I know how much starting a family and your privacy means to you guys, and we're supporting you completely. ♥ You already know how I feel about it all, but to everyone else I want to say that TH-cam isn't a life everyone wants to live forever. A lot of people are trying to come up with ways that Grace and Ryosuke can stay around in some aspect, which I totally understand, but also try to consider how they feel. TH-cam is a very huge intrusion on your life, and even for people who plan on doing it as long as they can the constant oversharing and having every aspect of your existence noticed, commented on, and praised or criticized is a lot to deal with. Not everyone wants to be in the public eye forever. Wanting to have a private life with your kids isn't very possible when people are recognizing you on the street and sharing your address on the internet. Grace and Ryosuke aren't the first people I've seen leave the public eye to transition to a more private life, and I'm sure they won't be the last. It's a a big, personal decision, but it's theirs to make and it's important that if we actually care about them and their well-being to respect that decision and support them.
This makes me fear the day of Rachel and Jun leaving the TH-cams. ;) Good Luck on your future life without TH-cam to the 2 of Texan in Tokyo. (≚ᄌ≚)ℒℴѵℯ
Hi Grace, Ryosuke, I'm going to miss you guys! I'm sure things will work out well for you. Do put up a video once in a while? I'm going to miss seeing Japan through your eyes. All my love, From India.
So I have no idea why TH-cam decided to all of a sudden promote this video like crazy (especially because our channel is basically a dead channel now). To everyone who got magically dragged here by TH-cam's algorithm, SORRY! Go back to a more fun/interesting place on the internet.
I just "landed" on your channel because of TH-cam algorithm. This video is the first video that I watch here. And I think you're lovely and I have the same opinion as yours: I would not like to overshare my life if I have kids, because I would be sharing my children's life, and that's their life, their privacy, and they would not even know what is going on. And I would be sharing the lives of other people - people that are not me, people that can't decide for themselves if they WANT to be exposed on TH-cam or not - and that doesn't sound right. I thought I was the only person in the World that had that opinion as yours. So I am happy that this video is a video that shows me I am not wrong for making the same choice as yours. Good luck with your life! :) I wish you all the best!
Pathetic. He MADE her quit after being pressured by his family. To them it's a taboo to photo kids. Give me a break. This is like manipulation. You're American, demand equality and keep your job
@@filmfelineadmin You're pathetic. Children aren't pets and babies can't give consent. The intrusion of social media into our daily lives can be very damaging to mental health, especially for kids. Your lack of compassion and understanding is proof enough of that.
Haha what do you mean you cant vlog while having kids. So stupid... Just put out a vid every week or something. I feel like you went on a overthinker on this one. Please take some time and reconsider this decision. Also I just found this channel and started to really like it. Kind of sad now :/
It's not about time - we really just don't want to make videos of our kids. Ryosuke and I both enjoyed having "normal" childhoods and we'd like to be able to give them the same thing. It's a personal decision, rather than "can't" we "won't."
+Texan in Tokyo I highly belive it would be healthy to keep the channel going. I understand if you dont want to put your kids in the videos, so don't. There will come a time in the future where the dust have setteld and you will think back on this and think to your self. 'Why did I quit.' In my opinion, you should turn down the frequency of the videos. When the big day comes - Then just take a break, until things have calmed down.
I understand. I think it would be unnerving to be out with your kids and complete strangers are taking pictures and walking up to you as if they know you. That would be the main reason that I would stop. However, if it means being able to stay home with the children, it may be a good trade off. I think if either parent has to work long hours outside the home doing a job they don't like, it may be just as bad for the children. Something to consider.
Miss these guys, my husband and I watched them, loved their cooking ones and when they traveled. They’re so smart, hope they have an update some day. 💕💕
Suddenly remember them too! Miss them. Love their suburban adventures and unique food vlogs. Their channel was a welcome calm break from all the hyperactive and flashy other channels. I wonder if she is still making comic books because I can't find any new ones. I remember she said she would continue, but maybe it's only in Japanese stores.
Hi Grace and Ryosuke! its been 2 years since you guys left youtube and i hope everything is going good for you guys! its hard to believe that 2 years has gone by..i still miss seeing you guys in your videos and think about you guys from time to time. i found your channel back when i was horribly depressed, and you guys always cheered me up when things got rough. anyway, not sure if you'll even get this message, but i just wanted to say hi! take care always =)
Why do you think posting about it here helps? There is a feature on your front page to help adjust your content. Going onto the video will only mean you get more of similar content. Bad move.
omg, it's been 8 months. I miss you guys so much. your videos were some of my favorites, so incredibly relaxing and interesting. I hope you guys are well.
TH-cam is not a life commitment. Leaving TH-cam is also not a life commitment and you can always return in whatever capacity you wish. I've watched on and off for the last few months, and only recently subscribed. I've loved your videos; the content, the personality of the both of you, the love, the adventure, the sharing... I'm thankful for everything you've put out there. It's more than I could have asked for and provided education, entertainment, exploration, and emotion. You've made me smile so many times. So thank you. I hope your future is full of the same happiness. You are amazing people.
Having kids was a big reason for them to quit but I'm really sure there is more reasoning behind it. I wish they said that they were taking a break from youtube and didn't know when or if they'll be back. Its hard to believe that they've decided not to post any videos until they're kids are old enough.
I think its very admirable what they did. There are a lot of other youtubers that would've used the baby to get more views..put the baby in the thumbnail.. creating clickbait titles with the baby, but they care more about actual privacy and family time than they do TH-cam. They don't post on any form of social media though really which is also pretty cool. There's definitely life outside of social media and these 2 prove that. I think there are many people on this platform that could learn a thing or 2 from this video.
I can't believe that it's been 3 and a half years ago. I've been watching the channel but when I watched this video, I was totally in a different place than where I am right now. I started university again after severe depression and didn't know what to do because my grandmother has passed away couple days ago. Watching this video made me feel like I needed to start my chapter in life, just like how Texan in Tokyo channel was going to start their own chapter. Now I'm married and pursuing Masters and no longer suffer from depression (I mean never gets bad, there's no cure for it lol...) Thanks Grace and Ryo-chan, I hope you guys are doing well also
For me, it's not a matter of kids understanding, it's about their safety. Putting them out there like that for the whole world to see is dangerous, especially in the world today. Lots of Hollywood celebs very intentionally keep their kids out of the limelight. I think that's wise. As one Texan to another, best of luck to you and your family!
But they could just make videos without showing their kids. I 100% understand not wanting to show your kids but children sleep, parts where they appear can be cut out. I know it would be more of an effort and they would end up getting less videos done but having kids and not wanting to show them doesn't mean you must leave. I have seen many youtube channels of people that have children but don't show the children. If I were them, I'd just wait and see. She isn't even pregnant yet and they don't know how it'll be. Some people manage their hobbies while their kids sleep. I am online and my children have no online presence whatsoever.
I am actually relieved, when I saw this video, I thought that you two were divorcing! I've seen so many TH-cam couples splitting lately, I thought the same had happened to you guys. But instead I hear you guys are going to be having kids in the future and, therefore, leaving the internet. Sure, I'm sad to hear you guys leaving TH-cam. You have provided me with a lot of information about Japan and what it's like being an American involved with the Japanese culture since I wish to do the same one day. And you guys have helped me learn a lot. But your choice is understandable. Having a family and being a regular TH-camr is extremely hard. I don't know how some people do it. Kids need all of your attention and if you don't want them seen online while vlogging, that's going near impossible. It's a sad, but understandable choice. No hard feelings from me! But I wish you guys the best! Your kids are going to be so adorable! I hope everything goes well for you two. :)
Your sad because you wont be on TH-cam anymore or on any social media? ('-')! I thought you were gonna say I'm going through a divorce or somthing tragic happened. Your starting a family? No big deal. You gotta do what you gotta do.
d3m1.60d // I know same here. My dad was in Japan (us army) before I was born, and I've always been fascinated by the land/culture/people. These two are great, and will be missed.
same. I am happy knowing they will start a family. It isn't really fair to raise a child with their guardians who take care of them, and a camera in the child's face. I am so happy for them. I want the child to live normally, not as an internet thing.
This is the first time I've heard of your channel, and it winds up being your final episode. Wow. So...hello and goodbye, I suppose. Konbanwa and sayonara
TH-cam at it's usual trickery?? Weird algorithms. I got suggested this as well and now it's popped like crazy? 500k views lol. I think they will re-asses!
Why is everyone so shocked? They mentioned in another video (and possibly more?) that once they decided to start a family they probably wouldn't be on TH-cam anymore and that it would probably be soon. They also cited these exact reasons as why they wouldn't continue. I'll just say that I hope you both find happiness in your family life and wish you well on the endeavor.
Especially when they want to start having a family, it is really the best to keep that off the internet. The internet can be a really really aweful place. There are people that will send you death threats for stating that oranges are better than apples. This is really not something that you want your kids to experience in the slightest. It's one of the most mature decisions that I could witness on TH-cam. I am happy for them. Also as a small PSA: Keep your family off the internet - especially TH-cam.
Ohhhh thank god. I thought you two were getting a divorce when I saw that both of you made a video. Bless you both and live that wonderful you envision of kids, happiness and bliss and in PRIVATE! Fair thee well.
Holy Moly, I didn't even think of that. Though I thought that since she was alone in the vid that there may have been a death. I am SOOOO relieved that it is what it is.
It's 2020 now and I still think about your channel. I really enjoyed your content and wish you kept making videos. I hope your family is staying safe in this crazy world right now! Miss you guys.
This isn't goodbye, it's more like till we meet again. Whatever you decide and do, you will be missed. Wishing you good luck and good fortune. Till next time...
Jon Z Excuse me? I didn't insult you but pointed out that you were putting words in their mouths. Meanwhile you implied I needed to take meds. Who's the bully?
Dear Grace and Ryosuke, I'm not someone who comments on video's I see, mainly because how a single comment tends to disappear in the mass. However, since this will be the last time you guys make a video about your lives or Japan/America for a long while at the very least, I would like to share that I completely agree with your views about your children appearing on youtube. People should never be forced to be visible on any social media. (I was going to limit this to people who are unable to grasp the consequences of that visibility, but I will not, people should never be forced, period.) Also, I would like to thank you for sharing your stories, lives and wisdom. I have loved to learn about Japan from you two. Who knows, maybe in about 16 years your children turn out to be equally happy to share about their lives as you are about yours. But untill then, I wish you the very best in life Patrick (The Netherlands)
Hi Patrick, Thank you so much for commenting on our last video. And thank you for your understanding and support. We have no idea what the future will bring... but we're VERY excited for it!
Dear Grace and Ryosuke, I totally agree with +Patrick Jansma, and I also normally never comment on videos but since this will be your last I just wanted to say thank you sooo much for sharing your lives and stories, I always loved your videos ans they always made my day, I started crying as I was watching your video because I will miss you two so much. You are to me both like friends... I wish both of you and your familys all the best and hope all your dreams will come true. :) Sarah (Germany) P.S. Sorry for the terrible english :D
Perfectly put Patrick - thank you! We will miss seeing you both but will look forward to you coming back in the future Thank you for allowing us to share
I think it's a thoroughly valid and smart decision not to incorporate your (future) children in videos and not putting a spotlight on them. I will miss your charming content and wish you both the best of luck 10/10 Ryosuke best boi (feel free to make a comeback though)
Armando Robertsson Finally found a comment that is good. No joke, all comments ive seen are people either talking crap or saying "I just found you". I totally agree with what you say.
I was thinking of you guys and wondered how you were doing. I miss your videos. You're both so sweet and interesting. I hope that all is well. know that you're missed.
Yotsuba Yamada Yes, Grace said it in her blog post and on Facebook. Here's a copy and paste of what she said: From the bottom of our hearts, we want to say “thank you.” We are filled with so much love, respect, and affection for the people we’ve met on this wonderful adventure, through TH-cam, comics, blogging, Twitter, Facebook, and Patreon. It’s been incredible and we couldn’t have done it without you. We are going to be taking a one year social media hiatus, in preparation for this next chapter of our lives. We hope you have a wonderful year (and that 2017 is MUCH better for the world than 2016 was, ugggghhh). Best of luck following your own adventures and dreams. Love, Grace and Ryosuke
I'm shocked how selfish people are being. Don't argue why/how they could stay. Don't you think they already considered those possibilities when they made such a big decision? TH-cam creators are people who are nice enough to let us look in on their lives. Be happy they gave us such a heartfelt goodbye.
They are making a conscious and responsible decision and I somehow hope for them to put out the odd video now and then if and when they feel like it and agree on a specific event/occasion/video to be worth sharing while still respecting everybody else's privacy. They've been allowing us glimpses into their lives and earned their places in our hearts. Those places will still be there, whatever they do.
As I just posted in my own thread, they have to do what's right and I wish them well. At the same time, allow that some viewers may have formed strong attachments to them and may actually be going through a little bit of the stages of grieving for a sudden loss of something that made them happy, including denial and bargaining. Grace and Ryosuke are adults, not to mention compassionate, and I suspect they probably understand this. Just let everyone feel how they feel on both sides of the screen, I think.
No it wouldn't have. They have chosen to share a part of their life with us and now they are, at the very least temporarily, ending it. Leaving it like that with no reason or anything of any kind would be... cheap. It wouldn't be fair to the people who watched this channel for the longest time. It is still their decision to take this step but to leave people behind who have been with them all of the way? There isn't anything worse than a bad ending to a story, as that can ruin everything. That remains true here.
Sure, valid point, but keep in mind it does not come from a bad place, people only offer possible thoughts and ideas from their own perspective, it is supposed to be complimentary and supportive, I understand why people say its selfish, personally I think its pretty rude for you to say that but I am sure you did not intend to be, not everyone thinks the same way, life would be boring i we did.
TH-cam recommended me this video again, it's been 5 years since the last time I saw it yet I still remember very well their channel and their message. I hope whatever they are doing they are just fine and happy :)
Same as everybody here: I miss you and I hope you're doing fine. Thank you for not having deleted your videos so that we still can enjoy them. I'll be very happy if one day you decide to come back to make videos on TH-cam
as sad as it felt to watch this video i can really respect where you're coming from. trying to reconcile having kids with life as a youtuber is such a difficult thing. best of luck to you both
Even if you don't wanna vlog for the public anymore, you should make your private videos for your kids. You can look back enjoy the memories. I respect your decision, please enjoy your life.
I loved this Chanel so much. So much so that 4yrs later I still come on here every now and then. Just hoping for a random update. Wish you all the best and pray all is still going great for your family. Blessings😁
I still miss this channel so much... every once in a while I come back and watch some of your videos. They always made me and still make me happy. Thanks for everything ♡
This is sad but understandable, but I was scared thought it was a divorce, I'm thinking to myself guys are like a beautiful pair and so funny how could this happen, but glad to hear that isn't true. Honestly I agree with children, that need to keep some distance, but it's also going to hard with children like said to make vids. However I won't mind the occasional update on things. But you should of kept video of those not for youtube but for family members. So still film as much of your kids has for yourselves.
Ok this is ridiculous. You obviously love what you do. I am a mom of 2 boys and yes I understand where you are coming from with the consent thing... but right now you have a job that affords you the ability to be with your husband and children. You are going to toss that away to go find a conventional job? Most mothers would kill for the opportunity you have here especially when there are so many viable options to continue. You are an amazing artist. You could make caricatures and superimpose them into the videos to cover the kids. Edit them out. As a mom who struggles back and forth with wanting to staying home with my kids, even though they are 12 and 9, or should I get a conventional job... your situation is the perfect balance...
Honestly I hate how people say she's tossing away an opportunity most people would kill for. If you're not in the situation, you don't have a right to say. It's her life, her decision, and if she decides it's not right for her, good for her. Why does it matter if other people want the job if you decide it's not right for you? So dumb. So dumb to bring up other people when it's not about other people. It's about them. It's not up to you to decide if she has the perfect balance. it's hers.
Jaciemack I actually agree. id love to stay home with the kids all day. but maybe they might change their mind later on when one or 2 parent cannot be with the kid all day. My son loves the camera lol always has since 2 lol wishful thinking lol that they'll regret it lol
Right. I'm not here to decide for here or to even question her decision. Who am I to do that? But I actually follow Grace very closely for a few years now and even though I respect whatever she decides, I have to say admit If what she always said is true, this move is worrisome. Without having enough Japanese and other skills aside from writing for a few years in English, while having a husband without enough English skills (if they'll consider moving back to the US) quitting a successful job before making sure you have another "safe" one in your hands, moreover, having kids while being in this situation doesn't sound like the most smart thing to do...look, I'm more or less the age of Grace, it's not that I have tons of "life experiences" behind me, but that's the common sense in my book. Unless, of course, there's other information that we're not informed about. And that's even besides what I really don't understand which is - what quitting TH-cam has to do with quitting writing blogs? to me it sounds more like they have came to the point that they no longer want to do that "Japan - thing" and kids are just an excuse, which is to totally legit, of course. Bottom line - we have to respect them, and we can still criticize, and give advices from our own lives, it's up to them whether to take it or ignore it.
So it has been 2 years and i still hope you guys are healthy and that your happy. That your kids are growing up well and that your marriage is still strong. I hope that one day you guys will come back
For folks curious about how they're doing. They live in Austin, TX. Grace is a governance lead at IBM. Ryosuke is a marketing strategist at a company called The Personal Wealth Coach. According to his bio on the company website they have two children now. Looks like they did pretty well for themselves. (Note: This is information Grace and Ryosuke chose to share themselves on public websites. That's why I think it's ok to share here.)
James Rolfe can do videos without his children. However he has said that it's hard to find a time when his daughter and wife isn't home, and he swears a lot in his videos... :/
***** James also makes a lot more money so he doesn't have to also work a job & do the video thing while being a devoted parent. Also, she noted that they already tried filming with kids around & not including them but it was extremely difficult, so I see where they're coming from.
I just discovered your Channel watched a lot of videos and you are both so adorable, Then When I saw this video I thought you were Breaking up with him. I'm so glad it isn't the case, I wish you the best of luck !!
Commenting from 2019. This was the first time I'd come across a dead channel. I just wanted to say that I'm really proud of y'all for living by your own boundaries and for making a video to explain it all. Love to know how the kids are doing though.
I was thinking recently how much I enjoyed your videos. I don’t know if you even check this old channel any more but I hope you guys are doing well and thanks for the great videos.
Oh guys (meaning YOU, Grace & Ryosuke!),...like many, I saw the thumbnails and titles and feared the absolute worst, especially after a longer-than-usual "Texan in Tokyo" drought so, having finished the final "A Day in My Life", I was greatly relieved to see Ryo lovingly pecking at your face, per usual! Carry on with THAT forever! Secondly, I watched your final three videos at my office in Times Sq. before heading home. During my subway commute I felt truly bereft, as if dear friends were moving away! You really created something remarkable with your channel that was maybe larger than your original goals, that Grace recants in her "The End" video. Somehow, your magnetic love for one another, basic decency, humor, un-self consciousness, and very honest portrayal of your young lives took over and ran the show in a way that was extremely engaging, with Japan as the most beautiful backdrop! I don't have cable or Netflix, I have a few things that I go to regularly for fun or entertainment or eduction. You were one of them. Yet, I have enormous respect for the reasons you are leaving and I'm not surprised you chose them because of who you are. I know this doesn't come easily for you either! This was more than a little hobby for you both and it's incredibly brave and principled for you to make this decision. I love you. We ALL love you!!!. And thank you for taking us around, introducing us to your wonderful parents, and making us laugh and root for you in every way! May your temple book be filled, Grace!
That is wonderfully said. I remember way back when it was announced that TH-cam would be cracking down on copywrite material, and I thought, "WTF is the point of TH-cam going to be then? Who wants to see random strangers with a video camera?" Then I discovered amazing people like these guys, and realised I was very wrong. I'd rather watch these guys than most of what's on Netflix. Grace & Ryosuke really have a special place in my heart. They are so perfect to watch on days when I'm just feeling like everything sucks. It's hard think everything and everyone is terrible when you see these two just being themselves and being in love.
Ignore the hate comments. It's your life, so do what feels right for yourself and your family. I hope TH-cam has given you plenty of exciting experiences to remember. Best of luck!
Thanks for everything I have just found your channel 1 yr after you have finished. I got hooked and binged watched your life over a weekend! you are both lovely and you have taught me alot about Japan and what a healthy relationship looks like! I hope everything is going well for you both .... lots of love from England!
Louise Kullar their videos are very helpful indeed! We started uploading content for when we were in Japan for just over half a year now so perhaps our videos could be of interest to you too 👍
Oh deer god for a second I assumed you get a divorce. With the combination of the empty room thumbnail and the title I thought the worst. I thought I was going to get a mini heart attack ( I need to lay off the potato chips Xp )
Viet Lee me too! Phew! Honestly after thinking that I feel sort of relieved that you guys are going away but at least we know staying together lol that might sound weird but it's just you two are so cute together ☺️
They quit because they wanted to have kids and in order to do that they had to choose between their children or TH-cam they chose their kids don't be angry with them because if you had children you would do the same thing. And they will probably won't come back because they are focusing on their beautiful wonderful children.💙💙💙💙💙💙💚💚💚💙💙💙💙💜💜💜💓💓💓💓
I really miss these amazing people. Still like to binge watch once in awhile. I sincerely hope they are happy and living the life they dream of. Secretly hoping they have started their family as well. Hope to see/hear from them soon. If not that's okay. Miss you guys dearly. As always, thanks for sharing. ( I'm an old fan but with a new TH-cam account)
omg I thought you guys where going to get a divorce and was about to cry but when I continued watching I was abit releaved..sad that ur leaving but still abit releaved that it's not something bad. I'm gonna miss you so so much because I was a fan since day one..I swear! yes lately I wasn't but it's just because school☹but I really really support u💔hopefully one day I'd meet you💜💜love you guys both *FIGHTING*✊✊
I just found this channel, literally this morning 1-2-2019. But, I fully understand the need to distance from YTube. People don't realize the time it demands, and what being in the 'public eye' means in this day and age. I will watch all the videos, as my interest in Japan has came.. but wish you both the best on your new adventure, of a family. God bless, stay sane (I'm a mother :) ) and enjoy that beautiful land that Japan is.
I used to watch you guys before I studied abroad in Japan 4 years ago. I am also from Texas and I really enjoyed your videos and comics. But, I have SO MUCH RESPECT for you and your husband for making the decision to not share your child's life on the internet. I was worried when I came back to visit your channel that something bad had happened and that's why yall weren't making any more videos. Moving on is normal and I applaud you and your family. Thanks for the awesome content!
This is noble stuff. I've always found it weird, youtubers throwing their kids online. It's just not healthy. The videos that you've already made will still be up. You've given enough of yourselves.
"There's a difference between over-sharing our own life and choosing to over-share someone else's life has no idea what's going on, who isn't capable of understanding what's going on because they're too little." Some people think online videos are just a convenient way to share their home videos with their extended family. What they're not considering is that The Internet is The Entire World. A public online video is a world-wide media publication. It's not just "a cool thing to do", every one has global consequences, even if those consequences aren't obvious. People you don't like have access to your public videos. People who don't like you have access to your public videos. Sane but disagreeable people have access to your public videos. Crazy people have access to your public videos. People you don't want near your children have access to your public videos. The worst people in the world have access to your public videos because The Entire World has access to your public videos. That is why I 100% agree, and support your decision. Good luck with everything!
Aww, I'm going to miss you guys. You're genuinely my favorite TH-camrs. But I totally respect your decision. I just hope you're going to keep all your awesome old videos online for us to revisit. I just got into your channel about three months ago, so I'm glad I discovered you in time, and I even managed to buy signed copies of all of your great books. Thank your for all of the great content, you've given us and good luck in the future to the both of you.
I only discovered your channel today. I'll be subbing, so I can work through your all of your videos. Thank you for the snapshots in time of your lives. I'll be riding the time machine, once I watched the other half of 'The end'. All the best for your futures, I'm sure they'll be bright.
I had to visit and watch some videos.... Sure do miss watching a fellow Texan live such a dream. Hope all is well and am wishing in 3 months that y'all make a video and update after a year gone. I'll be checking In.🌺🌺🌺
To be honest I cried a little. Not sad per say, I'm actually rather happy for you, but I'm surprised at how much I'm going to miss your videos. I'm a recent viewer, who does not comment; pretty much EVER, but I've really enjoyed your adventures and the glimpses you both have graciously allowed into your lives. I cheered you on in your ninja warrior screenshots. I've watched the changes in your lives, especially the move to your current place as it coincided with my own move in life, and it has been really nice to grow with you - even if we've never met and you don't know me personally. I felt the need to come and say good bye. Even if it's not forever, it will be for the foreseeable future. The reason for it doesn't matter. I do not feel like you owe us an explanation. I am incredibly grateful that you gave us one though, and it's for a great reason that's honestly no one's business but your own. Congratulations on the newest chapter of your life! I'm sure many of us would love to join you on it. That's a decision for you and Ryosuke, and if willpower and lack of consent is an issue, I praise your foresight. I wish you the best of luck in finding a job. I'm grateful that you're both still happily married (cause I worried for the worst, that you had both split up when I saw you both separately in your videos!!! /so much worry), that this isn't due to a disaster or anything terrible... but a happy reason. I hope this hasn't come out... patronizing?, but I'm really proud of you for sticking with what you both believe in, despite what anyone else may think. It's rather admirable. :) Farewell for now and good luck! You'll both be missed.
That is exactly How I felt. To be honest I cried a tiny bit too involuntarily.I hope that they dont delete the you tube videos :( I hope all the best for them too
I'm still so glad that you made this decision to protect the privacy of your kid/s, I think that's really wise and respectful and so on. I come back to your channel occasionally because the videos are so calm and I love them. I hope you and Ryosuke and whatever kid/s you have are all doing wonderfully. I do miss you, and I'm sure I'm not the only one, but then I think about how lovely and happy your family must be now, and that's enough. I hope you're safe and happy!!
I am a stay-at-home father of five. I completely understand. I have a podcast that I try to keep the kids out of but it's very hard to do. They keep walking in and talking when I'm recording and a lot of the time you can hear them in the background. I support your decision. Good luck with the rest of your life. Cheers!
4 years later, I still miss this channel but respect the hell out of y'all for doing whats best for your family. If you ever come back it'll be to open arms, but if you never come back know that your fans are behind you and support your decision!
I watch Ruti saan who is a Mexican woman living in Japan with her Japaese husband, and seeing their life and how they raise their children in a multicultural environment is very cool to watch. Of course, that is their choice and never show her husband's face, referring him to Don Sin Rostro (Translates to Sir without [a] face). Someone else, also a Mexican married to a Japanese man living in a Japanese, got threats toward her children. Since then she has stopped showing their faces. So while it is sad that Texan in Japan will no longer upload videos, their reason to stop is sensible and I wish them the best! Thanks for sharing what you did ❤ Also, good luck with your family!!!
I know how much starting a family and your privacy means to you guys, and we're supporting you completely. ♥ You already know how I feel about it all, but to everyone else I want to say that TH-cam isn't a life everyone wants to live forever. A lot of people are trying to come up with ways that Grace and Ryosuke can stay around in some aspect, which I totally understand, but also try to consider how they feel. TH-cam is a very huge intrusion on your life, and even for people who plan on doing it as long as they can the constant oversharing and having every aspect of your existence noticed, commented on, and praised or criticized is a lot to deal with. Not everyone wants to be in the public eye forever. Wanting to have a private life with your kids isn't very possible when people are recognizing you on the street and sharing your address on the internet. Grace and Ryosuke aren't the first people I've seen leave the public eye to transition to a more private life, and I'm sure they won't be the last. It's a a big, personal decision, but it's theirs to make and it's important that if we actually care about them and their well-being to respect that decision and support them.
Thank you so much Rachel (and Jun)!
We love you dearly ♥ ♥ ♥
I'm so glad to have you as a friend~
Beautifully said! 💖
This makes me fear the day of Rachel and Jun leaving the TH-cams. ;)
Good Luck on your future life without TH-cam to the 2 of Texan in Tokyo. (≚ᄌ≚)ℒℴѵℯ
Hi Grace, Ryosuke,
I'm going to miss you guys! I'm sure things will work out well for you. Do put up a video once in a while? I'm going to miss seeing Japan through your eyes.
All my love,
From India.
Fully understood and appreciated, just trying to think of viable alternatives in case they have a "hmm had not thought of that angle" moment :)
Why the hell is this in my recommendation box?!
bhavagambhiram ikr
same bruh...i watched scares video and now this
bhavagambhiram bruh guys help wtf is this and where am I 😂😂
exactly the question i m askin myself, who is she? and why should i care?
Kilin Dogma tell me about it, literally finding this mid acid trip. was watching minecraft and now I'm here????? eh Japan
Man, it is always weird stumbling upon dead channels.
Jacob the Gentleman Potato Sort of like visiting the past.
Especially if they are really good ones too.
Jacob You ikr
😔Yes it is
I was here before the channel died.. I always come back hoping for a rebirth... Maybe someday again... They where my fav TH-camrs...
I'd love it if you guys came back 18 years after the baby.
I'd wait.
I'd be 38 years old, but I still would.
You are 29 now
@@vol10O000 Dafuq?!! Who taught you math??? 38-18= 20. 20+1=21
Uncrowned King lol
Idk man... No comments about kids anywhere for them so not sure if something happened. Normally parents at least mention their children.
@@nicolereadstarot What do you mean with nowhere? Do they have social media?
So I have no idea why TH-cam decided to all of a sudden promote this video like crazy (especially because our channel is basically a dead channel now).
To everyone who got magically dragged here by TH-cam's algorithm, SORRY!
Go back to a more fun/interesting place on the internet.
I just "landed" on your channel because of TH-cam algorithm. This video is the first video that I watch here. And I think you're lovely and I have the same opinion as yours: I would not like to overshare my life if I have kids, because I would be sharing my children's life, and that's their life, their privacy, and they would not even know what is going on. And I would be sharing the lives of other people - people that are not me, people that can't decide for themselves if they WANT to be exposed on TH-cam or not - and that doesn't sound right. I thought I was the only person in the World that had that opinion as yours. So I am happy that this video is a video that shows me I am not wrong for making the same choice as yours. Good luck with your life! :) I wish you all the best!
your not going anywhere, I just subed!
Texan in Tokyo it's just so you can get a big send off! :)
how interesting, I just started watching now
think about it
*finds a cool new channel*
*they literally quit the next day*
fml I ruin everything
Kennikans same found this yesterday
yeah me too...things I love were discontinued the VERY SAME DAY I discovered them, many times.
Kennikans same I discovered this channel last week
Yeah, found them yesterday as well. weird. Good luck guys!
yeah I just found this less than 12 hours ago.
Protecting the privacy of children is a pretty cool thing to do.
Pathetic. He MADE her quit after being pressured by his family. To them it's a taboo to photo kids. Give me a break. This is like manipulation. You're American, demand equality and keep your job
@@filmfelineadmin How do you know this?
@@filmfelineadmin relax
@@filmfelineadmin You're pathetic. Children aren't pets and babies can't give consent. The intrusion of social media into our daily lives can be very damaging to mental health, especially for kids. Your lack of compassion and understanding is proof enough of that.
Anyone remember the Ace Family and 8 Passengers and how their kids are doing?
Sometimes I come back here just in case they posted a video.
FeelsBadMan :gun:
Saaame
Yup it still hurts
They moved back to Texas..
Chubby Bunny Gang where did you get that info from??
I'm not even subbed to this channel yet I find myself feeling abandoned
David Brito same
David Brito I'm 8 months late & I feel the same
i relate on suck a level...
Same... How odd.
Same here :(
Haha what do you mean you cant vlog while having kids. So stupid... Just put out a vid every week or something. I feel like you went on a overthinker on this one. Please take some time and reconsider this decision.
Also I just found this channel and started to really like it. Kind of sad now :/
Austin Truong I understand that, its just so stupid to me.
I feel like there is something more they are not telling us.
It's not about time - we really just don't want to make videos of our kids. Ryosuke and I both enjoyed having "normal" childhoods and we'd like to be able to give them the same thing.
It's a personal decision, rather than "can't" we "won't."
Hey Grace/Ryosuke !
If you're reading this comment, I just wanna tell you that I love you guys and I will always love you no matter what ! :D
+Texan in Tokyo I highly belive it would be healthy to keep the channel going. I understand if you dont want to put your kids in the videos, so don't. There will come a time in the future where the dust have setteld and you will think back on this and think to your self. 'Why did I quit.' In my opinion, you should turn down the frequency of the videos. When the big day comes - Then just take a break, until things have calmed down.
I understand. I think it would be unnerving to be out with your kids and complete strangers are taking pictures and walking up to you as if they know you. That would be the main reason that I would stop. However, if it means being able to stay home with the children, it may be a good trade off. I think if either parent has to work long hours outside the home doing a job they don't like, it may be just as bad for the children. Something to consider.
It’s been 4 years already and I just remembered this Chanel out of no where hope y’all doing good.
Same thing brought me here
Miss these guys, my husband and I watched them, loved their cooking ones and when they traveled. They’re so smart, hope they have an update some day. 💕💕
miss this guys too man... i loved this channel and i still check back every now and then to see if theres anything new
Randomly thought about them today, and here I am. Hope they are happy and well 😊
Suddenly remember them too! Miss them. Love their suburban adventures and unique food vlogs. Their channel was a welcome calm break from all the hyperactive and flashy other channels. I wonder if she is still making comic books because I can't find any new ones. I remember she said she would continue, but maybe it's only in Japanese stores.
Hi Grace and Ryosuke! its been 2 years since you guys left youtube and i hope everything is going good for you guys! its hard to believe that 2 years has gone by..i still miss seeing you guys in your videos and think about you guys from time to time. i found your channel back when i was horribly depressed, and you guys always cheered me up when things got rough.
anyway, not sure if you'll even get this message, but i just wanted to say hi! take care always =)
Aswe
5 years now
and now they have updated!!@@fashionovawigs
I dont care. Why is this in my recommendations?
You cared enough to post a comment...
I just gave feedback so TH-cam might adjust future recommendations.
lol bullcrap statement
Well your comment is definately usefull.
Why do you think posting about it here helps? There is a feature on your front page to help adjust your content. Going onto the video will only mean you get more of similar content. Bad move.
She is pregnant guys and because of that she is quitting TH-cam, if you don't want to watch the whole video
well she didn't state that she is pregnant, just that they are planning to get a baby
Thank you. :)
Seems like a dumb reason to quit. It's not like sitting in front of a camera for 15 minutes a week is heavy lifting.
yo your first pregnancy IS dramatic!! your body does all kinds of crazy stuff!!! ITS GREAT!!!
If I had over 200k subs I would wait longer to have kids
omg, it's been 8 months. I miss you guys so much. your videos were some of my favorites, so incredibly relaxing and interesting. I hope you guys are well.
Caitlin Owen you should watch rachel and jun if you like these videos ❤️️😖
2 years now
@@hernanhernandez8779 Jup, I´m still sad :/
They seem to be doing well! They have two kids now and Ryosuke got his master's
how do you know?
@@user-my5vq5rh2bMy cousin went to the same university as Ryosuke and I was watching his graduation on zoom and Ryosuke came up lol Crazy coincidence
Awww omg
I need to know mooore. What are the genders, how are they doing. I neeeeed to know
came back to this video by chance and i'm so happy to hear that :)
I literally just found you today watched like eight of your videos and then saw this
Newt Daily same....😭
Mashley 227 same
Newt Daily same oml
Newt Daily same here
Same
TH-cam is not a life commitment. Leaving TH-cam is also not a life commitment and you can always return in whatever capacity you wish.
I've watched on and off for the last few months, and only recently subscribed. I've loved your videos; the content, the personality of the both of you, the love, the adventure, the sharing... I'm thankful for everything you've put out there. It's more than I could have asked for and provided education, entertainment, exploration, and emotion. You've made me smile so many times. So thank you.
I hope your future is full of the same happiness. You are amazing people.
liquididentity101 but isn't youtube their only fulltime job? how will they support themself?
liquididentity101 Said perfectly! ❤
KkitKkat actually not for her she's a comic book artist that is her other job.
Well said 🖖🏽
Having kids was a big reason for them to quit but I'm really sure there is more reasoning behind it. I wish they said that they were taking a break from youtube and didn't know when or if they'll be back. Its hard to believe that they've decided not to post any videos until they're kids are old enough.
I think its very admirable what they did. There are a lot of other youtubers that would've used the baby to get more views..put the baby in the thumbnail.. creating clickbait titles with the baby, but they care more about actual privacy and family time than they do TH-cam. They don't post on any form of social media though really which is also pretty cool. There's definitely life outside of social media and these 2 prove that. I think there are many people on this platform that could learn a thing or 2 from this video.
I mean that's the only rational thing to do. People shouldn't have kids if they are that invested in vlogging and all that.
YES. This comment! I came here to say the same thing, but you said it perfectly!
@@HollowBonezz they can and that's fine, but they kids should be kinda left out of it for various reasons and sometimes, that's just not feasible
I can't believe that it's been 3 and a half years ago. I've been watching the channel but when I watched this video, I was totally in a different place than where I am right now. I started university again after severe depression and didn't know what to do because my grandmother has passed away couple days ago. Watching this video made me feel like I needed to start my chapter in life, just like how Texan in Tokyo channel was going to start their own chapter. Now I'm married and pursuing Masters and no longer suffer from depression (I mean never gets bad, there's no cure for it lol...) Thanks Grace and Ryo-chan, I hope you guys are doing well also
For me, it's not a matter of kids understanding, it's about their safety. Putting them out there like that for the whole world to see is dangerous, especially in the world today. Lots of Hollywood celebs very intentionally keep their kids out of the limelight. I think that's wise. As one Texan to another, best of luck to you and your family!
Numinous Yes, in the West, but in Japan? I dont think so. Of course , for some reasons like earthquake ,thunamis, and the possibility of war
Val yamana The videos aren't limited to Japan, nor are people static in where they go in the world. People are travelling all the time.
Numinous 👍
But they could just make videos without showing their kids. I 100% understand not wanting to show your kids but children sleep, parts where they appear can be cut out. I know it would be more of an effort and they would end up getting less videos done but having kids and not wanting to show them doesn't mean you must leave. I have seen many youtube channels of people that have children but don't show the children. If I were them, I'd just wait and see. She isn't even pregnant yet and they don't know how it'll be. Some people manage their hobbies while their kids sleep. I am online and my children have no online presence whatsoever.
Where theres a will theres a way noone said it was easy. But then nothing worth having ever is.
I am actually relieved, when I saw this video, I thought that you two were divorcing! I've seen so many TH-cam couples splitting lately, I thought the same had happened to you guys. But instead I hear you guys are going to be having kids in the future and, therefore, leaving the internet.
Sure, I'm sad to hear you guys leaving TH-cam. You have provided me with a lot of information about Japan and what it's like being an American involved with the Japanese culture since I wish to do the same one day. And you guys have helped me learn a lot. But your choice is understandable. Having a family and being a regular TH-camr is extremely hard. I don't know how some people do it. Kids need all of your attention and if you don't want them seen online while vlogging, that's going near impossible. It's a sad, but understandable choice. No hard feelings from me!
But I wish you guys the best! Your kids are going to be so adorable! I hope everything goes well for you two. :)
I couldn't have said it better myself :)
LovelyLies16 I also thought that it was a video about them getting divorced!!! Such a relief when I found out it wasn't!'
LovelyLies16 Same here haha. Scared me for a second there.
LovelyLies16 same 😢😢
LovelyLies16 heyy same here
Idk why I keep finding myself here, looking for new videos. I miss Grace & Ryosuke so much!!!
An Awkward Sweet Potato Same
Same..
SAMMMMEEE
almost 4 years. Time goes by fast. Best japan youtube channel
Your sad because you wont be on TH-cam anymore or on any social media? ('-')! I thought you were gonna say I'm going through a divorce or somthing tragic happened. Your starting a family? No big deal. You gotta do what you gotta do.
I too was afraid she was going to drop the D- word from the level of angst in the build-up. So glad they are solid.
*whew* I just watched like 3 of their videos, thought they were so cute, then saw this and was like 'OH NO'. I wish nothing but the best for them!
d3m1.60d //
I know same here.
My dad was in Japan (us army) before I was born, and I've always been fascinated by the land/culture/people. These two are great, and will be missed.
same. I am happy knowing they will start a family. It isn't really fair to raise a child with their guardians who take care of them, and a camera in the child's face. I am so happy for them. I want the child to live normally, not as an internet thing.
Their kids are gonna be very fortunate to grow up in a highly disciplined society where the goverment spares no expense for schools.
Top 10 saddest anime finales
What a meme
lol. hollywood
I applaud you.
epic comments are epics. i do not care about this video.... i think that instead of watching the video people should scroll down,read this and donate.
most Happiest ending :)
I wonder if they have a baby yet, and if so how they are doing. Well I wonder how they are doing in general. I hope they are happy.
They have a baby and currently live in Texas :)
Trokeinabox how do you know???
Trokeinabox ya how do you know
@@sweetsophie432 any social media they have
Jimmy Two-Times and you know that how
Today, randomly, i remembered i used to watch this channel. I hope they are doing amazing!
This is the first time I've heard of your channel, and it winds up being your final episode.
Wow.
So...hello and goodbye, I suppose.
Konbanwa and sayonara
for reals
Charles Lee yea just sub a few days ago.
Me too - This is like Linelygirl15 all over again! Does someone want to explain why she's leaving? I just showed up.
TH-cam at it's usual trickery?? Weird algorithms. I got suggested this as well and now it's popped like crazy? 500k views lol. I think they will re-asses!
Same.
Why is everyone so shocked? They mentioned in another video (and possibly more?) that once they decided to start a family they probably wouldn't be on TH-cam anymore and that it would probably be soon. They also cited these exact reasons as why they wouldn't continue.
I'll just say that I hope you both find happiness in your family life and wish you well on the endeavor.
Sanbika89 +
Sanbika89
Especially when they want to start having a family, it is really the best to keep that off the internet. The internet can be a really really aweful place. There are people that will send you death threats for stating that oranges are better than apples. This is really not something that you want your kids to experience in the slightest. It's one of the most mature decisions that I could witness on TH-cam. I am happy for them.
Also as a small PSA: Keep your family off the internet - especially TH-cam.
ThaMobstarr
Why would they want to ruin their lives by having kids?
it's so difficult, it's 2019 and I can't forget yu guys, i keep coming here, hope yu're doing okay and everything is cool
The Internet is forever. So your opinion makes so much sense. A little sad because I found you two on 7/2017.
Have a happy life!
Ohhhh thank god. I thought you two were getting a divorce when I saw that both of you made a video. Bless you both and live that wonderful you envision of kids, happiness and bliss and in PRIVATE! Fair thee well.
OMG i had the same thought! I've seen other channels like this end that way and was a little crestfallen for a moment
Apple When she said "my husband, who WAS Japanese" I almost had a heart attack because I thought Ryosuke died oh my god
Thought the same. Glad you are staying together.
This was the first thing I thought, too. My believe in love would have been shattered. Good thing they're just getting kids ^^'
thesushisoldier Oh my god! yeah, my heart would have been suctioned cupped into my stomach if that was my initial thought.
How dare you guys give me the scare! I saw the titles of the videos and thought that Grace and Ryo have broken up
Lol, that was my first thought, but was like, Naahhhh, they love each other too much for that
Holy Moly, I didn't even think of that. Though I thought that since she was alone in the vid that there may have been a death. I am SOOOO relieved that it is what it is.
Julie E oh I know I thought the same exact thing I almost had a heart attack
I though it was because of Trump. Anyone? Just me?
me too!! :(
It's 2020 now and I still think about your channel. I really enjoyed your content and wish you kept making videos. I hope your family is staying safe in this crazy world right now! Miss you guys.
Miss you guys. Was watching Rachel and Jun and thought about you two.
This isn't goodbye, it's more like till we meet again. Whatever you decide and do, you will be missed. Wishing you good luck and good fortune. Till next time...
Its not for you to decided dude lol if they said goodbye, thats that
Trace B now now little bully boy go take your meds and your chocolate milk
Jon Z Excuse me? I didn't insult you but pointed out that you were putting words in their mouths. Meanwhile you implied I needed to take meds. Who's the bully?
Trace B now now sir, or ma'am. Can't really tell with that name. It's not helpful if you don't take your meds
Jo savage af
Dear Grace and Ryosuke,
I'm not someone who comments on video's I see, mainly because how a single comment tends to disappear in the mass.
However, since this will be the last time you guys make a video about your lives or Japan/America for a long while at the very least,
I would like to share that I completely agree with your views about your children appearing on youtube.
People should never be forced to be visible on any social media.
(I was going to limit this to people who are unable to grasp the consequences of that visibility, but I will not, people should never be forced, period.)
Also, I would like to thank you for sharing your stories, lives and wisdom. I have loved to learn about Japan from you two.
Who knows, maybe in about 16 years your children turn out to be equally happy to share about their lives as you are about yours.
But untill then, I wish you the very best in life
Patrick (The Netherlands)
Hi Patrick,
Thank you so much for commenting on our last video. And thank you for your understanding and support. We have no idea what the future will bring... but we're VERY excited for it!
Dear Grace and Ryosuke,
I totally agree with +Patrick Jansma, and I also normally never comment on videos but since this will be your last I just wanted to say thank you sooo much for sharing your lives and stories, I always loved your videos ans they always made my day, I started crying as I was watching your video because I will miss you two so much. You are to me both like friends... I wish both of you and your familys all the best and hope all your dreams will come true. :)
Sarah (Germany)
P.S. Sorry for the terrible english :D
Perfectly put Patrick - thank you!
We will miss seeing you both but will look forward to you coming back in the future
Thank you for allowing us to share
I totally agree with you :)
I cried too! :) xoxo
I cant believe its already been 3 years
Its been 3 years already. I remeber watching this video and being sad but uau time goes by fast. Hope you guys are happy and well
I think it's a thoroughly valid and smart decision not to incorporate your (future) children in videos and not putting a spotlight on them.
I will miss your charming content and wish you both the best of luck 10/10 Ryosuke best boi
(feel free to make a comeback though)
Thank you~! :)
I miss you guys. I still keep on going back to your channel hoping there would be a new video.
I do the same thing. I find the whole thing weird because their reason is to not film the kids - but they don't have any kids. ??? I am so confused
and then other people make lots of money off of their children. like Freak Family videos.
Armando Robertsson Finally found a comment that is good. No joke, all comments ive seen are people either talking crap or saying "I just found you". I totally agree with what you say.
I just found your channel :(
eresfr frger same :(
Xbl TEKnine same
eresfr frger same.. i was like they gonna have beautiful kids .. but now they quiting 😩
eresfr frger same here:(
same
Damm 4 years already? I wonder how they doing.
They live in Austin, TX. They have two kids and regular day jobs.
@@CorvusCorvidae777 How do you know?
I sincerely hope that life is treating you two well.
I was thinking of you guys and wondered how you were doing. I miss your videos. You're both so sweet and interesting. I hope that all is well. know that you're missed.
Tracey W I agree. I'd just kinda like an update on how they are doing now.
Melody Johnson and Tracey I feel and agree with you both. I miss them so much and wonder about them often. I'd love an update on their life.
At least now it's only a few more months before Grace returns to social media. I miss them SO much, too.
MoonlitxAngel Is this true? Did they give a date of when they'd return?
Yotsuba Yamada Yes, Grace said it in her blog post and on Facebook.
Here's a copy and paste of what she said:
From the bottom of our hearts, we want to say “thank you.”
We are filled with so much love, respect, and affection for the people we’ve met on this wonderful adventure, through TH-cam, comics, blogging, Twitter, Facebook, and Patreon.
It’s been incredible and we couldn’t have done it without you.
We are going to be taking a one year social media hiatus, in preparation for this next chapter of our lives.
We hope you have a wonderful year (and that 2017 is MUCH better for the world than 2016 was, ugggghhh).
Best of luck following your own adventures and dreams.
Love,
Grace and Ryosuke
I'm shocked how selfish people are being. Don't argue why/how they could stay. Don't you think they already considered those possibilities when they made such a big decision?
TH-cam creators are people who are nice enough to let us look in on their lives. Be happy they gave us such a heartfelt goodbye.
BohemianScandalous
I totally agree. Its really rude too when people talk about money
They are making a conscious and responsible decision and I somehow hope for them to put out the odd video now and then if and when they feel like it and agree on a specific event/occasion/video to be worth sharing while still respecting everybody else's privacy.
They've been allowing us glimpses into their lives and earned their places in our hearts. Those places will still be there, whatever they do.
As I just posted in my own thread, they have to do what's right and I wish them well. At the same time, allow that some viewers may have formed strong attachments to them and may actually be going through a little bit of the stages of grieving for a sudden loss of something that made them happy, including denial and bargaining. Grace and Ryosuke are adults, not to mention compassionate, and I suspect they probably understand this. Just let everyone feel how they feel on both sides of the screen, I think.
No it wouldn't have.
They have chosen to share a part of their life with us and now they are, at the very least temporarily, ending it. Leaving it like that with no reason or anything of any kind would be... cheap. It wouldn't be fair to the people who watched this channel for the longest time.
It is still their decision to take this step but to leave people behind who have been with them all of the way?
There isn't anything worse than a bad ending to a story, as that can ruin everything. That remains true here.
Sure, valid point, but keep in mind it does not come from a bad place, people only offer possible thoughts and ideas from their own perspective, it is supposed to be complimentary and supportive, I understand why people say its selfish, personally I think its pretty rude for you to say that but I am sure you did not intend to be, not everyone thinks the same way, life would be boring i we did.
TH-cam recommended me this video again, it's been 5 years since the last time I saw it yet I still remember very well their channel and their message. I hope whatever they are doing they are just fine and happy :)
Same as everybody here: I miss you and I hope you're doing fine.
Thank you for not having deleted your videos so that we still can enjoy them.
I'll be very happy if one day you decide to come back to make videos on TH-cam
as sad as it felt to watch this video i can really respect where you're coming from. trying to reconcile having kids with life as a youtuber is such a difficult thing. best of luck to you both
Thank you so much Mimei!!! That really means so much.
Best of luck to y'all too ❤❤❤
Even if you don't wanna vlog for the public anymore, you should make your private videos for your kids. You can look back enjoy the memories. I respect your decision, please enjoy your life.
I loved this Chanel so much. So much so that 4yrs later I still come on here every now and then. Just hoping for a random update. Wish you all the best and pray all is still going great for your family. Blessings😁
I still miss this channel so much... every once in a while I come back and watch some of your videos. They always made me and still make me happy. Thanks for everything ♡
This is sad but understandable, but I was scared thought it was a divorce, I'm thinking to myself guys are like a beautiful pair and so funny how could this happen, but glad to hear that isn't true.
Honestly I agree with children, that need to keep some distance, but it's also going to hard with children like said to make vids. However I won't mind the occasional update on things.
But you should of kept video of those not for youtube but for family members. So still film as much of your kids has for yourselves.
and I want say its not the end, its the beginning of a new journey and I'm sure through your comics will get a peek into the life of with kiddos.
Rainbows Everywhere girl it's called click bait. She wants one good last paycheck before she leaves lol.
The video ain't monetized.
Franco Zucchi oh lol oops *shimmies outta the comment section*
Plus, all the older videos are monetized. So i think she would still get money from those. Dont quote me on this, im not sure lol.
Ok this is ridiculous. You obviously love what you do. I am a mom of 2 boys and yes I understand where you are coming from with the consent thing... but right now you have a job that affords you the ability to be with your husband and children. You are going to toss that away to go find a conventional job? Most mothers would kill for the opportunity you have here especially when there are so many viable options to continue. You are an amazing artist. You could make caricatures and superimpose them into the videos to cover the kids. Edit them out. As a mom who struggles back and forth with wanting to staying home with my kids, even though they are 12 and 9, or should I get a conventional job... your situation is the perfect balance...
Totally agree.
Honestly I hate how people say she's tossing away an opportunity most people would kill for. If you're not in the situation, you don't have a right to say. It's her life, her decision, and if she decides it's not right for her, good for her. Why does it matter if other people want the job if you decide it's not right for you? So dumb. So dumb to bring up other people when it's not about other people. It's about them. It's not up to you to decide if she has the perfect balance. it's hers.
Jaciemack I actually agree. id love to stay home with the kids all day. but maybe they might change their mind later on when one or 2 parent cannot be with the kid all day. My son loves the camera lol always has since 2 lol wishful thinking lol that they'll regret it lol
Right. I'm not here to decide for here or to even question her decision. Who am I to do that?
But I actually follow Grace very closely for a few years now and even though I respect whatever she decides,
I have to say admit If what she always said is true, this move is worrisome.
Without having enough Japanese and other skills aside from writing for a few years in English, while having a husband without enough English skills (if they'll consider moving back to the US) quitting a successful job before making sure you have another "safe" one in your hands, moreover, having kids while being in this situation doesn't sound like the most smart thing to do...look, I'm more or less the age of Grace, it's not that I have tons of "life experiences" behind me, but that's the common sense in my book. Unless, of course, there's other information that we're not informed about.
And that's even besides what I really don't understand which is - what quitting TH-cam has to do with quitting writing blogs? to me it sounds more like they have came to the point that they no longer want to do that "Japan - thing" and kids are just an excuse, which is to totally legit, of course.
Bottom line - we have to respect them, and we can still criticize, and give advices from our own lives, it's up to them whether to take it or ignore it.
SunoftheCakes I thought she was still writing her comics
So it has been 2 years and i still hope you guys are healthy and that your happy. That your kids are growing up well and that your marriage is still strong. I hope that one day you guys will come back
For folks curious about how they're doing. They live in Austin, TX. Grace is a governance lead at IBM. Ryosuke is a marketing strategist at a company called The Personal Wealth Coach. According to his bio on the company website they have two children now. Looks like they did pretty well for themselves. (Note: This is information Grace and Ryosuke chose to share themselves on public websites. That's why I think it's ok to share here.)
On which public websites?
@@1Jasmin LinkedIn and Ryosuke's company's website.
@@CorvusCorvidae777 Thanks 😊😂
Why couldn't you just make the odd video about Japan and just purposely not involve the kids. Just don't put the kids on camera.
Easier said than done more often than not
InfernosReaper
Yeah, I guess it would be difficult with small children.
James Rolfe can do videos without his children. However he has said that it's hard to find a time when his daughter and wife isn't home, and he swears a lot in his videos... :/
*****
James also makes a lot more money so he doesn't have to also work a job & do the video thing while being a devoted parent.
Also, she noted that they already tried filming with kids around & not including them but it was extremely difficult, so I see where they're coming from.
TheFancyAgenda Because they don't want to
I just discovered your Channel watched a lot of videos and you are both so adorable, Then When I saw this video I thought you were Breaking up with him.
I'm so glad it isn't the case, I wish you the best of luck !!
AND I think you are taking the good decision
Same here dog. OMG
Faick LOG that's literally happening to me right now haha!
Faick LOG SAME
same
Commenting from 2019. This was the first time I'd come across a dead channel. I just wanted to say that I'm really proud of y'all for living by your own boundaries and for making a video to explain it all. Love to know how the kids are doing though.
I was thinking recently how much I enjoyed your videos. I don’t know if you even check this old channel any more but I hope you guys are doing well and thanks for the great videos.
Oh guys (meaning YOU, Grace & Ryosuke!),...like many, I saw the thumbnails and titles and feared the absolute worst, especially after a longer-than-usual "Texan in Tokyo" drought so, having finished the final "A Day in My Life", I was greatly relieved to see Ryo lovingly pecking at your face, per usual! Carry on with THAT forever!
Secondly, I watched your final three videos at my office in Times Sq. before heading home. During my subway commute I felt truly bereft, as if dear friends were moving away! You really created something remarkable with your channel that was maybe larger than your original goals, that Grace recants in her "The End" video. Somehow, your magnetic love for one another, basic decency, humor, un-self consciousness, and very honest portrayal of your young lives took over and ran the show in a way that was extremely engaging, with Japan as the most beautiful backdrop!
I don't have cable or Netflix, I have a few things that I go to regularly for fun or entertainment or eduction. You were one of them. Yet, I have enormous respect for the reasons you are leaving and I'm not surprised you chose them because of who you are. I know this doesn't come easily for you either! This was more than a little hobby for you both and it's incredibly brave and principled for you to make this decision. I love you. We ALL love you!!!. And thank you for taking us around, introducing us to your wonderful parents, and making us laugh and root for you in every way! May your temple book be filled, Grace!
Jolar70 You said it better than I could. Much respect to you guys for making the decision based on whats most important to you.
That is wonderfully said.
I remember way back when it was announced that TH-cam would be cracking down on copywrite material, and I thought, "WTF is the point of TH-cam going to be then? Who wants to see random strangers with a video camera?" Then I discovered amazing people like these guys, and realised I was very wrong. I'd rather watch these guys than most of what's on Netflix.
Grace & Ryosuke really have a special place in my heart. They are so perfect to watch on days when I'm just feeling like everything sucks. It's hard think everything and everyone is terrible when you see these two just being themselves and being in love.
Jolar70 beautiful and truthful words.
Ignore the hate comments. It's your life, so do what feels right for yourself and your family.
I hope TH-cam has given you plenty of exciting experiences to remember. Best of luck!
Thank you!
Thor Harald Johansen Do you have problems there? Are you infertile?
Thanks for everything I have just found your channel 1 yr after you have finished. I got hooked and binged watched your life over a weekend! you are both lovely and you have taught me alot about Japan and what a healthy relationship looks like! I hope everything is going well for you both .... lots of love from England!
Louise Kullar their videos are very helpful indeed! We started uploading content for when we were in Japan for just over half a year now so perhaps our videos could be of interest to you too 👍
Back here four years later. I hope you guys are doing well!
Oh deer god for a second I assumed you get a divorce. With the combination of the empty room thumbnail and the title I thought the worst. I thought I was going to get a mini heart attack ( I need to lay off the potato chips Xp )
I thought the same thing. I was worried.
Trae B I thought she got into a huge fight and moved to an empty apartment by herself
Viet Lee Fucking Viet Lee I've only seen you on JK news before. I just found this channel and here you are too. Toting around your sack of potatoes.
I thought the same!
Viet Lee me too! Phew! Honestly after thinking that I feel sort of relieved that you guys are going away but at least we know staying together lol that might sound weird but it's just you two are so cute together ☺️
I have to say, I do miss this channel
Me too.
Me too :(
Same here
They quit because they wanted to have kids and in order to do that they had to choose between their children or TH-cam they chose their kids don't be angry with them because if you had children you would do the same thing. And they will probably won't come back because they are focusing on their beautiful wonderful children.💙💙💙💙💙💙💚💚💚💙💙💙💙💜💜💜💓💓💓💓
2 years later. Still love this channel. Hope you guys are doing the best
I really miss these amazing people. Still like to binge watch once in awhile. I sincerely hope they are happy and living the life they dream of. Secretly hoping they have started their family as well. Hope to see/hear from them soon. If not that's okay. Miss you guys dearly. As always, thanks for sharing. ( I'm an old fan but with a new TH-cam account)
Looks at description and realizes it's not April 1st
omg I thought you guys where going to get a divorce and was about to cry but when I continued watching I was abit releaved..sad that ur leaving but still abit releaved that it's not something bad.
I'm gonna miss you so so much because I was a fan since day one..I swear! yes lately I wasn't but it's just because school☹but I really really support u💔hopefully one day I'd meet you💜💜love you guys both *FIGHTING*✊✊
jojo 1999 had to quickly scroll to see it wasnt something like that. thanks
jojo 1999 me too i thought there same.
jojo 1999 *a bit
*relieved
Robert Hofmann agree
Saw a few of your videos and just saw this, wow! Sad to see you guys go. Best of luck to the family, hope you guys live good!
Really hope you guys are doing well. Just can’t hold my tears watching this video again 4yrs later.
I'm not sure why this video got recommended to me, but I wish you both the best :-).
sameeeeeeeeeee lollllll
JIMINNNNNNN
HAHA I was like woah whats going on, such a shame that I didn't found this channel sooner
wkwkwk same here , hope they can get the best
lol same here never heard of them
Oh noooooo. I really enjoy watching you guys so much. Please come back :( even once in a while
I am sooo sad now
Jan Dec me too ;-;
I still watch some of yalls videos, they're still amazing. I hope y'all are doing well, and thank y'all for all the greatness
I just found this channel, literally this morning 1-2-2019. But, I fully understand the need to distance from YTube. People don't realize the time it demands, and what being in the 'public eye' means in this day and age. I will watch all the videos, as my interest in Japan has came.. but wish you both the best on your new adventure, of a family. God bless, stay sane (I'm a mother :) ) and enjoy that beautiful land that Japan is.
yeah....I have no idea why this was recommended for me
Hard not to be bummed out by this as I only started watching some of your content like a week ago and only saw this video today.
Jonathan Bruwer dude I barely find it today!!! 😭😭😭
Jonathan Bruwer ikr
2021 and just checking back in to see if anything new was posted. Hope all is going well and the family is doing good.
I used to watch you guys before I studied abroad in Japan 4 years ago. I am also from Texas and I really enjoyed your videos and comics. But, I have SO MUCH RESPECT for you and your husband for making the decision to not share your child's life on the internet. I was worried when I came back to visit your channel that something bad had happened and that's why yall weren't making any more videos. Moving on is normal and I applaud you and your family. Thanks for the awesome content!
This is noble stuff. I've always found it weird, youtubers throwing their kids online. It's just not healthy. The videos that you've already made will still be up. You've given enough of yourselves.
"There's a difference between over-sharing our own life and choosing to over-share someone else's life has no idea what's going on, who isn't capable of understanding what's going on because they're too little."
Some people think online videos are just a convenient way to share their home videos with their extended family. What they're not considering is that The Internet is The Entire World. A public online video is a world-wide media publication. It's not just "a cool thing to do", every one has global consequences, even if those consequences aren't obvious.
People you don't like have access to your public videos. People who don't like you have access to your public videos. Sane but disagreeable people have access to your public videos. Crazy people have access to your public videos. People you don't want near your children have access to your public videos. The worst people in the world have access to your public videos because The Entire World has access to your public videos.
That is why I 100% agree, and support your decision.
Good luck with everything!
I have finally booked a trip to Tokyo. Used to love this channel! It is crazy that this video was in 2016!
honestly one of my all time favorite channels
Aww, I'm going to miss you guys. You're genuinely my favorite TH-camrs. But I totally respect your decision. I just hope you're going to keep all your awesome old videos online for us to revisit. I just got into your channel about three months ago, so I'm glad I discovered you in time, and I even managed to buy signed copies of all of your great books. Thank your for all of the great content, you've given us and good luck in the future to the both of you.
Definitely! We're so proud of the videos we made and have absolutely no reason to take them down :)
I only discovered your channel today. I'll be subbing, so I can work through your all of your videos.
Thank you for the snapshots in time of your lives.
I'll be riding the time machine, once I watched the other half of 'The end'.
All the best for your futures, I'm sure they'll be bright.
it truly is unfortunate - they could've reached well over a million followers easily within the next year or so. they will be missed
I have never watched your vids.. but good luck out there girl :)
moonlander03 you're one of the good people
Thought I'd check in. I miss this channel/vlogs but wishing you two the best.
I had to visit and watch some videos.... Sure do miss watching a fellow Texan live such a dream. Hope all is well and am wishing in 3 months that y'all make a video and update after a year gone. I'll be checking In.🌺🌺🌺
To be honest I cried a little. Not sad per say, I'm actually rather happy for you, but I'm surprised at how much I'm going to miss your videos. I'm a recent viewer, who does not comment; pretty much EVER, but I've really enjoyed your adventures and the glimpses you both have graciously allowed into your lives. I cheered you on in your ninja warrior screenshots. I've watched the changes in your lives, especially the move to your current place as it coincided with my own move in life, and it has been really nice to grow with you - even if we've never met and you don't know me personally.
I felt the need to come and say good bye. Even if it's not forever, it will be for the foreseeable future. The reason for it doesn't matter. I do not feel like you owe us an explanation. I am incredibly grateful that you gave us one though, and it's for a great reason that's honestly no one's business but your own. Congratulations on the newest chapter of your life! I'm sure many of us would love to join you on it. That's a decision for you and Ryosuke, and if willpower and lack of consent is an issue, I praise your foresight. I wish you the best of luck in finding a job. I'm grateful that you're both still happily married (cause I worried for the worst, that you had both split up when I saw you both separately in your videos!!! /so much worry), that this isn't due to a disaster or anything terrible... but a happy reason. I hope this hasn't come out... patronizing?, but I'm really proud of you for sticking with what you both believe in, despite what anyone else may think. It's rather admirable. :)
Farewell for now and good luck! You'll both be missed.
Oops, totally meant to say thank you in my long comment! Thank you both so much!!!
you pretty much said how i feel best of luck and be happy in ur new chapter of luck :)!!!!!
That is exactly How I felt. To be honest I cried a tiny bit too involuntarily.I hope that they dont delete the you tube videos :(
I hope all the best for them too
Kearin Lol, you cried at this. I challenge you to read the whole wikipedia article of Unit 731: en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unit_731 . Here, read this.
Sucks, I just got into these videos :(
SoUnRad me too
SoUnRad well, just found the TH-cam today, been watching it for the past 3 hours, now found this episode. Well then...
I'm still so glad that you made this decision to protect the privacy of your kid/s, I think that's really wise and respectful and so on. I come back to your channel occasionally because the videos are so calm and I love them. I hope you and Ryosuke and whatever kid/s you have are all doing wonderfully. I do miss you, and I'm sure I'm not the only one, but then I think about how lovely and happy your family must be now, and that's enough. I hope you're safe and happy!!
Sometimes I come back here hoping that I will find a new video...but even without a new vid I hope you guys are doing great!
I am a stay-at-home father of five. I completely understand. I have a podcast that I try to keep the kids out of but it's very hard to do. They keep walking in and talking when I'm recording and a lot of the time you can hear them in the background. I support your decision. Good luck with the rest of your life. Cheers!
Thank you! And best of luck to your podcast too!
I was hoping this was clickbait -.- gosh darn
Its been a pleasure to watch your videos , love both of you as people and best of wishes for the future
Matthue lol pranked
4 years later, I still miss this channel but respect the hell out of y'all for doing whats best for your family. If you ever come back it'll be to open arms, but if you never come back know that your fans are behind you and support your decision!
got dragged back to your channel again, hope you three are doing well. Miss you guys. Happy new year
I watch Ruti saan who is a Mexican woman living in Japan with her Japaese husband, and seeing their life and how they raise their children in a multicultural environment is very cool to watch. Of course, that is their choice and never show her husband's face, referring him to Don Sin Rostro (Translates to Sir without [a] face).
Someone else, also a Mexican married to a Japanese man living in a Japanese, got threats toward her children. Since then she has stopped showing their faces. So while it is sad that Texan in Japan will no longer upload videos, their reason to stop is sensible and I wish them the best! Thanks for sharing what you did ❤
Also, good luck with your family!!!
Oh that short hair cut you had few years ago. Very flattering for your face n might be nice with kids. Easy❤️❤️🗽☮️💟🐕
Eeeyyy Ruth’s SAN fan too 🤚🏼
Plot Twist- a month from now they come back with a real-vamped act
we can hope
It's been almost 4 years. Still miss them. Hope they have a cute kid(s) and are having the best time of their lives!
Every month I come back to this video hoping that they have returned to TH-cam