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I get you! Yesterday someone told me "as if you don't have friends"...well yeah I do, but they don't really care about me...they do not feel like friends...they text me once in a while (why I try to text them almost every day (and they reply 5 days later o_o)) and I only meet them about 3-4 times A YEAR, because they are living "far" away... like... they are living in my area, but we still gotta drive around 1,5 h to get there....and they all live at the same place, so they meet up while I am staying at home - alone...
Well you've got one here buddy, just message me on my instagram @arionwastaken and we can talk whenever you'd like about whatever you want. This goes to anyone who needs someone to talk to btw
I think it is because we are hurting each other to protect ourselves if this makes sense... we are all so afraid of being hurt that we would do everything to avoid that
@@empty_seat Oh no, you will find someone who loves you very much and will do everything to be with you. Maybe there is someone now too, but you didn't noticed. Your love is precious and once you find someone who loves you will be very thankful for it
@@lolasart3408 yes that's right. It's difficult to show it. Especially when you love someone and u aren't sure if he likes you back, but u don't want to tell him that u like him, because it could be embarrassing after that
I'm scared to tell people about how I actually feel. I'm kinda sad all the time but I cover that up with very terrible humour 😂😂. But I'm scared people won't understand
For me it's not a fear. It's more like I don't appreciate people presuming things or perceiving me in a different light based off of what they hear from other people without knowing who I truly am.
I relate to the Christian boy so much. Its hard talking about something that makes you happy, and that you truly believe in, when the topic can so easily upset alot of people
I feel the same way but I am an atheist/stronger believer in the scientific method. I think a lot comes down to the fact that I don't want to come down as preachy, so though it's something that makes me extremely happy (I'm a chemistry graduate student) I don't share the underlying belief/reasons unless I'm asked.
I'm scared of showing my true self and talking about my anxiety, depression etc. I fear that I will be judged. I feel like I have to wear a mask to make others happy where in reality I'm the one who is unhappy and suffering. I want to be free and happy.
Savanna Jade it's okay. put off the mask. let the sun shine on your skin. dunno how to say this but be yourself, life is short enough. it's going to be painful at the beginning but it's kinda sooo Worth it
I have a big fear of being on my own. And not like alone in my room or something, just in life. My biggest fear is having no friends and it also pairs with my fear of people not liking me. I just wanna be luved :(
Guess what? I was afraid of that too, now i am actually alone. It feels like shit, but it is better than being with the wrong people, so don't freak out, just get some good friends and keep them. Create high quality relationships!
I feel you but I'll tell even in your head people don't love you its actually not true at all Of course there will be people you don't vibe with and people who don't like and that's okay You will find your true friends if you don't already have and just remember that of course there people who loves you so much even you tell yourself otherwise Even people who you don't interact with that much You don't know the effect you have on people Sorry for my very bad english lol 💙
chelseatruman maybe just try to be who you want to be deep Inside. maybe you feel weird about it, but it's sooôo Worth it. and you will find the good persons if you Don't expect anything from anyone. just evolve, progress, attraction law. More empathy. becoming a better human, as a sense of life.
Just keep looking for friends, be friendly, help, you'll eventually find someome who will apreciate you for who you are and love you! Don't give up and don't be scared. We live once, make most of it!
I have been there too, what made me open up was realizing i am not the only one with family issues, when a friend opened up to me in high school i was like oh, this is not only my secret, it is not a singular situation, it happens, people will not be totally shocked to hear about it. I am really open on the subject since then, before that basically no one knew.
Im scared of being misunderstood. Because of my social anxiety. I feel like it makes me seem like an offish person and i hate that it gives people the wrong impression of me. Im scared of not being liked. Im scared that if i open up to people about it that it will put them off. Im scared to carry on.
I am scared to tell people that I actually am not as happy as I look... And I constantly think of death.. But I keep smiling to hide how messed up I am. ___.
You are loved! You are special! You are fearfully and wonderfully made. Read Psalm 139:13 and forward. Jesus loves you! He died on the cross for our sins. ❤️ Much love to you.
Hold On Pain Ends No but seriously. And talk to someone. There's no shame. Even if it's just a friend, or a guidance counselor. ANYONE who you know cares for you.
Im just a snail I feel you on this one❤️ I know it's important to not be ashamed of what's on our skin, but I can't wait to get tattoos over what's on mine. Stay strong lovely, we don't know each other but we're in this together
I wish I could "not be attached to the outcome of things". That has to be the ultimate freedom. I think I'm right there with the guy not wanting to disclose his past and the upbringing in his home. While doing so can give the freedom to breathe easier, no longer being stifled by the hurtful or "shameful" things in your past, you still have to be careful with whom you share those deepest, darkest moments because so many people are judgemental and/or looking for ammunition to add to their arsenal should the relationship tide ever turn. I really liked the answer from the blonde with the black glasses about being conditioned to give an appearance everything is alright and the fear of admitting it's not and that we're a hot mess, or lost, or clueless. It's all relevant and I often feel like social media perpetuates that need to be socially successful even when we're struggling just to not fail.
I'm allowing myself to finally learn piano, finally letting go of those preconceived notions of not ever being good enough, because being better than yesterday or last week is all you really remember
I am scared to share with people that i am unhappy with myself because i am not confident in who i am and most of the time feel mentally and emotionally unstable.
Hi everyone!! In my previous comment I asked you guys to share your answer to this question... I've been reading through a lot of them and it makes me happy to see that you find my page a safe place to share what you are going through. With that being said, I want you all to know that unfortunately I'm unable to read all the comments and I feel awful because some of you have been sharing really personal experiences that I think should be acknowledged by someone. So please if any of you are having suicidal thoughts here is the number to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 and if any of you have been sexually assaulted and are looking to speak to someone, here is the number to National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 ..... If you're not looking to reach a professional I really hope you'll consider talking to someone close to you that you can trust! Lastly, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't think that I'm ignoring any of your comments
Thoraya Maronesy Please don’t ever apologize to us ever again for something like this. YOU created this “safe space” where people can get stuff off there minds with out being judged. YOU gave us a place to feel. YOU have saved countless lives already I promise you. I would know I’m one of them. Hearing people of all ages talk about this stuff actually helps a lot. It puts my mind at ease. Honestly I think humanity needed this. It’s kind of like reverse therapy if that makes sense. It makes you realize how small your own personal problems are, and at the same time realize what we need to do in our lives to enjoy our selves again. I found your chAnnel today. I think I’ve watched 12 hours nonstop. I’ve cried, I’ve laughed, I’ve remembered, but most importantly i feel. For the first time in 20 years I’m not numb! It’s truly amazing! From the bottom of my heart. THANK YOU!
I'm scared that maybe I'm on the Truman show, or I'm the only person who actually exists and this is all an illusion, scared of losing sanity. Can't tell people that stuff... It's insane just to think about it.
This just makes me think how important it is to be accepting of others and constantly remind yourself that other people like different things and that‘s okay. I‘m scared to share my sexuality with people, I lie to my parents about it and hide my true self inside. Also the fact that I was suicidal and go to therapy now, which helps a bit. Nobody who knows me genuinely knows, except for an ex boyfriend. I just keep it to myself, because I don‘t like showing weakness in front of others
I completely agree! I think we'd solve a lot of problems if we were more accepting of other people and their struggles. Just from your comment alone I can tell you're a very strong person... and I know I don't know you personally but you sound pretty awesome! All your comments have made my day today! Thanks for sharing everything that you did and I'm glad you are past the suicidal thoughts. And finally, I know you're not asking for advice or anything but I just wanted to let you know that it'll get better
Thoraya Maronesy Thank you so much ❤️ You seem like such a beautiful person inside and outside as well! Your videos made my night yesterday and really inspired me to be more myself in the future, i‘ll watch your videos from now on whenever i feel weak or lonely :) Again thank you!! you‘re awesome
I love these videos ! I literally started crying when people said they have anxiety and depression. That’s something I’m afraid to share with someone too.
The reason for growing anxiety and depression in this country is increasing *isolation.* We're all afraid of each other, afraid of being vulnerable and getting rejected so instead of taking actions towards starting friendships, we retreat into our minds and overthink everything. At least I do, I never approach or talk to anyone first even though others have proven me wrong in the past by approaching me first.
As I walked away I thought of a better answer which is...im scared to share that I've been bullied because than people view me differently and some even judge me for not standing up for myself.
I'm really scared to be myself around my friends and other people. I wasn't always this way and I have this front that I put up when I'm around others. Been putting up this front since high school. Recently tho I've been trying my hardest to break that shell and truly be myself.
I fear a number of things... Being judged for not seeing the world the way everyone around me does, the fact that the ONLY reason i'm still married is because of the damage to the kids that it would do if i left, and that I struggle so much with high functioning depression that I am on a downward spiral all the time but too many people reltly on me. Being lonely in a crowd of people you know is painful.
I don’t really have any dreams. Never really did. I’m just kind of happy to go wherever i can. On the other hand having no future plans is a bit annoying. I’m in college rn but idk what i want to do so my degree may end up useless if i decide i want to do something else. I guess it be like that sometimes
I am scared of intimacy. I was brought here to voice it and give more awareness to it. Yikes.. this is public af but I stand behind it. Thank you for allowing these people to bring light
I just listened to Laura's Playlist Investigation. Those songs are incredibly romantic. Isn't it strange how we can go to such intimate places in our own head (which, truth be told, can itself be fear-inducing, but usually is quite nice), but when faced with a real person we become paralyzed with fear.
I'm scared of telling people that I mostly don't feel comfortable around them, sometimes even friends and family, and that my personality is different when I'm alone than when being with people.
Your channel is one of the first that makes videos that actually make me feel better about myself. Thank you for your contribution to the world. Thank you for showing me how many things we humans have in common, we have the same fears. You inspire me
I’m scared to let people know that I’m depressed, insecure and have anxiety, I’m anti social and I become very attached to the few people I interact with I don’t wanna be treated differently or judged
What I don't tell anyone is, when I was 14 I was raped. A person I thought was a friend set the whole thing up. When her friend attacked, I screamed for her to help, and she just started laughing. I told my brother, and he didn't believe me. And I told one of my mother's friends, and she told me I probably deserved it. That was probably the only time I've ever felt alone.
I'm really scared of being ridiculed... I was always bullied because of my looks so I assume that's the problem. I absolutely accept the way I am but I still avoid to put myself in situations that could trigger those feelings once again. The problem is it did evolve into fear of failure in my life in general. So I have just hid from major life changing events just in fear of failing and being made fun of... for example my education. I'm 28 and still fighting to finish it as an on-and-off student.
Hey! Thank you for sharing your answer. I wanted to reply to your comment because I connect with it on so many different levels. I think you're absolutely right, certain experiences from childhood definitely stick with us as adults and it's crazy how certain situations can trigger old unwanted feelings. I'm 28 as well and this project has pushed me to do things I never thought I would do, but fighting through it (no matter how long it takes) can result in something good. You mentioned "fighting to the finish" in your last sentence and I hope you know just how powerful that is. Struggles feel like a fight sometimes but as long as we're not giving up I don't think we're failing at all. Thank you again for you comment, take care!! :]
Thank you so much for your reply :) I guess we can relate a lot and maybe that's why I pretty much have seen every one of your videos since I found your channel last week. I think your project is amazing and a VEEEERY brave thing to do specially since we are in our late twenties and I know that time for taking risks like you're doing by making videos for youtube is a much bigger issue than in our early twenties. Hope to see more of your heartwarming content. You have a fan from Portugal here. If you ever visit, send me a message and I'll help you in any way I can.
I developed anxiety after having my children & I’m scared of something happening to me & leaving my little ones without a mother ): I think about it all the time & I don’t like to share that with anyone because they’ll tell me to relax, but I’m afraid that the moment I let my guard down something bad will happen so I’m always in a constant state of awareness...
Im scared to share my trust issues with others. My mental illness makes my perspective on things warped and i often percieve normal actions as abandonment. People often stigmatize bpd and judge me when they find out. Im also scared to share that i have chronic pain, people will either say its not real or baby me
I'm afraid to show people my complexity upon first meeting them. I'm extremely multi-faceted.. maybe too much for my own good. I'm a very polarizing person that wraps herself in empathy, insight and intersectionality. I'm a walking paradox and that makes ppl really uncomfortable and intimidated.
I am scared of being lonely - and with that I don't mean being alone. I mean something like having friends, but they never reach out to you or they are too far away. Like they just don't care about you. I am also scared of talking to people. Usually people think I am just angry or something, but actually I am just really shy and that's probably one of the reasons why I am not finding any friends in my area. Sometimes I am scared to be myself. I got bullied for 7 years and that left its scars. I am always scared of what people think about me, my looks, my behaviour... I am scared of life everyday, but death kind of frightens me even more. The list is basically endless... I try to work on all these things, but somehow I never really make it permanently. It's always just a short period of time I feel confident or happy to be on my own or able to forget my past.
Mir geht es auch so, ich erinnere mich nicht mehr daran, wann ich das letzte mal richtig ehrlich lange gelacht habe und nicht mehr aufhören konnte. Ich habe das Gefühl, dass ich nie wirklich Spaß habe.
@@lilC666 Ich kenne das. Mir kommt es oft auch so vor, besonders dann, wenn es mir gerade nicht so gut geht. Betrachte ich das ganze an einem anderen Tag mit neutraler Laune ganz objektiv, sieht es wieder ganz anders aus. Ich kann nie klar und objektiv denken und mein Leben betrachten, wenn ich nicht gut bzw. normal gelaunt bin 🙈
I can relate all ur insecurities.. I m at the same point of life.. have no one to talk.. I m scared of making new ppl frndz.. scared that they would leave if I get attached
I know it probably means little coming from a total stranger, but I want to tell you you are enough. You are the only _you_ out there, and that is worth protecting and being proud of. It's tough struggling with these thoughts, and learning to love yourself and see all your strengths can be hard work, but trust me, they are there :). I hope you learn to see all your qualities and appreciate yourself the way you deserve! You are worthy of more than you think. Wishing you all the best and sending love!
I'm scared to to tell my friends the real reason why I don't want to invite them to my house, it is because I'm ashamed of the bad atmosphere and obvious lack of love
Im scared to let other people into my heart, i've been hurt badly by multiple ex's and im really scared that when i find my guy, that i wont be able to open up to him
I'm scared to tell my parents that I won't be able to give them grandchildren biologically because of my sexuality or lack there of. I'm also only just coming to terms with it and don't know how my friends or people in my area will react as it is often seen as just being pruny or celibate or broken.
"I'm not attached to the outcome of things". So simple, and yet so brilliant! I will strive for this mindset. I honestly sounds like a key to a healthy mind.
The guy talking about faith, I really understand that. I used to be deeply afraid that people would disregard what I had to say because they didn't like my religion or thought everything I thought was motivated by it and therefore tainted by it. I love people, and I always want to be helpful and say things that are edifying, but I was always crushed when people ignored my opinion or judged me--even judged my family by my faith.
I’m afraid to tell people that i have Aspergers because they might mistake me for a violent person because 2 school shooters were diagnosed with aspergers and quite a few people know that,so people might mistake me for a murder. It’s a constant fear that i have. I am extremely aggressive towards people so the line between murderer and aggressive will probably be blurred for the people who know about that
I’m scared to tell certain people (depending on the situation) that I am a vegetarian, because I’m afraid that they’ll think I look down on those who eat meat. I tend to avoid it as much as possible because it has made people uncomfortable to eat around me or talk about certain things with me after it is mentioned by myself or others. I always try to say it in a way that makes people feel comfortable and loved/accepted (nonchalantly) but I can’t help the stigma that comes with it unfortunately.
Agree with the second person! I’m a Christian too and it’s super hard to tell people that because I spend a lot of time worrying about what other people think.
I'm scared knowing I will die one day and not knowing when that day will be. Also knowing that when I die, peoples memories of you will fade cause they will die too one day and none of it will exist anymore. Life continues always. With or without others.
I mean yeah but your existence is remembered by the earth itself. Air had to move around you to keep moving, and that affects the atmosphere today and every day until the atmosphere itself is gone. All your footprints in the dirt packed down the ground where you walked. Maybe you even helped some trees grow that will oneday become someone’s favorite hang out spot. Just because people won’t remember who it was behind the little things doesn’t mean that you won’t be appreciated for them long after everyone forgets your name.
I love your channel so so much, it's incredibly inspiring. I love you for doing what you do and what you do is beautiful. Hearing other people's fears, worries , struggles thoughts,opinions etc. Makes me not feel so strange ,because there is no such thing as normal! We are all human and we are all beautiful. And your channel has helped me love myself a little more each day. Xoxo
That's totally true, that's why I do love videos like that. Or when people sit in front of each other and share what they don't like about themselves. It creates an instant connection between them, and they get a wider perception in few seconds. It's much worthier to me than hundreds of emty, false, socially accepted, sugar-coated talks about nothing.
I’m scared to tell people i have no close friends because my anxiety scares me away from hanging out with people.. When i tell people they really think i’m lying cause i tell all these funny stories and the worst part is explaining it cause it’s so much deeper than just not having friends but being closed off in your own mind not having One single person to talk to...
I’m scared to share... I'm scared to share... I have literally 0 freinds and it's hard for me to make freinds because no one understands my personality. Im also scared to share with people that i don't have any social media. In a country where people judge who you are based on your follower count and likes. Thats how they decide if there gonna be your freind or not. I feel like I was born in the wrong era or generation and sometimes contemplate ending it all sometimes but I'm too scared to do it.
I just want to know and embrace every single individual and beautiful soul in this video I love how honest everyone is and how you immediately take them to your heart
Thoraya has made me more open-minded and respectful towards other people for are less fortunate and every night I pray that the homeless get fed and sheltered, the African get water and that there is more equipment the world Xx
I’m scared of being emotionally attached to someone but at the same time I’m scared to end up living alone my entire life..
Same :(
Literally me...
We were never meant to be alone just gotta be patient in life and the right person will come around.
Me too
Yup same!
That first woman seems like such a nice person :)
I thought the same thing! And so pretty, too. Lovely aura.
Yeah the way she said "sure"... So sweet ❤️❤️❤️
LeaLikesIcecream shes so pretty
She reminds me of that nice and calm type of aunt or cousin that never gets into any family fights or drama, I don't know 😂💙
For 40...wow she looks amazing
People assume everyone has friends and I'm scared to share with them that I don't have any.
lorcldia I could definitely be your friend.
lorcldia like honestly a lot of people don't have friends, not everyone is an extrovert. Don't worry your not .alone.
Im scared to share that too but i think that they already know and thats just makes me feel ashamed and feel like shit
I get you! Yesterday someone told me "as if you don't have friends"...well yeah I do, but they don't really care about me...they do not feel like friends...they text me once in a while (why I try to text them almost every day (and they reply 5 days later o_o)) and I only meet them about 3-4 times A YEAR, because they are living "far" away... like... they are living in my area, but we still gotta drive around 1,5 h to get there....and they all live at the same place, so they meet up while I am staying at home - alone...
Well you've got one here buddy, just message me on my instagram @arionwastaken and we can talk whenever you'd like about whatever you want. This goes to anyone who needs someone to talk to btw
it is sooooo sad that mostly we are afraid of each other.
m sh it’s actually so crazy:(
That hit me hard
It is sad innit
M sh, mainly its because some people's intentions are not pleasant.
I think it is because we are hurting each other to protect ourselves if this makes sense... we are all so afraid of being hurt that we would do everything to avoid that
I’m scared that I’ll never find someone who can love me as much as I’ll love them
This hit me hard.
@@empty_seat Oh no, you will find someone who loves you very much and will do everything to be with you. Maybe there is someone now too, but you didn't noticed.
Your love is precious and once you find someone who loves you will be very thankful for it
Same
People really do love, but are not very good at showing it. At least it looks like that to me.
@@lolasart3408 yes that's right. It's difficult to show it. Especially when you love someone and u aren't sure if he likes you back, but u don't want to tell him that u like him, because it could be embarrassing after that
2:48 "My ethnicity.. Because I want it not to matter, but it matters." Realest shit..
Felt that
Bee Wills -I’ve never heard anyone say that before. What exactly is she ashamed of?
Kayden Beyer -Thanks for the response. It seems so obvious now but I completely missed it.
I'm scared to tell people about how I actually feel. I'm kinda sad all the time but I cover that up with very terrible humour 😂😂. But I'm scared people won't understand
Me too
most of them won't, but there are those who will. and I'm one of them and I wish you all the best hun♥️
Are you a Pisces?
Same
Born 2 Pizza be you! I feel the same too. But when you find a way to let it all go it makes you feel better.
that woman is 40????!!! amazing
Liliana Trevino she's so gorgeous
Black Don't crack...
I would've guessed 50 or somewhere in the region of that
Liliana Trevino she looks much younger
She looks sooo young! Never thought of that.
My fear of people secretly hating me
I've had that fear in the past as well... I just can't stand the idea of someone hating me. Do you think it's good or bad to have that fear?
@@Thorayaa I don't understand this fear, my crush has it and I can see it take a toll on her
For me it's not a fear. It's more like I don't appreciate people presuming things or perceiving me in a different light based off of what they hear from other people without knowing who I truly am.
I’m scared of people talking behind my back
Pussy.
I am scared of opening up to someone about how I really feel. I feel alone and try to hide my feelings with humour.
Wow...I feel you!!
Look up avoidant attachment!
I feel u
Diego i know i’m late with the reply but i hope u get better at opening up. Maybe show your feelings through humor instead of hiding them with it?
thats not bad, humour can touch people deeply, you might try to just be more authentic to yourself and to communicate this way
I just found this girl's channel. I keep watching.
Dmitry S currently binging her vids
Yeah
Me too bru
Me too 😍
I'm scared of failure so I always end up doing nothing
MrBurnSuckers I use the fear of failure as an excuse to do nothing.
It's really sad, I am sharing this feeling with you it always holding me back from doing more or trying I don't have the confidence as well
I'm from this club aswell
@@bootlegrascal22 ur being judgemental
MrBurnSuckers same. But we all have our faults. It be like that sometimes
I relate to the Christian boy so much. Its hard talking about something that makes you happy, and that you truly believe in, when the topic can so easily upset alot of people
Simone McGowan I have an Instagram! @skrapboy
Simone McGowan you too :)
I'm Catholic and I feel the same way, it makes me sad.
I feel the same way but I am an atheist/stronger believer in the scientific method. I think a lot comes down to the fact that I don't want to come down as preachy, so though it's something that makes me extremely happy (I'm a chemistry graduate student) I don't share the underlying belief/reasons unless I'm asked.
True, i know how it feels especially when you're surrounded by ppl who doesnt believe in Him 😭💔
"I'm not attached to the outcome of things"
🙌🏻 I died right there
Caludia Pez -That was powerful.
Waoooowww!! Just waow!!
Right? Amazing!
Yeah, that was very well-expressed - very deep.
Just doing it and if it goes well cool and if it doesn’t go well cool. Move on.
Im scared to let people know that I'm emotionally sensitive and that I'm always putting up a face to hide it
I'm scared of showing my true self and talking about my anxiety, depression etc. I fear that I will be judged. I feel like I have to wear a mask to make others happy where in reality I'm the one who is unhappy and suffering. I want to be free and happy.
I do that too. And I hate it. Having a mask on all the time.
Savanna Jade it's okay. put off the mask. let the sun shine on your skin. dunno how to say this but be yourself, life is short enough. it's going to be painful at the beginning but it's kinda sooo Worth it
awe b
Savanna Jade tip: find someone who makes you feel like sunshine & find a non toxic person promise u it will come
as long as u spread positivity: love to ppl bcz if you’re kind kind ppl r attracted to u
I felt like I could relate to at least half of these people and its funny because I think most people can but yet we all think were alone in this
true
I have a big fear of being on my own. And not like alone in my room or something, just in life. My biggest fear is having no friends and it also pairs with my fear of people not liking me. I just wanna be luved :(
Guess what? I was afraid of that too, now i am actually alone. It feels like shit, but it is better than being with the wrong people, so don't freak out, just get some good friends and keep them. Create high quality relationships!
I feel you but I'll tell even in your head people don't love you its actually not true at all
Of course there will be people you don't vibe with and people who don't like and that's okay
You will find your true friends if you don't already have and just remember that of course there people who loves you so much even you tell yourself otherwise
Even people who you don't interact with that much
You don't know the effect you have on people
Sorry for my very bad english lol 💙
chelseatruman maybe just try to be who you want to be deep Inside. maybe you feel weird about it, but it's sooôo Worth it. and you will find the good persons if you Don't expect anything from anyone. just evolve, progress, attraction law. More empathy. becoming a better human, as a sense of life.
❤️
Just keep looking for friends, be friendly, help, you'll eventually find someome who will apreciate you for who you are and love you! Don't give up and don't be scared. We live once, make most of it!
Afraid of not being intelligent and good enough. Feeling lonely. About parts of my past.
I hear you
I'm scared of never being loved romantically.
Right??
You’ve got time. As long as you’re not like 100 years old, you’ve got time
I know right?
same here:(
@@Zeke1460 you are so right. Thank you.
I’m scared to tell people how messed up my family is and how bad things can get
Emma M Please seek help if you need it!! Stay strong
Emma M so am I, I'm in my 20's and only me and my significant other knows what goes on, all that I feel like I can do is just do my part
I have been there too, what made me open up was realizing i am not the only one with family issues, when a friend opened up to me in high school i was like oh, this is not only my secret, it is not a singular situation, it happens, people will not be totally shocked to hear about it. I am really open on the subject since then, before that basically no one knew.
Yeah I get this. It’s hard to find people who will understand and not see you in a different light because of what happens/has happened.
Emma M seek for help. talk about it ! go your own road, take care of YOURSELF because who's gonna do it if not YOU
Im scared of being misunderstood. Because of my social anxiety. I feel like it makes me seem like an offish person and i hate that it gives people the wrong impression of me.
Im scared of not being liked.
Im scared that if i open up to people about it that it will put them off.
Im scared to carry on.
I am scared to tell people that I actually am not as happy as I look... And I constantly think of death.. But I keep smiling to hide how messed up I am. ___.
You are loved! You are special! You are fearfully and wonderfully made. Read Psalm 139:13 and forward. Jesus loves you! He died on the cross for our sins. ❤️ Much love to you.
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No but seriously. And talk to someone. There's no shame. Even if it's just a friend, or a guidance counselor. ANYONE who you know cares for you.
I'm scared to show people my arms, and wear shorts in public. If you know you know :/
Im just a snail I feel you on this one❤️ I know it's important to not be ashamed of what's on our skin, but I can't wait to get tattoos over what's on mine. Stay strong lovely, we don't know each other but we're in this together
I wish I could "not be attached to the outcome of things". That has to be the ultimate freedom. I think I'm right there with the guy not wanting to disclose his past and the upbringing in his home. While doing so can give the freedom to breathe easier, no longer being stifled by the hurtful or "shameful" things in your past, you still have to be careful with whom you share those deepest, darkest moments because so many people are judgemental and/or looking for ammunition to add to their arsenal should the relationship tide ever turn. I really liked the answer from the blonde with the black glasses about being conditioned to give an appearance everything is alright and the fear of admitting it's not and that we're a hot mess, or lost, or clueless. It's all relevant and I often feel like social media perpetuates that need to be socially successful even when we're struggling just to not fail.
MystehMonz it’s not just social media, but Society on a whole🤦🏾♀️
I'm allowing myself to finally learn piano, finally letting go of those preconceived notions of not ever being good enough, because being better than yesterday or last week is all you really remember
I am scared to share with people that i am unhappy with myself because i am not confident in who i am and most of the time feel mentally and emotionally unstable.
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Hi everyone!! In my previous comment I asked you guys to share your answer to this question... I've been reading through a lot of them and it makes me happy to see that you find my page a safe place to share what you are going through. With that being said, I want you all to know that unfortunately I'm unable to read all the comments and I feel awful because some of you have been sharing really personal experiences that I think should be acknowledged by someone. So please if any of you are having suicidal thoughts here is the number to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 and if any of you have been sexually assaulted and are looking to speak to someone, here is the number to National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 ..... If you're not looking to reach a professional I really hope you'll consider talking to someone close to you that you can trust! Lastly, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't think that I'm ignoring any of your comments
Thoraya Maronesy
Please don’t ever apologize to us ever again for something like this. YOU created this “safe space” where people can get stuff off there minds with out being judged. YOU gave us a place to feel. YOU have saved countless lives already I promise you. I would know I’m one of them. Hearing people of all ages talk about this stuff actually helps a lot. It puts my mind at ease. Honestly I think humanity needed this. It’s kind of like reverse therapy if that makes sense. It makes you realize how small your own personal problems are, and at the same time realize what we need to do in our lives to enjoy our selves again. I found your chAnnel today. I think I’ve watched 12 hours nonstop. I’ve cried, I’ve laughed, I’ve remembered, but most importantly i feel. For the first time in 20 years I’m not numb! It’s truly amazing! From the bottom of my heart. THANK YOU!
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I just wanted to say that, I love your content. It's raw. Unrefined and beautiful.
i’m really proud of that man who grew up homeless & was the first to graduate college in his family, that’s really awesome
I'm scared that maybe I'm on the Truman show, or I'm the only person who actually exists and this is all an illusion, scared of losing sanity. Can't tell people that stuff... It's insane just to think about it.
I feel the same!
Okay, our sound system had a glitch & didn't pick that up correctly the first time. so can you do another take?
This just makes me think how important it is to be accepting of others and constantly remind yourself that other people like different things and that‘s okay. I‘m scared to share my sexuality with people, I lie to my parents about it and hide my true self inside. Also the fact that I was suicidal and go to therapy now, which helps a bit. Nobody who knows me genuinely knows, except for an ex boyfriend. I just keep it to myself, because I don‘t like showing weakness in front of others
I completely agree! I think we'd solve a lot of problems if we were more accepting of other people and their struggles. Just from your comment alone I can tell you're a very strong person... and I know I don't know you personally but you sound pretty awesome! All your comments have made my day today! Thanks for sharing everything that you did and I'm glad you are past the suicidal thoughts. And finally, I know you're not asking for advice or anything but I just wanted to let you know that it'll get better
Thoraya Maronesy Thank you so much ❤️ You seem like such a beautiful person inside and outside as well! Your videos made my night yesterday and really inspired me to be more myself in the future, i‘ll watch your videos from now on whenever i feel weak or lonely :) Again thank you!! you‘re awesome
I’m scared to tell people that I was abused growing up, and also that I have hundreds of self harm scares.
You are so very strong🤗
"I'm not attached to the outcome of things"....Miss lady I hear you all the way over here with that one!!!
I love these videos !
I literally started crying when people said they have anxiety and depression.
That’s something I’m afraid to share with someone too.
The reason for growing anxiety and depression in this country is increasing *isolation.* We're all afraid of each other, afraid of being vulnerable and getting rejected so instead of taking actions towards starting friendships, we retreat into our minds and overthink everything. At least I do, I never approach or talk to anyone first even though others have proven me wrong in the past by approaching me first.
As I walked away I thought of a better answer which is...im scared to share that I've been bullied because than people view me differently and some even judge me for not standing up for myself.
Hi! So glad we meet and that you shared what you did- I don't think you would be judged for it... it's brave of you to share that :]
Also I want to hug the cute boy at 4:25 ❤️ I know how it feels
Haha! Same!! :]
Zu Zu his teeth are pretty
I am in LOVE with him!!! Pleaaasseee what's his insta ? If he sees this.. mine is : priscillacarlota
Yeah, he has lovely skin. :3
He’s adorable!
I'm really scared to be myself around my friends and other people. I wasn't always this way and I have this front that I put up when I'm around others. Been putting up this front since high school. Recently tho I've been trying my hardest to break that shell and truly be myself.
I fear a number of things... Being judged for not seeing the world the way everyone around me does, the fact that the ONLY reason i'm still married is because of the damage to the kids that it would do if i left, and that I struggle so much with high functioning depression that I am on a downward spiral all the time but too many people reltly on me.
Being lonely in a crowd of people you know is painful.
I am scared to share my feelings with people because I have trust issues and I care to much about what people think about me
I'm completely scarred I won't live a life full of my dreams, but every time the opportunity arises I'm too scarred to act on them
I don’t really have any dreams. Never really did. I’m just kind of happy to go wherever i can. On the other hand having no future plans is a bit annoying. I’m in college rn but idk what i want to do so my degree may end up useless if i decide i want to do something else. I guess it be like that sometimes
The woman in the beginning is so amazingly gorgeous and beautiful. Watching her talk made a smile stretch across my face.
I am scared of intimacy.
I was brought here to voice it and give more awareness to it.
Yikes.. this is public af but I stand behind it. Thank you for allowing these people to bring light
I just listened to Laura's Playlist Investigation. Those songs are incredibly romantic. Isn't it strange how we can go to such intimate places in our own head (which, truth be told, can itself be fear-inducing, but usually is quite nice), but when faced with a real person we become paralyzed with fear.
I'm scared of telling people that I mostly don't feel comfortable around them, sometimes even friends and family, and that my personality is different when I'm alone than when being with people.
I'm scared to tell people that I may look happy but deep down I'm truly broken.
Your channel is one of the first that makes videos that actually make me feel better about myself. Thank you for your contribution to the world. Thank you for showing me how many things we humans have in common, we have the same fears. You inspire me
I’m scared to let people know that I’m depressed, insecure and have anxiety, I’m anti social and I become very attached to the few people I interact with I don’t wanna be treated differently or judged
You capture people un such a beautiful way and the outcome is just marvellous.
What I don't tell anyone is, when I was 14 I was raped. A person I thought was a friend set the whole thing up. When her friend attacked, I screamed for her to help, and she just started laughing. I told my brother, and he didn't believe me. And I told one of my mother's friends, and she told me I probably deserved it. That was probably the only time I've ever felt alone.
I'm really scared of being ridiculed... I was always bullied because of my looks so I assume that's the problem. I absolutely accept the way I am but I still avoid to put myself in situations that could trigger those feelings once again. The problem is it did evolve into fear of failure in my life in general. So I have just hid from major life changing events just in fear of failing and being made fun of... for example my education. I'm 28 and still fighting to finish it as an on-and-off student.
Hey! Thank you for sharing your answer. I wanted to reply to your comment because I connect with it on so many different levels. I think you're absolutely right, certain experiences from childhood definitely stick with us as adults and it's crazy how certain situations can trigger old unwanted feelings. I'm 28 as well and this project has pushed me to do things I never thought I would do, but fighting through it (no matter how long it takes) can result in something good. You mentioned "fighting to the finish" in your last sentence and I hope you know just how powerful that is. Struggles feel like a fight sometimes but as long as we're not giving up I don't think we're failing at all. Thank you again for you comment, take care!! :]
Thank you so much for your reply :) I guess we can relate a lot and maybe that's why I pretty much have seen every one of your videos since I found your channel last week. I think your project is amazing and a VEEEERY brave thing to do specially since we are in our late twenties and I know that time for taking risks like you're doing by making videos for youtube is a much bigger issue than in our early twenties. Hope to see more of your heartwarming content. You have a fan from Portugal here. If you ever visit, send me a message and I'll help you in any way I can.
"I'm not attached to the outcome of things"
But it also seemed that she was a caring person.
That is very powerful.
Everyone has a similar answer and it would be probably mine: we are all scared to share our fears
I’m scared to tell people of how i truly feel from the inside
I LOVE the lady that's not scared of anything!!!! We all need to strive to be more like her!!!
The woman saying that she's afraid to share her ethnicity broke my heart. Especially how she kinda hid behind her smile
I'm scared to share my past and the way I really feel and how I'm doing.
I developed anxiety after having my children & I’m scared of something happening to me & leaving my little ones without a mother ): I think about it all the time & I don’t like to share that with anyone because they’ll tell me to relax, but I’m afraid that the moment I let my guard down something bad will happen so I’m always in a constant state of awareness...
I’m scared to tell people how OCD I actually am... or see me actually being OCD... shhh that’s a secret. Lol but really.
Hehe I kinda have ocd to
I've had OCD since I was 4...and I'm 42. No shame. Meds help but have never taken it fully away. You're not alone🌺
If you're willing to share... what are you guys scared to share with people?
Im scared to share my trust issues with others. My mental illness makes my perspective on things warped and i often percieve normal actions as abandonment. People often stigmatize bpd and judge me when they find out. Im also scared to share that i have chronic pain, people will either say its not real or baby me
That I abuse alcohol on a daily (nightly actually) basis...
that I'm afraid of never finding the love of my life and ending up alone for the rest of my life (romantically)
That i don't have any friends and im alone and scared and have social anxiety and very insecure (i think they already know but still)
@@loveforeignaccents Im an alcoholic too. When youre ready to change, go to an AA meeting. Zero stigma and a room full of people who want to help you.
Wow that last lady is so inspiring! I can only strive to be like her one day! Playing her on repeat!!
im scared of sharing about my social anxiety and opening up about general struggles because im scared of being seen as weak again.
I'm afraid to show people my complexity upon first meeting them. I'm extremely multi-faceted.. maybe too much for my own good. I'm a very polarizing person that wraps herself in empathy, insight and intersectionality. I'm a walking paradox and that makes ppl really uncomfortable and intimidated.
SAAAAAAAAAMEEEEEEEEE!! You described me better than I ever could. Glad to hear I'm not alone
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Yes.
Kendyll Cole so basically you’re fake?
I am scared of being lonely - and with that I don't mean being alone. I mean something like having friends, but they never reach out to you or they are too far away. Like they just don't care about you.
I am also scared of talking to people. Usually people think I am just angry or something, but actually I am just really shy and that's probably one of the reasons why I am not finding any friends in my area.
Sometimes I am scared to be myself. I got bullied for 7 years and that left its scars. I am always scared of what people think about me, my looks, my behaviour...
I am scared of life everyday, but death kind of frightens me even more.
The list is basically endless...
I try to work on all these things, but somehow I never really make it permanently. It's always just a short period of time I feel confident or happy to be on my own or able to forget my past.
Girl, i can relate to you in some points, i once was very shy too. It's a long way, but dont give up, you can make it!
@@hannes1734 Ja, ich weiß schon...es ist nur ein ewiges hin und her...danke 🤗
Mir geht es auch so, ich erinnere mich nicht mehr daran, wann ich das letzte mal richtig ehrlich lange gelacht habe und nicht mehr aufhören konnte. Ich habe das Gefühl, dass ich nie wirklich Spaß habe.
@@lilC666 Ich kenne das. Mir kommt es oft auch so vor, besonders dann, wenn es mir gerade nicht so gut geht. Betrachte ich das ganze an einem anderen Tag mit neutraler Laune ganz objektiv, sieht es wieder ganz anders aus. Ich kann nie klar und objektiv denken und mein Leben betrachten, wenn ich nicht gut bzw. normal gelaunt bin 🙈
I can relate all ur insecurities.. I m at the same point of life.. have no one to talk.. I m scared of making new ppl frndz.. scared that they would leave if I get attached
I can't say because I'm too scared to share it.
I wish you peace 🙏
You aren't a pedophile, are you?
I’m afraid to let people know I feel I don’t have a lot to offer and that I’m not good enough.
I know it probably means little coming from a total stranger, but I want to tell you you are enough. You are the only _you_ out there, and that is worth protecting and being proud of. It's tough struggling with these thoughts, and learning to love yourself and see all your strengths can be hard work, but trust me, they are there :). I hope you learn to see all your qualities and appreciate yourself the way you deserve! You are worthy of more than you think.
Wishing you all the best and sending love!
EFoxKitsune Thank You, I appreciate your kind words.
Im scared to tell people i have abandonment issues because of my family leaving me and disowning me.
I'm scared to to tell my friends the real reason why I don't want to invite them to my house, it is because I'm ashamed of the bad atmosphere and obvious lack of love
I felt the same way... i promise it gets better
I’m scared to be alone and I’m scared to fall for somebody again
If you have a suggestion for a question I should ask strangers please direct message me on Instagram: @thor.aya
what is the hardest thing you've ever done/had to do
What saves you?
Cookies And poetry
That Is a very good question, that would get some deep answers
did your dreams come true? Can you catch them?
Ask people do you believe in the paranormal and why or why not?
Im scared to let other people into my heart, i've been hurt badly by multiple ex's and im really scared that when i find my guy, that i wont be able to open up to him
I have this same fear.
Thank you for being unbiased, allowing all walks of life to share in their stories.
I’m scared of what people think of me. It hinders me from being myself
That guy at 4:25 seems like an amazing and a super nice person I wanna hug him and tell him how relatable that is
I'm scared to tell my parents that I won't be able to give them grandchildren biologically because of my sexuality or lack there of. I'm also only just coming to terms with it and don't know how my friends or people in my area will react as it is often seen as just being pruny or celibate or broken.
Jore Van Wyk you actually can give them kids biologically no matter your sexuality
"I'm not attached to the outcome of things". So simple, and yet so brilliant! I will strive for this mindset. I honestly sounds like a key to a healthy mind.
The guy talking about faith, I really understand that. I used to be deeply afraid that people would disregard what I had to say because they didn't like my religion or thought everything I thought was motivated by it and therefore tainted by it. I love people, and I always want to be helpful and say things that are edifying, but I was always crushed when people ignored my opinion or judged me--even judged my family by my faith.
A question to ask people is could they tell a whole story in only 6 words. My six words are I Never Got To Say Goodbye.
Sad story fam. I know what that’s like. Probably not in the same way but it be like that sometimes
"Big smile. Conserving life. Sharing kindness."
I’m afraid to tell people that i have Aspergers because they might mistake me for a violent person because 2 school shooters were diagnosed with aspergers and quite a few people know that,so people might mistake me for a murder. It’s a constant fear that i have. I am extremely aggressive towards people so the line between murderer and aggressive will probably be blurred for the people who know about that
Since finding your channel, I don’t feel so alone. Thank you for this very important work that you do. 🙏🏻
I’m scared of never having someone when I get older. All I want is someone who loves me
I’m scared to tell certain people (depending on the situation) that I am a vegetarian, because I’m afraid that they’ll think I look down on those who eat meat. I tend to avoid it as much as possible because it has made people uncomfortable to eat around me or talk about certain things with me after it is mentioned by myself or others. I always try to say it in a way that makes people feel comfortable and loved/accepted (nonchalantly) but I can’t help the stigma that comes with it unfortunately.
You don't have to tell people. Just live your life normally, and if someone asks you and you feel comfortable to share it, than do it :)
No one cares (coming from a vegetarian)
No one gonna talk about that girl who looks like Vanessa Hudgens?
Agree with the second person! I’m a Christian too and it’s super hard to tell people that because I spend a lot of time worrying about what other people think.
It seems to me that the bottom line is an almost universal fear of appearing or being vulnerable...in any way. Food for thought. ;) for sure ty
Not attached to the outcome of things!!...genius!
Justice 4All thte girl who thinks her car will breakdown anytime... so disappointing hahaha
I'm scared knowing I will die one day and not knowing when that day will be. Also knowing that when I die, peoples memories of you will fade cause they will die too one day and none of it will exist anymore. Life continues always. With or without others.
I mean yeah but your existence is remembered by the earth itself. Air had to move around you to keep moving, and that affects the atmosphere today and every day until the atmosphere itself is gone. All your footprints in the dirt packed down the ground where you walked. Maybe you even helped some trees grow that will oneday become someone’s favorite hang out spot. Just because people won’t remember who it was behind the little things doesn’t mean that you won’t be appreciated for them long after everyone forgets your name.
I love your channel so so much, it's incredibly inspiring. I love you for doing what you do and what you do is beautiful. Hearing other people's fears, worries , struggles thoughts,opinions etc. Makes me not feel so strange ,because there is no such thing as normal! We are all human and we are all beautiful. And your channel has helped me love myself a little more each day. Xoxo
Thoraya you are very good at asking questions. So respectful, so sensitive. Thank you for your kind way of approaching people!!
That's amazing how we are similar in our fears O_O
That's totally true, that's why I do love videos like that. Or when people sit in front of each other and share what they don't like about themselves. It creates an instant connection between them, and they get a wider perception in few seconds. It's much worthier to me than hundreds of emty, false, socially accepted, sugar-coated talks about nothing.
I’m scared to tell people i have no close friends because my anxiety scares me away from hanging out with people.. When i tell people they really think i’m lying cause i tell all these funny stories and the worst part is explaining it cause it’s so much deeper than just not having friends but being closed off in your own mind not having One single person to talk to...
“I’m not attached to the outcome of things” that is some seriously great point of view.
I'm afraid to show that sometimes I feel lonely and accept that I'm not the same happy person I used to be.
I am scared of feelings.
The guy at 4:10 was tough to hear you could tell that took a lot
I’m scared to share that I’m just trying to get through each day without feeling like I don’t want to be here anymore, because I do want to.
Sharing myself.
Mostly my personality but also the way I look and act and think
I’m scared to share... I'm scared to share... I have literally 0 freinds and it's hard for me to make freinds because no one understands my personality. Im also scared to share with people that i don't have any social media. In a country where people judge who you are based on your follower count and likes. Thats how they decide if there gonna be your freind or not. I feel like I was born in the wrong era or generation and sometimes contemplate ending it all sometimes but I'm too scared to do it.
Nice Interviews you Do Thoraya. Its good for human to seriosly think about things like that for a moment. Keep on goin. Subscribed to your Chanel 👍
Thank you so much!!!! I definitely plan to keep going and hope you keep watching :]
@@Thorayaa can you please do more strangers share there secrets but LGBTQ+ community I subbed 👍🏽
I just want to know and embrace every single individual and beautiful soul in this video
I love how honest everyone is and how you immediately take them to your heart
Thoraya has made me more open-minded and respectful towards other people for are less fortunate and every night I pray that the homeless get fed and sheltered, the African get water and that there is more equipment the world Xx