And I'm so happy she has such wonderful family who is supporting her (and everyone else) when someone's making such big decisions. And just that she's always welcome to come back home if and when life gives you lemons.
As soon as they said they are moving out from home I knew is to early for Cynthia. She was not ready at all. She still need her parents and siblings. She looks so mature but inside is still not adult. I do believe is a really good decision.
Yes, I knee it also, but she gave it a go, and theres nothing wrong with that! I'm sure she learned a lot and she can use the knowledge to grow even more. 😊
@@lilmissmonsterrr 🤔🤦♀️ Is this really a time for trying to turn someone's simple observation into something negative ????? (like 90% of people on social media already do) SMH. Don't be one of those people🙃
I think that while you will be missed, you weighed your options and moving home with the family is what's best for you. It was really brave to give it a go and to say that it isn't working for you. I'm hopeful that you'll make regular visits when the house in the valley is ready, but moving from a quiet town to a major city is pretty daunting. Lacey, you did something I was too scared to do 30 years ago, which is dye your hair in an unnatural color. Not that I'm in my late 40s, I love to experiment with colors. I'll soon be sporting black and blue hair, with maybe a little pink mixed in.
Cynthia gave Lacey the courage to move out ... It was easier when Cynthia went with her ... That's what family does for eachother ... Lacey was always ready she just needed that extra courage ... One day it will be Cynthia's turn & Lacey will be there for her ... Lacey will be fine on her own & she will have her family nearby soon !! Best of luck to each of you gals ... ❤ ❤
@@stanbalo very different to living with someone on their own as to living with them with the family... More intense and it must have been difficult for Cynthia to deal with
Definitely not shocked....seemed way too rushed. I know she wasn't the first of the kids to move out before finishing high school but it seemed like she was hesitant
Exactly, she did online school long before the other kids and loved being at home more than the average teen. She's only 17 and everyone needs to mature at their own pace. I know Lizzie will be happy to have her roommate back, and with the new house Lacey will be close too.
Well, when Lizzy moves out, I have a feeling Cynthia will follow her back to the valley since Lizzy is going to collage there and I think Cynthia will go there because I believe most of her stuff will be there like her bed and headboard and things that Kylie decorated with
@@LolaWeatherly Yeah, just saw the Middles vlog, Lizzy says she'll move there full time for college, so I think she and Cynthia will move back in with Lacey then. They are a great trio, Cynthia is kind of a combination of their personalities, so I think it keeps the sisters from getting on each other's nerves like a lot of siblings.
@@michaelleary9233 honestly, Cynthia keeps everyone like mellow and a lot calm. Like they honestly do a favorite thing about Cynthia because i bet there’s a ton. Happy for Shelly to get her buddy back with helping her with vlogs, Happy for Trey to see his favorite person again and happy for Destiny to see her sister again because she said it was hard and for everyone to have time with her. Everyone seems so patient when she’s around and positive.
She still needs to live out her teen years and go to school and finish school and be home with her siblings it’s fully understandable things are go back to normal or the way they do you want them to play out in about a year once she turns 18 but you’re both still very young enjoy life there’s always the good and the bad I’m glad you’re feeling better
I think Cynthia is going through similar emotions to what I went through when I travelled by myself for the first time. Loving the experience, and jumping into challenges, but is very overwhelmed and needs home comforts. I'm glad that the right choice has been made for Cynthia, at this point in time. It's okay to admit the time isn't right, and that you weren't ready.
No decision is irreversible and that is a good thing to know in life :))) And sometimes it takes real guts to go back on a big decision and do what is right for you. Glad Cynthia worked it out early on and clearly has Lacey’s support. The Valley will always be there :)
I seriously almost had a crying. If you didn’t in the video when you did I probably would’ve. I am sad and happy to.. I hope you’ll be OK Cynthia. You are strong and you do what you need to do. You tried to move out and it wasn’t for you and that’s OK. Don’t let anybody tell you otherwise or bring you down. You won’t know unless you try
The first time I moved away I was 19. I cried almost everyday for 6 months. It’s HARD!!!! Especially if you’re as close to your family as you girls are. That is actually a very mature of Cynthia admitting that she needs to move back home. Good luck in the future Lacey and Cynthia.
Honestly, you guys have such a big family and I think that even though Cynthia seems very mature and is very responsible moving so far away with just Lacey might've been just too big of a change at once. Not to mention the fact that she's only 17 which can be easily forgotten because she seems older. I think it's great that she does what she needs to do for herself and that she's welcome to come back any time.
i don’t think it was rushed... everything happened at the right time- lacey was reserved about moving out and having cynthia there helped. and now, it’s cynthia’s turn to figure out her life and when the time comes for cynthia to be ready to move out, lacey will be there :) don’t be sad, because everything that happened were only good things ❤️ love you girls! ps; is it just me or does your friend looks like Hannah?
I'm sure once the family moves to the valley, it will be easier for Cynthia to move out, when she's ready, because she will be able to visit them when she wants to.
I was married at 26 and didn’t have my daughter until I was 33. However we had trouble starting a family. Still I have no regrets. I got married and started a family later than planned. However, I don’t regret it. You ladies keep enjoying the season you’re in and trust that things will happen when it’s supposed too.
Aww I’m glad Cynthia is going back home!! She always has been so close with her siblings and parents ❤️ good decision Cynthia!! Hoping you will continue your channel.
Destiny defiantly be happy to see her again socially distance and Aubrey and Addison will be super super excited to hug and Cynthia and her moms relationship owns my heart. When Shelly and Cynthia together makes me all happy.
I’ll never forget when I first moved out. I was almost never home and decided it was time to move out. I only moved 10 minutes from my parents and I cried every day for weeks. It’s hard. And sometimes it’s just too soon. That’s okay! Proud of you Cynthia for listening to yourself and making a hard decision for the right reasons. ❤️
I’m proud of Cynthia for having the courage to reverse course on a big life decision like this. There is plenty of time to have adult responsibilities, nothing wrong with enjoying the last of your time at home with your family.
I’m proud of Cynthia being able to realize she isn’t quite ready yet, and also happy for her that she can go back home. (Many parents won’t even take their kids back to “make them responsible”. She has great support, a super loving family, a truly wonderful sister who understands/encourages her needs and many fans who respect her decisions. Good for you girls to be responsible enough to make the right decisions. 👍👍👍👍👍
Nothing wrong with going back home. I was surprised she even tried knowing how close she is with her parents and siblings. She always said she liked to being a"homebody". Always helping and being just being there. I'm happy for you Cynthia. You need to be happy.
Can we please see Cody and Jonathan in one of your videos...maybe playing a game with the 4 of you.And Cynthia, it's totally logical, you still young and need your parents guidance through your teen years. You helped give Lacey the courage to move out and now she is giving you the courage to do what's best for you . Sister ❤
Im 21, finishing college online, and home with my parents and siblings, and I can't imagine how hard it will be to move away, even if I'm not that far. You were so brave Cynthia, and it's so good that you understood yourself enough to realize maybe it wasn't time yet!
Teenage years from 16 up to the 20s is hard emotionally on everyone regardless if they admitted or not. So move back home and take your time growing up. You have a lifetime to be on your own. So enjoyed being home with your parents as long as you can and want.
Aww y’all got me with the tears at the end 🥺 I’m glad Cynthia was able to make that decision for herself though! I know it all seems exciting and fun to move out on your own and not have to listen to your parents and be able to make your own decisions and stuff; but it’s actually really stressful being an adult and having to worry about bills and paying them on time etc. I’m sure the pressure of making content for TH-cam to pay those bills also sucks some of the fun out of it too... sometimes you don’t realize how you’ll feel about something until you are in that situation. But I wish you both the best and just remember to take a breather and take care of yourselves and your mental health first! Hugs 💕
Aww, you guys, your family in general, always get me crying. I’m glad that Lacey has taken the big sister role, as she always does, and just gave Cynthia the support she needed. We love you Cynthia and can’t wait to see you back on the Crazy Middles! It’s sounds so crazy typing this because me and Cynthia are the same age😭🤍
When I first moved out I got really homesick too. I only lasted a few weeks before I went back home. Stayed at home for a year and then moved out again. I was far more ready the second time and now I can’t imagine living at home, even though I visit all the time. When she’s ready she’ll be right, it’s a huge step.
Im 21y/o and just recently moved out and even i am struggeling! Being a adult is hard but shes a beautiful strong young girl and will be doing great things in life!
Do what is good for you both. It was awesome of you to support Lacey by moving out with her, Cynthia. It is so good of you to support Cynthia moving back home, Lacey. Stay safe!
I knew it was gonna be hard for Cynthia. It’s hard for a lot of people. It’s scary and can be stressful. It’s very mature of her to realize that she’s not ready just yet. Plus y’all have such supportive parents and family to be able to rely on them.
There’s no age to leave your house, what matters most is your well being, your mental health is crucial. Yes it’ll be sad but do what makes you most happy. Love you guys 😊
Lacey just move back too I'm telling you living on your own isn't worth it LOL. In all seriousness the strength of both of you is amazing, for her to be able to recognize she's not ready, and for lacey to be so accepting. You two are amazing ❤️
I was bored and watching old crazy middles vlogs and Izzy is in on of them from 5 years ago! It's the Obsessed With Gummy Worms Vlog. She's still just as pretty as she was then, no glow up needed!
I just want to give Cynthia a giant hug ! As the mom to 18 and 17year old daughters you are at a hard age and I can understand the conflicting feelings . Hang in there . Sending love from Oregon
I really hope cynthia you feel better going back. I also hope your ok lacey and your going to be ok having your own place. I lived alone for a while.. x
I'm happy to know that Cynthia is moving back with the Crazy middles, can't wait to see Trey's reaction but I also feel sad because I know how much Cynthia loves to stay in the Valley to be with Jonathan, Lacy and everyone out there. Just like what you have said it's not like forever, she can go back anytime for sure. Atleast now both of you already have an idea on how it feels to be really independent and being apart from your parents. We're surely learning from every decision we make 😊
Sooo totally understand about keeping the place clean. The struggle is real! Just wait until you have kids and you're trying to look after them and they're also making a mess. I don't know how anyone does it. I'm 51 and I am still terrible at it. Cynthia I'm glad you were brave enough to do what is best. It's so easy to worry about what everyone else will say, but you are the one who has to live with the consequences of your decisions. In New Zealand it's very common for kids to move out for a while and then come home again. Especially if they move out so young. Moving so far from your parents was really the hard way to do it! I really think it might have had a different outcome if you had just been down the road from them. It's not all bad though. Now you will appreciate everything your Mom does so much more! Sometimes you have to do without something (or someone) for a bit, to make you realise how much they matter. Lacey I love your hair! Enjoy it while you can. It'll grow out soon enough, unless it fades away first. You made me smile every time you said something about being an adult. Give it 20 years and you'll laugh at yourself for thinking that. I know I sure did (laugh at myself I mean). You are reasonably sensible and responsible, but so much of your thinking is like a teenager. Don't change it though, you'll be an adult for long enough. Enjoy your youth. Love you so much. Hope all goes well after Cynthia leaves. That's gonna feel odd for you. I have one question to finish with, do you have a PO Box in the valley, or do you just use the St John's one?
So glad Cynthia had the courage to say and admit that it was too early for her to leave her parents' house. I honestly think that if she would have kept quiet, she would have gotten mentally sick holdimg it all in. It is not a bad thing to admit that you still need your parents. They love you and will support you 100%!! And I know you've been wanting to move back, but you will be able to move back to the Valley together with your family and when you're finally ready to fly the nest, they will be a quick car drive away!! I wish both of you the best!! 💖💖
Its okay! A part of growing up is making difficult, different decisions. You ladies do it with so much class! Where ever this channel is heading, it is going to be great! Both of you are wonderful people with such bright and caring personalities. Its okay to have different desires, wishes and goals! Plus, Cynthia needs to enjoy her senior year without having to worry about bills and adulting. Cynthia, maybe u could do some makeup tutorials from time to time. You are really good at makeup!
It's great to have ur parents support I'm sure they like to have u back home and if they could they would never want u to leave but is part of life and when Cynthia is ready it would happen blessings
i did the same thing. at 17 i moved out of my parents with sibling and a few months later i was back with my parents. im now 20 and have been living on my own for a few months now! its all at your own pace
I discovered your Mom's channel and your Auntie's channel. What amazes me how well adjusted all of children and young adults are. I believe because your parents have so much love for their children. Lacy, you are a happy person. You have more personality and energy than anyone I know. Your energy is full of love and positivity. I will watch your channel along with your parents and Aunts. All of you inspire me and I am in awe of each and everyone of you.
I moved out when I was 17.... I understand completely that it can feel like a lot or responsibility all at once. Thankfully you have a loving family that will welcome you back any time! 💜
It's a great sign of maturity when you can make the decision for yourself to keep yourself comfortable. You have time to change your mind and try things out.
Cynthia, I’m so proud of you for making the decision to return to St. Johns. It takes courage to decide on what is best for you right now and to follow through with it. You have a loving supportive family to return to....many years in the future you won’t look back and regret it. 💜💜💜
I’m happy that Cynthia has been able to make the decision to move back and to do what will make her happy. I’m 20, and moved to uni (only 40 minutes drive) and I still get really home sick, so godknows how you feel being hours away! Everyone is different and it comes a lot easier to some people. Sometimes it’s just too early and the right time will come! Keep your head up 😁❤️
You won't have to wait for the pandemic to be over for a video like that, they do things they're not supposed to during the pandemic all the time like having friends over and not having their friends wear masks in their apartment
@@judithgrehan3493 so you don't think its a problem that they could possibly be spreading the virus by having friends over that could have the virus and not know it since you can be asymptomatic? You don't think its fucked up that over 450,000 people have died from this virus and you don't think we should all be doing our part by not seeing friends and social distancing and wearing masks? Its BULLSHIT that doctors and nurses are putting their lives on the line EVERYDAY to keep people alive and healthy and people like them can't even do their part & not see their friends for awhile. Thats someone who's a piece of shit that seeing their friends is more important than someone's health. If you actually cared about other human beings you wouldn't be doing things like hanging out with friends to even chance getting someone sick and spreading the virus. If people keep doing that this virus will NEVER end. Good God you seriously are so ignorant its mind blowing🤦♀️🤦♀️
Moving out at 17/18 is totally one of those things that works great for some people but not quite for others. I moved on my 18th birthday to go to university and initially it was rough (living with 5 new people, who also grew to hate each other) but I then had much better experiences living with some friends for the last couple years. Totally understand the feeling of being homesick and hours away from family, but doing that during covid times is understandably a lot more difficult with not being able to see family in the same way. For me, even having lived away from family during term time for 3 years, it became so much harder with not being able to visit home. I'm sure that in time, particularly if its once covid's gone and when the family are back in the valley and nearby, then moving out will be a lot easier once you feel you're ready! Also I imagine that you will miss certain things from your taste of freedom once you're back home, but you'll also appreciate more of how a home is managed from your bit of experience, so sure you'll be more than ready when the next time comes around. Best wishes, stay safe, and I'm hoping Lacey has a brother/friend/housemate who'll keep her company!
Bless you both. Good for you Cynthia to realize what you need at this point in your life. I give you credit for trying and look forward to where both your lives go.
So you had a great adventure together. That's what being sisters is all about. Supporting each other and having fun together. You did that in St Johns, you did that now in the Valley with your move and you will do that in future. You guys give each other wings to grow in a direction each of you have to go. Enjoy the ride ladies and never regret any decisions. You learn from it all and change is as good as a holiday so if you need to change a decision, SO BE IT!! It is all part of what makes live interesting. Much love from sunny South Africa ❤️
I'm so sorry that Cynthia is moving out, but it takes a lot of courage and strength to realize that maybe it wasn't perfect timing. It shows how grown up you are. Things will look up soon and y'all are going to do great things. Focus on being a teen while you still can Cynthia, it's okay. Being a grown up sucks. I'm 24 and I would love to be your age again! Love y'all
So wise to follow your heart, Cynthia and Lacey. The return to the family haven is always wise. "Missing" one sister will be less hard for the youngest siblings.
Cynthia there is no shame on moving back home. You were honest with your feelings and acted upon them. Life is super short and do things that make you happy. I’m sure all of your siblings and parents are super happy to have you back with them.
Aww she is still a baby. From a mum’s point of view - 17 is too young, my oldest daughter is 17 next week and in her last year of school, I can’t imagine her living elsewhere. Go back home, have fun, do the goofy stuff before you turn 18 x
It was a good intro to being on your own and now everybody knows what to expect! There’s no shame in dipping your toes in the deep end and not diving in! Next time Cynthia will be even more prepared and ready! Until then, I’m sure the folks are super excited to get at least one of you back home! I would be!
I am so impressed with the maturity you both have shown. These are not easy decisions. Kudos to Cynthia for recognizing what she needs and taking the steps to make it happen. I agree with Dana Salberg below who said Cynthia moving too gave Lacey the extra boost she needed to make the move. It was a great decision. There's nothing wrong with having done that and now Cynthia returning home. I'm happy sad along with you and look forward to continue seeing videos of both of your journeys.
We love a brother who takes care of his sisters even though he may have felt a little embarrassed buying tampons, but still shout-out to you Cody!! 🤣💕💕
Moving out is one crazy experience. I just moved out from my house a couple months ago and I struggled really bad with the fact that I wasn’t home anymore. Everyone thinks it’s going to be super easy but it’s one of the hardest things you are going to do in your life.
What a good learning experience for Cynthia, dont be sad it didn't work out this time. Going home and re-evaluating things and being with family is just the part of your chapter in life. Much love to you both ♥️
I am so glad Cynthia is making the right decision for her. You both got this do what is best for you all. I can not wait to see what is to come for this channel. I even enjoy watching your all's videos.
There is no shame in having to move back home! I moved out when I was 18 and it was the worst decision I could have made at that time. Moved out a few years later (21) with my sister (20) and it was a lot better! Sometimes you still need your fam. Sending love
It’s so nice that you guys support each other! There is no shame in moving back home, you’re handling the situation great. Hoping the best for you both🤗
Cynthia. Don’t feel bad. Everything happens for a reason. This experience has made you stronger and discovery more about yourself. You are both amazing, beautiful, and fabulous! Love you both!
Thats very mature to realise if your not quite ready for moving out. I miss you both being on crazy middles videos so it will be nice to see Cynthia back...you will both do amazing regardless of living together or not...make good choices your both beautiful and awesome x
I love how your family support one another. I know changes are hard but you guys really are each family members cheerleader and genuinely want the best for your family. You can see it!!!!
its ok not to be ready i wasent even ready at 19 but i had to for other reason but dont ever feel its a bad thing moving back it happens and it going to be alright in your own time when your ready love you guys
Things will get better, its not easy but glad you are doing what is best for you Cynthia, and the love and support you give her Lacey is being the best big sister❤️ You girls got this!!
Can I just say I think moving back home is a really mature decision. 17 is so young, even though you may not think it. Knowing and accepting you need a little more time. Good on you girls. I wondered why I hadn't seen a notification for a video, I had been unsubscribed somehow, wasn't my doing.
being family oriented has its pros in terms of having a family to rely on and knowing you have them. Cons is sometimes it’s hard to move on or just get out of your comfort zone without your family members. So happy to hear that Cynthia has the choice to move in back with your parents 🤍
I’m so proud of Cynthia. The amount of braveness it takes to make that decision and admit to it is unimaginable. I wish I would’ve admitted I wasn’t ready a lot sooner than I did. It’s okay to need to still be around your parents and family. I can’t imagine being 17 and doing that. I’m so proud of you for making the best decisions for you! ❤️
Cynthia, don’t be sad, I moved back home at 27, and I’m still here three years later. You don’t know until you do it. Please pack Lacey in your suitcase. The CM videos aren’t the same without both of you. Love you both! I bet your parents are super excited to have you back home. 💗
This was an awesome experience for you Cynthia , there is no shame in being homesick. Lacy is in a different place and that’s mostly because she is older but don’t forget lacy has moved out before and moved back with your parents, this time seems most right for Lacy right now. You girls are going to be great no matter where you are❤️
Nothing to be ashamed about. You guys are making choices that are best for you all. It's hard to do sometimes. Cynthia, you got a glimpse of what to expect when you are ready to move out and will be in an excellent position to be super successful. Lacey, and you will continue your learning to be super successful as a young woman living away from home. What a wonderful learning experience for both of you in a safe place. Way to go! Best wishes for continued success.
I’m glad Cynthia is adult enough to make a decision she’s comfortable and realizes it’s OK for her to change her mind. ❤️
very true it's sad but like you said it's ok for her to change her mind
And she needs to make the best choice for her self.
@@RunningwithJesus exactly
It's ALWAYS ok to go home ❤️ you only learn what you like in life by trying! You will do great whenever you go!
And I'm so happy she has such wonderful family who is supporting her (and everyone else) when someone's making such big decisions. And just that she's always welcome to come back home if and when life gives you lemons.
As soon as they said they are moving out from home I knew is to early for Cynthia. She was not ready at all. She still need her parents and siblings. She looks so mature but inside is still not adult. I do believe is a really good decision.
So did I.
Yes, I knee it also, but she gave it a go, and theres nothing wrong with that! I'm sure she learned a lot and she can use the knowledge to grow even more. 😊
Is this really a time for I told you so's?
@@lilmissmonsterrr 🤔🤦♀️
Is this really a time for trying to turn someone's simple observation into something negative ????? (like 90% of people on social media already do) SMH.
Don't be one of those people🙃
Agree.
Kinda not too surprised tbh she’s really young and deserves to live her teen life without the stress of independent adult hood on a 17 year old
Agree.
I think that while you will be missed, you weighed your options and moving home with the family is what's best for you. It was really brave to give it a go and to say that it isn't working for you. I'm hopeful that you'll make regular visits when the house in the valley is ready, but moving from a quiet town to a major city is pretty daunting. Lacey, you did something I was too scared to do 30 years ago, which is dye your hair in an unnatural color. Not that I'm in my late 40s, I love to experiment with colors. I'll soon be sporting black and blue hair, with maybe a little pink mixed in.
Agree
So is she going to live with her parents
@@oliviafigueroa8791 yeah she’s moving back to her family house
Cynthia gave Lacey the courage to move out ... It was easier when Cynthia went with her ... That's what family does for eachother ... Lacey was always ready she just needed that extra courage ... One day it will be Cynthia's turn & Lacey will be there for her ... Lacey will be fine on her own & she will have her family nearby soon !! Best of luck to each of you gals ... ❤ ❤
My thoughts exactly...... ❤️
Well said ❤
Lacey is an Alpha female and very capable..even before i feel she is already ready to live on her own.
@@stanbalo very different to living with someone on their own as to living with them with the family... More intense and it must have been difficult for Cynthia to deal with
Not me bursting out crying just from this comment. So so true 🤍
Definitely not shocked....seemed way too rushed. I know she wasn't the first of the kids to move out before finishing high school but it seemed like she was hesitant
Exactly, she did online school long before the other kids and loved being at home more than the average teen. She's only 17 and everyone needs to mature at their own pace. I know Lizzie will be happy to have her roommate back, and with the new house Lacey will be close too.
Well, when Lizzy moves out, I have a feeling Cynthia will follow her back to the valley since Lizzy is going to collage there and I think Cynthia will go there because I believe most of her stuff will be there like her bed and headboard and things that Kylie decorated with
@@LolaWeatherly Yeah, just saw the Middles vlog, Lizzy says she'll move there full time for college, so I think she and Cynthia will move back in with Lacey then. They are a great trio, Cynthia is kind of a combination of their personalities, so I think it keeps the sisters from getting on each other's nerves like a lot of siblings.
@@michaelleary9233 honestly, Cynthia keeps everyone like mellow and a lot calm. Like they honestly do a favorite thing about Cynthia because i bet there’s a ton. Happy for Shelly to get her buddy back with helping her with vlogs, Happy for Trey to see his favorite person again and happy for Destiny to see her sister again because she said it was hard and for everyone to have time with her. Everyone seems so patient when she’s around and positive.
@@LolaWeatherly Right, gonna work so much better this summer when everyone is reunited in the Valley.
Your friend looks so much like Hannah
Could b Hanna twin or sister
I thought so too!!
I was just about to comment this haha
I completely agree!!!
Yes
She still needs to live out her teen years and go to school and finish school and be home with her siblings it’s fully understandable things are go back to normal or the way they do you want them to play out in about a year once she turns 18 but you’re both still very young enjoy life there’s always the good and the bad I’m glad you’re feeling better
I think Cynthia is going through similar emotions to what I went through when I travelled by myself for the first time. Loving the experience, and jumping into challenges, but is very overwhelmed and needs home comforts. I'm glad that the right choice has been made for Cynthia, at this point in time. It's okay to admit the time isn't right, and that you weren't ready.
No decision is irreversible and that is a good thing to know in life :)))
And sometimes it takes real guts to go back on a big decision and do what is right for you. Glad Cynthia worked it out early on and clearly has Lacey’s support.
The Valley will always be there :)
I seriously almost had a crying. If you didn’t in the video when you did I probably would’ve. I am sad and happy to.. I hope you’ll be OK Cynthia. You are strong and you do what you need to do. You tried to move out and it wasn’t for you and that’s OK. Don’t let anybody tell you otherwise or bring you down. You won’t know unless you try
I agree 👍
The first time I moved away I was 19. I cried almost everyday for 6 months. It’s HARD!!!! Especially if you’re as close to your family as you girls are. That is actually a very mature of Cynthia admitting that she needs to move back home. Good luck in the future Lacey and Cynthia.
Honestly, you guys have such a big family and I think that even though Cynthia seems very mature and is very responsible moving so far away with just Lacey might've been just too big of a change at once. Not to mention the fact that she's only 17 which can be easily forgotten because she seems older. I think it's great that she does what she needs to do for herself and that she's welcome to come back any time.
i don’t think it was rushed... everything happened at the right time- lacey was reserved about moving out and having cynthia there helped. and now, it’s cynthia’s turn to figure out her life and when the time comes for cynthia to be ready to move out, lacey will be there :) don’t be sad, because everything that happened were only good things ❤️ love you girls!
ps; is it just me or does your friend looks like Hannah?
I'm sure once the family moves to the valley, it will be easier for Cynthia to move out, when she's ready, because she will be able to visit them when she wants to.
So true
its totally fine Cynthia!!! You have the rest of your entire life to be an adult, so no need to rush
that ending was so sad with the soft “bye”s omg
I was married at 26 and didn’t have my daughter until I was 33. However we had trouble starting a family. Still I have no regrets. I got married and started a family later than planned. However, I don’t regret it. You ladies keep enjoying the season you’re in and trust that things will happen when it’s supposed too.
I love how Lacey says to cinthya “you are only 17” when she’s 18 😂 love you guys haha
Aww I’m glad Cynthia is going back home!! She always has been so close with her siblings and parents ❤️ good decision Cynthia!! Hoping you will continue your channel.
Yes, Cynthia is the younger kids favourite sibling.
Destiny defiantly be happy to see her again socially distance and Aubrey and Addison will be super super excited to hug and Cynthia and her moms relationship owns my heart. When Shelly and Cynthia together makes me all happy.
@@LolaWeatherly agree!!
Cynthia was very brave for standing up for what she wanted! Stay strong loves!
I’ll never forget when I first moved out. I was almost never home and decided it was time to move out. I only moved 10 minutes from my parents and I cried every day for weeks. It’s hard. And sometimes it’s just too soon. That’s okay! Proud of you Cynthia for listening to yourself and making a hard decision for the right reasons. ❤️
I’m proud of Cynthia for having the courage to reverse course on a big life decision like this. There is plenty of time to have adult responsibilities, nothing wrong with enjoying the last of your time at home with your family.
I’m proud of Cynthia being able to realize she isn’t quite ready yet, and also happy for her that she can go back home. (Many parents won’t even take their kids back to “make them responsible”. She has great support, a super loving family, a truly wonderful sister who understands/encourages her needs and many fans who respect her decisions. Good for you girls to be responsible enough to make the right decisions. 👍👍👍👍👍
Nothing wrong with going back home. I was surprised she even tried knowing how close she is with her parents and siblings. She always said she liked to being a"homebody". Always helping and being just being there. I'm happy for you Cynthia. You need to be happy.
Can we please see Cody and Jonathan in one of your videos...maybe playing a game with the 4 of you.And Cynthia, it's totally logical, you still young and need your parents guidance through your teen years. You helped give Lacey the courage to move out and now she is giving you the courage to do what's best for you . Sister ❤
I know in one of their last videos Cody didn’t want to be on camera. Not sure if he wants to be on camera?
Cody was in one of there videos
Im 21, finishing college online, and home with my parents and siblings, and I can't imagine how hard it will be to move away, even if I'm not that far. You were so brave Cynthia, and it's so good that you understood yourself enough to realize maybe it wasn't time yet!
Teenage years from 16 up to the 20s is hard emotionally on everyone regardless if they admitted or not. So move back home and take your time growing up. You have a lifetime to be on your own. So enjoyed being home with your parents as long as you can and want.
That is so nice she is going home to help mom I could tell she was home sick. But she will be bk soon
Last vlog, I could tell she was bit off. She looked super sad and off.
@@LolaWeatherly same
Aww y’all got me with the tears at the end 🥺 I’m glad Cynthia was able to make that decision for herself though! I know it all seems exciting and fun to move out on your own and not have to listen to your parents and be able to make your own decisions and stuff; but it’s actually really stressful being an adult and having to worry about bills and paying them on time etc. I’m sure the pressure of making content for TH-cam to pay those bills also sucks some of the fun out of it too... sometimes you don’t realize how you’ll feel about something until you are in that situation. But I wish you both the best and just remember to take a breather and take care of yourselves and your mental health first! Hugs 💕
Aww, you guys, your family in general, always get me crying. I’m glad that Lacey has taken the big sister role, as she always does, and just gave Cynthia the support she needed. We love you Cynthia and can’t wait to see you back on the Crazy Middles! It’s sounds so crazy typing this because me and Cynthia are the same age😭🤍
I’m going to start crying at the end of the video and I love you both so much. You and Cynthia mean the world to me.
When I first moved out I got really homesick too. I only lasted a few weeks before I went back home. Stayed at home for a year and then moved out again. I was far more ready the second time and now I can’t imagine living at home, even though I visit all the time. When she’s ready she’ll be right, it’s a huge step.
Im 21y/o and just recently moved out and even i am struggeling! Being a adult is hard but shes a beautiful strong young girl and will be doing great things in life!
I love how sweet Lacey is being with Cynthia's decision.
Do what is good for you both. It was awesome of you to support Lacey by moving out with her, Cynthia. It is so good of you to support Cynthia moving back home, Lacey. Stay safe!
I knew it was gonna be hard for Cynthia. It’s hard for a lot of people. It’s scary and can be stressful. It’s very mature of her to realize that she’s not ready just yet. Plus y’all have such supportive parents and family to be able to rely on them.
I am so glad Cynthia done this because she done it for the better and she knew she wasn’t ready to move out. 💕
There’s no age to leave your house, what matters most is your well being, your mental health is crucial. Yes it’ll be sad but do what makes you most happy. Love you guys 😊
Very mature way of handling it all! So proud of you both!
Lacey just move back too I'm telling you living on your own isn't worth it LOL. In all seriousness the strength of both of you is amazing, for her to be able to recognize she's not ready, and for lacey to be so accepting. You two are amazing ❤️
I was bored and watching old crazy middles vlogs and Izzy is in on of them from 5 years ago! It's the Obsessed With Gummy Worms Vlog. She's still just as pretty as she was then, no glow up needed!
I just want to give Cynthia a giant hug ! As the mom to 18 and 17year old daughters you are at a hard age and I can understand the conflicting feelings . Hang in there . Sending love from Oregon
I really hope cynthia you feel better going back. I also hope your ok lacey and your going to be ok having your own place. I lived alone for a while.. x
I'm happy to know that Cynthia is moving back with the Crazy middles, can't wait to see Trey's reaction but I also feel sad because I know how much Cynthia loves to stay in the Valley to be with Jonathan, Lacy and everyone out there. Just like what you have said it's not like forever, she can go back anytime for sure. Atleast now both of you already have an idea on how it feels to be really independent and being apart from your parents. We're surely learning from every decision we make 😊
I swear your friend looks so much like Hannah. And I can't wait to see Cynthia in the family vlogs soon💖
Sooo totally understand about keeping the place clean. The struggle is real! Just wait until you have kids and you're trying to look after them and they're also making a mess. I don't know how anyone does it. I'm 51 and I am still terrible at it.
Cynthia I'm glad you were brave enough to do what is best. It's so easy to worry about what everyone else will say, but you are the one who has to live with the consequences of your decisions. In New Zealand it's very common for kids to move out for a while and then come home again. Especially if they move out so young. Moving so far from your parents was really the hard way to do it! I really think it might have had a different outcome if you had just been down the road from them. It's not all bad though. Now you will appreciate everything your Mom does so much more! Sometimes you have to do without something (or someone) for a bit, to make you realise how much they matter.
Lacey I love your hair! Enjoy it while you can. It'll grow out soon enough, unless it fades away first. You made me smile every time you said something about being an adult. Give it 20 years and you'll laugh at yourself for thinking that. I know I sure did (laugh at myself I mean). You are reasonably sensible and responsible, but so much of your thinking is like a teenager. Don't change it though, you'll be an adult for long enough. Enjoy your youth. Love you so much. Hope all goes well after Cynthia leaves. That's gonna feel odd for you.
I have one question to finish with, do you have a PO Box in the valley, or do you just use the St John's one?
So glad Cynthia had the courage to say and admit that it was too early for her to leave her parents' house. I honestly think that if she would have kept quiet, she would have gotten mentally sick holdimg it all in. It is not a bad thing to admit that you still need your parents. They love you and will support you 100%!! And I know you've been wanting to move back, but you will be able to move back to the Valley together with your family and when you're finally ready to fly the nest, they will be a quick car drive away!! I wish both of you the best!! 💖💖
it's very nice that Cynthia acknowledges her lack of home
i will miss you but it won't be forever, see you on Crazy middles 💞
Its okay! A part of growing up is making difficult, different decisions. You ladies do it with so much class! Where ever this channel is heading, it is going to be great! Both of you are wonderful people with such bright and caring personalities. Its okay to have different desires, wishes and goals! Plus, Cynthia needs to enjoy her senior year without having to worry about bills and adulting. Cynthia, maybe u could do some makeup tutorials from time to time. You are really good at makeup!
It's great to have ur parents support I'm sure they like to have u back home and if they could they would never want u to leave but is part of life and when Cynthia is ready it would happen blessings
i did the same thing. at 17 i moved out of my parents with sibling and a few months later i was back with my parents. im now 20 and have been living on my own for a few months now! its all at your own pace
I discovered your Mom's channel and your Auntie's channel. What amazes me how well adjusted all of children and young adults are. I believe because your parents have so much love for their children. Lacy, you are a happy person. You have more personality and energy than anyone I know. Your energy is full of love and positivity. I will watch your channel along with your parents and Aunts. All of you inspire me and I am in awe of each and everyone of you.
I moved out when I was 17.... I understand completely that it can feel like a lot or responsibility all at once. Thankfully you have a loving family that will welcome you back any time! 💜
I felt so bad seeing Cynthia cry at the end..we will miss u in this channel but we will see in crazy middle's channel...BTW love you both 😘 ❤
It's a great sign of maturity when you can make the decision for yourself to keep yourself comfortable. You have time to change your mind and try things out.
Cynthia, I’m so proud of you for making the decision to return to St. Johns. It takes courage to decide on what is best for you right now and to follow through with it. You have a loving supportive family to return
to....many years in the future you won’t look back and regret it. 💜💜💜
I’m happy that Cynthia has been able to make the decision to move back and to do what will make her happy. I’m 20, and moved to uni (only 40 minutes drive) and I still get really home sick, so godknows how you feel being hours away! Everyone is different and it comes a lot easier to some people. Sometimes it’s just too early and the right time will come! Keep your head up 😁❤️
Its okay Cynthia to be home sick. I'm glad that you're doing what's right by going home and doing what's good for your mind set.
When the pandemic is over you have to let Hannah do Isabelles makeup. They are twins.
That would make a great vlog!
It would be a spitting image of Hannah, if Hannah does Isabel’s makeup. It would be really cool tho.
You won't have to wait for the pandemic to be over for a video like that, they do things they're not supposed to during the pandemic all the time like having friends over and not having their friends wear masks in their apartment
@@hallmarkaddict8455 call the police if you dont like it
@@judithgrehan3493 so you don't think its a problem that they could possibly be spreading the virus by having friends over that could have the virus and not know it since you can be asymptomatic? You don't think its fucked up that over 450,000 people have died from this virus and you don't think we should all be doing our part by not seeing friends and social distancing and wearing masks? Its BULLSHIT that doctors and nurses are putting their lives on the line EVERYDAY to keep people alive and healthy and people like them can't even do their part & not see their friends for awhile. Thats someone who's a piece of shit that seeing their friends is more important than someone's health. If you actually cared about other human beings you wouldn't be doing things like hanging out with friends to even chance getting someone sick and spreading the virus. If people keep doing that this virus will NEVER end. Good God you seriously are so ignorant its mind blowing🤦♀️🤦♀️
Moving out at 17/18 is totally one of those things that works great for some people but not quite for others. I moved on my 18th birthday to go to university and initially it was rough (living with 5 new people, who also grew to hate each other) but I then had much better experiences living with some friends for the last couple years. Totally understand the feeling of being homesick and hours away from family, but doing that during covid times is understandably a lot more difficult with not being able to see family in the same way. For me, even having lived away from family during term time for 3 years, it became so much harder with not being able to visit home. I'm sure that in time, particularly if its once covid's gone and when the family are back in the valley and nearby, then moving out will be a lot easier once you feel you're ready! Also I imagine that you will miss certain things from your taste of freedom once you're back home, but you'll also appreciate more of how a home is managed from your bit of experience, so sure you'll be more than ready when the next time comes around. Best wishes, stay safe, and I'm hoping Lacey has a brother/friend/housemate who'll keep her company!
Bless you both. Good for you Cynthia to realize what you need at this point in your life. I give you credit for trying and look forward to where both your lives go.
Knowing where you need to be right now shows a real level of maturity. Hugs and much love Cynthia.
So you had a great adventure together. That's what being sisters is all about. Supporting each other and having fun together. You did that in St Johns, you did that now in the Valley with your move and you will do that in future. You guys give each other wings to grow in a direction each of you have to go. Enjoy the ride ladies and never regret any decisions. You learn from it all and change is as good as a holiday so if you need to change a decision, SO BE IT!! It is all part of what makes live interesting. Much love from sunny South Africa ❤️
I'm so sorry that Cynthia is moving out, but it takes a lot of courage and strength to realize that maybe it wasn't perfect timing. It shows how grown up you are. Things will look up soon and y'all are going to do great things. Focus on being a teen while you still can Cynthia, it's okay. Being a grown up sucks. I'm 24 and I would love to be your age again! Love y'all
So wise to follow your heart, Cynthia and Lacey. The return to the family haven is always wise. "Missing" one sister will be less hard for the youngest siblings.
Cynthia there is no shame on moving back home. You were honest with your feelings and acted upon them. Life is super short and do things that make you happy. I’m sure all of your siblings and parents are super happy to have you back with them.
Aww she is still a baby. From a mum’s point of view - 17 is too young, my oldest daughter is 17 next week and in her last year of school, I can’t imagine her living elsewhere. Go back home, have fun, do the goofy stuff before you turn 18 x
It was a good intro to being on your own and now everybody knows what to expect! There’s no shame in dipping your toes in the deep end and not diving in! Next time Cynthia will be even more prepared and ready! Until then, I’m sure the folks are super excited to get at least one of you back home! I would be!
I am so impressed with the maturity you both have shown. These are not easy decisions. Kudos to Cynthia for recognizing what she needs and taking the steps to make it happen. I agree with Dana Salberg below who said Cynthia moving too gave Lacey the extra boost she needed to make the move. It was a great decision. There's nothing wrong with having done that and now Cynthia returning home. I'm happy sad along with you and look forward to continue seeing videos of both of your journeys.
So sweet of Lacey to be so supportive and understanding of Cynthia.. g'luck y'all on wtvr road you take with lots of fun n laughter
We love a brother who takes care of his sisters even though he may have felt a little embarrassed buying tampons, but still shout-out to you Cody!! 🤣💕💕
Good I am happy Cynthia is moving back home, I could tell she was out of her comfort zone.
Moving out is one crazy experience. I just moved out from my house a couple months ago and I struggled really bad with the fact that I wasn’t home anymore. Everyone thinks it’s going to be super easy but it’s one of the hardest things you are going to do in your life.
What a good learning experience for Cynthia, dont be sad it didn't work out this time. Going home and re-evaluating things and being with family is just the part of your chapter in life.
Much love to you both ♥️
I am so glad Cynthia is making the right decision for her. You both got this do what is best for you all. I can not wait to see what is to come for this channel. I even enjoy watching your all's videos.
There is no shame in having to move back home! I moved out when I was 18 and it was the worst decision I could have made at that time. Moved out a few years later (21) with my sister (20) and it was a lot better! Sometimes you still need your fam. Sending love
Cynthia needs her own channel! She would kill it!
Cynthia i think you will be happy you have made this choice and its not a permanent deal
It’s so nice that you guys support each other! There is no shame in moving back home, you’re handling the situation great. Hoping the best for you both🤗
Cynthia. Don’t feel bad. Everything happens for a reason. This experience has made you stronger and discovery more about yourself. You are both amazing, beautiful, and fabulous! Love you both!
Thats very mature to realise if your not quite ready for moving out. I miss you both being on crazy middles videos so it will be nice to see Cynthia back...you will both do amazing regardless of living together or not...make good choices your both beautiful and awesome x
I love how your family support one another. I know changes are hard but you guys really are each family members cheerleader and genuinely want the best for your family. You can see it!!!!
If you guys ever come to California I’d love to meet you one day 😭 and you guys are such great sisters, I love it!
welcome isabelle you two will be fine cant wait to see what crazy thing you all will do
awe!! Cynthia....your tears struck a cord in my heart. I don't even know what to feel: happy or sad for you. Sending you hugs!
I just came from Colleen Ballinger vid and I was ALREADY crying.... WHYYYYYYYY love yall. Good job for realizing it wasn't right for you 👏 ❤❤❤
Omgggg same though. I cried already with her video and then came on here cried more in this video. Like both are soo frickin sad.
She’s gotta do what she’s gotta do to make her happy and if that makes her happy than she’s gotta do what she’s gotta do to stay happy ❤️
LACEY I LOVE YOUR HAIR! it looks so good!
its ok not to be ready i wasent even ready at 19 but i had to for other reason but dont ever feel its a bad thing moving back it happens and it going to be alright in your own time when your ready love you guys
Things will get better, its not easy but glad you are doing what is best for you Cynthia, and the love and support you give her Lacey is being the best big sister❤️ You girls got this!!
Can I just say I think moving back home is a really mature decision. 17 is so young, even though you may not think it. Knowing and accepting you need a little more time. Good on you girls. I wondered why I hadn't seen a notification for a video, I had been unsubscribed somehow, wasn't my doing.
being family oriented has its pros in terms of having a family to rely on and knowing you have them. Cons is sometimes it’s hard to move on or just get out of your comfort zone without your family members. So happy to hear that Cynthia has the choice to move in back with your parents 🤍
Awww support you guys no matter what. Love you guys ❤️
I’m so proud of Cynthia. The amount of braveness it takes to make that decision and admit to it is unimaginable. I wish I would’ve admitted I wasn’t ready a lot sooner than I did. It’s okay to need to still be around your parents and family. I can’t imagine being 17 and doing that. I’m so proud of you for making the best decisions for you! ❤️
It's totally okay to change your mind. As you said, things change
Good morning Cynthia and laceyy
Love from Philippines 🇵🇭
Poor Lacy.. 😩 Excited for your videos to come though!!
Cynthia, don’t be sad, I moved back home at 27, and I’m still here three years later. You don’t know until you do it. Please pack Lacey in your suitcase. The CM videos aren’t the same without both of you. Love you both! I bet your parents are super excited to have you back home. 💗
With the times we are in don’t see it as a bad thing to move back
This was an awesome experience for you Cynthia , there is no shame in being homesick. Lacy is in a different place and that’s mostly because she is older but don’t forget lacy has moved out before and moved back with your parents, this time seems most right for Lacy right now. You girls are going to be great no matter where you are❤️
Nothing to be ashamed about. You guys are making choices that are best for you all. It's hard to do sometimes. Cynthia, you got a glimpse of what to expect when you are ready to move out and will be in an excellent position to be super successful. Lacey, and you will continue your learning to be super successful as a young woman living away from home. What a wonderful learning experience for both of you in a safe place. Way to go! Best wishes for continued success.