omg i went through this exact thing. it wasn’t until i researched what a narcissist actually is and it sounded like him. i found out he did everything he accused me of behind my back. and i felt so crazy afterwards
what if its my mom who does all this, nitpicking and gaslighting, and trying to get me to explode by saying cruel things to me, then call me mentally ill.. my mom is a crazymaker
@@gdust6579 man it’s a tough spot love her always that’s you’re #1 always. From experience let her know respectfully & bluntly your a young man ( in case ur young ) or you’re not a kid stand firm . Even put her if you are grown to the side till she respects that.
"It does nothing for you to engage in anything this stupid" Yep. Strength is not engaging with another's irrationally. After you discern the deeper tick of what it is. Know another's personality disorder is not your problem. No matter who. You will get nowhere fast except to your own demise.
If you are reading this I would like to let you know You are on the right path and well guided. You will be blessed with health and wealth and only good comes your way! ~ Much love from a Law Of Attraction TH-camr💜
Stoicism is the ultimate cure for dealing with people. As a practicing stoic I know that I cannot control what people say or do. The only thing I can control is my own thoughts and perceptions. I do not care what anyone thinks or does in this life.
Matthew 12:25/26 And Jesus knew their thoughts, and said unto them, Every kingdom divided against itself is brought to desolation; and every city or house divided against itself shall not stand: 26 And if Satan cast out Satan, he is divided against himself; how shall then his kingdom stand?
The narc has no affect on me, they are weak if you think about it because they have no self respect for them selves. I've learned to forgive them and let God handle them for me.
The narcissist's gossip and slander of you is only projection.....the faults that they tell everyone that YOU have is usually the faults they possess....witnessed this INSANITY firsthand.....it is hurtful when you are in the trenches with this demon and his enablers, but once you are OUT you realize these fools don't matter nor do they contribute anything to your life. When you find someone that respects and loves you, you will look back at this like a bad dream. Stay strong everyone!🤗
Many snakes and other predators will become docile or passive if they know you are the 'bigger predator' Narcissist are the same, they respect their own or at least will not attack until they see a vulnerability appear. It's a dangerous lose-lose game though if you're a healthy or empathetic person, don't try and win with a calculating narcissist, they're already 10 steps ahead I can assure you, grey rock it or Leave their presents permanently is always best. Much luck and strength to everyone who needs it now🙏
@Worships Cats im the family scapegoat too. my mom.and aunt joined league to verbally tear me down. my dad also bullies me. my brother is severely disabled and a drug addict now. they buy his drugs :(
I've trolled the shite out of my narc landlord. Lol. I've really Got him many times. If I was a guy he Never would have bothered me. Men don't have to pay all their rent or a/C charges here. Hes a Supreme coward BIG MAN and I've told him many times. He's met his match
Most toxic people are very petty. They will find a piece of lint on your floor and say you don't take care of your house. Lol It is best to keep your distance from them. Don't give them any energy.
If you go up against a narc boss, no matter how ridiculous their actuations, start preparing immediately, in private, for the loss of that job. You may not know the timing, but they will take you out.
a narc supervisor s3xually harassed me then flirted with a guy and told rumors about me at my job at walgreens warehouse. they let him work there for decades but walgreens kept firing me
Whenever one of my family narcs tries to do anything demonic I just repeat “you need to repent, you chose the wrong side kiddo, better you than me Repent the Kingdom of heaven is Near “ and watch how bad that torches their whole persona. This is a spiritual war
You literally just explained a girl who befriended me a cpl weeks ago. She came in innocently wanting Spiritual advice. Then all her conversations turned the focus to her ex-boyfriend who she described as a narc😳. She drained my energy & i began to feel dark. She sought constant attention & praise from me. I told her she had a soul tie with her x from having sex with him... Even after she told me he didn't take care of his kids, on drugs, &,no good family connections. She was a hot mess! A manipulating grown cry baby who bragged & complained. Attention seeking to the max! The minute I stopped stroking her ego & pulled back .. She began projecting blame😳. I blocked her!
I complain a lot too cause all the oppression from bullies in my life is tearing me down. i wouldnt say that friend is a narc imho. sounds like a troubled person
An easy example of this is the story of the old man. One day an old man was driving down the road in his old pick up truck and met this seemly nice young couple. They looked in bad shape and down on their luck, so he invited them over to his house, so they could get back on their feet. At first, they stayed a week, then 1 week turned to 2, then 3 turned into 4, etc, etc. The old man shared everything he had with them. His house, his food, his money. He was very kind to them. Then it happened. One dark night they just up and left, taking everything they could pack ( including the tv) into his truck. And then they drove off. Well, the old man needed that truck in order to get to work. Now, he had no way to get there. And he could not walk, as the town was miles and miles away. Soon, he lost his job, then house, then money. He became a hobo in the town because he had no other family, and walked around with a grocery cart. 1 year later, he came across the couple again. This time they were sporting expensive clothes and driving an expensive sports car. He begged them to help him and return the kindness he once showed them, but they said "no. Ew gross. Get away from us hobo" and then called over a nearby officer, who escorted the old man away and apologized to the rich couple for the harassment. The old man ended up dying in a back alley on a cold night, alone. Some say he may have had a cat with him, but who knows. The end
I notice this especially happening when I play sports. Instead of trying to be better at the sport and focus on getting better themselves they just act like a sore loser or say u cheated or something. They don’t know hard work when it’s right on their face
Happened to me today.. totally almost lost my mind, punching stuff because of lies. I had to pray alot lately, like everyday now. I'mma still stand strong.
they can spin a question in many different ways, and if you answer just slightly the second time because it is in a different context. then they'll catch you with it. that's truly mindfuckery
They literally sit around and practice second order thinking abt what you gone say then what they gone say 🤮 no self focused just all day worried abt somebody else and how to control what they gone say or think if u say or do this or that… just sad
Bro you’ve been helping me so much, I had like a realization that these people are all around me, they fight for superiority, some of them are so prideful and arrogant.. One time I even got attacked by 3 of these demons and they tried to expose me and make me out to be the worst person when them attacking me made them look bad.. im chosen so I was positive and said have a good night, these dudes were preying to gang up on me and attack me.. and I was visiting one of the dudes birthday and they didnt like how I pulled up in a new car that I worked 3 years for.. There scums of the earth thats right, avoid these people everyone you will save yourself so much time and energy. They took on a very negative energy as of recently and are affiliated with Satan.. thats what the energy I picked up on was when I went there that night.. No love was there just hate and animosity towards everything I stand for and fight for on a daily basis, my positivity, character, godliness, humbleness, kindness.
@@angelaslaton3211 wise words angela, I will continue to pray even though it gets hard sometimes to know these people are all around us with different agendas and ways of attacking people..
And one more thing..just because you continue to get clear of these dark entities, does not mean they won't keep coming at you. In the last many years, everywhere I am, these things keep showing up.
I hear you , as soon as you start pushing forward and pursuing your goals here they come on cue in their clown mobiles to stir things up ...it's very frustrating !
I totally laugh at these type of ppl , knowing I know deep with in these type of ppl can never make me feel other then how I feel about my self Period, keep shining brother
When I use to hit the gym religiously i would have people randomly come to tell me everything i was doing was wrong. But i guess having 4% body fat and doing sets of 300 lb weighted dips showed me the truth.
@@ianellicuellar16 You do not have to persuade another to something beneficial for him ! It is an evil in him , whose weakness, obliges you to say more than yes or no .
TBH, if I had 1 wish assured to be granted, it would be All narcissist disappear and this world never had another. Because it seems Every manner of evil, war, crime, greed, destruction and haterad on Earth seems to Always have a narcissist right there at the top leading the evil. It's the biggest elephant in the room that everyone sees on both an awoken or an unconscious level but nobody talks about as being the true source of the problem with the world today.
Agreed !!!! And the destruction they are causing to the planet as a whole as well is truly heartbreaking 💔 having psychopath CEOS in corporations that only care about profits will be our demise
It's demonic possession. .... spiritual warfare. God warns us of this throughout the bible. We have to protect ourselves through prayer. Narcs will keep deceiving one another, but God will protect. We are becoming more aware of their tactics. Stay prayed up! It's only gonna get worse for the entire world. These are the beginnings of sorrows.
In Sweden we have something called The law of Jante. It's not a real law, but most people obey the "law" anyway. It means that you shall not be better than someone else, don't even THINK that you are better. That is how you should be around a narc. Stay low and pretend to be noone.
All this exact stuff happened to me today from my ex narc husband. This message was so timely. I know his game and am onto it, but its awesome when you come on and speak my whole dang relationship!
5:47 100% brother- they're jealous of our gifts from the Most High and that's why they try to get us through our feelings. Another platinum video, keep killin' it 👍👏👏🔥🔥 😇
Terry's a hot topic in those tight shirts! Not the requested tank, but close enough. (I admire braun and brains!) Appreciate all you do, stay strong - all over!
The bible says at the end of time, during the last war of good and evil, Satan will gather his armies to fight against God, and the number of them will be as the sand of the sea! That's alot of people in hell. Narcs are demon possessed. It's a spiritual warfare. PRAY! Constantly!
I know someone like this. I must say after watch some of your videos about a narcissist YOU SPOT ON. I pray that more see this video so that they can know how to deal with these narcissist individual. Not only I find that a narcissist individual they lie for everything even they have no reason to lie. For example they would even lie about the weather. God bless you keep these videos coming 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Trial and error is good for the mind. You have a beautiful mind. That's more important than muscles. Although staying fit is good for your own mind. I'm 245 pounds and need to work on my core strength again. Doobie Brothers- What a fool believes 🤣 song 🎵❤
I lost my way in my last relationship and nobody realizes that lying can do that to you. I am ashamed I never trusted my intuition and got out, instead I was gaslighted. I questioned my own discernment and constantly gave the benefit of the doubt. Once I realized I wasn’t crazy, and everything clicked, I was angry. I was so angry. Now, that one moment is what the world knows me by. It’s like that one moment encapsulates who I am and is the highlight of my smear campaign. It’s like the highlight of my life. It is what it is I guess.
You can overcome that by living an amazing life despite what they attempted to do to you , keep it is a lesson , learn from it and become smarter , wiser and more resiliant , this makes you stronger and more capable of preventing future falls from being gaslit by these nutty narcs , you got this ! 💜
@Augusta Mae yup , wishing them happiness after choosing to leave , even though we mean it and are sincere about it is a huge narc injury to them and they hate us for it ...we think we are doing the right things and nit realizing that now they are plotting our demise and working on a smear campaign of hatred , it's scary once you finally realize that all your kindness has been misinterpreted and is used against you , we don't think like this so we never see it coming until we get gut punched by it ...it's so twisted and toxic ...hugs to you ...FB is a breeding ground of toxicity and programming and narcs narcing it up haha ..one of the healthiest things I've done is delete my account and focus on what I want for my life 💜
@Augusta Mae hahaha that's awesome! I got security cameras too ! These clowns know no boundaries ! I was hurt , angry and ashamed too ...couldn't believe I fell prey to the manipulation !! I was mostly upset with my own self and questioning how I could have allowed this to happen ! My intuition is usually on point but then you realize you did see the red flags but chose to overlook them specifically because you were being gaslit and love bombed into believing a false reality , that combined with a positivity mindset that sees people's greatest potentials and our huge hearts leads us astray and allows us to follow blindly into the trap they set up for us , we need to stop beating ourselves up about it and realize how far we have come with the new knowledge we now have thanks mostly in part to all the youtubers speaking up about it 💜 ohhh yeah the fakeness of FB is pathetic tbh ...I tried being an open , authentic person on there and all it brought me was more narcs testing and provoking .. watching fake people who you know in real life lying and gaslighting everyone with their happy , fake ass stories and bs , others who are indifferent and uncaring who just use it to spy and stalk people and pf course the narcs ...there are also genuinely amazing people on there but they are few and get burnt out by it all ...the fake lips , fake everything, the fake happy life when you know the couple and they were just arguing and telling each other off horribly the day before...its too much ! 😅
Confusion does not come from God. It is the mission of dark people to make people feel unhinged. The dark people are everywhere. The Bible says to stay away from them. When Jesus ascended into Heaven, after He was crucified for our sins, He, (God), gave us His, Holy Spirit, to keep inside of us to help us. The Father, Son and Holy Spirit, are The Three in One. Praise God! Cry out to Father! Cry out to Him when you need anything! He will hear you and He will never leave you.
I attended a funeral service yesterday and there were gang-stalkers (older ladies and kids) surrounding me that day. The audacity of these wicked people to behave like they do is totally insane!
Quite very true brotha terry, watched videos amongst us starseeds and this is what I’m currently still going through..They’re in fact so bound to making another person feel terrible horrible they completely lost sense to reality! It be your own people (parents,friends,family) which is sad cause they know I have a much higher calling that still awaits me as I’m patiently waiting to get out of this remedy loophole the most I can since I also got everything took from me only for me to come back better than ever.!
Dont wanna be better than others, will stand up when deeply believe, when others dont. My work out is at home. When the car is skolding hot. Roll down the windows on the other side, then take either the one door or both, grab the handlea, flap away, back n forth. It forces the old smelly hot air out of the car. It really works, it also helps build muscles in the arms. Win- win
Havent been able to sleep, to much on the mind. I'll grab a cup of coffee, either hear something new, or something I've been thru, still going thru, not sure who to reach out too. Need investigators,
Absolutely this world is filled full of narcissists. Total Narc city indeed sadly! Too true 💯💯🎯🎯!!! 🙌🙌🔥❤️ Omgg this is exactly what my sociopathic OCD super controlling narcissistic mother did to me!! She said I assaulted her when I have never, she’s the only one who has put her hands on me and then had her narcissistic enablers and flying monkeys attack me as well. My mother turned everyone else in my immediate family against me by barring and isolating me by making me look so bad and the problem when she is the problem! Ya my mother is a bully has punked up on me and she thinks she’s so invincible and powerful it’s sad, she’s mad I grew up and lost control over me. She’s so angry, violent and rageful.
Even 3,000 miles away from where I grew up, I caught my sister gossiping to a leasing office where I lived about my drug and alcohol use. My narcissistic mom lied for my sister and claimed that it was the leasing office who started that conversation when I know it was the other way around. I might be a scapegoat but I'm sure glad to be far far away from those people of so-called family of origin
My family of origin were recently attacking me. They hacked my phone and I don't talk to them anymore. I went through what you went through and for what it's worth, there was always a discomfort in dealing with the siblings and I'm glad now that I have an excuse to go no contact finally. Family is overrated and I would certainly not want to be one of those codependent on family drama queen bitches
@@AZDC99 Ya that’s crazy! I hear you girly it’s insane. They try to make us look horrible when they are the terrible ones. I’ve been the scapegoat of my toxic dysfunctional family as well. It’s so awful and such a sad situation!
Yesss, I’ve been going no contact for 9 months now with both my parents who are divorced and are so toxic and remarried to toxic individuals as well. I’ve been going to therapy healing here on my spiritual journey after seeing nothing will change or be different with these messed up people that are suppose to be unconditionally loving but aren’t.
@@alexandriascott4656 I have the insurance and its time for me to do what you're doing and go to therapy with a shrink. Thanks for reminding me one last step I need to remedy this situation perhaps....PS..I might have long hair, but I am not very "girly," ha ha
ALL OF THIS.....great video.... for me, IT didn't gaslight me into being a bad person....it gaslighted me into behaving badly. REACTIVE ABUSE is, in my opinion the worse thing they do and they take pleasure from it. the more negative the reaction the better. this happened so many times to me and it is messed up. I have a mental encyclopedia of all the BS.... and when I started to not respond..."are you deaf?!?! why aren't you answering me?!?!?' they manufacture the negative reactions for only one reason....to feed off. vampires. these subhumans are pure evil...make no mistake. give them nothing. walk out the friggin door. I made a course correction and got the fu*k out.....severed it.
So glad you reminded me of that phrase/word "reactive abuse." It really is a thing! It's a sneaky thing to where you realize after the fact that they were playing satanic chess against you. (In other words, what seemed to be a spontaneous disagreement was all premeditated so that you would look bad and react and be the bad guy.) So I just let them and a little fan club celebrate their false victory. Because I don't really care what they think that much anymore.
Yes its giving them supply when you react, thats what they want. I hate it when i do it, but ye we not perfect. Your right they cant overcome being narcs purely because their narcs. Im learning to instead of being a narc magnet, im gonna be a narc repellent. Il live happily ever after, even through the tough times life is bound to throw at me. Sleep time. God bless.
Thanks for being a godsend Terry Joel your reward will be great in The book of Life your name's written for sure so stay woke and get ready for miracles bro you're a good f****** person so you deserve to be blessed
Hey could you make a video if you’ve had this experience, when the narcissist tries to tag team you . They will put another abusive person on a pedestal in front of you and put you down and raise up the other person giving you the other persons bad traits
I totally understand my x husband who use to b the top dog of a oil company flew every month across the world he started to dog me then it got worse so I divorced him I unfortunately turned to doing drugs n he made fun of me really bad posting it on facebook horrible horrible things he pulled guns out on me n even set me up n I ended up going to prison for 6 months when I got out he wud tag team the kids against me the day I got out I got out because I was guna die there they released me on an emergency medical release upon release I had immediate surgery I had to call friends the day of release because he wouldn't give me my insurance card to pay for surgery so my friends got together n paid it cash I had to parole to a friend's house when I got out of surgery that next day I had to hitchhike over 300 miles cause he wouldn't help me mind u we had 6 vehicles well I got home he sold all my things gs not a sock to wear I sat in my home no water gas or electricity in a beautiful new empty house that he had stripped of all my belongings n furniture they got here ( him n my two sweet kids) n by my horror started dogging me tapping each other as if to give the next one the opportunity to put medown after all the name calling the slandering naming fun of me he said let's go eat I was so very hungry I hadn't eaten into days so they go to his truck I ran not my purse I was so ready to eat I was so so hungry so I raN outside jumped in the truck he turned n said ...what r u doing...isaid I thought we were guna go n eat he said I'm not feeding u I said but frank so hungry please there's no food he said no I said can u just buy a 99 cent burger please I'll pay u back he said no n started laughing it still makes me cry today this wS like 13 years ago it hurt my sonso bad that his dad wud deny me food so I getoff ncome inside then my son comes in the dark house n says with tears in his eyes mom come on but I didn't I just stayed nursed myself to sleep theydidnt care they left me. My kids were beautiful loving kids when I left I came home 6 mo the later he had bought their love n turned them against me I still don't talk to my daughter she hates me my son turned against his dad n is now seeing the truth nhes with me as far as my x well u know karma is a bitch he continued his abuse as he climbed higher n higher in his job then for five years riedto myomsaying mom when will God defend me one day I noticed he wasn't coming no more to catch his flight to Argentina I live in Houston so I called his sister who loves me dearly n he was all strung out on the exact same drug he had fronted me out onto I media n had lost his job he unfortunately lost his job bought three homes with our retirement t got a horrible parasite in Argentina that made him his host was eating him Alive but he finally got it out n nowis homeless barely eats n lives in the streetsas I sit in mybeautiful home granted my furniture is from goodwill n donations he took all my antiques n fine furniture that I bought while I worked 13 yrsat the first unitedmethodist church n I only owe 5000 on it now I'm stillgangstalked especially bythe local picewho flow me constantly with their drones but I'm ok I'm sad for him but it's not my problem u need to keep trying its hard but u can make it b strong
Cant tell you what finding you has done to help me. Ive been gangstalked & lost everyone & everything. I thought was recovering from the narc relationship from 2 years ago but ive just seen him & it really fucked me up, I almost ran out of the shop and drove off & nearly crashed into another car. This trigger is too big. How do we cope when it all comes flooding back in our faces? Thank you fo much Terry, before you, I started to think I was the only person in the world all this happens to. You sees so strong, do you ever have a breakdown or do things catch you off guard. I have no fear, I cant be manipulated but that just got me.
Don't feel bad or beat yourself up about slipping, Terry. It's about progress not perfection, to use a saying. Let them beat themselves up for not being perfect, like their delusions tell them that they are
Kinda a gift to recognize a narcissist on first meet. I realize more after this TH-cam Vid I had married one in past tense. Great Content btw as Always 👍
I didn't say that 🙄 thats their favourite words ,i think they were put here to test us along our journey, its up to us to figure it out and take lessons from them
Idk why...its like they just keep poking you and poking til when you get out of character and turn to this evil person as they wanted...they will scatter...so I'm like next time...they ain't gonna do it again...they just jokes...since I watch this...I see what my mistakes...I shouldn't let them get to me And the thing is I live across the street from these people...smh
Hey a big percentage of people that are in jail are victims of narcissist people they pushed thier buttons, they break, they do something that gets them in trouble,they winde up in jail, and guess what the narcissist, sits back and laughs at them,i wouldn't be surprised if they even throw a party.thats thier goal for you to break,
That's very true. They try to warp you into a bad character, even when you've been a good person most of your life.
Yup 💯
Conditioning the victim..... like when we were children.
Then we woke up.
They always devalue everything and anybody
They always devalue everything and anybody
So true.
Our precence frustrates their demons! For the One inside of us is STRONGER than the one in this world!💯💫
So true
Exactly!
Amen!!
The narcissist tells you YOUR the narcissist! Gaslight till you flip then tell you your the bad man, it is pure insanity.
omg i went through this exact thing. it wasn’t until i researched what a narcissist actually is and it sounded like him. i found out he did everything he accused me of behind my back. and i felt so crazy afterwards
'Everything is vanity.' **King Solomon**
Except faith in our Heavenly Father ❤️❤️
Indeed
PAY ATTENTION TO "RED FLAGS" AND TRUST "YOUR" INNER BEING🙏😇🕊💜
When they do that always keep in mind they’re trying to throw you off. Cut em off you’ll get through it .
yeh, disorient, confuse, knit pick...oh, i know
what if its my mom who does all this, nitpicking and gaslighting, and trying to get me to explode by saying cruel things to me, then call me mentally ill.. my mom is a crazymaker
@@gdust6579 man it’s a tough spot love her always that’s you’re #1 always. From experience let her know respectfully & bluntly your a young man ( in case ur young ) or you’re not a kid stand firm . Even put her if you are grown to the side till she respects that.
Know this, they will respect you when you leave, but will never respect you when you stay.
Either way they will never truly love you enough to change!
"It does nothing for you to engage in anything this stupid" Yep. Strength is not engaging with another's irrationally. After you discern the deeper tick of what it is.
Know another's personality disorder is not your problem. No matter who. You will get nowhere fast except to your own demise.
Well stated and absolute truth Brad.👍
Majority of the world is narcissist that’s why I avoid ppl with large friend groups. Atleast a few ppl in that friend group are 100% narcissist 💯
If you are reading this
I would like to let you know
You are on the right path and well guided.
You will be blessed with health and wealth and only good comes your way!
~ Much love from a Law Of Attraction TH-camr💜
Thank you
Thank You & God Bless you.
Stoicism is the ultimate cure for dealing with people. As a practicing stoic I know that I cannot control what people say or do. The only thing I can control is my own thoughts and perceptions. I do not care what anyone thinks or does in this life.
Only during being around certain people, right?
@@guyss6611 what good would it be to practice selective stoicism
My best trick is to play them back same way they do.
Matthew 12:25/26
And Jesus knew their thoughts, and said unto them, Every kingdom divided against itself is brought to desolation; and every city or house divided against itself shall not stand:
26 And if Satan cast out Satan, he is divided against himself; how shall then his kingdom stand?
They would provoke you to prove you are not a coward, man enough, woman enough..nothing to prove to them.
Because they are jellouse of you and can't stand seeing you happy!
The narc has no affect on me, they are weak if you think about it because they have no self respect for them selves. I've learned to forgive them and let God handle them for me.
The narcissist's gossip and slander of you is only projection.....the faults that they tell everyone that YOU have is usually the faults they possess....witnessed this INSANITY firsthand.....it is hurtful when you are in the trenches with this demon and his enablers, but once you are OUT you realize these fools don't matter nor do they contribute anything to your life. When you find someone that respects and loves you, you will look back at this like a bad dream. Stay strong everyone!🤗
Possessed by lizards!!!
Lmfao I crack the hell up why cause they are super predictable 🙏💙😂
Many snakes and other predators will become docile or passive if they know you are the 'bigger predator' Narcissist are the same, they respect their own or at least will not attack until they see a vulnerability appear. It's a dangerous lose-lose game though if you're a healthy or empathetic person, don't try and win with a calculating narcissist, they're already 10 steps ahead I can assure you, grey rock it or Leave their presents permanently is always best. Much luck and strength to everyone who needs it now🙏
@Worships Cats same so eff up man
@Worships Cats im the family scapegoat too. my mom.and aunt joined league to verbally tear me down. my dad also bullies me. my brother is severely disabled and a drug addict now. they buy his drugs :(
This shit happened to me last night I was laughing in my head 🤣💯
I've trolled the shite out of my narc landlord. Lol. I've really Got him many times. If I was a guy he Never would have bothered me. Men don't have to pay all their rent or a/C charges here. Hes a Supreme coward BIG MAN and I've told him many times. He's met his match
Reactive abuse!
Most toxic people are very petty. They will find a piece of lint on your floor and say you don't take care of your house. Lol It is best to keep your distance from them. Don't give them any energy.
Amen demons from hell
Truth!
Truth
If you go up against a narc boss, no matter how ridiculous their actuations, start preparing immediately, in private, for the loss of that job. You may not know the timing, but they will take you out.
Just keep true to yourself and never lie even if it hurts. You will come out on top.
a narc supervisor s3xually harassed me then flirted with a guy and told rumors about me at my job at walgreens warehouse. they let him work there for decades but walgreens kept firing me
"I'm stronger than you"
Respond with "Yeah, sure...why not?"
They want Negativ Emotion Energetic Charge from you,and will try to provoke it constantly
Whenever one of my family narcs tries to do anything demonic I just repeat “you need to repent, you chose the wrong side kiddo, better you than me Repent the Kingdom of heaven is Near “ and watch how bad that torches their whole persona. This is a spiritual war
You literally just explained a girl who befriended me a cpl weeks ago. She came in innocently wanting Spiritual advice. Then all her conversations turned the focus to her ex-boyfriend who she described as a narc😳. She drained my energy & i began to feel dark. She sought constant attention & praise from me. I told her she had a soul tie with her x from having sex with him... Even after she told me he didn't take care of his kids, on drugs, &,no good family connections. She was a hot mess! A manipulating grown cry baby who bragged & complained. Attention seeking to the max! The minute I stopped stroking her ego & pulled back .. She began projecting blame😳. I blocked her!
Demon
I found if you start witnessing to them hard core, they run for the hills 95% of the time.
I complain a lot too cause all the oppression from bullies in my life is tearing me down. i wouldnt say that friend is a narc imho. sounds like a troubled person
she needs deliverance and salvation💯she's a victim caught up with a narc💔💔💔
Dont wanna be better, wanna do my best ,that I'm able to do.
An easy example of this is the story of the old man.
One day an old man was driving down the road in his old pick up truck and met this seemly nice young couple.
They looked in bad shape and down on their luck, so he invited them over to his house, so they could get back on their feet.
At first, they stayed a week, then 1 week turned to 2, then 3 turned into 4, etc, etc.
The old man shared everything he had with them.
His house, his food, his money. He was very kind to them.
Then it happened.
One dark night they just up and left, taking everything they could pack ( including the tv) into his truck. And then they drove off.
Well, the old man needed that truck in order to get to work.
Now, he had no way to get there.
And he could not walk, as the town was miles and miles away.
Soon, he lost his job, then house, then money.
He became a hobo in the town because he had no other family, and walked around with a grocery cart.
1 year later, he came across the couple again. This time they were sporting expensive clothes and driving an expensive sports car.
He begged them to help him and return the kindness he once showed them, but they said "no. Ew gross. Get away from us hobo" and then called over a nearby officer, who escorted the old man away and apologized to the rich couple for the harassment.
The old man ended up dying in a back alley on a cold night, alone.
Some say he may have had a cat with him, but who knows.
The end
I notice this especially happening when I play sports. Instead of trying to be better at the sport and focus on getting better themselves they just act like a sore loser or say u cheated or something. They don’t know hard work when it’s right on their face
Happened to me today.. totally almost lost my mind, punching stuff because of lies. I had to pray alot lately, like everyday now. I'mma still stand strong.
It's like they try to project that you are the narcissist in your mind. Misery loves company
They never learn and they never change.
Never engage if you can help it.
Just cutting off a narc and saying good bye is a literally argument for them. When your just trying to draw a line in the sand
they can spin a question in many different ways, and if you answer just slightly the second time because it is in a different context. then they'll catch you with it. that's truly mindfuckery
They literally sit around and practice second order thinking abt what you gone say then what they gone say 🤮 no self focused just all day worried abt somebody else and how to control what they gone say or think if u say or do this or that… just sad
@@YoungNationWorld yeah they dont got no purpose
Very true 💯🙏🏽 been through it all
Bro you’ve been helping me so much, I had like a realization that these people are all around me, they fight for superiority, some of them are so prideful and arrogant.. One time I even got attacked by 3 of these demons and they tried to expose me and make me out to be the worst person when them attacking me made them look bad.. im chosen so I was positive and said have a good night, these dudes were preying to gang up on me and attack me.. and I was visiting one of the dudes birthday and they didnt like how I pulled up in a new car that I worked 3 years for.. There scums of the earth thats right, avoid these people everyone you will save yourself so much time and energy. They took on a very negative energy as of recently and are affiliated with Satan.. thats what the energy I picked up on was when I went there that night.. No love was there just hate and animosity towards everything I stand for and fight for on a daily basis, my positivity, character, godliness, humbleness, kindness.
Pray for God's protection! They are demons in the flesh .... literally. God warns us , that this is a spiritual battle. Stay prayed up!
@@angelaslaton3211 wise words angela, I will continue to pray even though it gets hard sometimes to know these people are all around us with different agendas and ways of attacking people..
2 flying monkeys upstairs vandalize my car and call cops on me weekly. Finally the cops caught on!!
And one more thing..just because you continue to get clear of these dark entities, does not mean they won't keep coming at you. In the last many years, everywhere I am, these things keep showing up.
I hear you , as soon as you start pushing forward and pursuing your goals here they come on cue in their clown mobiles to stir things up ...it's very frustrating !
@@heartofgold952 Clown mobiles l😆🤣
@@angierussell8343 😅🤣
Due to those people you described at the gym I can't get a decent workout because they are constantly hating.
🏆 That’s a fact Terry!!! 💯
The gaslighting is ASStronomical with these beasts!!
I totally laugh at these type of ppl , knowing I know deep with in these type of ppl can never make me feel other then how I feel about my self Period, keep shining brother
Great advice !!! And all so TRUE ! disengage from the toxicity ✂️ cut the ties and be free 🦅
When I use to hit the gym religiously i would have people randomly come to tell me everything i was doing was wrong. But i guess having 4% body fat and doing sets of 300 lb weighted dips showed me the truth.
Jesus said, “Let your communication be, Yea, yea; Nay, nay: for whatsoever is more than these cometh of evil “
What does that mean ? Can you explain this verse ?
@@ianellicuellar16 You do not have to persuade another to something beneficial for him ! It is an evil in him , whose weakness, obliges you to say more than yes or no .
Needed to hear this. They are bottom feeders. Thank you
TBH, if I had 1 wish assured to be granted, it would be All narcissist disappear and this world never had another. Because it seems Every manner of evil, war, crime, greed, destruction and haterad on Earth seems to Always have a narcissist right there at the top leading the evil. It's the biggest elephant in the room that everyone sees on both an awoken or an unconscious level but nobody talks about as being the true source of the problem with the world today.
Agreed !!!! And the destruction they are causing to the planet as a whole as well is truly heartbreaking 💔 having psychopath CEOS in corporations that only care about profits will be our demise
It's demonic possession. .... spiritual warfare. God warns us of this throughout the bible. We have to protect ourselves through prayer. Narcs will keep deceiving one another, but God will protect. We are becoming more aware of their tactics. Stay prayed up! It's only gonna get worse for the entire world. These are the beginnings of sorrows.
Mind games and manipulation come first before the gaslighting and calling you crazy when you react.
Just say "okay" and then go about your business. That really gets them all worked up the way they wanted you to get.
In Sweden we have something called The law of Jante. It's not a real law, but most people obey the "law" anyway. It means that you shall not be better than someone else, don't even THINK that you are better. That is how you should be around a narc. Stay low and pretend to be noone.
All this exact stuff happened to me today from my ex narc husband. This message was so timely. I know his game and am onto it, but its awesome when you come on and speak my whole dang relationship!
There doing it to me big time so I'm exposing them big time.
If there was one thing they accomplished it was this no doubt about it. They did convince me that I was the most evil person on the planet.
Lol this is scary accurate I’ve experienced the things u talk about personally fml
All they do is only for show but are empty vessels underneath.
5:47 100% brother- they're jealous of our gifts from the Most High and that's why they try to get us through our feelings. Another platinum video, keep killin' it 👍👏👏🔥🔥 😇
i am ready to let him rot for real
In every city there's fools to pity!!! We need to avoid these narcissism at all costs. Thankyou for the video.
You have to be kind and considerate at all times. Its a complete double standard and they are haughty and offended if you don't accept that.
Oh. Love your work. The gym, yep! You know how we do it. Blessings in abundance to you in the name of Jesus!
Terry's a hot topic in those tight shirts! Not the requested tank, but close enough. (I admire braun and brains!) Appreciate all you do, stay strong - all over!
I have been taught how ugly they are.
Paper tigers.....
I needed this man, I’m getting gaslighted right now, as a man it’s hard to ignore a big fat round 🍑 your videos keep me focused on the truth
🤣🤣🤣
LOLLLL atleast you’re honest.
Why are these people so common! Smh praying for a great, enlightened, wise,man of God
The bible says at the end of time, during the last war of good and evil, Satan will gather his armies to fight against God, and the number of them will be as the sand of the sea! That's alot of people in hell. Narcs are demon possessed. It's a spiritual warfare. PRAY! Constantly!
I know someone like this. I must say after watch some of your videos about a narcissist YOU SPOT ON. I pray that more see this video so that they can know how to deal with these narcissist individual. Not only I find that a narcissist individual they lie for everything even they have no reason to lie. For example they would even lie about the weather. God bless you keep these videos coming 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Trial and error is good for the mind. You have a beautiful mind. That's more important than muscles. Although staying fit is good for your own mind. I'm 245 pounds and need to work on my core strength again. Doobie Brothers- What a fool believes 🤣 song 🎵❤
I lost my way in my last relationship and nobody realizes that lying can do that to you. I am ashamed I never trusted my intuition and got out, instead I was gaslighted. I questioned my own discernment and constantly gave the benefit of the doubt. Once I realized I wasn’t crazy, and everything clicked, I was angry. I was so angry. Now, that one moment is what the world knows me by. It’s like that one moment encapsulates who I am and is the highlight of my smear campaign. It’s like the highlight of my life. It is what it is I guess.
You can overcome that by living an amazing life despite what they attempted to do to you , keep it is a lesson , learn from it and become smarter , wiser and more resiliant , this makes you stronger and more capable of preventing future falls from being gaslit by these nutty narcs , you got this ! 💜
@Augusta Mae yup , wishing them happiness after choosing to leave , even though we mean it and are sincere about it is a huge narc injury to them and they hate us for it ...we think we are doing the right things and nit realizing that now they are plotting our demise and working on a smear campaign of hatred , it's scary once you finally realize that all your kindness has been misinterpreted and is used against you , we don't think like this so we never see it coming until we get gut punched by it ...it's so twisted and toxic ...hugs to you ...FB is a breeding ground of toxicity and programming and narcs narcing it up haha ..one of the healthiest things I've done is delete my account and focus on what I want for my life 💜
@Augusta Mae hahaha that's awesome! I got security cameras too ! These clowns know no boundaries ! I was hurt , angry and ashamed too ...couldn't believe I fell prey to the manipulation !! I was mostly upset with my own self and questioning how I could have allowed this to happen ! My intuition is usually on point but then you realize you did see the red flags but chose to overlook them specifically because you were being gaslit and love bombed into believing a false reality , that combined with a positivity mindset that sees people's greatest potentials and our huge hearts leads us astray and allows us to follow blindly into the trap they set up for us , we need to stop beating ourselves up about it and realize how far we have come with the new knowledge we now have thanks mostly in part to all the youtubers speaking up about it 💜 ohhh yeah the fakeness of FB is pathetic tbh ...I tried being an open , authentic person on there and all it brought me was more narcs testing and provoking .. watching fake people who you know in real life lying and gaslighting everyone with their happy , fake ass stories and bs , others who are indifferent and uncaring who just use it to spy and stalk people and pf course the narcs ...there are also genuinely amazing people on there but they are few and get burnt out by it all ...the fake lips , fake everything, the fake happy life when you know the couple and they were just arguing and telling each other off horribly the day before...its too much ! 😅
I hope you keep your mental strengthened and I hope you don’t let this world corrupt you bro ❤️ much love and respect your way , rising above it all
for sure my man, the nasty world ain't strong enough to take this fella down!
@@terryjoeljunior Amen!
I just realized this channel is for out going people with "friends". I don't go outside nor do I have friends.
I hope and pray for a good friend that I could be a good friend to also.
Loneliness hurts.
Confusion does not come from God. It is the mission of dark people to make people feel unhinged. The dark people are everywhere. The Bible says to stay away from them. When Jesus ascended into Heaven, after He was crucified for our sins, He, (God), gave us His, Holy Spirit, to keep inside of us to help us. The Father, Son and Holy Spirit, are The Three in One. Praise God! Cry out to Father! Cry out to Him when you need anything! He will hear you and He will never leave you.
Amen 🙏🏼💖
Amen
Amen
I attended a funeral service yesterday and there were gang-stalkers (older ladies and kids) surrounding me that day. The audacity of these wicked people to behave like they do is totally insane!
Quite very true brotha terry, watched videos amongst us starseeds and this is what I’m currently still going through..They’re in fact so bound to making another person feel terrible horrible they completely lost sense to reality! It be your own people (parents,friends,family) which is sad cause they know I have a much higher calling that still awaits me as I’m patiently waiting to get out of this remedy loophole the most I can since I also got everything took from me only for me to come back better than ever.!
Dont wanna be better than others, will stand up when deeply believe, when others dont. My work out is at home. When the car is skolding hot. Roll down the windows on the other side, then take either the one door or both, grab the handlea, flap away, back n forth. It forces the old smelly hot air out of the car. It really works, it also helps build muscles in the arms. Win- win
God bless you, sweetheart. 😁👍♥️
Havent been able to sleep, to much on the mind. I'll grab a cup of coffee, either hear something new, or something I've been thru, still going thru, not sure who to reach out too. Need investigators,
Reach out to Jesus. 😊
Absolutely this world is filled full of narcissists. Total Narc city indeed sadly! Too true 💯💯🎯🎯!!! 🙌🙌🔥❤️ Omgg this is exactly what my sociopathic OCD super controlling narcissistic mother did to me!! She said I assaulted her when I have never, she’s the only one who has put her hands on me and then had her narcissistic enablers and flying monkeys attack me as well. My mother turned everyone else in my immediate family against me by barring and isolating me by making me look so bad and the problem when she is the problem! Ya my mother is a bully has punked up on me and she thinks she’s so invincible and powerful it’s sad, she’s mad I grew up and lost control over me. She’s so angry, violent and rageful.
Even 3,000 miles away from where I grew up, I caught my sister gossiping to a leasing office where I lived about my drug and alcohol use. My narcissistic mom lied for my sister and claimed that it was the leasing office who started that conversation when I know it was the other way around. I might be a scapegoat but I'm sure glad to be far far away from those people of so-called family of origin
My family of origin were recently attacking me. They hacked my phone and I don't talk to them anymore. I went through what you went through and for what it's worth, there was always a discomfort in dealing with the siblings and I'm glad now that I have an excuse to go no contact finally. Family is overrated and I would certainly not want to be one of those codependent on family drama queen bitches
@@AZDC99 Ya that’s crazy! I hear you girly it’s insane. They try to make us look horrible when they are the terrible ones. I’ve been the scapegoat of my toxic dysfunctional family as well. It’s so awful and such a sad situation!
Yesss, I’ve been going no contact for 9 months now with both my parents who are divorced and are so toxic and remarried to toxic individuals as well. I’ve been going to therapy healing here on my spiritual journey after seeing nothing will change or be different with these messed up people that are suppose to be unconditionally loving but aren’t.
@@alexandriascott4656 I have the insurance and its time for me to do what you're doing and go to therapy with a shrink. Thanks for reminding me one last step I need to remedy this situation perhaps....PS..I might have long hair, but I am not very "girly," ha ha
I'm taking a leap, any way we could talk? Possibly teach me how to build the wall, with indicators that smells BS in someone. ( that's a joke)
ALL OF THIS.....great video....
for me, IT didn't gaslight me into being a bad person....it gaslighted me into behaving badly.
REACTIVE ABUSE is, in my opinion the worse thing they do and they take pleasure from it. the more negative the reaction the better.
this happened so many times to me and it is messed up. I have a mental encyclopedia of all the BS....
and when I started to not respond..."are you deaf?!?! why aren't you answering me?!?!?'
they manufacture the negative reactions for only one reason....to feed off.
vampires.
these subhumans are pure evil...make no mistake.
give them nothing. walk out the friggin door.
I made a course correction and got the fu*k out.....severed it.
So glad you reminded me of that phrase/word "reactive abuse." It really is a thing! It's a sneaky thing to where you realize after the fact that they were playing satanic chess against you. (In other words, what seemed to be a spontaneous disagreement was all premeditated so that you would look bad and react and be the bad guy.) So I just let them and a little fan club celebrate their false victory. Because I don't really care what they think that much anymore.
@@AZDC99 yes, totally intentional / calculated
Yes its giving them supply when you react, thats what they want. I hate it when i do it, but ye we not perfect. Your right they cant overcome being narcs purely because their narcs. Im learning to instead of being a narc magnet, im gonna be a narc repellent. Il live happily ever after, even through the tough times life is bound to throw at me. Sleep time. God bless.
I wish they sold narc repellent at the stores! I would soak myself down in it hunny! Been attracting narcs since birth!✌️
@@angelaslaton3211 Lol i can picture that. Spray 3 times a day and before bed for extra protection. Lol
Narcs aka YOU make ME look good 😂🙈
Thanks for being a godsend Terry Joel your reward will be great in The book of Life your name's written for sure so stay woke and get ready for miracles bro you're a good f****** person so you deserve to be blessed
Hey could you make a video if you’ve had this experience, when the narcissist tries to tag team you . They will put another abusive person on a pedestal in front of you and put you down and raise up the other person giving you the other persons bad traits
I totally understand my x husband who use to b the top dog of a oil company flew every month across the world he started to dog me then it got worse so I divorced him I unfortunately turned to doing drugs n he made fun of me really bad posting it on facebook horrible horrible things he pulled guns out on me n even set me up n I ended up going to prison for 6 months when I got out he wud tag team the kids against me the day I got out I got out because I was guna die there they released me on an emergency medical release upon release I had immediate surgery I had to call friends the day of release because he wouldn't give me my insurance card to pay for surgery so my friends got together n paid it cash I had to parole to a friend's house when I got out of surgery that next day I had to hitchhike over 300 miles cause he wouldn't help me mind u we had 6 vehicles well I got home he sold all my things gs not a sock to wear I sat in my home no water gas or electricity in a beautiful new empty house that he had stripped of all my belongings n furniture they got here ( him n my two sweet kids) n by my horror started dogging me tapping each other as if to give the next one the opportunity to put medown after all the name calling the slandering naming fun of me he said let's go eat I was so very hungry I hadn't eaten into days so they go to his truck I ran not my purse I was so ready to eat I was so so hungry so I raN outside jumped in the truck he turned n said ...what r u doing...isaid I thought we were guna go n eat he said I'm not feeding u I said but frank so hungry please there's no food he said no I said can u just buy a 99 cent burger please I'll pay u back he said no n started laughing it still makes me cry today this wS like 13 years ago it hurt my sonso bad that his dad wud deny me food so I getoff ncome inside then my son comes in the dark house n says with tears in his eyes mom come on but I didn't I just stayed nursed myself to sleep theydidnt care they left me. My kids were beautiful loving kids when I left I came home 6 mo the later he had bought their love n turned them against me I still don't talk to my daughter she hates me my son turned against his dad n is now seeing the truth nhes with me as far as my x well u know karma is a bitch he continued his abuse as he climbed higher n higher in his job then for five years riedto myomsaying mom when will God defend me one day I noticed he wasn't coming no more to catch his flight to Argentina I live in Houston so I called his sister who loves me dearly n he was all strung out on the exact same drug he had fronted me out onto I media n had lost his job he unfortunately lost his job bought three homes with our retirement t got a horrible parasite in Argentina that made him his host was eating him Alive but he finally got it out n nowis homeless barely eats n lives in the streetsas I sit in mybeautiful home granted my furniture is from goodwill n donations he took all my antiques n fine furniture that I bought while I worked 13 yrsat the first unitedmethodist church n I only owe 5000 on it now I'm stillgangstalked especially bythe local picewho flow me constantly with their drones but I'm ok I'm sad for him but it's not my problem u need to keep trying its hard but u can make it b strong
Amen, brother.
That’s exactly what I’m dealing with currently
It’s nothing nice and no regard for anyone.
Cant tell you what finding you has done to help me. Ive been gangstalked & lost everyone & everything. I thought was recovering from the narc relationship from 2 years ago but ive just seen him & it really fucked me up, I almost ran out of the shop and drove off & nearly crashed into another car. This trigger is too big. How do we cope when it all comes flooding back in our faces? Thank you fo much Terry, before you, I started to think I was the only person in the world all this happens to. You sees so strong, do you ever have a breakdown or do things catch you off guard. I have no fear, I cant be manipulated but that just got me.
They don't matter anymore.
May GOD continue to Bless & keep you
Yes and god will bless him to great lengths as he is helping and supporting many amazing people here 💙💙💙💙💙
Dude you have more knowledge than a 60-70 year old man. Keep up with your content
Keep adding joy to all scenes
9:00 so this is why people are staring at me at the gym?
You are so on point ur really describing how they are.
I think this people are demonic.
You're right about that. I honestly am wondering if narcissists are demons masquerading as humans. Their behavior is beyond screwed up.
Don't feel bad or beat yourself up about slipping, Terry. It's about progress not perfection, to use a saying. Let them beat themselves up for not being perfect, like their delusions tell them that they are
Yeah my ex used to get me like that all the time especially when i gave my life to the lord i had to get away from her
Thanks for these dope msg🙏🏽
Kinda a gift to recognize a narcissist on first meet. I realize more after this TH-cam Vid I had married one in past tense. Great Content btw as Always 👍
I didn't say that 🙄 thats their favourite words ,i think they were put here to test us along our journey, its up to us to figure it out and take lessons from them
Idk why...its like they just keep poking you and poking til when you get out of character and turn to this evil person as they wanted...they will scatter...so I'm like next time...they ain't gonna do it again...they just jokes...since I watch this...I see what my mistakes...I shouldn't let them get to me
And the thing is I live across the street from these people...smh
Hey a big percentage of people that are in jail are victims of narcissist people they pushed thier buttons, they break, they do something that gets them in trouble,they winde up in jail, and guess what the narcissist, sits back and laughs at them,i wouldn't be surprised if they even throw a party.thats thier goal for you to break,