with

    • @Southforthewinter
      @Southforthewinter หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      It was Gods very first instructions be fruitful and multiply, and that’s why sex is such a power drug over us. Your bloodline is your beginning and your destination. Some ppl are too individualistic to ever care for such a glorious but heavy burden. They’d rather please their own flesh than obey God and honor their lineage. The ultimate expression of self love.

    • @RideorDie1987
      @RideorDie1987 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      "be fruitful and multiply" is just a religious excuse to get loose. Plus when did marriage and mating become separate agendas.. 🤔😏

    • @702rainman
      @702rainman หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ⁠@@RideorDie1987it’s not a religious excuse to get loose 😂 Especially since it’s in reference to procreation with your spouse .

  • @NomadSupreme911
    @NomadSupreme911 หลายเดือนก่อน +520

    Anyone: "What time is it nick?"
    Nick: "Well what I'll say about that is that we're all on a different type of time, and my understanding of how clocks work may not necessarily coincide with the societal norms in regards to how clocks work. Furthermore, Einstein propositioned that time may actually be an illusion created by consciousness to help us interpret the relationship between various events and phenomenon."

    • @lookupabove9973
      @lookupabove9973 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      🤣😂🤣

    • @samr.333
      @samr.333 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Katile-n9b
      @Katile-n9b หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@NomadSupreme911 😂😂😂

    • @TheAtlantaBelle
      @TheAtlantaBelle หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @HiddenWonders600
      @HiddenWonders600 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      😂😂😂

  • @janinehopkins2396
    @janinehopkins2396 หลายเดือนก่อน +129

    Whew chile Nick rambled on for 6 mins & I have no idea what he was talking about. Much respect to therapists who do this work & the patience required.

    • @PeaceandFlylife
      @PeaceandFlylife หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Right

    • @Venomous_471
      @Venomous_471 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is why I can never completely watch his shows

    • @kokodavirgo
      @kokodavirgo หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I thought I was having a stroke.

    • @saetae9208
      @saetae9208 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What😂😂​@@kokodavirgo

    • @bentonbryant8207
      @bentonbryant8207 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I noticed how Dr. UMAR listened the entire time. A PROFESSIONAL

  • @BlackNewsMonday
    @BlackNewsMonday 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +176

    Doc just defined the difference between love and care. This is some counseling

  • @dreecey88
    @dreecey88 หลายเดือนก่อน +280

    Dr. Bryant and Dr. Umar need to have a conversation! It would be 🔥

    • @rick3y0
      @rick3y0 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      No umar and Candace Owens would be fire!!!!!

    • @chrissyECee
      @chrissyECee หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I’m here for it

    • @GeraldCampbell-dt8pd
      @GeraldCampbell-dt8pd หลายเดือนก่อน

      ⁠@@rick3y0Candace Owens is not smart enough to talk with Dr Umar.

    • @Ghanaquankel2776
      @Ghanaquankel2776 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Dr. Umar and Candace would not be interesting
      They have more in common than most people think.
      Dr. Bryant and Dr. Umar would be interesting. ​@@rick3y0

    • @rick3y0
      @rick3y0 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ I beg to differ

  • @TheRealPopiSlim
    @TheRealPopiSlim หลายเดือนก่อน +139

    This man is a genius. Sometimes I hate to admit it because of all of the viral moments but he be preaching truth that NOBODY speaks on

    • @rome2568
      @rome2568 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@TheRealPopiSlim Plenty people talk about the same thing. Tell us what he does himself other than talk please!

    • @iamkingdom4277
      @iamkingdom4277 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Definitely more people talk about it just most people only listen to celebrities and don’t take wisdom where ever it comes. Wisdom comes from error and abundance

  • @kingmaafa120
    @kingmaafa120 หลายเดือนก่อน +133

    Nick sitting posture tells it all 😮

    • @shennillebrown7626
      @shennillebrown7626 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I thought so too

    • @nicolejames3054
      @nicolejames3054 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Facts , he know Dr read him like a book! He need it and like it secretly🤷🏾‍♀️he wants healing!

    • @thecrow4597
      @thecrow4597 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      This is how I sat when I was 15 and going through a rough rebellious phase. This dude is like 45.

    • @wendyleequietstorm4671
      @wendyleequietstorm4671 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Thank you for saying this. No 41 year old should be sitting like this - especially during an interview.

    • @kingmaafa120
      @kingmaafa120 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @ LEAD BY EXAMPLE

  • @beautifullbrownskin1
    @beautifullbrownskin1 หลายเดือนก่อน +153

    Who in the hell wants to raise a child alone. Having children is a big responsibility, and no one wants to raise a child alone. I don't blame Dr. Bryant for not having children as a single woman. Good for her.

    • @LM-he7eb
      @LM-he7eb หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      Riiiight 🤣🤣🤣They want her to be a single mom. So they can shame her😅😅😅

    • @bohobabie5987
      @bohobabie5987 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      @@LM-he7ebthat’s some cold diabolical work and the fact that they don’t realize it craziness

    • @septemberjanuary4636
      @septemberjanuary4636 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      RIght! And he understands why she isn't married but can't understand why she doesn't have kids!!! Kids are bigger commitment! So why is he confused?

    • @KingJames-dv5pj
      @KingJames-dv5pj หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@beautifullbrownskin1 crazy. Shows how we've normalized dysfunction

    • @KingJames-dv5pj
      @KingJames-dv5pj หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      @@beautifullbrownskin1 when I was single in my late twenties with no kids I'd meet women and they'd asked me what's wrong because I don't have kids. My rebuttal was what's wrong with you to think it's normal to have kids outside of a family structure. I grew up without a father. I know what it's like to not have the other half of my DNA to speak life and guide me especially being a fatherless male. I had to learn from the streets what a man is and thank God I had a praying mother. That could've went very bad

  • @lhall2278
    @lhall2278 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +348

    Why does Nick and Cam try hard to sound intellectual when expressing their disconnect with normal functional family structure, while at the same time deflecting from their dysfunctional lifestyles and mental states.

    • @ThandiThelmaNjibane-gb1kv
      @ThandiThelmaNjibane-gb1kv หลายเดือนก่อน +44

      Fear, he's doing it unconsciously, he lacks the awareness of the whole, so by laws and principles of the universe he is bound to act in that manner until he is awakened to his full true self and potential of being, until then, this is what you can expect and which is pure and natural in its own way too.

    • @ForeignFlexTv
      @ForeignFlexTv หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Perspectives

    • @RoycesRant
      @RoycesRant หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Facts

    • @ussssaaabixchh
      @ussssaaabixchh หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      A whole bunch of word salad

    • @quilabill
      @quilabill หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      I’d guess say ego protection- no one likes to be told that their mistakes are rooted in their ideology (that’s where their self worth and esteem live) - he’s like a cracking shell and I’m excited to see how God will bless Cannon - he’s seeking truth he just has to keep humility in mind despite shame

  • @BiggWes1911
    @BiggWes1911 หลายเดือนก่อน +97

    The more Dr. Umar points and breaks Nick down, the more Nick slumps in his chair. Lol Nick is almost laying on the floor when he was asking “are you emotionally available “. Lol. Hilarious

    • @jessicaball8959
      @jessicaball8959 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@BiggWes1911 LMAOOOO yoooo I didn't notice that 🤣🤣

    • @BBOUNDCO
      @BBOUNDCO หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Best comment… I’m hollering 😂

    • @briarob83
      @briarob83 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      😂😂😂melting

    • @TheFitTechGuy
      @TheFitTechGuy 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @spiritualbridger
      @spiritualbridger 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      And the fact he was already slumped at the beginning 😂😂😂

  • @zibanegp
    @zibanegp หลายเดือนก่อน +127

    I don’t agree with many of Nick Cannon’s views and values. However, it takes a lot of humility to allow people to speak into your life so openly, and I respect him for that. Additionally, he engages in conversations with his guests rather than talking at them, which is quite rare these days.

    • @jamaicadiaspora6642
      @jamaicadiaspora6642 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Agreed. I have to respect him for that 👏🏽

    • @87Lohan
      @87Lohan หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Agreed I feel he’s trying to heal he’s just a wounded soul.

    • @mannymula1114
      @mannymula1114 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He wants to heal I think he gonna chill on the sperm rampage 😂

  • @marylee7460
    @marylee7460 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +225

    I do like that Nick is transparent….He likes to seek counsel from the wise, and that makes him wise.

    • @RoycesRant
      @RoycesRant หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      He don’t be listening to nothing that they saying . Nick has and never will change, lol

    • @ussssaaabixchh
      @ussssaaabixchh หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      That’s the problem u seek counsel and don’t apply it what the hell is the point ?? Ego and views that’s it he knows what he’s doing

    • @beammeupscottyny
      @beammeupscottyny หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      He’s just exploiting dr umar at this point, he doesn’t listen to a THING he says.

    • @adavis3215
      @adavis3215 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Umar isn’t a clinical psychologist. He makes up lofty job titles & accomplishments for himself all the time.

    • @getmoneychill6462
      @getmoneychill6462 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Nicky just be talking & saying the right things so he doesn’t get cancelled

  • @IAmBrooklynGizMoe
    @IAmBrooklynGizMoe หลายเดือนก่อน +146

    Tyrese need to sit down with dr umar

    • @2007enthusiast
      @2007enthusiast หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Tyrese seems as though he would do a genuine deep dive in exposure therapy with Dr. Umar as opposed to Nick who deflects and lacks self-awareness

    • @Nappy2theRoot
      @Nappy2theRoot หลายเดือนก่อน

      Tyrese needs to sit down with a psychiatrist in a psych ward

    • @westerwester3273
      @westerwester3273 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Reall

    • @blackroc01
      @blackroc01 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Tyrese would start CRYIN!!

    • @jessyp7939
      @jessyp7939 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Tyrese not ready and I don’t wanna see him cry no mo lol but he def needs to sit down

  • @catherinew835
    @catherinew835 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

    Mr. Cannon the way you choose to deflect certain points in the conversation when you do not agree with them is fascinating to watch you really listen with the ear more on the defensive side than being open and receptive but good conversation overall

    • @UnLisable
      @UnLisable หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Heavy On That!!!!!

    • @johnnyweeks3669
      @johnnyweeks3669 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Deflection at a all time high

  • @KidGrinch
    @KidGrinch หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    Dr. Omar should really be the one interviewing celebrities etc. it would be amazing!!!

  • @J2tha12
    @J2tha12 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    To love the king is not bad, but a king who loves you is better.

  • @genardrapugh8113
    @genardrapugh8113 หลายเดือนก่อน +78

    I see quality in what Dr. Umar and Dr. Bryant have theorized. One consistent thing Nick is going to do every-time is deflect and avoid. Hints: Love Languages don’t equate emotional availability. The only thing he admitted was his trauma response being to flee and its evident.

    • @MISSDAJAVU22
      @MISSDAJAVU22 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Bingo!

    • @sayiddahbey4718
      @sayiddahbey4718 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I couldn’t agree more 🎯

    • @marydenisesimon7929
      @marydenisesimon7929 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      We must give people time and grace to openly admit and expose themselves on personal and emotional issues as they so choose!!!! I think Nick has and is doing a GREAT JOB sharing and openly talking about his personal life and emotions 🤷🏽‍♀️most could not and WILL NOT open up in private let alone to their own SELFS 🙄 and definitely not on such a public platform 🧐

  • @ckorpah4163
    @ckorpah4163 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    Dr. Umar was on point with his diagnosis

    • @elaine21bok
      @elaine21bok หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He sure was in my non professional opinion 😊

    • @Far7rom
      @Far7rom หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Especially with his diagnosis of Dr bryant.

  • @godivabaker6622
    @godivabaker6622 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    One thing about Nick Cannon is as much as he tries to not prove that he is corny, it makes him look even cornier. He comes off as a pseudo intellectual by using word salad, over explaining and bringing up books to provide he’s well read. it doesn’t take all of that to answer a question. I’m happy Dr. Umar pressed him on some of these questions, even though he deflected so many times.

    • @tracywilliams7293
      @tracywilliams7293 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Damn You took the words right out of my head... He's such a word salad expert And deflector, I always thought he tries too hard to seem so intellectual, But it's just a bunch of mumbo jumbo... I get a headache listening to him... Could you just imagine trying to have a conversation With this guy.. He truly is an unapologetic proud narcissist🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @KandiClarkHavvard
    @KandiClarkHavvard 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +88

    THIS WAS SUCH A GREAT INTERVIEW!!!!!! I just LOVE BLACK MEN DOING THE WORK WITH RESPECT!!!!!!

    • @dariansanders679
      @dariansanders679 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And black men love you beautiful

    • @Eziopct
      @Eziopct หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@dariansanders679 Indeed we do!

    • @reeree3641
      @reeree3641 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s a ruse. I do not believe Mr Cannon has any intention of doing anything different than what he continues to do over and over again. However, no judgements. I also believe overall that’s he’s a good dude with the best of intentions that just don’t land according to societal norms.
      Now, kids will be fine. All they really need to survive is food, shelter and physical safety. What may lack with this non traditional familial lifestyle is emotional safety, guaranteeing potentially unhealthy concerns and outcomes for the children.

    • @coreymartin5515
      @coreymartin5515 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Big Up!!!

  • @aleyastorm
    @aleyastorm หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    I enjoyed this conversation.. i hope there is a part 2. Dr Umar held Nick accountable but made the conversation flow smoothly with understanding

  • @IntuitiveReadingByPriscilla
    @IntuitiveReadingByPriscilla หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    BRILLIANT CONVERSATION WE NEED THESE TYPES OF REAL CONVERSATIONS IN OUR COMMUNITY….

  • @kala9907
    @kala9907 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    Just like Actors on Actors interviews, we need therapists on therapists interviews. Dr. Bryant and Dr. Umar.

  • @managertfw2623
    @managertfw2623 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    Nick please let your guest talk more please.

    • @tysmith9255
      @tysmith9255 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Agreed Jesus get on with her questioning.

    • @tysmith9255
      @tysmith9255 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The questioning

    • @2007enthusiast
      @2007enthusiast หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He is so irritating with too much verbosity out here sounding like TI

    • @sedi2066
      @sedi2066 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@2007enthusiast😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @dontefromtheroc
    @dontefromtheroc หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    That boy nick just be rambling

    • @thecrow4597
      @thecrow4597 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That’s what happens when your entire career and life is constant lying

  • @chynahudson2286
    @chynahudson2286 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Most of Dr. Umar’s interviews makes me reflect on my own life and past experiences. I love hearing him speak.

  • @marleenjones1877
    @marleenjones1877 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Look, I said this before.... I give Nick my 10000 % respect for this platform... For being allowed to b the teachable moment for humanity... To sit in front of the world to do this type of truth telling is not for PUNKS!!! It takes courage on a level few of us dare to explore within ourselves....(POWERFUL).. Much respect for Dr. Umar also. I loved this episode.... ❤

    • @partyppl7904
      @partyppl7904 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      But Nick continues to operate dysfunctionally

    • @marleenjones1877
      @marleenjones1877 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      The work is a process, not a magic pill. I give him credit for even allowing his " dysfunction." As you say it, to be put on display so the professional can show you the process of what it looks like to go in & do the deep dive to help u discover why you move the way u do.. That is what I find so powerful because not everyone has the courage to do the work even in private yet alone publicly...If nothing else, it might inspire someone to do their own work.. And it's OK not to be OK.

    • @Nappy2theRoot
      @Nappy2theRoot หลายเดือนก่อน

      Girl, get off your knees😂 nick isn't learning a damn thing

  • @patreeves4015
    @patreeves4015 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    And the answer is? YES!!!!! Nick we already know Precious and been knew.

  • @RoycesRant
    @RoycesRant หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    Nick Cannon don’t want to be healed or anything. I’d rather him just keep it all the way 100 about how he wants to live his lifestyle.

    • @johnnyweeks3669
      @johnnyweeks3669 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      BINGO

    • @Teyfxn
      @Teyfxn 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He has, people just wont let him live. They want so badly for him to have a problem when he doesnt seem to have issues with his circumstances.

  • @viv5709
    @viv5709 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    This man is still in love with Mariah 🥹

    • @shawnbailey2300
      @shawnbailey2300 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      I don’t think he’s in love with Mariah, he’s in love with what Mariah represents their celebrity commonalities.

    • @CatEyeGem
      @CatEyeGem หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@shawnbailey2300A Bit of both

    • @RemeePooh
      @RemeePooh หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      And she doesn't want anything to do with him..

    • @RemeePooh
      @RemeePooh หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@@shawnbailey2300Mariah said she doesn't believe he ever got to know or love her as a person because he couldn't get past her name.

    • @RemeePooh
      @RemeePooh หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@CatEyeGemnope. Even Mariah didn't believe he ever truly loved her beyond her name.

  • @josedelva9494
    @josedelva9494 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Quality time will never be enough, because you have too many people who needs it. You don’t have enough for yourself, let alone the families that you created

  • @vick_e_secrets
    @vick_e_secrets หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Doc…..been rockin' with you since 2014. These type of conversations are much needed.

    • @juliap5457
      @juliap5457 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      2010 for me. He’s a international treasure 🥹

  • @prhphone3259
    @prhphone3259 หลายเดือนก่อน +104

    Two quick points: 1. Nick, you can’t be emotionally available to so many women at the same time. It’s just not possible. 2. If you don’t want marriage, that’s absolutely fine. Just stop bringing children into these situations. It’s the broken homes that are the problem in which the children will have to bear the brunt of the negative consequences of your actions.

    • @LazarusRising
      @LazarusRising หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Both points aren’t very sound opinions lol

    • @kharijohnson1716
      @kharijohnson1716 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@LazarusRisingin ur opinion lol

    • @tjinks7530
      @tjinks7530 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wait what

    • @BoujeeBlackipina
      @BoujeeBlackipina หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@tjinks7530Stop creating broken homes. Simple

    • @3fitspiritmindbody812
      @3fitspiritmindbody812 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      The same as we are emotionally available for multiple family members and friends, Nick can be to his constituents.

  • @Magnificent-qr4rn
    @Magnificent-qr4rn 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Umar is a real Dr. Of mental health... He just explained very elegantly 70 to 80% of women in America on how they think and view relationship and how Nick chooses women....and that's Factual 💯

  • @empress6868
    @empress6868 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

    Dr. Umar’s face at the 12:57 min mark tells me he know this ninja dancin around the topic😂😂😂

    • @ussssaaabixchh
      @ussssaaabixchh หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      😂😂😂

    • @RawDogTV
      @RawDogTV หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Facts

    • @robbin1619
      @robbin1619 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤔😂🤣

    • @davinbrown24
      @davinbrown24 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hilarious 😂😂😂

    • @davinbrown24
      @davinbrown24 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Nick talked for 7 minutes trying to intellectually say “aye fam I ain’t low functioning” 😂😂😂

  • @OhhYouu..MICHELLE
    @OhhYouu..MICHELLE หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I love when you two fellowship! Nick I sense your progress! Keep healing!🌹

  • @trainwithme7152
    @trainwithme7152 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Cam newton and nick be tossing words around to aound smart.

    • @jojo5286
      @jojo5286 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It’s unbelievable how he talks for 4 minutes and then says it’s leading up to a question 😂😂 just say the question! Pleaseeee

  • @Tone410
    @Tone410 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    The word salad on the emotional availability question was funny 😂

  • @nicolejames3054
    @nicolejames3054 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Doc cooked like it was Thanksgiving!🎯🎯💯

  • @troyjohnson7656
    @troyjohnson7656 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    An Umar and Bryant interview or podcast would be magical !

  • @labs2454
    @labs2454 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Posture speaks volumes about character..

  • @Legacy_by_Quintaria
    @Legacy_by_Quintaria หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I loved this episode and I love these two together!! Can't wait for part 2.

  • @grayspace5638
    @grayspace5638 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This was actually very good. One thing I’ll say is that regardless of how people feel about Dr. Umar, he commands a certain level of respect (sexually from other men) that really creates space for thoughtful and impactful dialogue. I appreciated that the most here!

  • @NickMintz
    @NickMintz หลายเดือนก่อน +95

    We need an Umar and Candace Owens sit down

    • @LadyK007
      @LadyK007 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Yes!!!!!

    • @SergMilli
      @SergMilli หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Oh man yes!

    • @Ade683
      @Ade683 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yesterday!!

    • @clife737
      @clife737 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      They will get in a fist fight lol

    • @adavis3215
      @adavis3215 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Candace isn’t a demure Umar bootlicker. The minute she contest him or points out faults in his logic he’ll come unglued.

  • @donnascott1654
    @donnascott1654 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Yes, Nick 😅. It’s a big fat yes.

  • @changetocome100
    @changetocome100 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Dr Umar needs to put himself in the same category he is putting Nick and Cam in.

    • @_kaeyos
      @_kaeyos หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hmmmmm this is a great observation that I thought as well

    • @ilikepickles9568
      @ilikepickles9568 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Absolutely, spot on!!!!

  • @Prospek23
    @Prospek23 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    One major issue is that we have is two Doctors with no marriage experience who both don't self identify as christians, talking about faith based marriages. I'm not even going delve into their credentials because the PHD's I know of would rather play in traffic than to kill their ability to practice by talking to celebrities so openly on social media platforms.

  • @iyannai09
    @iyannai09 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Great talk Nick! Thanks for being vulnerable I know it’s not easy!

  • @czhanell
    @czhanell 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    Even the therapist need therapy. You hit it Dr Umar. Much to assess and think about from this episode. We need more healthy conversations like this

    • @kluv5052
      @kluv5052 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Made me think of the Tyler Perry movie "Why did I get married too" where dude is getting a divorce from Janet Jackson (a famous marriage counselor) and he tells his friends the worse thing about being married to a therapist, is they think they know everything.

    • @kluv5052
      @kluv5052 หลายเดือนก่อน

      th-cam.com/video/X2Nf7Ec81Z0/w-d-xo.htmlsi=qkDkOPXo-zQZBARs

    • @speaktruthpeace1612
      @speaktruthpeace1612 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes indeed

  • @jacquelinewilliams2349
    @jacquelinewilliams2349 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Difference between Dr. Umar and Nick is the community mindset.

    • @Jophlo78
      @Jophlo78 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The biggest difference is one is an unemployed grifter and the other actually has a career.

  • @di5stargeneral
    @di5stargeneral 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

    GET TO THE POINT NICK…. You be talking long to ask the question..jeeze…weaving

    • @qindatrap8098
      @qindatrap8098 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Facts

    • @managertfw2623
      @managertfw2623 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Yes he never let his guest speak 🗣️

    • @RoycesRant
      @RoycesRant หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      This show is for him and not his guest, lol

    • @johnnyweeks3669
      @johnnyweeks3669 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Bobbing and weaving 😂😂

  • @everystrandisnumbered5162
    @everystrandisnumbered5162 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I Love Me Some Dr.Umar!!! Respectful, Honorable Black Man!! King!! Nick, We Love You To! I Pray You Continue To Grow, Heal, And Learn! King!!!

  • @JonathanJonesSpeaks
    @JonathanJonesSpeaks 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

    Dr. Umar for president 2024‼️‼️

    • @whyworkwhenicanrap6830
      @whyworkwhenicanrap6830 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      They would never allow it but I would love it

    • @SnowmanSess-ds9zx
      @SnowmanSess-ds9zx หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Not gonna happen ever... America would turn into Wakanda if he's ever made the president 😂

    • @AkiraYuki5150
      @AkiraYuki5150 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Too many scams in his ledger for him to last more than 2 mins in politics.

    • @Jophlo78
      @Jophlo78 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You belong in a padded room and a straight jacket.

    • @partyppl7904
      @partyppl7904 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm for black empowerment, growth and progress specifically in leadership, but not Umar for president

  • @teneshablackmon
    @teneshablackmon 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    So good to see in real time. Thanks for being open fellows.

  • @bloomMajor
    @bloomMajor หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Man Nick, you the truth for this podcast.

  • @Channel_Quame
    @Channel_Quame หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This was good. Lol more of this. Dr Umar and Nick need a series lol.

  • @iyannai09
    @iyannai09 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Honestly, Nick Cannon was just offended and did not want to hear it from a Black woman. Dr. Umar is not in disagreement with what Dr. Bryant said! Nick just has a problem with being held accountable by a woman which is why is relationships don’t work out. He literally just described what Dr. Bryant said! Notice how Nick isn’t being disrespectful cutting him off and actually open to listening?

    • @Dr.Beetlejuice110
      @Dr.Beetlejuice110 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Could it be though that it's the first time he saw a doctor and that's what they said and then got a second opinion and realized that it must be true? Does it really have to do with a woman or just that he disagreed with a medical diagnosis and got a second opinion and it was the same and it was time to accept it. Also, Dr. Umar also diagnosed Dr. Bryant as well and affirmed what they were saying about her too. Where's the agreement from Dr. Bryant there?

    • @adelestears8298
      @adelestears8298 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Dr.Beetlejuice110What, the first time????😂 Nick has said many times over the years that he's been in therapy. He has had many doctors. Not only is he in therapy by himself, but many of his baby mamas have said they've been to therapy with him 😂😂😂😂 can you believe that. Nick just want to hear himself talk but doesn't want to apply what he's learned and yes he felt some type of way that he black woman doctor held him accountable.

  • @SoulDisposition
    @SoulDisposition หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This counseling session was real. I’m glad this channel was suggested. Subscribed This is me in counseling, I start explaining deflecting and over talking knowing full well the therapist is reading my soul! lol!

  • @christlivsinme
    @christlivsinme หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Nick i pray that you get emotional healing . You can't give what you dont have.

    • @Far7rom
      @Far7rom หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hes just fine. This is content. Thisbis for yall. Not for him

  • @blessings28
    @blessings28 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This was really good. I enjoyed the reflective conversation and vulnerability shown.

  • @thecrow4597
    @thecrow4597 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Self sacrifice is a necessary component of Love. Nick is promoting a false love. A self love

  • @jayjordan833
    @jayjordan833 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Dr Umar did good holding Nick Accountable

  • @joshuapatterson7183
    @joshuapatterson7183 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    The fact that people are still talking about Dr. Cheyenne Bryant's interview just goes to show she struck a nerve somewhere amongst the male masses. Brothers, will we humble ourselves and conduct honest reflection inspired by her feedback, or will we blindly assault her character and that of women in general? Not challenging y'all to agree with her, just challenging you to think.

    • @shantalbarbot5801
      @shantalbarbot5801 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Love this respectful response ❤️💯

    • @Far7rom
      @Far7rom หลายเดือนก่อน

      Shes a bussdown.

    • @shanellejimenez6051
      @shanellejimenez6051 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I think because our culture is not fully ready to have these conversations they take it more as an attack, vs looking to help us as a culture.

    • @blissdad13
      @blissdad13 หลายเดือนก่อน

      shes A CON ARTIST A LIAR AND A FRAUD.. we have no issue going to a legitimate doctor.. she is not that...

  • @roditzme3013
    @roditzme3013 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dr Umar did a great job in bringing truth to the surface. This is good for men to see.

  • @optimisticstance9206
    @optimisticstance9206 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I felt these questions in my soul!!!! When you have the education (more degrees that a thermometer 🙋🏽‍♀️) AND you a todo the inner work…. You’re a walking talking magical elixir!!! IYKYK! 😮‍💨❤️
    Well done sir!!!! 👏🏽

  • @jayc5756
    @jayc5756 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm Definitely looking forward to the next session with him.
    But I respect Nick for knowing and understanding these stuff, and not getting married Just To Get Married.

  • @the_nightingale1111
    @the_nightingale1111 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    🎯 That discernment hits different.

  • @aprilshowers3331
    @aprilshowers3331 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dr. Umar is so talented and so valuable for our community

  • @partyppl7904
    @partyppl7904 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    For Umar to draw his own conclusions with no facts on why Dr. Bryant didn't follow through on her engagements is WILD. AND so because she's beautiful at 41 something wrong with her because she don't have kids? Perhaps she didn't allow herself to get impregnated without being married.

    • @KatsukoNikki27
      @KatsukoNikki27 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Exactly! Dr. Umar lost me on that part 😒. Dr. Bryant being 41 beautiful and not out here being irresponsible by having a gang of children automatically makes her the Damn PRIZE to me! She definitely makes smart decisions! Dr. Umar is wild for his comments on her smh

    • @shanellejimenez6051
      @shanellejimenez6051 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I agree! I don't think he listened to her whole interview with Cam b/c the way he described what she was saying...she did not say that at all. In other words he is saying it's a problem that she did not settle and and he considers it running and wanting to control a situation or a younger man.

  • @kingtynes1133
    @kingtynes1133 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love these type of conversations. Black men we have to work on ourselves first!

  • @nikkilove6128
    @nikkilove6128 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Mmm that point on love and care not being the same by Dr Umar is so on point💯💯💯

  • @deangeloparker2974
    @deangeloparker2974 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dr. Umar X on the set . Much blessings brother for u and urs . Same to Sir Canon. Glad these conversations can be listened to.

  • @lounisepierre2080
    @lounisepierre2080 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    His point is that because he has money he doesn’t need emotions

  • @StLouis83
    @StLouis83 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks for these topics. Self reflection in progress 😊

  • @pan-africanisms
    @pan-africanisms 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Thanks For All The Love and Support Brothers and Sistas. Peace and Pan-Africanism

    • @J2tha12
      @J2tha12 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The laborer is always in the sun; the landowner is always in the shade.

    • @Katile-n9b
      @Katile-n9b หลายเดือนก่อน

      I wish he would have asked why dr Umar isn’t married and had two beautiful children outside the construct of marriage? He asked but didn’t let the dr answer.

    • @Jophlo78
      @Jophlo78 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Peace,
      Scams,
      Trash
      &
      Division.
      ~Ifakewnday

  • @cochrancochran66
    @cochrancochran66 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    PTSD… yes a lot of people experience this… I have a greater respect for Nick… his transparency. Can’t wait for part 2!

  • @Insanely__Gorgeous
    @Insanely__Gorgeous หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Dr.Umar is absolutely brilliant and I am truly a huge supporter of him, HOWEVER, with the level of intellect once someone shares their spiritual belief as a tenured psychologist you can NO longer take an approach that is not catered to the belief system. You cause confusion in diagnosing or in the healing process because it doesn’t match your own beliefs. You can not tell a Christian man that he is a serial monogamous and slight insult that because your belief is polygamy. But in reality he desires monogamy but acting in polygamy out of insecurity.
    Really good this episode

    • @tshepangharrison2021
      @tshepangharrison2021 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Good observation, you 100% correct

    • @Jophlo78
      @Jophlo78 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are
      ABSOLUTELY DELUSIONAL

  • @pamelarhoad9689
    @pamelarhoad9689 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    All the right questions.
    Very interesting answers.
    Good therapy, folks.

  • @beehive2066
    @beehive2066 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I can watch these all day. So informative

  • @InuqiSevonne
    @InuqiSevonne หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dr. Umar backed him in a corner, i love it! i hope hes able to come with his heart and be honest that he may still want his wife back but realizes that it will never happen because of the traumatic wall she and him put up to protect themselves. in a perfect world i can see them getting back together under a new light and it would be a celebration.

  • @iyannai09
    @iyannai09 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Nick cannon just can’t admit he’s emotionally unavailable. Sending flowers and stuff is not romance or being a hopeless romantic. It’s all superficial. He likes the love bombing and chasing but not the actual reciprocity of emotional vulnerability. He keeps trying to intellectualize the question. Answer the question!

  • @ForeignFlexTv
    @ForeignFlexTv หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Overall people like people who tell them what they want to hear. And shame and hate people who tell them what they don't want to hear.

  • @DrMargaretSatyaRose
    @DrMargaretSatyaRose หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was amazing! Love you both. Well done Dr. Umar

  • @kellylewis1841
    @kellylewis1841 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    So Nick wants to be told how great he is & to be physically touched. That’s today’s Man.

  • @Ashia49
    @Ashia49 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love languages are about each other’s way of feeling loved.Acts of service is not just about providing.

    • @katrinatennant7520
      @katrinatennant7520 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yet he says he NEEDS words of Affirmation from his partners smh lol. This was a joke. Lol

  • @essjai5D
    @essjai5D หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Nick is the embodiment of “me me me me me me me”

  • @trickerafrican2632
    @trickerafrican2632 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What an insightful conversation between the brothers.

  • @P_Family24
    @P_Family24 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I 💜 the love these 2 brothers have for each other! Dr. Umar never miss! (I Love him) I can’t wait for our sit down. I know it will be in the near future. We appreciate your vulnerability brother Nick!

  • @shawneelawrence4229
    @shawneelawrence4229 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Definitely loved this interview!!Nick thank you for being vulnerable ❤❤❤

  • @ThandiThelmaNjibane-gb1kv
    @ThandiThelmaNjibane-gb1kv หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    He's not yet able to give genuine love, or being emotionally available 💕 to others or his children, simply because he's only doing the inner work now, which will in the end affords him the ability to do so.
    It takes time to get to the other side, we're required by laws and principles of the universe to do the inner work if we feel the need to experience genuine love 💕.

    • @nessapariss
      @nessapariss 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ❤❤❤

  • @Youlovenianah
    @Youlovenianah หลายเดือนก่อน

    I honor and respect Nick Cannon for doing such work.

  • @comedianwatts5436
    @comedianwatts5436 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Nick be talking in circles

    • @RoycesRant
      @RoycesRant หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mane lol

  • @Seegoatlove
    @Seegoatlove หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love we as black people having these open and honest convos without getting mad. Dr umar is the best person for this convo. Nick, I feel my ways about you , but I’m happy you’re trying to learn and unlearn certain behaviors. Good luck to you on this journey

  • @Missbreeadams
    @Missbreeadams หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    18:27 I’m not a therapist and I peeped that about Dr. Bryant in the Cam interview. She has rejection and abandonment issues. When she had a good man she self sabotaged to prevent abandonment.

    • @Mynameshelenbtw
      @Mynameshelenbtw หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You dont know if those men were good. They were attracted to her, who knows? The narrative that they were good and involves with her is you guessing. They may also have their own issues preventing them from being so.

    • @BoujeeBlackipina
      @BoujeeBlackipina หลายเดือนก่อน

      you sound like a fool and you should be ashamed of yourself for agreeing with what he said about that lady. He's basically bashing her for not being a baby momma

    • @Far7rom
      @Far7rom หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She has a whole bunch of issues.

    • @Missbreeadams
      @Missbreeadams หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Mynameshelenbtw She said in an interview they were good. She even said she told one how to handle her when she would go off the rails.

    • @shanellejimenez6051
      @shanellejimenez6051 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I don't understand how you all hold on to that part, but ignore what else she said. She said she was low functioning at that time. She was in her 20's. She is in her 40's now. NOW she is self aware and she isn't going to settle just to have a "title". We can't just pick statements she made and not hear the descriptive story of what she said. The thing is most people may only listen to 1 or 2 interviews from her, however if you listen to her she states the exact same thing...People just look to pick at what she says b/c they feel attacked or can't handle what she says.

  • @Ednoxious1
    @Ednoxious1 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Regardless of who he is currently you have to admit it takes a big sense of self awareness to be vulnerable against one of the most prolific therapists on the world stage. It was a very good talk.

  • @GoldnSt8_Grizzly
    @GoldnSt8_Grizzly หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Nick was fighting for his life in there 😂 31:21