They believe in the zodiac because it eliminates accountability. Its so much easier to say the relationship was horrible because he's a Pisces rather than admit to having poor judgement of character.
And because of their wishful thinking due to having things handed to them just for being women. Men are generally grounded and realistic not because we’re cynics or pessimists, but because we don’t just get crap handed to us for existing… We gotta put in work.
So crazy hearing their answers. When I met my husband he was on unemployment and I wasn't working at the time. And 10 years later happily married with 2 kids and we became home owners. Working together pays off. We live a simple life, wouldnt change it.
That’s what I want to do, build with someone. I could never tolerate a leach who just wants my money or what I could provide. It makes no sense to me. Modern men and women can put their brains and resources together and build such an awesome life, yet they choose to be dysfunctional most of the time and just ride someone’s wave. I really don’t get it.
@@Ryan-cb1ei It's the lack of accountability, if the wave rider gets dumped because they add no value to the relationship then they will just play victim.
People don't long for what they already have, they long for what they feel is missing. For the men who are invisible to women, attaining female interest is more difficult. For the women chasing unavailable men, attaining commitment is more difficult.
Personal opinion.. it is a way to feel like there is control in a world where you have no control over anything but yourself and when you are used to people fronting or lying it gives you a way to shield yourself from others. "I've had so much fun with you tonight! What is your sign? Oh... yeah.. well it was fun. See you around some time (deletes phone number as they walk away)" Or perhaps there is an ex you were really into that wants nothing to do with you "Their horoscope said they are happy. If they are happy I can let go and just breathe because that is what I wanted for them." It gives the illusion of control or order so the world feels more secure. Now personally I have fun looking it up. I'll watch it at the end of the evening and get a chuckle when I'm bored and no one is around to chat with. "OOOHHH my soul mate is coming today!?! Too bad I sat around in my jammies with wine all day. Guess that ship sailed" -cackles maniacally- When it comes down to it though you can't judge others. Astrology, gender roles, race, education, religion.. every person is an individual.. but teasing a Leo when they take extra time in the mirror is still good for a giggle. "Of COURSE you would be the one to take longer. Put your leo away and get into the car! We are late!" ;) Don't judge.. laugh and love.. experience life and people and just have a good time.
@@mamadoomkin1795 ...Exactly. To me it seems almost like predictive programing. They act out how these signs are described and turn around and say it's because they're that sign. It's just another excuse for them to use to purposely be difficult and immature because they claim their sign is difficult and immature or some silly bs like that.
@John Pierre On a first date yes.. RED FLAG!! However, instead of just running away take the step before her getting a chance to ask. Be proactive and have a basic get to know you question be about astrology. Get into a session where you guys are giving your thoughts about different important topics such as kids, marriage, friends, housing, family, roles in a relationship.. add astrology and anything else that is meaningful to you as an individual into the mix. If she is a woman that lives her life by astrology and you hate it.. that isn't a relationship for you and you can finish out the date but make sure she knows this can't work and you otherwise had a good time. Deal breakers are important to know within your heart and important to define early so that no one wastes time in a situation that causes them undue stress.
I’m convinced most of the dumb ones spend their lives on social media, that’s why we see them all the time. Smart people know the dangers of social media and not to post their lives to it, they generally have better things to do. Dumb people aren’t just… dumb. They have dumb habits, dumb tendencies, dumb ideas/expectations. It becomes really obvious when you spend your time around “real” people who value the real things in life, and then you can spot these broads from a mile away. It’s too easy to me lmao
It's hard for me to take any female serious these days because when you ask serious questions about them or dating they think it's funny like those first two women
I’m a woman who used to be into zodiac signs until I started to notice the EXACT SAME REACTIONS from people when I told them I’m a Scorpio. It’s like suddenly everything they’ve known about me just vanished.
I'm a virgo...apparently I'm a manipulator, very analytical, know how to connect with a woman's feelings, n I'm very logical... I'm here not understanding women, n why they tend to choose emotionally unavailable men n egotistical narcissistic men.
Funny because as a woman, that’s how I feel about modern men. They want us to be independent so we don’t need them, but still want us to take care of home. It makes me feel like if I have to do everything by myself, I might as well actually be by myself. Not trying to debate, but I’d genuinely like to hear your experiences.
@@AT-mq9wk wow, you know that actually makes sense. but where i disagree with you is that the primary party is men telling you to be independent. if we are going to be honest, its feminism (women) thats telling women to be strong and independent and dont need no man. Sure I wouldnt be surprised if some man would tell you that but for that to be the majority of men? nah. a good minority of men? thats realistic. but Women have been pushing women to be independent. They shame other women for being feminine or traditional, they will literally drag other women and call them lazy because they dont follow the feminist agenda.
@Jerico Thompson ok, you dont have to shame women who want to be a housewife, go find a modern women. I want a housewife, I have no problem paying for everything while shes at home keeping the entire house in check and the kids. Just cuz ur not cool with it doesnt mean its bad
Her: "I'm looking for a man whose over 6 foot tall, has to make over 100k a year, needs to spoil me, be in shape, and be ok with open relationships." Also her: "Why are you telling women to be in shape and clean, or have their own home?! You're a misogynist!" You can't win without women anymore.
@@BuffKangaroo1 not completely but It can be done Significantly *Enough* in the last 4 years the Manosphere has been Waking up Men and we are better than we were 10 years ago , despite there are still a large number of Blue Pills
"I feel like men were put on this earth to provide" And if I said I feel like women were put on this earth to submit and nurture children, I'd get death threats.
@@tobiasreaper3650 didbi say that?? Were you not created in the womb??you simply fertilized the egg. Just like a plant. The woman essentially creates the baby inside of her. Therefore it is her choice whether she wants to bring forth life or not. Thats not a man's decision bc yall don't carry not give birth.
@@theintuitivecounselor I thought we were talking about something else. Oh that's right, we were. The OP pointed out the hypocrisy in modern culture. You went on to argue that men shouldn't get to have opinions or standards for women, because women give birth. I pointed out that to conceive a child, there still has to be a man. You go on to elaborate about the womb. You call women, the "creators", but a woman cannot begin the process of creation without a man. I don't know where you are from, but in the United States, society (and the legal system) does not hold women accountable the same way men are. Women are allowed to have standards for men that they themselves will never meet, but men are called "pigs" and "misogynists" for having standards for women. Women want to tell men what man's role is, but will never be receptive to being told what her role is, and will not accept any role that has any accountability or responsibility to it. Hopefully I elaborated well enough.
Some women don’t want to build with men because some men get a little bit of money then want to “upgrade”. They forget about the woman who was by their side. In that sense, it’s better to be with someone who’s at least accustomed to making decent money so you know he won’t change for the worse later on. Edit: “Placeholder” was the term I was looking for. We don’t want to be used as placeholders.
I see what you're saying, but the same could be said vice versa. If you have a set expectation of money and that changes. Women leave men after the man loses his job all the time. What you said i'm sure that happens all the time. But as you now know that's not the only side. Sometimes people are just crap
I think the most important dating questions to ask are: 1. What do you want out of dating? Are you interested in a relationship or just a short term kind of thing? 2. What are your ultimate goals in life?/ Where do you see yourself in the next year? 3. What's more important to you, giving or receiving? I feel like asking these kind of questions can give you a good idea about what type of person you are dealing with and how far things will go as to whether you both will be compatible.
Hey Melina what's your astrology sign? 😄 Don't answer, I'm just messin with ya. I wouldn't ask a lady your questions thou, likely to get stabbed with high heels or scratched with their claws. It should be straightforward but it's not, gotta play games with ladies if you wanna beat them doonies down.
@@TSnowy23 sheesh dude you sound awfully negative 😕 I think a woman who is serious about finding a lasting relationship wouldn't mind answering these questions... I'd say they're quite basic 🤷🏾♀️ besides, you wouldn't rapid fire ask these questions you would work them in gradually thru conversation
James Randi taught a college class where he had a "professional" astrologer prepare everyones' horoscope. Then he asked them how accurate their horoscope was. They all rated them 8-10 out of 10 for accuracy. Then he revealed that he "accidentally" gave everyone the wrong horoscope. He then gave everyone their "real" horoscope and they all rated them 8-10 out of 10 for accuracy.
For the single/relationship question...I think the answer is balance. You want to be in a relationship but still have your independece. Usually when you in a relay you smothered and can't be alone and when you're single you're alone too much.
I love someone that gives space and has their own life. A lot of these chicks have no life lol, it makes them bad partners and it’s boring. Also it makes that time with them even more special. There’s a balance. Usually y’all are working during the week, doing your hobbies… and you see each other on nights or on weekends, until you live together that is. But as counterintuitive as it sounds, and as much attention as I thought I wanted, it’s so much better and healthier when you each have your own crap worked out and see each other less, it’s exciting and you really cherish that time.
When you buy an idea, expect no refunds. That’s why we gotta stay grounded. Don’t slap your values or expectations on a person. It’s gotta be a dance, 1 step, 2 step, twirl.
Anyone who takes astrology seriously is quite literally too self absorbed in their own childish belief to have actual, serious interactions with people and get to know them. They are literally too shallow to show the kind of empathy and social IQ to understand other people's personalities and habits and instead have to rely on an external checklist to guide them.
It allows them to judge others and blame others based off a fraud thing as astrology because the stars dont even correspond with your birth anymore since the skyline has shifted since its creation but they cant fix because it would admit that for years none of their horoscopes were legit
The reason so many of us men are walking away is as simple as this, I haven't met a woman who talked about being a wife more than she talked about being a bride since the early nineties. My wife and I married young at HER insistence, and as sure as the sun rises in the east, she decided she needed to keep dating to find mister right less than three years after swearing to God to forsake all others. Loved wearing the dress and hosting the party, hated giving up the hot-girl summers and girl's night out.
I've been stalked recently on two separate occasions in a grocery by women following me, I was cool with it but the problem was...my girl was with me, she was upset and I honestly didn't notice until she pointed out the same chicks was following us through the aisles in both situations. Stuff like this never ever happens when I'm single, I dont understand their way of thinking
That's funny you say that because same has happened with my husband and I --- he is very laid back, (not flashy) and doesn't get much attention alone, but when we go out women literally look as tho they hit the breaks while passing, sometimes circle back (and a handful have the nerve to flirt).....it's as if they think he has value because they see me with him, wearing rings and looking committed (the things they want). It was actually my brother who 1st pointed this phenomenon out when we were teenagers (he got more "play" when we were out together, by girls unaware I was his sister of course).
@@angelacox96 yes, that's exactly how it was. I'm not flashy either, my outfit including shoes probably doesn't go over $80 at any given time. When I'm alone women say absolutely nothing to me but when I'm with my girl they become hunters
@@magnumstrike1 it's wild... they've done actual psychological studies on it now and link it to the same reasons women are attracted to fathers (men out with their kids) or married men/wearing wedding rings etc. Some women have esteem issues and get competitive (simply want to win the man/feel better than his girl), but majority of them see it as an embodiment of what they seek (good father/husband/relationship)......it's good that you see it too and don't think she's crazy for seeing/feeling it!
She could have been either trying to intimidate your girl, trying to see if you two were happy, or maybe trying to see what your girl sees in you. I've had all 3 happen to me before.
I'm a 50ish female about to make a heretical statement: Astrology is wishful thinking and crystals are pretty rocks. Thatisall. My question for a potential SO would be: are you a TV person or a book person, and what do you enjoy watching/reading the most? The answer will give me insight into the personality of the potential SO.
I’ve been on dating apps for a while. I’ve connected with a total of 5 different women that actually turned into talking and meeting up. I did everything to put that energy out there that I want a relationship. After a month or talking with each women all of them when I nudge them to start a relationship gave me some excuse and said let’s be friend. My answer… sorry I’m not on a dating service for friendship. Soon as I’m friend zoned I run. And sometimes I call it before it even happens and run. Seems like every women on these services are only looking for friends and aren’t seriously looking for a relationship even if they specifically say so. They still friend zoned me after a few weeks of talking.
Imma let you know right now bro. Women are too spoiled for choice. You have to separate yourself from the group in some spectacular way. Whether it's finances, physique, or charisma. A female 4 is gonna have more options then a male 7 off the rip.
@@inkedmomblu1510 I place it clear as day on my profile looking for long term relationship only. And when a communication opens up I make sure to not let things go the friendship route. Avoiding the word “friend”. And talking strictly about relationship topics and giving compliments and really showing that hey I’m interested what do you say? Made lead me on to a false sense of them liking me till I really try to nudge things forward and they back out and want friendship. Sorry I’m not on a dating site for friendship. It’s annoying.
That’s because they all are getting bombarded with men putting them on pedestals without lifting a finger. Dating sites are pretty much insert money receive attention for women. Stay off dating sites, start going to gatherings at your local church(or whatever religion you are), volunteer for community services, those are the places you will meet real women. Cheers and good luck.
This women said " I'm into that mystical magical stuff". I'm like oh really so you're into dating with a purpose to actually find a husband? That's been the real myth with modern women.
Saw a video where a girl explained why women give a guy who is obviously bad for them a chance. She did somewhat of a good job trying to explain it, and I commend her on that, but at the end of the day it came down to wishful thinking. That really doesn't help explain the root of the problem, because we're all very aware of the wishful thinking, because we've witnessed it first hand.
@@tobiasreaper3650 it's because of a thing that women won't admit to, the female ego. They see guys as a challenge because they think they can change him to what she thinks that she wants even though she doesn't have a clue what she wants
@@d.mcfadden7343 this is probably the most realistic answer I've gotten, as well as being the most precise (not "accurate", learn the difference). Whatever the real answer may be, I've concluded that it has roots in something self centered, and has been nurtured, with very little opposition, for a long time. I say this because no matter how you look at it, it falls somewhere in that realm. Whoever thinks like this hasn't fallen flat on their face enough in life to know humility, they believe in themselves enough to think they can change someone with a proven array of habitual behaviors, they are detached from reality on some level. I'm not saying people shouldn't believe in themselves, or know reality so well that they become depressed and bitter. I'm saying that you can believe in yourself, and be optimistic, but know your limitations. I talk about the nurturing issue because of the differences between how society treats men and women. When you look at "where the good men are", they've either left, became "bad", are currently in a relationship that's bad for them, or they're taken by a good woman. Society has built and nurtured a thought process held by many young women today, that they can do no wrong. Many women nowadays won't come to accept the reality of their life choices until they're 30 and single, at which point they're bitter. They will date men that are bad for them, and when things don't go as planned, they're the victim, but at no point is their thought process questioned, because at no point is there any accountability for their actions. Your answer about ego is very fitting, because as shown in the video, these young women think that they should get something for being alive, and people with that type of ego, are the same ones who believe that think that they can change people (with only their presence none the less).
I swear If I run into a female who be speaking that Bs they was speaking on here it's gonna be like that meme of Steve Harvey saying "Shut Cho Stupid ass up" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
"boom you trust a leo and then they're self absorbed" me being very outgoing in relationships as a leo and my partners becoming the self absorbed ones. ouch lmao
Honestly I couldn’t even tell you anything about any of the signs. I see a lot of women complain about “not all women” but in the same sentence say “ALL Leos” this or “ALL Cancers” that.
They always talk about the same signs too lmao, that’s how you know it’s BS. I’m a Virgo and I’ve never heard these chicks talk about them. They’re obsessed with Leo and Scorpio
@@InfinitesimaLacuna i know little about the signs past "leos are loyal" or some thing lmao crazy how much "not all womem" gets used but its wrong to say "not all men" for the exact same situations
@@Ryan-cb1ei he mentions it in the video actually. Some women want to believe in witchy magic stuff. Very out of hand with it lol i remember back in high school lookong it up and leos were like narcissistic or some thing on most sites. Must be true if you read it online lol
I've literally had women who were interested ask me my sign, and say it wont work out. Not to mention seeing many dating profiles that say "____ zodiac sign need not apply" Most ridiculous thing ever. Its a big red flag when they ask, even if they love my sign or whatever
My definition of an independent women is a women who is whole within themselves. They can take care of themselves. However they understand their role as a helpmate and can hold down the fort for their significant other when needed. IJS. Many blessings!
Yep these days you might as well just hit it and quit it with the help of social media and technology sex has become waay more of a "I got to have it" want and need than it already is while the beauty of relationships marriages and having babies is irrelevant and damn near not traditional no more let alone the greatest to have. Might as well love yourself and eat sleep sh't breathe and focus on whatever you desire to do that's gonna give a positive outcome in your life instead of following into the mess society and social media got so many people following towards
I agree. I don’t really understand this whole “Friendzone“ thing going on with people my age. Wouldn’t you want to be friends before anything else? At least I would. Every “relationship“ that I’ve gotten into that started out romantically and then we built up as friends during the relationship, has really been… Well obviously they didn’t work out LOL. I would think you would be okay being friends, real friends and then going from there.
@@d.l831 the friend zone isn't that. It's having a connection as more than just friends and then reverting back and saying there isn't a certain type of interest anymore
13:59...because like Chris Rock said, there are only two choices: Married and bored or single and lonely. Ain't no happiness nowhere! We were force fed the b/s of happily ever after. All marriage ever truly was at its best was a lessening of burdens for men and women. Men handled the physical stuff, women took care of the domestic. And as a reward, they had things offset and could have a stable environment theoretically to procreate and have a life. Happiness was never an option. Happiness isn't even in common wedding vows! But most Americans for a while were artificially successful enough thanks to the government (and this is a GOOD THING) providing means for average people to become home owners and have their piece of the so-called American Dream. Yes, this was disproportionate to white people, but there were upwardly mobile Black people too. We have it so good, we get to take for granted the things other people literally risk their lives for...shelter, food, clothing, certain freedoms. And as a result, the calibration of interpersonal relationships invariably changed. The end goals aren't the same anymore. But as with anyone, why would you want to sacrifice the positives of a system, even if you had nothing to do with those positives coming to be? You know, like how whites might say 'I didn't have any slaves!!!', but aren't in a hurry to make society equitable because...THEY KNOW it benefits them as it stands. So ask yourselves...why would a woman give up the privileges that these standards have provided as they have made gains towards societal equity with men? If I were in their shoes, I'd want to keep everything too. But as a man, that's precisely why I don't bother...they want it both ways, but don't even acknowledge that there ARE two ways.
When you're in a relationship and wanting to be single it's because you changed who you were or hid who you were too get in the relationship. I'm currently in a relationship where I'm completely happy because I'm the exact same person i was without it and she knows exactly what will cause me to leave. She buys me stuff and does things for me regularly to show that she's actually investing in the relationship. It's not just a one sided investment.
@@SuperTruthful what do you think relationships are? Ultimately you're investing your time and energy into a partner. If more people thought of it like this they wouldn't waste so much time into shitty ones
Two years old and still strong - 6:40- simple fact that “the grass is always greener “on the other side Or if you’re on the outside, looking in ,basically a matter of perspective
I'm glad I came across this video! I was being asked questions on Facebook about zodiac signs and I told them I'm Sagittarius. One girl said no..... and many others said that Sag's mean, nasty, disrespectful and trifling. So I got online and found charts on my sign to prove myself right and them wrong.... however it seems that truth was buried and I was kept from getting prize money on another site forged my name on an application and lied on me. I blame Facebook and other social media outlets for this level of insensitivity.
I guarantee if I lied about my sign and said I was a Capricorn they would pick and choose a ton of stuff about my personality that was just like a Capricorn. Then if I told them I lied and I was actually a Scorpio (also a Halloween birthday), they would say, "That's such a Scorpio thing to do."
As someone that's been married twice [first marriage ended after 5 years married] and going on 13 years married now and couldn't be happier... so, yes being with a toxic person vs. a person you're happy with, HUGE DIFFERENCE. I couldn't imagine straying and I know that my husband feels the same way.
Seriously though. It’s just something that’s entertaining at best. But girls now worship it. It’s one thing to joke about it and take it in jest, but these girls are basing their life choices on it. I don’t get it haha
When I got with my husband I made more money then he did. About 3k a week. And I paid my way through college. I chose a career that makes less then his, but it didn't matter to either of us. Now he makes more then I do, and my income is basically supplementary. And we are both ok with this. He pays the big bills, and I cover the smaller ones and groceries and gas, and spending money for the things our kids want and need and what we both want. I'm perfectly fine with him making more than me, and it gives me the chance to be at home more, to be with our kids, and do wifely duties to ensure the comfortability of us both.
ADP, you hit it on the head with the city folk. I personally hate the city. I live way out in the rural/country area. I definitely believe that ppl in rural areas are a lot more wholesome. I only deal with nonsense when I occasionally work in the city. Seems like ppl are more hostile. Cant say I blame them, if I only owned 1200 sq ft Id be a grumpy mf too. Acreage keeps me jolly. Falls in line with my political views, more freedom = more happiness.
You are right . I was a very angry person when I lived in the city . Now I live in a small town up in the mountains and I'm much happier than I've ever been .
That explains why the good wholesome folks in the country with loads of acreage are abusing alcohol, drugs, and committing suicide - all at higher rates than city folk. They even coined a term for this - diseases of despair.
15:11 In my opinion (as a female) contrary to popular beliefs I do not necessarily think it is a friend zone situation all the time. being friends with the person can just mean getting to know the person, understanding the connection, and progressing into a relationship. this helps when sex, love, and certain emotions are hard to reach maybe cos the person is being annoying or getting on your nerves or difficulties at that moment in the relationship (which is inevitable), friendship helps to hold the bond.
The zodiac sign doesn't tell you anything about men. I dated those I'm supposed to be compatible with and they didn't work out. I have dated other zodiac signs that were better than the ones I'm compatible with. The guy I'm talking to now isn't someone I'm supposed to be compatible with but yet we have a very strong connection.
22:00 keeping it real, that was funny as hell and so relatable. There are still good women out there just like good men. Be true to yourself and stay the course. Even a good woman will test you. Don’t get mad, just respond with your masculinity - strong and in control - and challenge her back. Her response is as critical as yours. Love your vibe of teaching boys to be men.
The thing is, with the 2nd characteristics he describes, hopeless romantic doesn't necessarily mean a person who is already planning a marriage in their head. You can be both relaxed, in tune with oneself and still be a hopeless romantic. A hopeless romantic is someone who believes that real love exist and can find that, despite all the bullshit out there. So you can be the most serene and still be someone who wants to find/give real love to a specific individual. The real question is, is that man willing to be patient and not succumb to the manipulation of these modern day women? Is he willing to not slay his meat in every woman that walks or deems attractive? Is he willing to lose out on said woman, if he strongly stands for something that contradicts her deluded reality? These are characteristics that give men real value, because then you are aware of the red flags and thus, you will be less likely to end up with one of these fantasy dwelling sea urchins.
My boyfriend is a Scorpio and I’m a Gemini . People tell us all the time we won’t make it because of our signs. We celebrated our two year anniversary this august . Trust YOUR relationship, simple. I love your channel thank you for all you do
I have 3 friends who are Capricorn’s and I could pull different aspects from the sign and assign it to us at different times but I think that’s the issue the descriptions of the signs are so vague. We are all very different in the ways we approach business, love, the way we raise our children. Sign aren’t an exact make up of your character which is why I think they’ve added in the moon and rising signs to further describe people and make people believe signs are full map outs of who they are as people but they are still vague and you can pick out things that may apply but you ignore the things that don’t. So it’s not accurate.
5:40 If you're there all the time, they don't have time to miss you, because there's nothing to miss out on. At the same time, you're missing the benefits of the other side, forgetting the negatives.
I know me personally I like the quiet or somewhat shy guys, always have. I have to also comment on hearing you say about your luck on dating, I find you very attractive. I don't think you should have any troubles finding a good girl
Social media really does for men and women. It's ridiculous. I'm so glad I don't have to deal with this. I do feel bad for my sons, nieces and nephews though
What’s harder? Depends on the man. The average man it’s gonna be harder for them to sleep with the woman they want but the more tractive the more successful the man it’s gonna be much easier. Women are going to get average men to commit before well the men that they want the most often they’re going to give into first. Other words, we create our own cycles here.
these answer are crazy! ahhaha my 3 top serious questions (topics) are 1- I ask about religion how practicing are they and how important religion is , their values : what are your views on marriage and what your objectif dating? (that's like 5 questions LOL) 2- What are you expecting from your wife and what are you willing to provide as a husband? (like what,s a women's role and men's role in a relationship so you know you're thinking the same thing 😅) 3- Where do you see yourself in 5 years? having kids? traveling? focus on career? usually we have really great conversation with those question and it's easier to know if we wanna meet up again :) bonus: are you into anime and wanna travel to japan and south korea (might be a deal breaker 👀)
Social media is definitely both to me anyways. The good is that for people like myself that are introverted and don't like going to clubs/bars/etc I can still have that interaction. The bad is when you let what you see on social media influence you or mold who you are instead of being true to yourself and thinking for yourself.
Strongest relationships began as friends. Most ppl get friends zoned bc they ugly. Doing yourself a disservice by just ruling out out imo. I didn't settle down until I was 35, co- workers, we became friends, started hanging out after. Didn't hook up for almost a yr after meeting. Best relationship I've had. Still together, 2 kids, house and we still actually have fun, still get along. Js
I think people are getting being friend zoned and starting out as friends and building from there. True friend zoning is reverting from an attraction state to friend only state. Overall I agree with your perspective
I have no issues with committing to a woman and in this day and age you can get sex anywhere Relationships aren't the same anymore, no one wants to stay committed and expect so much but give so little.
When dealing with astrology and astronomy is waaaaaaay deeper than just relationship! There's a science to everything and no we're not just simple creatures. Personally tho, idgaf about astrological signs but more so, what's concrete with a person!
Growing up I would've thought that was the coolest bday to have! Halloween was always my fav holiday.lol. I definitely would've gravitated towards being homies. you would've had a bday decorated locker yearly and cool desserts. I baked alot back then 🤣🤣
I just don't understand the point of zodiac signs like when I was on Facebook Instagram and Snapchat all I see is people beliefs on those signs or saying stuff like I hate Leo's I hate Geminis just weirdo things and I myself is a Leo too
@@ericmoorejr8033 agreed lol. The first thing I asked my husband when we met was what his favorites hobbies are and what his favorite music to chill to was. Money and zodiac never came up 🤣🤣
@@andreajoy55 and see that right there was common sense just simple things to ask because of course back in the days where social media didn't exist the beauty of marriage relationships and having children was sacred traditional while sex was not so much of a want and need it was a save yourself for marriage type sex but nowadays with the help of social media and how many people using those platforms made sex become waay more wanted and needed than it already is while having children marriages and romantic relationships have become less traditional not taken very slow just basically rushed into and me I'm 22 years old and easily have seen that
I'm officially avoiding telling people when I was born. Not even gonna let people know I have social media, they could check my Birthday. Not even gonna tell them my stance on religion, politics and what-not. Some can't stop thinking about all that when ya tell em. I ain't leaving the stance I already have, I don't care to help others understand why cause my life built my reasons and they ain't me, they'll never understand cause nobody knows everything. I want people to know me on my terms.
Aye bro, when you look your worse is when you genuinely meet your matches. So that time in the grocery store was perfect for you chief. I know you've heard women say all the time why do they always get approached when they think they look like shyt. I'm just saying...don't miss the next time.
For everyone bashing astrology...first look into the ancient teachings of astrologers amd what they really mean outside of peoples own interpretations. Not some valley girls interpretation of what these zodiac signs mean. Also, the bible and many "Main" religions are based and coded with astrology. Lastly, do not dismiss something because you do not have an in depth understanding in that field. Yes, zodiacs is a great way to find out the things they don't tell you but it's most definitely not the end all be all to a relationship. Carry on
I consider myself a Hybrid. I'm ol school w/the dating process but getting smarter (Through a lot of experience) on who to approach. I ask in a way w/o asking their sign to somewhat kinda understand what I might be encountering. It's definitely not 100% but if you read up on Astrology it's pretty close. I once looked back after reading up on Astrology to find out the females that didn't work out (Not knowing at that moment) were actually not a good match sign wise. So now that is the 1st thing I like to find out
Fist question, when was your last relationship? I’m a Gemini and not going to lie it’s true at some point.. if anything being born on Halloween is a plus for me 🖤.
“When was it” is good. Also why/how did it end and what did you take from it? If you notice a lot of people nowadays have “toxic“ exes. Which may be true, but you’ll realize that a lot of them don’t take accountability for their own part.. they didn’t learn anything about themselves, they just learned how to stay a victim
AMEN AOK! An independent woman should NOT care about how much a man makes!!! I love working and there are so many ways for a significant other to contribute beyond money. UGH! OMG! As a grown ass woman, I don't understand why so many women go into a relationship looking to change a dude!!!
Real talk alot of people have blinkers on but its hard out there dating now compared to years ago fasure peoples priorities are different and alot of people disingenuous and dont hold themselves accountable for their actions ...
I'm a Scorpio too and alot like you. I tend to keep to myself . I don't really go out of my way to talk to people. But I've been hit with the "oh you're a Scorpio I can't deal with you". Then you got the ones that set high expectations for our s&xual prowess. I guess that's a Scorpio thing too Idk. But they won't see me again because they are scared they will fall in love if we keep going lol. Like they are sure I'm just gonna break their heart . Shits crazy
People have been unsatisfied from the beginning of time. Before social.. And yes it's usually me. Unless women have experienced more or better than who they end up with. And vice versa
I met my husband while playing call of duty during Covid. You never know where you’ll meet that special someone, so always leave yourself open to receive attention.
To answer the question about which would be more difficult, it really comes down to the people involved. If you are attractive and can get any girl, it would be harder to get the relationship. If you are not, getting any attention is a nightmare.
When you are in a real relationship its not slavery and neither party should see it as that. So you shouldn’t be “longing for freedom” because you aren’t a slave. The portion of the video where the young lady is saying be friends first: this is absolutely correct. This means know the person, see what they are like COMPLETELY. If you enjoy that person’s company you can be yourself as well as that person can be themselves then you will continue to enjoy them in a relationship if it were to escalate further. Today’s society has the concept of dating a person and getting to know a person messed up. Not every person wants to jump in the bed on the first date. There are still people in this world with morals.
They believe in the zodiac because it eliminates accountability. Its so much easier to say the relationship was horrible because he's a Pisces rather than admit to having poor judgement of character.
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And because of their wishful thinking due to having things handed to them just for being women. Men are generally grounded and realistic not because we’re cynics or pessimists, but because we don’t just get crap handed to us for existing… We gotta put in work.
Huge facts!! Zero accountability
I was going to say something similar, but you said it better. Having said that, Libras are the most unbalanced people I meet.
Omg so true 😂😂😂
So crazy hearing their answers. When I met my husband he was on unemployment and I wasn't working at the time. And 10 years later happily married with 2 kids and we became home owners. Working together pays off. We live a simple life, wouldnt change it.
That’s what I want to do, build with someone. I could never tolerate a leach who just wants my money or what I could provide. It makes no sense to me. Modern men and women can put their brains and resources together and build such an awesome life, yet they choose to be dysfunctional most of the time and just ride someone’s wave. I really don’t get it.
@@Ryan-cb1ei It's the lack of accountability, if the wave rider gets dumped because they add no value to the relationship then they will just play victim.
Yeah, but we talking about people that CANT get relationships, not everyone is lucky is you are
So would you say, when you let, you guys were on a similar level?
I'm so happy for you stay true Stormy.
People don't long for what they already have, they long for what they feel is missing.
For the men who are invisible to women, attaining female interest is more difficult. For the women chasing unavailable men, attaining commitment is more difficult.
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💯💯💯
Being invisible to women is easy and beneficial.
The crazy part is a lot of women stand on all this sign stuff like it's really true.
Personal opinion.. it is a way to feel like there is control in a world where you have no control over anything but yourself and when you are used to people fronting or lying it gives you a way to shield yourself from others. "I've had so much fun with you tonight! What is your sign? Oh... yeah.. well it was fun. See you around some time (deletes phone number as they walk away)" Or perhaps there is an ex you were really into that wants nothing to do with you "Their horoscope said they are happy. If they are happy I can let go and just breathe because that is what I wanted for them." It gives the illusion of control or order so the world feels more secure.
Now personally I have fun looking it up. I'll watch it at the end of the evening and get a chuckle when I'm bored and no one is around to chat with. "OOOHHH my soul mate is coming today!?! Too bad I sat around in my jammies with wine all day. Guess that ship sailed" -cackles maniacally-
When it comes down to it though you can't judge others. Astrology, gender roles, race, education, religion.. every person is an individual.. but teasing a Leo when they take extra time in the mirror is still good for a giggle. "Of COURSE you would be the one to take longer. Put your leo away and get into the car! We are late!" ;) Don't judge.. laugh and love.. experience life and people and just have a good time.
@@mamadoomkin1795 ...Exactly. To me it seems almost like predictive programing. They act out how these signs are described and turn around and say it's because they're that sign. It's just another excuse for them to use to purposely be difficult and immature because they claim their sign is difficult and immature or some silly bs like that.
@John Pierre ...Right. I figured that out years ago dealing with these crazy chicks.
@John Pierre On a first date yes.. RED FLAG!! However, instead of just running away take the step before her getting a chance to ask. Be proactive and have a basic get to know you question be about astrology. Get into a session where you guys are giving your thoughts about different important topics such as kids, marriage, friends, housing, family, roles in a relationship.. add astrology and anything else that is meaningful to you as an individual into the mix. If she is a woman that lives her life by astrology and you hate it.. that isn't a relationship for you and you can finish out the date but make sure she knows this can't work and you otherwise had a good time. Deal breakers are important to know within your heart and important to define early so that no one wastes time in a situation that causes them undue stress.
They take that shit seriously and base decisions on it. Ridiculous
When you’re in a relationship longing for freedom that means you’re not with the person that doesn’t compliment your happiness.
Man, I hope that dude gets paid a lot to interview airheads.
I'm sure his checks go $50,000+. I could not deal with dumbasses on a daily basis.
I’m convinced most of the dumb ones spend their lives on social media, that’s why we see them all the time. Smart people know the dangers of social media and not to post their lives to it, they generally have better things to do. Dumb people aren’t just… dumb. They have dumb habits, dumb tendencies, dumb ideas/expectations. It becomes really obvious when you spend your time around “real” people who value the real things in life, and then you can spot these broads from a mile away. It’s too easy to me lmao
Exactly. These streets interviews are ALWAYS with ditzes and airheads
A L W A Y S
Air.... HEADS!
It's hard for me to take any female serious these days because when you ask serious questions about them or dating they think it's funny like those first two women
Sometimes when you ask them a question, they respond with "Well how do you think..." That's irritating at times, because if I knew I wouldn't ask.
@@GraveRave Right, or if I knew what you thought I wouldn't have asked for your opinion...🤣🤦♀️🤷♀️ goodness lol
And literally every answer they have is awful, just a bunch of red flags every time they talk 🤦♂️😔
They always use this😂🤣
The dark haired girl was kinda scary Idk the way and the intensity of her laughter was giving nutty vibes 😂
I’m a woman who used to be into zodiac signs until I started to notice the EXACT SAME REACTIONS from people when I told them I’m a Scorpio. It’s like suddenly everything they’ve known about me just vanished.
I'm a virgo...apparently I'm a manipulator, very analytical, know how to connect with a woman's feelings, n I'm very logical... I'm here not understanding women, n why they tend to choose emotionally unavailable men n egotistical narcissistic men.
Us Scorpio’s have a bad rep as I hear but I’m not into signs so every one likes my vibe
My husband is a Scorpio, and he is the best 💜 🙏
Yup.
What’s sad is a lot of people, men mostly, are just giving up on dating right now because it’s become so unnecessarily complicated
Men have to have superficial and physical boxes ticked before we have personality boxes ticked
@@d.mcfadden7343 Besides, it's an everlasting expense... with no return. Let it rot.
@@jaytomson7052 very true, it's all a waste of money
The majority of people in relationships are always arguing. Petty issues cause arguments. Peace is worth more than any relationship.
I know I've given up entirely
Modern women want to be free of 'gender roles' but somehow, expect men to keep their gender roles from the '50s
Funny because as a woman, that’s how I feel about modern men. They want us to be independent so we don’t need them, but still want us to take care of home. It makes me feel like if I have to do everything by myself, I might as well actually be by myself.
Not trying to debate, but I’d genuinely like to hear your experiences.
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@@AT-mq9wk when men can either get s*x easy or not at all, relationships suffer. Societies prosper when the price of s*x is high (marriage, monogamy)
@@AT-mq9wk wow, you know that actually makes sense. but where i disagree with you is that the primary party is men telling you to be independent. if we are going to be honest, its feminism (women) thats telling women to be strong and independent and dont need no man. Sure I wouldnt be surprised if some man would tell you that but for that to be the majority of men? nah. a good minority of men? thats realistic. but Women have been pushing women to be independent. They shame other women for being feminine or traditional, they will literally drag other women and call them lazy because they dont follow the feminist agenda.
@Jerico Thompson ok, you dont have to shame women who want to be a housewife, go find a modern women. I want a housewife, I have no problem paying for everything while shes at home keeping the entire house in check and the kids. Just cuz ur not cool with it doesnt mean its bad
Her: "I'm looking for a man whose over 6 foot tall, has to make over 100k a year, needs to spoil me, be in shape, and be ok with open relationships."
Also her: "Why are you telling women to be in shape and clean, or have their own home?! You're a misogynist!"
You can't win without women anymore.
Men need to go on a year strike of not dealing with women ... and watch how heavy a Paradigm Shift would be
Men need to go on a year strike of not dealing with women ... and watch how heavy a Paradigm Shift would be
@@blocc316 that would be beautiful but we know it won't happen
@@BuffKangaroo1 not completely but It can be done Significantly *Enough* in the last 4 years the Manosphere has been Waking up Men and we are better than we were 10 years ago , despite there are still a large number of Blue Pills
@@blocc316 dude there's just Soo many simps
I saw a meme that said "the grass is always greener on the other side because the grass is fake" 🤣
Ain't that the truth?🤣🤣
"I feel like men were put on this earth to provide"
And if I said I feel like women were put on this earth to submit and nurture children, I'd get death threats.
Nah, someone might go a little further than words for that...
Thing is.. a woman decided to carry you and bring you in this world. You don't get to tell the creator what her purpose is. Just saying.
@@theintuitivecounselor "creator" because, you know, a man wasn't involved in the conception of the child or anything...
@@tobiasreaper3650 didbi say that?? Were you not created in the womb??you simply fertilized the egg. Just like a plant. The woman essentially creates the baby inside of her. Therefore it is her choice whether she wants to bring forth life or not. Thats not a man's decision bc yall don't carry not give birth.
@@theintuitivecounselor I thought we were talking about something else. Oh that's right, we were. The OP pointed out the hypocrisy in modern culture. You went on to argue that men shouldn't get to have opinions or standards for women, because women give birth. I pointed out that to conceive a child, there still has to be a man. You go on to elaborate about the womb.
You call women, the "creators", but a woman cannot begin the process of creation without a man.
I don't know where you are from, but in the United States, society (and the legal system) does not hold women accountable the same way men are. Women are allowed to have standards for men that they themselves will never meet, but men are called "pigs" and "misogynists" for having standards for women. Women want to tell men what man's role is, but will never be receptive to being told what her role is, and will not accept any role that has any accountability or responsibility to it.
Hopefully I elaborated well enough.
"We wanna be alone but we don't wanna be by ourselves " patrice o'neal....
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Exactly
Some women don’t want to build with men because some men get a little bit of money then want to “upgrade”. They forget about the woman who was by their side. In that sense, it’s better to be with someone who’s at least accustomed to making decent money so you know he won’t change for the worse later on.
Edit: “Placeholder” was the term I was looking for. We don’t want to be used as placeholders.
Bullshit excuse.
I see what you're saying, but the same could be said vice versa. If you have a set expectation of money and that changes. Women leave men after the man loses his job all the time. What you said i'm sure that happens all the time. But as you now know that's not the only side. Sometimes people are just crap
Funny cause my Ex got a Job and Car, She Also Upgraded... Good Redience Fusk Er
Stop the bullshit woman please
There are usually signs. They just get ignored
I think the most important dating questions to ask are:
1. What do you want out of dating? Are you interested in a relationship or just a short term kind of thing?
2. What are your ultimate goals in life?/ Where do you see yourself in the next year?
3. What's more important to you, giving or receiving?
I feel like asking these kind of questions can give you a good idea about what type of person you are dealing with and how far things will go as to whether you both will be compatible.
Hey Melina what's your astrology sign? 😄 Don't answer, I'm just messin with ya. I wouldn't ask a lady your questions thou, likely to get stabbed with high heels or scratched with their claws. It should be straightforward but it's not, gotta play games with ladies if you wanna beat them doonies down.
@@TSnowy23 sheesh dude you sound awfully negative 😕 I think a woman who is serious about finding a lasting relationship wouldn't mind answering these questions... I'd say they're quite basic 🤷🏾♀️ besides, you wouldn't rapid fire ask these questions you would work them in gradually thru conversation
People have no clue what they’re doing
Lol
James Randi taught a college class where he had a "professional" astrologer prepare everyones' horoscope. Then he asked them how accurate their horoscope was. They all rated them 8-10 out of 10 for accuracy. Then he revealed that he "accidentally" gave everyone the wrong horoscope. He then gave everyone their "real" horoscope and they all rated them 8-10 out of 10 for accuracy.
😂😂😂 ✈️ 💨
James Randi is fucking hilarious and he exposes alot of phony preachers too
For the single/relationship question...I think the answer is balance. You want to be in a relationship but still have your independece. Usually when you in a relay you smothered and can't be alone and when you're single you're alone too much.
I agree.
I love someone that gives space and has their own life. A lot of these chicks have no life lol, it makes them bad partners and it’s boring. Also it makes that time with them even more special. There’s a balance. Usually y’all are working during the week, doing your hobbies… and you see each other on nights or on weekends, until you live together that is.
But as counterintuitive as it sounds, and as much attention as I thought I wanted, it’s so much better and healthier when you each have your own crap worked out and see each other less, it’s exciting and you really cherish that time.
true
How the IG:Females sound to me
Me: what do you do?
IG:Female I'm a model on IG.
Me: I'm a Spartan on Halo Infinite.
When you buy an idea, expect no refunds. That’s why we gotta stay grounded. Don’t slap your values or expectations on a person. It’s gotta be a dance, 1 step, 2 step, twirl.
I love this comment
Anyone who takes astrology seriously is quite literally too self absorbed in their own childish belief to have actual, serious interactions with people and get to know them. They are literally too shallow to show the kind of empathy and social IQ to understand other people's personalities and habits and instead have to rely on an external checklist to guide them.
It allows them to judge others and blame others based off a fraud thing as astrology because the stars dont even correspond with your birth anymore since the skyline has shifted since its creation but they cant fix because it would admit that for years none of their horoscopes were legit
Or just lazy 🤷♂️
Because it allows them to have a lack of accountability, always a lack of accountability. It's not their fault, because of their sign.
They don’t take astrology seriously because they would have known that it’s more complex than that
Str8 facts!
The reason so many of us men are walking away is as simple as this, I haven't met a woman who talked about being a wife more than she talked about being a bride since the early nineties. My wife and I married young at HER insistence, and as sure as the sun rises in the east, she decided she needed to keep dating to find mister right less than three years after swearing to God to forsake all others. Loved wearing the dress and hosting the party, hated giving up the hot-girl summers and girl's night out.
Wait why does she have to give up girls night out? I mean it shouldn't be every night/weekend. But girls/guy night out is cool. You need time apart.
I've been stalked recently on two separate occasions in a grocery by women following me, I was cool with it but the problem was...my girl was with me, she was upset and I honestly didn't notice until she pointed out the same chicks was following us through the aisles in both situations. Stuff like this never ever happens when I'm single, I dont understand their way of thinking
That's funny you say that because same has happened with my husband and I --- he is very laid back, (not flashy) and doesn't get much attention alone, but when we go out women literally look as tho they hit the breaks while passing, sometimes circle back (and a handful have the nerve to flirt).....it's as if they think he has value because they see me with him, wearing rings and looking committed (the things they want). It was actually my brother who 1st pointed this phenomenon out when we were teenagers (he got more "play" when we were out together, by girls unaware I was his sister of course).
@@angelacox96 yes, that's exactly how it was. I'm not flashy either, my outfit including shoes probably doesn't go over $80 at any given time. When I'm alone women say absolutely nothing to me but when I'm with my girl they become hunters
@@magnumstrike1 it's wild... they've done actual psychological studies on it now and link it to the same reasons women are attracted to fathers (men out with their kids) or married men/wearing wedding rings etc. Some women have esteem issues and get competitive (simply want to win the man/feel better than his girl), but majority of them see it as an embodiment of what they seek (good father/husband/relationship)......it's good that you see it too and don't think she's crazy for seeing/feeling it!
@@angelacox96 I've heard the same thing, it makes sense but you'd think logic would override that instinct/urge
She could have been either trying to intimidate your girl, trying to see if you two were happy, or maybe trying to see what your girl sees in you. I've had all 3 happen to me before.
I'm a 50ish female about to make a heretical statement: Astrology is wishful thinking and crystals are pretty rocks. Thatisall.
My question for a potential SO would be: are you a TV person or a book person, and what do you enjoy watching/reading the most? The answer will give me insight into the personality of the potential SO.
With both you have to dig
Astrology seems more like the creative fun, for entertainment purposes , version of Astronomy.
@Vince Nav to a person thats 50ish thats pretty much all there is, most 50+ year old dont/wont use tech
I’ve been on dating apps for a while. I’ve connected with a total of 5 different women that actually turned into talking and meeting up. I did everything to put that energy out there that I want a relationship. After a month or talking with each women all of them when I nudge them to start a relationship gave me some excuse and said let’s be friend. My answer… sorry I’m not on a dating service for friendship. Soon as I’m friend zoned I run. And sometimes I call it before it even happens and run. Seems like every women on these services are only looking for friends and aren’t seriously looking for a relationship even if they specifically say so. They still friend zoned me after a few weeks of talking.
Imma let you know right now bro. Women are too spoiled for choice. You have to separate yourself from the group in some spectacular way. Whether it's finances, physique, or charisma. A female 4 is gonna have more options then a male 7 off the rip.
That is exactly what I freaking deal with! I’m very upfront about looking for an actual relationship and then they simply want hookups.
@@inkedmomblu1510 I place it clear as day on my profile looking for long term relationship only. And when a communication opens up I make sure to not let things go the friendship route. Avoiding the word “friend”. And talking strictly about relationship topics and giving compliments and really showing that hey I’m interested what do you say? Made lead me on to a false sense of them liking me till I really try to nudge things forward and they back out and want friendship. Sorry I’m not on a dating site for friendship. It’s annoying.
@@leosthrivwithautism I’ve gotten off dating apps all together because no matter how transparent I am they only want hookups.
That’s because they all are getting bombarded with men putting them on pedestals without lifting a finger. Dating sites are pretty much insert money receive attention for women. Stay off dating sites, start going to gatherings at your local church(or whatever religion you are), volunteer for community services, those are the places you will meet real women. Cheers and good luck.
The quality of young women are declining each decade....
This women said " I'm into that mystical magical stuff". I'm like oh really so you're into dating with a purpose to actually find a husband? That's been the real myth with modern women.
Saw a video where a girl explained why women give a guy who is obviously bad for them a chance. She did somewhat of a good job trying to explain it, and I commend her on that, but at the end of the day it came down to wishful thinking. That really doesn't help explain the root of the problem, because we're all very aware of the wishful thinking, because we've witnessed it first hand.
@@tobiasreaper3650 That's interesting. Did you see it on TH-cam? Would you mind dropping a link?
@@patrickcalvary8384 th-cam.com/video/cCszSHzohNo/w-d-xo.html
@@tobiasreaper3650 it's because of a thing that women won't admit to, the female ego. They see guys as a challenge because they think they can change him to what she thinks that she wants even though she doesn't have a clue what she wants
@@d.mcfadden7343 this is probably the most realistic answer I've gotten, as well as being the most precise (not "accurate", learn the difference).
Whatever the real answer may be, I've concluded that it has roots in something self centered, and has been nurtured, with very little opposition, for a long time. I say this because no matter how you look at it, it falls somewhere in that realm. Whoever thinks like this hasn't fallen flat on their face enough in life to know humility, they believe in themselves enough to think they can change someone with a proven array of habitual behaviors, they are detached from reality on some level. I'm not saying people shouldn't believe in themselves, or know reality so well that they become depressed and bitter. I'm saying that you can believe in yourself, and be optimistic, but know your limitations. I talk about the nurturing issue because of the differences between how society treats men and women. When you look at "where the good men are", they've either left, became "bad", are currently in a relationship that's bad for them, or they're taken by a good woman. Society has built and nurtured a thought process held by many young women today, that they can do no wrong. Many women nowadays won't come to accept the reality of their life choices until they're 30 and single, at which point they're bitter. They will date men that are bad for them, and when things don't go as planned, they're the victim, but at no point is their thought process questioned, because at no point is there any accountability for their actions.
Your answer about ego is very fitting, because as shown in the video, these young women think that they should get something for being alive, and people with that type of ego, are the same ones who believe that think that they can change people (with only their presence none the less).
Sound like a rap line, "They thought I was nice til they found out what day I was born on" 🤣🤣🤣
Avoid all women who make character judgments of people, based on the belief of Astrology. You might as well be a Flatearther.
I swear If I run into a female who be speaking that Bs they was speaking on here it's gonna be like that meme of Steve Harvey saying "Shut Cho Stupid ass up" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
Reach. Im not for zodiac but i do not believe we live on a spinning ball. And you only believe it because someone told you to
@@truthman3616 I suppose some of us have to believe in dragons, unicorns and fairies. Otherwise we wouldn't have such grand fantasy entertainment.
@@Netherwolf6100 and some people just believe whatever they are told. No form or thinkin for themselves
"boom you trust a leo and then they're self absorbed" me being very outgoing in relationships as a leo and my partners becoming the self absorbed ones. ouch lmao
Honestly I couldn’t even tell you anything about any of the signs. I see a lot of women complain about “not all women” but in the same sentence say “ALL Leos” this or “ALL Cancers” that.
They always talk about the same signs too lmao, that’s how you know it’s BS. I’m a Virgo and I’ve never heard these chicks talk about them. They’re obsessed with Leo and Scorpio
@@InfinitesimaLacuna i know little about the signs past "leos are loyal" or some thing lmao crazy how much "not all womem" gets used but its wrong to say "not all men" for the exact same situations
@@Ryan-cb1ei he mentions it in the video actually. Some women want to believe in witchy magic stuff. Very out of hand with it lol i remember back in high school lookong it up and leos were like narcissistic or some thing on most sites. Must be true if you read it online lol
As a fellow ♌, I 💯% agree
I'm just thanking that when me and my husband on our first date we played 20 questions. We've been together 28yrs, so it must've worked.
I've literally had women who were interested ask me my sign, and say it wont work out.
Not to mention seeing many dating profiles that say "____ zodiac sign need not apply"
Most ridiculous thing ever. Its a big red flag when they ask, even if they love my sign or whatever
The girl who talked about learning someone's character before getting more involved with them has a good mindset
My definition of an independent women is a women who is whole within themselves. They can take care of themselves. However they understand their role as a helpmate and can hold down the fort for their significant other when needed. IJS. Many blessings!
Yep these days you might as well just hit it and quit it with the help of social media and technology sex has become waay more of a "I got to have it" want and need than it already is while the beauty of relationships marriages and having babies is irrelevant and damn near not traditional no more let alone the greatest to have. Might as well love yourself and eat sleep sh't breathe and focus on whatever you desire to do that's gonna give a positive outcome in your life instead of following into the mess society and social media got so many people following towards
Yep
I think the 'Friend zoning' sort of differs by age, like I'm 58 on Wednesday. I would want to know her first before anything.
I agree. I don’t really understand this whole “Friendzone“ thing going on with people my age. Wouldn’t you want to be friends before anything else? At least I would. Every “relationship“ that I’ve gotten into that started out romantically and then we built up as friends during the relationship, has really been… Well obviously they didn’t work out LOL. I would think you would be okay being friends, real friends and then going from there.
@@d.l831 the friend zone isn't that. It's having a connection as more than just friends and then reverting back and saying there isn't a certain type of interest anymore
13:59...because like Chris Rock said, there are only two choices: Married and bored or single and lonely. Ain't no happiness nowhere! We were force fed the b/s of happily ever after. All marriage ever truly was at its best was a lessening of burdens for men and women. Men handled the physical stuff, women took care of the domestic. And as a reward, they had things offset and could have a stable environment theoretically to procreate and have a life. Happiness was never an option. Happiness isn't even in common wedding vows! But most Americans for a while were artificially successful enough thanks to the government (and this is a GOOD THING) providing means for average people to become home owners and have their piece of the so-called American Dream. Yes, this was disproportionate to white people, but there were upwardly mobile Black people too. We have it so good, we get to take for granted the things other people literally risk their lives for...shelter, food, clothing, certain freedoms. And as a result, the calibration of interpersonal relationships invariably changed. The end goals aren't the same anymore. But as with anyone, why would you want to sacrifice the positives of a system, even if you had nothing to do with those positives coming to be? You know, like how whites might say 'I didn't have any slaves!!!', but aren't in a hurry to make society equitable because...THEY KNOW it benefits them as it stands. So ask yourselves...why would a woman give up the privileges that these standards have provided as they have made gains towards societal equity with men? If I were in their shoes, I'd want to keep everything too. But as a man, that's precisely why I don't bother...they want it both ways, but don't even acknowledge that there ARE two ways.
I feel you in the birthday thing. I was born on Friday the 13th. When i told people that i always got a side eye too
When you're in a relationship and wanting to be single it's because you changed who you were or hid who you were too get in the relationship.
I'm currently in a relationship where I'm completely happy because I'm the exact same person i was without it and she knows exactly what will cause me to leave.
She buys me stuff and does things for me regularly to show that she's actually investing in the relationship. It's not just a one sided investment.
why must it be an investment. when men started buying y'all f'ed up the game.
@@SuperTruthful what do you think relationships are? Ultimately you're investing your time and energy into a partner. If more people thought of it like this they wouldn't waste so much time into shitty ones
Two years old and still strong - 6:40- simple fact that “the grass is always greener “on the other side Or if you’re on the outside, looking in ,basically a matter of perspective
These females are extra goofy
I'm glad I came across this video! I was being asked questions on Facebook about zodiac signs and I told them I'm Sagittarius. One girl said no..... and many others said that Sag's mean, nasty, disrespectful and trifling. So I got online and found charts on my sign to prove myself right and them wrong.... however it seems that truth was buried and I was kept from getting prize money on another site forged my name on an application and lied on me. I blame Facebook and other social media outlets for this level of insensitivity.
I guarantee if I lied about my sign and said I was a Capricorn they would pick and choose a ton of stuff about my personality that was just like a Capricorn. Then if I told them I lied and I was actually a Scorpio (also a Halloween birthday), they would say, "That's such a Scorpio thing to do."
This is concerning as to where we headed as humans
Almost every chick in this video is a walking red flag lol
As someone that's been married twice [first marriage ended after 5 years married] and going on 13 years married now and couldn't be happier... so, yes being with a toxic person vs. a person you're happy with, HUGE DIFFERENCE. I couldn't imagine straying and I know that my husband feels the same way.
So glad I'm no longer in the dating world.
My husband and I were friends for 3 years before starting a relationship. Just sayin.
Little do they know u can find the same kinda person with a different zodiac sign. Can’t take anybody who goes based off astrology serious
Seriously though. It’s just something that’s entertaining at best. But girls now worship it. It’s one thing to joke about it and take it in jest, but these girls are basing their life choices on it. I don’t get it haha
Facts
When I got with my husband I made more money then he did. About 3k a week. And I paid my way through college. I chose a career that makes less then his, but it didn't matter to either of us. Now he makes more then I do, and my income is basically supplementary. And we are both ok with this. He pays the big bills, and I cover the smaller ones and groceries and gas, and spending money for the things our kids want and need and what we both want. I'm perfectly fine with him making more than me, and it gives me the chance to be at home more, to be with our kids, and do wifely duties to ensure the comfortability of us both.
ADP, you hit it on the head with the city folk. I personally hate the city. I live way out in the rural/country area. I definitely believe that ppl in rural areas are a lot more wholesome. I only deal with nonsense when I occasionally work in the city. Seems like ppl are more hostile.
Cant say I blame them, if I only owned 1200 sq ft Id be a grumpy mf too. Acreage keeps me jolly. Falls in line with my political views, more freedom = more happiness.
You are right . I was a very angry person when I lived in the city . Now I live in a small town up in the mountains and I'm much happier than I've ever been .
That explains why the good wholesome folks in the country with loads of acreage are abusing alcohol, drugs, and committing suicide - all at higher rates than city folk. They even coined a term for this - diseases of despair.
I’m always looking forward to your videos. Keep them coming! 👍
I think the first 2 girls were being facetious at the very least sarcastic...
15:11 In my opinion (as a female) contrary to popular beliefs I do not necessarily think it is a friend zone situation all the time. being friends with the person can just mean getting to know the person, understanding the connection, and progressing into a relationship. this helps when sex, love, and certain emotions are hard to reach maybe cos the person is being annoying or getting on your nerves or difficulties at that moment in the relationship (which is inevitable), friendship helps to hold the bond.
The zodiac sign doesn't tell you anything about men. I dated those I'm supposed to be compatible with and they didn't work out. I have dated other zodiac signs that were better than the ones I'm compatible with. The guy I'm talking to now isn't someone I'm supposed to be compatible with but yet we have a very strong connection.
It doesn't tell you anything about anyone.
22:00 keeping it real, that was funny as hell and so relatable. There are still good women out there just like good men. Be true to yourself and stay the course. Even a good woman will test you. Don’t get mad, just respond with your masculinity - strong and in control - and challenge her back. Her response is as critical as yours. Love your vibe of teaching boys to be men.
Scorpio vibes i went from a hopeless romantic to just chillin and doing my thing. ✌️
The moment astrology gets mentioned just walk away
The thing is, with the 2nd characteristics he describes, hopeless romantic doesn't necessarily mean a person who is already planning a marriage in their head. You can be both relaxed, in tune with oneself and still be a hopeless romantic. A hopeless romantic is someone who believes that real love exist and can find that, despite all the bullshit out there. So you can be the most serene and still be someone who wants to find/give real love to a specific individual. The real question is, is that man willing to be patient and not succumb to the manipulation of these modern day women? Is he willing to not slay his meat in every woman that walks or deems attractive? Is he willing to lose out on said woman, if he strongly stands for something that contradicts her deluded reality? These are characteristics that give men real value, because then you are aware of the red flags and thus, you will be less likely to end up with one of these fantasy dwelling sea urchins.
My boyfriend is a Scorpio and I’m a Gemini . People tell us all the time we won’t make it because of our signs. We celebrated our two year anniversary this august . Trust YOUR relationship, simple.
I love your channel thank you for all you do
I have 3 friends who are Capricorn’s and I could pull different aspects from the sign and assign it to us at different times but I think that’s the issue the descriptions of the signs are so vague. We are all very different in the ways we approach business, love, the way we raise our children. Sign aren’t an exact make up of your character which is why I think they’ve added in the moon and rising signs to further describe people and make people believe signs are full map outs of who they are as people but they are still vague and you can pick out things that may apply but you ignore the things that don’t. So it’s not accurate.
5:40 If you're there all the time, they don't have time to miss you, because there's nothing to miss out on. At the same time, you're missing the benefits of the other side, forgetting the negatives.
That’s what I’ve been saying social media isn’t a good thing it creates anti social behavior jealousy and unrealistic expectations
I know me personally I like the quiet or somewhat shy guys, always have.
I have to also comment on hearing you say about your luck on dating, I find you very attractive. I don't think you should have any troubles finding a good girl
Good guys= Money.
Happy belated birthday, my fellow Scorpio brotha!!
females look for project people and men look for project cars
Social media really does for men and women. It's ridiculous. I'm so glad I don't have to deal with this. I do feel bad for my sons, nieces and nephews though
Bingo on that guy.
🙌 Yes! Ever since I subscribed I’ve been addicted.
What’s harder? Depends on the man. The average man it’s gonna be harder for them to sleep with the woman they want but the more tractive the more successful the man it’s gonna be much easier. Women are going to get average men to commit before well the men that they want the most often they’re going to give into first. Other words, we create our own cycles here.
these answer are crazy! ahhaha my 3 top serious questions (topics) are
1- I ask about religion how practicing are they and how important religion is , their values : what are your views on marriage and what your objectif dating? (that's like 5 questions LOL)
2- What are you expecting from your wife and what are you willing to provide as a husband? (like what,s a women's role and men's role in a relationship so you know you're thinking the same thing 😅)
3- Where do you see yourself in 5 years? having kids? traveling? focus on career?
usually we have really great conversation with those question and it's easier to know if we wanna meet up again :)
bonus: are you into anime and wanna travel to japan and south korea (might be a deal breaker 👀)
Because it seems like every single woman is looking for the bigger better deal and those who don't are actually married in a good relationship
Social media is definitely both to me anyways. The good is that for people like myself that are introverted and don't like going to clubs/bars/etc I can still have that interaction. The bad is when you let what you see on social media influence you or mold who you are instead of being true to yourself and thinking for yourself.
My daughter is a Virgo. She seems to always be attracted to aquarius men. At the same time she says she can't stand Aquarius men.🤦♀️🤦♀️
Strongest relationships began as friends. Most ppl get friends zoned bc they ugly. Doing yourself a disservice by just ruling out out imo. I didn't settle down until I was 35, co- workers, we became friends, started hanging out after. Didn't hook up for almost a yr after meeting. Best relationship I've had. Still together, 2 kids, house and we still actually have fun, still get along. Js
I think people are getting being friend zoned and starting out as friends and building from there. True friend zoning is reverting from an attraction state to friend only state. Overall I agree with your perspective
I have no issues with committing to a woman and in this day and age you can get sex anywhere Relationships aren't the same anymore, no one wants to stay committed and expect so much but give so little.
When dealing with astrology and astronomy is waaaaaaay deeper than just relationship! There's a science to everything and no we're not just simple creatures. Personally tho, idgaf about astrological signs but more so, what's concrete with a person!
Zodiac signs is just another way women duck accountability, if things go wrong they have something to blame
Growing up I would've thought that was the coolest bday to have! Halloween was always my fav holiday.lol. I definitely would've gravitated towards being homies. you would've had a bday decorated locker yearly and cool desserts. I baked alot back then 🤣🤣
Fellow Scorpio. Much love to you lol.
I just don't understand the point of zodiac signs like when I was on Facebook Instagram and Snapchat all I see is people beliefs on those signs or saying stuff like I hate Leo's I hate Geminis just weirdo things and I myself is a Leo too
@@ericmoorejr8033 I don't understand it much either. I just know my sign is kind of an oddball, and that fits me lol. I don't read much into it.
@@andreajoy55 Yeah social media and social media really brainwashed so many people with the kinda logic we see people have nowadays
@@ericmoorejr8033 agreed lol. The first thing I asked my husband when we met was what his favorites hobbies are and what his favorite music to chill to was. Money and zodiac never came up 🤣🤣
@@andreajoy55 and see that right there was common sense just simple things to ask because of course back in the days where social media didn't exist the beauty of marriage relationships and having children was sacred traditional while sex was not so much of a want and need it was a save yourself for marriage type sex but nowadays with the help of social media and how many people using those platforms made sex become waay more wanted and needed than it already is while having children marriages and romantic relationships have become less traditional not taken very slow just basically rushed into and me I'm 22 years old and easily have seen that
I would hear the same thing. I was born on 10/30, and folks would tell me that I'm mean and cold-hearted which is FURTHEST from the truth 🙄😑🙄😑😑🙄
Dude at the end is not an f boy. He is telling the truth bro. It really doesn’t take much.
Dude!!!! It's so cool, we have the same birthday. I'm new to your channel, it's very informative and entertaining, you're awesome.
Stories like 50 Shades kill romance, Social Media removes it until you add it.👌🏾
@John Pierre try trading the book, pure tripe.😄
I'm officially avoiding telling people when I was born. Not even gonna let people know I have social media, they could check my Birthday. Not even gonna tell them my stance on religion, politics and what-not. Some can't stop thinking about all that when ya tell em. I ain't leaving the stance I already have, I don't care to help others understand why cause my life built my reasons and they ain't me, they'll never understand cause nobody knows everything. I want people to know me on my terms.
Aye bro, when you look your worse is when you genuinely meet your matches. So that time in the grocery store was perfect for you chief. I know you've heard women say all the time why do they always get approached when they think they look like shyt. I'm just saying...don't miss the next time.
Yea that works for women. Women will turn a guy down for his shoes
@@BuffKangaroo1 they are petty like that...but I've caught several looking like a bum then pop up for the date looking real grown mannish.
@@sheltonward8751 maybe you're just a good looking guy... But we all know this isn't the case for majority of men
I like the fact that he stumps everyone with these questions.
For everyone bashing astrology...first look into the ancient teachings of astrologers amd what they really mean outside of peoples own interpretations. Not some valley girls interpretation of what these zodiac signs mean. Also, the bible and many "Main" religions are based and coded with astrology. Lastly, do not dismiss something because you do not have an in depth understanding in that field. Yes, zodiacs is a great way to find out the things they don't tell you but it's most definitely not the end all be all to a relationship. Carry on
I consider myself a Hybrid. I'm ol school w/the dating process but getting smarter (Through a lot of experience) on who to approach. I ask in a way w/o asking their sign to somewhat kinda understand what I might be encountering. It's definitely not 100% but if you read up on Astrology it's pretty close. I once looked back after reading up on Astrology to find out the females that didn't work out (Not knowing at that moment) were actually not a good match sign wise. So now that is the 1st thing I like to find out
Fist question, when was your last relationship? I’m a Gemini and not going to lie it’s true at some point.. if anything being born on Halloween is a plus for me 🖤.
“When was it” is good. Also why/how did it end and what did you take from it?
If you notice a lot of people nowadays have “toxic“ exes. Which may be true, but you’ll realize that a lot of them don’t take accountability for their own part.. they didn’t learn anything about themselves, they just learned how to stay a victim
Uhh Gemini isn’t Halloween…
AMEN AOK! An independent woman should NOT care about how much a man makes!!! I love working and there are so many ways for a significant other to contribute beyond money. UGH!
OMG! As a grown ass woman, I don't understand why so many women go into a relationship looking to change a dude!!!
Real talk alot of people have blinkers on but its hard out there dating now compared to years ago fasure peoples priorities are different and alot of people disingenuous and dont hold themselves accountable for their actions ...
I remember as a kid my grandmother was the devils instrument that would be social media it corrupts absolutely
I'm a Scorpio too and alot like you. I tend to keep to myself . I don't really go out of my way to talk to people. But I've been hit with the "oh you're a Scorpio I can't deal with you". Then you got the ones that set high expectations for our s&xual prowess. I guess that's a Scorpio thing too Idk. But they won't see me again because they are scared they will fall in love if we keep going lol. Like they are sure I'm just gonna break their heart . Shits crazy
People have been unsatisfied from the beginning of time. Before social.. And yes it's usually me. Unless women have experienced more or better than who they end up with. And vice versa
I like your answer. It shows you have some level of consciousness.
Wow I have no words. This is really sad.
I met my husband while playing call of duty during Covid. You never know where you’ll meet that special someone, so always leave yourself open to receive attention.
To answer the question about which would be more difficult, it really comes down to the people involved. If you are attractive and can get any girl, it would be harder to get the relationship. If you are not, getting any attention is a nightmare.
When you are in a real relationship its not slavery and neither party should see it as that. So you shouldn’t be “longing for freedom” because you aren’t a slave. The portion of the video where the young lady is saying be friends first: this is absolutely correct. This means know the person, see what they are like COMPLETELY. If you enjoy that person’s company you can be yourself as well as that person can be themselves then you will continue to enjoy them in a relationship if it were to escalate further. Today’s society has the concept of dating a person and getting to know a person messed up. Not every person wants to jump in the bed on the first date. There are still people in this world with morals.
My younger brother's birthday is on Halloween. Lol and you're right about that
Definitely symptom of a larger problem
Truest words every spoken when they said “What’s your astrology sign” and you responded “Run”.