i'm 23 and still dont know what I wanna do with my life on a side note, i feel like BM is always excited with every topic in this podcast cos he always have stories to tell lol
i'm 20 and i still confused about my career path but some relatives are constantly nagging that "i need to figure out what i want to do" they're literally adding additional stress to the who me deciding what i want to do with my life situation.
I hope Ashley is okay, she looked a little down during this clip, maybe the topic brought back bad memories for her of the past, I just hope she doesn't push herself to much, or feel pressure opening up. With love and support.
Oh I totally had a quarterlife crisis at 25, still feel like I'm in that, 2 years later. I hated my job, how I looked, where my life was going. But at the same time, I didn't know what I wanted to do, should I go back to school? Should I find a new job in the same field? Should I just take a few months and travel around because I never got to do that? So in response to my crisis, I bleached my hair blond and then dyed it purple-pink. It didn't solve my crisis BUT it made me happier xD
Did the same too but i had a crisis when i just graduated. Idk what to do after it so i dyed my hair multiple times. Before grad, i never dyed it. as of now, I had 8 colors in just 2 years.
I had one when i was about to turn 30 and hadn't done much with my life aside from getting married and had 2 kids. That was almost 7 years ago. In those 7 years, I was able to go back to school, finish a degree, and start a career. I think it's normal to go through tough times, but they pass. My advise is to keep self- reflecting and set up small goals. Fighting!
I’m 25 and I can’t even tell you how I relate to that so hard. I never thought I’d have a quarter life crisis before, like questioning if what I’m doing is really worth it? It’s a weird phase to go through.
I honestly wanted to achieve all my goals before 25 too, but I’m nowhere near achieving it and my birthdays next month. Success has no expiry date, have to keep grinding
I'm turning 25 in August... I am having this quarter life crisis... it feels somewhat nice to know you're not the only one, and amazing how even celebs go through it. WE CAN DO IT GUYS YEAAAH lol
Just came across this and I went through this... 26yo, going to my 27yo at the end of the year and I feel less alone. No one seemed to understand what I was going through this year. I was about to go to my 3rd year of my degree, and felt unmotivated, started questioning everything... it's felt quite lonely and depressing (I literally thought "wow, seriously? I'm getting tired of this bs.") in this process because I feel like no one understood even if explained. I feel less lonely now and understood. Thank you for this. For talking about this, it made me feel less alone.
i think its all growing from the fact that society puts a lot of pressure on people who are in their 20s to freak the fuck out if their not doing anything remotely exciting or crazy. it makes people feel like they HAVE to have fun while it "lasts" because "your 30s are gonna be when you start thinking about marriage" everythings just all built in ur mind bc of what society and social media and films say, thats why a lot of people also think their old af in their mid 20s, when in reality your not even halfway there yet and ur freaking out? theres nothing wrong with not knowing what ur doing or if what your doing is even relevant for ur future, just dont hold urself back from experimenting and doing things you've always wanted to do bc you fear it wont become something stable in the future. im only 19 so im sure ill eventually feel this "life crisis" moment but hey now i know its not eve my own feelings and fear but just fear planted into me by society.
Yeay another relatable topic! It's always interesting to hear them talking about everything bcs it feels like discussing things with your friends. Always love listening to your podcast!!
I’ve been having existential crisis since 14 and I’m 23 and I still experience extreme anxiety and just lost and a lot of fear. Idk what I’m doing and I feel hopeless, I know a lot of things but I’m not good at them, and I have terrible attention span, all in all I think I’m problematic
Same same, I feel like I have so much stress going on, I know what I don't like but I don't know what I like or what I'm good at. It's crazy to me that people figure out what they want from life from a very young age while I'm here struggling at my twenties.
You are not problematic, so please don't devalue yourself. EVERY person has the potential to make a contribution to society or to have a positive impact on another persons life. Ask yourself what you love to do the most (try to avoid saying it's watching Netflix) and maybe pursue a career in that area. It is normal to have some anxiety and even fear when you are transitioning into the adult world. What's not normal is to let it dominate your day to day life or for you to begin to feel hopelessness. I don't know if you have talked to a doctor, but there are medications that can help improve your memory and attention span.
I really learned a lot from this episode. My grandma and elders in my family see me as an incompetent and disrespectful person for not following their chosen career for me. they call me the black sheep of the family. I did not want to disobey them, It's just that my happiness is important to me. (It is the same reason why I chose BTOB, because they bring happiness in my life 🤗) anyway, they wanted me to pursue psychology but I myself has mild depression. How can I listen to other people's problem, when I can't even fix myself? Fast forward.. I graduated as an Aircraft mechanic technician and I am damn the happiest person I know. everything felt good. Haha #chooseyourhappiness
I noticed that Ashley was a little down when they started talking about age 25... Please don't be sad~ You know we fans will always be there to support you~! And your friends as well~!!! Hwaiting~!!!
This podcast is an important element of my week. Everyone's funny and spills stories that are relatable and relevant to my own experiences. One moment I am laughing so loudly like Eunkwang does and then suddenly, I am reflecting on my life . :')
I’m 26 and i have my quarter life crisis right now 😂 Although I’m quite unsure if this is what I really want, it’s ok I’ll just do as I want. But.. Thankfully I got out of the horrible state of depression I was in. Depression is no joke. It’s a rabbit hole (Alice in wonderland version). Guys talking it out and taking a break away from ur current surrounding might help. At least for me it did help. Fighting 💪🏼
Italian Lavely and Hidden here! I love you all so much!!! BTW: "...with our hosts Peniel (of BTOB), BM (of KARD), and Ashley Choi" (of Ladies' Code) -.-
Totally hear you! So disappointing at life. Advice to younger self: enjoy life rather than being so committed to school. It is not like the saying “work hard, play later”. I was like get me my play time. Life gets tougher, more responsibilities (specially if you are family-oriented), work. . . I wish I could have venture into entrepreneurship sooner, so I could have laid the foundation of a business early on and would enjoy life now. 👍
my entire life up until age 14 I wanted to be a musician and an actor. and i actually practiced and worked towards that all those years but now I'm interested in film, editing, and graphic design so my only idea to incorporate all of those elements is starting a TH-cam channel.
The first year of college....now that was some real shit I had to go through...trying to pursue one particular degree but at the same time being super confused about what I’m really passionate about and trying to not disappoint parents at the same time Omg just thinking about it is a headache
oh my god! it seems like you just described my freshman year in college! It is a quite hard/confusing time and I guess not knowing if what you're doing is "the right thing to do" makes us even more anxious
Honestly I take life in such a chill way that I don’t even know if I had a quarter life crisis. I do remember that during that time, I bleached my hair on the front side edges, so I had 4 inch thick bleached sides and the inside of my lower hair as well. I loved how it looked and I had my nose and lip pierced; I felt like a bad ass 😆 But all in all, if I did experience a quarter life crisis, I think I may have been chill about it, or maybe I just slept it off 😂
I’m 23, and well... I don’t have a car, actually I don’t even have a licence. I’m still studying, and i have at least 3 years left. my body is falling apart, I just got out of depression, but still I’m struggling to find a balance, I’m single and I’m broke. Plus I got acne now so I lost all my confidence. I know that there’s worth in life but can someone tell me when? When it’s gonna get better and life’s gonna be fun?
I'm also looking foward to these answers and it is quite hard to "stay positive" and to keep going. But as long as we're alive, things can still change! At least, I'm counting on that. I really hope things get better for you :)
what they're talking about is exactly what I'm experiencing some time now.. I'm 25 and still confused with life! HAHAHA I wanna enjoy life but life want some thrill you know!? :)
I already had 3 and feels like going on my 4th one this year! It feels like every 2-3 years it happens. Mid life crisis? More like lifetime crisis. Just so dissatisfied...😭
Thanx for sharing your hard times with us! When you feel down please tell us. We can try give you advice. Because you are always giving advice and hope to us. We wanna made this for you too! Live your life with happiness, full of hopes, dreams and love! We love you 💕💕💕
Been having this quarter life crisis since I started my masters degree... am I really gonna do someting with this degree? Do I like something about it? I'm terrified to go into the working market. What If I can't handle the pressure? When am I gonna have a job?
Friend, I'm in the same situation. I kinda pursued masters just cause I needed an excuse to quit my job (only stayed for a year). Now, I feel really worried and pressured to be really great in my future job just coz of having that degree.
Im 25, don't have a job and a lot of presure, i regret the carreer i choosed and i don't know if i will get out of this hole or if im going to die like this, being a forgettable human being. I think is a crisis :v I just remembered a movie quot (is a mexican movie a saw time ago) "doesn't matter if you start again even when you're not doing anything", was something like that and they were having 30's crisis :v i think im on time
advanced happy birthday wishes, don't think too much and just go with the flow of life and you'll eventually reach somewhere before you know it, I'm pretty sure you can do it, lots of love.
Am I the only one who feels like that "qaurter life crisis" happens earlier for those in their teen years nowadays? With social media and their huge platforms, I feel like a lot of younger people/Gen Z get hit the hardest. Idk if that's accurate though...just a thought 🤔
Peniel: *is going through a quarter-life crisis*
Ashley: sToP tOuChiNg yOuR fEeT
LMAO... Peniel was like annoyed like hell🤣
Waiting every week for their podcast. IT feels like a gathering with my friends
Same here
Hey are you a bts army ???
Didn’t expect this to end with peniel wanting a pedicure lol
i'm 23 and still dont know what I wanna do with my life
on a side note, i feel like BM is always excited with every topic in this podcast cos he always have stories to tell lol
You're not alone my dude
i'm 20 and i still confused about my career path but some relatives are constantly nagging that "i need to figure out what i want to do" they're literally adding additional stress to the who me deciding what i want to do with my life situation.
@@abeedahfarjan literally exact situation and age as you , ughh its hard and confusing
I hope Ashley is okay, she looked a little down during this clip, maybe the topic brought back bad memories for her of the past, I just hope she doesn't push herself to much, or feel pressure opening up. With love and support.
Oh I totally had a quarterlife crisis at 25, still feel like I'm in that, 2 years later. I hated my job, how I looked, where my life was going. But at the same time, I didn't know what I wanted to do, should I go back to school? Should I find a new job in the same field? Should I just take a few months and travel around because I never got to do that?
So in response to my crisis, I bleached my hair blond and then dyed it purple-pink. It didn't solve my crisis BUT it made me happier xD
I'm wheezing cuz of the last part 😂😭 at least u have a pretty hair color jzueuehe
@@rakida3943 lol exactly. Hey, if I'm in a life crisis, might as well have it with awesome hair.
@@coolgirl312 WHERE IS THE LIE GURLL 😫👏🏻 INDEED
maybe not a long term solution, but yessss! live your life! i love this for you lol
Did the same too but i had a crisis when i just graduated. Idk what to do after it so i dyed my hair multiple times. Before grad, i never dyed it. as of now, I had 8 colors in just 2 years.
Peniel having a existential crisis trying to remember if he had an earlier crisis
Peniel Is a wholeeeeeee MOOD man I want to have a mindset and life like him
Peniel is sooo chill... i want to have that kind of energy 💙💙
This is the perfect topic for a 24 year old like me who is graduating from college next semester in the middle of COVID-sh*t crisis 🙂🔥
Can relate
Same and the thought of even starting work gives me anxiety because i feel so unprepared since my final year was cut short by a few months
Yes, same. I don’t even know if I’m gonna work in the career that I studied for 😓 The fear is real.
I cant be the only one who read the title as quarantine life crisis right??........
right O.o?
I had one when i was about to turn 30 and hadn't done much with my life aside from getting married and had 2 kids. That was almost 7 years ago. In those 7 years, I was able to go back to school, finish a degree, and start a career. I think it's normal to go through tough times, but they pass. My advise is to keep self- reflecting and set up small goals. Fighting!
I’m 25 and I can’t even tell you how I relate to that so hard. I never thought I’d have a quarter life crisis before, like questioning if what I’m doing is really worth it? It’s a weird phase to go through.
Guys let's take a moment and appreciate the fact that they are entertaining us during this period
I honestly wanted to achieve all my goals before 25 too, but I’m nowhere near achieving it and my birthdays next month. Success has no expiry date, have to keep grinding
I learned that BM owes a lot of people Rolex’s 😂😂😂🥴
I'm turning 25 in August... I am having this quarter life crisis... it feels somewhat nice to know you're not the only one, and amazing how even celebs go through it. WE CAN DO IT GUYS YEAAAH lol
Just came across this and I went through this... 26yo, going to my 27yo at the end of the year and I feel less alone.
No one seemed to understand what I was going through this year.
I was about to go to my 3rd year of my degree, and felt unmotivated, started questioning everything... it's felt quite lonely and depressing (I literally thought "wow, seriously? I'm getting tired of this bs.") in this process because I feel like no one understood even if explained. I feel less lonely now and understood. Thank you for this. For talking about this, it made me feel less alone.
i think its all growing from the fact that society puts a lot of pressure on people who are in their 20s to freak the fuck out if their not doing anything remotely exciting or crazy. it makes people feel like they HAVE to have fun while it "lasts" because "your 30s are gonna be when you start thinking about marriage" everythings just all built in ur mind bc of what society and social media and films say, thats why a lot of people also think their old af in their mid 20s, when in reality your not even halfway there yet and ur freaking out? theres nothing wrong with not knowing what ur doing or if what your doing is even relevant for ur future, just dont hold urself back from experimenting and doing things you've always wanted to do bc you fear it wont become something stable in the future. im only 19 so im sure ill eventually feel this "life crisis" moment but hey now i know its not eve my own feelings and fear but just fear planted into me by society.
Yeay another relatable topic! It's always interesting to hear them talking about everything bcs it feels like discussing things with your friends. Always love listening to your podcast!!
I’ve been having existential crisis since 14 and I’m 23 and I still experience extreme anxiety and just lost and a lot of fear. Idk what I’m doing and I feel hopeless, I know a lot of things but I’m not good at them, and I have terrible attention span, all in all I think I’m problematic
Omg i can relate with you from start age part to last part all of them ....
Same same, I feel like I have so much stress going on, I know what I don't like but I don't know what I like or what I'm good at. It's crazy to me that people figure out what they want from life from a very young age while I'm here struggling at my twenties.
You are not problematic, so please don't devalue yourself. EVERY person has the potential to make a contribution to society or to have a positive impact on another persons life. Ask yourself what you love to do the most (try to avoid saying it's watching Netflix) and maybe pursue a career in that area. It is normal to have some anxiety and even fear when you are transitioning into the adult world. What's not normal is to let it dominate your day to day life or for you to begin to feel hopelessness. I don't know if you have talked to a doctor, but there are medications that can help improve your memory and attention span.
I really learned a lot from this episode. My grandma and elders in my family see me as an incompetent and disrespectful person for not following their chosen career for me. they call me the black sheep of the family. I did not want to disobey them, It's just that my happiness is important to me. (It is the same reason why I chose BTOB, because they bring happiness in my life 🤗) anyway, they wanted me to pursue psychology but I myself has mild depression. How can I listen to other people's problem, when I can't even fix myself? Fast forward.. I graduated as an Aircraft mechanic technician and I am damn the happiest person I know. everything felt good. Haha #chooseyourhappiness
I like this trio. So interesting and funny!
My life is one continuous crisis
Just listened to the podcast. I'd say this episode of Get Real is really getting real 👍 now I'm waiting for the video!
I noticed that Ashley was a little down when they started talking about age 25... Please don't be sad~ You know we fans will always be there to support you~! And your friends as well~!!! Hwaiting~!!!
This podcast is an important element of my week. Everyone's funny and spills stories that are relatable and relevant to my own experiences. One moment I am laughing so loudly like Eunkwang does and then suddenly, I am reflecting on my life . :')
I love this trio podcast 😅
I’m 26 and i have my quarter life crisis right now 😂 Although I’m quite unsure if this is what I really want, it’s ok I’ll just do as I want. But.. Thankfully I got out of the horrible state of depression I was in. Depression is no joke. It’s a rabbit hole (Alice in wonderland version). Guys talking it out and taking a break away from ur current surrounding might help. At least for me it did help. Fighting 💪🏼
Good luck! You deserve to be happy. I still can't belive I'm 26 and feeling so lost. 💜💜💜💜
Ashley telling Peniel at the end though, like I’ve said that the exact same way to my siblings lol
Italian Lavely and Hidden here!
I love you all so much!!!
BTW: "...with our hosts Peniel (of BTOB), BM (of KARD), and Ashley Choi" (of Ladies' Code) -.-
Totally hear you! So disappointing at life. Advice to younger self: enjoy life rather than being so committed to school. It is not like the saying “work hard, play later”. I was like get me my play time. Life gets tougher, more responsibilities (specially if you are family-oriented), work. . . I wish I could have venture into entrepreneurship sooner, so I could have laid the foundation of a business early on and would enjoy life now. 👍
Never been so early. I am a new fan of this show and I love all of them! ¡
I'm having this crisis at 22 😭
my entire life up until age 14 I wanted to be a musician and an actor. and i actually practiced and worked towards that all those years but now I'm interested in film, editing, and graphic design so my only idea to incorporate all of those elements is starting a TH-cam channel.
All the best!!!
The first year of college....now that was some real shit I had to go through...trying to pursue one particular degree but at the same time being super confused about what I’m really passionate about and trying to not disappoint parents at the same time Omg just thinking about it is a headache
oh my god! it seems like you just described my freshman year in college! It is a quite hard/confusing time and I guess not knowing if what you're doing is "the right thing to do" makes us even more anxious
Maria Rita omg fell me about it sigh 😔
I'm going through it right now. I'm 24, I'm on my first job, and I'm not happy about where I am right now.
I think my quarter life crisis has hit me very early cuz I’m 21 and I seriously have anxiety attacks everyday about my past, present, and future
I cant say its fun getting closer to my 30's XD Same age as Peniel.
This podcast is lit 🔥🔥like really......
Ashley, thanks for saying that to Peniel. HAHAHAHAHA 😂
I was like, yes!!!! Ashley noticed it. 😝😝😝😜
Honestly I take life in such a chill way that I don’t even know if I had a quarter life crisis. I do remember that during that time, I bleached my hair on the front side edges, so I had 4 inch thick bleached sides and the inside of my lower hair as well. I loved how it looked and I had my nose and lip pierced; I felt like a bad ass 😆
But all in all, if I did experience a quarter life crisis, I think I may have been chill about it, or maybe I just slept it off 😂
so excited for the full episode!!
edit: omg it was just uploaded!
I'm turning 18 this year and I relate to this.
Omggg finally another ep 😍😍😍 love you guys from Algeria 🇩🇿🇩🇿🇩🇿🇩🇿
I’m 23, and well... I don’t have a car, actually I don’t even have a licence. I’m still studying, and i have at least 3 years left. my body is falling apart, I just got out of depression, but still I’m struggling to find a balance, I’m single and I’m broke. Plus I got acne now so I lost all my confidence. I know that there’s worth in life but can someone tell me when? When it’s gonna get better and life’s gonna be fun?
I'm also looking foward to these answers and it is quite hard to "stay positive" and to keep going. But as long as we're alive, things can still change! At least, I'm counting on that. I really hope things get better for you :)
Maria Rita you are right. As long as we’re alive there’s hope! Thank you for your message and I wish you the best to you too :)
I am 24 & it's 2020. Good lord save us all!
what they're talking about is exactly what I'm experiencing some time now.. I'm 25 and still confused with life! HAHAHA I wanna enjoy life but life want some thrill you know!? :)
Coming up on 25 next week. Been going through that crisis for a year or two now -.-
Im 27 and Quarter life crisis is really sucks. Im experiencing this now and I dont know what to do
I already had 3 and feels like going on my 4th one this year! It feels like every 2-3 years it happens. Mid life crisis? More like lifetime crisis. Just so dissatisfied...😭
I feel like ive been having a life crisis every year since I was 14. I'm 21 now, can't wait till 25...
Thanx for sharing your hard times with us! When you feel down please tell us. We can try give you advice. Because you are always giving advice and hope to us. We wanna made this for you too! Live your life with happiness, full of hopes, dreams and love! We love you 💕💕💕
thank you creating content that helps me get through the week. 💙
Does anyone know when's the full episode going to come out?
I’ve been waiting for ep4 the entire week man DIVE YOU CANT UPLOAD 3 EPS OF GOLD AND THEN LEAVE US HANGING
25 is right around the corner for me and I am pANICKING, MY DUDES.
Ashley just killed the mood so hard LOL
i’m 17 and i’m doing something similar to myself it’s annoying
yesssss finallyyy new ep coming out
I feel you Peniell 😭😭😭
Been having this quarter life crisis since I started my masters degree... am I really gonna do someting with this degree? Do I like something about it? I'm terrified to go into the working market. What If I can't handle the pressure? When am I gonna have a job?
Friend, I'm in the same situation. I kinda pursued masters just cause I needed an excuse to quit my job (only stayed for a year). Now, I feel really worried and pressured to be really great in my future job just coz of having that degree.
Me right now
Like i'm trying to enjoy my life but the people around don't let me breath
I think I’m going through the quarter life crisis!
Was waiting for this 🙏❤
Im 25, don't have a job and a lot of presure, i regret the carreer i choosed and i don't know if i will get out of this hole or if im going to die like this, being a forgettable human being. I think is a crisis :v
I just remembered a movie quot (is a mexican movie a saw time ago) "doesn't matter if you start again even when you're not doing anything", was something like that and they were having 30's crisis :v i think im on time
Wait so is this like depression and overthinking lead to anxiety thingy? So the difference is responsibility?
idk why is it just me or peniel is too damn funny in this podcast hhahahahaha
I hate that I already relate to this and I'm only 20 🙃
I definitely had a quarter life crisis
Me at 22 👁👄👁. Waiting for my own life crisis
I definitely had a quarter life crisis, but the next one was at 40, not 50.
IM HAVING AN ALMOST 1/4 LIFE CRISIS RIGHT NOW!! 😭 😢
Had my quarter life crisis at 19. Not fun.
Where are my 25 peeps at? 😭
LMAO- "STOP TOUCHING YOUR FEET"
I was never this fast
Tomorrow is my birthday and now I'm thinking a lot about my life.
advanced happy birthday wishes, don't think too much and just go with the flow of life and you'll eventually reach somewhere before you know it, I'm pretty sure you can do it, lots of love.
i wanna be part of their friendship ugh,,, kewwl
Am I the only one who feels like that "qaurter life crisis" happens earlier for those in their teen years nowadays? With social media and their huge platforms, I feel like a lot of younger people/Gen Z get hit the hardest. Idk if that's accurate though...just a thought 🤔
Omg i will turn 25 next month. 🙀
- Stop touching your feet!
- Hey, maybe I want pedicure
Lol
Me at 18 questioning my life and decisions every night 👁️👄👁️
lol peniel whatcha doin
💕💕💕
Yasssss
now if this aint me
Except ITS A TEENAGER FINISHING BEING A TEEN CRISIS 💜
Early gang!
Gang!
Lol
HAHAHAHAHAAHHAHA
Wait is BM married?