1. They start withdrawing from your life 2. They'll date in a non-rebound way 3. They'll block you 4. They'll actively discourage you from making things work
This is just a friendly reminder to people that sometimes it might just be better to move on instead of holding out hope . My ex moved in with his new girlfriend after only a few months something he never did with me after knowing me for years . And he says that he is very happy and that I don’t listen and that we can’t see each other or talk .. best to just move on when someone ditches you
Dang sorry, ur just at the beginning of the journey! I’ll tell ya what helps me some, calisthenics!! They have beginners calisthenics program on TH-cam Totally helps me sleep, don’t feel all crybaby, I’m depressed as hell, but I’m not hurting my self with booze or whatever, hey try it ,it’s free and you can stop, also I’ve been getting some eye balling from the opposite sex so it helps there to, good luck girl !!
In your case yes, but 8 billion people on earth is equal to 16 billion different outcomes, yours is 1 and I am deeply sorry, I'm an emotional man and even not knowing you, I won't neglect your emotions towards your situation. Keep your head up, but even though he's happy now, trust me, from a guys point, he COULD'VE been too controlling and picky Inside, don't let it discourage how he feels about you. I've been in a similar situation and trust me, it's not that easy. He may be doing these things to show you he can be a man instead of blaming you or making you feel like you're the problem He's insecure. Just let him be "happy" for now. I GUARANTEE you if he even has sex, right when he orgasms, he'll feel so uninterested in her. That could be a possibility because it's unrealistic unless he'd already broken up with you mentally years or a year prior. Don't be scared, just distract yourself. Watch Greys if you want some hope. Watch how no matter what derrick.and meredith always end up back with each other. You may feel more confident in yourself after no matter what happens.
I went 50 days before reaching out to my ex. I was friendly and amicable, she responded right away, but was very quick to tell me she had no interest in being romantic with me again. She offered to be friends and I told her no, I have no interest in that. She got mad and blocked me. Never settle, know your worth and don't waste your time pining for something that's dead.
@@DRaven-of2lv The moment someone breaks up with you, your goal is to go no contact and move on. Dont wait for them. Heal, improve, date other people. If they come around , now you have the power, if they dont they dont. You are not waiting for anyone. The reason why peope get thier ex back using no contact is because it is a display of strength, that you like them, they know you like them but you are still not reaching out to them. It increases respect towards you, and sends a signal of strength that yes you liked them but you dont need them. If u break no contact after 2 3 months, now you are showing weakness, and confirming to them, you gave in and contacted. That feeds their ego and now they dont want you. Actions must have consequences, they broke up, you disappear from their life forever. If they want you, they must come to you.
live your best life with or without him, its hard to swallow but life has to go on and new people can be just around the corner, im having to meet new people after 12 years with someone shite but im exited about the possible relations that are out there
Well I clicked on the video really worried about what I was going to hear. But he doesn't do any of these not even close, and it gives me hope. We are nowhere near close to getting back together (moving through riding the dragon phase, he's still hurt but loves me) but our interactions or going well and we actually shared an intimate nostalgic moment last night so I have hope!
@@ClayAndrews what if my ex bf doesn’t block me on all platforms but he is ignoring my texts when I reconnected after NC. The texts are not related to relationship but asking for some work advice that he is good at? He left them unread?
My ex and I have been talking on a regular basis since January. She does discourage me from believing that we’re dating or in a relationship again. But, she says it’s because she’s afraid of getting hurt and afraid that it will cause her to hurt me unintentionally. I’d say it’s a pretty good sign. Either way, just focusing on having good conversations, and not pushing for anything that might suggest that we’re back in a relationship again.
Focusing on connection would let connection grow organically. it will allow you to prove the authenticity and consistency of the change that you have made as well. :-)
@@ivy3839 Actually, 7 months later and we are back together. So, as it turns out, it was a good sign. We just needed to build a solid foundation of friendship before committing. We’ve both been in bad relationships and needed to make sure we were right for each other. And yes we are! Way happier than the first time around!
@@bryanfuchs1512 Really happy to read that. Always happy to read about honest efforts that pay off. I think there's definitely something to be learned from your experience. Thank you for sharing.
My ex and I broke up 2 weeks ago i admit i did some bad things like begging and pleading but i did No contact for 1 week eventually i did reach out and asked if she wanted to hang out play bowling and just have fun forget the old times which she agreed , I said i will take my time and just want to do things slowly and see where it goes in the meantime we should just be friends, i think that was a mature way to respond to it, which she replied that she hanged out today because we said we were going to be friends and as of right now she is not taking me back, which i knew of course i just said ok , Should i go no contact again and really mean it this time or should i reach out from time to time and hang out with her? Or should i just move on? We broke up but it was nothing bad really she also said she still has feelings for me, but yeah we broke up because we would argue over stupid stuff really and she thinks we are incompatible
Mines come off our new mortgage within moves coz I was a gambling addict and smoked weed we just got house last year December give me another chance in Jan fished it in April moving out in June I changed and stopped everything on April when she ended it AV begged told her I love her more than anything send a out 100 texts a day we have a 8 year girl and we're together 15 year the gambling hit me hard last five year or so In relationship I have gone t total off everything now and trying to be a better version of myself AV hit gym we have contact for the kid but she getting her own house next couple of weeks and devastated she tells me it's not about anybody else but to concentrate on her self coz she had a breakdown she has told me to move on but I just can't coz av changed my whole life for her and love her to bits I just hope with the space and stuff she might miss some good parts there must have been some
It sounds like you've made significant changes in your life, and that's commendable. It's clear you care deeply about your ex and your family. Right now, it's important to give her the space she needs to focus on herself. Keep focusing on your personal growth and continue being there for your daughter. In time, she may recognize the positive changes you've made. Take things day by day and prioritize your own well-being through this challenging period.
Once it's done do not go back. It's incompatible for a reason. If they couldn't communicate well during the relationship you 'will not' convince them to improve otherwise. They would have improved themselves 'during' the relationship. If it caused separation because they didn't want to wake up then, -then it is not a good fit. You want a partner who will improve the situation 'before' letting it fall apart, not someone who doesn't care if it falls apart (and refuses to be better). Life is too short. Find the right fit. Get rid of the ones who are not.
My ex and me separated almost 9months and he blocked me because I made complained on him we have child together he left home he just reply on emails blames me and only child matter and he keeps saying go legal what to do? We are married but separated now
That is a coward's way of saying...i am sooooo over you.....unless they want you to beg because they feel wronged in some way. In the first case...run. in the second, if you did indeed wrong them, well.....then perhaps fight for it.
My ex and I lived together for 10 years , he broke up with me and it was a very bad slipt. After 10 years apart, I reached out, and we got together we made peace with each other. We have keep talk , tx and gone on a few dates , we are friends. I was straight up with him and told him I still love him and he said his feelings are not there bc he is scared of getting hurt. Why doesn't he just leave me alone then.
So I'm confused, if the ex tells me I'm gonna find someone better than her, and that I'm a great guy, what's going on? It's kinda discouraging? Also do you have any videos about long distance relationships? I can't seem to find anything on that
That’s exactly what my ex told me. They just say that to make it easy for them and for you to accept the break up. And they already moved on just don’t want to hurt you
@akeemhudson9769 , there are no shortcut for that. You have to show consistency and patience. continue to build a solid connection with her. Moving to the next phase should be a natural process and something that we don't force to happen. We talk more about that inside the Ex Solution program as well. :-)
My ex told me a while ago it’s not about the material things but the guy she’s dating is doing all the material things and she likes it. I’m just so confused either she’s interested or not, we aren’t talking, she’s unfollowed me but recently followed my business page and is watching the stories. But she’s been picketing me as the bad guy in this when she decided to leave doubting wither I was going to ask her to marry me or just saying it to get her back
Mine doesn’t reach out that much but does strange things when I initiate. She once replied to something that needed no reply at 430am. That seemed odd I was on her mind 5 days after I sent it and at 430am!
I was in 40 days NCT. Then I texted her for the advice and she texted back shortly right away. The next day when my friend invited her out for a day trip and she said she doesn’t wanna be friend with me while she’s been stocking my social media :)
My ex break up with me he move all his clothes but he still have my key still have some stuff. But he move in with a another woman we only tlak whem his mail come at the house he will call me and asked me
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Thanks for this vid Clay, I was feeling totally hopeless cus we haven’t talked in a couple months... but she really just needed space and I haven’t seen any of these red flags you’ve mentioned, there might still be a chanve
Question. Me and bf is facing some issues in our relatioship. He got so stress and leads on to cheat on me. I let him go for almost a month now but we stil contact ro eaxh other and see each other once ina while. But it makes me confused as he givinf me mix signals like he wants me but i he still seeing someone else. He wangs to fix things but he told me lets take one day at a time he wants slow pace. I wanna know if we still hsve a chane to get baxk together. I do love him so much pls help
We were trying again slowly for a couple months. We both still work full time and times are stressful. He started pulling away beginning of the month. I confronted him to talk and he said he feels indifferent there's only a prick. He wouldn't really care if I date someone else. My mind is just blank. What can you even say or do
My ex made me think everything was good between us . She even posted on Facebook that she "finally found her soul mate", was "glad we finally saw things eye to eye" and that she was "finally found the man she couldn't live without " but 3 days later she sent me a text saying she wasn't coming home if I was going to be there and 4 days after that she was in another relationship. I reacted poorly, I'll admit , but I was hurt, mad, and frustrated . It's no excuse but it's the truth . I've apologized but she has just been really mean . She and her new man have both told me I should just go kill myself . What should I do ?
So what does it meen when they dont talk to you at all, but will not come pick up there things, and will not remove my name from his relationship status on face book? Soo confused.
Hi Barbara, there are two situations that we have to deal separately. First, not talking to you may indicate his level of reactance for now. When it comes to not removing your name on the relationship status in social media, it's something that we really cannot fully read into.
My ex hasn't blocked me and sees all my stories and staff but i try to talk to her after some no contact time and she replies but she is not reaching out to me. Thats how she always has been even when we were together and thats one of the reasons we broke up that she wasn't actually trying to reach to me ever either via texting calling or to go out on a date. It is hard for me because i do love her but i can't figure out if she's still mad at me or even if i would like try the relationship again. She is very hard to read because at one hand she doesn't show any interest but thats how she was at the beginning on the other hand i dont know what to do shall i keep texting her untill she becomes more relaxed with me and the heat of the break up fades away or shall i leave her do something if she does but i am pretty sure she waits for me thats how she is.
Hey bud, if she’s never the one contacting you, it might be best to wait until she contacts you to respond. Unless she seems to start being interested in you or something, things obviously aren’t working.
What if you sleep with your ex... 7 months after the break up.. Even though you did everything wrong? And she said y’all will never get back together. I don’t want to think the wrong way..
Lucky you I wish my ex wanted to sleep with me, lol she probably means it tho, she just frisky, if I was you I wouldn’t ask her too many questions at least ur doing one thing right!! Good luck
mine contacted me at 28 days no contact. I was the rebound. she went back to her ex. I would occasionally talk to her. then she sent me a msg hey I know ur in construction do u want me to ask my dad if he would have a job? I wanted to say no I still care about u. nope I responded sure. felt some kind of disconnect. been 2 weeks nothing. definitely felt like a test
Hi Karen, since we really don't know the overall situation, it can be a challenge to fully assess what happened. But based on the few information that you have said, it sounds like there's still so much negative tension and emotions that are present between you and your ex that needs to settle down.
My Ex left me and then her sister has been screwing me for the past 2 years, and now my ex reaching out....WTF do I do now Clay, do a video on that PLEASE!
My ex texts me all the time it's just that he replies really late but he told me his not looking for any girl he just wants to build his life. .. should I continue talking to him or just cut him off cause this is the 3rd time he tried being friends with me
Hey there, it's normal for people who are not in a relationship not to get an immediate response. Would you like to learn more on how to improve your connection with him?
I’d cut him off especially if he was the type to text you frequently. My ex was busy with work and always made time for me. My ex very much like yours kept pushing for friendship…. They do this because they want to have you as an option just in case the next girl isn’t what they thought she would be. I’d advise you to pull away from him.
Ok clay my exes rebound couldn't handle the fact my ex is pregnant with my child but my ex still ain't wanting to try again whats your best advice here
what if she blocked me everywhere but still follows my sister on social media and likes her photos? Its been 6 weeks since the breakup. Was a pretty ugly one
Can anybody tell me was your ex just looks at you does it say anything and he's talking to somebody else and looking right at me he is laughing act like he's happy can somebody give me feedback what I'm trying to say I know he misses me he's never going to tell me
if someone forced somebody to block a person in social media, it may speak more of their behavior and level of security in the relationship. Though we really cannot fully tell exactly what motivated your ex's rebound to force him to do such action.
He is the one who is being weird.. I was the one who blocked his friends and asked him to stop contacting me... Texting or calling bxz he hurt me so bad . 2 months in and he is back and wants to be friends.. I asked him point blank why he is back . It didn't even take him a week to get back with his ex. The ex we fought over during the whole relationship. Ok we were close and i was innocent when he met me so he had that over me..I didn't know anything else so we would break up and then get back together. He told me he is not in a relationship..but asking a girl out .I didn't even ask that much. I am entertaining two guys at the moment.. Nothing serious and I told him and then he seemed to get distant...Then I asked him to call me last night and he did.. Today we chatted and I asked him he misses me ..He said no, but he wishes to see me and to have long conversations with me.Then he went offline..I'm just confused.. I told him yesterday that I really want to be friends with him, that I was in love with him . I'm confused about what he wants...
1. They start withdrawing from your life
2. They'll date in a non-rebound way
3. They'll block you
4. They'll actively discourage you from making things work
When your ex breaks up with you, that's them already withdrawing from your life.
This is just a friendly reminder to people that sometimes it might just be better to move on instead of holding out hope . My ex moved in with his new girlfriend after only a few months something he never did with me after knowing me for years . And he says that he is very happy and that I don’t listen and that we can’t see each other or talk .. best to just move on when someone ditches you
Thanks for sharing your story, Marcela. We understand that it took a lot of courage and commitment to make that decision. How are you doing nowadays?
@@ClayAndrews not so good
Dang sorry, ur just at the beginning of the journey! I’ll tell ya what helps me some, calisthenics!! They have beginners calisthenics program on TH-cam
Totally helps me sleep, don’t feel all crybaby, I’m depressed as hell, but I’m not hurting my self with booze or whatever, hey try it ,it’s free and you can stop, also I’ve been getting some eye balling from the opposite sex so it helps there to, good luck girl !!
In your case yes, but 8 billion people on earth is equal to 16 billion different outcomes, yours is 1 and I am deeply sorry, I'm an emotional man and even not knowing you, I won't neglect your emotions towards your situation. Keep your head up, but even though he's happy now, trust me, from a guys point, he COULD'VE been too controlling and picky Inside, don't let it discourage how he feels about you. I've been in a similar situation and trust me, it's not that easy. He may be doing these things to show you he can be a man instead of blaming you or making you feel like you're the problem
He's insecure. Just let him be "happy" for now. I GUARANTEE you if he even has sex, right when he orgasms, he'll feel so uninterested in her. That could be a possibility because it's unrealistic unless he'd already broken up with you mentally years or a year prior. Don't be scared, just distract yourself. Watch Greys if you want some hope. Watch how no matter what derrick.and meredith always end up back with each other. You may feel more confident in yourself after no matter what happens.
How are you feeling now? im in your postion rignt now and find it difficult to cope maybe u can offer some advice
I went 50 days before reaching out to my ex. I was friendly and amicable, she responded right away, but was very quick to tell me she had no interest in being romantic with me again. She offered to be friends and I told her no, I have no interest in that. She got mad and blocked me.
Never settle, know your worth and don't waste your time pining for something that's dead.
That was a mistake, why did you reach out to your ex ? never break no contact
Got tired of wondering if my time was being wasted. It's helped me move on
@@DRaven-of2lv The moment someone breaks up with you, your goal is to go no contact and move on. Dont wait for them. Heal, improve, date other people. If they come around , now you have the power, if they dont they dont. You are not waiting for anyone. The reason why peope get thier ex back using no contact is because it is a display of strength, that you like them, they know you like them but you are still not reaching out to them. It increases respect towards you, and sends a signal of strength that yes you liked them but you dont need them. If u break no contact after 2 3 months, now you are showing weakness, and confirming to them, you gave in and contacted. That feeds their ego and now they dont want you. Actions must have consequences, they broke up, you disappear from their life forever. If they want you, they must come to you.
Why contact her in the first place?
@@bitemebudha8571 I was weak.
My ex did everyone of those but then F%^Ked me in the back of my car to ghost me to go to reconcile to ghost me again... thats tough topic.
Same
Ok, it is clear now that he’s not interested at all. Thank you, Clay❤️
Hang in there love
same 😔
live your best life with or without him, its hard to swallow but life has to go on and new people can be just around the corner, im having to meet new people after 12 years with someone
shite but im exited about the possible relations that are out there
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When we know that they're not interested anymore, we still watch these videos. 😅
He's moved on. It is what it is.
Well I clicked on the video really worried about what I was going to hear. But he doesn't do any of these not even close, and it gives me hope. We are nowhere near close to getting back together (moving through riding the dragon phase, he's still hurt but loves me) but our interactions or going well and we actually shared an intimate nostalgic moment last night so I have hope!
Update?
Clay is on his A game.. he's making video every day! Keep it up!!
Thank you. :-) We truly appreciate your support.
@@ClayAndrews what if my ex bf doesn’t block me on all platforms but he is ignoring my texts when I reconnected after NC. The texts are not related to relationship but asking for some work advice that he is good at? He left them unread?
I would lOVE to get back with my Ex because I LOVE HIM TRULY!
My ex and I have been talking on a regular basis since January. She does discourage me from believing that we’re dating or in a relationship again. But, she says it’s because she’s afraid of getting hurt and afraid that it will cause her to hurt me unintentionally. I’d say it’s a pretty good sign. Either way, just focusing on having good conversations, and not pushing for anything that might suggest that we’re back in a relationship again.
Focusing on connection would let connection grow organically. it will allow you to prove the authenticity and consistency of the change that you have made as well. :-)
No it’s not a good sign she is is just letting you dawn gently - hope you will get the hint .
@@ivy3839 Actually, 7 months later and we are back together. So, as it turns out, it was a good sign. We just needed to build a solid foundation of friendship before committing. We’ve both been in bad relationships and needed to make sure we were right for each other. And yes we are! Way happier than the first time around!
@@bryanfuchs1512 I am truly happy for you . Well deserved .
@@bryanfuchs1512 Really happy to read that. Always happy to read about honest efforts that pay off. I think there's definitely something to be learned from your experience. Thank you for sharing.
Your energy is soothing. I appreciate the education, it probably positively affects a lot of us. Thank you for the thoughtfulness👌🏻✨
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I have no intention of getting them back. I am happy that they have moved on.
Then why are you here? 😅
Me and my ex boyfriend are still good friends. But still bring up good we had in relationship.
So try stay with normal n connection chat .
My ex and I broke up 2 weeks ago i admit i did some bad things like begging and pleading but i did No contact for 1 week eventually i did reach out and asked if she wanted to hang out play bowling and just have fun forget the old times which she agreed , I said i will take my time and just want to do things slowly and see where it goes in the meantime we should just be friends, i think that was a mature way to respond to it, which she replied that she hanged out today because we said we were going to be friends and as of right now she is not taking me back, which i knew of course i just said ok , Should i go no contact again and really mean it this time or should i reach out from time to time and hang out with her?
Or should i just move on? We broke up but it was nothing bad really she also said she still has feelings for me, but yeah we broke up because we would argue over stupid stuff really and she thinks we are incompatible
Mines come off our new mortgage within moves coz I was a gambling addict and smoked weed we just got house last year December give me another chance in Jan fished it in April moving out in June I changed and stopped everything on April when she ended it AV begged told her I love her more than anything send a out 100 texts a day we have a 8 year girl and we're together 15 year the gambling hit me hard last five year or so In relationship I have gone t total off everything now and trying to be a better version of myself AV hit gym we have contact for the kid but she getting her own house next couple of weeks and devastated she tells me it's not about anybody else but to concentrate on her self coz she had a breakdown she has told me to move on but I just can't coz av changed my whole life for her and love her to bits I just hope with the space and stuff she might miss some good parts there must have been some
It sounds like you've made significant changes in your life, and that's commendable. It's clear you care deeply about your ex and your family. Right now, it's important to give her the space she needs to focus on herself. Keep focusing on your personal growth and continue being there for your daughter. In time, she may recognize the positive changes you've made. Take things day by day and prioritize your own well-being through this challenging period.
Once it's done do not go back. It's incompatible for a reason. If they couldn't communicate well during the relationship you 'will not' convince them to improve otherwise. They would have improved themselves 'during' the relationship. If it caused separation because they didn't want to wake up then, -then it is not a good fit. You want a partner who will improve the situation 'before' letting it fall apart, not someone who doesn't care if it falls apart (and refuses to be better). Life is too short. Find the right fit. Get rid of the ones who are not.
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Terrible advice to box every single case in aa if they were all the same. Stick to your situation and don't try to generalize.
My ex and me separated almost 9months and he blocked me because I made complained on him we have child together he left home he just reply on emails blames me and only child matter and he keeps saying go legal what to do? We are married but separated now
I want my ex to move on as I want him to get over me sooner rather the later xx
Did he move on ?
Can you make a video on when the dumper states they ‘want to do no contact it’ll be better for us’ ?
In other words it will help you both move on
That is a coward's way of saying...i am sooooo over you.....unless they want you to beg because they feel wronged in some way. In the first case...run. in the second, if you did indeed wrong them, well.....then perhaps fight for it.
I'm not interested in any exes. So, I find this very odd to have shown up in my TH-cam homepage.
What does it mean by we try to make things work out but its impossible n I don't see a future with u does it mean they r leaving n nvr coming bk?
My ex and I lived together for 10 years , he broke up with me and it was a very bad slipt. After 10 years apart, I reached out, and we got together we made peace with each other. We have keep talk , tx and gone on a few dates , we are friends. I was straight up with him and told him I still love him and he said his feelings are not there bc he is scared of getting hurt. Why doesn't he just leave me alone then.
Because he’s not gonna play games with you Sandy that’s why. Sounds to me like you’re using him as a safety net.
Lol I’ve been waiting for my ex to give back my stuff for a month and a half and asked a few times now says she will mail it to me, still waiting .
So I'm confused, if the ex tells me I'm gonna find someone better than her, and that I'm a great guy, what's going on? It's kinda discouraging?
Also do you have any videos about long distance relationships? I can't seem to find anything on that
That’s exactly what my ex told me. They just say that to make it easy for them and for you to accept the break up. And they already moved on just don’t want to hurt you
What I was doing to get her to the crisis point was working so I am back to that
@akeemhudson9769 , there are no shortcut for that. You have to show consistency and patience. continue to build a solid connection with her. Moving to the next phase should be a natural process and something that we don't force to happen. We talk more about that inside the Ex Solution program as well. :-)
My ex told me a while ago it’s not about the material things but the guy she’s dating is doing all the material things and she likes it. I’m just so confused either she’s interested or not, we aren’t talking, she’s unfollowed me but recently followed my business page and is watching the stories. But she’s been picketing me as the bad guy in this when she decided to leave doubting wither I was going to ask her to marry me or just saying it to get her back
Mine doesn’t reach out that much but does strange things when I initiate. She once replied to something that needed no reply at 430am. That seemed odd I was on her mind 5 days after I sent it and at 430am!
I was in 40 days NCT. Then I texted her for the advice and she texted back shortly right away. The next day when my friend invited her out for a day trip and she said she doesn’t wanna be friend with me while she’s been stocking my social media :)
Sounds like your ex may be at the Test Drive Phase.
There is a difference between soft and hard block.
Hi Clay
My ex break up with me he move all his clothes but he still have my key still have some stuff. But he move in with a another woman we only tlak whem his mail come at the house he will call me and asked me
My ex contacted me after 3 years…. Initially talking was going smoothly but from 2-3 days his messages have lessened…. What might be the reason?
Not interested and keep texting you, what hell is that
I also want to know If me being. Told that I need mental help is part of the withdrawal process
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Thanks for this vid Clay, I was feeling totally hopeless cus we haven’t talked in a couple months... but she really just needed space and I haven’t seen any of these red flags you’ve mentioned, there might still be a chanve
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What if ya ex blocks you on everything is in another relationship but contact you on TextFree and fake accounts
I've always believed that a more blocks you is very childish they're just a coward not worried to talk about the problem
Question. Me and bf is facing some issues in our relatioship. He got so stress and leads on to cheat on me. I let him go for almost a month now but we stil contact ro eaxh other and see each other once ina while. But it makes me confused as he givinf me mix signals like he wants me but i he still seeing someone else. He wangs to fix things but he told me lets take one day at a time he wants slow pace. I wanna know if we still hsve a chane to get baxk together. I do love him so much pls help
We were trying again slowly for a couple months. We both still work full time and times are stressful. He started pulling away beginning of the month. I confronted him to talk and he said he feels indifferent there's only a prick. He wouldn't really care if I date someone else. My mind is just blank. What can you even say or do
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My ex made me think everything was good between us . She even posted on Facebook that she "finally found her soul mate", was "glad we finally saw things eye to eye" and that she was "finally found the man she couldn't live without " but 3 days later she sent me a text saying she wasn't coming home if I was going to be there and 4 days after that she was in another relationship. I reacted poorly, I'll admit , but I was hurt, mad, and frustrated . It's no excuse but it's the truth . I've apologized but she has just been really mean . She and her new man have both told me I should just go kill myself . What should I do ?
Keep on living, man, is hard. You will get past this bump. Day by day. It is what it is.
You might be better off with out her.
So what does it meen when they dont talk to you at all, but will not come pick up there things, and will not remove my name from his relationship status on face book? Soo confused.
Hi Barbara, there are two situations that we have to deal separately. First, not talking to you may indicate his level of reactance for now. When it comes to not removing your name on the relationship status in social media, it's something that we really cannot fully read into.
@@ClayAndrews so do I just give it more time?
My ex hasn't blocked me and sees all my stories and staff but i try to talk to her after some no contact time and she replies but she is not reaching out to me. Thats how she always has been even when we were together and thats one of the reasons we broke up that she wasn't actually trying to reach to me ever either via texting calling or to go out on a date. It is hard for me because i do love her but i can't figure out if she's still mad at me or even if i would like try the relationship again. She is very hard to read because at one hand she doesn't show any interest but thats how she was at the beginning on the other hand i dont know what to do shall i keep texting her untill she becomes more relaxed with me and the heat of the break up fades away or shall i leave her do something if she does but i am pretty sure she waits for me thats how she is.
Hey bud, if she’s never the one contacting you, it might be best to wait until she contacts you to respond. Unless she seems to start being interested in you or something, things obviously aren’t working.
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What if you sleep with your ex... 7 months after the break up.. Even though you did everything wrong? And she said y’all will never get back together. I don’t want to think the wrong way..
Lucky you I wish my ex wanted to sleep with me, lol she probably means it tho, she just frisky, if I was you I wouldn’t ask her too many questions at least ur doing one thing right!! Good luck
@@fleadoggreen9062 I’m not asking anything lol.. I just going to keep beating that thing up.. But I’m starting to see she getting in her feelings..
Split with my ex 18 months ago. Last year we slept together 15 times never had sex. we still chat but never got back together
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In this situation rn what was your update
8:50 whats the difference between the second and two dynamics?
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mine contacted me at 28 days no contact. I was the rebound. she went back to her ex. I would occasionally talk to her. then she sent me a msg hey I know ur in construction do u want me to ask my dad if he would have a job? I wanted to say no I still care about u. nope I responded sure. felt some kind of disconnect. been 2 weeks nothing. definitely felt like a test
she still looks at all my fb stories
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Hi Karen, since we really don't know the overall situation, it can be a challenge to fully assess what happened. But based on the few information that you have said, it sounds like there's still so much negative tension and emotions that are present between you and your ex that needs to settle down.
My Ex left me and then her sister has been screwing me for the past 2 years, and now my ex reaching out....WTF do I do now Clay, do a video on that PLEASE!
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Clay dude is there anyway I can contact? maybe you can help me. I am struggling with my ex
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My ex texts me all the time it's just that he replies really late but he told me his not looking for any girl he just wants to build his life. .. should I continue talking to him or just cut him off cause this is the 3rd time he tried being friends with me
Hey there, it's normal for people who are not in a relationship not to get an immediate response. Would you like to learn more on how to improve your connection with him?
I’d cut him off especially if he was the type to text you frequently. My ex was busy with work and always made time for me. My ex very much like yours kept pushing for friendship…. They do this because they want to have you as an option just in case the next girl isn’t what they thought she would be.
I’d advise you to pull away from him.
@@MB-xv7er thank you so much im finally over him and in a healthy relationship currently i wish the same for u too 🥰
Ok clay my exes rebound couldn't handle the fact my ex is pregnant with my child but my ex still ain't wanting to try again whats your best advice here
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Can a ex unfollow you, but let you keep following them on social media to get over you?
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Can someone explain the difference between the two things he's saying about the crisis?
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what if she blocked me everywhere but still follows my sister on social media and likes her photos? Its been 6 weeks since the breakup. Was a pretty ugly one
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@@guillermosanchez6284 i did
Can anybody tell me was your ex just looks at you does it say anything and he's talking to somebody else and looking right at me he is laughing act like he's happy can somebody give me feedback what I'm trying to say I know he misses me he's never going to tell me
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but what it means if the rebound forced my ex to block me?
if someone forced somebody to block a person in social media, it may speak more of their behavior and level of security in the relationship. Though we really cannot fully tell exactly what motivated your ex's rebound to force him to do such action.
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He is the one who is being weird.. I was the one who blocked his friends and asked him to stop contacting me... Texting or calling bxz he hurt me so bad . 2 months in and he is back and wants to be friends.. I asked him point blank why he is back . It didn't even take him a week to get back with his ex. The ex we fought over during the whole relationship. Ok we were close and i was innocent when he met me so he had that over me..I didn't know anything else so we would break up and then get back together. He told me he is not in a relationship..but asking a girl out .I didn't even ask that much. I am entertaining two guys at the moment.. Nothing serious and I told him and then he seemed to get distant...Then I asked him to call me last night and he did.. Today we chatted and I asked him he misses me ..He said no, but he wishes to see me and to have long conversations with me.Then he went offline..I'm just confused.. I told him yesterday that I really want to be friends with him, that I was in love with him . I'm confused about what he wants...
you never said what to do if they are do that to us you only explaining what there feelings are
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