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Same. I could never survive being famous nor do I want to. Id just be exhausted and in a bad mood all the time. Honestly the more I hear of the things they have to go through the more respect I have for them but I also get angry that it is the way it is
Ashley had to deal with some really rough times after the crash that killed two of her members, particularly as the leader of the group. I can't even imagine how she got through those interviews. When she paused, I could tell that it dawned on BM and Peniel and they covered it well.
People really need to realize that when an Idol is quiet during interviews or doesn't talk that much, smile or laugh that much, it doesn't mean that they are rude or angry. They are either really introverted or aren't in the mood to do so. Please stop hating on them for this. Respect their introverted personality 🙏♥️
Despite your "doo doo" days.. I just wanna honestly say THANK YOU.. Thank you for smiling thru and always giving such great performances and content.. because it's idols like you and so many others who have helped me get thru my "doo doo" days and brought me smiles.. TRULY appreciate it.. But please also take the time for yourselves to process and get that RnR when you can.. you deserve it
I hate when people said, "well they're public figure, they must know better that their life is exposed and have no privacy" Recently I read lot of this kind of comment on an actor in my country, its just plain sad.
I have a friend and I usually say that these idols don't deserve the hate and bashing. She's just like they know what they've signed up for and they're a celebrity and all that. I was like still just because their celebrity you're gonna say things to ruined them. She don't empathize with them at all and I don't wanna argue.
@@mujakim2889 i mean she's a friend of mine and i understand her pov on this one. But still right? I know it's part of their lives to receive unnecessary hate but I don't think we should just ignore the idea that they're also a human being getting hurt and emotional.
That's what scares me the most in this industry. You never can be sure that they're 100% real. Because they have no choice but to smile and being happy all the time no matter how they’re feeling
yeah i always imagine the hardest part of being famous is ppl feeling like they know you and worse like the own u. its in part because of the way celebs are marketed, we're supposed to feel that personal connection to feel more compelled to support them. but i think particularly now the fanaticism has gone really far.
I love this trio so much I wish I could see them for years and years and years. Dive please don't split them up, they're really feel so real, people like us (you know celebrity has this boundaries that you almost can't reach but with them, it feels like talking with friends about young adulthood and I like it so much) I love big Matilda gang
Celebrities are human too, people need to realize just like they said celebrities get tired, they have days where they don't feel good just like us. Haters gotta stop coming for them for every little mishap that occurs and just be respectful
People always seem to forget or like to forget that idols are regular people too. However, this seems to be a problem in general in various industries depending on status levels and such. My philosophy is always to treat others well and in a way in which I would hope they’d treat me in turn. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t.
i think, it's not just celebrities who has to go through this "forcing to smile even when i'm not in the mood" stuff. even in normal workplaces, sometimes you just have to suck it up and do it. you might get assigned some job which you really wouldn't do otherwise but you have no choice but to do it. days when you don't really feel like going to work, but you have to anyway because your position in the company depends on your productivity. the only difference is celebrities have to do it in front of the cameras so everything becomes very blown up because they're in the spotlight. every job comes with its hardship, so it's important to be able to understand which kind of bad you'd want to handle in your life. are the things you get out of it worth the bitter things you'd have to swallow to get through it?
Very well said. Or in other words, choose your kind of ‘hard’ right? I feel like some kpop artists, they sometimes are exhausted, but since they do what they want to do for life (being artists, making music, etc) most of them take those hardships well & stay professional & still managed to give out their best.
No one force you though...the industry itself is full of toxicity for long time already... hoping it to change and get better but even if it works, only few percent show a positive result...it is like walking through the road full of thorns... Some people survive but bleeding all the way through it... Some people give up and choose another life.. there is people give up their life because it was too hard.. there is no solution for this.. it is sad and devastating
Celebrities are human too, people need to realize just like they said celebrities get tired, they have days where they don't feel good just like us. Haters gotta stop coming for them for every little mishap that occurs and just be respectful
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As an introvert and homebody, I see being a celebrity as a very exhausting and draining job.
Same. I could never survive being famous nor do I want to. Id just be exhausted and in a bad mood all the time. Honestly the more I hear of the things they have to go through the more respect I have for them but I also get angry that it is the way it is
@@fankyfashionmonkey same i would get cancelled in a sec for being 'moody' no thank you haha i like my regular life
Just the thought of not being able to go outside without being recognized and photographed and followed suffocated me 😨
Same
Leave it to Peniel to make the mood brighter with his jokes and punchlines. I love this trio so much.
Ashley had to deal with some really rough times after the crash that killed two of her members, particularly as the leader of the group. I can't even imagine how she got through those interviews. When she paused, I could tell that it dawned on BM and Peniel and they covered it well.
Ikr!!!!😭 poor little girl
Ashley was the leader of the group?
Ameyaa Chivukula yeah
@@muti7880 she's grown. a full adult, and your comment came off as condescending af.
Thats sad , idols are humans so let's respect them
sounds like peniels dream job is a backup dancer or singer, they still get to perform but they dont get any attention off the stage
People really need to realize that when an Idol is quiet during interviews or doesn't talk that much, smile or laugh that much, it doesn't mean that they are rude or angry. They are either really introverted or aren't in the mood to do so. Please stop hating on them for this. Respect their introverted personality 🙏♥️
Honestly, I didn't know much about Peniel's personality until I saw Hwaiting and I immediately related to him.
You should watch btob related vidoes he is really a amazing caring person everyone call him angle
Despite your "doo doo" days.. I just wanna honestly say THANK YOU.. Thank you for smiling thru and always giving such great performances and content.. because it's idols like you and so many others who have helped me get thru my "doo doo" days and brought me smiles.. TRULY appreciate it..
But please also take the time for yourselves to process and get that RnR when you can.. you deserve it
when ashley said 'something bad might have happened' my heart just broke
I hate when people said, "well they're public figure, they must know better that their life is exposed and have no privacy"
Recently I read lot of this kind of comment on an actor in my country, its just plain sad.
I don't know where which country your are but It pretty much the same in my country.
@@mujakim2889 hmm shit happen everywhere
I have a friend and I usually say that these idols don't deserve the hate and bashing. She's just like they know what they've signed up for and they're a celebrity and all that. I was like still just because their celebrity you're gonna say things to ruined them. She don't empathize with them at all and I don't wanna argue.
@@silver-nf4zc that so evil. Oh May God 😳
@@mujakim2889 i mean she's a friend of mine and i understand her pov on this one. But still right? I know it's part of their lives to receive unnecessary hate but I don't think we should just ignore the idea that they're also a human being getting hurt and emotional.
That's what scares me the most in this industry. You never can be sure that they're 100% real. Because they have no choice but to smile and being happy all the time no matter how they’re feeling
Same as Peniel, i do like to take pictures and get into photography but i dont like being captured by anybody.
yeah i always imagine the hardest part of being famous is ppl feeling like they know you and worse like the own u. its in part because of the way celebs are marketed, we're supposed to feel that personal connection to feel more compelled to support them. but i think particularly now the fanaticism has gone really far.
the more I see kpop idols the more I think they are really strong human being.
They really are. The amount of pressure and expectations that are on them would break most people
I love this trio so much I wish I could see them for years and years and years. Dive please don't split them up, they're really feel so real, people like us (you know celebrity has this boundaries that you almost can't reach but with them, it feels like talking with friends about young adulthood and I like it so much) I love big Matilda gang
Celebrities are human too, people need to realize just like they said celebrities get tired, they have days where they don't feel good just like us. Haters gotta stop coming for them for every little mishap that occurs and just be respectful
BM, Ashley, Peniel. Thank you for being so honest!!
I'm glad btob is a chill group so Peniel can at least be a bit more relaxed off stage compared to many other idols
Peniel: i don't like being the center of attention
Me: well boi...seems like your life is a contradiction.
We love Ashley!!!!
I admire your strength Ashley. 💚
People always seem to forget or like to forget that idols are regular people too. However, this seems to be a problem in general in various industries depending on status levels and such. My philosophy is always to treat others well and in a way in which I would hope they’d treat me in turn. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t.
I really love these candid conversations
Respect Idol they are humans too
i think, it's not just celebrities who has to go through this "forcing to smile even when i'm not in the mood" stuff.
even in normal workplaces, sometimes you just have to suck it up and do it. you might get assigned some job which you really wouldn't do otherwise but you have no choice but to do it. days when you don't really feel like going to work, but you have to anyway because your position in the company depends on your productivity.
the only difference is celebrities have to do it in front of the cameras so everything becomes very blown up because they're in the spotlight.
every job comes with its hardship, so it's important to be able to understand which kind of bad you'd want to handle in your life. are the things you get out of it worth the bitter things you'd have to swallow to get through it?
Very well said. Or in other words, choose your kind of ‘hard’ right?
I feel like some kpop artists, they sometimes are exhausted, but since they do what they want to do for life (being artists, making music, etc) most of them take those hardships well & stay professional & still managed to give out their best.
@@Heungie yup, agreed with you. and thank you for saying so. ^^
wow, I didn't expect them to answer the question honestly, most idols find this kind of question sensitive and they just lie because of the camera ...
I just read about dark side of kpop idols and this kinda related
We should respect idols
🎶 "I'm just like you, you're just like me. Imperfect and human are we." 🎶
Wow..BM,Peniel & Ashley really enlighten us the real world of idols👏😊👍✌️❤️
Wow, love you guys 🥺💜
ashley looks good with that hair!
As time goes on some idols get more freedom to choose their schedules and such but most of time it’s not the case. It does seem difficult to be honest
Peniel is such a one of a kind Idol - Representing all the odd ball introverts out there
Almost 500k subscribers 👏...
OMG! I love Ashley's hair 😍
I love them so much
that's how i feel like how most idol groups are which is why its surprising when you hear members dating.
Why I feel familiar with BM's shirt 😄
Ashley you’re so beautiful and have a great personality
I luv this episode:(
WE'RE JUST HUMAN BEING
No one force you though...the industry itself is full of toxicity for long time already... hoping it to change and get better but even if it works, only few percent show a positive result...it is like walking through the road full of thorns... Some people survive but bleeding all the way through it... Some people give up and choose another life.. there is people give up their life because it was too hard.. there is no solution for this.. it is sad and devastating
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Peniel 💙
never been so fast
Did BM posted that photo he took of Peniel? 😆
I think me and Peniel are the same person😳
i hate being camera hate it hate it my family tries video taping me sometimes but i just can't hate it
Being lonely is fine for me as long as i can be rich tho
Sorry guys OOT
BM uses batik? Or its just ordinary clothes motif
Sorry, but I'm getting distracted... Is BM wearing a Batik shirt?
I'm sorry, who is she?
Ashley choi
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Celebrities are human too, people need to realize just like they said celebrities get tired, they have days where they don't feel good just like us. Haters gotta stop coming for them for every little mishap that occurs and just be respectful