The last thing your self-esteem needs is a botched DIY bleach job...or a boyfriend telling you your hair looks dull. HE should have treated you with a visit to a stylist. I did some crazy unflattering things to my hair back in the days. My husband just politely said..."you're always pretty to me, and hair grows back." (because I was sad about having to cut it).
"Sounds hollow!" 😆 I love his dry sense of humor. But what I love even more is his optimistic soft side. FAIL= First attempt in learning. Never heard that before, but will always remember it.
@@Felicity2121 Hey there! I'm still around. I still make a community post from time to time. If you remember I was working with those 4 families who lost a loved one to violent crimes. I got so emotionally invested that I had to take a break. I made a commitment to them & plan on returning in the near future after our house sells & everything settles down from the move. As for Amber... trust me, there's more to that story. When I do return, it definitely will not be to engage in drama or with anyone who tries to capitalize on befriending their abusers.
I met my husband in 1986 when I was 15 and he was 17. Not once have we ever criticised each others looks. That's just not something that crosses your mind when you love someone. We had a pact that if we were lucky enough to grow old together, I'd be happy to go grey and he'd be happy to go bald. We got there !! ❤
She made at least three references to her boyfriend criticizing her. That being said, did anyone else notice the bleach still on her forehead and hairline at the end?
Not always..check out all salons that have good beautions....ask people who have great hair and color....Where's the salon they go to and hairdresser...
She needs a new boyfriend, not a hair dye. That's so bold to point out someone's flaws. It makes them lose confidence and eventually become neurotic about their flaws. Love yourself. Accentuate what God gave you and don't stress on being someone else.❤
My thoughts exactly and he didn't just point it out once she said a couple of times which means he's pointing her so called flaws out constantly..no wonder she is feeling so sad...yes Get rid of him..bad news he is..
Her hair looks like 99% of natural blonde women. If your boyfriend wants you to look like his platinum blonde instagram crushes. Get him to pay for the upkeep. He will change his mind
I’ve never known of a boyfriend to pick apart their girlfriend’s hair. Seems a bit mean. Instead of spending time trying to do your hair spend the time finding a new boyfriend.
right? nothing wrong with some helpful comments here and there but to, without prompt, mention that your girlfriend’s hair looks dull etc does feel mean.
He was honest and you all treat honesty as am insult 😂 my bf is also straight to the point and thanks to him because he encouraged me to grow long and healthy hair. I agree that long and well maintained hair is more feminine especially that I'm young and for slavs long hair is natural. It's okay to have short hair when you're old because it's practical
@@wero1799it's a question of the viewer whether you see long hair as feminine or short hair. Nobody should tells us women what is feminine and what isn't 😉 I've had a very feminine short haircut since I was 30. And I like it better than my long, thick hair, which no hairstyle has ever held. I also get more positive feedback from men than negative. 🤷🏼♀️ Short hairstyles can be very sexy 😊
Hair Buddha, your reaction is everything. I enjoy watching the amateur stylists, but watching you is more fun. It's hilarious when you talk about your "hairdresser soul" 😂😂😂.
Girl I’m 63 and I’m a cute grandma! Own it ! Dump that boy, enjoy your hair and life! Thank you Hair Buddha for another informative video, happy weekend ❤
"Im dying my hair for my mental health", i know therapists are expensive but therapy will actually help unlike new hair. Yes, new hair and makeup can help your MOOD, but not your mental HEALTH.
changes to one’s appearance can absolutely bolster one’s mental well-being and not just mood. however, that should only be in conjunction with other proven ways to improve mental health such as therapy, medication if needed, exercising, eating well, prioritising leading a balanced life and so on.
I think she has a remarkable resemblance to Scarlett Johansson. Also to me it’s very noticeably now how people seem to be more and more afraid of aging. I wish society didn’t look that way. Love to all from Oslo, Norway!
Reminder that you're not supposed to look like a teenager your entire life and any man that expects you to is a huge red flag. Women's bodies change so much in their early to mid 20's.
A lot of people can't afford to go to the hairdresser's and they don't have any idea how to do their own hair. It will often turn out to be a mess but there are a lot of tutorials online. It's just such a shame when they ruin their hair.
This girl needs to ask herself why she puts up with a boyfriend who feels way too comfortable criticizing her hair and the way she speaks. If she has low self esteem she needs to lose the boyfriend because his issues aren't helping.
Yes. Blonde is hard to maintain!! That's literally what purple shampoo is for 😂 You also have to periodically retone, and of course, keep up your roots.
Don't ever do something, just cos "your man" says something. Never! If he would have said: "Hey, you haven't been to the hairdresser for a while. You wanna get a new look? What would make you smile again? I miss your shine." That would be another thing. I still wouldn't be happy about it...but it's a start. Her natural colour is so beautiful. She would really rock that hair, if she would get a nicer cut. I find the current cut doesn't fit her much. At least she is aware of mental health. But she seems to live a couple-idea that's ancient. Does not mix well
I have highlights and a colour over the rest of my hair at the hairdressers, have coffee , read magazines and then a cut. Always looks amazing all for 50 pounds. I've told my niece about your channel. She is always dyeing her hair bright colours. ❤
@@melissak.8385 I think so, I liked her hair to begin with. And even if he didn't like it, a boyfriend who's pointing out your flaws when you already have low self confidence is one you can do without.
Use coconut oil little bit at a time once a week after hair drys after shampooing..massage in scalp. Hair grows from roots. Than brush through hair. Overtime it will look great. I do this. People complement on my pretty hair. You are so lucky to have healthy hair
She did better than my last attempt. It's just 75% which means she has to wait a bit and then fix the 25% she missed. We all knew going in that she didn't have enough product. I honestly thought the dark might be more visible and it's not. AND She's too pretty to put up with that boyfriend.
I will never understand why parting hair is so darn hard for some people. It’s one of the simplest tasks on the face of the earth. Especially for people with straight hair.
I feel like a nice clarifying shampoo followed by purple conditioner, gloss, and a nice blowout would have made her hair look fresher and made her feel better without messing it up! 🤷🏼♀️
Once a highschool teacher said : > Her husband was at critical condition in the hospital and she just got a haircut. That really stuck with me and I ask my self what do I want to achieve before I go for a major change. Watching these videos is a reminder of the v
She’s such a naturally pretty girl… Even though I bleach my own mouse blonde hair, i Think she looks really good even with the dark roots. The bf is a jerk.
When you look at the cost, both money and psychological, it's better not to be impulsive or try to cut costs by doing this kind of thing on your own. Please go to a qualified colorist/stylist.
Every person has different reason. I'm 25 too I'm fed up with my life too because of health issues that are going to get only worse within next few years. I'm not suicidal tho because I have a loving family. I hope to outlive them to help them, but I really wish that my pain will end sooner natural.
I have an important question. I am 46 and always had very thick curly hair. I kept it long most of the time. However, due to health issues and keeping it in a bun or pony to often due to the heat. I now am left with very thin hair that is constantly falling out. I have tried to keep it short to help, but I need some advice to get my hair a bit healthier. I know there are products that claim to help but without breaking the bank. What is my best options? How often should I wash it, and what should I use? Please help from Naples, FL.
I came across using a hair bonnet to help with curly hair. They're like the sleeping caps women used to use, just a different material. I've got straight hair, though it seems many are pleased with the results of using a hair bonnet.
I’ve gone through a series of health struggles myself. My hair often gets much thinner when I’m sick, or it will all fallout when I recover, only to grow back a different texture. The best thing you can do for your hair is to be healthy yourself! In the meantime- I second the bonnet suggestion. 😊 feel better soon!
Thank you for the tip. I will definitely try that. As for taking care of myself, I am trying it is difficult when you don't have a definitive diagnosis. But that is a problem for another comment!
Her bf pointing out her hairs dull is 💩 Him saying her extensions don’t match is fair because there’s nothing worse and I’d prefer ppl to be honest. Don’t know why she doesn’t go professional for real light blonde with a shadow root if she can’t be assed with the up keep.
I know that you women like to be lied to but he's right. The hair is dull but in a meaning that it's not well maintained, it looks like hay already. It needs treatment not bleaching. Women take things too personally and overreact. And I say that as a woman😂 My bf is straight to the point also and thanks to him because it motivated me to grow long and healthy hair. I've never in my life had so beautiful hair and no split ends although I wasn't at a salon since 12 years 😊
@@wero1799 yeh I’ll agree as a women we can take things to heart 😂😂 It does need treatment! That’s why I get my hair done regular by a trained hairdresser, takes work and upkeep if you want certain colours etc
a lot of times guys will just say something depending on their personality as well to bring somebody down because they are feeling bad themselves and or if they're a narcissist or something. And or he just said it because he doesn't like it but he could've said it in a different way but it's your hair and do what makes you happy not for anybody else if they don't like it too bad what is he going to love you less because you don't do your hair then he ain't the man for you
Her hair looked good at the beginning, her boyfriend/husband/partner should mind his own business; maybe a refresh on the lengths if she wanted some change; what a way to undermine your girlfriend's self esteem
This guy seems to point out what he thinks are negative problems of yours. Is he perfect or does he think he is. Get a new guy that likes you the way you are
Thanks!
Thank you so much
I’m so glad I’m not 25 any more. Hopefully she will soon learn that her self esteem shouldn’t be connected to her boyfriend.
I knew that even at 25, but I also had a supportive husband
The last thing your self-esteem needs is a botched DIY bleach job...or a boyfriend telling you your hair looks dull. HE should have treated you with a visit to a stylist. I did some crazy unflattering things to my hair back in the days. My husband just politely said..."you're always pretty to me, and hair grows back." (because I was sad about having to cut it).
"WHEN" you dump that jerk and start to live your own life the way you want...!!
With your hair the way you want it too! Her bf sounds like a dick 😂
I think she is married to him!
"Sounds hollow!" 😆 I love his dry sense of humor. But what I love even more is his optimistic soft side. FAIL= First attempt in learning. Never heard that before, but will always remember it.
Hey..how are you! Not seen you in ages. I do wish you would come back. I miss you and Amber together 😢
Hope you are doing okay. 🤍
@@Felicity2121
Hey there! I'm still around. I still make a community post from time to time. If you remember I was working with those 4 families who lost a loved one to violent crimes. I got so emotionally invested that I had to take a break. I made a commitment to them & plan on returning in the near future after our house sells & everything settles down from the move. As for Amber... trust me, there's more to that story. When I do return, it definitely will not be to engage in drama or with anyone who tries to capitalize on befriending their abusers.
I met my husband in 1986 when I was 15 and he was 17. Not once have we ever criticised each others looks. That's just not something that crosses your mind when you love someone.
We had a pact that if we were lucky enough to grow old together, I'd be happy to go grey and he'd be happy to go bald.
We got there !! ❤
She made at least three references to her boyfriend criticizing her. That being said, did anyone else notice the bleach still on her forehead and hairline at the end?
Beauticians that are not only trained but experts at coloring are worth their weight in gold !
Agreed! In a world full of ordinary hairdressers, expert colorists are the rare gems we all need to treasure!
Not always..check out all salons that have good beautions....ask people who have great hair and color....Where's the salon they go to and hairdresser...
@@francesfehrman741 that’s exactly what I’m saying.
I just wanna give her chicken soup and a great big hug ❤
She needs a new boyfriend, not a hair dye. That's so bold to point out someone's flaws. It makes them lose confidence and eventually become neurotic about their flaws. Love yourself. Accentuate what God gave you and don't stress on being someone else.❤
The fact she missed a spot will give him even more reason to be critical.
My thoughts exactly and he didn't just point it out once she said a couple of times which means he's pointing her so called flaws out constantly..no wonder she is feeling so sad...yes Get rid of him..bad news he is..
This!!!
If it hurts his eyes and ego so much, he can pay for the salon every 6 weeks.
From when being straight to the point is bad? I know that women prefer to be lied to even tho they look like a homeless 😢
Her hair looks like 99% of natural blonde women. If your boyfriend wants you to look like his platinum blonde instagram crushes. Get him to pay for the upkeep. He will change his mind
I’ve never known of a boyfriend to pick apart their girlfriend’s hair. Seems a bit mean. Instead of spending time trying to do your hair spend the time finding a new boyfriend.
right? nothing wrong with some helpful comments here and there but to, without prompt, mention that your girlfriend’s hair looks dull etc does feel mean.
I think she is just throwing that in there I followed her forever and he is one of the nicest guys.
Nothing boosts confidence so much as self love and self acceptance 😊🤗
so true
That’s exactly what I was thinking. She is very self critical
Uh, her boyfriends comments are such a red flag.
He was honest and you all treat honesty as am insult 😂 my bf is also straight to the point and thanks to him because he encouraged me to grow long and healthy hair. I agree that long and well maintained hair is more feminine especially that I'm young and for slavs long hair is natural. It's okay to have short hair when you're old because it's practical
@@wero1799it's a question of the viewer whether you see long hair as feminine or short hair. Nobody should tells us women what is feminine and what isn't 😉 I've had a very feminine short haircut since I was 30. And I like it better than my long, thick hair, which no hairstyle has ever held. I also get more positive feedback from men than negative. 🤷🏼♀️ Short hairstyles can be very sexy 😊
Hair Buddha, your reaction is everything. I enjoy watching the amateur stylists, but watching you is more fun. It's hilarious when you talk about your "hairdresser soul" 😂😂😂.
Haha, thank you! My "hairdresser soul" is working overtime, but it’s all worth it for the laughs (and fabulous hair, of course)!
I know she was joking about buzzing her hair off but i think she would rock a messy pixie cut.
Shame she sounds so sick. And she definitely needs a new bf. Have a fabulous weekend Hair Buddha.
Wishing a great weekend back
@@hair-buddha thank you for the kind reply Hair Buddha. Bless you.
"failure is the first attempt at learning, and if it's not your first fail...well, who cares" is the most relatable quote ever
Girl I’m 63 and I’m a cute grandma! Own it ! Dump that boy, enjoy your hair and life! Thank you Hair Buddha for another informative video, happy weekend ❤
"Im dying my hair for my mental health", i know therapists are expensive but therapy will actually help unlike new hair. Yes, new hair and makeup can help your MOOD, but not your mental HEALTH.
changes to one’s appearance can absolutely bolster one’s mental well-being and not just mood. however, that should only be in conjunction with other proven ways to improve mental health such as therapy, medication if needed, exercising, eating well, prioritising leading a balanced life and so on.
I think she has a remarkable resemblance to Scarlett Johansson.
Also to me it’s very noticeably now how people seem to be more and more afraid of aging. I wish society didn’t look that way.
Love to all from Oslo, Norway!
No she doesn't lmao. Don't lie like that.
That's what I was thinking too 🤔
she’s beautiful. kinda looks like emma chamberlain to me.
Ja trist at folk ser på det sånn 😢
Real men aren't critical of their womans hair. Just my opinion. You are beautiful
Sounds to me like she needs a new bf and not new hair.
Thought the same.
Beat me to it. Ditch the man who keeps saying shit about your hair
That was my thinking...
Agreed!
BF needs to mind his own 👍🏻
“Take fine sections!” 😊
"Never change your hair because of a breakup." My Mom ❤
Wise woman. 🌹
sections and enough products when doing hair.
❤ that young lady is a 💎
WHEN she dumps her hyper critical boyfriend... somebody hug that poor girl!
Reminder that you're not supposed to look like a teenager your entire life and any man that expects you to is a huge red flag. Women's bodies change so much in their early to mid 20's.
For dull hair do instead a deep conditioning and oiling treatment after a clarifying shampoo. > shiny hair
This was sad to watch. Her boyfriend is very mean! 😞
Hair Buddha, your expressions are soooo funny! Love watching you!❤
Hair Buddha recreating how she put on toner....priceless. it had be laughing out loud. The dogs think I am crazy.
Blonde hair does go yellow and dull out but if you look after the colour and have a good purple shampoo it won’t be as bad
Обожнюю ваші відео) перестала сама собі фарбувати волосся)
A lot of people can't afford to go to the hairdresser's and they don't have any idea how to do their own hair. It will often turn out to be a mess but there are a lot of tutorials online. It's just such a shame when they ruin their hair.
This girl needs to ask herself why she puts up with a boyfriend who feels way too comfortable criticizing her hair and the way she speaks. If she has low self esteem she needs to lose the boyfriend because his issues aren't helping.
My heart aches for this poor soul ☹️ wish I lived near her and I'd fix it
She's so pretty though. She should just go to bed, get healthy again and redo that spot 😊 (after ordering new products)
Yes. Blonde is hard to maintain!! That's literally what purple shampoo is for 😂 You also have to periodically retone, and of course, keep up your roots.
She needs to dump the bf. She'll feel a lot better
Don't ever do something, just cos "your man" says something. Never!
If he would have said: "Hey, you haven't been to the hairdresser for a while. You wanna get a new look? What would make you smile again? I miss your shine." That would be another thing. I still wouldn't be happy about it...but it's a start.
Her natural colour is so beautiful. She would really rock that hair, if she would get a nicer cut. I find the current cut doesn't fit her much.
At least she is aware of mental health. But she seems to live a couple-idea that's ancient. Does not mix well
So sorry sweet girl. You are worthy and beautiful. It'll all get figured out.
I have highlights and a colour over the rest of my hair at the hairdressers, have coffee , read magazines and then a cut. Always looks amazing all for 50 pounds. I've told my niece about your channel. She is always dyeing her hair bright colours. ❤
Fail is the first attempt at learning..words to learn by
You are right about focus. The last time I cut my hair I didnt feel like cutting and I did mess it up on 1 side
" Everybody has a hobby,yours is bleaching " 😂😂😂 lol I'm crying, you are awesome❤
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Hair buddha touch his eye like bad bleaching was got in to it😂
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Oh, Hair Buddha! You do have hair. You have your impressive, vibrant beard.
“When you have a man pointing out how dull your hair is..” What? Get another man! A real one! 🙈
Is he wrong?
@@melissak.8385 I think so, I liked her hair to begin with. And even if he didn't like it, a boyfriend who's pointing out your flaws when you already have low self confidence is one you can do without.
He's not wrong though.
Use coconut oil little bit at a time once a week after hair drys after shampooing..massage in scalp. Hair grows from roots. Than brush through hair. Overtime it will look great. I do this. People complement on my pretty hair. You are so lucky to have healthy hair
Is it just me or are you getting funnier, Hair Buddha?😂 Great video!
What do you think of the end result???
Awful! Lol! It’s always worth it to save your money up and get it professionally colored ❤
She did better than my last attempt. It's just 75% which means she has to wait a bit and then fix the 25% she missed. We all knew going in that she didn't have enough product. I honestly thought the dark might be more visible and it's not. AND She's too pretty to put up with that boyfriend.
I love her. She reminds me of me. 😂
Take sections, TAKE SECTIONS!!
Haur Buddha's facial expression is unbeatable 😅
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Now she is happy 😂
I will never understand why parting hair is so darn hard for some people. It’s one of the simplest tasks on the face of the earth. Especially for people with straight hair.
I struggle parting mine 😂
right? 😂 sectioning is the easy part. everything else is difficult 😂
Blonde me !!
I feel like a nice clarifying shampoo followed by purple conditioner, gloss, and a nice blowout would have made her hair look fresher and made her feel better without messing it up! 🤷🏼♀️
Had a boyfriend once tell me he wanted me to go blond. I said "See ya!"
Have a wonderful weekend everyone 💖😊
For you too
I laughed so hard "for the people in the back"
Once a highschool teacher said :
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Her husband was at critical condition in the hospital and she just got a haircut.
That really stuck with me and I ask my self what do I want to achieve before I go for a major change. Watching these videos is a reminder of the v
"Sounds hollow" 😂😂😂
Listen to HB and "Take fine sections"
What a defeatist mentality. 'I did a poor job bleaching my hair so now I just want to shave it all off.' Take it down several notches.
Blond seems the most difficult to do at home i would never attempt it..the tone can come out brassy and very damaged . . 😮
She’s such a naturally pretty girl… Even though I bleach my own mouse blonde hair, i Think she looks really good even with the dark roots. The bf is a jerk.
Hair Buddha you are right she should have never done her own hair I don't understand what she is trying to do and all this for a boyfriend dump him‼️
All I got from this video is she needs a new boyfriend 😂
I can’t imagine your self esteem will change with a bf dragging it down . Maybe “ when “ you dump him things will get better.
SECTIONS SECTIONS SECTIONS 😂😂😂😂😂
Can you even IMAGINE being her boyfriend?😂😂
When you look at the cost, both money and psychological, it's better not to be impulsive or try to cut costs by doing this kind of thing on your own. Please go to a qualified colorist/stylist.
I'd be a sarcastic wise ass with the boyfriend my hair bothers you okay we'll make a change but you pay for my salon visit and process 😂🤣
Girl, if you feel so down for being 25, what are you going to do when you become 50 like me?! Jesus!
Every person has different reason. I'm 25 too I'm fed up with my life too because of health issues that are going to get only worse within next few years. I'm not suicidal tho because I have a loving family. I hope to outlive them to help them, but I really wish that my pain will end sooner natural.
I have an important question. I am 46 and always had very thick curly hair. I kept it long most of the time. However, due to health issues and keeping it in a bun or pony to often due to the heat. I now am left with very thin hair that is constantly falling out. I have tried to keep it short to help, but I need some advice to get my hair a bit healthier. I know there are products that claim to help but without breaking the bank. What is my best options? How often should I wash it, and what should I use? Please help from Naples, FL.
I came across using a hair bonnet to help with curly hair. They're like the sleeping caps women used to use, just a different material. I've got straight hair, though it seems many are pleased with the results of using a hair bonnet.
I’ve gone through a series of health struggles myself. My hair often gets much thinner when I’m sick, or it will all fallout when I recover, only to grow back a different texture. The best thing you can do for your hair is to be healthy yourself! In the meantime- I second the bonnet suggestion. 😊 feel better soon!
Thank you for the tip. I will definitely try that. As for taking care of myself, I am trying it is difficult when you don't have a definitive diagnosis. But that is a problem for another comment!
See a hairstylist who specializes in curly cuts. Leave your hair out of a ponytail and moisturize the hair (except the roots) with hair oil.
When you have your man pointing out how full your hair is, you dump him.
Frequent attempts at learning….for those who need a lot of chances!
On the bright side...it could've been worse!
Yikes that didn't end well
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I had my hair professionally for 3 years and I wish can do my blonde by my self again 😢😢😢😢😢 miss my money 😢😢😢😢
Friday🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
New Video. ❤❤❤❤❤
Have a nice Weekend @all
Hope she was able to fix this
Her bf sucks. She really doesn't need a bleach job.
Poor kid, she really didn't fail terribly. She just missed sections, (fine sections). Oops.
Her bf pointing out her hairs dull is 💩
Him saying her extensions don’t match is fair because there’s nothing worse and I’d prefer ppl to be honest.
Don’t know why she doesn’t go professional for real light blonde with a shadow root if she can’t be assed with the up keep.
I know that you women like to be lied to but he's right. The hair is dull but in a meaning that it's not well maintained, it looks like hay already. It needs treatment not bleaching.
Women take things too personally and overreact. And I say that as a woman😂 My bf is straight to the point also and thanks to him because it motivated me to grow long and healthy hair. I've never in my life had so beautiful hair and no split ends although I wasn't at a salon since 12 years 😊
@@wero1799 yeh I’ll agree as a women we can take things to heart 😂😂
It does need treatment!
That’s why I get my hair done regular by a trained hairdresser, takes work and upkeep if you want certain colours etc
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Sometimes it's easier and healthier to change the boyfriend before the hair.
Girl you absolutely need a new boyfriend. Anyone who talks bad to you isn't worth it
a lot of times guys will just say something depending on their personality as well to bring somebody down because they are feeling bad themselves and or if they're a narcissist or something. And or he just said it because he doesn't like it but he could've said it in a different way but it's your hair and do what makes you happy not for anybody else if they don't like it too bad what is he going to love you less because you don't do your hair then he ain't the man for you
Dhe needs a confident booster. Run to Jesus
At her age i hated my hair and my weight, so i dumped him. 1 twat lighter and i dont need to bleach my hair 😅
Red flag partner🚩
Well, without having to say anything more, her age says a lot
Confidence? You need to have all ready , when you think you can achieve it by yourself
New Boyfriend babe seriously and I just wanna hug You , its ok babe dont cry
Her hair looked good at the beginning, her boyfriend/husband/partner should mind his own business; maybe a refresh on the lengths if she wanted some change; what a way to undermine your girlfriend's self esteem
This guy seems to point out what he thinks are negative problems of yours. Is he perfect or does he think he is. Get a new guy that likes you the way you are
Yes you know you need to do something!
Get a new guy!!!!