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Question, what if he has all of these signs but he also is very sexually suggestive and touchy but no sex...? When questioned, he just wants to be friends.
Do you have a video that addresses the guy who moves fast to have sex then slows down? You mentioned something similar earlier in the video but I can't find the link.
@@MeetStephanSpeaks well, he gives me a lot of vent time whenever I need and encourages me let it out, being a great listener but he never calls or initiates asking me out. We can text back & forth all day, almost everyday. Phone conversation can go beyond 1hr. He does answered my calls whenever time. So can I only assume he’s just being a nice hommie?
@@cynthiab8377 Maybe his finances are not correct, or there is a third party. When someone has shown you who they are, so they are. He is very attentive, yet he has other things going on in his life and having a relationship is not in his timing.
Sometimes us women need to slow down and give a man a chance to be chivalrous. We are quick to open the restaurant door, quick to walk to the car. We are so used to doing things for ourselves that we forget to slow down and allow him to do it!
I did this leaving a restaurant I was first and opened the door. He told me to come back in the restaurant, step to the side and allow him to open the door for me. He said this is how it's done. That made me melt inside. I'm always learning
He is into you when he doesn't ask for sex & instead ask questions to get to know you on a deeper level and answer your questions also. He is consistent. He will reach out to you also. He will be an open book.
Nah, he doesn’t have to be an open book. People need to minimally know each other before broaching certain topics, not everything can be said right from the start. Also, everyone has a secret garden, and that is healthy, so you could spend a lifetime with someone and still not know everything, simply because you don’t need to, they don’t need you to, and because knowing them should have no bearing on the relationship. And everyone’s pace opening up is different.
I hate dating these days. Its so many rules, so much you have to look out for, so many signs… nothing black and white. Dating sure is not how our grandmother and grandfathers used to be. I know I deserve a man that is all in and wants me in their life… but sometimes I just want to give up and remain alone.
@@EShavonRichardson Girl Me Too… ppl all in relationships. I feel like asking them how?!? Where did y’all find each other. The dating game is trash these days. Tired 🥱 of it!
@@EShavonRichardson Amen Luv! God knows our heart. All we can do is take care of us. What is for us is for us and it will not pass us by. I know there are good men out here and hopefully 🙏 soon God will send them our way. Have a good week ahead sis.
If a man is unable to communicate effectively I take that as a sign of incompatibility. Communication is paramount in a relationship. If I have to guess I’m not interested. Say what you mean, mean what you say!
How do you know it’s a matter of ability? Has it occurred to you that it is your reactions to his opening up to you that caused him to clam up? That maybe he IS able to communicate but that you might be blocking him from doing so? Yes, communication is paramount. But no one said that YOUR communication preferences should dominate. And the mere fact that you do communicate doesn’t speak at all to the quality of your communication. He is much more likely to respond well to "You seem preoccupied. What’s wrong?" than to "Are you pissed at me?" I say this because your comment sounds a lot like a demand. People don’t respond well to demands.
The guy I'm talking to has put what seem to be a schedule when we should be able to talk again. He would cut it off after 1-2 nights of facetime. We're in a long distance too. I don't know how to ask for clarity in this area at least the perfect question that wouldn't sound desperate or demanding to him. I'd appreciate some advice. 😊
If you are looking for signs, you should ask yourself: is he worth it? Is he worth stressing over, and constantly analyzing the situation. Maybe even feeling insecure. Bottom line is that if he likes you, he WILL let you know. Don’t stress yourself boo, the man God has for you WILL let you know.. You at least deserve that!
Dated on and off for a year and then I informed him the his free subscription to access my energy had expired and that he needed to make a purchase. 😂 Haven’t seen the man this much since meeting him 😂💗
If a guy is into you *YOU WILL KNOW.* It’s that simple. Don’t read into it, don’t make excuses, and accept what’s being shown to you and ask if that’s really enough. Think about it: Do the people who make you feel the happiest, wether that’s friends or family, ever make you doubt that they like you? No, they consistently show you that they value you and want you around because they want a genuine connection. Don’t expect any less from a potential partner
They can be into you all they want. I think the problem is that’s where it stops. There’s usually no action past them being “into you”. That’s why women are left confused.
@@pocahontas4583 Then they’re not actually into you. They might like you, but it’s not enough for them to put in the work. They’ll show you that you’re the prize because men are more action/reward driven. They like putting in the sweat and tears for their jobs and cars because they see the reward in pursuing it. So if he’s only half-assing with you then you’re not what he’s fully looking for
@@noface3928I disagree. I personally have difficulty expressing my feelings, I get really nervous when I start falling for someone, so for some of us it just takes longer to feel comfortable enough to show someone we are into them. *edit* Of course I’m talking about initial stages of dating not when you’ve already been in a committed relationship for months and you still feel unsure about where he stands.
@@tb5124 Even with difficulty in expressing feelings I can guarantee it will show in your actions by how much you invest into the person. Often when people are confused it’s because there’s both a lack of effort in action and emotional expression, but there’s just tad bits of “interest.”
I'm watching this video after I confessed my feelings to a friend. He rejected me, but it was a necessary process. Feelings needs to be processed if you want to overcome it. Highly recommend to express your feelings for clarity
I need to do this with my bikini comp coach- but if I ask him and rejected I don't want to F up the bond we have in training me- he gives me hints he is into me but idk if I'm reading into it too much
Wow, bingo!!! I was in a situation way before I got married where I was seeing a guy I loved. I mean I fell hard for this guy but I couldn't understand his feelings for me. He would never tell me how he felt about me. So I stopped analyzing him and stop figuring him out. Moving on was the best thing for me because I was blessed to have a real relationship of love and communication with my now husband. I tell you ladies from my experience when the right man comes along you will no it. It's love like no other
I’ve been dating a man that does all these things, but then told me he was still unsure if we’re meant to be friends … I was stunned. It’s like I got hit in the gut. We’ve known each other too long for him not to know. I walked away from him for my own sanity. It still hurts. I really believed he was my person.
@@sheamc1 He did come back, but I ended up sabotaging it by interrogating him after he said he missed me. I wanted him to communicate what he meant before … I also think maybe I was too blunt with some other things I said and ended up pushing him away again. I told him I couldn’t keep doing this anymore if he couldn’t communicate…The exact opposite of what I wanted happened. He walked away. This has been tearing me up, no lie. But I have to accept things I guess. I’m not sure if I should go after him or let him go. It’s taking everything I have not to go after him. I love him so much. But I also feel if he truly valued me, he wouldn’t have left.
Update for anyone this might help- After a lot of time to reflect, (and by the way he did come back again … but it didn’t work) love isn’t this hard guys. If the man loves you, he will come back and cherish every moment he lost. He will never want to lose you again. Love isn’t perfect, but real love works together, it doesn’t leave you wondering or guessing and it shouldn’t leave you more sad than happy. Trust these words as I speak them from heart wrenching experience. Trust your instincts. You know, the ones you suppress to justify the illogical. I don’t know the person who’s reading this but I care about you anyway. No one deserves to go through this for absolutely nothing. And if you do, and are strong enough, share some advice for the next person. I hope this helps someone.
We were together for a year his job pulled him to another state! We see each other once a month and are on the phone every night before bed for at least 1 1/2 hrs. He makes time for me for sure!! 🥰
@@MeetStephanSpeaks of course!! I listen to you always and I appreciate you and all that you share! It has gotten me thru some stuff trying to process it all!! Thank you!!! 🙏🏽🥰
@@MeetStephanSpeaks You're welcome Yes it is because like this it would avoid so much in advance You know I know it's hard and we don't want to hear certain things but as best in the long run for both
I had a friend like that. But I was fearful of ruining our friendship. Everyone else kept asking. Even my mother asked me what’s going on. I was like he is just my friend. He made me respect him highly. So then I became fearful and when he did tell me. He had just gotten engaged. Then all of my emotions came running out. Till this day I still love him. I just pray he is happy and he is safe.
It’s called “taking a leap of faith” you know you want to , your intuition is telling you, you’ve even prayed about it but you still can’t quite bring yourself to do it .
@@ashleyjohnson3939 he called me every day and we went out often as well as spending time at home. He invited me to spend time with him and he introduced me to his family. I still didn't see that he was serious about me because we were under the "dating" label and I was expecting more.
@@ashleyjohnson3939 yes you're right. I believe whoever is meant for me will dig in and be unmoved unless I do the unforgivable. But since I'm doing the work to better myself, God is extending me grace and I feel He will give him the patience and grace to extend to me as well.
I told a guy at work that I had a crush on him. His reaction wasn't what I expected. His face did light up...he seemed very flattered. He didn't tell me that he liked me back. He just pushed the conversation to discussing work stuff. Eventually I bowed out of the convo. He has been different with me. More quiet. He ended up talking to me this evening when it was just us. I decided to be ok no matter what happened...
I meet someone about 3 weeks and everyday he is constantly communicating with me, checking on me, he FaceTime’s me every day because our job schedule is challenging right now, he is very consistent, he shows his mom and his brother my pictures but he is moving slower than I am used to. We went on one date and it was wonderful and he wants to see me when it’s not his weekend with his son. I am loving the pace we are at because we seem to be on the same page. I do believe is scared due to past relationship’s and I have been in a horrible relationship before I really think you should take things slow because it can make a difference. I thank you for me clarifying this man is into me.
I know men and women are afraid of being hurt and played for a fool but we gotta learn to be open and honest with transparent communication from men and women to stop with the BS. Great video and good responses from the ladies too.
Relationships should not be a mystery. Transparency, consistency and intentions are paramount. It either is or it isn’t…friends, friends w/benefits…you always have the choice of what YOU accept. Don’t settle…believe what he shows you…trust your intuition and read the room 😉
Yes moving too slow and over thinking the situation with her can cause her to go on about her business and she could have been very interested in the man , and i’m not talking about Hurry up with sexual moves I mean with romance communication Ect ……
@@ashleyjohnson9693 Lol Yes We do have the same name ~ so do U have someone special that's being consistent with U? Me 🤷♀️🤦♀️😂 Seems I've bn consistent for the wrong one!
I really like these points. It’s nerve racking & difficult to express how you feel but I agree it’s so necessary to communicate it as it’s better to know where you stand than to be tormented with the thoughts of what could have been ❤️
@@mureelane78 AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT ! GREAT INSPIRING AMAZING STRONG POWERFUL POSITIVE WORDS OF WISDOM! YES INDEED! GOD BLESS! GOD LOVES ! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! SMILE ALWAYS!( EVEN IN STORMS THAT U GO THRU!) PRAY ALWAYS! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD HAS US COVERED! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS! AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! OCT2021
Men and Women show and prove when they're really in to you! Fear and the inability to let go of past situations could be blinding them from being vulnerable, but generally we're gonna go hard for those we want in our space.
I agreed with point number 3, money is a love language. I remember my ldr bf always say if there's anything I need whether be it money or anything he would love to help. That made me feel he's really serious about me
Yes consistency , adores you and be there when needed, especially listens to you. extra stuff they do .. open the door, bring flowers, decorate living room, trying look into eyes, make plans with you. Boys mostly show clear signs, if they are not able to show... he is not strong enough to handle you or love. You deserve a good guy and a good communicator. If he don’t communicate, you can’t have connection on bed or problem solver etc.
Your videos are so wonderful and comforting and empowering. Regarding this conversation, I was raised in dysfunction and experienced domestic abuse for years, so I just wanted to remind folks like me that our perception of the "right" speed might be totally unhealthy. It could be that someone wanting to let things progress naturally and not force anything on us or love bomb us feels almost *boring* or just way too slow, but in reality we need to reprogram our brains out of these dysfunctional cycles. I had to learn to let good things happen to me and to feel like I deserved them as well. Wishing you all the love and fulfillment you deserve ❤️
Wow 😭😭😭 a guy told me that he see himself spending the rest of his life with me and I acted like I didn’t hear him 🤪😩... I am afraid 😱 to share my heart again
Money is the key for me. The word says where your TREASURE is there will your heart be also. He's more invested in the relationship if he's spending that mula
My coworker crush recently for the first time ever, grabed both my shoulders and sqeezed slightly during conversation and lingered holding my shoulders after he was done with his sentence, I was like why is he still holding me ????
Thank you for the bonus…transparency is important. Women should be vulnerable too. Clarity creates a better understanding about how to move forward. Thanks for another great video!
Stephen, I wish I would have found your videos 7 months ago. It sucks but everything you mentioned here on this video is what I have been going through for the past 7 months with the guy I just broke up with yesterday. I feel like I wasted so much time that I invested on him just to find out he wasn't the best person for me. Now comes the healing part.
“ Procrastination is the life that you could if had”. Saw it posted on Instagram. It spoke to me because what you mentioned towards the end is a bit similar to what I’ve experienced. A very hard lesson indeed. I appreciate you sharing your knowledge and valuable wisdom. Thank you!
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GREAT INSPIRING AMAZING STRONG POWERFUL POSITIVE WORDS OF WISDOM! YES INDEED! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! SMILE ALWAYS!( EVEN IN STORMS THAT U GO THRU!) HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD HAS US COVERED! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS! AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! SMILE ALWAYS!( EVEN IN STORMS THAT U GO THRU!) GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! OCT2021
Good morning real good man will sacrifice too make you happy n ask what you need help with n what ‘s your future goals . A real good man will put god first in his life n also put you properity , help with the bills , keep gas in your car n repairs , take you work on his off days , send you roses , communcation is the key ! A real good man will work too bone make should everything is good !
@@rashawntaylor4316 AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GREAT INS!PIRING AMAZING STRONG POWERFUL POSITIVE WORDS OF WISDOM! YES INDEED! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE ! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! SMILE ALWAYS!( EVEN IN STORMS THAT U GO THRU!) HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD HAS US COVERED ! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS! AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS! AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS ! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE u NOR FORSAKE u! SMILE ALWAYS! ( EVEN IN STORMS THAT U GO THRU!) PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! NOV2021
Thank you for taking on this subject. I spoke last week on one of your videos that I have known the guy for over 2 years, about six dates and we are moving really slow. I definitely know he is my friend and confides his deepest thoughts to me. I love hearing him talk because he makes me think about different perspectives. He does initiate communication at least 10 times a week. He works nights and I work days. He works weekends and I work weekdays. When we do go out, it is for an entire day when we both have a day off. Sometimes we take his kids and sometimes we don't. We see each other for a quick bite once or twice a week when I get off work and he is headed to work.
I really like what you were talking about. However, this past 6 months I had this person that did everything on your list. I bought him a gift for his birthday and he said that he didn't deserve it and I haven't heard from him since. He said he would return the gift but to this day hasn't. He said he loved me, introduced me to his children and grandchildren friends. We talked twice a day everyday.
Sounds like either he was just trying to get the gift ( yes...they will use family etc). I don't know if it was expensive. But, also I know some men get overwhelmed and don't know how to repay or feel that they really have to step it up a notch and they're not ready. Hopefully, nothing tragic happened. It would have been great for him to finalize things instead of ghosting.
THE GUY IM SEEING IS IN THE ARMY & OUR Spiritual CONNECTION IS AMAZING 😍🥰HES IN Deployment , I LOVE OUR LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP !!! WE HAVE BEEN TALKING FOR A SHORT TIME...BUT WE NEVER MISS A DAY !! THE LONGER HES AWAY...OUR LOVE GETS STRONGER & Stronger !!
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏 You will find my video on how to make a long-distance relationship work interesting. Check it out here 👉 th-cam.com/video/5nmt6OapuO0/w-d-xo.html
Communication. Speak to each other. Fix the problem...or just do the thing! Communication breaks grounds, so you can actually start to build. You're speaking facts, sir 💯
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I do not enjoy dating, it doesn't feel very natural to me. I know it's part of the process, but it's exhausting. I can only ask a man what his interests are so many times. I will definitely consider everything you have said. Thank you for replying back to me and God bless you.
It's the holding back part for me. I have a male friend that I have been friends with since 1994 and we are still friends. Long story short, he's been married, divorced, in a long term relationship, he told me years ago he only saw me as his friend, and I have kept that with me since. We are still close, but I'm not putting myself out there to him anymore, being rejected that one time was enough for me.
Thanks. I needed to hear that @6:05 it's been two years that we been talking or rather texting and he has made NO EFFORT to meet face to face. Even tho I have asked and asked. So that's it, I'm done.
Wow you described the guy I am dating 100%. You addressed many of my thoughts about is he in to me even though he does not make moves physically in two months. He checks off every one of the traits you mentioned. Thank you. I was over analyzing this thing A lot.😁
I love how you 'Get straight to the point unlike some other youtubers.i just watch a video he took 16:55 minute to get to the point😊and even then it was still a bit vague.🔥❤
Yes....DONT BE AFRAID. Afraid of what?? Ladies...love like u nvr have before!!! Sing your lungs out. Dance like no one is watching and live in the moment!!! Love him..tell him.. itttsss okkkkk... Let it out!!! Just do it(just like Nike) 🤣🤣🤣🤣👍 Express it!!!!!!🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 I'm not afraid of many things...fear just slows me down.
That was very CLEAR. I guess nothing beats communication, no matter what the outcome may be, but just knowing the other person is aware of what you want as an individual is so important. Making the right decision is always the hardest! Also, the biggest part, is to pray when in doubt. Thanks Stephan ☺💕
You're absolutely right, communication is definitely key, and always ensure you address matters in a calm loving positive manner and let your partner know how you feel about that particular matter ❤ 🙏
Thanks Stephan this was a very much needed and on time video. CLARITY V.S. CONFUSION. No one wants to be, Nor should be confused when it comes to affairs of the heart. MEN DONT BE AFRAID TO PUT YOURSELF OUT THERE. HERES WHY, YOU MAY BE THAT TIMELY BREATHE OF FRESH AIR THAT WOMAN NEEDS RIGHT NOW. I have a friend I'm very interested in and even see him as So much more. I prayed about it God said he's moving slow out of fear in making sure it's done right. Nothing wrong with doing things in decency and order and out of a genuine respect for that friend. I Know that the friendship path can be a struggle as it may be different than what we're used to but can be necessary for various reasons. My friend wants me to open up and I want the same from him, but more importantly I want to open up to him and share for a greater clarity. If he wants to see me more physically I'm down with that cause I be wanting to see him too. All he has to do is say the word. Connection with your friend is overwhelming enough without confusion, and can be very scary at times for either person. You touched on chivalry and I love it. I encourage it from men who are interested in that special woman. I LOVE HIS CONSISTENCY ITS ATTRACTIVE AND REASSURING WHEN IM IN DOUBT, BUT MORE COMMUNICATION AND SEEING ONE ANOTHER IS NEEDED that maybe what's needed for them both to open up and relax. To just get together have some fun and enjoy each other's company. stephanspeaksrelationships Thank you for this video it's a big help and gives us women more clarity.💯❤😍#supermangetmovingsheneedsaheronow
Needed this, I’m in a long distance friendship and it’s rough we haven’t seen each other in 4 months and at times it can be really difficult to connect and stay in tune with each other and trying to see other consistently and trying to find our rhythm and flow to stay connected and still having a life outside of us as well that’s key💯.
Mine has all the traits you mentioned apart from consistency. I have not spoken about my feelings, but I' ve been smiling him a lot and let him know I' d be glad to see him again. I tended to be suspicious. Now I feel relieved. Thank you Stephan! He' s always been kind, and perhaps that' about all, but perhaps he still has to make up his mind. Send me good luck!
Girls... We are strong!!! Everything will be fine....we need to be open eyes... not everybody who telling us " i love you" ...is truth... You can feel the guy...first impression. ... And your intuition....use it
You are truly a God send for woman that just want to know these things. When men are trying to move too fast and you as the woman reject that they are often turned off, but it's important to me to not lead with intimacy. I feel I should earn his and him mine. If we have not engaged and enjoyed each other in other ways to get there, I believe the intimacy dies. Men who are ready should not lead that way. Makes a woman think you're itching for sex.
I know a guy that has made it clear he’s physically attracted to me but he has learned that I move in a respectful manner so he started lessening the sexual talk and seems nicer
Great message. I only disagree with being chivalrous with friends. If he is a chivalrous man then he will be that way with all women. There is no distinction. Overall this is good for women to hear and use the knowledge to stop speculating. Thanks for all you do.
Opening doors for women is chivalrous and is a good thing. It's also common courtesy. I wouldn't expect a man to run ahead of me to open a door for another woman, but I'd frown and address the issue if he lets it slam in a woman's face who's walking behind us. A man can be a gentleman without crossing boundaries that a partner might find suspect.
Food For Thought words spoken by a wise woman @ the age of 98 says that. How do you when a man is into you? Her answer to that question. When eyes are in focus from your neck up he's interesting is about knowing how valuable your mind is. When the eyes are focused on the neck going down the interest in your body. Their eyes are the light of the body.
This is good, this is so true, if the so call never tries at all to see a women face to face, this means it ain't going nowhere, big red flags big time that right ❗❗ preach it ❗
As a man, Stephan is spot on as far as initiating communication is concerned. Ladies, if you have that kind of man in your life but you are not interested in him romantically, say so. If he's decent, he'll stop and it will be better for the both of you. Unfortunately, I was in such a situation recently. She responded to my texts but I tried to see her, just like Stephan said, actually asked her out, but came up with excuses. I stopped, figuring if she had interest (and I thought she did), that she would initiate communication. She hasn't in two months so I guess I was wrong.
He’s giving and consistent. But although we are going with a slow flow and progression is there. We haven’t literally said we are exclusive…….so it makes me anxious. Eventually I will communicate
LOVE how you pour into us all + your videos! I got your Finding Love After Heartbreak + SO helped me process + heal + release SO much! The affirmations are LIFE + I read them out loud regularly! Just got your book The Man God has for You + listened this week 3x - SUCH wisdom! Highly recommend both!
🙏🏿 It's abt energy. When a lady's smile lights up her face and a kind glint in her eye appears when he's near, she likes him! Be encouraged, everyone! Don't take it personally if you were previously told"no." That wasn't the right person. Cheers 🥂 🎉🎉
Thank you, Stephan this is great. Can I just ask if you have ever talked about Age Gap Relationships? Also, relationships with a Divorced Man/Woman? It would be great to also talk about relationships that are ya know not so common hehe.
@@MeetStephanSpeaks kindly add, a man that portrays all the above signs but asks for space and time to heal from a recent breakup. What advise would you give the lady, him and Her have been in each other’s lives for almost 4yrs😅
Seriously, I should have known you when we were still together. I may have been a better partner if ever but as you have mentioned. If he's not the one God plans me to be with. I will trust His way. I will always believe in Him. I will always trust God.
@@MeetStephanSpeaks oh my gosh. You notice 😍 I pray everyday even before we became couple for about a year, now we already broken up 2 months now but Im still praying for him. However, it made me realize and it is now more clear what I need to do and what I should not do. Thank you, Stephan! God bless🥰
Thanks Stephan for sharing your thoughts on this topic and providing us with these great tips to keep in mind. Men can be hard to figure out, but I will definitely keep these tips in mind!
I Had My Father On A Daily Basis & WTBS...HE was A) Dependable & B) Good Grandfather too!! **TRAITS** I Definitely Seek In A Partner/MAN Is Dependability & Consistency 🤷♀️ Unapologetically
This guy is not into me. I'm going through my feelings and managing my approach to myself. I tell myself it's ok to be disappointed. Today is a new day try to enjoy it. Thank you Stephen Speaks for these videos.
I really like how you explained about telling a person if you are confused. I tell people when I am confused and ask questions 🤭 all the time. This keeps me from second guessing things, it also let me know if I can trust you to tell the truth in your actions/words. (It's a Scorpio thing) Also I think that if you are interested in someone you should say something but, rejection does play a huge part in our decisions to say something or not. It can be so many things that we as people think so much so that it stops you from enacting. However the only way to know is to speak up to that person. After a while we are getting too old to mess around and not express how you feel no matter the outcome. If you keep letting fear intimidate you, you will miss out on something your heart and soul really needs. I am praying for you always Stephan 🙏. May God bless you and keep you! Have a wonderful night take care....
The beginning “Sometimes men can be confusing as hell.” LOL yes! Love it hahaha it’s true. 😂☺️☝🏼Stephan, we love you! (My best guy friend of 18 years and I have feelings for each other, we’re in different states and we’re planning to see each other for Labor Day weekend) now it’s in Gods hands. ❤
Stephan! I like this video a lot! 🥰 My "bestfriend" is exactly like this! I really love him a lot! I'm so thankful to God for him. He knows I have feelings for him and he does have too! 💙💙💙
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Question, what if he has all of these signs but he also is very sexually suggestive and touchy but no sex...? When questioned, he just wants to be friends.
Do you have a video that addresses the guy who moves fast to have sex then slows down? You mentioned something similar earlier in the video but I can't find the link.
God blesses all the way up 2 you. Thank u🌞😘❤🙏🙌🏼🌞🤝
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He absolutely does all these things 4 me but he's been hurt b4. He says I'm his best friend and loves me 2 bits but he's not ready
He is into you if he's consistent. No mixed signals. Keep your spirit of discernment sharp ladies ❤
💯 Yes! Consistency is key.
Amen & Amen 💯 always!💯
Amen x
@@MeetStephanSpeaks well, he gives me a lot of vent time whenever I need and encourages me let it out, being a great listener but he never calls or initiates asking me out. We can text back & forth all day, almost everyday. Phone conversation can go beyond 1hr. He does answered my calls whenever time. So can I only assume he’s just being a nice hommie?
@@cynthiab8377 Maybe his finances are not correct, or there is a third party. When someone has shown you who they are, so they are. He is very attentive, yet he has other things going on in his life and having a relationship is not in his timing.
People have to stop throwing each other away at the first sign of misunderstanding too. Let’s talk about it ❤
This
But will you listen?
True true.
Should at least give the chance to course correct. When they say one thing but do another, that's when to quit.
The problem is people use that as an excuse to keep manipulating and using you over and over with no change in behavior or a very temporary change.
Sometimes us women need to slow down and give a man a chance to be chivalrous. We are quick to open the restaurant door, quick to walk to the car. We are so used to doing things for ourselves that we forget to slow down and allow him to do it!
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
Phew thisss
Very true
Omg, yes! Being raised to be independent sometimes causes us to forget it’s okay to receive chivalrous gestures.
I did this leaving a restaurant I was first and opened the door. He told me to come back in the restaurant, step to the side and allow him to open the door for me. He said this is how it's done. That made me melt inside. I'm always learning
He is into you when he doesn't ask for sex & instead ask questions to get to know you on a deeper level and answer your questions also. He is consistent. He will reach out to you also. He will be an open book.
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Nah, he doesn’t have to be an open book. People need to minimally know each other before broaching certain topics, not everything can be said right from the start. Also, everyone has a secret garden, and that is healthy, so you could spend a lifetime with someone and still not know everything, simply because you don’t need to, they don’t need you to, and because knowing them should have no bearing on the relationship. And everyone’s pace opening up is different.
I hate dating these days. Its so many rules, so much you have to look out for, so many signs… nothing black and white. Dating sure is not how our grandmother and grandfathers used to be. I know I deserve a man that is all in and wants me in their life… but sometimes I just want to give up and remain alone.
SAME!!!! I'm so over it
@@EShavonRichardson Girl Me Too… ppl all in relationships. I feel like asking them how?!? Where did y’all find each other. The dating game is trash these days. Tired 🥱 of it!
@@iamchristinaleann3564 I'm just focusing on loving myself and living life. Agreed! STRAIGHT GARBAGE and I ain't got time
@@EShavonRichardson Amen Luv! God knows our heart. All we can do is take care of us. What is for us is for us and it will not pass us by. I know there are good men out here and hopefully 🙏 soon God will send them our way. Have a good week ahead sis.
same here
If a man is unable to communicate effectively I take that as a sign of incompatibility. Communication is paramount in a relationship. If I have to guess I’m not interested. Say what you mean, mean what you say!
Communication is definitely key thank you for sharing!
Yes...truth...😊
Yep!💯😊
This is huge! I could not agree more. Unfortunately some people let fear rule their lives & this is paralyzing to relationships.
How do you know it’s a matter of ability? Has it occurred to you that it is your reactions to his opening up to you that caused him to clam up? That maybe he IS able to communicate but that you might be blocking him from doing so?
Yes, communication is paramount. But no one said that YOUR communication preferences should dominate. And the mere fact that you do communicate doesn’t speak at all to the quality of your communication. He is much more likely to respond well to "You seem preoccupied. What’s wrong?" than to "Are you pissed at me?"
I say this because your comment sounds a lot like a demand. People don’t respond well to demands.
Ladies don’t play that low Communication game!!!!! Ask straight up questions that guys are scared of !!! Communication really is key
Thank you for sharing communication is definitely key 💯 ❤
Exactly, subliminal communication
Yep. When i do that, it pushes the wrong ones out immediately. It saves me time.
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The guy I'm talking to has put what seem to be a schedule when we should be able to talk again. He would cut it off after 1-2 nights of facetime. We're in a long distance too. I don't know how to ask for clarity in this area at least the perfect question that wouldn't sound desperate or demanding to him. I'd appreciate some advice. 😊
If you are looking for signs, you should ask yourself: is he worth it? Is he worth stressing over, and constantly analyzing the situation. Maybe even feeling insecure. Bottom line is that if he likes you, he WILL let you know. Don’t stress yourself boo, the man God has for you WILL let you know.. You at least deserve that!
So true
Needed this.
Want to be sure that he likes me not just his friendly personality.
Wow 😮, so true. Thank you 🙏🏼
Dated on and off for a year and then I informed him the his free subscription to access my energy had expired and that he needed to make a purchase. 😂 Haven’t seen the man this much since meeting him 😂💗
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!
Wait, so did he make the purchase!? Or was his on/off behavior that which was a red flag and he went away?
If a guy is into you *YOU WILL KNOW.* It’s that simple. Don’t read into it, don’t make excuses, and accept what’s being shown to you and ask if that’s really enough. Think about it: Do the people who make you feel the happiest, wether that’s friends or family, ever make you doubt that they like you? No, they consistently show you that they value you and want you around because they want a genuine connection. Don’t expect any less from a potential partner
They can be into you all they want. I think the problem is that’s where it stops. There’s usually no action past them being “into you”. That’s why women are left confused.
@@pocahontas4583 Then they’re not actually into you. They might like you, but it’s not enough for them to put in the work. They’ll show you that you’re the prize because men are more action/reward driven. They like putting in the sweat and tears for their jobs and cars because they see the reward in pursuing it. So if he’s only half-assing with you then you’re not what he’s fully looking for
@@noface3928I disagree. I personally have difficulty expressing my feelings, I get really nervous when I start falling for someone, so for some of us it just takes longer to feel comfortable enough to show someone we are into them.
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Of course I’m talking about initial stages of dating not when you’ve already been in a committed relationship for months and you still feel unsure about where he stands.
@@tb5124 Even with difficulty in expressing feelings I can guarantee it will show in your actions by how much you invest into the person. Often when people are confused it’s because there’s both a lack of effort in action and emotional expression, but there’s just tad bits of “interest.”
Sensible, wonderful, straightforward advice 💯🫂. Thank you.
I'm watching this video after I confessed my feelings to a friend. He rejected me, but it was a necessary process. Feelings needs to be processed if you want to overcome it. Highly recommend to express your feelings for clarity
Just did too. I felt better but now Im moving on. I will not accept wishy washy communication.
❤❤❤exactly
😢 I just did this on Sunday… and I gotta keep it moving. But it had to be done for me to be at peace.
Hats off to y’all, I know that’s gotta be hard to share your vulnerability but you are sounding so mature❤
I need to do this with my bikini comp coach- but if I ask him and rejected I don't want to F up the bond we have in training me- he gives me hints he is into me but idk if I'm reading into it too much
The NUMBER ONE sign he's into you is IN HIS EYES. You'll see the adoration in his eyes.
How this guy looks in my eyes so much it makes me weak
So true the eyes says it all
@@missj1350 how is that so
Correct
Every guy I saw fall in love with a girl or vice versa it was obvious if you looked at their eyes.
Wow, bingo!!! I was in a situation way before I got married where I was seeing a guy I loved. I mean I fell hard for this guy but I couldn't understand his feelings for me. He would never tell me how he felt about me. So I stopped analyzing him and stop figuring him out. Moving on was the best thing for me because I was blessed to have a real relationship of love and communication with my now husband. I tell you ladies from my experience when the right man comes along you will no it. It's love like no other
I’ve been dating a man that does all these things, but then told me he was still unsure if we’re meant to be friends … I was stunned. It’s like I got hit in the gut. We’ve known each other too long for him not to know. I walked away from him for my own sanity. It still hurts. I really believed he was my person.
No contact just might bring him back. Let him discover how much he misses you.
I need an update, sis! How are things now??
@@sheamc1 He did come back, but I ended up sabotaging it by interrogating him after he said he missed me. I wanted him to communicate what he meant before … I also think maybe I was too blunt with some other things I said and ended up pushing him away again. I told him I couldn’t keep doing this anymore if he couldn’t communicate…The exact opposite of what I wanted happened. He walked away. This has been tearing me up, no lie. But I have to accept things I guess. I’m not sure if I should go after him or let him go. It’s taking everything I have not to go after him. I love him so much. But I also feel if he truly valued me, he wouldn’t have left.
Update for anyone this might help- After a lot of time to reflect, (and by the way he did come back again … but it didn’t work) love isn’t this hard guys. If the man loves you, he will come back and cherish every moment he lost. He will never want to lose you again. Love isn’t perfect, but real love works together, it doesn’t leave you wondering or guessing and it shouldn’t leave you more sad than happy. Trust these words as I speak them from heart wrenching experience. Trust your instincts. You know, the ones you suppress to justify the illogical. I don’t know the person who’s reading this but I care about you anyway. No one deserves to go through this for absolutely nothing. And if you do, and are strong enough, share some advice for the next person. I hope this helps someone.
❤❤ sending love, this is true, greatness and abundance is coming to you Queen @tipea3770
We were together for a year his job pulled him to another state! We see each other once a month and are on the phone every night before bed for at least 1 1/2 hrs. He makes time for me for sure!! 🥰
Lucky you. I pray you may continue together
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@@MeetStephanSpeaks of course!! I listen to you always and I appreciate you and all that you share! It has gotten me thru some stuff trying to process it all!! Thank you!!! 🙏🏽🥰
@@eugenieholmes5769 thank you Eugene!
You are r welcome. I love to see love in progress
Number one is communication in a loving and caring manner. But there's no time to waste and you can't be available only when he wants.
❤ 🙏 thank you for sharing, communication is definitely key
@@MeetStephanSpeaks You're welcome Yes it is because like this it would avoid so much in advance You know I know it's hard and we don't want to hear certain things but as best in the long run for both
*I don't need anyone to rectify my existence. The most profound relationship we will ever have is the one with ourselves.*
I had a friend like that. But I was fearful of ruining our friendship. Everyone else kept asking. Even my mother asked me what’s going on. I was like he is just my friend. He made me respect him highly. So then I became fearful and when he did tell me. He had just gotten engaged. Then all of my emotions came running out. Till this day I still love him. I just pray he is happy and he is safe.
It’s called “taking a leap of faith” you know you want to , your intuition is telling you, you’ve even prayed about it but you still can’t quite bring yourself to do it .
I feel you it definitely isn't an easy situation but we need to focus on doing what is truly best 🙏
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank you for your understanding, greatly appreciated 🙏🏽
@@enaalexis92 ❤ 🙏
I pushed a good one away. I was still very much wounded and couldn't see that he was genuinely interested but was taking it slow. But lesson learned.
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Juanica Thomas what signs was he showing that he was truly intrigued that u see now that u didn't see then?
@@ashleyjohnson3939 he called me every day and we went out often as well as spending time at home. He invited me to spend time with him and he introduced me to his family. I still didn't see that he was serious about me because we were under the "dating" label and I was expecting more.
Awwww Yes I'm sry about that... U know now though & Tru Love will Confront You I believe before walking away...
@@ashleyjohnson3939 yes you're right. I believe whoever is meant for me will dig in and be unmoved unless I do the unforgivable. But since I'm doing the work to better myself, God is extending me grace and I feel He will give him the patience and grace to extend to me as well.
I told a guy at work that I had a crush on him. His reaction wasn't what I expected. His face did light up...he seemed very flattered. He didn't tell me that he liked me back. He just pushed the conversation to discussing work stuff. Eventually I bowed out of the convo. He has been different with me. More quiet. He ended up talking to me this evening when it was just us. I decided to be ok no matter what happened...
How did it work out?
Come on Mam, please don't let us hang. We want to know! 😁
Most men are not safe when it comes to work romance.
Wow I’m literally experiencing this right now, literally the first time I’ve ever had a guy take his time with me and really take things slow.
🙏 Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
Me too!!! First time having a guy walk me down slowly!’
Same here!! It’s a little confusing at first… but I think it’s normal…
I meet someone about 3 weeks and everyday he is constantly communicating with me, checking on me, he FaceTime’s me every day because our job schedule is challenging right now, he is very consistent, he shows his mom and his brother my pictures but he is moving slower than I am used to. We went on one date and it was wonderful and he wants to see me when it’s not his weekend with his son. I am loving the pace we are at because we seem to be on the same page. I do believe is scared due to past relationship’s and I have been in a horrible relationship before I really think you should take things slow because it can make a difference. I thank you for me clarifying this man is into me.
I know men and women are afraid of being hurt and played for a fool but we gotta learn to be open and honest with transparent communication from men and women to stop with the BS. Great video and good responses from the ladies too.
Relationships should not be a mystery. Transparency, consistency and intentions are paramount. It either is or it isn’t…friends, friends w/benefits…you always have the choice of what YOU accept. Don’t settle…believe what he shows you…trust your intuition and read the room 😉
Nobody wants me :( 😞 😓 am 56
@@Pinkcandy777 I'm sure there's a man with 56 for you!!! 💖
@@Pinkcandy777 same for me I'm 57. Never been in love .
Yes moving too slow and over thinking the situation with her can cause her to go on about her business and she could have been very interested in the man , and i’m not talking about Hurry up with sexual moves I mean with romance communication Ect ……
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!
U just said it... Consistency is a sign of Feelings for a person!
Hey we have the same name!!! and Yes I totally agree
@@ashleyjohnson9693 Lol Yes We do have the same name ~ so do U have someone special that's being consistent with U?
Me 🤷♀️🤦♀️😂 Seems I've bn consistent for the wrong one!
@@ashleyjohnson3939 girl No I had to let him go. He wasn’t showing enough effort for me. Lol
@@ashleyjohnson9693 🥺 I know Gurl I feel U! 🤦♀️🤷♀️
I really like these points. It’s nerve racking & difficult to express how you feel but I agree it’s so necessary to communicate it as it’s better to know where you stand than to be tormented with the thoughts of what could have been ❤️
So true! Communication is definitely key, thank you for sharing I appreciate your feedback ❤
You’re welcome & my pleasure ❤️🙏
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☝️🙌🙌🙌REALLY...
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Men and Women show and prove when they're really in to you! Fear and the inability to let go of past situations could be blinding them from being vulnerable, but generally we're gonna go hard for those we want in our space.
This video was exactly what I needed! I literally was praying about this very topic in analyzing my relationship
Glad it was helpful!
Try meditation, it may you .
Prayer is the best and first key in any relationship or whatever it is
🙏 You're absolutely right!
I agreed with point number 3, money is a love language. I remember my ldr bf always say if there's anything I need whether be it money or anything he would love to help. That made me feel he's really serious about me
100% agree
Your potential is limitless, Stephan. You are such a good speaker and I can feel the connection as a viewer. You are one of a kind ❤️
Jesus is your free gift to heaven when you believe in his death, burial and resurrection you are immediately saved
Thank you very much, I appreciate that ❤ 🙏
Yes consistency , adores you and be there when needed, especially listens to you. extra stuff they do .. open the door, bring flowers, decorate living room, trying look into eyes, make plans with you.
Boys mostly show clear signs, if they are not able to show... he is not strong enough to handle you or love. You deserve a good guy and a good communicator. If he don’t communicate, you can’t have connection on bed or problem solver etc.
Your videos are so wonderful and comforting and empowering. Regarding this conversation, I was raised in dysfunction and experienced domestic abuse for years, so I just wanted to remind folks like me that our perception of the "right" speed might be totally unhealthy. It could be that someone wanting to let things progress naturally and not force anything on us or love bomb us feels almost *boring* or just way too slow, but in reality we need to reprogram our brains out of these dysfunctional cycles. I had to learn to let good things happen to me and to feel like I deserved them as well. Wishing you all the love and fulfillment you deserve ❤️
Is that what you call amazing friend
How do you get closure on what happen between the two.
Wow 😭😭😭 a guy told me that he see himself spending the rest of his life with me and I acted like I didn’t hear him 🤪😩... I am afraid 😱 to share my heart again
Thank God for you Stephan!!! Out here changing the world and stuff!!! God bless you always
Thank you very much and may God always bless you as well 🙏
@@MeetStephanSpeaks ❤️❤️
I cannot get over how thorough your explanations are in every scenario.
Money is the key for me. The word says where your TREASURE is there will your heart be also. He's more invested in the relationship if he's spending that mula
My coworker crush recently for the first time ever, grabed both my shoulders and sqeezed slightly during conversation and lingered holding my shoulders after he was done with his sentence, I was like why is he still holding me ????
He's assessing what you'll do when he touches you. I wouldn't just let "any" man touch me. You don't need to touch me to talk to me. 😊
Thank you for the bonus…transparency is important. Women should be vulnerable too. Clarity creates a better understanding about how to move forward. Thanks for another great video!
My pleasure ❤
Stephen, I wish I would have found your videos 7 months ago. It sucks but everything you mentioned here on this video is what I have been going through for the past 7 months with the guy I just broke up with yesterday. I feel like I wasted so much time that I invested on him just to find out he wasn't the best person for me. Now comes the healing part.
The guy im seeing is afraid and being safe...he told me flat out.
“ Procrastination is the life that you could if had”. Saw it posted on Instagram. It spoke to me because what you mentioned towards the end is a bit similar to what I’ve experienced. A very hard lesson indeed. I appreciate you sharing your knowledge and valuable wisdom. Thank you!
My pleasure ❤
..."could have had"...
@@bel2020 could if had! It's the expression of being stuck in the conjuncive, meaning in the assumptions, filled with dream, hope and illusion.
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Communication and prayer are key! Lesson learned, actions don't always speak louder than words.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!
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Good morning real good man will sacrifice too make you happy n ask what you need help with n what ‘s your future goals . A real good man will put god first in his life n also put you properity , help with the bills , keep gas in your car n repairs , take you work on his off days , send you roses , communcation is the key ! A real good man will work too bone make should everything is good !
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Good morning I keep it real n honest
Thank you for taking on this subject. I spoke last week on one of your videos that I have known the guy for over 2 years, about six dates and we are moving really slow. I definitely know he is my friend and confides his deepest thoughts to me. I love hearing him talk because he makes me think about different perspectives. He does initiate communication at least 10 times a week. He works nights and I work days. He works weekends and I work weekdays. When we do go out, it is for an entire day when we both have a day off. Sometimes we take his kids and sometimes we don't. We see each other for a quick bite once or twice a week when I get off work and he is headed to work.
🙏 I'm happy this has been helpful to you and don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I definitely will. You are so gifted and I really appreciate your knowledge.
what if he is just using you because he knows he can confide in you and seeing you until he finds someone else
@@amandavalentino3818 RIGHT. There's "moving slow", then there's "6 dates in 2 years".
I really like what you were talking about. However, this past 6 months I had this person that did everything on your list. I bought him a gift for his birthday and he said that he didn't deserve it and I haven't heard from him since. He said he would return the gift but to this day hasn't. He said he loved me, introduced me to his children and grandchildren friends. We talked twice a day everyday.
He might have other things that stop him.
Mybe his financial situation is not that good
Sounds like either he was just trying to get the gift ( yes...they will use family etc). I don't know if it was expensive. But, also I know some men get overwhelmed and don't know how to repay or feel that they really have to step it up a notch and they're not ready. Hopefully, nothing tragic happened. It would have been great for him to finalize things instead of ghosting.
@27:16 I know this issue….Feelings left unsaid from three decades ago …
Chivalry is one of the best signs of a man that likes you 💯✨
THE GUY IM SEEING IS IN THE ARMY & OUR Spiritual CONNECTION IS AMAZING 😍🥰HES IN Deployment , I LOVE OUR LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP !!! WE HAVE BEEN TALKING FOR A SHORT TIME...BUT WE NEVER MISS A DAY !! THE LONGER HES AWAY...OUR LOVE GETS STRONGER & Stronger !!
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏 You will find my video on how to make a long-distance relationship work interesting. Check it out here 👉 th-cam.com/video/5nmt6OapuO0/w-d-xo.html
Communication. Speak to each other. Fix the problem...or just do the thing! Communication breaks grounds, so you can actually start to build. You're speaking facts, sir 💯
❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!
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Thank you for your content.... but I'm tired! I'm done looking for the signs... God bless you all! May your King find you! ♥️
Before you give up on dating try changing your focus from dating to learning and you will start to see positive results in your dating experiences!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I do not enjoy dating, it doesn't feel very natural to me. I know it's part of the process, but it's exhausting. I can only ask a man what his interests are so many times. I will definitely consider everything you have said. Thank you for replying back to me and God bless you.
It's the holding back part for me. I have a male friend that I have been friends with since 1994 and we are still friends. Long story short, he's been married, divorced, in a long term relationship, he told me years ago he only saw me as his friend, and I have kept that with me since. We are still close, but I'm not putting myself out there to him anymore, being rejected that one time was enough for me.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
He may like your attention.
He may value you and understand that he is not ready to love you correctly and notice that all of his relationships have failed, it is him not you.
Thanks. I needed to hear that @6:05 it's been two years that we been talking or rather texting and he has made NO EFFORT to meet face to face. Even tho I have asked and asked. So that's it, I'm done.
I fell asleep listening 🎶 to this...but I smiled while dozing off because he actually does everything mentioned ✅☑✅
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Wow you described the guy I am dating 100%. You addressed many of my thoughts about is he in to me even though he does not make moves physically in two months. He checks off every one of the traits you mentioned. Thank you. I was over analyzing this thing A lot.😁
I love how you 'Get straight to the point unlike some other youtubers.i just watch a video he took 16:55 minute to get to the point😊and even then it was still a bit vague.🔥❤
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As a french woman, I'm happy to understand english to enjoy your videos.
Yes....DONT BE AFRAID. Afraid of what?? Ladies...love like u nvr have before!!!
Sing your lungs out.
Dance like no one is watching and live in the moment!!!
Love him..tell him.. itttsss okkkkk...
Let it out!!! Just do it(just like Nike)
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Express it!!!!!!🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I'm not afraid of many things...fear just slows me down.
Thanks!
This was a great video, reminds me how dating was in my early 20s way easier, way less toxic.
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yes..now it is too complicated because people get crazier
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I cannot have enough of these recommendations from Stephan. Those are blessing my life, making me wiser, and hopefully eventually happier.
This man is tooooo good. Massive respect. 🙏
That was very CLEAR. I guess nothing beats communication, no matter what the outcome may be, but just knowing the other person is aware of what you want as an individual is so important. Making the right decision is always the hardest! Also, the biggest part, is to pray when in doubt.
Thanks Stephan ☺💕
You're absolutely right, communication is definitely key, and always ensure you address matters in a calm loving positive manner and let your partner know how you feel about that particular matter ❤ 🙏
I hear you. ❤ The approach makes all the difference in them wanting to hear what you have to say & how they will respond. 🙂
@@mandy8780 Absolutely! It's not what you say, it's how you say it!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Amen!SO TRULY RIGHT! GREAT INSPIRING AMAZING STRONG POWERFUL POSITIVE WORDS OF WISDOM! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! OCT2021
This video speaks so loudly and clearly to me. Thank you so much for this video. It reveals so much to me. Thanks for the insight!!!!!
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This one video hits home. My friend is moving slow, love buying me concert tickets and uses that to see me. ❤
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Thanks Stephan this was a very much needed and on time video. CLARITY V.S. CONFUSION. No one wants to be, Nor should be confused when it comes to affairs of the heart. MEN DONT BE AFRAID TO PUT YOURSELF OUT THERE. HERES WHY, YOU MAY BE THAT TIMELY BREATHE OF FRESH AIR THAT WOMAN NEEDS RIGHT NOW. I have a friend I'm very interested in and even see him as So much more. I prayed about it God said he's moving slow out of fear in making sure it's done right. Nothing wrong with doing things in decency and order and out of a genuine respect for that friend. I Know that the friendship path can be a struggle as it may be different than what we're used to but can be necessary for various reasons. My friend wants me to open up and I want the same from him, but more importantly I want to open up to him and share for a greater clarity. If he wants to see me more physically I'm down with that cause I be wanting to see him too. All he has to do is say the word. Connection with your friend is overwhelming enough without confusion, and can be very scary at times for either person. You touched on chivalry and I love it. I encourage it from men who are interested in that special woman. I LOVE HIS CONSISTENCY ITS ATTRACTIVE AND REASSURING WHEN IM IN DOUBT, BUT MORE COMMUNICATION AND SEEING ONE ANOTHER IS NEEDED that maybe what's needed for them both to open up and relax. To just get together have some fun and enjoy each other's company. stephanspeaksrelationships Thank you for this video it's a big help and gives us women more clarity.💯❤😍#supermangetmovingsheneedsaheronow
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Needed this, I’m in a long distance friendship and it’s rough we haven’t seen each other in 4 months and at times it can be really difficult to connect and stay in tune with each other and trying to see other consistently and trying to find our rhythm and flow to stay connected and still having a life outside of us as well that’s key💯.
Mine has all the traits you mentioned apart from consistency. I have not spoken about my feelings, but I' ve been smiling him a lot and let him know I' d be glad to see him again.
I tended to be suspicious. Now I feel relieved. Thank you Stephan! He' s always been kind, and perhaps that' about all, but perhaps he still has to make up his mind.
Send me good luck!
Thank you 😊
This video was for me!
I definitely think the guy I been dating for 2months is into me!
Girls...
We are strong!!!
Everything will be fine....we need to be open eyes... not everybody who telling us " i love you" ...is truth...
You can feel the guy...first impression. ...
And your intuition....use it
Let me finish my homework. I’ll be right back to listen to this from beginning to end because I swear I’m frustrated with one particular situation
🙏 I'm sorry to hear about your frustrations, I hope this video will give you the clarity you need.
You are truly a God send for woman that just want to know these things. When men are trying to move too fast and you as the woman reject that they are often turned off, but it's important to me to not lead with intimacy. I feel I should earn his and him mine. If we have not engaged and enjoyed each other in other ways to get there, I believe the intimacy dies. Men who are ready should not lead that way. Makes a woman think you're itching for sex.
Thank you!
Stephan we need a video specifically for long distance relationship situations
I know a guy that has made it clear he’s physically attracted to me but he has learned that I move in a respectful manner so he started lessening the sexual talk and seems nicer
Great message. I only disagree with being chivalrous with friends. If he is a chivalrous man then he will be that way with all women. There is no distinction. Overall this is good for women to hear and use the knowledge to stop speculating. Thanks for all you do.
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Opening doors for women is chivalrous and is a good thing. It's also common courtesy. I wouldn't expect a man to run ahead of me to open a door for another woman, but I'd frown and address the issue if he lets it slam in a woman's face who's walking behind us. A man can be a gentleman without crossing boundaries that a partner might find suspect.
: ALL females aren't women!
Food For Thought words spoken by a wise woman @ the age of 98 says that. How do you when a man is into you? Her answer to that question. When eyes are in focus from your neck up he's interesting is about knowing how valuable your mind is. When the eyes are focused on the neck going down the interest in your body. Their eyes are the light of the body.
This is good, this is so true, if the so call never tries at all to see a women face to face, this means it ain't going nowhere, big red flags big time that right ❗❗ preach it ❗
As a man, Stephan is spot on as far as initiating communication is concerned. Ladies, if you have that kind of man in your life but you are not interested in him romantically, say so. If he's decent, he'll stop and it will be better for the both of you. Unfortunately, I was in such a situation recently. She responded to my texts but I tried to see her, just like Stephan said, actually asked her out, but came up with excuses. I stopped, figuring if she had interest (and I thought she did), that she would initiate communication. She hasn't in two months so I guess I was wrong.
Dating as an alpha in Indianapolis has been so tough. This needs to be out there ! Thank you brother.
My pleasure ❤
Lmao I moved out of Indianapolis to Dallas and have had good luck dating.
Omg Naptown ! I’m talking to someone from Michigan City lol . That Gary definitely rubbed off lol
He’s giving and consistent. But although we are going with a slow flow and progression is there. We haven’t literally said we are exclusive…….so it makes me anxious. Eventually I will communicate
The scenario about friends not telling each other then realizing after marrying other people. Yeah, that happens.
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LOVE how you pour into us all + your videos! I got your Finding Love After Heartbreak + SO helped me process + heal + release SO much! The affirmations are LIFE + I read them out loud regularly! Just got your book The Man God has for You + listened this week 3x - SUCH wisdom! Highly recommend both!
Thanks for being truly honest with how men think. I have tried to read minds & mess it all up 🤣
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I enjoy hearing this men. I’m listening I’m listening. He gives the best advice and also speak the truth. Thank you so much.
🙏🏿 It's abt energy. When a lady's smile lights up her face and a kind glint in her eye appears when he's near, she likes him! Be encouraged, everyone! Don't take it personally if you were previously told"no." That wasn't the right person. Cheers 🥂 🎉🎉
Jesus is your free gift to heaven when you believe in his death, burial and resurrection you are immediately saved
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yes ¹980 she waves at guy
Thank you, Stephan this is great. Can I just ask if you have ever talked about Age Gap Relationships? Also, relationships with a Divorced Man/Woman? It would be great to also talk about relationships that are ya know not so common hehe.
I haven't talked about these topics, I will definitely add them to my list to get them done!
And please talk about the right person but the wrong time. Thank you
@@delmariecharlene9671 Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks kindly add, a man that portrays all the above signs but asks for space and time to heal from a recent breakup. What advise would you give the lady, him and Her have been in each other’s lives for almost 4yrs😅
I second these topics
Good points, but as the saying goes, "you slow, you blow." A love opportunity can be missed, if the man doesn't, "step up to the plate."
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Stephan everything you say is RIGHT. Thank you for these videos. You are one if the best coaches out there. Keep doing what you are doing.
I appreciate that ❤ 🙏
Stephan
My male friends opens the door no matter what. My programing is to automatically wait.
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Seriously, I should have known you when we were still together. I may have been a better partner if ever but as you have mentioned. If he's not the one God plans me to be with. I will trust His way. I will always believe in Him. I will always trust God.
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace trusting in God. 🙏
@@MeetStephanSpeaks oh my gosh. You notice 😍 I pray everyday even before we became couple for about a year, now we already broken up 2 months now but Im still praying for him. However, it made me realize and it is now more clear what I need to do and what I should not do. Thank you, Stephan! God bless🥰
@@ferrero8575 ❤ 🙂 Thank you for your feedback and may God bless you as well!
Thanks Stephan for sharing your thoughts on this topic and providing us with these great tips to keep in mind. Men can be hard to figure out, but I will definitely keep these tips in mind!
I Had My Father On A Daily Basis & WTBS...HE was A) Dependable & B) Good Grandfather too!! **TRAITS**
I Definitely Seek In A Partner/MAN Is Dependability & Consistency 🤷♀️ Unapologetically
Thank you Stephan for the advice and guidance in this topic. This will help remove confusing situations regarding this. God bless you so much.
Thank you very much and may God bless you as well!
This guy is not into me. I'm going through my feelings and managing my approach to myself. I tell myself it's ok to be disappointed. Today is a new day try to enjoy it. Thank you Stephen Speaks for these videos.
I needed this video 11 years ago.
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I really like how you explained about telling a person if you are confused. I tell people when I am confused and ask questions 🤭 all the time. This keeps me from second guessing things, it also let me know if I can trust you to tell the truth in your actions/words. (It's a Scorpio thing) Also I think that if you are interested in someone you should say something but, rejection does play a huge part in our decisions to say something or not. It can be so many things that we as people think so much so that it stops you from enacting. However the only way to know is to speak up to that person. After a while we are getting too old to mess around and not express how you feel no matter the outcome. If you keep letting fear intimidate you, you will miss out on something your heart and soul really needs. I am praying for you always Stephan 🙏. May God bless you and keep you! Have a wonderful night take care....
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌 and may God bless and keep you as well 🙏
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT ! GREAT INSPIRING AMAZING STRONG POWERFUL POSITIVE WORDS OF WISDOM! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! OCT2021
This was enlightening. I needed to hear this, was totally confused by my best friend.
The beginning “Sometimes men can be confusing as hell.” LOL yes! Love it hahaha it’s true. 😂☺️☝🏼Stephan, we love you! (My best guy friend of 18 years and I have feelings for each other, we’re in different states and we’re planning to see each other for Labor Day weekend) now it’s in Gods hands. ❤
Stephan! I like this video a lot! 🥰 My "bestfriend" is exactly like this! I really love him a lot! I'm so thankful to God for him. He knows I have feelings for him and he does have too! 💙💙💙
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