Why a Black Man Should Stop Dating In The U.S.🇺🇸

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  • @zecharyahnoahisrael5017
    @zecharyahnoahisrael5017 ปีที่แล้ว +1124

    This is sad when every man noticing this about females in the U.S.😒🤨🤔. And to think I have three sons and they have to go through this smh. Hell I might gotta take them over there so they can bring me back a good daughter-in-law. 🤦🏾‍♂️.

    • @jaws2003
      @jaws2003 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      I have a son as well and worry about this with him. When he turns 16 I plan to get him a passport.

    • @jqight740
      @jqight740 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You forgot about other westernized countries like Canada 🇨🇦 and the United Kingdom 🇬🇧. There are horror stories with women too.

    • @clairvoyantcrypto4577
      @clairvoyantcrypto4577 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@jaws2003 great idea

    • @Treating-World-Love
      @Treating-World-Love ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jaws2003 Feminism has destroyed western society. Woman here are confused and crazy......

    • @kumarcollins585
      @kumarcollins585 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      Never bring them back bro. Better to spend time in her element and make moves there.

  • @Bravefit
    @Bravefit ปีที่แล้ว +1595

    Damn. This confirms everything I’ve thought and experienced myself. No homo but this dude physically is everything that women say they want - and yet even he is having problems. Guys get your money up, get your passports, and let’s leave this shit hole.

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  ปีที่แล้ว +220

      Facts man

    • @clairvoyantcrypto4577
      @clairvoyantcrypto4577 ปีที่แล้ว +391

      On God, I’m 6’5 with muscles and a somewhat defined 6 pack, I made 80k last year, in America I was getting 8s and 7s but I moved overseas and bagged a chick that most my friends say is a super model 10 out of 10, in a week + she more feminine than the 8’s I was dealing with back in America
      It’s better for every American guy,
      Short, tall, chubby, ripped, black, white
      GET YOUR PASSPORTS✈️

    • @karenc7616
      @karenc7616 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      Yes, I can’t believe he has went through this for the same reason. Things are really bad for y’all. I’m so sorry. 😩

    • @Truthspeaker7777
      @Truthspeaker7777 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@clairvoyantcrypto4577 what country did you move to

    • @clairvoyantcrypto4577
      @clairvoyantcrypto4577 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @@Truthspeaker7777 I’m pretty mobile but I met my morrocan girlfriend In Italy,

  • @ucheeke5110
    @ucheeke5110 ปีที่แล้ว +210

    I'm Nigerian, I was in shock when my Nigerian Friend in the US claimed he hadn't been with a woman in 3 years. None of us said much about it, but it got to me, in fact it was one of the reasons I decided not to do my masters there. Another thing is the horrible culture of women who are men, and men who are women. A complete and utter institution of madness and insanity.

    • @Odogwubeats
      @Odogwubeats ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Brother when I talk to Nigeria overseas and they ask me why I’m not married yet, I simply tell them that women here in the US are insane they can’t believe it.

    • @MrPrettyBoyChina
      @MrPrettyBoyChina ปีที่แล้ว

      You made the right decision. The women are are horrible.

    • @poorwhitepeoplearefailures2396
      @poorwhitepeoplearefailures2396 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Odogwubeats both of you are correct

    • @Pluto-kk6pd
      @Pluto-kk6pd ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I'm in the United States and been friend with a Nigerian woman for years she beautiful and I like her personality she has a crush on me I was thinking about opening up for a relationship but how are the women out there

    • @antoniomari2730
      @antoniomari2730 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Pluto-kk6pd well look, I know few Nigerians,, there are, of course, the good people and bad people everywhere, in general, they are more humble..

  • @Bankrollprimo
    @Bankrollprimo ปีที่แล้ว +282

    Everything said in the video is 100% facts. I would also add that dating here in the US makes you feel so expendable/disposable. Even if you meet a girl, date, smash, have a relationship, it’s just a matter of time before she drops you for the next dude.
    I read somewhere a dude wrote “Dating in the US is like interviewing for a job you’re probably not going to get.”

    • @charaznable9209
      @charaznable9209 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      It's like an interview for a temporary job you know is only going to last a few weeks at best, only if you get hired you're not allowed to go look for other jobs until you get laid off or fired without justification.

    • @qjtvaddict
      @qjtvaddict ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The culture is like that and it’s beyond dating

    • @sirtype-alot3391
      @sirtype-alot3391 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And if you DO get the job,it's really only a "Temp" Job (2 to 4 Months)

    • @howlingtitan8397
      @howlingtitan8397 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's 💯 True! It happened with me talking to a 25 year old and 33 year old..... not worth it whatsoever

    • @jdjoja
      @jdjoja 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@thedarkphotographer2743 Shiiiit! That's the most plausible and scientific explanation I have heard ever! Man I can't tell you how much hearing that means to me! Because I look for the scientific explanation for everything and had not come across anything that would stick until I read what you said jus now! FrFr!

  • @StrategikMedia
    @StrategikMedia ปีที่แล้ว +597

    I feel this dude. I been stopped dating in the U.S. I never understood this idea of "pretend you aren't interested" to get these girls out here. And it works! But here's the thing, When I pretend I'm not interested, I end up not being interested!

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Facts bro

    • @martelprayer416
      @martelprayer416 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@AustonHolleman Hey bruh you bout to blow. I started sharing your videos with five of my homes and they all subscribed to your channel immediately.

    • @terfdale
      @terfdale ปีที่แล้ว

      bruh how thw fuck do i pretend im not interested when i am interested, this shit is so stupid bruh it actually makes no sense but thats what you need to do

    • @raheemcamal998
      @raheemcamal998 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts

    • @raheemcamal998
      @raheemcamal998 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@AustonHolleman fr man an tired of the bullshxt , i just want to be true and honest

  • @hankhession7519
    @hankhession7519 ปีที่แล้ว +345

    I had a woman ask me “what do you mean by feminine” when I told her I want a feminine woman…. Here is the problem

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  ปีที่แล้ว +55

      😂😂

    • @raymelleonardo7149
      @raymelleonardo7149 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Facts same happned to me i lost my mind and said u know what it best we part ways im good

    • @kitejohnson515
      @kitejohnson515 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@raymelleonardo7149 you should tell her what you mean

    • @marsmasterpiece1691
      @marsmasterpiece1691 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Facts bro

    • @jqight740
      @jqight740 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@raymelleonardo7149 good for you just getting on that “insta get rid of feminazi booger” mode. The real ones are out of these westernized pit holes such as Amerikkka 🇺🇸 Kkkanada 🇨🇦 and United Kkkingdom UK 🇬🇧

  • @YellowSubCaptain
    @YellowSubCaptain ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Dating american women is literally a game not worth playing. As a 27 year old man I’ve learn this very quickly. Don’t plan on marrying an American woman at all.

    • @Grei51
      @Grei51 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@jasonjr376 welcome to Africa

    • @erikwilliams8822
      @erikwilliams8822 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@Grei51.welcome to across the fucking Atlantic. U.S. is finished

    • @Grei51
      @Grei51 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@erikwilliams8822 I see

  • @Rocky-life518
    @Rocky-life518 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Dating in America 🇺🇸 is horrible for average men who work 5 to 9.

    • @andrewevans7992
      @andrewevans7992 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Even if you have millions they expect expensive shit 24/7 and it still not good enough

    • @prettykenny109
      @prettykenny109 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@andrewevans7992 Hello 👋

    • @erikwilliams8822
      @erikwilliams8822 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Facts no kids. 130k yearly 4 languages trying grasp 6 almost don't with biochem degree and a small business....I get cooked just as bad as the pizza guy. Probably more

  • @christendenise220
    @christendenise220 ปีที่แล้ว +794

    I'm a 47 year old married woman, I work with single ladies 27ish, 32ish. I watch them play these dating games, one said, "If he seems to have interest in me then I'm gonna treat him like shit, he better be on my time..but yet I don't want a beta male" the other said, "yeah I'll make plans to go out with him but if he doesn't text me before we go out, I'll flake and just vanish" yet both of them desire to be in a relationship and they can't understand why it's not happening for them. The games are off the chart...

    • @allenlevelle
      @allenlevelle ปีที่แล้ว +41

      No...my time is precious.... I don't relate to someone else's time!!!! It's either yes or no. I only relate if is business that we both could prosper. Point. Blank. Period.

    • @Kenny-Ross
      @Kenny-Ross ปีที่แล้ว +39

      The mindset of the great majority of American girls is appalling and I don't waste my time. Like one of best friends said, a few years ago when I was ranting about the pick of females I have to choose from, "the way they think is just stupid!" Yes, their way of thinking is very irritating and contradictory. Perfect examples you shared! They say they want a relationship but look at the silly and immature games they are playing.

    • @dirkdiggler2379
      @dirkdiggler2379 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i treat american women like a man.. call them hey man whats up.. hows it going bro! lol

    • @JohnDoe-pd4jo
      @JohnDoe-pd4jo ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Now y’all know what we go through. Y’all don’t date women, a lot of this 304s be mentally ill. Just straight headache and bills. Sisters be the worst too. Annoying asf. A lot of women want to be with men, but they severely hate them. Weird asf.

    • @jaha777jaha6
      @jaha777jaha6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Doesn't sound like female games anymore...mn could tolerate that.... this is just stupidity and gynocratic B's ... totally unattractive and wmn shouldn't get anywhere with that kind of behavior...

  • @Jwebb-zh9gj
    @Jwebb-zh9gj ปีที่แล้ว +603

    I’m from DC (black male) and happened to stumble across a random Japanese girl on the subway in Brooklyn NY (talking about Japanese/Japanese not Asian American). Somehow I convinced her to give me her number. I never smashed but she was the most feminine/friendly human being I have ever known. Unfortunately NYC ruined her, plus I found out she had a thing for thugs. That lifestyle did end up getting the best of her unfortunately. But before all that she used to tell me, “Jamal-san, you have to visit Japan 🇯🇵”. Which I did first chance I got, thanks to her. I ended up staying in Japan for 6 years and now have a Japanese wife who’s just as friendly if not friendlier than my old friend (been married 15 years come this November). We have 2 children who both have dual citizenship. Wife has expressed to both of them that she wants both of them with Japanese wives, not western. Not even Asian-American. I have to say I completely agree. We all talk about the degenerate feminist culture in America. It’s a shame what things have come to.🤦🏾‍♂️ But I can’t help but feel I dodged a bullet

    • @harvest2630
      @harvest2630 ปีที่แล้ว

      The only problem with Japanese woman is that if she decides to take your children from you & stay in Japan, you'll have no rights to your children so stay in Japan till they're out of their teens. The Family Courts in Japan are psychotic but that's all due to American control even in Japan.

    • @Jwebb-zh9gj
      @Jwebb-zh9gj ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@harvest2630 Our kids are both in high school, here in the states, thinking about what college they want to go to. They’re almost that age when they can make their own decisions about life in general and women. I’m just hoping that they listened to their mother (and I) and observed how she carried herself in the household. That’s all I ask. To be honest I guess I should be thankful, I never had to deal with the things I’m hearing from other men. My marriage has been smooth sailing for 15 years, although anything is possible. There’s always risks when dealing with foreign women. Japanese Court system is different from ours for sure. Another interesting thing to note is that child support is not enforced in Japan.

    • @harvest2630
      @harvest2630 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@Jwebb-zh9gj Glad things have worked out. Got a brother who lives over there who fled US with Japanese wife after issues with child protective services here. Unfortunately, child protective service representative had no idea how nearly IMPOSSIBLE it is to get a child back from Japan which is why some American Japanese mothers flee to Japan.

    • @Jwebb-zh9gj
      @Jwebb-zh9gj ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@technoloverish Sir/Mam, what the hell are you talking about?

    • @Kyubii01
      @Kyubii01 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bro it’s not just immigrant women. America will ruin immigrant men . Because when we come from another country we still get disciplined like we were still back home but eventually a kid will see how their “friends” don’t get disciplined and start rebelling . They will be corrupted in the places/times a parent can’t be there due to work. And they will go from polite and courteous to wannabe American but more exaggerated because they have never acted like that

  • @jaydaburton1087
    @jaydaburton1087 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    It really sucks I even had to stop being friends with other women like this at 21 years old. I dress and act feminine naturally because that’s what I like and gravitate to and I’m called soft or weak by other women my age. I normally just make friends with older women at church and such but I hope they learn and change soon because this generation of women is going to realize what they’re doing when it’s too late to have a family or too old for the men they set they want. 😕

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  ปีที่แล้ว +30

      God has blessed you

    • @aboy3064
      @aboy3064 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Won’t be my problem, as a man I am currently moving heaven and Earth in hopes to be able to have a family.

    • @abdirahman292
      @abdirahman292 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Get married young so the man knows he got you at your best and not when you played the field.

    • @HarryJohnson69
      @HarryJohnson69 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Stay exactly with the values you have. I wish you a wonderful life because you’ve escaped the matrix. Well done

    • @kevindiaz3035
      @kevindiaz3035 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You will likely have to find a man out of the country . American men talk down on modern women , but modern men are no prize either.

  • @Sagefrakrobatik
    @Sagefrakrobatik ปีที่แล้ว +75

    My biggest pet peeve is having my time wasted. I'd rather have a woman tell me she isnt interested or attracted to me then have her ghost me 4 months later because she is afraid of "confrontation"

  • @kemetazubuike8958
    @kemetazubuike8958 ปีที่แล้ว +394

    I’m at this point as well. I’m tired of dating here in the states. We build ourselves up to be in the top 10% and we get women who are not fit, feminine, nor friendly. Also, they don’t bring nothing but ran thru cat. No skills to keep a man, no anything. Not worth it.

    • @camden336
      @camden336 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Exactly.

    • @enigma-yu4jo
      @enigma-yu4jo ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Exactly!! Women don’t bring anything to the table. It’s the almost Jedi mind trick

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It isn’t a woman’s job to ‘keep a man’. Women leave men more it’s men that cannot ‘keep’ women. Perhaps ask yourself why. It’s isn’t women running out of the country to get laid. It’s y’all 😂😴

    • @kemetazubuike8958
      @kemetazubuike8958 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      @@gailainsley6939 you’re in a mens space arguing with us. You are part of the problem.

    • @camden336
      @camden336 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gailainsley6939 why are you in our space? And you think it's about getting laid lol..dummy

  • @SoWestMeetsEast
    @SoWestMeetsEast ปีที่แล้ว +284

    I resigned from dating in the U.S. last year. Even ran it by my therapist just to make sure it wasn't mental health related. I'm planning a trip to Okinawa for a tournament and plan on meeting old school ladies 😊

    • @goiufro
      @goiufro ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Bro, enjoy that!!

    • @jqight740
      @jqight740 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Enjoy that and cherish it too. Look at the living there as well to get out of the American 🇺🇸 cesspool.
      God bless.

    • @Alejo__
      @Alejo__ ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Therapist ?????

    • @SoWestMeetsEast
      @SoWestMeetsEast ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Alejo__ Mental health professional. Like a counselor.

    • @dyamigerhold8009
      @dyamigerhold8009 ปีที่แล้ว

      I heard Japanese girls are hard to get to know and mold mainly with Japanese men, they’re very homogenous. Just go anywhere else besides USA, CAN, & UK.

  • @gerardlead9321
    @gerardlead9321 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I’m 6’2, I have a v-taper (almost 6 pack abs), 6 figure income, drive a car with a v6 engine (Lexus), own my own home. Have a master’s degree; and my lack of responses from text messages and flakes have also increased. Any guy that says his lack of responses from texts and flakes have not increased is lying his ass off or not in the game anymore like these 90s PUAs. I don’t care what he says.

    • @chiragpatel849
      @chiragpatel849 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Same man I’m a 6 foot male, decent looking guy, dress good and make decent money. Attracting females isn’t the problem, these women just love to play games. It’s like they just want validation? why would you give me your number if you weren’t interested lol.

    • @highstakes1235
      @highstakes1235 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Same, 6’4 former paratrooper in British Army good shape and dark looks, six figures and got flaked on massively. Gave up dating western women and met my Singaporean gf, four years in and going strong

    • @1tarikross161
      @1tarikross161 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      you’re too over-qualified for these women. You make them feel insecure w/o trying. They dont know how to compliment you.

    • @BrandynMilam
      @BrandynMilam ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@1tarikross161 you talking that real shit right here

    • @MarcFun
      @MarcFun ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here, i couldn't;t find an average woman who weighs less than me despite being much shorter in 10 years...

  • @leonblack7637
    @leonblack7637 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    This man is 23 and already years ahead of most of us. Great perspective.

    • @magnetcrusher1193
      @magnetcrusher1193 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I found my wife in Colombia when I was 25, that was 15 years ago when it was rather unique. Now it is very common, seems like 1/5 men have a foreign wife now.

    • @blacklyfe5543
      @blacklyfe5543 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      So what? Who cares life is not a race its a journey.

  • @waj4ever16
    @waj4ever16 ปีที่แล้ว +397

    Bruh. IT's not until you leave the United States do you realize how effed up our dating situation is. Like what? How did we manage to mess up what should be natural for us? Men are supposed to be with women. Period. And we gotta concoct all these strategies, games all while trying to avoid getting ruined in the end by divorce court. I agree brother. I lived in Colombia for 3 1/2 years and it's totally different. The stock factory girl in Colombia is soft, feminine, wants to take care of you, cooks and cleans, understands her role in the relationship, is family-oriented and has wanted to be a mother all her life. Fellas, get your passport and be gone out the USA as this place is not conducive towards fostering long-term, healthy family relationships.

    • @JohnDoe-pd4jo
      @JohnDoe-pd4jo ปีที่แล้ว

      We gave women toomuch power and freedom. It’s all our fault, to the point where a woman could tell a simple lie and destroy a man’s life, that is absolutely insane. Men of the past were on to something, it is us who’s catching up to female nature. Women do not handle power justly.

    • @technoloverish
      @technoloverish ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Not necessarily. Some men are gay and some women are lesbian. Not every man and woman is into the opposite gender. Sounds like what you want is essentially a country that's a Christian theocracy or something similar

    • @economiccrisis9267
      @economiccrisis9267 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      @@technoloverish he's not addressing the 🌈🌈🌈 crowd so your argument is irrelevant.

    • @brownpapi2634
      @brownpapi2634 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@technoloverish TF are you talking about with ya out of left field ass comment. Obviously his message was addressed to STRAIGHT men. Did the rainbow mafia pay you to crowbar that comment on this channel? Wtf

    • @jujubeanzzz5413
      @jujubeanzzz5413 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That Columbian woman was hungry and needed a green card.

  • @herculesh1907
    @herculesh1907 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    This dude show will grow rapidly...he talks about the hardcore truth that dating coaches refuse to tell you.

    • @jqight740
      @jqight740 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We need to protect him so he can shut these MLM method Dating Coaches oops I mean Hoaxes down.
      Cold Approach in toxic biased mass shooting chaos doesn’t work and you waste time along with the bars and clubs in Amerikkka USA 🇺🇸

  • @TheRealest127
    @TheRealest127 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    These comments is Crazy! 😂 I never thought I’d see the day when BM and BW would be this divided. But I guess we can thank Feminism, Social media and Dating Apps for that. Those 3 things made BW feel like Average, Hardworking BM were “Beneath” them and now here we are. The Brothers are leaving the US. And honestly? I don’t Blame them. Ain’t no love for us Here anymore. The Enemy got what they always wanted. Us to Hate each other. Maybe in the next life we’ll get it right. But until then? ✈️🤴🏾💶✌🏾

    • @prettykenny109
      @prettykenny109 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hello 🤩👋

    • @BRlGADE_KINGPIN
      @BRlGADE_KINGPIN หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nothing wrong with Black women.
      It’s American Black women that are toxic.

  • @sauce2371
    @sauce2371 ปีที่แล้ว +243

    I’m glad I discovered you man. I literally stopped dating and having sex here in U.S. because of all of the damn bullshit. My experiences of having foreigner friends and relationships were the healthiest and also the easiest relationships I have ever had compared to American women. The past year I’ve been working on my money so I can renounce my citizenship and stretch my dollar elsewhere. It makes me feel less lonely knowing individuals have this perspective of reality and to learn this topic is growing.

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  ปีที่แล้ว +41

      That’s exactly why I make this content, to validate that people like you and I aren’t crazy

    • @robertcamble3543
      @robertcamble3543 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@AustonHolleman Nuff respect to see a young man who see women for what they really are.

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@robertcamble3543 thanks man!

    • @jamesbond-xl3xs
      @jamesbond-xl3xs ปีที่แล้ว +22

      You don't have to renounce your citizenship. I would go for dual citizenship. You can be a citizen of multiple countries. That US passport has financial value to you that you may want to tap into on some level in the future. I would advise you to keep it. No sense in getting rid of it. Also, if you have family in the US that you wanna see, it will be easier to travel to and from the US that way.

    • @arlandoamb6754
      @arlandoamb6754 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree with you bro 👏🏿👏🏿💯

  • @mrdacusthenavigator4989
    @mrdacusthenavigator4989 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    Don't feel bad, young Brother. I'm in my mid 40's and stopped going out on dates in the USA years ago. I just work, save and live it up when I'm overseas

    • @franklinbrandon5283
      @franklinbrandon5283 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Exactly.... I don't even waste my time lol ...

    • @Kenny-Ross
      @Kenny-Ross ปีที่แล้ว +27

      That's me. I decided to not give dating any energy in the US like 17 years ago. I only meet girls when I travel. I turned 40 back in December and I have an upcoming trip to Colombia and making plans to stay there.The pick of girls in this country is horrendous. Especially in California!

    • @DONJULUJUVY718
      @DONJULUJUVY718 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jxsilicon9 i gotta say between miami houston or nyc ( my hometown) women are out of line

    • @asianstud7
      @asianstud7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bout to do the same thing bro.

    • @raymondojo4130
      @raymondojo4130 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Taqeem Hilton FACTS,

  • @Ben-Ken
    @Ben-Ken ปีที่แล้ว +167

    And this is coming from a guy that is fit, not ugly, and fairly well spoken. Imagine the hell average guys go through. I'm glad I didn't have to go through the online dating nonsense when I was younger.

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Thanks man! Yea exactly the shits crazy

    • @shawnmiller2182
      @shawnmiller2182 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Same, I’m fit, make good money, fairly good looking and charismatic. I thought that if Improved myself even more my options would be Insane. More of what happens is the sabotaging and being used for validation. They know they won’t fair well with good looking men that have standards so they say “well I can at least get something out of this by turning him down and bragging to my friends about it”. That’s why they often ask for your Instagram and Snapchat instead of exchanging numbers, it’s social proof that can be screenshot and shared for more validation instead of actual plans.

    • @legendfrom8141
      @legendfrom8141 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@AustonHolleman Auston we gotta learn Portuguese and get us an online job!!!🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷

    • @ahlui
      @ahlui ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@shawnmiller2182 that's why I don't have none of those apps anymore if she can't exchange numbers then I know what type of time she's on and she's not interested 🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @ridge7524
      @ridge7524 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same can be said about women which is why all races of women ,including black women are doing the very same thing.They have been for awhile.Way more to a suitable partner than looks and money and games but go off. Find what you want.Women and men dont have time for foolishness💎

  • @dollarchange2917
    @dollarchange2917 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    So much truth. I’m at number 5 right now and everything women get “turned off” by is them simply projecting their insecurities. It’s utterly disgusting

  • @angeloaag
    @angeloaag ปีที่แล้ว +45

    You literally just summed my life up, I’ve been planning on leaving since I was 12 years old. I’ve had enough of these evil women. It shouldn’t be a numbers game or some kind of dumb game. I can’t even look or talk to women like people anymore, from all the bs I’ve had to deal with. I literally almost lost my mind, until I did something crazy, then I reset and I’m moving forward working on myself.

    • @angeloaag
      @angeloaag ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m 26 now I just started understanding this year

    • @Lonelyahk30
      @Lonelyahk30 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bro u are so on point

  • @officialbrothernu
    @officialbrothernu ปีที่แล้ว +206

    @austonholleman Brother it’s crazy that you have this all figured out at age 23. You saved yourself years of headache and bullshit . Keep helping younger men get the better options that exists 👊🏾💪🏾

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Thanks man💪🏾 I observe and notice habits all the time

    • @MockeryManor
      @MockeryManor ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Humble_Legend Yup…me too. At least I’m single and free now though. Nothing beats serenity.

    • @Humble_Legend
      @Humble_Legend ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@MockeryManor Amen brother!

    • @djg4781
      @djg4781 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      100% this. I didn’t start to figure this out until I was 30. Very smart man.

  • @jaws2003
    @jaws2003 ปีที่แล้ว +449

    I'm 37 and that insecurity follows them when they get older they want to "confess" that they knew who the good men were they just wanted something else. As a man that's traveled overseas I will say the feminine hygiene is 100x better. I'm glad more younger men are waking up. The dating scene is horrible from the bottom to the top.

    • @NumbaOne
      @NumbaOne ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Yup every older women ik remembers that one guy

    • @jaws2003
      @jaws2003 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@NumbaOne or several of them. Lol.

    • @clairvoyantcrypto4577
      @clairvoyantcrypto4577 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      “Horrible from the bottom to the top”
      That’s so true, the 2’s think their 6’s and the 9’s think their goddesses who break all scales
      But in all fairness simps have a big role to play in this

    • @shorts26
      @shorts26 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      They know the truth they just have to lie about it so more will try to save them...this should be common knowledge no full fledged adult doesn't know what they're doing even teens and young adults make the decisions they want to regardless if it's to their detriment or not

    • @Treating-World-Love
      @Treating-World-Love ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@NumbaOne I just find it with Wokism and Feminism it’s out of control.

  • @michaelbaker2686
    @michaelbaker2686 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    That PH balance statement is ALL FACTS. I noticed the women overseas had no odor and the experience with them was way more pleasant. Dude hit all the main points and confirmed that men are not crazy.

  • @jdjoja
    @jdjoja 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yo bro! This is spot on and needed to be said! Thank You from me for all of us! Bravo my brother bravo!

  • @Schoolboy-Q
    @Schoolboy-Q ปีที่แล้ว +121

    Sir, you just gained me as a follower. I was married to a woman that wanted to be the man and woman of our marriage. I had to leave her alone. The sad part is that I tried to make it work.

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Never “make it work” it’s always a waste of time! Been there. Thanks for following💪🏾

    • @jqight740
      @jqight740 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hopefully you don’t have kids with that person

    • @ram76921
      @ram76921 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I don't understand why people think like this? A relationship and especially a family has both patriarchal and matriarch positions and roles, women that demean men especially in a relationship in public, not good, drop em

    • @bodysnatcher9109
      @bodysnatcher9109 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can't stand women like that

    • @janehopper8840
      @janehopper8840 ปีที่แล้ว

      women are no longer here to serve men and even less so an American man who is not a retailer, a good provider and a romantic American men are nothing compared to Europeans

  • @blackronin5578
    @blackronin5578 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Facts I’m with u 1000% I don’t want nothing in the USA, I’m stacking up n getting out of here once I’m established 💯💯💯

  • @trollMan246
    @trollMan246 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're on the right track young brother. This is really needed right now. Keep it up.

  • @daquansoutherland2532
    @daquansoutherland2532 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Man I owe it to you again to just say thank you!!!!!🙏🏾 you just don’t know how powerful your message is!

  • @itsmelanieking
    @itsmelanieking ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Would love to interview you live. A lot of women need to hear this.

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Yes, where can I contact you at?

    • @brianbey3575
      @brianbey3575 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Make this interview happen ASAP!

    • @OshayDukeJackson
      @OshayDukeJackson ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Melanie!

    • @ManofPrestige
      @ManofPrestige ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Melanie! 🤣

    • @WittyPenSmith
      @WittyPenSmith ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She see where my man trending. Want part of that wave 🤣. They will come out of nowhere I tell ya 😂

  • @CoolGent87
    @CoolGent87 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    You spoke nothing but facts bro!! It's sad that in the U.S modern women still act like Teenagers in high school. Smh. Keep it up bro

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Facts man I’m going to keep it up! Thanks

    • @CoolGent87
      @CoolGent87 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@AustonHolleman That's a must

    • @GEVINCHYGAMEZ
      @GEVINCHYGAMEZ ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Bro they only want rappers unfortunately...

    • @thydunk8182
      @thydunk8182 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@GEVINCHYGAMEZ or hollywood lmao. All women want some 6” white guy named tyler.

    • @jlcarter04
      @jlcarter04 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Dude!! I'm 40 and this is the most disappointing part of the dating scene for me. At one time, I thought that at a certain point that women would grow up and want a real relationship. Nope!! Like straight High School. It's like when they got popped as a teen, their maturity just stopped.

  • @thedarksideoftheforce6658
    @thedarksideoftheforce6658 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He's on point with everything on here. It's good he sees this at a young age. 👍🏾💪🏿

  • @NoobSaibot3heGhost
    @NoobSaibot3heGhost 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    My life is hard as a black man, I wanna leave 🇺🇸

  • @lifeofenergy1282
    @lifeofenergy1282 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    I am a woman with island roots, thankfully it still shows to this day a lot of traditional values! I don't even have close female "friends" because of reasons that are similar to what you are saying in terms of hygiene, fitness etc. I decided it is important to be VERY selective on friendships especially the direction things are going with lack of respect for taking up my time to hangout when they are on their phones. I encourage guys to date outside the US and my guy is from another country as well!

    • @DanielJesusObsessedFit
      @DanielJesusObsessedFit ปีที่แล้ว +21

      It's sad because I'm jamaican and American mentality has got into the black women of Jamaica. I'm looking to go to Africa for a black wife. These women love good black man and really want to please and serve you well. Also they are more godly than most Jamaican girls

    • @lifeofenergy1282
      @lifeofenergy1282 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@DanielJesusObsessedFit yes I hear its not just Americans being crazy with the feminism, its going overseas and the men are not happy. It's fine I am sure with time people will realize they need to fix the next generation.

    • @DanielJesusObsessedFit
      @DanielJesusObsessedFit ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@lifeofenergy1282 that's true, i see it a little change.

    • @user-rs2ue1cz6m
      @user-rs2ue1cz6m ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You guys put period blood in food to keep a man, please.

    • @Nyyduhh
      @Nyyduhh ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Girl stand up

  • @rayonhughes6696
    @rayonhughes6696 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    Damn, I cannot be mad at you, my man! Everything you said about the American woman in this segment is 100 percent true. I'm 51 years old and I am a 30-year retired Army Veteran. I just retired in April 2020, and I was stationed overseas on several occasions, and I loved it! My favorite place was Cairo, Egypt. My goodness, they love us man. You don't have to deal with all this stupid shit these women in America put you through. I regret not staying overseas, Europe (Germany) was another great place to be. Fellas, listen to this guy 'THEY LOVE US OVERSEAS" trust me!

    • @Fitricson
      @Fitricson ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Europe is not much better. I lived in Germany all my live

    • @jayc9904
      @jayc9904 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      they love your army benefits!!!!...smh

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca ปีที่แล้ว

      Congrats on the retirement

    • @RemoteAdminJayJay2
      @RemoteAdminJayJay2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Germany is the ultimate white woman lover's paradise ask black soldiers stationed there & hear the legendary stories.

    • @VeteranNomad
      @VeteranNomad ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was 19 stationed in Germany!

  • @gabrielgadsden3986
    @gabrielgadsden3986 ปีที่แล้ว

    Facts bro! This video is on point.

  • @bellgreenrose
    @bellgreenrose ปีที่แล้ว +52

    When I joined the military I had the opportunity to travel and then more on my own. There is truth to what you say. Westernized women are raised so differently. Honestly, especially as a black man in America, you get treated so much better when you leave the country. I love my people but when it comes to dating and marriage, way too many women moving like men. I'm happy I'm now married to my wife who's from overseas and I highly suggest men travel and see how much love you receive from women not with the westernized mindset.

    • @fireinjunred
      @fireinjunred ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you bring her from overseas or move over there?

    • @bellgreenrose
      @bellgreenrose ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fireinjunred I met her during my time in her country but she was already coming to the U.S for travel. Once she came I didn’t let her leave and 3 years later here we are.

    • @janehopper8840
      @janehopper8840 ปีที่แล้ว

      women are no longer here to serve men and even less so an American man who is not a retailer, a good provider and not very romantic American men are nothing compared to Europeans

  • @ahlui
    @ahlui ปีที่แล้ว +95

    I really feel like as social media grew things changed for men because from like 2012-2018 it wasn't difficult to have females that was willing and not on games but as females started getting access to different caliber of men without doing nothing but showing a thirst trap that changed the game

    • @JacobStayViben
      @JacobStayViben ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Yeah the change started in 2017, Eras change every 5-7 years. Social media was still developing then, but we’re def in the belly of the beast in the social media era now.

    • @onthearth1
      @onthearth1 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I agree; 2017-2018 untill 2019 ( before covid) was the best moment for game for me. I basically had what I thought I deserved and expected things to continue.. BUt covid came; instagram became huge... after covid I get hotties but they give way more shit than before!

    • @edgarbruner1619
      @edgarbruner1619 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Notice how you have to pay for apps now. This year's man it was poppin

    • @joeyricefried9621
      @joeyricefried9621 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Women in America have the easiest job in the world.

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      No. What changed the game was content like alpha male strategies. Women realised men only want to get laid so they played accordingly. Many did not realise how sought after it was. It has nothing to do with getting access to top calibre of men because the truth is, those men do not make up the majority of the population so the average woman wouldn’t even have access to them. Women are just more hip to game now and no longer believe that all men have their best interest at heart. They now know that the game is intimacy so they are going to ration it out accordingly.

  • @jaymal82
    @jaymal82 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Bruh dating in the US is a waist of time brothers should be trying to build different sources of income so they can stay in their country of choice for long periods of time and PS "DON'T BRING THEM BACK!!!!"

    • @immaculatemal1379
      @immaculatemal1379 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yall make that sound easy lol. How do you just pick up and leave to another country where you don't even speak the language 🤔. I'm an owner op driver that makes over 100k. I make money in the U.S. taking trips is expensive and you're losing money on vacation each day... not saying you're wrong but it just doesn't seem realistic.

    • @Jetlife904
      @Jetlife904 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@immaculatemal1379 it is simple for people who work remote jobs… that’s what happened at the peak of the pandemic. With remote working people started moving abroad. There is a video on that about millennials who move to Lisbon Portugal 🇵🇹

    • @wordplay8733
      @wordplay8733 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@immaculatemal1379 if you lazy about your future than stay where the hell you at and keep complaining than

    • @ShandaP018
      @ShandaP018 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Waste*

    • @brianb6415
      @brianb6415 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@immaculatemal1379 It's a knee jerk reaction but it's not as simple as they are trying to make it seem.

  • @RBG-ez7pd
    @RBG-ez7pd ปีที่แล้ว +20

    What’s amazing is that men over time have realized these truths about modern American women INDEPENDENTLY. Videos like this and TH-cam dating shows have just provided evidence to support the conclusions from our experiences.

  • @dylaneasley6281
    @dylaneasley6281 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Holy shit bro, you’re reading my mind. I feel like no one really speaks up about the reality. Everyone just accepts it and acts like it’s normal. Thank you

  • @hammertyme8392
    @hammertyme8392 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    This brother is on point. Wish I had learned these lessons at his age.
    I am now living overseas and the quality of women you can get will far exceed anything you'll find in the states.
    Facts!!

    • @Truthspeaker7777
      @Truthspeaker7777 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What country are you in

    • @hammertyme8392
      @hammertyme8392 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Truthspeaker7777
      Medellin Colombia

    • @Mrs.Adrian
      @Mrs.Adrian ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hammertyme8392 scamming headquarters lol you be safe out there

    • @hammertyme8392
      @hammertyme8392 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Mrs.Adrian
      No scamming going on here honey.
      The Biggest scammers are in the states and ask me how I know.

    • @kevinnewman3037
      @kevinnewman3037 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Mrs.Adrian Hater🤣🤣🤣

  • @dafloridaman
    @dafloridaman ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I’m glad you have accepted this at an early age without marriage. Immediately after my divorce was finalized last year, one of my closest friends from Thai 🇹🇭 advised me to leave American women alone because they literally act like toddlers. I already made that decision after going though the family court system that favors women 85-90% of the time. I stopped interaction with them all together as I retire next year. Once I retire, I’m getting the hell out of the States and not coming back. I have accepted the reality that there’s nothing here in the US for me.

    • @janehopper8840
      @janehopper8840 ปีที่แล้ว

      why do they benefit women? you must pass him some payment every month

  • @williamsinisterra4189
    @williamsinisterra4189 ปีที่แล้ว

    Preach brother keep the movement going

  • @TV-ob1if
    @TV-ob1if ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Got my passport. Best decision of my life.

  • @muziqislyfe5421
    @muziqislyfe5421 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    YOU SPEAK 100% FACTS MY GUY. I AGREE WITH YOU AS A BLACK MAN MYSELF. I AM 41 AND I CAN DEFINITELY RELATE TO YOU ON EVERY LEVEL AND TOPIC YOU SPOKE ABOUT. I'M READY TO DITCH THE USA!!!!

  • @wrcinc
    @wrcinc ปีที่แล้ว +85

    I feel sorry for young guys in the age of social media. I think that social media is driving up women’s insecurities. Before social media women only saw and had to compete with other women in their neighborhood and they may have been the best looking woman in the area. Now, with social media they have to see and compete with women from all over the country and world-so they’re longer the hottest around. Every time they log into social media they’re reminded of this and now they’re obsessed with their own looks and crave constant validation.

    • @justinmclaughlin1953
      @justinmclaughlin1953 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      And it goes another way too - they can compare guys in their area to guys they see on social media

    • @charaznable9209
      @charaznable9209 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yep, I used to crush majorly on this one girl, hottest girl in town. Even at her prime though if you compared her to every girl from Russia, Ukraine, Thailand, and the Philippines, her place on that list would drop down significantly. Now in her 30's with neck tattoos and kids from an ex-convict, she wouldn't be able to keep my attention for longer than two minutes, before I would be looking for an excuse to leave!

    • @janehopper8840
      @janehopper8840 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@charaznable9209 Those women also exist in the US but they are not in your league

    • @Cyrus992
      @Cyrus992 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yet social media hasn’t harmed foreign ones as much

  • @oftengone
    @oftengone ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your delivery man. thanks for this 👍

  • @anthonywilliams4100
    @anthonywilliams4100 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Loving how this young bro is keeping it 100%, AND IS AN EARLY LEARNER! Keep your standards high and let them conform to you. And keep it moving when times wasting.

  • @TreasureA11Gold
    @TreasureA11Gold ปีที่แล้ว +112

    Bruh this was so spot on I thought I was the only one or the few with this perception. Keep making these type of videos for young men to not be conditioned to accept women that are raised or conditioned to treat men and dating disrespectful.

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thanks man. Im glad you enjoyed it

    • @janehopper8840
      @janehopper8840 ปีที่แล้ว

      women are no longer here to serve men and even less so an American man who is not a retailer, a good provider and a romantic American men are nothing compared to Europeans

  • @osmankalif3500
    @osmankalif3500 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Tats, clean skin, perfect hairline and looks fit. If this guy is dealing with bs Its done out here. No one is above a passport and plane tickets I think this is the solution.

    • @oceejay5148
      @oceejay5148 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 fr

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tats are good?

    • @osmankalif3500
      @osmankalif3500 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@GUITARTIME2024 these hoes love em lol

    • @JoseRamirez-ew7vq
      @JoseRamirez-ew7vq ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@GUITARTIME2024 On some men yes, depending on where they’re placed and what they are

  • @negreg1
    @negreg1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Watching from Haiti 🇭🇹 Preach!

  • @davidwalker9332
    @davidwalker9332 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nothing but facts you speaking 💪🏽

  • @reginaldrichmond9485
    @reginaldrichmond9485 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This needs to go viral.

  • @EricThePioneer
    @EricThePioneer ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Everything you said is gospel man. Especially that "Bro" sh!t. A woman that talks like a man is an instant deal breaker. Keep going man we need the voices!

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thanks man! I’m going to keep it up!

  • @migtowlifemonk8668
    @migtowlifemonk8668 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    100 percent correct on ALL counts… nuff said 👊🏿👊🏿👊🏿👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @baharimeli
    @baharimeli ปีที่แล้ว

    Auston, you and I are vibing on the same frequency.

  • @levar9911
    @levar9911 ปีที่แล้ว +199

    I am a 29 years old woman who is living in the USA and I can say Thank God I was born and raised in a country where you are taught how to Cook, clean, work, and shower 2 times a day at an early age... My husband had never complained about the food or bad hygiene...That is sad and makes me feel bad hearing this thing about women in the n USA...

    • @kumarcollins585
      @kumarcollins585 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @SMB Girly Girl That's the problem. Many women here think they are high quality, especially when they have education and a decent job. But no matter the social class, still fall under the Entitlement bubble of the United States, and can't maintain a decent relationship. Mainly because of their attitudes and unreasonable delusions.

    • @jeremiahasa8652
      @jeremiahasa8652 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @SMB Girly Girl no it ain’t otherwise you wouldn’t have all these dating coaches and redpIll podcast booming with millions of men complaining that there’s something wrong with how relationships are in the US

    • @Chrisatrucker
      @Chrisatrucker ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @SMB Girly Girl of course not all women are bad, but it's enough like what he describes to discourage brothers from wanting date American women

    • @Chrisatrucker
      @Chrisatrucker ปีที่แล้ว

      @SMB Girly Girl sure, their are exotic women who are evil. But culture actually makes a women better. American women aren't cultured to be wives. They're cultured to be men.

    • @ishyameru6232
      @ishyameru6232 ปีที่แล้ว

      @SMB Girly Girl Culture doesn't make a woman better??? -_- how does culture not affect every part of a person? Does the culture of excellence in Asian communities not propel them to be the most successful in school by every metric? Does the hustle culture of Middle eastern and Jewish people not lead to them being on top of the economic food chain in America despite black people being here first? Do you even believe the nonsense you're spitting 😂😂 You have to be very stupid to believe the things you're saying unironically

  • @immaculatemal1379
    @immaculatemal1379 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Your age stuck out with me because that's probably where 40% of your issues with American women stems from. When I was your age I still looked like a 18yr old boy lol. I could only imagine what it would be like now in the social media age. I hear you why waste your life waiting until you get 35/40 to get respect. Yall youngsters have all the information use it to your advantage because you're already 10 steps ahead of the game than we were.

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Thanks for understanding bro

    • @wordplay8733
      @wordplay8733 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yeah they are going to be good to go just don't focus on dating or relationships in this country just focus on your paper fellas , these younger guys are going to pioneer the future

  • @shawndesousa2620
    @shawndesousa2620 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You speaking facts 💯 my brother

    • @MasteryOrder
      @MasteryOrder ปีที่แล้ว

      Great relationships are built on trust, character and reciprocity. Embody such traits and expect similar ones from the woman you care about and you will have a chance at a great relationship.
      If you enjoy being challenged by ideas and if mastery and masculinity are topics that interest you, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel.
      Challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood, explore your masculine potential and become the kind of man you would admire.
      We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well.
      Looking forward to your points of view.
      All the best to you!

  • @And1one757
    @And1one757 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dayum you knocked that one out the park literally every point you hit was absolute fax 💯

  • @alex-mq8rm
    @alex-mq8rm ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Excellent video and straight up facts. Mirrors exactly how I feel, great content.

  • @de_lontekk8019
    @de_lontekk8019 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Saw your tik tok and it was awe inspiring and true , planning on joining the AF will get my passport and find the woman for me eventually. Going for the food and culture

  • @videogameguy101
    @videogameguy101 ปีที่แล้ว

    You the champ, homeboy. Great video, great points, well-spoken like a true man with early-on wisdom.
    Enjoy your time overseas, Big Kid. 💯

  • @7ackass
    @7ackass ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Stay on your path. You are ahead of many men and you managed to get ahead out of the gate. I am trying to recover from family sabotage. I am almost out of the hole but I have been in the manosphere for over a decade and I'm glad you are a content creator. You are awakening me to the fact that the time I had been waiting for has long arrived. I just have to get on board. Keep up the quality content. You make many killer points in this video showing that you have a deeper game than you initially appear to. 💯 ®espect.

  • @dc3470
    @dc3470 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Spot on. I'm an old g & I figured this out over 15 yrs ago that dating in the u.s. was not beneficial 2 men. When one compares dating in Latin America 2 the u.s., its like night & day. I've been 2 DR, Colombia, Honduras, Venezuela, cuba, Trinidad, & el savador.. the respect 4 men & femininity is so refreshing

    • @dc3470
      @dc3470 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sbc4434 it's a tough call. Maybe Barranquilla colombia, Santiago DR, sosua DR, cartagena colombia. Depends on what one is looking 4, sex? A girlfriend? A wife? Beauty?

    • @dc3470
      @dc3470 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@sbc4434 but I really think cuba is a perfect place 2 have a girlfriend & family. It's cheaper than all the places I named. If u get away from habana, the chicas r better looking

    • @dc3470
      @dc3470 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sbc4434 sosua, rep dom

  • @officialkoby
    @officialkoby ปีที่แล้ว +35

    This is all facts. I just came back from Medellin Colombia, and the treatment was completely different from the women, they would get upset at me for not having time for them, and they were very attractive. I had a lot of plans out there, so I couldn’t make time for all of them. Get your passports guys, in America you have to be a celebrity to get basic cooperation from a 7 woman, I know this because I have a couple famous friends and even they complain. Get your money out here in the US and go overseas to South America, Eastern Europe, the Philippines, Eastern Africa and South Korea. Do not settle for this nonsense in America.

    • @dirkdiggler2379
      @dirkdiggler2379 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      lmao.. bro.. I went to a concert and was just talking to my buddy of mine.. I'm 5 foot 7 so not tall but very fit and have good facial features, was just chillin drinking a brewski. There's two women in front of us, one of us turns and nudges the other girl and says.. look there are cute guys behind us. The other girl turns and says to her friend. TOO SHORT! I'm over here laughing my ass off.. why? these women were obese! shorter than me and over 200 lbs! can you believe that!? LOL. crazy right?

    • @officialkoby
      @officialkoby ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@dirkdiggler2379 lol!! That’s what you call a 49er, a girl who’s a 4 but thinks she’s a 9. Those girls were probably 2’s though.

    • @dirkdiggler2379
      @dirkdiggler2379 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@officialkoby I plan on getting my passport and just wandering around these other countries lol. lets gooo

    • @ayandamafuyeka1952
      @ayandamafuyeka1952 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      When you mentioned Africa. I'm glad you said Eastern Africa, because I'm South African and I can personally tell you Southern Africa is shithole copy and paste of the West.

  • @yiyamusic
    @yiyamusic ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So much gold in this video.

  • @malikkweli8627
    @malikkweli8627 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    THANK YOU BROTHER......THANK YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART...I THANK YOU...FINALLY THE TRUTH

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You’re welcome! I will never stop🙏🏾

  • @shawnmiller2182
    @shawnmiller2182 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Finally a channel of another relatable Chad that understands my plight lol. Great videos brother

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hahaaaa yessir! Thanks man

    • @airlebron7467
      @airlebron7467 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm Chad too. It's bad online not in person though.

  • @humbledayz4129
    @humbledayz4129 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You spoke str8 facts bro

  • @ypmm53
    @ypmm53 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are 100% on point bro!
    Keep doing your thing. You are inspiring more and more men. Hopefully, more young men will do the same.
    Thank you for all the great content!!😊

  • @rubioalvin
    @rubioalvin ปีที่แล้ว +1

    great video man👍, grass is greener overseas

  • @HLJlovejoy
    @HLJlovejoy ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Well said and I knew you were on to something when you got to “Bro”. Bless you young man and your parents or whoever raised you! I want to adopt you into my family so you can encourage your siblings from another mother. 🙌🏾😜. “Keep hope alive”.

  • @leetate1963
    @leetate1963 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This is exactly why I do not approach women. I refuse to play the game

  • @Not-in-the-way
    @Not-in-the-way ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro you are so right I can’t believe you’re saying exactly what I go through 🙌🏿

  • @kvaz007
    @kvaz007 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your list was on point keep making content.

  • @jermo1213
    @jermo1213 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Bro you're ahead of your time. Plus, you speak well. Much respect, young brother.

  • @entpsshadow4455
    @entpsshadow4455 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Currently residing in the Dominican Republic. It's sooo smooth here, it's over with! No games being played out this way

  • @TheMABExperience
    @TheMABExperience ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oshay sent me. Much respect and thanks for sharing. #Subbed ✈️💯💪🏾

  • @dorivalmichael
    @dorivalmichael ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are so right it’s frustrating

  • @Waltoncash
    @Waltoncash ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I can’t believe this man is 23 he’s so well spoken and humble

  • @JelaniB28
    @JelaniB28 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    No lies detected. Not only are the games tiring and lame but at the end of the day they aren’t even worth the time you take to play the game.

  • @dswain4087
    @dswain4087 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Straight facts my brother!

    • @MasteryOrder
      @MasteryOrder ปีที่แล้ว

      Great relationships are built on trust, character and reciprocity. Embody such traits and expect similar ones from the woman you care about and you will have a chance at a great relationship.
      If you enjoy being challenged by ideas and if mastery and masculinity are topics that interest you, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel.
      Challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood, explore your masculine potential and become the kind of man you would admire.
      We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well.
      Looking forward to your points of view.
      All the best to you!

  • @jimb3093
    @jimb3093 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m glad I’m not the only one with similar sentiments. You said it all. 👍

  • @damontitanup9325
    @damontitanup9325 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Real Talk bro👍🏿

  • @Sentry0
    @Sentry0 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Auston, thank you for making this video. You made my day better. You hit every target.

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Man I’m glad to hear that💪🏾 I knew this would be relatable

    • @Sentry0
      @Sentry0 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@AustonHolleman it is more than relatable. You told the truth about women. Please keep up the good fight.

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Sentry0 I’m on it! This keeps me going!

    • @Treating-World-Love
      @Treating-World-Love ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AustonHolleman You aren’t wrong. Feminism-Wokism-Feminist craziness Something isn’t right Western Society. It’s collapsing.

  • @beardifull462
    @beardifull462 ปีที่แล้ว

    Subscribed . It's always refreshing to hear that I'm not the only one going through these problems with American women to like flaking getting numbers texting and no response

  • @thomasmaroney1892
    @thomasmaroney1892 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great message man. Completely agree

  • @yahoshualevi2932
    @yahoshualevi2932 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    😂 My friend you are so on point! I taught that I was the only one in the world that was experiencing these unearthly experiences with women in the U.S. The first time that I went to a country in Asia I found a super model and now I am happily married for 19 years! Our only hope is to escape !

  • @Tallz5
    @Tallz5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    💯 percent of everything I said to my people came out your mouth brother. Thanks for being smart and not a person to just give in to the US standards of foolery. ✊🏾

  • @gonzalezemanuel58
    @gonzalezemanuel58 ปีที่แล้ว

    5min in you earned my subscription 🙌 👏
    Keep up the great work 👍

  • @mistakesmakeaman
    @mistakesmakeaman ปีที่แล้ว

    Man bro, glad to see this. Im rocking with the movement

  • @bighomie_drocc
    @bighomie_drocc ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Facts!!! Bro, you are on point on everything. You had me weak when you said no woman should be walking around smelling like a can of tuna🤣🤣🤣 and I agree, bro💯💯💯

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💀

    • @Jwebb-zh9gj
      @Jwebb-zh9gj ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That’s one of my biggest fears. Getting a girl home and being traumatized for life because I pulled her pants down and she smells like a fishery 🎣

  • @joebidet2050
    @joebidet2050 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I've been shouting this for over 35 years
    Glad the rest of you are finally waking up

  • @cecilhoo9097
    @cecilhoo9097 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video my man. I cant believe ur r 23 and so mature and so much intelligence. All ur comments r spot on. Everything that u gave said i have experienced. Keep on living ur life bro. U dont owe anyone any explanations.

  • @thechosenone3768
    @thechosenone3768 ปีที่แล้ว

    You snapped Bruh! And you 23! Salute 🫡