GD w/ Micah Lussier of Perfect Match | The Viall Files w/ Nick Viall
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 25 ก.ค. 2024
- Welcome back to The Viall Files: Going Deeper, with Perfect Match’s Micah Lussier. Today we bring you a bonus episode, and boy is it filled with JUICY tea. How was Micah’s time on Perfect Match? Did she believe Harry or Melinda? Where is she now with Kaz?
“Idk where these men went to acting school, but they went somewhere before getting on this show”
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Intro
21:07 - Kaz
43:08 - Other Guys
47:53 - Izzy
50:59 - After Filming
54:33 - Elys
01:00:57 - Harry
01:11:01 - Texting Office Hours
01:42:58 - Post Call Questions
01:48:19 - Outro
Kaz and Michal just looked like a classic anxious/avoidant attachment style. I think they both liked eachother
Yeah it seemed that way, I was in one of those relationships so I get it
Why is Nick so gross in this and invasive. Asking if she had sex with him, over complimenting some people. He’s a hungry interviewer
I know right! Wth is wrong with him?!
No cause I HATEEE watching him I only watch him to see my girls. His energy always weird af
Or maybe he’s doing his job! The reason we all click when we see his videos!
You must be new to this channel. Nick has always been very blunt and straightforward with his interviews. And I’m here for it. If a guest doesn’t want to answer his questions, they don’t have to.
Was it inappropriate to ask that very personal question?
Absolutely.
did my nosey ass still wanna know the answer to that question ?
Absolutely.
Maybe Melinda was a little too eager to kiss and tell, but she did not deserve to be attacked for sharing her truth. Especially not more than Harry.
Exactly. Micah calling her aggressive isn’t cool.
yeah I didn’t really like the only girls being called aggressive were both black, idkkkk
@@loma55it was pretty aggressive with trying to sit on his lap wanting to be carried them kissing its like she went out of her way to get harry to fuck up imo
@@loma55then to call him a “mediocre man “ when she already knew his past and that he was coupled up yet still tried to pursue him out of everyone its like ehhhh
@@monte4nn well Harry didn’t take any accountability and blatantly lied. And Jess was reactive too and directed her anger at Melinda. He didn’t get any heat. And calling a black woman aggressive is not cool.
Yes! I was not the biggest Micah fan after LIB but now after PM, I love her! I was so happy to see a different side and it made me able to appreciate her snarkier side more and find the humor in it.
I really like Micah. She seems to have grown a lot since LIB 4. She looks beautiful and I don’t get that mean girl vibe from her anymore.
You should watch Christine’s video. Micah is still the same mean girl
@@littlelighthouse89I was about to write this lol!!
@@littlelighthouse89i also don’t know if I trust Christine though haha I feel like Micah talks without thinking
Watch the interview with her Jess xanthi and Tolu
@@kimberlychristmas-lee3868 where is that interview?
Ok I think Nick went a little too far with asking Micah if she had sex with Kaz, when it happened and then making comments about it. Kind of creepy for a 43 year old man to ask a 28 year old female something so personal (that was never shown/discussed on the show). She seemed uncomfortable
💯💯💯
Ya no shit who wouldnt
I really dislike viall but I wanna hear the perfect match tea
Why are his questions 20 minutes long like bro just shut up and let Micah spill the tea
@@marrro9This is so accurate! He asks multilayer questions that are so long, the person being interviewed doesn’t even remember how the question started 😂
Lol only reason I ever watch is the good guests he gets
@@Laura_5757 I will never understand how he got so popular but he always has the most fire guests so I put up with him 😂
Ummm why did he had to ask so many times if she had sex with Kaz??? Like he made sure she said yes. That’s a huge NO for me.
It wasnt needed to be brought up multiple times
@@allieh3549agreed! So distasteful
No one:
Nick: A la Harry
HAHAHA
Calling Melinda the aggressor in the situation is a wild take. You all should bring her on for her side of the story. Blaming the other woman in any situation is unnecessary on a show called Perfect Match when they are literally there to test matches and recouple.
Its such a micro agression!! The only women they called aggressive were Christine and Melinda when in reality, Jess was the agressive one. The way jess talked to Melinda was disgusting😤
for the girl on going deeper - it sounds like he is using her to replace communication with his ex gf but he's too scared/ not ready to really have a relationship, and seeing each other in person makes it real. it's like a soft rebound.
Exactly what I was thinking! He isn't over his ex and is using her as an emotionial rebound to try to get over her, but doesn't want to meet up in person because he is still leaving the door open for his ex.
Right. I think he’s just not that into her and was using her for validation
1:02:21 yeah nooooooo way. the way he was talking about jess' daughter soooo quick would have been RED FLAGS for me. do not talk about being my daughters step dad or crying because you're sad you're a bad influence or telling me i'm such a good mom when you've never seen me be a mom. that was really weird IMO
I’m sorry but this was totally on Jess. She mentions her daughter, the guy immediately uses that to lovebomb, and so she uses it back for guilt tripping. It was disgusting, but more so the fact that she didn’t put a stop to it. I wouldn’t let a man use my daughter’s name as easily.
Same
@@mariacontreras6652same here!!!! I was second hand offended over it
19:12 I was in love with Stevan by the end. I was rooting for them, couldn’t wait to be invited to their wedding, I was invested man 😅. Had us fooled
Yes but don't you remember what happened in perfect match season 1?! Like someone literally got proposed to and everyone was still broken up within a week after
The fact that Christine and Melinda were both called aggressive during this interview and I didn’t hear any one else be called aggressive, including Jessica and idc if Melinda came onto Harry regardless she was overly aggressive with Melinda when all the girls were saying what happened while they were gone 🙄, why is it that they’re the only 2 called aggressive, and I love this podcast but that really rubbed me the wrong way 😒
I saw it as “aggressively pursuing” which is true because she knew how harry was and seen his past yet tried pursuing him back the whole time at boys night
Although there was NOTHING wrong with Christine she just held them accountable and was real
@@ceceryder8 it’s gross. They are deleting comments too. I’m unsubscribing.
@@monte4nn I’m assuming you’re referring to Melinda and I agree that she was pursuing him but everybody knows Harry, you really don’t have to try that hard to get him to turn his head and Melinda was the only girl that actually “tried” but tbh Harry was flirting with Melinda the first time she entered the house and it continued when she came back, all of those girls were trying to get those guys to turn their head and I’m going to watch that part back because I really don’t feel like Melinda had to do much convincing to get Harry to kiss her
@@loma55 I was looking for comments about this before I made mine, I was wondering why I didn’t see any after scrolling for a while, that’s really disappointing if they are because I always thought Nick was big on holding people accountable and if his choice of words and his guests choice of words are rubbing people the wrong way then I would’ve assumed he would be receptive to the criticism like he gives other people
This show actually made me love Micah. Love that she got the screen time after LIB.
Im so glad Micah went on perfect patch. She deserves so much more than what she got in love is blind. I’m glad she got a good edit this time around to show her true self 😊
I want them to fix their rug so bad
LOL - this! I kept staring at it😂
Thank you it’s been driving me crazy 😂😂
Omg puhleaseeeeee 😅
Yes, yes, yes!!! I have been saying that for months! Get rid of it!
Omg! I was thinking this too. It’s killing me 😂
I love Micah!! 💕 She is my favorite. Great interview!!
Hold on, did we watch the same show? Yall genuinely think Melinda was the aggressor in the kiss between her and Harry? HARRY??? Harry who had been carrying Melinda around all day? Harry who was taking body shots off of Melinda? Harry who said he was ready to put a baby in her?? Harry purposely carried Melinda to a blind spot where he knew a camera would not catch them kissing, yet Melinda who is like 5 foot nothing was the ‘aggressor’? The disdain for black women is so loud and it’s scary.
It was actually pretty disgusting to watch this episode which sucks because I’ve always been a supporter of this podcast. But as a black women it’s disappointing to watch all of these people call two out of the three black women that are on the show, aggressive, for playing the game the same way everyone else is playing. Are we forgetting the way Micah was yelling at Kaz the whole show! It was coming off pretty aggressive!
I agree^^^^ I also feel like Micah was flirting with other guys, she blames Kaz but she was doing the same things. That's how I took it. When she called him a hypocrite I was soo confused, to me she's the hypocrite
I don’t think they said that he wasn’t the aggressor they kinda said they just kinda implied she wasn’t blameless
@@jacquelinegomez816 nick verbatim said that Melinda was the aggressor and implied that she was lying
@@chidichinaka haven't watched the full episode of the podcast yet....but wasn't Melinda sitting on top of that man? Did she not intentionally go after him as did all the singles in hopes of getting into the house? She was a girl on a mission who knew what she wanted. The only nasty thing was Harry lying that he reciprocated her energy.
Nick loves young drama is so weird hahahaha
Thank you! Love Micah
Omgosh i was waiting to see how long for you Nick to mention Harry lol. It's like verbal Diarr*ea.
Loved Micah in this interview 💙
No one:
Micah: “oh 100%”
She’s been saying that phrase since live is blind it’s all i could hear 😩
@@32TheresaI’ve noticed a lot of people from that show say that! And also “Yeah, for sure!”
Yes!!!! She said it at least 50 times throughout the episode. Girl do u know any other words???
I need to know where her pants are from!!! Please ask her and report back😂😂
Literally same
I think with the conversation regarding the women and men getting unfair judgement I think in society we hold women to a higher standard than guys. There’s this persona that “all guys are trash” so they get let off easier but the culture for women is we stand up for each other, we have a higher expectation for each other. I don’t know if that makes sense but that’s my take
I would like to hear more about what Micah learned though from last year to now. I feel like we barely scratched the surface on going deeper last year. But I get not wanting to re visit the past.
I don’t even care about Kaz I just want to hear her internal dialogue on the Rizzy Izzy moments 😂😂😂
Especially the scene where she ignores Izzy asking for a convo and goes off with Kaz
😂😂😂 That scene was hilarious
Did anyone else watch Christine's youtube video was pretty interesting 😊
Can you give the short version? 🤔
@@rhondafolk5928 Kaz told multiple girls their connection was stronger than his and Mica's and he wanted to match with them then never did. Christine went with whatever Kaz was saying to try to get into the house knowing she never intended to be serious with him. They never slept together like the show implied. She and Mica had a conversation about boys day that never aired. After he matched with Christine he tried to take it back and ask Britton but she declined. Christine asked Tolu to bring Nigel in so she could play Kaz like he played everyone else but it failed when he took back Mica which is why she was so upset.
Viall need to talk about that honestly!
@@MyLifeWithLeeLeeyeah but he probably didn't see it so he can't talk about it
I find it interesting how she pointed out that everyone in the house was talking about her relationship while she wasn’t talking about anyone. I think she made a conscious choice not to talk bad about anyone or try and break anyone up because she was trying to fix her mean girl reputation. Idk if she’s actually changed I think she just knows not to do it on camera anymore.
From what i know, she’s had and still has a good reputation when the camera is off.
i think she also learned a lot from lib bc of how much backlash she got from talking down on others behind their backs. i guess she just learned to mind her own tbh
“💯”
“A huuundred percent”
“Hundred percent”
The way I audibly laughed about the Stevan toe joke 😂😂😂
YES! So happy Micah is back! She was the reason I started watching this podcast and have been hooked since!
Great advice to this caller, Nick! Hope this girl never goes to Vegas, cuz she can’t pull herself away from the table no matter how much she’s lost!!
This is a good interview of her
Drink everytime Mica says 100% 😅😂
That's such good advice from Nick to the caller. Just an astute understanding of the situation.
13:54 so we fg about married at first sight??? They was whole moving in together 😂😂😂
Anyone else think Micah sounds like Monica from friends sometimes? Lol when she’s laughing and having fun
What’s wrong w the caller? Don’t entertain men that dont men want to meet. For a year!?! This is on her if she tolerates it.
Natalie is so witty lmao throughout these past two hrs ty
Caller was such a great storyteller!!!!
She was so dynamic and hilarious to listen to but I would be afraid of never getting a word in! 🤣
Wow Nick’s advice to the caller was excellent at the very end. I’m a fan now
Omg what the fuck is wrong with Nick wanting to know when Micah had sec with Kaz. Sounds so Pervyyy 🤮
Ok I had the exact same situation as the caller and I feel like I can now cancel my therapy session bc it was exactly what I needed to hear 😅
LOVE Micah!
Both black women on the show being described as "aggressive". Really? We're still doing this in 2024?
Weren’t they aggressive? Why is Tolu not being described as aggressive?It is because she was not. She’s only talkative. So if you don’t want to be described a certain way, don’t be that. Simple.
@@Lorethaaa They were absolutely not aggressive in the slightest. You clearly do not know the meaning of the word.
LOL I love the ladies all being sweet with the girl who called. I am Nick 10/10 times when I speak with people: direct and objective all the time. I have almost no sweetness, but do respectfully say things directly.
Love Micah! ❤
Great advice Nick 👏🏼
I love that Nick loves his cowboy boots so much 😂
Why are comments calling you guys out being deleted lol
Clock it!
because they dont want to take accountability
@@savannahharper8541what are they about?
They assumed Christine had sex because of editing. They blamed Micah in a way for how certain things happened. This is the first time I’ve watched him but I don’t like men telling women how to move or react.
@@Sonata_Green ngl even with the edits i never assumed she had sex
Michal is literally my fav TPM character in s2. She is soooooo chill. Gosh I love her
“I know something about staying in touch” ☠️
I love micha! She’s so normal in a good way and likeable !
Funny Micah wanting to see Cole ( lib) come in the house...i did too. I wanted him to match with Jess..um.maybe next time
WOWOWOOWOW SOOOO GOOOOOOD.
I love Micah! 💙
where is the clip of micah watching kiss for first time?
I can’t stop staring at Natalie’s shoes. Need link asap!! 😍😍
Cackling at nick calling that girl out for not being busy, why is he so funny actually😂
You can just tell he was biting his nails trying to prevent himself from calling her what he actually thinks she is “pathetic”
I love micah
i think you guys should wait to have people from shows on until the season is fully released. whoever you talk to before the show is out, they don't even know their full edit, what's shown what's not, and yall don't fully know what to ask or talk about cause the whole thing isn't out yet
Micha, girl be fr you and Kaz was legit arguing over everything they saw an opening, to test the relationship. It was just cut out. 😅
Let this be a lesson to us all that people on reality TV are real people - and people are multifaceted and always growing and changing regardless of the storyline we see on TV.
wait where was the clip used on instagram of micah reacting to a clip
My thoughts too
do podcasts get nominations
I never disliked Micha, I could sense she got a bad edit but after this, I like her more!
REFRESH REFRESH STARE at screen with anticipation 😊🎉
Caller: Know what you need, deserve, and SET BOUNDARIES and Expectations! It's ok to do that! (From a therapist!)
Caller: He’s doing it because of the attention he’s getting from you. He’s sending you pics to get pics from you. He’s doing it to flirt without investing real time or money or having any obligation or commitment.
Natalie and Nick should switch seats lol
Not Nick saying Melinda was the aggressor. Yall don’t know what happened before Melinda whispered what she did so I think it wasn’t fair to sway the vote
all harry cares about is his reputation true narcissist
Micah is cool as fck lol. She’s definitely that girl you wanna hangout with. Can’t explain it, but happy to see her grow and change ☺️💕
Whoever called in is the GOAT Ask Nick caller
It’so so cringe his wife being monitoring every girl being interviewed he even acts different and glances to see if she is seeing him. It feels so weird
Christine was not "forcing" Kaz to do anything. She's mentioned since the show aired that Kaz initiated a sexual conversation and she purposely played into it to try to get into the house. How she acted was in response to him. Also, Melinda being the aggressor? Are you hearing yourself? How is Melinda saying "no one's looking" aggressive but Harry saying "i wanna f*** you" and "i'll get you pregnant" isnt? I know this podcast has never had much diversity but you should REALLY start looking into hiring someone that can call out microaggressions.
100%
Exactly wtf
Thank you!!!!!!!
EXACTLY
Omg all of this!
Love Micah! The girl on the phone I feel is getting catfished in a serious way.
What was with harry and holly?
Drinking game phrase: Hundred Percent. Good luck!
Love yahhhh Micahhhh🩷
You guys should have Melinda on the show!!!
Why should Micah give Elys a call when we saw her mention and go against Micah?
Honestly the team needs to start bringing in male callers. If the viewers aren’t women at least just bring in male callers. Hearing women call in and then being told “YOU need to do this, and no he isn’t an issue” isn’t bad advice but it would be refreshing to hear him give men the same advice. Like ya she did this but YOU man need to fix xyz. Because at least when he has men ON the show as guests he never really tells them YOU need to do this.. it just gets Bro-ey (I.e. Schwartz, West, etc). And the reply is always well I KNOW them they’re more than the show. Ok, so then get callers who you don’t know. Make it a goal the show has to hit to bring in male callers. He gives great advice a lot of the time and it would just be refreshing to actually hear men also get the tough love advice.
“See it thru my boi” 🤤
Please interview Christine next
Can’t believe you guys didn’t tell the caller the guy is CLEARLY trying to see how far he can take it and see that she’ll still stay around no matter what. Like you set a boundary, he breaks it - you stay. He constantly ghosts you - you stay. He literally tells you he pooped his pants?! - you still stay. That man can get away with anything from you and still going to have you there waiting for him. Please!!
Vanessa did not call in for advice. She called in to tell her story that was the longest "advice request" I've ever heard.
2nd! Cant wait to watch
Long time listener, first time commenter. Around the 1:28:11 time frame it was mentioned that if a man doesn't meet you right away he's definitely hiding something.
Did you ever consider he might be protecting something? I raise three kids on my own, one of which is ambulatory and not able to just be babysat normally.
I'm not wasting the time, effort, and money to meet someone in person if we truly aren't aligned as people.
I was lucky enough to find a wonderful woman who accepted us all and loves us. But just food for thought I suppose?
Yall love to watch love is blind but hate to see it happen in real life.
Having watched Christine’s video, all this heat towards her is soo misdirected
What did Harry say about Holly? What were they referring to?
Harry said that him and stephan knew Holly because they had sex with her, but spoke in a derogatory way, it was an unnecessary comment
When Holly first came on Harry said he had sex with her and he knew Stevan had too. He said specifically that Stevan creampied her.
@@luizefloquet4618 stephan has since said that this is not true. he knows jolly but did not cream pie her as harry stated
@@cholehill8638holly
this guy asking micah like 12 times about her having sex is weird asf
sounds like she's trying to get Alara on the show 👀
Micah is fucking hilarious! 😂 always has been 🤷🏽♀️
Caller- I mean this with so much kindness. I think you need to learn what I needed to learn in my life, we are easy targets for manipulation. We tend to empathize first, we are trustworthy and assume others are too, we are very understanding, we did not grow up learning good healthy boundaries, we tend to want reassurance so badly a man can play to that and use it. It has helped me to assume poorly of people when it comes to dating. Assume its not going to work. Assume they are hiding immaturity. Assume the chemistry is bad and you need it proved otherwise. And look at actions only never words. They must prove themselves in 100 different ways before they get your heart. You dont say you are going to make time you SHOW me you are gonna make time. You will squeeze me into your schedule because you dont actually work 16 hours a day. You consistently show up with honesty. You dont wait for me to reach out when we are supposed to go on a date. You dont cancel multiple times for even legitimate excuses. If you get into a wreck and are in the hospital you give me the damn room number. You bend over backwards to bring me flowers at my house between meetings so we can meet and prove your sincerity. Ect.
I don’t get how people don’t see through her she’s still a bully saying no one wanted to not too handle they are overly loud and talking about Christine just cause she stole her man
Wait a second, when was Micah ever a villain?
When was she *Never A villain
Yay I’m the first one to comment ! Love you Nick and Natalie ❤