One of Lance's gifts is his ability to create a safe space around himself and the person he is talking to. In that space he does not judge, he does not attack, he accepts his counterpart as they are. And then, within that space, something begins to change.
For the past few days, I have discovered and been really blown away by the Tom/Lance team, and by their successes in their respective fields, not to mention their love which is inspirational at the very least. Well done, Tom and Lance on the way you have chosen to love your life, including your new baby xxxx
I would pay money to spend a week with Lance and Tom. Just to listen, and then to be a part of an amazing conversation. I’m 57, white, straight, but incredibly progressive, as the last year of birth for the “boomers” (please don’t flay me, there are lots of us who are progressive). Those 2 men are just incredible.
These talks he does I’ve watched many times and each time I find more means and solace I his words. I’ve spent most of my life hiding in one way or another from something. But I have made a conscious effort that my children never feel they have to hide their differences. This allowed them to be themselves. One to come out tome which we celebrated and cherished their difference. Being a wonderful person, loving and open is all they ever need to be xx
Education of "other" is so important. Sadly it's lacking in so many countries, school, religions and communities. It's heartbreaking, isn't it. I love Lance's stories cos they always make you think because of the truth behind them 😘
Sarah Wow, yes! his bs antidotes set up so beautifully to fit his agenda. Amazing that, would you believe it. Pure manipulation by a con man, swallowed hook line and sinker by dumb liberal sheep like you.
And Lance you always amaze me...love the way you speak, so clearly and with the sincerity that characterize you Plain and simple love you, Tom and your beautiful family
Hey Lance. Jon Krakauer here. I loved watching this interview. You are a magnificent raconteur with noble ambitions. I trust your work on Under the Banner is going well. I have no doubt your script(s) will be terrific.
I'm not sure Lance will see this here as this is the Cambridge Union's channel. Try hitting him up on Instagram or Twitter where he's active - @dlanceblack for both. Also, he was on Instagram today talking about the script! Your book, Lance's script and Ron Howard's directing is going make a masterpiece, no doubt!
Lance, your life story seemed very close to me with a heavy heart as you want on I felt a tear in my eye reminding me how cruel people can be and here at 50 something and with that same tear in my eye cannot overcome the sadness and abuse I endured Sorry I got off track but I praise you for the strength that you can stand up for those with stories that will never be heard.:)
Impressive. Glad I invested the time to listen.Type of person I would love having dinner and conversations. Watching Tom' Daley's videos, Dustin Lance Black seemed "less than intelligent".
I like this interview, Mr. Black did a great job in answering almost all of the questions relevantly but my only concern is did the interviewer have sttuters? Like he kept stuttering, idk if either he is nervous or havin that condition (which is excusable) but cmon if you are interviewer he should be more enthusiastic and reduce the nervous and anxiety cause ngl it kinda ruin the interview vibe a lil bit!
I believe in coalition-building through shared human values. However, since the Republicans had God join its party, religious difference has become magnified in this country and throughout the world. We must talk more about human values, not ones in religions that dehumanize those who are a theological exception. Religion is the source of all cultural divisions.
Yes, he should run for President. I have thought about it in the past and glad the girl that asked him put it out there into the universe. I wonder how people would feel about having a British first husband. You can have your independence, but GOTCHA!
Also I want to say something about running for president question for Lance and how I am grateful that he choose to be activist that made changes without bringing politics into it. American is the center of politic world, election? Every country will focus about that and all and I see that Lance talks mostly centered towards his experience in livin at america and uk (which is not wrong) but if it was politic issues that involved other countries and story it'll be kind of tough for him, nevertheless I do think he could tolerate anything politics related that need to be issued since the way he talks and explain show that. The world still devided to have a gay president and I thank god he choose not to run up in election cause all the hatred that he'll get is unimaginable.
))yet your wanting to help all is a blessing and how honest long as believe in Oneness of the Creator all are aa project in working may be as honest as seem Humanity matters across the board S-60. Make me think of your Mother and all .others with these test would always be concern what relationship that you are not harmed the books before and what moms Ummie no now Quran guildance for All reguardless of personal choice you seem like you have faith in a higher power then self only the Merciful knows what lie a head. Like how you explained about the Mother of the Child the Creator only Judge PERHAPS YOU DID NOT USE AND ABUSE AND LIE TO WOMEN TO HAVE CHILDREN
cant help wishing he could tell the story that he met with his childhood jewish friend and they are now friends again... as adults with the knowledge to respect each other ....and isn't it scary how indoctrination clearly works!
Don't not want to offend you ? Yet you seem to be blessed with a understanding of your Mom her religious values and her culture upbringing and her personal relationship with you and her helping as well as yourstrong Personality .so the Merciful will send the most odd yet understandable connections
Peace Young Man YOUR PICTURE JUST START APPEARING SO I listened it was a heat warm story about your relationship with your ummie ( Arabic English) Mother ,only The Creator know why I'm relating to you feel like perhaps your Mothers Prayers about her Son ?
You seem to have Leadership ability and not just making you personal life the issue most can not ? . Had 2 men and a women in my life growing up they were the closest to family we had we called the men our uncles and the sister of one was AUNT AND MY G Mother never new anything about bedroom (wasn't emotional blackmailed or as some are doing to Parents religious people as I said to a young lady she felt her mother excepting her wasn't enough until I explain her mother's faith value of fear for Children in hell fire was the issue and she was not ashamed she lived in her house yet emotional blackmailed compromise Obedients to God and nn order to have your Son or daughter if helpless must except somebody that your child could keep relation separate from parent relationship bop versus
and you think leaving this comment on the cambridge union youtube page is going to accomplish what exactly?, its clear you are a bit obsessed with tom but being rude about his husband is going to accomplish nothing it just makes you look pathetic
Bruh what did he even do, all that he said in this interview is true and u think tom daley gonna drop this fine and wise man?? Bruh if I was Tom Daley i am hanging onto my relationship and not letting him go. You're just JEALOUS.
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One of Lance's gifts is his ability to create a safe space around himself and the person he is talking to. In that space he does not judge, he does not attack, he accepts his counterpart as they are. And then, within that space, something begins to change.
Tom Herndon haha the perfect echo chamber had been created! Bloody imbeciles.
This is so true
@@sequoiasempervirens6499 that answered my question :)
For the past few days, I have discovered and been really blown away by the Tom/Lance team, and by their successes in their respective fields, not to mention their love which is inspirational at the very least. Well done, Tom and Lance on the way you have chosen to love your life, including your new baby xxxx
I would pay money to spend a week with Lance and Tom. Just to listen, and then to be a part of an amazing conversation. I’m 57, white, straight, but incredibly progressive, as the last year of birth for the “boomers” (please don’t flay me, there are lots of us who are progressive). Those 2 men are just incredible.
I LOVE Lance's speeches so much!!!! So inspiring ❤❤❤❤❤
Lance's book is a amazing , heartbreaking story , so many tears I cried and ,what a story you tell,
These talks he does I’ve watched many times and each time I find more means and solace I his words. I’ve spent most of my life hiding in one way or another from something. But I have made a conscious effort that my children never feel they have to hide their differences. This allowed them to be themselves. One to come out tome which we celebrated and cherished their difference. Being a wonderful person, loving and open is all they ever need to be xx
Listening to this while writing a history paper on Mama’s Boy
Lance’s speech are always so beautiful 😍
Lance is an angel. Love from the Sundarbans.💜
Very inspiring, Lance. Each one of your speeches is so valuable! Loved this Q&A, very interesting questions and answers were launched.
I wonder why the BBC or Channel 4 haven't snapped up 'When We Rise' ? .....I'm curious as to why not.
Education of "other" is so important. Sadly it's lacking in so many countries, school, religions and communities. It's heartbreaking, isn't it. I love Lance's stories cos they always make you think because of the truth behind them 😘
Sarah Wow, yes! his bs antidotes set up so beautifully to fit his agenda. Amazing that, would you believe it. Pure manipulation by a con man, swallowed hook line and sinker by dumb liberal sheep like you.
Passionate And Beautiful Speech
And Lance you always amaze me...love the way you speak, so clearly and with the sincerity that characterize you
Plain and simple love you, Tom and your beautiful family
Extraordinary man.
Lance is simply brilliant.
Such and inspiration Lance. I love how passionate you are.
Very inspiring...the speech and you Lance is beautiful with a heart ❤ I think Tom fell for you because of that #dlanceblack
Hey Lance. Jon Krakauer here. I loved watching this interview. You are a magnificent raconteur with noble ambitions. I trust your work on Under the Banner is going well. I have no doubt your script(s) will be terrific.
I'm not sure Lance will see this here as this is the Cambridge Union's channel. Try hitting him up on Instagram or Twitter where he's active - @dlanceblack for both. Also, he was on Instagram today talking about the script! Your book, Lance's script and Ron Howard's directing is going make a masterpiece, no doubt!
Thank you, Ozma!
Dustin Lance Black is brilliant
A wonderful person, so intimate with everything he does, so great, he is the best.
Mr d l black lovely to hear you talk . Lovely to hear some different stories . Beautiful
Brilliant story teller. I am wondering if Lance's friend Troy has heard this story and gotten in touch with him.....
44:24 We all love Lance in those vlogs! xD
and Tom giving the guy a thumbs up! (in the white turtleneck)
Bonus @ 57:40
Truly inspirational and insightful. Thank you.
And now Lance and Tom have a son!
Lance you are incredible and i adore you being a man.
He's such an engaging storyteller.
Lance, your life story seemed very close to me with a heavy heart as you want on I felt a tear in my eye reminding me how cruel people can be and here at 50 something and with that same tear in my eye cannot overcome the sadness and abuse I endured Sorry I got off track but I praise you for the strength that you can stand up for those with stories that will never be heard.:)
You speak so beautifully! Thank you!
Love Mr Black.
It is so inspiring. Thank u 👍👍👏👏
Impressive. Glad I invested the time to listen.Type of person I would love having dinner and conversations. Watching Tom' Daley's videos, Dustin Lance Black seemed "less than intelligent".
Dustin has a different persona in Tom's vlogs! He's quite delightful in them!
Thanks for posting
Thank you dear! 😘😄
Love him.
That was amazing
Just look at Tom Daley punting in Cambridge and the presenter was with them.
Oh, wow, he is! I never noticed that before. Thanks for pointing it out.
Punting?
@@tylerl4768 dictionary!
#tomdaley how proud are you listening to Lance' insights? I am very proud and inspired 😃
❤❤
Tom 4 First Lady
Dustin black is handsome
I like this interview, Mr. Black did a great job in answering almost all of the questions relevantly but my only concern is did the interviewer have sttuters? Like he kept stuttering, idk if either he is nervous or havin that condition (which is excusable) but cmon if you are interviewer he should be more enthusiastic and reduce the nervous and anxiety cause ngl it kinda ruin the interview vibe a lil bit!
I believe in coalition-building through shared human values. However, since the Republicans had God join its party, religious difference has become magnified in this country and throughout the world. We must talk more about human values, not ones in religions that dehumanize those who are a theological exception. Religion is the source of all cultural divisions.
Or maybe religion is the universal justification of the divisions we humans come up with to exploit others.
Yes, he should run for President. I have thought about it in the past and glad the girl that asked him put it out there into the universe. I wonder how people would feel about having a British first husband. You can have your independence, but GOTCHA!
Also I want to say something about running for president question for Lance and how I am grateful that he choose to be activist that made changes without bringing politics into it. American is the center of politic world, election? Every country will focus about that and all and I see that Lance talks mostly centered towards his experience in livin at america and uk (which is not wrong) but if it was politic issues that involved other countries and story it'll be kind of tough for him, nevertheless I do think he could tolerate anything politics related that need to be issued since the way he talks and explain show that. The world still devided to have a gay president and I thank god he choose not to run up in election cause all the hatred that he'll get is unimaginable.
OMG! I am too Gay, but is the presenter wearing a blue and a brown sock!!!
In the Church, marriage and lots of kids gets you to heaven and becoming a god.
Fairytale BS.
))yet your wanting to help all is a blessing and how honest long as believe in Oneness of the Creator all are aa project in working may be as honest as seem Humanity matters across the board S-60. Make me think of your Mother and all .others with these test would always be concern what relationship that you are not harmed the books before and what moms Ummie no now Quran guildance for All reguardless of personal choice you seem like you have faith in a higher power then self only the Merciful knows what lie a head. Like how you explained about the Mother of the Child the Creator only Judge PERHAPS YOU DID NOT USE AND ABUSE AND LIE TO WOMEN TO HAVE CHILDREN
Macaroni soup.
By the age of 8 I was sleep walking barefoot with angels in America.
see
cant help wishing he could tell the story that he met with his childhood jewish friend and they are now friends again... as adults with the knowledge to respect each other ....and isn't it scary how indoctrination clearly works!
more hormon boys.
Lance you left so much out of what it means to be a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.
Thank goodness he did.
Don't not want to offend you ? Yet you seem to be blessed with a understanding of your Mom her religious values and her culture upbringing and her personal relationship with you and her helping as well as yourstrong Personality .so the Merciful will send the most odd yet understandable connections
Peace Young Man YOUR PICTURE JUST START APPEARING SO I listened it was a heat warm story about your relationship with your ummie ( Arabic English) Mother ,only The Creator know why I'm relating to you feel like perhaps your Mothers Prayers about her Son ?
You seem to have Leadership ability and not just making you personal life the issue most can not ?
. Had 2 men and a women in my life growing up they were the closest to family we had we called the men our uncles and the sister of one was AUNT AND MY G Mother never new anything about bedroom (wasn't emotional blackmailed or as some are doing to Parents religious people as I said to a young lady she felt her mother excepting her wasn't enough until I explain her mother's faith value of fear for Children in hell fire was the issue and she was not ashamed she lived in her house yet emotional blackmailed compromise Obedients to God and nn order to have your Son or daughter if helpless must except somebody that your child could keep relation separate from parent relationship bop versus
Minestrone soup.
Rotten interviewer... not going any further than 2:37. He is on something unless he has a cold :)
You answer questions on a level most usually on defense rather then clear sound like your Mom was real
I cannot stand dlb he is a hater Dem fool!!!! Tom Daley is interesting but yiiiiish Tom ....drop this zero!!!!!
and you think leaving this comment on the cambridge union youtube page is going to accomplish what exactly?, its clear you are a bit obsessed with tom but being rude about his husband is going to accomplish nothing it just makes you look pathetic
@@rosepetal34 lololol "obsessed" uh yea right uh NO!!!!!! cry me a river!!!!!
@@twerkinthecityhuh6340 You seem to be all alone.
@@shau-lin4629 and looooooving it
Bruh what did he even do, all that he said in this interview is true and u think tom daley gonna drop this fine and wise man?? Bruh if I was Tom Daley i am hanging onto my relationship and not letting him go. You're just JEALOUS.
yet another politically correct sermon preached to the choir
What are your politically incorrect views?
Long and boring talk that means nothing!
Nothing to you.
Just like your life long and boring and contribute nothing to this life.
Thanks for letting us know how intellectually ignorant you are.