What Happens When You Actually Start To Improve Yourself For The Women In The U.S.?

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  • Women in the US want a project. Come fully suited and booted and they feel inferior and would rather just pass.
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  • @Isaac-qd6gy
    @Isaac-qd6gy ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I thought I was the only one! When I was broke working as a bouncer for $12/hr at a club I got tons of girls. Now I make six figures, drive a Lexus, in great shape and I feel invisible.

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It’s fucking crazy😂

    • @GuideUsTitus
      @GuideUsTitus ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same! 😵‍💫

    • @victormuhammad1393
      @victormuhammad1393 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You probably changed your behavior with the new upgrade. You have to have the money but still keep the bouncer mentality

    • @Isaac-qd6gy
      @Isaac-qd6gy ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@victormuhammad1393 You might be right, never easy to self analyze.

  • @Lifegetsbetter_
    @Lifegetsbetter_ ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I got more women when I was homeless.

  • @ashielarry
    @ashielarry ปีที่แล้ว +66

    KS said the same thing. He would talk to men, they would improve, come back and basically complain that the women are not up to par.

    • @hiddengems3534
      @hiddengems3534 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Yup. That’s why he preached to step out your race after you leveled up.

  • @peoplesjohnson4803
    @peoplesjohnson4803 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    This brother here is about to be going places. Once I got over 85k, just like you said, things started declining. Women don't see themselves worthy of you and won't even give you a shot. If you have your shyt together then they know they can't control any aspect of your life, and they feel they have no place in it. I got called a Lame because I hit 100k and haven't been to jail before. You can't make this $hit up

    • @canadianbrotv1303
      @canadianbrotv1303 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Disfunctional woman its bs ...

    • @kanagawa85
      @kanagawa85 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Damn. So they prefer a jail bird over honest living man with his purpose!? Jesus Christ

    • @macksmotivation6327
      @macksmotivation6327 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Damnnn that’s crazy fr

    • @marlothedobermantv6992
      @marlothedobermantv6992 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@kanagawa85 they can control a jail bird that's why.

    • @background187
      @background187 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@marlothedobermantv6992 plus that jail bird won't criticize (judge) them

  • @jblackmel
    @jblackmel ปีที่แล้ว +54

    This is how you know women are full of BS. Just think about it: If you don't make money, then they call you broke and say that they will only "...submit to someone worth submitting to." But those same women, when you have your stuff together, actually, don't know how to keep the type of men that they say that they want. They are not used to NOT having drama. They are not used to men who will not engage in a shouting match with them. And they are not used to being with men, to whom they don't have leverage. They stay with the guys who they complain about because they're not good enough for the men who they say they want...lol!

    • @TheBlueberryboy
      @TheBlueberryboy ปีที่แล้ว +1

      u spot on like a Target logo

    • @Dariuspeace
      @Dariuspeace หลายเดือนก่อน

      I felt this one in my spirit

  • @oneway706
    @oneway706 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    I thought it was just me. I had a crazy rotation staying in my mom’s basement. Now I got my own shit crickets. Don’t forget a lot of these women with money and good jobs like dating broke dude’s

    • @targetegrat
      @targetegrat ปีที่แล้ว +30

      The women can't control you. They will be looking at you as husband material when they want to get married but you won't be able to date/ hookup with them now.

    • @leontaecoleman3644
      @leontaecoleman3644 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      any women that friendzone you don’t deal with them.they will regret it later.

    • @dfwsociallyisolatednelly7120
      @dfwsociallyisolatednelly7120 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Goddamn

    • @Josh2DaBeckett
      @Josh2DaBeckett ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@targetegrat Exactly.

  • @mightyjoeyoung9741
    @mightyjoeyoung9741 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I'm 6'8", played college basketball, and make $175k, attractive, funny, genereous etc. Women are just not good enough. Not a single one has acted respectful, nice, supportive emotionally and physically, and is attractive. Those are my only standards. I've been persistent.

    • @wendyomanga
      @wendyomanga 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Welcome to Africa.

    • @magnetcrusher1193
      @magnetcrusher1193 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Submit that passport application yet?

    • @camels9654
      @camels9654 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      My exact experience

  • @tchalla9917
    @tchalla9917 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Instead of trying to create a environment to get overpriced women, I would rather grind at work, save/invest 60% of my income and make plans to leave the matrix completely by age 40!!!🥂🏝✈️🏃🏿‍♂️

  • @myronhensel
    @myronhensel ปีที่แล้ว +11

    “How are you single? There must be something wrong”. I’ve gotten this before too. I think this comes from girls who are used to being side chicks.

  • @hiddengems3534
    @hiddengems3534 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    I live in Uptown, Dallas, TX myself and I hang with the guys that make over $300k+ while I'm sitting at mid $90k. The reason why those guys are getting 8s, 9s, 10 type of women is because of their network & lifestyle. They're constantly eating at Nobu, Fogos, driving G-wagons, Rolls Royces, and living in lavish locations. So when they pull a chick and the woman sees their lifestyle, they are a lot more open to giving their attention compared to the guy making $130k/yr. Auston is right, if you're a guy making $80k - $300k/yr in USA, you're going to be in a drought for awhile until you cross over that barrier.

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Knew I wasn’t tripping

    • @jqight740
      @jqight740 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AustonHolleman According to the NYC’s Brooklyn Dating Hoaxes oops I mean coach Mr Locario you are.
      He says it’s a numbers game and you have to spend time approaching. Lol 😂 that’s a complete waste of time with all these crazy biased people who are superficial to the max Ms independent and want to control of no accountability and chaos. And you’re asking me to invest time and energy in bozo the clown 🤡 chicks. GTFOH.
      Best bet is network your butt off (like hobbies and business networks) but that’s no guarantee.
      Dating coaches only exist in westernized countries. In my opinion. I bet you don’t see that garbage in Brasil 🇧🇷. Particularly Rio De Janeiro. Anyway, keep this message up and don’t let haters out you down man. Keep grinding and get to your goals. May god bless you.
      Peace man

    • @Pura_Vida_Vibes
      @Pura_Vida_Vibes ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Facts!!! When I first started teaching, I made a good salary. I thought my options would be more. It’s almost like you’re invisible. All I can say is continue to improve on yourself and take your talents elsewhere

    • @jqight740
      @jqight740 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Pura_Vida_Vibes you got that right.

    • @shangodjango8997
      @shangodjango8997 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I've seen it first hand in not only Uptown Dallas, but also in Plano/Frisco/ North Dallas The drought is real. Just moved to Houston, and yeah, the passport is about to get more use. It's beyond time.

  • @kingakil8599
    @kingakil8599 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    These women are so used to toxic relationships

  • @relentlesslyKP
    @relentlesslyKP ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This is 100% true! As soon as I got my money up, hitting the gym, got my own home etc, dry! Hard to find a good woman or they play games. Damn twilight zone

  • @santo9032
    @santo9032 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This is so true, I was getting more women while I was a broke college kid living in a low income housing than when I moved to a Condo on the beach in Fort Lauderdale. I was literally on TOP, and was having hardest time getting women. It was so weird and confusing. I’m just so DONE with American women, I can’t wait to move overseas !!!!

  • @maxjohnson1758
    @maxjohnson1758 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Making that kind of money and doing it legit means you ain't hood no mo' (if you ever were). That's why they don't get all worked up for you once you become successful. "Shawty want a thuggg... !"

    • @targetegrat
      @targetegrat ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I don't understand how most women would view a man with a 9 to 5 job that makes good money legally as lame.

    • @andrewevans6826
      @andrewevans6826 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@targetegrat go figure.. most those “lames” produce the shit she buys.. youd think she appreciate that shit more but they dont

    • @dfwsociallyisolatednelly7120
      @dfwsociallyisolatednelly7120 ปีที่แล้ว

      Christ!!

  • @paulbatiste2046
    @paulbatiste2046 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    THAT'S WHY I HAVE NO SYMPATHY FOR STUPID WOMEN THAT CAN'T DEAL WITH US RIGHTEOUS MEN ! WHEN THE LOSER THEY PICK MESSES THEM OVER THEN WE'RE SUPPOSE TO FELL SORRY FOR THEM ? HELL NO ! LET THEM REAP WHAT THEY SOW !

    • @revivedsoul1099
      @revivedsoul1099 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Tell em king. We DESERVE BETTER

    • @paulbatiste2046
      @paulbatiste2046 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@revivedsoul1099 THANK YOU SIR !

  • @bethelchris2016
    @bethelchris2016 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    "Maybe she died" 🤣🤣🤣

  • @eksquisite
    @eksquisite ปีที่แล้ว +30

    women just hate men they can't control. when she acts hot and cold with u it's cause she's exhausted with how much effort she has to put to keep you interested, chicks want a succesful man who is also a bluepilled nerd they can manipulate and gain ego points, it's all about control

  • @raylemar2386
    @raylemar2386 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    When I was stationed in Germany. Those girls was on it. My girlfriend fed me grapes, made my sandwiches, ironed my army uniforms gladly. I miss that level of attention.

    • @RoganClipsRUs
      @RoganClipsRUs ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mannnn stop lying, they don't make them like that no more.

    • @raylemar2386
      @raylemar2386 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@RoganClipsRUs it is well documented and widely known, that a certain part of the German female population, absolutely love BM. A handsome BM, with a POV could easily find a nice German girl to go out dancing with. If you had the right one, they loved you no matter what. Several of my friends stayed over there after leaving the military.

    • @andrewevans6826
      @andrewevans6826 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That life would sound so good.. must of felt nice

    • @raylemar2386
      @raylemar2386 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@andrewevans6826 ,. Even when Adolph Hitler was Chancellor, the German Girls in Berlin would mad crush the hotel room of Jesse Owens. Leaving him flowers, gifts and good will messages. Even as late as 1995, the German Girls we're known to seek and love their American BM. While hitting up a club, you could very easily have 3 or 4 admirers who would be willing to drive you back to their place for the entire weekend.

  • @MrMan-fx3ow
    @MrMan-fx3ow ปีที่แล้ว +97

    Man, you are speaking straight facts! We are damn near going through the same thing!!!!! I upgraded my lifestyle a lot within the past two years and I noticed a lot of the same patterns you’re speaking of. Got a nicer car, got my own place, got some really nice furniture, realistically I’m living better than most peoples parents are. But I’m still having trouble bedding the 8’s and 8.5‘s that I really want. Shit is ridiculous. A lot of these girls are broke and don’t necessarily have that much going on, but still try to act like they’re better than you. It’s really weird.

    • @thefitpackllc
      @thefitpackllc ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That’s honestly a fact. Thought I was tripping for a minute

    • @Goldenchild325
      @Goldenchild325 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Brothers don’t even try to figure them out or find out why they do the things that they do or pick the men that they pick. It’s best to go where you’re celebrated and don’t turn back. Do not listen to the dating coaches or the bitter feminists, who are two sides of the same coin, in my opinion, and just do you.

    • @thefitpackllc
      @thefitpackllc ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Goldenchild325 Totally get you.
      It’s because Americanized women know you’re too good for them and they have near nothing to offer these days.
      They’re afraid we’ll leave them for a more beautiful, dutiful lady.
      Sounds impossible, yet very true.
      We should just take it as a compliment and remember water seeks its own level…

    • @realitygamedesign
      @realitygamedesign ปีที่แล้ว

      Also keep in mind no one wants to say it but it is just general non stereotypical black men that are experiencing this. You can see every shape, size, poor and rich WM with women punching outside their weight class.

    • @rodericksutton2983
      @rodericksutton2983 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@realitygamedesign You just said a whole bunch of nothing

  • @sakethief9365
    @sakethief9365 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This is the realist Red pill I’ve ever heard. Straight up when I started making near $2k a week I hit these crazy droughts so many flakes. When i was delivering pizzas living with roommates I was rolling in the cut. Can’t make sense of it

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Man I had chicks coming over just to give me head when my bed was on the floor. When I got a nice frame it was hard to not get flaked on…

  • @Goldenchild325
    @Goldenchild325 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    I just came back from Thailand and I had a blast! It was mind blowing! I'm actually considering not dating women in the U.S. anymore. The juice ain't worth the squeeze. I'll be going back there later this year and Brazil early next year!

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Brazil for carnival? I’m there too if so I’m going every year. But when you said you aren’t dating American women anymore😂 I felt that one😂

    • @Goldenchild325
      @Goldenchild325 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@AustonHolleman I'm going in January for my birthday, me and my homie who recently separated from his wife. When is carnival?

    • @Goldenchild325
      @Goldenchild325 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@AustonHolleman I plan on going to the Philippines but if you want to visit an Asian country go to Thailand (Pattaya). People were saying that Philippines has a lot of poverty, and it's dirty over there, funny thing is Thai women I met in Thailand were telling me that!

    • @starzzzz527
      @starzzzz527 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What was your experience like bro? Im thinking of going asap

    • @Goldenchild325
      @Goldenchild325 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@starzzzz527 Thailand was great kind of like what Auston said about Brazil, locals are really friendly and you are out and about with the locals you don't have to be on the resort. There's a lot to write, I'd rather talk about it but I prefer Pattaya over Bangkok.

  • @shangodjango8997
    @shangodjango8997 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Just moved from Dallas and now in live in H-town. You ain't lying bro. Especially when you said $150k to $300k legally. It's all an illusion. Glad I found your videos. I definitely need to use this passport. Wish I'd known this at your age.... You're telling the absolute truth.

  • @SheedLordBear
    @SheedLordBear ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Makes perfect sense.. because now you preside over them and they know it. They know they can’t play with you

    • @greatbuilder100
      @greatbuilder100 ปีที่แล้ว

      They’re just predators. Modern women are looking for suckers. As much as masculinity turns them on it still threatens their feminist liberal ways which is why they’re intimidated by guys like that.

    • @ruebascu
      @ruebascu ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💯

  • @Hideyourjewelry
    @Hideyourjewelry ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Doesn’t matter what MEN Improve on. It’s Impossible to Impress Women now. They will find something wrong with you. “Too many guys want me” Social Media has fucked the dating world up. Ig, tiktok, snapchat, etc. all built for women to feel important. Now real men have to go elsewhere to feel appreciated sad 😞.

  • @reptilemark7346
    @reptilemark7346 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I hate that question... Why don't you have a girlfriend smh. I say " go figure" 🙄

  • @tylerross3822
    @tylerross3822 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That did it right there😂🤣🤣 when he said American women automatically think something is wrong with you once they find out that you all all the way fully single

  • @victormuhammad1393
    @victormuhammad1393 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You improve? Then get ready to move! Stay focused and leave the women in the United States alone.

  • @daveware4117
    @daveware4117 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This says everything you need to know about western women.
    This dude is good looking(no homo), intelligent, and is making decent money.....and he still needs to go oversees to find a woman.
    And meanwile, every woman on social media is crying "where have all the good men gone"
    You cant make this shit up!

  • @POSTONBEATS
    @POSTONBEATS ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Damn this crazy I thought this was only happening to me this shit is too real 🤜🏾🤛🏽💯

  • @BEAST_TNBE
    @BEAST_TNBE ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This is big big facts I thought it was just me I remember getting like three numbers in one week all of them just stop texting out the blue Now I just get money

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Facts bro

    • @canadianbrotv1303
      @canadianbrotv1303 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think the problem is man to woman ratio in the bigger cities, there are more men than there are women.. Also in the bigger cities women will choose their friends over a man for any little thing... Also social circle

  • @thatdamn-d-boyjames
    @thatdamn-d-boyjames ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I was telling folks the same thing and they thought I was lying…I got more kewchie when I lived with my mama or in an apartment…But once I got my self together and bought a house sh*t got much harder

  • @Pura_Vida_Vibes
    @Pura_Vida_Vibes ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I don’t know you but we have the same experience. When I traveled outside of the U.S, I noticed that the treatment from women was different. I don’t try to pursue women in America anymore. Keep creating content.

  • @justjay1337
    @justjay1337 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    this is FACTSSSSSSSSSSSSS
    before 2020, i was fatter, made less money and pulled more.
    now i clear 6 figs, look younger than i did at 23 AND THE STREETS IS DRY.
    i don't even get looks in public. not even THAT short, with sneakers on im 5'10..and nothing dude.
    if i use apps, its only like sub 4s that are huge.
    why work so hard...FOR THAT?
    im good.

  • @CbusRon
    @CbusRon ปีที่แล้ว +18

    What’s funny is I was thinking about getting my own apartment to live a regular life but nope I’m traveling the world first and business class half the year from now on. No reason to do all that for American women.

    • @enhancedutility266
      @enhancedutility266 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Don't get apartment get you a cargo van and live in it and save Major money

  • @shaluwakirsty7543
    @shaluwakirsty7543 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is really ironic, we are out here looking for men that are Willing to put in the work and improve them selves and these men are sitting on there asses but want a relationship with you. And to hear that some women are turning down men that are actually doing it😕

  • @dannytanner82
    @dannytanner82 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I just moved to Dallas from Atlanta last month. I've already see it's bullshit out here. Been flaked on twice already. I'm beyond considering giving up on dating.

    • @James_150
      @James_150 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Look at those black women of African origin

    • @marlothedobermantv6992
      @marlothedobermantv6992 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Atlanta dating scene is much better than Dallas but at the end of the day they both suck

    • @James_150
      @James_150 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@marlothedobermantv6992 uhn I don’t know how I feel about that 😃

    • @JohnJohn-xs5ru
      @JohnJohn-xs5ru ปีที่แล้ว

      @@James_150 thats the problem

    • @erikwilliams8822
      @erikwilliams8822 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Travel bro. They do not cap when it's difference.i was in France and the women there are sooooooodifferent and sweet. I'm in Saudi Arabia rn and it's even better. These women made to be wives and hoe culture is almost non existent over here. They are so polite and helpful. Japan is next

  • @cworld8896
    @cworld8896 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    It’s crazy that you brought this up because I thought I was the only one.
    It seems like I was getting more attention with the ladies when I had a average apartment and with the old beater car. And struggling from paycheck to paycheck.
    But it seems like I start losing that attention with women in America, When I started to upgrade. Finally getting a job that pays good money. Upgrading from an apartment to a house. And upgrading mine Hooptie to a brand new car,buying nice clothes and smelling good. And I just knew that I was gonna have a mob of women around me after I upgraded.
    Nope!!!
    Now I feel like Bruce Wayne on Batman

  • @bernardwade8096
    @bernardwade8096 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Bruh you young suppose to want sex I'm 43 with 2 kids I've ran through so many women I got bored sex ain't a big deal to me. You doing right don't limit yourself to the women in the U.S. when you have a whole planet full of women you can date.

  • @JARRSTARRTV_RADIO
    @JARRSTARRTV_RADIO ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I Ghost ALL Women in the Matrix by having my U. S.PASSPORT! I play Casper the friendly Ghost on ALL WOMEN IN THE MATRIX! POP!

  • @victormuhammad1393
    @victormuhammad1393 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The more money you make the more women you will have available to you… to use you and waste your time for a moment. Once they realize you ain’t tricking they out

  • @Josh2DaBeckett
    @Josh2DaBeckett ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Guys who have their shit together is a red flag because they think those guys are ready to settle, which is what they don’t want; they want to keep riding the carousel.

  • @kfalco
    @kfalco ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I've learned a long time ago, women don't go for dudes on their purpose because they can't see how they benefit a guy who has everything and is independent.ie.bring nothing to the table. Women go for the ballers cause of money and allure even though they know the guy is cheating. And also, go for thugs because it's the easier for them to settle with on their level, not because of the unpredictability lifestyle. These women need a build-a-boo to control at heart.

    • @eksquisite
      @eksquisite ปีที่แล้ว

      chicks just want the thrill of manipulating a man , they hate top 1% men cause these men know their tricks and dont fall for them

  • @carlforpresidentanthony4574
    @carlforpresidentanthony4574 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I never say "Dodged a Bullet" i say " It's Her loss not mines" why cuz theres a new 18 year old soon to be 21 and grown every single day

  • @showspotter
    @showspotter ปีที่แล้ว +5

    can confirm dude. hit 90k a couple years ago, options didnt improve any. no i didnt become a different intolerable person. things are just so *** backwards in 2022 that even tho that should make her look up to you or admire you or your hustle - now it just makes them feel inferior, as if theyre supposed to do just as much a you., this is what feminism instilled in them.

  • @boblashed1012
    @boblashed1012 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    When I was in the army as an enlisted “swine” as we used to call it, I got the bulk of my tinder matches back then. The reason I say that is because I was broke as fuck, living in the barracks and I was just not as smart with money or as mature or well versed as I am now. During that time in the service I also had a 2 year long relationship and soon as I got out of that relationship and left the army I started going back to school for engineering and slowly started to improve myself more and more in the gym and become more intelligent and just a well rounded guy with life experienced, stories, etc. THATS when I slowly stopped getting female attention and less matches/dates on dating apps. I said f it and deleted my dating apps and now I’m devoted full time to getting my money up and enjoying life until I meet a female who I deem worthy of my attention. No more giving it up for free, Godspeed fellas.

    • @oftengone
      @oftengone ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Guys that give it up for free are Ruining it for the rest of us. Appreciate your comment broski good luck to you

    • @SoulOctavius
      @SoulOctavius ปีที่แล้ว

      Travel brother. Please travel. You deserve happiness and the best woman!

  • @winningwithwells
    @winningwithwells ปีที่แล้ว +45

    This is 1000 percent true! I’m in Houston and my boys and I make between 90-150k legally and it’s tough. But mane we went down to Costa Rica and life was completely different

    • @winningwithwells
      @winningwithwells ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Michael Elam it will help but just not on the level you would typically expect

    • @realtruth1448
      @realtruth1448 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@winningwithwells you speaking facts bruh..... dudes think once they start making good money they’ll get women easier, yes it’ll be easier, but not what you think, women basically are attracted to the lifestyle, not the actual money, so even if you make a lot of money, it won’t draw women in like you think, unless you like flex 5 figures cash arrogantly on social media, but at that point it becomes risky

    • @winningwithwells
      @winningwithwells ปีที่แล้ว

      @@realtruth1448 this is true!

    • @DontheP97
      @DontheP97 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Dating market in Houston so ass it’s ridiculous. Made me hate going out in the city, the people here make it unbearable

  • @consul_pun
    @consul_pun ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bruhhhh speaking facts the higher you get the more insecure they get and it shows it shows

  • @darksole2585
    @darksole2585 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I actually attracted more women when I used to be skinny fat, and my face used to be round. Fast forward I got my jawline right, lost face fat, cleared out my hyperpigmentation on my skin and got a better job but I seen to attract a lot less women than I did before when I did any work. Women in the states are weird ngl.

    • @andrewevans7992
      @andrewevans7992 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because most women in yhe states are losers and extremely insecure.. they want someone that looks “worse” then they do in their minds. They know they don’t deserve bettter

  • @IGamingStation
    @IGamingStation ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Guys like Justin Waller and Andrew Tate had touched on this subject. The moment you become a high value man, women start to get that these guys have options. A guy with options will not settle for just one woman, so I think most women either become insecure and don't deal with you or they'll just play more games "How do I know you won't leave me?" Or "you'll just replace me with someone else." You could get away with being in decent shape and having gmae, but once you get that high status, it'll get to a point where you're doing P4P.

    • @Josh2DaBeckett
      @Josh2DaBeckett ปีที่แล้ว

      Andrew Tate said that? Do you have a link?

  • @makaveli444
    @makaveli444 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As a guy from the dfw as well, NOT one lie was told,They either want a rich nigga,a nigga who likes they kids,or you gotta own that SCAT PACK/be a Hood doctor; its a lose lose game; im not even goin mention the weight differences cuz yall goin call it slander;the mindset of some people in the area be poor ASF

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "The Hood Doctor" MAN. I swear that was accurate af. They want you to be a criminal and a professional at the same time.

  • @treal9988
    @treal9988 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Damn he not lying I’m on my way of doing 150k this year and it’s been a drought and I’m opening my 4th business but I realize these women don’t care one bit which is fine and I’ve been told by OG’s to travel

  • @raymondezell7817
    @raymondezell7817 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He said they’re not your real friends…promise you…facts 😂

  • @rybackfrankie8679
    @rybackfrankie8679 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Half Carribean half African handsome and fit/muscular brutha from upper middle class in his late 20's here. While many women find me attractive, approach me, and fuck with me, many of them also find me hard to deal with because I have standards and I don't take shit. I travel a lot and this is what I found out : The thing is that many women - particularly black women - are too used to struggle love, drama, chaotic and toxic relationships that when they meet or date a black man who is at the same time attractive, has his shit together and has no time to waste, they don't know how to maneuver and move in the relationship. So, yes many sabotage the relationship or try to put you through some tests. Why ? Because these women are not sure they can manipulate you, control you or that you're gonna tolerate all their BS and drama like the not succesful yet/broke dudes, pookies and ray rays with a lot of time and energy to waste or the ones who have a scarcity mindset. And let's not forget most of these women whatever they say are used to deal with these type of guys the most. Many women don't know nothing else than tumultuous and toxic relationships to the point of almost looking like masochistic lol. Most times, it's not that they don't want you, it's that they're scared to not have much leverage on you, not being able to act a fool and live that BS with you. Because deep down they know you would and should kick them to the curb quick as a man who knows he has a lot of options. And trust me, they would advice their sons or brothers to do the same if they were in your shoes. So once you improve yourself bruthas, stop approaching these women and only give them your time when they approach you at first instead. Only approach the real gems who really value time and energy and don't need to play silly games because of some insecurities whenever they're overseas or in your country.

    • @bajerian9951
      @bajerian9951 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same bro bajan and nigerian here and I encounter the same ish. If you stand up to them and let them know you're not messing around it scares a lot of them away. They want simps who let them do whatever.

    • @rybackfrankie8679
      @rybackfrankie8679 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bajerian9951 💯

  • @Frank-H
    @Frank-H ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Great videos, I'm working on myself for me, getting my finances together so I can travel overseas, better to spend $1500-$2000 enjoying a trip than spend money on some dinner dates.

  • @gideonacheampong6652
    @gideonacheampong6652 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is facts i got more girls when i was homeless but once i leveled up these girls went ghost 😂 a lot of women want to be able to control and manipulate you but once you level up they feel like they can’t do that no more because they know you would drop them fast

  • @RichBoyRaz
    @RichBoyRaz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Try to keep in mind that a lot of these women know their worth (or lack of it).
    Many have been molested, been run through, or just well KNOWN in the hood. They want someone on their level. Don't let their appearance trick you.

  • @jalenjohnson6608
    @jalenjohnson6608 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Facts! I wondered what I was doing wrong. Thank you!

  • @onceuponarevenant9409
    @onceuponarevenant9409 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Funny thing is that the same texting situation he is talking about happened to me ago, it been a whole week and 2 days since we texted eachother.

  • @APsGTG
    @APsGTG ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It’s women projecting what they’d do onto us. They think that if they ignore us then we’ll wanna chase them because they see us as too good for just they as themselves to qualify for us.
    When a man ignores a woman, regardless of where that man is in quality, the woman will have some interest because they usually have validation but currently they’re not getting the validation from this one guy and they’ll think “what’s different about this guy? There’s something different. What’s wrong with me? Omg I gotta get his attention. Everybody else gives me attention what’s different with this guy?”
    This works on women because it’s how they think. But they see us as higher on the totem pole than they are and do what works on them on us. And it fails miserably. A lot of American women don’t think (in some cases, they’re correct) enough to offer a high value man to make that man want to be with them for who they are. And so they have to try and raise their own value with all this bs thinking we’ll be intrigued because it works on them.
    American women are at a true divorcement from what it is that men want or who men even really are. They think they have to play games in order to stand out to a man. They want a high value man to chase their tail. It’s mass delusion.

  • @rogerbennett9598
    @rogerbennett9598 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Lol I had that same thing when I was in my late 20s hood looking dude no kids ( I’m 49 and married now) but back then I had my own house and went through the same problems lol ( this was back in 2005) . Take ‘em out take them to the house and never hear from them again lol… I thought it was me but they were just crazy 😝

  • @tallandhandsome1073
    @tallandhandsome1073 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Everything you said is exactly correct

  • @MountainChad
    @MountainChad ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have had the best experiences with African and Asian women, Kenyan and Chinese women are just built different

  • @scottallen6970
    @scottallen6970 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Going through this. What the absolute fik

  • @metalxmetalxmetalxmetalx
    @metalxmetalxmetalxmetalx ปีที่แล้ว +7

    2 used to dating bums. got way more success living wit my mom.

  • @JARRSTARRTV_RADIO
    @JARRSTARRTV_RADIO ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Welcome to the Club Uncle Auston you are 100% on the Point! The women will Ghost You!

  • @TreasureA11Gold
    @TreasureA11Gold ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The crazy part about it dating life is like this in Dallas one of the coolest major cities in The U.S.
    When I got into my career it was 10x harder dating than when I was working a warehouse job.
    It was like the women wanted me to chase more and prove something. Just talking to women was a power struggle unless I tried younger (7-10) years younger or not so attractive women. Crazyy

  • @richandclean
    @richandclean ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Peace to you youngers that caught onto the game early and started improving yourself, youre really gonna see how crazy these women are 😅

  • @suppeeman0
    @suppeeman0 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Spitting facts. Literally upgraded almost every aspect of my life and women literally acted different but they either see you now as “husband guy” or they know they aren’t up to the level. But I mostly date foreign women or travel. Issue solved

  • @Aboriginal_American_Hebrew
    @Aboriginal_American_Hebrew ปีที่แล้ว +7

    One Mississippi chick I mess with sex was effing great, conversation…. I’d never introduce to my pops if he where alive, smh I backed a away from her an her issues after a while I got irritated

  • @thevisionary5699
    @thevisionary5699 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You should do a video on the struggles of short kings. 💪

  • @knatxkyngxkoldofficialpage3020
    @knatxkyngxkoldofficialpage3020 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    “SeX iSnt EvErYThInG” Yeah how tf did you get here then?!?!

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Facts

    • @Dev1cted
      @Dev1cted ปีที่แล้ว +4

      LMAOOOO FACTS! mind if I use this ?😂

    • @canadianbrotv1303
      @canadianbrotv1303 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lol not only that , why u got a friends with benefits or Tyrone but out/ talking with me. Alot of double dipping...

  • @austinjuarez
    @austinjuarez ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed this. Thank you for this video.

  • @festivisionstudios8789
    @festivisionstudios8789 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm locked in on this content bro keep pushing

  • @justinsandolph4861
    @justinsandolph4861 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Bro I have to go multiple fucking years without sex plus am a Christian so I can't even have sex till am married but oh wait marriage is starting to become dead in America bro my head hurts just going through all this bullshit

    • @chrisharris2367
      @chrisharris2367 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just go out and find a wife
      A man that is single is that way because he either has bad hygiene, is corny, broke, or too lazy to find a wife and pursue a woman
      Even with all those things combined he could still get a woman because now we women are throwing ourselves at men
      This society is so messed up

  • @chuckeb21
    @chuckeb21 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Bruhh jakarta, Indonesia… kuala lampur, Malaysia … Manila, Philippines… Cartagena, Colombia.. I’ve never been to Brazil but these are places I’ve been where I had to pinch myself because of how great the women were!! Add them to your list fam

  • @dwaynereynolds5004
    @dwaynereynolds5004 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    FACTS ON TOP OF FACTS 💯💯

  • @oftengone
    @oftengone ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bro you're so funny and informative keep it up mane 🙏. Appreciate it

  • @daquansoutherland2532
    @daquansoutherland2532 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanking God For this info

  • @roderquizsmith8300
    @roderquizsmith8300 ปีที่แล้ว

    Man you are the truth keep on moving up

  • @pharxahghxst3654
    @pharxahghxst3654 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow can definitely relate

  • @daquansoutherland2532
    @daquansoutherland2532 ปีที่แล้ว

    Preach! Preach! Preach!

  • @tybeentrill3748
    @tybeentrill3748 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is depressing

  • @madimaseradi
    @madimaseradi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Facts word for word!

  • @SheedLordBear
    @SheedLordBear ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Like your channel bro.. your vids are natural and you have an organic presence

  • @ChrisDeVarro
    @ChrisDeVarro 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lol 😂 enjoying the throwback videos

  • @wislerdesir5080
    @wislerdesir5080 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can relate to that brother

  • @blackridlar
    @blackridlar 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love bro 😂 everything is 💯💯💯 he talking about

  • @vettie
    @vettie ปีที่แล้ว +1

    he preaching.

  • @DeionRoss
    @DeionRoss ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Man I agree with bro so much I can’t wait to move to South Africa Capetown or Brazil and I def agree with people and they dumbass shaming tactics talm bout sex ain’t everything well shit it is to me

  • @jediskyyrokker1136
    @jediskyyrokker1136 ปีที่แล้ว

    Btw Austin barring any weird shadow bans you are the king of this space now and the immediate future it’s not hard to see.

  • @ernestturay5721
    @ernestturay5721 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Facts bro, and this shit ain't just happening in the US, it's like it here in the UK too

  • @ToolDeals
    @ToolDeals 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    LOL, same experience for me.

  • @billyjenkins3672
    @billyjenkins3672 ปีที่แล้ว

    THIS! I swore it was me😂😂😂

  • @jalenwillingham2
    @jalenwillingham2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Finally someone I can fucking relate to. I used to real life think sum was wrong w me sometimes but nah It’s really that bad

  • @ricomontana3819
    @ricomontana3819 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm in Cebu Philippines right now after spending the last two years in Thailand; I can vouch for both places they know how to treat a man in South east Asia.

  • @gameb4bed772
    @gameb4bed772 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I went out with a beautiful Brazilian chick I met in NY. She just moved to NYC six months when I met her. She didn't even speak English, and let me tell you that was the best dating experience I ever had.

  • @KelAda44
    @KelAda44 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Answer: nothing because it's never enough for American women; keep doing you young wolf.

  • @HesitationIsDefeat99
    @HesitationIsDefeat99 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mans just explained my whole life story

  • @azraelfirstofhisname8695
    @azraelfirstofhisname8695 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lol this video was funny sad but true

  • @Jazzclub101
    @Jazzclub101 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Bro Caribbean influenced fully by the US
    most Caribbean girls exactly the same when ur a bum or dusty no prob
    When u improve yourself drought comes
    You work on your game and become a selfish dog and u end up smashing and getting the girls u want but they don't have substance or add to u
    So what I have found is if u look for women who have a rich family structure mum and dad and who has the right progressive real guenuine friends around her then move from there
    Getting a girlfriend or seeking a wife has been strategic.........
    Kevin Samuels is alive and well........