Why Do They Get the Life I Want? | Why Me? EP. 16 | Dr. Omar Suleiman | A Ramadan Series on Qadar
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Why do seemingly undeserving people always get everything good in life? Why does everything seem to come harder for you, even though you've worked so hard? And why do other people take credit for your hard work, while you are left in the dust?
Sometimes, what you see as someone else being unfairly favored might actually be qadar at work in your favor. So beware of envy and defeat overtaking you, and make an effort to recognize the wisdoms in your life. Because when it comes to Allah's decree, it's not the most materially blessed or loudest mouth that gets far ahead, but the most grateful and perceptive heart.
Captioning provided by Muhsen.
SOURCES:
Sunan Abi Dawud 4903
Qur’an, 9:55
Qur’an, 28:83
Qur’an, 59:9
Musnad Ahmad 11730
Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4700
Qur’an, 65:3
Sharh Usool I'tiqad Ahlis-Sunnah wal-Jamaa'ah 4:739 1219
Al-Hikam al-Ataa’iyyah #229:
إِنَّمَا جَعَلَهَا مَحَلاً لِلأَغْيَارِ وَمَعْدِناً لِوُجُودِ الأَكْدَارِ تَزْهِيداً لَكَ فِيهَا
He has only made the world a place of others and a mine for troubles so that you would not love it.
CAST:
Narrator Dr. Omar Suleiman
Hassan Noaman Farooq
Hassan's Mother Safiyyah Saarah Khan
Hassan's Father Mohammed Momin Baig
Poor Man Shaheer Naqvi
Fast Food Manager Fawzi Yahya
Teen Hassan Ammaar Ali
Teen Siraj Safiulla Shariff
Kid in school hallway Saadiq Ahmed
Hassan's crush Layla Mariam Amjad
Umar Issa Ghaleb
Hassan's Friend and Rival Siraj Mazin Vahora
Muhsen Volunteer Fahad Mohiuddin
Hassan's Paternal Grandmother Khadijah Sara Qasmi
King Pin Fawzi Yahya
Hassan's Maternal Grandmother Ayesha Nabila Taufiq
Rich Man Shaheer Naqvi
Wedding Guest in Purple Sara Qasmi
Hassan's Wife Dua Amnah Sultan
Dua's Mother Nikkah Sammer Zehra
Dua's Father Jibran Syed
Imam Shaykh Abdullah Oduro
Man Praying 1 Abrar Islam
Man Praying 2 Naveed Haque
Man Praying 3 Randy Fordyce
Man Praying 4 Fahad Mohiuddin
Note: Only vocals were used in the making of the soundtrack.
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Amin ❤
Aameeen!!!
My marriage is on verge of breaking. Please make Dua for me that things get resolved and I get united with my husband with Allahs help.
Ameen, I will make dua for u. Insha'Allah
May Allah grant you ease Amiiin
May Allah grant you unity and harmony in your marriage And may Allah protect your marriage
May Allah have mercy on you Amiiin
May Allah ease your affairs and grant you success. Ameen
My baby passed away last Friday. Please make Dua for us. May Allah reunited us in Jannah insha'Allah
Amine
May you get reunited with your baby in jannah!! Keep striving🤲
May Allah reunite you with your baby in Jannatul - Firdaus. And may he make it easy for you and your family. Allahuma ameen
I know it is difficult but I pray that Allah put patience and acceptance in your heart, and reunite you with him in Jannah InshaAllah 🤲🏻
May ALLAH give you sabr, and unite u in Jannah, its so difficult to go through this.
My mother passed away after 13 years of kidney failure. My brother also passed away after 9 years of kidney failure, aged only 39. And that's only the tip of the iceberg regarding what I've been through. This video resonated with me, and I pray that Allah rewards Shaykh Omar Suleiman and the rest of the team who work with him. Ameen
EDIT: Jazakallahu khayra for all of your duas. May Allah's love shine upon you all! Ameen
Alhumdullilah indeed
May Allah grant them jannatul firdous and keep you strong and steadfast Ameen
Aameen
My dad died of kidney failure too three yrs ago. He was 48 . May Allah grant them jannah
May Allah comfort you ❤❤❤
May Allah Give Victory For Palestenians😭
Allahuma Ameen ❤️🩹
Ameen
Ameen❤
Allahumma ameen 🤲🏾
Ameen
Dr Omar Suleiman is an asset to the muslim ummah. May Allah continue to protect for us.
Aameen
Aameen
Ameen
Amiin ❤
Aameen and bless him and his Family
“You didn’t really want that specific person, you wanted love and companionship and you thought it would be found with that person. So ask Allah for what you really want. But open yourself up to new possibilities and trust in Allah’s plan”
~ Dr Omar Suleiman
I played that part like 10 times! Unfortunately no matter how many times this happens, I only come to this realisation after I’ve already wasted a lot of time and energy being upset over it but it is so so true!
Yeah me too ..
This part describes exactly what I want ..
Same here it's like if Dr Suleiman wrote that part for me
This hit me hard, too. 😢 May Allah swt grant us whatever is good for us
Same here.
Sameee! May Allah give the best for us 🤍
Seeing Sh. AbdulLah Oduro in the casting 🥹
I know right, made me so happy.
Haha came here to say the same!
Hello, I always feel intrigued by your amazing videos about Islam, I am a non Muslim from Singapore but I have a few Muslim friends in Singapore. 😊
May Allah give you guidance especially during this blessed month of ramadan amiin
May you accept Islam
@@bn9338Alhamduillah 💜🙏
The good inside you recognizing and connecting with the good outside ❤ May Allah grant you the most precious gift of guidance.
@@UmmAfafThsnks so much, friend. 😊
My 10 year old son has been having severe headaches, please make dua for him. May Allah reward you.
I hope he get better soon.
@@smiling9551 Ameen. Thank you so much.
May Allah grant him shifa
Praying for him. Its Ramadan season so make sure hes getting enough water and healthy food, and also check with a doctor
@@imans5106 thank you so much. May Allah reward you for you dua.
These days its so easy to compare ourselves to others we see on social media, everything has become a race almost. We forget what Allah SWT has blessed us with. May Allah forgive us and make us among His grateful servants Ameen
Absolutely, nothing is linear. Allah has made a perfection journey for everyone
Aamiin, May Allah guide our heart to love what He loves, and hates what He hates. ❤
I was sitting there alone in my room, crying.
And listening to Nathaniel Drew’s “Feeling Behind in life” video. Because I was having a mental breakdown from thoughts of me not getting the position that I wanted, I wanted to go abroad and it was a dream of mine and I lost my chance almost getting there.
I was crying and the video ended, TH-cam automatically started this one. I was so desperate at that moment, losing my breath, and when ustad mentioned all of the problems in the beginning of the video, I felt so seen and heard.
And ya rabbi, sometimes we do need to be reminded. It was so foolish of me to think that I lost my chance, because I did do my best, and I prayed so much too, but Allah didn’t want me to go abroad alone, maybe Allah saved me from something. I had thought of that but, hearing it from someone that knows what is hurting you, is so important it’s like you know the answer but you trust your teacher better than yourself. This video calmed my heart. I wasn’t feeling envy, but I was in a bad situation, blaming myself, you know.
Similar to What I feel.
Make dua for me, am 41 , I need good man . I have always wanted a very good muslim man with kindness, love, care and respect.
Do self ruqyah. The delay could be due to ayn/sihr/mass. Pray on time, especially fajr. Never miss your morning and evening protection duaas. Make lots of istighfar & salawat on the prophet ﷺ. Pray qiyam.
@@JewelsRoyale My delay in marriage was due to sihr. Found out 13 years after the spell was casted :/ alhamdulillah for everything though
@@89Salma89 Same! I found out 16 years later haha (well 16 years after the suffering intensified but it had actually been going on for longer). It’s not funny but sometimes I laugh out loud because who would want to do that to a young child and then watch them struggle as they grow up and smile in their face whilst celebrating their suffering. People are very strange!
I hope you’re better now and that Allah has eased and resolved your affairs and granted you a righteous spouse.
In my personal experience most people that are affected don’t actually know that they are affected and don’t even know what these things are or how they work or the ways in which they can affect our lives.
Reflecting on my own experience and those around me, I had heard it mentioned so many times and I even knew from a young age that that person did it and people even said to me multiple times that it could be ayn etc and I even once had a reaction to ruqyah someone else was having but ignored it and ignored all of the above mentioned things because I didn’t know anything about it or understand it at all or even fully comprehend how real it is. Then when I finally came to understand that that was what was wrong with me and the cause of all my problems, I was so upset at myself for missing all the signs and for not listening when people mentioned sihr/ayn etc. That’s why I try to tell people now whenever I hear someone mention clear signs/symptoms.
People are unfortunately not educated on this matter and unfortunately they often get dismissed when they try to get help. I’ve seen multiple examples of people writing in to scholars online with clear symptoms/signs of Sihr/ayn/mass and getting completely dismissed by the scholar or just given diagnoses/advice that fit with the seen world even when in some instances the person has suggested sihr/ayn as a possible cause. They often get told that people are paranoid about this issue and that it’s not common!!! (but au contraire, it’s very common). When I read those questions to scholars I get so upset because the person has clear symptoms/signs that I wish I could scream this to them through my phone screen, but they got completely dismissed. Only Raqis and those affected by it understand it. I wish there were more resources on this and I wish scholars were more educated on this so that the masses can be too.
I would love a resource where people tell their stories and how they were cured/how long it took etc (as the journey can be super long and demoralising) and how Allah dealt with their oppressor.
I would love a resource where scholars talk about how to deal with such evil people who not only afflict us for years and years in all aspects of our lives but who also keep renewing it and endlessly persecute us.
@@89Salma89 YT deleted my super long super detailed response to you, so I will keep it brief this time. Same here! Found out 16 years later lol. I hope Allah has cured you and eased your affairs. May Allah protect us all.
@@JewelsRoyale Thank you for your message! I am actually still undergoing treatment, it's been 4.5 years now. The spell is by no means broken yet; however my health condition has drastically improved. How about you? I pray you have been completely cured
Some days, Sheikh Dr. Omer's speeches seem to directly address the questions I've asked Allah, hitting right at the heart of my problems. How does this occur? ❤
I think Allah is answering each one of us through him, that's why he guided us to watch and comprehend it. ❤
@@aishakanwal9107 exactly❤
Because of the time is so fast we don't realize that it's almost 2 weeks left and Ramadan will say maassalam.🥺
Thanks, Dr. Omar this kind of series should continue even after Ramadan!!! You are always teaching Ummah something that we should know by heart!!!! May Allah preserve you with good health and the rest of the Ummah…..
No Ads on video.!! May Allah bless you And your team. ❤
When I see someone else getting that thing what I was asking for, it literally breaks my heart. Yet, I solace myself with Allah's words.
*So much happiness and joy❤️,$100k every 2weeks! I now have a house and can now afford anything for my family, all thanks to God.*
Wow that's huge, how do you make that much monthly?
I'm 37 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??
Can I also do it??? My life is facing lots of challenge lately.
Thanks to my co-worker (Alex) who suggested Mrs Maria (Angelina)Alexander
She is a licensed broker in the states🇺🇸
I remember giving her my first savings $20,000 and she opened a brokerage account for me it turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me.
I got so excited when I saw sheikh abdullah lol
30 years of my life is just continuous unlucky event, that make me a cripple of social life, no academic background, no friend, no work, no money, nobody to support me.
I ask myself, couldn't I become lucky in one aspect of my life?
At one point, I dream about finding mountain of gold nuggets at a desert.
And at that time I think that, " is this how life mocked me?"
Like, how could it be possible that I would get this premonition of wealth out of nowhere?
And do you know what Allah showed me afterewards?
He guide me to learn how to witness the miracle of each words of the ayat of the Qur'an, that there is a massive secret on each of the words, that can invoke miraculuous phenomenon.
And that's when I realize, that my luck is beyond of what all the gold in this world worth of.
Allah loves you may he grant you jannah and happiness in this world& the next
subhanallah, now this what I am actually jealous of , Allah Opening his Quran to you and granting that tranquality,May Allah grant you highest level of Jannah
Do self ruqyah. Could be ayn/sihr/mass. Pray on time, especially fajr. Never miss your morning and evening protection duaas. Make lots of istighfar & salawat on the prophet ﷺ. Pray qiyam.
Perform ruqya on yourself. I used to have the same problem with the marriage and work aspects and found out years later it was due to sihr.
@@89Salma89 can you please give me more details about that? How can we perform it ?
May Allah reward you janadul firdous ❤omar suleiman
Aamiin, for us as well❤
I’m going through divorce, please make dua for me that Allah reunites me with my husband and allows our marriage to continue. I pray Allah grants me the strength.
May Allah reunite you with your husband and make it easy for you Allahumma Ameen!
Allahumma Ameen Jazakallah Khayran
May Allah grant you hasanah
Ameen
May Allah reconcile you and place mercy and love between you
This was very emotional 😭😭😭as it hit and all I could say was Allah is enough for me 😢. May almighty Allah preserve Sh. Omar and the entire @Yaqeen team and all others in good.
Every time I listen to this series I can only think of making duah for the parents of Sh. Omar. May they be eternally happy in their final abode. May the Yaqeen Institute grow to full strength ❤
I left my husband as I caught him cheating on me and not wanting to stop. This was my 2nd marriage. Please pray for me I feel so broken 💔😞
Very interesting topic because even when we are Muslim believers in a non Muslim country we often questioned why others have all these blessings even they are not in the right path ? I am so grateful for the faith of Islam
I've always disgraced myself and always blame myself for everything but not anymore,jazakalah,Allah I barik❤
May Allah make easy for us all during this blessed month of Ramadan 🤍
Aamiin. May Allah guided you to stay discipline and firm in your Iman, even when Ramadhan has passed. ❤
Ameen
Imam Omar, I can't thank you enough for bringing this to our screens! These episodes are literally helping me heal from the trauma of 11 years. Each and every aspect of the series miraculously resonates with me. THANK YOU. JAZAKUM ALLAHU KHAYRAN KHATHEERAN.❤
I’m 5 minutes in, and already concluded this episode is exactly what my heart and mind needed after the last episode alhamdulillah.
Hearing Sheikh Omar’s words does give hope. I lost the woman I loved. I lost for me my wife. I feel so much sadness and regret. Please pray that I can move on and InshaAllah find peace with her in jannah. 🙏
When imam omar speaks, our souls listens and when he explains the love of Allah for us, our whole being gladen’s
This years series seems to have been made for me. it resonates so well with all the questions I have in my heart and mind now. May Allah bless you for this
Same here
Yaa rebb i wana see the Palestinian fredom in my age❤❤❤
We all want that sister. Keep praying!
I thought that Allah swt doesnt answer my duas, and He is not involved in my life anymore and that I am not important to Him. May Allah swt forgive me. But since I am watching this series, I know that Allah swt is protecting me and caring about me through not giving me what I am whishing for, that He loves me ❤ Jazak Allahu khair to the whole team of Yaqeen Institute ans esp. Sh. Omar Suleiman. You've helped me to understand my life better
May we be at peace with Qadr in sha Allah
I've been stressed lately because I can't achieve my dreams. I feel useless and hopeless. Until I opened TH-cam and watched this. It seems Allah subhanahu wata'ala guided me to find your video, Shaykh. Thank you. May Allah bless you and the Yaqeen Institute team.
Society taught us to look up on to people that have reached more then us, but in Islam we must look behind us on people that have less then us, to be thankful and help those people.
Ibn Qayyim: destiny is bound to happen so make peace with it ❤
Can the videos be a bit longer it’s really peaceful listening to these series ❤
I think I won't survive motherhood without the words of Allah... ❤❤❤
Hasbunallah wa ni'mal wakel 🤍
اللّٰہ تعالٰی ہم پر اپنا خصوصی رحم فرمائے آمین 🤲🏻❤🇵🇰
May Allah(SWT) grant you jannatul firdaus Dr
My grandmother who shaped my life and taught me Quran suddenly passed away last Friday evening after iftar please pray for her. May Allah gather us in Jannah. Ameen ya Allah
May Allah reunite you again with her in jannayul firdaus, aamiin
I sense something within me that isn't positive. I make efforts, yet I don't sense Allah's presence in my life. I'm uncertain of where Allah is. I don't witness the success I desired. Feeling lonely and crying, I'm at a loss for what to do. I aspire to be a devout believer, but my shoulders are burdened. I strive for patience, but find myself becoming increasingly overwhelmed.
Making Dua for you dear. Ask Allah for help and guidance! Give yourself grace. Things will get better Inshallah! 🤲🏻🤲🏻
@@tamitarekolayan9918 thank you brother/sister. Allah bless you and your family and may allah allow you to enter paradise!
May Allah ease your affairs, please always make dua. I also want to say that you write really well 😊. Your comment felt like I was reading a poem.
@@rayyanshobowale7110 thank you, may allah bless you. i wrote the comment and i like poetry, but ai helped me to correct my english, actually it sounds like this when i write without correction.
corrected one" Thank you, may Allah bless you. I composed the comment and enjoy poetry, but AI assisted me in correcting my English. Indeed, this is how it appears when I write without any corrections."
@@samkey9007 I can't see any difference. They are both well composed🤗
I am trying to battle with enviness every day of my life...and I am tired of it ..please pray for me .. 😢
Me too 😟
Alhamdullilah, your videos are always invaluable 😊
It is more hurtful of this person hurt you before and he is living his life to full.... Allah eases our hearts. Left nothing bad inaide our hearts.
If you see this please make dua for me my mother is trying to marry me to my cousin by force and I’m tired, I feel so alone right now.
Darling I'm so sorry. Please tell your family that forced marriage without consent is not valid in Shari'a law. Which country are you from? Making Dua for you
May Allah grant you what's the best for you
lol go find actual help, the internet can’t help you. Also, no real sheikh will ever marry you by force. They ask this question during Nikah .. if you’re that afraid to see the police
Where do you live sister? Is it possible for you to contact an İmam that will talk with your mom and explain her that it's not allowed to force someone to marry somebody
Sister you should listen to your mother believe me my mother got me married with my cousin and I’m so much happy we have four kids allamduliallah I’m proud of my mother. To make a very good decision for me May Allah grant her jannet tul firdous Ameen.
Today is my birthday, please make dua for my parents and reunite my whole family in Jannah❤
After 13 years of marriage my wife telling she never loved me or was happy with me. She wants to move on. Can't comprehend what's going on. Its a traumatic experience for me. May Allah make things easy for me and every grieving soul.
May Allah help you and guide you through this difficult time
This might not be relevant to you but do self ruqyah. Could be ayn/sihr/mass. Pray on time, especially fajr. Never miss your morning and evening protection duaas. Make lots of istighfar & salawat on the prophet ﷺ. Pray qiyam.
And like someone else said see if she would be willing to consider marriage counselling.
@@JewelsRoyale suddenly she is a different person, doesn't even want to discuss with her mum, not listening to anyone.
@@sara.m22 JazakAllahu khairan
Assalmalaquim,
Please dua for my children and myself. I am single mother have been going thru so much pain and problems 😢😢😢
What an insightful lesson to be applied to life. Too many times, we look at others and wish for their blessings whilst forgetting our own blessings.
Our patience is tested not only through people but through delays. Why are the most deserving facing hardship. My dad died before the new year. When you help those in need or do well in life sometimes it doesn’t get recognised.
May our graves be the gardens of Jannah.
May Allah grant us Jannatul Firdous without reckoning❤
Allahumma inni asaluka Al Jannaah ❤❤❤
Aameen Summa ameen ❤❤❤
May Allah bless our brothers and sisters of ummah with Jannah ❤
Aameen summa Aameen ❤
O Allah give me what is right for me and give me the blessing to bring ease to my brothers and sisters. Have a peaceful life!!
SubhanAllah! This series has been everything I have needed to hear to put my life and problems into perspective, bi iznillah. I pray it weighs heavily on Brother Omar's and the Yaqeen team's scales, and that Allah swt is pleased with them, aameen.
Amen
Wallah may Allah bless this man. The way he’s changing my thought process on every topic of this series is insane.
I Allah please grant us everlasting relief❤We have no one else to help us
This series is so wonderful and it feels so timely. Every single episode seems to speak to me. May Allah guide all of us.
Subhanallah ❤
May Allah increase Dr Omar Suleiman with health n wealth
Mind blowing graphic designing
Alhamdulillah Jazakumullahu khairan.
Masha Allah ❤❤❤❤❤
Alhamdullilah ❤
Alhamdulillah
Aameen.. jazak Allahu khairan kaseeran
Masha Allah ❤️ Alhamdulillah
Masha Allah
Jazakumullahu khairan ya Sheikh
JajazkAllahu khairan brother
Ma shaa Allah
JazakAllahu Khairan🌼
Allah Barak Feekum
Love Shaykh Abdullahs cameo
Alhamdullilah 🙏
Right on time ♥️ Jazak Allah Khairan
Barakallahu fiikum
Thank you! 🥺 i needed this
May Allah bless you you Dr. Omar Suleiman
I really needed to hear this today! Allahu Akbar
May Allah Blessing this Ramadan
Best Ramadan series ever
SubhanAllah, this spoke to me.
Alhamdulillah! This is comforting.
Ya allah free our brothers and sister in palestine 🇵🇸
Ameen ya rabbal alameen
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لا إله إلا الله
Alhumdulillah for everything
On point
The best video I have watched for today ❤
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Appreciation
Love the videos and have changed my mindset!
May Allah protect you and be your strength
سبحان الله
MashaAllah am so happy to see sheikh Abdullah in this series.
This episode is on an other level ❤
Thank u so much❤ I love this series 🥺🫀