New vid just dropped , thanks Mom . Really leaning into the femininity looking like a starlet singing in a cigar lounge . Hard time to raise children , props to the people in a position to and wish them luck .
You're my kinda wahminz June. Some day I should very much like to marry you before we get freaky. Should I arrange to meet your father to arrange a meeting with you?
Yeah I'd love to be a stay at home dad. I'd finally have time to take care of the house. Learn cool things like arranging flowers. And do chores without being so tired that I would really prefer to sleep instead so I can not feel like shit at work the next day.
@@Lordblow1always joke with the wife to be when she wins the lottery that I'll stay home and do all the cleaning lmao. Totally with you on that, I'd love to be able to lmao
Apparently in today's day and age living for others is the same as being their slave while living for yourself, no matter how selfish, is 'empowering'. No wonder society is so lonely
@@tiobridge841 "No wonder society is so lonely." Slight adjustment: "No wonder society is collapsing." It may not be there yet, but it won't take much longer.
I also love how that's all anybody thinks of when they think of the past too. It's such a shame because that was really a cool part of American culture. Not to mention the technological improvements like refrigeration and shit.
@@calebkelly8221the wife beating jokes made sense after some tradwife on TikTok made a post about wanting to live in the 1950’s. She had it coming, much like the kids who wish they could be born in a time like the 80s or renaissance era because of aesthetics even though those kids would’ve been put as slaves in the mines.
@@star-not-moon , You can also think of all the times women were put into institutions against their wills because they had less rights and couldn't stop it. Do you wax poetic about the fact that women back then couldn't get a credit card in their own name without their husbands permission?
If you have bigger boobs.. prove it! Also, what does boob size have to do with making a woman a good wife? Are you saying that small-chested woman cannot be a good and loving wife?
Imagine being so fragile that someone dressing the way they want and being in the type of relationship they want (sound familiar!?) is perceived as a threat.
Because it is a threat. And it should be a threat, they are threatened because their narrative is a paper tiger and anything that speaks out against it is a fiery sword from the Lord cutting their false narrative to ribbons.
@@TheGosslings let be honest no matter which side you are on, which religion you believe or not. If a person dressing in a different way and being in a different relationship make you mad about it. It just mean that there is something fragile about you.
I dont even know why people keep considering twitter something remarkable, its full of brands, celebrities and people confusing mental illness as a personality trait, but knowing personally how the recent generations of psychiatrists are coming along, i completely understand why this is even a thing
@@zaikolebolsh5724 The irony is it seems to mainly be businessses that treat twitter like it matters and people who want to make a news "story" I never see regular people treat twitter like it matters.
As a black 45 year old mother of six, i applaud your analysis. So smart and witty! Loved this as i help my sons navigate the next phases in their lives.
kinda the point that I wanted to shoe make, being a "tradwife" is not about following a culture 70 years old (especially in the "white supremacy" stuff), is to be the supportive partner of your spouse, ESPECIALLY if you have kids, in many places of earth just by saving on daycare, doing proper meal prep, maintaining a clean house, keeping the clothes clean and tidy, and so many other things like you do like properly guiding your children by being next to them, are great things to a partner focus on in the aspect of money saving and it helps build a strong family, it doesnt necessarily mean that the tradwife has to be a white woman, it can be of any ethnicity, and a man can be a tradwife too! I came from a family of 4 siblings, and my mom was, and kinda still is, a tradwife since she met my dad, and while she was kinda hard on her tutoring back in the day, it surely guided me to not be a degenerate today (at least in society view...)
"Wives. Women defined by their relationship to men." Yeah, in the same way that "husband" is a term that defines a man's relationship to a woman, the same way I am a "brother" to my sister, or that someone is a "boyfriend" to a girlfriend. You can bet that "writer", that individual's relationship to that poor excuse of an "article", was really crunching the deadline.
“Don't you see that the whole aim of Newspeak is to narrow the range of thought? In the end we shall make thoughtcrime literally impossible, because there will be no words in which to express it.”
@@magnusgreel275 Sounds great and just like the boss I have! The choice isn't necessarily so black and white, between people who love you and a company who undervalues you. Very often it's a choice between two good things, where your family is simply the most important. But I still think this was a striking way to put it.
@@Ultravenom1 4x10? I keep forgetting flex time and flexible working arrangements are so uncommon in the private sector. Especially in places like the US. But getting back to the point, the issue here isn't a choice between family and work, it's a lack of flexible working conditions.
Imagine being offended by a woman who loves her husband and children. I sensed a disturbance in the Twitter, as if thousands of people who didn't have loving parents at home cried out all at once.
My mom is a traditional wife, and my father is a loyal husband. Together they taught me so much about life. My mom to this day is my best friend, who I go to for advice when things are hard, or who I call to celebrate my accomplishments. I would not be close to her if she worked. There were very specific time for myself and my sister in which we would talk to her, and she learned through being home that if she did not interact with us she would miss out. Because I saw my mom spending her free time reading a book, I started getting into reading. When she started picking up art again I would ask her for advice when I started my art journey. I think we forget how important having a parent there for the children is for their development. I feel lucky that my Mom was there for me as I grew up, and is still there for me as an adult. As a man who wants to get married and have kids I know that I cannot force my wife to be traditional, but I would bring in the fact that one of us should be there for our children to help prepare them for the world that we live in. Anyway, sorry for the long winded comment. I just recently found your channel, and I know this video is old in internet times, but thank you.
And therein lies the crux: 'traditional' parenting is better than 'modern'. Much of the rage vented at this 'tradwife' seems to come from career-minded women who refuse to believe that there is any other way to live, largely because they've convinced themselves there isn't. The rest quite clearly comes from jealously.
same goes for my mom, minus being super feminine. stayed at home, cooked and cleaned, and raised her two shithead babies while my dad was at work. but she was also buff from chopping logs for our wood stove, drove a motorcycle, and almost always wore jeans and a t-shirt. I truly don’t understand why people, left and right, still think femininity/masculinity has any connection to capability in the household or elsewhere
Those people are the most envious, hateful, spiteful, resentful and small-minded there is. They find joy solely in throwing insults and venom at normal happy people just enjoying their lives.
@@bushwacka5187And I'm a filmmaker, who realizes those spiteful, resentful, and hateful people contribute NOTHING. At least I'm trying to do something productive even if it receives hate.
@@vous53828 I mean technically it shouldn't be a revelatory and it's sad that it even is, but coming from someone who's trying to rewire their brain from their childhood it's very much a groundbreaking and important thing to realize. Progress to what should be the bare minimum is still progress towards something good, after all
The people who "joked" about slamming her head against the fridge and her generally getting abused give off very bad implications. What in the actual fuck.
They are just mad cause if they had been born earlier they could have gotten away with that but now traditional wives are better equipped to pick better husbands
Happy trad wife basically rubs their faces in just how pathetic they and their loser lives are. Hence the violent reaction. They’ve just twigged they’d been duped.
@@ElinWinblad @Anthony Karnes Maybe. Whatever the hell is going on with these freaks, I hope they get off the internet and into a psychiatrist's office before they end up in prison like Shoe said they would.
Being in a similar demographic, Mennonite white male, about half of the men who act like that are in relationships where the only reason they are not abusive is because she would call the cops. So they assume we must be abusers because "if my wife wouldn't call the cops I would"...
I left my job and got nice chunk of money from the settlement with the company, which allowed me to be a stay at home dad for a few months without having to look for a new job and it was the best few months of post-children life. I woke up early, got the kids up, made breakfast and lunch for my wife, did the cleaning, made dinner before she got home. None of this was emasculating, at no point did I feel like the inferior part of the team. It was ******* great and I wish it could have continued for longer. Hating on this woman for living her life the way she wants to? Insane.
Let's be honest most of that criticism is coming as a backlash from Modern women doing what they did in this video. don't criticize people if you don't want they're honest opinion of how they see you🤷♂️
Its not modern girls thats the issue but the modern feminist movement which espouses that the highest virtue a women can achieve is to fully embrace her desires, without thought to her responsibilities. Right now men are responsible for both maintaining a household and earning the lions share of household income, while women can do what they want. Its untenable. According to Pew, men already work more hours (working + housework) yet feminist want to tilt in further in womens favor.
@vanswock9277 Even if they get divorced, the laws favour the women, so she would take half of her ex-husband's money. If the husband dies, his life insurance and will would give her money. Also, a housewife has an active community life (church, school, community centre, etc...), so she has a whole network to help her if she loses her husband (unless she has been cheating on him).
@@alfredcommentary A bunch of envious women who put their insecurities on full display in their replies. If they were truly secure with their stance......THEY'D SAID NOTHING. That is the ultimate not giving a crap. If you have to counter something, you view as a threat. They clearly do.
I am a trad wife. Men are easy, feed them, take care of yourself, take care of your home and make it inviting and your husband will always come home. My husband says the best part of his day is coming home....that makes me happy
1960's: You can't be an office worker, women belong in the kitchen 2020's: You can't be a homemaker, women belong in the office. Two sides of the same cursed coin.
My great-grandma was the most feminine and yet one of the strongest people i've ever known. She took care of three children after her husband died in war, in a country destroyed by war, in a terrible regime. Her life was on ultra hard mode. Yet despite all that, she was very feminine, very loving and very motherly. She also never once said anything negative about her late husband even after decades, if anything she only talked well of him. That's what you call strong, dedicated and loyal.
Same with my grandmother, but seven kids and pawpaw was an unemployed alcoholic. Twenty some odd grandchildren and more than 40 great grands. She did so much for all of us. She would come to the house and clean it during the summer sometimes and tell us to tell our parents we did it. When I had my son and I needed to feed him at a family gathering, she shoo'd my uncle out of the lazy boy, sent a cousin to fix me a plate and had my other uncle sit beside me to hold my plate and feed me since my hands weren't free. (Too many of us for a table) God I miss her.
My great-grandma was also widowed during WW2. She raised 5 children on her own and later helped to raise her grandson (my father). She never remarried, but she was quite the bombshell from what I've seen on pictures. Always well-dressed, always in heels, not even a hair out of place. She worked as a nurse during the war, then as a welder and later at a nuclear plant.
Wanting to control the private life and private decisions is what totalitarians do. They are what they accuse them of. Iron Law of Woke Projection never misses.
Hell no, I wish to God they don't get outside anymore than they already do. If anything, perhaps they should'nt even be allowed to mingle with anybody.
Ah yes, these ladies who are actively choosing for themselves that they want to hold down the fort and care for the people they love? *ABSOLUTE MONSTERS*
That's not the problem. I don't know if you twisted things on purpose or do you truly don't understand the issue here. The issue here is that these women have slave mentality based on traditional gender roles. It's not healthy like being a housewife. It's unwise and thus dangerous to promote.
@@AmberyTear just let people do what they want if they aren't hurting anyone. Isn't that what feminism was supposed to be about? choice? Also, way to cheapen slavery when there are still slaves today.
every time people mention Lola Bunny in Space Jam, they forget that she took *_ZERO_* shit from anybody. like in the first scene that she gets introduced, Bugs gets absolutely whupped by her.
If she is a wife, that means that she’s married, meaning somebody already picked her, and because most likely she wasn’t part of a deal to buy a sawmill, she picked her husband.
@@brenscott5416 We've moved away from it, rather. So that individuals who don't feel like the traditional roles fit them, aren't pressured into them just for the sake of tradition.
@@silloweet In that case, you'll just have to pick the lesser evil. *Hint* Don't fall for someone who can fire you. There's no _divorce court_ for getting fired.
im a stay at home woman with a child and a boyfriend who goes to work and brings home groceries for me to cook for him, and takes care of our baby while i do my things. i’ve been doing this for years with him and i certainly do not see or feel any sort of slavery in the lifestyle i’ve been living in. My life is, in simple words great! These people are simply lonely and have basically no self respect. Honestly shameful
It's just baffling, that in the time and age of ever-increasing remote work and home offices, a stay-at-home-parent lifestyle is seen as "bad". Especially when the two actually can be combined.
There was a girl that made tiktoks about packing lunch boxes boyfriend. And the majority of negative comments were form other women,which is disappointing. Including one comment that said "I will never degrade myself for a man" as if being caring is degrading
As if it’s so sinister to love someone enough to step in because you know your partner will waste money on take out and eat garbage that could shorten their life and create suffering and health complications… yeahhhhh so sinister 😂 These people don’t understand our evolutionary success as human beings. It’s because we have historically taken care of each other that we have survived.
Those are the goofy ones that drop panties for a man, or jump when their male bosses say so. Yet being NICE to a person they're supposed to love. That's too much emotional labor.
"Why do women need to be seen as masculine to be seen as strong?" That is the billion-dollar question. They told us women could be equal, but what it turned out they really meant was: women are bad, but you can act like a man if you want to be respected.
This is so accurate. We were told growing up (millennial) we could be whatever we wanted and do whatever we wanted because we are supposed to be equal. But it doesn’t matter what we choose to do with our own lives, someone’s out to condemn us for it, and sadly a lot of the time, it’s from other woman. If we don’t choose to live the same lifestyle they do, we are part of the problem in their minds. This is not equality or supportive of free choice. It is just as oppressive as it once was in the opposite direction.
That's actually true in alot of ways nowadays. Revolution is not equality. Meet bodypositivity where just trying to stay healthy is apparently fatphobic; blm where being white is your worst nightmare; feminism where just minding your own buisness isn't enough. And it actually goes far beyond. It is the same reason industrial glue has a giant sticker on it screaming . It's just cancel culture. It is everywhere. And it is one of the reasons i'm grateful i wasn't born in a western country. It is just sad seeing people yearning for attention, pretending to be oppressed and offended, while the ones who actually need help stay in shadows of those. These are the people that claim to be depressed.. hell, even pretend to have serious mental illnesses just for controversy THAT THEY CAN"T EVEN MONETIZE. enough internet for today.
@@erikagreatrix4925 I remember a cowoker of mine telling me that she despise nothing more than housewives because, you know, they stay at home "doing nothing". Told her my mother is a housewife and that if I'm successful today, its 100% thanks to her. Managing a house and raising your children is so harder than those dumbass think it is. Way harder than sitting behind a desk.
It ruined Hollywood. Women were always strong AND feminine in movies. Think of any Kathryn Hepburn movie. But now they need to actually BE LIKE men to be strong. And they don't have any faults or struggles. They're Mary Sue characters who can do anything and defeat anyone without a learning curve or character arc, like in Marvel movies, Star Wars, LOTR, etc. And the men are turned into fumbling idiots. I'm going to see John Wick tomorrow, but that's the only movie I'll see all year, most likely.
Anita Snarkasian herself was the most guilty of this. Her idea of a progressive story was one where the woman simply replaced the traditional mare hero character.
So today I didn’t have ketchup so I had to go buy some for my cereal and banana mustard diet….I road a pepper to work where I then when to sleep with my desk on my boss and then I got watered it’s like being fired but instead everyone pees on you and you get fired 🧔🏻♀️😵👁️🧔🏻♀️👺🎂👨🏽❤️💋👨🏻🦷🧑🏿🦰😹🦷🫡🤠🫥🍩🫥😛🧐🫡🧐🫥🧐🫥😄😄🫡😄🫥😁🥶🤤🤤🤤🤥😷🤮🤥🤮😷🤒🤥🤒🤒🤌🏽✌🏼✌🏼🤌🏽👉🏻👆🏿👆🏿👉🏻👌🏼👉🏻👌🏼👉🏻👆🏿👌🏼👌🏼👉🏻🤜🏻👉🏻👌🏼👉🏻👌🏼👉🏻👌🏼👉🏻
as a mixed race traditional housewife.. thanks for this it was hilarious! spilled my coffee all over my apron laughing. i think people miss the point! its not submissive at all. we are a team. he gets the monies, i do the cooking and cleaning. personally as a person who is also neurospicy (ADHD and aspergers) i think i got the better end of the deal LOL
@@RainbowWrangler :) happy to make folks laugh, also you 1000% get the better end of the deal. A time table of 8 hours to do the house work is so much better than 8 hours to do 2 weeks worth of work.
@@gamergodofjustice so true! 🤣 my husband works with a bunch of clowns lol. I get to stay home and play with the puppy all day and if i take a day off he never complains. The very least i can do is keep clean clothes in the wardrobe for him and have dinner on the table. Im very grateful and never take his loving kindness for granted. I truly hope everyone finds their team mate and the ballance that works for them, whatever that looks like 🥰
I've been a traditional stay at home wife for 13 years, and it's been wonderful. I know some women get a lot of purpose and fulfillment from careers, but I am not one of them. I hated working outside the home. It was soul sucking for me. I love working inside my home. It's been so good for my marriage. My husband and I have so much more free time because we are 2 people doing 2 jobs. Not 2 people doing 3 jobs. I get my work done during the day, and we spend our evenings and weekends relaxing and spending time with each other. It has been beneficial for both of us!
You do You and wish You well, no judgment or shame from me, but I have questions. The future is always uncertain, so any disturbances in Your husband's life will also affect You. Any financial/health/divorce that might happen will affect You, do You have plans for them and what are You going to do if these things happen ?
Are those women really getting fulfillment from their careers, or are they just convincing themselves that they do? How will they feel about it when their ovaries are sending in the D-Squad and the chance to have a family has passed them by?
My wife is like that too. She worked a lot until she met me. She insisted to stay home and just take care of me. She is her own boss, works in the garden, prepares amazing foods, hugs and kisses me whenever possible. She radiates a happy energy. 23 Years and no end in sight.
I’m a domestic housewife but my goal is to become a feral housewife. Joking. But seriously the amount of people that get pissed off at me for having the audacity to make a sandwich for my husband is hilarious. This man goes to work for 12 hours a day 5-6 days a week despite having a health problem. So yeah we show love to each other by sacrificing for each other. It’s not slavery. It’s a truly loving relationship. He is my best friend and I am his.
You can do so much more when y’all work together to build a house/family, as opposed to working separately. Essentially, a division of labor that results in gestalt. I think a lot of people don’t actually have a house, or clean their apartments, so they forget homemaking is an entire job in and of itself, especially when kids are involved. I wouldn’t care who stays home, if it’s me or a partner, but dang it’s so much harder to do it alone! Congrats on your relationship!
I got married when I was young, 19 to be exact (my now husband was 20). I was told after I got married that I was "robbed of my independence" because I didn't get to "grow up" without a man. Ive always liked having my husband by my side, but whenever I tell people that I got married young they pity me and villainize my husband. feminism should be that women can choose what they want. not be forced to live a certain way.
I also don't understand how these people can't imagine a world where we can have both traditional housewives and modern men who don't beat their wives. These people cherry pick everything but yet can't fathom cherry picking the best parts of different eras and mixing the best ones together to create the perfect balance.
Impossible, don't you know that? You can't mix the 1950's and 2000's. I mean didn't every husband beat their wives in the 1950's, and all grandparents abuse their grandchildren?
The theory is that if you are financially dependent on your spouse, it becomes harder to stand up for yourself in interpersonal conflicts that naturally arise in domestic relationships. Once your spouse realizes that they usually get their way, it gives them a degree of power over you and they gradually lose interest in doing the work in maintaining a healthy relationship. Small abuses turn to big abuses and the relationship boiling-frogs its way to being trapped in an abusive partnership. In theory, anyway. Something like this probably happens some of the time to some extent, but it seems like some people take this theory as prophetic.
@@resistancefm5133 In theory there should be a dependence in both ways. If you marry or even just move in with another person, you are in some way dependent on the other person. If you choose this type of lifestyle. A wife that doesn't earn money depends on her husband's money. A husband is dependent on his wife to take care of the household if he doesn't have the time or ability to do it himself. In that situation both are dependent. And yes, bad things can happen in those dependencies. If you choose that kind of lifestyle you need to choose the right partner because if you choose wrong, it's not a nice situation to be in.
@@resistancefm5133 I have a 'trad' wife- this dynamic plays out exactly opposite of how the feminists believe it does because they miss the most-basic tenets of humanity e.g. we naturally feel indebted to people who care for us. I get it though: maladjusted young adults, that worship money, have a hard time understanding how people could possibly _not_ be in control, if they are the breadwinners. ...and this TV trope of evil grandpa beating grandma over a cold dinner needs to die- if anything, domestic violence has increased. It's all probably unrelated to feminism, but that's kinda the point.
I'm reminded of my grandparents here, both pre-war babies growing up during the depression. She had gone to secretarial college but was glad to quit the field when they married. Both dedicated themselves to the other's security and happiness, both sacrificed to build a household and raise healthy children, and both found their joy in the other's eyes. When visiting, I sometimes found them dancing in the living room to the Lawrence Welk show. He was certainly the "man of the house" but always decided in favor of her needs. What I would give to have it so good; to dedicate my daily labor to such a woman and such an enterprise. The haters ignore the fact that abuse, manipulation, and selfishness exist in every form of human relationship, even their own. What these people have done is (re)create a structure in which comfort and security far more available than any in mine or subsequent generations have known.
Nah. It works for them. I hard reject your notion to push away other people's form of relationships by suggesting this one is better than any other created after it. Hard, hard, hard reject. It's likely the form I'll have, but I've seen enough to know that the truth you started about how it's possible to have a toxic relationship in any form truly just means that. Being authentic I what you're pursuing and clear with your boundaries whilst respecting others is a far more important key than how what you're pursuing looks like. There are poly communities with very healthy parenthood forms and many other kinds of family units.
@Joëlle Weetjewel Almost as if different things work differently for different people and a uniform model never works for everyone. Maybe people should just live their lives how they think works best for them without everyone around telling them to live "correct way", whatever that is.
@@abadenoughdude300 sure. but the issue here is these women *romanticize* a period when other women did not have the choice. Prior to the 1970s, marital rape was legal in every US state. there are still women alive who remember being raped by their husbands, legally. like, i don't have a problem with SAH wo/men. but this shit looks like conservative psyop, it's so bad.
Great video. You really hit the crux of the issue: the extreme irony of those trying to "call out" trad wives, and it's sexist to do so. Not to mention the erasing of anything feminine in the name of [whatever modern agenda here].
DON’T BE A “SLAVE” TO A MAN THAT LOVES YOU. Instead, be a slave to your male or female boss who will fire you in an instant the moment you don’t serve the corporation’s interests
@@no-go7422 A husband who loves you will not cheat, if that's what you are referring to. Other than that, YOU have to be the problem to be "fired." And divorces can be complicated, much moreso than work firing you.
I love when every movement starts as just wanting to be able to express yourself and your ideals, and always ends up with trying to keep other people from expressing themselves and their ideals.
Simplistic dualistic morality is a crutch for those who do not want to see the failings in themselves. You can be right but still be in the wrong and that is something many, maybe most, people struggle to understand and accept.
It'll always confuse me how people can claim to want women to be free to make their own choices then harass them when they choose what they don't like lol
The exact same thing happened to Cassie Jaye after she made her docu film "The Red Pill". All her previous funding support from feminists evaporated like dry ice never to return.
The confusion arises because you took their statement about wanting women to be free at face value. Thats because you are an honest person, so you assume they are also honest. They are 100% the opposite of honest. Also the opposite of good intentioned, moral, and loving.
Because when woman start to make choices that go against what they were taught, they're understand of the world get thrown out the window. The idea that MAYBE some woman LIKE the idea of being stay at home wifes and let the guys do all the work while they raise the kids is too much for them to handle. And it makes people like Ben Shapiro look right which is another reason why they hate this. They don't like being wrong.
My wife ended up being a stay at home mom all because of one particular event, that being, we had twins (boy and girl), and with the little bit she made being a CNA, us putting two kids into daycare at the same time would have been pointless, she'd basically work just to pay for the daycare. And only after just the first year of staying home and being with those kids all the time, she absolutely can not imagine ever leaving them to go to a job. I personally think it's possible for far more people to be stay at home moms than most people realize. The biggest hindrance is not necessarily money, it's the unwillingness to sacrifice. Most people don't want to admit it, or talk about it, but no one wants to change/transition to a lower standard of living. I think about the amount of married couples out there that have just one or two kids, are living in a 300K to 500K dollar home, and yet still both parents are working. They don't have to do that, they don't have to have a half million house and two $40-50K cars, but ultimately they desire that standard of living above being able to have mom stay home. There's people that make half as much as I do (105K last year) and still pull it off, and if anything, pull it off better than we do, but they are only able to do it by making the necessary sacrifices, by having disciplined spending. Note: My dollar figures for housing is more based off what it used to be before the insane spike in the cost of housing, and for someone living in Northwest Indiana.
I love those tweets acting like being a corpo-slave doesn't make a person a slave to wealthy men. "I'm empowered because my owner has thousands of slaves, instead of just one!"
What about those who work for a female boss? Oh wait, no, they're beholden to the shareholders, who are mostly men, so instead of being beholden to 1 man, they service the whims of several, which really takes the corporate whore slang to whole new heights
The Little Mermaid one still gets me. "Betcha on land they understand that they don't reprimand their daughters; bright young women, sick of swimmin', ready to stand." It's literally right there, in the song, before she even sees the Prince at all. Like she either never saw the movie or just didn't give a crap about it, but that theme was always there.
Hate how people keep complaining that these princess movies were sexist or whatever and try to make them more "empowering" in the remakes. They were fine as they were.
That's what I thought as well. "We've changed that perspective" my ass, Ariel was always fascinated by the land and humans, she always was the woman who wanted to escape her family and go live her dream, the Prince was just a side thing that gave her the last push.
Do these people not understand that not all “traditional” relationships in the 50’s, were abusive? Nothing was perfect, but loving (the act, not the feeling) your spouse is such a foundational building block to life and raising a family. I was so lucky to have a “traditional” family growing up.
It was a very small% .Most people that married in the 50's are still together today or died. The whole idea that traditional relationships are full of abuse is a lie that is portrayed by feminism and readopted by the radical left in an effort to try and destroy nuclear families.
Yeah, a lot of people don't realize that it was about the same 20% of marriages have some kind of domestic violence that occurs, most DV is perpetuated by both sides towards each other, but most cases of one-sided DV is women hitting, slapping, punching, or verbally degrading men. What's really funny is that lesbian relationships are significantly more likely to be abusive and end in divorce when compared to gay and straight relationships, but you because of feminism, women are nothing but perfect angels that are stronger, smarter, hotter, more empathetic, more efficient, and overall more capable than men are and men, especially of the white variety, are nothing but misogynistic pigs that don't contribute a dime to society other than making money for them to spend their own money on themselves. sorry, bit of a rant.
My wife from 1963 was a wonderful woman. I couldn’t wait to get home to her in the evening. She died of a sudden heart attack in 2000 . Her last words, “I love you “ and my name. Survived by three daughters and 6 grandchildren. She was happy.
Lois Griffin in Family Guy season 2 summed it up perfectly: "Feminism is a choice. I choose to be a housewife, and now I'm choosing to end this conversation," which is what Estee C Williams is pointing out against these so-called "women's rights activists."
@@reijigamerI'm cool with her having a loving family and being batman. Who says batman can't be motivated by making sure no one has a happy family stolen from them?
I love the idea that the people projecting their lack of a relationship is some sort of gotcha moment. They're just showing everyone how miserable and lonely they truly are.
"Ugh, I can't imagine being at my home and serving my husband!" *Goes to her wage slave cubical job and serves her male boss who doesn't care if she lives or dies.
@@terry9238 ohhh ok, because working for a girl"boss" really changes the fact that she wouldnt care if you live or die and shes wouldnt care of your horrible life of wage slave?
There's nothing that screams jealousy and insecurity more than other women being angry at a woman who chooses to support her family in a way that makes her feel proud and happy by embracing traditional feminine traits.
As a single guy, who has to work on top of doing all the chores (including the laundry), sometimes I wish I had some assistance. The tradwife gals who willingly take on part of that responsibility would be an absolute treasure that I'd gladly pamper with anything spare time and money I could scrape together. Like girl, if you're willing to make my life easier, I'd make your life as comfortable as I can, not just because you're doing me a great service, but because I love you. Goddamn, that'd be the dream. Anyway, back to reality for me.
I was gonna say that persons flat affect was mid at best and it would have never been good because they were so pressed they had to go through the effort to post a response in the first place lmao. At best they sound like a petty high school mean girl from a shitty knock off coming of age movie, so at least it was fun to laugh at!
That reminds me of Heisenberg's Uncertainty Principle. Any attempt to record the position of a subatomic particle is doomed to failure by the very act of observing it.
These people attacking her for her "fake tits" really breaks my heart for her. She has some videos in her Instagram (I don't have TikTok but they're probably there, too) talking about this. Apparently she had them done when she was very young (just turned 18 or something like that) and really regrets that decision now. She literally warns others from getting that surgery because she also had complications afterwards. Edit: She also warns people about choosing your partner very carefully when you want to pursue this lifestyle to avoid abuse.
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. She's made her entire life centered around her appearance and continues to do so by engaging with social media. Sucks she has regrets, but get over it. Maybe get a job and do something else with your life, then. She chose to go the dumbass social media route.
It sucks even more because a lot of these people are all “body positivity” and “look how you want, not how others want you to” and then when she does (or did considering she regrets her choice) they bully her.
My wife says she hates the feminist movement.. because she used to be able to stay home all day cook/clean . But now is so hard for 1 person to take care of a whole household and had to pick up a job. Now we split all of our household chores but she tells me everyday she would rather much go back to being the (housewife) rather than a "strong independent working woman" .. and is always blamming these girls for making her have to work a job 😂 I always comfort her and tell her dont worry about a job but deep down we both know those days are gone and now the government is fucking us both over on our paychecks to live in a normal house
@@Cotton_Candy.__ Economics was effected by the movement to be that way, when most families only had one income and multiple children, one income, in the minimum, needed to provide enough for that, or it hits a critical point where people start revolting in mass to the point it becoming a problem. When women and men, both were told to work and to be providers and not to be the nurturers, you need to only provide about half the income nessesary to provide for a family. When they tell people not to have kids and focus on their career, you only need to provide enough for one individual to barely eat and get shelter (no taking child education costs or other related costs into consideration). Then, tadah! you get the modern crisis when even two incomes aint giving ya shit for a family.
Ha, without feminism she'd still be having to work her miserable job, but it would have been for far less than what a man would earn for the same work. If anyone would be willing to hire a woman in the first place, that is.
You wanna know what's funny.. over a decade ago when I was single and went on dates, I would often prefer to pay for my own stuff. My own meals or my movie tickets or whatever, I personally didn't want to feel like I owed the guy anything ( dude could be like: I paid for the date you owe me a goodnight kiss or a second date). Nope, you will only get those things if I generally liked you.
@@prettyfayegirl7317 The thing is, any guy that felt like they were owed something simply because they paid for a date they invited a girl on is an asshole. The way I was raised, if you invite someone somewhere, unless other terms are specifically agreed on, you AT LEAST offer to pay. ESPECIALLY on a date. Expecting something in return is just being a dick. Having said that, if a girl I asked out truly wanted to pay her half, I mean, I'm gonna resist, it's just built into me, but not because I want something I can hold over her later. And if she really wants to do it, that's fine. I'll resist a bit, but I'm not gonna make a scene over it or anything.
@@casbyness What the hell are you on my guy? If a gal told me she wants to split the bill id just think "perfectly reasonable" We dont live in boomer world no more, I hope to find someone who also works a job, and willingly spliting the bill tells me she sees me as an equal and understands that its going to be a joint effort to be in a relationship if it becomes one.
@@PantheraOnca60 There are a few… Very few. But finding them these days is hopeless. My grandma raised six kids & ran the whole farm herself after grandpa got killed. She stayed single the rest of her life, tougher than 99.9% of men today.
imo, this is probably one of shoe's best video's ever. topical jokes to explain the point, self-referential jokes to stay humble, and jokes for the fun of it cause june is a great comedy writer and actress.
Growing up my parents, especially my dad, really emphasized that if I wanted to be a stay at home housewife it should be my choice, and not because I was forced to be one. Nowadays I don’t see myself being a housewife, but that doesn’t mean it’s a free pass to degrade women who want to be one. I genuinely feel bad for the girl getting called out on tiktok cause she seems really sweet and living their best life; something that a lot people don’t want to do for themselves.
I agree with your comment but the content doesn't stand out to me so much as the effort you used to write it; you seem like a person who puts a lot into what you say. You seem like you've been through struggle - if so, please don't give up if you ever feel... that mood.
Hell yeah! I want to work and split the housework with my partner evenly, but if you have the means to have a single income marriage and it works for you, do you ❤ if I had a breadwinner partner I wouldn’t mind being the homemaker (granted I still got to engage in my hobbies and have a life outside of the house)
I feel like those people saying “she definitely gets beat by her husband” are just projecting. They are definitely in toxic abusive relationships that they put themselves in but refuse to leave because of their pride.
I had a career. Got married, kept my career. Had a child, & quit my career to become a "trad" wife. No way could I hand over my sweet baby to daycare strangers to raise. The nice thing about this era we live in is that we women have the freedom to choose how we want to live our lives. Condemning another woman for her life choices in the most un-feminest thing someone could do.
"We" don't all have the freedom to choose that. Only women who are so incredibly lucky that they found a perfect partner who makes enough money to support a lavish lifestyle for everyone in the household all by himself can choose that.
@@autumnaticMost SAHMs are in the middle and lower middle classes… including me lol. It’s not lavish when you buy everything cheap or thrifted, or when your husband works 60 hour weeks to make ends meet, because you had a surprise hospital visit and you could barely afford it. Or choosing to homeschool with dollar bin school books from Walmart and Target, instead of buying fancy curriculums and educational apps. It’s choosing to leave the city for a rural neighborhood where you can stretch your dollar further. It’s also choosing to cook from scratch with cheap ingredients (beans, rice, pasta, flour, veggies) and only buying meat in bulk, no processed snacks. To call it “lavish”, shows you probably wouldn’t prioritize the same things we prioritize, so you couldn’t afford all the extras you have without a double income.
i agree with the sentiment of what you're saying, but we don't actually have that freedom because it's not economically viable right now. some people get to choose, but working class women have always had to work,
@@discipleofdagon8195one of the voices I have does that, he always tells me to do things that are good for me in contrast with the other voices which have took me places I wouldn't normally go.
My mother was a TradWife, with four boys. Dad was a fireman, he never hit her they only had one argument and she won because he made a silly mistake. She was a very happy satisfied person. She managed the house and when we got into middle and high school she went to work because she wanted to until she didn’t want to anymore.
Also he was a firefighter for the 70s-90s so pension and pay for a high risk, highly skilled city employee was probably more reasonable back the. Especially if you were frugal. 👨🏻🚒
That's possible. However, we can't deny that many men abuse their financial privilege to abuse women. This is particularly very true in third-world countries
@@ubaidbutt9709 Men being overly dominant to their wives and children is once again the few bad apples exaggerating a negative male stereotype. My mother’s father a WW2 veteran worked for Union Pacific RR to support my mother and aunt. My grandmother was a very frugal housewife. She was the matriarch who kept the family together. My dad’s father worked in a furniture factory to support a family of 7. Grandma kept a garden in the backyard, canned food and kept the house in order, until grandpa died. After that grandma worked to support the last 3 boys still living at home. She was also the the matriarch that held the family together. There has been a lot of bad publicity and exaggerated stories told to make men look bad just to promote the breaking up of the nuclear family. The self sufficiency family that didn’t want or need a large government to take care of and or control their lives. Follow the power/money and you’ll figure out who and why anyone would want to destroy the family unit.
I think it's that women feel called out for their lifestyle because someone else is displaying how happy they are in a situation that they tried but failed or that they don't want but feel like they should or were told that they should by their parents. Modern women choosing a Tradwife lifestyle reminds people that a large amount of people in the past were happy even if there were serious problems in the country / society.
Trad wife: Posts tiktoks explaining how a traditional marriage and it’s dynamic looks and works despite going against the modern perception of the lifestyle Twitter: “Yeah looks like slavery to me”
I'm assuming the reason people are so against this, feminism aside, is because of all the abuse that was hidden behind closed doors during the years women were forced to be like that. When women couldn't have jobs and were expected to drop out like 9 babies. Lots of domestic abuse would go ignored or unreported back in those times because no one was looking out for the best interests of those women. It's the idea of that time. Probably. At least that's the only assumption I can make or it's also those man hating women that all have a huge problem with it. The misandrists.
Maybe i'm an abnormal guy, but i don't get off on the idea of beating women. This is 2020 we don't need to employ violence unless it is a life or death decision. Hopefully that is a popular opinion.
@@Nicodareus Yeah, it's very abnormal. Maybe you should see a doctor for it. Or go to anger management, where they can manage your dangerously low aggression levels. For self medication I heard meth and/or alcohol can help. /s
@@MihaelLawliet01 It's the usual suspects. It's not the 50's anymore, the police actually intervene on DV (in some places it's compulsory whether the spouse presses charges or not and the guys in jail LOVE wife beaters almost as much a p3dos and grapists) rather than turning a blind eye and encouraging a couple to "sort out what goes on behind closed doors themselves" (My own grandmother got that line back then so I understand your concerns there). The current trad wife "trend" is generally about the traditional gender roles of Husband as leader/provider and the Wife as homemaker/devoted caregiver. I must admit, it'd have to be classed as "counter culture" in Current Year tm, but to be honest, although the outfits are cute, not sure I'd personally know what to do with a woman who almost always deferred to my judgement....unless she wants to be lead of a cliff! 😂
20:32 You know the saying „Strong men make good times, good times make weak men, weak men make bad times, bad times make strong men“ and so forth. Those times will be back, eventually.
That's a ridiculous thing to say that has little to no grip with the material hardships of people today. Putting the blame on most people never having the prospect of ever owning a house on being 'weak' is silly.
Yep. Honestly I feel like the industrial revolution and tech changed women's lives so much opening them up to the work force for good or for bad. But now the advent of the internet, satélites, social media and remote flexible working opportunities have made it possible for women to return home. However it would be great to get back to the point where most women do not have to work so the household breaks even. That is a thing. Almost every women I know had to work and would have preferred staying home with their children. It's tragic.
It's weird that the most backlash I've ever gotten from people around me is when I told them I wanted to be a stay at home mom. Its fucking wild out here.
@whatever_111 It can be for sure, but I've already had my baby, and luckily everything went well for me. Also, I've been with my husband for almost a decade, so we were pretty sure by that point. I agree though you definitely need to be sure it's not something to take lightly. It's just weird to me that every other job I wanted to go for I had nothing but praise and support, but as soon as I wanted to stay home, it was "but won't you be bored?" Or "You're encouraging women to take a step back" and that sort of thing.
@@Redlights111 A massive risk to her life? Really? You sound like me in my first year of veganism when I was convinced the rest of you were gonna die if you kept eating cancerous meat. Male violence being real does not make all men dangerous.
I felt the same anger directed at me when I "chose" to keep my baby. That's what I thought being pro-choice MEANT! But how dare I make the 'wrong' choice. That wrong choice is headed to college in the fall, btw.
How dare you keep the human race going? Go be a single cat mom drinking wine and pumping yourself full of anti-despressants like a good little girl boss!
i noticed this recently that some people are only “pro-choice” when ur choices reflect their personal morals and ethics. being too far right is usually negative but those who are too far left are equally shitty in my opinion. it was also the same with the covid vaccine. if u didn’t get it u were immediately associated with being a shitty person. like lol. people care far too much abt what other people are doing. glad u did what u felt was right and didn’t listen to the messed up ideals for modern womanhood!
It's thru little things like that where you find out there is no "sisterhood", no "brotherhood", no "community". If you are not constantly emoting and acting in the benefit of "The Message" (whatever that may be, depending on whatever group you find yourself interacting with) then you are a traitor to the cause and no longer welcome in the clubhouse.
“Oh, ya wiped ya ass? How trad” 😂😂😂 @shoe0nHead, I love your commentary, it’s a refreshing take to just hear sound logic on topics from both sides of the aisle. Keep up the good work. 😊
Wasn't Ariel the equivalent of an anthropologist in the original movie? She was fascinated by a culture other than her own (land-dwelling humans), took measures to fit in with that culture, and ended up being accepted by that culture, even marrying someone from that culture. She was kind of badass.
It reminds me of an American anthropologist who blended herself into a tribe in Papua and married their chieftain to further study the tribe. Then a few moments later she suddenly left, perhaps her because research was completed, and the chieftain didn't know how to contact her anymore. He even sent envoy to central government in Jakarta to help him found his missing wife. A true story. Just google Wyn Sargent.
I agree. My wife had an MBA, she and I agreed taking care of the kids was the most important thing. Even after my divorce, with the kids on their own, I provide for her. Its the right thing to do.
The fact that they compare this lifestyle to BDSM is insane, like this is so obscene that it needs to be treated like a freaky kink that needs to be kept in the bedroom.
This is what happens when people lack true identity, and relate everything to sex. It requires deviation to create (superficial) uniqueness, and thus, deviancy rules.
@@tonig2757 man a woman actually accepting a role in her house that is equal in importance but different in execution is so spooky to “modern women” so clearly its subservient
I remember when I was 6 years old boy and watched the original Disney Little Marmaid, I’ll never forget how heartwarming it felt to see Ariel leaving the sea for the men she loved. It left me wondering if I would ever find a woman who would do a similar thing for me, it was romantic, it was brave and courageous, something that shows incredible strength of character and capability at making decisions.
@HelmutDoork Companies are mandating that people return to the office so they can reduce headcount without having to involuntarily lay off as many people. There are still a large number of remote jobs in software development, for experienced developers at least.
Last I checked. She's pseudo independent with a tik tok and makes money there. So, lets say she had found a way to be both. Also what kills me is how many women are so ready to tear each other down, tear men down, and burn anything that doesn't align with their personal views. It also sounds like a lot of people are just miserable.
But she's making money on TikTok by posting as a traditional wife: that's self inflicted misogyny! Now if she'd post on OnlyFans as a promiscuous h*e, now THAT'S self actualization and empower! ✊ Because modern feminist logic 🤪
It kind of kills me how many men are so ready to tear each other down, tear women down, and burn anything that doesn't align with their personal views. Wild how that isn't a behavior unique to women.
@@admiralprince7925 My "bubble" is not hurt by opinions, only facts. I have no idea why you'd want to go down the "false accusations" road, considering the statistics are astronomically against you. Like...mountainously against you. So is that REALLY the argument you want to stick with? Do you REALLY want me to post some statistics for you? Or do you want to try again with a better argument?
Woman addicted to twitter: "Women can be whatever they want!"💅 Tradwives: "I want to be a housewife"☺ Women addicted to twitter: "You can't do that!" 😡😡😡😡
@@Darkry Nacism XDDD now you people don't only compare things to stuff they have zero in common with, you litterally need a platinum medal in mental gymnastics to see a connection here. No you don't even have enough braincells left to accurately write the words you throw around around like they are going out of style hahahahahhahah
As a feminist sadly addicted to Twitter (because apparently that's my method of self harm), I agree with June's assertions in general here. I just thought it was kinda "look at how *quirky* I am" for conservatives that I found cringe.
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it's not just women people in America have grown soft, fat and lazy. let's see if we'll shape up once this recession hits.
New vid just dropped , thanks Mom . Really leaning into the femininity looking like a starlet singing in a cigar lounge . Hard time to raise children , props to the people in a position to and wish them luck .
You're my kinda wahminz June. Some day I should very much like to marry you before we get freaky. Should I arrange to meet your father to arrange a meeting with you?
@Don't Read My Profile Picture bot accounts getting clever
bruh can't believe people actually tweet those comments💀
"There's nothing wrong on working for a family who loves you instead of a boss who hates you". That was a VERY good one
Based. Utterly based.
Yeah I'd love to be a stay at home dad. I'd finally have time to take care of the house. Learn cool things like arranging flowers. And do chores without being so tired that I would really prefer to sleep instead so I can not feel like shit at work the next day.
@@Lordblow1always joke with the wife to be when she wins the lottery that I'll stay home and do all the cleaning lmao. Totally with you on that, I'd love to be able to lmao
Hum entitled parasite people that think they are entitled to your every free minute of living yeah duck em all
Yes.
“OMG SHE’S A PICKME”
Dude, she’s a married stay at home wife. She has been picked.
I think what those people are actually trying to say is that they would like to get picked by her.
@@rigelb9025 Yeah, I understood this exactly like you did.
@@rigelb9025 I know I would lmao lucky guy fr
Hey you're making too much sense and that's not ok, I don't have time, so pick an ism of your choice.
That's why Pickme is such a trash term. They use it wrong and it's clearly spite because those that use it want to be picked themselves.
Doing chores while single = independent
Doing chores in relationship = slavery
Apparently in today's day and age living for others is the same as being their slave while living for yourself, no matter how selfish, is 'empowering'. No wonder society is so lonely
@@tiobridge841 this is why more and more people are becoming narcissistic. People are encouraging that type of behavior
@@tiobridge841 "No wonder society is so lonely."
Slight adjustment: "No wonder society is collapsing."
It may not be there yet, but it won't take much longer.
It's not about doing chores. It's about quitting your job to do that. Try doing that while single.
@@tonig2757 brah. This isn't Reddit.
I love how "woman decides to be a good wife" turned into "HE BEATS HER"
I also love how that's all anybody thinks of when they think of the past too. It's such a shame because that was really a cool part of American culture. Not to mention the technological improvements like refrigeration and shit.
Ah yes. Treating your husband right and him abusing you. They are inextricably linked 🤓
@@calebkelly8221the wife beating jokes made sense after some tradwife on TikTok made a post about wanting to live in the 1950’s. She had it coming, much like the kids who wish they could be born in a time like the 80s or renaissance era because of aesthetics even though those kids would’ve been put as slaves in the mines.
@@star-not-moon , You can also think of all the times women were put into institutions against their wills because they had less rights and couldn't stop it. Do you wax poetic about the fact that women back then couldn't get a credit card in their own name without their husbands permission?
Yep. And how having large breasts means any image or video you're in is suddenly softcore 🌽???
"I have bigger boobs and I'm not even married"
What an argument 👏👏👏
The woman who wrote that is very likely morbidly obese too lol
$100 says her boobs are bigger because she weighs 200 lbs more.
@Aiman Maraidi we will not
If you have bigger boobs.. prove it!
Also, what does boob size have to do with making a woman a good wife? Are you saying that small-chested woman cannot be a good and loving wife?
@@tylerfortin3239
Sure we will. Because boobs are insignificant next to the power of intelligent conversation and tomfoolery.
Imagine being so fragile that someone dressing the way they want and being in the type of relationship they want (sound familiar!?) is perceived as a threat.
Because it is a threat. And it should be a threat, they are threatened because their narrative is a paper tiger and anything that speaks out against it is a fiery sword from the Lord cutting their false narrative to ribbons.
@@TheGosslings let be honest no matter which side you are on, which religion you believe or not. If a person dressing in a different way and being in a different relationship make you mad about it. It just mean that there is something fragile about you.
@@heavenseeker2320 for real.
@@gunkulator1 Lololololol
perfect comment.
Twitter users are so miserable they see other people being happy as a personal attack.
they are real life versions of Mr. Burns, going out of their way to feel personally attacked by a kid playing in a field lol.
"they're only happy because they are terrible people...but i am a good person because i make daily choices that make me a miserable asshole"
I really think this is true.
I dont even know why people keep considering twitter something remarkable, its full of brands, celebrities and people confusing mental illness as a personality trait, but knowing personally how the recent generations of psychiatrists are coming along, i completely understand why this is even a thing
@@zaikolebolsh5724 The irony is it seems to mainly be businessses that treat twitter like it matters and people who want to make a news "story" I never see regular people treat twitter like it matters.
As a black 45 year old mother of six, i applaud your analysis. So smart and witty! Loved this as i help my sons navigate the next phases in their lives.
Mother of 6? Good heavens, how do you find time to sleep? Jokes aside, sounds like a very fulfilling life.
Glad I’m not here alone 😂 I’m only 24 but I have 4 and 1 on the way ❤
Oh piss off bot, you are talking out your ass.
Feminism has taken over a lot of your sisters as it seems. Shouting "Pick me" at someone is usually a feminist dogwhistle.
kinda the point that I wanted to shoe make, being a "tradwife" is not about following a culture 70 years old (especially in the "white supremacy" stuff), is to be the supportive partner of your spouse, ESPECIALLY if you have kids, in many places of earth just by saving on daycare, doing proper meal prep, maintaining a clean house, keeping the clothes clean and tidy, and so many other things like you do like properly guiding your children by being next to them, are great things to a partner focus on in the aspect of money saving and it helps build a strong family, it doesnt necessarily mean that the tradwife has to be a white woman, it can be of any ethnicity, and a man can be a tradwife too!
I came from a family of 4 siblings, and my mom was, and kinda still is, a tradwife since she met my dad, and while she was kinda hard on her tutoring back in the day, it surely guided me to not be a degenerate today (at least in society view...)
"Wives. Women defined by their relationship to men." Yeah, in the same way that "husband" is a term that defines a man's relationship to a woman, the same way I am a "brother" to my sister, or that someone is a "boyfriend" to a girlfriend. You can bet that "writer", that individual's relationship to that poor excuse of an "article", was really crunching the deadline.
Yeah, that was just final english paper bullshit.
“Don't you see that the whole aim of Newspeak is to narrow the range of thought? In the end we shall make thoughtcrime literally impossible, because there will be no words in which to express it.”
If two lesbians are married, and the word "wife" is ever used, it's still the PATRIARCHY OPPRESSING WOMEN! /sarcasm
You realize two women can be each others wives, right?
@@Malconeous NO IT IS EXCLUSIVELY TO DEFINE WOMAN ENSLAVEMENT.
lol ur comment made me laugh it was so on point.
"There's nothing wrong with choosing to work for your family who loves you, instead of a boss who hates you" really sums it up perfectly.
What about a boss who appreciates your work and values your input?
@@magnusgreel275 if they valued you as a person, they'd give you more time with your kids by offering 4x10
@@magnusgreel275 Sounds great and just like the boss I have! The choice isn't necessarily so black and white, between people who love you and a company who undervalues you. Very often it's a choice between two good things, where your family is simply the most important. But I still think this was a striking way to put it.
@@Ultravenom1 4x10?
I keep forgetting flex time and flexible working arrangements are so uncommon in the private sector. Especially in places like the US.
But getting back to the point, the issue here isn't a choice between family and work, it's a lack of flexible working conditions.
@@magnusgreel275 those are only about 10% of bosses in the USA
Imagine being offended by a woman who loves her husband and children. I sensed a disturbance in the Twitter, as if thousands of people who didn't have loving parents at home cried out all at once.
No one's offended mate.
The boywife was meant to bring balance , not tradwife fear, fear leads to hate, hate leads to anger , anger leads to sadness .
@@davelewis8270 The lack of references runs strong in this one.
@@davelewis8270 I would bet money your parents are divorced.
@@davelewis8270 well, looks like someone simply refused to watch the video. and yet comment anyway.
My mom is a traditional wife, and my father is a loyal husband. Together they taught me so much about life. My mom to this day is my best friend, who I go to for advice when things are hard, or who I call to celebrate my accomplishments. I would not be close to her if she worked. There were very specific time for myself and my sister in which we would talk to her, and she learned through being home that if she did not interact with us she would miss out. Because I saw my mom spending her free time reading a book, I started getting into reading. When she started picking up art again I would ask her for advice when I started my art journey. I think we forget how important having a parent there for the children is for their development. I feel lucky that my Mom was there for me as I grew up, and is still there for me as an adult. As a man who wants to get married and have kids I know that I cannot force my wife to be traditional, but I would bring in the fact that one of us should be there for our children to help prepare them for the world that we live in.
Anyway, sorry for the long winded comment. I just recently found your channel, and I know this video is old in internet times, but thank you.
And therein lies the crux: 'traditional' parenting is better than 'modern'. Much of the rage vented at this 'tradwife' seems to come from career-minded women who refuse to believe that there is any other way to live, largely because they've convinced themselves there isn't. The rest quite clearly comes from jealously.
thinking abt the fact my mom was a stay at home house wife but she’s also one of the most confident, feminine, self sufficient women i know
I read stray at home
Stay at home makes more sense
Same with my mum
same goes for my mom, minus being super feminine. stayed at home, cooked and cleaned, and raised her two shithead babies while my dad was at work. but she was also buff from chopping logs for our wood stove, drove a motorcycle, and almost always wore jeans and a t-shirt. I truly don’t understand why people, left and right, still think femininity/masculinity has any connection to capability in the household or elsewhere
Not exactly self sufficient if she needs someone else’s income to live
How was she self-sufficient if she didn't make any money lol
It's insane how much people hate seeing anyone happier than them.
Envy is a hell of a drug.
@@Caitanyadasa108 Leftism is based on envy.
True. Our society wont ever support you unless you are "oppressed"
Those people are the most envious, hateful, spiteful, resentful and small-minded there is. They find joy solely in throwing insults and venom at normal happy people just enjoying their lives.
@@bushwacka5187And I'm a filmmaker, who realizes those spiteful, resentful, and hateful people contribute NOTHING. At least I'm trying to do something productive even if it receives hate.
"Beautiful, confident, happy, everything the internet hates"
Lol too true
You’re on the internet
This line right here was golden
@@Tobias8842 UR MOM is on the Internet! Snap!
Really? Because all over the internet all you hear about is people praising that like nothing else exists
Internet must love me cause I'm ugly , little less confident and not always happy.
Haha
"Why do women need to be masculine to be strong" this was very eye opening thank you
Wow this is just so elevated
@@vous53828 I mean technically it shouldn't be a revelatory and it's sad that it even is, but coming from someone who's trying to rewire their brain from their childhood it's very much a groundbreaking and important thing to realize. Progress to what should be the bare minimum is still progress towards something good, after all
Ah yes, modern society. “This person is happy and I am miserable, therefore I must hate them”
Congratulations you described atheists to Christians
It’s honestly sad that actual adults are trying to say “ hey, remember being an angsty teenager? well stay like that & be sad. It’s better that way”
@@paperbag4477 what tumblr and twitter does to good women
@@nullpropwhat the Internet does to everyone 😂
@@leogarivay6325i mean sometimes aetheists just mind their own business
She isn't a pick me, she's a wife. She's been picked
They’re just jealous no one would pick them
And no, her man isn't going to leave her for a younger woman...
Let's be fair there, Ham: Those things are not mutually exclusive.
@@bbgun061 not with that rack
@@trustory6768 😂👌
The people who "joked" about slamming her head against the fridge and her generally getting abused give off very bad implications. What in the actual fuck.
They are just mad cause if they had been born earlier they could have gotten away with that but now traditional wives are better equipped to pick better husbands
It's all projection
Happy trad wife basically rubs their faces in just how pathetic they and their loser lives are. Hence the violent reaction. They’ve just twigged they’d been duped.
@@ElinWinblad @Anthony Karnes
Maybe. Whatever the hell is going on with these freaks, I hope they get off the internet and into a psychiatrist's office before they end up in prison like Shoe said they would.
Being in a similar demographic, Mennonite white male, about half of the men who act like that are in relationships where the only reason they are not abusive is because she would call the cops. So they assume we must be abusers because "if my wife wouldn't call the cops I would"...
I left my job and got nice chunk of money from the settlement with the company, which allowed me to be a stay at home dad for a few months without having to look for a new job and it was the best few months of post-children life. I woke up early, got the kids up, made breakfast and lunch for my wife, did the cleaning, made dinner before she got home. None of this was emasculating, at no point did I feel like the inferior part of the team. It was ******* great and I wish it could have continued for longer. Hating on this woman for living her life the way she wants to? Insane.
Tbh it’s refreshing to see a woman who wants to live like this without simultaneously condemning “modern” girls
Let's be honest most of that criticism is coming as a backlash from Modern women doing what they did in this video. don't criticize people if you don't want they're honest opinion of how they see you🤷♂️
Its not modern girls thats the issue but the modern feminist movement which espouses that the highest virtue a women can achieve is to fully embrace her desires, without thought to her responsibilities. Right now men are responsible for both maintaining a household and earning the lions share of household income, while women can do what they want. Its untenable.
According to Pew, men already work more hours (working + housework) yet feminist want to tilt in further in womens favor.
@Vanswock It's called alimony, and it is meant for this exact situation.
@vanswock9277 Even if they get divorced, the laws favour the women, so she would take half of her ex-husband's money. If the husband dies, his life insurance and will would give her money. Also, a housewife has an active community life (church, school, community centre, etc...), so she has a whole network to help her if she loses her husband (unless she has been cheating on him).
Reluctant upvote.
I like how they’re calling her insecure when they are themselves being insecure.
are they?
@@alfredcommentary 100%
@@alfredcommentary yes, very much so.
Projection. The only skill these idiots possess.
@@alfredcommentary A bunch of envious women who put their insecurities on full display in their replies. If they were truly secure with their stance......THEY'D SAID NOTHING. That is the ultimate not giving a crap. If you have to counter something, you view as a threat. They clearly do.
I am a trad wife. Men are easy, feed them, take care of yourself, take care of your home and make it inviting and your husband will always come home. My husband says the best part of his day is coming home....that makes me happy
Aw. That's wholesome
we are easy its shame so many are now brainwashed
Don’t forget to blow him, that’s also very important.
I legitimately need a woman like you in my life
They are so rare here in the states I'm legit considering looking overseas.
I'm offended at how accurate you are about us. Why are we too simple? 😂
1960's: You can't be an office worker, women belong in the kitchen
2020's: You can't be a homemaker, women belong in the office.
Two sides of the same cursed coin.
Why is it so hard for people to find and stay in a heathy middle?
My great-grandma was the most feminine and yet one of the strongest people i've ever known. She took care of three children after
her husband died in war, in a country destroyed by war, in a terrible regime. Her life was on ultra hard mode. Yet despite all that, she was very feminine, very loving and very motherly.
She also never once said anything negative about her late husband even after decades, if anything she only talked well of him. That's what you call strong, dedicated and loyal.
Same with my grandmother, but seven kids and pawpaw was an unemployed alcoholic. Twenty some odd grandchildren and more than 40 great grands. She did so much for all of us. She would come to the house and clean it during the summer sometimes and tell us to tell our parents we did it. When I had my son and I needed to feed him at a family gathering, she shoo'd my uncle out of the lazy boy, sent a cousin to fix me a plate and had my other uncle sit beside me to hold my plate and feed me since my hands weren't free. (Too many of us for a table) God I miss her.
Was she German or Russian?
@@CyrusFreeman it does!!
My great-grandma was also widowed during WW2. She raised 5 children on her own and later helped to raise her grandson (my father). She never remarried, but she was quite the bombshell from what I've seen on pictures. Always well-dressed, always in heels, not even a hair out of place. She worked as a nurse during the war, then as a welder and later at a nuclear plant.
@@Joseph-pu5kd why does it matter, exactly? Do you want to imply that based on the nationality the grandparents have to have been Nazis or Communists?
"You're allowed to do what you want.. but.." basically sums up the views of these people who need to get outside more.
or those who are addicted to using their phone.
Wanting to control the private life and private decisions is what totalitarians do. They are what they accuse them of. Iron Law of Woke Projection never misses.
Hell no, I wish to God they don't get outside anymore than they already do. If anything, perhaps they should'nt even be allowed to mingle with anybody.
Seriously instead of touching themselves or their phones maybe they should go outside and touch some grass.
From creators of "I'm not racist but..." and "I am feminist and we don't hate men but..." and many others
Ah yes, these ladies who are actively choosing for themselves that they want to hold down the fort and care for the people they love? *ABSOLUTE MONSTERS*
How DARE THEY!!!
@@atranimecs I don't think you want people to start guessing groups. Say what you mean.
That's not the problem. I don't know if you twisted things on purpose or do you truly don't understand the issue here. The issue here is that these women have slave mentality based on traditional gender roles. It's not healthy like being a housewife. It's unwise and thus dangerous to promote.
@@AmberyTear just let people do what they want if they aren't hurting anyone. Isn't that what feminism was supposed to be about? choice? Also, way to cheapen slavery when there are still slaves today.
The amount of people grouping this with nazis is insane. It's like they spun a wheel and landed on that term even though it makes no freaking sense.
every time people mention Lola Bunny in Space Jam, they forget that she took *_ZERO_* shit from anybody.
like in the first scene that she gets introduced, Bugs gets absolutely whupped by her.
If she is a wife, that means that she’s married, meaning somebody already picked her, and because most likely she wasn’t part of a deal to buy a sawmill, she picked her husband.
Sawmills are a good deal.
Wait I can get a wife AND a sawmill? 🤔
Yeah, but they're not concerned about whether she's already been picked or not. They're just implying that's why she's adopting that behavior.
Wait... We can get a sawmill as well? I've been married 10 years, does that mean I own 10% of a sawmill?
They aren’t married tho that’s the funny part they’re just larping
Doing basic chores and caring for another person is now TRAD.
I mean, if it's considered the woman's duty to do certain chores and do the caring because she is a woman, then yes. That is trad.
Sad that this is the state of things. We've become so advanced as a society that we forgot what traditional was in the sense of relationships
@Bren Scott true. Feminists forget that men also give up liberty and sacrifice to provide for a wife and kids.
Simping for white nationalism is
@@brenscott5416 We've moved away from it, rather. So that individuals who don't feel like the traditional roles fit them, aren't pressured into them just for the sake of tradition.
“Choosing to work for a family that loves you instead for a boss that hates you” Words of wisdom indeed 🙏
Both slavery
@@silloweet excuse me how is choosing family slavery it’s not slavery if you enjoy what you do
@@silloweet In that case, you'll just have to pick the lesser evil.
*Hint* Don't fall for someone who can fire you. There's no _divorce court_ for getting fired.
@@silloweet clearly you must've never felt love in your life, unfortunate. I hope you will eventually
@@woulfhound lo dice el gamer, xd....
im a stay at home woman with a child and a boyfriend who goes to work and brings home groceries for me to cook for him, and takes care of our baby while i do my things.
i’ve been doing this for years with him and i certainly do not see or feel any sort of slavery in the lifestyle i’ve been living in. My life is, in simple words great! These people are simply lonely and have basically no self respect. Honestly shameful
It's just baffling, that in the time and age of ever-increasing remote work and home offices, a stay-at-home-parent lifestyle is seen as "bad". Especially when the two actually can be combined.
There was a girl that made tiktoks about packing lunch boxes boyfriend. And the majority of negative comments were form other women,which is disappointing. Including one comment that said "I will never degrade myself for a man" as if being caring is degrading
As if it’s so sinister to love someone enough to step in because you know your partner will waste money on take out and eat garbage that could shorten their life and create suffering and health complications… yeahhhhh so sinister 😂 These people don’t understand our evolutionary success as human beings. It’s because we have historically taken care of each other that we have survived.
Those are the goofy ones that drop panties for a man, or jump when their male bosses say so. Yet being NICE to a person they're supposed to love. That's too much emotional labor.
Yeah man they are bunch of bitter angry woman
I love watching those, lucky man.
Mean while in our universe, that same girl has done some pretty degrading stuff in the sheets.
Imagine calling someone making their own decisions toxic and misogynist, but then going on to tell her how you want to physically assault her
“When I do it, it’s based, when you do it, it’s cringe” that is pretty much the entire world of politics and opinions and Twitter in a nutshell
“I refuse to be a walking big pharma cocktail, and my mental illnesses make me funnier.” Well put
"Why do women need to be seen as masculine to be seen as strong?"
That is the billion-dollar question. They told us women could be equal, but what it turned out they really meant was: women are bad, but you can act like a man if you want to be respected.
This is so accurate. We were told growing up (millennial) we could be whatever we wanted and do whatever we wanted because we are supposed to be equal. But it doesn’t matter what we choose to do with our own lives, someone’s out to condemn us for it, and sadly a lot of the time, it’s from other woman. If we don’t choose to live the same lifestyle they do, we are part of the problem in their minds. This is not equality or supportive of free choice. It is just as oppressive as it once was in the opposite direction.
@@erikagreatrix4925 Perfectly put.
That's actually true in alot of ways nowadays. Revolution is not equality. Meet bodypositivity where just trying to stay healthy is apparently fatphobic; blm where being white is your worst nightmare; feminism where just minding your own buisness isn't enough.
And it actually goes far beyond. It is the same reason industrial glue has a giant sticker on it screaming .
It's just cancel culture. It is everywhere. And it is one of the reasons i'm grateful i wasn't born in a western country.
It is just sad seeing people yearning for attention, pretending to be oppressed and offended, while the ones who actually need help stay in shadows of those. These are the people that claim to be depressed.. hell, even pretend to have serious mental illnesses just for controversy THAT THEY CAN"T EVEN MONETIZE.
enough internet for today.
They hate men but act like their stereotype of a male.gotta love how screwed up feminists are
@@erikagreatrix4925 I remember a cowoker of mine telling me that she despise nothing more than housewives because, you know, they stay at home "doing nothing". Told her my mother is a housewife and that if I'm successful today, its 100% thanks to her. Managing a house and raising your children is so harder than those dumbass think it is. Way harder than sitting behind a desk.
"Why do women need to be masculine to be considered strong?" this is a really good point Shoe!! 👍 So many series overflow from this trope
It ruined Hollywood. Women were always strong AND feminine in movies. Think of any Kathryn Hepburn movie. But now they need to actually BE LIKE men to be strong. And they don't have any faults or struggles. They're Mary Sue characters who can do anything and defeat anyone without a learning curve or character arc, like in Marvel movies, Star Wars, LOTR, etc. And the men are turned into fumbling idiots. I'm going to see John Wick tomorrow, but that's the only movie I'll see all year, most likely.
The irony is it's actually pretty sexist to believe women need to be like men to be strong lmao
@@scifiwriter98 Awesome movie man, watched it last weekend. Totally recommended 10/10. I love Johnny Silverhand.
Anita Snarkasian herself was the most guilty of this. Her idea of a progressive story was one where the woman simply replaced the traditional mare hero character.
So today I didn’t have ketchup so I had to go buy some for my cereal and banana mustard diet….I road a pepper to work where I then when to sleep with my desk on my boss and then I got watered it’s like being fired but instead everyone pees on you and you get fired 🧔🏻♀️😵👁️🧔🏻♀️👺🎂👨🏽❤️💋👨🏻🦷🧑🏿🦰😹🦷🫡🤠🫥🍩🫥😛🧐🫡🧐🫥🧐🫥😄😄🫡😄🫥😁🥶🤤🤤🤤🤥😷🤮🤥🤮😷🤒🤥🤒🤒🤌🏽✌🏼✌🏼🤌🏽👉🏻👆🏿👆🏿👉🏻👌🏼👉🏻👌🏼👉🏻👆🏿👌🏼👌🏼👉🏻🤜🏻👉🏻👌🏼👉🏻👌🏼👉🏻👌🏼👉🏻
"She looks beautiful, confident, HAPPY... things that internet hate" I died :))
I laughed about that too. But not so much the internet- rather the liberal lefts internet.
it remains me the girl that was called, from 2009, Bo~ if you know the end, you know the end
My condolences.
as a mixed race traditional housewife.. thanks for this it was hilarious! spilled my coffee all over my apron laughing. i think people miss the point! its not submissive at all. we are a team. he gets the monies, i do the cooking and cleaning. personally as a person who is also neurospicy (ADHD and aspergers) i think i got the better end of the deal LOL
People are so pathetic and misguided these days. Good for you living the way you and your husband want to live.
"Seeing you happy makes me feel violent," twitter feminist.
@@gamergodofjustice this made me laugh SO HARD omg 🤣 thankyou
@@RainbowWrangler :) happy to make folks laugh, also you 1000% get the better end of the deal. A time table of 8 hours to do the house work is so much better than 8 hours to do 2 weeks worth of work.
@@gamergodofjustice so true! 🤣 my husband works with a bunch of clowns lol. I get to stay home and play with the puppy all day and if i take a day off he never complains. The very least i can do is keep clean clothes in the wardrobe for him and have dinner on the table. Im very grateful and never take his loving kindness for granted. I truly hope everyone finds their team mate and the ballance that works for them, whatever that looks like 🥰
I've been a traditional stay at home wife for 13 years, and it's been wonderful. I know some women get a lot of purpose and fulfillment from careers, but I am not one of them. I hated working outside the home. It was soul sucking for me. I love working inside my home. It's been so good for my marriage. My husband and I have so much more free time because we are 2 people doing 2 jobs. Not 2 people doing 3 jobs. I get my work done during the day, and we spend our evenings and weekends relaxing and spending time with each other. It has been beneficial for both of us!
You do You and wish You well, no judgment or shame from me, but I have questions.
The future is always uncertain, so any disturbances in Your husband's life will also affect You.
Any financial/health/divorce that might happen will affect You, do You have plans for them and what are You going to do if these things happen ?
Are those women really getting fulfillment from their careers, or are they just convincing themselves that they do? How will they feel about it when their ovaries are sending in the D-Squad and the chance to have a family has passed them by?
happy for you homie
My wife is like that too. She worked a lot until she met me. She insisted to stay home and just take care of me. She is her own boss, works in the garden, prepares amazing foods, hugs and kisses me whenever possible. She radiates a happy energy. 23 Years and no end in sight.
Your husband is blessed to have you! ❤ Best to you both in your relationship!
I’m a domestic housewife but my goal is to become a feral housewife. Joking. But seriously the amount of people that get pissed off at me for having the audacity to make a sandwich for my husband is hilarious. This man goes to work for 12 hours a day 5-6 days a week despite having a health problem. So yeah we show love to each other by sacrificing for each other. It’s not slavery. It’s a truly loving relationship. He is my best friend and I am his.
You can do so much more when y’all work together to build a house/family, as opposed to working separately. Essentially, a division of labor that results in gestalt. I think a lot of people don’t actually have a house, or clean their apartments, so they forget homemaking is an entire job in and of itself, especially when kids are involved.
I wouldn’t care who stays home, if it’s me or a partner, but dang it’s so much harder to do it alone! Congrats on your relationship!
"I don't think for myself." There, I fixed your comment
sounds like a great deal for you
@@joshua.merrill thank you! We are both (over all) genuinely happy.
Sounds like it's you man that's the slave tbh
Hordes of pick-me girls calling a picked-girl a pick-me girl.
Gotta love it
I got married when I was young, 19 to be exact (my now husband was 20). I was told after I got married that I was "robbed of my independence" because I didn't get to "grow up" without a man. Ive always liked having my husband by my side, but whenever I tell people that I got married young they pity me and villainize my husband.
feminism should be that women can choose what they want. not be forced to live a certain way.
I also don't understand how these people can't imagine a world where we can have both traditional housewives and modern men who don't beat their wives. These people cherry pick everything but yet can't fathom cherry picking the best parts of different eras and mixing the best ones together to create the perfect balance.
Impossible, don't you know that? You can't mix the 1950's and 2000's. I mean didn't every husband beat their wives in the 1950's, and all grandparents abuse their grandchildren?
The theory is that if you are financially dependent on your spouse, it becomes harder to stand up for yourself in interpersonal conflicts that naturally arise in domestic relationships. Once your spouse realizes that they usually get their way, it gives them a degree of power over you and they gradually lose interest in doing the work in maintaining a healthy relationship. Small abuses turn to big abuses and the relationship boiling-frogs its way to being trapped in an abusive partnership.
In theory, anyway.
Something like this probably happens some of the time to some extent, but it seems like some people take this theory as prophetic.
There's also a deeply misandrist belief that men are all inherently abusive and have not changed at all since the 50s.
@@resistancefm5133 In theory there should be a dependence in both ways.
If you marry or even just move in with another person, you are in some way dependent on the other person.
If you choose this type of lifestyle.
A wife that doesn't earn money depends on her husband's money.
A husband is dependent on his wife to take care of the household if he doesn't have the time or ability to do it himself.
In that situation both are dependent.
And yes, bad things can happen in those dependencies.
If you choose that kind of lifestyle you need to choose the right partner because if you choose wrong, it's not a nice situation to be in.
@@resistancefm5133 I have a 'trad' wife- this dynamic plays out exactly opposite of how the feminists believe it does because they miss the most-basic tenets of humanity e.g. we naturally feel indebted to people who care for us.
I get it though: maladjusted young adults, that worship money, have a hard time understanding how people could possibly _not_ be in control, if they are the breadwinners.
...and this TV trope of evil grandpa beating grandma over a cold dinner needs to die- if anything, domestic violence has increased. It's all probably unrelated to feminism, but that's kinda the point.
I'm reminded of my grandparents here, both pre-war babies growing up during the depression. She had gone to secretarial college but was glad to quit the field when they married. Both dedicated themselves to the other's security and happiness, both sacrificed to build a household and raise healthy children, and both found their joy in the other's eyes. When visiting, I sometimes found them dancing in the living room to the Lawrence Welk show. He was certainly the "man of the house" but always decided in favor of her needs. What I would give to have it so good; to dedicate my daily labor to such a woman and such an enterprise.
The haters ignore the fact that abuse, manipulation, and selfishness exist in every form of human relationship, even their own. What these people have done is (re)create a structure in which comfort and security far more available than any in mine or subsequent generations have known.
The feminazis and coomers act like LGBT couples don't suffer abuse at the hands of their partners; that it's only a white, cis thing. Right.....
Hard agree.
Nah. It works for them. I hard reject your notion to push away other people's form of relationships by suggesting this one is better than any other created after it. Hard, hard, hard reject. It's likely the form I'll have, but I've seen enough to know that the truth you started about how it's possible to have a toxic relationship in any form truly just means that. Being authentic I what you're pursuing and clear with your boundaries whilst respecting others is a far more important key than how what you're pursuing looks like. There are poly communities with very healthy parenthood forms and many other kinds of family units.
@Joëlle Weetjewel Almost as if different things work differently for different people and a uniform model never works for everyone. Maybe people should just live their lives how they think works best for them without everyone around telling them to live "correct way", whatever that is.
@@abadenoughdude300 sure. but the issue here is these women *romanticize* a period when other women did not have the choice. Prior to the 1970s, marital rape was legal in every US state. there are still women alive who remember being raped by their husbands, legally. like, i don't have a problem with SAH wo/men. but this shit looks like conservative psyop, it's so bad.
I didn't realize I had a "trad wife."
I just call her my best friend and our kids call her the best mom ever🤷
In times like this, people makes up names for normality.
it's the 50s clothing triggeres people's monke brain to the point that they go so far fatched to relate it to **** supremecy and naci.
❤
Great video. You really hit the crux of the issue: the extreme irony of those trying to "call out" trad wives, and it's sexist to do so. Not to mention the erasing of anything feminine in the name of [whatever modern agenda here].
DON’T BE A “SLAVE” TO A MAN THAT LOVES YOU.
Instead, be a slave to your male or female boss who will fire you in an instant the moment you don’t serve the corporation’s interests
Yes. Would you choose the pig or the love of your life? Who would you rather put your life in their hands?
Well, a loving husband can also 'fire' you, let's be honest
@@no-go7422 Well, except they don't, men almost never divorce women even when they are unhappy.
@@SoteksChunkyProphet-dg7io which can lead to abuse. considerably worse.
@@no-go7422 A husband who loves you will not cheat, if that's what you are referring to. Other than that, YOU have to be the problem to be "fired." And divorces can be complicated, much moreso than work firing you.
I love when every movement starts as just wanting to be able to express yourself and your ideals, and always ends up with trying to keep other people from expressing themselves and their ideals.
Except the one that’s literally always been around for 1000s of years. Trad wives.
Crabs in a bucket, my friend...
Boomer take
@@karebushmarebu233 beta take
Simplistic dualistic morality is a crutch for those who do not want to see the failings in themselves. You can be right but still be in the wrong and that is something many, maybe most, people struggle to understand and accept.
It'll always confuse me how people can claim to want women to be free to make their own choices then harass them when they choose what they don't like lol
Exactly
The exact same thing happened to Cassie Jaye after she made her docu film "The Red Pill".
All her previous funding support from feminists evaporated like dry ice never to return.
The confusion arises because you took their statement about wanting women to be free at face value. Thats because you are an honest person, so you assume they are also honest. They are 100% the opposite of honest. Also the opposite of good intentioned, moral, and loving.
Because when woman start to make choices that go against what they were taught, they're understand of the world get thrown out the window.
The idea that MAYBE some woman LIKE the idea of being stay at home wifes and let the guys do all the work while they raise the kids is too much for them to handle. And it makes people like Ben Shapiro look right which is another reason why they hate this.
They don't like being wrong.
THIS
My wife ended up being a stay at home mom all because of one particular event, that being, we had twins (boy and girl), and with the little bit she made being a CNA, us putting two kids into daycare at the same time would have been pointless, she'd basically work just to pay for the daycare. And only after just the first year of staying home and being with those kids all the time, she absolutely can not imagine ever leaving them to go to a job.
I personally think it's possible for far more people to be stay at home moms than most people realize. The biggest hindrance is not necessarily money, it's the unwillingness to sacrifice. Most people don't want to admit it, or talk about it, but no one wants to change/transition to a lower standard of living. I think about the amount of married couples out there that have just one or two kids, are living in a 300K to 500K dollar home, and yet still both parents are working. They don't have to do that, they don't have to have a half million house and two $40-50K cars, but ultimately they desire that standard of living above being able to have mom stay home. There's people that make half as much as I do (105K last year) and still pull it off, and if anything, pull it off better than we do, but they are only able to do it by making the necessary sacrifices, by having disciplined spending.
Note: My dollar figures for housing is more based off what it used to be before the insane spike in the cost of housing, and for someone living in Northwest Indiana.
I love those tweets acting like being a corpo-slave doesn't make a person a slave to wealthy men.
"I'm empowered because my owner has thousands of slaves, instead of just one!"
What about those who work for a female boss? Oh wait, no, they're beholden to the shareholders, who are mostly men, so instead of being beholden to 1 man, they service the whims of several, which really takes the corporate whore slang to whole new heights
Couldnt have been worded better
I love the idea that I'm secretly the wife of my corporate boss lol
This is fuckin legit, the shit people do just to get a couple more bucks from their employers is nuts.
@@thecryingsoul lmfao
The Little Mermaid one still gets me. "Betcha on land they understand that they don't reprimand their daughters; bright young women, sick of swimmin', ready to stand." It's literally right there, in the song, before she even sees the Prince at all. Like she either never saw the movie or just didn't give a crap about it, but that theme was always there.
Holy shit you are right! That's funny. They just want to pretend they are better and more enlightened haha.
Hate how people keep complaining that these princess movies were sexist or whatever and try to make them more "empowering" in the remakes. They were fine as they were.
@@joinsideke Bro the Little Mermaid was orignally a metaphor for gay love
That's what I thought as well. "We've changed that perspective" my ass, Ariel was always fascinated by the land and humans, she always was the woman who wanted to escape her family and go live her dream, the Prince was just a side thing that gave her the last push.
The people saying the remake is better don't know how the original movie went even though they condemn it???
Imagine my shock
We want freedom and personal choice, but don't you dare stray from the freedom and personal choice we want you to have
😂Truth
0:15 love the metalocalypse censoring there
"Just because you find the woman hot does not mean it's porn"
It's beyond based, holy fuck :D
To men these days this is porn. That type of woman is a dream come true. I know because I have a wife just like her.
Porn is in the eye of the beholder
im ngl, i was like a deer in headlights when i saw the picture. hope we get some gen z tradwives i need a lady like this no cap
@@strykerfpv one day bro, one day 😭
this has nothing to do with "based" (who even knows what based even means?) it's just true
Being a supportive stay at home mom is now rebelling against society
What a day and age
Good times to be alive indeed hehe
It is the future and the past to fix the present.
She’s probably the only one that can say “I make a house a home”
Jews.
Do these people not understand that not all “traditional” relationships in the 50’s, were abusive? Nothing was perfect, but loving (the act, not the feeling) your spouse is such a foundational building block to life and raising a family. I was so lucky to have a “traditional” family growing up.
No... because "man bad and abusive" /snark
It was a very small% .Most people that married in the 50's are still together today or died. The whole idea that traditional relationships are full of abuse is a lie that is portrayed by feminism and readopted by the radical left in an effort to try and destroy nuclear families.
Yeah, a lot of people don't realize that it was about the same 20% of marriages have some kind of domestic violence that occurs, most DV is perpetuated by both sides towards each other, but most cases of one-sided DV is women hitting, slapping, punching, or verbally degrading men. What's really funny is that lesbian relationships are significantly more likely to be abusive and end in divorce when compared to gay and straight relationships, but you because of feminism, women are nothing but perfect angels that are stronger, smarter, hotter, more empathetic, more efficient, and overall more capable than men are and men, especially of the white variety, are nothing but misogynistic pigs that don't contribute a dime to society other than making money for them to spend their own money on themselves. sorry, bit of a rant.
Sounds to me like a lot of them have fantasies about abusing women and are the very thing they claim to be against.
@@awesomeblader45 bit of the truth more like.
My wife from 1963 was a wonderful woman. I couldn’t wait to get home to her in the evening. She died of a sudden heart attack in 2000 . Her last words, “I love you “ and my name. Survived by three daughters and 6 grandchildren. She was happy.
She single handedly supports her family physically and emotionally, and that's worth more than all the money in the world.
Emotionally*
@@spinach4892 i know. I was too lazy.
👏
To paraphrase C.S. Lewis, every other career exists for the purpose of supporting the homemaker.
She has one hell of a fashion sense too
I love it
Lois Griffin in Family Guy season 2 summed it up perfectly: "Feminism is a choice. I choose to be a housewife, and now I'm choosing to end this conversation," which is what Estee C Williams is pointing out against these so-called "women's rights activists."
What episode was that in exactly?
@@DrakeOola I am Peter. Here me Roar.
Wois
Yes! Agreed. Tbh, id love to be my wife's housewife if we could afford it XD
“ my parents took turns staying home and look how well I turned out!” -Shoe
LMAO
It could've been worse. She could've became Batman
Shoe for Batman 2024. She will be announcing this in a few months, my magic 8 ball told me in a cocacocaine fueled ragebender.
@@bruhdontpingme she will personally kill her parents in order to do it
@@reijigamerI'm cool with her having a loving family and being batman.
Who says batman can't be motivated by making sure no one has a happy family stolen from them?
I love the idea that the people projecting their lack of a relationship is some sort of gotcha moment. They're just showing everyone how miserable and lonely they truly are.
"Ugh, I can't imagine being at my home and serving my husband!"
*Goes to her wage slave cubical job and serves her male boss who doesn't care if she lives or dies.
Who says the boss is a male?
Or that this woman isn’t herself a “boss”-or couldn’t become one?
Most corporations care more about the equipment their employees use than their employees.
@@terry9238statistics, mostly
@@terry9238 ohhh ok, because working for a girl"boss" really changes the fact that she wouldnt care if you live or die and shes wouldnt care of your horrible life of wage slave?
based af, well deserving of a thumbs up
I love how they all claim she gets beaten by her husband then turn around and fantasize about beating her themselves. Chuckles chuckles
It's all projection.
They are as wicked as they are miserable and can't accept it, so they project their own flaws on everyone else.
All narcissism.
why are you laughing an obviously dysfunctional relationship in need of help
They're justified in they're aggression though, because she's hotter than them
@@trentgreenhalgh7015 You had us in the 1st half ngl
There's nothing that screams jealousy and insecurity more than other women being angry at a woman who chooses to support her family in a way that makes her feel proud and happy by embracing traditional feminine traits.
Indeed. Gentlemen, I believe we can all agree that the hoes are indeed mad.
Badass comment.
It's literally her job to comment on new cultural things.
@@jayzee5712 OP was not taking about Shoe, he was speaking to the women throwing shade on Trad-Wives.
@@josephphillips7949 Haha! Funni!🤣Oops!🤣
As a single guy, who has to work on top of doing all the chores (including the laundry), sometimes I wish I had some assistance. The tradwife gals who willingly take on part of that responsibility would be an absolute treasure that I'd gladly pamper with anything spare time and money I could scrape together. Like girl, if you're willing to make my life easier, I'd make your life as comfortable as I can, not just because you're doing me a great service, but because I love you. Goddamn, that'd be the dream. Anyway, back to reality for me.
They are out there my friend 🙏🏼 if anything this TradWife trend will greatly lower Hoeflation and bring some desirable women back into the field
As a person who is apathetic by default, trying to sound apathetic defeats its self because you care enough to sound like you don't care.
I was gonna say that persons flat affect was mid at best and it would have never been good because they were so pressed they had to go through the effort to post a response in the first place lmao. At best they sound like a petty high school mean girl from a shitty knock off coming of age movie, so at least it was fun to laugh at!
So why did you feel the need to tell us you are apathetic?
Why did you comment at all?
It's almost like you....care
@@meanberryy They didn't care to reply to your dumbass comment though, so...
That reminds me of Heisenberg's Uncertainty Principle. Any attempt to record the position of a subatomic particle is doomed to failure by the very act of observing it.
Its funny because its true
It's a bit unnerving how Shoe snapping herself into Jessica Rabbit can so easily snap my male lizard brain to attention.
Don't worry, you're not alone, fellow degenerate
🤝
Human Lizard Brain* As Here I Am, A Female; Also Spellbound By Mommy Shoe.🥵
Yeeeup, I’m here too
i like her better how she normally looks
These people attacking her for her "fake tits" really breaks my heart for her. She has some videos in her Instagram (I don't have TikTok but they're probably there, too) talking about this. Apparently she had them done when she was very young (just turned 18 or something like that) and really regrets that decision now. She literally warns others from getting that surgery because she also had complications afterwards.
Edit: She also warns people about choosing your partner very carefully when you want to pursue this lifestyle to avoid abuse.
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. She's made her entire life centered around her appearance and continues to do so by engaging with social media. Sucks she has regrets, but get over it. Maybe get a job and do something else with your life, then. She chose to go the dumbass social media route.
It sucks even more because a lot of these people are all “body positivity” and “look how you want, not how others want you to” and then when she does (or did considering she regrets her choice) they bully her.
Well they look great.
Hell, that's some hypocrisy. So she has fake tits, big deal. Not like she's denying it or a full-on surgery addict.
Meanwhile the women hating on her admire liberal Instagram where's with fake boobs and fake butts
My wife says she hates the feminist movement.. because she used to be able to stay home all day cook/clean . But now is so hard for 1 person to take care of a whole household and had to pick up a job. Now we split all of our household chores but she tells me everyday she would rather much go back to being the (housewife) rather than a "strong independent working woman" .. and is always blamming these girls for making her have to work a job 😂
I always comfort her and tell her dont worry about a job but deep down we both know those days are gone and now the government is fucking us both over on our paychecks to live in a normal house
It's not feminism's fault, it's the government/economy
@@Cotton_Candy.__ Economics was effected by the movement to be that way, when most families only had one income and multiple children, one income, in the minimum, needed to provide enough for that, or it hits a critical point where people start revolting in mass to the point it becoming a problem. When women and men, both were told to work and to be providers and not to be the nurturers, you need to only provide about half the income nessesary to provide for a family. When they tell people not to have kids and focus on their career, you only need to provide enough for one individual to barely eat and get shelter (no taking child education costs or other related costs into consideration). Then, tadah! you get the modern crisis when even two incomes aint giving ya shit for a family.
@bentarrrthebaxter568 "Stop being homeless, just buy a house"
"Why are you an orphan, just get parents"
"Why are you suicidal, just be happy"
Ha, without feminism she'd still be having to work her miserable job, but it would have been for far less than what a man would earn for the same work. If anyone would be willing to hire a woman in the first place, that is.
@bentarrrthebaxter568 "just be the top 4-5% wage earners lmao, its easy"
"Everyone's a feminist until you ask to split the bill" It hurts how accurate that is
You wanna know what's funny.. over a decade ago when I was single and went on dates, I would often prefer to pay for my own stuff. My own meals or my movie tickets or whatever, I personally didn't want to feel like I owed the guy anything ( dude could be like: I paid for the date you owe me a goodnight kiss or a second date).
Nope, you will only get those things if I generally liked you.
@@prettyfayegirl7317 The thing is, any guy that felt like they were owed something simply because they paid for a date they invited a girl on is an asshole.
The way I was raised, if you invite someone somewhere, unless other terms are specifically agreed on, you AT LEAST offer to pay. ESPECIALLY on a date. Expecting something in return is just being a dick.
Having said that, if a girl I asked out truly wanted to pay her half, I mean, I'm gonna resist, it's just built into me, but not because I want something I can hold over her later. And if she really wants to do it, that's fine. I'll resist a bit, but I'm not gonna make a scene over it or anything.
@@casbyness What the hell are you on my guy? If a gal told me she wants to split the bill id just think "perfectly reasonable" We dont live in boomer world no more, I hope to find someone who also works a job, and willingly spliting the bill tells me she sees me as an equal and understands that its going to be a joint effort to be in a relationship if it becomes one.
💯 X 💯 X 💯
@@PantheraOnca60 There are a few… Very few. But finding them these days is hopeless. My grandma raised six kids & ran the whole farm herself after grandpa got killed. She stayed single the rest of her life, tougher than 99.9% of men today.
This has been the most memeworthy episode in a while. So many good reactions and clips.
imo, this is probably one of shoe's best video's ever. topical jokes to explain the point, self-referential jokes to stay humble, and jokes for the fun of it cause june is a great comedy writer and actress.
"When I do it, it's based. When you do it, it's cringe." was instant gold
I fully agree. I've clipped the "sorry, I was just trying to find your f-ing point" so many times.
Growing up my parents, especially my dad, really emphasized that if I wanted to be a stay at home housewife it should be my choice, and not because I was forced to be one. Nowadays I don’t see myself being a housewife, but that doesn’t mean it’s a free pass to degrade women who want to be one. I genuinely feel bad for the girl getting called out on tiktok cause she seems really sweet and living their best life; something that a lot people don’t want to do for themselves.
I agree with your comment but the content doesn't stand out to me so much as the effort you used to write it; you seem like a person who puts a lot into what you say. You seem like you've been through struggle - if so, please don't give up if you ever feel... that mood.
Hell yeah! I want to work and split the housework with my partner evenly, but if you have the means to have a single income marriage and it works for you, do you ❤ if I had a breadwinner partner I wouldn’t mind being the homemaker (granted I still got to engage in my hobbies and have a life outside of the house)
Beautifully said, pro choice should include all choices!
@@holland22 wait are you still talking about just lifestyles? i just got confused when you said pro choice
I feel like those people saying “she definitely gets beat by her husband” are just projecting. They are definitely in toxic abusive relationships that they put themselves in but refuse to leave because of their pride.
I had a career. Got married, kept my career. Had a child, & quit my career to become a "trad" wife. No way could I hand over my sweet baby to daycare strangers to raise. The nice thing about this era we live in is that we women have the freedom to choose how we want to live our lives. Condemning another woman for her life choices in the most un-feminest thing someone could do.
The point being of course that it was never really about women, they’re just the means to the end
if your partner earns enough so you can stay at home
"We" don't all have the freedom to choose that. Only women who are so incredibly lucky that they found a perfect partner who makes enough money to support a lavish lifestyle for everyone in the household all by himself can choose that.
@@autumnaticMost SAHMs are in the middle and lower middle classes… including me lol. It’s not lavish when you buy everything cheap or thrifted, or when your husband works 60 hour weeks to make ends meet, because you had a surprise hospital visit and you could barely afford it. Or choosing to homeschool with dollar bin school books from Walmart and Target, instead of buying fancy curriculums and educational apps. It’s choosing to leave the city for a rural neighborhood where you can stretch your dollar further. It’s also choosing to cook from scratch with cheap ingredients (beans, rice, pasta, flour, veggies) and only buying meat in bulk, no processed snacks.
To call it “lavish”, shows you probably wouldn’t prioritize the same things we prioritize, so you couldn’t afford all the extras you have without a double income.
i agree with the sentiment of what you're saying, but we don't actually have that freedom because it's not economically viable right now. some people get to choose, but working class women have always had to work,
I’ve missed shoe. She’s like a schizophrenic voice, intrusive but on your side.
Imagine having schizophrenia but all the voices tell you to do is to get out of bed, exercise and look after yourself.
@@discipleofdagon8195one of the voices I have does that, he always tells me to do things that are good for me in contrast with the other voices which have took me places I wouldn't normally go.
Well said.
@@linuxland "Take your freedom, format your drive from Windows"
Most schizophrenic voices are dystonic….they are not on your side.
My mother was a TradWife, with four boys. Dad was a fireman, he never hit her they only had one argument and she won because he made a silly mistake. She was a very happy satisfied person. She managed the house and when we got into middle and high school she went to work because she wanted to until she didn’t want to anymore.
A FAMILY BEING SUPPORTED BY THE INCOME OF ONE FIREMAN IS CRAZY
@@smashchamp117 it indeed is, very sad that majority of the time a single income cannot provide for a family anymore
Also he was a firefighter for the 70s-90s so pension and pay for a high risk, highly skilled city employee was probably more reasonable back the. Especially if you were frugal. 👨🏻🚒
That's possible. However, we can't deny that many men abuse their financial privilege to abuse women. This is particularly very true in third-world countries
@@ubaidbutt9709 Men being overly dominant to their wives and children is once again the few bad apples exaggerating a negative male stereotype. My mother’s father a WW2 veteran worked for Union Pacific RR to support my mother and aunt. My grandmother was a very frugal housewife. She was the matriarch who kept the family together. My dad’s father worked in a furniture factory to support a family of 7. Grandma kept a garden in the backyard, canned food and kept the house in order, until grandpa died. After that grandma worked to support the last 3 boys still living at home. She was also the the matriarch that held the family together. There has been a lot of bad publicity and exaggerated stories told to make men look bad just to promote the breaking up of the nuclear family. The self sufficiency family that didn’t want or need a large government to take care of and or control their lives. Follow the power/money and you’ll figure out who and why anyone would want to destroy the family unit.
I think it's that women feel called out for their lifestyle because someone else is displaying how happy they are in a situation that they tried but failed or that they don't want but feel like they should or were told that they should by their parents. Modern women choosing a Tradwife lifestyle reminds people that a large amount of people in the past were happy even if there were serious problems in the country / society.
"I'm a strong woman!"
Maury: "The fact you get pissed off at any woman who isn't a lonely, miserable person like you determined that was a lie"
This!!! That is EXACTLY what all the hate is about.
this just proves, no matter what u do, theres always someone who hates what youre doing
SJWs
@@PartyPhil1 k
Welcome to the world, there will ALWAYS be someone being a dick about it
Just because he feels like it
That's how it is
Trad wife: Posts tiktoks explaining how a traditional marriage and it’s dynamic looks and works despite going against the modern perception of the lifestyle
Twitter: “Yeah looks like slavery to me”
*Tweeted from their iPhones! 😂
I'm assuming the reason people are so against this, feminism aside, is because of all the abuse that was hidden behind closed doors during the years women were forced to be like that. When women couldn't have jobs and were expected to drop out like 9 babies. Lots of domestic abuse would go ignored or unreported back in those times because no one was looking out for the best interests of those women. It's the idea of that time. Probably. At least that's the only assumption I can make or it's also those man hating women that all have a huge problem with it. The misandrists.
Maybe i'm an abnormal guy, but i don't get off on the idea of beating women. This is 2020 we don't need to employ violence unless it is a life or death decision. Hopefully that is a popular opinion.
@@Nicodareus Yeah, it's very abnormal. Maybe you should see a doctor for it. Or go to anger management, where they can manage your dangerously low aggression levels.
For self medication I heard meth and/or alcohol can help. /s
@@MihaelLawliet01 It's the usual suspects.
It's not the 50's anymore, the police actually intervene on DV (in some places it's compulsory whether the spouse presses charges or not and the guys in jail LOVE wife beaters almost as much a p3dos and grapists) rather than turning a blind eye and encouraging a couple to "sort out what goes on behind closed doors themselves" (My own grandmother got that line back then so I understand your concerns there).
The current trad wife "trend" is generally about the traditional gender roles of Husband as leader/provider and the Wife as homemaker/devoted caregiver.
I must admit, it'd have to be classed as "counter culture" in Current Year tm, but to be honest, although the outfits are cute, not sure I'd personally know what to do with a woman who almost always deferred to my judgement....unless she wants to be lead of a cliff! 😂
20:32
You know the saying „Strong men make good times, good times make weak men, weak men make bad times, bad times make strong men“ and so forth.
Those times will be back, eventually.
That's a ridiculous thing to say that has little to no grip with the material hardships of people today. Putting the blame on most people never having the prospect of ever owning a house on being 'weak' is silly.
@@geronimohayauxdutilly2136 I meant that weak people made the hard times of today in the good times of yester years.
she's happy, he's happy, and her tiktok vids probably give their household income a significant boost. seems like a great life for everyone involved.
they probably spend all that money on heating because she's freezing wearing nothing but open cleavage flowey dresses all the time
Yep. Honestly I feel like the industrial revolution and tech changed women's lives so much opening them up to the work force for good or for bad. But now the advent of the internet, satélites, social media and remote flexible working opportunities have made it possible for women to return home. However it would be great to get back to the point where most women do not have to work so the household breaks even. That is a thing. Almost every women I know had to work and would have preferred staying home with their children. It's tragic.
But she is supporting the patriarchy REEEEEE!!!!!
@@user-wp5cw2ql7xAre you speaking English?
@@user-wp5cw2ql7x Good grief, what on earth are you rambling about.
It's weird that the most backlash I've ever gotten from people around me is when I told them I wanted to be a stay at home mom. Its fucking wild out here.
It is massive risk for your life as well you need to be sure about it.
@whatever_111 It can be for sure, but I've already had my baby, and luckily everything went well for me. Also, I've been with my husband for almost a decade, so we were pretty sure by that point. I agree though you definitely need to be sure it's not something to take lightly. It's just weird to me that every other job I wanted to go for I had nothing but praise and support, but as soon as I wanted to stay home, it was "but won't you be bored?" Or "You're encouraging women to take a step back" and that sort of thing.
@@Redlights111 A massive risk to her life? Really? You sound like me in my first year of veganism when I was convinced the rest of you were gonna die if you kept eating cancerous meat. Male violence being real does not make all men dangerous.
what?
@@Redlights111
@@Redlights111 you seem like you struggle with simple tasks
I felt the same anger directed at me when I "chose" to keep my baby. That's what I thought being pro-choice MEANT! But how dare I make the 'wrong' choice. That wrong choice is headed to college in the fall, btw.
Sad if anyone was anything other than supportive to you at that time; clearly you made the right choice for yourself.
How dare you keep the human race going? Go be a single cat mom drinking wine and pumping yourself full of anti-despressants like a good little girl boss!
i noticed this recently that some people are only “pro-choice” when ur choices reflect their personal morals and ethics. being too far right is usually negative but those who are too far left are equally shitty in my opinion. it was also the same with the covid vaccine. if u didn’t get it u were immediately associated with being a shitty person. like lol. people care far too much abt what other people are doing. glad u did what u felt was right and didn’t listen to the messed up ideals for modern womanhood!
It's thru little things like that where you find out there is no "sisterhood", no "brotherhood", no "community".
If you are not constantly emoting and acting in the benefit of "The Message" (whatever that may be, depending on whatever group you find yourself interacting with) then you are a traitor to the cause and no longer welcome in the clubhouse.
LOL. You thought pro-choice meant choice. Jokes on you!
“Oh, ya wiped ya ass? How trad” 😂😂😂 @shoe0nHead, I love your commentary, it’s a refreshing take to just hear sound logic on topics from both sides of the aisle. Keep up the good work. 😊
Wasn't Ariel the equivalent of an anthropologist in the original movie? She was fascinated by a culture other than her own (land-dwelling humans), took measures to fit in with that culture, and ended up being accepted by that culture, even marrying someone from that culture. She was kind of badass.
Alright maybe I'm not at the part of the video. But what?
Yeah twitter is r slurred
@@drigonfirefoxaround 16:35
It reminds me of an American anthropologist who blended herself into a tribe in Papua and married their chieftain to further study the tribe. Then a few moments later she suddenly left, perhaps her because research was completed, and the chieftain didn't know how to contact her anymore. He even sent envoy to central government in Jakarta to help him found his missing wife.
A true story. Just google Wyn Sargent.
@@boulderbash19700209damn, that was an interesting read! Thank you. :)
Being able to support my wife while she stayed home and took care of the kids was the greatest honour of my life.
I am truly grateful for what you do. Thank you for your effort and understanding the proper and appropriate way of a family should be.
Was?
I'm sorry for your loss pal. Hope the things goes better. Pray for you.
@@1verse4ll There's no "proper and appropriate way a family should be" you're just as bad as the people condemning the life style
I agree. My wife had an MBA, she and I agreed taking care of the kids was the most important thing. Even after my divorce, with the kids on their own, I provide for her. Its the right thing to do.
The fact that they compare this lifestyle to BDSM is insane, like this is so obscene that it needs to be treated like a freaky kink that needs to be kept in the bedroom.
Because large swathes of the population are so jaded and cynical b/c of the constant propaganda that actual wholesomeness seems almost perverse
This is what happens when people lack true identity, and relate everything to sex. It requires deviation to create (superficial) uniqueness, and thus, deviancy rules.
Well, if you choose to be dependent and subservient, it does seem similar to masochism.
@@tonig2757 man a woman actually accepting a role in her house that is equal in importance but different in execution is so spooky to “modern women” so clearly its subservient
@@tonig2757 Do you know what any of these words even mean?
I remember when I was 6 years old boy and watched the original Disney Little Marmaid, I’ll never forget how heartwarming it felt to see Ariel leaving the sea for the men she loved.
It left me wondering if I would ever find a woman who would do a similar thing for me, it was romantic, it was brave and courageous, something that shows incredible strength of character and capability at making decisions.
love how us humans started to "accept" everyone and immidetly yell at someone who is diffrent in every way of life
lmao, I'm honestly convinced that acception or tolerance isn't even a thing with how ape shit these people get
See, I think they've actually been screaming "exceptance" and we were giving them too much credit from the start.
@@jamesmerkel1932 what
@Mailer in other words they've been screaming for the exclusion of others the whole time, as opposed to inclusion
@@jamesmerkel1932 You almost lost me in the first half, but I'm glad I stayed for the second. 👍
Having both parents present at home is definitely the ideal.
Working from home is worth a lot.
@HelmutDoork Companies are mandating that people return to the office so they can reduce headcount without having to involuntarily lay off as many people. There are still a large number of remote jobs in software development, for experienced developers at least.
Last I checked. She's pseudo independent with a tik tok and makes money there. So, lets say she had found a way to be both.
Also what kills me is how many women are so ready to tear each other down, tear men down, and burn anything that doesn't align with their personal views.
It also sounds like a lot of people are just miserable.
The demand for toxic masculinity outstripped supply. So, Rosie Riveter style, they pitched in with all the shit they imagine men to do.😂
But she's making money on TikTok by posting as a traditional wife: that's self inflicted misogyny!
Now if she'd post on OnlyFans as a promiscuous h*e, now THAT'S self actualization and empower! ✊
Because modern feminist logic 🤪
It kind of kills me how many men are so ready to tear each other down, tear women down, and burn anything that doesn't align with their personal views.
Wild how that isn't a behavior unique to women.
@@Warrior_Culture Sorry to burst your bubble but when it comes to women it's worse. ONE false accusation and a woman can ruin anybody's life.
@@admiralprince7925 My "bubble" is not hurt by opinions, only facts. I have no idea why you'd want to go down the "false accusations" road, considering the statistics are astronomically against you. Like...mountainously against you.
So is that REALLY the argument you want to stick with? Do you REALLY want me to post some statistics for you? Or do you want to try again with a better argument?
People who hate Trad have never felt genuine love from a parent
Shoe: "here's why I want to defend tradwives"
Inside Shoe's head: "mommy milkers, mommy milkers, mommy milkers"
Woman addicted to twitter: "Women can be whatever they want!"💅
Tradwives: "I want to be a housewife"☺
Women addicted to twitter: "You can't do that!" 😡😡😡😡
Yea, ofc! :D And don't forget- you push nazi propaganda of 1950 when nacism was 5 years over :D
They don’t like that shit because it means men have better options and opportunities than feminized women
@@Darkry Nacism XDDD now you people don't only compare things to stuff they have zero in common with, you litterally need a platinum medal in mental gymnastics to see a connection here. No you don't even have enough braincells left to accurately write the words you throw around around like they are going out of style hahahahahhahah
@@Darkrycan't tell whether you're trying to say "nazi" or "racism"
As a feminist sadly addicted to Twitter (because apparently that's my method of self harm), I agree with June's assertions in general here. I just thought it was kinda "look at how *quirky* I am" for conservatives that I found cringe.
As a stay-at-home mom of two, I feel so very blessed and lucky that I can be there for my boys anytime they need me.
Thank you Shoe, we love you!!
@@Toshinben instructions unclear, rolling back child labor law
@@wildfire9280 children are allowed to work for family businesses. It's actually one of the best things to do. You can start an IRA for them and get them decades ahead on retirement savings.