LGBTQ+ Coming Out Collab | Read All About It
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 ธ.ค. 2018
- QueerAlliance proudly presents to you our first collab over a very important topic and issue all of us queer people have to endure... coming out. We chose this topic as our first collab because it's such a huge thing many of us have already faced and dealt with and felt it was super appropriate as our first "coming out" on our channel! This collab properly showcases all the struggles queer people face and go through just for their sexuality, some of us members even putting our own real life stories incorporated into this in one way or another. There is so much power and depth and emotion and struggle and pain and perseverance in this collab and I am SO immensely proud of this group and all of the members! I honestly could not ask for a better group and people to bring proper representation to the LGBTQ+ community.
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Special thanks to theaquasarah, TheSerialLove, and skygrounder for filling in on such short notice. You rock!
We managed to have so many of our members apart of this so please subscribe and check out their channels it is well worth it I promise you. I've never met a more talented crew!
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PARTICIPANTS:
carol__
Quiet_melodies
travesty
theaquasarah
ChemicalAttraction
Madelaine Edits
TaylorLynn127
WelcomeToCaritas
BackwardBlossom
Milk0vich
xIndiefreedom
vaso7890
Mia Winchester
ClexaStein
Katherine Pulkrab
erosxagape
querencia.
TheSerialLove
SweetDreams
Fox Fire
spideyodinson
lostAstronaut
skygrounder
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Coloring: midnightminho
Hosted by: TaylorLynn127
Collaboration Idea by: travesty
Thumbnail by: Madelaine Edits
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I’m 14 and a closeted bisexual. I didn’t realise how overwhelmed or scared I was about the repercussions of coming out until I watched this video and started crying. Thank you for it, it was beautifully made🏳️🌈💙💜💖
EDIT: It’s been 8 months since I made this comment, and I just wanted to thank all the lovely, so very sweet people in the replies below. This is why I love having this community - it can be so full of love and care and welcoming to everyone and anyone. All of us are on this crazy journey of self-discovery from the day we’re born till the day we go, and I’m so happy to see people on the internet reaching out to both ask for support and comfort each other. You guys helped when I felt overwhelmed and scared, and I’m so glad you did, because I’ve now officially been out for over 7 months. I’m finally getting to be a bit more me each day, and I can’t explain how good that feels, although I’m sure some of you guys would know ;). So again, thank you. So much.
Never be afraid to be yourself, you're not alone we are here 💖
QueerAlliance thank you so much, as a matter of fact, last night I actually did it. I came out to my parents. It was scary, I cried a lot, but worth it. They were completely supportive of me, and although it still feels surreal that they now know a secret I’ve been hiding for months, I know it’s for the best. It’s one of the first steps to being me, and I can’t wait 😊
@@sashal1493 We are so happy to hear that, great job! Keep on staying positive and being yourself!
Nicole Cefaloni Aww, thank you! And don’t worry, I completely understand what you’re going through. It’s a long process, and you’ve just got to do it when you feel the time is right. Well, for me, that was when keeping its secret felt quite literally suffocating, a huge weight on my chest, and I felt trapped. It was much more detrimental for me not to say it than to come out, so I did! I wish you all the best!
Nicole Cefaloni Seriously, Nicole, don’t worry about it! I really understand what it’s like to finally get to “talk” to someone about it. I was out on the Internet before being out in real life, it was my only way of getting to actually be me and express what I was feeling, and get some genuine advice! I’m so sorry you feel like that, like you have to wait until a certain age for people to believe you, while you wait, suffocating. It’s really a shame people can be so quick to brush being gay or bi off as a fase when we’re younger, yet you would NEVER hear someone saying being straight was “just a fase/they’ll grow out of it”. *_Its the heteronormativity for me_* Honestly, I didn’t feel tOtally ready when I came out to my parents, it just sorta...happened. It took me 10 minutes of building it up to finally say: I like girls. I don’t think I have ever had a harder time saying something😂 Now, for each person it’s different, but trust me, in the long run, it’s so, so much better to be out. However, because I don’t know where your family are on the homophobia scale, or how they might react, just do what’s safest for *you*. That’s your priority in all of this: you. It’s your life, your sexuality, and your right to be open and love freely. People are going to criticise, and be rude, and even doubt you (I’m sure you’re aware of this btw, it’s just I’ve been out for 5 months and I have experienced people genuinely questioning whether I’m bi or not...as if it’s up for discussion). At the end of the day, do what’s right for you! There’s no expiration date on coming out, so if you need/want to wait, wait! At the same time, if you feel the time is right, go for it
this is so beautiful and also made me feel really good about myself. it flowed together really well, good job to everyone!
As a closeted Bisexual who told her friends she's straight and would forget the feelings she has for a friend of hers that's a girl so that they would accept her and nothing would have to change so her (straight) friend doesn't feel alone, this hit hard and I needed this. Thank you❤
You're not alone, we are always here for you. You've got this!
I can remember in detail how I coming out and simply exploded! It was like I could not leave it inside anymore and I needed to stop pretending not only to my family, but to myself! I remember it was a terrible nightmare and horror but seeing this video now comforts me, because this fear I felt, this pain, the tears I shed for rejection, were simply worth it. I am no longer afraid of being who I am, and I am grateful for it. And this video, everyone did an incredible job and I'm glad that one day I was watching a video about coming out, today I participated in one. Thank you all.
Same, I imagined that I could never come out to my parents but I just exploded and couldn't stop myself.
I had been in the closet for years. And one night I got to overthinking and I just made the decision that I was gonna come out the next. In my mind, I wasnt gonna let it be a choice, it was something that I had to do.
y'all remember when i said i was going to cry when i watched the final result?! I was right! I'm an emotional mess right now!!
This is now one of my favourite videos ever...we put our hearts and souls in it, we portrayed the struggles and the hardships that some of us and millions of people out there go through with their sexuality so freaking well and in such a real way!! I'm really proud of us!! ❤️❤️
Thank you.
this is fantastic!!!! I love the inclusion of poly couples and trans and ace characters. AMAZING video!!!!
I feel so proud of all of us! We poured our hearts and souls into this and in every video there will be a part of us and that is just so beautiful. I love you guys so much and I cannot wait for the next project!
lowkey proud of myself for how many shows I recognized the clips from, Supergirl, glee, anne with an e, Grey's Anatomy, 13 reasons why,
I am so so proud of this group and all of my talented members. You guys have made this such an amazing experience and process and I'm literally blessed with the best group and best editors imaginable. You all should be so proud of yourselves for representing the LGBTQ+ community so well and helping others with this collab!
This is one of the most beautiful videos I've ever seen. It's so powerful and holds so much meaning. I'm sorry I couldn't be a part of it because of school keeping me busy but you guys absolutely rocked it!! Every part is absolutely stunning and they all go together so well. I couldn't have been more proud of what this collab group is so far and how talented everyone in it is. You all really created a masterpiece here. It's so special in every way possible.
Love you guys and I can't wait for our future projects! ♥
This is truly beautiful and inspiring! I'm really looking forward to the next projects. You guys did amazing
I was the first like because I knew before watching it was gonna be amazing. Everyone’s parts were so good! Great first collab, everybody!
This is one of my favourite collabs I’ve ever done! It’s so full of emotion and love and we did an amazing job! I can’t wait to work on our next collabs with all of you
this is amazing wow I'm speechless!
thank you for letting me join this group I couldn't be more proud :')
really looking forward for more an more collabs with these amazing editors 💖
I realized that we should really talk about ace, trans and poly people more. I'm not any of these but I'm a proud ally:)
We're glad to have you as an ally!
Whats ace?
@@brooklyn.d2390 Asexual and aromatic people
@@brooklyn.d2390 Asexual.
This collab is so amazing and beautiful and I can't stop crying and playing repeat! 💕
wow!!! you guys did an amazing job, i loved every second of it. So many emotions
I love this video so much, mostly because of the inclusion of so many kind of people. I'm a bisexual girl and this year I came out to almost all the important people in my life, so I feel like a little bit of my story is here too, the anxiety, the fear, but also that feeling of pride for finally admitting who you are
This was just mind-blowing! Everyone did a perfect job here it's really amazing ✨💛
I'm so proud of being a part of this amazing community 🏳️🌈
omg i can't believe how amazing this turned out to be, i am so effing emotional right now ;___;
This is the most beautiful video I have ever seen 💜 I can't count the times I watched it, still tear up sometimes because I feel so understood.
I LOVE THIS!!!!! and I'm SO happy that you added Raphael Santiago
I'm speechless! Congratulations to everyone, what a beautiful collab!
This is SO epic and emotional. REALLY impressively edited and just so powerful.
I am so in love with this... thank you for making this!!!
I wasn't prepared for this level of quality, amazing!
THIS COLLAB IS SO FUCKING BEAUTIFUL! NOT SUPPRISING THOUGH CONSIDERING ALL THESE AMAZING EDITORS WHO WERE A PART OF IT! I ACTUALLY CRIED!
Beautiful, beautiful collab!! So much thought has gone into it, and it's trememdously well edited.
Can I ask, only if anyone's up for it, for some of the key shows mentioned?
I’m in like 90% of the fandoms in this vid and I am crying so much right now
This made me cry... I'm so speechless❤
This the most amizing edit I have ever seen in my life and maybe one I will be brave to who I am as well thank you
I WAS SO SURPRISED BUT HAPPY THAT YOU INCLUDED JANELLE MONAÉ
oh my god i didn't think that anyone else ever added degrassi next class to their edits. It's such a great show with incredible representation and Zoe's story is heartbreaking and beautiful. Thank you for this, it's beautiful
This was so POWERFUL♥️
This is so beautiful I have chills
I am actually crying over here. I mean wow. This is so beautiful and powerful. Amazing first collab you guys. ❤️
I'm 15 soon to be 16 and I'm bisexual listening and watching these things bring my courage for coming out up and I told my 2 aunts my cousin my step sister my dad's girlfriend and now my dad I can't wait to tell the rest of my family that I'm bisexual so thank you 💙💜💖🏳️🌈
I need all the shows 😩😩😩
This is really amazing 🙌🏻❤️
This is so beautiful I love this for so many reasons 1st I was watching Legends of tomarrow and I saw a gay couple and the way this guy was telling his BF the way he felt it's like how can people not accept LGBT PEOPLE no offence if I am saying the wrong thing but I really love this as much as I loved the guy pooring out his feelings to his BF This is so magnificent and beautiful on so many levels.
Wow it turned out so beautifull guys!
This is the most beautiful video I've ever seen. 🌹✨
That's amazing!😍 Thank you so much🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
This is beautiful
I love this
Happy Pride
finally Professor Marston and the Wonder Women are getting recognition!!!! I'm so happy.
Thank you for this great video and I loved the diversity in this video
THAT'S BEAUTIFUL 😍😍😍
When i watching lgbtq+ videos on youtube, all I think about is Zude lmao They are gay couple in the series called Hit the Floor and their kiss in front of people on the courtside was really perfect. And people didn't know about their sexual orientation :)) That kiss impressed me a lot 😹 Thanks for the video ♡
This legit made me tearbend.
Thank you for the ace inclusion
We're so glad to hear that! We will always try to bring representation for everyone in this lovely amazing community!
I am 14 y/o and I'm still a closeted Genderfluid Pansexual. Thank you for this masterpiece. Even though it's not all sunshine and rainbow, it's make me know that I'm not alone during this. So Thank You❤️
This is so beautiful 🖤 ❤️ 🧡 💛 💚 💙 💜
❤️💛💚💙💜
I just came out as gay and demiaro to my best friends and i just wish everyone had the friend I do! I hope you have friends and support, and if you don't hi, let's be friends
What's the show/movie 3:07-3:09? This vid is SSOOO GREAT I can't stop watching it😍😍 I'm still figuring myself out and these videos help me get through❤
oh my god I'm so damn happy with the result and I couldn't be more proud of this group
2:57 God damnit this made me cry. How can kids be so horrible?
Ben deserves so much more
@@fnaffanmiles4678 he does :(
What show is that from?
@@No-bv6mn good girls
@@fnaffanmiles4678 thanks
My mom thinks me being gay is gonna wash over one day. I used to tell my self, I wasn't ashamed. Till one day I realized I was. I was out in school. I told my friends, my family supported me, I was abused. Till one day I guess it just hit my mom. I'm not changing.
Never be ashamed of who you are!
This is so beautiful, and it contains almost my favorite gay ships, when I first heard this song I directly though about lgbt people, so I love this so much !
Hey this is so much later but do you happen to know what was shown at 1:14? You mentioned it showed some of your favourite ships so I thought you might know?
@@imapersonithink6702 it's lost and delirious! such a sad movie...
♡
This is amazing!!
I'm crying.. 🌈 😍
Freedom acceptance forgiveness equality
AMAZING
I cried the all time, like the part of parents that weren't supportive that is so sad...That's why I never did with mine..amd I still wait
This is incredible
Oh?? My god??? Is that,, polyam rep? In a pride video? I'm about to cry holy shit tysm-
💖💖💖
It’s okay to be different
i just knew The L Word was gonna be in here lol!! this was a great video and made me cry in the middle of class lmaooo
Can i get some of the names if the series and film in this video?
Which is truly amazing and heartwarming
Since this is a multi-editor collab project, I cannot list every Fandom. I'm sorry about that!
This is so amazing and inspirational but does anyone know what the poly relationship is from
I told my mom that i have a girlfriend, 2 yrs ago. She denies it even now. She's trying to break us up. It hurts, knowing someone i trusted to be with me, to love me as i am, hates me secretly. I lover so much, i wish she could see how much i wish to see her at my wedding. I fell in love with an absolutely amazing woman, who she knows very well. She refuses to believe what she sees. She says "Im blind" but she never had that opinion until she realised we're a couple. It hurts a lot.
I love this, especially the way the voice-overs were used :)
Could somebody tell me the shows/movies?
Too many fandoms to list them all, I'm sorry! Glad you enjoyed the video though! 😊💖
QueerAlliance could you maybe tell me the one used at around 0:38? (The Voiceover(?) where the black and white scene is)
@@Ashgoeslol Professor Marston and the Wonder Women
BackwardBlossom thanks
I can hear the
whispers
the familiar voices
I let inside
every single day
The secrecy stains
the world
I see
its a toxic connection
that will never
change.
3:32 - She would sleep, She would wake, She would wake.. Fuck.
It's beautiful ❤
Love yourself
I'm 47 and in 2019 I went to see Dr Bill Schafer and finally got to see myself in the truest and most honest truth I could be that I Jaymes Aj McQueen am a transgender ♂️ man.
They think am to little to know if I’m bi and I lost all my confident on telling my family.So am going to wait but I’m sure am bi:(
What is the clip from 3:01 from? It’s a great video by the way!
From the show "Good Girls"
@@thequeentaylor ok thank you!
awwww
I never had a real Comingout in front of my parents, but someone who know me and my parents saw me kissing my Ex-Girlfriend and they told my parents. I'm not together with her anymore, but at the time we were a Couple I loved her much. Because I'm bisexual, an Aspergian autistic woman, my Ex-Girlfriend was transsexual (MtF) and my actual Partner since years is a man my mother still think it was a Phase. I could never speak with her about all the girls and boys I hade a Crush on, before I met my actual Boyfriend or all the people I hit up as sexual attractiv. My mother know that one of my friends is a trans Woman (MtF), an Aspergian Woman and Gothic like me, but not the one I datet years ago. My mother think I couldn't think of her as sexy, because it was a Phase years ago and she know I have my boyfriend. What my mother doesn't understand is that I will never cheat on my Boyfriend, because I just love him, but I could think that other people are hot and my trans friend just isn't my type of a woman. My mother is a Psychologist and I fear what she will tell aspergian and or bisexuall clients of her and hurt/harm them. I'm just so lucky to live with my boyfriend now, not my parents anymore and that he and our best friends accepted me as bisexual and never made a big deal out of it.
Clexa ❤❤❤❤❤ I miss this couple
ELLIOT FLETCHER AND NOEL FISHER
Luckily, my parents didn't stop loving my brother when he came out to them, and I didn't stop loving him when I found out he was gay! He's still my baby brother, and I will love him forever, no matter what!
KAROLINA AND NICO AHHH
1:26 can someone tell me from which series she's from???
I know I am bi like 4 years. And in 4 years I told my 2 friends. And they aren't my friends anymore.( sorry english isn't my mother language)
Your true friends will love and accept you for who you are :)
I came out to my mom as pansexual in may and she was fine with it she just asked questions it was scary for me I had known a year and a few months before telling her my friends and classmates knew but my mom didn’t but I was mostly scared of her reaction and if she would accept me
(I’m 12 btw)
We are so glad to hear she handled it well! Please know you're not alone! 💖
I came out to my friends before my parents and they will tell you that i was a mess before i did when ever she would call me for something it was like and alarm went off and always wondering if she found out i had know for a year that i was bi before i came out to anyone and if sort of hurt me that she said i was to you g to know but she accepts me not actively supporting me but accepting anyway all this to say i am a 13 year old bisexual girl and i feel you
Im bi but i only came out to my mum and a friend and my mum didnt accept and the hardest part is my dads homophobic and so are my grandparents my friend is the only person who accepts me now im scared to come out to people
I am so sorry to hear you weren't given the love and support you deserve. There is unfortunately homophobic people in this world but there is also many who will love and support you, including this group 💕
What’s the name of the show at 2:58
Good girls
It is okay to get emotional
2:47 ...Anyone knows.. the show name
2:57 WHAT SHOW IS THIS CLIP FROM
It’s called Good girls
I'm openly trans homoromantic asexual. Ok, to my parents I came out as trans gay, the fact that I'm asexual gay I told just to my aunt and my closest friend. But whatever. When I made my first coming out as trans (I didn't know what I was at that time) I was in eight classes at elementary school. I came to the living room and told my mom I'm a girl and boy in one and if she will love me as a boy. She told me it's bullshit and to deal with fact that I'm a girl. It hurt me so I walked away. In first-class at secondary school, I came out to my ex-best friend and then told my mom I will change my sex one day. She was like ok, you do you, but we fight every day since that. She forced me to wear a dress to dancing even I told her I'm super uncomfortable and have anxiety attacks. Then she told me that if doctors will tell me that I am trans I maybe will be happy, but she and the rest of the family not. And if they will tell me I'm not trans, so maybe I will be sad, but they will be happy to be right that I'm a girl. Then my grandma told me that as trans I will never be able to be loved. Which definitely didn't help my depressions. In the third class of the secondary school, I came out as gay. So now I'm openly trans for my classmates and teachers from secondary school and my teacher from the university. And now I'm almost three months after mastectomy and a year and nine months on hormonal therapy and super happy. Because I can be who I am, even I have still problems from the past in which I'm working btw.
So don't worry to come out. It will definitely be much better for you and ALWAYS there will be people which will love you no matter what. If parents will react negatively for the first time, don't worry after some time they will accept it because you are their kiddo and they love you. And if not, it's not your problem but theirs. Stay safe, be proud, and love yourself because you matter and God loves you so don't listen to bullshits aka God hates LGBT+ bububububu. If he would, we wouldn't be here.
We are so terribly sorry to hear all that you've been through, but are so glad things are looking up for you! You're a true warrior and we wish you nothing but love and acceptance in your life!
I don’t know half of these people and I’m confused
Can someone please tell me what the show or movie is at 3:22???
Elite it's Spanish series on Netflix
when's penelope coming backkk😭😭