How I Overcame Depression, Anxiety, And Addiction (Andrew's True Story Of Addiction)

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  • Andrew's Recovery Story: How I overcame depression, anxiety, and addiction to alcohol. In this video, addiction specialist interviews recovery coach Andrew F. from Greenville Transitions. Andrew talks about how he spent years going to psych hospitals, counselors and psychiatrists to get help for his depression and anxiety, but it wasn't until he addressed his alcoholism did he start getting better.
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  • @PutTheShovelDown
    @PutTheShovelDown  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🕵️‍♀️Watch This Next: Inside The Mind Of A Young Addict: th-cam.com/video/PDJAcvquL-g/w-d-xo.html

    • @tamnadvardis7039
      @tamnadvardis7039 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I smoke marijuana before almost 15 year and have brain problem but since that time I stop smoking but now after recovery from covid19 my brain is detorieting please I need some tips I have been hospital before but the doctor didn't find anything wrong

  • @a..r.9341
    @a..r.9341 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Andrew seems so calm, but witty and funny too. Happy he could get sober and help now other young men. 😍🥰

  • @abutterfly7975
    @abutterfly7975 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Andrew I really enjoyed hearing your story.
    I have a son who is suffering from mental illness’s and is on a cycle of bingeing then sober for awhile and repeat.
    He is out there he won’t tell me where, no place to go, no job now and soon penniless now, not knowing how to live life he told me, drinking and likely more, trying to kill the pain of not feeling normal.
    It’s heartbreaking as he has tried different meds after years of refusing to and was unable to find one that worked or would let him sleep at night, for ADHD. He also tried therapy for a bit and 12 step and more.
    At this point he has probably lost everything and most of all the girl he loves and his friends.
    My heart breaks watching him listening to him be in such agony inside. I’m so afraid he will die because of this, way too young.
    It’s hard to say what came first the addiction or the mental illness, but it’s really hard to get help.
    If he detoxes he goes right back at it. The impulsivity is bad and he needs help so badly to get a full diagnosis past the ADHD, I feel like more is going on in his brain.
    I have helped him for yrs but I can’t hold his hand, I am struggling myself health wise. I have set up boundaries too.
    He doesn’t want to talk about it really, he says he already knows…….I pray for a miracle constantly. I would appreciate any prayers so much, he is such an amazing guy inside of all of this. 🥹

    • @jdxx59
      @jdxx59 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your situation with your son is identical to our situation with our 37 year old son. ADHD along with addiction from self medicating for so many years has taken it’s toll on all of our family. So difficult to find appropriate help and support. All we want is some peace.

  • @mariewaters9572
    @mariewaters9572 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Hi andrew just took our 32 old alcoholic daughter to detox today your story touched me and gave me hope for her 🙏😍

    • @PutTheShovelDown
      @PutTheShovelDown  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wonderful!

    • @NB-sq7ui
      @NB-sq7ui 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How's it going now?

    • @mariewaters9572
      @mariewaters9572 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@NB-sq7ui detox didn’t help but went to another treatment centre July 6 and I’m happy to report three months sober staying strong. It’s been ugly for over ten years but now we have new hope. Thanks

    • @littlelily4
      @littlelily4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She is so so lucky to have you both I don't even think she realizes it
      I wish I could have normal empathetic parents
      I struggle with depression a lot and I think my family's dynamic is the main cause
      All they care about is performance...you should be able to find strength in your family, not performative robots
      Family is everything 💙

  • @gracesklein2567
    @gracesklein2567 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for posting such an essential and candid video. My alcohol abuse was so bad; I started getting hangovers when I was still drunk! Alcohol is the most destructive drug and a significant cause of depression. In the end, it was easy to quit, and I started seeing the world and people through the eyes of a child. The best incentive for staying sober was going to a social event and being the only person not drinking. Drunk people I had never met before would pour out intimate and personal details about their lives and behave worse than animals. It also makes men and women look like bad pantomime dames - you can only see this when you remove your beer goggles 😱😲😂💖

  • @DJVR38
    @DJVR38 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Andrew, I see my son in your journey and have sent him this video for inspiration. I am praying he has an outcome as wonderful as yours. Congratulations on your recovery!

  • @davidmcnease1034
    @davidmcnease1034 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    We are so happy to have this guy on our team at Greenville Transitions! Thanks for the video Andrew!

  • @jodypixley6683
    @jodypixley6683 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Andrew I'm so impressed at how you can now talk about your experience and help others .
    Thank you for shareing

  • @jodypixley6683
    @jodypixley6683 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I definitely believe you have to fix the substance abuse problem before you can treat any mental or actual medical problem that could be going on !

  • @casterakabadman805
    @casterakabadman805 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I wish people were legally mandated to watch this. Everyone's performing mental gymnastics around inconvenient realities.

  • @wandadickson3099
    @wandadickson3099 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thanks for sharing Andrew! Glad your story took a different turn. You have a very kind spirit. You remind me of my sweet boy.

    • @PutTheShovelDown
      @PutTheShovelDown  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wanda Dickson that Andrew is a good one for sure!

  • @donaldhunt4
    @donaldhunt4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Keep fighting Andrew! Thank you for your story, I needed some strength today and I found it in you

  • @nicholebrower2127
    @nicholebrower2127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Holy shit....What a refreshing take on hearing someone's story. So genuine. AA was a horrible experience/example where I went. Maybe I just didn't want to or was ready to hear/accept (who knows).
    They refuse to accept CPTSD. Instead, "I" have character flaws. The combination of substance abuse and mental health issues is a must.
    Thank you Andrew.

    • @PutTheShovelDown
      @PutTheShovelDown  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're right Nichole. It's not always a character defect!

  • @Evelorgen
    @Evelorgen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Andrew's story brought tears to my eyes. Its so great help was available and people cared.

  • @jodypixley6683
    @jodypixley6683 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The music in this is very calming to me but of course his speaking is also .

  • @olives2426
    @olives2426 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you so much Andrew. I can relate to so much of your story. currently struggling, well still. looking for guidance, you helped ❤ praying for us all

  • @alainburki
    @alainburki 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you Andrew for your story we have different stories of course but it really caught me, Idk what needs to happen to me for me to finally get it... I'm 33 yo. I see similarities though thank you for helping others and I'm so happy for you u are living your life and god bless you

  • @marianapaisley816
    @marianapaisley816 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Text book born alcoholic! Thanks for sharing your story with such honesty

  • @onesoulmeanddm
    @onesoulmeanddm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You've done good Andrew!👏👏👏

  • @dorc_asmr
    @dorc_asmr 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Interesting perspective - I never thought to look at my addictive personality from this angle.

  • @kathymclaughlin3327
    @kathymclaughlin3327 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for sharing Andrew! Helps me to understand some of what my daughters deal with that I didn't think of.

  • @jeannedorton5655
    @jeannedorton5655 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely heartwarming❤️what a show of strength and courage! My prayers are with you for continued strength🙏🏽❤️

  • @debbiemakowski7880
    @debbiemakowski7880 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you, Andrew, for your sharing and openness. Best to you and your journey of life

  • @KarlaMcNeese
    @KarlaMcNeese ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved this story, thank you Andrew for sharing!

  • @Rose-ou5cs
    @Rose-ou5cs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are amazing Andrew!!! This is so insightful-thank you!

  • @cheerfulmouse
    @cheerfulmouse ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing your story Andrew 🙏❤️
    God Bless you!!

  • @TheNmv2728
    @TheNmv2728 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing your journey.

  • @dorismayorga1769
    @dorismayorga1769 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow Andrew! So proud of you 👍 May God bless you today and always! Keep going forward!

  • @nelsongonzales1263
    @nelsongonzales1263 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Andrew you’re an inspiration ❤

  • @joannejordan8684
    @joannejordan8684 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing your story Andrew! I so wish my family had the resources to send my son into rehab, it’s unfortunate that it’s so far out of reach for so many people!

  • @mikenapolitano490
    @mikenapolitano490 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great and inspiring story Andrew, thank you!

  • @sarfory
    @sarfory 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing!!! It means a lot!

  • @caraedwards2291
    @caraedwards2291 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thanks for sharing your story and your work at Greenville!

    • @PutTheShovelDown
      @PutTheShovelDown  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for watching Cara!!!❤️️❤️️ What should our next video be about?

  • @donnajames6067
    @donnajames6067 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amazing recovery! Thanks for sharing 👏 well done xx

  • @lydiamilanovic439
    @lydiamilanovic439 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Andrew, for sharing your story. I can see similarities between you and my son, especially the wanting to spread the pain you were feeling into others. It helps me to know that💝

  • @Mumsy_Soap
    @Mumsy_Soap 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing Andrew

  • @cindyasters
    @cindyasters 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for your encouraging story.

  • @wendylynn68
    @wendylynn68 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You sound so much like my son. I got him into Lifeskills residential program in south fl 3 weeks ago. I hope he finds what you did.

    • @jliveproductions3042
      @jliveproductions3042 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey. Is this at hazelton in Naples Florida you’re talking about? Thanks I’m advance

    • @wendylynn68
      @wendylynn68 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jliveproductions3042 no. It’s in Deerfield beach.

  • @michaelpeden5602
    @michaelpeden5602 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing your story Andrew, it gives people hope

  • @ketulpatel7949
    @ketulpatel7949 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was extremely helpful and insightful; Thank You.

  • @maylinllanes1695
    @maylinllanes1695 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you!

  • @tshepangmoote3478
    @tshepangmoote3478 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good looking!

  • @deborahstarman9874
    @deborahstarman9874 ปีที่แล้ว

    Truth

  • @simonrees9117
    @simonrees9117 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Never a truer word was said

  • @mystikmusic2412
    @mystikmusic2412 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I want to get better so bad. It feels so impossible.

    • @PutTheShovelDown
      @PutTheShovelDown  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can absolutely do it Aubby! Here's a video about how to make really small changes that make a big difference! th-cam.com/video/1lLmRjg0cdc/w-d-xo.html

  • @Onlinesully
    @Onlinesully 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this lady is talking about something that she understands

    • @PutTheShovelDown
      @PutTheShovelDown  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Sow!

    • @Onlinesully
      @Onlinesully 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Put The Shovel Down
      I'm not even sure what happened to me.
      Most likely started with depression, and developed some addictions from there. Didn't get caught in drugs, but got caught in many other addictions.

    • @Onlinesully
      @Onlinesully 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Put The Shovel down
      I don't know if I can get out of this now.
      I lost my partner to betrayal. We lived together for years in our home and one day she was gone with our new born baby. and spent months trying to find them at which point she abducted our child to 8000 miles away and blocked me out completely. Spent two years on court trying to sort it out and got fired and then had a nervous mental breakdown and that was pretty much the end of me.
      I've gone into a dreadful spiral since all this happened. It's too long now.
      If you can help thank you.

  • @PutTheShovelDown
    @PutTheShovelDown  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    To find out more about Greenville Transitions (where Andrew works as a recovery coach) visit www.greenvilletransitions.com

  • @NathanPina-cn1fv
    @NathanPina-cn1fv 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Man I’m going through it idk about my life anymore

  • @codgirl25
    @codgirl25 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Literally JUST connected this video to the TV in the other room where my "boyfriend's" half sleeping/half awake hoping he might hear some of this, as I lay here watching our 3 yr old daughter sleep. I don't know what it will take for him to stop. He says he thinks it's ok to blow a few lines once in a while and be a good dad. Needless to say, I disagree, what a joke. So he's off to a mostly useless rehab accepting him as a patient due to alcoholism. ( They don't treat cocaine use because it's not a physiological dependence. ??!) So he'll be released in like...3-5 days? I feel so helpless. I ask God for the strength to get through this, and to help me shield her from this complete bull$##* she never asked for and doesn't deserve.

    • @PutTheShovelDown
      @PutTheShovelDown  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Kim, it sounds like he's going to detox (not rehab). Detox is a good step but it must be followed up by serious action steps. Here's my playlist on "motivating someone to take steps toward recovery". Hope it's helpful: th-cam.com/video/ED6vqEj6Tv0/w-d-xo.html

    • @codgirl25
      @codgirl25 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PutTheShovelDown Appreciate that so much, thank you.

  • @deannadeannahunt8179
    @deannadeannahunt8179 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What site is it to be able to talk as a family I cannot find it

  • @JohannesJunkJournalLife
    @JohannesJunkJournalLife 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for the video but the e music in the background is so distracting

  • @grandmastermario3695
    @grandmastermario3695 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Depression is usually the reason or exscuses as to why people drink and abuse drugs

  • @kiaraholmes4329
    @kiaraholmes4329 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I liked your story. Add another 30 years and you’ve got me. However I’m a female.

  • @SAMEntalhealth
    @SAMEntalhealth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was just this depressed before i ever touched fentanyl. But the fentanyl only helped temporarily, but the comedown plus the substance abuse was an add-on to my Major depressive disorder which i was diagnosed at 13 and accepted death at that age. To this day i still despise myself and feel like a useless POS. I have never committed a crime, stole for drugs, id suffer instead. Couldn't bring myself to ask for money for drugs. But i honestly hate my life and if there was an off switch or self assisted suicide id take it with pride. Id say im a waste of life and deserve this death

    • @littlelily4
      @littlelily4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why do you blame yourself though ?

    • @dotroscoe86
      @dotroscoe86 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dan you sound just like my son. I hope you are ok

    • @SAMEntalhealth
      @SAMEntalhealth ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dotroscoe86 i am actually now going through another major depression episode that's been lasting over a month. I feel so stuck like I'll never feel happiness again. :(

    • @SAMEntalhealth
      @SAMEntalhealth ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dotroscoe86 i wish i had more people to talk to personally :(

    • @dotroscoe86
      @dotroscoe86 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SAMEntalhealth I'm so sorry. I hope you can get with a good counselor to help

  • @joeblockmusic5948
    @joeblockmusic5948 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations on sobriety I am also five months clean from all substances my mother is an alcoholic listen to my newest song that tells my story

  • @angelacollins3562
    @angelacollins3562 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can the brain heal its repair system after quitting heavy marijuana use?

  • @NB-sq7ui
    @NB-sq7ui 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    There's nothing depressing about ' The Smiths ' lol...I'm from the UK and they were ironic pretending to be miserable but not if you saw them live..They were anything but .

  • @katieross5222
    @katieross5222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    7 years old?!?!?!

    • @PutTheShovelDown
      @PutTheShovelDown  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know, crazy right!?!?

    • @katieross5222
      @katieross5222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Honest to Pete, brain development! Makes me wonder what kind of dysfunction the parents grew up in...

    • @NB-sq7ui
      @NB-sq7ui 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@katieross5222 Thats what I was thinking...