7 PROVEN TIPS TO FLIRT WITH A GUY **HOW TO FLIRT WITH YOUR CRUSH**

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  • @MJHarrisSpeaks
    @MJHarrisSpeaks  5 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    LISTEN TO THIS VIDEO ON PODCAST (AND SUBSCRIBE TO MY NEW PODCAST CHANNEL) living-limitless-with-mj-harris.simplecast.com/episodes/7-proven-tips-to-flirt-with-a-guy-how-to-flirt-with-your-crush

    • @rayjayjm548
      @rayjayjm548 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Do you know u can be attracted to a guy and after realizing he is on the feminine side it turns u off??? U are attractive but I wouldn't want u because of your feminine attitude. Certainly Masculine for me

    • @naturalkemzo5406
      @naturalkemzo5406 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love you MJ from Charlotte NC 💕💕💕

    • @joycethesunbeam
      @joycethesunbeam 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for this! Nuggets of gold truth ❤

    • @michelleyoung990
      @michelleyoung990 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please come to GA. And teach a class on financial stability, laid off in 2007 UAW from Michigan age 52 years young please help me

    • @Ella-vc1ul
      @Ella-vc1ul 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      MJ Harris do a great first date ideas video next pls!

  • @rickimcfarland2269
    @rickimcfarland2269 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3108

    That shirt within itself is a flirt. LOL

    • @jotiqueharlee194
      @jotiqueharlee194 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Yes honey lol

    • @cristinamorris6845
      @cristinamorris6845 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Ricki McFarland 🔥😂 That shirt is a flirt!! Haha!

    • @vandaalexander160
      @vandaalexander160 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ricki McFarland I ❤️ that top.

    • @StandupGirl-ym3ey
      @StandupGirl-ym3ey 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yassssssss!!!

    • @Courtnik0
      @Courtnik0 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      i FuCkN LooooVe that shirt! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @thequeenofhope4006
    @thequeenofhope4006 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1357

    Ladies don’t think he’s just talking about single girls cause I tried these on m husband and he lit up thanks MJ

    • @brittanyschultz3089
      @brittanyschultz3089 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I back that up girl I've done a couple little ones n his hold addotude has been different

    • @rhondaroberts7617
      @rhondaroberts7617 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      👏👏

    • @theFatgirlchronicles
      @theFatgirlchronicles 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yup I use all his advice on my bd💜

    • @lriver5766
      @lriver5766 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Agree! I’m learning to use his knowledge on my husband.

    • @sharlotteboone3611
      @sharlotteboone3611 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yassss... if my husband even gets the sexy vibe he gets super close and says whattt? What you want lol...too funny

  • @Sara-cq6si
    @Sara-cq6si 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1440

    -Look attractive ,enhance the parts u love about urself
    -Eyecontact ,3 sec minimum
    -Touching him, gentle & not too much
    (+great areas: knee and arm)
    -Be engaging, actively listening to him when he talks & do not cut him off, respond with questions that make him go deeper
    -Make him feel like a king (compliment hil on things that not many people compliment him on)
    -Say his name when u talk with him
    -Walk full within ur feminine power (walk with confidence & positivity-> smile&posture for example ur head is up) ,when u communicate with someone look him in the eyes

  • @kamilahlena
    @kamilahlena 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1337

    If you can’t look into his eyes, look at the bridge of their nose. It will give the direct contact illusion. You’re welcome! 👑

    • @abbestar3103
      @abbestar3103 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      LENA PATEL girl your a blessing lol 🙌🏾

    • @MJHarrisSpeaks
      @MJHarrisSpeaks  5 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      LENA PATEL great tip!!

    • @StandupGirl-ym3ey
      @StandupGirl-ym3ey 5 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      I feel like when I look into people's eyes my eyes cross!! Lol 😕😕

    • @Courtnik0
      @Courtnik0 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Thank u! Cuz i be shy

    • @Aquarian231990
      @Aquarian231990 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      lol thank you girl LMAO

  • @leannac2282
    @leannac2282 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2590

    MJ is bad for me! I've been using your tips and I'm in my crush's bed right now😂

    • @MJHarrisSpeaks
      @MJHarrisSpeaks  5 ปีที่แล้ว +379

      Leanna C yasssss 😍🥰🤣

    • @WWambition
      @WWambition 5 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      😭😩✊‼️

    • @crystalpoindex
      @crystalpoindex 5 ปีที่แล้ว +190

      Sounds like you did A LOT of touchin girl!!

    • @shaneeh9361
      @shaneeh9361 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Whew honeyyy yasssss

    • @musizlovva1570
      @musizlovva1570 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      You go girl............do yo thang...........sis

  • @DOTMH_1
    @DOTMH_1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +776

    Sagittarius here and I'm a natural flirt and unfortunately alot of men think I want them. The ugly ones, married ones, broke ones, crazy ones.

    • @Tanty_Tamz
      @Tanty_Tamz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Lmao this is funny

    • @relaxedmind2474
      @relaxedmind2474 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      🙌🙌🙌me too

    • @zhrit3801
      @zhrit3801 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hahaha me too girrlll

    • @areyouaprimadonna
      @areyouaprimadonna 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Yesssssssssss Sag sis. So true. We are naturals at attracting. Unfortunately, both qualified and dusties are drawn in lol.

    • @nba178
      @nba178 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @ Mary Rebecca Israel - gurrrl, I know what you mean. I’m a natural flirt too 😳 I do it without even realizing 😩😁 and I’m an Aries ♈️ 👀

  • @jasminemariedarling
    @jasminemariedarling 5 ปีที่แล้ว +765

    PLEASE MAKE A *"HOW TO TALK DIRTY TO HIM"* VIDEO!!!! IT WILL BLOW UP, I PROMISE. I NEED YOUR ADVICE!!!

    • @cjsmomom
      @cjsmomom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yes ! I NEED this STAT ☺️

    • @happymrspatato4508
      @happymrspatato4508 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yesss pls

    • @PearsSmellReallyNice
      @PearsSmellReallyNice 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      YESSS

    • @laurenfox1899
      @laurenfox1899 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Please! Help!!

    • @lexiemaep7930
      @lexiemaep7930 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      If you are talking about sexting..that's different. Just narrate a story. I hate sexting so if my boyfriend tries, I playfully act coy and shut it down.

  • @yellowbears1
    @yellowbears1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    1. Dress in a way that communicates femininity and attractiveness. (Insunuate your best body parts)
    2. Eye contact (invite him in) hold gaze at least 3 seconds. (If advanced wink, smile or giggle)
    3. Touch him in conversation (his arm, knee) be careful not to turn him on.
    4. Be engaging (actively listening)
    5. Compliment him on things that may go overlooked (make him feel like a king)
    6. Say his name when talking to him. (Keeps his attention let him know you're engaged )
    7. Walk in your feminine power (Walk with confidence and positivity. Head up and smile)

  • @ms.miwitdatbul520
    @ms.miwitdatbul520 5 ปีที่แล้ว +414

    I also believe the predators look for the women with their head down, they look for vulnerable and insecure woman to prey on.

    • @bridgetteamos9850
      @bridgetteamos9850 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Just because a woman's head is down, does not necessarily mean that she is vulnerable nor insecure.

    • @amberdavis9529
      @amberdavis9529 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      That’s not an excuse anymore it’s 2020 you know when a man what’s to use you. Stop falling for weak men

    • @amberdavis9529
      @amberdavis9529 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      wants*

    • @bridgetteamos9850
      @bridgetteamos9850 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      He is the "weak" one based on his mindset. Maybe she isn't feeling him and just does not want to be bothered at that particular time

    • @ms.miwitdatbul520
      @ms.miwitdatbul520 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Amber Davis a weak woman can only fall a weak man. All I’m saying is that there are many reasons to keep your head up, to attract a king and repel undesirables.

  • @Qu33nB33Brandi
    @Qu33nB33Brandi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +243

    Babbbbbbby ! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I gotta leave this page alone ! I called myself practicing at work in the kitchen I have all these men going crazy 😜 😝 can’t wait to hit the streets with these tips 😘😂🤦🏽‍♀️👏🏽😆😉 watch out world!!!!

    • @MJHarrisSpeaks
      @MJHarrisSpeaks  5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      xoxoBrandiB 🤣😂 I love it!!

  • @sherry4535
    @sherry4535 5 ปีที่แล้ว +304

    Get in here, get in here, get in here🤣

    • @beautylove326
      @beautylove326 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yesss!

    • @nba178
      @nba178 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      🤣 I just love him...he’s too adorable 😁

    • @kourtneybailey1298
      @kourtneybailey1298 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My favorite part! 😂😂

    • @nomaladytapile8159
      @nomaladytapile8159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

  • @Angelcake1371
    @Angelcake1371 5 ปีที่แล้ว +373

    My goofy ass the giggle would turn into a full on laugh 😂😅 but I’m still watching the video

    • @simplytlhokamorago7264
      @simplytlhokamorago7264 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Jasmine 👸🏾 Same 😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @moniquecobb9051
      @moniquecobb9051 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hahahaah 🤣😂 🤣😂 🤣

    • @tamaragore437
      @tamaragore437 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too 🤣🤣😊

    • @bellenicks3879
      @bellenicks3879 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Girl me too, I'm talking full on Steve Urkel laugh, snort and everything!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Mimz-18
      @Mimz-18 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's so me

  • @TheEleniAgency
    @TheEleniAgency 5 ปีที่แล้ว +330

    These tips are gold!Wait...this whole channel is gold!!!

    • @yvonnem1145
      @yvonnem1145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Riiiiiiight?!?! I just came across it yesterday and have binged watched so many videos. ❤️ We need a podcast too

  • @swtevil1153
    @swtevil1153 5 ปีที่แล้ว +321

    MJ, that SHIRT is EVERYTHING!!!!

  • @ladytee2017
    @ladytee2017 4 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    Maaan I tried the seductive look and wink in the mirror, I looked like a mad woman possessed 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
    But practice makes perfect 😉

    • @lilialilly796
      @lilialilly796 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I tried it I laughed so hard at myself ooooooh cringe lol I need practice.

    • @terri-anneking7160
      @terri-anneking7160 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Dude same 😂😂

    • @princesa_247
      @princesa_247 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂

    • @Narkz-Village
      @Narkz-Village 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @annakarin2278
      @annakarin2278 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      😂😂😂me too. I look like a whole creep

  • @Bella.margetti
    @Bella.margetti 5 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    Those lil fake flirty laughs sent me babyyy! 🤣🤣

  • @endiiir1
    @endiiir1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +312

    Just going for a date in an hour and you literally come at perfect moment and talking to me while getting ready 🙏🏻 Love your energy, thank you for sharing with us, brother 🍀❤

    • @marissakeepstheheat2
      @marissakeepstheheat2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Adriana Have a great date girl!

    • @ilonasautron546
      @ilonasautron546 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Have a good time girl !

    • @DarkMochaFrapp
      @DarkMochaFrapp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is so cute!

    • @endiiir1
      @endiiir1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Thank you girls, you are so lovely!❤ Am already going back haha!! He was an arrogant douchebag and I am glad I can finally recognize them quickly and dont waste more of my time thanks to MJ, because he taught me to realize what I want and can accept. Not long time ago I would be sitting there and acting polite till the end, what he would decide will be. Today I just excused myself, said that I respect him, but this wont work out and left. Such a good feeling! Thanks for support though...one day🙏🏻

    • @shayberry5209
      @shayberry5209 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Adriana how was your date?

  • @0MochiBear0
    @0MochiBear0 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Mental note : Remember to not mouth counting to three.

  • @BA-dd2rf
    @BA-dd2rf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Getting back in the dating game after a 7 year relationship. Love this and I’m so exited to get all in my feminine energy 💋

  • @deyonnafinley5524
    @deyonnafinley5524 5 ปีที่แล้ว +233

    Just ran across your channel yesterday and I absolutely LOVE you and all of your videos already! You’re doing amazing sweetie!!!

    • @harlemsbaby
      @harlemsbaby 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Deyonna Finley same sis, your gorgeous.❤️

  • @joysofjasmin672
    @joysofjasmin672 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Perfect advice! I’m 21 and I’m actually a young woman beginning to date. I love your lady-like advice! Xoxo!

  • @rickimcfarland2269
    @rickimcfarland2269 5 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    I can be socially awkward at times. I am technically an ambivert so I can just stay to myself, OR I can be outgoing.
    I do the look away 80% of the time UNLESS I have spent a lot of time being social and outgoing that week then I might look and smile. Then I say to myself "Got 'Em". After that they are typically in my face asking if I am married. LOL

    • @joanas4335
      @joanas4335 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ambivert gang!!!🥳

  • @queenofcups3753
    @queenofcups3753 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    OMFG!!! This is Gold!!!! The 3 second rule is magic 😻 I saw this yesterday and today I got my gym crush to come talk to me 😺 I'm so exited!! Thank you for these wonderful tips!

  • @HelloMyFavoriteVids
    @HelloMyFavoriteVids 5 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    You Oooooze confidence! 😍 I think i speak for alot of people when i ask can you make a video about self love. I have a few people in my circle who can use a helping hand in that department. Even myself at times especially getting out of a relationship. Can you please make one for us?? --- XO

  • @kingaolah
    @kingaolah 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    THIS IS GOLD!! I just realised I unconsciously did everything you said to a guy yesterday and it worked

  • @BritBrat444
    @BritBrat444 5 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I love that blouse! 😍

  • @Jassywazzy1
    @Jassywazzy1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    I’m practicing winks while eating pretzels 😂😂

  • @miamibahama3105
    @miamibahama3105 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I’m definitely one of those women that see a man staring at me and get offended lmao. He’s probably thinking 😉💭 damn I want her. Meanwhile I’m like 🤨💭 wtf is he looking at?

  • @inapowell3649
    @inapowell3649 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    You are about to save my life lol I'm turning 26 this year and I am currently beginning to date again. I've been single for almost five years. I have absolutely no skills with flirting so I'm so happy I came across your video 😍💅

    • @denizviolet
      @denizviolet 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      How did it go?? :)

  • @pamk1967
    @pamk1967 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Dating is for gathering data on them. So true, active listening and ask All the neccessary questions that show you who he really is, his character. Good looks aren't enough, look back on those red flags of your past ex's. MJ, you are putting us up on game and I am here for all of it!!! Thank you🤗

  • @flavourpunchh
    @flavourpunchh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    All your advice is unique and truly life changing!! Your confidence and self love is just BEAMING through the screen. You are an absolute gem and I am so thankful I found your channel! I appreciate you!! Much love from Alberta Canada ❤️

  • @SwahiliSpicE
    @SwahiliSpicE 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yesssss! The best practical tips that I can actually get out there and do. After being in a long term. Relationship and not having dated for 10 years. I needed this to get me back in touch with my flirtatious feminine side which I had suppressed for so long. I will for sure try these on crush and see if they give him the green light. Thank you! ❤

  • @melaniemedina4897
    @melaniemedina4897 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Beautiful advice. I love smiling. As a former competitive dancer it comes natural and I find it attracts a lot of positive vibes from others. Have a blessed day. 🙌

  • @chardriawillis6390
    @chardriawillis6390 5 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    I absolutely ADORE you MJ. I tried the smile and giggle to myself....let’s just say I’ll stick to the wink!! 😉 🤣❤️

    • @Ceilingkatwatchesus
      @Ceilingkatwatchesus 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Gurl. Right I’m to goofy to be doing a giggle. Cuz I’ll just bust out laughing like a maniac 🤣🤣🤣

    • @chardriawillis6390
      @chardriawillis6390 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ms. meowsmeow Yeawhateva that’s EXACTLY what happened to me! Lol 😂

    • @queenlii4334
      @queenlii4334 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂

  • @jowannejackson8423
    @jowannejackson8423 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Sweats are for the gym and or watching late night movie when you're alone

    • @elim8792
      @elim8792 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      sweats are for whenever lmao

  • @chelseangeche8143
    @chelseangeche8143 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    "Mention his name in conversations "
    Loved this one 💜

  • @O.Oj.2
    @O.Oj.2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    MJ, where can I get that shirt you’re wearing?!

    • @abbestar3103
      @abbestar3103 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Strong facts! Cause 👀👀 it’s beautiful

    • @shayywatson997
      @shayywatson997 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yessss

  • @tarlinurbano448
    @tarlinurbano448 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I am in love with your energy! I always feel so good when I watch your videos. I am newly subscribed, but if you don’t have a video on this yet, going more in Deff about female/male energy would be interesting! 🥰

  • @KCUARISMA
    @KCUARISMA 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Note: i learned the gently touching the arm thing and let me tell yall! It works. It drove him insane. He literally reminds me of that very moment all the time. He brought it up last night. Mj please keep these videos coming.

  • @PitAjamz
    @PitAjamz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I literally just found MJ’s advice yesterday, and started using it, and I have already got men chasing me! 😳 thank you for these secrets that actually work 🙏 blessed

  • @haajarahabdur5578
    @haajarahabdur5578 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I just came across your channel yesterday and whhhee chiiiile, I'm so glad that I did. Im 19 and trying to secure this boii and your helping with that💞

  • @natpolkabunny
    @natpolkabunny 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    NOW THIS IS ADVANCED!!!

  • @amandasmith963
    @amandasmith963 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Just notes for me:
    Appearance:
    1. Dress well
    2. Walk and stand confidently; use confident body language
    3. 3 second eye contact rule
    Conversation:
    1. Say his name
    2. Compliment him in uncommon things
    3. Physical touch
    4. Active listener
    Most important for me to remember:
    1. Walk/Stand confidently with confident body language
    2. 3 second eye contact rule
    3. Say his name
    4. Active listener

  • @bettytorrence4110
    @bettytorrence4110 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    GOODMORNING, MJ YOU, ARE WONDERFUL, , MAGNIFICENT, YOUR ARE ON POINT ON!!😊

  • @kristalmusic7616
    @kristalmusic7616 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your top, your aura and your Light! Stay favoured and beautiful MJ.
    Love and light always

  • @winnifredsmith8433
    @winnifredsmith8433 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hey MJ ! I came across you on TH-cam last week, and I am so addictive to you , love you!!! You are so real and I love that.

  • @iryna3537
    @iryna3537 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you for the advice. I feel more confident with my feminine energy because of your help! 😊💃

  • @MahoganE1
    @MahoganE1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Omg, I love when u give examples.😆..I be needing them..I'm over here giggling like a school girl(I'm soo shy)..You're helping me in so many ways. Thank you best friend😉

  • @HolidaysbyNiah
    @HolidaysbyNiah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have to tell you, I cracked up in this video. You were very gentle and realistic with your tips. And a bonus that you provided examples. Love it and thank you! :)

  • @K3333-p1o
    @K3333-p1o 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Feminine energy means:
    Carrying yourself like a woman
    Exuding confidence
    Being able to channel your dominant and masculine energy when needed
    😝 not always bout what u wear bout your energyyyyyyy

  • @MrDaleOG
    @MrDaleOG 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    and this type of content is fire bro.
    i like how you're just showcasing the other side of you, the not business related side.
    breaking the mold

  • @No-js8bs
    @No-js8bs ปีที่แล้ว

    He is soooo good at this. Dang, I can't believe this video is free. Thank God. Lord knows I need as much help as I can get

  • @milatyme424
    @milatyme424 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Omg I wish I lived in your town I need your friendship. You ain’t no good😂😂😂you funnyyyyy

  • @victoriaswift3633
    @victoriaswift3633 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I do the 3 seconds and then I smile and say hello, which has NEVER not worked. It’s a simple way to start a convo.

  • @XOJeanne
    @XOJeanne 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I do not know why, but the way you talk you give me so much confidence! Jeeez!! Stay shining ⭐️ 👑

  • @nicrose3500
    @nicrose3500 5 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    using this to flirt my way outta a ticket

  • @Misendei
    @Misendei 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Omg
    I just discovered you lastnight MJ and I feel
    Like you’re that best friend I’ve always wanted to have thank you so much am learning a lot from you 💕

  • @cjsmomom
    @cjsmomom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello I'm a new subscriber! I used these techniques Saturday, I greeted him at the door by saying his name, then used MJ's other suggestions and OMG he did NOT want to leave...
    Disclaimer:
    This will drive him crazy with desire and passion for you so use these tips at your own risk. Because my guy couldn't keep his eyes and hands off me.

  • @christinamarie3497
    @christinamarie3497 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I LOVE this man !! it’s the energy for me 😍🤍

  • @ges3061
    @ges3061 5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I’m over here practicing my winks at work lol

  • @BigMommaTruckn
    @BigMommaTruckn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    BABEEEEE THAT SHIRT IS SAYING SOMETHING. I LOVE WHO YOU ARE AND HOW AVAILABLE YOU ARE TO US YOU MAKE VIDEOS THAT HELP ME DAILY. IM GOING THROUGH A BREAK UP, but before him my ex died, so it’s hard. I lost my drive when he died an it seems like I have lost myself somehow

  • @efrequency1009
    @efrequency1009 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m so hooked 😍😍😍I appreciate you ! Trying all your tricks !

  • @paulettestokes1727
    @paulettestokes1727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    2022,readying for 2023 walking totally in my Femininity energy as advised. Thank you and STEPHAN SPEAKS.

  • @amari558
    @amari558 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    that wink had my heart fluttering he's a professional flirt y'all

  • @Ceilingkatwatchesus
    @Ceilingkatwatchesus 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Just in time for my first date in almost a year. Yaaaaaasss meow 🙌🏿🐾

  • @tamiaedrington5762
    @tamiaedrington5762 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    What you said you used to do was my strategy 😭😭 could never figure out why men would only look at me but not actually approach

  • @unbelaneablebeautyy
    @unbelaneablebeautyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    😂 when you said “say his name” I was in my room like “James” then you said James! That was wildddd. I love your videos MJ!

  • @rhondabaldwin7529
    @rhondabaldwin7529 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Palmdale, CA
    I've had to operate in my "masculine energy" I have an imbalance AND I want balance. You my Dear are immersed in femininity. Tips please

    • @thememo1608
      @thememo1608 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your video list is amazing. I've seen a few tips from TH-cam videos on feminity. Karine has a channel, Sheraseven has a channel, maybe even MJ has videos now. Dresses certainly help, smell good, positive energy, don't engage in others negativity.... You have a beautiful smile.

  • @lungiemaphumulo184
    @lungiemaphumulo184 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Im so stiff. I'm gonna watch this everyday. . .until I soften up

  • @mollymoo2353
    @mollymoo2353 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am 7 minutes in and I adore this man I am am smiling to myself and I never do this

  • @desirearkadie0220
    @desirearkadie0220 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    That shirt is giving me liife!💓

  • @lizhairstyles8647
    @lizhairstyles8647 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I found your channel my accident to be honest. But I’m in love with you now. I just planned to watch one video and now I’m addicted to you. I freaking love you and thank you for great advices for us. We love love love you. Greetings from London 💕💕💕💕

  • @MrDaleOG
    @MrDaleOG 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Just be yourself.
    as an alpha male i feel the same energy and it attracts me.
    i like whats real and down to earth

    • @Chitownhomestead
      @Chitownhomestead 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      It's very interesting that ur (alpha male) watching this video.. good 4 u..wink

  • @susyd.6580
    @susyd.6580 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Im a new subscriber and I AM EATING IT ALL UP, this is such great advice !! Thank you! You should do one on "Charming a crowd " ❤✌👍😁

  • @kaygrover2852
    @kaygrover2852 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I used to do that dumb ish, look away too lol. Smh Venus fly trap😂. I love your personality and hope we'll meet one day.

  • @SimplybeingR
    @SimplybeingR 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love your energy!! Thank you for all this goodness, you are so raw and I love your honesty!!

  • @chirciusimona4315
    @chirciusimona4315 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I m enjoying how you explain feminine energy and men physicality, amazing you can feel it both.

  • @nondumisomhlongo8064
    @nondumisomhlongo8064 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    From SA In 2021 I'm glad I found this channel 🤩

  • @PopFizzPaperDani
    @PopFizzPaperDani ปีที่แล้ว

    Back in the game after waaay too long and needed this masterclass. Thank youuu!! ❤🔥

  • @DeloisPrince
    @DeloisPrince 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hi MJ! I just found you on TH-cam!! And you have already helped me to realize I have been doing relationships all wrong. And I realized that I am attracted to broken men. I’m going to keep watching your videos and learning. Do you have any videos that address long-distance relationships and online dating?
    Thank you!

  • @realtalk675
    @realtalk675 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you my friend.. you are my youtube homie. Wish i had a friend like u in real
    Life

  • @Lovejoi222
    @Lovejoi222 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I just found your channel and it’s my new fav! Your advice is golden and you’re beautiful to look at ❤️

  • @crystalbspeaks7439
    @crystalbspeaks7439 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, the same way you described how you flirted at the beginning is the same thing I’ve been doing and I’m 32 years old! 😭😭😭 it’s weird because in my business and work world I’m the complete opposite. No worries, any skill can be learned and I look forward to practicing these.

  • @lemonvate9860
    @lemonvate9860 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lawwwdddf MJ 🙈🙈🙈
    You got me having this face splitting smile right now 😅

  • @seusstic3049
    @seusstic3049 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have so much to learn from you lol. I'm at the pace of a slug but I look forward to being as intune to my feminine self and being flirty the way you are ! :) I've always been attached to my masculine energy and am gradually changing out of it.
    You rock

  • @Pur3Socialite
    @Pur3Socialite 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Haha ok MJ!!! Get in here ladies. Let’s all do these techniques tonight 😂 Lawd help
    me. I love this content. You are really teaching us for 2020!

  • @tedamjoke
    @tedamjoke 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    4 years ago MJ! Well I listened and thought check, check, check. I think I actually did it quite well..not bad for a newly single person after 30 years lol 😊

  • @Courtnik0
    @Courtnik0 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I looove your videos! To show my appreciation I watched the commercials 😆, MJ you are the best friend i never had but needed🙌💙♥️💜

  • @diamondeyes1020
    @diamondeyes1020 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'm always accused by my friends to a flirt...I'm not even close just being myself...I'm polite and I smile a lot. I guess it's the taurus in me...

  • @moniquecobb9051
    @moniquecobb9051 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I literally just discovered you today and and so excited about it not sure how you popped up or where you've been my whole TH-cam life that I absolutely love you and I just subscribe to thank you for your amazing wisdom and your jovial spirit and your eagerness to make all of us better I love you keep being great and fabulous!

  • @gisellepadilla314
    @gisellepadilla314 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Your energy is so amazing like I fell in love with you 😍♥️

  • @narges.summer
    @narges.summer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    May I say that I love how you teach me details! No one does that 🙌🏻

  • @grae1152
    @grae1152 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My sisters advised me to watch you! You are actually hillarious , worth it to listen to and very clear and to the point ❤️👑

  • @queenofthesouth4205
    @queenofthesouth4205 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Nice tulle shirt MJ....yes baby I know my fabrics, my mother was a seamstress. I have a gown like that....DRESS FEMININE ALWAYS LADIES.

  • @mayowamo4126
    @mayowamo4126 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have a 1st date with a guy tomorrow and I could not have found this at a better time

  • @marlenebtagelman2451
    @marlenebtagelman2451 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I wish I had learned this stuff sooner.

  • @shannonlstephens86
    @shannonlstephens86 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I’m cooking and watching cracking up ... i don’t even date guys but i love your channel

    • @Chitownhomestead
      @Chitownhomestead 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just saw saw this video.. hes giving me life

  • @stephanietaylor7049
    @stephanietaylor7049 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I found ya page 2 nights ago & I just love everything about you and your channel omg 😩💕💕💕 I love the advices and your energy 👏🏽👏🏽 please don’t stop making these videos

  • @_lunisgaming_2827
    @_lunisgaming_2827 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the best flirting tips so far I’ve every seen