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The red hair looks great! Must be something in the water!! 🦘🦘🖐️😁 Ummm. I love you please marry me? 🔙 That was way too forward.. I don't take it back tho..
When I click on a woman’s social media profile now, if they don’t do NSFW, a lot of the time they’ll have a disclaimer to tell people that they don’t do NSFW. Which is crazy to me that it’s become so prevalent you almost expect to see a link in their bio. It used to be a genuine surprise to find out someone did NSFW content and now it feels shocking if someone doesn’t.
Disagree. I dont know what kind of people u follow but in my little buttle no one does porn or nsfw content. Id say it still is a minority that does nsfw content.
@@dylansmith6078 I remember twenty years ago watching a basketball game and the TV speaker said "Look, it's Zeljko Rebraca, the guy with the tattoo". It was so bizarre back then to have a tattoo and the dude had a couple of lines on his shoulder and that was all. Now saying "the guy with the tattoo for a basketball player begs the question "which one??" :P ... same thing happened in this case. Slowly and surely, down the drain...
God I hate this Red pill bait so much. Because most of the time the people that post this will also claim “Women aren’t held accountable” or “Men are mentally stronger.” But mainly because of its sheer idiocy. Yes there’s a difference as there should be. Men are larger, stronger, faster and considered expendable. And I don’t know a single man whose conscious would be clear if he was rescued before 2 women, or 3-4 kids. Who gives a flying fuck, go “touch grass”, Does it suck to be a man? Yes. I literally had to do the mile run on crutches while my female classmates got out of it because of period cramps. I’m guessing a broken leg, and two spinal fractures hurts more than something that happens every month. Yes it sucks, but the benefit is being BADASS. Men are not only soldiers because we’re stronger, but because we are taught we are not special, In elementary school, I had to climb 3 flights of stairs, My family explaining “Nobody is going to help you, you need to learn to help yourself,” And I can promise you, this made me a stronger person and more caring, If I have a son or daughter, I’m helping them up, no matter what. Men invent more, take more leadership positions, there are more male CEO’s, there are more male grandmasters, there are more male solo travelers, BECAUSE since childhood we are treated differently, because we’re expected to persevere. Not because we’re any smarter than women. But women have always been protected more in EVERY culture/ country, We make more money & do better in careers in general because we don’t have the option to marry into wealth. There are good sides and bad sides to being male / female.
@patw9175 a lot of girls are doing seriously disgusting stuff just to give themselves a heads up on the site. It has to lead to psychological problems down the line. In 10-15 years kids will discover porn their mom's were willingly displaying on the Internet. It will lead to another cycle of mental problems.
I literally found porn because youtube iteself started recommending softcore fetish porn to me after it realized I was interested in fashion. It isnt the kids looking for porn, its porn looking for people, including kids
true and real. Happened to me practically the same way 12 years ago. The age of the internet is having crazy effects on humanity that probably nobody really foresaw back in 1997. It's not even the internet really, it's the algorithms.
Same Bros, was like 9-10 years old (around 2010) and watching some videos related to Nintendo games and anime then youtube showed me fetish videos using those characters and I was doomed
Yeah truly and, not to sound like a Conservitard, which is where we are sadly at when I have to make this disclaimer, but keep twerking, drag shows, and graphic sexual books out of schools and wherever children are likely to be present. Simple as; it shouldn't be controversial to say "Protect children from obscenity where you can"
@@viscountrainbows2857it's YOUR side that wants all of this leftie. Your side is the drag shows at kindergarten, sex books and explicit material for children, soft core pornography on twitch ect. Those advocating for all of that are on your side of the aisle.
@@viscountrainbows2857what’s absolutely insane is that they act like sexual material isn’t obscene if it’s gay. Like kids should seriously be learning about homosexuality by seeing this shit. Absolutely despicable. Kids under the age of 18 should not be exposed to such things. If they decide to search it themselves, that’s up to parents to control.
There's also the attitudes such as "Because I'm naked on twitch and not a porn star I'm not a cam-girl/e-thot." and various other forms of mental gymnastics.
That's a rare case though, most of these women are active sex-workers on other platforms, they're merely advertising and making extra bags on Twitch, so such mental gymnastics don't apply.
It’s weird that they’re avidly like “what, you don’t like seeing naked women appear randomly on your screen? Are you gay?” When that’s the argument from creepy men when they send unsolicited pictures: “what, you don’t like seeing that, are you lesbian or something?” No, we literally don’t want to see that unless we CHOOSE to.
I remember a friend basically telling me not to worry about what my daughter does/goes to/sees online because they'll eventually see all the bad stuff anyway. This person was a friend who is intelligent and has a kid himself. But it struck me that he, and most people in today's culture, have become so desensitized to everything that there's virtually nothing that you should try and steer your kids away from, because they'll just eventually see it anyway. Or there's worse things out there. Anyway, you're exactly right, it's a weird set of things that adults today tell themselves, to justify not giving a sh*t about what kids absorb through the internet.
@@adamrad2220 At this point it likely is reasonable to assume they'll find most things on the internet anyways. However, that's no excuse for not being a present and positive enough influence for your kids that they don't become as de-sensitized as you or as addicted as you are/were to them. In fact, the assumption they'll find it anyways should be MORE incentive to give them the right head-space and tools to either interact with them minimal or at least properly. The less we let/make teens (or younger kids!) think that being super-sexual is a good and positive thing, the better.
@@l.w.paradis2108 I set up my WRT router with DNS lookup rules that locks out most of these junk sites (and youtube ads) It did take more than 2 steps.
The thing I don't understand is that it's a criminal issue. Exposing yourself to a minor is a very serious offense. In this particular case, it happens to have a ton of evidence, IPs, identities, cash flow, etc. I don't understand why this just doesn't result in subpoenas and court hearings. Plus, the establishment has a duty to protect minors. If a strip club started letting 16 year in, they'd be losing their business fast.
Men end up on the sex offenders list for peeing in the woods or behind dumpsters. These women are deliberately exposing themselves for viewing, not discreetly for bladder relief, in an area they thought would be hidden from sight, but openly. These women are gross.
Same as a percentage of lgbt, people of color etc. Most of us (mixed) don't have our race or sexual preference or gender as our only personality trait.
@Fultonian-ve1ib capitalism is immoral by its very nature so if you are living in the capitalist society you are living in an immoral society. all these terrible things are a feature not a bug.
@Fultonian-ve1ibcapitalism is, by its fundamental nature, an a-moral system. Western capitalism gains its moral center through its grafting to democratic systems, socialisation (I.e. unions, universal healthcare, etc.) And philanthropy. You can definitely blame the lionisation of rugged capitalism as the ideal of society with the rise in moral relativism.
Easy money You say I fool myself But better me than being a fool for someone else I got a hot slot machine of a system Ready to go (Easy money) I got a one-track mind And a good reputation laying on the line I'll either come back a bum or a king Baby, I don't know
I think the biggest issue is that these kids are growing up with the understanding that interacting with women means paying money to receive gratification. That can only end badly
On top of this, this is setting the precedent that this is how women are like, which will hurt normal women who dont want to be treated as sex workers, really badly. Yikes
I'm a married man and I still "pay" for it. It's not money, but it is my blood, sweat, and tears. You think I shoveled the driveway and cleared the cars of snow so I can get to work? I work from home.
I can’t tell if that’s a good thing or sad that sane, rational thinking is a rare corner of the internet. I enjoy her videos mainly for the charm and wit but everything she is saying is extremely level headed and normal…as most ppl should be but aren’t sadly.
In many southern states you now need to show proof you are over 18 through facial recognition and an id before you can access it. There is an argument to be made that this just pushes kids to less regulated and more dangerous sites though.
That's not the thing though. If you sexualize a woman in a non-sexual setting when she's going about her day and make it known, that's bad. But if you see a woman who is embracing her sexuality and immediately start protesting it and telling her to cover up, you're also demonstrating a desire to control her. The idea is, women are agents of their own.
@@AK-jm1sc Maybe, but why try to desexualize fictional charakters in video games then? Everything brought up against animated sexualization should be even worse in case of real women whether they do it to themselves or not.
@@derfalschejunge Because real women would lose competition with sexy fictional characters, and those characters in a way are defining men's sexual standards. So we need to remove them, otherwise milking simps would be harder.
@@ceu160193 So, the most sexy women are allowed to Set the standard for the rest? And they are more dangerous because they are real. Not matching the look of artwork where everything is possible is easier to get over than real bodies that exist.
You know the coomer excuse of "Twitch isn't for kids" is complete BS when the problem could simply go away if Twitch made a verified "18+" section to allow the chicks (or dudes) to do whatever. But they won't. Almost like they know it's a BS excuse and want the kids to engage with it for revenue while pretending to claim otherwise.
Its also the makers of the pron gaslighting you into watching more. They make money and you get hooked into a parasocial relationship that keeps them paid.
Porn addicts will do anything to justify their perversions rather than admit they have a problem. Watching porn is not healthy and it harms everyone involved.
@@youtubasoarus and the porn industry is so manipulative they really do trick these young women into thinking this is “empowering” when in reality it is absolutely degrading. They’re tricking women into objectifying themselves
This is a result of the flattening of the internet. There are no longer kids sites and adults sites and "adult" sites, like there was back in the day. Now, every site strives to be for "everyone". You see this on TH-cam, where if a video gets age gated from kids, it gets absolute shit all for monetization, incentivising everyone to just make "everyone" videos. Pushing kids and adults together was always going to result in conflicts like this.
i think the death of flash played a part in a lot of kid friendly sites disappearing. if the site doesn't have a shitty flash game, what else is a kid gonna want to do on the site ? ime the new era for gen z/a is mobile games & there are plenty of mobile games that are totally child friendly.
Well, no. The issue is that the internet is profitable. And because it is, all sorts of shadiness can occur. The reason why Amouranth got slaps on the wrist until she willingly moved to Kick (where she still gets slaps on the wrist) is because of the amount of money she brings to the website. Funny enough, in a twisted cruel ironic type of way, individual people have become "too big to fail" on the internet.
When I was a 10 year old and living in a trailer park one morning in the gutter I found an air freshener you hang in your car. It was of a topless woman exposing her very large chesties. It was the most amazing thing I had ever seen. Yes it was faded, had been run over by cars, waterlogged from the rain, scuffed up, sun bleached, wrinkled and dirty but it was wonderful. I proceeded to show a few people it and told them to get the word out of what I had and was charging $0.10 a look. I had hidden it in the woods next to the trailer park and I kid you not by noon I had 50+ other children lined up to get their 30 second look at this dirty old air freshener with many getting back in line to look at it again. After 2 days of this one day I came to find someone was spying on me and found where I was hiding it and it was gone, stolen. Literally dollars of money taken from me. This would have been around 1987.
I was born in the early 90's. So far as i'm concerned easy access to hardcore corn has just always been a fact of life. It is amazing, and should be alarming that things have changed so much in so little time.
Such a relatable story! Life really was simpler back then... I don't have children, but I do wonder, how I would parent them, in this day and age. It would be easy to think, that I'd do a better job than the _current_ parents of the messed up children, however, I have nothing to back that up with. Everything just feels very odd.
The sexualisation of everything is a huge problem. It's such a primal urge, that it's easy to get addicted and lose yourself. Especially if you are young.
There is no such thing as porn addiction, my friend, it's just puritanical thinking forced into the mold of psychology to sound harmful or dangerous -- it's pseudoscience. Video games, on the other hand, are considered addictive, a statement supported by a lot of clinical evidence. A good question you can ask yourself is: why don't they then receive the same level of scrutiny?
@@ItssssJackTheir is quite literally such thing as to much of something and Porn can most definetly be one of those somethings. If your introduced to something at a young age and not using it properly and no one’s stopping you it eventually and generally does get bad. Some people watch it instead of spending time with family, eating, hanging out, etc past times. It can be very much real
In the U.K. I’ve seen articles glorifying how young single mothers facing homelessness and starvation were saved by onlyfans. I’m just sat in disbelief wondering how soliciting oneself in order to survive became seen as “empowering” when in all of history it has been a sign of a highly broken society.
I just wanna know who is paying for that rubbish. I don't know anyone that uses onlyfans, if they want to watch something there are millions of free websites...
That's feminism's war on the family unit, it is about capitalizing on female sxxuality. Because the only men that would stop that are fathers, as head of the household. They are the only ones who want to protect their daughter's values. So feminism encourages divorce and a moral race to the bottom. Taking off your clothes is called empowerment, and any man who objects is controlling and should have his children alienated from him by the family court.
When was this ever seen as a fault of the society and not as a fault of the woman? Its why we call people whores and not... the economic state of a country. The empowering part is that a woman today can do this and not (especially in comparision to the past) being expelled from society.
@@hansjurgen4567 links between prostitution, poverty and destitution are littered all throughout human history. Look at stories like Dostoevskys’ crime and punishment or even modern games like Cuberpunk 2077. The BBC had a news story of rising prostitution and links to increasing poverty and the affected areas. The term whore is derogatory and often used by the average Joe because it is about value, that doesn’t mean much.
@@PaulJohnson-zv3hl You misunderstood, i am not arguing that an increase in poverty (can) not lead to more sexwork. I am arguing the perception of sexwork. As in, it can be empowering AND a sign of a failing system. The empowerment comes from today's woman being able to choose to engage with it. And most importantly, when to stop. They also get more of what they earn through means like onlyfans, while working from an (physically) safe environment. All that while not being pushed out of towns, not being insulted or even hurt. I chose "whore" because it is a good example of why sexwork can be empowering. As in the past a woman would, as you correctly mentioned, "devalue" herself. Something that was historically not equally applied to a man engaging in similar activities. The christian faith(Or its religious interpretation) for example placed Sin onto the woman, describing her as the root for men's desire for sex. Which is why woman (No just in the christian west) where to dress themself up to now show off their "sinful nature" and corrupt the men around them. This is why dressing "slutty" is also a form of empowerment, as woman oppose forced objectification through chosen display of what was objectified. Even if you fully oppose sexwork of any kind, you have to acknowledge that being able to freely choose "bad decisions" is a result of empowerment.
They’re really pulling the “so y’all dudes can’t get laid huh?” Card when they’re literally exploiting minors for money… I can’t put into words how disgusting that is
Oh my god, it's like writers are ALLERGIC to showing healthy relationships in media. Yes, "conflict" is what drives stories but you don't have to have conflict in every aspect of a character's life! If the first season ends with the lead characters finally getting together, guess how the second season opens? The relationship is on the rocks or even completely OVER. For the drama!
Maybe it's because these people don't have normal relationships? I would then wonder, why don't writers have normal relationships? I mean, people tend to write about what they know.
Because that genre of shows is literally “drama”. Something bad happens in the second season because of course it does. If their relationship was going well, there would be no show. You’re telling me you’d be interested in watching a show where the characters get along perfectly and just live life and nothing interesting happens?
exactly, they know people love the will they/won't they, so when they get together they are afraid people will lose interest. lets hope with this new movement of people wanting more health relationships we will see more show about couples and their relationship.
@@kyle1598hffgyfv its not about "traditional relationships", its about seeking conflict. Jap and Korean shows suffer from a similar problem. but in their case they tend to end their show with the characters ending together. there are very few shows I can think of where the couple get together early and it shows their loves and struggles as a couple, instead of ending when the "pursuit phase" ends.
It’s everywhere, my wife and I had another child recently and the mothers breastfeeding page on Facebook is mostly women discussing selling milk and accompanying pictures to men not other women trying to feed their babies. The “get that cheddar mama” attitude is everywhere.
The most annoying thing to me is that it’s literally everywhere. Everything is a landmine for OnlyFans advertisements. Even manosphere content advertises for it
A-d b-lock-ers (YT hates that term) can fix at least 40% of the problems with capitalism. Can't wait to get a pair of glasses that does that IRL so I don't see them on the sides of buses.
I think the one argument that I hear when you call this kind of stuff out that annoys me more than anything else is when they say that it's not actually sexual and that you're a weirdo if you find it sexual and they accuse you of being some kind of pervert for having a problem with it
That's one of the main problems with this issue. You're never going to get the other side to discuss it in good faith. Manipulation is the game they choose to play.
@xXRazorbacksXx I hope the rest of the sane people left on this useless bloody planet, realise that no, you can't just wish for these people to go away. They will take and take.
Some of them legit have they ass pointed at a camera for hours, then there were the ones just sitting around "naked". Yet getting mad acting like NINJA wasn't some people's babysitter a few years ago. The lies that "there's no kids on Twitch" since even the Vtubers that drew the porn had more sense than the egirls and simps defending the exploitation.
Werdly enough, the one that deflagrated this entire ordeal was widely considered to be the .... hm.... goat throat on PH before this. So its not that they cant stand out there, its just that there is more people to be explored on Twitch for money. In another weird turn of events, Twitch is a more predatory platform than corn sites.
Savage AND true! That said, Morgpie is actually also on various porn sites and has been doing porn for years. Twitch was just convenient promotion for her.
(Parent lets their kid browse internet freely) "OMG you need to watch what your kid does! You're a bad parent!!!" (Parent watches what their kid does online) "OMG you need to respect your kid's privacy! You're a bad parent!!!"
This epimedic has really exploded in the past 3 or 4 months. Twitch tried to 'allow' the extra spicy content and then immediately pulled back on it. Let's also not forget that whole Amouranth bullshit where, to all appearances, she faked domestic abuse and went on this whole rant about how now she could finally be herself, wear 'real' clothes and not be a thirst trap anymore... then immediately went back to the same content as before.
Hilariously, it seems that what got twitch to pull back on allowing the extra spicy content was somebody decided the next day to do an art stream where they drew Muhammad with a massive penis and that got twitch to rethink their new policies, hence why it was taken down so fast. Absolutely fucking hilarious in my opinion.
@thiagoulart yeah I was one of the few who noticed that it was faked but by then, it was too late as most people forgot about the drama and bringing it up will only create more of it
They essentially realized that selling sex to minors, specifically young boys, is an untapped market. Create a space specifically engineered to attract young boys and then use that audience in your sexual exploits. I 100% feel like this kind of thing would NOT be humored if the target audience was young girls. This is essentially like flashing girls at an American Girl Doll store... but nobody sees it that way because the sexual victimization of particularly young boys is not entertained.
"Artistic Nudity" my a$$. Real artists have been struggling for years to post actual pieces with the smallest nudity and isn't sexual at all but it keeps getting removed. I guess they need to stop drawing the the Greek Goddesses or Biblical reimagining's and draw some twerking kids to get approved.
I agree with your sentiment. When I try to paint a picture of a gorgon breaking fingers off of statues, but made the mistake of leaving titties aired out to show the savagery, it's "in bad taste" but when a woman goes publicly naked on twitch it's empowering. Artists have been and will be always struggling, because the purpose of art is to evolve people's minds, and nobody likes to be forced to evolve.
Yeah, same thing with cosplay. How many of these thots simply put a wig and lingerie on and act like it's somehow acceptable cosplay of a character and not soft corn.
I was a female gamer on Twitch for a few years. I chose not to make my stream sexy because I wanted to show my nieces that you can be successful without giving up your integrity. Edit: I was actually pretty successful (by my own definition of what success looks like) and had an awesome community. I chose to stop streaming because I wanted to start a family and raising my child was more important to me than being online as often as I was. I have considered streaming again however probably not on Twitch as I don’t like that it is financially dependent on the viewer rather than the company. I don’t feel comfortable accepting money from people who I consider to be my friends.
I was exposed to p*** when I was only like 7 or 8 years old. I will say that it has definitely fucked up my mind, and I agree that I crave to see normal, wholesome relationships in the media because the oversexualization everywhere has gotten quite stale.
At the end of the day, these are the kinds of stances that twitch needs to enforce, and they dont. There needs to be a line drawn, which there isnt one right now, and there wont be one because the site is ran by one handed coomers
"Artistic nudity" is too subjective to be a qualifier on a social media platform that does and doesn't apply the rules whenever they want, as leniently or harshly as they want.
Exactly. Still waiting for the yt revolution where we all find it's replacement, but until then, even this gets crazy. I can only imagine what those other internet worlds must be like, 0.0.
yeah, im REALLY glad I deleted my twitter last year. dont ever go on twitch. feeling like I made the correct decision after seeing some of these insane takes... good lord.
I think a good example of your argument is actually OnlyFans itself. It was intended to be a competitor to Patreon. Porn started showing up, and they considered moving away from that, and everyone revolted. Now, OnlyFans is trapped in the porn business, and trying to get out would be the death of the company. And all of that came from them allowing it in the first place. Over time, that's all anyone came to know the site for.
I didn't know that but it actually really makes sense now that I think about it. Their name alone doesn't inherently sound like porn and yet, that's what it's synonymous with.
one of the main reasons why onlyfans drastically shifted from normal content to NSFW content was because leonid radvinsky, the owner of myfreecams (a corn site) acquired 75% ownership. after that it became basically fully for NSFW content
They also made the mistake of propping up Amouranth as a "top creator" for their platform and used her in tons of advertising, despite knowing all she does is scam her audience. Then her sales made up too much of the site's profit to do anything about her.
then why the search only feature? why work like Snapchat if it's for crowd funding? don't you think a search bar helps crowd funding? invite only is a very bad way to get attention. I don't buy your story
Shoe, your gender flip thought (18:48) has an added component: if an adult man jumped into a female space with minors and did the same thing, he'd be locked up. There's a pedo issue here in the targeting of minors that's especially offensive.
I’m impressed with your ability to rationally explain things. It’s great to hear a moral voice mixed with great humor. Just found you today and subbed. Keep up the good work!
I just feel sad for this situation. It's like being punk: the moment it becomes a trend, not being punk is the most punk you can get. In such a sexualised and extremely insensitive environment, being not attracted by naked women online and look for some meaning in a relationship, and beauty in privacy is seen almost as weird, or a red flag. And Onlyfans exists just because there's so much sad and lonely people out there, looking to have an emotional and sexual feedback they can't get elsewhere, it's like paying a subscription to feel loved...it's a shame to see this fake sliding door of richness marketed everywhere, to the point where everything has to be sexualized because money, all coming from people that feel alone. It sucks, it really does
@@helpme9746 I agree. When I see supposedly "hot" women do this it makes them seem vastly less attractive and completely manipulative of depressed and lonely men. If a person knows their self worth they won't give their privacy to everyone and like wise those seeing it won't want what anyone can have for just a little bit of money.
@@helpme9746 It quite literally is "paying to feel loved" though, and you just gave the reason why without realizing it. If you can see it for free online, then why pay? It's because of the para-social (or "para-romantic", as the other user described it) aspect. You're not just paying for the explicit photos and videos, but for the "interaction" that comes with it. And even though *_you_* may lack the ability to empathize with people you disagree with, that doesn't inherently mean that "there's no excuse" for their behavior. These people are so devoid of any intimacy in their lives that they're willing to pay for the semblance of it. The luxuries that you or I may be afforded in that regard are completely inaccessible to them. The original comment is spot on; this is a devastatingly sad situation all around.
@@Alexa-Raine I’m thinking most would feel like they approve but still drag you anyway. I can’t count the number of times down bad dudes have wanted to see topless beaches just for the sake of that while being unanimously agreed with.
@@Alexa-Raine It's more that you should be allowed to go topless in the right setting, but also not expect people won't look and have their own thoughts.
I know it is late but imagine if an adult woman did a softcore pole dancing routine in front of a class of unsupervised 9th graders. About the real-life equivalent here.
Thank u for talking about this. I just turned 18 and even before that I had people approaching me telling me to make an only fans and saying they can’t wait until I turn 18. I resisted the urge and yet I am still being asked to do things for money online. I feel bad for considering it because I am a broke student and need the money right now and it would be so easy but it’s not something I want to do. Sometimes I think about how much money I’m missing out on more than my own boundaries. Many girls feel like it’s something we need to do. It’s sad our society has progressed to this. I feel so objectified constantly. Anyone calling you a pick me is either complicit or has been groomed into thinking this is okay.
If you stay clean, you will appreciate it a ton down the line, believe me. Fast and easy solutions are almost always tied to slow consequences, and this is not an exception.
doesn't she like the barbie movie i don't think tha'ts a pick me lol and i mean she is somewhat of a pick me hard to be feminine when you have a brand to be a successful female and still feminine is definitely hard and alot of here takes aren't exactly correct i mean me personally i'd rather my woman not have an online platform trying to talk about the manosphere and stuff just no lol quite frankly as a woman she got told by a man so why listen to her when i can listen to a man..... she's feminine talking about popular views for money and most men well they can see through it if they not beta as for you good job on not doing onlyfans i'll pray for you
@@LiberPater777 if it works it works Btw that really shows why there were rules and code of conduct forced upon women. Leave them be and they turn out to be hoes. They do need protection from themselves 🤣 Somehow they can't wrap their head around the idea that good man don't want that in a partner, and now they are dumbfounded why they are single 🤷
I got addicted to adult content at 12, and yes it 100% has affected me negatively and my relationships. I am now 26 and still fight with it pretty hard. I definitely enjoy my time around others and specifically my fiance way more the longer I can go without watching any.
LOL. I'm married with 2 kids. I experienced it all and got no issues with dating or family life. My first exposure to nudity and it aroused me was ... paintings in a Lourve museum book. Now in my mid-30s, outside my normal sex life with my wife, I only read hentai or look at hentai drawings. Either in-person real women or drawings.
@@frightfactoryYT Well, that's why mindfulness is important. Well, perhaps I'm privileged because I was raised with Buddhism where being mindful and self-aware is almost second nature. There are many opportunities of things that I experienced and could have gotten myself addicted to but I realised it in time and walked back. I stated "in-person real women or drawings" but note that addiction to prostitution is a real thing. I could have also been addicted to that, especially given that money is generally not an issue for me most of the time. I had to be mindful of what I was doing, what I was thinking of other people, and some introspection to then come to a lifestyle that does not actively ruin me. It takes effort and chance, of course. Perhaps the way my brain is wired made it so that I am less compulsive, in general. Perhaps my cultural background. I don't take all the credits.
Hang tough, bro. The urge will never depart but vigilance and stoicism will deter it. That energy is best directed at your boo - they deserve all of you and your focus.
Found ShoeOnHead about 9 years ago, and she continues to prove it was one of the few golden acts the Algorithm has committed over the years putting her in the recommends. This one is canon.
It's rather ironic that the same women that show their naked bodies online first cried about men sexualizing women too much, which is now turned into "you must watch me and leave your money". They do exactly the same they claimed to hate and yet again it's someone else's fault even if there is no one forcing them to do this or telling them to do this. They picked their own poison.
their excuse or justification is that they are 'in control' of the sleazy content so its empowering - if it's men sharing sleazy content featuring women then it's exploitative. it's ridiculous and I don't agree with it at all as a woman, but from what I've seen that's explanation.
The main problem with all this drama is that its become endemic to try to get quick and easy money, and sex work is seen as a quick route to this goal. The US economy has become so lopsided against normal workers, that people are constantly looking for routes to making more money. And the problem is that the truth of how many people actually succeed at this goal is quite low. But those success stories are the ones who get promoted and pushed into everyone's faces. The US is so addicted to "rags to riches" stories that they forget that for everyone successful at getting rich this way, there are numerous people who never did. But those people are ignored, because only success is celebrated, failure is ignored.
Reminds me of the time when a girl was walking topless at Comic-con (with pasties made of electrical tape) with "free the n~pple" on her torso written in sharpie, and she would get visibly upset at guys looking at her. It was almost a kind of comedy act, if not for the fact that she would have willingly sent every one of them to jail.
was it in reaction to people just looking at her for a second or two or actually lecherously staring at her? because if it's the latter her reaction is justified I feel.
@@corporalregicide5248 She would say that the line between those two is very clear, when in reality the gray area is vast, and whoever is caught in it is subject to her whims. Expecting comic book nerds not to fall into that gray area is unreasonable.
Really? Logic? LOL, OK. Her main focus is on the women engaging in something that was freely allowed by a corporation that determined the minimum age of its users. Any mention of Twitch's responsibility in allowing this to happen is brief and passed over. She states that the women are a symptom of something greater, then continues going on about the women, not the cause. Lets not even get on the topic of Only Fans, which is basically supported by men but I guess those girls getting money are also to blame. But hey, she's got the formula, bashing women is profitable. 1.5 mill views in a few days. She's a Girl Boss!
Funny thing about the Stanley cup analogy.....they've been a blue collar company forever and has always made those for "the working man"...until a couple of Becky's found out that this expensive ass cup keeps your beverage cool for 3 lifetimes. Stanley caught wind of the trend, started producing pretty pastel colors for the ladies and started raking in the cash
@@RusticRonniethere's lots of ways they can try to implement that. but at the start & end of it is, the parents need to regulate their child's internet access.
I hate to say it but the best way to fight this is by having a bunch of guys go on twitch in a towell/G-string and start doing the elephant dance. Let that trunk flop around lol. I guarantee the outrage will be instantaneous.
The pick-me insult is basically trying to shame you into falling back into the hive mind. The fact that you don't makes them feel less powerful. Hive minds need more hosts in order to have confidence in their opinions.
Individuality is good and it's literally a shaming for being possibly individually desirable Sounds like someone that hates beauty, culturally or otherwise
@Lollers111332 it's a desire for validation. They're not confident in making their own choices so they look to the crowd on how to choose and validate their choices. When someone stands out of that it threatens their confidence.
Crabs in a bucket mentality. They want all women doing what they do. And if one women doesn’t or tried to get out/speak against it, they drag them down to their standards. Even if it means harming themselves and other women.
"Frankly, these women should be praised for thinking outside the box and pandering to an audience that isn't over saturated." Let me fix what he means. "... outside the box and sexually pandering to children because they aren't a saturated market for porn yet." There we go.
@@AlbertoMartinez765 If a kid isn't being monitored in what they are watching, they most definitely will not be monitored in how they spend Daddy's credit card. You've seen the stories of families being bankrupt by Roblox right? Could you not imagine a kid trying to look cool for his friends for getting an attractive woman putting their name on their body or say their name? Because getting attention is really cool for the new generations. They love anything parasocial. Where I went to school more than 15 years ago, kids had smartphones and their own credit cards from their parents. It's even more prevalent now and way less parenting is going on. I'm sure there's teenage whales out there 100%.
I agree with everything stated. I have a younger sister who just turned 19 and her and her bf talked to me about needing money and potentially starting only fans. I said the sad reality could be you might make 40$ a month off creeps u went to highschool with, and if her and her bf broke up then her bf would be off pretty much free and my sister would have a digital footprint that her future kids might see. I just don’t think switching to sw because you’re desperate is a good idea. Of course a lot of us consume adult content, but it’s still really crazy to potentially reap the mental anguish that could overcome your mind if your ideas didn’t manifest the way you hoped.
plus it takes away a lot of future career options if your work gets traced to your real identity. Sex work is financially worse longterm for most people, so many failed OF accounts out there.
You need money? Go apply for a service job, bartending, cashier, barista, etc. Super easy to apply and get hired to do it, people just don’t wanna work. If you don’t think it pays enough, go do hard blue collar work, roofing, cleaning sewages, trash take out, trimming, detailing, etc. You only need a hs diploma for most of these works.
As an adult man, I was very confused when you said Stanley Cup fandom because I was like there's definitely a ton of dudes that are into hockey, and then you specified the cooling cup
Was first exposed to porn when I was about 8 years old. Don't know exactly when I crossed the line into addiction, but I most certainly did, and now as an adult it has ruined my marriage and my life. I think porn addiction is an absolutely colossal problem that is largely ignored precisely because it's so prevalent. If everyone is an alcoholic is anyone? That's basically how I feel porn addiction is nowadays.
Are you using porn to fill some other thing? Are you filling a boredom or solitude? If you've got any interest try something like a small DND group or playing just garlic phone and cards against humanity once a week maybe it could be fun and bring a home body into some communal activity or so...
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Is it the porn or the other person not accepting what you're in to?
But in the end the responsibility for what you are doing is on the Woman doing this.. its the same with a Casino.. do we blame the casino if people go broke there? or is it just the fault of the person who cannot hold him self back and keeps gambling
@@Sinesterr The fault is with the addicted who cannot hold themselves back, the casinos who prey on the desperate and the state which doesn't protect it's citizens and people victim blaming the addicted because the party gaining money is morally justified and the party losing money is morally corrupted because for some reason we replaced ethics with capitalism instead of using capitalism as a motivator for facilitating trade.
i'd say a woman selling her adult content to children, is to blame. people giving platform to these women to sell adult content to children are to blame.
terrible comparison because i can simply just not go to a casino, whereas twitch thots are EVERYWHERE on EVERY platform no matter what. And sure i can just stop using youtube ,twitch ,twitter, etcetera. BUT thats just as dumb as me being forced out of a walmart because people wont stop trying to sell me sugar cookies, i dont want your fucking sugar cookies leave me alone. :) @@Sinesterr
There's a stark difference between being a 'prude' or a "jealous incel' and not wanting to see X-rated material on supposed non 18+ sites. It really shouldn't be outlandish to say that 18+ content should be kept to sites which are designed to have that type of content, but here we are. Zero issue with the actual creators, if they made the conscious decision to do that type of content then that's their prerogative. In the case of OF i do believe a lot of girls are being sold a lie like you said Shoe, i genuinely feel bad for those that feel like they have to do it to overcome unfortunate circumstances like medical debt but statistically you aren't making a life changing amount of money and it often comes with a personal/professional cost that they don't consider enough.
In addition. Seeing all these super hot men and women selling themselves on onlyfans everyday just skyrockets everyone’s standards on what normal people should look like. Which just creates more incels. Normal is no longer enough.
The bar for being a "prude" has been set so low and it keeps being pushed lower. Reminds me of how overused the term "edgy" has become since 2017 as people's tolerance for any ideas that go against the Silicon Valley enforced norm has diminished.
it has affected me DEEPLY, I was once a very wholesome streamer now look at me look at me shoe. I cant go back, my community depends me. Thank you for this enlightening video. ;3
As someone who struggles with a porn addiction, this makes me infuriated. You used to just be able to ignore it, but now, everywhere you go, you see it. It’s like an alcoholic being offered a free drink every 5 minutes.
Yeah, and then you're made out to be the weirdo when you don't want to see it. I quit porn 3 years ago and won't look back, it improves your life and relationships in a huge way. But it sucks seeing those random hyper sexualized ads and content in places it shouldn't be and getting that itch to jump back in.
I remember in the early days a big WoW streamer and one of the best rogues in the world Woundman got banned for like 2 weeks for accidentally showing his feet on stream. WTF happened?!
Ive been saying the same thing for years n ppl hate on me for it too and as someone on twitch who uses cam ans and refuses to even wear low cut shirts i appreciate your content! Great job!
You'd think pointing out that adults are exposing themselves to children would be enough to stop this nonsense... but here we are... I don't even know how I'm going to protect my child from this kind of culture once his technical knowledge eventually outpaces mine.
I'm starting to think we should do what Doofenschmirtz did, in that one episode of Phineas and Ferb where future Candace messes up the past. Doofenschmirtz had all the kids locked up and stored away until adulthood. I'm starting to think we should do that.
That's the freaking problem when everyone simply says "you're 100% responsible for what your kid watches/does". We no longer live in the 80s and 90s... No parent can regulate the vastness of the internet and how easily accessible it is... If I was able to bypass the language filter my parents installed on my PC back in the early 2000s in order to not watch corn, believe me, parents have not chance of regulating what a generation that grew up with smartphones from day 0 does online...
@@johnjack3578 talking about societal problems is not obsession, check your projection. Children are the lifeblood of all civilization and if they are not raised properly, the society crumbles so his concern is understandable.
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Loneliness is looking much better than dating every day
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Kids on the street could get guns so easily, so why don't you just sell guns to kids. That's the logic these mouth breathers put forth.
The red hair looks great! Must be something in the water!! 🦘🦘🖐️😁 Ummm. I love you please marry me? 🔙 That was way too forward.. I don't take it back tho..
there has got to be a girl on only fans who's name is Aura
When I click on a woman’s social media profile now, if they don’t do NSFW, a lot of the time they’ll have a disclaimer to tell people that they don’t do NSFW. Which is crazy to me that it’s become so prevalent you almost expect to see a link in their bio. It used to be a genuine surprise to find out someone did NSFW content and now it feels shocking if someone doesn’t.
I couldnt agree more I am more suprised to see a bio with "I don't do porn" than I am with any blue text.
Disagree. I dont know what kind of people u follow but in my little buttle no one does porn or nsfw content. Id say it still is a minority that does nsfw content.
@@jankaufmann1174 > "in my little buttle"
Wow, what a Freudian slip right there, huh.
@@dylansmith6078 I remember twenty years ago watching a basketball game and the TV speaker said "Look, it's Zeljko Rebraca, the guy with the tattoo". It was so bizarre back then to have a tattoo and the dude had a couple of lines on his shoulder and that was all. Now saying "the guy with the tattoo for a basketball player begs the question "which one??" :P ... same thing happened in this case. Slowly and surely, down the drain...
lmfao I'm only 34 and I feel like I'm 109 what happened to this planet fuck lmao
"Finding this sexual makes you the pervert"
I've never seen gaslighting this hard in my fucking life holy shit how are these people real
My guy that’s twitter sadly, that’s why I left most people on there are awful.
Seriously. The whole point of the stream is to be sexual.
they aren't
The same people will complain about men not recognizing or understanding when you're hitting on them.
More gaslighting than a blowtorch 💀
"You're a sexist if you don't objectify women."
Strange times we are living in.
Like???
Hypocrisy innit
You worded my thoughts exactly that I couldn't put into words
Wouldn't it be more like: "You're a sexist if you don't allow women to objectify themselves?" Big difference in my opinion.
@@ItssssJack Do you feel called out or something?
It's only illegal if it's men targeting young girls.
Holding women accountable for targeting young boys is misogyny.
white feminism in action
Literally 🤦♂️
wtf how does this only have 81 likes, this deserves 8K likes at least
@@goji5887Agreed. This is some excellent bait
God I hate this Red pill bait so much.
Because most of the time the people that post this will also claim “Women aren’t held accountable” or “Men are mentally stronger.” But mainly because of its sheer idiocy.
Yes there’s a difference as there should be.
Men are larger, stronger, faster and considered expendable.
And I don’t know a single man whose conscious would be clear if he was rescued before 2 women, or 3-4 kids.
Who gives a flying fuck, go “touch grass”,
Does it suck to be a man? Yes.
I literally had to do the mile run on crutches while my female classmates got out of it because of period cramps.
I’m guessing a broken leg, and two spinal fractures hurts more than something that happens every month.
Yes it sucks, but the benefit is being BADASS.
Men are not only soldiers because we’re stronger, but because we are taught we are not special,
In elementary school, I had to climb 3 flights of stairs,
My family explaining “Nobody is going to help you, you need to learn to help yourself,”
And I can promise you, this made me a stronger person and more caring,
If I have a son or daughter, I’m helping them up, no matter what.
Men invent more, take more leadership positions, there are more male CEO’s, there are more male grandmasters, there are more male solo travelers, BECAUSE since childhood we are treated differently, because we’re expected to persevere.
Not because we’re any smarter than women.
But women have always been protected more in EVERY culture/ country,
We make more money & do better in careers in general because we don’t have the option to marry into wealth.
There are good sides and bad sides to being male / female.
It is frightening how easily exploitation can be rebranded as empowerment.
Yeah...
@NJP-Supremacistpsychopaths drive culture
Is she also in only fans?
curious how OF could be considered exploitation
@patw9175 a lot of girls are doing seriously disgusting stuff just to give themselves a heads up on the site. It has to lead to psychological problems down the line. In 10-15 years kids will discover porn their mom's were willingly displaying on the Internet. It will lead to another cycle of mental problems.
As an adult man with family to take care of and bills to pay the only thing that makes me go AWOOOOGA is a 8-hour sleep.
The day you finally get 10hrs you'll ascend beyond the mortal plane
Then you are gay. Closeted gay. No AWOOOOGA for any random woman? Homosexual.
As someone that usually doesn’t sleep more than 2 or 3 hours, the day I manage to get 5 in it’s like I’m on c0caine
As a dad with 2 young kids too, I would go AWOOOGAAA if I got time to play some damn videogames again 😭
Fucking preach, brother.
“Ten years ago these people were fighting to keep sexualized women out of video games”
Shoe on head, nail on head.
They still are fighting fictional pretty
They needed to knock off the competition so they could move in, classic Mob move.
_AYYYY, BADDABOOM BADDABING AWOOGA AWOOGA HONK HONK!_
Death cultists trying to keep people from reproducing, what else?
50,000 people used to live here. Now it’s a ghost town
I literally found porn because youtube iteself started recommending softcore fetish porn to me after it realized I was interested in fashion. It isnt the kids looking for porn, its porn looking for people, including kids
true and real. Happened to me practically the same way 12 years ago. The age of the internet is having crazy effects on humanity that probably nobody really foresaw back in 1997. It's not even the internet really, it's the algorithms.
Literally same, to this day I still think the reason why I started masturbating was YT quite literally recommending it to me.
Same bro saw a hot girl on Instagram and blap I learned how to yank it myself. No dad gang 😢😮
the porn has always looked for people, and the hippies were great resellers of pOrn as the "liberals" they were
Same Bros, was like 9-10 years old (around 2010) and watching some videos related to Nintendo games and anime then youtube showed me fetish videos using those characters and I was doomed
The problem isn't that kids are actively reaching out to porn, it's that now the porn is actively reaching out to them.
And I thought it was bad when I first started hitting the internet.
Yeah truly and, not to sound like a Conservitard, which is where we are sadly at when I have to make this disclaimer, but keep twerking, drag shows, and graphic sexual books out of schools and wherever children are likely to be present. Simple as; it shouldn't be controversial to say "Protect children from obscenity where you can"
Well said
@@viscountrainbows2857it's YOUR side that wants all of this leftie. Your side is the drag shows at kindergarten, sex books and explicit material for children, soft core pornography on twitch ect.
Those advocating for all of that are on your side of the aisle.
@@viscountrainbows2857what’s absolutely insane is that they act like sexual material isn’t obscene if it’s gay. Like kids should seriously be learning about homosexuality by seeing this shit. Absolutely despicable. Kids under the age of 18 should not be exposed to such things. If they decide to search it themselves, that’s up to parents to control.
There's also the attitudes such as "Because I'm naked on twitch and not a porn star I'm not a cam-girl/e-thot." and various other forms of mental gymnastics.
That's a rare case though, most of these women are active sex-workers on other platforms, they're merely advertising and making extra bags on Twitch, so such mental gymnastics don't apply.
That may be true but the main pic shoe kept using was of a girl that has a very popular PH page
lies ethots tell themselves,2024 edition 😂 The mental gymnastics in their mindset is insane
@@_4_0_4_6 difference is she wasn't on twitch and her TH-cam is not for kids lol.
Also that they are clever for getting money from greasy truckers, while they make fun of the same people in reality..
Twitch is quite literally a funnel to women’s OF. Most of them have a link tree to an OF page
And the BEST part is that the OF link is always the first one.
When you see a Linktree, always assume there's an OF link
And Instagram
And if the internet didn't know it before they certainly do now and all those girls will be getting a gigaton of new donations
@@dennisrounds1996ig is a funnel to of
It’s weird that they’re avidly like “what, you don’t like seeing naked women appear randomly on your screen? Are you gay?” When that’s the argument from creepy men when they send unsolicited pictures: “what, you don’t like seeing that, are you lesbian or something?” No, we literally don’t want to see that unless we CHOOSE to.
"OnlyFans is the black pill for women" has to be the most accurate sentence I've seen to describe that site and its culture.
B-b-but OF makes girls eMpOwErEd though :(
“Only ugly girls go to college”
@@ShawnFXI KNOW RIGHT 😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃
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Yes, it's basically the bottom of the barrel for any type of Female twitch streamer that gets desperate enough.
@ShawnFX Until they regret It years down the And delete all their history
"Things are fine because I've seen worse" or "Things are fine because worse things exist".
What a time to be alive.
What an alive to be time.
I remember a friend basically telling me not to worry about what my daughter does/goes to/sees online because they'll eventually see all the bad stuff anyway.
This person was a friend who is intelligent and has a kid himself. But it struck me that he, and most people in today's culture, have become so desensitized to everything that there's virtually nothing that you should try and steer your kids away from, because they'll just eventually see it anyway. Or there's worse things out there.
Anyway, you're exactly right, it's a weird set of things that adults today tell themselves, to justify not giving a sh*t about what kids absorb through the internet.
@@adamrad2220 At this point it likely is reasonable to assume they'll find most things on the internet anyways. However, that's no excuse for not being a present and positive enough influence for your kids that they don't become as de-sensitized as you or as addicted as you are/were to them.
In fact, the assumption they'll find it anyways should be MORE incentive to give them the right head-space and tools to either interact with them minimal or at least properly. The less we let/make teens (or younger kids!) think that being super-sexual is a good and positive thing, the better.
Also see: "I was spanked as a child and I grew up fine."
Rise and grind
Let's get this dread
I like how they admit these girls are sex workers, but can't make the first grade conclusion that sex workers shouldn't be on a website for kids.
they usually cry "we aren't responsible for children online!" borderline predatory.
and I bet they're the same people shaming sex workers in the first place, especially the ones doing offline work (eg. escorting)
Bold of you to assume it is not intentional.
Two words: false advertising.
@@l.w.paradis2108 I set up my WRT router with DNS lookup rules that locks out most of these junk sites (and youtube ads)
It did take more than 2 steps.
The thing I don't understand is that it's a criminal issue. Exposing yourself to a minor is a very serious offense. In this particular case, it happens to have a ton of evidence, IPs, identities, cash flow, etc. I don't understand why this just doesn't result in subpoenas and court hearings. Plus, the establishment has a duty to protect minors. If a strip club started letting 16 year in, they'd be losing their business fast.
Men end up on the sex offenders list for peeing in the woods or behind dumpsters. These women are deliberately exposing themselves for viewing, not discreetly for bladder relief, in an area they thought would be hidden from sight, but openly. These women are gross.
Said exactly what I was think. Well put 👏
Some women take criticizing any woman as a personal attack due to being a woman is their main personality trait.
*only personality trait
Same as a percentage of lgbt, people of color etc. Most of us (mixed) don't have our race or sexual preference or gender as our only personality trait.
Everything is because "they hate woman". It's an easy low energy thought deflection.
Interesting. Idk if I ever thought about it like that.
@@bobboberson6664 yeah is sad
The 'get rich quick' lie has always been a key element of the porn engine.
Somehow women keep falling for it. Least this lady has her head on straight.
@Fultonian-ve1ib capitalism is immoral by its very nature so if you are living in the capitalist society you are living in an immoral society. all these terrible things are a feature not a bug.
@Fultonian-ve1ibcapitalism is, by its fundamental nature, an a-moral system. Western capitalism gains its moral center through its grafting to democratic systems, socialisation (I.e. unions, universal healthcare, etc.) And philanthropy.
You can definitely blame the lionisation of rugged capitalism as the ideal of society with the rise in moral relativism.
Easy money
You say I fool myself
But better me than being a fool for someone else
I got a hot slot machine of a system
Ready to go
(Easy money)
I got a one-track mind
And a good reputation laying on the line
I'll either come back a bum or a king
Baby, I don't know
@@aaron1037u described crony capitalism. Not the same. Good systems can be broken by corrupt people.
I think the biggest issue is that these kids are growing up with the understanding that interacting with women means paying money to receive gratification.
That can only end badly
On top of this, this is setting the precedent that this is how women are like, which will hurt normal women who dont want to be treated as sex workers, really badly.
Yikes
Not to mention hook up culture, tinder, gen z having less sex etc just gonna have an entire generation scared of women and only beating off
I'm a married man and I still "pay" for it. It's not money, but it is my blood, sweat, and tears. You think I shoveled the driveway and cleared the cars of snow so I can get to work? I work from home.
@@stevenbutler6089 If you're being blackmailed with sex so that you will do home maintenance then there are marriage issues.
I thought paying money to receive gratification was what dating was. 🤔
Just found this channel yesterday and it’s a breath of fresh air. Finally, a sane corner of the internet 😭
You've got a ton of content to get through 😂
welcome rational human, you may not agree with every opinion here but you'll find common sense seems more common
Same
I can’t tell if that’s a good thing or sad that sane, rational thinking is a rare corner of the internet.
I enjoy her videos mainly for the charm and wit but everything she is saying is extremely level headed and normal…as most ppl should be but aren’t sadly.
Yeah, I just got back into watching her videos after several years. Definitely one of the most socially-intelligent content creators out there.
i love how porn is mostly targeted at kids, easily accessible by them and we somehow don't consider this grooming/pedophilia on an unprecedented scale
In many southern states you now need to show proof you are over 18 through facial recognition and an id before you can access it. There is an argument to be made that this just pushes kids to less regulated and more dangerous sites though.
This, its insane.
i'm bemused by how we've 180'd into *not* sexualising women is misogyny
That's not the thing though. If you sexualize a woman in a non-sexual setting when she's going about her day and make it known, that's bad. But if you see a woman who is embracing her sexuality and immediately start protesting it and telling her to cover up, you're also demonstrating a desire to control her. The idea is, women are agents of their own.
@@AK-jm1sc Maybe, but why try to desexualize fictional charakters in video games then? Everything brought up against animated sexualization should be even worse in case of real women whether they do it to themselves or not.
@@AK-jm1sc "a woman who is embracing her sexuality" sounds like a pimp's definition of prostitution...but i see your point i guess.
@@derfalschejunge Because real women would lose competition with sexy fictional characters, and those characters in a way are defining men's sexual standards. So we need to remove them, otherwise milking simps would be harder.
@@ceu160193 So, the most sexy women are allowed to Set the standard for the rest? And they are more dangerous because they are real. Not matching the look of artwork where everything is possible is easier to get over than real bodies that exist.
You know the coomer excuse of "Twitch isn't for kids" is complete BS when the problem could simply go away if Twitch made a verified "18+" section to allow the chicks (or dudes) to do whatever.
But they won't.
Almost like they know it's a BS excuse and want the kids to engage with it for revenue while pretending to claim otherwise.
I know right it sucks.
Oh they know alright. They know damn well.
They are virtue signalling twats.
They want the 13 year olds throwing their allowances after the titty streamers. They make twitch a lot of money.
They know kids are watching & they don’t care
Twitch isn't for kids. If someone says that gently remind them that twitch is 14+
I about died when she said, "what's stopping me from taking off my shirt and making a ton of money besides, you know, a father figure."
"why not take the power back and make money off the inevitable" was exactly the reason why I sold heroin to my buddies when I was in 8th grade.
Pardon? . . .
How much did u make?
respect the grind kingggg
When I was in 8th grade my friends made a joke album with a fake band called Tickle Me Timbers.
Can't hate the hustle. Keep grinding 💪🏽
Porn addicts calling people who don’t want to be bombarded with unsolicited porn the weirdos here is laughable
Its also the makers of the pron gaslighting you into watching more. They make money and you get hooked into a parasocial relationship that keeps them paid.
Porn addicts will do anything to justify their perversions rather than admit they have a problem. Watching porn is not healthy and it harms everyone involved.
hmm
Yes, how dare you not go subscribe to these womens empowering of accounts. 🤣 This shit is crazy.
@@youtubasoarus and the porn industry is so manipulative they really do trick these young women into thinking this is “empowering” when in reality it is absolutely degrading. They’re tricking women into objectifying themselves
This is a result of the flattening of the internet. There are no longer kids sites and adults sites and "adult" sites, like there was back in the day. Now, every site strives to be for "everyone". You see this on TH-cam, where if a video gets age gated from kids, it gets absolute shit all for monetization, incentivising everyone to just make "everyone" videos. Pushing kids and adults together was always going to result in conflicts like this.
And then there's the "kids" videos that feature subtle adult content like those Elsa grinding on Spiderman videos
Very well said.
i think the death of flash played a part in a lot of kid friendly sites disappearing. if the site doesn't have a shitty flash game, what else is a kid gonna want to do on the site ?
ime the new era for gen z/a is mobile games & there are plenty of mobile games that are totally child friendly.
Well, no. The issue is that the internet is profitable. And because it is, all sorts of shadiness can occur. The reason why Amouranth got slaps on the wrist until she willingly moved to Kick (where she still gets slaps on the wrist) is because of the amount of money she brings to the website. Funny enough, in a twisted cruel ironic type of way, individual people have become "too big to fail" on the internet.
I'm glad i have no idea what you're talking about. @@erikschwartz1214
OMFG LOL that "awooga honk honk" needs to be a ringtone. i'll set it for when my wife calls me lol
How did it go? 😆
@@abdul-kabiralegbe5660 she laughed hysterically and set it as a ring tone on her phone for me lol
@@renegarcia6005 That's an amazing relationship you've got there. 👏🏻
Congratulations. 👍
😂 That's so cute tho, I hope I can get into a relationship like that
When I was a 10 year old and living in a trailer park one morning in the gutter I found an air freshener you hang in your car. It was of a topless woman exposing her very large chesties. It was the most amazing thing I had ever seen. Yes it was faded, had been run over by cars, waterlogged from the rain, scuffed up, sun bleached, wrinkled and dirty but it was wonderful. I proceeded to show a few people it and told them to get the word out of what I had and was charging $0.10 a look. I had hidden it in the woods next to the trailer park and I kid you not by noon I had 50+ other children lined up to get their 30 second look at this dirty old air freshener with many getting back in line to look at it again. After 2 days of this one day I came to find someone was spying on me and found where I was hiding it and it was gone, stolen. Literally dollars of money taken from me.
This would have been around 1987.
Damn, coulda bought a house with that back then 😔
What an entrepreneur!!
at such a young age. sorry you were robbed
I was born in the early 90's. So far as i'm concerned easy access to hardcore corn has just always been a fact of life.
It is amazing, and should be alarming that things have changed so much in so little time.
Such a relatable story! Life really was simpler back then...
I don't have children, but I do wonder, how I would parent them, in this day and age. It would be easy to think, that I'd do a better job than the _current_ parents of the messed up children, however, I have nothing to back that up with. Everything just feels very odd.
This is why protection of private property is so important 😔
The sexualisation of everything is a huge problem. It's such a primal urge, that it's easy to get addicted and lose yourself. Especially if you are young.
There is no such thing as porn addiction, my friend, it's just puritanical thinking forced into the mold of psychology to sound harmful or dangerous -- it's pseudoscience. Video games, on the other hand, are considered addictive, a statement supported by a lot of clinical evidence. A good question you can ask yourself is: why don't they then receive the same level of scrutiny?
@@ItssssJack☝️🤓
@@adopoyee4538 Well played, anime avatar 🙄
@@ItssssJackvideo game addiction receive WAY more scrutiny than porn addiction. Compare popularity of virgin/incel VS coomer
@@ItssssJackTheir is quite literally such thing as to much of something and Porn can most definetly be one of those somethings. If your introduced to something at a young age and not using it properly and no one’s stopping you it eventually and generally does get bad. Some people watch it instead of spending time with family, eating, hanging out, etc past times. It can be very much real
In the U.K. I’ve seen articles glorifying how young single mothers facing homelessness and starvation were saved by onlyfans.
I’m just sat in disbelief wondering how soliciting oneself in order to survive became seen as “empowering” when in all of history it has been a sign of a highly broken society.
I just wanna know who is paying for that rubbish. I don't know anyone that uses onlyfans, if they want to watch something there are millions of free websites...
That's feminism's war on the family unit, it is about capitalizing on female sxxuality. Because the only men that would stop that are fathers, as head of the household. They are the only ones who want to protect their daughter's values. So feminism encourages divorce and a moral race to the bottom. Taking off your clothes is called empowerment, and any man who objects is controlling and should have his children alienated from him by the family court.
When was this ever seen as a fault of the society and not as a fault of the woman? Its why we call people whores and not... the economic state of a country. The empowering part is that a woman today can do this and not (especially in comparision to the past) being expelled from society.
@@hansjurgen4567 links between prostitution, poverty and destitution are littered all throughout human history. Look at stories like Dostoevskys’ crime and punishment or even modern games like Cuberpunk 2077. The BBC had a news story of rising prostitution and links to increasing poverty and the affected areas. The term whore is derogatory and often used by the average Joe because it is about value, that doesn’t mean much.
@@PaulJohnson-zv3hl You misunderstood, i am not arguing that an increase in poverty (can) not lead to more sexwork. I am arguing the perception of sexwork.
As in, it can be empowering AND a sign of a failing system.
The empowerment comes from today's woman being able to choose to engage with it. And most importantly, when to stop. They also get more of what they earn through means like onlyfans, while working from an (physically) safe environment. All that while not being pushed out of towns, not being insulted or even hurt.
I chose "whore" because it is a good example of why sexwork can be empowering. As in the past a woman would, as you correctly mentioned, "devalue" herself. Something that was historically not equally applied to a man engaging in similar activities. The christian faith(Or its religious interpretation) for example placed Sin onto the woman, describing her as the root for men's desire for sex. Which is why woman (No just in the christian west) where to dress themself up to now show off their "sinful nature" and corrupt the men around them.
This is why dressing "slutty" is also a form of empowerment, as woman oppose forced objectification through chosen display of what was objectified.
Even if you fully oppose sexwork of any kind, you have to acknowledge that being able to freely choose "bad decisions" is a result of empowerment.
I am 74 years old. When I was a teenager, I lived on a farm. There was no internet. There were, however, brassiere ads in the Sears catalogue.
They’re really pulling the “so y’all dudes can’t get laid huh?” Card when they’re literally exploiting minors for money… I can’t put into words how disgusting that is
And mostly dudes that can't get laid are paying for their OF.
Why would you want that raunchy ass anyways lmao
These girls are basically depending on dudes that can't get laid to pay their bills😂
@@DonPatt-eg3vt but oh they clearly have no moral boundaries many also depend on the curiosity of children apparently
They are vvhores (by very definition). So really, what else to expect from them....
The fact they instantly called shoe a mysoginistic man on twitter. I think they may have missed something.
Yea, a few brain cells.
calling man incel and mysoginistic has been the defacto response to any man's opinion by woman
because she uses logic
@@ilias856more like a brain entirely
@chandllerburse737 are you being for real or are you being sarcastic
Oh my god, it's like writers are ALLERGIC to showing healthy relationships in media. Yes, "conflict" is what drives stories but you don't have to have conflict in every aspect of a character's life! If the first season ends with the lead characters finally getting together, guess how the second season opens? The relationship is on the rocks or even completely OVER. For the drama!
Maybe it's because these people don't have normal relationships? I would then wonder, why don't writers have normal relationships? I mean, people tend to write about what they know.
Because that genre of shows is literally “drama”. Something bad happens in the second season because of course it does. If their relationship was going well, there would be no show. You’re telling me you’d be interested in watching a show where the characters get along perfectly and just live life and nothing interesting happens?
Japanese & Korean media has a lot of traditional relationships. It's nice.
exactly, they know people love the will they/won't they, so when they get together they are afraid people will lose interest. lets hope with this new movement of people wanting more health relationships we will see more show about couples and their relationship.
@@kyle1598hffgyfv its not about "traditional relationships", its about seeking conflict. Jap and Korean shows suffer from a similar problem. but in their case they tend to end their show with the characters ending together. there are very few shows I can think of where the couple get together early and it shows their loves and struggles as a couple, instead of ending when the "pursuit phase" ends.
If this was reversed and men were doing this on a predominantly underage females website everyone would lose their mind.
And rightfully so. As they should here.
It’s everywhere, my wife and I had another child recently and the mothers breastfeeding page on Facebook is mostly women discussing selling milk and accompanying pictures to men not other women trying to feed their babies. The “get that cheddar mama” attitude is everywhere.
me want that cheese
As an atheist, I can say without a doubt that you all need Jesus.
@@8darktraveler8lol
@@flamingrage100 Son, have you seen the light through our savior Jesus Christ?
*Atheist Priest descends in a beam of holy light*
@@8darktraveler8that sounds like you are religious.
The most annoying thing to me is that it’s literally everywhere. Everything is a landmine for OnlyFans advertisements. Even manosphere content advertises for it
A-d b-lock-ers (YT hates that term) can fix at least 40% of the problems with capitalism.
Can't wait to get a pair of glasses that does that IRL so I don't see them on the sides of buses.
I think the one argument that I hear when you call this kind of stuff out that annoys me more than anything else is when they say that it's not actually sexual and that you're a weirdo if you find it sexual and they accuse you of being some kind of pervert for having a problem with it
Exactly, it's so weird. Actually, no, it's gaslighting and deflecting at its finest.
That's one of the main problems with this issue. You're never going to get the other side to discuss it in good faith. Manipulation is the game they choose to play.
It's called gaslighting. You're right it should be angering.
@xXRazorbacksXx I hope the rest of the sane people left on this useless bloody planet, realise that no, you can't just wish for these people to go away. They will take and take.
Some of them legit have they ass pointed at a camera for hours, then there were the ones just sitting around "naked". Yet getting mad acting like NINJA wasn't some people's babysitter a few years ago. The lies that "there's no kids on Twitch" since even the Vtubers that drew the porn had more sense than the egirls and simps defending the exploitation.
you accidentally ruined my morning with that ear ASMR jump scare, shit had me fry heaving. i forgive you no apology needed
I have high-def headphones, and that smash cut to the ear licking put a bruise on my soul.
I feel you. Trauma xD
Same here, I was violated
Honestly, my soul sank
11:44 "these mids aren't going to stand out"
THAT WAS SAVAGE 💀💀💀
I know 💀
Werdly enough, the one that deflagrated this entire ordeal was widely considered to be the .... hm.... goat throat on PH before this. So its not that they cant stand out there, its just that there is more people to be explored on Twitch for money. In another weird turn of events, Twitch is a more predatory platform than corn sites.
Savage AND true!
That said, Morgpie is actually also on various porn sites and has been doing porn for years. Twitch was just convenient promotion for her.
She's also correct. They hate the idea that they may have to compete with people objectively more attractive, so they lash out.
I find it strange that the Twitter users are calling whoever doesn't like women shaking it live for a site used by minors "incels"
Normal man: "Ladies, have some self respect and if you can't just don't do it in front of my kids."
Twitter: "You obviously can't get laid!"
It's twitter... what do you expect? Brains working?
I wonder what they call women don't agree with this degeneracy as well, I only use youtube so I don't know what's going on on there
You find it strange, I find it disturbing
twitter = shitter
(Parent lets their kid browse internet freely) "OMG you need to watch what your kid does! You're a bad parent!!!"
(Parent watches what their kid does online) "OMG you need to respect your kid's privacy! You're a bad parent!!!"
Just because something is legal, does mean it's moral. Just because you can, doesn't mean you should.
exactly
Just cuz you could doesn't mean ya should
Never expect ANY morality from western women....
Morality is a spook
Doesn't*
This epimedic has really exploded in the past 3 or 4 months. Twitch tried to 'allow' the extra spicy content and then immediately pulled back on it.
Let's also not forget that whole Amouranth bullshit where, to all appearances, she faked domestic abuse and went on this whole rant about how now she could finally be herself, wear 'real' clothes and not be a thirst trap anymore... then immediately went back to the same content as before.
Well before she probably had a guy monitoring it but now she can just do it all for herself amhoeranth
@@Str8murkufool17 to the best of my knowledge... she's still with the same guy (who no one knew existed at the time)
Hilariously, it seems that what got twitch to pull back on allowing the extra spicy content was somebody decided the next day to do an art stream where they drew Muhammad with a massive penis and that got twitch to rethink their new policies, hence why it was taken down so fast.
Absolutely fucking hilarious in my opinion.
@thiagoulart yeah I was one of the few who noticed that it was faked but by then, it was too late as most people forgot about the drama and bringing it up will only create more of it
She was loosing subs because guys would find out about her husband, now she’s able to do the o I would date a sub like pokimaine
They're so smart for finding and exploiting a loophole that was created specifically for them right after they came there.
Oldest profession in the world
@@Meyer-gp7nq that's prostitution. Payed blue balling is new.
Thots came? Mmm…
@@Meyer-gp7nq- Land surveying is the oldest profession in the world.
They essentially realized that selling sex to minors, specifically young boys, is an untapped market. Create a space specifically engineered to attract young boys and then use that audience in your sexual exploits. I 100% feel like this kind of thing would NOT be humored if the target audience was young girls. This is essentially like flashing girls at an American Girl Doll store... but nobody sees it that way because the sexual victimization of particularly young boys is not entertained.
8 Months have passed and nothing has changed for the better.
I have a feeling it will only get worse
"Artistic Nudity" my a$$. Real artists have been struggling for years to post actual pieces with the smallest nudity and isn't sexual at all but it keeps getting removed. I guess they need to stop drawing the the Greek Goddesses or Biblical reimagining's and draw some twerking kids to get approved.
I agree with your sentiment.
When I try to paint a picture of a gorgon breaking fingers off of statues, but made the mistake of leaving titties aired out to show the savagery, it's "in bad taste" but when a woman goes publicly naked on twitch it's empowering.
Artists have been and will be always struggling, because the purpose of art is to evolve people's minds, and nobody likes to be forced to evolve.
Yeah, same thing with cosplay. How many of these thots simply put a wig and lingerie on and act like it's somehow acceptable cosplay of a character and not soft corn.
I was a female gamer on Twitch for a few years. I chose not to make my stream sexy because I wanted to show my nieces that you can be successful without giving up your integrity.
Edit: I was actually pretty successful (by my own definition of what success looks like) and had an awesome community. I chose to stop streaming because I wanted to start a family and raising my child was more important to me than being online as often as I was. I have considered streaming again however probably not on Twitch as I don’t like that it is financially dependent on the viewer rather than the company. I don’t feel comfortable accepting money from people who I consider to be my friends.
Did it work?
@@2020_Visi0n doesnt seem like it
Good on you for trying to be a decent moral person. Even if you didn't make it big.
How braindead do you have to be to think showing cleavage makes you immoral lmfao? @@thegrimharvest
based
I was exposed to p*** when I was only like 7 or 8 years old. I will say that it has definitely fucked up my mind, and I agree that I crave to see normal, wholesome relationships in the media because the oversexualization everywhere has gotten quite stale.
Artistic nudity is supposed to be like, drawing the nude body for a study...not just being naked to be naked
if it only werent for the degenerate going the whole mile when given an inch
At the end of the day, these are the kinds of stances that twitch needs to enforce, and they dont.
There needs to be a line drawn, which there isnt one right now, and there wont be one because the site is ran by one handed coomers
If you set a marble on an uneven surface, it will roll to one side of that surface.
@@Darkchipper07So?
"Artistic nudity" is too subjective to be a qualifier on a social media platform that does and doesn't apply the rules whenever they want, as leniently or harshly as they want.
Not going on twitch and not having a Twitter and then learning about this is crazy
I feel that, buddy. Same reason I haven't touched Facebook in over half a decade, never bothered with IG, either.
Wow you guys are so cool
I haven’t touched twitch since the TOS change came around, so I’ve been hiding in the TH-cam corner. As a minor, I don’t wanna see that shit.
Exactly.
Still waiting for the yt revolution where we all find it's replacement, but until then, even this gets crazy.
I can only imagine what those other internet worlds must be like, 0.0.
yeah, im REALLY glad I deleted my twitter last year. dont ever go on twitch. feeling like I made the correct decision after seeing some of these insane takes... good lord.
I think a good example of your argument is actually OnlyFans itself. It was intended to be a competitor to Patreon. Porn started showing up, and they considered moving away from that, and everyone revolted. Now, OnlyFans is trapped in the porn business, and trying to get out would be the death of the company.
And all of that came from them allowing it in the first place. Over time, that's all anyone came to know the site for.
I didn't know that but it actually really makes sense now that I think about it. Their name alone doesn't inherently sound like porn and yet, that's what it's synonymous with.
They tried to get out and the internet revolted
one of the main reasons why onlyfans drastically shifted from normal content to NSFW content was because leonid radvinsky, the owner of myfreecams (a corn site) acquired 75% ownership. after that it became basically fully for NSFW content
They also made the mistake of propping up Amouranth as a "top creator" for their platform and used her in tons of advertising, despite knowing all she does is scam her audience. Then her sales made up too much of the site's profit to do anything about her.
then why the search only feature?
why work like Snapchat if it's for crowd funding?
don't you think a search bar helps crowd funding? invite only is a very bad way to get attention.
I don't buy your story
“Why wouldn’t you” one word, Dignity.
It's so strange that certain people have decided that fictional characters need to be protected at all costs but real people don't need protection.
Fictional characters can't consent.
I have seriously seen someone use this as an argument before.
@@Plainsburneryou should use air quotes on that first sentence ,cuz it looks like your making the argument
@umairashraf5167 for comedic effect I believe. Quite skillful
@@Cyberfan2167 I fixed it.
god bless the free market
Love your comment, “what is stopping me from taking my shirt off? A father figure.” Gives me hope for my 18 y/o daughter.
Good dad
W Dad
That she is a ro stie and nobody needs her anymore, that's whats stopping her.
G Dad
Lame.
Shoe, your gender flip thought (18:48) has an added component: if an adult man jumped into a female space with minors and did the same thing, he'd be locked up. There's a pedo issue here in the targeting of minors that's especially offensive.
Exactly.
Right? It's like, where do you draw the line? Oh wait, we answered that in the schools, didn't we...
Minors can access porn right now that has male performers? This is now pedophilia? What does that word even mean anymore lol.
What? Streamed topless? This was allowed on Twitch before any of the rule changes. Why is everything and everyone called a pedo now lol
@@ItssssJack Because it's a website for kids. Seriously, do you feel called out? Why else would you be defending this stupid shit?
I’m impressed with your ability to rationally explain things. It’s great to hear a moral voice mixed with great humor. Just found you today and subbed. Keep up the good work!
"If I was a female..."
Ladies and Gents, we got her!
Lol
Him*
Posting something without context again, eh lol. She said if i was a female AND.....
I just feel sad for this situation. It's like being punk: the moment it becomes a trend, not being punk is the most punk you can get. In such a sexualised and extremely insensitive environment, being not attracted by naked women online and look for some meaning in a relationship, and beauty in privacy is seen almost as weird, or a red flag. And Onlyfans exists just because there's so much sad and lonely people out there, looking to have an emotional and sexual feedback they can't get elsewhere, it's like paying a subscription to feel loved...it's a shame to see this fake sliding door of richness marketed everywhere, to the point where everything has to be sexualized because money, all coming from people that feel alone. It sucks, it really does
My friend said it's not para-social, it's para-romantic, and that's honestly just the other half of the black pill.
no not even paying to feel loved its just to see some shit u can see for free online, theres no excuse for falling into that pit
So, straight edge only fans? E-virgin girls with no tattoos, wearing baggy jeans and loose fitting turtle necks?
@@helpme9746 I agree. When I see supposedly "hot" women do this it makes them seem vastly less attractive and completely manipulative of depressed and lonely men. If a person knows their self worth they won't give their privacy to everyone and like wise those seeing it won't want what anyone can have for just a little bit of money.
@@helpme9746 It quite literally is "paying to feel loved" though, and you just gave the reason why without realizing it. If you can see it for free online, then why pay? It's because of the para-social (or "para-romantic", as the other user described it) aspect. You're not just paying for the explicit photos and videos, but for the "interaction" that comes with it. And even though *_you_* may lack the ability to empathize with people you disagree with, that doesn't inherently mean that "there's no excuse" for their behavior. These people are so devoid of any intimacy in their lives that they're willing to pay for the semblance of it. The luxuries that you or I may be afforded in that regard are completely inaccessible to them. The original comment is spot on; this is a devastatingly sad situation all around.
It is fuckin weird how many people pretend you’re not supposed to look at highly sexualized people in a sexual way.
It's more than that, it's pathetic.
@@Alexa-Raine I’m thinking most would feel like they approve but still drag you anyway. I can’t count the number of times down bad dudes have wanted to see topless beaches just for the sake of that while being unanimously agreed with.
@@Alexa-Raine It's more that you should be allowed to go topless in the right setting, but also not expect people won't look and have their own thoughts.
it's blatant gaslighting
@@Alexa-Rainenaw I think he means stop complaining if people sexualize you
I know it is late but imagine if an adult woman did a softcore pole dancing routine in front of a class of unsupervised 9th graders. About the real-life equivalent here.
Thank u for talking about this. I just turned 18 and even before that I had people approaching me telling me to make an only fans and saying they can’t wait until I turn 18. I resisted the urge and yet I am still being asked to do things for money online. I feel bad for considering it because I am a broke student and need the money right now and it would be so easy but it’s not something I want to do. Sometimes I think about how much money I’m missing out on more than my own boundaries. Many girls feel like it’s something we need to do. It’s sad our society has progressed to this. I feel so objectified constantly. Anyone calling you a pick me is either complicit or has been groomed into thinking this is okay.
Can't wait for you to turn 18. Wow, that's kinda creepy big props to you not folding and showing you have respect for yourself 🎉
So you’re broke eh? The Airlines are hiring A&P mechanics right out of school for 75k a year. You will get your hands dirty instead of feeling dirty.
If you stay clean, you will appreciate it a ton down the line, believe me.
Fast and easy solutions are almost always tied to slow consequences, and this is not an exception.
doesn't she like the barbie movie i don't think tha'ts a pick me lol and i mean she is somewhat of a pick me hard to be feminine when you have a brand
to be a successful female and still feminine is definitely hard and alot of here takes aren't exactly correct i mean me personally
i'd rather my woman not have an online platform trying to talk about the manosphere and stuff just no lol
quite frankly as a woman she got told by a man so why listen to her when i can listen to a man.....
she's feminine talking about popular views for money and most men well
they can see through it if they not beta as for you
good job on not doing onlyfans i'll pray for you
Amazingly insensitive and sad reading that. You’ll thank yourself down the line for not doing OF or the like
"I know calling them whores does nothing, I did it because it was funny" lmao I love shoe she's so great.
This is part of the problem. It should shame them.
@zj871023 In the past, when shame wouldn't work, societies moved onto stoning.
@@LiberPater777 to clarify I'm telling you that you're uptight and need to smoke several joints until you can't remember that you're a bad person
@@adamk.7177 So much projection....
Also, it's not my fault simple facts trigger you.
@@LiberPater777 if it works it works
Btw that really shows why there were rules and code of conduct forced upon women. Leave them be and they turn out to be hoes. They do need protection from themselves 🤣
Somehow they can't wrap their head around the idea that good man don't want that in a partner, and now they are dumbfounded why they are single 🤷
I got addicted to adult content at 12, and yes it 100% has affected me negatively and my relationships. I am now 26 and still fight with it pretty hard. I definitely enjoy my time around others and specifically my fiance way more the longer I can go without watching any.
Stay strong brother!
LOL. I'm married with 2 kids. I experienced it all and got no issues with dating or family life. My first exposure to nudity and it aroused me was ... paintings in a Lourve museum book. Now in my mid-30s, outside my normal sex life with my wife, I only read hentai or look at hentai drawings. Either in-person real women or drawings.
@VT-mw2zb that’s great, kinda weird to see someone struggling with addiction and brag about how you don’t have a problem with it.
@@frightfactoryYT Well, that's why mindfulness is important. Well, perhaps I'm privileged because I was raised with Buddhism where being mindful and self-aware is almost second nature. There are many opportunities of things that I experienced and could have gotten myself addicted to but I realised it in time and walked back. I stated "in-person real women or drawings" but note that addiction to prostitution is a real thing. I could have also been addicted to that, especially given that money is generally not an issue for me most of the time. I had to be mindful of what I was doing, what I was thinking of other people, and some introspection to then come to a lifestyle that does not actively ruin me.
It takes effort and chance, of course. Perhaps the way my brain is wired made it so that I am less compulsive, in general. Perhaps my cultural background. I don't take all the credits.
Hang tough, bro. The urge will never depart but vigilance and stoicism will deter it. That energy is best directed at your boo - they deserve all of you and your focus.
I am really impressed with how you present in this video dude. Keep it up
Found ShoeOnHead about 9 years ago, and she continues to prove it was one of the few golden acts the Algorithm has committed over the years putting her in the recommends. This one is canon.
It's rather ironic that the same women that show their naked bodies online first cried about men sexualizing women too much, which is now turned into "you must watch me and leave your money". They do exactly the same they claimed to hate and yet again it's someone else's fault even if there is no one forcing them to do this or telling them to do this. They picked their own poison.
their excuse or justification is that they are 'in control' of the sleazy content so its empowering - if it's men sharing sleazy content featuring women then it's exploitative.
it's ridiculous and I don't agree with it at all as a woman, but from what I've seen that's explanation.
Simple and straightforward reason;
*Former gets them bucks, latter is free*
Their stance is - and it was ever this - somehow, it's a man's fault. Or it's all mens' fault.
White men are the only ones crying about women showing themselves.
someone once told me "as a man you consent with your wallet" and after that it all made sense. She was a SW of course.
Shoe has returned to let us know everything in the world is gonna be OK. We're all gonna be OK frens.
I like it when she lulls us into a false sense of security
Thank you fren :3
No, Shoe is back, hell is here
🗣️
🧢🧢
these people are so broken they think its another man v woman debate when its literally kids we are trying to protect
The main problem with all this drama is that its become endemic to try to get quick and easy money, and sex work is seen as a quick route to this goal. The US economy has become so lopsided against normal workers, that people are constantly looking for routes to making more money. And the problem is that the truth of how many people actually succeed at this goal is quite low. But those success stories are the ones who get promoted and pushed into everyone's faces. The US is so addicted to "rags to riches" stories that they forget that for everyone successful at getting rich this way, there are numerous people who never did. But those people are ignored, because only success is celebrated, failure is ignored.
Amen!! We should love each other and our families. Money is not the way to happiness and purpose in life.
Reminds me of the time when a girl was walking topless at Comic-con (with pasties made of electrical tape) with "free the n~pple" on her torso written in sharpie, and she would get visibly upset at guys looking at her. It was almost a kind of comedy act, if not for the fact that she would have willingly sent every one of them to jail.
How many were looking at her in an erotic sense, and how many were looking at her in a “is this b*tch for real?!” Sense?
was it in reaction to people just looking at her for a second or two or actually lecherously staring at her? because if it's the latter her reaction is justified I feel.
@@corporalregicide5248 She would say that the line between those two is very clear, when in reality the gray area is vast, and whoever is caught in it is subject to her whims. Expecting comic book nerds not to fall into that gray area is unreasonable.
@corporalregicide5248 literally irrelevant if you're walking around top less in public.
@@mobilegameclips5628 if you are [a respectable and sensible human being], prepare to be treated as one.
Same applies for all other states of being.
This woman speaks so much logic, no wonder people don’t like her. Truth is difficult for people to accept.
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This comment isn’t the slam dunk you think it is bud
“In a time of deceit telling the truth is a revolutionary act.” - George Orwell
Really? Logic? LOL, OK. Her main focus is on the women engaging in something that was freely allowed by a corporation that determined the minimum age of its users. Any mention of Twitch's responsibility in allowing this to happen is brief and passed over. She states that the women are a symptom of something greater, then continues going on about the women, not the cause. Lets not even get on the topic of Only Fans, which is basically supported by men but I guess those girls getting money are also to blame. But hey, she's got the formula, bashing women is profitable. 1.5 mill views in a few days. She's a Girl Boss!
@@Broomy718 well said. She's literally just spouting her opinion like it's a fact even without further analysis.
Imagine calling someone a "pick-me" and then accusing THEM of slutshaming.
Funny thing about the Stanley cup analogy.....they've been a blue collar company forever and has always made those for "the working man"...until a couple of Becky's found out that this expensive ass cup keeps your beverage cool for 3 lifetimes. Stanley caught wind of the trend, started producing pretty pastel colors for the ladies and started raking in the cash
Sheep/mob society- mentality
Pop had stanley cups for YEARS, I always wondered where tf they went
Ngl I thought she was talking about Ice Hockey for a good minute and was really confused lol
"Get exploited or exploit yourself" made me think about this subject very differently. Thanks, Shoe.
It's all about consent....you lose either way.
@@dananorth895 bingo... it's business these days
@@dananorth895 Children can't consent.
@@bobby45825the people posting this content aren’t children.
twitch needs to make it impossible for children to see this content
@@RusticRonniethere's lots of ways they can try to implement that. but at the start & end of it is, the parents need to regulate their child's internet access.
I hate to say it but the best way to fight this is by having a bunch of guys go on twitch in a towell/G-string and start doing the elephant dance. Let that trunk flop around lol. I guarantee the outrage will be instantaneous.
😂😂😂
As hilarious as it might be, my biggest fear is that it wouldn’t produce that outrage at all and just end up contributing somehow
@@matthewgunn6003 No, those guys will get arrested for being pedos...lol
Yes! They must do this. Maybe I'll have my 7' tall extra hairy husband do it. 😂
“Fight fire with fire.”
- Sun Tzu.
Not to mention any popular TH-cam video is crawling with pr0n bots
The pick-me insult is basically trying to shame you into falling back into the hive mind. The fact that you don't makes them feel less powerful. Hive minds need more hosts in order to have confidence in their opinions.
Individuality is good and it's literally a shaming for being possibly individually desirable
Sounds like someone that hates beauty, culturally or otherwise
@Lollers111332 it's a desire for validation. They're not confident in making their own choices so they look to the crowd on how to choose and validate their choices. When someone stands out of that it threatens their confidence.
Crabs in a bucket mentality. They want all women doing what they do. And if one women doesn’t or tried to get out/speak against it, they drag them down to their standards. Even if it means harming themselves and other women.
"Frankly, these women should be praised for thinking outside the box and pandering to an audience that isn't over saturated."
Let me fix what he means. "... outside the box and sexually pandering to children because they aren't a saturated market for porn yet." There we go.
Children don't have thousands of Dollars to give these women.
We love anti consumer. Predatory capitalist behaviour because we’re so fucking alergic to criticising women
I made an audible noise at that tweet. OF COURSE it's not oversaturated because it's not supposed to happen. Omg I am losing my mind lol
@@AlbertoMartinez765 If a kid isn't being monitored in what they are watching, they most definitely will not be monitored in how they spend Daddy's credit card. You've seen the stories of families being bankrupt by Roblox right? Could you not imagine a kid trying to look cool for his friends for getting an attractive woman putting their name on their body or say their name? Because getting attention is really cool for the new generations. They love anything parasocial. Where I went to school more than 15 years ago, kids had smartphones and their own credit cards from their parents. It's even more prevalent now and way less parenting is going on. I'm sure there's teenage whales out there 100%.
The best part about children as a market is there's always more suc-children. More children. Yes.
I agree with everything stated. I have a younger sister who just turned 19 and her and her bf talked to me about needing money and potentially starting only fans. I said the sad reality could be you might make 40$ a month off creeps u went to highschool with, and if her and her bf broke up then her bf would be off pretty much free and my sister would have a digital footprint that her future kids might see. I just don’t think switching to sw because you’re desperate is a good idea. Of course a lot of us consume adult content, but it’s still really crazy to potentially reap the mental anguish that could overcome your mind if your ideas didn’t manifest the way you hoped.
plus it takes away a lot of future career options if your work gets traced to your real identity. Sex work is financially worse longterm for most people, so many failed OF accounts out there.
Your fox licking the window avatar is quite apt.
Unfortunately it's going to be so normal for the average girl to have done it, nobody will bat an eye.
she would never have kids that's the thing also she would never have a career. OF is an awful idea for the avg woman.
You need money? Go apply for a service job, bartending, cashier, barista, etc. Super easy to apply and get hired to do it, people just don’t wanna work. If you don’t think it pays enough, go do hard blue collar work, roofing, cleaning sewages, trash take out, trimming, detailing, etc. You only need a hs diploma for most of these works.
As an adult man, I was very confused when you said Stanley Cup fandom because I was like there's definitely a ton of dudes that are into hockey, and then you specified the cooling cup
Was first exposed to porn when I was about 8 years old. Don't know exactly when I crossed the line into addiction, but I most certainly did, and now as an adult it has ruined my marriage and my life. I think porn addiction is an absolutely colossal problem that is largely ignored precisely because it's so prevalent. If everyone is an alcoholic is anyone? That's basically how I feel porn addiction is nowadays.
Recovery is possible. Don't give up
Are you using porn to fill some other thing? Are you filling a boredom or solitude? If you've got any interest try something like a small DND group or playing just garlic phone and cards against humanity once a week maybe it could be fun and bring a home body into some communal activity or so...
Is it the porn or the other person not accepting what you're in to?
That don't apply to everyone
@...bro
“Kids get sold into sex slavery every day. Making porn for them is relatively not a big deal.”
That’s the argument they’re essentially making.
The fact this is an argument proves that god has left the west
Yeah i guess if you only grape a woman it's fine because there are people who grape and alt f4 women as well. Solid argument.
"blaming these women for what twitch allows"
Uuuuh how about we blame both because they're both the problem here
But in the end the responsibility for what you are doing is on the Woman doing this.. its the same with a Casino.. do we blame the casino if people go broke there? or is it just the fault of the person who cannot hold him self back and keeps gambling
@@Sinesterr The fault is with the addicted who cannot hold themselves back, the casinos who prey on the desperate and the state which doesn't protect it's citizens and people victim blaming the addicted because the party gaining money is morally justified and the party losing money is morally corrupted because for some reason we replaced ethics with capitalism instead of using capitalism as a motivator for facilitating trade.
i'd say a woman selling her adult content to children, is to blame. people giving platform to these women to sell adult content to children are to blame.
blame the people financing this. no incentive, no thots.
terrible comparison because i can simply just not go to a casino, whereas twitch thots are EVERYWHERE on EVERY platform no matter what. And sure i can just stop using youtube ,twitch ,twitter, etcetera. BUT thats just as dumb as me being forced out of a walmart because people wont stop trying to sell me sugar cookies, i dont want your fucking sugar cookies leave me alone. :)
@@Sinesterr
I almost crashed my car when I heard her advocate for Dasani water. That’s like “she’s a ten but she eats out of garbage because she enjoys it”
I cant believe such a normal, level headed take like this is considered controversial. The worlds falling apart.
It's sad isn't it?
Indeed it is
You mean U.S....
It's considered controversial by a vocal minority (mostly that kind of """content creators""")
Yeah americans need to remember this is a US thing, the rest of the world not doing all that lol
Strong argument "You're just mad that we women sell porn to minors and you don't" lmao do they even think about it
There's a stark difference between being a 'prude' or a "jealous incel' and not wanting to see X-rated material on supposed non 18+ sites. It really shouldn't be outlandish to say that 18+ content should be kept to sites which are designed to have that type of content, but here we are. Zero issue with the actual creators, if they made the conscious decision to do that type of content then that's their prerogative. In the case of OF i do believe a lot of girls are being sold a lie like you said Shoe, i genuinely feel bad for those that feel like they have to do it to overcome unfortunate circumstances like medical debt but statistically you aren't making a life changing amount of money and it often comes with a personal/professional cost that they don't consider enough.
Making 18+ content is not just a out of jail free card for a bad situation yeah.
@@ayoCC if only… ✊😔
@@1Plebeian ^ THIS
In addition. Seeing all these super hot men and women selling themselves on onlyfans everyday just skyrockets everyone’s standards on what normal people should look like. Which just creates more incels. Normal is no longer enough.
The bar for being a "prude" has been set so low and it keeps being pushed lower. Reminds me of how overused the term "edgy" has become since 2017 as people's tolerance for any ideas that go against the Silicon Valley enforced norm has diminished.
it has affected me DEEPLY, I was once a very wholesome streamer now look at me look at me shoe. I cant go back, my community depends me. Thank you for this enlightening video. ;3
"wholesome" 😂
Cap
yeah very "wholesome"
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When more ear lickies cat lady UwU ?
Gentlemen, it’s officially no longer sexist for being a sexist. Thank you, feminists.
HELL YEAH!😎
How can I be a sexist? I don't even have sex
@@Flesh_Wizard Me too! I don't get it!
Feminism is women complaining and expecting men to fix it, so basically reaffirming the oldest gender roles
@@Flesh_WizardClearly, the same way a racist doesn't have a race
(jk)
As someone who struggles with a porn addiction, this makes me infuriated. You used to just be able to ignore it, but now, everywhere you go, you see it. It’s like an alcoholic being offered a free drink every 5 minutes.
Wonder how video game addicts feel!
Yeah, and then you're made out to be the weirdo when you don't want to see it. I quit porn 3 years ago and won't look back, it improves your life and relationships in a huge way. But it sucks seeing those random hyper sexualized ads and content in places it shouldn't be and getting that itch to jump back in.
the whole world does not revolve around you, lil bro
Yea kinda a you issue
Stop touching yourself.
If you want to quit porn hate it not what it does and you will quit
I remember in the early days a big WoW streamer and one of the best rogues in the world Woundman got banned for like 2 weeks for accidentally showing his feet on stream. WTF happened?!
Two sets of rules.
Money happened. Everything is for sale. Flesh, dignity, mental hygiene, you name it.
The 2020s happened everythings all backwards and crazy
"His" is what happened
Ive been saying the same thing for years n ppl hate on me for it too and as someone on twitch who uses cam ans and refuses to even wear low cut shirts i appreciate your content! Great job!
You'd think pointing out that adults are exposing themselves to children would be enough to stop this nonsense... but here we are...
I don't even know how I'm going to protect my child from this kind of culture once his technical knowledge eventually outpaces mine.
I'm starting to think we should do what Doofenschmirtz did, in that one episode of Phineas and Ferb where future Candace messes up the past. Doofenschmirtz had all the kids locked up and stored away until adulthood. I'm starting to think we should do that.
We will have to make our kids live on 90's technology and get them to *touch grass*
That's the freaking problem when everyone simply says "you're 100% responsible for what your kid watches/does". We no longer live in the 80s and 90s... No parent can regulate the vastness of the internet and how easily accessible it is... If I was able to bypass the language filter my parents installed on my PC back in the early 2000s in order to not watch corn, believe me, parents have not chance of regulating what a generation that grew up with smartphones from day 0 does online...
I can feel Boxxxys enjoyment everytime she‘s saying the word "gooner" out loud. It‘s so freaking funny.
Young kids being exposed to their moms onlyfans is the true horror.
Why are you so obsessed with kids of other people?
@@johnjack3578maybe he’s speaking from experience.
@@johnjack3578 talking about societal problems is not obsession, check your projection.
Children are the lifeblood of all civilization and if they are not raised properly, the society crumbles so his concern is understandable.
@@johnjack3578so you… want kids to see their mothers OFs? Fuckin weirdo
John because kids will be adults
"I did it because it was funny" is the best reason to do anything.
"Seemed like a good idea at the time" is usually what comes out of my mouth after some of my fondest memories
We are circling back to calling things what they are, an act of hate; smfh.