People Do Change (And In Relationships) - Why I Believe This & My Opinion On How To Create A Change

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  • @treflissh2633
    @treflissh2633 2 ปีที่แล้ว +609

    i went from watching you to manifest a specific SP to just leaving him in the past and wanting to manifest the best relationship ever, be it with anyone else or him I put trust in my self concept and my ability to attract the right thing with the right beliefs. im just feeling my best in general, I don’t even want to attract specific things anymore my life is going so good and I get the most random golden opportunities every day

    • @IAm_DylanJames
      @IAm_DylanJames  2 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      Love this for you : ) enjoy the journey of life ✨👑

    • @iamthedreamer6237
      @iamthedreamer6237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That sounds great 🙂

    • @user-yq5lj8br8w
      @user-yq5lj8br8w 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      i’ve been feeling really good too & i have an amazing guy in my life that is really into me & literally treats me like a queen but it feels bittersweet cus apart of me still wants that from my SP😭 & i feel like if i go w this other guy i’ll be “giving up” on my SP so i’m kinda confused on my feelings but it looks like i might have a decision to make when my SP does come back lol

    • @deepikabali9199
      @deepikabali9199 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@user-yq5lj8br8w I got my SP back in this same damn situation and Now IDK WTF should I do, so congratulations to you, LOL🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @NJay2000
      @NJay2000 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same! So many great random things ❤

  • @Lovereems
    @Lovereems 2 ปีที่แล้ว +520

    Dylan I want you to know you changed my life. Earlier this year I went through the most traumatic breakup that caused me to quit my final year of university. I was devastated, so many negative thoughts. I saw a tiktok recommending you & I watched you, I fell in love with your energy.
    Here’s how you changed my life:
    • I solo travelled despite how much I’m scared of planes
    • My ex started chasing me (however I didn’t want him in the end because I realised how toxic he was for me & I actually stopped manifesting him)
    • I became confident & everyone else saw that
    • I managed to get over my ex FINALLY
    • I started to inspire people to change their mindset too
    • I also got a job in finance WITHOUT my degree
    Words cannot describe how powerful my life has been. Thank you❤

    • @khushboobatra5900
      @khushboobatra5900 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      so proud of you!❤ would love to know how you applied his teaching

    • @Nightfury19990
      @Nightfury19990 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes bcoz I am also going through a divorce which was terrible for me.. I love him but he didn't call me even once its been 1 year I don't know anything about him

    • @LevitationGroup
      @LevitationGroup 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Update?

    • @iamthedreamer6237
      @iamthedreamer6237 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is wonderful 🙂 👍🏽👍🏽

    • @Ihavemadeit999
      @Ihavemadeit999 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This comment itself is so golden and motivating

  • @johnnytesla6406
    @johnnytesla6406 2 ปีที่แล้ว +416

    EVERYONE WHO DOESNT HAVE THE SP I HOPE YALL ARE GONNA BE PREPARED WHEN YOU ACTUALLY GET THEM. It will trigger you if your beliefs are not aligned! So don’t be upset if you don’t have your sp yet work on yourself!

    • @HarrisKray
      @HarrisKray 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Facts bro. I think i’m very close to that place. Dating others for me helped, it’s been six months and women love me. I forgot how much of a catch and amazing guy I was towards the end of our relationship. For other guys out there - work through the shame and guilt and you’ll be much closer.

    • @D-23
      @D-23 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you for saying that comment. Going hard on my self concept and living my desired life. I got this!

    • @talulahjonesx
      @talulahjonesx ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yup!! I’ve manifested my ex back so many times! It’s just as I want it but then it goes cold again. Everytime I’m like yay im done but actually it’s the most triggering thing when all the joy fades. I now don’t do it Intentionally and it still happens. Help 😂

    • @matthewisthebest8152
      @matthewisthebest8152 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@talulahjonesxkeep working on yourself you’ve got this still working through the patterns really getting there now ❤

    • @talulahjonesx
      @talulahjonesx ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@matthewisthebest8152 thank you 😂 I have since come to the conclusion I don’t want my love story to be this torturous. Gunna work on me and move on for a love that will be natural and not this much work! 😅

  • @ash_wed111
    @ash_wed111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +381

    OMG this is literally my experience right now!! I manifested my bf in March. It was amazing. He was so wonderful to me and asked me to be his gf right away. Last month, he dumped me! This whole summer we argued so much and I was always triggered! Right now I've just been focusing on myself, taking myself to the salon, exercising, losing weight, feeling good, taking a new class and now he has been texting me sweet things like how he used to when we first met. LOL. But I legit DON'T CARE ANYMORE. I used to wait around for his texts and was so needy. This past weekend, I didn't reply back to a meme he sent me bc I didn't feel like texting and I was busy anyway and the next day he asked me if I didn't want him to text me anymore bc I usually text him back right away. HE IS CHANGING!!! Bc I am changing! My circumstances are changing right now because of Dylan's videos! Thank you for reminding me of how powerful I am! So grateful! ❤️

    • @Anna-tw7xb
      @Anna-tw7xb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why doesn't it work for me? I'll admit that I didn't go through the complete process of manifesting because of disturbances. Also I have a lot of questions related to it, if you could help me with it, it'd be great. Can we talk somewhere like on Instagram? I have literally no one who I can turn to regarding the matter.

    • @ash_wed111
      @ash_wed111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      @@Anna-tw7xb First just completely focus on yourself and stabilize yourself like Dylan says! Just forget about your SP/circumstances for a bit! I had to process my emotions first bc I was so hurt after the breakup and I did not rush myself to get better. Take your time, the easier it will be. There is no urgency! Don't force it! Then I just kept myself busy during the day like exercise, breathwork, chores, work, self care, meditation, etc so I wouldn't think about him all day or cry all day and I listened to Dylan's affirmations while I slept at night. Just keep doing this routine and then apply a manifesting technique! I haven't even tried to apply techniques yet until I completely let go of my old story about my relationship and I already see movement in my reality!! Believe in yourself!!

    • @Anna-tw7xb
      @Anna-tw7xb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ash_wed111 Thank you! Will do. I'm struggling. I totally get it, when I'm busy I'm fine when I'm not, it all comes back to me. I'm learning to let go. It's just so difficult!

    • @ash_wed111
      @ash_wed111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@Anna-tw7xb yes it is difficult because you are changing! Think of it like growing pains. Dylan tells us to persist! It's all about changing our mindset. Currently I am reading this book called "Drive Your Own Darn Bus!" It teaches how our brain works and how to regulate our emotions and change our beliefs like Dylan talks about. I find it very helpful in order to stabilize myself. Check it out!

    • @Anna-tw7xb
      @Anna-tw7xb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ash_wed111 Sure! Thank you 💕

  • @missnoellechristine
    @missnoellechristine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +262

    CRYING crying crying .. I literally just thought to myself “Dylan please upload”.. I come on & see an hour long video🥹 my week is MADE 💕🙏

    • @rizzaaguila5618
      @rizzaaguila5618 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Isn't it amazing? i had the same desire

    • @megkathleen
      @megkathleen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Like Dylan says, nobody should ever be the cause of your happiness. You decide that.

    • @algorythym
      @algorythym 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dylan actually mentioned on the community page that he would upload new content in October. I'm saying this becuz you should spare your mental energy and focus more on you. No begging or chasing.

    • @inmyownbubble8
      @inmyownbubble8 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ask and you will receive 😊

    • @private4735
      @private4735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That might actually be an indication that your in lack if your desperately waiting for Dylan yo post a video... I use to be like that too but since Dylan was away, so was I, focusing on me my daily life, not Dylan posting a video so I can find some peace within me and my desire... Maybe detach, I definitely have. I haven't watched this yet BTW. I will when I'm available :)

  • @Agiri2811
    @Agiri2811 2 ปีที่แล้ว +247

    Look at his face, the little smile when he says “hello everybody” He KNOWS people are gonna FREAK when they see his video after soo long 😂😂 Aww he’s such a cutie!!! Love you loadsss Dylan! Always happy to see your face and the knowledge that you provide. My amazing life is a blessing all because of you! Thank you so much ❣️

    • @Sarritabonitaa
      @Sarritabonitaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lmfao I thought the same thing 😂 YOU KNOW you in trouble !

    • @jazzsimmons2800
      @jazzsimmons2800 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He’s a star for real!

    • @Agiri2811
      @Agiri2811 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Sarritabonitaa Soo true 😂😂

    • @Agiri2811
      @Agiri2811 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jazzsimmons2800 he is!!

  • @insha3694
    @insha3694 2 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    Mentioning the four topics discussed along with timestamps:
    (1) Being The Change : 08:43
    (2) Understanding beliefs & your subjective perception of your reality : 15:47
    (3) Understanding other people’s limiting beliefs & behaviour: 27:35
    (4) Persisting in a new direction: 38:24
    Thank You For All the Likes 💚

  • @astrarealm
    @astrarealm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    Here to share a little story that may give people hope/courage to persist and do the work! I was off and on with the gal I’ve wanted for over the last 3 years. It was a situationship. We would go from no contact to contact and I was always reacting to EVERYTHING she did. I also was sooo insecure around her I couldn’t even be myself… We went over a year without seeing one another she dated someone else, I did too. We didn’t talk for 8 months then I decided to call her she answered and wanted to me to come over to see her, we planned for that it happened. I did catch myself getting nervous and freaked out about her. Also her and her ex have been in contact, which freaked me out for about a day then I was like eh whatever… Then after that she stopped texting and calling (like she would in the past) I didn’t react or go off on her (like I would) I just let it be then I randomly got the urge to call her, heard her last name on a movie and decided I would. We just got off a 3 hour FaceTime call and we talked about a lot of stuff, laughed, it felt so normal. She did mention a few things about her and her ex with me and I didn’t bother me one bit, like it used to would have. I was like wow, I’ve changed. I’m not this super jealous freaked out person anymore… she responded so well to it. She also admitted the reason I stop talking to you when I date someone is because of the feelings. I had been saying this to myself for so long but she hadn’t openly said it until just now. Before we got off the phone she said “I will work on texting more and stuff” !!! I am wallowing in gratitude and a feeling of peace right now.
    🥰
    Dylan you’ve helped me so much! Thank you for everything- what you say works if you apply it and no circumstance is too big. I’ve went from her blocking me to this.
    Don’t let things tell you what’s true for you- you really do and can decide!
    🤍

    • @donna6783
      @donna6783 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love this 💪 💕

    • @vanaraen3474
      @vanaraen3474 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Bro; i am currently in the same situationship as yours😂 and somehow deep inside me i knew for the same reason why she avoided me, the same reason that girl have gave to you.. when Dylan talking about others limiting belief in this video, i am being reminded of her.. above all the circumstances and all the non-serving beliefs i have i always have this deep inner knowing that me & her meant to be together

    • @namanchawla4868
      @namanchawla4868 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vanaraen3474 why did she avoid means? That means she can get feelings for you that's y she is avoiding ?

  • @divinefeminine5943
    @divinefeminine5943 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    We all have trillions of different timelines available to us depending on our beliefs and actions. And when you believe in & love yourself, you align to the timeline where everyone else believes in you and loves you too, including your specific person. It's still free will but it's YOUR free will driving you to the reality that fits your beliefs and in your desired reality, your SP loves and believes in you. So align yourself to that reality by changing yourself and watch your outer reality change to fit that inner reality. So Dylan is totally right - change yourself for the better and watch your SP/reality/life change for the better.
    Love you Dylan and all the amazing souls here trying to make their worlds better places. ❤️

    • @crabclaws12345
      @crabclaws12345 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I've got a story. and also maybe need a bit of advice. so I had the best boyfriend ever. he literally didn't look at any girls, was eyes for me only and I could genuinely see that. But because of my beliefs about men in general I always checked his history constantly, distrusted him, and monitored ever one of his move. I knew I wouldn't find anything but I kept going at it constantly. I kept overthinking, thinking that this was too good to be true. until recently.. I acc did find something in his history which shocked me because he really wasn't that type of person. he talked bad against cheating men and genuinely was head over heels for me. so when I saw what I saw in his history I was GUTTED. I screamed, cried, did everything you can imagine i did. but after calming down I genuinely realised... did I materialize this? because he wasn't like this. and he promised me he still isn't. his exact words were " I genuinely don't know what got into me". That made me realise if we can manifest the impossible in a positive way.. then the constant fears doubts and worries that we trully invest in emotionally can maybe also cause a good person person to do something that they usually wouldn't do? therefore materializing 'impossible' outcomes in a 'negative' way too?. because for me he genuinely wasn't capable of looking at girls in another way, even my friends would tell me how loyal and in love with me he is, he didn't follow girls, didn't know girls just kept to himself and me.. but idk why I kept distrusting. I want to recreate him back how we were. and I want to get the traumatic search history I saw out my brain , and everytime I get angry at him thinking "how could you do this"... maybe I should realise... he wouldn't have done it if i didn't constantly indulge in the fear and knowing that he will do that? am I right?

  • @NostalgicNathan
    @NostalgicNathan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    56:40 the whole human experience is about creating. believing in something that hasn’t happened yet. this part of the whole video was the most powerful for me. we are all connected. we have iPhones, internet, we can attract anyone into our reality, the love we desire.

  • @MR-fl6ul
    @MR-fl6ul ปีที่แล้ว +24

    right now i’m at the perfect place to work on my beliefs. I’m breaking this cycle and i feel it. the relationship i have with my sp is actually perfect for this type of work and i’m thankful for that.

  • @Dr.Anderson33
    @Dr.Anderson33 2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I can tell I’ve grown because everything you mentioned makes sense, and it’s not hard for me to find those positive examples to cement my beliefs. Thanks for the video.

  • @ck-sn3uz
    @ck-sn3uz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    We've done this our whole lives.... just didn't realize this. We get sad after a break up and then talk ourselves up. "Fuck them, I look back and know I did my best....I'm the bomb...I'm that bitch." Oooohh they feel that. Them BOOM. They come back. But as their old selves. The way we see them as familiar to us. But if your self concept is good, you don't accept that shit.
    THEN.....go within and see them how you WANT them to be. Stick to your boundaries. Put up with no shit. View them the way you want to see them. View yourself as sticking to those boundaries, because you're a bad ass bitch who learned a lesson. TA DAAAAAA!!!!! Stay living in your end of you AND them. ✨️

  • @sugarspunsubs
    @sugarspunsubs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Love is the voice I choose to speak to myself with. Love is the way I treat myself. Love is believing in myself. Love is never giving up on myself. Love not only is a feeling, it’s a choice. Miraculously when that choice is made consistently it becomes a feeling. Loving myself has prevented me from expecting other people to carry that weight for me.❤❤❤

  • @mkpmn
    @mkpmn ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am so proud of us all. Take a deep breath in through your nose and slowly breathe out from your mouth. Sit in silence, feel your warm and soft body. Embrace and appreciate it. You. We are truly warriors, empaths and angels. I strongly believe. No matter the mistakes you have made, you get the life you were meant to live. You probably already experiencing some parts of that beautiful life. It is so incredibly beautiful. I don't know the me from last year, I however empathize for her because even though she f*ked up she has grown tremendously. I love her, I love me.

  • @groomslayer3372
    @groomslayer3372 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    You're 1000% right about not being authentic in relationships, growing up my friends would come to me and ask what should they say how should they handle this situation and they didn't trust themselves or know their worth and thats something I did and it stayed in the down low for a long time. Like just looking back I can see where I didn't know my worth or trust myself, or trust in my ability to create. Now that I'm good with myself, took the time to really become solid and love myself and take care of myself and get beliefs about manifestation and everything being possible, it's time to get good beliefs about men and relationships. Thank you.

    • @groomslayer3372
      @groomslayer3372 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Also its kind of funny I affirmed a few days ago or randomly that men show up perfectly for me, people stay in my life and people want to be in my life (also in the limitless track), my dad messaged me today after 2 years of nothing asking me about my life and what I'm doing, and we're gonna talk soon i just gotta reply LOL. my mother never described him in a good way, and just men in general... so I'm really seeing how it's all pieced together now and that it is really possible to change anything, the belief tracks are like hacks to life you just have to maintain your stability.

  • @giselleb1111
    @giselleb1111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Manifesting for 8 years now and having taken many different routes, I now know that the change needs to be in your state of BEING. Basically, it comes with its own set of beliefs and self talk which guide your actions. Living “as if” is, essentially, the key 💖
    Edit: you’re back!! ❤

  • @paolacruz5892
    @paolacruz5892 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    i recently started watching your videos and I'm with someone who has lied to me about talking to their ex and even hung out with them now that im watching these videos im becoming aware of my own beliefs and its no wonder why things happened the way they did... since being aware and trying to do the work to change my beliefs to create the relationship i want... this person is now ready to marry me and to be honest i got scared... I also realized i cant be scared if this is what i wanted. i wanted this person to commit to me. i know i still have to work on my beliefs and believe that this person can commit and that this person will never lie to me again or betray my trust again. this happened very quickly as well thats why i got scared.

    • @inact_hhh
      @inact_hhh ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Aaaa congratulations!!!💗 Remind yourself that your wish is a command in your reality & everything works out in your favour always! I’m rooting for you!!🌸🌷

    • @k____362
      @k____362 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      hows it going now?? im in a similar situation

    • @paolacruz5892
      @paolacruz5892 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@k____362
      ​​⁠
      Hi, it’s going well we got married this week actually… it’s been a journey for sure with my own thoughts and beliefs about the relationship/partner but my partner has proven themselves since last year. One of the biggest take aways was remaining the boss you are regardless. It’s hard but having that attitude will snap someone into “oh shit this behavior is not acceptable by this person” and if they change hey they were meant to be there next you if not then bye next cause why entertain that. Also counseling has helped me as well as videos like this but you have to stay consistent with you. It’s definitely a hard thing at first and I’m still working on it too like sometimes I doubt myself and wonder if I’m not this or that but we can’t think like that. Keep your head up I hope I answered your question. Lmk if you need more ❤

  • @Liz-ol8ig
    @Liz-ol8ig 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Sometimes if the person didn’t have a good relationships prior to you or there’s never been someone they feel trusted, they probably gonna have limiting beliefs, this is a really inspiring perspective, actually I always think I am a compassionate person, but this time I just didn’t realize this could be a part of reason why he acts like this. Now I will move on and be grounded in my beliefs! Thank you Dylan 💕

  • @maggiek48265
    @maggiek48265 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    AHHHH THE WAY MY JAW DROPPED WHEN I SAW YOU UPLOADED 🥺❤
    Edit: Dylan you look so good. You are absolutely glowing!!! Truly leading by example 😊

  • @nandanihanna
    @nandanihanna ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I literally rewatch your vids just to hang out w you

  • @alittlefox13
    @alittlefox13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I wish I'd seen this before I broke up with my bf for not putting in the effort to move our relationship forward. Wanted it to work so bad, but realising now that I created that version of him. Thank you for all you do, Dylan.

    • @raspberrykissable
      @raspberrykissable ปีที่แล้ว +16

      It also works the other way around. He brought out the whatever wasn’t working out of you too. It goes both ways. Don’t carry the entire burden.

    • @prab479
      @prab479 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I left my bf about a month ago because of these reasons too but now I realise I just left the version of him that wasn’t doing enough for me. But eventually, by persisting and being the change, he’ll show up as a better version.

    • @alittlefox13
      @alittlefox13 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@prab479 Since I wrote this he came back wanting another chance, I gave it then he was exactly the same as before. I was still persisting in the assumption that he was different, so I was't pushing for more in the 3D, then he broke up with me saying it wasn't going anywhere... I'm totally over this whole thing now.

  • @NeidaTeresa
    @NeidaTeresa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    The way my SP has been showing up HORRIBLE in the 3D and I turned to YT for guidance and found this almost immediately

  • @boldy_beautiful0119
    @boldy_beautiful0119 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    This was so worth the wait. I can’t wait to try using “I am willing to believe”…. To see how it changes things. I have been affirming certain things like a crazy person and I feel like the 3D is basically a bag full of vomit. I am anticipating the new videos you are releasing. WELCOME BACK DYLAN!!! ❤❤

  • @athixathix8629
    @athixathix8629 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Listened to your affirmations last year many many times and within a year everything in my life changed for the better, like amazing better. And I didn’t even have to try it just came - I mean I had to do it and be the change but it happened so naturally

  • @june8898
    @june8898 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I have missed you so much. There’s no one like you on TH-cam. ❤

  • @amandakind7665
    @amandakind7665 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Hands down, this video has got to be one of his best video. It pretty much summed all of his precious videos into one video.

  • @dchavezxo
    @dchavezxo ปีที่แล้ว +12

    My boyfiend is eveuthing that I want. But what my ex put me through I’m scared to go through that again. So that being said I am starting to repeat the way my personalality was with my ex. I am now manifesting a better mind set for a better outcome and continue having the relationship and marriage of my dreams!

    • @inact_hhh
      @inact_hhh ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can do this💕

  • @glyvia6245
    @glyvia6245 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I have to admit that I am not that kind of person who has stability, get anxiety easily. Watching Dylan and listen to his point of view gimme some sort of comfort and power, definitely regain my energy back. Thanks Dylan! 🌟

  • @yin_renaissance
    @yin_renaissance 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    jesus. wow. you have such a gift of communication :) eft is really amazing for accepting your emotions and moving through them efficiently

  • @NJay2000
    @NJay2000 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I always get what I want. I’m successful in ALL areas in my life. And it’s really not that difficult because it’s normal to expect the best.
    I had to accept and deal with my past and trauma but I turned it into believing it was a “blessing” because it made me the fierce and strong person I am today. Without challenges we wouldn’t be unique and special ❤

  • @bkskaur7232
    @bkskaur7232 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I totally manifested this haha
    I just thought Dylan hasn't made a video in like 5mths... then literally 5min later I get a notification of this and it's exactly what I wanted to hear.
    Superb! I love it when this happens! 😁

  • @generatemagic
    @generatemagic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    So many beautiful insights! I spoke on a similar topic recently but you really flesh it out (granted I was doing a short so only had a minute). In my last long-term relationship, I finally understood that my partner was often getting triggered by past trauma that had nothing to do with me, but by me getting reactive and emotional and taking things personally, it exacerbated the situation. So while people enter a relationship with their own stuff, our general assumptions about how things work (like "my relationships never work out") along with our reactions to and interpretations of the other person's behavior can greatly influence how the relationship plays out. As you said, in the end we have to decide for ourselves if it's important enough for us to persist in making that relationship work, and I decided that the cost to my personal happiness was too high. But I'm very grateful for everything I learned in the process.

  • @lucidaandromeda
    @lucidaandromeda 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Back and sporting the "Daddy" hat, yaaaassss. I feel like I just had a refresher course in Self Concept Studies, and the professor DELIVERED. Thank you for always being real and true with us Dylan, welcome back, and I LOVE your new set up! So wonderful to see your fur baby growing up so big and strong. 🙏🏽⚡❤👑🐈🐕💕

  • @Sarritabonitaa
    @Sarritabonitaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    UHM HELLO?!! I’m relatively new but I’ve been watching your content for like 4 months and I’ve been WAITING TO SEE YOU!!!

  • @ginabeena
    @ginabeena 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Dylan!!! I AM so glad to see this brand new video from you. I've never come across anyone like you. You are absolutely amazing, explain everything so crystal clear. Being 53 years old I believe it will take me more time than average to change my beliefs. I'm on day 32 of sleep affirmations and some days I'm good others not so much. However, I've made a commitment to this and as painful as it sometimes can be, I am persisting through all the wonkyness! I can't thank you enough for helping me change me!! I can't wait to walk through the gate to the other side!! ❤❤

    • @ninthserpent
      @ninthserpent 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Love this, and also want to point out something that may be useful on your journey…”I believe it will take me longer…” I BELIEVE. This is pointing out a limiting belief of yours. Why not affirm “I believe that since I have more experience on this planet that I will more quickly grasp the concepts and will change more quickly than I can even imagine. Through my experience I have witnessed first hand many people change in different ways.” Whatever you do, don’t affirm that it will take you longer. You don’t have to believe that or use it as an excuse. Sending you all the love! 💜

    • @ginabeena
      @ginabeena 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@ninthserpent thank you so much for this reminder!!! Lots of ❤️

    • @matthewisthebest8152
      @matthewisthebest8152 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Been 5 months not missed a night committed like you wouldn’t believe I am 42 had so much pain in my life drug addiction 20 years not seen my son 14 years! The old pain emotion that’s come up I can’t believe I’ve persisted it’s been hardest thing to do in my life! But here I am today feeling so fucking awesome I can’t describe. People please don’t give up I feel so amazing now my sp showing up totally different money is starting to flow. Trust 2 weeks I ago I almost quit I couldn’t handle the purging it was soooo intense. We’ve got this thanks Dylan you are the best literally ❤

    • @ginabeena
      @ginabeena 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@matthewisthebest8152 amen!! Love it!

    • @matthewisthebest8152
      @matthewisthebest8152 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ginabeena you’ve got this never give up on yourself ❤

  • @reinabeexo
    @reinabeexo ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I haven't even finished watching the video but I just want to say wow... This video is amazing... I have really become more self-aware the past month and really started working on my self-concept recently for myself and for the people I love, care about and encounter to cultivate more freedom, peace and happiness in my life and you are really opening my mind. Thank you - I am so grateful for you. I am excited to go through this journey with you and I will definitely update you! 🙏

  • @missnaturale1741
    @missnaturale1741 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Daddy Dylan is back! You've been missed so much!

  • @TAdams-tt8sf
    @TAdams-tt8sf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is really helpful. I have OCD and this kind of thing with belief systems isn’t talked about enough. Missed ya!!!

  • @meredit9156
    @meredit9156 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Hey Dylan it's feels so good to see you being back. We honestly missed you. I have been struggling a lot lately and I know I kinda chose this struggle because I didn't put in the effort to become the change. I will take this video as a brand new start. Just realized how many limiting beliefs I created because of a toxic situationship. Can't wait to change those beliefs for the better.

  • @ThriveWithLouise
    @ThriveWithLouise 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Omg this is exactly what I said to myself today working on self concept makes the process effortless when you think of what you want it’s easy natural there’s less resistance. Instead of not focusing on self concept focusing hard on other things and feeling all these triggers and resistance. This makes so much sense to me

  • @KindheartedButterfly_
    @KindheartedButterfly_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “On October 3rd he asked me what day it was.”
    “It’s October 3rd & Daddy Dylan is back!” 😍😍 🥰 💖💖

  • @Jeanlouis012
    @Jeanlouis012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I create my own beliefs tracks since last summer and I mix them with theta waves. I began the mindset work in january with yours and now I do mine and it's an amazing experience

    • @thetaurean4932
      @thetaurean4932 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did it all help you get your manifestations?

    • @Jeanlouis012
      @Jeanlouis012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@thetaurean4932 it helped me for some and to change my beliefs but mixed with a conscious work during the day, questioning myself, some meditations. I choose to prioritize my self concept but I don't give up my manifestations but good beliefs and good self concept are my priority. Like Madonna said in 2016 "self confidence is my only security"

  • @timeakovacs1921
    @timeakovacs1921 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You're so intelligent and wise. And when you explain the details it's like you read my mind.

  • @private4735
    @private4735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I like you Dylan :) but a lot of people here "desperately" waiting for you to post a video just indicates what state they are in...whilst you was away, so was I, I am manifesting my sp but I have detached now, been a few months, all summer I focused on me, my life.. I was like, I'm sure Dylan will post when his available, I hardly watch anything regarding manifesting anymore, I'm too busy with my amazing life... I will watch this soon :) he has completely changed, my sp. His talking to me very nicely now, and loving, before he was the complete opposite, I understand now its because I am changing day by day :)

  • @fujoshiotaku5832
    @fujoshiotaku5832 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I know people can change because of how drastically I did

  • @thenikkiexperience_
    @thenikkiexperience_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This was so very timely and it was on point ... You spoke on a deep spiritual level that is so healthy and healed and guiding people to understand true love. Thank you

  • @studyspot600
    @studyspot600 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    daaaamn, there is some light and peace I feel after seeing you smile ,pressing the like button before watching because I know it will be awesome ❣ Pure Love from Paris❣❣❣❣

  • @I14Realok
    @I14Realok 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I've missed you! Thank you for everything Dylan, my life has changed so much for the better and it's because of you!!!!!!!

  • @carlosvangas1236
    @carlosvangas1236 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So much discussed in this video and you took the time to spread it out where I can see everything individually. Not all on top of each other and then you went through and connected the dots so I could see how it ties in to itself. It actually makes sense. I need to watch this over and over with a pen and paper. Thank you.

  • @Mesu1111
    @Mesu1111 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are so much loved and appreciated, Dylan. Thank you so much for being such a beautiful being and leading by example. ❤️

  • @kanzaki1111
    @kanzaki1111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Welcome back Dylan! I have been working on myself, listening to your tapes at night.. I can relate to what you say in your videos now. I realized that I changed when circumstances happened and the way I reacted and then returning to my peaceful state. I love feeling the inner peace, love and happiness within myself.. so when a circumstance happens I think that I am in charge of how I feel and nobody or anything has the power to make me feel anything that doesn't feel good . It's an ongoing process and repetition is the key.. The most important thing for me now is to feel this inner peace and happiness and not focus on what I want to manifest. I know I am destined to get my desires but I had to learn how to feel happy, love and peace within myself . Thanks, you changed my life 🥰💓

  • @vampie1114
    @vampie1114 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    DYLANNN OMG I'M SO HAPPY TO SEE YOU AGAIN WE MISSED YOUUUUU AHHH ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @bhumikaitkan
    @bhumikaitkan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    just seeing your face and hearing your intro is making me so happy aaaaaaa 🥺🥺

  • @saramroue4610
    @saramroue4610 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yeah your twitter is hilarious makes me laugh throughout the day 😂💕

  • @katsuccess4014
    @katsuccess4014 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This information is gold...❤ I love how you explain EIYPO!

  • @michelle9874
    @michelle9874 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Daddy Dylan back spittin facts 😍

  • @jeremyandmary02
    @jeremyandmary02 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I am so glad you posted a video! I follow so many people but you are my favorite. You explain things that always make so much sense

  • @angelstarxo
    @angelstarxo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you, Dylan 💓 you don't know how much light you bring to us, I love you and thank you for everything. I was in a committed relationship with my ex boyfriend, we were living together and then I discovered he was cheating on me the whole time. It broke me because we had a good relationship... I thought I had good beliefs but when this happened I started questioning everything. I broke up with him and moved to my old city now. It has been a journey and it is really difficult to me to persist right now but I'm doing my best. Thank you for being here, you don't know how much of a light you are to me 🥰🥰🥰

  • @AnnA-vz9tq
    @AnnA-vz9tq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is the most thorough, deep and perfect explanation I've ever heard 🤩 thank you Dylan for taking you time to really elaborate on it and drive it home. I just love this video 💕

  • @ambernolan3693
    @ambernolan3693 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dylan, you are my favorite! You have a way with words & explaining what we all need to hear. I love you & your content!🤍

  • @WithLovebyRuth
    @WithLovebyRuth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love your energy, I'm really smiling 😊 because i feel like I'm listening to a friend! Great videos as always

  • @Crystal-bm7ft
    @Crystal-bm7ft 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m glad you’re here. I am now listening to meditations again. My lover doesn’t believe in them… we are super busy with a new work project and now I have more free time to… meditation and rethinking my mindset.

  • @rizzaaguila5618
    @rizzaaguila5618 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    OMG! This is amazing. I literally manifested you to get back on making video yesterday. I just thought of you yesterday having new video and what do you know? here you are.it really works. say your desire and let go. Glad to have you back. Missed all your wisdom. Sending you light and love. 💯❤🙏

  • @judemoore8079
    @judemoore8079 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That was siiiick. Let’s do some breathwork

  • @freedomadventurechallengetruth
    @freedomadventurechallengetruth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your self concept creates your experience!! ❤️❤️

  • @ivexoxo
    @ivexoxo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Can’t wait to watch this and keep persisting

  • @wenyad2753
    @wenyad2753 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is one of the best videos. I’m saving it and watching it daily. Today I’ve watched it twice already.

  • @annesobb1675
    @annesobb1675 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I thank you for your videos because it really helped me so much, there was 2 third parties that I had created and I made them disappear : it took 2 years but now they’re gone for good, now I have to maintain !!
    In fact that’s a really trip that I did with the help of your videos and also others sources. Those 2 years were challenging because it was getting worth but there is a transition period very hard to go through when you have to persist and maintain. The key is in what you believe and the scenario you have in your state of mind

    • @dedikurniawan5058
      @dedikurniawan5058 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi I’m dealing now with 3rd party . Can you explain to me how to delete this 3p from my sp. if he said he’s in love with this 3p. Help me please

    • @annesobb1675
      @annesobb1675 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@dedikurniawan5058 you can look at the video “ it is not a trying process “ and you have to be in that space: you want him to be with the third party because the more he is with her and the he will be thinking of me. Never complain to him and you must be a 100% confident and secure with zero fear to loose him that’s the most important. All the time you tell to yourself that you know you will never loose him. Also don’t chase him, don’t text him, wait for him to reach back to you. Also never be needy or insecure : work on your self concept :)
      I know I have created the 3d party when I was insecure, I take the ownership for that.
      Also he will test you so you will go through a lot of challenges, he will test your insecurities so you have to be very strong and confident

    • @dedikurniawan5058
      @dedikurniawan5058 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So I should just believe in my self that I’ll never loose him and keep affirming without any desire to push or force the reality or him. Therefore I need to work on my self concept and enjoy the life I have now. At the end he will surly come back to me ? . Right

    • @annesobb1675
      @annesobb1675 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dedikurniawan5058 yes exactly, and work on you

  • @iamthedreamer6237
    @iamthedreamer6237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have changed, experiences do change you for the better or worse but exceptional change is possible. When we realize there is trauma, we need to do the healing work which is so important. I love your message & the change takes time. Childhood experiences may need to be looked at deeply and maybe therapy, meditation etc, subliminals, prayer, connecting with God all helps 🙂. I continue on my wonderful healing journey.

  • @janaebellamy2784
    @janaebellamy2784 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I like how after listening to your affirmation at night time when my ex told me he didn’t have feelings for me and broke up with me I got sad and then something over came me and I literally stopped caring within 5 mins I was like what’s going on🤣

    • @IAm_DylanJames
      @IAm_DylanJames  2 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      ur breaking up with me? lol. thats funny. well see how long that lasts.

    • @ladkins1010
      @ladkins1010 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Are you guys back together?

    • @janaebellamy2784
      @janaebellamy2784 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @@ladkins1010 he tried to come back but I rejected him

    • @groomslayer3372
      @groomslayer3372 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@janaebellamy2784 LOL

    • @fubuki7278
      @fubuki7278 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@janaebellamy2784 fkn legend

  • @alysdaisy822
    @alysdaisy822 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ahhhh you’re back and I missed the live!! I can’t believe it! It’s 1am here but I look forward to watching this in the morning 😊

  • @rhudyannecruz
    @rhudyannecruz ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THIS IS ULTIMATE video you need to watch!
    Thank you Dylan ❤️

  • @angiep8217
    @angiep8217 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very helpful perspective, changing my beliefs when someone is not giving me what I want. But instead being understanding & changing myself not the other person!

  • @dailyinspiration5540
    @dailyinspiration5540 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey Dylan! Idk if you remember me but I was the one annoyed with my SO. Well, we’re together now, but there are certain things I need to work on still. I feel attacked in this video (mostly bc my SP still annoys me some) and I realize I was trying to find happiness in them instead of myself. Great video!

    • @inact_hhh
      @inact_hhh ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hope everything is going well for you 🫶🌷

  • @sheenacasteel4540
    @sheenacasteel4540 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tysm. Changing beliefs are a must! You are amazing. I've been trying so hard to change my beliefs. I am worthy 🙏

  • @amandajones5201
    @amandajones5201 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I call my cat bubbas too. Love you Dylan. I joined your channel and I love the challenge we’re doing❤❤❤❤

  • @christiner.2895
    @christiner.2895 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Watching this I just had an idea. Like you said we look for things that prove our limited beliefs, Either things that happened in the past or recently to support our limited beliefs. I tend to always focus on negative. What if I make a list of my limiting beliefs and search for evidence and remember things that happened that challenge these beliefs? "I'm worthy of love because the one time so and so did this great thing for me" I'm tired and I feel like I'm making sense 😆 basically instead of searching for the negative supporting, list positive supporting of the why your limited belief is wrong. Phew. I feel like this would be a good bullet journal, for those into Journaling. I feel like it will help me by finding evidence against my limited beliefs too.

  • @julialee690
    @julialee690 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m so happy you are back ❤

  • @retiredbarista
    @retiredbarista 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg, Dylan is back. I'm glued to the screen and all ears 😃

  • @ValerieAbena
    @ValerieAbena 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I must have rewatched your old videos like 10 times this summer 😂

  • @melissanorris6062
    @melissanorris6062 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dylan, your video came to me in DIVINE timing!!!❤Seriously. Today Mark's a year since Mom died. I'm almost ready to turn 39 years old in only 6 days. Husband got the confirmation call we've been waiting on for his acceptance of on lease for him to move out. (We have 4 children together. Been together 21 yrs. 17 1/2 of that married, but I have been my life feeling/My heart, "REQUIRING" a new direction for me for a while. I also have a person I'm in love with. Have been for a few years now. I KNOW he feels the very same towards ME....but, for the last years we've both spent, "Doing what others expect us to do."I feel our hearts still calling each other. I will be single the day I turn 39. My husband said he is moving out by Sat,( The day before my birthday.)What's weird is...I remember "WISHING," 3 years ago on my 36th birthday for us to separate, in a nice way. That we can somehow "Seperate," but still be on a good level with each other for our kids...

  • @Daniellelenae
    @Daniellelenae 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Omg I missed u so much I was still watching your old videos though 😭🦋🦋

  • @sooshionfire
    @sooshionfire 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This comforts me a lot and calms me from my anxiousness. Thank you so much.

  • @Pnyyyy
    @Pnyyyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Even if people change Even if their behavior was a reflection of me , I can't forget the hurt they cause the nights I cried till morning the hurt happened to my body , I will never forget these things even if it was a reflection . When somebody hurts me I'm done for ever even if they change I can't look at them same way again

    • @truthheals5723
      @truthheals5723 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Then learn and move on

    • @Pnyyyy
      @Pnyyyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@truthheals5723 yes I let go

    • @ashleykathryn9038
      @ashleykathryn9038 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too, I loose the good feelings towards them. I go cold and want nothing to do with them

    • @donna6783
      @donna6783 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I believe that because of the beliefs I held about myself I stayed with someone who did physically and mentally hurt me. The person I am today will never be with someone like that again because I KNOW I deserve better and you can bet I want nothing to do with that person who treated me so horribly. The new me doesn’t associate with people like that! PERIOD!

  • @madwrld973
    @madwrld973 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Girl u are glowingggg. ❤❤❤ 🎉Thanks for the upload ich küss dein Herz Bruder

  • @tempistarks
    @tempistarks 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I missed you!! I can’t wait for the new tracks!!!!! I have been listening to them for two years and I’m so much better!! Thank you 🙏

  • @theonly_competitor_of_me_is_me
    @theonly_competitor_of_me_is_me 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When i see myself playing too hard to do... I feel bad for myself but then i remember everything is me pushed out n it makes me more sad seeing that I'm behaving this bad to myself... So at this point I'm trying to be my best n back to track again

  • @AlMoSiCe210
    @AlMoSiCe210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're back. 😃 Glad to have you back.

  • @bicana.angway
    @bicana.angway 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Dylan, so happy to see you back. Been waiting for a new upload. Finally! 🙌🏼🥰

  • @nunceypowell1719
    @nunceypowell1719 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Soooo happy to have you back

  • @donna6783
    @donna6783 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dylan, this is such an amazing video! It explains things so well in what I see within myself and also explains so well in what has gone on around me. Also how to overcome my own undesirable behaviors and what is going on within me during this process to rise to the Queen that I’ve always been 💕 Thank you so much!

  • @ltell
    @ltell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Definitely making some tweaks to my nightly affirmations! You totally explained what I've been going through in persisting in my new beliefs. Making it a growth process instead of jumping to the new assumption is the direction I'll be taking.
    Great video!! You came back, and hit it right out of the park!

  • @jayrasanchez8243
    @jayrasanchez8243 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dylan!!! Thanks for the video. You truly are the best at keeping us grounded and persisting in new beliefs. Can you make a video on how to respond compassionately to others limiting beliefs. ❤

  • @vulvodyniawhat537
    @vulvodyniawhat537 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Omg thank you so so much for this. It has really helped to shift my perspective and I know it’s gonna help me in my situation. I know I don’t know you but I love you for sharing this with me and the world😘💚

  • @kaylalarae6101
    @kaylalarae6101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    5:53 Yes yes yes… such a powerful and potent message on beliefs and conscience affirmation! Self concept creates the story… beliefs create the organic unconscious and conscious affirmations. “this” carries “that” !!!!
    Thank you so much for your content! 🙏

  • @mschart01
    @mschart01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Didn’t even realize he had on the Daddy hat!!! 🖤 great video as usual! Perfect message! Thank you sir! 🙏🏽

  • @alexisg7157
    @alexisg7157 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hiiii... I have never been so excited to see anyone the way I am now seeing new vidss... thank you.. sending love 🇵🇭🇵🇭

  • @miri9810
    @miri9810 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I missed you so so so much. I was always checking to see if you posted anything. Post more often now please. You are the only person who gives me peace and hope regarding the manifestation.

    • @nienm33
      @nienm33 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You could also look at his old video’s because everything you need to manifest the things you want he has already posted on his page ❤

  • @anjalimukherjee1774
    @anjalimukherjee1774 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This guy over here, this handsome guy💓💓💓 i tell u , he's a gem...... period!!!!! Nd we love him