Q&A - My Boyfriend Lost His Job And Is Now Distant - What Do I Do?

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  • @keishaosbourne1691
    @keishaosbourne1691 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My friend just lost his job today I'll pray for him

  • @VitaminVee11
    @VitaminVee11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It’s been a few days since we last talked and now it’s causing me stress/anxiety - do I wait till he reaches out or do I offer more reassurance with a quick check in? If I wait - then how much longer? Trying to find the right balance between giving him space, giving him reassurance, and also knowing when to call it quits if he can’t commit to a relationship anymore. I also can’t leave my life in limbo.

  • @Nigerian_geh
    @Nigerian_geh ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm in the same situation as the boyfriend. We've been dating since Dec 22 and I lost my job last month. This had cause stressed and insecurities in me. He's mentioned that i should and can open up to him and I do in bite sizes but I do feel like a burden if i do. He's not officially my BF so I don't want to put that emotional responsibility on him yet. We had a talk on Tuesday where he asked for a break/ space to reflect about us and it hurt me because I was hoping if anything, this hard time will bring us closer, not seperate us.
    2 weeks ago,I asked him how he felt about daying an unemployed person and he responded with "Seems like you've been doing what you're supposed to be. It's tough but it happens. How do you feel?" which wasn't assuring
    How long should I wait for him on this break?

  • @danielleemch8991
    @danielleemch8991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You make him feel important and give him the space he needs to be ok to feel safe your job does not define you as a person you need to appreciate him for who he is it’s not always about him buying me nice things or going to fancy dinners it’s about the time we get to spend together and I don’t think that my boyfriend should pay for everything anyway there are so many things you can do that doesn’t cost money and then there are things that you can do that only cost a little bit of money it’s about the time you spend together getting to know each other and the experiences you have with him it’s about falling in love with the same person in 1 million different ways it’s the way he makes me laugh and the smile on his face it’s priceless it’s being in the moment of what your doing together and having fun because it’s so exciting to be together you just can’t even imagine life without him

  • @summitjunkie11
    @summitjunkie11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yes but after two wonderful months he said the timing was bad and just needs time. Said if we had been together longer he would feel better about going thru this with me but he needs to navka way from this now. I'm respecting it but I'm so confused as things were so good

  • @monicalevyt
    @monicalevyt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow! So good! Wisdom as always! 🙌🌠👏

  • @keishaosbourne1691
    @keishaosbourne1691 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My friend just lost his job

  • @maddy-jp5lh
    @maddy-jp5lh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your channel! You always bring facts.

  • @eeland6972
    @eeland6972 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wise words

  • @nancyjuliet1364
    @nancyjuliet1364 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very useful . ❤info

  • @quantumprocess5954
    @quantumprocess5954 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Man is spelled M A N...not J O B. The aforementioned does the latter in any language. Og°
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  • @rpmcmurphey927
    @rpmcmurphey927 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Tell him start a Only Fans 😂