Happily Interdependent…Though, over the years, I’ve had brief episodes of being Independent. It was always lovely to return to my natural Interdependent self.
I was not always interdependent until I received the advice, "Don't reinvent the wheel." This insight instilled in me the confidence that the challenges I face often have established solutions, encouraging me to work smarter not harder.
Hello Fraya!! I was Independant for a long time but after some work became interdependent... which is a more gooder place to be! Road trip tomorrow too!! lol
Dependent I often seek validation from others before taking any steps. I am working on this. I want to be interdependent, someone who says boundaries and knows their worth
If God and I cant get it done I will ask for assistance only if I absolutely need help. I would rather help others. I don't enjoy burdening others with problems that are just a matter of perspective/ego/self... hence dependency upon a loving God. A community is the best chance of survival and God can express Gods will and love within a healthy God centered community. Aloha Fraya hang loose sistah 🤙
Always been interdependant, can lean toward independent at times when I shouldn't but usually a switch goes off telling me "Hey dummy you can't do that on your own" and that's the end of it.
So I’ll try to water down my comments from now on. Wink wink. Thank you for another great video lady! Curious, do you have the amber around your pupils also?
The universe has felt like nature on earth to me, testing systems for balance evolving, feels like a computer sometimes, I often wonder who the programmers are or were
I was scolded and lectured by family and friends, don’t you dare nag or ask for help. Independent, yes but not because I’m proud of it, more like programmed to fear of asking.😢💔🐺
I get that! I was raised by a woman who prided herself on her independence, and I saw it as the most empowered state to be! I saw that as confidence. Then I learned that it takes humility and a different level of confidence to ask for help. Plus we gotta know that right people to ask! Meanwhile, seeking guidance and support from higher powers is also part of this inter-dependence too don't you think?
I'm stubbornly independent, however, I'm learning to be interdependent. P.S. Just realized I missed a whole month of videos. 😬 I got overwhelmed by all the self-help content I consumed and had to take a break.
In my efforts for a decade to go door to door(soliciting) for small complicated handyman jobs, I received many bits of advice from highly interdependent people(customers mostly). One woman living in an elite neighborhood pointed me towards her more affluent neighbors--- she had nothing for me to do. 😊 Which kind of the three you mention, was she?
Needing the help from others in interdependence still signals your inadequacy and incompleteness. I wouldn't call it HELP - I would call it the Interactions of Creativity.
Ok. Find me a support group for men that were raped by their wives or gf while sleeping. For 15 yrs and that was 15yrs ago. Didn’t realize what it was until 6 yr ago. I just woke up pushing her off. But still sleep like t-Rex pose and every morning I’m pushing her off me still in my head. Same symptoms as if I were gr in prison…for 15 yrs. I’m intergalactic but who has been raped this way? 2 therapists even told me it’s not possible…females. Even called hotline after last session w female. Now I have a male therapist. But I can’t get this crap outta my head. I know why I understand the path I’ve taken. I’ve looked at every detail from my birth. This murdered than man I was 30 yo. Find a group for that
@ a group is safer?. I don’t trust anyone and especially not women. No one’s getting in again. The reason I’m triggered now is I am about to tell my kids. They are adults now and done w college and need to know why I wasn’t as good as I should have been. I need to apologize. I was messed up and didn’t know why. Now I know. I need to quit rolling over and showing my belly. She’s star teacher and sancho was her principal and now superintendent! All of Rome, ga will know. I’ve stayed quiet too long. I’m ok. I’m safe. I’m not threatening violence or anything physical but I’m not going to be quiet anymore. That’s what I need
@ also, for your own knowledge. I’ve gone to therapy since 1990’s and every one said I has SA symptoms. I probably mentioned her getting on me when I was asleep…but I didn’t “feel” that was it. I didn’t think it bothered me so it was brushed away. No one said You are being raped! I was asleep I didn’t experience the violence but I have the same symptoms. I wasn’t penetrated but I was still raped. I didn’t understand until I saw Dave chapel talking about loving his wife’s feet and seeing them but she was asleep. He said naw I’m not a rapist. It clicked. That was it. I didn’t do it to her and she was frigid. I thought at one point something better than nothing even if I’m asleep. I didn’t know. I didn’t know. Tell others please. Tell young men if you care because no one knows this and I think it’s not uncommon.
Independence is dependent on the In, the inside. An oxymoron of sorts, due to social nature of humans. A group of people can be independent from a crowd. A single people cannot be 100% independent. Interdependent, is a ridiculous word imo. Enter-Dependent? We've been dependent since the womb, how to enter dependence if you're already there?
With the recent "lone wolf" terror attacks in NO & LV, please consider rebranding. The association triggers me so bad I worry about you. Your message is not the issue. It's your brand that is inappropriate for 2025. We are seeing the tip of the iceberg. Normalizing "Lone Wolf" in the era of the domestic warrior is short-sightedness. Peace.
Happily Interdependent…Though, over the years, I’ve had brief episodes of being Independent. It was always lovely to return to my natural Interdependent self.
Been fairly dependent, then stoically independent, but I wouldn’t be here now if I wasn’t interdependent. Thank you.
I was not always interdependent until I received the advice, "Don't reinvent the wheel." This insight instilled in me the confidence that the challenges I face often have established solutions, encouraging me to work smarter not harder.
life is actually pretty simple isn't it!
Hello Fraya!! I was Independant for a long time but after some work became interdependent... which is a more gooder place to be! Road trip tomorrow too!! lol
it's all part of the transformation! Have a great time on the road 😁✌️
0:18 dependent
0:38 independent
1:01 interdependant
Dependent I often seek validation from others before taking any steps. I am working on this. I want to be interdependent, someone who says boundaries and knows their worth
If God and I cant get it done I will ask for assistance only if I absolutely need help.
I would rather help others.
I don't enjoy burdening others with problems that are just a matter of perspective/ego/self... hence dependency upon a loving God.
A community is the best chance of survival and God can express Gods will and love within a healthy God centered community.
Aloha Fraya hang loose sistah 🤙
Always been interdependant, can lean toward independent at times when I shouldn't but usually a switch goes off telling me "Hey dummy you can't do that on your own" and that's the end of it.
So I’ll try to water down my comments from now on. Wink wink. Thank you for another great video lady! Curious, do you have the amber around your pupils also?
Love your videos - awesome!! and thank you
The universe has felt like nature on earth to me, testing systems for balance evolving, feels like a computer sometimes, I often wonder who the programmers are or were
Hmmm🤔 I'm thinking about this concept over the course of a lifespan...and how tragedy could certainly impact that realm
Me super independent! Never accept anything from anyone.
I was scolded and lectured by family and friends, don’t you dare nag or ask for help.
Independent, yes but not because I’m proud of it, more like programmed to fear of asking.😢💔🐺
I get that! I was raised by a woman who prided herself on her independence, and I saw it as the most empowered state to be! I saw that as confidence. Then I learned that it takes humility and a different level of confidence to ask for help. Plus we gotta know that right people to ask! Meanwhile, seeking guidance and support from higher powers is also part of this inter-dependence too don't you think?
@ Much Thanks for your reply. Human Beings are mysterious souls. My Reply would take a book I’m afraid…🙏🙏🙏❤️
I'm stubbornly independent, however, I'm learning to be interdependent.
P.S. Just realized I missed a whole month of videos. 😬 I got overwhelmed by all the self-help content I consumed and had to take a break.
I evolved from independent to interdependent, I've felt help from the ancestors or I've called it connections with like a universal consciousness
I feel that!
Definitely Interdependent. Which means I suppose, that I've grown.
Interdependent would probably be best fit but more toward independent.
In my efforts for a decade to go door to door(soliciting) for small complicated handyman jobs, I received many bits of advice from highly interdependent people(customers mostly).
One woman living in an elite neighborhood pointed me towards her more affluent neighbors--- she had nothing for me to do.
😊 Which kind of the three you mention, was she?
'I see', said the blind man.
Interdependent
lol... reminds me of "I see, said the blind man who picked up a hammer and saw". Sometimes we get help from things other than people.
Sovereign man to a fault. But who’s gonna stop me
Needing the help from others in interdependence still signals your inadequacy and incompleteness. I wouldn't call it HELP - I would call it the Interactions of Creativity.
There is more
Inter, for i buy food and fuel and do business 🙌
Ok. Find me a support group for men that were raped by their wives or gf while sleeping. For 15 yrs and that was 15yrs ago. Didn’t realize what it was until 6 yr ago. I just woke up pushing her off. But still sleep like t-Rex pose and every morning I’m pushing her off me still in my head. Same symptoms as if I were gr in prison…for 15 yrs.
I’m intergalactic but who has been raped this way? 2 therapists even told me it’s not possible…females. Even called hotline after last session w female. Now I have a male therapist. But I can’t get this crap outta my head. I know why I understand the path I’ve taken. I’ve looked at every detail from my birth. This murdered than man I was 30 yo.
Find a group for that
why is a group the answer? Im sure if I got an opportunity to speak with you we'd be able to find out what it is you really need.
@ a group is safer?. I don’t trust anyone and especially not women. No one’s getting in again. The reason I’m triggered now is I am about to tell my kids. They are adults now and done w college and need to know why I wasn’t as good as I should have been. I need to apologize. I was messed up and didn’t know why. Now I know.
I need to quit rolling over and showing my belly. She’s star teacher and sancho was her principal and now superintendent!
All of Rome, ga will know. I’ve stayed quiet too long.
I’m ok. I’m safe. I’m not threatening violence or anything physical but I’m not going to be quiet anymore.
That’s what I need
@ also, for your own knowledge. I’ve gone to therapy since 1990’s and every one said I has SA symptoms. I probably mentioned her getting on me when I was asleep…but I didn’t “feel” that was it. I didn’t think it bothered me so it was brushed away. No one said You are being raped! I was asleep I didn’t experience the violence but I have the same symptoms. I wasn’t penetrated but I was still raped.
I didn’t understand until I saw Dave chapel talking about loving his wife’s feet and seeing them but she was asleep. He said naw I’m not a rapist. It clicked. That was it. I didn’t do it to her and she was frigid. I thought at one point something better than nothing even if I’m asleep. I didn’t know.
I didn’t know.
Tell others please. Tell young men if you care because no one knows this and I think it’s not uncommon.
Independence is dependent on the In, the inside. An oxymoron of sorts, due to social nature of humans. A group of people can be independent from a crowd. A single people cannot be 100% independent. Interdependent, is a ridiculous word imo. Enter-Dependent? We've been dependent since the womb, how to enter dependence if you're already there?
With the recent "lone wolf" terror attacks in NO & LV, please consider rebranding. The association triggers me so bad I worry about you. Your message is not the issue. It's your brand that is inappropriate for 2025. We are seeing the tip of the iceberg. Normalizing "Lone Wolf" in the era of the domestic warrior is short-sightedness. Peace.
Never. Do I look like I'm incapable of doing anything myself?
Except from my Mom because I am a Mommas boy.
😅
There are two kinds of people, Godly and evil.