I found this out to be true by experience. I was cursed to leave my wife and remarry another. I lost my family, lost my children, lost my ministry, lost my job. Now 11 years later, God drove out my second spouse and 8 years later brought my first wife and 2 additional sons back into my life. I have learned to listen to God's Spirit to the "T" from this point on.
Thank you for this message. I am going through a divorce because my beautiful wife of 32 years left me for another weasel/man and I have looked over and over for a loophole to remarry. I found nothing and believe the church is flooded with adulterous remarriage. Muchas gracias
I'm sorry for your loss and I know how you feel but your wife has now become an adulterous because she's marrying another man while you're still living so God does not honor what she's doing she will be living in a state of adultery everyday until she repents and leaves that second marriage
Read all the Word. Deut 24 for example. Then recognize what the original greek actually says in the N.T. The bible never contradicts itself. When it seems to it's mis-translation. Look up verses where there are tools to see the original wording. (blueletterbible.org) Many times "let go" and divorce were interchanged when they weren't supposed to be. Dig in and you'll learn.
Doug ,me too 20 years 3 children ,my wife never wanted to seek biblical counseling walked out on me too messing around with different men and seeing these knuckle head guys driving cars we had together , I'm still going THROUGH the pain of my family being destroyed but I found no answer for me to remarry but just listen to God word and rejoice in my trials ..there no way around it
In order to understand this subject Hermenuetics must be applied. You must understand who Jesus was talking to, how he was answering the questions, and the state of the Jewish culture on marriage at that time. You also have to look at the original translations. Jesus was addressing the pharisees because they were putting there wives away for reasons that were ridiculous like not cooking right. Plus two individuals had just divorced their spouses to marry each other. The pharisees were trying to trick Jesus into commenting on that issue. Thus why John was beheaded. I know many single individuals who got divorced and were not looking whatsoever and God sent godly man or woman into there life, they got remarried and have some of the most wonderful relationships and ministry. Remember David committed adultery then married Bathseba, Hoshea married a prostitute, Moses married an Ethopian woman, the women at the well Jesus forgave, five husbands, and he did not say go back to your first.
I had no choice my husband no longer wanted to be married, I tried, was abused,emotionally and physically, he cheated,drank alot then drugs and eventually I left .Went back to work due to threats of kidnapping my 2 year old and stalking, harassing...I divorced him ...he said he didn't want to be married he was on drugs mocked GOD and has nothing to do with our son who is 17.....but I know I must stay single until death. I agree the end is wrong
Melissa Mckinney he’s not saying that you should remarry. However, if you were remarried for the reasons such as first husband’s desertion, adultery or such, or you remarried in ignorance, not knowing the Scriptures, then you should not divorce again but remain in your new marriage. And I agree with that. Read also Deuteronomy 24: ““When a man takes a wife and marries her, and it happens that she finds no favor in his eyes because he has found some indecency in her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce and puts it in her hand and sends her out from his house, and she leaves his house and goes and becomes another man’s wife, and if the latter husband turns against her and writes her a certificate of divorce and puts it in her hand and sends her out of his house, or if the latter husband dies who took her to be his wife, then her former husband who sent her away is not allowed to take her again to be his wife, since she has been defiled; for that is an abomination before the LORD, and you shall not bring sin on the land which the LORD your God gives you as an inheritance.” Deuteronomy 24:1-4 NASB
My ex husband found Alcohol, drugs, and that he was abusive,and adulterous....also we did attend church as a family....although did not know the verses such as this...he started mocking GOD I just have found no Scriptures in my situation that allows for remarriage
So Is staying in a marriage and being abused for the rest of your life... I dont think any good god wants to see his children living in abuse for the rest of their life just because of the sake of staying married..
My wife divorced me. She is believing but has not given her life to Christ and become a new creation. I am committed to walking in celibacy, I can't date or take on a different spouse. While I wish I was married and had a wife that was born again and loved me, but I will take on this responsibility and enjoy my bride relationship with my spouse Jesus. It has brought me closer to God since he has more than made up with love and growth in my relationship with my Abba father. I only hope Jesus has a plan for me to walk in greater boldness since I no longer have to answer to my spouse. I no longer have to worry about her or her needs.
It is ok to divorce and remarry if your spouse committed adulery Jesus speaking in Mt 5:32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, except for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery. Also again in Mt 10:19 NOTICE: except for the cause of fornication, which is actually all sexual activity out side of the marriage of one man and one women. Adultery is a reason according to Jesus
@@raymondmitchell6 I read that verse as except for the cause of formication, CAUSETH her to become an adulteress (means he does not CAUSETH her to commit adultery because fornication is already there in the marriage)
@@DerrickH1969 That's right not under bondage also, Luke 20:35 But those who are considered worthy of taking part in the age to come & in the resurrection from the dead no longer marry, or are given in marriage, & can no longer die; for they are like the angels. They are God's children, since they are children of the resurrection. Revelation 21:8 ... ALL liars - they will be consigned to the fiery lake of burning sulphur. This is the second death.
If fornication only refers to pre-marital relations, could you please explain to me why the word is used to describe the sin of the Corinthian who was having his father’s wife. Thanks
Wait a minute. When a person becomes aware of the sin, should they not repent of it and STOP it a.s.a.p.? Seems to me a remarriage after divorce, while previous spouse is still alive, must be annulled or voided so as to put an end to the continuous adultery.
I couldn't help but notice that near the end of this teaching, when the everlasting "grace" of MAN took over, the use of scripture abruptly ceased. What a sad ending to an otherwise sound and accurate teaching.
What you guys reality mean is this pastor didn’t add to scripture like you two do. This type of interpretation is called eisegesis - the interpretation of a text (as of the Bible) by reading into it one's own ideas. No where in the bible does it teach the “divorce to repent” supposition. Nowhere!!!!! I understand how you get your deduction but no writer of scripture came to that conclusion, only those who add to scripture do.
Neal Doster are you serious you can't see that clear contradiction at the end. It was no need for him to correctly say way scripture says and then at the end go against it pointless and causes confusion.
Parbatie Brotherson I believe in God but you know I went through two rough marriages and it's something I don't often like to talk about but I cried out to the Lord with the true repentance heart and ask him to forgive me for breaking his laws and Commandments and I believe in my heart that I'm forgiven I was always told that all sins are forgiven except for one that's blasphemy of the Holy Spirit you don't have to take my word for it but I thought I'd share this with you
I know its rough Parbatie Brotherson hang in there We are all here for one reason which is eternal life. Mat 19:12 For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.
Here it is, not a sin to remarry: 1 Corinthians 7:27-28 King James Version (KJV) 27 Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife. 28 But and if thou marry, thou hast not sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned. Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you.re it is, it's not a sin to remarry:
27 Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife. 28 But and if thou marry, thou hast not sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned. Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you.
I agreed with you about everything until the very end when you said that the remarried spouse's should stay together because I for one believe that God does not want divorce and remarriage so if I'm praying for my husband to come back to me the second marriage is not a legal marriage so I'm praying that God will help my husband to repent come back to God and come back to me. ? ...see?
I agree with you Alice. Standing for our marriage is honorable and right before God, hoping for restoration. A remarriage while the spouse is still living is adultery.
He is referring to Abraham and hagar. The angel told her to return to her mistress .the law back then if a man lay with her that was single her food and clothing he shall maintain and he shall not put her away as long as he lives deut 22. V 28-29
Amen brother Amen you got the scriptures ON POINT except for the last part. You cannot stay in an adulteress marriage. You are either to reconcile with your first spouse or remain unmarried.
There are wives that are praying that they're husband return the second marriage is illegal so the wife can pray for a miracle to happen nothing absolutely nothing is impossible for God if we pray according to his will he hears us so we will pray that they will come back and that is according to God's will he wants the marriage to be restored the first marriage
@@alice4him945 The first marriage is defiled after a 2nd marriage occurs. They can only remarry if no other marriage has occurred after the 1st marriage.
When two become one flesh in marriage, it can only be broken through death. If you remarry you are not married in God's eyes but you are an adulterer. Romans 6:1-2, "What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound? 2v. God forbid. How shall we, that are dead to sin, live any longer therein?" In order for you not to commit adultery, you must divorce your current spouse and remain single until your original spouse dies. I was married for 20 years and my ex-wife committed adultery on me. We went to counseling but she wouldn't do her share of the work to keep our marriage together. I have been divorced for over 6 years. She remarried 2 years ago. I started trying to date after 3 years of being divorced and wonder why relationships never would work out. Now I know. The Lord was trying to save my soul from going to hell because an Adulterer can not inherit the Kingdom of God. I have prayed for the "Gift" that the Apostle Paul said that he was given by God to remain unmarried. Believe me, it is a gift that can only come from God. Blessings
Ivory Perry III Amen hallelujah...me too facing the same thing,i been 6 years divorce of my ex husband because he getting remarry to another women...iam just waiting for God's word.until this minute i did not dare to have a relationship with a man.iam always getting afraid how if i commit sin with that way
Dewi Sonita, Amen my Sister-In-Christ. I pray for reconciliation on your behalf, but If your husband chooses to marry another woman then my prayer for you is Grace from God to remain unmarried until His return. Marriage is not worth your soul in hell. Walking with Jesus Christ in the New Jerusalem will be worth it all in the end. Blessings.
Ivory Perry III Amen...please put me in your prayer dear brother in Christ,so my faith will not going fate,and i will pray for your faith also...Jesus Christ blessing us,Amen.
at the 16 Minute mark you fully undid everything you just said, for 15 minutes. John the Baptist called for the King to divorce his brothers wife, Paul said do not even associate with the man who married his fathers wife. Scripture calls for the end of adultery marriage, and end the relationship. What you are saying, is continue in the adultery, this is contrary to what scripture teaches.
@JC Clinton who do you follow? You follow Christ and miss your way by wandering off following Him. And you come to your senses and still want to stay in the path where you lost your way?
You are absolutely right. You can't keep on sinning by staying in adultery. You must repent and stay single and chaste or if God makes a way, reconcile with the covenant spouse. I mistakenly had this one on my divorce and remarriage adultery playlist. My channel has done many videos about the permanence of marriage and divorce and remarriage is adultery unless the first spouse is dead. Jesus is Lord, and any day He will rapture His bride/church. Maranatha.
This video went on and on to prove everything and suddenly at the end made a statement at the end (stay together with your second spouse) with no supporting scripture. Or did i not understand it?
Thanks for this wonderful and very clear teaching on Divorce and remarriage, though I'm not really convinced on the last statement you have.i will just select those with scripture basis not the ending part..this is what I've been waiting for...☺️..God bless you brother
Yep The Video Was Great But The Last Statement Threw Me Off I Don't Think We Can Use Ignorance As A Defense In Any Case Of Sin It Does Say In The Bible My People Parish For A Lack Of Knowledge
Yes, that last statement just through me for a complete loop! Jesus's Words will never return void. Either it's one man one woman till death do they part, or it's not. If your first spouse is still alive then the covenant still remains. Yes grace, mercy, and forgiveness are ours to behold, but even Jesus died to bring the covenant to an end that was with only Israel, but by His resurrection, He draws ALL people to Himself. 🙌 Jesus knows this is a tough one, especially in this fallen generation. I just say if you can't work it out with your covenant spouse, then stay celibate unto the Lord. Matthew 19:29 29 And every one that hath forsaken houses, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands, for my name's sake, shall receive an hundredfold, and shall inherit everlasting life.
Your question starts from false supposition. When divorce was conceded so was the right of remarriage (Deut. 24:2). The first marriage was prohibited from being reconciled (v.4). The second marriage was a binding marriage to which absolutely no one from scripture instructs to be dissolved, NO ONE in either Testament. What "law" are you referring to?
Jason Peters God says that he doesn't change so people will continue to believe that they can divorce their spouse so basically trade in chicken for turkey.
You must remember Jesus didn't come to change the law he came to fulfill it so if God is against divorce so is his son is us as a people that are continuing to allow adultery to take place in the church and if you are pastor and you marry somebody that has a living spouse you sending that person to hell and you going right with them for marrying them
@@lastone2145 yes I read it but Moses wrote that Moses isn't God God never made divorce if you would have made it you would have said so in the beginning after he constituted marriage so even if you get out of a marriage you can't we married unless your spouse dies no exceptions
This was music to my ears until the very end. You really have a way with words and you were really explaining it very thoroughly and very nicely until the end. How did you get such a deep revelation on marriage but you don't understand that a remarriage is adultery? At what point does the person cheating turn that relationship into a holy marriage blessed by God just because they said a vow? Running up to the altar while committing adultery doesn't qualify you for marriage, it just confirms your ignorance of God's word. All they did was make a vow to keep committing adultery. You cannot state that divorce is wrong and then turn around and say but if you're remarried you're good. I don't know if you're a real Pastor. You sound like you're trying to confuse the flock and keep people on the road to hell in my opinion.
You are spot on I am in this situation and am working to get out of this marriage. While the person I am now married to does not want it to end I know beyond a doubt that this is wrong. My fist hush is now deceased his first wife is still very much alive. I did not know about this when I married him. But I know now and want out.
@@diannewalker8725 Praise God for revealing this Revelation to you. I know in our day and age a lot of people don't think twice about dating and marrying a divorced person, it's so commonplace. I know our generation grew up with it. I just thank God he opened your eyes and showed you the truth and gave you a heart to want to do what's right. I pray that God will bless you for your obedience to His Word.
@@tawanaharris4600 Tawana your first comment literally gave me chills .Why?Because although he has an Immensely deep revelation (which makes it all the more scary)You Tawana demonstrated a unwavering foundation.Glory be to God!!!!!!!!!!Stay Steadfast in our Glorious Holy Lord Jesus Christ foundation and you can't go wrong spotting false prophets.The Sprit of Truth has led you well though out this video.Remember Satan told EVE some what of the truth only to deceive her in the end.This Man is Brilliant (As Satan is)but Extremely Dangerous.If even 1 percent of the Word of God is misrepresented especially from those who say "this is the Will of God", Woe to that FALSE TEACHER!This is a sign Revelations is getting near and Satan is trying to cut us off at the legs But with faith like yours Tawana we will continue running towards CHRIST.You hold the power of discernment.Glory be to God!!!
@@tawanaharris4600 We all have to discern the word of God by seeking His wisdom. For example, if a young man/woman got married and divorced at the age of 20 are you saying that they are to remain unmarried for the rest of their life? Paul said that’s it’s better to marry than to burn in passion. Paul also said that in order to be an elder in the church you have to be a husband of only one wife. Paul had to address this matter because Jewish law allowed for a husband to have more than one wife. God is looking at our hearts and not based on the law. For example, most people would say that King David is in heaven and I believe that as well however, David had several wives but God never accused him of committing adultery until he took another man’s wife. We all have to discern the Bible correctly because if we don’t we can mistakenly place people back under the law and not grace.
you talk 99% the truth but at the end the one 1% you lie which affects the 99% true. you can't remain in a remarried unions that God call adultery. how can God bless a remarried that he call adultery even you dont know the scripture before ???? you're a preach that bring people's to hell instead of the kingdom of heaven. God grace doesn't cover sin otherwise i remain in my sin and have the hope to go heaven. we have the grace of God when we have sin and we need to ask God for forgiveness and repent and turn away from that sin.
listen, i was so disappointed at this message at the end. I pray for this teacher Lord, I pray that the spirit of truth will minister to him and he will repent for misleading people. Everything else he mentioned was on point, except the end............ hope he addresses it sometime soon. Peace 🙏
@@samanthajohnson5958 that is exactly how I felt. Very inconsistent with what he teaches throughout the whole message, that if the cheating spouse remarries he is not allowed to return to the innocent spouse whom he may have children with as well. She is at home standing and waiting and praying for her husband to come to his senses and this preacher is stating that he CANT return to her. He is implying that the adulterous marriage is more binding than the covenant marriage. That is just wrong!!!
The lack of the cultural and historical context in the understanding of Mosaic / Talmudic / New Testament teachings concerning marriage, the divorce certificate, adultery, and remarriage is why sophomoric teachings like this fall flat. Most people don't realize that there were two Jewish schools of thought on this subject when Jesus was physically on Earth. One school saying a man can divorce his wife for any reason and the second saying the only reason was due to sexual immorality or "adultery". The point of contention being the issuance of a "certificate of divorce" by the first husband which allowed the woman to legally remarry. If the second husband divorced her or died she could not remarry the first husband. Jewish law. Jewish tradition. Since most western Christians have little to no contextual understanding of the bible and simply believe the bible was "written to them" , their time, their cultural viewpoint (American), their understanding of scripture is imprecise. Not understanding that the bible is a Jewish book about a Jewish messiah, coming to the Jewish people, the people of and under the law. The majority of what Christ taught was directed at the people who would ultimately reject him. Christ fulfilled the requirements of the law. Completely. You either believe this or you don't. For the Church marriage is a union reflective of the relationship between Christ and the Church in the context of the Church age. It is a union meant for procreation and a way of escaping sexual immorality. It is meant for life because we are to flee all sin for life. It is however not perfect because we aren't perfect. Religious dogmatism does not equal personal holiness. Judgement without mercy is also condemned. James 2:13. Do you lie? Do you repeatedly lie? Will you go to hell for repeatedly lying? Do you steal? Do you repeatedly steal? Will you go to hell as a Christian for stealing? Do watch pornography? Do you repeatedly watch pornography? Will you go to hell as a Christian for repeatedly watching pornography? The last time I checked there's only one unforgivable sin and it's not "remarriage". Who really has the hard hearts law givers?
Robert Floyd, Yes! Finally some common sense brother. If people would just look at the Greek meanings in these verses and keep things in context then they could put this issue to bed. Thank you for your voice of wisdom!
So are you saying that the new testament was written only to and for Jews?You make some generalisations that need to be looked at more carefully, although some of the new testament is gender specific , private letters, historical fact , ETC, there are many directives on how gentiles should conduct themselves ..... would you have us believe that the statements about , "Marriage , Divorce, Fornication , Adultery. and remarriage and its effects , are covered by, as you put it....."The last time I checked there's only one unforgivable sin and it's not "remarriage". Who really has the hard hearts law givers?".( I haven't seen that scripture)It reads like unless you commit the "Unforgivable sin"......you cant go to the "Lake of Fire"?
No one is saying that remarriage is an unforgivable sin. He is saying that JESUS taught that it is a sin and ought not to be done. For if we sin wilfully after that we have received the knowledge of the truth, there remaineth no more sacrifice for sins, But a certain fearful looking for of judgment and fiery indignation, which shall devour the adversaries.
@@FreedomsNurse Please help ‼ I was married for 25 years. My unbelieving abusive cheating lying ex husband left divorced me and married someone else. I want to remarry but I'm scared because I do not want to go to HELL 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Do I have to wait until he dies 1st to get Remarried? What about the scripture that says if an unbeliever leaves you you are not bound to them ? Please comment! Thanks Gina 🙏🙏🙏
@@ginagregg6642 Death is the only thing that breaks the marriage covenant. Read Romans 7:2-3 and 1 Corinthians 7:39. If you remarry before your covenant spouse dies, you will be committing adultery (Mark 10:11-12 & Luke 16:18). If an unbeliever leaves, you are still married to them and are not free to remarry. Many people have made untrue assumptions that 1 Corinthians 7:15 allows the abandoned spouse to remarry because they were looking for a way to remarry, yet in the same chapter in verse 39, it says that only death sets someone free from the marriage thus allowing them to remarry. 1 Corinthians 7:15 means that you are not bound to try to force the unbelieving spouse to remain married to you if that person wants to leave you. You are to do the peaceable thing and let that person go if that is what he/she wants to do. Trying to force the person to stay is not a peaceful thing to do. Please focus on drawing close to the Lord. He can fill any loneliness in your life if you let Him. I know because He has given me joy and peace as a live in obedience to His Word.
i believe your are correct on everything you said in video until about 16 minute mark. keep in mind john the Baptist lost his head on this issue to none christains.
He SHOT OUT IN LEFT FIELD around the 16min mark, I agree! The second marriage is NOT a marriage - It's literally as much a marriage as me saying I 'choose' to be female and therefore I am... It's simply not a fact. How POWERFUL a witness to the might of God and the HEART of that believer if they said to their NEW 'partner', "I m truly sorry for the pain and the emotional destruction this causes....But CHRIST is my ultimate goal and I MUST obey at ALL COSTS..." and leave the relationship. The Word of God spells out time and time and time again that we are to be willing to 'hate our mother, father, son, daughter, even ourselves....for His sake' - We must be willing to abandon all sin... At the same time, if we are married, we are bound to that marriage regardless of circumstances - no matter what they are - for the sole glory of God and to obey and please Him alone. Feeling unloved in the marriage....Find your rest in Christ. Feeling abused in some way? Get the church involved! Get the PASTORS involved. Seek the LORD and trust in Him, even unto death. The very men and women of scripture suffered all things - Brutalization, jail, even death....Who are WE to say we 'deserve better' or we 'shouldn't be anything but happy'.... It's a tough world - Trust me, I know - and yet Christ promises to never leave nor forsake us... But we say, "Sorry, God! I have had enough from this marriage. I don't deserve this...! I want MORE out of life. I want to be happy! And I want to be TREATED BETTER!".... How sickening - If Christ can't bring us joy in the midst of ANY sorrows and if we can not truly rely on Him to give us strength to survive through the hardest and coldest and most horrific of things - even the most horrific of marriages - then we simply can not claim to be OF Him. I can't claim to LOVE Christ and yet abandon my marriage for life any more than JESUS can say, "I forgive you but I won't welcome you into Heaven"... In the past couple years I have seen "christian" marriages - close friends and families - break up over things that simply will NEVER be Biblical reasons.... The brokenness and disdain and horror left in their wake is simply more evil than anything going on IN the marriages.... How SICKENING to believe that we can take things into our own hands.....RIP APART what GOD Himself says shall NOT be....and then turn around and expect to be perceived as a DISCIPLE of the LIVING GOD. PHEW - That's the short version of my response to this. lol
Justin Try understanding this issue from it's historic biblical unfolding. Jesus was speaking to His covenant people Israel, they were divorcing because of their hard hearts. Consequently they were defaulting on their responsibility to "cleave" or stay married (Matthew 19:5). Jesus was revealing to Israel that by not fulfilling their obligation to be faithful to each the other until death, it caused them to commit adultery. This pastor and John Piper don't believe Jesus contradicted Moses, that's an unnecessary presumption. Therefore reading them congruously would mean that Israel was being unfaithful to their former spouse (Matthew 5:32 "causeth her to commit adultery") while entering a binding marriage. The men of Israel having caused their wives to be defiled by releasing them to marry another were prohibited from ever remarrying them (former wife) Deuteronomy 24:4. A congruous understanding of Moses and Jesus would mean that although both of them revealed a shameful consequence followed remarriage, the marriage was a binding marriage. Do you deny the biblical fact that a second marriage was a binding marriage? Would the God you believe in ever affirm homosexual marriage?
Grace to you, Justin First of all know I’m not arguing against God’s heart for marriage. I fully agree that His will for marriage is lifelong. My disagreement with you revolves around remarriage. Historically (in the Old Testament), were remarriages binding marriages even though it caused a shameful consequence? Did Jesus teach that remarriages were no longer binding because a shameful consequences ensued? You are presuming He did, I do not. Although I agree we are under the New Covenant, no one should maintain that Old Testament TRUTH is obsolete. There are prophecies yet to be fulfilled about the earthly reign of the Lord Jesus Christ. The Old Testament is necessary to a proper understanding of New Testament Truth. Would you maintain that “thou shall not kill” is obsolete? Hebrews 8:13 speaks to the fact that the Old Covenant sacrificial system, the Levitical priesthood and such are obsolete, not the Truths found throughout the Old Testament. If you jettison Old Testament Truth you will not understand the New Covenant. Justin writes, “I disagree with your statement that a second marriage is a binding biblical fact.” Deuteronomy 24:1-4 establishes the biblical FACT that a binding marriage followed divorce even though a shameful consequence ensued. Do you still disagree with this biblical fact? Justin writes, “In this NEW covenant, things are explained at the heart level. Lust is not just a physical action but mental as well, murder is not just a physical action but mental as well.” I can only assume from this statement that you are saying that lust and murder did not occur mentally in the Old Testament. I can assure you it did. This is not new truth for the New Testament but rather Old Testament truth that had been overlooked by a people who believed they were innocent of adultery and murder if they had not committed the physical act. When Jesus spoke these things in the sermon on the mount (Matt. 5) I assure you it was relevant to whom He was speaking. Jesus revealed to His covenant people Israel that they were in essence adulterers and murderers. This truth certainly applies to the New Testament also, but it is not some truth obsolete to the Old as you seem to imply. Justin writes, “Moses permitted something BECAUSE of their hardness of heart. Jesus points out that it was not always this way and takes them back to the beginning and original heart of marriage. What is the original heart of marriage? What God puts together let no man separate! If Jesus calls a relationship adultery, then it's adultery. I wouldn't advise ever staying in an adulterous relationship. Name another example in scripture where a sin is only a since ONCE, and then it's ok to keep doing it? That's like saying you stole a million dollars, but you repented so now you can keep it. You got remarried while your spouse was living so Jesus calls that adultery but now it's ok. This is just nonsense logic in my opinion.” The reason it’s nonsense logic to you is because you don’t limit yourself to what Jesus actually said. You disregard biblical precedents and you interject supposition into the text. You instead reword what Jesus said to fit your supposition. For instance, Jesus never said the “relationship is adultery” or “the marriage is adultery,” but rather He said divorce and remarriage caused them to commit adultery, just like it caused defilement in Deuteronomy 24:4. But the marriage was spoken of as a marriage, a husband wife relationship even in light of the consequence. You are presuming that Jesus meant more than He said, you are speaking for God where God has not spoken. When one accepts the truth of WHO Jesus is speaking to and it’s relevance to them, they will then understand it’s retrospective implications. Jesus was revealing to Israel that they were committing this manner of adultery by prematurely ending their marriages. His only solution for this adultery was for them to stop separating the one-flesh union (Matthew 19:6). Once you understand this manner of adultery had been occurring throughout the Old Testament, you will understand Jesus’ reference to the beginning was to expose the “why” of that fact. Why had Israel been committing adultery in this manner? Because (as Jesus explains) marriage sets forth the responsibility to “cleave” (v.5) or stay together. Jesus revealed to His covenant people that by divorcing their spouse they were transgressing their responsibility to be faithful to each the other until death. Divorce and remarriage is another way of committing adultery, but the end result was they had enter another marriage and forbidden to reconcile the former (Deuteronomy 24:4). The consequence (defilement or adultery) did not negate the second marriage nor it’s responsibilities. It is your view that speaks beyond Christ, it is your view that presumes the consequence (adultery) is not a one time event. You are presuming that this adultery cannot be repented of while honoring one’s present marriage. If we limit ourselves to what the bible actually says and read Moses and Jesus congruously we will conclude that remarriage caused both a transgression and a transference of marital responsibility. Therefore remarriage resulted in a binding marriage as biblical precedents reveal. No one in either Old or New Testament instructs the “divorce to repent” supposition. Moses, Jesus nor Paul taught that the consequence invalidated the second marriage. Again I would encourage you to understand this issue from it's historic biblical unfolding. Don’t presume your suppositions are true. If you have to pit one biblical writer against the other you are on the wrong path.
Neal Doster Neal please help me. I divorced my first husband and wasnt faithful. We were not really Christians and I had not dedicated my life to Christ. My pastor said since there was no hope of reconciliation and because when a man looks at another woman with lust that is the same as committing adultery. My first husband was verbally abusive and neglected me in all ways and he didn't cheat but he flirted alot and was seeing another woman supposedly not sleeping with her . I left . I dedicated my life to Christ and have never cheated on my current husband. I am terrified of going to hell because I got remarried. I am under the impression I am allowed because my 1st husband emotional abandoned me and because he was talking to another woman. I could use any guidance. I feel like I have peace but at the same time I do have some concerns. Any advice appreciated. There are some folks that say I am going to hell because I'm in "perpetual adultery"?! Prayers please and advice. Thank you. Also do you read from KJV?
Agree with general consensus below. There is no ground for remarriage unless the covenant is broken on death. Doctrines of devils creeped in towards the end. You also negated to touch on the importance of repentance throughout. Seek Jesus for clarity brother. We do not serve a God of confusion. God bless.
@Paul Ruffin You are using Deuteronomy 24 as your basis, and that doesn't apply in these cases, because it refers to him leaving her because of an "issue of uncleanness". That is not the case when an adulterous partner leaves the innocent spouse and remarries someone and commits adultery. Now if both parties are already remarried, I can see how it may be better to keep it that way because the innocent party moved on already, and they are at peace. But if they are praying for God to turn their spouses heart back to their covenant marriage, then it would be wrong to punish the innocent party and say No you cant go back to her. Insanity!
He is preaching to match his very own situation. He is so determined to be right , his message isn't seasoned with the Holy Spirit. I bet you if his wife divorces him tomorrow, his message will change
All good up until the advice on second (3rd, 4th, etc. marriage), once it is revealed to a man, woman or couple that they are in a state of adultery because of divorce and remarriage, they must repent, they must uncouple. Repentance without restitution makes a mockery of the whole concept of repentance. Try preaching that in today's churches! It is always possible the original (covenant) marriage can be restored (I've seen it happen and it is awesome to behold), if not God will give grace to enable a single and Holy life. Once your eyes are open to this truth, God requires decision and action!
You missed the Lord’s point. Remarriage never was the adultery. Jesus was criticizing divorce and He did so by revealing what it caused for remarriage. God had not forced singleness on Israel even though they inadvertently committed this manner of adultery. Divorce is the primal cause because it prematurely ends a marriage therefore staging remarriage to violate the “faithfulness until death” responsibility. Jesus taught that divorce causes one to commit adultery when they remarry, not the marriage is the adultery. The focal point of criticism was on divorce. This manner of adultery is a two factor or two cause adultery, not one factor. Remarriage causes adultery because of divorce. That was the Lord’s point and that is why He admonished Israel to stop separating the one-flesh union (Matt. 19:6). That was His only instruction on this issue. Jesus did not teach that more divorce was the answer to this predicament. Neither did anyone else in scripture.
Nice opinions, but you need Scripture to back up your opinions. They "must uncouple," where is that found in the Bible? "Repentance without restitution makes a mockery of the whole concept of repentance." Where is that in the Bible? Nowhere in the Bible does it say you have to have to correct every wrong committed once repentance occurs. All interesting opinions, but that is all they are, man's opinions. Nowhere do we ever read of God telling someone to break up a marriage. There are so many opinions flowing around, but very little Bible.
GordonJensenVideos that's because these weak minded preachers are caught up in the flesh and is leading alot of people to hell teaching that God will bless an adulterous marriage. You'll get thrown out of churches for preaching against sin. What are these people going to church if they're going to be Sinners anyway
@@martin9410 Is it that hard to understand that repentance carries a change of mind ? A turning away ? It is the basic concept of the Bible , isn't it ?
He's right. ALL SIN must be repented of. You must turn away from the sin, not STAY in an adulterous marriage. Hellfire is real for those who don't repent and leave the adulterous marriage. If I can't do anything else, I'm telling you read, 💥👉🏽Divorce and Remarriage: What the Church DIDN'T Tell You!👈🏽💥 Oh. It will knock your socks off!! My jaw was on the floor after reading. You won't have any questions left after. Your eyes will be WIDE open‼‼
@@sounddoctrine3032I agree with you guys and I'd like to subscribe to your channel I'm looking for other watchmen on the wall I live in California, can't even find people to fellowship anymore and even churches are in apostasy, he doesn't make sense he says at the end of the video that if you didn't know that it was a sin you are not accountable well actually this video keeps you accountable and lets you know the truth so now that we know we have to do something with it and that would be to repent!
Hey brother, A viewer of mine made me aware that this video was on my divorce and remarriage adultery playlist, and I had missed what he said at the end to remain in the adulterous relationship. I deleted it. Wanted to say hello, and I hope that you are excited about Jesus' return. Maranatha.
Jesus is the same yesterday today and forever. If a spouse leave you and marry another. Scripture forbids you taking them back. God even calls it an abomination because it brings sin on the land. God doesn’t want disease on his people. Deuteronomy 24:4 I’m in this situation I understand I can’t marry till death but I can’t take them back either according to scripture.
@@WalkingbytheSpiritAlwaysyou're not supposed to stay in the adulterous relationship correct? He says at the end of this video that if you did not know you're supposed to stay in the marriage well this video makes you accountable and makes you know the truth so I don't know what he's talking about!
I really like your presentation. That's good indeed. The word of God must be explained properly as you just did. Thanks so much for this topic of remarriage. I was intending to marry a divorce woman but now, l will not go ahead. It is really important to put God first. His laws are important for our days today living
Brother you were spot on right until about 16:00. Repentance requires turning from the sin and not staying in it. What if a man were married to a man (in ignorance) and then comes to Christ, is he ok to stay in that be auze he wasn't a believer when he entered that life?
And yes I agree with MWN. He opens our eyes so we can come out, not stay in. Straight and narrow is not supposed to be easy but I want to be right with God.
He ruined it at the end by compromising. How can he says that?! Stay in your remarriage. The Lord will see you through, you should be separated but also provide for your children from that adulterous remarriage of course. You are in ignorance no longer even if you were in the first place. Yes, it's hard teaching and the disciples said that was it not better therefore not to get married. So sad to let it down at the end, if he's a pastor maybe he is afraid half his church will leave.......
Absolutely correct! You cannot teach that marriage is PERMANENT, then when you come to those who disobeyed (through ignorance or willfully--scripture NEVER addresses that), completely go against all you previously taught on the marriage covenant. Sigh........
You are right there is nothing to say if you repent and then remain in the sin it is ok. Repent means walking away from the sin anything else is delusion.
Neal remarriage while you're first spouse is alive is adultery so what so what do you mean. 1corinthians6:9,11 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, And such were some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God. Notice it said such were some of you which is past tense they are no longer an adultery(having sexual relations with someone other than their spouse). Question does remarriage cancel out adultery?
I mean there is absolutely no reference in either Old or New Testament that instructs those remarried to divorce or leave each other. Your view embraces a lot of supposition. When Jesus said remarriage causes one to commit adultery He thus makes a distinction between the marriage and the adultery, your view doesn’t. When Jesus offers His solution for this manner of adultery He only gives a before the fact solution, stop separating the one-flesh union. He didn’t teach or instruct those remarried to divorce yet again (an after the fact solution), you do. Jesus spoke of divorce and remarriage as real realities, you don’t. Jesus saw the sexual intimacy in the second marriage as sexual intimacy in the second marriage, you see as if it was in the first. Jesus taught adultery entailed more than fornication while married (an affair), the only meaning you seem to know is “having sexual relations with someone other than their spouse.” By choosing to be blind to the very words Christ employed in describing this manner of adultery you over look the central fact that those remarried are having sexual relation with their spouse!!! Intimacy between a husband and wife should not be repented of. By ignoring past reality and the words of Christ you believe the intimacy in a second marriage is actually intimacy in the first marriage. This is why you believe the intimacy must stop. If Jesus actually taught that the intimacy was occurring in the first marriage then you would be right and I would be wrong. The idea of “indissoluble marriage” would then be true. If such a concept were true, surely someone in the bible would have told us. We wouldn’t need you to deduce it in the way you have. If all the writers of scripture failed to tell us that marriage is indissoluble, then they are negligent for not teaching that somewhere in the bible. Conversely, if Jesus’ words are taking at face value and biblical history is not ignored then divorce resulted in a state the Apostle Paul called unmarried (1 Cor. 7:11). Remarriage resulted in the status of being married to another. No biblical writer ignores these realities, that’s why no biblical writer is negligent nor offers an after the fact remedy. Your biggest obstacle as a discerner of truth is to overcome the false idea of “indissoluble marriage.” As to your last question. No, remarriage does not cancel adultery. Nor would leaving one’s present spouse cancel the adultery. Only the blood of Jesus Christ can do that.
So the blood of Jesus doesn't cancel out the two homosexuals in fornication calling it a marriage, the drunkard who continues to get wasted on alcohol daily, or the liar who seem to not be able to tell the truth etc while still in it? What is your definition of repent? Deuteronomy 22:13-19If any man take a wife, and go in unto her, and hate her,And give occasions of speech against her, and bring up an evil name upon her, and say, I took this woman, and when I came to her, I found her not a maid: Then shall the father of the damsel, and her mother, take and bring forth the tokens of the damsel's virginity unto the elders of the city in the gate: And the damsel's father shall say unto the elders, I gave my daughter unto this man to wife, and he hateth her; And, lo, he hath given occasions of speech against her, saying, I found not thy daughter a maid; and yet these are the tokens of my daughter's virginity. And they shall spread the cloth before the elders of the city. And the elders of that city shall take that man and chastise him; And they shall amerce him in an hundred shekels of silver, and give them unto the father of the damsel, because he hath brought up an evil name upon a virgin of Israel: and she shall be his wife; he may not put her away all his days. Deuteronomy 22:28-29 If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found;Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days. No divorce right here in these verse old testament 1Corinthians7:10-11 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife. Notice he's still being called her husband that's because they are bound 1Corinthians7:39The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord. Roman 7:2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
*At **15:19** He said Jesus calls ALL remarriages adultery. But then he contradicts himself and said at **15:45** concerning people that are already remarried, if they done so in ignorance, or if the scripture was not explained to you, no that God does not consider you to be in adultery. You are not required to return to your first spouse, and in fact should not according to instruction of scripture....* *I totally disagree with that because the only thing that end a marriage is death, and if your first spouse is alive, Paul said if you be married to another you are committing adultery, and that goes for whether you knew it or not, and he was correct when he said Jesus calls ALL remarriages adultery, ALL remarriages would include if you remarried before you heard the truth, it's still adultery and one must get out of that adulterous second marriage or they are still in sin,* *Be not deceived no adulterers can inherit the Kingdom of God*
Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be loosed . Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife, but even if you do marry, you have not sinned. ( 1 Corinthians 7 : 27, 28 )
Yeah the modern day Pharisees don't like those scriptures. Flies in the face of their judgmentalism. Nor do they care for : "For judgment will be merciless to one who has shown no mercy; mercy triumphs over judgment." James 2:13.
The proper rendering of loose in thay context means never married not divorced. He preempts that verse with the fact a woman is bound for as long as she lives and finishes along the same way.
so... I know I robbed the bank, and I'm really sorry about that, but I'm keeping the money, and I'm having a big redemption party at my house.. oh... and I can afford two fatted calves!
Although well educated in the Scriptures, I'm still unsure of the Lord's will concerning remarriage. It seems that God's grace is sufficient for all our sins...except divorce.
The glaring error that so many are making is assuming that everyone who gets married was joined together by God🤦🏾 You can be anything and get forgiveness and get a new start in Christ, except a bad marriage. My former husband remarried. So now what? 🤔 Not SO!!!
Please go to 15 minutes of this video. The information is incorrect. Please read the Bible for your self people and Pray to God for answers. God bless you in Jesus name.
He is right. There is no such thing as divorce in the NT Church. Jesus condemned it and said it can actually cause divorce, even if the one who divorces his wife does not remarry. He "forces her into adultery"
This man is in error where he is telling people they can stay in an adulteress marriage if they are in that state once they receive the knowledge of the truth. Everything he said prior to that means nothing with his ending. He contradicts his own self. God is not the author of confusion. If he means no remarriage while first husband/wife lives, he means that, and if you are in an adulteress marriage you have to come out to be right with God, because the bible say NO adulterers or adulteress will inherit the kingdom of God. What happen to the part of the bible that say go and sin no more? You think god makes exceptions only for adultery. No he does not!!! Stop teaching this heresy or you shall receive the GREATER CONDEMNATION!
This is what I believe, even though my church does not teach this. Thank you for producing this video. But those already remarried may not engage in conjugal relations as it is adultery.
@sylviahofer, I have been celibate for over12 years. I want to do whatGod said. You have to make up your mind that you will follow Christ. That means, denying one’s flesh. Because I understand intimacy the way God said, I will honor it. Do I feel lonely sometimes, yes, but my reward is in Heaven not here on earth. God bless you.
I have a question. If they're not love each other, anyways they married through church within 3 months but, they didn't know each other good enough. They struggling to stay together forsake of their children. Until now no love between them.
I need clarification on where restitution comes in if someone who remarries should continue in that marriage instead of separating with that new spouse and either seek for a reunion with the initial spouse or remain single.
So, most astute nenita gao-ay....After 44 years of marriage, my 1st wife, without breathing a word, ran off with a former friend. After a couple of months, she did return, but it was far too late and I divorced her a couple of years later. Was I supposed to welcome her back with open arms? Thirteen years ago, while on a solo motorcycle trip, I met the woman who would become my 2nd wife and we have now been married over 10 years. She is everything my first wife wasn't, including being intelligent. Handsome la de dah Mel
@@nenitagao-ay5561 For some reason I just saw this for the 1st time. My 2nd wife is a 'no-nonsense' former Australian and is so many things my frist wife wasn't...including being smart and is a former grade school teacher in AU. Two days ago, we celebrated (together) my 65th High School graduation.....big turnout. I can hardly believe so many of my former classmates have made it into their early 80's.
Yes sir this topic is very difficult.. Being separated gives me peace of everything. Its not easy, its painful but thanks much for the grace of GOD. Though remarriage bothering me, the bible always gives me the right guidance regarding this matter. I guess, being single after separation is a great opportunity to be more intimate to JESUS CHRIST. I'VE WASTED A LOT FOR HIM AND I SINCERELY REGRET THAT. I don't know what will tommorow brings but what I believe is He have a good plan for me. To every person with same experienced like me, kindly please pray for each other that the LORD'S will in our lives must be fulfill. Not our desire but his will.
My husband divorced me because he fell in lust with a younger woman. He cheated on me and divorced me. I didn't want the divorce even after what he did to me! So now your saying I am destined to be alone for the rest of my life because of what he did?! I don't accept that. I was innocent and a faithful and good wife who stayed married for 28 years through physical abuse emotional abuse and his cheating. I forgave him every time. Now what am I to do?
Its very hard I know, Take it to prayer. Remember life here on earth is smaller or shorter then a single grain of sand on the beach compared to eternity.
Dad Nova It is so hard and its all so new. My divorce was just final on January 2. I have prayed on it and will continue to do so. It's confusing because some videos say it's misinterpreted? I need to get in and read it myself, but I am a horrible Bible reader. I'd do better listening rather than reading. I appreciate your comment and thank you for being so understanding. God bless you ❤️
Thanks for courage to stand on truth. But except for the last part. I believe a marriage is a marriage whether it’s prior to being a believer or while being a believer. A sin is a sin. It doesn’t matter if you sinned during the time without the knowledge of scripture or sinned as a believer. God bless.
@@garvinsmith4555 wrong. Only death of a spouse can free a person from the covenant of marriage. That’s why he instructs a wife to not divorce. If so, remain unmarried or reconcile to her husband.
After 44 years of marriage, my wife, without saying a word, ran off with another man. She came back in three months wanting a "Reconciliation" but it was far too late. I divorced her, was single for five years, met another woman who was everything my first wife was not. After dating for a couple of years, I again married. We are now in out seventh year of marriage. Couldn't be happier.
@@Job_Siciliano Tell me, oh most nosey one.....(Who wants to push his values onto the world and somehow believes we should all fall in line!) My wife is 84 and I'm 81. Sex has long been far in the past for both of us. So, are we living in an adulterous marriage if there is NO sex , never has been and will NEVER be?
@@Job_Siciliano You might give consideration to the FACT....there are over 2500 religions on this planet, of which Christianity is just one. What makes you so sure you just happened to choose the right one....IF there is a right one?
There is no scripture that says if one didn’t know the scripture opposing remarriage before remarrying is forgiven. He or she is living in ADULTERY period !!!
Here it is, not a sin to remarry: 1 Corinthians 7:27-28 King James Version (KJV) 27 Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife. 28 But and if thou marry, thou hast not sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned. Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you.re it is, it's not a sin to remarry:
Erik Sloan David or Abraham or Jacob wouldn’t be welcome in your fellowships. David’s way of divorce was to kill the husband and God blessed his marriage to Bathsheba and their heir became king of all Israel.Marriage is to be taken very seriously and the law says thou shalt not but grace says your forgiven and don’t sin anymore
He is consistent until he says to stay in a remarriage, cuz they didn't know better. Really? Scripture for that?? Where is God's grace to get out of adultery and live a chaste life in this instance??? Mind blowing conclusion.....
Paul Brown His last conclusion for staying in a remarriage is NOT Scriptural. Would he say the same of a gay or lesbian couple who just got saved??? They should stay together because they entered into an homosexual relationship in ignorance! Really?
He spent the whole video making the case that the 1st marriage can only be separated by death & at the end contradicts all the scriptures he quoted! Yikes!
It's sad when we hold to a certain view that gives us a sense of holiness and righteousness but in order to do so we have to ignore or conflate conflicting scriptures. On this topic as with any other you must study THE ENTIRETY OF SCRIPTURES and then harmonize.
100%. There are scriptures that say to "believe" and leave out "repent", that doesn't mean we don't need to repent, as an example. We need to read the other scriptures and see what else is commanded. There are grounds for remarriage that would not be considered adultery, but within the lines of God's word, it's narrow but it's there.
When i married , my husband hid the fact that he had been married before. We got divorced a few years later. I still didn't know about his first marriage. I only found out last year. Can i get married again or does this marriage still count ?
If this is true.. Then would this in essence nullify the santification of Jesus Christ as our Saviour by giving Himself on the cross for sin past, present and future... Would it not?
This was good, but the last part where you say those who got into second marriages because they did not know the scripture are given grace really confuses me. They did not know that they were committing adultery, and now that they know the truth must they still continue in sin so that grace may abound? I believe that God calls us to repentance and repentance means turn and do what is right. As sad and painful as it is, it is the truth and this is where true love and obedience to God is really challenged. God is no respecter of persons. He doesn’t change His word because we didn’t know the scripture. Yes we didn’t know because of our ignorance concerning His word, and now that we know that we had been leaving in sin what do we do? Through knowledge the righteous shall be delivered Proverbs 11:9. If that was a wicked way before the eyes of God , then we must turn away from our wicked ways. Please help me understand. 🙏🏽🥲
I agree with you his last part was not backed up by scripture. The state of adultery is different than a one-time occurrence . If one remains a bank robber you've got to stop robbing banks. You don't get to stay in the state that you're in. If the first legitimate marriage has not ended in death that means it's still a covenant marriage. That will only end in death. And God will give you the grace to live in that situation also. Too bad because that was an excellent explanation up until that point. Now I can't share this with others as I too would be leading them astray. God have mercy on him.
There's what you call the exception clause i heard that and i know it is wrong to remarry while a spouse is divorced so can anyone explain the exception cause
Very well presented, Biblically based up to 15:40. The concluding pt. concerning how God views those who have remarried after divorce while IGNORANT of Bible prohibitions seems to me more of the presenter's personal opinion, which many commenters seem to be in disagreement with, though it in no way discredits the preceding truth presented. ( I personally am not sure what God would have THEM do, and it's not my business, but like the pastor lean towards a treatment of their second marriage as those with an understanding that remarriage is from the present forward no longer an option, as proved from scripture) I commend you on presenting a very sound Bible teaching, which Christian pastors are universally falling down on. Comfortable or not, whether congregants receive doctrine, or turn away let's uphold the standards God has for his people. Ty & God Bless u Sir.
There is one "To him that knows to do good and doesn't do it to him it is sin" I see that as a general non specific scripture to make a point , but when we look at the specific scriptures that leave no stone unturned in regards to remarriage you couldnt use that there.
So what say of this scripture? Deuteronomy 24:1-5 KJV When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house. And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man's wife. And if the latter husband hate her, and write her a bill of divorcement, and giveth it in her hand, and sendeth her out of his house; or if the latter husband die, which took her to be his wife; Her former husband, which sent her away, may not take her again to be his wife, after that she is defiled; for that is abomination before the Lord : and thou shalt not cause the land to sin, which the Lord thy God giveth thee for an inheritance. When a man hath taken a new wife, he shall not go out to war, neither shall he be charged with any business: but he shall be free at home one year, and shall cheer up his wife which he hath taken.
I have wanted to find out what is the situation with someone who married in a registry office and the marriage was not blessed by God nor were they saved. God bless 🙏🏾
So many comments as how you will go to hell and so few regarding grace and salvation without even considering a persons circumstances. Christ has over and over again shown his love for us and yet there are some who ignore this and tell people they are going to hell for their poor life choices. Why didn't Jesus pick the pharisee's as his disciples rather than ones less perfect in the eyes of men? The victims of divorce are not perfect and their personal salvation is not determined by anyone other than our Lord and savior regardless of the comments of the many white washed tombs out there. My prayer is that all will know we serve a just and loving God and that never changes regardless of martial status. Be kind to those in need especially them that are suffering physically or any kind of loss to include divorce. Heaping guilt on those that have failed is not the answer and to threaten loss of salvation when you are not the final say is putting yourself in a position of judgment. To cite scriptures and disregard all circumstances surrounding them and to whom the audience is will reap only a partial or inaccurate understanding.
So according to you then everyone who says "Jesus" is basically going to heaven and nobody is going to hell, not adulterers, murderes, liars, nobody. Smh 🤦♂️ Ok, keep telling yourself that
The Scriptures tell us that God no longer winks at ignorance, you did very well with Scriptures or ( GODS WORDS+ up till the end of this video, You need to redo this & speak GODS truth in every Word, Even the end!
The passage you're referring to is found in Acts 17:30. In this context, Paul is comparing the One true God to all the pagan gods that surround him. He is telling folks that it is time to accept Jesus. This is not a verse about varying opinions on the topic of marriage, divorce and remarriage.
Question family. I was married in 2010, Divorced in 2016. She was married 2x before me, my first marriage. Were we really ever married? Adultery, the scriptures seem to say, since she was married previously, and both of those men are still alive. Weird case, I know. So if I were to remarry, which I desire, but with a believer, can I or no? If I should not I will not. If I may I shall. But I want to be obedient and will be. Please help.
According to the scriptures, when you married the divorced woman, you were in an adulterous relationship. See Mark 10:11-12 & Luke 16:18. Because you had never been married before you entered the adulterous union with the divorced woman, you have never been in a covenant marriage. That being the case, you would be free to marry a never-married or widowed woman and have a covenant marriage. If you are a Christian, you should only marry another Christian. 1 Corinthians 7:39 states that a Christian should marry someone who is in the Lord which means a Christian. However, before you think about marrying anyone, please pray and seek God's will for your life. "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6)."
so what do you do if your already married to your second husband for many, years and never heard of this before , and are now a Christian ,is that person suppose to divorce the current husband or wife ?
As a Christian, when you become aware of a sin, any sin, you must repent and forsake it (Proverbs 28:13). How long you've been in a sin does not excuse you from repenting of it and forsaking it. I was in a remarriage for over 20 years before I found out I was in adultery. I then had a choice to make. I could either obey God or stay in my sin of adultery. I chose to obey God because I love Him and want to please Him. To leave my adulterous remarriage was one of the hardest things I have ever done in my life, but it has been so worth it. Please chose Jesus over anyone and everything in your life. Jesus said if we are not willing to forsake all and follow Him and take up our crosses, we cannot be His disciple (Luke 14:26-27)
just found this video - from EVERLASTING GRACE - meaning Grace without end ... unless.... you committed the sin of divorce, no Grace for you! Remarried - No Grace for you!!
I found this out to be true by experience. I was cursed to leave my wife and remarry another. I lost my family, lost my children, lost my ministry, lost my job. Now 11 years later, God drove out my second spouse and 8 years later brought my first wife and 2 additional sons back into my life. I have learned to listen to God's Spirit to the "T" from this point on.
Brother @Steve Oosterhof, can we talk a bit further on this please?
What a beautiful testimony brother!
@@kinaxixe God is good.
@@BeardedGalaxy God is good.
Additional sons??? Means from another man?
Thank you for this message. I am going through a divorce because my beautiful wife of 32 years left me for another weasel/man and I have looked over and over for a loophole to remarry. I found nothing and believe the church is flooded with adulterous remarriage. Muchas gracias
I'm sorry for your loss and I know how you feel but your wife has now become an adulterous because she's marrying another man while you're still living so God does not honor what she's doing she will be living in a state of adultery everyday until she repents and leaves that second marriage
Read all the Word. Deut 24 for example. Then recognize what the original greek actually says in the N.T. The bible never contradicts itself. When it seems to it's mis-translation. Look up verses where there are tools to see the original wording. (blueletterbible.org) Many times "let go" and divorce were interchanged when they weren't supposed to be. Dig in and you'll learn.
Very much agreed with LA Stone. We must go back to the Greek and Hebrew meanings. The verses are so much different when applied correctly.
Doug ,me too 20 years 3 children ,my wife never wanted to seek biblical counseling walked out on me too messing around with different men and seeing these knuckle head guys driving cars we had together , I'm still going THROUGH the pain of my family being destroyed but I found no answer for me to remarry but just listen to God word and rejoice in my trials ..there no way around it
In order to understand this subject Hermenuetics must be applied. You must understand who Jesus was talking to, how he was answering the questions, and the state of the Jewish culture on marriage at that time. You also have to look at the original translations. Jesus was addressing the pharisees because they were putting there wives away for reasons that were ridiculous like not cooking right. Plus two individuals had just divorced their spouses to marry each other. The pharisees were trying to trick Jesus into commenting on that issue. Thus why John was beheaded.
I know many single individuals who got divorced and were not looking whatsoever and God sent godly man or woman into there life, they got remarried and have some of the most wonderful relationships and ministry.
Remember David committed adultery then married Bathseba, Hoshea married a prostitute, Moses married an Ethopian woman, the women at the well Jesus forgave, five husbands, and he did not say go back to your first.
Separation and divorce is a very sad situation in any family.💔💔
I had no choice my husband no longer wanted to be married, I tried, was abused,emotionally and physically, he cheated,drank alot then drugs and eventually I left .Went back to work due to threats of kidnapping my 2 year old and stalking, harassing...I divorced him ...he said he didn't want to be married he was on drugs mocked GOD and has nothing to do with our son who is 17.....but I know I must stay single until death. I agree the end is wrong
Melissa Mckinney he’s not saying that you should remarry. However, if you were remarried for the reasons such as first husband’s desertion, adultery or such, or you remarried in ignorance, not knowing the Scriptures, then you should not divorce again but remain in your new marriage.
And I agree with that.
Read also Deuteronomy 24:
““When a man takes a wife and marries her, and it happens that she finds no favor in his eyes because he has found some indecency in her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce and puts it in her hand and sends her out from his house, and she leaves his house and goes and becomes another man’s wife, and if the latter husband turns against her and writes her a certificate of divorce and puts it in her hand and sends her out of his house, or if the latter husband dies who took her to be his wife, then her former husband who sent her away is not allowed to take her again to be his wife, since she has been defiled; for that is an abomination before the LORD, and you shall not bring sin on the land which the LORD your God gives you as an inheritance.”
Deuteronomy 24:1-4 NASB
My ex husband found Alcohol, drugs, and that he was abusive,and adulterous....also we did attend church as a family....although did not know the verses such as this...he started mocking GOD I just have found no Scriptures in my situation that allows for remarriage
So Is staying in a marriage and being abused for the rest of your life... I dont think any good god wants to see his children living in abuse for the rest of their life just because of the sake of staying married..
@@strawberrycupcake6491 you separate and stay unmarried pray earnestly seek God and ask him to heal your marriage
My wife divorced me. She is believing but has not given her life to Christ and become a new creation. I am committed to walking in celibacy, I can't date or take on a different spouse. While I wish I was married and had a wife that was born again and loved me, but I will take on this responsibility and enjoy my bride relationship with my spouse Jesus. It has brought me closer to God since he has more than made up with love and growth in my relationship with my Abba father. I only hope Jesus has a plan for me to walk in greater boldness since I no longer have to answer to my spouse. I no longer have to worry about her or her needs.
It is ok to divorce and remarry if your spouse committed adulery Jesus speaking in Mt 5:32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, except for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery. Also again in Mt 10:19 NOTICE: except for the cause of fornication, which is actually all sexual activity out side of the marriage of one man and one women. Adultery is a reason according to Jesus
@@raymondmitchell6 I read that verse as except for the cause of formication, CAUSETH her to become an adulteress (means he does not CAUSETH her to commit adultery because fornication is already there in the marriage)
Ian L doing right
Brother, you do not have to live by these rules of men. The Bible is clear...If your spouse abandons you, you are not under bondage.
@@DerrickH1969 That's right not under bondage also,
Luke 20:35 But those who are considered worthy of taking part in the age to come & in the resurrection from the dead no longer marry, or are given in marriage, & can no longer die; for they are like the angels. They are God's children, since they are children of the resurrection.
Revelation 21:8 ... ALL liars - they will be consigned to the fiery lake of burning sulphur. This is the second death.
If fornication only refers to pre-marital relations, could you please explain to me why the word is used to describe the sin of the Corinthian who was having his father’s wife. Thanks
Wait a minute. When a person becomes aware of the sin, should they not repent of it and STOP it a.s.a.p.? Seems to me a remarriage after divorce, while previous spouse is still alive, must be annulled or voided so as to put an end to the continuous adultery.
You would be correct ma am.
Amen
Amen
Preach it, my friend 🙌
@Susan Ann Brunt if remarriage is a continuous sin that would mean the second marriage never existed to get out of in the first place.
Spot on until the end the serpent slides in
Lord help us 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🤲… The adversary came kill steal and destroy.
😂😢...I was like whatttt?!?! It undid everything he said previously.
thank you brother.. this gives me more comfort and peace with my sins.
The last part messed up the whole message! Why is it so hard for people to go by God’s word instead of leaning on their own understanding?!
I couldn't help but notice that near the end of this teaching, when the everlasting "grace" of MAN took over, the use of scripture abruptly ceased. What a sad ending to an otherwise sound and accurate teaching.
Messiah's Words First I know very sad he almost had it correct he should have just stuck with scripture
What you guys reality mean is this pastor didn’t add to scripture like you two do. This type of interpretation is called eisegesis - the interpretation of a text (as of the Bible) by reading into it one's own ideas.
No where in the bible does it teach the “divorce to repent” supposition. Nowhere!!!!!
I understand how you get your deduction but no writer of scripture came to that conclusion, only those who add to scripture do.
Neal Doster are you serious you can't see that clear contradiction at the end. It was no need for him to correctly say way scripture says and then at the end go against it pointless and causes confusion.
@ Servant Arphaxad
On the point you’re making this pastor didn’t contradict scripture, he contradicted your supposition.
Neal Doster be honest come on now really
i am divorce but i will never re marry i did not want to commit adultry i want to follow the lord commandment
Parbatie Brotherson I believe in God but you know I went through two rough marriages and it's something I don't often like to talk about but I cried out to the Lord with the true repentance heart and ask him to forgive me for breaking his laws and Commandments and I believe in my heart that I'm forgiven I was always told that all sins are forgiven except for one that's blasphemy of the Holy Spirit you don't have to take my word for it but I thought I'd share this with you
I know its rough Parbatie Brotherson hang in there
We are all here for one reason which is eternal life.
Mat 19:12 For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.
Here it is, not a sin to remarry: 1 Corinthians 7:27-28 King James Version (KJV)
27 Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife.
28 But and if thou marry, thou hast not sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned. Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you.re it is, it's not a sin to remarry:
@@KingJames-nk2cg where does the Bible say that it is not a sin to remarry?
27 Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife.
28 But and if thou marry, thou hast not sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned. Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you.
Very good explanation Praise God Keep up the good work brother. What you said is very true !
I agreed with you about everything until the very end when you said that the remarried spouse's should stay together because I for one believe that God does not want divorce and remarriage so if I'm praying for my husband to come back to me the second marriage is not a legal marriage so I'm praying that God will help my husband to repent come back to God and come back to me. ? ...see?
I agree with you Alice. Standing for our marriage is honorable and right before God, hoping for restoration. A remarriage while the spouse is still living is adultery.
He is referring to Abraham and hagar. The angel told her to return to her mistress .the law back then if a man lay with her that was single her food and clothing he shall maintain and he shall not put her away as long as he lives deut 22. V 28-29
The last part is unscriptual and will lead many to hell!!
Amen brother Amen you got the scriptures ON POINT except for the last part. You cannot stay in an adulteress marriage. You are either to reconcile with your first spouse or remain unmarried.
I agree you cannot stay in a remarriage
There are wives that are praying that they're husband return the second marriage is illegal so the wife can pray for a miracle to happen nothing absolutely nothing is impossible for God if we pray according to his will he hears us so we will pray that they will come back and that is according to God's will he wants the marriage to be restored the first marriage
@@alice4him945 The first marriage is defiled after a 2nd marriage occurs. They can only remarry if no other marriage has occurred after the 1st marriage.
The second marriage is not consider a marriage in God law so they have to reconcile with first wife or husband
Amen
When two become one flesh in marriage, it can only be broken through death. If you remarry you are not married in God's eyes but you are an adulterer. Romans 6:1-2, "What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound? 2v. God forbid. How shall we, that are dead to sin, live any longer therein?"
In order for you not to commit adultery, you must divorce your current spouse and remain single until your original spouse dies. I was married for 20 years and my ex-wife committed adultery on me. We went to counseling but she wouldn't do her share of the work to keep our marriage together. I have been divorced for over 6 years. She remarried 2 years ago. I started trying to date after 3 years of being divorced and wonder why relationships never would work out. Now I know. The Lord was trying to save my soul from going to hell because an Adulterer can not inherit the Kingdom of God. I have prayed for the "Gift" that the Apostle Paul said that he was given by God to remain unmarried. Believe me, it is a gift that can only come from God. Blessings
Ivory Perry III Amen hallelujah...me too facing the same thing,i been 6 years divorce of my ex husband because he getting remarry to another women...iam just waiting for God's word.until this minute i did not dare to have a relationship with a man.iam always getting afraid how if i commit sin with that way
Dewi Sonita, Amen my Sister-In-Christ. I pray for reconciliation on your behalf, but If your husband chooses to marry another woman then my prayer for you is Grace from God to remain unmarried until His return. Marriage is not worth your soul in hell. Walking with Jesus Christ in the New Jerusalem will be worth it all in the end. Blessings.
Ivory Perry III Amen...please put me in your prayer dear brother in Christ,so my faith will not going fate,and i will pray for your faith also...Jesus Christ blessing us,Amen.
Dewi Sonita, Amen you are in my prayers. Receive God's grace to help you through your dark times. He brings light to our dark situations.
Ivory Perry III Amen hallelujah,glori be to God,,,thanks a lot brother,,,Jesus christ bless you
at the 16 Minute mark you fully undid everything you just said, for 15 minutes. John the Baptist called for the King to divorce his brothers wife, Paul said do not even associate with the man who married his fathers wife. Scripture calls for the end of adultery marriage, and end the relationship. What you are saying, is continue in the adultery, this is contrary to what scripture teaches.
AMEN
This.
You're confused!!!!!
@JC Clinton who do you follow? You follow Christ and miss your way by wandering off following Him. And you come to your senses and still want to stay in the path where you lost your way?
You are absolutely right. You can't keep on sinning by staying in adultery. You must repent and stay single and chaste or if God makes a way, reconcile with the covenant spouse. I mistakenly had this one on my divorce and remarriage adultery playlist. My channel has done many videos about the permanence of marriage and divorce and remarriage is adultery unless the first spouse is dead. Jesus is Lord, and any day He will rapture His bride/church. Maranatha.
This video went on and on to prove everything and suddenly at the end made a statement at the end (stay together with your second spouse) with no supporting scripture. Or did i not understand it?
he is telling people to live in that sin, he is adding on to God word
Great teaching...God bless you
Thanks we needed this God is good..🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thanks for this wonderful and very clear teaching on Divorce and remarriage, though I'm not really convinced on the last statement you have.i will just select those with scripture basis not the ending part..this is what I've been waiting for...☺️..God bless you brother
Same for me. The last statement isn't biblical.
Yep The Video Was Great But The Last Statement Threw Me Off I Don't Think We Can Use Ignorance As A Defense In Any Case Of Sin It Does Say In The Bible My People Parish For A Lack Of Knowledge
Yes, that last statement just through me for a complete loop!
Jesus's Words will never return void.
Either it's one man one woman till death do they part, or it's not. If your first spouse is still alive then the covenant still remains.
Yes grace, mercy, and forgiveness are ours to behold, but even Jesus died to bring the covenant to an end that was with only Israel, but by His resurrection, He draws ALL people to Himself. 🙌
Jesus knows this is a tough one, especially in this fallen generation.
I just say if you can't work it out with your covenant spouse, then stay celibate unto the Lord.
Matthew 19:29
29 And every one that hath forsaken houses, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands, for my name's sake, shall receive an hundredfold, and shall inherit everlasting life.
Where are the biblical grounds that says one should stay in the second marriage? So then are you saying God will change his law because of ignorance?
Your question starts from false supposition. When divorce was conceded so was the right of remarriage (Deut. 24:2). The first marriage was prohibited from being reconciled (v.4). The second marriage was a binding marriage to which absolutely no one from scripture instructs to be dissolved, NO ONE in either Testament.
What "law" are you referring to?
Jason Peters God says that he doesn't change so people will continue to believe that they can divorce their spouse so basically trade in chicken for turkey.
@@dorneeeuring6103 Did you even read Deut 24?
You must remember Jesus didn't come to change the law he came to fulfill it so if God is against divorce so is his son is us as a people that are continuing to allow adultery to take place in the church and if you are pastor and you marry somebody that has a living spouse you sending that person to hell and you going right with them for marrying them
@@lastone2145 yes I read it but Moses wrote that Moses isn't God God never made divorce if you would have made it you would have said so in the beginning after he constituted marriage so even if you get out of a marriage you can't we married unless your spouse dies no exceptions
This was music to my ears until the very end. You really have a way with words and you were really explaining it very thoroughly and very nicely until the end. How did you get such a deep revelation on marriage but you don't understand that a remarriage is adultery? At what point does the person cheating turn that relationship into a holy marriage blessed by God just because they said a vow? Running up to the altar while committing adultery doesn't qualify you for marriage, it just confirms your ignorance of God's word. All they did was make a vow to keep committing adultery. You cannot state that divorce is wrong and then turn around and say but if you're remarried you're good. I don't know if you're a real Pastor. You sound like you're trying to confuse the flock and keep people on the road to hell in my opinion.
I thought the same thing he explained it so clearly and well till near the end then he blew up everything. so sad
You are spot on I am in this situation and am working to get out of this marriage. While the person I am now married to does not want it to end I know beyond a doubt that this is wrong. My fist hush is now deceased his first wife is still very much alive. I did not know about this when I married him. But I know now and want out.
@@diannewalker8725 Praise God for revealing this Revelation to you. I know in our day and age a lot of people don't think twice about dating and marrying a divorced person, it's so commonplace. I know our generation grew up with it. I just thank God he opened your eyes and showed you the truth and gave you a heart to want to do what's right. I pray that God will bless you for your obedience to His Word.
@@tawanaharris4600 Tawana your first comment literally gave me chills .Why?Because although he has an Immensely deep revelation (which makes it all the more scary)You Tawana demonstrated a unwavering foundation.Glory be to God!!!!!!!!!!Stay Steadfast in our Glorious Holy Lord Jesus Christ foundation and you can't go wrong spotting false prophets.The Sprit of Truth has led you well though out this video.Remember Satan told EVE some what of the truth only to deceive her in the end.This Man is Brilliant (As Satan is)but Extremely Dangerous.If even 1 percent of the Word of God is misrepresented especially from those who say "this is the Will of God", Woe to that FALSE TEACHER!This is a sign Revelations is getting near and Satan is trying to cut us off at the legs But with faith like yours Tawana we will continue running towards CHRIST.You hold the power of discernment.Glory be to God!!!
@@tawanaharris4600 We all have to discern the word of God by seeking His wisdom. For example, if a young man/woman got married and divorced at the age of 20 are you saying that they are to remain unmarried for the rest of their life?
Paul said that’s it’s better to marry than to burn in passion. Paul also said that in order to be an elder in the church you have to be a husband of only one wife. Paul had to address this matter because Jewish law allowed for a husband to have more than one wife.
God is looking at our hearts and not based on the law. For example, most people would say that King David is in heaven and I believe that as well however, David had several wives but God never accused him of committing adultery until he took another man’s wife.
We all have to discern the Bible correctly because if we don’t we can mistakenly place people back under the law and not grace.
Amen Amen my brother thanks merci good job
you talk 99% the truth but at the end the one 1% you lie which affects the 99% true. you can't remain in a remarried unions that God call adultery. how can God bless a remarried that he call adultery even you dont know the scripture before ???? you're a preach that bring people's to hell instead of the kingdom of heaven. God grace doesn't cover sin otherwise i remain in my sin and have the hope to go heaven. we have the grace of God when we have sin and we need to ask God for forgiveness and repent and turn away from that sin.
Shall we continue in sin that grace may abound, God forbid. This man is a liar.
He spoke the truth up to the end and if you offend in one point you are quilty of all. He is a deceiver.
He does say at the end ONCE you have the knowledge then you are accountable. So then you are ok in the remarriage. That is how i took it anyway.
listen, i was so disappointed at this message at the end. I pray for this teacher Lord, I pray that the spirit of truth will minister to him and he will repent for misleading people. Everything else he mentioned was on point, except the end............ hope he addresses it sometime soon. Peace 🙏
@@samanthajohnson5958 that is exactly how I felt. Very inconsistent with what he teaches throughout the whole message, that if the cheating spouse remarries he is not allowed to return to the innocent spouse whom he may have children with as well. She is at home standing and waiting and praying for her husband to come to his senses and this preacher is stating that he CANT return to her. He is implying that the adulterous marriage is more binding than the covenant marriage. That is just wrong!!!
The lack of the cultural and historical context in the understanding of Mosaic / Talmudic / New Testament teachings concerning marriage, the divorce certificate, adultery, and remarriage is why sophomoric teachings like this fall flat. Most people don't realize that there were two Jewish schools of thought on this subject when Jesus was physically on Earth. One school saying a man can divorce his wife for any reason and the second saying the only reason was due to sexual immorality or "adultery". The point of contention being the issuance of a "certificate of divorce" by the first husband which allowed the woman to legally remarry. If the second husband divorced her or died she could not remarry the first husband. Jewish law. Jewish tradition.
Since most western Christians have little to no contextual understanding of the bible and simply believe the bible was "written to them" , their time, their cultural viewpoint (American), their understanding of scripture is imprecise. Not understanding that the bible is a Jewish book about a Jewish messiah, coming to the Jewish people, the people of and under the law. The majority of what Christ taught was directed at the people who would ultimately reject him. Christ fulfilled the requirements of the law. Completely. You either believe this or you don't.
For the Church marriage is a union reflective of the relationship between Christ and the Church in the context of the Church age. It is a union meant for procreation and a way of escaping sexual immorality. It is meant for life because we are to flee all sin for life. It is however not perfect because we aren't perfect. Religious dogmatism does not equal personal holiness. Judgement without mercy is also condemned. James 2:13.
Do you lie? Do you repeatedly lie? Will you go to hell for repeatedly lying? Do you steal? Do you repeatedly steal? Will you go to hell as a Christian for stealing? Do watch pornography? Do you repeatedly watch pornography? Will you go to hell as a Christian for repeatedly watching pornography?
The last time I checked there's only one unforgivable sin and it's not "remarriage". Who really has the hard hearts law givers?
Robert Floyd, Yes! Finally some common sense brother. If people would just look at the Greek meanings in these verses and keep things in context then they could put this issue to bed. Thank you for your voice of wisdom!
So are you saying that the new testament was written only to and for Jews?You make some generalisations that need to be looked at more carefully, although some of the new testament is gender specific , private letters, historical fact , ETC, there are many directives on how gentiles should conduct themselves ..... would you have us believe that the statements about , "Marriage , Divorce, Fornication , Adultery. and remarriage and its effects , are covered by, as you put it....."The last time I checked there's only one unforgivable sin and it's not "remarriage". Who really has the hard hearts law givers?".( I haven't seen that scripture)It reads like unless you commit the "Unforgivable sin"......you cant go to the "Lake of Fire"?
No one is saying that remarriage is an unforgivable sin. He is saying that JESUS taught that it is a sin and ought not to be done. For if we sin wilfully after that we have received the knowledge of the truth, there remaineth no more sacrifice for sins, But a certain fearful looking for of judgment and fiery indignation, which shall devour the adversaries.
@@FreedomsNurse Please help ‼ I was married for 25 years. My unbelieving abusive cheating lying ex husband left divorced me and married someone else. I want to remarry but I'm scared because I do not want to go to HELL 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Do I have to wait until he dies 1st to get Remarried? What about the scripture that says if an unbeliever leaves you you are not bound to them ? Please comment! Thanks Gina 🙏🙏🙏
@@ginagregg6642 Death is the only thing that breaks the marriage covenant. Read Romans 7:2-3 and 1 Corinthians 7:39. If you remarry before your covenant spouse dies, you will be committing adultery (Mark 10:11-12 & Luke 16:18). If an unbeliever leaves, you are still married to them and are not free to remarry. Many people have made untrue assumptions that 1 Corinthians 7:15 allows the abandoned spouse to remarry because they were looking for a way to remarry, yet in the same chapter in verse 39, it says that only death sets someone free from the marriage thus allowing them to remarry. 1 Corinthians 7:15 means that you are not bound to try to force the unbelieving spouse to remain married to you if that person wants to leave you. You are to do the peaceable thing and let that person go if that is what he/she wants to do. Trying to force the person to stay is not a peaceful thing to do. Please focus on drawing close to the Lord. He can fill any loneliness in your life if you let Him. I know because He has given me joy and peace as a live in obedience to His Word.
Is there an email where I can send a private message?
Amazing teaching the absolute truth!
i believe your are correct on everything you said in video until about 16 minute mark.
keep in mind john the Baptist lost his head on this issue to none christains.
I was thinking the same exact thing
He SHOT OUT IN LEFT FIELD around the 16min mark, I agree!
The second marriage is NOT a marriage - It's literally as much a marriage as me saying I 'choose' to be female and therefore I am...
It's simply not a fact.
How POWERFUL a witness to the might of God and the HEART of that believer if they said to their NEW 'partner', "I m truly sorry for the pain and the emotional destruction this causes....But CHRIST is my ultimate goal and I MUST obey at ALL COSTS..." and leave the relationship.
The Word of God spells out time and time and time again that we are to be willing to 'hate our mother, father, son, daughter, even ourselves....for His sake' - We must be willing to abandon all sin...
At the same time, if we are married, we are bound to that marriage regardless of circumstances - no matter what they are - for the sole glory of God and to obey and please Him alone.
Feeling unloved in the marriage....Find your rest in Christ.
Feeling abused in some way? Get the church involved! Get the PASTORS involved. Seek the LORD and trust in Him, even unto death.
The very men and women of scripture suffered all things - Brutalization, jail, even death....Who are WE to say we 'deserve better' or we 'shouldn't be anything but happy'....
It's a tough world - Trust me, I know - and yet Christ promises to never leave nor forsake us...
But we say, "Sorry, God! I have had enough from this marriage. I don't deserve this...! I want MORE out of life. I want to be happy! And I want to be TREATED BETTER!"....
How sickening -
If Christ can't bring us joy in the midst of ANY sorrows and if we can not truly rely on Him to give us strength to survive through the hardest and coldest and most horrific of things - even the most horrific of marriages - then we simply can not claim to be OF Him.
I can't claim to LOVE Christ and yet abandon my marriage for life any more than JESUS can say, "I forgive you but I won't welcome you into Heaven"...
In the past couple years I have seen "christian" marriages - close friends and families - break up over things that simply will NEVER be Biblical reasons....
The brokenness and disdain and horror left in their wake is simply more evil than anything going on IN the marriages....
How SICKENING to believe that we can take things into our own hands.....RIP APART what GOD Himself says shall NOT be....and then turn around and expect to be perceived as a DISCIPLE of the LIVING GOD.
PHEW -
That's the short version of my response to this. lol
Justin
Try understanding this issue from it's historic biblical unfolding. Jesus was speaking to His covenant people Israel, they were divorcing because of their hard hearts. Consequently they were defaulting on their responsibility to "cleave" or stay married (Matthew 19:5). Jesus was revealing to Israel that by not fulfilling their obligation to be faithful to each the other until death, it caused them to commit adultery.
This pastor and John Piper don't believe Jesus contradicted Moses, that's an unnecessary presumption. Therefore reading them congruously would mean that Israel was being unfaithful to their former spouse (Matthew 5:32 "causeth her to commit adultery") while entering a binding marriage. The men of Israel having caused their wives to be defiled by releasing them to marry another were prohibited from ever remarrying them (former wife) Deuteronomy 24:4.
A congruous understanding of Moses and Jesus would mean that although both of them revealed a shameful consequence followed remarriage, the marriage was a binding marriage.
Do you deny the biblical fact that a second marriage was a binding marriage?
Would the God you believe in ever affirm homosexual marriage?
Grace to you, Justin
First of all know I’m not arguing against God’s heart for marriage. I fully agree that His will for marriage is lifelong. My disagreement with you revolves around remarriage. Historically (in the Old Testament), were remarriages binding marriages even though it caused a shameful consequence? Did Jesus teach that remarriages were no longer binding because a shameful consequences ensued? You are presuming He did, I do not.
Although I agree we are under the New Covenant, no one should maintain that Old Testament TRUTH is obsolete. There are prophecies yet to be fulfilled about the earthly reign of the Lord Jesus Christ. The Old Testament is necessary to a proper understanding of New Testament Truth. Would you maintain that “thou shall not kill” is obsolete?
Hebrews 8:13 speaks to the fact that the Old Covenant sacrificial system, the Levitical priesthood and such are obsolete, not the Truths found throughout the Old Testament. If you jettison Old Testament Truth you will not understand the New Covenant.
Justin writes, “I disagree with your statement that a second marriage is a binding biblical fact.”
Deuteronomy 24:1-4 establishes the biblical FACT that a binding marriage followed divorce even though a shameful consequence ensued. Do you still disagree with this biblical fact?
Justin writes, “In this NEW covenant, things are explained at the heart level. Lust is not just a physical action but mental as well, murder is not just a physical action but mental as well.”
I can only assume from this statement that you are saying that lust and murder did not occur mentally in the Old Testament. I can assure you it did. This is not new truth for the New Testament but rather Old Testament truth that had been overlooked by a people who believed they were innocent of adultery and murder if they had not committed the physical act. When Jesus spoke these things in the sermon on the mount (Matt. 5) I assure you it was relevant to whom He was speaking. Jesus revealed to His covenant people Israel that they were in essence adulterers and murderers. This truth certainly applies to the New Testament also, but it is not some truth obsolete to the Old as you seem to imply.
Justin writes, “Moses permitted something BECAUSE of their hardness of heart. Jesus points out that it was not always this way and takes them back to the beginning and original heart of marriage. What is the original heart of marriage? What God puts together let no man separate! If Jesus calls a relationship adultery, then it's adultery. I wouldn't advise ever staying in an adulterous relationship. Name another example in scripture where a sin is only a since ONCE, and then it's ok to keep doing it? That's like saying you stole a million dollars, but you repented so now you can keep it. You got remarried while your spouse was living so Jesus calls that adultery but now it's ok. This is just nonsense logic in my opinion.”
The reason it’s nonsense logic to you is because you don’t limit yourself to what Jesus actually said. You disregard biblical precedents and you interject supposition into the text. You instead reword what Jesus said to fit your supposition. For instance, Jesus never said the “relationship is adultery” or “the marriage is adultery,” but rather He said divorce and remarriage caused them to commit adultery, just like it caused defilement in Deuteronomy 24:4. But the marriage was spoken of as a marriage, a husband wife relationship even in light of the consequence. You are presuming that Jesus meant more than He said, you are speaking for God where God has not spoken.
When one accepts the truth of WHO Jesus is speaking to and it’s relevance to them, they will then understand it’s retrospective implications. Jesus was revealing to Israel that they were committing this manner of adultery by prematurely ending their marriages. His only solution for this adultery was for them to stop separating the one-flesh union (Matthew 19:6). Once you understand this manner of adultery had been occurring throughout the Old Testament, you will understand Jesus’ reference to the beginning was to expose the “why” of that fact. Why had Israel been committing adultery in this manner? Because (as Jesus explains) marriage sets forth the responsibility to “cleave” (v.5) or stay together. Jesus revealed to His covenant people that by divorcing their spouse they were transgressing their responsibility to be faithful to each the other until death. Divorce and remarriage is another way of committing adultery, but the end result was they had enter another marriage and forbidden to reconcile the former (Deuteronomy 24:4). The consequence (defilement or adultery) did not negate the second marriage nor it’s responsibilities.
It is your view that speaks beyond Christ, it is your view that presumes the consequence (adultery) is not a one time event. You are presuming that this adultery cannot be repented of while honoring one’s present marriage. If we limit ourselves to what the bible actually says and read Moses and Jesus congruously we will conclude that remarriage caused both a transgression and a transference of marital responsibility. Therefore remarriage resulted in a binding marriage as biblical precedents reveal. No one in either Old or New Testament instructs the “divorce to repent” supposition. Moses, Jesus nor Paul taught that the consequence invalidated the second marriage.
Again I would encourage you to understand this issue from it's historic biblical unfolding. Don’t presume your suppositions are true. If you have to pit one biblical writer against the other you are on the wrong path.
Neal Doster Neal please help me. I divorced my first husband and wasnt faithful. We were not really Christians and I had not dedicated my life to Christ. My pastor said since there was no hope of reconciliation and because when a man looks at another woman with lust that is the same as committing adultery. My first husband was verbally abusive and neglected me in all ways and he didn't cheat but he flirted alot and was seeing another woman supposedly not sleeping with her . I left . I dedicated my life to Christ and have never cheated on my current husband. I am terrified of going to hell because I got remarried. I am under the impression I am allowed because my 1st husband emotional abandoned me and because he was talking to another woman. I could use any guidance. I feel like I have peace but at the same time I do have some concerns. Any advice appreciated. There are some folks that say I am going to hell because I'm in "perpetual adultery"?! Prayers please and advice. Thank you. Also do you read from KJV?
Agree with general consensus below. There is no ground for remarriage unless the covenant is broken on death. Doctrines of devils creeped in towards the end. You also negated to touch on the importance of repentance throughout. Seek Jesus for clarity brother. We do not serve a God of confusion. God bless.
That's what I say!!
@Paul Ruffin You are using Deuteronomy 24 as your basis, and that doesn't apply in these cases, because it refers to him leaving her because of an "issue of uncleanness". That is not the case when an adulterous partner leaves the innocent spouse and remarries someone and commits adultery. Now if both parties are already remarried, I can see how it may be better to keep it that way because the innocent party moved on already, and they are at peace. But if they are praying for God to turn their spouses heart back to their covenant marriage, then it would be wrong to punish the innocent party and say No you cant go back to her. Insanity!
Paul Ruffin the Lord didn’t expect a second marriage for any whether free or bound so they have to separate and REPENT !!!
He is preaching to match his very own situation. He is so determined to be right , his message isn't seasoned with the Holy Spirit. I bet you if his wife divorces him tomorrow, his message will change
Thanks for speaking the truth
Great teaching 👍🏻👍🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
All good up until the advice on second (3rd, 4th, etc. marriage), once it is revealed to a man, woman or couple that they are in a state of adultery because of divorce and remarriage, they must repent, they must uncouple. Repentance without restitution makes a mockery of the whole concept of repentance. Try preaching that in today's churches!
It is always possible the original (covenant) marriage can be restored (I've seen it happen and it is awesome to behold), if not God will give grace to enable a single and Holy life. Once your eyes are open to this truth, God requires decision and action!
You missed the Lord’s point. Remarriage never was the adultery. Jesus was criticizing divorce and He did so by revealing what it caused for remarriage. God had not forced singleness on Israel even though they inadvertently committed this manner of adultery. Divorce is the primal cause because it prematurely ends a marriage therefore staging remarriage to violate the “faithfulness until death” responsibility. Jesus taught that divorce causes one to commit adultery when they remarry, not the marriage is the adultery. The focal point of criticism was on divorce. This manner of adultery is a two factor or two cause adultery, not one factor. Remarriage causes adultery because of divorce. That was the Lord’s point and that is why He admonished Israel to stop separating the one-flesh union (Matt. 19:6). That was His only instruction on this issue. Jesus did not teach that more divorce was the answer to this predicament. Neither did anyone else in scripture.
Agreed!
Nice opinions, but you need Scripture to back up your opinions. They "must uncouple," where is that found in the Bible? "Repentance without restitution makes a mockery of the whole concept of repentance." Where is that in the Bible? Nowhere in the Bible does it say you have to have to correct every wrong committed once repentance occurs. All interesting opinions, but that is all they are, man's opinions. Nowhere do we ever read of God telling someone to break up a marriage. There are so many opinions flowing around, but very little Bible.
GordonJensenVideos that's because these weak minded preachers are caught up in the flesh and is leading alot of people to hell teaching that God will bless an adulterous marriage. You'll get thrown out of churches for preaching against sin. What are these people going to church if they're going to be Sinners anyway
@@martin9410 Is it that hard to understand that repentance carries a change of mind ? A turning away ? It is the basic concept of the Bible , isn't it ?
I totally agree with you on this bro until you said the last part Repent and come out the adultery! Hell fire 🔥 is real!
He's right. ALL SIN must be repented of. You must turn away from the sin, not STAY in an adulterous marriage. Hellfire is real for those who don't repent and leave the adulterous marriage.
If I can't do anything else, I'm telling you read, 💥👉🏽Divorce and Remarriage: What the Church DIDN'T Tell You!👈🏽💥 Oh. It will knock your socks off!! My jaw was on the floor after reading. You won't have any questions left after.
Your eyes will be WIDE open‼‼
@@sounddoctrine3032I agree with you guys and I'd like to subscribe to your channel I'm looking for other watchmen on the wall I live in California, can't even find people to fellowship anymore and even churches are in apostasy, he doesn't make sense he says at the end of the video that if you didn't know that it was a sin you are not accountable well actually this video keeps you accountable and lets you know the truth so now that we know we have to do something with it and that would be to repent!
I don't want to be stuck in eternal blackness for all eternity! Come out of whatever it is!!
I do not understand the last part of this message, please explain!!!
Thanks for your comment regarding 1 Cor. 7:15 that the believer is not in bound to fight to reserve togetherness. I used that in my book. Thanks!
Please don't write a book.
@@rominaf4901 already did!
Please search David Pawson ( he's a bible teacher) on this said topic. He explains this in its entirety. God bless him.
he has one of, if not the best teaching, on this subject....
I thought it was good until the last part. Got disappointed! Yes David Pawson’s teaching on this subject is very clear. 👍
Use the Bible rather
You are required to return to your first covenant that is only broken by death!!!
You can remain single
Hey brother, A viewer of mine made me aware that this video was on my divorce and remarriage adultery playlist, and I had missed what he said at the end to remain in the adulterous relationship. I deleted it. Wanted to say hello, and I hope that you are excited about Jesus' return. Maranatha.
Jesus is the same yesterday today and forever. If a spouse leave you and marry another. Scripture forbids you taking them back. God even calls it an abomination because it brings sin on the land. God doesn’t want disease on his people. Deuteronomy 24:4 I’m in this situation I understand I can’t marry till death but I can’t take them back either according to scripture.
Return to an abusive marriage? God FORGIVES divorce/remarriage like He does everything else.
@@WalkingbytheSpiritAlwaysyou're not supposed to stay in the adulterous relationship correct? He says at the end of this video that if you did not know you're supposed to stay in the marriage well this video makes you accountable and makes you know the truth so I don't know what he's talking about!
Clear and understandable.
Perfect. God bless you brothers!
I really like your presentation. That's good indeed. The word of God must be explained properly as you just did. Thanks so much for this topic of remarriage. I was intending to marry a divorce woman but now, l will not go ahead. It is really important to put God first. His laws are important for our days today living
Yayyyy God's proud of you
Brother you were spot on right until about 16:00. Repentance requires turning from the sin and not staying in it. What if a man were married to a man (in ignorance) and then comes to Christ, is he ok to stay in that be auze he wasn't a believer when he entered that life?
That wouldn't be considered a marriage
You are right. Repentance is to leave the sin, and go and sin no more. Maranatha.
Thank you for just telling the truth. I can go get smooth sayings anywhere.
And yes I agree with MWN. He opens our eyes so we can come out, not stay in. Straight and narrow is not supposed to be easy but I want to be right with God.
Blessing masasage Praise God 👏 🙌 Hallelujah
He ruined it at the end by compromising. How can he says that?! Stay in your remarriage. The Lord will see you through, you should be separated but also provide for your children from that adulterous remarriage of course. You are in ignorance no longer even if you were in the first place. Yes, it's hard teaching and the disciples said that was it not better therefore not to get married. So sad to let it down at the end, if he's a pastor maybe he is afraid half his church will leave.......
Absolutely correct! You cannot teach that marriage is PERMANENT, then when you come to those who disobeyed (through ignorance or willfully--scripture NEVER addresses that), completely go against all you previously taught on the marriage covenant. Sigh........
You are right there is nothing to say if you repent and then remain in the sin it is ok. Repent means walking away from the sin anything else is delusion.
A man that divorces his wife, and his divorced wife marries another man it is an abomination to the Lord for that man to marry her again.
@@macc0827 where does it say this?
Thanks brother. I an blessed to understand there are more believers out there that see eye to eye with us on this serious issue.
the important thing is what does the text teach...
You are right on scripturally,keep teaching the truth❤
Well explained
any scriptures reference to staying in 2nd marriage?
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Any scripture reference for ending second marriages?
Neal remarriage while you're first spouse is alive is adultery so what so what do you mean. 1corinthians6:9,11 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,
And such were some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God.
Notice it said such were some of you which is past tense they are no longer an adultery(having sexual relations with someone other than their spouse).
Question does remarriage cancel out adultery?
I mean there is absolutely no reference in either Old or New Testament that instructs those remarried to divorce or leave each other. Your view embraces a lot of supposition. When Jesus said remarriage causes one to commit adultery He thus makes a distinction between the marriage and the adultery, your view doesn’t. When Jesus offers His solution for this manner of adultery He only gives a before the fact solution, stop separating the one-flesh union. He didn’t teach or instruct those remarried to divorce yet again (an after the fact solution), you do. Jesus spoke of divorce and remarriage as real realities, you don’t. Jesus saw the sexual intimacy in the second marriage as sexual intimacy in the second marriage, you see as if it was in the first. Jesus taught adultery entailed more than fornication while married (an affair), the only meaning you seem to know is “having sexual relations with someone other than their spouse.” By choosing to be blind to the very words Christ employed in describing this manner of adultery you over look the central fact that those remarried are having sexual relation with their spouse!!! Intimacy between a husband and wife should not be repented of.
By ignoring past reality and the words of Christ you believe the intimacy in a second marriage is actually intimacy in the first marriage. This is why you believe the intimacy must stop. If Jesus actually taught that the intimacy was occurring in the first marriage then you would be right and I would be wrong. The idea of “indissoluble marriage” would then be true. If such a concept were true, surely someone in the bible would have told us. We wouldn’t need you to deduce it in the way you have. If all the writers of scripture failed to tell us that marriage is indissoluble, then they are negligent for not teaching that somewhere in the bible.
Conversely, if Jesus’ words are taking at face value and biblical history is not ignored then divorce resulted in a state the Apostle Paul called unmarried (1 Cor. 7:11). Remarriage resulted in the status of being married to another. No biblical writer ignores these realities, that’s why no biblical writer is negligent nor offers an after the fact remedy. Your biggest obstacle as a discerner of truth is to overcome the false idea of “indissoluble marriage.”
As to your last question. No, remarriage does not cancel adultery. Nor would leaving one’s present spouse cancel the adultery. Only the blood of Jesus Christ can do that.
So the blood of Jesus doesn't cancel out the two homosexuals in fornication calling it a marriage, the drunkard who continues to get wasted on alcohol daily, or the liar who seem to not be able to tell the truth etc while still in it? What is your definition of repent?
Deuteronomy 22:13-19If any man take a wife, and go in unto her, and hate her,And give occasions of speech against her, and bring up an evil name upon her, and say, I took this woman, and when I came to her, I found her not a maid:
Then shall the father of the damsel, and her mother, take and bring forth the tokens of the damsel's virginity unto the elders of the city in the gate:
And the damsel's father shall say unto the elders, I gave my daughter unto this man to wife, and he hateth her;
And, lo, he hath given occasions of speech against her, saying, I found not thy daughter a maid; and yet these are the tokens of my daughter's virginity. And they shall spread the cloth before the elders of the city.
And the elders of that city shall take that man and chastise him;
And they shall amerce him in an hundred shekels of silver, and give them unto the father of the damsel, because he hath brought up an evil name upon a virgin of Israel: and she shall be his wife; he may not put her away all his days.
Deuteronomy 22:28-29
If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found;Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days.
No divorce right here in these verse old testament
1Corinthians7:10-11 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.
Notice he's still being called her husband that's because they are bound 1Corinthians7:39The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
Roman 7:2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
*At **15:19** He said Jesus calls ALL remarriages adultery. But then he contradicts himself and said at **15:45** concerning people that are already remarried, if they done so in ignorance, or if the scripture was not explained to you, no that God does not consider you to be in adultery. You are not required to return to your first spouse, and in fact should not according to instruction of scripture....*
*I totally disagree with that because the only thing that end a marriage is death, and if your first spouse is alive, Paul said if you be married to another you are committing adultery, and that goes for whether you knew it or not, and he was correct when he said Jesus calls ALL remarriages adultery, ALL remarriages would include if you remarried before you heard the truth, it's still adultery and one must get out of that adulterous second marriage or they are still in sin,*
*Be not deceived no adulterers can inherit the Kingdom of God*
Ignorance is no exception of the law. Ask the police man.
cooljc26 Amen
You're ignorant to the full understandment!!!! God blesses all marriages!
@@kingdavid4466 i know you haven't read the old testament if you would make that statement. Please read the last chaptet of numbers in kjv. My word.
LaRissa Taylor www.google.ca/amp/s/www.gotquestions.org/amp/remarriage-adultery.html
You need to leave the second person you married and remain single. Repentance is not continuing in adultry which leads to hell.
This was so good! God bless you!
He ended in ERROR
Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be loosed . Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife, but even if you do marry, you have not sinned. ( 1 Corinthians 7 : 27, 28 )
Yeah the modern day Pharisees don't like those scriptures. Flies in the face of their judgmentalism. Nor do they care for : "For judgment will be merciless to one who has shown no mercy; mercy triumphs over judgment." James 2:13.
The proper rendering of loose in thay context means never married not divorced. He preempts that verse with the fact a woman is bound for as long as she lives and finishes along the same way.
@@meadowbrooks4041 so "Are you never married from a wife?" You're clutching me thinks. But grace and mercy to you.
This guy is pathetic. Jesus calls us to freedom when an unbeliever chooses a life of adultery.
so... I know I robbed the bank, and I'm really sorry about that, but I'm keeping the money, and I'm having a big redemption party at my house.. oh... and I can afford two fatted calves!
Lol
So....I know I murdered a guy, I'm really sorry but I refuse to bring the guy back from the dead.
@@GardeningforFreedom have you read Ezra 10?
@@James-li8cm can you raise the dead?
@@GardeningforFreedom no, but I know who can....
happy trolling
Can you pls advice me what to do
Agreed, thank you Brother.
Although well educated in the Scriptures, I'm still unsure of the Lord's will concerning remarriage. It seems that God's grace is sufficient for all our sins...except divorce.
God's grace does not allow us to continue in sin. Please read Romans 6:1-2. If we are to be forgiven for our sins, we must also forsake them.
The glaring error that so many are making is assuming that everyone who gets married was joined together by God🤦🏾
You can be anything and get forgiveness and get a new start in Christ, except a bad marriage. My former husband remarried.
So now what? 🤔
Not SO!!!
Please go to 15 minutes of this video. The information is incorrect. Please read the Bible for your self people and Pray to God for answers. God bless you in Jesus name.
He is right. There is no such thing as divorce in the NT Church. Jesus condemned it and said it can actually cause divorce, even if the one who divorces his wife does not remarry. He "forces her into adultery"
@@SaanichtonMinistries he's wrong in saying that if people remarried after a divorce that they can remain in their adulterous union.
I happen to have a soft spot for the number of people whose families and homes, broke up due to separation and divorce.💔💔
Thank you brother
This man is in error where he is telling people they can stay in an adulteress marriage if they are in that state once they receive the knowledge of the truth. Everything he said prior to that means nothing with his ending. He contradicts his own self. God is not the author of confusion. If he means no remarriage while first husband/wife lives, he means that, and if you are in an adulteress marriage you have to come out to be right with God, because the bible say NO adulterers or adulteress will inherit the kingdom of God. What happen to the part of the bible that say go and sin no more? You think god makes exceptions only for adultery. No he does not!!! Stop teaching this heresy or you shall receive the GREATER CONDEMNATION!
This is what I believe, even though my church does not teach this. Thank you for producing this video. But those already remarried may not engage in conjugal relations as it is adultery.
Like that's gonna happen...
They need to repent and LEAVE the relationship and get a divorce.
@sylviahofer, I have been celibate for over12 years. I want to do whatGod said. You have to make up your mind that you will follow Christ. That means, denying one’s flesh. Because I understand intimacy the way God said, I will honor it. Do I feel lonely sometimes, yes, but my reward is in Heaven not here on earth. God bless you.
I have a question. If they're not love each other, anyways they married through church within 3 months but, they didn't know each other good enough. They struggling to stay together forsake of their children. Until now no love between them.
I need clarification on where restitution comes in if someone who remarries should continue in that marriage instead of separating with that new spouse and either seek for a reunion with the initial spouse or remain single.
Thank you Pastor, your teaching is very clear. No remarriage after divorce. And divorce is not recommended to anyone.
So, most astute nenita gao-ay....After 44 years of marriage, my 1st wife, without breathing a word, ran off with a former friend. After a couple of months, she did return, but it was far too late and I divorced her a couple of years later. Was I supposed to welcome her back with open arms?
Thirteen years ago, while on a solo motorcycle trip, I met the woman who would become my 2nd wife and we have now been married over 10 years. She is everything my first wife wasn't, including being intelligent.
Handsome la de dah Mel
@@blackholeentry3489 Yeah...I understand you now. And can feel now the reason why there is divorce...Good luck to you and your second wife...
@@blackholeentry3489 That's terrible what happened to you but glad to hear how it all turned out for you.
@@nenitagao-ay5561 For some reason I just saw this for the 1st time. My 2nd wife is a 'no-nonsense' former Australian and is so many things my frist wife wasn't...including being smart and is a former grade school teacher in AU. Two days ago, we celebrated (together) my 65th High School graduation.....big turnout. I can hardly believe so many of my former classmates have made it into their early 80's.
@@em77775 There is an old saying...."For every door which closes, TWO more open." I do believe that is what happened to me.
Yes sir this topic is very difficult..
Being separated gives me peace of everything. Its not easy, its painful but thanks much for the grace of GOD.
Though remarriage bothering me, the bible always gives me the right guidance regarding this matter.
I guess, being single after separation is a great opportunity to be more intimate to JESUS CHRIST. I'VE WASTED A LOT FOR HIM AND I SINCERELY REGRET THAT. I don't know what will tommorow brings but what I believe is He have a good plan for me. To every person with same experienced like me, kindly please pray for each other that the LORD'S will in our lives must be fulfill. Not our desire but his will.
My husband divorced me because he fell in lust with a younger woman. He cheated on me and divorced me. I didn't want the divorce even after what he did to me! So now your saying I am destined to be alone for the rest of my life because of what he did?! I don't accept that. I was innocent and a faithful and good wife who stayed married for 28 years through physical abuse emotional abuse and his cheating. I forgave him every time. Now what am I to do?
Its very hard I know, Take it to prayer. Remember life here on earth is smaller or shorter then a single grain of sand on the beach compared to eternity.
Dad Nova It is so hard and its all so new. My divorce was just final on January 2. I have prayed on it and will continue to do so. It's confusing because some videos say it's misinterpreted? I need to get in and read it myself, but I am a horrible Bible reader. I'd do better listening rather than reading. I appreciate your comment and thank you for being so understanding. God bless you ❤️
Taught very well 👏🏾👌. 👏🏾Glory be to GOD.and Yes Hell is VERY REAL.
Thanks for courage to stand on truth. But except for the last part. I believe a marriage is a marriage whether it’s prior to being a believer or while being a believer. A sin is a sin. It doesn’t matter if you sinned during the time without the knowledge of scripture or sinned as a believer.
God bless.
Paul did allowed divorce but in accordance with the law of the land
@@garvinsmith4555 wrong.
Only death of a spouse can free a person from the covenant of marriage.
That’s why he instructs a wife to not divorce. If so, remain unmarried or reconcile to her husband.
@@truthhurts6145 I think you misunderstood me, I hold firmly to the permanance view!
After 44 years of marriage, my wife, without saying a word, ran off with another man. She came back in three months wanting a "Reconciliation" but it was far too late. I divorced her, was single for five years, met another woman who was everything my first wife was not. After dating for a couple of years, I again married. We are now in out seventh year of marriage. Couldn't be happier.
Do you love Adultery more than you love God? 🤔
@@Job_Siciliano Kind of a ridiculous question, as there is NO God.
@@godgavemeeyestosee You, Sir, are so full of shit. There is NO God.
@@Job_Siciliano Tell me, oh most nosey one.....(Who wants to push his values onto the world and somehow believes we should all fall in line!)
My wife is 84 and I'm 81. Sex has long been far in the past for both of us. So, are we living in an adulterous marriage if there is NO sex , never has been and will NEVER be?
@@Job_Siciliano You might give consideration to the FACT....there are over 2500 religions on this planet, of which Christianity is just one. What makes you so sure you just happened to choose the right one....IF there is a right one?
God Bless You!
where's the scripture to back those last comments brother???
1 Corinthians 6 9-11
There is no scripture that says if one didn’t know the scripture opposing remarriage before remarrying is forgiven. He or she is living in ADULTERY period !!!
Here it is, not a sin to remarry: 1 Corinthians 7:27-28 King James Version (KJV)
27 Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife.
28 But and if thou marry, thou hast not sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned. Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you.re it is, it's not a sin to remarry:
Amen sister. Speak the truth.
Erik Sloan David or Abraham or Jacob wouldn’t be welcome in your fellowships. David’s way of divorce was to kill the husband and God blessed his marriage to Bathsheba and their heir became king of all Israel.Marriage is to be taken very seriously and the law says thou shalt not but grace says your forgiven and don’t sin anymore
He is consistent until he says to stay in a remarriage, cuz they didn't know better. Really? Scripture for that?? Where is God's grace to get out of adultery and live a chaste life in this instance??? Mind blowing conclusion.....
Paul Brown His last conclusion for staying in a remarriage is NOT Scriptural. Would he say the same of a gay or lesbian couple who just got saved??? They should stay together because they entered into an homosexual relationship in ignorance! Really?
Agreed it is a bizarre mind-blowing conclusion after such a eloquent job before that.
What about if after remarrying another woman the first wife dies. Do you still have to divorce the second wife?
Muito interessante este tema.
He spent the whole video making the case that the 1st marriage can only be separated by death & at the end contradicts all the scriptures he quoted! Yikes!
Exactly the kind of diatribe we are warned to ignore
It's sad when we hold to a certain view that gives us a sense of holiness and righteousness but in order to do so we have to ignore or conflate conflicting scriptures. On this topic as with any other you must study THE ENTIRETY OF SCRIPTURES and then harmonize.
100%. There are scriptures that say to "believe" and leave out "repent", that doesn't mean we don't need to repent, as an example. We need to read the other scriptures and see what else is commanded. There are grounds for remarriage that would not be considered adultery, but within the lines of God's word, it's narrow but it's there.
When i married , my husband hid the fact that he had been married before. We got divorced a few years later. I still didn't know about his first marriage. I only found out last year. Can i get married again or does this marriage still count ?
Praise God
If this is true.. Then would this in essence nullify the santification of Jesus Christ as our Saviour by giving Himself on the cross for sin past, present and future... Would it not?
This was good, but the last part where you say those who got into second marriages because they did not know the scripture are given grace really confuses me. They did not know that they were committing adultery, and now that they know the truth must they still continue in sin so that grace may abound? I believe that God calls us to repentance and repentance means turn and do what is right. As sad and painful as it is, it is the truth and this is where true love and obedience to God is really challenged. God is no respecter of persons. He doesn’t change His word because we didn’t know the scripture. Yes we didn’t know because of our ignorance concerning His word, and now that we know that we had been leaving in sin what do we do? Through knowledge the righteous shall be delivered Proverbs 11:9. If that was a wicked way before the eyes of God , then we must turn away from our wicked ways. Please help me understand. 🙏🏽🥲
I agree with you his last part was not backed up by scripture. The state of adultery is different than a one-time occurrence . If one remains a bank robber you've got to stop robbing banks. You don't get to stay in the state that you're in. If the first legitimate marriage has not ended in death that means it's still a covenant marriage. That will only end in death. And God will give you the grace to live in that situation also. Too bad because that was an excellent explanation up until that point. Now I can't share this with others as I too would be leading them astray. God have mercy on him.
There's what you call the exception clause i heard that and i know it is wrong to remarry while a spouse is divorced so can anyone explain the exception cause
Very well presented, Biblically based up to 15:40. The concluding pt. concerning how God views those who have remarried after divorce while IGNORANT of Bible prohibitions seems to me more of the presenter's personal opinion, which many commenters seem to be in disagreement with, though it in no way discredits the preceding truth presented. ( I personally am not sure what God would have THEM do, and it's not my business, but like the pastor lean towards a treatment of their second marriage as those with an understanding that remarriage is from the present forward no longer an option, as proved from scripture)
I commend you on presenting a very sound Bible teaching, which Christian pastors are universally falling down on. Comfortable or not, whether congregants receive doctrine, or turn away let's uphold the standards God has for his people. Ty & God Bless u Sir.
done in ignorance...that is an interesting....what scripture reference would cover this...
There is one "To him that knows to do good and doesn't do it to him it is sin" I see that as a general non specific scripture to make a point , but when we look at the specific scriptures that leave no stone unturned in regards to remarriage you couldnt use that there.
@@markeveringham4673 if this were true....one who never heard of salvation, via Jesus, would be saved, by default...
Clearly it is "An exception rule" in
Matthew 19:9 Please read it and understand. God Bless!!
I've been remarried for 40 years my former wife still lives,her husband died.I wouldn't remarry her for any reason.
When our eyes are opened we repent AND turn away from sin.
So what say of this scripture?
Deuteronomy 24:1-5 KJV
When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house. And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man's wife. And if the latter husband hate her, and write her a bill of divorcement, and giveth it in her hand, and sendeth her out of his house; or if the latter husband die, which took her to be his wife; Her former husband, which sent her away, may not take her again to be his wife, after that she is defiled; for that is abomination before the Lord : and thou shalt not cause the land to sin, which the Lord thy God giveth thee for an inheritance. When a man hath taken a new wife, he shall not go out to war, neither shall he be charged with any business: but he shall be free at home one year, and shall cheer up his wife which he hath taken.
WOW 😯 he sure did get it totally wrong at the end!!! Don’t understand how he managed to come up with that idea???
His desire to please the masses.
He said if you did it in ignorant its ok,But what about when u know better you do better and repent
@@millychap7849 Willful or ignorance, it's still a sin. Obviously willful sin is way worse.
Amazing
I really love the way your not beating about the bush.
I notice how he constantly says .. I BELIEVE ! Well I believe this guy is a fool .
Well for 1500 years everyone was a fool. This remarriage thing is pretty new. But he is wrong on telling the remarried to stay togyher in adultery.
This man speaks with forked tongue .Read your Bible and BELIEVE what it says.Beware of smooth talkers.
Amen. A double minded man is unstable in all his ways.
If you are in a remarriage after divorce, you need to repent by leaving the adulterous marriage.
I have wanted to find out what is the situation with someone who married in a registry office and the marriage was not blessed by God nor were they saved. God bless 🙏🏾
So many comments as how you will go to hell and so few regarding grace and salvation without even considering a persons circumstances. Christ has over and over again shown his love for us and yet there are some who ignore this and tell people they are going to hell for their poor life choices. Why didn't Jesus pick the pharisee's as his disciples rather than ones less perfect in the eyes of men? The victims of divorce are not perfect and their personal salvation is not determined by anyone other than our Lord and savior regardless of the comments of the many white washed tombs out there. My prayer is that all will know we serve a just and loving God and that never changes regardless of martial status. Be kind to those in need especially them that are suffering physically or any kind of loss to include divorce. Heaping guilt on those that have failed is not the answer and to threaten loss of salvation when you are not the final say is putting yourself in a position of judgment. To cite scriptures and disregard all circumstances surrounding them and to whom the audience is will reap only a partial or inaccurate understanding.
So according to you then everyone who says "Jesus" is basically going to heaven and nobody is going to hell, not adulterers, murderes, liars, nobody. Smh 🤦♂️
Ok, keep telling yourself that
@@philarevolutionarywarriorp8295 out of the abundance of a pig's heart the mouth speaks
The Scriptures tell us that God no longer winks at ignorance, you did very well with Scriptures or ( GODS WORDS+ up till the end of this video, You need to redo this & speak GODS truth in every Word, Even the end!
The passage you're referring to is found in Acts 17:30. In this context, Paul is comparing the One true God to all the pagan gods that surround him. He is telling folks that it is time to accept Jesus. This is not a verse about varying opinions on the topic of marriage, divorce and remarriage.
Question family. I was married in 2010, Divorced in 2016. She was married 2x before me, my first marriage. Were we really ever married? Adultery, the scriptures seem to say, since she was married previously, and both of those men are still alive. Weird case, I know. So if I were to remarry, which I desire, but with a believer, can I or no? If I should not I will not. If I may I shall. But I want to be obedient and will be. Please help.
According to the scriptures, when you married the divorced woman, you were in an adulterous relationship. See Mark 10:11-12 & Luke 16:18. Because you had never been married before you entered the adulterous union with the divorced woman, you have never been in a covenant marriage. That being the case, you would be free to marry a never-married or widowed woman and have a covenant marriage. If you are a Christian, you should only marry another Christian. 1 Corinthians 7:39 states that a Christian should marry someone who is in the Lord which means a Christian. However, before you think about marrying anyone, please pray and seek God's will for your life. "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6)."
@@godgavemeeyestosee yes I agree.
so what do you do if your already married to your second husband for many, years and never heard of this before , and are now a Christian ,is that person suppose to divorce the current husband or wife ?
Shawn Jones no you can't undo everything. He is talking about what people should do going forward. Now that you know it - follow it from now on.
As a Christian, when you become aware of a sin, any sin, you must repent and forsake it (Proverbs 28:13). How long you've been in a sin does not excuse you from repenting of it and forsaking it. I was in a remarriage for over 20 years before I found out I was in adultery. I then had a choice to make. I could either obey God or stay in my sin of adultery. I chose to obey God because I love Him and want to please Him. To leave my adulterous remarriage was one of the hardest things I have ever done in my life, but it has been so worth it. Please chose Jesus over anyone and everything in your life. Jesus said if we are not willing to forsake all and follow Him and take up our crosses, we cannot be His disciple (Luke 14:26-27)
just found this video - from EVERLASTING GRACE - meaning Grace without end ... unless.... you committed the sin of divorce, no Grace for you! Remarried - No Grace for you!!
Remarried couples ask for forgiveness and God FORGIVES.❤ They do NOT live in a perpetual state of adultery.
@@pegc9889 repentance is more than just saying I'm sorry it is turning away from the sin