The Rise Of ‘Female Loneliness’ (& How To Fix It) || Shoe0nHead React || Will This Work?
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- Get Advice From Women back in the 1950's On How to catch a man. Share if you tried one of these methods and how it failed or worked out for you.
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9% female viewership is actually insanely high for a female vtuber ngl
Yeah. That’s actually higher than most creators in general.
Yeah but how many of these "Females" had Vajajas, and not Pickles.
@@makotonarukami7468 at least a third of them, give or take
@@Kaltsit- sometimes I wonder what do women even do, who do they like, what are they interested in, etc.
@@Kkk-pr2bk
People like Vox? I know he has a decent size female audience.
"I feel protected when I'm with you" that shit would definitely melt me, and would be a great confirmation that the relationship can continue on
At the very least I think would blush.
Though I feel this is something you would say when you're already in a relationship, or at least gone in a few dates. Doesn't make much sense when you have just met, right?
@@rafaelcalmon2858 tbf this is the girl trying to get a partner, if she wants to state her intentions this is a really great way to do it
At the same time, most of boys don't get compliments regularly and something like this would stay with him for s while, earning the girl lots of points
the sole fact of hearing that phrase made me unconsciously straighten my back, I felt so confident out of the blue, the power of words is so damm real fr fr, wish for everyone here to someday find someone who says to you things like that.
i prefer when the woman is protective
100% effective if they are a good person. Instead of Protected, just mention how you feel safe. We are constantly bombarded with how we make woman feel unsafe, how we are creepy and so on so that would be a VERY good compliment now-a-days.
I recently had a coworker tell me this and it def made my entire day and still remember it to this day.
“I feel protected around you” would make not only my day, but my entire month. That shit would be playing in my head for years.
My girlfriend says this to me ALL THE TIME! Usually, she’s looking for something when she does say it… and usually she gets it…
She's a keeper.
Month?
Try the rest of my existence buddy
@@R-XI_Sullait would still be playing in my head after death doctors would be studying for years why there's brain activity after my heart has stopped for hours
100%
If you compliment a man odds are he's going to remember that for at least a decade.
I have been called attractive only twice in my life; once by a drunk party girl who I met who was being hauled away by her girlfriends and another by a guy who was shooting his shot on FB.
The guy was allot more flattering 😊
My friend complimented me when i tried out a jacket at target. I cried in public. This was probably 15 years ago.
@@Masyokan ❤️
An old lady said that I was a catch. That's the only time anyone has said something like that to me, and I will never forget it.
Because I’ve had so few nice things said about me
"I feel protected when I'm with you"
*And just like that, I come back to life from the brink of death.*
Shoe's first name is June.
Thank you! I was trying to remember and too lazy to resort to Google.
Whoa don't throw government names out like that😂😂
Nah her first name is Shoe for sure.
@@wesleyfilms oh dear, silly me. I was thinking of someone else.
Yes. Her real name is Shoe Olivia Nesbort Head.
XD
So her second name is July?
The "I feel protected" thing is some ancient wizard knowledge. It's instant and immediate neuron activation.
The reason why widowers: he's already pre-vetted if another woman already chose to marry him. It's basically mate poaching.
Mate poaching without the competition part.
poaching, damn 😂
It also means he's a ride or die type. He'll stay with you to the very end of your days, which is a positive sign for commitment.
It also shows evidence that he's good in a relationship if the only reason she left him is because she died (assuming it wasn't a murder and there's no evidence tied to him)
@@Maxisamo1 Indeed, a good relationship with the woman who died in any case. Not an indication of how it'll go for the lady who is chasing him, but it does show good indictors.
It may not be as click baity, but the talk of male loneliness is just as important as female loneliness and the general reaction that people have towards the issue tends to be apathy or outright resent. The more people talk about it, the more people will take it seriously.
Trust me, Shoe and other content creators have got the ball rolling. Our problems are finally starting to get some recognition. But it’s good to look at the other side of the issue to and recognize that male loneliness and female loneliness have similar causes.
Women are among the biggest reasons it can't be talked about. They don't understand lonely men. The moment a man mentions it they'll come up with all kinds of crap advice that doesn't work. So what do men do? Stop talking about it with women.
@@Visavislespoirfacts
I feel there more apathy to male loneliness than female
@sunwukong1443 No, definitely the other way around. Partly because of how biologically we men are hardwired to see women and girls naturally as needing protected while women are generally hardwired to focus more on procreation than the needs of her mate.
It's also partly that society has had such a push for open sexuality and effectively detachment and Anti-Relationship mentality.
00:00 "Shoo, shoo, shoo!"
All right, well I just wanted to watch the video, but I guess... *Closes tab*
When the anime dog girl tells you to shoo.... damn
Meanwhile id just like the sauce of the pic at 30:56 lol
'i feel protected when im with you."?
Yes.
Better?
"i feel safer when you're with me."
The "with me" is an invitation, that's key, and "safer" is a garden of subtext.
This guy gets it
Girl from Church: "I feel safe when you're with me."
My Brain: "Wow. She's really into me."
Girl from College: "I feel safe when you're with me."
My Brain: "Either she has insecurity issues or she wants a useful enabler to mind her at the bar (and probably drive her home at some ungodly hour in the morning)."
@@EbenezerEibenhardt yeah, don't fuck with college girls. They're primed to hate men, bc it's their curriculum.
this
What?
"I feel protected" hits something primal. It was a primary role for men for thousands of years, and a couple decades of society going in another direction is not enough to undo that.
Yeah, that comment about feeling protected- I never thought about it but damn, that would make me stand straighter LMAO
"I feel protected when I'm with you"
DAAAAAAAAAAAAAMN, that's a W rizz
"Don't tell them your allergies." I am convinced this woman is trying to sabotage the women readers to cull the competition.
She snuck the bad advices in as natural selection
That advice is coupled with the “search for widowers”…
@@LumemDH xD 1950s are like "listen...thin out the competition and slide in on the good Widowers that you met."
Yeah, that "I feel protected when I'm around you" is probably the best advice.
Of course it does. You're a guardian.
Of course it does. You're a guardian, after all.
Caveat: "I feel SAFE when you're WITH me." Learn the English language and its root Latin... You'll find you'll have a better understanding of what the fuck people are saying. Also, protected means an action was taken, fyi.
Trade up mentality is the worst thing that has happened to the dating scene.
Women leave good men all the time thinking they can do better and they naively think they can go back when they inevitably reach the threshold they can’t.
But this has always been the case.
Men tend to be polygamous, where as women tend to be (they won't let me use the word). It's one of the primary reasons why marriage was socially enforced. It helped keep these inate behaviors of both men and women in check.
But, with the implementation of no fault divorce (along with several other factors), all that was pretty much tossed right out the window.
That's a nice argument@@LiberPater777 , why don't you back it up with a source?
@@anothermark2082 Unfortunately we can't post links in youtube comments because Google ownership so I doubt we'll ever get the proper sources
@@anothermark2082 let's be real, if that guy gave you a source, or five, you would make up some excuse as to why those sources were somehow invalid.
What do you mean “happen to the dating scene”? It’s always been women’s instinct for obvious reasons. Heck, genetic testing shows that in ye olden days women cheated so much that it was rare for her children to be related to her husband. And with so few Chads that there are signs humanity is suffering from _inbreeding._
Saying you feel protected around us melts us because it shows trust in us and makes us feel valued and appreciated. Something we very rarely feel in todays society. Giving a man a compliment also goes a long way. Just dont compliment everyone as that cheapens the compliment.
As a man, who is married, allow me to point out the ones I think are the best:
-Walking a dog: Yes, most men love dogs. If the dog could fit in a stroller, though, that's probably not going to help.
-Selling fishing tackle: Outdoorsy girls are cute, but also a woman who is an expert in something cool is very attractive.
-Baking pies: "The quickest way to a man's heart is through his stomach." Accurate in both dating, and combat
- Telling him you make him feel safe: This is like a console command that goes directly to men's basic programming.
I loved reading this.
Reading this feels like discovering universal men parameters
"Stowaway on a battleship"
That's my absolute favorite, lol.
As long as it's not bound for the Red Sea 😂 Pretty dangerous to be a westerner over there nowadays.
One reason so many dudes have the fish picture: It's one of a short list of situations where it's socially acceptable for a man to be in a photo on his own.
The other, is with a dead deer.
Example of Toxic Masculinity
Men can't even take photos without being called a "fa**ot"
You know. I’ve never thought of it that way
You forgot driver's license photos
@@mathiasschafer2793 But you wouldn't use that on your page. I hope.
Met my wife back in highschool. Both band nerds and before a march for the Battle of Flowers she notices my pants are too short. Shes comes up to me and goes let me fix your pants and tailors my pants on the spot. Married 13 years now
My ex said she felt safe when i was around. at the beginning of us just being friends.... it wasn't long till we started dating after that.... i think we men like to be depended on and i understand its a scary world out there. if i can make someone safe just by being present it really make me feel like im not a waste of space.
Well said
10% female viewers for a vtuber seems high, congrats!
I think it's cause she's has that "girl's girl" personality
Bruh
Finding a date by slipping into a sexy bikini and pretending to be in distress by baiting seagulls into hassling you sounds like a 4D chess move.
"I feel protected when I'm with you" is probably the best thing a third or fourth date girl can say to nearly guarantee he proposes... but only say it to a guy who you really like.
Whenever I see people react to shoe talking about how being nice is the bare minimum and some people can't even do that. I am reminded how growing up I was born disabled but I always enjoyed meeting new people, and I enjoyed being friends with everyone. And even now I look back and I've had multiple people literally tell me they fell in love with me because I treated them like a human being. And to me that's really sad everyone deserves to be treated with common human decency and the fact that it took a blind person like myself to give that to them really shows that this world is truly sad sometimes. TLDR blind man has been confessed to by men and women simply because I treated them like actual people and was nice to them. And that will stick with me for the rest of my life also I typed this with text to speech in case people are curious on how this is here sorry about typos😂
I wonder if their is something else going on about people expecting other people to look in their eyes when they speak, but not receiving it. But not having such expectations of a blind person, so judging them differently....?????? I don't know, something.
I love that moogle hoodie omg.
Also, for my meet cute story, I was being an antisocial loner at a summer camp and the girl I ended up having this off and on relationship with decided I was too lonely. So she brought all of her friends, I got swarmed by a gaggle of middleschool girls, and she proceeded to basically kidnap me for the entire ween I was at the camp.
As a long forgotten casualty of the dating wars I find all this very amusing. At least more amusing than the hot mess dumpster fire that is modern dating. More please.
You ever heard a song called 'Modern Love' from the band 'All Time Low'?
you should definitely check out her "male loneliness epidemic" video, its really well made, think you will like it
Drugs arent the only addiction you can end up with if your'e stressed. You can fall into any kind of addiction depending on what's available to you. Smut for example.
Literally anything to mute the harsh realities of this cruel world
I OD on wholesome romance manga when I'm depressed...
Dipper, I just wanted to say that, as a fellow introvert, I, too, get headaches and anxiety when around people too long.
Yet somehow, I managed to find a high-spirited, extroverted woman whom I married because we clicked.
All I'm trying to say is that life is strange. Take deep breaths and be open to lifes curveballs 😂
Congrats on getting married
I wish you both a happy life together. I'm very introverted and yeah it's definitely tough but I think I need someone like that in my life. Hope I find her eventually.
This is that anime trope, extrovert adopts an introvert and keep it for life, I'm so happy for your marriage bro, congratulations
You'd think this might make it seem more hopeful but it kind of does the opposite. Anytime something happens to someone like you but NOT you it makes it seem less likely.
This is great to see
If I wanted to go on the lake and my girl said “okay, where this dress and heels” I’d take it as a challenge and do it.
If you do that, use the dock as a runway.
@@GreenSamurai2 Bring flashlights for the spotlights on the corners.
Honestly food is a great way to get into someone's heart
101% correct, tell a guy you feel secure with him, and he's yours (speaking about good men here, of course).
Yes I would like to see you react to Shoe's vid on male loneliness. Hay the widower stuff is not as strange as you think these are men with a track record of commitment, these are men that are not afraid to pull the trigger. One last thing guys don't get complements from girls very often so when they do they remember them for decades, think about it.
the problem with the appearence statement is that, personally, few cases in wich someone in the relationshio found the other ugly, worked in the end: Many friends -Men and Women- ended heartbroken because the other party finally revealed they simply didnt find them attractive
Relationships were still a lot stronger back when the family bond was stronger though.
@@thenonexistinghero no? We simply didn't hear it all over a great grape vine such as the internet. Love depends of attraction, respect and love, be it one out or the 3 imbalanced, they all will fall. Attraction of one being stronger than the other, you have a partner dissatisfied. One respecting the other more? You have a subservient maid or Butler, not a partner. Lacking in expression of love? Then they will start to wonder if they aren't lovable and all trust will be lost. It's much more difficult to make a relationship lacking any of the 3 work, it isn't impossible, but out of 15 partners, 1 will achieve it and there is no promises
@ Obviously there is attraction, I mentioned that. Love is something that needs to be built, you don't start with it. I'm not even sure why that's in the list, if you lack respect a relationship won't work out either way.
Fact of the matter is that... nature is simple. Women are far too picky these days. If she can get along with a man that she finds physically and sexually attractive and if he is reliable, then that is enough. Everything else is a matter of effort. Communicate properly, give affection properly, know how to receive affection, etc.
Main problem is that people these days... including a lot of men as well, want the perfect partner from the get go. It doesn't work like that. Someone becomes the perfect partner after spending enough time with them and going through all kinds of things life throws at you together. Perfection is the result of hard work.
If you look at the past you can easily see that partner choice isn't the hardest part. The hardest part is making a relationship work.
@ the problem is that the mechanisms for long term relationship enforcement (societal shame, legal enforcement, limited options, etc) have all been overturned during the 20th century. Initially they welcomed, but now relationships feel more like a liability than a boon. You are less incentivized to sell your best self and are not obligated to stick it through with relationships. It’s only natural the three elements of love do not work properly anymore.
@@LordDaret even in times where things dont help you, we cant forgo out morals, just tighten them up and continue forward until finding the correct person. I understand what you say, simply dont believe that changes much for the people, just for the collective
You should absolutely look into the male loneliness epidemic. It's actually quite severe and worth talking about.
There is a story my parents share about when they were newly married. My mother decided to surprise my father with a cake. When my dad arrived home, he saw my mother meekly standing next to the cake. My dad said, " Wow! You made a chocolate cake!" My mother, holding back tears, responded with, "It's vanilla. ". He ate the whole thing while reassuring her it was delicious. It makes me so happy every time I hear this story.
Honestly if you find a woman stowing away on a battleship it's almost worth marrying her just to tell the story. "Yes Grandson, I met your grandmother on the night before world war 3. I knew she was crazy, but the story was too good to pass up"
I want you to cover all her videos! This is so fun! I’m new to your channel but the “women posting L’s” reaction was so funny
I met this girl at the church and we hang out as a group of friends, I didn't feel anything the first time I saw her. As we met more and more, she was the most attractive girl on earth for me.
I think the modern world where we get up before even the crack of dawn to go to drive half an hour to an hour and a half to get to work and then immediately drive back home after a 10-12 work day is part of the problem. No one SEES anyone else for more than maybe five minutes unless they're a coworker... who we're also told to not have a relationship with in the modern day.
If two people grow up in a smallish town where it's conceivable to walk to a destination and they lived there together for years, love can blossom more easily. Part of love is knowing a person, not MEETING a person. But because of our industrial world and online culture, we don't get that anymore.
@@SpecterVonBaren I need to see the data on couples who started a relationship on school/college and work, I saw a MatPat video on that but it was ages ago
@@BerserkGriffonThat was his Propinquity video. It's definitely an overlooked part of the equation for how couples form. It's why online dating feels so awkward. You are picking people based on how attractive they are in a still photo, not how fun they feel to be around after meeting at the same venue.
@@hope-cat4894 Yes! That! Thanks (:
Yea man, most of shoes videos are great.
Had a girl once tell me the that she felt really safe and protected around me on the same night I had just met here. That absolutely made my night and had never left my head. It really does work.
As a guy, I may have already used some of these strategies for myself to get female attention. I know that they work. But the relationships didn’t last long because we didn’t have the same interest (Gaming, etc.).
I got into D&D by joining westmarch servers in discord and joining random people.
I think there's an important thing to note about attracting us men. We LOVE to know that we are useful and appreciated for it. That's why the "Tell him you feel safe when you're with him" thing comes from. It's also why the whole "Oh no, I'm in trouble! Please help me" "Damsel in distress" thing comes from. It wasn't men forcing women to be helpless, it was women knowing that men like feeling useful. So there's two ways to go in on this, pointing out a man's strengths or pointing our your (A woman) weaknesses that he can make up for.
Hey Dipper, you were just recommended by The Algorithm (praise be) and the "wear a swimsuit, feed the seagulls, and find someone when they attack you" strat cracked me up super hard. I'm glad to have found your channel and look forward to your future videos 😊
Awe excited to have you aboard this chaotic crew
That feel protected thing is so true. Sure, this was not about any love interest or anything like that but just 4 classmates I had (all women). A car slowed down on the road not too far but not too close to us and started whisteling at them. It was dark out and not many people outside. My classmates ignored the guys in the care and I just looked at them and the guys drove off cursing. My classmates said to me afterwards "We would have been so scared and started to run if you hadn't been here. It feels safe with you around". I will never forget that.
32:50 It's an almost surefire way to get him to look at you favorably on some level. Not sure it'll be 100% but the need to protect is something that a man can't ignore for the most part. I didn't even really realize it the first time I watched Sh0e's video until I really thought about it and how I'd feel if I heard that. Personally, on me, it'd work.
22:20 Not gone out with, but I've spent time with girls that I didn't find attractive at first and had that change over time.
"You know what depression leads to? Drugs or therapy."
There's a hidden 3rd option, sadly.
On that widower thing, its less horrifying than it sounds. Widowers are 'vetted', because clearly another woman liked them enough to marry them and stick around, married men tend to make more money and especially in the 50s they were very used to having someone take care of the house (and possibly the kids) for them while they worked. Its a combination of them already being more likely a good prospect and probably having very practical reasons to actively want a new relationship in addition to any personal reasons.
Its still obviously very weird behavior, but its very practical advice.
Yo, if you do get Shoe to do the DnD thing, you gotta record it. It’d be amazing.
Edit: yes, the male one would be good to go over. Everyone needs to know both of these problems because we need to work on it together.
I think the thing is if someone unattractive to a woman approaches them, they are deemed a creep and gets ridiculed. I have seen it happen many times. If an attractive man does the same though and says the exact same thing it's deemed hot.
"I feel protected/safe with you" can also mean "You are in the friend zone". They feel safe around you because you are not in their market.
No man is happy being molded. When we start to smile we are already dead inside.
God I want to go back to the 50s, look at the advices, they were mostly so wholesome....
32:42 yes, it's true. That will make his day
That's in the past. The future is passport
I will take that passport as well :)
Time to explore the east 🎉
35:18 Her favorite band is Gorillaz, that's how much of an anime nerd she is. She'll argue it's not anime, but it's pretty damn close to Hatsune Miku, so I'm counting it.
How is gorillaz like hatsune miku
@@leonrussell9607 They're fictional anime musicians.
That's cool AF, two of my favorite songs are old Gorillaz classic (Clint Eastwood and Windmill) people in my family are naturally gifted singers and I even play harmonica so growing up id play bits of those songs I learned by ear writing my own tablature for it which is easy for harmonica because the "notes" are each 1 hole and they are numbered. A dash - before a number means inhale, two numbers without spacing means play them together, and ~ means bend the note. But I digress. It just isn't every day I find a fellow Gorillaz fan, they feel just unpopular enough to feel special while being just popular enough to engage in a healthy conversation once in a while with strangers. Noodle is the best.
@@richiecook5259 I have similar feelings towards One Piece, I know it's huge in Japan but it's been relatively unknown in the west for the longest time.
I probably should use your harmonica technique for playing the ocarina some time, but it's not as easy to make the holes numbered.
I dated a girl I was not attracted to once. Lost my virginity, but her personality didn't win me over. She eventually left because she could tell I wasn't into her. However, I learned an important lesson, "Attraction is not negotiable.", and I've had to tell that to friends who tried to set me up before.
Dipperdog is still trying to convince us she isint attracted to people with all these humiliating failed romance stories lol 😂🤣
You had me at "Battleship!"
Hold up. "3. Attend night school - take classes men like" is gold! Take notes ladies.
If you can afford it.
The feeling protected thing would absolutely work. If a girl were to say that to me, I would literally melt into a puddle of mush... and I think I can explain why.
So this is mostly from personal experience, so it might not apply to all men, but being a man, I have seen this be the majority of us. Something you have to understand is 2 things... men need to feel useful, and men don't receive compliments like... ever... they once did a atudy wich said 12% of men get flowers given to them before they die... so for 88% of men, the first rose we ever receive is at our funeral. We don't get compliments ever, so saying that you feel protected by us hits both of these points, and it hits them like a semi-truck going 80 at a 65. What she is saying is absolutely correct. I even looked up the flower statistic to make sure the desperation we feel for validation is properly represented without spreading misinformation... all this to say... please compliment us, let it be known if you aren't interested in dating us, but please give out a compliment at least once to someone, you will probably make their day.
People still forget alot of that evolutionary lizard brain that motivates our daily decisions is alot more inherit in our personality and desires then we like to admit. I would say most men want to feel like protectors and providers. It's why men will literally get themselves killed in the worst jobs to make enough money to keep their family happy despite all logic and reason telling them it's a bad idea.
Making a man feel useless or unappreciated is a great way to absolutely cripple their self esteem and destroy any love in a relationship, trust me, i've been there.
@manafestering7385 It also hits a primal part of the male psyche: to PROTECT and provide. It is ingrained into men's DNA from the hunter/gather days.
Recently found your channel, you seem pretty chill, here's a sub. Also, hearing "I feel protected when I'm with you" or anything in that vein is a surefire way to entrench yourself into someone's happy thoughts for the rest of their life.
I liked what you added to it, especially that part about dating ugly people. Personality can make things more beautiful.
Also not trying to be weird, but you have a nice voice.
Not weird at all. Thank you for the compliment.
The algorithm fed me this vid. Huge W for the algorithm for once. Your energy is fantastic. Great vid.
Hey Dipper, yes you should definitely Cover the other vids aswell, your input is very enjoyable ❤
About the "personality makes someone more attractive" thing, I've actually been in the opposite situation. My ex was incredibly attractive.. until I really got to know her. The more I understood about that person, the more I realized what a horrid mistake I made.
I have to say, this is my first time seeing one of your videos and you have an incredible voice. It makes me feel completely at ease.
The Journo-Note feel either like:
"If i can get none, no one can!"
Or
"If I Sabotage others maybe there is something left for me."
The VTuber states I have observed in the "If you're an anime freak, I see you!" call out
ErinyaBucky: "Don't you call me an anime freak!"
SmugAlana: Blushes and freezes
Kip: "Hey look at that dork! The other two are cool though"
DipperDog: Hi! Let's collab/chill!
I am new, my goodness your voice is soothing, and that laugh infectious
I actually dated a woman I wasn't all that attracted to physically. She seemed really sweet and I had the afternoon off work so I invited her to have drinks with me at a restaurant. We talked up until right before closing time.
After about six months, I was head over heals for her. And one year in, she started "jokingly" mentioning a ring. Little did she know I was already considering getting her one with her favorite gemstone set into it. I was ready to take that step.
Unfortunately it didn't end up working out in the end because we took very divergent life paths. So we had to let each other go. But I still remember her very fondly.
I say all that to say that sometimes it's good to take a chance on someone you may not necessarily think is that physically attractive to you at the time. You may be surprised. The love we fostered for each other legitimately changed my life and made me a better man.
I hope that June will take you up on your Dungeons & Dragons offer. I'm not sure she will, but hope springs eternal. (BTW, nice Vtuber model!)
And yes, I have watched Shoe's videos for years now. Lots of great content. Watch her Hellworld videos, which she sadly doesn't do anymore, probably because the insanity of our modern world was draining the light from her eyes and darkening her soul.
And, to be anal-retentive on this subject, Shoe has a sponsorship opportunities email address that she posts in the description of her videos, you might try reaching her there. Promise her that you will never fast-forward through the sponsor segments of her videos, she'll like that. (Or maybe she will think your are desperate and lonely, but hey, you'll never be able to find me among 330 million Americans if this is horrible advice.)
28:46 HAIYAAAA Uncle Roger would not be happy if he saw your attempt 🤣
Sauce for 30:56 lol 😂🤣
COVID had nothing to do with that. #MeToo did.
I hear the reason that fishing photos are more common is because men don't often have their photos taken as often as women do. That they don't really ask friends to take their photos and things. So this is one of the common times they do get their photos taken by friends.
Saying you feel protected, is possibly the best compliment!
It works on so many levels. We feel useful, trusted, needed, strong, that we are providing, it boosts the ego... so many reasons it is the perfect compliment.
I found you and subbed because of your Shoe reacts I'd love to hear your take on the male loneliness vid, too.
Love the Moogle hoodie!! And yeh Im loving your react vids to Shoe's stuff, very new to your channel fyi
I feel women misunderstand the “guy taking a picture of him with a fish” thing. It’s not because men LOVE fishing. It’s because it’s one of the few times men are EXPECTED to take a picture of themselves. I have almost no pictures of myself (that was taken by myself) on my phone. HOWEVER I would have a picture of myself by myself if a caught a fish.
I have such a low self esteem that the "I feel protected" comment would feel like I'm being made fun of.
If you want to make me melt (and I don't think I'm alone in this), then say "I just want to protect you"/"I just want to take care of you"
I'd literally turn into a puddle if I heard that
My guy at that point you gotta fix it, I had low self esteem imo and I would never think that
@@enriqueperezarce5485 yeah, I know... I'm trying...
@@KiraNightVu got this mate, try to get a couple nights of good sleep. At reasonable hours. Start setting goals thru daily activities. Force yourself to follow a routine, no one else can force you to. Even if it’s something small like taking the trash out every morning regardless of how full the bin is. Small goals add up eventually and after a while you build self esteem. Only you can do it, us commentators can only tell you. Also, do whatever you can to push yourself physically. You’ll be surprised how resilient you actually are
Sounds like you need to build yourself up then. Start a home fitness program, even if it's bodyweight exercises on your bedroom floor. Find courses to attend to and learn cool useful things. Find ways to be self-sufficient.
Sounds hard, but after you start it's a self-propelling snowball. You get your mindset straight and even your hormones get in order.
Yes shoe vids funny and good, so are your reactions!
My girl often tells me she feels safe with me. It does, in fact, make me melt and want to ensure that feeling continues.
Yeah go watch some more of her videos! They’ve gotten so much better ever since she got married.
Do the Male loneliness video, its very good.
Also. The Author of that article is so so bitter with her inputs😂
Aha! I was waiting for this. Glad to see it’s here now. Would be very interested to see you react to shoe’s video on male loneliness, sometime.
Workplace relationships only get messy if one of you isn't mentally an adult.
By approach
That means be straightforward
No hints, no games
It doesn't have to be a Dating Sim
Top part is for everyone
Bottom part is for girls
Men are too dense to look for or notice hints
We range from Billy from Billy and Mandy to Sherlock Holmes
If anything, it wont be realized until years later most likely
Just be upfront
For guys
Good luck, my advice is as good as yours
DnD with randoms can be a very mixed bag of goodies. Sometimes worth the shot, sometimes not. As for the video, it's refreshing to see reaction video with pretty grounded takes.
Just discovered you in a previous reaction video keep it up and the hoodie as adorable 🧡
Yeah, we definitely need more Shoe0nHead reactions.
Your voice is so soothing
Wish more women were like you. It might just be my taste but i think women pursuing is awesome and super hot.
Also i'd say itt's less "i feel protected with you" but my heart melts when a girl tells me "i feel safe in ur arms" or "i'm so comfortable/cozy around you"
I'll admit I mostly found this channel on accident and have beem listening to the shoe on head reactions during my work day.
Hearing that dipper is a fellow D&D nerd does kinda make me want to subscribe. Also her reactions are very funny.
Do agree on the club thing. I've always felt really isolated living out in the country. Finding online D&D groups helped me feel a lot better.
Will add that I feel safe with you trick is very dirty, but highly effective.
22:11 Unfortunately, it's mostly been the exact opposite, I'd find someone attractive, we'd end up going out, and then I'd be scarred for life.
Edit:
32:42 Yes, 100% yes.
Yes I LOVE DnD, I usually play a Oathbreaker/Spellblade, But I'm trying out a makeshift Manticore build.
First video ive watched. I like the text edits thrown in, good video. Subbed
In regards to taking classes it’s nothing like it is now. They were usually free classes taught in the evenings that would be more in line with like a trade school like cooking, how to work on a car, and carpentry to name a few.
Yes! 100% agree! Personality matters!
Used to date a girl for awhile that was overweight, it bothered me a bit but she had a good heart so I was willing to accept it. Sadly relationship didn't work out, (long distance issues mainly) but I will live and die by the mantra that it is who the person is on the inside that matters, and if their looks are that big of an issue then do stuff to help them improve them. Or I guess go the scary movie 2 route of bag on head, whatever works.
Naaw