Agreed. 💯. The modern dating scene is crazy, literally.. give me the realization encouraged to stop trying to date and just focus on myself.. always heard the right girl will come along in time if you stop trying... And sure thing, one day boom the universe drops you very cool, down to earth, and chill fine ass babe right into my lap... 🤘🏻
@@shanebraaten9553 My heart goes out to you young people. I probably wouldn't do well in the current climate. Glad I found my girl back in the 80's. We have been married over 30 yrs.
This channel of an overweight single man who sits behind a computer desk all day and has never been in a relationship has helped you work on yourself????? Reach for a better role model. But, i’m glad you are working on yourself and looking for a good girl.
Your should get fit because it hard to respect a overweight single person giving relationship advice . Hope you can get a healthy lifestyle it will make your life and content better .
@@j.s3612 Are you saying overweight people can't understand how relationships work and how to do them better? I don't know the guy who runs this show. Are you sure he has never had a girlfriend? Overweight people need love too and might end up being better mates than someone who has washboard abs.
After 7 yrs. I still take off my man’s shoes when he gets home and thank him every meal he cooks! (Grandma taught him how to live w/o woman, he enjoys cooking so I don’t argue!!)
Do you want a cookie? I'm his wife not his mommy. I do not take his shoes off nor do I make his plate. He is perfectly capable of dressing himself and he can decide for himself how much he wants to eat. I do not treat my husband like a child because I respect him. Does not make you more of a woman or a wife to do so. But hey that's just from someone been married 12 years.
"Whatever" re: k Simpsons comment. Do your thing, Jazzy! A reasonable and respectful man exponentially appreciates the rarity of a traditional wife vs. the Ms. Independents ... who really aren't that independent or interchangeable for all the things a man worth a damn can do. And, yes, I've been married for over a decade too and was cooking and doing all domestic duties since a teenager. That's life. No medals required. Thanks for sharing your voice, Jazzy!
@@k_t530 everyone relationship with their significant other is different why you bashing how she appreciates her significant other. It’s not babying them it’s love. Just the same how you show your appreciation everyone different 🤷🏾♂️
I sympathize with the last woman who was in relationship with man for 20 years. Especially since now she’s at that age where not many men would find her attractive. Literally left her high and dry for a younger woman who is most likely going to do the same thing to him when he gets too old
There is assholes on both sides that never think their day of unattractiveness will come. The wall comes for all. Men have a wall too it's just not as severe or quick. We all lose physical beauty. Even the best looking people fade. In fact that is why the game is so messed up right now. People are thinking more short term based on last than long term based on compatibility and respect. One day your libido will drop. One day sex will stop. What your foundation was built on determines if that lasts or not. The large majority of people pick wrong and overvalued their present mindset hoping it will last or that they will even still care about what they care about in the body of a young person. Obviously you don't want to be in a sexless marriage right off the bat. There has to be some foundational desire on that front. But it won't last. It never does. So what do you choose to accept beyond that is what a lot of people are not considering.
That is one possibility. We were not given enough information to know what happened or why. Another possibility is that she was a failure of a wife and he finally reached the limit of his patience. Women are more prone to losing patience with mistreatment and "blowing up" about it. Men are more prone to suffering in silence until they have had enough, and then they call it quits and never come back.
@@khalaq2 Nope. A real men would have left the relationship long before looking for someone new. Stop trying to justify cheating. There is no legitimate excuse for that.
@@Slw1111 You are reading things into my post which I did not include. Nowhere did I condone sex outside of marriage. I agree that a man of integrity would leave his current relationship before pursuing another. Since the video does not tell us when or why the guy left, it is possible he divorced her before finding another woman, and it is also possible he left his wife for a mistress. The video clip does not give us that information. I therefore did not address the clip but instead reacted to the OP. For whatever reason, you chose to "fill in the blanks" of the story while also making assumptions about what was in my head when I wrote my response. You then condemned me for what you invented in your own mind. I find that very odd.
I’m fortunate enough to be a stay at home wife. My hubby has a 9-5. My job is to take care of him, like the 1950’s wife. It’s the way I was raised. I really don’t consider it “my job”. It’s more like an honor to take care of him. Plus I promised his mom I’d take care of him. Been married for 20 years now 🥰
I did all those same things,I thought that's what a "good" woman supposed to do but here's the thing,after years of livin' with the drinking, disrespect, cheating I eventually became a different type of woman so my husband would say " You used to be so good to me, now you ain't shit" My reply "Hey you made me who I am today baby" Why I stayed for long? Pure stupidity
I had to get up at 5am spoon feed my man for months. He had some seizures and three times a week drive him to dialysis. Today's women can't fold some clothes. Are people serious?
Why would a man choose to divorce his wife of twenty years? There are many possible reasons, but we are not told, here. One thing we know for sure, however, is that men have limited patience. Once that patience is all used up, they leave and do not come back. As for marrying a divorced man, whether or not that is a good idea depends upon why the divorce happened. Some women abandon good men, and some men abandon good women. Instead of focusing on the divorce, focus on the character of the person you are considering for a relationship.
Yes, I believe that to. I believe that bcoz it's a partnership, you should both have each others back and split the chores. Each couple will obv not split the chores the same as the next couple
@@jjohnson6382 treating each other with respect for one and take care of each other men and women should do their part and not let the other slack off on it.
@@adrunkskeleton9046 why because I believe in equality get to know a person before you judge someone you internet trolls don't phase me just shows how childish you really are
It's not always that simple. It's more, "am I really in love or am I comfortable? Is this REALLY the best for me or is it all I really know?". Sure, it's selfish. But we are alive one time. Do you spend your entire life with somebody because it's good enough or do you look for somebody that is as close to ideal for you as you can find? Sure some people do just want to date other people, but not always. Also, after 20 years, I doubt it was JUST that. She was comfortable too. It could have been she just wasn't doing enough. Or he didn't care enough anymore to notice what she was doing. Definitely more questions than answers.
I absolutely love to bestow happiness on my husband. Just last week I got my husband a 120 set of Professional art markers with a carrying case. His immediate response was to go pull out his sketch book and papers and draw beside me while I watched TV. 💖
I don't care how old he was when they got together. After 20 yrs you should have more respect. You knew she hasn't been with anyone buy you. The truth is hes been with this other women while he was with her and thats why he moved on so fast. My partner doesn't like gifts he thinks its just clutter that sits around. So for the last 3 years I have to really give it a lot of though and pay close attention to what he says and does. He needs a new bike seat, new swim wear for his workouts, new solor blow up lantern but this one has a usb port, etc. It takes time and you really have to listen and watch. He takes care of me so the least I can do is make sure when its gift time I put in the extra effert. Ladies its not the cost of the gift that matters. It's knowing your man that matters.
I agree with most of what you said. However. We don't know what happen in that relationship honestly I would agree that he probably been around this other before the one he was with but you never truly know.
The put your head on my chest one made me cry because no matter if you've been fighting all day I still need you to get to sleep was amazing seriously xx ❤️
It's sad in this day and age where a woman thinks she's simping for folding a man's laundry. The other modern woman won't do it, so it gives her an advantage.
Well if she works too he can fold his own laundry ...if she's a housewife there is a difference as she kinda agreed to do those responsibilities...but if both work outside then there's no reason why they can't share household chores. This idea that women should do all the cooking and cleaning just because she's a woman is dumb. It's sad that in this day men want mommies instead of wives.
@@kelliejackson3563 She's NOT his equal partner. That's NOT what marriage is supposed to be. God created the institution of marriage, not mankind. He already gave the roles and Order for how it's supposed to be. And if you're an atheist, then marriage really has no meaning at all, because LIFE has no meaning.
@@kelliejackson3563 Help meet...support system. The Bible is true....you're just ignorant and in denial. Why not do a search right here on TH-cam on the MANY facts and evidence that confirm the Bible to be true, instead assuming something you don't know? While you're at it, there are plenty of channels that break down why the standards of the Bible actually make sense. You subjectively FEEL that a woman being the Help Meet to her husband is the position of a slave, yet you know damn well you're not equal to a man. If y'all are in bed and you hear something at 2am, you're not going to check it out, you're asking him to go...why? Because if a burglar is breaking into your house, 9 times out of 10, it's a man and YOU won't be able to overpower him or scare him away or prevent him from robbing the house in the dead of night. If you think marriage means equal partners, then you get your ass up and go check out the noise at 2am. You split all the bills down the middle. You protect him (as if you could) fron danger like he protects you and confront other MEN like he has to. See, I don't think you truly want or understand equality, because most women couldn't handle it, if it were truly lived out. That would mean no more Ladies Night at the club. Women pay what the men pay to get in and buy their own drinks. No chivalry, either. Open your own door, pump your own gas, take your own garbage out and mow your own lawn....even with a man in the house. You 2 alternate, because you think marriage is equal partners. Modern westernized women are so delusional and detached from reality, smh.
That divorced man thing is blaming the man for the divorce. Many many stories of cheating and divorce has been put on the woman. Hell the most vile monster I know to exist is my ex wife. She is mentally abusive, a chameleon, able to lie without issue, controlling, manipulative uses kids as pawns etc. I would never get married again but I ain't half bad.
@@spideraguilar2071 I mean a lot of women fit it but my ex wife takes things a little further. Woman walked in front of me at walmart to I guess go down the aisle to my right. Argued for weeks over it. After the divorce my ex wife defended my kids molester screaming in her kids face how she is a liar and how it is impossible because she is always awake etc. Then went home that day after all the screaming and wrote all over her facebook about how good the sex is with him. She also kidnapped her kid for 2 months and left my kid with said molester every single day while she went to work. You may ask the question what about cops. For the molestation not allowed to press charges because it was over her clothes and only rubbed raw unless there is blood charges cannot be pressed. CPS called me racist because he is black I am white, she is white etc. The kidnapping thing Cops did not care. I did take them with me to try and hunt my kid down but they turned against me while I was hunting and told me that if I kept looking for my kid they would arrest me for stalking. That is the short of it. I could be here for a while if I went into details. I will say this we fought 3 months over me cheating, in her dream. Yes if you wondering she was the cheater and there was no way possible for me to cheat.
Some women who seemingly refuse to do these things for their man actually just don't know how. I found this out when I met my soon to be daughter-in-law. Her parents divorced early on and her mother was more of a friend than a guide, so I took on the role.
This made me think of basic training. I was in amazement at the # of people that didn't even know how to wash their clothes in the washing machine. Yes I'm a male but still... a man's pride is self sufficiency and its a disgrace not to be able to wash your own clothes or to be able to kill, clean, and cook your own meal.
@@billweirdo9657 ...or build your own house, or protect your own family, or provide for your family's needs. Granted, no man knows how to do everything, but it was not that long ago that part of growing into a man was being taught "the basics" by your elders. As you say, the measure of a man is his being self-sufficient. There is much that our younger generations do not know which they should.
Do for your good men ladies. My man got me a she shed...drywalled, lil celing fan...super nice. Lil does he know...I'm getting full power ran to it so it can instead be HIS music room to set up his turn tables and have a place to put his records, drum machines, and other equipment. He always sacrifices for me and the kids. He has always wanted that music room. Now he will have it
19 years with my man and our 18th anniversary was August 25. I help him get boots off and massage his feet and back. He's standing on them 12 hours a day as an electrician..I cook, do laundry and dishes, tend to the kids. He's working his body to the bone to provide for and protect me and our sons. Nothing wrong with pampering my man!
I did this and my Mate was like why in the Hell you did this I laugh so hard she got mad for real but quickly come down and I told about the things she was doing wrong.
@@kelliejackson3563 No, don't twist words. Women aren't slaves to men and men aren't bank accounts for women. Get used to it, the world has changed and men aren't gonna stand around and wait for a woman to get a clue. "As soon as he finds out you got nothing better to do except him, he won't be around." -hopsin
@@kelliejackson3563 men find women who cook, clean and generally nurture/care for people more attractive than women who call that being a "servant". We respect the woman who does all that. We give that woman everything we can. Love, time, energy, anything we can. Then there's you. Some scorned woman who has never found a man because she goes after flounders instead of sharks. You'll figure it out.
Sadly, many women today think that doing those things is beneath them or belittles them. But what they don't realize is by doing those things they are lifting, honoring and respecting their man and in turn we will lift you, honor you and respect you. Just as women need love, men need respect. And as a husband feels respected by his wife, he will begin to live in such a way that he is worthy of respect.
The problem is that many men expect this from their girlfriends. A husband... debatable depending on your arrangement, but not a boyfriend with no commitment. My father would probably die if I were to even think it's okay to shack up like these women do nowadays. As long as there is genuine respect for his wife, I see no issue with what they're doing. Although the shoe thing is a bit much unless it's some form of foreplay.
yo watching girl be wholesome to their men. that just great. could watch hours of that stuff. to clean all the hate an bad vibe some have given a brother
Dude I had to pause the video at NUMBER 2 with the gold stars... I CAN'T right now. I CAN NOT. CAN'T. WON'T. lololololololololololol oh man I wasn't READY.
So how you would do the rings in the water trick, fill the vase to the desired amount add the rings, put a piece of paper on top, flip it over and set it on the counter, pull out the paper and clean up just the little bit of water that comes out with the paper.
Bro the last one with the 20 year relationship from what we know just from that. Even tho a lot of effort may have been put into it, its over. That man or woman is not devoted to you no more they can and will move on. If its 'too fast' then thats like saying you cannot go out and meet anyone else until this date or this time. Just like when the relationship started, it happened then not planned out.
Funny experience. I visited a guy out of town and he was complaining how he needed to get his home in order, so one of the first things I wanted to do was to lessen this concerns so we can enjoy each other's company. However, he told me I was over stepping boundaries, to stop, and damn near flipped out on me. Damn if I did, damn if I didn't. Smh. No appreciation for the selfless acts of consideration.
The one about the star stickers speaks volumes to a woman’s psyche. So, simply put, women crave rules, structure and discipline……….just like children do.🤔 Nice👍🏾
Best Friends? Are you alright? Best Friend? What have this world come to. Your Husband/Wife is never your best friend that's like saying a Queen or a King is your pet or something.
So its considered offensive to mispronounc an noun from another language? If that's the case those people are offensive for being offended at others attempts to speak another language.
This isn’t men putting woman in their place it’s two people that bring 50/50 to the relationship 🤷♀️… but the last girl wasted 20 years and divorced men know what they want as well as divorced woman.
@@billweirdo9657 I’m not assuming they aren’t. I simply pray they are being pampered. I’ve been in the position of pampering someone who never reciprocates
@@kadejamckinzie3 Well let's not pampering its taking care of your significant other. And if your taking care of your significant other and theybarent taking care of you its time to go
Unfortunately with the laws set up in America, I couldn't suggest any man get married in this climate without a prenup it is too dangerous if you have anything to lose No matter how deserving she is remember the saying about a woman's scorn. Today everything can be great and tomorrow can be different.
@@evasimone417 If you have a relationship in which she is willing to build together like a couple of the past and she's not waiting for you at the finish line you have something very special.
@10:17 he said "that's the way we need to move from now on...". American men do not have the testicular fortitude to enforce this type of mandate on wives, children, and households. American men need to grow a pair first.
7:40 you have to in this age. If you don’t have a tone they like, the message don’t matter at all. They will disregard it and attack you for being any sort of blunt whether its logical or not. You gotta talk to them like they are children, mentally they are.
I don't know where you're from where you've got to speak in a appeasing tone when communicating with your partner- which I'm supposing are women- but personally I've never had to switch from an assertive or blunt disposition when talking to women, why? Because the only circumstance where assertion fails is when you lose your cool.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with taking care of your man as long as he takes care of you. Successful relationships are those where each partner gives 100%
Ok....if a woman cleans up after you and pampers you, it's because she loves you and wants to make you feel special, not fucking because it's her job. That is wrong. Of you guys have kids, it's both your jobs to clean up after them.
I'm just saying I would have trashed the chart when I saw it, like you're not my preK teacher, let's get it together...And taking care of each other should be mutual I hate sexists
@@marcrose3403 not the chart, I feel like this chanel can be that's why I don't watch it as often as I used too... Don't get me wrong, I can't stand gold diggers either but crap like, "you're training to qualify to be a wife" is stupid as ..., I don't cuss so just insert some words here... That's it, that's my little piece of soap boxing
@@YaYa-zm3wu do the vast majority of women desire for men propose to women? Yes, right? Therefore marriage is dependent on the man viewing the woman he is in a relationship as someone who qualifies to be a wife, just as her saying "Yes" or "No" verifies if that man is someone who's qualified to be a husband, it all applies both ways
Lmao, the one about the chickens, ducks, and guinea pigs, I feel that one. It goes both ways, though. She has to remind me we don't have the place for a tortoise, and I do the same with chickens/ducks. We both get sad about not being able to have a dog.
the hispanic couple at 5 minutes the song is actually a trend on tiktok, it talks about " how my wife governs me and orders me and i follow" sou what he did is he put the same song from a diferent point of view
Your channels has helped me look for the right girl and work on myself. Thank you brother
Agreed. 💯. The modern dating scene is crazy, literally.. give me the realization encouraged to stop trying to date and just focus on myself.. always heard the right girl will come along in time if you stop trying... And sure thing, one day boom the universe drops you very cool, down to earth, and chill fine ass babe right into my lap... 🤘🏻
@@shanebraaten9553 My heart goes out to you young people. I probably wouldn't do well in the current climate. Glad I found my girl back in the 80's. We have been married over 30 yrs.
This channel of an overweight single man who sits behind a computer desk all day and has never been in a relationship has helped you work on yourself????? Reach for a better role model. But, i’m glad you are working on yourself and looking for a good girl.
Your should get fit because it hard to respect a overweight single person giving relationship advice . Hope you can get a healthy lifestyle it will make your life and content better .
@@j.s3612 Are you saying overweight people can't understand how relationships work and how to do them better? I don't know the guy who runs this show. Are you sure he has never had a girlfriend? Overweight people need love too and might end up being better mates than someone who has washboard abs.
After 7 yrs. I still take off my man’s shoes when he gets home and thank him every meal he cooks! (Grandma taught him how to live w/o woman, he enjoys cooking so I don’t argue!!)
Do you want a cookie? I'm his wife not his mommy. I do not take his shoes off nor do I make his plate. He is perfectly capable of dressing himself and he can decide for himself how much he wants to eat. I do not treat my husband like a child because I respect him. Does not make you more of a woman or a wife to do so. But hey that's just from someone been married 12 years.
"Whatever" re: k Simpsons comment.
Do your thing, Jazzy! A reasonable and respectful man exponentially appreciates the rarity of a traditional wife vs. the Ms. Independents ... who really aren't that independent or interchangeable for all the things a man worth a damn can do.
And, yes, I've been married for over a decade too and was cooking and doing all domestic duties since a teenager. That's life. No medals required.
Thanks for sharing your voice, Jazzy!
@@k_t530 calm your azz down Pass Me.
@@k_t530 everyone relationship with their significant other is different why you bashing how she appreciates her significant other. It’s not babying them it’s love. Just the same how you show your appreciation everyone different 🤷🏾♂️
@@k_t530 he gonna cheat on you with someone that treats him like a king.
Y’all must understand there’s a line between pimping and not letting a woman cross your boundaries
Facts!
@GI Joe True
EXPLAIN PLEASE(?)
I sympathize with the last woman who was in relationship with man for 20 years. Especially since now she’s at that age where not many men would find her attractive. Literally left her high and dry for a younger woman who is most likely going to do the same thing to him when he gets too old
There is assholes on both sides that never think their day of unattractiveness will come. The wall comes for all. Men have a wall too it's just not as severe or quick. We all lose physical beauty. Even the best looking people fade. In fact that is why the game is so messed up right now. People are thinking more short term based on last than long term based on compatibility and respect. One day your libido will drop. One day sex will stop. What your foundation was built on determines if that lasts or not. The large majority of people pick wrong and overvalued their present mindset hoping it will last or that they will even still care about what they care about in the body of a young person. Obviously you don't want to be in a sexless marriage right off the bat. There has to be some foundational desire on that front. But it won't last. It never does. So what do you choose to accept beyond that is what a lot of people are not considering.
@@guitarman0365 how do you build a good foundation?
That is one possibility. We were not given enough information to know what happened or why. Another possibility is that she was a failure of a wife and he finally reached the limit of his patience. Women are more prone to losing patience with mistreatment and "blowing up" about it. Men are more prone to suffering in silence until they have had enough, and then they call it quits and never come back.
@@khalaq2 Nope. A real men would have left the relationship long before looking for someone new. Stop trying to justify cheating. There is no legitimate excuse for that.
@@Slw1111 You are reading things into my post which I did not include. Nowhere did I condone sex outside of marriage. I agree that a man of integrity would leave his current relationship before pursuing another. Since the video does not tell us when or why the guy left, it is possible he divorced her before finding another woman, and it is also possible he left his wife for a mistress. The video clip does not give us that information. I therefore did not address the clip but instead reacted to the OP. For whatever reason, you chose to "fill in the blanks" of the story while also making assumptions about what was in my head when I wrote my response. You then condemned me for what you invented in your own mind. I find that very odd.
I’m fortunate enough to be a stay at home wife. My hubby has a 9-5. My job is to take care of him, like the 1950’s wife. It’s the way I was raised. I really don’t consider it “my job”. It’s more like an honor to take care of him. Plus I promised his mom I’d take care of him. Been married for 20 years now 🥰
Women like you are rare now.
Every women I've meet has been a well...canyon with wide ravine 🤣
I did all those same things,I thought that's what a "good" woman supposed to do but here's the thing,after years of livin' with the drinking, disrespect, cheating I eventually became a different type of woman so my husband would say " You used to be so good to me, now you ain't shit" My reply "Hey you made me who I am today baby" Why I stayed for long? Pure stupidity
@@denisee9807 aww see the good ones end up with clowns. I hope you find someone who reciprocates your love. Good luck 👍
Amen! and both are happy 🙂
Conggradulations,Congratulations, to appreciate taking care of my hisband.
I had to get up at 5am spoon feed my man for months. He had some seizures and three times a week drive him to dialysis. Today's women can't fold some clothes. Are people serious?
Damn is dude ok now? I have seizures I know that's nothing to f with.
My thoughts for your man, and respect to you 👏👏
is he ok tho
Why would a man choose to divorce his wife of twenty years? There are many possible reasons, but we are not told, here. One thing we know for sure, however, is that men have limited patience. Once that patience is all used up, they leave and do not come back.
As for marrying a divorced man, whether or not that is a good idea depends upon why the divorce happened. Some women abandon good men, and some men abandon good women. Instead of focusing on the divorce, focus on the character of the person you are considering for a relationship.
"Put yo head on my chest so we can go to sleep"
Right. We're not supposed to go to sleep while angry at our significant other.
We need more girls like this that know how to take care of their man and keep them but I do believe it should be equal
What should be equal? Also I agree with what you said the first 3 lines.
Yes, I believe that to. I believe that bcoz it's a partnership, you should both have each others back and split the chores. Each couple will obv not split the chores the same as the next couple
@@jjohnson6382 treating each other with respect for one and take care of each other men and women should do their part and not let the other slack off on it.
Found the SIMP
@@adrunkskeleton9046 why because I believe in equality get to know a person before you judge someone you internet trolls don't phase me just shows how childish you really are
One thing you learn from this. Man being treated kindly is a shock to the system as much as a woman being treated as an equal. Funny that.
Underrated facts
The guy talking to his girl about chickens😂. That's the conversation with my hubby😂. I listen then say "so where should we put the coop"🙃. He sighs 🤗.
Her reaction to that sticker thing is adorable though.
I am only half Arab, but Arab nonetheless. I can confirm that if she’s not traditional, it’s not happening.
So you basically want a slave
that sticker thing had me dying. if you do get a maid service do get some cams to be safe you never know.
I wanna try that on my fiance 🤣
The first dude gets an A+ . He said you can walk home
Lord have mercy I could not stop laughing when he said that.
Some of the relationships in the video comp were straight wholesome I literally shed a tear with then and the boat
I hate the "I didn't get to experience other people" that's such a selfish and bullshit mentality and that shit don't fly for men or women
I 100 percent agree you literally don't need that. But everyone is different so for the people like that we just put the fact they ain't right.
It's not always that simple. It's more, "am I really in love or am I comfortable? Is this REALLY the best for me or is it all I really know?". Sure, it's selfish. But we are alive one time. Do you spend your entire life with somebody because it's good enough or do you look for somebody that is as close to ideal for you as you can find? Sure some people do just want to date other people, but not always. Also, after 20 years, I doubt it was JUST that. She was comfortable too. It could have been she just wasn't doing enough. Or he didn't care enough anymore to notice what she was doing. Definitely more questions than answers.
“She not even doing the transitions correctly” she’s busy cleaning 😂 she can’t do it all lol
Touché 🤣
That dude with the star stickers remind me of that spongebob episode good noodle azz 😂
I absolutely love to bestow happiness on my husband. Just last week I got my husband a 120 set of Professional art markers with a carrying case. His immediate response was to go pull out his sketch book and papers and draw beside me while I watched TV. 💖
I don't care how old he was when they got together. After 20 yrs you should have more respect. You knew she hasn't been with anyone buy you. The truth is hes been with this other women while he was with her and thats why he moved on so fast.
My partner doesn't like gifts he thinks its just clutter that sits around. So for the last 3 years I have to really give it a lot of though and pay close attention to what he says and does. He needs a new bike seat, new swim wear for his workouts, new solor blow up lantern but this one has a usb port, etc. It takes time and you really have to listen and watch. He takes care of me so the least I can do is make sure when its gift time I put in the extra effert. Ladies its not the cost of the gift that matters. It's knowing your man that matters.
I agree with most of what you said. However. We don't know what happen in that relationship honestly I would agree that he probably been around this other before the one he was with but you never truly know.
@@jjohnson6382 So true.
@@jjohnson6382 that man will get his karma.
The put your head on my chest one made me cry because no matter if you've been fighting all day I still need you to get to sleep was amazing seriously xx ❤️
It's sad in this day and age where a woman thinks she's simping for folding a man's laundry. The other modern woman won't do it, so it gives her an advantage.
Well if she works too he can fold his own laundry ...if she's a housewife there is a difference as she kinda agreed to do those responsibilities...but if both work outside then there's no reason why they can't share household chores. This idea that women should do all the cooking and cleaning just because she's a woman is dumb. It's sad that in this day men want mommies instead of wives.
why cant the man fold his own dam laundry. She is his equal partner not his servant.
@@kelliejackson3563 She's NOT his equal partner. That's NOT what marriage is supposed to be. God created the institution of marriage, not mankind. He already gave the roles and Order for how it's supposed to be. And if you're an atheist, then marriage really has no meaning at all, because LIFE has no meaning.
@@ManOfYah-work-in-progress so she is his servant then? Bible bashers make me puke.
@@kelliejackson3563 Help meet...support system. The Bible is true....you're just ignorant and in denial. Why not do a search right here on TH-cam on the MANY facts and evidence that confirm the Bible to be true, instead assuming something you don't know? While you're at it, there are plenty of channels that break down why the standards of the Bible actually make sense. You subjectively FEEL that a woman being the Help Meet to her husband is the position of a slave, yet you know damn well you're not equal to a man. If y'all are in bed and you hear something at 2am, you're not going to check it out, you're asking him to go...why? Because if a burglar is breaking into your house, 9 times out of 10, it's a man and YOU won't be able to overpower him or scare him away or prevent him from robbing the house in the dead of night. If you think marriage means equal partners, then you get your ass up and go check out the noise at 2am. You split all the bills down the middle. You protect him (as if you could) fron danger like he protects you and confront other MEN like he has to. See, I don't think you truly want or understand equality, because most women couldn't handle it, if it were truly lived out. That would mean no more Ladies Night at the club. Women pay what the men pay to get in and buy their own drinks. No chivalry, either. Open your own door, pump your own gas, take your own garbage out and mow your own lawn....even with a man in the house. You 2 alternate, because you think marriage is equal partners. Modern westernized women are so delusional and detached from reality, smh.
2:29 had my ass laughing so damn hard. You took my sticker down for What! Hahaha.
Gentlemen, never simp... never.
That divorced man thing is blaming the man for the divorce. Many many stories of cheating and divorce has been put on the woman. Hell the most vile monster I know to exist is my ex wife. She is mentally abusive, a chameleon, able to lie without issue, controlling, manipulative uses kids as pawns etc. I would never get married again but I ain't half bad.
Yooo!!! This sounds like my baby momma... the fuuck🤣🤣👀
@@spideraguilar2071 I mean a lot of women fit it but my ex wife takes things a little further. Woman walked in front of me at walmart to I guess go down the aisle to my right. Argued for weeks over it. After the divorce my ex wife defended my kids molester screaming in her kids face how she is a liar and how it is impossible because she is always awake etc. Then went home that day after all the screaming and wrote all over her facebook about how good the sex is with him. She also kidnapped her kid for 2 months and left my kid with said molester every single day while she went to work.
You may ask the question what about cops.
For the molestation not allowed to press charges because it was over her clothes and only rubbed raw unless there is blood charges cannot be pressed. CPS called me racist because he is black I am white, she is white etc.
The kidnapping thing Cops did not care. I did take them with me to try and hunt my kid down but they turned against me while I was hunting and told me that if I kept looking for my kid they would arrest me for stalking.
That is the short of it. I could be here for a while if I went into details.
I will say this we fought 3 months over me cheating, in her dream. Yes if you wondering she was the cheater and there was no way possible for me to cheat.
Number 8 literally the conversation my husband and I have every spring
I can't stop laughing.
Some women who seemingly refuse to do these things for their man actually just don't know how. I found this out when I met my soon to be daughter-in-law. Her parents divorced early on and her mother was more of a friend than a guide, so I took on the role.
Very tru and God bless U for that !!! Foreal that’s amazing . I went thru this but had no one to guide me
Good on you. Role-models are very important to being successful in life.
This made me think of basic training. I was in amazement at the # of people that didn't even know how to wash their clothes in the washing machine. Yes I'm a male but still... a man's pride is self sufficiency and its a disgrace not to be able to wash your own clothes or to be able to kill, clean, and cook your own meal.
@@billweirdo9657 Agreed. So many parents just aren't teaching their kids life skills anymore
@@billweirdo9657 ...or build your own house, or protect your own family, or provide for your family's needs. Granted, no man knows how to do everything, but it was not that long ago that part of growing into a man was being taught "the basics" by your elders. As you say, the measure of a man is his being self-sufficient. There is much that our younger generations do not know which they should.
See it's the simple things that woman don't think us guys will appreciate that we really do appreciate ladies it doesn't take much to make us happy
"Nah go ahead and explain it buddy". Man's snapped!
Do for your good men ladies. My man got me a she shed...drywalled, lil celing fan...super nice. Lil does he know...I'm getting full power ran to it so it can instead be HIS music room to set up his turn tables and have a place to put his records, drum machines, and other equipment. He always sacrifices for me and the kids. He has always wanted that music room. Now he will have it
Omg...ur great 👍very thoughtful.
1:21 you missed the point he’s been doing it randomly for no reason. Not because she was doing good or bad. He took one away just to mess with her
She's a clown n his circus
My husband is my baby! I do everything for him!!! He is a great husband!!
Excellent Video ! Thanks for posting.
The chart is BRILLIANT! I need to do that with my wife! ;D
i would tear that shit up and laugh right in his face.
I did the star thing with my wife and kids all on a list. You better belive she noticed she had less stars than the kids.
19 years with my man and our 18th anniversary was August 25. I help him get boots off and massage his feet and back. He's standing on them 12 hours a day as an electrician..I cook, do laundry and dishes, tend to the kids. He's working his body to the bone to provide for and protect me and our sons. Nothing wrong with pampering my man!
“Them Arabs don’t playrabs” lmfaoo 🤣 🤣 I can’t breeve!!
4:15 Lady glowed up after that comment. Lol!
Soft voice, touching and everything.
Honey over vinegar.
That chart was THEE Funniest EVER! STR8 GOLD! LMAO 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
My brother had the same talk with his wife. She kidnapped a baby duck from a park and hid it for in her purse.
That stickers such a clever game 🤣
The star program coming to a relationship near you 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🤴🏻
2:36
I’m trying to master this level of mind games, not to do anything too nefarious, but just to mess with her
I did this and my Mate was like why in the Hell you did this I laugh so hard she got mad for real but quickly come down and I told about the things she was doing wrong.
that "Womanly instinct" is called Nesting, and its been greatly discouraged all throughout my life 😔
Men love nesting women!! Honestly if a woman nested for me I'd give her everything.
@@CenturionMisfit do you mean a woman being your servant?
@@kelliejackson3563 No, don't twist words. Women aren't slaves to men and men aren't bank accounts for women. Get used to it, the world has changed and men aren't gonna stand around and wait for a woman to get a clue. "As soon as he finds out you got nothing better to do except him, he won't be around." -hopsin
@@CenturionMisfit Get used to being a servant? Nah.
@@kelliejackson3563 men find women who cook, clean and generally nurture/care for people more attractive than women who call that being a "servant". We respect the woman who does all that. We give that woman everything we can. Love, time, energy, anything we can. Then there's you. Some scorned woman who has never found a man because she goes after flounders instead of sharks. You'll figure it out.
😂 great Videos and laughs omg 😳 removing ⭐⭐ will make you mad trust me 😆.
That Jenny/sticker thing...I CAN'T! that's just too hilarious!!!
Ahahaha omfg the sticker thing had me so dam weak 🤣 simple brains I swear
Yo the sticker on the wall is epic lmaooo
The sticker thing is excellent. Women are still young at the mind and stickers are great for maintaining their accountability.
I'd be taking a sticker for wearing that shirt and those pants together outside. Oof.
Sadly, many women today think that doing those things is beneath them or belittles them. But what they don't realize is by doing those things they are lifting, honoring and respecting their man and in turn we will lift you, honor you and respect you.
Just as women need love, men need respect. And as a husband feels respected by his wife, he will begin to live in such a way that he is worthy of respect.
The problem is that many men expect this from their girlfriends. A husband... debatable depending on your arrangement, but not a boyfriend with no commitment. My father would probably die if I were to even think it's okay to shack up like these women do nowadays. As long as there is genuine respect for his wife, I see no issue with what they're doing. Although the shoe thing is a bit much unless it's some form of foreplay.
yo watching girl be wholesome to their men. that just great. could watch hours of that stuff. to clean all the hate an bad vibe some have given a brother
@ 15:03 Reminds me of that one song "Diamond" by Spin Doctors.
Dude I had to pause the video at NUMBER 2 with the gold stars... I CAN'T right now. I CAN NOT. CAN'T. WON'T. lololololololololololol oh man I wasn't READY.
Uh.men and women can in fact be just friends.no,neither side need be lgbtq for this to happen.
Ahhh.....the lost art of friendship
So how you would do the rings in the water trick, fill the vase to the desired amount add the rings, put a piece of paper on top, flip it over and set it on the counter, pull out the paper and clean up just the little bit of water that comes out with the paper.
Bro the last one with the 20 year relationship from what we know just from that. Even tho a lot of effort may have been put into it, its over. That man or woman is not devoted to you no more they can and will move on. If its 'too fast' then thats like saying you cannot go out and meet anyone else until this date or this time. Just like when the relationship started, it happened then not planned out.
I need a girl like that shit that's a good girl if she's pampering her man I hope he's doing the same for her tho
These men are sweet.... their women are happy!!!👍🏾🇯🇲🙂
Funny experience. I visited a guy out of town and he was complaining how he needed to get his home in order, so one of the first things I wanted to do was to lessen this concerns so we can enjoy each other's company. However, he told me I was over stepping boundaries, to stop, and damn near flipped out on me. Damn if I did, damn if I didn't. Smh. No appreciation for the selfless acts of consideration.
The one about the star stickers speaks volumes to a woman’s psyche. So, simply put, women crave rules, structure and discipline……….just like children do.🤔 Nice👍🏾
People period crave structure.
Erm. I would rip it in half because I'm not a child. My partner would never disrespect me like that.
@@darrellwilliams1714 I can put weak men in that number and there’s a lot of them. No men that keeps society going. Also, no true free thinkers.
12:17 playing devil's advocate, husband and wife should also be super close if not not best friends with each other imo
Still wack to call ones husband that
Best Friends? Are you alright? Best Friend? What have this world come to. Your Husband/Wife is never your best friend that's like saying a Queen or a King is your pet or something.
Imagine having a mental break down in your car after realizing you ve been nice to someone for once in your life HAHAHAHHAHAHA
Arab is Pronounced àir uhb.
ey rab is considered offensive.
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So its considered offensive to mispronounc an noun from another language? If that's the case those people are offensive for being offended at others attempts to speak another language.
@OJDUDE
Glad the president cleared it up. Thx!
This isn’t men putting woman in their place it’s two people that bring 50/50 to the relationship 🤷♀️… but the last girl wasted 20 years and divorced men know what they want as well as divorced woman.
That's the problem with that mindset relationships aren't 50/50 divorce is 50/50
@@dominant_male5605 That's a great way of putting it.
100/100
I pray these women are being pampered while they are pampering these men
Kind sounds like you are assuming they are not... if so why would you assume this. If not then what's the point of the comment ?
Oh you know they are especially if they Cook and Clean. Then you literally don't got to do shit just wait and let everything come to you.
@@billweirdo9657 I’m not assuming they aren’t. I simply pray they are being pampered. I’ve been in the position of pampering someone who never reciprocates
@@kadejamckinzie3 Well let's not pampering its taking care of your significant other. And if your taking care of your significant other and theybarent taking care of you its time to go
Unfortunately with the laws set up in America, I couldn't suggest any man get married in this climate without a prenup it is too dangerous if you have anything to lose No matter how deserving she is remember the saying about a woman's scorn. Today everything can be great and tomorrow can be different.
@@evasimone417
If you have a relationship in which she is willing to build together like a couple of the past and she's not waiting for you at the finish line you have something very special.
@@evasimone417 the majority of men even in today's era don't tend to like any of those women for actual relationships, that's rare too
Sh*t...women need to get prenuptial agreements too.
@@Maya-ln1os I agree
i live for this content!
I love that sticker game!!! I might try that myself!😅😅👍
Them A-rabs don't play-rabs. Bro 💀💀💀💀💀
This the second video I seen by you and I’m about to subscribe
That star sticker one was genius!
A lot of these are just thoughtful partners. Sounds awesome.
@10:17 he said "that's the way we need to move from now on...". American men do not have the testicular fortitude to enforce this type of mandate on wives, children, and households. American men need to grow a pair first.
That sticker prop was funny😂
7:40 you have to in this age. If you don’t have a tone they like, the message don’t matter at all. They will disregard it and attack you for being any sort of blunt whether its logical or not. You gotta talk to them like they are children, mentally they are.
It’s sad. Can’t just direct because your tone sounds mean.
I don't know where you're from where you've got to speak in a appeasing tone when communicating with your partner- which I'm supposing are women- but personally I've never had to switch from an assertive or blunt disposition when talking to women, why? Because the only circumstance where assertion fails is when you lose your cool.
Lmao and here I am just tryn get a bit to text back 🤣🤣🤣
Fantastic video
There is absolutely nothing wrong with taking care of your man as long as he takes care of you. Successful relationships are those where each partner gives 100%
Ok....if a woman cleans up after you and pampers you, it's because she loves you and wants to make you feel special, not fucking because it's her job. That is wrong. Of you guys have kids, it's both your jobs to clean up after them.
It's difficult for us to believe, because only our mom and dad would gift us something. Short of that, that's about it.
2:40 your reaction made me spit my drink 😂😜😂
you're on point with that the first guy definitely sounded like he was from Kentucky sounds like half my friends 😂
You nailed it when u said we used to do that in kindergarten.
I'm just saying I would have trashed the chart when I saw it, like you're not my preK teacher, let's get it together...And taking care of each other should be mutual I hate sexists
Lol 😂 hows that sexist
@@marcrose3403 not the chart, I feel like this chanel can be that's why I don't watch it as often as I used too... Don't get me wrong, I can't stand gold diggers either but crap like, "you're training to qualify to be a wife" is stupid as ..., I don't cuss so just insert some words here... That's it, that's my little piece of soap boxing
@@YaYa-zm3wu Where is the hate for women on this podcasts?
@@marcrose3403 you don't see what you don't want to see, as I said for me it can be...but I'm good....good day
@@YaYa-zm3wu do the vast majority of women desire for men propose to women? Yes, right? Therefore marriage is dependent on the man viewing the woman he is in a relationship as someone who qualifies to be a wife, just as her saying "Yes" or "No" verifies if that man is someone who's qualified to be a husband, it all applies both ways
I remember getting the gold slips I don't know if it's the same for anybody else but that's what it was for me when I was in school
The chick with the gold star….that’s a keeper. She seems concerned about his opinion of her and keeping the relationship good.
Bruh when the girl starts doing shit for Ur mum, it doesn't end well, she just getting herself backup for later on. The stickers one is gold.
Number 14 was mad mad
"Sounds like he's talking to a child." He is.
Lmao, the one about the chickens, ducks, and guinea pigs, I feel that one. It goes both ways, though. She has to remind me we don't have the place for a tortoise, and I do the same with chickens/ducks. We both get sad about not being able to have a dog.
Damn I'm gonna use that sticker method 🙌 🤣
I love your channel. We need some men like you up here in Michigan.
When he called her wifey, she was open like a can of Tuna! Notice her smile.
Big country said 👏🏾 you talking to someone you can get out their is plenty of women that want him I love it
100% Messing With My Woman With The Star Thingy
You know I had to TH-cam that sticker video, Right!
the hispanic couple at 5 minutes the song is actually a trend on tiktok, it talks about " how my wife governs me and orders me and i follow" sou what he did is he put the same song from a diferent point of view
now imma try the star sticker chart 🤣🤣🤣🤣