@barbaragilbet82, You nailed it. The little Ardho will have a super strong immune system as a result of Fantas's sharing. It's the natural order of things. Your family is doing just fine. Good parenting and resilient marriages are not for wimps!¡ Peace and blessings.
We appreciate you are keeping it real with the vlogs and how challenging and hard parenting can be. Having a sick baby is not joke, thankfully you and Jungu work as a team and baby Ardho is getting the best care and medical attention. Wishing Ardho expedite recovery and more restful nights. It is beautiful to see a father bonding with his children too, not only moms...thank you for showing those examples. About Fanta, although we love her high energy, strong personality, caring nature and talkative. I want to send you kudos for setting strategies to create healthy and positive habits. Keep it up Aisha and Jungu, you two are doing fantastic. Keep us updated with Ardho.
Its best for Jungu to do this to ensure his child gets the best care. It is a father`s special gift to take care of his family. All kids are germ magnets. Ardho will make it through and charm the whole pediatric staff. Oh that smile...... Fanta is so gorgeous as her hair grows and she becomes a bi.lingual chatterbox. Take care Sweetie. This too shall pass and you are doing a fabulous job, even when it doesn't feet like it. Prayers are being said for you all and the furball...... Ýou help her to learn coping skills with things she cant control in life when no remains no.`be firm to establish boundaries. When you may want to allow something and delay giving it to her to avoid rewarding the tantrum, "Maybe" (Vielleicht ) is a big help to teach her compromise and self-control. when shes cal,m tell her she gets what shed like for good behavior Hope it helps.
My sons seldom had tantrums, but my granddaughter has more than made up for it😅. She's 6, and has mostly outgrown them, so this will pass the more verbal Fanta becomes. It helped to learn my granddaughter's triggers. Being tired was one of the main ones.
26:22 Aww I'm so sorry to hear that little Ardho is sick he will be in my prayers and Fanta as well those day cares can be extremely germy with all the children. I'm by no means a expert but this maybe something you might try make sure she changes her clothes when she comes home wash hands and face and if she is sick you may have to separate them until she gets better , because babies immune system is not strong and easily can get sick I know it's hard to explain to a toddler that she can't get close to baby brother but Fanta is very smart if you both sit her down and tell her why eventually she will understand, let her know that she is loved but we have to keep Ardho for coughing and getting 🤮 either way I believe you and Jungu will figure out the best way . My prayers going out for your Family❤😊
I hope by now Ardho is feeling better. Sounds like you are entering the "Terrible Twos" with Fanta. That's one of the most testing times for parents, but it's also very important for young children to start to establish their independence, learn action/consequence, and really start to explore the world. Their brains are developing like crazy too, so information is swirling around in their heads, but they don't quite have the language skills to express emotions and frustrations yet. I promise, you WILL survive, though. Lol. You and Jungu are doing so well. You really are. Hugs to you both and your beautiful children!
What worked for me with the tantrums...when I had enough, I pretended that I was having a tantrum. My son stopped immediately and looked at me in surprise. (I did all I could do not to laugh). When he started up again, I started, too. I didn't do it as if I was mimicing him, but as if something was wrong. After I started my "tantrums", his tantrums happened on two more occassions and then ithey stopped. My son is 56 now and he tried the "tantrum" trick on his two children. It worked for the three of them. Good luck with the tantrums.
So sorry to hear about Ardho’s illness but encouraged that he’s doing better. Please try to hold firm when you tell Fanta no. I know it may be difficult but it will pay off in the end. Stay strong, as Jungu likes to say “fighting” ❤
God strengthening you physically and emotionally. " Please Lord make this boy well and return him in his house, near to mummy. Fill them with your presence."
Hi Aisha! I think you are definitely on the right path when maintaining your stance and letting your NOs mean No. My daughter has a strong personality which we discovered when she was a toddler. However, I was consistent in not giving in, no matter how long her tantrum endured…and believe me, she was persistent. I was just determined to outlast that persistence. Eventually, she learned that when I said No, that it was final. Her dad, on the other hand, was the complete opposite..😂😂.. but that is a story for another time. My son comes along and he has a totally different personality than his sister..requiring slightly a different way to discipline. I just had to share this too..I ran across your channel a while back when I saw you in a thumbnail of one of your videos and you look just like my mother did back in her younger years. Turns out, you are just as sweet as she is.(if I knew how to share a pic of her, I would🫤 ) Keep creating content of your beautiful family … hoping your son is feeling much better.
Our prayers 🙏 go out to Ardho for a speedy, healthy recovery. By the look of handsome Ardho, he's on his way to a healthy, speedy recovery with his reassurance, cute smiles 😃 Mommy and Fanta! Ardho is in excellent hands with the medical doctors, nurses, and his loving daddy ❤ Fighting ✊️ Get Well Soon Baby Ardho ❤ and Fanta you're such a wonderful loving big sister ❤
Ardho will be fine. I love the way he wants to hold his head proud, and extend his neck. He's a beautiful, strong baby!! You'll make it through this difficult time with Fanta too! You both are wonderful parents!!
Gute Besserung wünsche ich dem kleinen! Fanta ist ja zu goldig , sie hat ja so eine tolle Personalität! Man fühlt sich doch ein bisschen verloren when ein Kind im Krankenhaus ist ! Kopf hoch! Papa ist ja auch ein guter Mensch! Fighting
It was so cute that Jungru knew what to do to get Ardo to smile. That was my favorite part of this video. Thank you so much for sharing even these moments with us :)
ich hoffe Ardho wird es schnell besser gehen😢 und Fanta kann schon sagen „was ist das?“. Das ist so cool und spannend zu sehen, wie Kinder die Sprache langsam sprechen können☺️
May Ardho have a full and complete recovery. You are wise to know that your “No” must be solid. Fanta will learn from you that she must also mean it and stick to it when she must say, “No” to situations and people that are not good for her. Jungu is a wonderful Father and Husband. We look forward to having you all together with a healthy Ardho in your arms. It is so adorable to listen to Fanta ‘talking’. She will be saying full sentences and having long conversations with you and Jungu very soon!!! Stay Strong…….FIGHTING!!! 🥰😍❤️
In America, we call this “Terrible Twos” 😂 I was watching Kimono Mom talk about how toddlers don’t understand patience and it’s the prime time for them to gradually learn about patience as they’re learning how to speak and communicate.
At 24:09 Fanta says "look behind me" in English (at least that's what I heard). She was talking about Mommy being funny hiding under the bed cover. Was so cute how she started narrating. 😊
You 're right to say NO, even if sometimes it's no firt and yes few time later . Like that she knows you're not weak, children need to be educate, they are like wild animal . Fanta is at the time where she's trying to know up to the point where she and you can get along .Also Aisha for now you have the nice way to say it ! 🤩
You both are great parents. It is hard being away from your baby but Jungu is doing an excellent job( father award) Ever heard of ( terrible 2’s) Fanta is in that stage. Yall gotta to be firmer with her set boundaries or she’s going think it’s all gonna go her way. That’s why she has tantrums. ( to get her way)You don’t want as she grows to think she’s in charge. Kids are very smart n manipulative. As parents we see our kids as cute n don’t want to chastise them. But it is for their benefit to create good character. Keeping baby boy in prayer. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I am keeping you all in my prayers. I am sorry Ardho is sick. Fanta is so adorable, even when she is having a tantrum. 😅 ❤ she liked having you to herself.
Yes at definitely at 24:09 Fanta for sure said “K, look behind me” in English with a twist of a British accent as it definitely didn’t sound American 🎉
OMGoodness! Your son looks just like your husband!! So happy! Praying that your son heals and continues good health!! So loving to see your husband at the hospital with your son! Powerful ❤!! Blessings to your family.
You are such an excellent mommy. I am praying for beautiful Ardho. I am an early childhood teacher, and I always share with parents to acknowledge when the child is doing something good at least 10 times more than when they are doing something bad in that way they will seek to do good things to receive your attention. It doesn't have to be big things. For example, "Fanta, I like the way that you are gently touching my arm". That sounds silly, but it really works! Your husband is adorable with you and your children. You are such a special little family! God bless you!
I hope Ardho will get better! It's such a healthy baby we can already tell he's gonna get better quickly. It's the thing when you have several kids, when one is sick, the other one(s) will be too for sure!! There's almost nothing we can do about it.
Thank you, once again, for your honest and genuine video. First of all, Jungu...you're such a hands on father. You remind me a lot of my husband. And, Aisha, I can so relate in regards to Fanta. I have two girls and remember my first child being more of a challenge with her temper tantrums. They do call it 'the terrible 2's' (in years). You're doing right by not letting her get her way. A lot of patience is needed. Hope you're all feeling well. Hang in there ❤❤❤❤
I’m glad Ardho is on the mend. Hope you are both coping well. It’s frightening when you have a little one and you’re not sure what is wrong. Bless you all. ❤
Thankful it's not a serious illness 🙌🏽. You and Jungu made the right choice to have your baby seen at the hospital. My 2nd son, at 2 months old, had RSV. We had never heard of it at the time and thought he just had a cold because our older son was 6 years old and in school. So we thought it was normal for our baby to catch something. It was not serious at first and on the 4th day after he started his cold, he stopped breathing because so much mucus developed in his lungs. Within minutes, it turned into a very serious emergency and getting to the hospital was very difficult because I could not drive with how sick he was and the ambulance took almost 20 minutes to arrive. He remained in the hospital for a week. You both did the right thing, so little Ardho's cold gets treated early.
Aisha you and Jungu seems to be doing a great job as parents to two under 2year olds. So don't be so hard on yourself. Jungu is a great dad and he is looking after Ardho as you are caring for Fanta. Parenting comes with challenges the are out of out control at times.
I am praying for Ardho a speedy recovery. You raise your children that is best fit for your family. Everyone has different parenting styles. You and Jungu are wonderful and amazing parents. Love to the family. 💙🩷🩷💙🙏🏽🥰
Watching Jungu with you and your children melts my heart! 💕✨️ He's such an amazing person! You both are. Your children are so blessed to have both of you.
Hi Aisha, Jungu, Fanta, Ardho & Sarangi! I am so sorry that the new year has started off rough. I am praying that Ardho will be all better and that he and Jungu return home soon. Jungu is doing a wonderful job caring for Ardho while he is in the hospital. Ardho's smile is so precious. 😀 Aisha, I am glad that you know what you need to do to maintain your calm. Know that your TH-cam Family is praying for you and yours.
Poor Ardho - its must so hard to have a sick child 😟 you guys did a good job splitting up to manage care, especially when it comes to medical fluency as specialized language is the most difficult to learn even for polyglots.
Breast feeding is very healthy for your baby. I breastfeed all of my children. It help mom to bond with baby, passes on immunity and many other benefits.
Prayers for healing over the baby!! Fanta is at the stage where tantrums are definitely age appropriate for her. One suggestion would be to when she is having make sure she is not around anything that hurt her or she could pull down and just walk away from and ignore it. When you don’t react sometimes so fast to the tantrums children tend to pull themselves together and then it allows for her to express verbally(or however you communicate with her) what she is requesting.
Tenho um carinho e admiração pela sua família. Desejo que Ardho melhore logo e volte para casa. Feliz ano novo. Sucesso nas vendas dos seus produtos de skin care! 😊
I will pray for you and your family to be strengthened through colds and all sicknesses. May the angels of Heaven 💞 encamp all around you and your family and keep you safe. May the joy of ALMIGHTY GOD be your strength 🌹 in times of concern and stress. Be still and know that everything is working out for your family's goods. Ardho is strong and a mighty little prince 🙏
Prayers for Ardho quick recovery ❤️🩹🙏🏽 Jungho is your rock. That hospital is very odd when it comes to modern family dynamics, I definitely wouldn’t have coped at all. You are doing amazing Aisha. Parenthood is challenging and also fun at the same time. Fanta is testing her boundaries and will continue to do so lol ❤ thank you for sharing xxxx
Fanta has a good appetite! She's so cute! I'm sorry to hair about the baby's hopitalization, glad it's not serious. Yeah, living in a foreign country and having limited knowledge of the native language you really feel it more when it pertains to medical care, I can imagine. I pray he gets better soon Aisha.
Hi, sending prayers for Ardho and you all as well. I’m sure it has been very tough for you not being able to go to Ardho. It is a blessing to have a devoted husband who is also a very active father, it is a very good thing. I hope that you all are able to soon have a moment (with Ardho home and well) to pause, rest your hearts and mentally recover.
I hope Ardho gets well soon!🙂 I'm guessing Fanta is going through her "terrible twos"😬 I think all kids go through it. It's so great you're teaching Fanta more than one language. 😃
What a BEAUTIFUL PARTNERSHIP you have with your husband! You can tell that he’s part of Ardho’s daily routine because of how wonderfully he was taking care of his son in the hospital. In regards to Fanta you are doing an amazing job of handling a toddler. No one has a perfect way of raising a child. There’s nothing wrong with trying to avoid a tension filled disciplinary process with your daughter. I’ve noticed in previous videos that just by changing the tone of your voice Fanta’s reactions. So it’s apparent that she isn’t allowed to do what she wants. The way you and your husband tag team with disciplining her. It’s a good thing that you’re showing the good and bad side of being parents. Keep up the amazing job of being YOU.🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️
Praying that Ardho gets well soon and back into your arms. ❤ Seems Fanta is missing him too. Fanta is full of energy and this is completely normal at her age. You are teaching her well. I adore her playroom!
Jungu is a fantastic father! So sweet to him in action taking good care of baby. You and Fanta are doing great! Not always easy raising babies. But as time goes on, it will become less stressful. Hang in there and remember to take of yourself too! Love from Texas, KELLIE
I love these real life videos. Fanta is going through the “terrible twos” so try not to take it personal. My suggestion is to give her a timer so you can have a moment to think of a response. Set it at 2 min at this age and tell her to ask again when the timer goes off. It will take a little time to adjust but it’s worth it. Hugs
Speedy recovery to Ardho. My toddler made it where my second baby's first year of life was just constant illness. You're right, you can't stop bonding between siblings but teaching hygiene to help made things better. Like carrying a spray hand sanitizer before touching baby's face or hands. But nothing stops them from coughing or sneezing directly on them at this young age.
Your hubby is such a good dad and husband. My daughter was born in 2005. Her dad has never taken her to a doctor appointment or showed up at the hospital when we went. Also Ardho may never have a tantrum. They have individual personalities and even if he sees Fanta doing it he may never. My brother had 4 kids very close in age. We often kept them all for days. One was more susceptible to tantrums than the others. The others looked at them like they had lost their minds 😂 I will say the one that had tantrums had them mostly because their parents spoiled her and let her get away with a lot and did not correct her behavior. It got to the point that we would no longer babysit her because they didn’t want anyone to correct her behavior. I applaud you for attempting to deal with the behavior now. Stand strong in the things you won’t allow because if you cave in due to crying it will only teach her that crying wins. And don’t let anyone tell you your way of handling is right or wrong. Every child is different. You know your child. Thankfully my daughter NEVER had a tantrum. She would look at the kid and look at me like do you see this?!?! 😂 But again, I say all this to say, he may never exhibit this behavior even if he sees Fanta doing it.
😂 Your ending is hilarious Fanta is the best she is like “Let’s go play” and Jungu is the “BEST APPA” omg what a sweetheart he is, so nurturing and supportive..raising kids is not a one size fits all so I really hope your viewers can “KEEP their ADVICE & COMMENTS POSITIVE” as you Don’t NEED the additional “STRESS” as you open up your Family Lives to us! I enjoy watching every VLOG you post and I actually wish it was more than 1 per week as it seems I can’t get enough of your precious Family; I know your extremely busy with Mom of 3, 1Pet, e-commerce & Vlog life and that’s a whole lot on your plate and you do it masterfully! Nuff love ❤️😘🇯🇲
Happy New Year! Daycare is germ city…it’s not good but it happens. You just have to monitor Fanta’s contact with Ardho. Sending well wishes to him for a speedy recovery. 💕
Fanta is in her “peuter puberteit” (toddler puberty) is a real thing y’all is a real thing 😅 and Ardo is building up that immune system 💪🏽 aaaahhh the hectic of a loving household ♥️🙏🏾 ps breast milk is indeed good for health 💪🏽 Lots of love, strength and prosperity for you and your family 🥰♥️🥰
Ardho, is a beautiful boy, he has a nice smile and beautidul deep eyes !!! ans his smile in the video shows he is hetting very well !!! Jungu is an amazing Father !
I am praying for you when you are stressed trust Jesus he will give you peace l pray for totally healing for your son and that your family will have peace thank you for letting us know have a blessed and safe weekend for your family and your dog Amen
Liebe Aisha , alles wird gut mit dem Kleinen sein ! Mach Dir keine Sorgen bitte . Ich bin auch ein Mensch , der sich immer um alles Sorgen macht und zu viel denkt. Immer schreibe ich ein neues Drehbuch :) Es ist Winterzeit / Infektionenzeit . Fanta bringt " Uberraschungen " :( aus dem Kindergarten. So ist es eben . Viel Gesundheit fur euch vier / ups ! funf :) / und bitte mache Dir keine Sorgen . P,S. Jungu ist ein wunderbarer Vater und Ehemann !
I'm so sorry Ardho is sick, I'll be praying you guys that he's already better and if not, that he gets better soon. As far as Fanta and her tantrums, I think you're doing well Aisha. Just be consistent with her, if you say no to certain things, like for example if you go in the store and she wants something and you say no, then always say no. The consistency will help her to learn and also, even if she still cries and gets upset, that's okay, because even tho she cries, she appreciates the consistency. It's more stressful for children when direction from Mommy and Daddy is not consistent, but this is not something that children can put into words. Consistence teaches children that their parents love and care about them. You and your husband are doing a great job. Don't be too hard on yourself. Also, you're really patient, so please keep being patient as well. Tantrums happen b/c Fanta doesn't have the words yet to express what she's feeling and also she's still a baby, so emotional regulation will take time. Anyway, I'm very happy vlogging helps you to keep busy so you don't overthink during a stressful time like this, and again, you and Jungu are doing a great job. I hope you have a great week and I look forward to the next vlog. 🥰
Jungu did a lot great job we need more fathers like him ❤
Sending a hug
All stay healthy
Indeed such a great responsible father and husband
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Baby is in my prayers. He will be well soon. Sending blessings.
Ardho will be ok.🙏🏾 He'll get immune to germs from his sister's daycare. It'll definitely build up his immune system.
@barbaragilbet82, You nailed it. The little Ardho will have a super strong immune system as a result of Fantas's sharing. It's the natural order of things. Your family is doing just fine. Good parenting and resilient marriages are not for wimps!¡ Peace and blessings.
Thank you☺️
Agreed!
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We appreciate you are keeping it real with the vlogs and how challenging and hard parenting can be. Having a sick baby is not joke, thankfully you and Jungu work as a team and baby Ardho is getting the best care and medical attention. Wishing Ardho expedite recovery and more restful nights. It is beautiful to see a father bonding with his children too, not only moms...thank you for showing those examples. About Fanta, although we love her high energy, strong personality, caring nature and talkative. I want to send you kudos for setting strategies to create healthy and positive habits. Keep it up Aisha and Jungu, you two are doing fantastic. Keep us updated with Ardho.
Get well, little dude. Ahhh…. Fanta is finally hitting the “terrible 2’s”. The way she says her brother's name is too cute.😆
Jungu is such a good father and is always so hands on. Wishing you all a happy and healthy new year from 🇺🇸
Baby Ardho is in my prayers 🙏🏻 ❤️
Jungu is a caring father. Very good to see❤❤❤
Its best for Jungu to do this to ensure his child gets the best care. It is a father`s special gift to take care of his family. All kids are germ magnets. Ardho will make it through and charm the whole pediatric staff. Oh that smile...... Fanta is so gorgeous as her hair grows and she becomes a bi.lingual chatterbox. Take care Sweetie. This too shall pass and you are doing a fabulous job, even when it doesn't feet like it. Prayers are being said for you all and the furball...... Ýou help her to learn coping skills with things she cant control in life when no remains no.`be firm to establish boundaries. When you may want to allow something and delay giving it to her to avoid rewarding the tantrum, "Maybe" (Vielleicht ) is a big help to teach her compromise and self-control. when shes cal,m tell her she gets what shed like for good behavior Hope it helps.
My sons seldom had tantrums, but my granddaughter has more than made up for it😅. She's 6, and has mostly outgrown them, so this will pass the more verbal Fanta becomes. It helped to learn my granddaughter's triggers. Being tired was one of the main ones.
26:22 Aww I'm so sorry to hear that little Ardho is sick he will be in my prayers and Fanta as well those day cares can be extremely germy with all the children. I'm by no means a expert but this maybe something you might try make sure she changes her clothes when she comes home wash hands and face and if she is sick you may have to separate them until she gets better , because babies immune system is not strong and easily can get sick I know it's hard to explain to a toddler that she can't get close to baby brother but Fanta is very smart if you both sit her down and tell her why eventually she will understand, let her know that she is loved but we have to keep Ardho for coughing and getting 🤮 either way I believe you and Jungu will figure out the best way . My prayers going out for your Family❤😊
I hope by now Ardho is feeling better.
Sounds like you are entering the "Terrible Twos" with Fanta. That's one of the most testing times for parents, but it's also very important for young children to start to establish their independence, learn action/consequence, and really start to explore the world. Their brains are developing like crazy too, so information is swirling around in their heads, but they don't quite have the language skills to express emotions and frustrations yet.
I promise, you WILL survive, though. Lol. You and Jungu are doing so well. You really are. Hugs to you both and your beautiful children!
What worked for me with the tantrums...when I had enough, I pretended that I was having a tantrum. My son stopped immediately and looked at me in surprise. (I did all I could do not to laugh). When he started up again, I started, too. I didn't do it as if I was mimicing him, but as if something was wrong. After I started my "tantrums", his tantrums happened on two more occassions and then ithey stopped. My son is 56 now and he tried the "tantrum" trick on his two children. It worked for the three of them. Good luck with the tantrums.
So sorry to hear about Ardho’s illness but encouraged that he’s doing better. Please try to hold firm when you tell Fanta no. I know it may be difficult but it will pay off in the end. Stay strong, as Jungu likes to say “fighting” ❤
God strengthening you physically and emotionally. " Please Lord make this boy well and return him in his house, near to mummy. Fill them with your presence."
Amen ❤. I agree with this beautiful prayer Mapia. God bless you always.
Hi Aisha! I think you are definitely on the right path when maintaining your stance and letting your NOs mean No. My daughter has a strong personality which we discovered when she was a toddler. However, I was consistent in not giving in, no matter how long her tantrum endured…and believe me, she was persistent. I was just determined to outlast that persistence. Eventually, she learned that when I said No, that it was final. Her dad, on the other hand, was the complete opposite..😂😂.. but that is a story for another time. My son comes along and he has a totally different personality than his sister..requiring slightly a different way to discipline. I just had to share this too..I ran across your channel a while back when I saw you in a thumbnail of one of your videos and you look just like my mother did back in her younger years. Turns out, you are just as sweet as she is.(if I knew how to share a pic of her, I would🫤 ) Keep creating content of your beautiful family … hoping your son is feeling much better.
Our prayers 🙏 go out to Ardho for a speedy, healthy recovery. By the look of handsome Ardho, he's on his way to a healthy, speedy recovery with his reassurance, cute smiles 😃 Mommy and Fanta! Ardho is in excellent hands with the medical doctors, nurses, and his loving daddy ❤ Fighting ✊️ Get Well Soon Baby Ardho ❤ and Fanta you're such a wonderful loving big sister ❤
Ardho will be fine. I love the way he wants to hold his head proud, and extend his neck. He's a beautiful, strong baby!! You'll make it through this difficult time with Fanta too! You both are wonderful parents!!
Gute Besserung wünsche ich dem kleinen! Fanta ist ja zu goldig , sie hat ja so eine tolle Personalität! Man fühlt sich doch ein bisschen verloren when ein Kind im Krankenhaus ist ! Kopf hoch! Papa ist ja auch ein guter Mensch! Fighting
It was so cute that Jungru knew what to do to get Ardo to smile. That was my favorite part of this video. Thank you so much for sharing even these moments with us :)
ich hoffe Ardho wird es schnell besser gehen😢 und Fanta kann schon sagen „was ist das?“. Das ist so cool und spannend zu sehen, wie Kinder die Sprache langsam sprechen können☺️
I can tell Ardho is doing well, I hope that he soon be at home with you guys.😇👏🏻
Speedy recovery for Ardho. He looks great and handling it all well. Cheers to Jungu. 🙌🏽✨
Stay strong, Aisha, and speedy recovery for your baby boy.
Daycare is full of little germinators; I hope our Ardho can get past these episodes with a stronger immune system.
May Ardho have a full and complete recovery. You are wise to know that your “No” must be solid. Fanta will learn from you that she must also mean it and stick to it when she must say, “No” to situations and people that are not good for her. Jungu is a wonderful Father and Husband. We look forward to having you all together with a healthy Ardho in your arms. It is so adorable to listen to Fanta ‘talking’. She will be saying full sentences and having long conversations with you and Jungu very soon!!! Stay Strong…….FIGHTING!!! 🥰😍❤️
What a handsome baby ardho is😍😍..get well soon and stay healthy❤❤❤
Feel better Ardho! His little smiles are so cute.
OMGosh! They are. He and Fanta make you want to smile.
In America, we call this “Terrible Twos” 😂 I was watching Kimono Mom talk about how toddlers don’t understand patience and it’s the prime time for them to gradually learn about patience as they’re learning how to speak and communicate.
At 24:09 Fanta says "look behind me" in English (at least that's what I heard). She was talking about Mommy being funny hiding under the bed cover. Was so cute how she started narrating. 😊
I definitely think you are right though. Coz I heard it too
Sounds like it.
Yeah ,she says look behind me nice 😊😊
Hoping that Ardho recovers quickly. I pray everyone stays healthy.❤
Fanta will react to your energy. If you deal with each situation calmly and confident, in time she will learn to stay calm 🙏🏽♥️
You 're right to say NO, even if sometimes it's no firt and yes few time later . Like that she knows you're not weak, children need to be educate, they are like wild animal . Fanta is at the time where she's trying to know up to the point where she and you can get along .Also Aisha for now you have the nice way to say it ! 🤩
You have to be firm and stand on your decision. If y’all keep being passive with her she’s going to run you guys.
El bebé es muy muy lindo, parece un muñequito. Siento que este enfermito, pero parece que se esta recuperando. Que Dios te lo proteja y cuidalo mucho
It's true that Fanta likes to eat, I can see in the videos that she enjoys everything she eats. God bless her 🫶🙏🏼 Hi, Aisha 🥰
You both are great parents. It is hard being away from your baby but Jungu is doing an excellent job( father award) Ever heard of ( terrible 2’s) Fanta is in that stage. Yall gotta to be firmer with her set boundaries or she’s going think it’s all gonna go her way. That’s why she has tantrums. ( to get her way)You don’t want as she grows to think she’s in charge. Kids are very smart n manipulative. As parents we see our kids as cute n don’t want to chastise them. But it is for their benefit to create good character. Keeping baby boy in prayer. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I am keeping you all in my prayers. I am sorry Ardho is sick. Fanta is so adorable, even when she is having a tantrum. 😅 ❤ she liked having you to herself.
I thought that too! Just Mommy and me time. Wanting hugs and holding alot. 😊
don't worry to much he's gonna be okay soon he is a strong little man
Yes at definitely at 24:09 Fanta for sure said “K, look behind me” in English with a twist of a British accent as it definitely didn’t sound American 🎉
Me alegro que esté mejor 👍🏻 besos 💋 para el bebé
OMGoodness! Your son looks just like your husband!! So happy! Praying that your son heals and continues good health!! So loving to see your husband at the hospital with your son! Powerful ❤!! Blessings to your family.
Great support from dad. Bless you all, and this too shall pass, and baby will grow stronger. Ardho is too cute for himself. The smile is priceless ❤️
Speedy recovery to baby Aldho❤ Jungu got this downpack and we need not worry❤❤❤❤
You are such an excellent mommy. I am praying for beautiful Ardho. I am an early childhood teacher, and I always share with parents to acknowledge when the child is doing something good at least 10 times more than when they are doing something bad in that way they will seek to do good things to receive your attention. It doesn't have to be big things. For example, "Fanta, I like the way that you are gently touching my arm". That sounds silly, but it really works! Your husband is adorable with you and your children. You are such a special little family! God bless you!
Prayers for Baby Ardho from Singapore ❤️❤️❤️
I hope Ardho will get better! It's such a healthy baby we can already tell he's gonna get better quickly. It's the thing when you have several kids, when one is sick, the other one(s) will be too for sure!! There's almost nothing we can do about it.
Thank you, once again, for your honest and genuine video. First of all, Jungu...you're such a hands on father. You remind me a lot of my husband. And, Aisha, I can so relate in regards to Fanta. I have two girls and remember my first child being more of a challenge with her temper tantrums. They do call it 'the terrible 2's' (in years). You're doing right by not letting her get her way. A lot of patience is needed. Hope you're all feeling well. Hang in there ❤❤❤❤
I’m glad Ardho is on the mend. Hope you are both coping well. It’s frightening when you have a little one and you’re not sure what is wrong. Bless you all. ❤
que Deus esteja no controle da vida de Ardho e toda família jungu e um pai maravilhoso
It's never easy seeing our kids sick. Praying for a speedy recovery for Ardho❤🙏🏽
Thankful it's not a serious illness 🙌🏽. You and Jungu made the right choice to have your baby seen at the hospital. My 2nd son, at 2 months old, had RSV. We had never heard of it at the time and thought he just had a cold because our older son was 6 years old and in school. So we thought it was normal for our baby to catch something. It was not serious at first and on the 4th day after he started his cold, he stopped breathing because so much mucus developed in his lungs. Within minutes, it turned into a very serious emergency and getting to the hospital was very difficult because I could not drive with how sick he was and the ambulance took almost 20 minutes to arrive. He remained in the hospital for a week. You both did the right thing, so little Ardho's cold gets treated early.
Aisha you and Jungu seems to be doing a great job as parents to two under 2year olds. So don't be so hard on yourself. Jungu is a great dad and he is looking after Ardho as you are caring for Fanta. Parenting comes with challenges the are out of out control at times.
I am praying for Ardho a speedy recovery. You raise your children that is best fit for your family. Everyone has different parenting styles. You and Jungu are wonderful and amazing parents. Love to the family. 💙🩷🩷💙🙏🏽🥰
Watching Jungu with you and your children melts my heart! 💕✨️ He's such an amazing person! You both are. Your children are so blessed to have both of you.
Hi Aisha, Jungu, Fanta, Ardho & Sarangi! I am so sorry that the new year has started off rough. I am praying that Ardho will be all better and that he and Jungu return home soon. Jungu is doing a wonderful job caring for Ardho while he is in the hospital. Ardho's smile is so precious. 😀 Aisha, I am glad that you know what you need to do to maintain your calm. Know that your TH-cam Family is praying for you and yours.
Praying for baby Ardho 🙏❤️
Poor Ardho - its must so hard to have a sick child 😟 you guys did a good job splitting up to manage care, especially when it comes to medical fluency as specialized language is the most difficult to learn even for polyglots.
Thank you for sharing your daily with us. Such a beautiful family and you're doing an amazing job, mamma 💞
Breast feeding is very healthy for your baby. I breastfeed all of my children. It help mom to bond with baby, passes on immunity and many other benefits.
Praying for Ardho's full recovery and for comfort for the family during this time. Excellent job Mom and Dad! You are both Amazing ❤❤❤❤
Prayers for healing over the baby!! Fanta is at the stage where tantrums are definitely age appropriate for her. One suggestion would be to when she is having make sure she is not around anything that hurt her or she could pull down and just walk away from and ignore it. When you don’t react sometimes so fast to the tantrums children tend to pull themselves together and then it allows for her to express verbally(or however you communicate with her) what she is requesting.
Jungu is a good dad! Ardho was trying to talk to him! ❤
Jungu is such a great dad! Ardho looks good.
Tenho um carinho e admiração pela sua família. Desejo que Ardho melhore logo e volte para casa. Feliz ano novo. Sucesso nas vendas dos seus produtos de skin care! 😊
I will pray for you and your family to be strengthened through colds and all sicknesses. May the angels of Heaven 💞 encamp all around you and your family and keep you safe. May the joy of ALMIGHTY GOD be your strength 🌹 in times of concern and stress. Be still and know that everything is working out for your family's goods. Ardho is strong and a mighty little prince 🙏
Sending prayers and hugs for the baby to get better soon
Prayers for Ardho quick recovery ❤️🩹🙏🏽 Jungho is your rock. That hospital is very odd when it comes to modern family dynamics, I definitely wouldn’t have coped at all. You are doing amazing Aisha. Parenthood is challenging and also fun at the same time. Fanta is testing her boundaries and will continue to do so lol ❤ thank you for sharing xxxx
Fanta has a good appetite! She's so cute! I'm sorry to hair about the baby's hopitalization, glad it's not serious. Yeah, living in a foreign country and having limited knowledge of the native language you really feel it more when it pertains to medical care, I can imagine. I pray he gets better soon Aisha.
You are a great mom and great parents!
Parent your way!
I pray that adorable Ardho will get better--your kids are beautiful!❤😊
Hi, sending prayers for Ardho and you all as well. I’m sure it has been very tough for you not being able to go to Ardho. It is a blessing to have a devoted husband who is also a very active father, it is a very good thing. I hope that you all are able to soon have a moment (with Ardho home and well) to pause, rest your hearts and mentally recover.
I hope Ardho gets well soon!🙂
I'm guessing Fanta is going through her "terrible twos"😬
I think all kids go through it. It's so great you're teaching Fanta more than one language. 😃
What a BEAUTIFUL PARTNERSHIP you have with your husband! You can tell that he’s part of Ardho’s daily routine because of how wonderfully he was taking care of his son in the hospital. In regards to Fanta you are doing an amazing job of handling a toddler. No one has a perfect way of raising a child. There’s nothing wrong with trying to avoid a tension filled disciplinary process with your daughter. I’ve noticed in previous videos that just by changing the tone of your voice Fanta’s reactions. So it’s apparent that she isn’t allowed to do what she wants. The way you and your husband tag team with disciplining her. It’s a good thing that you’re showing the good and bad side of being parents. Keep up the amazing job of being YOU.🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️
Praying that Ardho gets well soon and back into your arms. ❤ Seems Fanta is missing him too. Fanta is full of energy and this is completely normal at her age. You are teaching her well. I adore her playroom!
Jungu is a fantastic father! So sweet to him in action taking good care of baby. You and Fanta are doing great! Not always easy raising babies. But as time goes on, it will become less stressful. Hang in there and remember to take of yourself too!
Love from Texas,
KELLIE
I love these real life videos. Fanta is going through the “terrible twos” so try not to take it personal.
My suggestion is to give her a timer so you can have a moment to think of a response.
Set it at 2 min at this age and tell her to ask again when the timer goes off. It will take a little time to adjust but it’s worth it. Hugs
Speedy recovery to Ardho. My toddler made it where my second baby's first year of life was just constant illness. You're right, you can't stop bonding between siblings but teaching hygiene to help made things better. Like carrying a spray hand sanitizer before touching baby's face or hands. But nothing stops them from coughing or sneezing directly on them at this young age.
Aww get well soon Ardho. The tantrum phase can be stressful. Like you said, it's only less stressful when you have nothing to do.
Your hubby is such a good dad and husband. My daughter was born in 2005. Her dad has never taken her to a doctor appointment or showed up at the hospital when we went. Also Ardho may never have a tantrum. They have individual personalities and even if he sees Fanta doing it he may never. My brother had 4 kids very close in age. We often kept them all for days. One was more susceptible to tantrums than the others. The others looked at them like they had lost their minds 😂 I will say the one that had tantrums had them mostly because their parents spoiled her and let her get away with a lot and did not correct her behavior. It got to the point that we would no longer babysit her because they didn’t want anyone to correct her behavior. I applaud you for attempting to deal with the behavior now. Stand strong in the things you won’t allow because if you cave in due to crying it will only teach her that crying wins. And don’t let anyone tell you your way of handling is right or wrong. Every child is different. You know your child. Thankfully my daughter NEVER had a tantrum. She would look at the kid and look at me like do you see this?!?! 😂 But again, I say all this to say, he may never exhibit this behavior even if he sees Fanta doing it.
😂 Your ending is hilarious Fanta is the best she is like “Let’s go play” and Jungu is the “BEST APPA” omg what a sweetheart he is, so nurturing and supportive..raising kids is not a one size fits all so I really hope your viewers can “KEEP their ADVICE & COMMENTS POSITIVE” as you Don’t NEED the additional “STRESS” as you open up your Family Lives to us! I enjoy watching every VLOG you post and I actually wish it was more than 1 per week as it seems I can’t get enough of your precious Family; I know your extremely busy with Mom of 3, 1Pet, e-commerce & Vlog life and that’s a whole lot on your plate and you do it masterfully! Nuff love ❤️😘🇯🇲
Prayers for Ardho. Sending you and family blessings. Baby and Jungu will be home soon. Lol… Fanta is such a great helper.
Happy New Year! Daycare is germ city…it’s not good but it happens. You just have to monitor Fanta’s contact with Ardho. Sending well wishes to him for a speedy recovery. 💕
Fanta is in her “peuter puberteit” (toddler puberty) is a real thing y’all is a real thing 😅 and Ardo is building up that immune system 💪🏽 aaaahhh the hectic of a loving household ♥️🙏🏾 ps breast milk is indeed good for health 💪🏽 Lots of love, strength and prosperity for you and your family 🥰♥️🥰
Ardho, is a beautiful boy, he has a nice smile and beautidul deep eyes !!! ans his smile in the video shows he is hetting very well !!! Jungu is an amazing Father !
❤ This too shall pass Queen. All will get better for your beautiful family. 🌹🙏🏽
It's amazing hearing Fanta speak German. Don't worry Ardho will be well.
I’m hoping Ardho makes a quick recovery and is back to his old self. Wishing you and your family all the best in 2024 ❤
I am praying for you when you are stressed trust Jesus he will give you peace l pray for totally healing for your son and that your family will have peace thank you for letting us know have a blessed and safe weekend for your family and your dog Amen
Amen Lorna. Yes, Jesus is THE ONLY PEACE. He is also THE healer. I agree with you that by HIS stripes, baby Ardho is healed❤. God bless you.
Woooww, de verdad me encantan!! Sigan así como padres y espero que Ardho esté mucho mejor, cuídense mucho y manténganse sanos y que Dios los bendiga
Liebe Aisha , alles wird gut mit dem Kleinen sein ! Mach Dir keine Sorgen bitte . Ich bin auch ein Mensch , der sich immer um alles Sorgen macht und zu viel denkt. Immer schreibe ich ein neues Drehbuch :)
Es ist Winterzeit / Infektionenzeit . Fanta bringt " Uberraschungen " :( aus dem Kindergarten. So ist es eben . Viel Gesundheit fur euch vier / ups ! funf :) / und bitte mache Dir keine Sorgen . P,S. Jungu ist ein wunderbarer Vater und Ehemann !
Fanta is running the house and seems like a lot of work lol. Hopefully Ardo is much more calm when he's her age.
May Jesus lay his miracle hands over your son and family 🇦🇺🙏🏽❤️❤️
Omg I love you so much and your family stay safe
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I'm so sorry Ardho is sick, I'll be praying you guys that he's already better and if not, that he gets better soon. As far as Fanta and her tantrums, I think you're doing well Aisha. Just be consistent with her, if you say no to certain things, like for example if you go in the store and she wants something and you say no, then always say no. The consistency will help her to learn and also, even if she still cries and gets upset, that's okay, because even tho she cries, she appreciates the consistency. It's more stressful for children when direction from Mommy and Daddy is not consistent, but this is not something that children can put into words. Consistence teaches children that their parents love and care about them. You and your husband are doing a great job. Don't be too hard on yourself. Also, you're really patient, so please keep being patient as well. Tantrums happen b/c Fanta doesn't have the words yet to express what she's feeling and also she's still a baby, so emotional regulation will take time. Anyway, I'm very happy vlogging helps you to keep busy so you don't overthink during a stressful time like this, and again, you and Jungu are doing a great job. I hope you have a great week and I look forward to the next vlog. 🥰
I hope baby ardho is feeling better! You both are doing a good job! Fighting!!
Prayers sent out to you and family ❤❤
Lady, your baby boy is a BEAUTY 🫠
Aisha you are doing a fantastic job with growing your kids. Hope baby comes home soon. Best wishes ❤
Praying for our little 🤴🥰
Du strahlst immer so eine positive Ausstrahlung aus ❤