As a retired Special Education teacher of 3-5 year olds, I can assure you that the staff is well equipped to take care of his needs. It will take him time to acclimate, but it is the best thing for him at this point. It is your option to ask for a full time aide for him, that should not be an issue. Please know when you have your IEP meeting…. It is a LEGAL document and it must be honored by the school system. You should be able to tape the meeting ….
I taught the same program. While I agree with most of what you said, in the districts I was in parents could not just ask for a dedicated aide and receive one. It was based on the student’s needs and the number of students in the class.
Thank you for being a teacher. ❤️ I have a kiddo on the spectrum/nonverbal and he is now back in public school after a couple years. We are so lucky to be in the district we are. His special education teacher is phenomenal. There are far more good ones out there. ❤️
SO Happy he is going to school !!! Make sure you have a communication Book so that The teachers can write what ever they need to write to you and you can do the same. Diapers, feeding, New Friends and Etc 😊😊😊
It’s normal to be nervous, anxious and sad when your baby goes to school. This school sounds geared to ensure Sebastian’s success. Our daughter is a special needs teacher. These teachers have a blessed and joyous calling to work with these kids. It’s going to take time to work into a nice routine that you and Sebastian will be comfortable with. Breathe! It will be great!
I know he loves his chewy but I am amazed that it doesn’t cause a gag reflex. He puts so much of it in his mouth. We all have our little pleasures that wouldn’t appeal to others. School will be a challenge but he will learn min his way. Love your care and love for little man.
@lynnparrish1335 Hi Lynn, you're a longtime follower like me!❤ absolutely agree with you! My nephew has Treacher Collins syndrome and I advocate for inclusion at his school, and he's 13 now and there's no child in his grade who sees him differently. He's an A student!!! My Mason is my joy, he lives with me, since he was 9. 💙
As a retired teacher, and the parent of an autistic kiddo with Tourette's, I am excited for you. It is a lot to deal with right now but it is going to be fantastic!
As a retired kindergarten teacher, who also holds a nursing degree, can I suggest that you take some time to write a 'handbook' of notes which explain all your concerns so that the staff are able to use it when they run into issues. It might be useful to alphabetize the issues that may come up. It is so difficult to get this started - I so understand and take it as slowly as you need to, but please trust the staff, they have so much experience I am sure. All the best for this new adventure xxx
Stephanie... MAKE SURE they have LIVE FEED cameras that u have FULL ACCESS to ANYTIME you want. Trust me... its much easier tht way. A GREAT facility will provide that... a mediocre one will not. I'VE owned a daycare.... LIVE FEED is so IMPORTANT!! ❤
When he smiles …my heart smiles. You are doing an outstanding job parenting , in my opinion. The education you are providing by doing these videos is amazing and needed. Thank you for being the kind people that you are. We are so fortunate that you allow us into a piece of your life with sweet Sebastian !!
P.S. Gio...you have a wonderful confidence about your boy! I am sure Stephanie feels less anxious when you are there in this process! You are a great team!💯
Oh, Stephanie and Gio! That handsome Mister going to school! I love your soothing voice with him! Ice cream IS the best treat. Stephanie...what a day you had! I am giving you a virtual hug. It must be very emotional on all levels to absorb this new chapter in your life! You and Gio will do what is best for Sebastian...as always! Go at the pace you and Gio feel good about! How gracious you have been to make us feel a part of your family! I can just imagine how Sebastian's brain was working taking everything in! Prayers are always being sent to you from Minnesota...and love!❤🙋♀️
if your questions were answered where you felt confident, allow the process to start slow. Excited to watch him blossom! #Letting go is hard, you got this!
Nothing ventured, nothing gained. It must be difficult because you have been his main caregiver since birth. It’s nice to give this opportunity to Sebastian. The new stimulation will be good for him. You and Gio will adapt to this new experience. Things will go well some days and other days not so well. Just like he is with you, Steph! Trust in others is the hardest to overcome but as the year moves along, it will be easier to let go! Prayers always to your loving family❤️🤍💙🌻😍
Sebastian - how exciting - the staff and children will love you and having you in their class. I was a teacher and I would love to have had you in my class you will enjoy school soooo much and though Mummy will miss you she will be sooo happy for you in your new adventure. Love you Sebastian... Janice 👵 🇬🇧 xxx
This will be a tremendous opportunity for Sebastian! He will grow so much! I had to take a leap of a faith with my son. He started in special day classes at age 3. The day the bus came He was so short I couldn't see him in the window! I waved bye bye and the rest was history! He went to it like duck to water. He made friendships that he has kept to this day. He is now 32 years old. I have been through 17 IEPs. It is amazing to see the growth when it is time each year! I am super excited for Sebastian to have this opportunity!😄👍👍♥️♥️🐶🐶🐶♥️
Wow, what an exciting and overwhelming day!! First time going to school with no special needs is so hard on moms. Sounds like a wonderful environment for our sweet Sebastián. I pray y'all find peace during the adjustment period 🙏
my children were not special needs and i had problems cutting the cord..i can't imagine what you are feeling! so much to think about for sure. Im glad they are open to you being there as long as you feel the need! Thinking of you and Gio as you work thru this new process. And Sebastian too! his little world is about to become bigger, ready or not!♥
I taught medically complex children. Words of advice. NEVER let anyone feed Sebastian until you train them how to do so. I would absolutely go and sit in on the first few days or weeks to help teach everyone how to handle him and how to be very careful with his stiff joints. I totally get your anxiety. Leaving your precious boy with total strangers is so scary. You take such excellent care of him. I'm also worried about him getting sick. I would start him out in small amounts of time. He's so attached to you and Gio and he is such a smart boy. Hopefully all will go well. LOL how cute is he poking his chewy into his mouth. Oh forgot, sometimes OT therapists can be pushy with oral feedings and wanting to give liquids by mouth. You guys are such excellent parents, it's excellent that they are going to let you both come and be with Sebastian when at school!
Good luck to you Sebastian on school life you will be making great friends and Sebastian is a fantastic kid and Stephanie is a fantastic mother and his dad too and this is a fantastic TH-cam channel
I had seven children go to school and know the anxiousness and even sadness is normal. I cried with every first day of school with all of my kids. It shows you love and enjoy your time with your children. Enjoy your time with Sebastian during this new phase with him Bjerknes will grow by leaps and bounds. Even though he is special needs you are feeling normal feelings. God bless ❤
You needed this video to talk and share. And I feel honored how you feel cool to be transparent. It sounds like Sebastian has the opportunity to grow and learn. And you will ensure his safety. He is so blessed to have the two of you for parents.
Hi Stephanie, great seeing all of you. My heart goes out to you. It is an emotional experience anytime a child starts school for you it’s extra emotional. What you are going through is normal, that’s your baby. It is very important you get the answers to all the questions you have. The questions you have are vital to Sebastian’s well being and his safety. As a long time Special Education Teacher I always made sure the IEPS told more than just goals. I made sure that the IEP document contained all necessary information so that anyone who came in contact with that child knew all they needed to know to provide the best educational, emotional, and health services to that child. My advice to you is to make sure all of Sebastian’s health needs are on that report. Make sure all necessary modifications are listed on that report. Make sure all medications are listed. All will be fine. Sebastian will love school. You guys got this. I wish you the best of luck. If you have any questions reach out. Enjoy sushi Friday. AnnaMaria
Bless your precious Sebastian. He will flourish in school. It’s hard for a mama to let go so your child can grow. You will both be strong and courageous. ❤❤❤
I'm so excited about this!! Hopefully, it'll only take a couple of weeks to get into the swing of things, then you'll be old hands at it!! I think all of you are going to benefit from Sebastian's new situation. His meeting new kids, teachers therapists, etc. New experiences and surroundings. I know you feel very overwhelmed...all 3 of you, but to a great extent, it'll go away, for you. You guys are in my prayers! Hope you enjoyed sushi night. Love you!
You have th cutest little dude ever. It makes me mad that people post negative comments. You and Geo are such loving, caring and good parents. You make sure he has levering he wants and needs, expose him to new things and make sure he has fun. I could watch him all day. I totally understand how you feel about sending Sebastian to school. We had to send my autistic 3 year old grandson.it was so hard taking that little boy to the bus and watch him crawl up in his seat. He did learn so much and the teacher he had did that job because they truly love the special needs kids and loved the kids. I always thought the should put a couple of cameras in the classroom so parents could sign in and watch him. I think you'll get comfortable with it and you'll see him learn new things. But was hard because he had been with me day and night. My grandson didn't do well if I sat in the classroom because he just focused on me and wanted to go home. They are really good about designing a plan that will work for all 3 of you. You are the perfect parents for Sebastian and Sebastian is the perfect child for you guys. My son who has the autistic son said he wouldn't change anything about him. We all think he's just the way he is suppose to be and that's perfect. Special needs have so much love to give. You 3 are very lucky. 💜💜💜
Thank you so much for sharing Sebastian, he is such a special and beautiful soul. I will be praying daily that he has a wonderful school year. I love seeing that sweet smile.
Exciting news about school! Even if it’s a short schedule it will help you & Sebastian. You need time for yourself sometimes too , so deserved. Special needs moms are warriors!
This is so exciting!! What a major milestone. I am so proud of you Stephanie, Sebastian has the most perfect mama for him. You both are going to be amazing this school year. You’ve got this!! Your friend, Julieann PS Lots of hugs your way. You did it. ♥️♥️♥️
You do everything for him, Bless your heart. And youre his Mommy and of course you will be worried. So hang in there Darlin and keep up the wonderful Mommy things.
It’s so exciting to see Sebastian going to school! I totally get it though being nervous and anxious. Sebastian is precious cargo and he needs a lot of attention and no one gives attention like us parents. I’m praying for you all and I’m praying that Sebastian absolutely loves it and just flourishes with all he will learn! 🙏🏼💙
Oh what an exciting day for you all. Sebastian will adjust to his new school environment . It’s great that the school is open anytime for the parents to come and sit in on the activities…. Only the best for Sebastian!❤. He is so handsome today in his shirt and jean shorts. Have a great evening. Love from Texas ❣️
Oh my goodness! That’s so exciting!!!! Sebastian all ready to check out his new school in his adorable outfit! ❤ This is such a big moment for not just Sebastian but you and Gio as well 😊 School is such a big milestone in any child’s life, but it’s particularly big for a child with special needs.
I have watched y'all for for about 8 months and you guys are absolutely amazing. Little man is a thriving, happy child due to all your hard work. Rock on with that beautiful boy!
I follow SBSK and Stephanie’s channel popped up on my TH-cam feed. I’m a special education teacher and your story of Sebastian is so inspiring. I’m in love with your little man! Thank you to Stephanie and Gio for sharing the world of your little cutie and sending awareness. Keep it up!❤
Awe I just love his sweet smile 😊 I’m excited for Sebastian! I hope it doesn’t give either of you too much anxiety. Hope you have a good visit with your fam ❤
You guys are so sweet! ❤ And I’m so excited for Sebastian to begin school soon! It’s natural for a parent to be nervous but you’re going to do great, I promise! 😘
Hola! No hablo inglés pero puedo entender un poco. Me identifico mucho con tu familia yo también tengo una niña con necesidades especiales y créeme que ir a la escuela es lo mejor para ellos porque se relacionan con otros niños q tienen las mismas necesidades q ellos y estar en contacto con los demás niños es lo q más les encanta. Te sigo aunq no pueda entender mucho pero solo con ver a Sebastián como a avanzado con sus terapias es lo mejor ojalá y puedas entender mi comentario
I have a question… do you and your husband plan on having any more kids? If not was your decision based on having this little blessing of a boy ? You seem like such good parents!!!
I wanted to reach through the screen and hug you. When my oldest child started his first day of kindergarten, I volunteered to drive the carpool that day so I could fully experience the day. As soon as I got home, my husband called from work and said, “ Were there any tears?” I laughed and replied, “Only mine.” I watched my little guy march right up the steps at the drop off and head for his teacher whom he had met already. He turned around and happily waved goodbye to me. I’m tearing up right now remembering this. Your investment, devotion, and completely unwavering love of this little guy have gotten him where he is today. You’re entitled to some sadness and apprehension. You always put his needs first and you’re continuing to do that now as he enters this new season of life. God bless your sweet heart. This will be good for both of you!
Sebastian's smile is EVERYTHING! Lots of mama prayers, love, & light being sent your way for both you & Sebastian. Try to focus on the positive & keep reminding yourself that you can check in on him at any time & you are in control of what days & how many hours he will be there. I adore you & your family & I can't wait to see Sebastian do school! 🩷💙🩷💙🩷💙
Thank you both for the exciting news of Sebastian going to school. Such a major decision. Sebastian is such a gift & so amazing & I love your updates. You both are such great parents. I'm so happy for you all. Sending Blessings 🙏❤️
So excited for you all...School! The next big adventure for Sebastian! As this new routine gets started, I'm sure Sebastian will catch on very quickly. You and Gio are wonderful parents! This will be very emotional for the two of you, your first born going to school and there will be tears but this too shall pass. Just take a deep breath and enjoy every moment of Sebastian growing up, which happens all too fast! Thanks for sharing and God bless!
Tears came to my eyes from happiness and anxiety, I just want to make sure they he is taken care of good!!! I know all will be beautiful for him at school!!!!💜🩷❤️💚🩶🤍❤️💜
Such happy news! I know you're inside worrying about everything that could go wrong, I was an aide at a school for 5 years. Trust and believe there are MANY eyes on these kids. He will get an aide most likely, who will be in good contact with you, such as notes for how his day went, his moods, and his exciting new moments! However, never feel like you cannot do "pop-ins" those are welcome at any time by public schools as well. The school should transparent in open door policy! Im excited for him. He's so adorable in those jean shorts! Get some rest all of you! 😃
You and Gio are incredible parents. It was so nice to see Gio talk about his school and the little boy - he is a great dad and Sebastian adores you both. I will be praying that all goes well. Your little guy has been through so much, I really want him to have a good school experience. Love from Canada ❤️🇨🇦🙏
It’s never easy when your baby moves on to a new adventure in their life, even more so when your child has special needs! I hope that in some aspect that you find comfort in knowing that Sebastian isn’t alone and neither are you guys. It’s cool how Blake was so interested in Sebastian (and Gio lol), and that Sebastian was interested in what was going on around him. I think you and Gio should do what you feel comfortable doing, whether it’s having him go to school a couple times a week for a couple of hours, or having him go all five days for a couple of hours. I have a feeling as the school year goes on, you’ll start to feel more and more comfortable on how long and often he goes for. There are so many resources out there that can help all of you. It’d probably be cool to meet other parents who have special needs children, who have an understanding of what you guys go through on day to day basis. I’m 37 and have had five back surgeries, with a sixth one coming in a couple of years, and I have neuropathy/burning in my legs, so I’m pretty much in pain 24/7. Several years ago, one of my pain management doctors suggested I go to a program at Wash U (in St. Louis) called STEPP. It’s a Supportive Training and something I can’t remember for People in Pain. It was awesome! I was the youngest one when I was there in my mid/late 20’s, but these people knew what I was going through. It’s hard for my friends and some family members to know what it’s like to have that much pain since they haven’t been through it. Anyway, thanks for sharing this journey you guys are on right now. I’ll say some extra prayers for you guys and that you find comfort in what your decisions may be. I truly believe that Sebastian will do awesome in school, it’ll just take some getting used to.
Just recently came across your channel…what a beautiful, amazing family you are! God bless you all, you are an inspiration and a shining example of love, care, and higher consciousness. ❤ Sending you prayers and blessings always, and may Sebastian thrive and go far beyond all “normal” expectations!🙏🏻❤️ Love is the most powerful thing in this universe, and you have a great abundance of it!🥰 With love, there are no limits!
Hi Steph, Please know that you being nervous or feeling anxious about Sebastian is completely normal. Your the Mom, the one that knows him and his needs best. Its ok to feel that way. I can't wait to hear how the next meeting goes! Hes so stinking cute! Is Sebastian still getting the rolley's on the floor? 😂 Hope you enjoy your dinner out tonight! Love you, always praying for y'all!!! ❤️❤️❤️🐕🦺🦜❤️❤️🙏🏻
Thank you for sharing with us!! Sebastian is just so, so special!! He has 2 awesome parents who love and support him. He is going to do great in school!! He will figure out his routine and do amazing❤❤
Anxiety can truly be exhausting. I think its expected that you be anxious about trusting Sebastian's care to strangers. Yes, they are professionals but they don't know him yet. One day at a time. They want to address your concerns and work with you. And you and Gio make final decisions. Try not to worry too much. When Gio said his finger was used to wipe the little boys nose, I literally spit out my tea! Lol And Sebastian's smile at the end....those dimples, gorgeous!!! Such a sweetheart!!
I really enjoyed this video. It was heart warming to hear about the other children and Sebastian wanted to have eye contact and except each others for just being little children. Hugs from Texas
Yes Stephanie I understand your concerns ..........its very very difficult .....plus he's so stinking cute and he's very loved ......But my thought is he will adjust and do very well .......bless you and family!!!!!!
This is so exciting. Sweet Sebastian starting school. I think that this will be a positive experience even though it causes a lot of anxiety initially. Happy sushi night.
Stephanie, get a file cabinet because you will have tons of EIP paperwork. I am sure you are very familiar with this. My son also had EIP's, so keep those papers. Believe it or not, you will need all those documents for when Sabastian is no longer in school. Here in Indiana I needed those papers for further programs. School will be good for him and you. I would think a nurse is always there, and once you know he will be fine, it will ease your mind. The first time with schools is always a worry and crying point for mom's, but even if Sabastion attends a few days, I think it will be good for him.
You are such a beautiful and wonderful mother to your son, God gives us our children as gifts and the way you and your husband are with him makes me smile. ❤
You are such an excellent Mama, Steph! Any mom feels nervous when their babies first to go off to school, especially when you have a child with special needs. I think he will do great as well as you! Hang in there mom and dad!!!
Absolutely nothing wrong with what dad did. Sebastian is his little boy!!! It's perfectly normal to share with your child. Just ignore negative comments Stephanie and Gio
Wow! So wonderful- so bittersweet! So glad you can watch Sebastian in School. I'm crying with you at the thought of leaving others in his care! Want to take turns keeping an eye on Sebastian in School? The Sweet part is, Sebastian's personality is really coming onto it's own. God really sent you all an amazing Blessing! And Sebastian couldn't be in better hands!! ❤❤❤
There is a lot of anxiety when you send your child off to school and I know it’s even higher when your child has special needs. I do want to reassure you coming from a special education background that these caregivers have a heart for this. You can work it into his IEP that he has a one on one and that person will be by his side the entire time he will never be left alone. This is what I did when I worked in special education and now my oldest daughter is doing the same thing. His one on one may not know how to do everything that Sebastian needs, but they will learn to take care of all of his needs. I know from personal experience that you form a bond with your student and sometimes become part of their family and attend their special events and sometimes babysit when the parents need someone. I’m excited that Sebastian is going to go to school once he gets used to being on a different schedule and around different people he will love it.
Hi Steph, Gio, and Senastian! Well, this is super exciting news! I think that most likely, everything will work out. I hope that there is an aid available for Sebastian that can care of his needs. It's super exciting that Sebastian has this opportunity to go to school and get to interact with his peers. If it all works out, this will be so great for him! 💜💜💜💜
he looks so happy and so healthy. You are doing such a tremendous job with that little boy. I can tell you love him so so much. And he loves you so so much back. You guys are tremendous fantastic parents. Go YOU!!!! hi Sebastian!!!!! sending him to school is definitely an adjustment. So be patient with yourself it’s new and it’s gonna be scary but I promise you it’ll turn out just fine.
The amount of time Sebastian spends at school will probably be determined by how much progress he makes. It’s going to be difficult for a while, but you’re going to be great, Mom! My daughter took dance class when she was about three, and she cried s o pitifully, I was going to cry. The teacher told me to duck out of sight, and sure enough, she settled down and loved it. Love bug is so smart, he’ll adapt quickly.
Oh momma and daddy bear , the first day of school is always full of various emotions, you both will get through just fine. If you need to “ watch” do it from afar, that way you can witness his first few days of school without interfering with the process. All special needs kiddos are amazing! I retired after 32 yrs, so I kinda have an idea on your worries and excitement. God bless!
I think as long as all the safety needs are taken care of Sebastian will do great. I would just take it slow and definitely take advantage of the visits they offered. Good job Sebastian and parents. I can imagine how emotional this is for everyone. I would just continually weigh the pros and cons and make sure the benefits are superior but i think you know this. ❤
Stephanie: what you are feeling is so normal. Whether you have a “normal” kid or a special needs child, you are relinquishing your precious child to the unknown. This was a brave decision on your and Geo’s part to enroll him in school. Bravo to you both. In time you will relish your little slot of free time when he is at school.
I am a retired Special Education teacher and I can assure you the teachers and staff at that school can handle anything that would happen..they are well trained and experienced and Sebastian will have all he needs and more...
It never gets easier. The moment we fall pregnant we live the rest of our lives through constant bouts of panic and anxiety. There is nothing stronger then the need to protect our young. Not having control of that in every new stage of there lives feels just as horrible as the first times. Thinking about you lady! This is seriously going to effect you more than anyone. Your beautiful son might need a bit to adjust but the more he does it the better he will feel. Side note- just eat the top bun life is way to short! You are so beautiful and look extremely healthy as you are. ❤
I can totally understand where you guys are coming from as a parent and regarding the school. I worked in many multiple disabled classrooms. I was in a regular public school, in a multiple disabled classroom and I was assigned a girl in a wheelchair, who was non verbal, and also had seizures. She did not require a nurse at the time, but we are trained and there are protocols in place. All of the paraprofessionals change diapers, the girl I was with was in high school so I took her to the nurse and I assisted if she needed assistance changing her diaper. Now, as a parent, when my babies went to school, I had those anxieties also, I think for you and Gio, have the regular separation anxieties which is normal but then you also have all of the other issues, like the feeding tube, diapers, seizures, etc. My son had an IEP until 12th grade. They will set goals and document everything. So the point of my post is these schools are equipped and prepared. If you want him to have a nurse or para one on one for Sebastian ......tell them that! Also, I'd say definitely go there and watch. That's a great idea. I did that with my one son. I was able to observe without him knowing I was there and I learned a lot and was relieved. My heart goes out to you guys, but school will be wonderful for Sebastian and you. Even if it's for a few hours a week. Maybe start off slowly. See how everything goes. Everything will work out. It will be a nice routine to get into.
I am not just here for Sebastian. I adore that little boy but I am here for you and Gio. My son is 28 and autistic. He had very low support needs as I raised him, no physical disabilities. But watching and listening to your day brought back so many memories and anxiety. My son was in an inclusion class in school and on an IEP. The circumstances were different but the emotions were the same. If I can share anything with you from my experience 16:26 and the two of you are already doing the most important thing which is being an advocate! Love to you all on this new journey❤
As a retired Special Education teacher of 3-5 year olds, I can assure you that the staff is well equipped to take care of his needs. It will take him time to acclimate, but it is the best thing for him at this point. It is your option to ask for a full time aide for him, that should not be an issue. Please know when you have your IEP meeting…. It is a LEGAL document and it must be honored by the school system. You should be able to tape the meeting ….
I taught the same program. While I agree with most of what you said, in the districts I was in parents could not just ask for a dedicated aide and receive one. It was based on the student’s needs and the number of students in the class.
Thank you for being a teacher. ❤️ I have a kiddo on the spectrum/nonverbal and he is now back in public school after a couple years. We are so lucky to be in the district we are. His special education teacher is phenomenal. There are far more good ones out there. ❤️
SO Happy he is going to school !!! Make sure you have a communication Book so that The teachers can write what ever they need to write to you and you can do the same. Diapers, feeding, New Friends and Etc 😊😊😊
Watch carefully, the schools’s actions don’t always match their words. Many do not follow the IEP
You don’t know that unless you work in that school and unless you know their child
It’s normal to be nervous, anxious and sad when your baby goes to school. This school sounds geared to ensure Sebastian’s success. Our daughter is a special needs teacher. These teachers have a blessed and joyous calling to work with these kids. It’s going to take time to work into a nice routine that you and Sebastian will be comfortable with. Breathe! It will be great!
I know he loves his chewy but I am amazed that it doesn’t cause a gag reflex. He puts so much of it in his mouth. We all have our little pleasures that wouldn’t appeal to others. School will be a challenge but he will learn min his way. Love your care and love for little man.
I love his little jean shorts. Such a cute little sweetheart! My love to you guys! ❤❤
Sebastian has so much to teach others. Acceptance and compassion are so essential. Everything will be okay.❤️
@lynnparrish1335 Hi Lynn, you're a longtime follower like me!❤ absolutely agree with you! My nephew has Treacher Collins syndrome and I advocate for inclusion at his school, and he's 13 now and there's no child in his grade who sees him differently. He's an A student!!! My Mason is my joy, he lives with me, since he was 9. 💙
As a retired teacher, and the parent of an autistic kiddo with Tourette's, I am excited for you. It is a lot to deal with right now but it is going to be fantastic!
As a retired kindergarten teacher, who also holds a nursing degree, can I suggest that you take some time to write a 'handbook' of notes which explain all your concerns so that the staff are able to use it when they run into issues. It might be useful to alphabetize the issues that may come up. It is so difficult to get this started - I so understand and take it as slowly as you need to, but please trust the staff, they have so much experience I am sure. All the best for this new adventure xxx
Stephanie... MAKE SURE they have LIVE FEED cameras that u have FULL ACCESS to ANYTIME you want. Trust me... its much easier tht way. A GREAT facility will provide that... a mediocre one will not. I'VE owned a daycare.... LIVE FEED is so IMPORTANT!! ❤
I would have loved that but in my country that is prohibited by law 😔. No chance for change
When he smiles …my heart smiles. You are doing an outstanding job parenting , in my opinion. The education you are providing by doing these videos is amazing and needed. Thank you for being the kind people that you are. We are so fortunate that you allow us into a piece of your life with sweet Sebastian !!
P.S. Gio...you have a wonderful confidence about your boy! I am sure Stephanie feels less anxious when you are there in this process! You are a great team!💯
Oh my gosh! Sebastian looks adorable in his outfit. He looks so cute.!!!
You asked many valid questions and I'm sure you will know how much he can handle.
Oh, Stephanie and Gio! That handsome Mister going to school! I love your soothing voice with him! Ice cream IS the best treat. Stephanie...what a day you had! I am giving you a virtual hug. It must be very emotional on all levels to absorb this new chapter in your life! You and Gio will do what is best for Sebastian...as always! Go at the pace you and Gio feel good about! How gracious you have been to make us feel a part of your family! I can just imagine how Sebastian's brain was working taking everything in! Prayers are always being sent to you from Minnesota...and love!❤🙋♀️
if your questions were answered where you felt confident, allow the process to start slow. Excited to watch him blossom! #Letting go is hard, you got this!
Nothing ventured, nothing gained. It must be difficult because you have been his main caregiver since birth. It’s nice to give this opportunity to Sebastian. The new stimulation will be good for him. You and Gio will adapt to this new experience. Things will go well some days and other days not so well. Just like he is with you, Steph! Trust in others is the hardest to overcome but as the year moves along, it will be easier to let go! Prayers always to your loving family❤️🤍💙🌻😍
His outfit is so darling💙 He is a very handsome boy🩵
He looks so grown up! Brought back alot of memories about the first day of school with my kids. ❤
Sebastian - how exciting - the staff and children will love you and having you in their class.
I was a teacher and I would love to have had you in my class you will enjoy school soooo much and though Mummy will miss you she will be sooo happy for you in your new adventure.
Love you Sebastian...
Janice 👵 🇬🇧 xxx
This really is so exciting for darling Sebastian! What a fine experience for him. Lots of love from Chicago ❤ ❤ 😘
This will be a tremendous opportunity for Sebastian! He will grow so much! I had to take a leap of a faith with my son. He started in special day classes at age 3. The day the bus came He was so short I couldn't see him in the window! I waved bye bye and the rest was history! He went to it like duck to water. He made friendships that he has kept to this day. He is now 32 years old. I have been through 17 IEPs. It is amazing to see the growth when it is time each year! I am super excited for Sebastian to have this opportunity!😄👍👍♥️♥️🐶🐶🐶♥️
You look so beautiful and happy! Sebastian’s outfit is on point.
“Get out of my face, mama” made him smile. 😂😂😂
He looks so adorable! I can't wait to see grown up sebastian with his book bag! wow! Good job momma!! ❤❤
Wow, what an exciting and overwhelming day!! First time going to school with no special needs is so hard on moms. Sounds like a wonderful environment for our sweet Sebastián. I pray y'all find peace during the adjustment period 🙏
Oh how his little sweet face makes me smile
my children were not special needs and i had problems cutting the cord..i can't imagine what you are feeling! so much to think about for sure. Im glad they are open to you being there as long as you feel the need! Thinking of you and Gio as you work thru this new process. And Sebastian too! his little world is about to become bigger, ready or not!♥
It’s the start of a great adventure,Sebastian! You have so much of life ahead of you…we love you🥰
I taught medically complex children. Words of advice. NEVER let anyone feed Sebastian until you train them how to do so. I would absolutely go and sit in on the first few days or weeks to help teach everyone how to handle him and how to be very careful with his stiff joints. I totally get your anxiety. Leaving your precious boy with total strangers is so scary. You take such excellent care of him. I'm also worried about him getting sick. I would start him out in small amounts of time. He's so attached to you and Gio and he is such a smart boy. Hopefully all will go well. LOL how cute is he poking his chewy into his mouth. Oh forgot, sometimes OT therapists can be pushy with oral feedings and wanting to give liquids by mouth. You guys are such excellent parents, it's excellent that they are going to let you both come and be with Sebastian when at school!
Good luck to you Sebastian on school life you will be making great friends and Sebastian is a fantastic kid and Stephanie is a fantastic mother and his dad too and this is a fantastic TH-cam channel
I had seven children go to school and know the anxiousness and even sadness is normal. I cried with every first day of school with all of my kids. It shows you love and enjoy your time with your children. Enjoy your time with Sebastian during this new phase with him Bjerknes will grow by leaps and bounds. Even though he is special needs you are feeling normal feelings. God bless ❤
Thank you for the update on Sebastian’s school process…this will be good for him, keep the faith.🤗
You needed this video to talk and share. And I feel honored how you feel cool to be transparent. It sounds like Sebastian has the opportunity to grow and learn. And you will ensure his safety. He is so blessed to have the two of you for parents.
What a sweet boy! He looks adorable for going to tour his school! ❤
Hi Stephanie, great seeing all of you. My heart goes out to you. It is an emotional experience anytime a child starts school for you it’s extra emotional. What you are going through is normal, that’s your baby. It is very important you get the answers to all the questions you have. The questions you have are vital to Sebastian’s well being and his safety. As a long time Special Education Teacher I always made sure the IEPS told more than just goals. I made sure that the IEP document contained all necessary information so that anyone who came in contact with that child knew all they needed to know to provide the best educational, emotional, and health services to that child. My advice to you is to make sure all of Sebastian’s health needs are on that report. Make sure all necessary modifications are listed on that report. Make sure all medications are listed. All will be fine. Sebastian will love school. You guys got this. I wish you the best of luck. If you have any questions reach out. Enjoy sushi Friday. AnnaMaria
Aww, he’s getting to be such a big boy mama. I hope he does well in school. Continued prayers ❤
Bless your precious Sebastian. He will flourish in school. It’s hard for a mama to let go so your child can grow. You will both be strong and courageous. ❤❤❤
I'm so excited about this!! Hopefully, it'll only take a couple of weeks to get into the swing of things, then you'll be old hands at it!! I think all of you are going to benefit from Sebastian's new situation. His meeting new kids, teachers therapists, etc. New experiences and surroundings. I know you feel very overwhelmed...all 3 of you, but to a great extent, it'll go away, for you. You guys are in my prayers! Hope you enjoyed sushi night. Love you!
You have th cutest little dude ever. It makes me mad that people post negative comments. You and Geo are such loving, caring and good parents. You make sure he has levering he wants and needs, expose him to new things and make sure he has fun. I could watch him all day. I totally understand how you feel about sending Sebastian to school. We had to send my autistic 3 year old grandson.it was so hard taking that little boy to the bus and watch him crawl up in his seat. He did learn so much and the teacher he had did that job because they truly love the special needs kids and loved the kids. I always thought the should put a couple of cameras in the classroom so parents could sign in and watch him. I think you'll get comfortable with it and you'll see him learn new things. But was hard because he had been with me day and night. My grandson didn't do well if I sat in the classroom because he just focused on me and wanted to go home. They are really good about designing a plan that will work for all 3 of you. You are the perfect parents for Sebastian and Sebastian is the perfect child for you guys. My son who has the autistic son said he wouldn't change anything about him. We all think he's just the way he is suppose to be and that's perfect. Special needs have so much love to give. You 3 are very lucky. 💜💜💜
Thank you so much for sharing Sebastian, he is such a special and beautiful soul. I will be praying daily that he has a wonderful school year. I love seeing that sweet smile.
Exciting news about school! Even if it’s a short schedule it will help you & Sebastian. You need time for yourself sometimes too , so deserved. Special needs moms are warriors!
This is so exciting!! What a major milestone. I am so proud of you Stephanie, Sebastian has the most perfect mama for him. You both are going to be amazing this school year. You’ve got this!!
Your friend,
Julieann
PS Lots of hugs your way. You did it. ♥️♥️♥️
Sebastian was so cute in his 'school' clothes! What a big big milestone to begin! Prayers for all of you ❤🙏
You do everything for him, Bless your heart. And youre his Mommy and of course you will be worried. So hang in there Darlin and keep up the wonderful Mommy things.
Great for the school visit it is a big step and you’re perfectly correct in questioning things
So happy for Sebastian to start school, will be praying for your family during this transition! God bless your precious family😇
It’s so exciting to see Sebastian going to school! I totally get it though being nervous and anxious. Sebastian is precious cargo and he needs a lot of attention and no one gives attention like us parents. I’m praying for you all and I’m praying that Sebastian absolutely loves it and just flourishes with all he will learn! 🙏🏼💙
He’s so proud to be a big boy! I love coming back to watch his excitement and joy EXPLODE when you mentioned his birthday. ❤🎊🎉
Oh what an exciting day for you all. Sebastian will adjust to his new school environment . It’s great that the school is open anytime for the parents to come and sit in on the activities…. Only the best for Sebastian!❤. He is so handsome today in his shirt and jean shorts. Have a great evening. Love from Texas ❣️
Oh my goodness! That’s so exciting!!!! Sebastian all ready to check out his new school in his adorable outfit! ❤ This is such a big moment for not just Sebastian but you and Gio as well 😊 School is such a big milestone in any child’s life, but it’s particularly big for a child with special needs.
I have watched y'all for for about 8 months and you guys are absolutely amazing. Little man is a thriving, happy child due to all your hard work. Rock on with that beautiful boy!
Thx so much for sharing Sebastian's 1st day of school!!! Awesome loving parents!! So much family love!!! ❤️
I follow SBSK and Stephanie’s channel popped up on my TH-cam feed. I’m a special education teacher and your story of Sebastian is so inspiring. I’m in love with your little man! Thank you to Stephanie and Gio for sharing the world of your little cutie and sending awareness. Keep it up!❤
Awe I just love his sweet smile 😊 I’m excited for Sebastian! I hope it doesn’t give either of you too much anxiety. Hope you have a good visit with your fam ❤
He is so amazing. I just love watching him and his Dad together.
You guys are so sweet! ❤ And I’m so excited for Sebastian to begin school soon! It’s natural for a parent to be nervous but you’re going to do great, I promise! 😘
Hola! No hablo inglés pero puedo entender un poco. Me identifico mucho con tu familia yo también tengo una niña con necesidades especiales y créeme que ir a la escuela es lo mejor para ellos porque se relacionan con otros niños q tienen las mismas necesidades q ellos y estar en contacto con los demás niños es lo q más les encanta. Te sigo aunq no pueda entender mucho pero solo con ver a Sebastián como a avanzado con sus terapias es lo mejor ojalá y puedas entender mi comentario
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I have a question… do you and your husband plan on having any more kids? If not was your decision based on having this little blessing of a boy ? You seem like such good parents!!!
I wanted to reach through the screen and hug you. When my oldest child started his first day of kindergarten, I volunteered to drive the carpool that day so I could fully experience the day. As soon as I got home, my husband called from work and said, “ Were there any tears?” I laughed and replied, “Only mine.” I watched my little guy march right up the steps at the drop off and head for his teacher whom he had met already. He turned around and happily waved goodbye to me. I’m tearing up right now remembering this. Your investment, devotion, and completely unwavering love of this little guy have gotten him where he is today. You’re entitled to some sadness and apprehension. You always put his needs first and you’re continuing to do that now as he enters this new season of life. God bless your sweet heart. This will be good for both of you!
Sebastian's smile is EVERYTHING! Lots of mama prayers, love, & light being sent your way for both you & Sebastian. Try to focus on the positive & keep reminding yourself that you can check in on him at any time & you are in control of what days & how many hours he will be there. I adore you & your family & I can't wait to see Sebastian do school! 🩷💙🩷💙🩷💙
Thank you both for the exciting news of Sebastian going to school. Such a major decision. Sebastian is such a gift & so amazing & I love your updates. You both are such great parents. I'm so happy for you all. Sending Blessings 🙏❤️
Luv you lil Sebastian! You are an inspiration! Mom and Dad, youre the best! Thank you for sharing Sebastian with us!! 💙🤍💙
So excited for you all...School! The next big adventure for Sebastian! As this new routine gets started, I'm sure Sebastian will catch on very quickly. You and Gio are wonderful parents! This will be very emotional for the two of you, your first born going to school and there will be tears but this too shall pass. Just take a deep breath and enjoy every moment of Sebastian growing up, which happens all too fast! Thanks for sharing and God bless!
Tears came to my eyes from happiness and anxiety, I just want to make sure they he is taken care of good!!! I know all will be beautiful for him at school!!!!💜🩷❤️💚🩶🤍❤️💜
Such happy news! I know you're inside worrying about everything that could go wrong, I was an aide at a school for 5 years. Trust and believe there are MANY eyes on these kids. He will get an aide most likely, who will be in good contact with you, such as notes for how his day went, his moods, and his exciting new moments! However, never feel like you cannot do "pop-ins" those are welcome at any time by public schools as well. The school should transparent in open door policy! Im excited for him. He's so adorable in those jean shorts! Get some rest all of you! 😃
You and Gio are incredible parents. It was so nice to see Gio talk about his school and the little boy - he is a great dad and Sebastian adores you both. I will be praying that all goes well. Your little guy has been through so much, I really want him to have a good school experience. Love from Canada ❤️🇨🇦🙏
It’s never easy when your baby moves on to a new adventure in their life, even more so when your child has special needs! I hope that in some aspect that you find comfort in knowing that Sebastian isn’t alone and neither are you guys. It’s cool how Blake was so interested in Sebastian (and Gio lol), and that Sebastian was interested in what was going on around him. I think you and Gio should do what you feel comfortable doing, whether it’s having him go to school a couple times a week for a couple of hours, or having him go all five days for a couple of hours. I have a feeling as the school year goes on, you’ll start to feel more and more comfortable on how long and often he goes for. There are so many resources out there that can help all of you. It’d probably be cool to meet other parents who have special needs children, who have an understanding of what you guys go through on day to day basis. I’m 37 and have had five back surgeries, with a sixth one coming in a couple of years, and I have neuropathy/burning in my legs, so I’m pretty much in pain 24/7. Several years ago, one of my pain management doctors suggested I go to a program at Wash U (in St. Louis) called STEPP. It’s a Supportive Training and something I can’t remember for People in Pain. It was awesome! I was the youngest one when I was there in my mid/late 20’s, but these people knew what I was going through. It’s hard for my friends and some family members to know what it’s like to have that much pain since they haven’t been through it.
Anyway, thanks for sharing this journey you guys are on right now. I’ll say some extra prayers for you guys and that you find comfort in what your decisions may be. I truly believe that Sebastian will do awesome in school, it’ll just take some getting used to.
Just recently came across your channel…what a beautiful, amazing family you are! God bless you all, you are an inspiration and a shining example of love, care, and higher consciousness. ❤ Sending you prayers and blessings always, and may Sebastian thrive and go far beyond all “normal” expectations!🙏🏻❤️ Love is the most powerful thing in this universe, and you have a great abundance of it!🥰 With love, there are no limits!
Those shorts! Too cute! I wish you and Sebastian good luck on his first day of school!
Hi Steph, Please know that you being nervous or feeling anxious about Sebastian is completely normal. Your the Mom, the one that knows him and his needs best. Its ok to feel that way. I can't wait to hear how the next meeting goes! Hes so stinking cute! Is Sebastian still getting the rolley's on the floor? 😂 Hope you enjoy your dinner out tonight! Love you, always praying for y'all!!! ❤️❤️❤️🐕🦺🦜❤️❤️🙏🏻
What a sweet,loving family. Sebastian is blessed to haves such love.
Can’t believe it’s time for school! Can’t wait to see how Sebastian does! Thanks for updating us! 💜💜
Thank you for sharing with us!! Sebastian is just so, so special!! He has 2 awesome parents who love and support him. He is going to do great in school!! He will figure out his routine and do amazing❤❤
Anxiety can truly be exhausting. I think its expected that you be anxious about trusting Sebastian's care to strangers. Yes, they are professionals but they don't know him yet. One day at a time. They want to address your concerns and work with you. And you and Gio make final decisions. Try not to worry too much. When Gio said his finger was used to wipe the little boys nose, I literally spit out my tea! Lol And Sebastian's smile at the end....those dimples, gorgeous!!! Such a sweetheart!!
I really enjoyed this video. It was heart warming to hear about the other children and Sebastian wanted to have eye contact and except each others for just being little children. Hugs from Texas
Yes Stephanie I understand your concerns ..........its very very difficult .....plus he's so stinking cute and he's very loved ......But my thought is he will adjust and do very well .......bless you and family!!!!!!
It will be hard for you both and Sebastian. The decisions you make will be right. Yes, so many questions to ask. Lots of love to you and Geo.
This is so exciting.
Sweet Sebastian starting school. I think that this will be a positive experience even though it causes a lot of anxiety initially. Happy sushi night.
Stephanie you are going to have a hard time when he goes to school…🙏🏻💙
He is so cute. He will melt a lot of hearts at school. I love his smile.
Stephanie, get a file cabinet because you will have tons of EIP paperwork. I am sure you are very familiar with this. My son also had EIP's, so keep those papers. Believe it or not, you will need all those documents for when Sabastian is no longer in school. Here in Indiana I needed those papers for further programs. School will be good for him and you. I would think a nurse is always there, and once you know he will be fine, it will ease your mind. The first time with schools is always a worry and crying point for mom's, but even if Sabastion attends a few days, I think it will be good for him.
You are such a beautiful and wonderful mother to your son, God gives us our children as gifts and the way you and your husband are with him makes me smile. ❤
You are such an excellent Mama, Steph! Any mom feels nervous when their babies first to go off to school, especially when you have a child with special needs. I think he will do great as well as you! Hang in there mom and dad!!!
It’s unbelievable the progress Sebastian has made ! What a swwet little angel!
You know you are a true parent when you share spoon with your child. along with every other thing too lol
@VP-bx2jj stop parenting others children
Absolutely nothing wrong with what dad did. Sebastian is his little boy!!! It's perfectly normal to share with your child. Just ignore negative comments Stephanie and Gio
So glad they have programs like that, these kids deserve opportunities to grow and learn.🙏🏼🥰
Wow! So wonderful- so bittersweet! So glad you can watch Sebastian in School. I'm crying with you at the thought of leaving others in his care! Want to take turns keeping an eye on Sebastian in School? The Sweet part is, Sebastian's personality is really coming onto it's own. God really sent you all an amazing Blessing! And Sebastian couldn't be in better hands!! ❤❤❤
There is a lot of anxiety when you send your child off to school and I know it’s even higher when your child has special needs. I do want to reassure you coming from a special education background that these caregivers have a heart for this. You can work it into his IEP that he has a one on one and that person will be by his side the entire time he will never be left alone. This is what I did when I worked in special education and now my oldest daughter is doing the same thing. His one on one may not know how to do everything that Sebastian needs, but they will learn to take care of all of his needs. I know from personal experience that you form a bond with your student and sometimes become part of their family and attend their special events and sometimes babysit when the parents need someone. I’m excited that Sebastian is going to go to school once he gets used to being on a different schedule and around different people he will love it.
Hi Steph, Gio, and Senastian! Well, this is super exciting news! I think that most likely, everything will work out. I hope that there is an aid available for Sebastian that can care of his needs. It's super exciting that Sebastian has this opportunity to go to school and get to interact with his peers. If it all works out, this will be so great for him! 💜💜💜💜
he looks so happy and so healthy. You are doing such a tremendous job with that little boy. I can tell you love him so so much. And he loves you so so much back. You guys are tremendous fantastic parents. Go YOU!!!! hi Sebastian!!!!! sending him to school is definitely an adjustment. So be patient with yourself it’s new and it’s gonna be scary but I promise you it’ll turn out just fine.
It is so exciting to know Sebastian is going to school. Another way to prove you are super parents filled with such love
The amount of time Sebastian spends at school will probably be determined by how much progress he makes. It’s going to be difficult for a while, but you’re going to be great, Mom! My daughter took dance class when she was about three, and she cried s o pitifully, I was going to cry. The teacher told me to duck out of sight, and sure enough, she settled down and loved it. Love bug is so smart, he’ll adapt quickly.
This is a huge milestone for Sebastian and yourselves. I can’t wait to see how he gets on❤❤❤❤❤
Oh momma and daddy bear , the first day of school is always full of various emotions, you both will get through just fine. If you need to “ watch” do it from afar, that way you can witness his first few days of school without interfering with the process. All special needs kiddos are amazing! I retired after 32 yrs, so I kinda have an idea on your worries and excitement. God bless!
I think as long as all the safety needs are taken care of Sebastian will do great. I would just take it slow and definitely take advantage of the visits they offered. Good job Sebastian and parents. I can imagine how emotional this is for everyone. I would just continually weigh the pros and cons and make sure the benefits are superior but i think you know this. ❤
Stephanie: what you are feeling is so normal. Whether you have a “normal” kid or a special needs child, you are relinquishing your precious child to the unknown. This was a brave decision on your and Geo’s part to enroll him in school. Bravo to you both. In time you will relish your little slot of free time when he is at school.
I am a retired Special Education teacher and I can assure you the teachers and staff at that school can handle anything that would happen..they are well trained and experienced and Sebastian will have all he needs and more...
Omg Sebastain rock'in the jean shorts! I love this, congratulations to all!!
It never gets easier. The moment we fall pregnant we live the rest of our lives through constant bouts of panic and anxiety. There is nothing stronger then the need to protect our young. Not having control of that in every new stage of there lives feels just as horrible as the first times.
Thinking about you lady! This is seriously going to effect you more than anyone. Your beautiful son might need a bit to adjust but the more he does it the better he will feel.
Side note- just eat the top bun life is way to short! You are so beautiful and look extremely healthy as you are. ❤
I can totally understand where you guys are coming from as a parent and regarding the school. I worked in many multiple disabled classrooms. I was in a regular public school, in a multiple disabled classroom and I was assigned a girl in a wheelchair, who was non verbal, and also had seizures. She did not require a nurse at the time, but we are trained and there are protocols in place. All of the paraprofessionals change diapers, the girl I was with was in high school so I took her to the nurse and I assisted if she needed assistance changing her diaper. Now, as a parent, when my babies went to school, I had those anxieties also, I think for you and Gio, have the regular separation anxieties which is normal but then you also have all of the other issues, like the feeding tube, diapers, seizures, etc. My son had an IEP until 12th grade. They will set goals and document everything. So the point of my post is these schools are equipped and prepared. If you want him to have a nurse or para one on one for Sebastian ......tell them that! Also, I'd say definitely go there and watch. That's a great idea. I did that with my one son. I was able to observe without him knowing I was there and I learned a lot and was relieved. My heart goes out to you guys, but school will be wonderful for Sebastian and you. Even if it's for a few hours a week. Maybe start off slowly. See how everything goes. Everything will work out. It will be a nice routine to get into.
I am not just here for Sebastian. I adore that little boy but I am here for you and Gio. My son is 28 and autistic. He had very low support needs as I raised him, no physical disabilities. But watching and listening to your day brought back so many memories and anxiety. My son was in an inclusion class in school and on an IEP. The circumstances were different but the emotions were the same. If I can share anything with you from my experience 16:26 and the two of you are already doing the most important thing which is being an advocate! Love to you all on this new journey❤
This school sounds great for Sebastian. It will be great for everyone. It is hard to let go when you have been the sole caretaker.