Divorce+remarriage+first spouse alive=adultery
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 ก.ย. 2024
- This is a serious problem today as many people have been divorced, remarried, their first spouse is still alive, and they are in adultery according to the Bible. The Bible says no adulterer will go to heaven in 1 Cor. 6:9, so it is imperative that people guilty of this transgression repent, so that they can be right with God. I ask that you listen to all Scripture given in the video.
People just don't want to hear the truth. I've been divorced 6 years now and after praying 6 years about it God gave me an answer in April 2020. If I remarry while my husband is alive (which he is) it's adultery. And this is SCRIPTURE.
You are right sister. Those that love Truth will make it to Heaven. I will pray God restores your marriage, stay in the fight, it is just about home time for the church, Jesus is coming soon!
Wow! Be strong in the Lord my sister.
who cares what others think, or do.....we have to make the right choice, and as a consequence to be a encouragement for others to follow...
@@nationsevangelismministries please help me. My husband was married as a 17 year old to his girlfriend while.in prison but he said it was never consumated. She slept with his brother and a friend. He said he married another girl later but didn't want to really and then later we got together lived nine years together had children then got saved then wanted to be married to be not fornicating. Then married then a year later he commits adultery and.here.i am wondering if we were ever supposed to be married in the first place but now I'm married to him and can't find anything allowing remarriage when.he is alive so I'm trying to reconciliate with him but his two exes are alive. Now what??
@@cloverbird5785 Hi, well to obey God's Word you would have to leave the adulterous union. I will be praying for you.
This is why everybody needs to get saved, born again and Christian before marriage. So that you can see the path for you. Marriages are supposed to be forever. Being widowed is the biggest excuse for remarriages. Otherwise the only other way is one spouse being unfaithful before marriage.
......so what your revised bibles nd pulpit pimps are teaching you, in these apostate churches...is...
..... you've got to be good while you're dating. No Hanky Panky with others.
But, by golly, AFTER you marry let the whoredom begin....right?
I recommend you get back to the one true KJV Bible and start studying it.
Man of God,my husband longs for a divorce and for the last two years I have been standing for restoration of my marriage. My husband and I are not legally separated but my husband has expressed how he has felt and his heart has become hardened towards me. Please pray for peace for me and direction at this time of my life and for my husband to hear God and obey God. Thank you.
I will pray for you dear sister. You are not alone in this trial, stay strong in the Lord, be faithful to Him, and love Christ with all your heart, and He will carry you by His power. I will believe with you that God will soften your husband's heart, and restore your marriage.
Sister I will pray for you. Be strong in the LORD's strength.🙏🏽
But how a divorce can happen if the couple isn't yet married? Coz u said only in the case of fornication but not of adultery can one remarry??
@@chayingonzaga6964 the Hebrew people had a betrothal system that was as legally binding them as husband and wife prior to living together/consummating the marriage. The best example in scripture is Mary and Joseph. Joseph thought Mary had committed fornication because they were still betrothed when Jesus was conceived. Hoped that helped❤
Proper premarital counselling is a key to helping people understand the sanctity of marriage.
Too many persons see marriage as a flippant game that they can run into and run out of, as they please.
God has standards!
i would call myself someone who stands for marriage , BUT , theres something that s "marriage standars" claim that i believe is highly questionable .... and it is said in this video aswell , that when people say they got divorced as an unbeliever that God still recognises that marriage , when there are definit specific scenarios that tells us that the marriage covenant could be disolved in the OT and a new marriage entered into LEGALLY before God ..... in Exodus 21 we see that neglect of food , clothing and intimacy was grounds for divorce , just like in deuteronomy 24 sexual immorality and hating the person are grounds for divorce , and they could legally remarry ....
Marriage standers claim that "the marriage covenant cant be broken" , and "God sees marriage as permanent" , but this is simply wishful thinking , cus its clear when you study these verses that allowed the marriage covnenant to be broken AND remarriage to take place , God even allowed polygamy which is also just glorified adultery for a christian .....
So this is one thing that makes me loose respect for the beliefs of marriage standers , cus im here to follow the bible , not various man made doctrines .....
It sounds nice and all that God never allows a release from the union , but that simply isnt biblical , He allowed both a release AND remarriage AND polygamy .... and the jews are under the law of Moses , and the heathens are under the law of concience which is the same moral laws as the law of Moses but without the serimonial stuff and priesthood and so on....¨
But its "dont kill , dont cheat , dont lie , dont steal , dont eat unclean animals" ... ppl know this cus they have it written on their hearts , they you shouldnt kill or eat seaguls or owls and so on , dont have to tell them... but at the same time we see that humans are sinners by nature and some sins become cultural and systemic like pedophilia in certain cultures , beastiality , cannibalism and so on
But yeah.... i wanna be biblical , and its simply nto correct that there is no release from the union for non believers , cus its clear that it is , its not something God liked , but He was overbearing and compassionate and suffered it for hard hearts ....
I used to follow this teaching, but i just cant ,.,... cus it means sticking your head in the sand and be unbiblical
@@a11an72 Actually you are taking an unBiblical stance on this. Do you believe the New Testament? Read Matthew 19 and read what Jesus says. Moses gave them commandments because of the hardness of their hearts, but from the beginning it was not so. Jesus defines what adultery is, and you must take the full counsel of God’s Word to take a Biblical stance.
Does a "covenant relationship" allow more than two to become one flesh? Multiple partners? If it does, the covenant has been broken. Jesus said, "Two shall become one flesh." I see "covenant doctrine" believers leaving their spouses to go back to original spouses, as if this is something "holy." Jesus did not say "Three shall become one flesh." Or "Four." Or "five" (the woman at the well had five). She was eligible to be saved, but NOT by going back to the first guy. The go back to the 1st guy for sloppy seconds crowd are sick and perverted in their doctrine.
Covenant marriage is until death do you part. God does not recognize adulterous unions as marriages. Are you in an adulterous union?
@@nationsevangelismministries No sir. What if you spread FALSE DOCTRINE? What will He say then? You had better study some more. You are free to remarry, in the Lord, if you are the innocent party. However, no man can marry a divorced lady. She must remain single until her first husband dies. The betrayed but innocent husband can thereby marry a single lady or a widow, but only in the Lord. Simple. Learn some Greek. The New Testament was written in Greek. Porneia includes mocheia, but is not limited to just mocheia only. Actually mocheia and porneia are synonyms, but mocheia includes less sins. In no way is porneia limited to single people or betrothals only. Example: The word "pornography" in English (from the root "porneia") includes all immoral sexual sins. ARE YOU SAYING THAT JESUS WOULD SAY THAT YOU COULD DIVORCE YOUR WIFE FOR PREMARITAL SEX OUTSIDE THE MARRAIGE, BUT YOU CANNOT DIVORCE YOUR WIFE FOR SEX OUTSIDE THE MARRAIGE AFTER THE WEDDING DAY? Such an idea is preposterous, and is an insult to the intelligence of Jesus Himself, Who knows all things. DID NOT JESUS HIMSELF SAY THAT "TWO SHALL BE ONE FLESH?" Not three, not four. Not five. "Two shall be one flesh." Do you not understand that if you have sex with a harlot, you are one with the harlot? Paul said that. Immorality is a cause for divorce, and the innocent party (not the guilty) can remarry. JESUS SAID THAT.
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@@BennettJonWayne-xw9vimay I ask what verse did Jesus say the spouse that was cheated on could remarry? Thank you
@@affyrmed6911 Excellent question, sir (or ma'am). The excellent answer to your excellent question is Matthew 19:9. The key phrase is "and marries another," which means "remarries," and the key word is "except," which is the root word of "exception." The general rule is that God does not allow for divorce and remarriage, especially in the way the Jews and Gentiles customarily did in the days of Jesus, for frivolous reasons, such as "irreconcilable differences," etc. So, an ironclad truth of scripture is that two verses, Matthew 19:9 and chapter five, verse 32 provide an "exception" for cases of "immorality" (sexual sin of unlawful penetration) "porneia" Greek for divorce and remarriage as a special exemption (exception), and certainly not as the general rule of law, and Jesus had very good reason to do so. To go against that good reason is to fight against God's law itself, and undermine the authority of God to judge and rule as He pleases as the Almighty God of all creation. "And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery.” Matthew 19:9 NKJV "Porneia" is not just adultery only, but it includes single or married immoral sex. It is a synonym for adultery that would include the betrothal view, as well as adultery under the general word "immorality." It is important to do an overview of the different views which cause the debate over the meaning of the Matthean exception clauses. The popular view
held by the vast majority of contemporary evangelical scholars is described quite often as “the vast majority view (also known as the Erasmian or common Protestant view) which interprets porneia "as a reference to, or at least including adultery," or "at the very least, including adultery as well as premarital sex." Differing views are a small minority view that attempt to change the true meaning of the verses, and constitute "private interpretation," as 2 Peter 1:20-21
New King James Version says:
"knowing this first, that no prophecy of Scripture is of any private interpretation, for prophecy never came by the will of man, but holy men of God spoke as they were moved by the Holy Spirit."
Amen so true
In Aug 2019, after 25 years and three amazing kids, my husband admitted to an affair.
My church leaders told me to divorce my husband. It was finalised Dec 2020. He remarried Nov 2021. His marriage didn’t even reach its first year. She died riddled with cancer Nov 2022.
The three different consultants who were each working on the three different areas the cancer was most affected, lungs, brain and heart. They all said they’ve never seen cancer so quickly spread in their entire career.
God will NOT be mocked.
I have stood firmly for my husband ever since he left. I pray for his salvation in Christ. When that happens - which it will. He will be reconciled to me and our family.
I left that church.
To God be all the glory. 🙏🏼
Finally! Accurate teaching on this subject. Remmarige has become an epidemic in the Church. Wonderful teaching. Thank you brother.
Yes it has!
Divorce is regulation given by God for good.
God doesn’t condemn remarriage for a legitimately divorced man.
@@Jaylilo You are right. Check my videos brother
@@Jaylilo what makes it legitimate...
People are scared of offending people but they are not scared of offending God!! Disturbing!! Well spoken and speaking the truth brother!!!
What if you spread FALSE DOCTRINE? What will He say then? You had better study some more. You are free to remarry, in the Lord, if you are the innocent party. Learn some Greek. The New Testament was written in Greek. Porneia includes mocheia, but is not limited to just mocheia only. Actually mocheia and porneia are synonyms, but mocheia includes less sins. In no way is porneia limited to single people. Example: The word "pornography" in English (from the root "porneia") includes all immoral sexual sins. ARE YOU SAYING THAT JESUS WOULD SAY THAT YOU COULD DIVORCE YOUR WIFE FOR PREMARITAL SEX OUTSIDE THE MARRAIGE, BUT YOU CANNOT DIVORCE YOUR WIFE FOR SEX OUTSIDE THE MARRAIGE AFTER THE WEDDING DAY? Such an idea is preposterous, and is an insult to the intelligence of Jesus Himself, Who knows all things. DID NOT JESUS HIMSELF SAY THAT "TWO SHALL BE ONE FLESH?" Not three, not four. Not five. "Two shall be one flesh." Do you not understand that if you have sex with a harlot, you are one with the harlot? Paul said that. Immorality is a cause for divorce, and the innocent party (not the guilty) can remarry. JESUS SAID THAT.
@@BennettJonWayne-xw9vi if you get divorced you can't ever marry again!! Jesus made this very clear!! If you remarry you are marrying someone else's husband and wife and Jesus calls that Adultery!! The only way the marriage covenant ends is death!! Paul was saying you are free to marry in the Lord if the husband or wife dies within the marriage covenant! God never created divorce man did!!!
its says if they be dead@@BennettJonWayne-xw9vi
Thank you brother for teaching the Word of God. I have come under persecution and pretty much loss friendships over this very serious and relevant Word in the Bible. I still would do it all again if I can get somebody to see that our eternal souls are way more important than pursuing the pleasures of the flesh. Amen.
Thank you sister for your comment. You are right, there is nothing more important than our souls being right with God. May the Lord bless you!
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I too have lost friends and family for telling them what the Bible says about remarriage after divorce that results in committing adultery and these friends and family reject this truth even though they claim to be Christians. The church is full of remarried, divorced Christians who are on their way to hell for committing adultery if they do not repent. It makes me sad. I used to be one of those Christians who was blinded to this truth until the Lord showed it to me through His Word and I am thankful that He did. We must keep telling the truth and hopefully someone will have ears to hear and it will be worth it all. Keep spreading the truth about marriage after divorce while the covenant spouse is still alive = adultery.
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Not only the church is full of remarried divorced christians but there are pastors marries divorced woman.
They claim that they christians who worship in church daily and weekly but they ignored one of Lord Words (Whoever marries her who is divorced he commits adultery, and if a wife is divorced by her husband, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to husband)
They said that God wants them in happy life but they dont think what God wants them to do is to obey all His Words
Me too. Loss of friendship because this truth
Praise God!!!!!!! I just finished praying before finding this video. I was pleading with God to restore my broken marriage because I felt that this very thing is true. I prayed that He restore. My wife left almost 9 years ago and I’ve not been with another. I’ve pleaded for our reconciliation. This revelation came upon me days ago and I looked up this for confirmation. My Lord Jesus I believe. I’m disabled and alone with our 2 children. I know God can do this.
God is able dear brother, keep fighting the good fight of Faith, we are almost home, God bless you bro!
@@nationsevangelismministries Thanks. I am in prayer and standing on my faith. It's been beyond hard to endure being all alone during my disability and raising our kids too. Please keep me in prayer. It's exhausting mentally. Thanks again. Max
Praying for your marriage restoration brother 🙏
What if it is not His will to restore it?
Good luck. Does a "covenant relationship" allow more than two to become one flesh? Multiple partners? If it does, the covenant has been broken. Jesus said, "Two shall become one flesh." I see "covenant doctrine" believers leaving their spouses to go back to original spouses, as if this is something "holy." Jesus did not say "Three shall become one flesh." Or "Four." Or "five" (the woman at the well had five). She was eligible to be saved, but NOT by going back to the first guy. The go back to the 1st guy for sloppy seconds crowd are sick and perverted in their doctrine.
God bless you man, perfectly explained. People need to hear the truth, even if is painful. Better to know the truth and have the chance to be saved, than being lied that you are not wrong living in an adulterous marriage and go to hell.
Thanks, yes I couldn’t have said it any better than you did.
Excellent biblical teaching sir. I have family members who are upset with me because of me speaking against their adulterous marriages. I cant go along with it because then I will become a partaker of their evil deeds. I hate that I dont get to see my nieces and nephews but I will continue to stand on it.
It is very sad that you stand on legalism and not on grace. Satan has come to destroy families. This teaching is great if you are standing on the law. Do this or don't do that and you will be saved. We aren't saved by performing under the law. We are saved by grace through faith. Deut 24 did allow for giving a certificate of divorce. But men were abusing this so Jesus lays down a very hard truth. It wasn't meant to be this way. It is because we have hard hearts. But divorce is not the unforgiveable sin. Repent, be forgiven and live free in Christ. We are no longer bound by the law but under grace. (Rom 8)
I encourage you to really study this as you are falling on the side of condemnation and not on the side of grace. Jesus forgives all sin, including divorce. There is not a single teaching in the Bible that says we are in a state of "perpetual sin" if we are remarried. Does God hate divorce? Yes. Can we repent and be forgiven from divorce? Yes. Does God hold our sins against us? No... So are we free in Christ when we repent from our sin? I'll let you decide the answer to that. I pray that you don't allow false teachings to come between you and your family.
You wrote all of that to tell me to study but I think it is you sir/maam that needs to go back and study this. I'm good with the word telling us that those that partake in those particular sins will not inherit the kingdom of God AND those that have pleasure in them that do those sins.
We must take up our cross and walk. Count up the cost! You may lose friends, family etc for the kingdom of Heaven.
I'm at peace 🙂
@@nurturingnaturals4345 Paul is stating in 1st Corinthians that the wicked are NOT children of God, nor are they heirs of eternal life (Romans 8:17). This does not mean that anybody who has ever committed adultery will be denied entrance to heaven. All repentant sinners will receive eternal life. A true Christian will always repent, will always return to God, and will always fight the sin in their life. With the logic in this video, a married couple from previous marriages can never be right with God. Which then means remarriage is the unforgivable sin...
@@nurturingnaturals4345 Peace to you as you walk Daily In The Law.
Amen and thank you for your faithfulness in preaching the truth - and the difference between fornication and adultery. So many churches do not and are leading so many stray - and I speak sadly as a divorced person but who has remained single in obedience to the sound teaching that I received much later.
Hallelujah!! For fifteen years I have been born again and standing now for my 38 year marriage though 12 years divorced. I have put together a playlist that has 290 videos, and today I am thrilled to find yours to add to it. Pastors have told me over and over that I am wrong and since I believe that we are in the last days looking for the rapture, this is hugely important because the rapture verses in 1 Thessalonians 4 are preceded by the command to be in sexual purity and to not commit adultery with your brother's wife. My channel was started after having my first rapture dream 3.5 years ago, and I believe in the pre-Tribulation rapture. Many churches will believe in the pre-Tribulation rapture, but they don't believe that remarriage is adultery. Your video is an answer to prayer because many women are in this fight, but rarely do we find men to stand up to the persecution that comes along with this John the Baptist mission. Some even put up their videos, and then delete them. Even in the book of Revelation, Jesus gave a strong warning for believers committing adultery inside the church!! The church of Thyatira was told if they didn't repent, the children would be killed. That sure doesn't go over well in churches. I was personally involved with a woman who was able to reconcile with her first husband after 21 years of being divorced! Your video is great, and JESUS IS COMING!!!
Thanks for your encouragement, and you are right many do not want to hear the truth, the most important thing is to be right with God, I will be praying and believing God will restore your marriage, and yes my friend Jesus is coming!
Your comment answered my question on remarriage and I agree with you so many people don't understand how serious this is
@@chemmieee Nice to hear from you. I had awakened this morning praying for Jack Hibbs, a popular Calvary Chapel church pastor who is all about line by line preaching and the imminent rapture of the church, but in late 2019 he said that it did not matter if you were married 50 or 5 times, you should remain in the marriage you are in when you get born again. That isn't repenting from remarriage adultery. Last week I did a video you might want to check out interviewing a believer who repented and lefr a 24 year adulterous marriage. God bless you, and hopefully you can spread the word.
Walking by the Spirit Always interesting! I will check the video out thank you!!and God bless💕
A defiled woman cannot be reconciled to a husband. (Dt. 24.4)
That flesh I tell you. It wants what it wants when it wants it. Living in the spirit is the best. My head shakes when people make all kind of excuses to divorce and remarry while their covenant spouse is still alive. They are all operating from a wounded heart and they could care less what Gods Holy Word says. Death is the only thing that breaks a covenant, that is so easy to understand even a child will get it. I’m praying for all my brothers and sisters around the world who are standing for their wayward spouses. May the Lord restore them and then the marriage restoration will take place because they will turn to God and His love will disolve that pride and that fear of man. HalleluYAH!!!
Been standing for restoration for two years. Please pray that my husbands heart changes and he does not divorce me.
Outstanding comment, God bless you!! 🙏🙏
@@barefeetconcrete may God restore your marriage covenant in Jesus Christ's name, Amen.
This is excellent biblical teaching and a very unpopular message in today's "Christianity".
When you share this truth with fellow Christians, they will get irritated, angry and offended with you. They will start justifying their opinion by twisting Scripture. You will be accused of being "judgmental" or "holier than thou". However, God's word is always the plumbline; people's opinions are irrelevant!
Thanks for the comment, God's Word is the only thing that matters.
The Pharisees hated this truth. Nothing new under the sun.
So true. I get so much hate for speaking truth.
Yes ma'am, Wendy! This exact thing happened to me today. I was told I wasn't being used of God and was 1000 % wrong.
Great teaching sir, my pastor also explained this as well breaking it down scripture upon scripture and I finally have peace of mind and a better understanding of this topic about marriage and divorce. Can you imagine how many men and women have died being married to there second or third husbands or wife’s, scary to know. If God delivered anyone out of this situation, your are blessed and you need to dance and give the one true God of Heaven a big huge Thank You, blessings to all who obey, have a great day.
I've thought the same thing - scary. It really takes "work out your salvation with fear and trembling" to a whole new level!
@@michelleh8015 amen to that!
Very accurate teaching! The way is narrow and "few there be that find it" Thank you Jesus, that we are of the few!
Good n clear teaching! Thank u very much!
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Thank you for teaching the bold truth. I was married in 86 and my wife divorced me for another man in 2019.. I have attended divorce care classes put on by the church, they have there own handbook with very little bible reference and promote divorce remarriage.. I have looked for a loophole to please my flesh in which there are none. I've gone out with other women and felt Gods conviction every time (they did not compare to my wife). I realized God will keep his word to us and expects me to keep my word /vows even if she doesn't.. husbands love your wives like Christ loves the church, ouch, the church killed Christ.. I will love her and pray for her because my 2 choices are remain unmarried or reconciled.. narrow is the path and few who find it.. hell is in the unrepentant adulterers future. Its not Gods will any should perish but all come to repentance.. Godly sorrow brings repentance worldly sorrow brings death.. the wages of sin is death. Thank you pastor and fellow standers stand strong and please pray for my wife..
Hi bro. Doug, thank you for sharing. My heart goes out to you and I understand it is difficult in the narrow way, and I am so glad you want to love the Word, and do not want to go the path of destruction. My brother we are so near the coming of the Lord and the Lord has a crown of righteousness if we pass these tests. I will be praying God will reconcile your marriage and save your wife. Be blessed in the Lord.
I am in a depressed state over this topic right now. My first husband & I married & divorced when we were young. We both remarried him more times than me now I’m 54 & still married to but separated from my second spouse have been for years long story short I finally met someone I really want to b with because of these past marriages I’m pretty distraught… please pray for me.
Amen brother more grace and strength to you.🙏🏽
@@vibe2248 you ask us to pray for you as you have found a new lover after while you are in your second marriage. All I can pray is that you and your first husband can reconcile or that God grants you peace and joy as you honour him by remaining single untill your first spouse dies. NO remarriage is worth hell fire 🔥
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Im struggling with this because im in a second marriage...i didn't know the scripture like i know now ..i did not realize my getting married was sinful...i know what i need to do now but i got to be honest its not going to be easy...i just hope im making the right move when i tell my wife we have to dissolve this marriage...i hope im doing Gods will ...she will be devastated...she will not understand...pray for me please...🙏✝️...may Gods will be done in my life ..
Nowhere in scripture does it say we are allowed to divorce a second marriage. Please do not do this thing. God did recognize second marriages as legitimate in the OT and nothing says otherwise in the NT.
@@NeedfulTruth the nature of marriage has not changed since the OT and remarriage was clearly allowed. I agree that unto death was the original intention of God and is the nature of the vow however the vow often gets broken by one or both parties. Then what? God’s nature is to restore and give life abundantly. Nowhere is it written that a divorced person cannot remarry. Given all the craziness in the early church I’m sure Paul would have addressed this directly if it were really as absolute as you say.
Furthermore the OT explicitly forbids remarriage to a former spouse after marrying someone else so if you want to go by the letter of the law you need to repent for instructing people to violate God’s commands.
It's til death do you part. Ephesians 5:25. If we are to give our lives to our wives as Christ did, then forgiveness and reconciliations is nothing.
I just wanted to thank you again for this powerful powerful teaching there’s so much warfare over this right now when trying to work with people already in the church to deliver them this message is so important thank you for making this teaching it helps me to stay delivered so that I can help to deliver others in these last days before he comes
The bible says in the old testament that you can not come together with your former husband if you have been married to an other man. It's mentioned as an abomination to the Lord.
There is so much to concider. Once I asked the Holy spirit he says wisdom. I am remarried and I have the holy spirit. And he does not ask me to leave him. Really I have been praying about
it several times. God is a God of order. There will be two broken people if me and my ex would have closed our marriages. I also heard a bible verse audible a year ago. Phillippians 3: 13-14
God bless you.
Hallelujah I am glad you are speaking the truth that many people are ignoring.That remarriage is a Hollywood thing not of God!
We are called to be faithful to our wayward or unbelieving spouses no matter the situation. Just as Christ is faithful to us, He's been patient, forgiving, forbearing and long-suffering towards us. Even when some of us may backslide and go astray, He's still waiting on us with open arms to return. This is what marriage is really about! It's Christ and His Church. He promised that He will never leave nor forsake us no matter what but imagine if He did? Imagine if he discarded us once we messed up and strayed from Him?? That is not Jesus. Stay true to your covenant. One man+one woman=ONE FLESH for life, only death dissolves the marriage covenant.
We are with you and agree 100% brother. I was absolutely convicted of this and settled it once and for all. Thank God, I myself am in a monogamous relationship and married a virgin and we had no fornication before marriage. Plymouth Brethren (our background) actually agree with divorce and remarriage adultery. They are very conservative on everything else! Unfortunately, this issue was big enough for us to leave and distance ourselves while maintaining our stance. I did many video series teaching on this issue at my channel. I am so glad mainstream pastors like John Piper (sort of) and David Pawson are on our side. We are not to create factions, but this issue is off the scales dead serious. A divorced woman, married in our assembly and that was it for us! The modern day church cannot be involved with re-engineering the family and redefining it. My family and obedience to the Lord come first.
Thanks for your comment, and yes this is a truth that people need to hear to be right with God. May the Lord bless you!
@@hesedken well he did help to spike the football so to speak but talking about it, and exposing the exemption clause errors....
Hey my brother. Jesus is coming. People need to repent. God just recently got me onto the divorce and remarriage adultery fight. God bless, you’re amazing. Stay strong for Jesus.
I really needed this, Thank you for standing up for truth in these last days
Thank you for speaking and sharing the TRUTH! I’ve been standing for my marriage and praying for restoration for over 2 years
Hi Danielle, I am praying and believing God with you! May the Lord bless you!
Nations Evangelism Ministries oh thank you so much for your prayers. I’m very grateful 🙏
Hi Danielle. I will pray with you for restoration of your marriage. I am also a stander for a year and a half as my wife divorced me and says she's "moving on". Would appreciate your prayers also
@@philarevolutionarywarriorp8295 keep standing strong, praying with you!
PhilaRevolutionaryWarrior PA I’m very sorry to hear that you’re experiencing this pain. Thank you for your prayers. I will definitely pray for you and your wife. Don’t lose hope! I know of many marriages that have been restored even after divorce. 🙏
Amen brother, one does not need a theological degree to know that. A child can understand that. It's a lot of theologians who are teaching more into it than scripture has said. Thanks brother you not alone on you tube
Perfect explanation with connecting different verses so we can understand adultery. Especially when you pointed out the verse saying that marriage is honorable in all. That really cut the cake!
Amen! I have heard people even read Hebrews 13:4 and just go right on by, but they are all about the rapture. I am all about the rapture too, and I want to stay ready and watching in sexual purity like 1 Thessalonians 4 says. Maranatha.
The words of the Bible are NOT gender neutral, not in the Old or New Testament. There are differences for men and women about many things including divorce and remarriage.
Everyone here needs to stop their version of lies. Liars do not inherit the kingdom of God
@@jesusislord3604 You sound silly. Carry on in Jesus name!
@@Heavenly.Minded the words of the Bible are not silly
And should not be gender neutered
@@jesusislord3604 I never said that. Your interpretation of divorce and remarriage is silly. You are rebuking us because we agree with what the word says. The Bible points out things for each gender specifically, i agree on that but it also points out things that apply to both genders. When it comes to divorce, marriage, and remarriage God is talking to both genders. If I’m misunderstanding what you’re trying to say then lmk so i can understand.
Thank you for this message. My story is a very long one but to make this short, I have realized after almost 40 years that my first marriage was my covenant spouse (we were both very young). He has never remarried but has moved on and we don't speak. Can God restore something that happened so long ago?
Absolutely God can restore. Keep praying God will put this restoration on his heart, and try to reach out to him to talk. I will be praying for you.
Is there anything too hard for God? With Him all things are possible.
please, kindly, if you can think, then answer a question: if divorce doesn't end the marriage, what was purpose of the divorcement given by God, I mean the purpose, not the reason, what was the purposeof it?
@@RedPillOfTheBible Jesus said Moses gave a writing of divorcement because of their hardened hearts. But from the BEGINNING it was NOT so.
@@no1specialtoyou789 This is reason(and misterpretd), not the purpose. If you could answer about the purpose would be cool.
I’ve sensed this. I believe that I am committing adultery especially anytime sex is involved. I feel wrong in my heart. I want to be right before God! I want Jesus to have everything I am and own. I will eliminate every evil that is in my life for the sake of Jesus!!!
There is nothing more important than being right with God. Jesus is coming soon...be ready my friend!
I don't understand why there is so much controversy over if remarriage after a divorce is permitted. Holy Scripture is quite clear on the matter. If you are divorced (regardless of the reason) and your first spouse is still living you may not be remarried. If a divorced person remarries or you marry a divorced person it is adultery. Yet I know numerous people who are remarried to a divorced person or they are divorced and married to another spouse.
You're dead wrong. See Deut 24:1-4, Matt 5:17-18, and Luke 16:17. These verses show that if any and all remarriage after divorce is adultery, then either adultery was lawful under the OT, or Jesus changed the Law to expand the definition of adultery. It's absurd either way. If Heaven and Earth have disappeared, then how did I not notice?
Paul's words at 1 Cor 7:9, 15, 27-28 further illustrate that it is no sin to marry if you are unmarried for any reason, regardless of any prior marital status.
@@dh605x tbh I don't really care whether divorce and remarriage are ok or not! I will never face divorce, so it's up to those who are to decide. I have heard a lot of teachings on remarriage after a divorce being prohibited.
@@hamilton9651 There is so much horrendously bad teaching going around in church assemblies and TH-cam videos these days, including in this video. If you can avoid the issue completely by keeping your marriage on solid footing, that is most ideal. Or if you are fine with celibacy, that will work too.
The truth is that Jesus never condemned remarriage after divorce per se. One man dumped his faithful wife of 10 years just because some OnlyFans girlie took a liking to him. Another man put up with years of abuse, lies, etc then finally divorced his wife after her third arrest for drunk driving, then married a better woman five years later. It was the actions of the man in the former scenario, not the latter, that Jesus rightly condemned as tantamount to adultery. Why is this difference rocket science to some church elders?
It is possible to respect marriage while allowing for divorce for serious reasons. Those who deny this are practicing idolatry. The Marriage Permanence Heresy is just that: heresy.
My husband is divorcing me. I was abusive because I needed healing and deliverance. Our marriage was just toxic and broken. Jesus healed me in His mercy and kindness, but now my husband has hardened his heart. Your video is helpful. Please pray my husband wants to heal our marriage since it seems like regardless of this divorce our covenant will still be active.
Your husband is actually in sin for divorcing. The Bible allows separation not divorce. He should simply file for legal separation and remain to himself.
@@Laoriginal718some states (for example, Georgia) do not have legal separation.
You can't obey your way into heaven or "achieve"/ earn salvation. What don't "Christians" understand about by Faith alone? There's a BIG difference between justification/salvation and sanctification/maturing in Christ. This topic is not a salvation issue but a sanctification issue!
What you said is incorrect.
Hebrews 5:8-9
8 Though he were a Son, yet learned he obedience by the things which he suffered;
9 And being made perfect, he became the author of eternal salvation unto all them that obey him;
In my opinion God is shaking the church on the false doctrine of remarriage. Remarrying while your former spouse is alive is probably just as bad as a gay marriage. Hence, this was why God created the gift of singleness.
I do not agree with this completely. I think your mixing the word up. 1 Corinthians 7:15 says you are not bound and free to remarry. Also Matthew 19:9 says sexual immorality. It doesn't say fornication. Also Christ died and fulfilled the law. When he met the woman at the well who had several husbands and the one she was living with was not hers. (Adultery). He who is without ain cast the first stone then Christ told her to go and sin mo more. That doesn't mean you commit sin again by divorce. Deuteronomy 24:1-4 specifically says you do not go back to the first spouse if you have remarried. I think your wrong and the understanding of the word is incorrect. We live under Grace and the only unforgivable sin is blasphemy against the Holy Spirit. David committed adultery but God forgave him and once he did she then became Davids wife and not Uriah wife. God called her Uriah wife until David repented even after Uriah was killed. So please stop spreading this lie. If you are remarried because of sexual immorality or abandonment you are not going to hell. If you remarried and asked God for forgiveness for your sin you are a new creature. Continue on. God hates divorce Malachi 2:16. He would never tell you to do something he hates twice. He is a forgiving God. Go and sin no more.
You are wrong. 1 Cor. 7:15 does not say to remarry as your flesh would like it to say that. The Scripture says to remain unmarried in 1 Cor 7:11. If you are still living in an adulterous union then you are an adulterer that will go to hell. 1 Cor. 6:9
I asked God for confirmation for my beliefs against remarriage, you confirmed it. That I am going through a situation that my husband is not honoring God or me but I am hanging on to do Gods will and hopefully one day his heart will get convicted and turn away from his sin and return to God.
I am praying for your marriage to be restored and God to touch your husband's heart. I have heard about difficult situations where God has fixed, God is able! Keep walking with God my sister, Jesus is coming soon!
@@nationsevangelismministries Amen, Glory to God 🙌🏼. Thanks you!
Nations Evangelism Ministries soon I married a divorced woman in her church (she is Eastern Orthodox) Her original marriage was for8 years and the wedding was not in a church. When I met her, she was still separated. We had sex during this time. After one year,we are divorcing. Was our marriage lawful to begin with in God’s eyes?
@@davidjackson916 no, if she took marriage vows before in court/Church then it is adultery if her first spouse is still alive. If you haven't repented yet, I would, and walk with Jesus.
Nations Evangelism Ministries Thank you. I have repented. Looking back it was mainly a lustful relationship. God was giving me signs not to move forward yet I did. When we married it was immediate chaos in our relationship. Absolutely no peace. I was worried that because she was previously married in courthouse and we married in church, we cannot divorce. I know that the path I’m on now gives me tremendous peace l, however when we were together there was none. I hope you are right
Sensitive subject, but it's all about 'Thus saith the Lord' and Jesus *is* Lord and very clear on this subject. Those who say otherwise are either living in this sin or know someone close to them who is. Therefore, whether ignorantly or deliberately, they 1) pervert the scriptures to fulfil the deeds of their flesh or 2) fear man and rejection, failing to speak the truth. There's no denying, this is hard to receive, but we must take up our cross and follow Him no matter the cost (Matthew 16:24-26 KJV). God bless you for standing on the truth brother.
Amen, I completely agree, thanks for sharing.
Great presentation and teaching. I would add Genesis 2:24, Mark 10:2-12, Luke 16:18, and Ephesians 5:25-33 to a follow up presentation should you decide to do one. They Confirm the verses you use here. Thank you, be blessed.
I totally agree I've taken so much heat for this message on Facebook the church must be warned Jesus is on his way back soon for the church
Keep preaching Truth on Facebook Sister.
Finally a true man of God that speaks the truth on this matter God bless you 🙏
Scripture is so clear - the problem is do we really believe God's word? Many will not teach on it because the Pastors have remarried! Barna report in 2014 statistics showed 35% of those B.A. Christians had been divorced - the same percentage as those unbelievers. And 26% had had multiple marriages. Where is the Christian witness - the salt and light to the lost? Christians act no differently to the world and its ways. Tragic.
so very true Edwina
I left after 28 years of marriage because I couldn’t stay anymore .I lived in stress and under stress , only God knows .I’ll live my life on my own until the end ,lucky I have my lovely children.
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Brothers, lets learn together: 1 separation Jesus talked about wasn't divorcing, divorce is divorce, separation is separation, the separation Jesus was against was the putting away which, same issue in Malachi 2:16, even God himself divorced his people, divorce was the commandment of God in Deut. 24 that people didn't practice, instead they just separate in a putting away practice that untreacherously to their wives (Malachi 2) leaving their wives without social and financial protection and leading them to adultery (Mathew 5:30,31)
@@RedPillOfTheBible the divorce and remarriage for adultery doctrine is based solely on the supposed guilt of the wife in Matthew 5:32, and Matthew 19:9. However, the wife in Matthew 5:31-32 is clearly not guilty of fornication because the Jews that Jesus was speaking to were still living under the law, and if fornication was discovered, there was a moral obligation to report the offender according to Deuteronomy 22:13-24. The wife, who would have been found guilty of fornication, was subsequently stoned to death, according to the law, which had still governed the Jews up until Christ's death on the cross. The same for a woman caught in adultery, according to Leviticus 20:10. How could a wife, guilty of fornication, or adultery, under the law of Moses, be given a writing of divorcement and be caused to commit adultery with whosoever marries her, that is divorced? Jesus is clear, in these examples, that the wife is not guilty of fornication, but is still caused to commit adultery if she marries another man now that she is divorced. This is the only way that Matthew 5:31-32, and Matthew 19:9 keep harmony with Romans 7:2-3, and 1 Corinthians 7:39.
Unlike the synoptic gospels of Mark and Luke, which were written to evangelize the Gentiles, Matthew was written to the Jews, and has of 24 characteristics that identify it as intended for the house of Israel.
The ancient Jews called the betrothed (engaged) "husband" and "wife" according to Deuteronomy 22:23-24, Matthew 1:18-25, and Luke 2:5-7.
Deuteronomy 24:1-4 (Moses's precept of divorce and remarriage) was never for fornication or adultery. Allowing those guilty of fornication and adultery to remain living and become a prospect for remarriage was against the law of Moses in Deuteronomy 22:13-24 and Leviticus 20:10, which commanded that those who were found guilty of fornication and adultery be put away from Israel, and stoned to death.
The law of Moses was not given to the world, only to the Jews. From the exodus, to Christ's death on the cross, the law of Moses governed the Jewish people. Christ's death on the cross caused the Jews to become dead to the law of Moses, so they could be joined to Christ under a New Covenant. This is what Jesus's fulfillment of the law of Moses, including Deuteronomy 24:1-4 (Moses's precept of divorce and remarriage), means. Paul gave several warnings to Christian believers against keeping the ordinances of law of Moses as justification, over following Christ and his commands under the New Covenant with Christ. Keeping the ordinances of the law is no longer possible, for Israel, and that is why Christ prophesied that the temple would be destroyed. These scriptures make it clear that if you choose the law over Christ, that you must keep the whole law: Romans 7:4, Galatians 3:1-9, Galatians 3:10-29, Galatians 4:1-7, Galatians 4:21-31, and Galatians 5:1-15.
Being unequally yoked to unbelievers is not a cause for divorce, once two become one-flesh in a covenant of marriage, according to 1 Corinthians 7:12-14. Many one-flesh covenant marriages between unbelievers are recognized by God in the scriptures, most notably the marriage covenants between Herodias and King Herod's brother Philip, Potiphar and his wife, Ahab and Jezebel, and Ruth to her deceased husband Mahlon by Boaz when he took her to be his wife.
Some are teaching that 1 Corinthians 7:15 implies that those who are abandoned, by an unbelieving spouse, are "no longer bound" in a one-flesh covenant of marriage. The reason this is in conflict is due to the way some translations word it, which gives it an entirely different meaning, and context. 1 Corinthians 7:15, says, "But if the unbelieving partner separates, let it be so. In such cases the brother or sister is not enslaved. God has called you to peace." As you can see, the actual scripture says "not enslaved" which means that the husband or wife is not enslaved to sin with the unbelieving spouse, and is free to worship Christ in peace. Subsequent translations have changed the words to imply that they nullify the marriage covenant, which is not at all the case. The issue that this creates is with 1 Corinthians 7:10-11, which says, "10To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. 11But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife." As you can see, those who claim 1 Corinthians 7:15 shows the Apostle Paul giving those who are abandoned permission to remarry, do not understand the command that Christ gives is to an abandoned husband, in 1 Corinthians 7:11, and that he "must not divorce" his wife, and his wife is commanded to "remain unmarried or else be reconciled" to her husband. The theory that 1 Corinthians 7:15 nullifies two as being one-flesh, due to one's unbelief, puts the Apostle Paul directly at odds with Christ, and himself, by implying that Paul has issued an opposing command to verses 10-14 in verse 15.
Some also teach that 1 Corinthians 7:27-28 is referring to both divorced men and virgin women, and not exclusively to men and women (virgins) who have never been married. This has been falsely taught for some time in churches as referring to anyone who is not currently in a marriage, which, for them, also includes those who are divorced. This is a very false assumption, and puts these verses in a different context, that is at odds with both the teachings of Christ and the apostle Paul. We see Paul refer to virgins, which signifies the unmarried who have never before been wed, which is the proper context here. We see Paul saying clearly that it is good for virgins, which is also speaking to never before wed men here, "that it is good for a man so to be." He goes on to say, "Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife." Who is he referring to here? Men who, like himself, have never married. The word "bound", in these verses, is a clear reference to betrothal (engagement) and not to a one-flesh covenant of marriage. The ancient Jews were considered bound as husband and wife during the betrothal (espousal/engagement) before becoming one-flesh in a covenant of marriage, through consummation. This is affirmed by the context of the term "bound" seen in Numbers 30:14-16.
The Jewish couples in ancient Israel, who were betrothed (engaged) were also bound together until death, either by execution for fornication, or by other causes. Then Paul says, "But and if thou marry, thou has not sinned", which is who? The men who had never married in the congregation at Corinth. So he begins with verses 25-26 speaking exclusively to men that have never married. Paul then says, "and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned", which is speaking directly in regard to virgin women who have never been married, within the congregation, not divorced women. Notice that verse 34 says, "There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband." Paul speaks plainly when he says "there is a difference between a wife and a virgin." Paul goes on to say, "But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry." This is speaking of a virgin who has become of age to bear children when it says, "let them marry." This is a clear command, to a single man, who has taken a virgin to be his wife. Paul then says, "Nevertheless he that standeth stedfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power over his own will, and hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin, doeth well." This is referring again to the single man who decides it is better not to marry, but to stay betrothed (engaged), under the present distress, by saying that he "hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin." Paul then says, "So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well; but he that giveth her not in marriage doeth better", which again means single men, in the congregation, who have betrothed a wife, do well if they marry, and those who choose not to marry their virgin brides do better, under the current climate. For more proper context of the word "bound", let's look further down in this chapter to verse 39, which says, "39The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord" (1 Corinthians 7:39). For so long, these scriptures, between verses 25-38, have been twisted and used to enable divorce and remarriage, by wayward churches and teachers, and have caused many to stumble and to be trapped in unscriptural unions.
The use of the woman at the well, in regard to marriage, falsely implies that Christ was endorsing remarriage after a divorce. This teaching is in defiance of Matthew 22:23-28, which shows a woman who had been widowed seven times, and entered into each subsequent marriage without any scriptural conflicts with God's law of marriage (one-flesh covenant) seen in Genesis 2:23-24.
Mark 10:1-12 and Matthew 19:1-12 both record Christ's teaching that day beyond the Jordan. There is no mention of the words "fornication", "writing of divorcement", or "divorced" in Mark's Gospel, because Mark was not written to the Jews (as Matthew's Gospel was), but to evangelize the Romans and Greeks, who had no knowledge of the law of Moses in Deuteronomy 22 or Deuteronomy 24. All of these facts draw a clear understanding that remarriage after a divorce, under the New Covenant with Christ, is a scripturally false and baseless teaching. Please use wisdom when living in any situation against what the scriptures command.
@@RedPillOfTheBible God reconciled with israel. You are a false teacher, RedPills. Repent.
Stay strong
Thank you, I divorced my husband because I couldn't fix our problems so I ran. I didn't want the divorce nor did my husband want the divorce and my husband has remarried to a woman he settled for but is not in love with. We still communicate. I pray God will restore my marriage.
Thanks Bettina for your comment. In God's eyes you are still married to your husband even if you ran away from the problems. Man's divorce proceedings can not put asunder what God hath joined together. Talk to your husband, pray with your husband, and I pray he will leave his adulterous relationship. God's Will is for y'all to be together. I am praying God will restore your marriage.
@@tribalman9668 that is absolutely false.
@@tribalman9668 We are not under the Mosaic Law, however if you apply one aspect of the law to your life, you must also apply all 613 laws written within it to your life. We cannot pick and choose which commandments to obey and others to disregard. We now live under grace and God calls us to forgive and be reconciled. If not, we are to remain unmarried until the death of our first spouse. God bless.
I am a child of such union and from experience of being born into and raised in one of these household, I can tell you that God's blessing is not on it. I thank God for the ability to be born again.
Amen. The divorce and remarriage for adultery doctrine is based solely on the supposed guilt of the wife in Matthew 5:32, and Matthew 19:9. However, the wife in Matthew 5:31-32 is clearly not guilty of fornication because the Jews that Jesus was speaking to were still living under the law, and if fornication was discovered, there was a moral obligation to report the offender according to Deuteronomy 22:13-24. The wife, who would have been found guilty of fornication, was subsequently stoned to death, according to the law, which had still governed the Jews up until Christ's death on the cross. The same for a woman caught in adultery, according to Leviticus 20:10. How could a wife, guilty of fornication, or adultery, under the law of Moses, be given a writing of divorcement and be caused to commit adultery with whosoever marries her, that is divorced? Jesus is clear, in these examples, that the wife is not guilty of fornication, but is still caused to commit adultery if she marries another man now that she is divorced. This is the only way that Matthew 5:31-32, and Matthew 19:9 keep harmony with Romans 7:2-3, and 1 Corinthians 7:39.
Unlike the synoptic gospels of Mark and Luke, which were written to evangelize the Gentiles, Matthew was written to the Jews, and has of 24 characteristics that identify it as intended for the house of Israel.
The ancient Jews called the betrothed (engaged) "husband" and "wife" according to Deuteronomy 22:23-24, Matthew 1:18-25, and Luke 2:5-7.
Deuteronomy 24:1-4 (Moses's precept of divorce and remarriage) was never for fornication or adultery. Allowing those guilty of fornication and adultery to remain living and become a prospect for remarriage was against the law of Moses in Deuteronomy 22:13-24 and Leviticus 20:10, which commanded that those who were found guilty of fornication and adultery be put away from Israel, and stoned to death.
The law of Moses was not given to the world, only to the Jews. From the exodus, to Christ's death on the cross, the law of Moses governed the Jewish people. Christ's death on the cross caused the Jews to become dead to the law of Moses, so they could be joined to Christ under a New Covenant. This is what Jesus's fulfillment of the law of Moses, including Deuteronomy 24:1-4 (Moses's precept of divorce and remarriage), means. Paul gave several warnings to Christian believers against keeping the ordinances of law of Moses as justification, over following Christ and his commands under the New Covenant with Christ. Keeping the ordinances of the law is no longer possible, for Israel, and that is why Christ prophesied that the temple would be destroyed. These scriptures make it clear that if you choose the law over Christ, that you must keep the whole law: Romans 7:4, Galatians 3:1-9, Galatians 3:10-29, Galatians 4:1-7, Galatians 4:21-31, and Galatians 5:1-15.
Being unequally yoked to unbelievers is not a cause for divorce, once two become one-flesh in a covenant of marriage, according to 1 Corinthians 7:12-14. Many one-flesh covenant marriages between unbelievers are recognized by God in the scriptures, most notably the marriage covenants between Herodias and King Herod's brother Philip, Potiphar and his wife, Ahab and Jezebel, and Ruth to her deceased husband Mahlon by Boaz when he took her to be his wife.
Some are teaching that 1 Corinthians 7:15 implies that those who are abandoned, by an unbelieving spouse, are "no longer bound" in a one-flesh covenant of marriage. The reason this is in conflict is due to the way some translations word it, which gives it an entirely different meaning, and context. 1 Corinthians 7:15, says, "But if the unbelieving partner separates, let it be so. In such cases the brother or sister is not enslaved. God has called you to peace." As you can see, the actual scripture says "not enslaved" which means that the husband or wife is not enslaved to sin with the unbelieving spouse, and is free to worship Christ in peace. Subsequent translations have changed the words to imply that they nullify the marriage covenant, which is not at all the case. The issue that this creates is with 1 Corinthians 7:10-11, which says, "10To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. 11But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife." As you can see, those who claim 1 Corinthians 7:15 shows the Apostle Paul giving those who are abandoned permission to remarry, do not understand the command that Christ gives is to an abandoned husband, in 1 Corinthians 7:11, and that he "must not divorce" his wife, and his wife is commanded to "remain unmarried or else be reconciled" to her husband. The theory that 1 Corinthians 7:15 nullifies two as being one-flesh, due to one's unbelief, puts the Apostle Paul directly at odds with Christ, and himself, by implying that Paul has issued an opposing command to verses 10-14 in verse 15.
Some also teach that 1 Corinthians 7:27-28 is referring to both divorced men and virgin women, and not exclusively to men and women (virgins) who have never been married. This has been falsely taught for some time in churches as referring to anyone who is not currently in a marriage, which, for them, also includes those who are divorced. This is a very false assumption, and puts these verses in a different context, that is at odds with both the teachings of Christ and the apostle Paul. We see Paul refer to virgins, which signifies the unmarried who have never before been wed, which is the proper context here. We see Paul saying clearly that it is good for virgins, which is also speaking to never before wed men here, "that it is good for a man so to be." He goes on to say, "Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife." Who is he referring to here? Men who, like himself, have never married. The word "bound", in these verses, is a clear reference to betrothal (engagement) and not to a one-flesh covenant of marriage. The ancient Jews were considered bound as husband and wife during the betrothal (espousal/engagement) before becoming one-flesh in a covenant of marriage, through consummation. This is affirmed by the context of the term "bound" seen in Numbers 30:14-16.
The Jewish couples in ancient Israel, who were betrothed (engaged) were also bound together until death, either by execution for fornication, or by other causes. Then Paul says, "But and if thou marry, thou has not sinned", which is who? The men who had never married in the congregation at Corinth. So he begins with verses 25-26 speaking exclusively to men that have never married. Paul then says, "and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned", which is speaking directly in regard to virgin women who have never been married, within the congregation, not divorced women. Notice that verse 34 says, "There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband." Paul speaks plainly when he says "there is a difference between a wife and a virgin." Paul goes on to say, "But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry." This is speaking of a virgin who has become of age to bear children when it says, "let them marry." This is a clear command, to a single man, who has taken a virgin to be his wife. Paul then says, "Nevertheless he that standeth stedfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power over his own will, and hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin, doeth well." This is referring again to the single man who decides it is better not to marry, but to stay betrothed (engaged), under the present distress, by saying that he "hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin." Paul then says, "So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well; but he that giveth her not in marriage doeth better", which again means single men, in the congregation, who have betrothed a wife, do well if they marry, and those who choose not to marry their virgin brides do better, under the current climate. For more proper context of the word "bound", let's look further down in this chapter to verse 39, which says, "39The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord" (1 Corinthians 7:39). For so long, these scriptures, between verses 25-38, have been twisted and used to enable divorce and remarriage, by wayward churches and teachers, and have caused many to stumble and to be trapped in unscriptural unions.
The use of the woman at the well, in regard to marriage, falsely implies that Christ was endorsing remarriage after a divorce. This teaching is in defiance of Matthew 22:23-28, which shows a woman who had been widowed seven times, and entered into each subsequent marriage without any scriptural conflicts with God's law of marriage (one-flesh covenant) seen in Genesis 2:23-24.
Mark 10:1-12 and Matthew 19:1-12 both record Christ's teaching that day beyond the Jordan. There is no mention of the words "fornication", "writing of divorcement", or "divorced" in Mark's Gospel, because Mark was not written to the Jews (as Matthew's Gospel was), but to evangelize the Romans and Greeks, who had no knowledge of the law of Moses in Deuteronomy 22 or Deuteronomy 24. All of these facts draw a clear understanding that remarriage after a divorce, under the New Covenant with Christ, is a scripturally false and baseless teaching. Please use wisdom when living in any situation against what the scriptures command.
@@ajlouviere202 Awesome teaching, you have really researched well. God bless you!
I feel this so much
I am really fed up of arguments and excuses pastors and believers are using to justify remarriage. The bible is very clear as you explained in this video. Remmariage is adultry if the so called 'ex spouse' is alive. but they are trying to justify by making their own theories. There's no 'ex spouse' word in God's dictionary.
i coudnt agree more!!! if we love JESUS we should live the truth because he is the truth! thank you very much! may GOD bless you for standing the truth of his word!
This man is a keyboard prophet. Study Psalms 51. King Davids not only committed adultery, he also had Bathshebas husband killed to marry her. David realized his sin and went to God with a repentant heart and ask Gods forgiveness. God did forgive him and restored fellowship with him, without divorcing Bathsheba. And they had children as well. There was consequences for his sin, but loss of salvation was not one of them. If you messed up and remarried, go to God with confession and a truly repentant heart and you will be forgivin and restored. To divorce a second time, especially with children, is ridiculous. This man just likes to hear himself talk.
You are in great error encouraging others to commit adultery, and perhaps you defend this transgression as you are guilty of it as well. Do you reject all the Scripture I gave in the video?
@@nationsevangelismministriesExcatly he can't Answer.
I’m so glad for this teaching. I see so many remarriages in churches and leadership. Why are they not aware of this teaching? I see it all the time and it’s confusing the young people. I pray for the conviction of the Lord to show them the truth!
Yes....I also have been scratching my head over Pastors who are either decieved or afraid to lose people in the church....I guess they don't realize that they will be judged by God on a greater scale...and that He is coming SOON!
Can you please pray for me. I have come out of this situation but is so hard with a 3 year old and no one understands me except God.
@@jennifermumford7 Hey, Jennifer, how are you these days and where are you located - in the US?
My husband committed adultery and what he did hurt me very deeply he made a choice to break the marriage covenant and sleep with another woman. I won’t continue in the marriage with him he is abusive and a cheater I’m clear before God I didn’t commit adultery at all he did.
“Nothing is worth your soul, Jesus is coming “
Hello Pastor I am married and a born again believer my husband told me he was a Christian we were married a year later and then he started to abuse me something revealed to me he is a narcissist he has committed adultery and he threw it in my face while we lived together .I am separated I have filed for divorce twice and I believe he stopped it I told him file I will sign also my second brother is married three times and the first two are living his third wife doesn’t know he been married twice she thinks once and every time we mention it he says it secretly so she won’t hear 👂 says a lot.
Excellent! Excellent! Excellent! Thank you for speaking the truth through Jesus Christ name ...Amen!
God bless you brother@
No adulterers will enter the kingdom of heaven, I thing is worth being thrown in the lake of fire. Submit to God first and all things will be added unto you ⚔️📖🙌🏾 The word is absolute
God bless you brother for teaching with excellence on this, in a clear, simple , non-compromising manner! Let us be the few that preach what most won’t
So my wife of 29 years decided she needed to “find herself”. She had inappropriate relationships with at least three men that I’m aware of, and fornicated with at least one of those men. She was literally a horrible wife, and at times a bad mother to our children. She was verbally, financially, and on a few occasions physically abusive to me.
I stayed with her all those years, with no intention to divorce her. But after I learned of her physical relationship with one of those men I even begged her to cut all ties with him. She flat out refused, and told me she wanted to separate for 6 months. Basically she wanted to continue to sleep with this dude and see if they had a future together, while keeping me on the back burner in case it didnt work out for them. I moved out of my house after realizing she was wanting to set me up to get arrested under false pretenses of domestic violence, just like her sister did to my brother in law. She filed for divorce after I told her I would never take her back after another man had been inside her.
Her fornication was a gift to me, otherwise I had no Biblical ground to leave.
I plan to remarry someday, and I won’t feel any guilt about the divorce. It was Biblically justified in my case. In fact I could have filed myself under these circumstances, but thought that God just wanted to have me stay in the marriage no matter how terrible it was.
The Bible is clear that adultery is grounds for divorce.
4 years later after she’s been with numerous other men, that have all dumped her, she hinted that she’d like to come back to me. There is absolutely no way I’d ever take her back.
It is better to dwell on the rooftops than in the house with a quarrelsome wife!
it is nice to see someone addressing this issue.....hopefully it will spread and people will become aware of this......and escape this sin, of adultery.....
Yes sir, it is an uncomfortable topic, but it is Truth, and people need to hear to be right with God, because being right with God is the only thing that matters in the end. May the Lord bless you friend!
If possible could you explain Deuteronomy 24:1-4?
@@ThePowerScript Yes Matthew 19:1-9 will provide you an explanation of that Scripture.
Very irresponsible of this pastor to encourage someone to leave a second marriage and family to return to the marriage of their youth. He conveniently left out the scripture of Matthew 19:8 ...when hearts(plural) are hardened. Notice he did not continue the verses in Matthew 19, because it goes into the ridiculousness of remarriage to husband's brother...and the eunuchs. People, marriage is suppose to be for life, but God in his infinite wisdom knew that certain acts of adultery or cruelty causing "hardening of hearts", was cause for divorce. This pastor is picking and choosing and ignoring his scripture to back his narrative. There are millions of happily long-term Christian remarriages, due to the adultery or cruelty of a first marriage, raising Godly children, and living Godly marriages and lives. If those marriages did as this man suggests, and leave those marriages and families to return to the spouse of their "youth" or remain single...can you imagine the heartbreak, chaos, and destruction of families this would create? This man, disguised as a man of God, is suggesting a plan that would allow Satan, through division, chaos and destruction, to celebrate the dismantling of millions of Christian families, causing such a degradation of family and home, having only the result of a loss for God's children and a win for everything unholy. There is a reason that this man stands before you with a dry erase board and his DIY TH-cam video. God has not blessed this man with a huge following/audience/congregation for a reason. READ MATTHEW 7:15 warning against false prophets.
"Karen" that is a very fitting name for your very hateful and voracious comment. Your humanistic comment is not backed by any Scripture and you are the prime example of the Jezebel spirit the Bible warns about in Revelation seducing to evil, and further someone that believes the Truth is with the popular mainstream religion, and will mock the minority where Truth always is, just as the days of Noah.
@@nationsevangelismministries she or others she knows is probably guilty of remarriage, thus she is angry, just like those who believe in OSAS are angry when you tell them that if they continue in sin they will go to hell!
@@Johnherlihy1 yes I think your analysis is correct....usually when sinners are confronted with their sin and they love their sin, they will reject the Truth and attack those that share Truth. Pray for her that she might be saved.
It is his and all of our jobs to encourage people to forsake adultery in repentance. Even when people wrongly think of it as a legitimate marriage. Their souls are in danger.
Could you imagine the heartbreak you're doing to God by remaining in an adulterous remarriage? Since when was the Gospel about us and our happiness?? Never. You will either obey or you won't. But you will not have an excuse on judgment day because you've been warned.
There's a exponentially growing twist on (against) Matthew 19:9 KJV... due to many many other scriptures being altered in revised Bibles.
Now that Satan (via revised bibles) & the heralders of such corrupt texts, has made the literal deed of adultery/fornication seem like all in a days Christianity....
... When the real KJV Bible says a REAL Christian spouse will never ever commit the LITERAL DEED of fornication or adultery... Ever.
THEREFORE Satan's next step is to use these false Christian adulterers and adulteresses as his mounthpieces...
....to condemn Matthew 19:9 KJV, and condemn the (FAITH)FUL spouses who put them away and marry another.
Suggestion.... Don't listen to a sexually immoral (professing christian), expound on Matthew 19:9 KJV.
We're not to keep company with or even eat with them, until they repent and get TRULY saved. 1 Cor. 5 kjv
I never marry but almost marry a woman who has two divorces.
Thank God it did not happen.
Good job you didn't
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Hi brother, thanks so much for this teaching. I have a question. If there was fornication during a couple's engagement period but was unknown to the innocent party, and then they get married, is this grounds for divorce and remarriage for the innocent party if the fornication comes to light later on? God bless you!
Thank you. Very encouraging God bless
My husband and I was discussing this topic this morning. It's not because we are considering it, but realize no one is teaching this truth. Either they don't know or they don't care; however, this teaching has to be taught. So many "Christians" are in this sin.
Awesome and excellent teaching brother! This is TRUTH the church needs to hear this for today, for our redemption draws near....keep looking up! Blessings to all my brothers and sisters out there that have an ear, to hear🙏
Thank you Jane, Jesus is coming soon, yes let's keep the lamps burning and keep looking up for the rapture is near!
What is the difference between "put away" and "divorce?"
Thank you for speaking God’s absolute truth. I pray God uses this video to open the eyes, minds, and hearts of many Christian’s deceived in this sin, so they do not perish.
Hi glad i came along ur video God told me to pray for my first husband for restoration
Thank you I needed this!
Thanks, and God bless you for standing on the word of God.
Romans 6 is not about divorce and remarriage ..it is about dying to be free from the law . and since if any of us die to be free from the law we will perish in our sin. yet that is the ONLY way to be free from the law. but Jesus died in our place and we are ,by faith , baptized into his death and raised up NEW creatures in Christ . death has occurred . so while no born again Christian can divorce and remarry , those who did so BEFORE they came to Christ have everything ended in death -every covenant save the salvation of god in Jesus is ended by death. So you cannot tell a person who has just come to faith that they must leave their present spouse and go back to a former spouse. because ALL covenants ended in death and ... as written " ALL things are become NEW . " note it is not written ALL things EXCEPT marriage " .. if you make that exception then you contradict the gospel
I was on the verge of divorce and when I was in a heated discussion with my wife, I heard a voice: Mihai, you don't want to have her with you in Heaven, I stopped in shock and I answered yes and the answer I gave him I received it was then love it with My Love and since then I started to love it with the Love of the Lord Jesus and after a few years the Lord gave victory and now I have Heaven in my house Glory to the Lord Jesus Amen
@Mopsygirl1 If you are a Christian you dont have the right to divorce but you have to fight for your family because you have been forgiven by God for your sins and you have to forgive and pray for it and love it as God loves you
@Mopsygirl1 evidently the change, of attitude, led to a better relationship...
Matthew 7:14 Because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it.
Yes I do have a narrow view in line with God’s Way.
Leviticus 20:10 And the man that committeth adultery with another man's wife, even he that committeth adultery with his neighbour's wife, the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death.
Since you are referencing the OT, do you also support carrying out the punishment to deal with the transgression?
You are 100% right and I notice these pastors at claim there’s a divorce clause and they make excuses half the time don’t even quote scripture and they leave out all the other scriptures that would totally rule out the one scripture they claim is the divorce clause and obviously when you put them all together it is the least truth there is no divorce clause
If you are divorced stay by yourself,let's face it this is all about sex and little to do with marriage because plenty of people are married and have not had sex in years.
Thank you a very timely message for my life.
It is very hard to do but with God blessings what I need to do will come about
Matthew 19:9 is always read wrong people stop at fornication but don’t read the whole verse where it talks about wife and twice it says adultery. And also the betroth who is called a wife whose marriage was not consummated cannot be married due to a fact that GOD JESUS said whoever marries her is considered adulterer.
The innocent party can re-marry but NOT to someone that has been put away for fornication due to the fact that he/she will be an adulterer.
Keep preaching brother in Christ I have family members that in adultery I was once in adultery I've been single for the last 4 years telling people to get out of it and the worst ones I say is the preachers cuz they know the word they need to speak the truth to the people stop telling lies because they will have to answer to God even when we tell him the truth I still don't listen we must pray for them the God wakes them up before it's too late
Thanks for the encouraging words!
If a ubbeliever leaves let them go a brother or sister is bo longer bound...romans does allow in grace..
Can you provide a verse, or verses in the bible that say grace allows divorce and remarriage?
God allows separation, but not divorce. This is in the case of bad situations, but to allow the option of reconciliation.
Romans..you also are dead to the law so that you be married to another to bare fruit..in grace..think about this..paul says to obey his commands..he says stay in the situations in which you were called..save by grace so no man can boast..but in faith...you have to remember context Mathew and them are speaking to believers..paul says I bring the gospel to the gentiles..and whoever shall believe...still not everyone is a believer..even christ says a house divided can not stand..he only came to save the sinner...there is alot more to what God calls a marriage than what is being preached..that's why you don't see much god in marriage...that's why paul states who to know if you can save you husband and wife.no longer bound...
@@SealedByYahExcatly Scripture is Crystal clear
I recently became separated from my wife. It was mostly my fault but not exclusively. We may reconcile or we may not. I have been learning about some issues in my life that have been repressed, but the solution for solving them is to forgo all sexual activity from now on. Unless I reconcile. But since my separation I am learning to accept the need to remain unmarried and celibate. I will never remarry if I don't reconcile with my wife. I am learning to accept celibacy! It is not to be feared, and it is not a death sentence! I know of many faithful Christians who are single and celibate, some their entire lives. And only one of them is the gifted single Paul refers to in 1 Corinthians 7. The others were not chosen for marriage! Yet they are ok and doing well! God is good! Blessed be the name of the Lord!
That is your choice. I personally would rather die of lead poisoning than be celibate. Remarriage is practically a necessity for me. And no, any and all remarriage is NOT adultery, contrary to the biblically dubious assertions in this video.
Really, when I say "I don't do celibacy", I mean it!
Marriage wrongly done is a mistake you will pay for until the day you die and sex is a poor reward.So think,think and think again,know what marriage and is not before you just do it hoping for the best.
Well, the truth sometimes hurts. No way around this.
Truth undiluted 📌
Where people get entangled with this is their lust burning inside so bad they mis-construe the 'exception' to apply to re-marraige.
The exception is for divorce.
Excellent point.
@mel bornn I'm in agreement with you on how people have been led astray by protestant-ism. Around the late 1800's non-denominational-ism was on the rise and this was a hot topic even back then. When Jesus gave His teaching's on the subject it actually made the disciples afraid to even enter into marriage.
But today we see the fruits of false doctrine almost everywhere. Do I feel like I need to judge and correct everyone? No. But I will say this, when our church interviewed for pastoral-ship, one of the questions was whether or not a second spouse was involved.
I will leave it all to the deluded masses to figure this one out for themselves, but the scripture is very explicit...the husband of ONE wife (or spouse).
If you take a leadership role in God's Church, you must have your house in order or just simply take a back seat. Amen.
No what you are saying is incorrect. It is not a sin for unbelievers to marry that needs repented of. Hebrews 13:4 addresses this and as well 1 Cor. 7.
Goodness I got to be single forever this is awful uggh!! God I will do this but goodness I am man help me father!! I honestly wish I knew what I was doing thought it will last forever this makes me regret my decision in life more!!
Me too man. I regret ever marrying an abusive horrible person. He tricked me. Acted so lovely and caring. Right after we go married the abuse started. I snooped thru his email and found he was saving those pay to chat sites, the X kind of chats
Luke 1:37 For nothing is impossible with God! Praying for your prodigal spouse to come back to the Lord, Brother. Remain faithful and seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness and ALL things will be added unto you!
@@brianhemmert9394 this is just insane to me as a man!! My ex-spouse can go and be in relationship get her needs fulfilled emotionally sexually companionship while I sit in utter misery sorry!! That sounds crazy I am trying but I am tired!!! This is too much!! Honestly wish I never got married!!
@@efrainbrown1 I'm in the same boat as you Brother. Please seek the Lord Jesus, through repentance, prayer, fasting and deep study of scripture. Jesus, exhorts us to deny ourselves take up our cross and follow him. The way is narrow Efrain, but great will your reward be in heaven!
@@efrainbrown1 obedience is better than sacrifice. We have to understand that it's not about our "happiness". It's about obeying the teachings of Jesus Christ and if you truly loved Him, it would'nt be so grievous for you to obey. Instead of focusing on how your wife is living the good life, pray for her. Pray for your marriage because God is all about reconciliation.
Hebrews 10:26 puts all sin in a nutshell.
Awesome video. 👏☺ TRUTH!!! ☝Right there!!👊💥
Thank GOD for you my brother, as you keep teaching THE TRUTH WRITTEN IN THE HOLY SCRIPTURE. Unlike many of these false teachers who continue to lead many, many people astray by their erroneous doctrines. You are so right on the matter of divorce and remarriage. For verily, I say unto you, Till Heaven and earth pass, not one jot or one tittle shall in no wise pass from the LAW till all be fulfilled. THE MOST HIGH bless and keep you my brother.
So if u have sex with someone as a virgin that means you guys are married?
After two divorces I got saved. God showed me that my first lawful husband was my real spouse, not my second and I hadn't read the scriptures!
To God be the Glory! He is opening the eyes of his children bc most Preachers will not teach it. Moreover a-lot of them will remarry those that are divorced .
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Excellent and refreshing to hear all of this coming from someone other than me! This teaching really isolates you. But good thing I'm a loner. This and "once saved, always saved" have got to be the most controversial subjects to preach or teach on. Another piece of evidence for this subject is that if divorce is truly allowed, then Messiah died in vain. I say that because we were married to Him, and we played the harlot; so we deserved death, but since marriage is till death do you part - He took our place and payed the debt. That freed us from the harlot label, but it also freed Him from being married to one. Now we live in the espousal because He is only returning for a pure and spotless bride. Anyone found unchased on the wedding day will be divorced.
Thanks for the comment, that is a very good comparison you gave, keep on preaching the Truth and in Heaven we will be the majority.
Great understanding!!!
Truth
You made this simple and clear. Other have been so confusing trying to tell the lie.
God wants peace.