It’s not just making the food. It’s what’s behind it. When I got my heart broken, several years ago (long before I got married), the woman I was working with wasn’t exactly a nurturer, but she could se that I was in pain. I was barely eating and she wanted to do something to help. So, she made me a sandwich. I wasn’t really hungry, but I ate it anyway because she was showing me that she cared. Thank you again, Robin , wherever you are.
That's very sweet. ❤ Alot of ppl use making food as a way to show they care; maybe they can't get the words out, maybe they don't even know what words to use. But food is a universal comfort. I hope your heart is doing better now ❤❤
When my dad was going through chemo, he wouldn’t eat. I would pretend I was hungry & eat something I knew he liked in front of him, eventually if only a few bites at the time he would eat. He always said everything tasted better if it was on my plate! That was a lot of years ago, feels like yesterday. I miss you Daddy.
God bless you and his soul. I’m sorry for your loss of your daddy. I’m glad you both got to spend time together and made some more memories to look on with love. You’re a good daughter and he was a good father. ❤
A few years ago my dad passed away. Causing my sister to stop eating due to sorrows and our neighbor would come over and make sure she ate while we were at work she refused to eat until he made her some stew he would talk to her everyday when he was over and finally my sister ate. Bless his soul he was such a good man. 5/9/22 Mr King
She was hungry for food too. The woman in the video wasn't used to feeding a child, so would make her fancy adult food which she wouldn't eat. He went with simple kid friendly food
@jadebolt4416 Exactly! I had stated the same thing. Hamburger vs Steak Tartare! Auntie was attempting to serve her rich, gourmet meals whereas her niece would have been content with a PBnJ, along with a cold glass of chocolate milk! 😂
@jacquelinekabugo-raderson1878 This was such a good movie. I Thought I would search for it to watch again on one of my plethora of streaming channels I pay for.... 😲 I could not find it anywhere for free.
When my dad died suddenly, I stopped eating. Didn’t eat for at least 4-5 days until my dad’s mom made me some lasagna. My dad used to make it for Christmas dinner every year, and I loved it so much. She didn’t force me to eat, she just placed some in front of me and told me “you don’t have to eat. But would you like to sit and talk?” And over the course of a couple hours, just talking about whatever, I started eating. Of course, I immediately bursted into tears after one bite because it was always my dad’s lasagna. But yeah. Don’t try to force people to eat when they went through something traumatic. Just comfort them and try to help them feel normal.
Some people are emotional eaters and others are very much the opposite. I am definitely the opposite of an emotional eater and never could relate to those movie scenes where Girl is sobbing over a tub of ice cream or box of chocolates. Used to wonder if there was something wrong with me since that scene was in so many movies...
@@Eleo_rblx i can relate, my grandma died the day of thanksgiving, it was heartbreaking at the thanksgiving blessing, she was strong, she went through the Great Depression and all other tragic events, it was hard to see her go after all that time 🕊️
@@michaelmcclusk3y1except she didn't eat it without permission....he gave her permission subliminally by talking about how good it tasted right next to her, and following up with handing her the bowl. it's basically a reverse psychology trick to get her to eat.
@@michaelmcclusk3y1 he did used a psychology trick. And firstly no one gonna hold their food to other people if knowingly that the person hasn't eaten anything yet and was hungry. And this case it was intentionally to make the person eat it and that is a non verbal permission.
@@crose1466 this isn’t about laws thou. And absolutely dang I can’t say how many times in my life I have done the wrong thing even though I have the right choice. Dang. Now I make good choices but most of my 20’s were bad choices. Now I’m 29. I feel like I make good choices but honestly I don’t sometimes. That’s life. We all do things we shouldn’t do
@@serenast.germain3469 sure, it's not just about laws, but laws are involved in the overall conversation about integrity and moral action, which is what you're essentially referring to.
The key to helping a traumatized child is to give them some control. Speak to them like any normal conversation, special attention makes the interaction a manipulation, and gives the impression of ulterior motives. The reason she ate is because no one was pressuring her to eat, the choice became hers to make. When people tell her to eat, the only control she can take is to refuse. He gave her control of the food, and she did what she wanted with it.
@@DeathnoteBB and there's me, who don't have both, even though both of my parent still alive as a creature, but not as my companion ever in my life. :)
The movie is called No reservation and basically the girls mam died in a car crash and she has to move in with her aunt (Kate ) and she hasn’t eaten since her mam died x Edit- don’t have a go at me if u think I am wrong because at the end of the day I know I am right and ur just irrelevant ❤️
Actually the tragedy in her family was a reason why she didn't eat but also later in the movie it was said to be one more reason. Her aunt (the female cook) who is a cook in a fancy restaurant made her eat fancy dishes she made (something like a whole fish with a salad). A child her age just didn't know how to eat this kind of food. At this moment her auntie's friend from work (the male cook) realised the problem and gave her a dish she knew. This way he helps the aunt and the niece get along and make a real family.❤
Also a well known fact: kids would want to eat what you are eating next to them, especially if you make clear that it's for you only. many parents use this to feed the kids healthy stuff.
@@katalinelo8011You are so spot on with this! My kids ate light oil with salt with pepper dressed fresh organic spinach and chicken salads all the time because I ate it. As they got bigger, I literally had to eat out of the serving bowl! They would only eat (sneak bites) out of my bowl and the Dino-nuggets on their plates would just be ignored. They were in grade school before they tasted (and were disgusted by canned veggies).
I totally stopped eating at aged 12 after my uncle died in a horrfic way, the dr told my mum ' don't pressure her, leave foods and snacks around at all times, she will eat when she is ready' and it was the absolute best advice. The pressure being gone helped me to slowly start again 🩷
Its quite a easy fix when it comes to psychology. Kids are animals I mean so are we but we operate different as adults. its fine to... suffer and suffer but children takes special care. I work with adults only mainly addicts and well people that are beyond the point of help. For me I rarely care anymore Its nice to see them smile but you just simply dont care anymore cause they are a waste of space and wont ever do anything in their life. At that point when they are that damaged im willing to let them go. sounds horrible yes but.. to put it like this someone I deal with has cost the system more than 10 million here in Sweden. while I cant get a time to check out if I might got cancer. Yeah little bit that they can just off themself at that point.
@sebastian114 This seems very cruel. Addicts are people too, and technically operating off the same biological system that you mentioned children do. It's very simple to understand with your psychology- they are seeking serotonin and/or dopamine in the fastest, most effective way they've experienced so far. That'll screw someone up, but they can and do recover with proper help.
@@sebastian114Das grundlegende Problem bei kranken Erwachsenen ist, daß der kindliche Teil agiert, weil der sich wünscht, daß jmd komplett die Verantwortung übernimmt und sie bedingungslos liebt. Nur bei Mutter oder Vater würden sie heilen, erwachsen und verantwortungsbewußt werden können. Denn andere Menschen sind ihnen egal, wie auch sie anderen Menschen egal sind. Das Geld des Staates ist in dem Fall die entgangene Mutterliebe. 🤷🏻♀️
This nearly made me cry. My brother died in nov 2021 and i havent eaten quite right since, no matter what i make. Ive tried to learn to make new things but i always end up throwing out my food. Life is what tastes good; not food. Love is what fills you.
I myself have done this...hurt, physical pain when eating I developed an aversion for food. Ended up in the hospital on a feeding tube. I'm trying now to eat properly everyday.
For me it’s sleep. My only child was murdered 8 years ago. His dad and I haven’t slept well since. 8 years of insomnia. Thinking about and longing for our boy. 💔😭
@@augusthere7154 Jesus, Son of our Living God have mercy, comfort you and your husband. Jesus knows all our pain, every bit of it. He is there always with us. May you find solace in Most Sacred heart of Jesus. Infant Jesus, heal all your pain and bless you with sound sleep from today in Jesus Holy Name we pray. May your guardian Angel, be at your side always watch over you and guard you while you rest. Jesus, Mary St Joseph bless you both. Our love and prayers 🙏🏼 ❤ be comforted ❤ Peace 🕊 be with you both 🙏🏼 🕊
You know what i love the most in this? The wordless communication between the woman and him. She mouths "thank you" and his full body nod is just pure respect and sincerity on both sides.
As a cook myself, it makes me Feel so wholesome seeing someone enjoying the food I cook for them. It’s like the greatest feeling any cook or chef can have.
i took up cooking as a way of self therapy for my depression... now i sometimes cook for a friend or two and the best feeling one can get is when they are asking for seconds...always makes my day ;o)
Especially when you get that comment that it reminds them of their mother or grandmother's cooking. Also when when it's something they don't like to eat and they try it and end up loving it. Such a great feeling
@@belegur8108I know! Havr also taken up cooking baking for the same reason as you. That's is the best feeling. It honestly has inspired me to to apply for studying to become a baker 😊
In the movie CZJ character was making super complex and refined food for her nephew. The other chef understood she was just a little girl that recently lost her mother and just made some simple comfort food
@@insaynt9924 I don't know what you are originally replying to, but oral hygiene has a lot to do with enjoying food. Whether or not you brush your teeth and tongue and use mouth wash can drastically change how things taste.
Something i noticed about how this was filmed just now. Everything the aunt made for zoe was seperated plates of food. She made duck and some veg and other things and the meals were on her plate signifying disconnect between zoe and the aunt. Aaron eckharts chef character mixes up a pasta dish where all the ingredients are swirled together not sectioned on the plate. And he eats out of thag bowl and shares the bowl directly to zoe creating a connection. Kids eating off your plate is literally in child bonding development. And zoe lost ALL OF THAT when her parents died she needs to start over from square one Edit: holy crap I didn't expect people to vibe with this comment like at all I've seen this movie too many times to count only cuz I like to cook and it's cuz of other film channels giving me a new lense to watch movies through and pick things up like that. I'd say cinema therapy channel probably helped with that.
Before entering The Matrix, Morpheus was a cowboy named Curtis and presumably on a lot of hallucinogens. PeeWee's Playhouse is like a total acid trip or something. But then he discovered a different kind of pill (perhaps the Jagged Little ones Alanis Morisette warned about) and was reborn a new man with much better style.
I knew that dude was so familiar but I couldn't place him. I usually imdb to figure it out but I don't know what show the video is from. Thank you for saying who it is. 🙂❤️
@ruckusrevolution9475 You'd think, but my drug addict sister in law got cry-jealous when I could get her son to sleep but not her. Like, you gotta mold to the kid, not force the kind to mold to you, ya know? So I put on Bear in the Big Blue House, and he fell asleep to it after his 2am tantrum of fighting sleep. She's the "tv bad" weirdo type.
Oh man. This hit me so hard. If anything ever happens to me as a mom it is my biggest fear my children won’t be shown compassion like this. So beautiful.
The sad thing is many women think men are not very caring compassionate people it is quite the opposite. Most of us would protect a child with our life even if they were not ours. I help a lot of mentally teenagers in my free time. Kind of a act volunteering reaching out to younger people of my generation. I to struggle with my mental health on a daily basis so this helps me as well. The thing a lot of men struggle with is we give more than we receive and sometimes we loose ourselves peice by peice. If I ever have children I do not want them to suffer the brokenness I had growing up into a man. I grew up without a father my grandfather took over that roll and did the best he could but much of the damage was already done. I am still picking up the pieces to this day.
@@cardinalwilson8034 That stuff can make things ten times worse. Transgenders are more likely to commit suicide after surgery and hormones than without it.
@@bronsonleach3573 when I was 11 my mom was sick and hospitalised for around 4 months, first 3 weeks one of my 5 aunts would come and make us dinner when we were in school "paid for groceries by my father" , me and my 5 years old brother would come home to food in the house every day for those 3 weeks. Then one stopped coming and the rest followed, they stopped when there was no one to impress or brag for, so it went food for only 5 days a week then 3 days then no one came, my dad didn't care, he ate at work and he came home late when we were already sleeping, there was no money in the house and the only groceries my dad would get are milk, eggs and bread and he ate most of it for breakfast anyways, he never cooked us a single meal, he would make his food too spicy so we won't eat from it, me and my 5 yr brother survived on bread for two months cuz no one really cared least of all my father, if my mom had died when we were young we probably wouldn't have had another homemade meal until we were old enough to have our own money and make it ourselves, and we were financially well off, he just didn't care whether we ate or not, to him we were ok we eat bread, we are not starving so all was good for him, if my mom had died he would have left us eating bread till we were old enough to move out without a single shred of remorse.
A small pebble of kindness creates big ripples. Just a silent smile, an offer of a hand to hold, just a simple gesture to sit next to someone, makes an enormous difference.
When I went to a psych ward I was shown great examples of that. There was a dude named Gabriel there, sitting alone at lunch I came up to em and asked if he wanted to shoot the shit, he was kinda sitting with his legs to his chest, but after about 10 minutes we were both crying. He constantly told me how much I helped him clear his mind. Another guy same thing but he would always sit alone next to his door, first two days i left em alone to see if it was just a funk but after that I asked if we could talk. When I was leaving homeboy was laughing at jokes and hanging with people. I dont like to brag it makes me uncomfortable but i am absolutely proud of that. It makes me tear up sometimes lol. A small hello can brighten peoples outlooks
You are an amazing person you were.put there for a reason, and that was to him them and you at the same time. I can't tell how many times I have sat alone and just wanted someone to talk to me so I could get some things off my chest. I was bullied in school from start to finish, and really still to this day but I have learned that just because you think you are better than me and you talk 💩 behind my back doesn't mean that you are. I'm no better than anyone, and no one is better than me except 1 higher being.
I'm bowled over ❤ by ur talents!! My sister wanted desperately to see u in person b4 she died of lymphoma!! Her dream was answered when u came & performed in Indpls. She is sadly missed but she died happily after she saw u perform. Thank you so much 😢😂😅❤🎉😂❤
This movie pulls at my heartstrings. I met my first real love on the first day of freshman year in undergrad. He immediately caught my heart, I got his number from my friend who had gone over to talk to him, and we went out to dinner together at the school cafe. The next night he was suicidal, a bunch of friends were there, we called security, some coumselors showed up, it was a whole thing. As soon as i heard from my friend that they couldn't find him, i ran from track practice, dropped my stuff in my dorm and sprinted to find him. After he was talked down, the small group of us went back to watch this movie in my dorm. We'd established the night of our first dinner that we liked each other but weren't ready for a relationship, but that was the night I knew i loved him. Things between him and I didn't turn out well as things got toxic and we just simply weren't meant to be. We talk every now and then. Some part of my heart will still love him in some way no matter how much I try to forget him. I simply can't just try to forget people as that is unfortunately who I am. But this movie will always reside in my memory as a good and troubled time in my life. Edit: thanks for the few likes this has gotten, this is a hard story for me to tell. I fixed the typos for clarity. He & i don't talk anymore, i stopped texting back, cuz it's better for my mental health. Things ended poorly and he's not worth my time. Sorry if this isn't what you wanted to hear, but life isn't always sunshine and rainbows, sadly.
No it wasn't a fairytale ending for you, but it was an experience and that's what life is all about "experiences". It was a good choice for you to stop texting him back. It's time to move forward because there are more new experiences to be had.
Girl, your story made me cry and think a lot coz it hits me hard, I don't even know how to explain this, maybe better I keep it to myself and wait to see the outcome of what I am going through but I am happy you realized he didn't worth ur time and you chose what was best for you. And of course forgetting isn't easy but God is here, He will make ways and you will be happy forever
Had a student 5yo and he wasn't doing good physically or mentally his parents died and he lived with grandparents and he didn't talk to anyone, no teachers, students, not a single peep, sat alone, didn't eat, didn't play, just sat there watching everyone. Broke my heart hearing about him when I started working there. A week in he got hit by a toy thrown by one of the autistic kids and everyone paid attention to the other kids but I ran to check on him, he was bleeding on the head. I took him over to be cleaned up and I was talking him threw everything and asking if he was okay, and as I do with all my students "do you need booboo kisses?" He looked at me and started tearing up. And nodded and so I rubbed my forehead against the side of his head and said mmwah. And he hugged me and started crying and said thank you. He started talking and doing a bit more after that. It broke me when I quit because my boss was a bitc%
There's a man who just cares about people. He saw a mom who was in need and took some initiative to try and help. Society is full of people like this, regardless of what politicians and the media would have you believe.
Yeah not her mom her aunt (legal guardian) who's not good with people especially kids, after her parents died in an accident. Very good movie and story line.
“If we drop this apple on the ground, it will wither away and be gone forever. But if we take a bite of that apple, we take it with us forever. Everything is on its way to somewhere.” Phenomenon
I’ve had a small sip of water from the pacific; atlantic; and indian ocean; bit a chunk of ice in an icelandic lagoon; licked my finger after dipping it in a very briny puddle in death valley. Ate snow in the alps and rockies. Need some snow and water from the 2 polar regions 😂
Nah bro, if we throw an apple on the ground it may become a tree but if we eat it.. It will be with us until next morning and go down through the toilet.. Maybe longer if we constipated
You probably knew this already. Iron can only ever have been created in one place, in the core of dying stars. The colour that you see in your veins, the haemoglobin, is iron particles. So you carry a lot more with you than you ever thought before. You're carrying actual stardust within. Isn't that a marvelous thought as well?
I did this with a little girl at a daycare I worked at. I was 15 and she didn’t want to eat anything. Her mother had told me that morning that she refused to eat. She said we could offer her the packed lunch she brought or the daycare lunch she didn’t mind as long as she ate something. She sat away from all the kids and I quickly realised she didn’t like eating in front of people despite being only 4 years old. I knew exactly how she felt. So I grabbed two bowls of food (the staff were allowed to eat alongside the children as that was the only time we had for lunch) and sat right next to her. I started eating and I had her smell and touch each thing on her plate. Her mother had told us that she didn’t like using utensils because her cognitive issues didn’t allow her to hold them properly. While sitting next to her I turned around and pretended I was just watching the other kids. She started eating. She had just watched me eat the same exact meal and I glanced over at her and she was eating. I used the daycare iPad to send her mother a picture of her eating and she was astonished. When she came to pick her up she was so grateful. I told her to let her use her hands and let her eat alone because that’s how she preferred it. She ate every day after that
i didn't eat anything either if I did I used to puke it all out but one day my dad sweeped the puke and made me eat it since than I don't puke after eating or had any eating problems
Really. I did not hear about that. Well, I will do something I don't often do. I will say a prayer for this gentle man's quick recovery and his return to us. Amen.❤
Yep. That's how you know that the woman is putting effort not because of the fact that she wants to get the girl's attention to herself alone and replace her parents, but rather she puts effort to feed her because she genuinely cares for the girl's well-being.
This scene makes me cry every time. The film is called “No Reservations” (2007) by the way, an American adaptation of a German film , “Mostly Martha” (2001).
@@haemmertime yes! we watched mostly martha in german class and it was lovely. i also love catherine zeta-jones so was very excited for the adaptation, but it doesn't hold a candle to the original
She can control her food in take .. she is feeling guilty for being alive and not eating is her way of punishing herself bc she is in horrible pain.. Grief is love with nowhere to go 💔 it felt good to watch her finally eat something 😊❤😊😊😊😊😊😊❤❤❤ pergect example of caring without pushing her boundaries.. I went thru a bad breakup and did the same thing.. I ate for a friend who stayed with me at night so I was not alone.. she cuddled with me and made me wonderful soup and grilled cheeses
Someone sent lipstick and paprika to Treblinka, a concentration camp where prisoners continued to die even after the Allied liberated them. The lipstick and paprika did more to help the prisoners recover than the doctors did. (I think it was paprika but it was some seasoning that was familiar to them)
After a close friend passed away in the middle of December 2022, I was still eating a little thankfully, but man, it still fucking pains me knowing they're not here anymore to say "Hi friend! 😊" every time they see me. I miss you so much, North.
Lost my bestie of 16 years 17 years ago now childhood friends like sisters. I lost her 9th may 2007. It’s easier but it is sadly a pain you’ll carry forever. You will be happy again. I’m married and have 2 little girls that breaks me Everytime knowing they won’t meet her. Pray everyday I’ll see her again, I will love and miss her everyday until my last breath. I’m so sorry for loss of your friends, sending love ❤
I am sorry for all your losses and feel your pain. My friend died a little over a year ago, leaving behind her husband and their two young children. I think of her and those kids often. Nothing against her husband, but she truly was the heart of their home. Cancer can be a real B
My uncle was a chef. Took in his (adoptive) son after his parents died in a police raid. They where big dealers. Similar shit happened at his restaurant. I can't tell you how much a man with a big heart can do. Fellas. It's not just the ladies that can be a source of positivity and love. Be strong brothers. For those who can't be strong just yet.
This is why I love what I do, food brings people together and puts a smile on their face, it has a way of healing the hurt. Similar stuff happened at this restaurant and I just can't tell you how much a man with a big heart can do. Fellas, It's not just the ladies that can be a source of positivity and love. Be strong brothers. For those who can't be strong just yet. You believed in me when I didn't even believe in myself now it's time that you believe in yourself as much as you believed in me 💯✨️
After my mum went thru caring for my step dad with cancer & then losing him, i learned it's best not to push for her to eat but to make something she really liked. After plating just a small amount, i'd say "you don't have to eat it all" but she would. I learned after, the reason she was able to eat every day was because i'd made it from scratch, plated & took it into her, had she even had to think about what she was gonna eat, she would've gone without cus even the thought was too much & tired her out. I got you momma ❤
Hunger is emotional game.. you will feel one when it strikes your emotion. Person made an emotional contact with the girl and she felt the urge to eat.. the silent "Thank You" in the end and a quick acceptance from the chef was added charm to the video..❤🥰💕
Good food is one of the things that gets me through the work week, always look forward to getting take out and just enjoy some quiet time. A big thanks to all cooks and the food they make for giving some comfort during the good and bad times ^^
This is why I love what I do, food brings people together and puts a smile on their face, it has a way of healing the hurt. Similar stuff happened at this restaurant and I just can't tell you how much a man with a big heart can do. Fellas, It's not just the ladies that can be a source of positivity and love. Be strong brothers. For those who can't be strong just yet. You believed in me when I didn't even believe in myself now it's time that you believe in yourself as much as you believed in me 💯✨️
I’ve seen this girl in some other shows and the FUCKING TALENT I TELL YOU At this age? She’s gonna be huge. It’s truly remarkable talent. She’s 1 in a million for sure.
Her name is Abegail Breslin. This movie is old. She's an adult now 😅. But yeah I agree with you, she's a rare gem for her age with that excellent acting/talent 😊
@@sanaarana8610there are also 1.6 million kids facing malnourishment in South Sudan. This has been going on for years. There is little to no news coverage on them. The whole world is looking at Gaza, and rightfully so. But there are many spots with children dying of hunger not being spoken about.
For those who are curious: Appetite changes whenever your body is in distress, this can be from anything, including emotions. When our bodies realize that everything is fine and that there is no sense of danger, our appetites can return but sometimes it can come back slowly. The human body is a powerful thing.
Okay this hit too close to home. Like legit this is way too close for me. First proper dish I learned to make was spaghetti bolognese (like in the clip). I learned it from my aunt, learned it the same exact way she made it. I was too young to remember but she had some kind of medical condition that made it so she couldn't walk without at least crutches and she would be dead by 40. She died at 39 when I was 8. We were at her house after the funeral, just me, my little cousin who lost her mum and a couple of my other cousins. I got into the kitchen, remembering her on her raised chair by the bench. Always smiling. Sub consciously I just started making spaghetti. When I was done I served a plate to each and every one of us. We were about halfway through when I looked up and saw my little cousin crying through her food. To this day at 25 I can still make it the same way. My little cousin occasionally asks me to make it for her. She tried to learn to make it from me but she could never grasp it. Most likely cause I'm a terrible teacher because I'm an instinct chef. But when it's Christmas and we're spending it with our family, one of the days she's down she'll always ask me every year to make it. Every time she'll cry, knowing it was the same taste. My spaghetti objectively tastes better since my aunt would make hers with too high of a pasta ratio and make it too runny. But my cousin will always prefer her mother's version over my own and I will never blame her for that.
When my maternal grandmother and grandfather both died, my mother was an absolute wreck. While she was grieving, I asked her what was one childhood dish she was nostalgic for. It was Worcestershire pork chops, and knowing her mother she probably boiled or simmered them in the sauce, so alot of room to improve. I marinated the pork for the whole day with garlic and thyme along with some mushrooms, dried off the pork and seared it before using that same marinade to make a glaze to toss em in. While the mushrooms I skewered n broiler and make some asparagus too i.e more comfort foods. Her first bite out of the pork though she said hit her so hard, like she knew it wasnt what her mother made but nostalgically it was everything she remembered about it. Both me and my brother have slowly been trying to rebuild old recipes from her parents, stuff that either we clearly remembered like Tim's baked beans, to stuff that only she remembers like the Sicilian ragu Food is such a big comfort. Even if it can be done better, sometimes ya just want it like how ya remember it.
On a family vacation, we just stopped for lunch at a random local restaurant. Meal was good but I decided to also get their last piece of pie and was literally crying after the first bite. It was my grandmother's pie crust - exactly her crust. I had my kids eat it too. It was so unexpected.
@@maruzzella1950 ah. Yes. The one Italian actor in a movie full of German actors and all speaking German. Almost forgot that there was 5 to 10 minutes in Italy.
You know, this man just saved this little girl's life. If she still wasn't eating, she could've gotten sick, died, or ended up in the hospital. But this man right here saved her. We need more people like that in this world.
Well, it did not help when Kate made fish with the heads attached. She made weird food that no kid would want to eat. She probably just wanted a pizza!!
This movie is such an amazing story. Sd a child who lost a parent, I went thru a non eating or sleep phase, and a kind old neighbor couple helped my father and me thru it
I struggle with binge eating and not eating, and I realize it's an emotional problem, no father and mother narcissist, and I feel this in some deep space inside.
My son suffered from this same issue When his mother TOOK HIM from me for 2 weeks and then I only had suppervised visits ( I’ve never had a speeding ticket but when you are whoring around and are the one who’s causing all the problems in the family you lie to make the father look bad) He has recovered some from it But he still fights depression and anxiety and probably always will He’s 22 now and it happened when he was 10 He had been by my side since the day he was born So lady’s if you have a good husband who works hard and doesn’t drink or do drugs He’s always at home after work and does all the things he can with the kids If you want to leave Then LEAVE BUT DONT TAKE HIS CHILDREN AWAY FROM HIM It can cause him to be someone he WOULD NEVER BE until you tore his heart and world apart all at the same time!!!
Wow theres a lot youre going through. might be a positive thing to talk to a therapist or something about this. You shouldnt have to keep suffering. Hopefully healing is right around the corner for you both
He seems like he is a good person,can usually tell if the actor is really a good person by how they act with the other people,him and Keanu Reeves are two of my favorite actors
He has a pretty solid reputation for being an asshole n he got Abigail fired n labeled difficult to work with because she complained about his behavior.
@@debopriya14 For clarity’s sake, she complained about his behavior in 2023 on the set of another movie, and she is being sued by the producers of that film for her actions, while an investigation stated he didn’t do anything (he apparently berated an extra possibly, i haven’t seen anything more sinister). So it seems there may be more to that story. We’ll have to see.
Aaron is such a great actor! Just so natural with it you wouldn’t even know there was a crew, cameraman, director, etc. Feels like you’re just watching real life happening before your eyes
Its actually a "technique" which was briefly nicknamed the "naturally trusting stranger" Brief interaction "What does this smell like to you?" or looking at a picture then showing them, a "This is my Dog (insert name) he/she is really cuddly" that sort of thing. Make that object/picture/etc seem important to you. Then ask them to hold it while you do something else, tie your shoes, whatever. Then take the object back and ask what they think, "Doesn't (dog name) look cute, what do you think?" So, it plays in the childs mind like this - this person is talking to me, this person has asked me to hold something of value, this person is genuinely asking for "My" opinion. With a kid that wont talk, for almost any number of reasons, it engages them into talking to you. The "trick" to the technique is, being 100% committed and following through. Youre bringing them into talking, but its on their terms. If they dont respond to this first time. separate for a while (to go do something) then return with a "Hey, youre still here" approach. The main thing to it is, showing trust, interest and actually following through. Being the person they can talk to, until they start talking to people in general.
This movie (No Reservations) is actually a remake of a German movie called "Bella Martha" or "Mostly Martha." Beautiful film. Remake doesn't hold a candle to it.
@@v-ron7839most likely you didn’t even try most people like you do that find out there is a remake and honestly not give it a chance the actors did the story justice
Blimey! I loved the German film. I saw this one with an open mind but it didn't compare. But well done Abigail Breslin, one of my favourite child actors.
@@shania991 I did try! I honestly wanted to like it, and I'm open to remakes and interpretations. I know my comment came off harsh, but it's not like the American version's a terrible movie that you shouldn't enjoy. I probably would've liked it if I saw it first, but I couldn't help comparing it to the original and felt like it was "missing" a lot of the things I loved about it, especially the clashing of cultures. It just left me disappointed.
Back in 2020, I had severe depression. I lost my closest friendships. And for a while, I did not eat enough. It got so bad that just eating became painful to do. Every time I swallowed it felt like I was going to puke. I had to keep at it until my body broke the habit of eating so little. Now, my eating habits are back to normal. But I'm scared of what happened back then. It's frightening to think that extreme sadness could cause you to starve yourself like that. I hope I never need to face that again.
😢 yep i didnt even notice and lost 100lbs food just wasnt on my radar after a traumatic event in my life . I only relised when it hurt to sot down because my tail bone was so exsposed due to no fat on my butt. Ive managed to put a few pounds on now but i used to be fat so im very afraid to put it all back on so im kind of stuck in a cycle 😢. Dont wanna be fat but dont wanna be sickly thin and that in-between is such a hard place to maintain . Im glad to hear you are doing better 🎉 proud of u 👍🏽
I'm like that now I didn't lose anyone but I have been in so much pain due to a fractured head of the femur bone in my right hip everytime I ate I threw up due to the pain. I just found this out recently and will get total hip replacement surgery I'm nervous more than scared but I know it will be ok. I'm slowly trying to eat thru the pain I'm waiting on stuff to do and hopefully soon 🤞 get I taken care of 😔🙏
One of my friends lost her mum… She didn’t eat for 2 days so I had to force it down her throat ( not litterally) she cried ,I cried and she ate in silence and then we hugged for an hour 😭 . I see her everyday of my life now she is my whole world and I am hers ❤
That's what you call caring friend who cares about kids who long they eat we need more people like him who are professional Cooks add care about kids God bless the man that did that
The kid wasnt eating not just because of the trauma but because she wasnt giving her “kid food” she was making gourmet meals. This guy gives her just plain spaghetti something she would know/be comfortable with.
There is a beauty here that many go their whole lives without ever caring about. He showed the trinity of a human interaction. Creativity, Logic, and Love. He was creative in his method to get her to form curiosity, he was smart in how he got her to gain desire, and he was loving in his own desire to help. He gave her food, taught her some history, and showed her love. Genuinely so beautiful and something to always strive for even in times where it feels silly or awkward. Passion is what gives you the desire to do these three things in your life towards someone else
I am so impressed by Abigail Breslin. She is 28 and has already been acting for 20 years, and she is really good in every role. She is not someone that I tend to watch for, like I don’t actively follow her career, but I every time I see her in something I keep thinking, “she is really good”. I feel like she isn’t fully out of her child acting career, like I want to see her have a fully adult role as a lead in a big project, because I think she would do really well. So I am excited to see her in more things.
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It’s not just making the food. It’s what’s behind it. When I got my heart broken, several years ago (long before I got married), the woman I was working with wasn’t exactly a nurturer, but she could se that I was in pain. I was barely eating and she wanted to do something to help. So, she made me a sandwich. I wasn’t really hungry, but I ate it anyway because she was showing me that she cared. Thank you again, Robin , wherever you are.
Dude that got me teary eyed.
My moms name is robin-
That's very sweet. ❤ Alot of ppl use making food as a way to show they care; maybe they can't get the words out, maybe they don't even know what words to use. But food is a universal comfort. I hope your heart is doing better now ❤❤
@@kristinwojtowich8902 Yes. My heart has healed. My husband is amazing and treats me like a princess. What you say is so true.
My best friend is 19 her name is Robin 💜💜 guess there are more good people with that name.
"You either die a hero or live long enough to see yourself become a chef"
But what the movie name
@@gamerlegend3059 one with the chef is called No Reservations and one with Two Face is called Dark Knight
@@angeleyes9795thanks for clarifying both 🤣
@@angeleyes9795The real hero
It’s actually dark knight, not Batman begins
The silent "thank you" and nod to top it off, beautiful.
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So that's what it's called The Silent
The signs of a true gentleman..
This act make my tears start running without stop...😥 #BestResponse
Sometimes the greatest heroes are the silent people
When my dad was going through chemo, he wouldn’t eat. I would pretend I was hungry & eat something I knew he liked in front of him, eventually if only a few bites at the time he would eat. He always said everything tasted better if it was on my plate!
That was a lot of years ago, feels like yesterday. I miss you Daddy.
Exactly.... with my OCD
.... IF I have visitors and I see how they can touch and use my space.....OCD..greatly diminished
That also happened with my Dad 😢. He loved hot baked Hoagies … I made them for him and he could t resist a few bites! I miss him too! @Harley57
God bless you and his soul. I’m sorry for your loss of your daddy. I’m glad you both got to spend time together and made some more memories to look on with love. You’re a good daughter and he was a good father. ❤
Off. That's the definition of bittersweet.
🙏❤
A few years ago my dad passed away. Causing my sister to stop eating due to sorrows and our neighbor would come over and make sure she ate while we were at work she refused to eat until he made her some stew he would talk to her everyday when he was over and finally my sister ate. Bless his soul he was such a good man. 5/9/22 Mr King
I loved reading this. I wish everyone had someone like this in their lives to look out for their loved ones. Absolutely beautiful.
Sending so so much love im sk so sorry for everything that you have been through and are going through 🩷🩷🩷🩷💕💕💕💕
My sincere condolences for your father.
Fitting last name for him.
A close friend of mine died the same year. RIP to both our loved ones.
She wasn't hungry for food she was hungry for emotional understanding and connection.
Nah, I think she was just hungry.
She was hungry for food too.
The woman in the video wasn't used to feeding a child, so would make her fancy adult food which she wouldn't eat.
He went with simple kid friendly food
Naaaah she was starvin fam
Both can be true simultaneously. She didn't eat for days, she WAS hungry even if she didn't "feel" it, she physically needed to eat.
@jadebolt4416 Exactly! I had stated the same thing. Hamburger vs Steak Tartare! Auntie was attempting to serve her rich, gourmet meals whereas her niece would have been content with a PBnJ, along with a cold glass of chocolate milk! 😂
The movies called No Reservations in case anybody was wondering.
I was
Thanks, I was searching for this comment 😊
@jacquelinekabugo-raderson1878
This was such a good movie. I Thought I would search for it to watch again on one of my plethora of streaming channels I pay for.... 😲 I could not find it anywhere for free.
thank you!
Thank youuu
When my dad died suddenly, I stopped eating. Didn’t eat for at least 4-5 days until my dad’s mom made me some lasagna. My dad used to make it for Christmas dinner every year, and I loved it so much. She didn’t force me to eat, she just placed some in front of me and told me “you don’t have to eat. But would you like to sit and talk?” And over the course of a couple hours, just talking about whatever, I started eating. Of course, I immediately bursted into tears after one bite because it was always my dad’s lasagna. But yeah. Don’t try to force people to eat when they went through something traumatic. Just comfort them and try to help them feel normal.
PERO NO DIGAS LA MAMÁ DE MI PAPÁ, SE DICE MI ABUELAAAA.
Bless you, my granny died 4 days before Christmas not long ago. It's painful. Very painful. I feel you and your not alone xx
Some people are emotional eaters and others are very much the opposite. I am definitely the opposite of an emotional eater and never could relate to those movie scenes where Girl is sobbing over a tub of ice cream or box of chocolates. Used to wonder if there was something wrong with me since that scene was in so many movies...
@@gladyscastillo5535It's obviously to differentiate between maternal and paternal grandparent
@@Eleo_rblx i can relate, my grandma died the day of thanksgiving, it was heartbreaking at the thanksgiving blessing, she was strong, she went through the Great Depression and all other tragic events, it was hard to see her go after all that time 🕊️
Aaron eckhart gives 110% to every role. This dude is seriously underrated
facts
100%
Can't wait to see him hold an oscar
He's not more famous bc nobody likes him
Yes!!!!
So sweet, didn't force her to eat it, or make her feel bad about eating, just let her choose. He's so sweet
Can we trust him tho?
@@talentedpigeon3296what a useless comment
@@LegendSTale_ just an obscure reference
@@talentedpigeon3296no cuz he's a two-face😅😅😅😅😅
@LegendSTale_ its just a normal comment bruh. It's just a reference to the Batman movie because of Harvey Dent
I love how he said hold this and didn’t try to get her to eat he just gave her a choice to make and she made the right one how sweet
He knew she was probably really hungry but still left the choice to eat up to her
But when I do it, my boyfriend calls me a hog. 🙄
She ate it without permission lol. Wtf
@@michaelmcclusk3y1except she didn't eat it without permission....he gave her permission subliminally by talking about how good it tasted right next to her, and following up with handing her the bowl. it's basically a reverse psychology trick to get her to eat.
@@michaelmcclusk3y1 he did used a psychology trick. And firstly no one gonna hold their food to other people if knowingly that the person hasn't eaten anything yet and was hungry. And this case it was intentionally to make the person eat it and that is a non verbal permission.
he did everything right. he really did. showing her the food was safe to eat is honestly the best thing ever.
Honestly as a mom. A family member or friend presenting their kindness in this way, taking initiative. Is the best way to help. I appreciate this.
True!!!
Ya...family is not just related by blood, but whoever helps you when needed...they also one of your family.
facts
This is “it takes a village” in action, which most cultures live by. For some reason, we isolate ourselves in America.
Right!!!😮😮😊❤
People hate being told what to do; but when given the choice, they do what they should. This shows it.
It’s not about being told what to do.
People don't always do what they should when given the choice, that's why we have laws
@@crose1466 this isn’t about laws thou. And absolutely dang I can’t say how many times in my life I have done the wrong thing even though I have the right choice. Dang. Now I make good choices but most of my 20’s were bad choices. Now I’m 29. I feel like I make good choices but honestly I don’t sometimes. That’s life. We all do things we shouldn’t do
@@serenast.germain3469 sure, it's not just about laws, but laws are involved in the overall conversation about integrity and moral action, which is what you're essentially referring to.
Nah. People definitely don’t do what they should when given the choice
The key to helping a traumatized child is to give them some control. Speak to them like any normal conversation, special attention makes the interaction a manipulation, and gives the impression of ulterior motives. The reason she ate is because no one was pressuring her to eat, the choice became hers to make. When people tell her to eat, the only control she can take is to refuse. He gave her control of the food, and she did what she wanted with it.
Yes, and smelling basilico helped a lot too 😂😂😂
Not just that but making the idea of food seem appealing. Grief can really screw up your appetite.
well typed.
she had a choice to not hold it though :p
Man who could understanding are the sweetest thing of this world,, thankyou mr geofrey
Makes me cry. I pray for all little ones who do not have a mommy.
care taker
gender does not matter
@@berrymint6384 tell that to the people who don't have moms
@@eebbaa5560Some people don’t have moms, some people don’t have dads.
@@DeathnoteBB and there's me, who don't have both, even though both of my parent still alive as a creature, but not as my companion ever in my life. :)
@@lathifarizqiandhary8927 I relate and sometimes that hurts more than if they were actually dead.
The movie is called No reservation and basically the girls mam died in a car crash and she has to move in with her aunt (Kate ) and she hasn’t eaten since her mam died x
Edit- don’t have a go at me if u think I am wrong because at the end of the day I know I am right and ur just irrelevant ❤️
Thanks for the info on this movie ❤ Definitely going to watch it!!
Where can i watch it ??
@@Dontpeek-xl6wwprime video or Google play videos or Fandango at home
@@Dontpeek-xl6ww No Reservations
Seems to be available (for a price) on TH-cam, Amazon Prime, Google Play Movies and TV, Apple TV, Fandango at Home.
@@Mamacat1357 thanks
Actually the tragedy in her family was a reason why she didn't eat but also later in the movie it was said to be one more reason. Her aunt (the female cook) who is a cook in a fancy restaurant made her eat fancy dishes she made (something like a whole fish with a salad). A child her age just didn't know how to eat this kind of food. At this moment her auntie's friend from work (the male cook) realised the problem and gave her a dish she knew. This way he helps the aunt and the niece get along and make a real family.❤
Also a well known fact: kids would want to eat what you are eating next to them, especially if you make clear that it's for you only. many parents use this to feed the kids healthy stuff.
@@katalinelo8011You are so spot on with this! My kids ate light oil with salt with pepper dressed fresh organic spinach and chicken salads all the time because I ate it. As they got bigger, I literally had to eat out of the serving bowl! They would only eat (sneak bites) out of my bowl and the Dino-nuggets on their plates would just be ignored. They were in grade school before they tasted (and were disgusted by canned veggies).
@katalinelo8011 You sir/madam must be a parent. 100% accurate.
Awe😢and he showed her showed to eat it
Give kids food that is not complicated to eat, right? 😂😂😂
I totally stopped eating at aged 12 after my uncle died in a horrfic way, the dr told my mum ' don't pressure her, leave foods and snacks around at all times, she will eat when she is ready' and it was the absolute best advice. The pressure being gone helped me to slowly start again 🩷
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Its quite a easy fix when it comes to psychology. Kids are animals I mean so are we but we operate different as adults. its fine to... suffer and suffer but children takes special care. I work with adults only mainly addicts and well people that are beyond the point of help. For me I rarely care anymore Its nice to see them smile but you just simply dont care anymore cause they are a waste of space and wont ever do anything in their life. At that point when they are that damaged im willing to let them go. sounds horrible yes but.. to put it like this someone I deal with has cost the system more than 10 million here in Sweden. while I cant get a time to check out if I might got cancer. Yeah little bit that they can just off themself at that point.
@sebastian114
This seems very cruel. Addicts are people too, and technically operating off the same biological system that you mentioned children do. It's very simple to understand with your psychology- they are seeking serotonin and/or dopamine in the fastest, most effective way they've experienced so far. That'll screw someone up, but they can and do recover with proper help.
@@sebastian114Das grundlegende Problem bei kranken Erwachsenen ist, daß der kindliche Teil agiert, weil der sich wünscht, daß jmd komplett die Verantwortung übernimmt und sie bedingungslos liebt. Nur bei Mutter oder Vater würden sie heilen, erwachsen und verantwortungsbewußt werden können. Denn andere Menschen sind ihnen egal, wie auch sie anderen Menschen egal sind. Das Geld des Staates ist in dem Fall die entgangene Mutterliebe. 🤷🏻♀️
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This nearly made me cry. My brother died in nov 2021 and i havent eaten quite right since, no matter what i make. Ive tried to learn to make new things but i always end up throwing out my food.
Life is what tastes good; not food. Love is what fills you.
Sending you healing love & light 💖✨.
Lost my dear bro, 4+ yrs now from GBM. 💝
I myself have done this...hurt, physical pain when eating I developed an aversion for food. Ended up in the hospital on a feeding tube. I'm trying now to eat properly everyday.
For me it’s sleep. My only child was murdered 8 years ago. His dad and I haven’t slept well since. 8 years of insomnia. Thinking about and longing for our boy. 💔😭
@@augusthere7154 Jesus, Son of our Living God have mercy, comfort you and your husband. Jesus knows all our pain, every bit of it. He is there always with us. May you find solace in Most Sacred heart of Jesus. Infant Jesus, heal all your pain and bless you with sound sleep from today in Jesus Holy Name we pray.
May your guardian Angel, be at your side always watch over you and guard you while you rest. Jesus, Mary St Joseph bless you both.
Our love and prayers 🙏🏼 ❤
be comforted ❤
Peace 🕊 be with you both 🙏🏼 🕊
@@jeanmari8629 Thank you so much!
You know what i love the most in this? The wordless communication between the woman and him. She mouths "thank you" and his full body nod is just pure respect and sincerity on both sides.
Yeah, he knew he was getting in there soon.
@@jdm1066this was an unnecessary comment. she was simply grateful that he helped the child. don't make everything sexual.
@@yuyu07771ur the one that has it on the brain😮
@@roseanneward6060 how? what would that even mean in this context?
@@yuyu07771 did he hook up with her in the show or movie later though?
Movie name: no reservations
You are welcome
Thank you so much
Is it any good?
Thx
😊
Thank you 😊
That subtle nod of acknowledgement goes faaar beyond any words
That nod speaks million words!
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It's not subtle, it's pretty clear. I think you meant silent, or quiet?
@@carbine090909 Use your context clues. Subtle doesn’t only mean one thing.
You are welcome.
3 words done....
Abigail Breslin is such a talented actress. Even when she was just little. Looks so much like one of my nieces.
Agreed, and think she looks like one of my nieces too!
Food doesn't matter, the thing that matter is love that is mixed in it ❤️
~ A Wise Man
Muhammad Ali said something along those lines once
my dad always said that and that's just exactly what he used to do ❤
🤔 U're right. My tutu Wahine said that when I was a child. I miss my Gramma. 👍🙏❤️
Tell this to north coreans
Ummmmm. FOOD MATTERS (I said it Like, " THIS IS SPARTA)!
He really did care about the citizens of Gotham 😢
This comment is underrated 😂😂😂
Dude ...
This made me laugh too much thanks, gold comments
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my tears went back up 😂
Ooooh gotta love a man that's compassionate with children ❤
you need to watch the dark knight there is a lot of compassion for children there 😂
@professorpenetration69 you said we could be decent men... IN AN INDECENT TIME
@@professorpenetration69 lol I've seen it for sure
Especially one who's written that way... haha
Bro tie ur hair back
Its not about feeding the body, it's about feeding the heart. ❤
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As a cook myself, it makes me
Feel so wholesome seeing someone enjoying the food I cook for them. It’s like the greatest feeling any cook or chef can have.
Yep. Totally agree. Conversely, when people refuse your food, it cuts like a knife. A deep rejection.
i took up cooking as a way of self therapy for my depression... now i sometimes cook for a friend or two and the best feeling one can get is when they are asking for seconds...always makes my day ;o)
So true ❤
Especially when you get that comment that it reminds them of their mother or grandmother's cooking. Also when when it's something they don't like to eat and they try it and end up loving it. Such a great feeling
@@belegur8108I know! Havr also taken up cooking baking for the same reason as you. That's is the best feeling. It honestly has inspired me to to apply for studying to become a baker 😊
In the movie CZJ character was making super complex and refined food for her nephew. The other chef understood she was just a little girl that recently lost her mother and just made some simple comfort food
Mashed potatoes and white gravy is my favorite comfort food!
Niece
@@RosefMudson1414....what
You don't just stop enjoying food just because you don't have good hygiene.
*Niece. You realize that's a little girl right??
@@insaynt9924 I don't know what you are originally replying to, but oral hygiene has a lot to do with enjoying food. Whether or not you brush your teeth and tongue and use mouth wash can drastically change how things taste.
Something i noticed about how this was filmed just now.
Everything the aunt made for zoe was seperated plates of food. She made duck and some veg and other things and the meals were on her plate signifying disconnect between zoe and the aunt. Aaron eckharts chef character mixes up a pasta dish where all the ingredients are swirled together not sectioned on the plate. And he eats out of thag bowl and shares the bowl directly to zoe creating a connection. Kids eating off your plate is literally in child bonding development. And zoe lost ALL OF THAT when her parents died she needs to start over from square one
Edit: holy crap I didn't expect people to vibe with this comment like at all I've seen this movie too many times to count only cuz I like to cook and it's cuz of other film channels giving me a new lense to watch movies through and pick things up like that. I'd say cinema therapy channel probably helped with that.
Super insightful comment and I agree
Holy crap. You’re really good at film theory and analysis. That was an amazing observation.
Good observation 👍
@@emilyN1move over Matt Pat, someone else is taking over your channel 😂😂😂😂
Movies have an entire new meaning when you get to this point. That's a great channel to watch btw. They do so well showing me things I miss.
Before he was district attorney and eventually Two Face, Harvey Dent was once a humble chef
Before entering The Matrix, Morpheus was a cowboy named Curtis and presumably on a lot of hallucinogens. PeeWee's Playhouse is like a total acid trip or something. But then he discovered a different kind of pill (perhaps the Jagged Little ones Alanis Morisette warned about) and was reborn a new man with much better style.
I thought he looked familiar.
I knew that dude was so familiar but I couldn't place him. I usually imdb to figure it out but I don't know what show the video is from. Thank you for saying who it is. 🙂❤️
I love how she thanked him instead of getting jealous that she won't eat anything she made but she ate what he made!!
Its because she loves the girl
Obviously. It's a kid.
The thank you is literally in this clip 🙄
Why the f would she 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤷🏻♀️🫤Duh
@ruckusrevolution9475
You'd think, but my drug addict sister in law got cry-jealous when I could get her son to sleep but not her.
Like, you gotta mold to the kid, not force the kind to mold to you, ya know?
So I put on Bear in the Big Blue House, and he fell asleep to it after his 2am tantrum of fighting sleep.
She's the "tv bad" weirdo type.
Oh man. This hit me so hard. If anything ever happens to me as a mom it is my biggest fear my children won’t be shown compassion like this. So beautiful.
What makes you think that? Always have faith in goodness of humanity, my friend. ❤
The sad thing is many women think men are not very caring compassionate people it is quite the opposite. Most of us would protect a child with our life even if they were not ours. I help a lot of mentally teenagers in my free time. Kind of a act volunteering reaching out to younger people of my generation. I to struggle with my mental health on a daily basis so this helps me as well. The thing a lot of men struggle with is we give more than we receive and sometimes we loose ourselves peice by peice. If I ever have children I do not want them to suffer the brokenness I had growing up into a man. I grew up without a father my grandfather took over that roll and did the best he could but much of the damage was already done. I am still picking up the pieces to this day.
Just don't brainwash then into taking hormones or worst transitioning otherwise with enough love and care they'll be all set when you are gone.
@@cardinalwilson8034 That stuff can make things ten times worse. Transgenders are more likely to commit suicide after surgery and hormones than without it.
@@bronsonleach3573
when I was 11 my mom was sick and hospitalised for around 4 months, first 3 weeks one of my 5 aunts would come and make us dinner when we were in school "paid for groceries by my father" , me and my 5 years old brother would come home to food in the house every day for those 3 weeks. Then one stopped coming and the rest followed, they stopped when there was no one to impress or brag for, so it went food for only 5 days a week then 3 days then no one came, my dad didn't care, he ate at work and he came home late when we were already sleeping, there was no money in the house and the only groceries my dad would get are milk, eggs and bread and he ate most of it for breakfast anyways, he never cooked us a single meal, he would make his food too spicy so we won't eat from it, me and my 5 yr brother survived on bread for two months cuz no one really cared least of all my father, if my mom had died when we were young we probably wouldn't have had another homemade meal until we were old enough to have our own money and make it ourselves, and we were financially well off, he just didn't care whether we ate or not, to him we were ok we eat bread, we are not starving so all was good for him, if my mom had died he would have left us eating bread till we were old enough to move out without a single shred of remorse.
A small pebble of kindness creates big ripples. Just a silent smile, an offer of a hand to hold, just a simple gesture to sit next to someone, makes an enormous difference.
A hand on a titty...
When I went to a psych ward I was shown great examples of that. There was a dude named Gabriel there, sitting alone at lunch I came up to em and asked if he wanted to shoot the shit, he was kinda sitting with his legs to his chest, but after about 10 minutes we were both crying. He constantly told me how much I helped him clear his mind. Another guy same thing but he would always sit alone next to his door, first two days i left em alone to see if it was just a funk but after that I asked if we could talk. When I was leaving homeboy was laughing at jokes and hanging with people. I dont like to brag it makes me uncomfortable but i am absolutely proud of that. It makes me tear up sometimes lol. A small hello can brighten peoples outlooks
You are an amazing person you were.put there for a reason, and that was to him them and you at the same time.
I can't tell how many times I have sat alone and just wanted someone to talk to me so I could get some things off my chest. I was bullied in school from start to finish, and really still to this day but I have learned that just because you think you are better than me and you talk 💩 behind my back doesn't mean that you are. I'm no better than anyone, and no one is better than me except 1 higher being.
😢😢😮❤ this was my last day of school so I had to take my mom to the doctor 😢
Kindness matters ❤
The silent "thank you" and "you're welcome" suddenly made me tear up😊🥲
How do you know they said that?
Because the woman mouthed the words “thank you” and the guy bowed his head while putting his hands together as a way to say “you’re welcome”.
@@Mushroom2111 exactly🙂
@@Mushroom2111 she could have been mouthing anything.
Yeah, but it’s pretty obvious that she was mouthing “thank you”….
The silent "thank you" and "you're welcome" nod😭
I'm bowled over ❤ by ur talents!! My sister wanted desperately to see u in person b4 she died of lymphoma!! Her dream was answered when u came & performed in Indpls. She is sadly missed but she died happily after she saw u perform. Thank you so much 😢😂😅❤🎉😂❤
Two-face showing his good side
I appreciate the humour in this comment.
Made me laugh great comment
I didn't realize until you said something. That chin is unmistakable 😂
He was supposed to be the Gotham's white knight
I mean why wouldn't he?! That's little rock.. probably on another scam with Wichita 😂 but two face doesn't know it yet
Aaron has to be one of the most underrated actors of all time.
What's his name? He looks familiar but can't remember his name
@@khplaylistyt9729Read that first word of the OP again
@@khplaylistyt9729sully? The First Lady, Frasier
@@khplaylistyt9729 Aaron Heckhart
He has apparently said himself that he clashes with others, which may explain why he's not bigger.
This movie pulls at my heartstrings. I met my first real love on the first day of freshman year in undergrad. He immediately caught my heart, I got his number from my friend who had gone over to talk to him, and we went out to dinner together at the school cafe. The next night he was suicidal, a bunch of friends were there, we called security, some coumselors showed up, it was a whole thing. As soon as i heard from my friend that they couldn't find him, i ran from track practice, dropped my stuff in my dorm and sprinted to find him. After he was talked down, the small group of us went back to watch this movie in my dorm. We'd established the night of our first dinner that we liked each other but weren't ready for a relationship, but that was the night I knew i loved him.
Things between him and I didn't turn out well as things got toxic and we just simply weren't meant to be. We talk every now and then. Some part of my heart will still love him in some way no matter how much I try to forget him. I simply can't just try to forget people as that is unfortunately who I am. But this movie will always reside in my memory as a good and troubled time in my life.
Edit: thanks for the few likes this has gotten, this is a hard story for me to tell. I fixed the typos for clarity. He & i don't talk anymore, i stopped texting back, cuz it's better for my mental health. Things ended poorly and he's not worth my time. Sorry if this isn't what you wanted to hear, but life isn't always sunshine and rainbows, sadly.
No it wasn't a fairytale ending for you, but it was an experience and that's what life is all about "experiences". It was a good choice for you to stop texting him back. It's time to move forward because there are more new experiences to be had.
Im the same way ❤ we love because that's us you probably will never forget him but I promise you life does go on wishing you love and happiness ❤
Girl, your story made me cry and think a lot coz it hits me hard, I don't even know how to explain this, maybe better I keep it to myself and wait to see the outcome of what I am going through but I am happy you realized he didn't worth ur time and you chose what was best for you. And of course forgetting isn't easy but God is here, He will make ways and you will be happy forever
I once made a strong affirmation to not be bothered
Once and for all
It worked and does till today
You are strong, dear, wishing u thrive ❤️
What’s the movie
Had a student 5yo and he wasn't doing good physically or mentally his parents died and he lived with grandparents and he didn't talk to anyone, no teachers, students, not a single peep, sat alone, didn't eat, didn't play, just sat there watching everyone. Broke my heart hearing about him when I started working there. A week in he got hit by a toy thrown by one of the autistic kids and everyone paid attention to the other kids but I ran to check on him, he was bleeding on the head. I took him over to be cleaned up and I was talking him threw everything and asking if he was okay, and as I do with all my students "do you need booboo kisses?" He looked at me and started tearing up. And nodded and so I rubbed my forehead against the side of his head and said mmwah. And he hugged me and started crying and said thank you. He started talking and doing a bit more after that. It broke me when I quit because my boss was a bitc%
so your boss is a bitcoin i see.
It only takes one person to change a life forever that moment probably impacted him more than you know ❤
womp womp
Lol that last sentence really wasn't necessary
When I left teaching the one thing I missed most was the students! Every one took a little bit of my heart!😊
There's a man who just cares about people. He saw a mom who was in need and took some initiative to try and help. Society is full of people like this, regardless of what politicians and the media would have you believe.
Helps the mom was hot as hell and he was trying to score brownie points
The woke left want us to believe the opposite
It was her aunt, not her mom.
Yeah not her mom her aunt (legal guardian) who's not good with people especially kids, after her parents died in an accident. Very good movie and story line.
@@scarlethunder1761What's the movie called? Looks decent
The half nod/half bow from him always gets me. He knew how he could help, and afterwards he was just glad he could. Love it
He didn’t try to get her to eat the food he was just being nice 👌and that was all he needed to do good for him ❤❤
“If we drop this apple on the ground, it will wither away and be gone forever. But if we take a bite of that apple, we take it with us forever. Everything is on its way to somewhere.” Phenomenon
Pretty sure that's what dahmer thought too, he still 💩 out pieces of his victims
I’ve had a small sip of water from the pacific; atlantic; and indian ocean; bit a chunk of ice in an icelandic lagoon; licked my finger after dipping it in a very briny puddle in death valley. Ate snow in the alps and rockies.
Need some snow and water from the 2 polar regions 😂
Nah bro, if we throw an apple on the ground it may become a tree but if we eat it.. It will be with us until next morning and go down through the toilet.. Maybe longer if we constipated
Love this! Thank you
You probably knew this already. Iron can only ever have been created in one place, in the core of dying stars. The colour that you see in your veins, the haemoglobin, is iron particles. So you carry a lot more with you than you ever thought before. You're carrying actual stardust within. Isn't that a marvelous thought as well?
I did this with a little girl at a daycare I worked at. I was 15 and she didn’t want to eat anything. Her mother had told me that morning that she refused to eat. She said we could offer her the packed lunch she brought or the daycare lunch she didn’t mind as long as she ate something. She sat away from all the kids and I quickly realised she didn’t like eating in front of people despite being only 4 years old. I knew exactly how she felt. So I grabbed two bowls of food (the staff were allowed to eat alongside the children as that was the only time we had for lunch) and sat right next to her. I started eating and I had her smell and touch each thing on her plate. Her mother had told us that she didn’t like using utensils because her cognitive issues didn’t allow her to hold them properly. While sitting next to her I turned around and pretended I was just watching the other kids. She started eating. She had just watched me eat the same exact meal and I glanced over at her and she was eating. I used the daycare iPad to send her mother a picture of her eating and she was astonished. When she came to pick her up she was so grateful. I told her to let her use her hands and let her eat alone because that’s how she preferred it. She ate every day after that
Thats wholesome 🥲
What movie i this from ?
That was so sweet 🥹
@@judyjorgenson1286 it clearly says "I" in the beginning. This isn't a movie its a story from the commenter
You're a really good person. We need more people like you in the world. Please don't ever change, God bless your heart.
Made me cry. I went through some struggles and refused to eat as a kid. A lot of amazing people helped me through that
Nope I think you just starving and cannot take it anymore so you decide you wanna start eating again or else you'll crossed over🥱
i didn't eat anything either if I did I used to puke it all out but one day my dad sweeped the puke and made me eat it since than I don't puke after eating or had any eating problems
@@adityashetty4088I hope that’s not true cause lord Jesus that is vile
@@adityashetty4088Thats called trauma and I am so sorry he did that to you. Its clear your issues came from abusive parents.
1000th liker
He seems so nice here, it's such a shame that he suffered from awful burns and turned bad
Hehe Two-Face
What happened?
@@anchariHe also plays Harvey dent in The Dark Knight, who got half of his face burned and became the villain Two-Face
Really. I did not hear about that. Well, I will do something I don't often do. I will say a prayer for this gentle man's quick recovery and his return to us. Amen.❤
Ha ha ha. You got me. Well everyone can use a prayer from time to time.😂😂😂❤👍Amen.
Being on a child’s level and having them know that they can be comfortable is the number 1 key to having them trust you even when it comes to eating .
Love how the woman isn't jealous that she couldn't do it but instead happy the girl is eating.
Yep. That's how you know that the woman is putting effort not because of the fact that she wants to get the girl's attention to herself alone and replace her parents, but rather she puts effort to feed her because she genuinely cares for the girl's well-being.
@@woojinbloo44 exacctlyyy my thought!!
It’s a matter of the man not the woman. Because he’s a kind man and isn’t boastful but rather just wanting to help it makes it easy to trust.
That's a mother. She doesn't care if she's part of the solution. Just that her daughter got the help she needed
@@GTOFreak1 as a parent you know what’s best for you child.
This scene makes me cry every time. The film is called “No Reservations” (2007) by the way, an American adaptation of a German film , “Mostly Martha” (2001).
Thank you for the mention of what movie it is. I'm going to watch it.
This is one of my favorite movies.
but to be fair they butchered the original
Thank youuuu
@@haemmertime yes! we watched mostly martha in german class and it was lovely. i also love catherine zeta-jones so was very excited for the adaptation, but it doesn't hold a candle to the original
She can control her food in take .. she is feeling guilty for being alive and not eating is her way of punishing herself bc she is in horrible pain.. Grief is love with nowhere to go 💔 it felt good to watch her finally eat something 😊❤😊😊😊😊😊😊❤❤❤ pergect example of caring without pushing her boundaries.. I went thru a bad breakup and did the same thing.. I ate for a friend who stayed with me at night so I was not alone.. she cuddled with me and made me wonderful soup and grilled cheeses
Sometimes, all it takes is treating someone with normalcy. Reminding them they're human and they're okay. Children especially.
Someone sent lipstick and paprika to Treblinka, a concentration camp where prisoners continued to die even after the Allied liberated them.
The lipstick and paprika did more to help the prisoners recover than the doctors did.
(I think it was paprika but it was some seasoning that was familiar to them)
After a close friend passed away in the middle of December 2022, I was still eating a little thankfully, but man, it still fucking pains me knowing they're not here anymore to say "Hi friend! 😊" every time they see me. I miss you so much, North.
Lost my bestie of 16 years 17 years ago now childhood friends like sisters. I lost her 9th may 2007. It’s easier but it is sadly a pain you’ll carry forever. You will be happy again. I’m married and have 2 little girls that breaks me Everytime knowing they won’t meet her. Pray everyday I’ll see her again, I will love and miss her everyday until my last breath. I’m so sorry for loss of your friends, sending love ❤
@@chelsealouise3137 Thank you so much for the incredibly kind words. Sending love to you and yours, too! ❤❤
To lose a real friend is beyond words in my opinion. I lost both. Oh, how I miss them so!!!
I am sorry for all your losses and feel your pain. My friend died a little over a year ago, leaving behind her husband and their two young children. I think of her and those kids often. Nothing against her husband, but she truly was the heart of their home. Cancer can be a real B
The girl is an amazing actor at a young age. Her expressions shows her emotion without saying a single line.
Abigail Bresnin
The Ultimate Gift is a great one too.
You have got to see her in My Sister's Keeper.
Yessssssssss❤ SOOOO.much!!!
Three reasons she ate it:
He showed her it was safe
He didn’t force her to eat it
He was kind ❤
This is the most wholesome TH-cam short I've ever seen.
you're new here, aren't you.
Abigail Breslin really was the queen of film as a kid. She was in some TV shows in guest roles as well (like SVU). She’s very talented!
bro ikr little miss sunshine showed me her at a young age as well as hers, steve carrel, and paul danos acting ranges such great actors!
My sister's keeper is her best work, imo!
She's amazing
There were significantly more famous and popular and more talented child actors than her.
She was in everything lol
My uncle was a chef. Took in his (adoptive) son after his parents died in a police raid. They where big dealers. Similar shit happened at his restaurant. I can't tell you how much a man with a big heart can do. Fellas. It's not just the ladies that can be a source of positivity and love. Be strong brothers. For those who can't be strong just yet.
Underrated comment.
Best comment EVERRR.
This is why I love what I do, food brings people together and puts a smile on their face, it has a way of healing the hurt. Similar stuff happened at this
restaurant and I just can't tell you how much a man with a
big heart can do. Fellas, It's not just the ladies that can be a source of positivity and love. Be strong brothers. For those who can't be strong just yet. You believed in me when I didn't even believe in myself now it's time that you believe in yourself as much as you believed in me 💯✨️
So true!!!🔥
After my mum went thru caring for my step dad with cancer & then losing him, i learned it's best not to push for her to eat but to make something she really liked. After plating just a small amount, i'd say "you don't have to eat it all" but she would. I learned after, the reason she was able to eat every day was because i'd made it from scratch, plated & took it into her, had she even had to think about what she was gonna eat, she would've gone without cus even the thought was too much & tired her out.
I got you momma ❤
Hunger is emotional game.. you will feel one when it strikes your emotion. Person made an emotional contact with the girl and she felt the urge to eat.. the silent "Thank You" in the end and a quick acceptance from the chef was added charm to the video..❤🥰💕
This is why I love what I do. Food brings people together, put a smile on their faces, and has a way of healing the hurt.
Good food is one of the things that gets me through the work week, always look forward to getting take out and just enjoy some quiet time.
A big thanks to all cooks and the food they make for giving some comfort during the good and bad times ^^
🍽️
It is good that you are happy
I appreciate those who can give me a good meal.
Thank you for always filling my stomach
This is why I love what I do, food brings people together and puts a smile on their face, it has a way of healing the hurt. Similar stuff happened at this
restaurant and I just can't tell you how much a man with a
big heart can do. Fellas, It's not just the ladies that can be a source of positivity and love. Be strong brothers. For those who can't be strong just yet. You believed in me when I didn't even believe in myself now it's time that you believe in yourself as much as you believed in me 💯✨️
I love cooking for people I would never quit my job I love the crew there my second family there the reason I come to work ❤️💯
Bro is husband material 😍😢❤
Nah he’s the kinda guy that would be two faced in a relationship
He’d be the kind of guy to leave everything to lady luck
I’ve seen this girl in some other shows and the FUCKING TALENT I TELL YOU
At this age? She’s gonna be huge. It’s truly remarkable talent. She’s 1 in a million for sure.
She’s 28 now
"Signs" ❤
Her name is Abegail Breslin. This movie is old. She's an adult now 😅. But yeah I agree with you, she's a rare gem for her age with that excellent acting/talent 😊
The movie name is "no reservations" year 2007 ❤🎉
Thanks!
Thanks
While movies and tv shows were still politically correct back then it wasn't to the unbearable degree it is now.
he had nothing to lose he only had a chance for greatness and he succeeded
Stuff like this makes me cry when I see it😢 I can't stand to see a kid going without or to see a kid suffering. Makes me cry.
So are the kids in gaza
Please pray for them
She wasnt eating cause her aunt didnt know how to raise kids and was cooking fancy food for her.
@@sanaarana8610there are also 1.6 million kids facing malnourishment in South Sudan. This has been going on for years. There is little to no news coverage on them. The whole world is looking at Gaza, and rightfully so. But there are many spots with children dying of hunger not being spoken about.
I feel the same way. No child should suffer or go hungry. It pricks my heart
For those who are curious: Appetite changes whenever your body is in distress, this can be from anything, including emotions. When our bodies realize that everything is fine and that there is no sense of danger, our appetites can return but sometimes it can come back slowly. The human body is a powerful thing.
Movie name: no reservations 2007
Pin it
Yea pin it.
Thanks King 👊
As others said, pin it
Thank youuu
Okay this hit too close to home.
Like legit this is way too close for me.
First proper dish I learned to make was spaghetti bolognese (like in the clip).
I learned it from my aunt, learned it the same exact way she made it.
I was too young to remember but she had some kind of medical condition that made it so she couldn't walk without at least crutches and she would be dead by 40.
She died at 39 when I was 8.
We were at her house after the funeral, just me, my little cousin who lost her mum and a couple of my other cousins.
I got into the kitchen, remembering her on her raised chair by the bench.
Always smiling.
Sub consciously I just started making spaghetti.
When I was done I served a plate to each and every one of us.
We were about halfway through when I looked up and saw my little cousin crying through her food.
To this day at 25 I can still make it the same way.
My little cousin occasionally asks me to make it for her.
She tried to learn to make it from me but she could never grasp it. Most likely cause I'm a terrible teacher because I'm an instinct chef.
But when it's Christmas and we're spending it with our family, one of the days she's down she'll always ask me every year to make it.
Every time she'll cry, knowing it was the same taste.
My spaghetti objectively tastes better since my aunt would make hers with too high of a pasta ratio and make it too runny.
But my cousin will always prefer her mother's version over my own and I will never blame her for that.
Great story thank you for sharing
You're a good man. Keeping her memory alive and cooking for your family. Keep up the good work sir o7
Love is love. Hugging 8 year old you.
When my maternal grandmother and grandfather both died, my mother was an absolute wreck. While she was grieving, I asked her what was one childhood dish she was nostalgic for. It was Worcestershire pork chops, and knowing her mother she probably boiled or simmered them in the sauce, so alot of room to improve.
I marinated the pork for the whole day with garlic and thyme along with some mushrooms, dried off the pork and seared it before using that same marinade to make a glaze to toss em in. While the mushrooms I skewered n broiler and make some asparagus too i.e more comfort foods. Her first bite out of the pork though she said hit her so hard, like she knew it wasnt what her mother made but nostalgically it was everything she remembered about it.
Both me and my brother have slowly been trying to rebuild old recipes from her parents, stuff that either we clearly remembered like Tim's baked beans, to stuff that only she remembers like the Sicilian ragu
Food is such a big comfort. Even if it can be done better, sometimes ya just want it like how ya remember it.
On a family vacation, we just stopped for lunch at a random local restaurant. Meal was good but I decided to also get their last piece of pie and was literally crying after the first bite. It was my grandmother's pie crust - exactly her crust. I had my kids eat it too. It was so unexpected.
Movie is called No Reservations. It's based on a German movie called Mostly Martha. I like both versions but I think Mostly Martha is better.
With italian actor.
@@maruzzella1950 ah. Yes. The one Italian actor in a movie full of German actors and all speaking German. Almost forgot that there was 5 to 10 minutes in Italy.
Gonna watch it rn even tho it's like 2am
Edit:now that I've read the summary it sounds really good
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOUU ❤❤❤
You know, this man just saved this little girl's life. If she still wasn't eating, she could've gotten sick, died, or ended up in the hospital. But this man right here saved her. We need more people like that in this world.
Well, it did not help when Kate made fish with the heads attached. She made weird food that no kid would want to eat. She probably just wanted a pizza!!
The talent the kid has is impeccable
She would later become a zombie killing badass 😂
And in the end, the love you take, it's equal to the love you make. -Paul McCartney
Q
As a Beatles and Paul McCartney fan, this made me happy. This was a perfect quote you chose
Sometimes all you need is the kindness of a stranger.
This warmed my ❤️. I know the feeling she feels , I lost my mommy at 11 and daddy 9 yrs later. Thank you sir❤❤❤
This movie is such an amazing story. Sd a child who lost a parent, I went thru a non eating or sleep phase, and a kind old neighbor couple helped my father and me thru it
I went through a non-sleeping phase after my brother died. And I was an adult. And after my sister died I went through another non-sleeping phase.
@@bethmccall823please accept my deepest sympathy. I pray that you find peace
Name?
@@assass7012 no reservations. With Catherine zeta-jones, and Aaron Eckhart
people like him exist. It feels safe to be around them. people who just feels like medicine for healing.
Harvey talking about Rome again
I was thinking that too 😂😂
What man doesn't think about the Roman empire on a daily?
Then he drops the hardest quote in movie history... 😂
I struggle with binge eating and not eating, and I realize it's an emotional problem, no father and mother narcissist, and I feel this in some deep space inside.
My son suffered from this same issue
When his mother TOOK HIM from me for 2 weeks and then I only had suppervised visits ( I’ve never had a speeding ticket but when you are whoring around and are the one who’s causing all the problems in the family you
lie to make the father look bad)
He has recovered some from it
But he still fights depression and anxiety and probably always will
He’s 22 now and it happened when he was 10
He had been by my side since the day he was born
So lady’s if you have a good husband who works hard and doesn’t drink or do drugs
He’s always at home after work and does all the things he can with the kids
If you want to leave
Then
LEAVE
BUT DONT TAKE HIS CHILDREN AWAY FROM HIM
It can cause him to be someone he WOULD NEVER BE until you tore his heart and world apart all at the same time!!!
Wow theres a lot youre going through. might be a positive thing to talk to a therapist or something about this. You shouldnt have to keep suffering. Hopefully healing is right around the corner for you both
He seems like he is a good person,can usually tell if the actor is really a good person by how they act with the other people,him and Keanu Reeves are two of my favorite actors
He has a pretty solid reputation for being an asshole n he got Abigail fired n labeled difficult to work with because she complained about his behavior.
@@debopriya14 For clarity’s sake, she complained about his behavior in 2023 on the set of another movie, and she is being sued by the producers of that film for her actions, while an investigation stated he didn’t do anything (he apparently berated an extra possibly, i haven’t seen anything more sinister). So it seems there may be more to that story. We’ll have to see.
Aaron is such a great actor! Just so natural with it you wouldn’t even know there was a crew, cameraman, director, etc. Feels like you’re just watching real life happening before your eyes
True and really sad also
Its actually a "technique" which was briefly nicknamed the "naturally trusting stranger"
Brief interaction "What does this smell like to you?" or looking at a picture then showing them, a "This is my Dog (insert name)
he/she is really cuddly" that sort of thing. Make that object/picture/etc seem important to you. Then ask them to hold it while you do something else, tie your shoes, whatever. Then take the object back and ask what they think, "Doesn't (dog name) look cute, what do you think?"
So, it plays in the childs mind like this - this person is talking to me, this person has asked me to hold something of value, this person is genuinely asking for "My" opinion. With a kid that wont talk, for almost any number of reasons, it engages them into talking to you.
The "trick" to the technique is, being 100% committed and following through. Youre bringing them into talking, but its on their terms.
If they dont respond to this first time. separate for a while (to go do something) then return with a "Hey, youre still here" approach.
The main thing to it is, showing trust, interest and actually following through. Being the person they can talk to, until they start talking to people in general.
“😊Save some for me.” 😭😭😭❤
This movie, “No Reservations “ is a sweet story ❤
Have you watched it? Can you give an explanation?
This movie (No Reservations) is actually a remake of a German movie called "Bella Martha" or "Mostly Martha." Beautiful film. Remake doesn't hold a candle to it.
I have only watched Bella Martha, so I was surprised to find out there is a english remake
@@alexd8532 I was excited when I learned about the English remake and tried to watch it but couldn't even make it all the way through 🙈
@@v-ron7839most likely you didn’t even try most people like you do that find out there is a remake and honestly not give it a chance the actors did the story justice
Blimey! I loved the German film. I saw this one with an open mind but it didn't compare. But well done Abigail Breslin, one of my favourite child actors.
@@shania991 I did try! I honestly wanted to like it, and I'm open to remakes and interpretations. I know my comment came off harsh, but it's not like the American version's a terrible movie that you shouldn't enjoy. I probably would've liked it if I saw it first, but I couldn't help comparing it to the original and felt like it was "missing" a lot of the things I loved about it, especially the clashing of cultures. It just left me disappointed.
Love little kids.They will be grateful always.
Back in 2020, I had severe depression. I lost my closest friendships. And for a while, I did not eat enough. It got so bad that just eating became painful to do. Every time I swallowed it felt like I was going to puke. I had to keep at it until my body broke the habit of eating so little. Now, my eating habits are back to normal. But I'm scared of what happened back then. It's frightening to think that extreme sadness could cause you to starve yourself like that. I hope I never need to face that again.
😢 yep i didnt even notice and lost 100lbs food just wasnt on my radar after a traumatic event in my life . I only relised when it hurt to sot down because my tail bone was so exsposed due to no fat on my butt. Ive managed to put a few pounds on now but i used to be fat so im very afraid to put it all back on so im kind of stuck in a cycle 😢. Dont wanna be fat but dont wanna be sickly thin and that in-between is such a hard place to maintain . Im glad to hear you are doing better 🎉 proud of u 👍🏽
@@truecrimefan1433 Hope you find yourself in a place you're comfortable. I'm trying to lose weight as well, but eating is... Really addicting. 😅
@@mysaysthings5512 😂😂 . Thank U 😁
I'm so glad u feel good now I'm my self exeperiancing severe depression for 5 years and bellieve me my estomac even hurt when I eat ❤
I'm like that now I didn't lose anyone but I have been in so much pain due to a fractured head of the femur bone in my right hip everytime I ate I threw up due to the pain. I just found this out recently and will get total hip replacement surgery I'm nervous more than scared but I know it will be ok. I'm slowly trying to eat thru the pain I'm waiting on stuff to do and hopefully soon 🤞 get I taken care of 😔🙏
One of my friends lost her mum…
She didn’t eat for 2 days so I had to force it down her throat ( not litterally) she cried ,I cried and she ate in silence and then we hugged for an hour 😭 . I see her everyday of my life now she is my whole world and I am hers ❤
That's what you call caring friend who cares about kids who long they eat we need more people like him who are professional Cooks add care about kids God bless the man that did that
Awwww he was nice to give the food to her❤😊
You can tell he's a parent by how he handles this 👏👏
This is a very good movie for those who are mourning. It helped me.
Always enjoyed aaron as an actor. Dude has so much versatility and range.
The kid wasnt eating not just because of the trauma but because she wasnt giving her “kid food” she was making gourmet meals. This guy gives her just plain spaghetti something she would know/be comfortable with.
What a great Guy,, He even had a fresh fork already in the dish for her. Good thinking & manners, ❤️🇨🇦🥰
That's the best way to get someone to eat. No pressure, show them what you're making, include them, and eat, too. I know from first hand experience.
There is a beauty here that many go their whole lives without ever caring about. He showed the trinity of a human interaction. Creativity, Logic, and Love. He was creative in his method to get her to form curiosity, he was smart in how he got her to gain desire, and he was loving in his own desire to help. He gave her food, taught her some history, and showed her love. Genuinely so beautiful and something to always strive for even in times where it feels silly or awkward. Passion is what gives you the desire to do these three things in your life towards someone else
I am so impressed by Abigail Breslin. She is 28 and has already been acting for 20 years, and she is really good in every role. She is not someone that I tend to watch for, like I don’t actively follow her career, but I every time I see her in something I keep thinking, “she is really good”. I feel like she isn’t fully out of her child acting career, like I want to see her have a fully adult role as a lead in a big project, because I think she would do really well. So I am excited to see her in more things.