Turkish tradition of paying Mahr only after divorce! When to pay Mahr?

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  • @youtubekullancs8917
    @youtubekullancs8917 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I'm a Turk and i've never heard of that tradition.

    • @angelinaarmy3761
      @angelinaarmy3761 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How much the mahr costs there ??

    • @youtubekullancs8917
      @youtubekullancs8917 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@angelinaarmy3761 There is no exact amount. Man and woman decide that.

  • @keepitreelcatfishing5883
    @keepitreelcatfishing5883 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    “The wife’s money is her money and the husband’s money is both their money” is a lie spread by Nouman Ali Khan. As long as the husband is providing for her rights, she cannot take a single penny without his permission. She can only take it if he’s not providing for her and she must only take what is sufficient for her needs to be met. The ruling is taken from this Hadith:
    Hind bint ‘Utba said, Oh Messenger of Allah (ﷺ)! Abu Sufyan is a miser and he does not give me what is sufficient for me and my children. Can I take of his property without his knowledge?” The prophet (ﷺ) said, “Take what is sufficient for you and your children, and the amount should be just and reasonable.
    And if he’s not providing for her, there’s even a difference of opinion amongst scholars about whether she needs to go to a qadhi first or she can just take the money.

  • @takahashi2852
    @takahashi2852 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Dowery after divorce as if we're in the West where she takes half your money

  • @ServantOfAllaahu-1163
    @ServantOfAllaahu-1163 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    May The Most Highest Infinities Blessings Of Allaahu Be Upon Allaahu And Be Upon Any Prophet Any Nonstop No Matter Any Together.

  • @TheTheletterI
    @TheTheletterI 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I literally just talk to the Sheik Assim about this and her step dad told me "f your Sheik he knows nothing and he's just a TH-camr he knows nothing." I just want to say that I don't believe him I believe the Sheik but even he won't meet with the Sheik to clarify any of his doubts because he is still saying I'm born Muslim 55yrs and you no nothing (talking to me) even though I went and got an expert opinion may Allah continue to keep Sheik healthy and teaching and guiding us in the correct manner and that you make dua for me to have peace in this situation Ameen.

    • @ServantOfAllaahu-1163
      @ServantOfAllaahu-1163 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      May The Most Highest Infinities Blessings Of Allaahu Be Upon Allaahu And Be Upon Any Prophet Any Nonstop No Matter Any Together.

  • @Islamwisehappy
    @Islamwisehappy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    How can she pay zakat when she didn't receive the meher yet?, she might have spend it if she have received it. She is not keeping it with her for a year. Her ex husband or husband don't have money to give to her. So money/meher is not in existence so why she pay zakat? Please check.

    • @ServantOfAllaahu-1163
      @ServantOfAllaahu-1163 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      May The Most Highest Infinities Blessings Of Allaahu Be Upon Allaahu And Be Upon Any Prophet Any Nonstop No Matter Any Together.

    • @Islamwisehappy
      @Islamwisehappy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ServantOfAllaahu-1163 what do you mean. Is it auto correct English?

    • @ServantOfAllaahu-1163
      @ServantOfAllaahu-1163 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Islamwisehappy The Above Supplication Is The Correct English In Every Way.

    • @ServantOfAllaahu-1163
      @ServantOfAllaahu-1163 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Islamwisehappy Yes I write in this English but the Supplication above is very important.

    • @IslamicHavenYT
      @IslamicHavenYT 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@ServantOfAllaahu-1163 It doesn't really make sense.

  • @shahnazwillis3931
    @shahnazwillis3931 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sheikh if man has proposed and paid some amount of dowary and promises to later and being togather for than 27 years the man decided to divorce and does pay the amount left. Also never even mentions about balance what the hukkum.

    • @ServantOfAllaahu-1163
      @ServantOfAllaahu-1163 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      May The Most Highest Infinities Blessings Of Allaahu Be Upon Allaahu And Be Upon Any Prophet Any Nonstop No Matter Any Together.

  • @Abdalamanchester
    @Abdalamanchester 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Mashalah

    • @ServantOfAllaahu-1163
      @ServantOfAllaahu-1163 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      May The Most Highest Infinities Blessings Of Allaahu Be Upon Allaahu And Be Upon Any Prophet Any Nonstop No Matter Any Together.

  • @keepitreelcatfishing5883
    @keepitreelcatfishing5883 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Shaykh al-Islam [Ibn Taymiyah] said in Majmoo’ al-Fataawa, 32/194:
    Whoever thinks of increasing his daughter’s mahr and asking for more than the daughters of the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) were given - when they were the best women in this world in all aspects - is an ignorant fool. The same applies to asking for more than the Mothers of the Believers were given. This applies even if one is well off and can afford it. With regard to one who is poor, he should not give a mahr greater than he can afford to pay without any hardship.

  • @muazunais2378
    @muazunais2378 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Who even comes up with "if you divorce me you should pay me money" 😭😭 , that would be a red flag in itself idk lol

    • @ServantOfAllaahu-1163
      @ServantOfAllaahu-1163 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      May The Most Highest Infinities Blessings Of Allaahu Be Upon Allaahu And Be Upon Any Prophet Any Nonstop No Matter Any Together.

    • @someone-ln4cf
      @someone-ln4cf 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      If Allah granted us this right, who are you to go against it?!

  • @ARCTURUSM-c2t
    @ARCTURUSM-c2t 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Am the person who revert and practicing Islam since from 8 years but my family was refused me to do so things like going masjeedh and all Islam activities now this was the time to my parents wants me to get marry. Obviously my parents try to make marriage in Hindus itself I don't want to get marry. So I approached Muslim girl to get marry now both we are in relationship form 6 months it's her turn in her home to make her marriage too now her parents are not accepting me because of society respect thought as well me is a revert person Please help me how to get valid nikha how to make convence them . How to make this life beautifully halal . I will be waiting for your reply on TH-cam Facebook or Instagram please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please give me an solution for this matter.

    • @ServantOfAllaahu-1163
      @ServantOfAllaahu-1163 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      May The Most Highest Infinities Blessings Of Allaahu Be Upon Allaahu And Be Upon Any Prophet Any Nonstop No Matter Any Together.

    • @ARCTURUSM-c2t
      @ARCTURUSM-c2t 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ServantOfAllaahu-1163 Any possibility way how to convince them ?

    • @ServantOfAllaahu-1163
      @ServantOfAllaahu-1163 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ARCTURUSM-c2t By Allaahu,I will be honest to you I really don't like marriage but I will answer your question and yes marriage is Halaal.
      Show the parents this Supplication:"May The Most Highest Infinities Blessings Of Allaahu Be Upon Allaahu And Be Upon Any Prophet Any Nonstop No Matter Any Together."

    • @ServantOfAllaahu-1163
      @ServantOfAllaahu-1163 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ARCTURUSM-c2t By Allaahu,I really don't like marriage and marriage is Halaal and I will answer your question.
      Show the parents this Supplication:"May The Most Highest Infinities Blessings Of Allaahu Be Upon Allaahu And Be Upon Any Prophet Any Nonstop No Matter Any Together."

    • @ServantOfAllaahu-1163
      @ServantOfAllaahu-1163 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ARCTURUSM-c2t By Allaahu,I really don't like marriage and marriage is Halaal and I will answer your question.
      Show the parents this Supplication:"May The Most Highest Infinities Blessings Of Allaahu Be Upon Allaahu And Be Upon Any Prophet Any Nonstop No Matter Any Together."