Yup. I grew up in such a family. My mother and my brother are sick individuals, pure evil, sadistic and with zero empathy. Long story. To keep it short: they killed my dad after terrorizing and abusing him for decades. I’m disabled and lost everything at the age of 35 because of them abusing me mentally, physically and financially!
Yup. Some bastard just took my lincense plate & mirrors off my scooter after i got my tv s95c samsung oled that guy going to jail for auto theft im not playing around you just delay 2 weeks for me
But once they mess your stuff up, hold them accountable. Even if it is by accident, I am not letting this person feel ok. And treat them like a retard, that can get away with things. They love to guilt trip us, as if we are the problem. I am sure a narcissist knows they are turning into a bully, an they don't care cause they are soo selfish an hateful an careless. And pretend they have such worth, when they have nothing or nobody to show for.
There’s a big difference between being different and edgy and being a narcissist. Narcissists are not cool or fun. They are damaged people and they will cause serious harm to you. If you’re dealing with one, you must go no contact, if it is safe for you to do so.
The moment you’re comfortable with your abilities and who you are as a person, they show resentment. It’s disgusting energy. 4 personality traits that make the narcissist exhausting: 1)Extreme envy of everything positive in your life, 2)Non-stop passive aggressive attacks, 3)Disagreeing with anything and everything you say, 4)Competing with you down to the smallest things in life
Sad sad fuckers that's waisting this beautiful existence on a planet floating through space... Homo sapiens are as far as we know. The only conscience of the universe...Sad so many devil just aim to cause trauma....I'm not waisting no more time. Living in my self built Drama free ZONE 😊
But believe me, they all know that you are innocent and they are Cruel. But they choose to be their side because they are coward and are afraid of that Narcissist. Hence they prefer to support Narcissist to safeguard their own ass😢 But don't worry if there's a real Sigma Person in that crowd, then they will definitely support you and you'll get a life partner(But this happens in very rare occasions)
..... Just got took a few days ago.... They were pretending to be a car customer The whole thing was just to meet with me so they could stare me down.... Haven't slept in days😢😢😢😢
Emotional abuse is not physically abusive at first, but it ends up that way. Those of us who are encouraged to stick it out in these relationships however they present, end up with illnesses while the narcissistic person is nourished by the suffering of their target.
Very well said! I got disabled at the age of 35 because of decades of mental, physical and financial abuse of my narc mother and my narc brother! Both are demons from hell in a human body causing lots of damage and loss. Their souls came directly from hell and they are just here to suck the life out of good, honest and kind people.
If ur an empath and caring person you are a target for these types of women and a lot of times the biggest strongest toughest dudes have a lot of character and tend to be more empathetic so they can absolutely destroy you no matter how big and tough you are.
I can attest to this. I ran away after 5 years just a shell of myself. If I would have tried to stick it out, I have no doubt she would have been the death of me, literally.
It's been years since I felt like I wasn't just existing...these damn people will run you down so much you just become a drained, emotionally hungry, and shadow of a person...
My ex was a narcissist with borderline personality disorder and she had daddy issues. The fights never made any sense. The outbursts over nothing. The hissy fits. I found myself avoiding arguments to keep the peace, hoping she would get better and come out of it. Nothing I did was ever good enough. She always wanted more. It was like trying to fill a black hole. The lack of accountability, the disrespect, the entitlement. I had no idea why she was always mad. It never made any sense. She's had a troubled childhood with her own trauma, but no one deserves to be treated like trash. She would get violent and smack me across the head leaving me confused. Once she took an unopened coke can and smashed it on my hand leaving it bruised. We went on a trip and she locked me out of the room, that I paid for and she said "stay out there." It was out of the blue and over nothing. She discarded me in early May and jumped into another relationship a week later. It was only until I looked into it after, that I realized what a broken and damaged creature she truly was. Toxic.
Wasn't it Shaggy that in about 1994 made the hit song Oh Carolina....Well I think that what he ment to say/sing was....Oh borderlina...Oh borderlinaa....I've seen 2 of those...Luckily I got the hell out of Dodge 😊
This is my most recent 2nd divorce,ex wife,she’s a narcissist sociopath.its 100%,I’m lucky to be alive.it’s been around 3 weeks ago.that I finally got out.she drained me 24/7.constant stress and mental abuse.always made me feel like I was crazy.until I figured out her very clear pattern of abuse me,for 12 years.Im alone,drained,looking to a future I feel way to tired for.I can’t even get my clothes or anything.im living out of a box for now,she gave me PTSD,the constant nightmares are really getting old,it feels like I’ve walked in eggshells for so long.Im tired and traumatized and barrel making it through this heat,I’m homeless in my car,been in the heat for the last three weeks,so exhausted can’t sleep,the nightmares,all of it.also my only family to help treats me the same way,I selflessly help and gave to these people,I’m tired.hott and hanging on by threads.these videos are very helpful
The word Narcissist is often thrown around. And i tell people if youve never been in a relationship with a narcissist then you dont know wha a narcissist is. My bro you just described one very very perfectly. And people SHOULD RUN 🏃 and fast.
What sucks and is the worst is being a trapped child, like for me I was the age of 12 having to work being pushed down in the dirt having to carry furniture that full grown men can't even carry and getting cussed by my uncle, that was my childhood and it affects me to this day it affects my life to this day I don't know how to feel happy and I wear a smile because I don't want anyone to feel like me but now in my 30s it's killing me because I feel alone...I'm not alone but it's like a bad burn from my childhood trauma...you heal from the burn but the damage and scars will never go away that's just one narcissist I was forced to endure my mom beat me cussed me had another son with another man kicked me out to focus on my new brother...I've never been jealous of my brother, just want my family to heal.... I told all of them treating me like a bastard and casting me out wasn't going to correct their mistakes and David would wind up just as bad if not worse and I've been right about everything... I have always prayed that I was somehow wrong...now for my narcissistic Dad lazy piece of s***didn't want to work and be a responsible father and my mom cheated on him and it's just not been a good life.... I have all this negative backstory and I have this opportunity now I have a loving wife and child, but I swear my past just continues to swarm and haunt my mind and my thoughts...I'm never going to give up please wish me strength and I wish anyone that's dealing with things just as much strength 🙏 We have to let go Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering 🙏
@@MissRed92837 they DO have demons living inside them.. absolutely… and much of the time, they have multiple, multiple demons, living inside them… but they’re NOT DEMONS, THEMSELVES… the Bible says to LOVE THE SINNER and HATE THE SIN… so there is a balance, we have to exercise with these people… we love them, from… A DISTANCE… if you get too close THE DEMONS INSIDE THEM WILL ABUSE YOU, IN A WIDE VARIETY OF WAYS… if their demons see you won’t allow them to abuse you in an obvious way, the demons will lay back (yes, demons are VERY INTELLIGENT and VERY PATIENT), and change strategies… their demons will then, ABUSE YOU IN A COVERT (much more subtle and hidden) WAY… so you either have to distance yourself quite a bit from that person, or completely cut them off… pray to your Father in Heaven about HOW to cut them off, and He’ll bless you with Wisdom for how to do it… it varies from person to person, and from situation to situation… they are SINNERS, JUST AS JESUS SAID… in need of REPENTANCE from their sins, AND they need to ask Jesus to be the Savior and Lord of their life… some do this, but MANY MORE NEVER DO, AND NEVER WILL… THESE, ARE THE ONES who suffer eternally in Eternal Hell… Eternal Hell is REAL… and God is JUST… God is 100%, completely JUST… people who’ve had NDE’s say when they were in Paradise, or Hell… it was CLEAR, that everyone’s fate (Heaven or Hell) was 100%, completely JUST, AND DESERVED… Christ said HE CAME INTO THE WORLD, not to condemn the world but, TO SAVE THE WORLD… Jesus is the Savior of the world… Jesus was God the Father, in the form of a man, walking the earth… the Bible clearly states, that GOD WOULD THAT NO MAN PERISH (be condemned to Eternal Hell), but that ALL RECEIVE ETERNAL LIFE (in Eternal Paradise, with Christ Jesus !!!)… if you haven’t already come to Jesus, come to Jesus TODAY… get down on your knees now, repent to God (Christ Jesus) for your sins, and ask Jesus to be your Savior and Lord… in this way, ESCAPE ETERNAL TORTURE IN ETERNAL HELL… and, RECEIVE ETERNAL LIFE IN ETERNAL PARADISE instead !!!!!!! WELCOME TO THE FAMILY OF GOD !!!!!!! GIVE JESUS PRAISES !!!!!!! ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨
Your friend is lucky she moved out and allowed him to dictate the closure of their relationship. Narcissist rarely relinquish control or discard before their victim is at rock bottom or behind bars.
@omars365moments I lack the desire, ignorance, and toxic personality required to facilitate a doomed relationship with someone who's main objective is my complete subordince and destruction. I have much better ways to spend my time, money and energy. I control my environment by only associating with positive people of high morality and integrity. You should watch the video again and pay attention to the message instead of trolling the comments. You will save yourself a lot of trouble in the long run.
Thank you for covering this topic; it's more serious than most people realize. These people are everywhere, work, family, dating relationships, neighbors, co-workers ..... they are everywhere. It seems that social media actually turbo charges them. Also, thank you for being a video producing machine....you are hitting so many points for living a great life.
Seriously man, this channel is so needed and helpful. Isolation is the only option and isolation is not exactly healthy but being these people is life threatening.
The worst part about this is getting out of a relationship with a narcissist they will do so good at making it seem like you were the problem to their friends and loved ones therefore no one will never understand or want to hear your side of the story
My ex-narc landlord....stole my clothes when at work....when i changed the locks on my doors....she threw all my possessions on the street and had me arrested for tresspassing....wickedly evil....
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Facts. I was told to run away by another woman. I didn't still paying and suffering from the damages. Stay in the gym no headphones punish yourself and reflect on every thing.
i never get attached. no narc can trauma bond me. i had a narc try to do that through sex and didnt work and try to come in my dreams to make me want them back. narcs are funny. only weak men fall for that
I dealt with one energy vamp after another in my 20's. Understanding that energy vampirism is a real thing was such a revelation to me. Guard your energy guys,.
Bad spirit energy is so right Terry. I knew a woman in the nineties I hadn’t seen and heard from I foolishly took a Hoover call from during C19. I knew it was a mistake and it was emotional vampire quicksand. She’d call several times and even at night which I told her not to do. She would talk for an hour, two and had to literally put the phone down. She then started with the insults and devaluation to establish her delusional superiority. She was divorced from a very successful, Ivy League American university and now with another one. She’s had a bad work history and remoras onto people for her life. She contributes nothing and literally gave me a headache and tight chest. I gather she’s having problems with this guy and called me to butter me up with intent on my home being her next move. NO! She stopped calling for about eight months and over the past three months she’s Hoover calling me again. I truly feel the woman is a psychopath with that dead stare shark eyes I remember on occasion from the nineties. Terry, you’re spot on!!!!
My ex-narc roommate would make it impossible to sleep....sleep deprivation....banging doors...loud coughing..sneezing...slamming objects so I would be constantly exhausted...
Joel, you saved me, you literally woke me from the slumber, yrs of fog and confusion, it took a year of listening to you and it slowly sank in what happened to me 😢, you f u c k i n g saved me .............i wake up crying everyday now.....wtf is this why are people lime this......
My next-door neighbors are a covert narc couple, close to my age. The man is bearable, kinda, but the woman is worse. I don't like living close to her, and wish she would move. I could move, I guess, but I dislike moving. But I keep contact with her to a bare minimum. When my ex-friend Dave's wife finally returned to him, she got her own apartment, though they were still married. She didn't want to live with him, 'cause he's a narc.
Trauma bonding is the telltale sign from what I've experienced. I've been vetting a women at work and slowly realizing she's a covert narcissist. All her conversations are about bad experiences, and it's clear what she's doing.
The thing is, these narcs also call it trauma dumping when you need to express yourself to them. They say "stop trauma dumping onto me" so don't get trauma dumping confused with not being able to tell your partner that you feel bad. It's another way they confuse you into think you're the problem. The type of trauma dumping they do though is that they put their anger onto you, and act as if you are the one who is the cause of all of their problems, even though they don't directly say it. So yeah if you can't share how you feel in life right now to someone and they call it trauma dumping, they aren't even worth talking to. My dad would be swearing angerily all the time about all this stuff and I could feel the energy and how he was putting it onto me. There's a way to talk about things even if you're mad without harassing others always... A different example was this one girl with BPD always used to chat me daily about her boy problems. And I was like you can talk when you need to. But she abused that, everyday chatting me multiple times a day about this guy who really didn't care about her at all. It was getting to the point where though I was happy to help, she was asking too much and wouldn't even return it if I needed to talk, her responses were basic and unhelpful. So I ended up blocking her.
Good thing he was able to get rid of her that directly. Normally, or depending on the woman, it is better to escape the area to avoid dangerous situations: - her attacking you - her calling the police on you It's not uncommon for a woman to detonate when being thrown out and go batshit crazy, including physical violence or DV accusations.
Dude, this is real, I finally reached a point with my experience that I've literally seen it happen to me when I first meet people anytime i first lock eyes with some people, wtf call literally wake up in the middle of the night with pain in my soul after meeting certain people the first time, strangers in public will literally trauma dump and narcissistically abuse you by locking eyes with you, the same pain I felt after years of narcissistic abuse from my mother ....... I now feel the pain and confusion of Narcissistic abuse after the first time I meet people, im literally seeing it for the first time as i type this.......wtf all the dots connected, this is why I have so much problems walking through busy stores and locking eyez other people and I see it for the first time.. this is why I wear sunglasses and look down and wear my earbuds all the time in public it's taking me all my life to figure out what the hell is happening to me😮wtf wtf wtf wtf wtf wtf wtf wtf this is. f u c k i n g reeeeeeeeaaaaallllllll...................
The worst pain is when you face a toxic companion you would have otherwise trusted who just sucks the energy out of the room, and face workplace toxicity at the same time. No one to reach out to for help, but only faith and self discipline to count on. It's hard. Still searching for answers myself.
Best video I've heard on narcs. My narc friend was like this: - wanting me to repeat his life errors - treating me to meals and overall doing more for me than I did for him in material terms - trying to set boundaries on what I should be doing day to day, treating me as if he had parental authority over me Just to note that we were both male friends, yet very toxic social relationship at times. Most of the time there were no real issues, but I went no-contact permanently because of a few specific incidents I could never accept.
My brother was married to a narcissist, everytime i talked to him i would get triggered. He would tell me something about her, how she is, or what shes says or does and i would immediately get anxiety and would need to take a couple deep involuntary breaths. It would remind of my one of my exes and fuck a whole week up for me. This shit is real.
I agree with your identification of the problem, but there are always options, you are never alone. There are consequences for the narcissists. There is no reason to fear any man.
This video speaks volumes of truth. When I'm around narcs, I feel anxious, afraid, and uncomfortable, and I'm more prone to making mistakes, especially in the workplace. It's almost like narcs place a hypnotic spell or curse those around them. Narc energy is emotionally and psychologically draining on empaths. I love this video. Narc energy has a domino effect and transfers from one individual to the next.
I don’t focus on peoples behaviors and how they act but when it’s brought to my attention, I thank God that I’m not like those people and move on because in reality half of the world is completely nuts and Godless and you’ll go crazy. Trying to figure narcissistic person or trying fix a narcissists or even talking about them is a total waste of time and energy. I’ve come to the conclusion that some people are just inherently evil, and only a miracle from God can change them. So let them be
Really dangerous and toxic... when not in their false nice behaviour totally another person...for example a brother to a sister can suddenly behave like an evil stranger....came out once for all ..happened when empath coodependant mother ❤ had passed away..😢...no more her protection ..😭..sad and horrible....adios brother...
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EXTREME DISRESPECT, ZERO HONESTY, ZERO APOLOGY, ZERO COMMUNICATION. AIN'T NOBODY GOT TIME FOR DAT.
Nailed it👎
The communication is the worst, little baby's.
Truth, especially the zero apology aspect. Still haven’t received one with they way she treated me.
@@sadboi7537 they never apologize.
FUCK THOSE ENERGY VAMPIRES........
They are characters just playing roles to feed off good people’s energy the most fake people I’ve ever met
so true!
In other words, don’t trust anyone
It's a harsh reality. So many of our own family members fall into the category of individuals he is speaking of.
@@nathan8418 True
pretty much. lol
It’s so bizarre when it’s your family. Others too but family is super creepy.
ur fam is Lizards
Yup. I grew up in such a family. My mother and my brother are sick individuals, pure evil, sadistic and with zero empathy. Long story. To keep it short: they killed my dad after terrorizing and abusing him for decades. I’m disabled and lost everything at the age of 35 because of them abusing me mentally, physically and financially!
@@MissRed92837❤🕊
Yes lol
Because you grow up trusting them, and then realize they’re not who you thought they were
When you are on this path, you'll find yourself getting irritated a lot because of how people are.
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It sucks
So true
Yup. Some bastard just took my lincense plate & mirrors off my scooter after i got my tv s95c samsung oled that guy going to jail for auto theft im not playing around you just delay 2 weeks for me
sometimes God will let you see and experienced the behaviors in others that are in you.
"This is what you do to haters, you just smile"
-James Franco
But once they mess your stuff up, hold them accountable. Even if it is by accident, I am not letting this person feel ok. And treat them like a retard, that can get away with things. They love to guilt trip us, as if we are the problem. I am sure a narcissist knows they are turning into a bully, an they don't care cause they are soo selfish an hateful an careless. And pretend they have such worth, when they have nothing or nobody to show for.
Love that song "Smile" ❤🕊
They are not people.
Lizards
Demons 😈
Demons 💯
More like empty meat suits highjacking the subconscious minds of humanities existence. 😂
Satan's foot soldiers.
They're all "Sadists".
Ole sad sassy ahh heifers 😂
There’s a big difference between being different and edgy and being a narcissist. Narcissists are not cool or fun. They are damaged people and they will cause serious harm to you. If you’re dealing with one, you must go no contact, if it is safe for you to do so.
❤ love this comment. What if it's impossible when everyone around me is narcs?
@@omars365moments accept being independent and thank God (s.w.a.)
Ive seen many lives destroyed because of these individuals
@@omars365moments no contact when you can, from all of them.
What do you if you have a kid with a narcissist??
The moment you’re comfortable with your abilities and who you are as a person, they show resentment. It’s disgusting energy.
4 personality traits that make the narcissist exhausting: 1)Extreme envy of everything positive in your life, 2)Non-stop passive aggressive attacks, 3)Disagreeing with anything and everything you say, 4)Competing with you down to the smallest things in life
Damn twiin therapy; nah fr ❤
Sad sad fuckers that's waisting this beautiful existence on a planet floating through space... Homo sapiens are as far as we know. The only conscience of the universe...Sad so many devil just aim to cause trauma....I'm not waisting no more time. Living in my self built Drama free ZONE 😊
Also no one believes you when you tell them that they were abusive and cruel.
I believe it 👎
So very true, not unless they have experienced it.
They have a mask they put on and when no one is looking they give you evil side-eye
But believe me, they all know that you are innocent and they are Cruel. But they choose to be their side because they are coward and are afraid of that Narcissist. Hence they prefer to support Narcissist to safeguard their own ass😢
But don't worry if there's a real Sigma Person in that crowd, then they will definitely support you and you'll get a life partner(But this happens in very rare occasions)
Because those friends are toxic too probably and don't care if their friend is abusive as long as they're friendly to them.
They suck the life out of you - if you let them ! Stop engaging all together & move on
..... Just got took a few days ago.... They were pretending to be a car customer The whole thing was just to meet with me so they could stare me down.... Haven't slept in days😢😢😢😢
I can tell you, if you can overcome this shi#t with a demon, you are a very strong and dangerous person.
what kills me is i can't get away from them. their everywhere i go, every job i have.
It’s not just you man trust me
They are extremely dangerous 💯 They are sneaky and will do something to kill you if you don't watch out.
tried to off me many times...they are lizards...not human
Facts.
Yep. dangerous liars.
Emotional abuse is not physically abusive at first, but it ends up that way. Those of us who are encouraged to stick it out in these relationships however they present, end up with illnesses while the narcissistic person is nourished by the suffering of their target.
Very well said! I got disabled at the age of 35 because of decades of mental, physical and financial abuse of my narc mother and my narc brother! Both are demons from hell in a human body causing lots of damage and loss. Their souls came directly from hell and they are just here to suck the life out of good, honest and kind people.
@@kingbee9778 yep that's how they feed.
If ur an empath and caring person you are a target for these types of women and a lot of times the biggest strongest toughest dudes have a lot of character and tend to be more empathetic so they can absolutely destroy you no matter how big and tough you are.
I can attest to this. I ran away after 5 years just a shell of myself. If I would have tried to stick it out, I have no doubt she would have been the death of me, literally.
Do more narcissistic vids cuz there’s a lot more out here than normal
Most narcs are men... women are learning narcissistic traits in order to protect themselves.
Yes much more than people realize.,💯
People lose years of there life & grow old also youthless being around these ppl for a short period of time its sad
It's been years since I felt like I wasn't just existing...these damn people will run you down so much you just become a drained, emotionally hungry, and shadow of a person...
My ex was a narcissist with borderline personality disorder and she had daddy issues. The fights never made any sense. The outbursts over nothing. The hissy fits. I found myself avoiding arguments to keep the peace, hoping she would get better and come out of it. Nothing I did was ever good enough. She always wanted more. It was like trying to fill a black hole. The lack of accountability, the disrespect, the entitlement. I had no idea why she was always mad. It never made any sense. She's had a troubled childhood with her own trauma, but no one deserves to be treated like trash. She would get violent and smack me across the head leaving me confused. Once she took an unopened coke can and smashed it on my hand leaving it bruised. We went on a trip and she locked me out of the room, that I paid for and she said "stay out there." It was out of the blue and over nothing. She discarded me in early May and jumped into another relationship a week later. It was only until I looked into it after, that I realized what a broken and damaged creature she truly was. Toxic.
I’ve been there.
It almost completely ruined my life and killed me!
Currently dealing with this kind of relationship. I have a kid with this person. It drains the absolute soul out of me.
Fight the good fight twiin. Yeen the only one fam 🙏🏾💯
Wasn't it Shaggy that in about 1994 made the hit song Oh Carolina....Well I think that what he ment to say/sing was....Oh borderlina...Oh borderlinaa....I've seen 2 of those...Luckily I got the hell out of Dodge 😊
This is my most recent 2nd divorce,ex wife,she’s a narcissist sociopath.its 100%,I’m lucky to be alive.it’s been around 3 weeks ago.that I finally got out.she drained me 24/7.constant stress and mental abuse.always made me feel like I was crazy.until I figured out her very clear pattern of abuse me,for 12 years.Im alone,drained,looking to a future I feel way to tired for.I can’t even get my clothes or anything.im living out of a box for now,she gave me PTSD,the constant nightmares are really getting old,it feels like I’ve walked in eggshells for so long.Im tired and traumatized and barrel making it through this heat,I’m homeless in my car,been in the heat for the last three weeks,so exhausted can’t sleep,the nightmares,all of it.also my only family to help treats me the same way,I selflessly help and gave to these people,I’m tired.hott and hanging on by threads.these videos are very helpful
I never needed help when i was homeless i just needed a real conversation 💯
Nah fr 💯💯
If you begin breathing heavy just to stand next to someone, probably means they’er toxic.
The word Narcissist is often thrown around. And i tell people if youve never been in a relationship with a narcissist then you dont know wha a narcissist is. My bro you just described one very very perfectly. And people SHOULD RUN 🏃 and fast.
@@alreel9147 If she says she’s a “free spirit”, RUN! 🏃 😂
Narcs are soulless energy vampires bro!
To them it does not matter if it's good or bad energy. They always have a need to feed.
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If you are with one leave save yourself
The superiority complex is rampant today. They will never be equal to you. When they see a person, they assess who is superior and treat them as such.
No empathy= ...
If one survives the bite of an energy vampire then one is much stronger. No contact with the narc and its monkeys.
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The silent treatment🚩Hidden social media🚩Never give you a like/support you🚩No closure🚩Discards🚩Lack of empathy🚩
It's like a poisonous gas. You can't see it but it's slowly killing you.
Like a black widow.....killing you slowly caught in their web.....
What sucks and is the worst is being a trapped child, like for me I was the age of 12 having to work being pushed down in the dirt having to carry furniture that full grown men can't even carry and getting cussed by my uncle, that was my childhood and it affects me to this day it affects my life to this day I don't know how to feel happy and I wear a smile because I don't want anyone to feel like me but now in my 30s it's killing me because I feel alone...I'm not alone but it's like a bad burn from my childhood trauma...you heal from the burn but the damage and scars will never go away that's just one narcissist I was forced to endure my mom beat me cussed me had another son with another man kicked me out to focus on my new brother...I've never been jealous of my brother, just want my family to heal.... I told all of them treating me like a bastard and casting me out wasn't going to correct their mistakes and David would wind up just as bad if not worse and I've been right about everything... I have always prayed that I was somehow wrong...now for my narcissistic Dad lazy piece of s***didn't want to work and be a responsible father and my mom cheated on him and it's just not been a good life.... I have all this negative backstory and I have this opportunity now I have a loving wife and child, but I swear my past just continues to swarm and haunt my mind and my thoughts...I'm never going to give up please wish me strength and I wish anyone that's dealing with things just as much strength 🙏
We have to let go
Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering
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My mom was a covert narcissist… was born into that dysfunction and it nearly killed me. Now I speak about these topics on my Socials
This is probably one of your best videos on narcissism.
when you say.. your MMA friend looked like he’d seen a ghost… that makes me think, she broke his heart… that he found out she’d been cheating on him
I guess it’s more that he has realized that she’s a human suit with no soul and pure evil. Narcissists are demons from hell, living in a human body.
@@MissRed92837 they DO have demons living inside them.. absolutely… and much of the time, they have multiple, multiple demons, living inside them… but they’re NOT DEMONS, THEMSELVES… the Bible says to LOVE THE SINNER and HATE THE SIN… so there is a balance, we have to exercise with these people… we love them, from… A DISTANCE… if you get too close THE DEMONS INSIDE THEM WILL ABUSE YOU, IN A WIDE VARIETY OF WAYS… if their demons see you won’t allow them to abuse you in an obvious way, the demons will lay back (yes, demons are VERY INTELLIGENT and VERY PATIENT), and change strategies… their demons will then, ABUSE YOU IN A COVERT (much more subtle and hidden) WAY… so you either have to distance yourself quite a bit from that person, or completely cut them off… pray to your Father in Heaven about HOW to cut them off, and He’ll bless you with Wisdom for how to do it… it varies from person to person, and from situation to situation… they are SINNERS, JUST AS JESUS SAID… in need of REPENTANCE from their sins, AND they need to ask Jesus to be the Savior and Lord of their life… some do this, but MANY MORE NEVER DO, AND NEVER WILL… THESE, ARE THE ONES who suffer eternally in Eternal Hell… Eternal Hell is REAL… and God is JUST… God is 100%, completely JUST… people who’ve had NDE’s say when they were in Paradise, or Hell… it was CLEAR, that everyone’s fate (Heaven or Hell) was 100%, completely JUST, AND DESERVED… Christ said HE CAME INTO THE WORLD, not to condemn the world but, TO SAVE THE WORLD… Jesus is the Savior of the world… Jesus was God the Father, in the form of a man, walking the earth… the Bible clearly states, that GOD WOULD THAT NO MAN PERISH (be condemned to Eternal Hell), but that ALL RECEIVE ETERNAL LIFE (in Eternal Paradise, with Christ Jesus !!!)… if you haven’t already come to Jesus, come to Jesus TODAY… get down on your knees now, repent to God (Christ Jesus) for your sins, and ask Jesus to be your Savior and Lord… in this way, ESCAPE ETERNAL TORTURE IN ETERNAL HELL… and, RECEIVE ETERNAL LIFE IN ETERNAL PARADISE instead !!!!!!! WELCOME TO THE FAMILY OF GOD !!!!!!! GIVE JESUS PRAISES !!!!!!! ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨
Your friend is lucky she moved out and allowed him to dictate the closure of their relationship. Narcissist rarely relinquish control or discard before their victim is at rock bottom or behind bars.
Maybe you're just not fit for the game. Competition 1v1 Level up yourself
life isn't rainbows and cherry s with a cream whip
Wicked truth
@omars365moments I lack the desire, ignorance, and toxic personality required to facilitate a doomed relationship with someone who's main objective is my complete subordince and destruction. I have much better ways to spend my time, money and energy. I control my environment by only associating with positive people of high morality and integrity. You should watch the video again and pay attention to the message instead of trolling the comments. You will save yourself a lot of trouble in the long run.
@@calebdeaton5388 100% percent facts
Thank you for covering this topic; it's more serious than most people realize. These people are everywhere, work, family, dating relationships, neighbors, co-workers ..... they are everywhere. It seems that social media actually turbo charges them.
Also, thank you for being a video producing machine....you are hitting so many points for living a great life.
Seriously man, this channel is so needed and helpful. Isolation is the only option and isolation is not exactly healthy but being these people is life threatening.
I thought I can handle it, boy was I wrong. Not the video, but the Narc.. Wish I knew this, but we live and learn. They are super dangerous y"all.
Amen
The worst part about this is getting out of a relationship with a narcissist they will do so good at making it seem like you were the problem to their friends and loved ones therefore no one will never understand or want to hear your side of the story
How you describe the feeling around a narc is spot on accurate. Confidence goes out the window and there's an eerie confusion when around them.
@@SeekJesusFindLife It's almost like you can't think straight.
Even people on social media can prove to be destructive, we need to be super careful & selective on who we let into our lives.
Get away from them
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@@Tezzzz7 DEALING WITH A NEIGHBOR?????
My ex-narc landlord....stole my clothes when at work....when i changed the locks on my doors....she threw all my possessions on the street and had me arrested for tresspassing....wickedly evil....
AFFIRM ♡
- I have extreme supernatural beauty
- I am supernaturally beautiful
- Every day, I am grateful for my unique beauty
- I am perfect, and my beauty is incomparable
- My soul shines, reflecting my inner and outer beauty
- I respect my body and cherish it as it is the embodiment of my unique beauty
- I am bold and beautiful, just as I am
- Every time I smile, I let my beauty shine to the world
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Pay attention kings. 😶
Facts. I was told to run away by another woman. I didn't still paying and suffering from the damages. Stay in the gym no headphones punish yourself and reflect on every thing.
that's what i do
i never get attached. no narc can trauma bond me. i had a narc try to do that through sex and didnt work and try to come in my dreams to make me want them back. narcs are funny. only weak men fall for that
Congratulations brother we are similar warriors
I dealt with one energy vamp after another in my 20's. Understanding that energy vampirism is a real thing was such a revelation to me. Guard your energy guys,.
Bad spirit energy is so right Terry. I knew a woman in the nineties I hadn’t seen and heard from I foolishly took a Hoover call from during C19. I knew it was a mistake and it was emotional vampire quicksand. She’d call several times and even at night which I told her not to do. She would talk for an hour, two and had to literally put the phone down. She then started with the insults and devaluation to establish her delusional superiority. She was divorced from a very successful, Ivy League American university and now with another one. She’s had a bad work history and remoras onto people for her life. She contributes nothing and literally gave me a headache and tight chest. I gather she’s having problems with this guy and called me to butter me up with intent on my home being her next move. NO! She stopped calling for about eight months and over the past three months she’s Hoover calling me again. I truly feel the woman is a psychopath with that dead stare shark eyes I remember on occasion from the nineties. Terry, you’re spot on!!!!
My ex-narc roommate would make it impossible to sleep....sleep deprivation....banging doors...loud coughing..sneezing...slamming objects so I would be constantly exhausted...
I've been around the narcissists: What your saying bro is absolutely 100% true. KEEP OUT & KEEP AWAY!
Is it anybody else or do these people try to befriend you then purposely disrespect you?
100 percent. And they get mad when you stop letting them do it. It’s like it’s your fault no matter what
yes
You become powerful when you 🛑 stop caring. .
Facts
the smirlkng and laughing behind you back remeber that video a couple of years ago it was my favorite this video is at the top god bless tjj
Joel, you saved me, you literally woke me from the slumber, yrs of fog and confusion, it took a year of listening to you and it slowly sank in what happened to me 😢, you f u c k i n g saved me .............i wake up crying everyday now.....wtf is this why are people lime this......
they Lizards wake up human
Don't cry, be glad God saved your ass🙏🏼📯
Save your tears for those who are worth your tears❣️🍀🕊
I instantly recognise them and uncover them...
My next-door neighbors are a covert narc couple, close to my age. The man is bearable, kinda, but the woman is worse. I don't like living close to her, and wish she would move. I could move, I guess, but I dislike moving. But I keep contact with her to a bare minimum. When my ex-friend Dave's wife finally returned to him, she got her own apartment, though they were still married. She didn't want to live with him, 'cause he's a narc.
@@brendaleverick3655 I lived next door to one for a year it was a nightmare.
❤Love goes a long way world 🌎
It’s insane. I’m currently facing them in my job and they’re trying so hard to get within my life. Stay away king and leave - RUN
Trauma Dump. Trauma Dump. Sooooo true.
Trauma bonding is the telltale sign from what I've experienced. I've been vetting a women at work and slowly realizing she's a covert narcissist. All her conversations are about bad experiences, and it's clear what she's doing.
Insecure woman accusing and giving out negative energy, not cool
The thing is, these narcs also call it trauma dumping when you need to express yourself to them. They say "stop trauma dumping onto me" so don't get trauma dumping confused with not being able to tell your partner that you feel bad. It's another way they confuse you into think you're the problem. The type of trauma dumping they do though is that they put their anger onto you, and act as if you are the one who is the cause of all of their problems, even though they don't directly say it. So yeah if you can't share how you feel in life right now to someone and they call it trauma dumping, they aren't even worth talking to. My dad would be swearing angerily all the time about all this stuff and I could feel the energy and how he was putting it onto me. There's a way to talk about things even if you're mad without harassing others always...
A different example was this one girl with BPD always used to chat me daily about her boy problems. And I was like you can talk when you need to. But she abused that, everyday chatting me multiple times a day about this guy who really didn't care about her at all. It was getting to the point where though I was happy to help, she was asking too much and wouldn't even return it if I needed to talk, her responses were basic and unhelpful. So I ended up blocking her.
Big truth here. Thank GOD I have the ability to move traumatic energy out of my space.
Good thing he was able to get rid of her that directly.
Normally, or depending on the woman, it is better to escape the area to avoid dangerous situations:
- her attacking you
- her calling the police on you
It's not uncommon for a woman to detonate when being thrown out and go batshit crazy, including physical violence or DV accusations.
I could never imagine the ways they would hurt me.
They are not fun to deal
With at all. They dont play by the rules. 😂❤🎉😢
ThNks for these videos bro !!! Dealing with these lunatic type people since I was young !!!!
They know exactly what they are doing.
This is the type of 🔥 video that brings mental clarity and peace.
Very wise words.
Preach 🙌
Great video narcs are broken beyond repair. RUN!
Good stuff bro I needed to hear this while I’m getting ready for work 💯
You earned my subscription with one video. Extremely rare.
This is the best narcissist video of all time! Thank you Terry! 💯
Absolute facts big dog. Trust your intuition, people! They will have you doubting yourself.
Oh It’s Serious!!!
Dude, this is real, I finally reached a point with my experience that I've literally seen it happen to me when I first meet people anytime i first lock eyes with some people, wtf call literally wake up in the middle of the night with pain in my soul after meeting certain people the first time, strangers in public will literally trauma dump and narcissistically abuse you by locking eyes with you, the same pain I felt after years of narcissistic abuse from my mother ....... I now feel the pain and confusion of Narcissistic abuse after the first time I meet people, im literally seeing it for the first time as i type this.......wtf all the dots connected, this is why I have so much problems walking through busy stores and locking eyez other people and I see it for the first time.. this is why I wear sunglasses and look down and wear my earbuds all the time in public it's taking me all my life to figure out what the hell is happening to me😮wtf wtf wtf wtf wtf wtf wtf wtf this is. f u c k i n g reeeeeeeeaaaaallllllll...................
Yeah romance is the most exhausting thing. Cuz it goes straight for your heart
This is what most of the men I've talked to or dated were like... very narcissistic and abusive.
I live next door to one. He is the worst kind of individual that I've ever met.
The worst pain is when you face a toxic companion you would have otherwise trusted who just sucks the energy out of the room, and face workplace toxicity at the same time. No one to reach out to for help, but only faith and self discipline to count on. It's hard. Still searching for answers myself.
Terry my guy
Best video I've heard on narcs.
My narc friend was like this:
- wanting me to repeat his life errors
- treating me to meals and overall doing more for me than I did for him in material terms
- trying to set boundaries on what I should be doing day to day, treating me as if he had parental authority over me
Just to note that we were both male friends, yet very toxic social relationship at times.
Most of the time there were no real issues, but I went no-contact permanently because of a few specific incidents I could never accept.
I feel honesty in the wisdom presented.
That’s right brother well said. Best video hands down.
My brother was married to a narcissist, everytime i talked to him i would get triggered. He would tell me something about her, how she is, or what shes says or does and i would immediately get anxiety and would need to take a couple deep involuntary breaths. It would remind of my one of my exes and fuck a whole week up for me. This shit is real.
You absolutely nailed it! 👏
TerryJoel "Listen up I wont tell you again"
I agree with your identification of the problem, but there are always options, you are never alone. There are consequences for the narcissists. There is no reason to fear any man.
spot on
I just came out from one of these relationships. I was in love and blinded by them.
This video speaks volumes of truth. When I'm around narcs, I feel anxious, afraid, and uncomfortable, and I'm more prone to making mistakes, especially in the workplace. It's almost like narcs place a hypnotic spell or curse those around them. Narc energy is emotionally and psychologically draining on empaths. I love this video. Narc energy has a domino effect and transfers from one individual to the next.
I don’t focus on peoples behaviors and how they act but when it’s brought to my attention, I thank God that I’m not like those people and move on because in reality half of the world is completely nuts and Godless and you’ll go crazy. Trying to figure narcissistic person or trying fix a narcissists or even talking about them is a total waste of time and energy. I’ve come to the conclusion that some people are just inherently evil, and only a miracle from God can change them. So let them be
@@cheeriog9394 TRUE 💯
Really dangerous and toxic... when not in their false nice behaviour totally another person...for example a brother to a sister can suddenly behave like an evil stranger....came out once for all ..happened when empath coodependant mother ❤ had passed away..😢...no more her protection ..😭..sad and horrible....adios brother...
Yep, it feels like you are a guest in your own body and the soul has left a long time ago.
GREAT VID BROTHER !! THANK YOU. YOU ARE 💯 SPOT ON CORRECT !! I LIVED IT !!