Phil Collins feat. Marilyn Martin - Separate Lives (Official Music Video)

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  • “Separate Lives” was recorded by Phil Collins and Marilyn Martin in 1985 for the motion picture “White Nights”.
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  • @halliewilson4470
    @halliewilson4470 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +358

    2024 anyone?

  • @Forrest31962
    @Forrest31962 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +282

    Still enjoying this masterpiece in 2024; I hope you are,too 🤟💖

    • @daleroth1477
      @daleroth1477 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yep! Music that hits you right in the aorta! 😂

    • @JJ-um5ec
      @JJ-um5ec 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same, love this tune

    • @PassiveAgressive319
      @PassiveAgressive319 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am

    • @ajs41
      @ajs41 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Agree, but please can Phil upload it again with better sound.

    • @annehunter988
      @annehunter988 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      To me it's timeless 😍

  • @jillwilliams888
    @jillwilliams888 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Phil Collins 2024-ever!

  • @toyoyoyo104
    @toyoyoyo104 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Listening to this song 40 years later...and it's better than ever

  • @akchu33
    @akchu33 ปีที่แล้ว +410

    It's December 2022, and this song is just as raw as it was in 1985. I love this song so much.

    • @martezberry3164
      @martezberry3164 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too 🎶

    • @justjilly1966
      @justjilly1966 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Me too. I was pregnant for my son now 37. My emotions and feelings experienced during the movie are still there.

    • @jacquelinegardner7723
      @jacquelinegardner7723 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I just listen to this and my heart breaks....it's so painful...I never knew as an 8 year old little girl the impact it would have as I became a woman....

    • @carolrussell1702
      @carolrussell1702 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes. It really is raw

    • @maxcomo9197
      @maxcomo9197 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have always been on and off.. Since you tube I have heard it many times.. Don't want it to be my favourite.. Some things in excess are bad for health.

  • @marcusgarvey6839
    @marcusgarvey6839 11 ปีที่แล้ว +519

    80's was a golden era for music

    • @cynthiamajela5934
      @cynthiamajela5934 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes. U cn say dt again

    • @jackiemeehan1373
      @jackiemeehan1373 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      The Best wish I could go back in a time machine to the 80s

    • @waynemather3358
      @waynemather3358 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Totally agree.

    • @medic1096
      @medic1096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      They will never be able to replace the greatness of the music from the 80s. It was Irreplaceable.

    • @theoholmes8471
      @theoholmes8471 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The 80's
      The time before the world was corrupted by the infidels

  • @emilymusick9173
    @emilymusick9173 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Music like this is what we need in this negative cold world! Romance needs a comeback!!!

  • @biancadimmi1263
    @biancadimmi1263 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +186

    In 1985, my heart was broken by my first true love and I played this song endlessly, over and over, wallowing in the pain, like a typical teenager. Didn’t know that there was any other way to grieve. To this day, when I hear it, or even think of it, my heart aches.

    • @luciavargas955
      @luciavargas955 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Entonces aun la recuerdas y no la puedes olvidar😢😢😢😢😢

    • @pattyhaley2949
      @pattyhaley2949 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Mine was 1982 and now I'm a 64 year old still grieving a love that should have never ended. This song hits my heart every time 💔💔

    • @jakerodriguez3484
      @jakerodriguez3484 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Mine was in 1996 where my heart was shattered like glass from my first. Went through life trying to find my Ms. Right but no luck at all, that is until 2005 someone found me and made me her Mr. Right. Still together and still going strong.

    • @pattyhaley2949
      @pattyhaley2949 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@jakerodriguez3484 so happy you finally found the right one for you. There's hope for everyone if we just hang in there

    • @cynthiablack8560
      @cynthiablack8560 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me too❤

  • @inaccache
    @inaccache 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2462

    A sad fact: " When you're happy, you enjoy the music. But when you're sad, you understand the lyrics "

  • @clarkson9heath
    @clarkson9heath 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1276

    I remember listening to this at 15 I’m now 45 and it’s still brilliant

    • @vonhayes6391
      @vonhayes6391 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You mean when you were 10 or 11

    • @clarkson9heath
      @clarkson9heath 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      No I was 15 ...

    • @vonhayes6391
      @vonhayes6391 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@clarkson9heath you were born in 1974 or 1975.. song came out in 1985.. you do the math

    • @clarkson9heath
      @clarkson9heath 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I was a wham fan never looked at phill ... I got a Walkman and that was it I was Phil Collins hooked..

    • @fedezra
      @fedezra 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here!

  • @stefanoperoni6059
    @stefanoperoni6059 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1620

    I'm not the only one who still loves this song in 2021, am I?

  • @glenthygesen62
    @glenthygesen62 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Between this and Against All Odds, Phil Collins covered most of my teenage heartbreak.

    • @missi844
      @missi844 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes! Both are my favs

  • @risesubway1973
    @risesubway1973 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    WHEN YOU GET YOUR HEART BROKEN.... YOU UNDERSTAND MUSIC IN A DIFFERENT WAY,,,.;;;.

  • @dudedaddydaycare7109
    @dudedaddydaycare7109 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +177

    Phil is an extraordinarily underrated singer and songwriter. Marilyn Martin’s voice is sublime here and amplifies the heartache and anguish of the song. One of the best duets of all time. Truly.

    • @grayhalf1854
      @grayhalf1854 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Phil might indeed be an underrated songwriter but he didn't write this one. It's by Stephen Bishop.

    • @coyhartin6659
      @coyhartin6659 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Stephen Bishop has his rendition of the song. He too is a songwriter that is underrated.

    • @flowerjpotter1629
      @flowerjpotter1629 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It's lovely but so sad !
      For duets I really like Kenny Rodgers and Dolly singing Islands In The Stream.
      And No More Tears, Barbara Streisand and Donna Summer.
      Not forgetting Cher and Meatloaf Dead Ringer For Love.
      Last but not least the Olivia Newton-John and John Travolta duets from Grease.
      Showing my age just abit haha.

    • @alimutlu1981
      @alimutlu1981 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are talking trash. How old are you. Underrated ?

    • @gersonc.2737
      @gersonc.2737 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      He is one of the biggest stars , so he can not be underrated.

  • @gemini8538
    @gemini8538 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Its not the goodbye that hurts but the memories that follows

    • @RobbieRay-dj4fy
      @RobbieRay-dj4fy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      LOST THE IOVE OF MY LIFE 15 YEARS A GO. sHE DID LOOK BACK MY LOVE HAS DIED

    • @sharongeorge3336
      @sharongeorge3336 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh my God yes

  • @idontknowexactlywhoiam2207
    @idontknowexactlywhoiam2207 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    April 2024.. anyone still listening ?
    I like this song since 1985

    • @guitarsoundsaround
      @guitarsoundsaround หลายเดือนก่อน

      Still listening, and still missing someone.

    • @user-di1rz4is5u
      @user-di1rz4is5u หลายเดือนก่อน

      Still listening ❤️

  • @svliet4208
    @svliet4208 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    Song hits me so hard...hard walking away from someone you still love 😢

    • @kelligium
      @kelligium 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I feel the pain from it every day!

    • @paulahunt3508
      @paulahunt3508 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @svliet4208 This song has always hit me hard. But, today 08-08-23, it took me down. I had to tell him goodbye, for SO many reasons I had to. But, I WILL carry him in my Heart for the rest of my days. Karma took a dump on our Love. 😢😢

    • @brentrigby764
      @brentrigby764 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@paulahunt3508yesterday the 8th “was” our 14th anniversary. She told me in April she wanted to live separate lives. I continue to be heartbroken and listen often to this song. “Someday we might find ourselves looking in each other’s eyes”. I will continue to hold out hope

    • @torsakhankunaseth9700
      @torsakhankunaseth9700 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same here💔

    • @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858
      @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You don't walk away or run away from someone you still love, it wasn't real love then.

  • @bleep77
    @bleep77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +425

    There are certain 80’s songs that give me an overwhelmingly painful and bittersweet sense of nostalgia. This is definitely one of them.

    • @seandoyle7622
      @seandoyle7622 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen

    • @vvmax4375
      @vvmax4375 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      There seems to be a lot of them for you, doesn’t there?

    • @carlosandradeealves2530
      @carlosandradeealves2530 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Há músicas que são feitas por "alquimistas". Conseguem colocar toda essência de saudade, momentos... despedidas e perdas. Phill é um "alquimista" de sentimento e amores não correspondidos.

    • @alexanderhankewicz7742
      @alexanderhankewicz7742 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What ever happened to Marilyn Martin she had such a unique singing style😊

    • @kirsteneagleson2965
      @kirsteneagleson2965 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You are so correct about that !!! When ever I hear this song I think about my first love" Gavin Seheult, I still think about you all the time!! What can I say Ladies doesn't this song bring back all those memories? I met my first love when I was in grade 7 wow you know that this was your first love
      When this song was written 35 years ago. Math might not be correct, but when you remember your first, it doesn't matter the process year. Hope one day we will run into each other ❤

  • @413Aries1
    @413Aries1 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Still listening in 2024!❤

  • @rottncf
    @rottncf ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Phil Collins is a musical genius. So lucky to have lived through this era of brilliant music.

    • @ChrisWrenLA
      @ChrisWrenLA 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It really was. Such rich complexity in the harmonics, mirrors the lyrics perfectly.

    • @GrayShadow13
      @GrayShadow13 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Steven Bishop wrote this one though, not Phil Collins.

    • @knerduno5942
      @knerduno5942 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Someone has been visiting Professor Rock!

  • @stroodle222
    @stroodle222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +364

    A stunning song. The lyrics are simply the best. The line "You have no right to ask me how I feel " moves me every time.

    • @sallywest9932
      @sallywest9932 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Have you been treated bsdly too?

    • @gooberclown
      @gooberclown 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It's sad, when you think about it.

    • @bellazoe1
      @bellazoe1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Martin voice is absolutely haunting too.

    • @pierredecalwaert8349
      @pierredecalwaert8349 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too,even more because he's gone yesterday morning

  • @CaAnPeSe4ever
    @CaAnPeSe4ever 2 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    1985... and all these 36 years later this song still guts my soul... 💖

  • @jemsmom04
    @jemsmom04 3 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    Loved this song when it first came out and still do. Some songs never age ❤️

  • @kevinedmonds4872
    @kevinedmonds4872 3 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Beautiful duet. Like a comet, one of the final shining moments of the eighties magic. Phil is legendary.

    • @msbcheet6041
      @msbcheet6041 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm a huge fan of his.

  • @DavidA-ps1qr
    @DavidA-ps1qr 7 ปีที่แล้ว +259

    Phil Collins is a true musician, and this is a perfect example of it.

    • @joseapolinario1450
      @joseapolinario1450 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      according.

    • @ryaneijkholt4220
      @ryaneijkholt4220 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      He didn't actually write this song, Stephen Bishop did, but I agree, Phil is my favourite artist of all time.

    • @vincentwong2801
      @vincentwong2801 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ...have strong and passionate feelings too...

    • @mob1192
      @mob1192 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He is a beautiful artist

  • @nicoleo835
    @nicoleo835 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    You have no right to ask me how I feel

  • @buzzindrones
    @buzzindrones ปีที่แล้ว +142

    Who’s listening to this masterpiece in 2023 give me a thumbs up

    • @angiesmith8040
      @angiesmith8040 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Meeee

    • @elkegerlach4000
      @elkegerlach4000 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Now we are in 2024 and I still love this song 😢❤

    • @kimberlyblount1785
      @kimberlyblount1785 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      2024 baby! My sister and I would bake brownies and sit across the kitchen table singing this as loud as we could to each other! Of course no one else was home! We were weird teenagers 😂 now we TRY and sing it at 50 and 47 years when we get together 😊

    • @HalfGayHalfStraight-qw4qy
      @HalfGayHalfStraight-qw4qy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Hello and good day to you on Wednesday February 7th 2024..... Cincinnati Ohio ❤❤️❤❤️

    • @slagdemon
      @slagdemon 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      2024!!

  • @DMS-pq8
    @DMS-pq8 9 ปีที่แล้ว +447

    Marilyn Martin has an amazing voice I'm surprised she didn't become a bigger star

    • @stever7157
      @stever7157 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Michael McMillan She’s currently singing backup vocals on the Fleetwood Mac tour. She still looks and sounds good.

    • @NOV17MAY16
      @NOV17MAY16 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      She had a really cool song in the 80s called Night Moves, check it out!

    • @Ori0n1975
      @Ori0n1975 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She didn't really care for this song very much, which is sad.

    • @juliehillyer6413
      @juliehillyer6413 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She did a song called move closer check it out.

    • @artz7116
      @artz7116 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She had a bigger voice and talent than Sheena Easton, but didn'y cozy up to Prince

  • @jamesthomas2020
    @jamesthomas2020 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    I’m blown away, every time I hear this song! So beautiful! Love the way they harmonize!

  • @vybzkartelradio.
    @vybzkartelradio. 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Weh dem know bout dem song ya? CLASSIC! WE GREW UP ON SUPER CLASSICS!!!!

  • @estellewadsworth4187
    @estellewadsworth4187 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    Phil Collins is a legend he will always be legendary. His music is embedded in the hearts of millions of fans global

  • @michaelvega6646
    @michaelvega6646 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    This is why I love music from the 80s, they knew how to sing and write great songs like this one

    • @eldaanngarcia8885
      @eldaanngarcia8885 ปีที่แล้ว

      But those videos though 😬, 80s music still rock!

  • @susanyorke3676
    @susanyorke3676 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Their voices just blended so well together to make this a classic song

  • @mosesfuego7086
    @mosesfuego7086 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    marylin martins vocals, I can't!!! Too good ❤‍🔥

    • @samuraienterprises9802
      @samuraienterprises9802 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Marylin Martin is soooo underrated. I love her, what a voice! And gorgeous too.

  • @JaySLewis
    @JaySLewis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    They don't make them like this anymore

  • @1979RayDay
    @1979RayDay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    Phil Collins knew how to hit you in the feels😪💦

    • @sn00gums
      @sn00gums 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Stephen Bishop wrote the song but Phil Collins' delivery is awesome.

    • @adibseddiki1103
      @adibseddiki1103 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Impact, neutralised

    • @paulahunt3508
      @paulahunt3508 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Punched me in the gut a couple times. But, I still LOVE HIM. ❤😢😢😢😢

  • @philipford6183
    @philipford6183 4 ปีที่แล้ว +266

    One of his most underrated, overlooked gems. Always one of my favorites.

    • @michelleprogar9847
      @michelleprogar9847 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mine too

    • @jamesrudolchick1516
      @jamesrudolchick1516 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So was say yoi say me

    • @MorrisB1971
      @MorrisB1971 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      One of the best love songs of the 80s

    • @jillnaylor543
      @jillnaylor543 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely THE best song he's ever done & completely unique ,never fails 2 bring a tear 2 my eye still all these years later ..i💜U Phil 💜🤣

    • @jillnaylor543
      @jillnaylor543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mine 2..soo brilliant 💗🥰

  • @gvinnydog5500.
    @gvinnydog5500. ปีที่แล้ว +49

    This song is awesome. The 80s and early 90s had unbelievable music. It must have been both the singers and writers to make that time period awesome.

    • @terrenceshelby2277
      @terrenceshelby2277 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      There were good times

    • @mykgyver65
      @mykgyver65 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bit of trivia - when making the movie Animal House, Stephen Bishop was the guy playing the guitar that Bluto smashes. He met Karen Allen on the set of the movie. They had a romance for a few years and when they broke up, he wrote this song about their relationship.

  • @amtrak207
    @amtrak207 13 ปีที่แล้ว +241

    "Someday I might....find myself looking...in your eyes. But for now, we'll go on living...separate lives."
    I don't think I have EVER heard a lyric that held so much power, love, sorrow, turmoil, reminiscent memories all in one."
    A true work of art this song is.

    • @vincentwong2801
      @vincentwong2801 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The eyes won't lie

    • @hwnsrfrboy4330
      @hwnsrfrboy4330 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Indeed…it brings tears to my eyes when I listen to that part of the song. It definitely brings back the pain of a past love.

    • @mariafuplantasymas...vigil3379
      @mariafuplantasymas...vigil3379 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      💖💤👌

  • @Toccoah-ku8eb
    @Toccoah-ku8eb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    Reminiscing during quarantine, wishing I could go back to the 80s 👌🏻✌🏼

    • @donaldpickering9954
      @donaldpickering9954 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Me too lol

    • @mtnbikr107
      @mtnbikr107 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      The 80s were the best, and possibly the last decade defined exclusively by the music

    • @adamadam-tp6hh
      @adamadam-tp6hh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yep you and me both.

    • @kirsteneagleson2965
      @kirsteneagleson2965 ปีที่แล้ว

      Quarantine is done. I was just flipping through the responses and Yes I really miss those times mid 80's whenever I hear this song it reminds me of my first love always "plus against all odds !! Maybe one day Gavin, we will run into each other!!!

  • @justozalazar2428
    @justozalazar2428 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Man I miss music like this I don't hear things like this easy more, I miss the 80s so mutch. Thank God music stays with us forever ever....

    • @guitarsoundsaround
      @guitarsoundsaround หลายเดือนก่อน

      I miss my boyfriend whenever I hear this one 😢💔

  • @user-ho6lw8vt5v
    @user-ho6lw8vt5v ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Love this song ..both amazing artists..why isn't she more well known..she's got an incredible voice ....

  • @Bluelightcheaphotel
    @Bluelightcheaphotel ปีที่แล้ว +147

    My wife and I went through a period in our life when we slept in separate beds, ate at separate restaurants, even went to different movies. This song restored us back to one

  • @kailuaize
    @kailuaize 8 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    this song is so beautiful it makes me cry

  • @exotic1919
    @exotic1919 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Listening to this song, I can feel the air of that time in 1980's.

  • @bjarmstrong4855
    @bjarmstrong4855 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Where are all my time travellers still listening to this in 2031? ⌚👍

  • @marycooney
    @marycooney 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I heard this line in a movie...when yor sad, you never think you'll be happy again and when your happy, you never think you'll be sad again...

  • @psycnarf
    @psycnarf 5 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    What a classic this song is. Still gives me the feels listening to this.

  • @dollsway8816
    @dollsway8816 4 ปีที่แล้ว +367

    Who's Listening during the CORONA-VIRUS of 20/20??

    • @chrisl9620
      @chrisl9620 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Halfway thru a 12 week quarantine.

    • @kolpermax
      @kolpermax 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Now we aré living...separated lifes

    • @sandymiller-stahl1321
      @sandymiller-stahl1321 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes...June 7, 2020....Los Angeles County Quarantine in Long Beach.

    • @dollsway8816
      @dollsway8816 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sebastian Britos I like your comment, cause it's so true!!

    • @frederickchristusten6692
      @frederickchristusten6692 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      "LITTLE, VERRRY YOUNG GIRL EVE WAS RAPED BY WHATEVER CAUSES 100%, CAUSING THIS, ETC, ETC, ETC, ONLY EVIL":
      WHAT KIND OF AN EXISTENCE IS THIS, FROM THE VERY BEGINNING, DESIGNED BY WHAT (REV 13:4 "THE DRAGON")???
      biblehub.com/ecclesiastes/7-28.htm

  • @TaraLovesGeorge
    @TaraLovesGeorge 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    My divorce was final this year ( 2023)…. This song fits perfectly

  • @tamiropetski3670
    @tamiropetski3670 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This song still has so much meaning in my life

    • @rowhyslop9898
      @rowhyslop9898 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Never be songs as good as the eighties

  • @cerilobugagao465
    @cerilobugagao465 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Thank you Stephen Bishop for writing such a beautiful heart breaking song. .

  • @Lsr000
    @Lsr000 7 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Marilyn Martin has a beautiful voice..it match up very well to Phil's voice..

    • @michaels9657
      @michaels9657 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      donny728 she sells real estate in Louisville ky her office is across the street from mine.

  • @ladybobble5455
    @ladybobble5455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    This song gives me chills everytime I hear it. I'm 63 and this is still one of the best songs ever written about love and love lost. Marilyn Martin's voice is absolutely reveting as is Phil Collins together they made "magic" Someday I might find myself looking in your eyes...

    • @jorgemiguelcarballo819
      @jorgemiguelcarballo819 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mira los mios y veras el amor que guardo❤❤❤

  • @janiegratten2357
    @janiegratten2357 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    It’s 2022 this song is so touching and sad !!!!!!❤❤

  • @mardeathshadow3907
    @mardeathshadow3907 7 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Someday I might find myself looking i your eyes, but for now we'll go on living separate lives... hits me every damn time...

    • @s.p.baughman7885
      @s.p.baughman7885 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yes it hits me too...and it sucks because I have zero answers..

  • @lemme32
    @lemme32 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Greatest lyrics EVA!
    “ooh it’s so typical, love leads to isolation”
    “So you build that wall (build that wall)”
    “Yes, you build that wall (build that wall)”
    “And you make it stronger”
    Holy true AND holy deep! This is a romance classic!

    • @hiko082673
      @hiko082673 ปีที่แล้ว

      totally Agree with you!

  • @donnap8431
    @donnap8431 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I love this song. Gregory Hines is unforgettable. He's dancing in heaven.

  • @marycooney
    @marycooney 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Noone has a voice like Neil Sadaka, he's so romantic...it lulls me like a lulliby, a soft sonnet...

  • @musicfeign6349
    @musicfeign6349 3 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    I’m 63 , and this song is relevant again. I won’t ever give up on love and finding it. While it was a thousand times harder when I first heard and learned the lyrics as a younger person, we can heal. Love is everywhere , sometimes takes a lifetime to find it. Love with everything you have.............

    • @debba7070
      @debba7070 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      61, It’s been over 40 years that I walked away, this song was popular that year. Though like has gone on, this song brings me right back to that day

    • @musicfeign6349
      @musicfeign6349 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@debba7070 60 s will be our pinnacle and we will reap the benefits. I know it

    • @niamhcassidy9103
      @niamhcassidy9103 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Youl find love... I only found mine I'm 37 he's 61 screw every 1 it's wht we feel in are 💕 hearts

    • @Yalldidsay
      @Yalldidsay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@musicfeign6349 I sure hope we finally do. 😔

    • @pearlford121
      @pearlford121 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Love has no age limit. Neither does it notice age diference. Love is love!!!

  • @marsanchez2500
    @marsanchez2500 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    This emotions that hit in this song, are unparalleled. Even after all these years, this song still hits all the feels

  • @weejenify
    @weejenify 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    [Verse 1]
    You called me from the room in your hotel
    All full of romance for someone that you met
    And telling me how sorry you were, leaving so soon
    And that you miss me sometimes when you're alone in your room
    Do i feel lonely too?
    [Chorus]
    You have no right to ask me how i feel
    You have no right to speak to me so kind
    I can't go on just holding on to time
    Now that we're living separate lives
    [Verse 2]
    Well i held on to let you go
    And if you lost your love for me, well you never let it show
    There was no way to compromise
    So now we're living (living)
    Separate lives
    [Bridge]
    Ooh, it's so typical, love leads to isolation
    So you build that wall (build that wall)
    Yes, you build that wall (build that wall)
    And you make it stronger
    [Chorus]

    • @marima1362
      @marima1362 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😢 I can't go on like this. I no longer serve a purpose for myself or anyone. I don't know what to do. Just want it over with.!!!
      😢

    • @marima1362
      @marima1362 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love definitely leaves to isolation. We've been together almost 40 years and there is not even a civil word to one another. My heart is beyond broken 💔

    • @marima1362
      @marima1362 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      * almost 40 years...36 to be exactly. I am SO LONELY!!!

    • @barbarajemmett4162
      @barbarajemmett4162 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Are you OK? @@marima1362

    • @deeamel9879
      @deeamel9879 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for the lyrics🤝

  • @fredomonace
    @fredomonace ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Maybe, I am the only one to keep loving this song in 2023. Am I not?

  • @texastank9413
    @texastank9413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The 1980's was a decade of extremely talented creators of fantastic music. To create something so moving takes soul, perspective and a depth of heart. The 80's was that for me. Rock, Pop, Metal, Country it was one big cascade of art and my life growing up.

  • @lauraung6440
    @lauraung6440 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    They don’t songs like this any more

  • @geraldmosley2195
    @geraldmosley2195 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    A song that touches your heart, by two incredible musicians.

  • @mjewelh31
    @mjewelh31 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This song brings back so many memories... Phil Collins is still one of my favorite artists .. listening in 2021❤

  • @afroking4269
    @afroking4269 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Who's listening 2023?

    • @geraldashby3117
      @geraldashby3117 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      2024 Still!

    • @CalJennings
      @CalJennings 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      2024 still too. This was such a beautiful duet!

  • @jofernie1926
    @jofernie1926 7 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    Utterly beautiful song. After finding out the love of my life for eight years, has been cheating for past 6 mths, I have only one thing to say ... "You have no right to ask me how feel. You have no right to speak to me so kind". Music helps you get through and time, I'm waiting, will heal this hurt I feel x

    • @fionaoflynn8169
      @fionaoflynn8169 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      be strong

    • @neilcartwright4227
      @neilcartwright4227 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Jo Fernie no same here after 23 years of married

    • @wikedredwitch
      @wikedredwitch 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      chin up kid

    • @jofernie1926
      @jofernie1926 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you Eileen x - Chin always up 😊

    • @johnstill1451
      @johnstill1451 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Jo...stop listening to the "sad songs"! YOU have a LIFE to lead...Your 'story' reached me, make no mistake. It does actually fill me with GUILT. I cheated on my ex wife for 17 years!! Obviously, it came to a huge CRUNCH...I gained a new wife, my ex 'won' the house...my new wife and I moved from the UK to Australia...I miss my daughter from my first marriage...my ex and I exchange emails...when we do get together, my ex and my wife get along very well...I do realise that this situation is probably quite rare...and it make not be in your ball park. You feel "let down", I understand...PLEASE TRY to "get on with YOUR life". God Bless you, I'm sure you'll work your way out of this mess!! XX [John...]

  • @patkalinawan8230
    @patkalinawan8230 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Always love listening to this great song

  • @janetmoore5645
    @janetmoore5645 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Excellent song. I am sorry for the mistakes made in my passed that i can't replace now. You have no right to ask how i feel. Leading separate lives.

  • @MsBadJedi
    @MsBadJedi 10 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    Saddest song I've ever heard.

    • @DaneBryantFrazier
      @DaneBryantFrazier 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +MercuryHeart Agreed...

    • @user-kb5fd7ox4n
      @user-kb5fd7ox4n 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I thought so too until I heard 'wasn't it good' by Tina Arena..

    • @theslynarzu5285
      @theslynarzu5285 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      MercuryHeart right

    • @robertthomas6772
      @robertthomas6772 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Mercury; I feel the same way. It is not like I could fastboard a private jetplane and see Celine Dion and Lara Fabian in concert.I 💘 love them both so much and I 😢 cry to this song. From Robert in California.

    • @Deppylicious
      @Deppylicious 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Phil writes the best sad songs. I always said, he writes his best when he wallows in the mud. Time for him to get Knighted now.

  • @Rainbowmelon
    @Rainbowmelon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    One of my personal go to favorite top 20 songs of all times. Endless greatness.

  • @cheryldemarco889
    @cheryldemarco889 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Still loving this song in 2022. This woman singing with Phil Collins her voice is simply amazing.

    • @paultreadaway102
      @paultreadaway102 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How they come up and combine in Duets is amazing he's British and she's American Marilyn Martin is her name this her huge hit i think she had a couple of songs on the Charts

    • @sharonfaithgraves4329
      @sharonfaithgraves4329 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She did. She was one of Stevie Nicks’ background singers prior to this hit. She now has a Christian music recording out. Love her voice and Phil Collins’ together.

    • @74Voyeur
      @74Voyeur ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She also sang with David Foster on the Stealing Home soundtrack.

  • @Dead-Ball-Situation
    @Dead-Ball-Situation หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Anyone well up, listening to this? Especially during the "You have no right..." lyric..

  • @CHahn-nb3fe
    @CHahn-nb3fe 9 ปีที่แล้ว +662

    I was a 20 year old guy who had the girl, one could only wish for. But like a fool, I didn't know love. She did and tried very hard. But it ended. Today I look back and think what if... Yes, I found love again and very happy in are middle age lives. But to me, you never forget your true first love. I hope this young lady did well in live and found the right partner. I would like to think she would be proud of me today... Her name was Pamela, from a small town in the state of Ohio. I have long moved away. But I remember! *This song is for her. Thank you.

    • @chockycake1
      @chockycake1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      I would imagine she does think of you from time to time. :-)

    • @hoseamatthews769
      @hoseamatthews769 8 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Come on get her...its never too late mate ...NEVER!!

    • @01treeman
      @01treeman 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      you were a fool

    • @craigs71
      @craigs71 7 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      01treeman Weren't we all when we were young? Youth ,as they say, is wasted on the young.

    • @micheltanetta4297
      @micheltanetta4297 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      It's never to late.took me 36 years to realize it.

  • @loulous4459
    @loulous4459 8 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    makes me cry every time .. amazing song ..

  • @as7326
    @as7326 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Phil Collins' songwriting is unmatched. Perfection.

    • @bobmorgan3804
      @bobmorgan3804 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Actually, it was written by Stephen Bishop.

    • @as7326
      @as7326 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@bobmorgan3804 Thanks !

  • @kandykaye9981
    @kandykaye9981 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Singers who can sing, musicians who can play, songwriters who can write, what a concept.

  • @phaedo1384
    @phaedo1384 6 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    RIP Gregory Hines

  • @naomisilk4867
    @naomisilk4867 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    We Be On This Phill Collins Album 💿 2024, Straight Up To 2025 and Beyond ! Such A Classic Song. A Masterpiece ! Anyone Here With Me On This ? 💛❤️💚🙏😇💃🔥🍀🇯🇲🇺🇸🇨🇦🇧🇸🇮🇶🇮🇷🇳🇬😘🥰😍✏️💪💪🔥🔥🍀🍀

  • @vincentholly39
    @vincentholly39 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Still cry when I hear this song

  • @creates100
    @creates100 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Who else is listening in 2023?

  • @donm4962
    @donm4962 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I listened to it in the 80's, and I listen to it now. My heart feels the same when I do.

  • @mellowdy2223
    @mellowdy2223 6 ปีที่แล้ว +306

    Crying at this very moment. It's so hard being with someone you love who dont love you anymore. 😢😢😢😢😢

    • @mikefisher3984
      @mikefisher3984 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mellow Dy so sorry x

    • @aprilheart1424
      @aprilheart1424 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      True god bless u

    • @annmiles15
      @annmiles15 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am the same boat i give up !!!!!

    • @BASKBLOODIRISHHART
      @BASKBLOODIRISHHART 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me sis is going through this too. Prayers for you. Be strong.

    • @jhpvids
      @jhpvids 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm in the same boat. She loved me but she wasn't in love with me as I was with her. 13 years...wow😪😪

  • @AGGD767
    @AGGD767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    No, this is epically beautiful, I think it’s the best duet ever

  • @torreador1972
    @torreador1972 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Chills first time I heard it 1985. Still gives me chills. Beautiful

  • @DeborahBritt-nv4jv
    @DeborahBritt-nv4jv หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Forever A classic 💞

  • @qasion
    @qasion 4 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    2020, anyone?

    • @ajengfourika1757
      @ajengfourika1757 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      2020....separate lives...im listening every time,any where...never bored...its so deep in my heart...😭

    • @cenibabycenibaby6575
      @cenibabycenibaby6575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How about 2021?

    • @qasion
      @qasion 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cenibabycenibaby6575 Absolutely.

    • @ndungeiiyambo9502
      @ndungeiiyambo9502 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      2021...😁

    • @qasion
      @qasion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ndungeiiyambo9502 You got it girl.

  • @arkansasgirl1313
    @arkansasgirl1313 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Her voice is so nice on this record. 🥰

  • @jonathandunn2593
    @jonathandunn2593 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Having been blindsided with a breakup three years ago, this song really hits. It made me bawl like a baby.

  • @lacil8895
    @lacil8895 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I can't deal with this song. It's so heartbreakingly beautiful. Like real life. But at least art can soothe. I highly recommend anyone to listen to the live version from his 1990 tour. On the CD "serious hits...Live!". On a particularly tough day, I grabbed a cd from my mum's collection and took it to my car (yeah old car lol). It helped me through a bad break-up a couple of years ago. I healed from that , largely thanks to crying out (on my drives) to this cd/song. I now moved away from my family and did not pack the cd but I found it on Spotify. Having a rough patch with my current partner and now listening again. Highly recommend listening to it without shuffle... loud. Love hurts.. good luck everyone

    • @shantellaudel5995
      @shantellaudel5995 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Personally I think that live version you’re talking about doesn’t sound half as good as this version. Whoever was singing with Phil in that live version didn’t sing it nearly as well as Marilyn Martin. Marilyn’s voice just gives goosebumps when she hits those high notes and draws them out the way she does. So much more emotion you can just feel it. Just my opinion tho.

    • @snooooopycomehome
      @snooooopycomehome ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg I LOVE the live version. Like you I prefer it over the OG studio one.

    • @Bentom86
      @Bentom86 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bridgette Bryant was the singer with Phil for the Serious Tour in '90. She was outstanding.

  • @zandileqinga4580
    @zandileqinga4580 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Gawd! After all these years this song reminds me of him and makes me cry. I've moved on for crying out loud! Why do I still cry?

    • @jennwetzel25
      @jennwetzel25 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Because a part of you hasn't and that's ok.

    • @Zeldarw104
      @Zeldarw104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes.🥺😑😢

  • @cathyleebormannfitzpatrick
    @cathyleebormannfitzpatrick 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    2023 still love this song 🎵 ❤️ 💕

  • @christopherskenteris71
    @christopherskenteris71 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I haven’t heard this song in years but today I randomly started singing it …..

  • @molemamokgoro5694
    @molemamokgoro5694 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This song is one of most beautiful songs ever made, still enjoying it

  • @exbs8667
    @exbs8667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My generation (born in 1966) still gets heartache! Who of us has not lost a great love in his life?

  • @gregsimmons441
    @gregsimmons441 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    "You have no right to ask me how I feel " . Sadly this song reflects the emptiness of my life😔😔Phil Collins sings this with so much emotion.

    • @jennyperrio4887
      @jennyperrio4887 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Greg Simmons I know how you feel Keep smiling If it helps you have me as a friend anytime xx

    • @carolynlongville7051
      @carolynlongville7051 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes put a smile on my face and pretend all is well, if only 😢

  • @jdhrap
    @jdhrap 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    All these comments on Phil…spot on. But the power of Marilyn’s “build that wall, build that WALL, and you make it stronger.” One of the most powerful ballad vocal verses of the 80’s.

  • @joshualafferty4567
    @joshualafferty4567 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The king of queens brought me here♥️