1. THE PIMP = He feels his manhood through sexual conquest. 2. THE SIMP = A broken man with an empty self esteem. 3. THE KING = A grown man with a clarity of purpose; a sense of responsibility; and finds joy in protecting and serving.
The Pimp- he feels his manhood through sexual conquest. 2. The Simp- A broken man with empty self- esteem. 3) King- learned to be responsible for himself, takes responsibility for his family, and then learns to take responsibility for the larger community. Serve, teach, protect, lead, thats the agenda of a King. Vow!!! Just Vow!!! Kings protect physically, emotionally, financially. Yes!!
OMG! Why didn't I hear it earlier?? It was so great! I knew very long only pimps and simps. Now I wish to find a king - I feel, slowly I became a Queen. Thank you !!
I don’t know why anyone would call bishop a simp. This man is out here doing Gods work and saving peoples lives. He’s doing the work that a lot of your mothers and fathers never did. I’m sure whoever said it is probably too old to be raised, but if you take the time to actually listen, you will see how ridiculous it is to call Bishop a simp.
Bcuz society is accustomed to ignorance on social media .They want to hear a black man tearing people apart particularly women they feel comfortable with themselves when they entertain that conversation instead working on themselves to be better men
EXACTLY!!! “Simps leave us women in a position almost 24/7 where we have to function in the masculine because they ain’t showing up to do their jobs” Wisdom there 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Bishop, In the disfunctional world we live in, men like you and Tony Gaskin have been called simps because you speak love and healing to women. If you were toxic and degrading, you would be celebrated as high value man. Your content has been a blessing to me, so God bless you and mummy Lisa.
Susan, you are so right. I am so glad to have these men speaking truth to power and bringing healing, insightful messages to turn this culture around and head it in the right direction. This is what God loves.
This comment made absolutely no sense at all. First you call bishop a simp then turn around praise and give blessings to Bishop and Lisa You are stupid and and you misspelled the word DYSFUNCTIONAL. IT'S WITH A "Y" NOT AN "I".... Get it your spelling and your grammar right first before writing such nonsense, simp....
I’ve definitely noticed that society focuses on simps & pimps, often jumping from one extreme to the next. The king is the only healthy representation of true manhood and I pray to marry a king of my own someday. ♥️
I love how you talk about modern, relevant topics but also bring up old Bible verses. It creates a rich, in-depth and informative experience for us ladies. Thanks!
When I tried to tell my ex during 30 years of marriage that one of his jobs was to “protect” his family his response was “ from what?” Lol. One of the big reasons he is my “ex”. Tried for 30 years to get through to him as well as counselors.
It’s a blessing Pastor that U finally woke up as you said!! There are so many grown men in there 50’s and 60’s still doing what they did 30/40 years ago!! It’s so sad. SMH
I love when Bishop says, I’m not going to be before you long 😂😂😂I instantly smile and say pastor let the lord use you, and be on here for another hour 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
😂😂👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾I definitly agree with you sis!!! I can not get enough of Bishop Blakes teachings.. The best part is he backs up his teachings with Scripture!!! Bishop Blakes you are hilarious as well I still smile afterwards even laugh when I finish watching your teachings!!! God bless you and family🙏🏾🫂. P.S. I have all your videos in my library and share with others too!!
@@janellamurphy4212 OMG 😂 it’s the best when you can receive a message that sometimes even steps on your toes and your still having a great time hearing it. That’s what I love about him, he’s unapologetically authentic with his message and does not bend the scriptures to fit the narrative. I pray for him and Mrs Lisa all the time because this world needs a “Them “
Listen... I was JUST talking to my husband about this a few days ago. I told him there's a difference between Bad Guys, Good Guys, and Good Men! I am straight TRIPPIN'!!!!! I can't wait to hear what Bishop has to say on the matter and whether or not I hit the nail right on the head!!!! Update: YUP! Hit the nail right on the head!!! It's so crazy how The Lord speaks His Word and it does not contradict! He sends confirmation to those who want to make sure they are going the right way. I thank The Lord for this Bishop.
U should say a good men and nice men. Nice men r not necessarily a good men. They can be fake or overly sweet to get like a snake around your neck. A good man does what’s right and has dignity
Every time you happens to mention you wife as an example, I love it. I can just see smile on your face. That tight there, its means a lot. Because a man who can speak about his woman and give that little smile, is a man that truly honors and loves his women. Period. ❤
I am here in Chicago and a lot of this women are being used in this world today and I am praying for the women are not being the best for their children and families
You're a King!! Only a simpleton...I mean simp would ever categorize you as a simp. A simp is envious of a King. Secretly wanting to be like a King, a simp is a jealous hater. Pastor, you're an amazing King that I respect, defend and gain knowledge from. If a simp was smart, he'd listen, learn and alter his life for the better. Thank you for taking time to bless us with you knowledge, wisdom and lessons 🙏. Be blessed!!
She called you a simp because it is clear she is used to men disrespecting her. It’s almost impossible for her to think a man could actually genuinely care for her and want the best for her life unfortunately. Continue doing GODS work. Pastor R.C you are very much needed❤️
I love how you go by the Bible on your channel. If only every woman and man could see you and listen to you, would be a blessing! 🥰i do share your videos with friends and family.
Thank you once again Pastor for another good topic🙏🏽 I’m still Praying to GOD for a woman that’s still interested in a man that has realized that he has made mistakes and has given his life completely to the Lord!! Also never Married because of the respect to GOD and the true meaning of Marriage….🙏🏽
Glad you're straightening out your life. But that's not exactly how personal reformation works. Forgivness and healing entails acceptancing and rectifying the consequences of your actions. So you should meet a woman on your level who has been through the same thing with the same past baggage. Don't expect someone above your level, most of those 'undamaged' women have 'undamaged' men on their level without past baggage. This isn't to put you down but to be realistic about expectations. Healing and ignoring consequences aren't the same thing. I say this goes for both genders.
I'm in my mid 60s and never heard this message..up until this point. Its the truth that will set us free. I've come to the realization ...especially in climate in which we're living...people conscious are seared with a hot iron. There's to much out there is obviously something broken in troubling times. I've taken myself out of race, over 32 years with the power of God on my side. I was once married back in the 80s to a man who you're describing....later divorce in 1990. I had to recalibrate my thoughts..especially after realizing what God had in store for me...is better than what I had.
I've come too the realization...regardless of what we've done and continued to don't let it be in vain. When God has delivered us from it use it for the kingdom of God and his righteousness.
Women who have become Strong/Masculine have had no other choice in this world because of Men. Many are just sick and tired of being sick and tired. Waiting on my King. Thank you Pastor for your wisdom. I'm still listening. ❤
I wish there were more men that would focus on improving their character and healing their trauma. Most men just focus on money and women and they think that makes them high quality but those kinds of men are lacking so much internally. It’s the reason I am really not impressed by 99% of the men that I meet.
I also wish more women would do the same. At least from what I’ve seen a lot of women of today are more worried about what someone can do for them and not want a person for who they are. Dating itself is toxic and as long as we keep pointing the finger at each other it’ll get worse because accountability in relationships is a 2 way thing. I’m not saying you’re wrong I’m just saying that from a guys perspective a lot men feel the same about women that women feel about men
This is an amazing talk. Sharing with my family, especially because my nephew's are growing from their teen-hood into their early 20s. Great for them to move through this world with a King's mentality. Bishop Blakes, you are such a blessing to me.
Pastor Blakes I love your content. I have one thing. You stated you know how men have studied breaking women, however you came to the realization years later as an adult man that you were broken as a child by 3 adult women. This happens more often than what is revealed and honestly some women don’t see this as sexual abuse but more as a privilege to the young male. Young males, especially black males are broken early as young boys by women. Many have not received the appropriate love and affection they should receive as sons from their mother’s. Boys seek validation thru women from a lack of admiration from their mothers just as girls from men due to the void of adoration and protection from their fathers. I know I’m not sharing anything that you don’t know as you are a man full of wisdom that I love to receive from and I truly appreciate your balanced approach to helping individuals that will benefit the community and ultimately the world.
It was a revelation to me because the sexual abuse of a young man was normalized. This is a situation that we must bring more attention to. Thank you for sharing this.
@@RCBlakesJr. I’m not sure if you have heard of this professor, but he dedicates his life to black male studies and brings a lot of this to light with factual data. He’s on TH-cam and his name is Dr. T. Hassan Johnson. If you haven’t checked him out, I highly recommend him. He does a great job of presenting the information intellectually without bashing genders or ethnicities.
38:05 - 39:43 RC I have finally understood all the dynamic of my previous 7 years relationship and why I never felt fully fulfilled. My ex was very nice, sensitive and kind but he lacked initiative and I was going through cycles of loving and resenting him because all the pressure of making life and relationship decision was on me. After 7 years of heading no where with him and feeling completely burnt out, I made a decision once again, to break up and go our separate ways. I felt relieved that I didn't have to look after him anymore and I was responsible only for my life. He was always telling me that I wasn't feminine enough or that I was too masculine but he wasn't leading in any way. Thank you for bringing so much clarity and guidance into my life! Thank God for you and Lisa! I am binge watching all your content and I am excited to become the Queen of my life👸🏻.
U brother are a father to many ppl u have never met! U are more of a father to us than most of our DNA fathers! Thank u for your wisdom & knowledge! U indeed will continue to be in my prayers!!!
THANK U SO VERY MUCH FOR SHARING THIS. I HAVE LEARNED SO MUCH FROM THIS VIDEO TODAY.I WAS INVOLVED WITH A TOXIC MALIGNANT NARCISSTIS/PIMP . THIS PERSON DESTROYED MY LIFE MY SELF WORTH AND SELF ESTEEM . IM STRUGGLING TRYING TO DISCONNECT ..I NEVER KNEW OF SUCH CRUEL EVILNESS IN THIS WORLD TODAY..
Praying for you, it's so sad today that this culture embraces abuse, it's getting worse and worse.I seem to attract narcissistic men, I'm divorcing a narcissistic lier,I met my husband overseas.Much healing needed.
Good evening sir, I enjoy listening to your teaching. Because it enlightens my mind with wisdom and knowledge. I'm believing GOD even at 61 years of age and never been married, thank you sir.
I appreciated how transparent you were about losing your innocence so young. People need to hear this so they can make a connection with hyper sexuality. I did a study on that and found it’s extremely common for a man to be the victim of a female predator. 😔 Hate that it’s celebrated when boys are sexually abused.
Thank you ,for this awesome opportunity, for all women and men ,may the lord Jesus christ continue to bless you and your family 👪, thank you king and your queen. I 💯💯💯💕💕💕💯💯💯
@@LA-wv7gf if they’re not closeted they go for overbearing aggressive women so they can remain passive and check out of life and never take any responsibility or make decisions
@googleaccount i know a guy who just recently married who is a simp and may even be closeted- he is very effeminate but he is trainer at my gym and very fit and ripped but married a girl who is not looks compatible- this is not a criticism so nobody needs to get their feelings hurt but there is definitely something up with the whole picture- it does not fit - she is already hardened and has a hard look to her face and definitely the one who takes charge in the relationship
TELLUM. PASTOR! IF YOU'RE A "SIMP" THAN...WHEN OTHER'S AREN'T LIVING THEIR BEST LIVES, THEY OFTEN TRY TO TARE OTHER PEOPLE DOWN. AS YOU SAID, YOU'RE PREACHING AND LIVING BETTER THAN SOME CAN IMAGINE...TO GOD BE THE GLORY!
I learned a lot from this man, ladies be careful of the men you choose please be sure to check them at the gate like a detactor if it goes off leave and run if you don't you will destroy you self run run forest gump
My mother (RIP), always had Simps as boyfriends, although we didn't call them that back then. We used to say she was more 'man' than her men. My personality was opposite hers, thereby inviting mostly Pimp mentalities. But this process of getting to know my true self has given me some clarity, (although foggy at times) to recognize a King...let alone have a relationship with one.
The overuse of these terms just speaks to the fact that many men don’t know how to discern good quality godly women from others. They make poor dating choices and to avoid being hurt again they conclude that you can’t be nice or show respect to women based off bad experiences from the past; instead of realizing everyone is not the same. This just speaks to the level of brokenness, fatherless homes, lack of discernment, need for healing and fear of what others think.
This is exactly what I've been telling my sons about becoming a man. Problem is we have a lot of dirty old men in their 60s 70s 80s who run around from church to church and in town chasing women who don't even want them. One even has a reputation for thinking of himself as a ladies man. He stalked and hit on women at church. Disgusting. These nasty old men are used for examples of how not to be when I talk to my sons.
Prov. 11:16! This is the Lord doing and it's marvelous in our eyes bless Jesus for real teaching. Amen. Thank you for your willingness to deliver. Been watching your channel for three years and have learned ALOT.
I thank God I came across this anointed Bishop. Wisdom is radiant in these videos. But seriously i need more men to watch these because a lot of us are lost trying to rediscover our purpose thru God. Cmon man we gotta step up and listen to the OG’s! God Bless You All! All Praise To The Most High!
Yes, manhood is more than things such as sexual virility. What's missing from the world today is mental virility. In fact, sexual sensuality is more a female energy than a male one. But mental virility is rare, and quite often disliked by society in general. Mental virility is not aggression nor domination. Nor is it po-faced serious, in fact, it carries a quiet sense of humour. It's difficult to define but immediately apparent at an energetic level. It responds to and respects female energy in a woman.
His sermons or messages are always so very truthful and full of wisdom!! Thank you so much!! These topics definitely need to be discussed more in church and among families.
Great overview on the 3 categories of men Bishop Blakes. It takes the knowledge of life and biblical insight to hone in the facts. God bless you brother 👑✊🏿
Amen thank you for educating so many ignorant people on this very important subject that is destroying our communities where respect and love is lacking immensely God is using you as a vessel to speak to us I hope we are paying attention and receive this message with an open mind
Mt ex kept talking to other women behind my back. I lost it and took me out of character. I slapped him. I repented to God to help me heal from this and for me to not hit a guy anymore. I was so angry and felt disrespected over and over .
I have a family member that is a simp. His women has cheated on him publicly multiple times and he keeps taking her back and doing everything to keep her from leaving again. We have expressed to him that he has low self esteem because he could honestly do better.
Sir Davale needs to here you speak so eloquently and identifying his demonstration as a King of today! Excellent example and the way you described him and being a king in a beautiful fathering way too!
Please keeeeeppp making these videos. They are helping me in ways you don't even know. I am in my early 20's and I read comments from other women who say they wish they knew about these things when they were younger. My mother also says the same thing. I am so thankful that I found your page as early in life as I did. It is helping me, grow closer to God and myself, while expanding my mindset and encouraging a better path through life. Thank youuuu
Those young preadolescents, both male and female have been awoken to sexual stimulations from people anywhere, the social media, magazines, billboards, and even school curriculums unfortunately!! These preadolescents do not have a clue, as to what has happened, much less the ability to handle the subject of sexuality! These adolescents need so much, of responsible, accountable adults in their lives, AMEN!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Talk RC, TALK!!! Irish You were speaking when I was coming up, You are a blessing to women today, as a senior I salute you. Keep speaking truth. You are helping so many of us at all ages. Men too. Thank you, Sir.
This was so clear and as a mother of a lil King it definitely helps with guiding him and also my daughter to recognise better than momma did. Thank you for being there and just offering information that my father never did. God bless you!
I absolutely love this man. And I respect and appreciate all the knowledge he spreads in all in his videos. I share these on my live on u tube on my television. Good content bishop.
1. THE PIMP = He feels his manhood through sexual conquest. 2. THE SIMP = A broken man with an empty self esteem. 3. THE KING = A grown man with a clarity of purpose; a sense of responsibility; and finds joy in protecting and serving.
The breakdown, thank you sis! ❤️
The Pimp- he feels his manhood through sexual conquest. 2. The Simp- A broken man with empty self- esteem. 3) King- learned to be responsible for himself, takes responsibility for his family, and then learns to take responsibility for the larger community. Serve, teach, protect, lead, thats the agenda of a King. Vow!!! Just Vow!!! Kings protect physically, emotionally, financially. Yes!!
Pimps are simps too they let these women misled their eternal souls... be a king
Thank you Ana !😊 💓
OMG! Why didn't I hear it earlier?? It was so great!
I knew very long only pimps and simps. Now I wish to find a king - I feel, slowly I became a Queen.
Thank you !!
We need to protect a boy's innocence like we do little girls. A child is a child.
Yes, I love this.
I agree , inappropriate sexual behavior is wrong for both girls and boys.
Absolutely so watch who babysit your male children even in the church!
1000000% agree! I let my son know that his body is precious as well. He also has the right to say no!
Amen!
I don’t know why anyone would call bishop a simp. This man is out here doing Gods work and saving peoples lives. He’s doing the work that a lot of your mothers and fathers never did. I’m sure whoever said it is probably too old to be raised, but if you take the time to actually listen, you will see how ridiculous it is to call Bishop a simp.
Haters!! Is what comes to my mind. People have nothing else better to do. And then he also knows that R.C. Blake's is telling the truth.
Bcuz society is accustomed to ignorance on social media .They want to hear a black man tearing people apart particularly women they feel comfortable with themselves when they entertain that conversation instead working on themselves to be better men
@@sandraedwards3578 and mad at “successful men”. Smh
Toxic society. If he was degrading to women he would be called High value.
It's cause there are more pimps and simps out here than Kings it's a hard pill to swallow for a man but only they can make a choice to be a King.
EXACTLY!!! “Simps leave us women in a position almost 24/7 where we have to function in the masculine because they ain’t showing up to do their jobs”
Wisdom there 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I dated one and it was awful. He would ask me what should he do with his life, Lord have mercy. Bless him Lord.
Bishop, In the disfunctional world we live in, men like you and Tony Gaskin have been called simps because you speak love and healing to women. If you were toxic and degrading, you would be celebrated as high value man. Your content has been a blessing to me, so God bless you and mummy Lisa.
Susan, you are so right. I am so glad to have these men speaking truth to power and bringing healing, insightful messages to turn this culture around and head it in the right direction. This is what God loves.
💯 correct! Great men!
So glad you had the courage, to say this to Bishop, amen, God bless you right back!!❤❤
Love Tony too!
This comment made absolutely no sense at all. First you call bishop a simp then turn around praise and give blessings to Bishop and Lisa You are stupid and and you misspelled the word DYSFUNCTIONAL. IT'S WITH A "Y" NOT AN "I".... Get it your spelling and your grammar right first before writing such nonsense, simp....
I’ve definitely noticed that society focuses on simps & pimps, often jumping from one extreme to the next. The king is the only healthy representation of true manhood and I pray to marry a king of my own someday. ♥️
You will
Amen 😇
aamen❤
I love how you talk about modern, relevant topics but also bring up old Bible verses. It creates a rich, in-depth and informative experience for us ladies. Thanks!
When I tried to tell my ex during 30 years of marriage that one of his jobs was to “protect” his family his response was “ from what?” Lol. One of the big reasons he is my “ex”. Tried for 30 years to get through to him as well as counselors.
I'm glad you kicked him to the curb
It’s a blessing Pastor that U finally woke up as you said!! There are so many grown men in there 50’s and 60’s still doing what they did 30/40 years ago!! It’s so sad. SMH
You are telling the truth it is sad
And 70's, too.
A real shame it is!!!! Time for the brothers that are still doing the same stupid stuff to get out of the sandbox SMH!!!
This is what the father/daughter talk should be! The talk that most of us probably never got.💔
He has touched on these types of men before; he must be got some more details. I really love his teachings; I learn so much from him.
I’m thinking the same thing, it’s very suspenseful
@@feliciathatsme207 and me also👍🏾👍🏾
Sometimes new followers don't go over the old videos. They might just pickup from whatever videos they started from.
GLORY to GOD!!!!!❤
I love when Bishop says, I’m not going to be before you long 😂😂😂I instantly smile and say pastor let the lord use you, and be on here for another hour 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
😂😂👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾I definitly agree with you sis!!! I can not get enough of Bishop Blakes teachings.. The best part is he backs up his teachings with Scripture!!! Bishop Blakes you are hilarious as well I still smile afterwards even laugh when I finish watching your teachings!!! God bless you and family🙏🏾🫂. P.S. I have all your videos in my library and share with others too!!
@@janellamurphy4212 OMG 😂 it’s the best when you can receive a message that sometimes even steps on your toes and your still having a great time hearing it. That’s what I love about him, he’s unapologetically authentic with his message and does not bend the scriptures to fit the narrative. I pray for him and Mrs Lisa all the time because this world needs a “Them “
Listen... I was JUST talking to my husband about this a few days ago. I told him there's a difference between Bad Guys, Good Guys, and Good Men! I am straight TRIPPIN'!!!!! I can't wait to hear what Bishop has to say on the matter and whether or not I hit the nail right on the head!!!!
Update: YUP! Hit the nail right on the head!!! It's so crazy how The Lord speaks His Word and it does not contradict! He sends confirmation to those who want to make sure they are going the right way. I thank The Lord for this Bishop.
So very True you hit the Nail right on the head!
U should say a good men and nice men. Nice men r not necessarily a good men. They can be fake or overly sweet to get like a snake around your neck. A good man does what’s right and has dignity
Amen, manhood is about your character.
FOR SHO BROTHER WENDALL!!!!!👍🏾👍🏾💙
Lots of pimps out there...ladies keep your legs closed and keep growing in your faith.
Every time you happens to mention you wife as an example, I love it. I can just see smile on your face. That tight there, its means a lot. Because a man who can speak about his woman and give that little smile, is a man that truly honors and loves his women. Period. ❤
I am here in Chicago and a lot of this women are being used in this world today and I am praying for the women are not being the best for their children and families
Chicago as well and I agree.
You're a King!! Only a simpleton...I mean simp would ever categorize you as a simp. A simp is envious of a King. Secretly wanting to be like a King, a simp is a jealous hater. Pastor, you're an amazing King that I respect, defend and gain knowledge from. If a simp was smart, he'd listen, learn and alter his life for the better. Thank you for taking time to bless us with you knowledge, wisdom and lessons 🙏. Be blessed!!
This is going to be good! Pastor Blake's always brings the truth with scripture and adventure!
Bishop Blakes is always on time with his messages!!!!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
"Scriptire and adventure"
Speak RC!!!!!, you ain't no simp!!!!
She called you a simp because it is clear she is used to men disrespecting her. It’s almost impossible for her to think a man could actually genuinely care for her and want the best for her life unfortunately. Continue doing GODS work. Pastor R.C you are very much needed❤️
I love how you go by the Bible on your channel. If only every woman and man could see you and listen to you, would be a blessing! 🥰i do share your videos with friends and family.
I'm reading and scrolling to see if any men commented.
Thank you for this teaching. I needed this💯💯👏🏾👏🏾
Jesus that was POWERFUL❤🙏❤😊
Pastor Blakes,you can talk forever I would be listening forever!
This is Brilliant
Thank you!!!! Bishop for listening to the Lord what a wonderful message. The church and the world need this teaching.
YES AND YES AMEN!!!!!!!!!😀
Without a father or father figure, its difficult to know what a man is, im glad we have the Lord!
One of your best videos ever and makes perfect sense. So much good content in here.
Thank you once again Pastor for another good topic🙏🏽 I’m still Praying to GOD for a woman that’s still interested in a man that has realized that he has made mistakes and has given his life completely to the Lord!! Also never Married because of the respect to GOD and the true meaning of Marriage….🙏🏽
Amen
I'm praying for you brother. Keep loving Jesus
@@Wellpro31 Thank you my Sister in Christ 🙏🏽
AMEN!!!!
Glad you're straightening out your life. But that's not exactly how personal reformation works. Forgivness and healing entails acceptancing and rectifying the consequences of your actions. So you should meet a woman on your level who has been through the same thing with the same past baggage. Don't expect someone above your level, most of those 'undamaged' women have 'undamaged' men on their level without past baggage.
This isn't to put you down but to be realistic about expectations. Healing and ignoring consequences aren't the same thing. I say this goes for both genders.
Thank you for your QUEENOLOGY and Kingnology mission!
We need some Kings to comment, but I'm so happy Queens are becoming stronger, wiser, and kinder... God bless you Queen!
I'm in my mid 60s and never heard this message..up until this point. Its the truth that will set us free. I've come to the realization ...especially in climate in which we're living...people conscious are seared with a hot iron. There's to much out there is obviously something broken in troubling times. I've taken myself out of race, over 32 years with the power of God on my side. I was once married back in the 80s to a man who you're describing....later divorce in 1990. I had to recalibrate my thoughts..especially after realizing what God had in store for me...is better than what I had.
Yes Queen 💕
I've come too the realization...regardless of what we've done and continued to don't let it be in vain. When God has delivered us from it use it for the kingdom of God and his righteousness.
Women who have become Strong/Masculine have had no other choice in this world because of Men. Many are just sick and tired of being sick and tired. Waiting on my King. Thank you Pastor for your wisdom. I'm still listening. ❤
I wish there were more men that would focus on improving their character and healing their trauma. Most men just focus on money and women and they think that makes them high quality but those kinds of men are lacking so much internally. It’s the reason I am really not impressed by 99% of the men that I meet.
I also wish more women would do the same. At least from what I’ve seen a lot of women of today are more worried about what someone can do for them and not want a person for who they are. Dating itself is toxic and as long as we keep pointing the finger at each other it’ll get worse because accountability in relationships is a 2 way thing. I’m not saying you’re wrong I’m just saying that from a guys perspective a lot men feel the same about women that women feel about men
Started my day with Scripture, Prayer and Knowledge Bishop Blakes you are the Truth! ✨
Hey Bishop Blake’s! Thanks for showing God’s love by helping women know their worth!!
This is an amazing talk. Sharing with my family, especially because my nephew's are growing from their teen-hood into their early 20s. Great for them to move through this world with a King's mentality. Bishop Blakes, you are such a blessing to me.
Pastor Blakes I love your content. I have one thing. You stated you know how men have studied breaking women, however you came to the realization years later as an adult man that you were broken as a child by 3 adult women. This happens more often than what is revealed and honestly some women don’t see this as sexual abuse but more as a privilege to the young male. Young males, especially black males are broken early as young boys by women. Many have not received the appropriate love and affection they should receive as sons from their mother’s. Boys seek validation thru women from a lack of admiration from their mothers just as girls from men due to the void of adoration and protection from their fathers.
I know I’m not sharing anything that you don’t know as you are a man full of wisdom that I love to receive from and I truly appreciate your balanced approach to helping individuals that will benefit the community and ultimately the world.
It was a revelation to me because the sexual abuse of a young man was normalized. This is a situation that we must bring more attention to. Thank you for sharing this.
@@RCBlakesJr. I’m not sure if you have heard of this professor, but he dedicates his life to black male studies and brings a lot of this to light with factual data. He’s on TH-cam and his name is Dr. T. Hassan Johnson. If you haven’t checked him out, I highly recommend him. He does a great job of presenting the information intellectually without bashing genders or ethnicities.
38:05 - 39:43 RC I have finally understood all the dynamic of my previous 7 years relationship and why I never felt fully fulfilled. My ex was very nice, sensitive and kind but he lacked initiative and I was going through cycles of loving and resenting him because all the pressure of making life and relationship decision was on me. After 7 years of heading no where with him and feeling completely burnt out, I made a decision once again, to break up and go our separate ways. I felt relieved that I didn't have to look after him anymore and I was responsible only for my life. He was always telling me that I wasn't feminine enough or that I was too masculine but he wasn't leading in any way. Thank you for bringing so much clarity and guidance into my life! Thank God for you and Lisa! I am binge watching all your content and I am excited to become the Queen of my life👸🏻.
U brother are a father to many ppl u have never met! U are more of a father to us than most of our DNA fathers! Thank u for your wisdom & knowledge! U indeed will continue to be in my prayers!!!
Thank Pastor R.C Blakes you help me through my darkest times more grace upon you🙏🏽
THANK U SO VERY MUCH FOR SHARING THIS. I HAVE LEARNED SO MUCH FROM THIS VIDEO TODAY.I WAS INVOLVED WITH A TOXIC MALIGNANT NARCISSTIS/PIMP . THIS PERSON DESTROYED MY LIFE MY SELF WORTH AND SELF ESTEEM .
IM STRUGGLING TRYING TO DISCONNECT ..I NEVER KNEW OF SUCH CRUEL EVILNESS IN THIS WORLD TODAY..
Praying for you, it's so sad today that this culture embraces abuse, it's getting worse and worse.I seem to attract narcissistic men, I'm divorcing a narcissistic lier,I met my husband overseas.Much healing needed.
May lord give you strength. Keep close to Jesus. He is the only way, the truth and light.
Good evening sir, I enjoy listening to your teaching. Because it enlightens my mind with wisdom and knowledge. I'm believing GOD even at 61 years of age and never been married, thank you sir.
It’s the best dating and relationships open book EVER Conversation !
I hope u do desire to marry at least once.
@@angelabaldwin9889 Absolutely yes my sister, that has been my heart's desire all my life.
I appreciated how transparent you were about losing your innocence so young. People need to hear this so they can make a connection with hyper sexuality.
I did a study on that and found it’s extremely common for a man to be the victim of a female predator. 😔 Hate that it’s celebrated when boys are sexually abused.
Thank you ,for this awesome opportunity, for all women and men ,may the lord Jesus christ continue to bless you and your family 👪, thank you king and your queen. I 💯💯💯💕💕💕💯💯💯
Thank You for your video rc Blake you are so awesome and a blessing
Love your video, truth is the truth.
There are some that mistreat most women, but are simps for a certain type of woman based upon looks
True, some do it only to use women for their money or status.
@@LA-wv7gf if they’re not closeted they go for overbearing aggressive women so they can remain passive and check out of life and never take any responsibility or make decisions
@googleaccount i know a guy who just recently married who is a simp and may even be closeted- he is very effeminate but he is trainer at my gym and very fit and ripped but married a girl who is not looks compatible- this is not a criticism so nobody needs to get their feelings hurt but there is definitely something up with the whole picture- it does not fit - she is already hardened and has a hard look to her face and definitely the one who takes charge in the relationship
It's called a preference or a type. Lots of serial killers have a specific type of victim.
This was a word!!! I had to share this with some brothers… Lord heal and guide our brothers and sisters we need you🙌🏽👑🎁🔐
Wow, can't wait to listen, learn, and gain wisdom Pastor.
TELLUM. PASTOR! IF YOU'RE A "SIMP" THAN...WHEN OTHER'S AREN'T LIVING THEIR BEST LIVES, THEY OFTEN TRY TO TARE OTHER PEOPLE DOWN. AS YOU SAID, YOU'RE PREACHING AND LIVING BETTER THAN SOME CAN IMAGINE...TO GOD BE THE GLORY!
I learned a lot from this man, ladies be careful of the men you choose please be sure to check them at the gate like a detactor if it goes off leave and run if you don't you will destroy you self run run forest gump
My mother (RIP), always had Simps as boyfriends, although we didn't call them that back then. We used to say she was more 'man' than her men. My personality was opposite hers, thereby inviting mostly Pimp mentalities. But this process of getting to know my true self has given me some clarity, (although foggy at times) to recognize a King...let alone have a relationship with one.
The overuse of these terms just speaks to the fact that many men don’t know how to discern good quality godly women from others. They make poor dating choices and to avoid being hurt again they conclude that you can’t be nice or show respect to women based off bad experiences from the past; instead of realizing everyone is not the same. This just speaks to the level of brokenness, fatherless homes, lack of discernment, need for healing and fear of what others think.
Love your teachings Sir. Very wise indeed.
This is exactly what I've been telling my sons about becoming a man. Problem is we have a lot of dirty old men in their 60s 70s 80s who run around from church to church and in town chasing women who don't even want them. One even has a reputation for thinking of himself as a ladies man. He stalked and hit on women at church. Disgusting. These nasty old men are used for examples of how not to be when I talk to my sons.
I wish men could find time and watch this , they need this kind of education
Thank God for your transparency Bishop RC Blakes
my ex was literally a pimp in his spare time. i had no idea
Pastor you really hit em with this one.. some are not ready .. thank you!
My knowledge is tenfold and abundant since finding you in 2018. I appreciate your knowledge. Wish you had a church home in Mississippi
Thanks Pastor RC for this message. Well said.
Prov. 11:16! This is the Lord doing and it's marvelous in our eyes bless Jesus for real teaching. Amen. Thank you for your willingness to deliver. Been watching your channel for three years and have learned ALOT.
I thank God I came across this anointed Bishop. Wisdom is radiant in these videos. But seriously i need more men to watch these because a lot of us are lost trying to rediscover our purpose thru God. Cmon man we gotta step up and listen to the OG’s! God Bless You All! All Praise To The Most High!
This Word spoke to the deep rooted issue(s), concerning a number of your followers, myself included! Thank you Pastor.
Love This ❤️
I love the message Pastor, you’re preaching better than we know. I’m so proud of you and your family. Thank you Pastor.
Yes, manhood is more than things such as sexual virility. What's missing from the world today is mental virility. In fact, sexual sensuality is more a female energy than a male one. But mental virility is rare, and quite often disliked by society in general. Mental virility is not aggression nor domination. Nor is it po-faced serious, in fact, it carries a quiet sense of humour. It's difficult to define but immediately apparent at an energetic level. It responds to and respects female energy in a woman.
Good evening from New York. I’m happy to be listening live and gaining solid knowledge. God bless you!
Thank you Lord. I'm soooooooo grateful for R.C. and first lady Blake's. Thos is a powerful ministry. We love you too.
His sermons or messages are always so very truthful and full of wisdom!! Thank you so much!! These topics definitely need to be discussed more in church and among families.
Great overview on the 3 categories of men Bishop Blakes. It takes the knowledge of life and biblical insight to hone in the facts. God bless you brother 👑✊🏿
Thanks for always giving us something to think about and empower us.
Amen thank you for educating so many ignorant people on this very important subject that is destroying our communities where respect and love is lacking immensely God is using you as a vessel to speak to us I hope we are paying attention and receive this message with an open mind
I am so in love with your preaching, u have delivered and u still delivering me. Thank you
This. Thank you for being obedient Bishop, to Word of God. Thank you for right teaching.
Thank you Pastor Blake for this topic🙏🏾🙏🏾
Mt ex kept talking to other women behind my back. I lost it and took me out of character. I slapped him. I repented to God to help me heal from this and for me to not hit a guy anymore. I was so angry and felt disrespected over and over
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this was a great topic on every level 🙏
I have a family member that is a simp. His women has cheated on him publicly multiple times and he keeps taking her back and doing everything to keep her from leaving again. We have expressed to him that he has low self esteem because he could honestly do better.
Thanks to God Almighty for your boldness the generations of these days need this teaching 🙏♥️
Thank you R.C. Blakes for the topics ❤❤
Society celebrates, yes and so so sad!
Not doomed, blessed with a mission and an abundance of wisdom and knowledge to share with us. And thank you!
this goes for women too, be queens, realise and remember your dignity and integrity! Thanks RC, every woman and man should hear and heed this.
Sir Davale needs to here you speak so eloquently and identifying his demonstration as a King of today! Excellent example and the way you described him and being a king in a beautiful fathering way too!
*Hear
Please keeeeeppp making these videos. They are helping me in ways you don't even know. I am in my early 20's and I read comments from other women who say they wish they knew about these things when they were younger. My mother also says the same thing. I am so thankful that I found your page as early in life as I did. It is helping me, grow closer to God and myself, while expanding my mindset and encouraging a better path through life. Thank youuuu
Thank you so much for this knowledge that you're sharing.
Those young preadolescents, both male and female have been awoken to sexual stimulations from people anywhere, the social media, magazines, billboards, and even school curriculums unfortunately!! These preadolescents do not have a clue, as to what has happened, much less the ability to handle the subject of sexuality! These adolescents need so much, of responsible, accountable adults in their lives, AMEN!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank You Lord for this wonderful message. It is very informative and helpful. 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Truly a real man, king, father and mentor !!! You go to levels many are are afraid to tap into !!!
I am very Lucky and blessed to have met your empowering teachings Pastor. Blakes. Thank you for dedicating your life tô empower women.
Lord you preaching today! Goodness you broke that thing down.
Talk RC, TALK!!! Irish You were speaking when I was coming up, You are a blessing to women today, as a senior I salute you. Keep speaking truth. You are helping so many of us at all ages. Men too. Thank you, Sir.
This was so clear and as a mother of a lil King it definitely helps with guiding him and also my daughter to recognise better than momma did. Thank you for being there and just offering information that my father never did. God bless you!
I absolutely love this man. And I respect and appreciate all the knowledge he spreads in all in his videos. I share these on my live on u tube on my television. Good content bishop.
RC got in his bag for a minute! Learn'em.
THE TITLE HAD ME LAUGHING LOL… SHOULDA BEEN PIMPS, WIMPS & SIMPS🙌🏾 GREAT 1 PASTOR KEEP EM COMING🤲🏾🙏🏽
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣AMEN I AM IN TOTAL AGREEMENT!!!!
Thank You Bishop for this Message I really appreciate everything you do… 💕🙏🏽✨🙌
Thank you R.C.Blake, I hope someone get the Concept, I'm learning though.
Well said...straight and to the point. 😊 🙏