@MrNebelful Dunno about LTR I've never been in one. All I can suggest is the cliche' "BE YOURSELF". All I can say from 'The Game' is Mystery was fairly shite in long term relationships. I'm no expert but things I would avoid - CHEATING, Not taking an interest in anything she likes (being boring), Being emotionally unavailable, also being overly sappy and putting up with bad behaviour on your part, becoming overweight/poorly groomed.
@Nickolas93 - Looks aren't that important man, women just want to feel secure. In order to make them feel that, you need to come across as being an alpha male (provider, protector and a leader). I read a program (the one on "be the bad boy {dot} com") and one of the many things it opened my eyes too is the fact that I needed to get over my shyness and to stop being so "nice", available and accommodating to the girls I was after because women associate that shit with weakness.
I don't know. If they have a feel trial you can check it out. Personally, there is SO MUCH free info out there. I don't really see why you would have to pay for it.
@BubblesNotBombs31 It's probably because when a guy likes you straight away, you probably think he is after a quick shag or likes you just for your looks so you ignore him, whereas a guy you have to work for you think 'I had to show some personality which means he wasn't impressed with just my good looks!' (assuming you are good looking lol). Well of course there are automatic things happening as well. Feeling attraction for someone is not a mental decision afterall.
I do like Neil Strauss' voice, it's kind of effeminate, but soft. He is one of the voices I like, along with Morgan Freeman and the guy on a video titled "Along the paper faster than the paper". I could imagine Morgan Freeman being a pickup artist (or a natural), the wise older father figure that women flock to.
@@TimpBizkit. A soft voice is considered on the effeminate side of the ledger, while a strong or booming voice is on the masculine side. So the choice is clear: You should have used *and* rather than "but".
@StylelifeAcademy Yeah, I know. But usually people like to point out how many dislikes there are, and they always do it in psudo-clever and psudo-funny ways. It's the most annoying meme on the internet right now, but I figured it's fitting for this video.
from a woman this is true.women like attention and when there not getting noticed they start to feel like they have to impress u even if they dont want you therefore you win the game.but in the long run probably fuck with alot of nice girls hearts
I know, but I think it's because these guys, before they learned to be PUA, were really geeky non-masculine guys who were not the macho or muscular and they needed such techniques as these to beat the big jock types out there.
@MrNebelful I'm curious about the David DeAngelo program Become Mr Right. I haven't got it as I'm not at that stage and it's quite expensive but there's probably some decent long term relationship advice in there, more than I can give you anyway. Usually short term relationship advice is good for starting a long term relationship as the 'friends first' root is a bit long winded and uncertain. (You get longer to know each other but it may never develop physically at all)
wait i have a question... is all this information geared towards groups of women? Paul Janka (another true master) will suggest for several reasons to only approach single (as in... 1) women. Isn't that just simpler and less confusing and difficult anyway?
All top PUA's are nerds, because everytime they go out they analyze everything that happens, they write it down (field reports) and later on tear it all up and analyze it some more (what went wrong, what could I have done better, etc). So if you really look at it, all top PUA's are nerds, if they weren't then they would be naturals.
@Lon3Douch3 they spend all their day learning the most efficient way of hurting someone.. you really think they care what girls think of them? of course not, their body language is all natural. it comes from deep inside. peace.
I have a weird problem. A girl I know dodges the question about her having a boyfriend. I have never seen anything on this in any pua stuff. Anyone have an idea how to read this?
Why doesn't Neil Strauss have any videos of him picking up women. I'm not talking about the Jessica Alba pick up on Jimmy Kimmel which was just a demo. There's no footage anywhere on youtube or google. I've searched everywhere. For those that are somewhat familiar with Neil's work, any reason why? Could it be that he's just a somewhat more of a private person?
@TimpBizkit Wow I didn't actually post that comment...my friend let me borrow 'The Game' and I must have left my account signed in and she must have used it to write that comment, mostly because I definitely wouldn't have had any grammar or punctuation mistakes in the comment like that one had, and also because I'm a lesbian, so this topic really isn't that relevant to me!
Love $cams: Never send money to a stranger over the internet, no getting involved with illegal immigrants/google marriage fraud, pass the check, never co-sign/mix anything legal, no marriage, avoid long distance relationships, when meeting women online avoid dinner & movies on first meet up (meet up at free/low cost places like bookstores/parks/cafes), stop paying for other men's kids/no single women with kids, always use a condom/no child support, never lend money to women.
I think this is the best way to describe it. A few cheesy words at a bar isn't going to get a decent woman (well maybe a stupid one,for a one night stand,and some gonorrhea..) it's about bettering yourself and doing it your own way.This way you could find a respectable woman.
@@SY-sb4xc You've misread my question on multiple levels. First, I asked for the definition of a purported noun, and you've offered something that looks like the infinitive of a verb
@gunrazorsknives think of driving a car.. Piece of piss after a while right? But those first few lessons I bet you fumbled around with the gear stick and clutch and other controls whilst trying to make sure you were completely observant of every other road user. What about a bicycle? Hop on and ride with no second thoughts. I bet the first few times you wobbled around nervously whilst trying to balance. Same with going on the pull, though some guys are better initially with any skill it's true.
Haha. I'm just thinking of creepy men trying this on me. Eww. Look all this stuff is cool only if the guy is cool. Otherwise, he's just creeping on you. I was approached by a creepy dude in a park once... at first he seemed friendly enough, but the shit coming out of his mouth made little sense and was boring. But I was friendly toward him because he seemed super friendly and outgoing. But I hung out with him a few times, found out he's a crack addict, extremely needy and creepy and stupid...
Stylelife rocks! Neil Strauss is the man and he's a pretty good teacher as well. I like hearing him lecture.
I can't really speak for anyone else but I read it and learned a lot so yeah, I was pretty happy with it.
@MrNebelful Dunno about LTR I've never been in one. All I can suggest is the cliche' "BE YOURSELF". All I can say from 'The Game' is Mystery was fairly shite in long term relationships.
I'm no expert but things I would avoid - CHEATING, Not taking an interest in anything she likes (being boring), Being emotionally unavailable, also being overly sappy and putting up with bad behaviour on your part, becoming overweight/poorly groomed.
@FireProMMA
You CAN teach body language. What you're talking about is 'inner game', and indeed, that is equally important.
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PUA
Oh, the buddy of that guy Mystery. nice.
He's got such a soft, sibilant voice it's nice but you think it'd get lost in club noise. Weatherspoons pubs are usually quieter though.
and its where the best slags go
;)
@Nickolas93 - Looks aren't that important man, women just want to feel secure.
In order to make them feel that, you need to come across as being an alpha male (provider, protector and a leader).
I read a program (the one on "be the bad boy {dot} com") and one of the many things it opened my eyes too is the fact that I needed to get over my shyness and to stop being so "nice", available and accommodating to the girls I was after because women associate that shit with weakness.
I don't know. If they have a feel trial you can check it out. Personally, there is SO MUCH free info out there. I don't really see why you would have to pay for it.
no you did it right!
@BubblesNotBombs31 It's probably because when a guy likes you straight away, you probably think he is after a quick shag or likes you just for your looks so you ignore him, whereas a guy you have to work for you think 'I had to show some personality which means he wasn't impressed with just my good looks!' (assuming you are good looking lol). Well of course there are automatic things happening as well. Feeling attraction for someone is not a mental decision afterall.
awesome!
I do like Neil Strauss' voice, it's kind of effeminate, but soft. He is one of the voices I like, along with Morgan Freeman and the guy on a video titled "Along the paper faster than the paper".
I could imagine Morgan Freeman being a pickup artist (or a natural), the wise older father figure that women flock to.
No, you don't say, "it's kind of effeminate, *but* soft"... it would be _effeminate, _*_and_*_ soft._
@@jimreadey4837 surely everyone's heard the stereotypical gay guy that sounds like Janice from Friends?
I don't agree with your last statement, @@TimpBizkit... but what is the point you are trying to make?
@@jimreadey4837 a voice can be effeminate without being soft
@@TimpBizkit.
A soft voice is considered on the effeminate side of the ledger, while a strong or booming voice is on the masculine side. So the choice is clear: You should have used *and* rather than "but".
Animated summary and review of Neil's book on relationships here:
th-cam.com/video/z6b6oqdR-BQ/w-d-xo.html
@StylelifeAcademy Yeah, I know. But usually people like to point out how many dislikes there are, and they always do it in psudo-clever and psudo-funny ways. It's the most annoying meme on the internet right now, but I figured it's fitting for this video.
from a woman this is true.women like attention and when there not getting noticed they start to feel like they have to impress u even if they dont want you therefore you win the game.but in the long run probably fuck with alot of nice girls hearts
I know, but I think it's because these guys, before they learned to be PUA, were really geeky non-masculine guys who were not the macho or muscular and they needed such techniques as these to beat the big jock types out there.
Boy muscless are meaningles when it comes to attracting woman i am jacked also a decent looking guy and still can't get laid so...
@MrNebelful I'm curious about the David DeAngelo program Become Mr Right. I haven't got it as I'm not at that stage and it's quite expensive but there's probably some decent long term relationship advice in there, more than I can give you anyway. Usually short term relationship advice is good for starting a long term relationship as the 'friends first' root is a bit long winded and uncertain. (You get longer to know each other but it may never develop physically at all)
wait i have a question... is all this information geared towards groups of women? Paul Janka (another true master) will suggest for several reasons to only approach single (as in... 1) women. Isn't that just simpler and less confusing and difficult anyway?
Style is a legend for writing the book, but his method is just a copy of mystery method, so you might as well want to go to the original source.
All top PUA's are nerds, because everytime they go out they analyze everything that happens, they write it down (field reports) and later on tear it all up and analyze it some more (what went wrong, what could I have done better, etc).
So if you really look at it, all top PUA's are nerds, if they weren't then they would be naturals.
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@Lon3Douch3 they spend all their day learning the most efficient way of hurting someone.. you really think they care what girls think of them? of course not, their body language is all natural. it comes from deep inside. peace.
I have a weird problem. A girl I know dodges the question about her having a boyfriend. I have never seen anything on this in any pua stuff. Anyone have an idea how to read this?
I’m about 10 years late but seems to me like she has one but wants a side piece. Was I on the money?
anyone know if they're in a SOHO bar? Looks familiar
Why doesn't Neil Strauss have any videos of him picking up women. I'm not talking about the Jessica Alba pick up on Jimmy Kimmel which was just a demo. There's no footage anywhere on youtube or google. I've searched everywhere. For those that are somewhat familiar with Neil's work, any reason why? Could it be that he's just a somewhat more of a private person?
What's an operner
All this techniques are great and all.But, Once you are in a Ltr things do change, and I haven't found any good advice for men in this field.
lol I was just thinking the same
@Fozzeeeh you got arrested for having good body language?
mixed sets are easier
mixed sets? You mean approaching groups? I beg to differ. Especially in the midst of the day game.
why?
it's called peacocking.
@TimpBizkit Wow I didn't actually post that comment...my friend let me borrow 'The Game' and I must have left my account signed in and she must have used it to write that comment, mostly because I definitely wouldn't have had any grammar or punctuation mistakes in the comment like that one had, and also because I'm a lesbian, so this topic really isn't that relevant to me!
but he got you to hang out with him, so it kinda worked to a point, lol :P
RSD
@MrKiljeaden89 She'd probably take out a restraining order
Love $cams: Never send money to a stranger over the internet, no getting involved with illegal immigrants/google marriage fraud, pass the check, never co-sign/mix anything legal, no marriage, avoid long distance relationships, when meeting women online avoid dinner & movies on first meet up (meet up at free/low cost places like bookstores/parks/cafes), stop paying for other men's kids/no single women with kids, always use a condom/no child support, never lend money to women.
@bacelines
thanks man, I would have liked to knew it before I broke up haha , lucky me, but hanks it must be worth cheking out.
i dont know how to read O______O
@jaguarclaw
wtf
@TomerMMHA vs. 64 likes :)
what?
I think this is the best way to describe it. A few cheesy words at a bar isn't going to get a decent woman (well maybe a stupid one,for a one night stand,and some gonorrhea..) it's about bettering yourself and doing it your own way.This way you could find a respectable woman.
@StylelifeAcademy 143 IOIs :)
virgin rage
The cops were just shit-testing you bro
@MrKiljeaden89 LMAO, good point. LOL
@jaguarclaw
dude dont hit girls by thinking its attractive! LOL! man u crazy
@MrKiljeaden89 I tried this and ended up in jail or 24 hours...
the game isn't a scam. get a clue.
What the hell is an *"Operner"...?*
To open the conversation with a woman
@@SY-sb4xc
You've misread my question on multiple levels. First, I asked for the definition of a purported noun, and you've offered something that looks like the infinitive of a verb
is this "bethebadboy(dot)com" actually legit stuff? Or is it just spam, seems to be a lot of it floating around...
@gunrazorsknives think of driving a car.. Piece of piss after a while right?
But those first few lessons I bet you fumbled around with the gear stick and clutch and other controls whilst trying to make sure you were completely observant of every other road user.
What about a bicycle? Hop on and ride with no second thoughts. I bet the first few times you wobbled around nervously whilst trying to balance.
Same with going on the pull, though some guys are better initially with any skill it's true.
First
Cringe
Too bad you have to pay 70$...
he should write a book titled,How to get lots money by talking..jk
lol
Hahahaha.
Punch her in the face?
Who is this guy ? I honestly do not know a single woman in the world who would not run for her life if this guy would approach her...what a creep...
@MrKiljeaden89 lololol
hahahahahha
Haha. I'm just thinking of creepy men trying this on me. Eww. Look all this stuff is cool only if the guy is cool. Otherwise, he's just creeping on you. I was approached by a creepy dude in a park once... at first he seemed friendly enough, but the shit coming out of his mouth made little sense and was boring. But I was friendly toward him because he seemed super friendly and outgoing. But I hung out with him a few times, found out he's a crack addict, extremely needy and creepy and stupid...
You got any dating advice, that's not creeping women out?
So what makes a guy creepy?
It's bullshit.