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  • @ummuhkay
    @ummuhkay หลายเดือนก่อน +705

    Crazy how they went from "close your legs" to "why arent your legs open?"

    • @SunseedStarchild
      @SunseedStarchild หลายเดือนก่อน +94

      This comment wins

    • @Uiuiooo
      @Uiuiooo หลายเดือนก่อน +57

      Literally

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They are literally selling sex!

    • @alyssabates967
      @alyssabates967 หลายเดือนก่อน +232

      So true. Another is: crazy how it went from “Should have chose better” to “Why won’t you settle?”

    • @sherrita8582
      @sherrita8582 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      Right😂😂

  • @Trailblazers323
    @Trailblazers323 หลายเดือนก่อน +467

    Boycott dating apps too

    • @nicoleavery7238
      @nicoleavery7238 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That’s idiotic. If you don’t like them don’t use them why does it bother you so much

    • @swim610
      @swim610 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

      Yes, hopefully every woman deletes bumble.

    • @Thisisme1919
      @Thisisme1919 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

      Boycott dating

    • @hanatirk4375
      @hanatirk4375 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      4B it out✌️✌️✌️✌️✌️

    • @NovaPrincess
      @NovaPrincess หลายเดือนก่อน +49

      4B movement wins

  • @Annonymight
    @Annonymight หลายเดือนก่อน +360

    I wonder what fuckboy was given this assignment and he convinced the entire marketing team to go with this nonsense....

    • @Lokian_Mermaid
      @Lokian_Mermaid หลายเดือนก่อน +47

      It was whichever F-boy was promoted, who then hired his F-boy friends 🤷🏻‍♀️
      (Or, they're likely wannabe F-boys).

    • @PettyIsMyMiddleName
      @PettyIsMyMiddleName หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      😂 exactly

    • @jojojams
      @jojojams หลายเดือนก่อน +54

      They skipped the fboys and immediately asked the incels 😂

    • @kitsontuli2713
      @kitsontuli2713 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

      Notice how the women in the ads are black, hmmmm

    • @CitySlickerButtKicker
      @CitySlickerButtKicker หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am loving how this comment thread just keeps escalating in savagery! Hahaha!

  • @rainiminiatures2184
    @rainiminiatures2184 หลายเดือนก่อน +164

    Bumble: Celibacy is not the answer ladies!
    translation: Save us! If you close your legs, all the men will leave the app too!

    • @beckywiththesharpknife8331
      @beckywiththesharpknife8331 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      Or, maybe the men in those apps can start dating each other. 🤷

    • @caddiewallace-jones7756
      @caddiewallace-jones7756 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Lol nope get rekt Bumble 😂

    • @Liz-wz8dh
      @Liz-wz8dh หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@beckywiththesharpknife8331 Only a small percentage. Not enough to keep the app running, for sure.

    • @NovaPrincess
      @NovaPrincess หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@beckywiththesharpknife8331Exactly. A lot of them are on the down low anyway!

  • @juliekswanson
    @juliekswanson หลายเดือนก่อน +202

    Also: no matter what choice you make with your body as a woman, there will be a backlash. They don’t want you to have a choice with your body. Think about that.

    • @NovaPrincess
      @NovaPrincess หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      Terrifying thought.

    • @LisaSoulLevelHealing
      @LisaSoulLevelHealing หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      The powers that be are concerned with YT WOMEN not having babies, which is why we have to suffer thede draconian laws. They need to do something and let these yt men know its unacceptable.

    • @roxyortiz8819
      @roxyortiz8819 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      THIS

    • @MypersonalURL
      @MypersonalURL หลายเดือนก่อน

      Welcome to life, buttercup. Man women boy girl. You get judged.

    • @thatgirlkells5505
      @thatgirlkells5505 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Exactly. They want to be able to choose for you and also be able to discard you as well.

  • @missinterpretation4984
    @missinterpretation4984 หลายเดือนก่อน +210

    The “just f him” billboard 😂😂😂 she nailed it.

    • @Vee_Davis-wb9wd
      @Vee_Davis-wb9wd หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      THIS!!! this comment here sums it up superbly

  • @Sweet_Dee
    @Sweet_Dee หลายเดือนก่อน +209

    Ew! Just ew! 🤢 It's the fact that it's calling our bodily autonomy into question. So much audacity! 🥴
    A vow of celibacy IS the answer for some women. Let's allow individuals to make that highly personal decision for themselves and respect whatever they choose.

  • @AnusiaLA
    @AnusiaLA หลายเดือนก่อน +147

    Once I saw a guy I knew (barely) sit on the couch, watch a movie and swipe right on tinder without looking at his phone till he reached the swipe limit for the day… lol I used to be on the apps and the guys would never even read my profile and would ask me about things that were clearly listed in my bio. Apps are trash. Dating sucks. Sex is disappointing with most men- I have a 100% success rate on my own and my physical and emotional safety is not endangered.

  • @mariedelaurentiis
    @mariedelaurentiis หลายเดือนก่อน +223

    Im glad women are catching up. I've been off the dating apps for more than 10 years. I been knew it was some bs, its boring and the men were the worst. I met my love at work and aside from liking him, i knew he had a clearance and a background check to be there. Half the battle was done lol
    Stay safe ladies especially in these times where reproductive rights are being rolled back and the increase of female violence.

    • @toscadonna
      @toscadonna หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      I’ve been dreaming of this time since 1999 and friends with benefits was coined. I knew it was a disaster waiting to happen to women.

    • @jessitabonita
      @jessitabonita หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You are so smart! "half the battle was done." 🤔
      You have me rethinking former advice I've been living by, "don't get your honey where you get your money," or, "don't get your meat where you get your bread!"
      😂😂😂

    • @mariedelaurentiis
      @mariedelaurentiis หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @jessitabonita lol it can work. Truly half the battle is trying to vet these men to make sure they're not insane and I already know these apps don't run any background checks to ensure the safety of the women that use them.
      Where I work, you have to undergo a full background investigation to be employed there. I do encourage women, if they can, to investigate these men.
      I don't encourage all women to date men they work with because people can still be immature as we know lol but it can work out and you'd feel better about it not being someone super random who was convicted of crimes or something crazy.

    • @shea5542
      @shea5542 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Valid

    • @shea5542
      @shea5542 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      And you know he’s reliable enough to be trusted with something lmao

  • @thekameru6058
    @thekameru6058 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

    If bumble wants to act like an offended pimp, they can damn well start giving women a share of the profits whenever they put out.

    • @ashleykathryn9038
      @ashleykathryn9038 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      That's a great point, I never saw dating apps like prostitution but cheaper!

  • @arcticprowl971
    @arcticprowl971 หลายเดือนก่อน +216

    I was asked for a hook up by a guy and when i said no he said no one is going to take me seriously as a single mother. And i knew i wouldn't be on apps anymore.

    • @jenbodhi1133
      @jenbodhi1133 หลายเดือนก่อน +100

      I’m not a single mother, but a male friend of mine said this about single mothers, so I ended the friendship.
      My mom was a single mother and I’m not listening to or supporting men with this attitude, they aren’t allowed in my life

    • @Lokian_Mermaid
      @Lokian_Mermaid หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@jenbodhi1133
      Some ppl are single because their spouse died, but they want to overlook that.
      I tell ppl all the time, if you don't want to date a single parent, then don't. It's the right thing that you stay away from them. Just don't turn around and talk s#-t about them either.
      But, yeah, I know a lot of the guys that do that are pulling that negging BS.

    • @LisaSoulLevelHealing
      @LisaSoulLevelHealing หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@jenbodhi1133really poor character.

    • @smlorrin
      @smlorrin หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jenbodhi1133 🥰

    • @Gumbier_Than
      @Gumbier_Than หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Please allow me to give you the encouragement you probably don't need. 😊
      Single moms are the most resourceful and resilient people around. That simpleton showed his ass and got his face cracked.
      I look forward to reading your comments about you finding someone who treats you sublime. ✌🏾

  • @ButterflyyyXoxo
    @ButterflyyyXoxo หลายเดือนก่อน +153

    The audacity it's like they're begging for their business to go under.

  • @MissKashira
    @MissKashira หลายเดือนก่อน +69

    Whoever came up with this should be fired, immediately.

    • @CitySlickerButtKicker
      @CitySlickerButtKicker หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Why fire the marketing team when the whole company will be fired by the public! Its gonna go bankrupt! 😂

    • @tiahnarodriguez3809
      @tiahnarodriguez3809 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It’s like the idiot who came up with the cringe bud light commercial “no doesn’t have to mean no” or something like that. Same vibe.

  • @r.e45
    @r.e45 หลายเดือนก่อน +92

    Bumble is officially a male on male dating app‼️‼️
    🤷🏼‍♀️Tehe 🤣🤣
    LETS GO LADIES ‼️🫶🏻
    STAND FOR SOMETHING OR FALL FOR ANYTHING ‼️

    • @beckywiththesharpknife8331
      @beckywiththesharpknife8331 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Yup...I think Grindr should just buy ALL OF THEM. 😂🤭

    • @eddielacrosse2
      @eddielacrosse2 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      … you do realize that Men cannot message on Bumble? Are you aware of this? This isn’t a dating app. Huge disconnect with reality here.

  • @johannap7061
    @johannap7061 หลายเดือนก่อน +144

    Let's go, ladies!! Celibate and haven't dated in 5 years.
    Comment below how long you've been celibate.
    🎉#CelebrateCelibate

    • @hardcandy71287
      @hardcandy71287 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      over 6 years.

    • @TheShadeTreeNetwork
      @TheShadeTreeNetwork หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      Over 3 years. Have not properly dated for almost 5 years.
      (NOT PROPERLY = Online dating but nothing beyond 1st date.)

    • @ky9933
      @ky9933 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

      MY WHOLE DAMN LIFE 🥰🥰🥰

    • @Annonymight
      @Annonymight หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      7 or 8. I stopped counting after it became so regular that I don't think about it at all.

    • @gekeithakeaton989
      @gekeithakeaton989 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      12 years!!

  • @f3042
    @f3042 หลายเดือนก่อน +98

    It’s over. Bumble completely, COMPLETELY messed up!

    • @CitySlickerButtKicker
      @CitySlickerButtKicker หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bumble's ad will only heighten and fuel the 4B movement, which in turn will not just cause their company to go down, but other dating apps too. I'd like to see Tinder and POF go down as well! Dominoes effect

  • @Trailblazers323
    @Trailblazers323 หลายเดือนก่อน +245

    Why does she think that there's no way that women had nothing to do with the ad? As if there's no male minded, male centered women.

    • @NightimeInDeepSpace
      @NightimeInDeepSpace หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      Agree there's more than enough women who have skewed anti woman views, the founder as well as the current ceo are women. I don't think we can put this one on the men as far as coming up with the idea, they wouldn't dare in the corporate world

    • @myvids718
      @myvids718 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      That’s a good point and also ppl just going along because they need a paycheck

    • @ddcreates4947
      @ddcreates4947 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

      those women are just diet men to me

    • @canesugar911
      @canesugar911 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ddcreates4947 😂 in their minds they are

    • @blessedcutie8983
      @blessedcutie8983 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      Exactly. Women are currently supporting a policy to track pregnancies, prevent abortion care, block paid family leave, and remove access to birth control.

  • @LisaSoulLevelHealing
    @LisaSoulLevelHealing หลายเดือนก่อน +97

    Can we and the wall be celibate in peace please!!!

  • @dinameshrif6430
    @dinameshrif6430 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    Also what’s with that wording? “You know FULL WELL …”. Actually what we know FULL WELL is that having sex with strangers is wrong, bad for us and unethical.

    • @shea5542
      @shea5542 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yesss

    • @shea5542
      @shea5542 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It’s such a condescending tone, the “full well” part, as if they are a teacher or superior talking down to you and you’re in trouble. As if they’re giving you a reprimand.

    • @dinameshrif6430
      @dinameshrif6430 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@shea5542 exactly. like she said we are a product that's not selling well to them. so we're getting yelled at, apparently. I never used those apps for a reason.

  • @balance7350
    @balance7350 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    Theyve posted a half ass apology on instagram and women ain't having it

    • @Gumbier_Than
      @Gumbier_Than หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I'm going to go watch their stocks go down the shitter. 😂

  • @missinterpretation4984
    @missinterpretation4984 หลายเดือนก่อน +106

    She’s onto something. “You know full well” is giving major “well what did you think was going to happen?” after someone is date graped.

    • @elishh8173
      @elishh8173 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      I know! It gives dark grapey scary vibes

    • @smlorrin
      @smlorrin หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      The thing that disturbs me most about this is that its target was BW, as though it was acceptable to be more aggressive towards them. F that! (...and I'm a WW.) 😡

    • @juanita_rocksteady2761
      @juanita_rocksteady2761 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      ​@@smlorrinThat bothered me too.

    • @NovaPrincess
      @NovaPrincess หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@smlorrinHow was the target of the ad black women? I see it targets all women, especially teens and children. It's way more sinister than you think.

    • @smlorrin
      @smlorrin หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      @@NovaPrincess The ad that had the "You know full well" part in it was only in black neighborhoods according to someone here on TH-cam. (I can't remember which creator said that.) That part was missing on billboards in other areas. Those billboards just said "A vow of celibacy is not the answer."
      EDIT: I said "here on Facebook" rather than "here on TH-cam. I changed only that part.

  • @juliekswanson
    @juliekswanson หลายเดือนก่อน +139

    Men can’t love so why are we even talking about online dating-it’s a grotesque charade. 🤢

    • @julesb2415
      @julesb2415 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Dead ass these are just hookups sites, like an escort service

    • @babyqueen2030
      @babyqueen2030 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Men can't love period. Apps, irl, the church, doesn't matter where they are. The best they can do is provide... They literally have one job.

    • @bw-dn1wp
      @bw-dn1wp หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      And they are just entertainment for men as well

    • @ladybug3380
      @ladybug3380 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I knew men can’t love when they said having s** with their wives is how they express their love.

    • @fantasia243645
      @fantasia243645 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Men can and do absolutely love. They have emotions too. Toxic people come in both genders. This is a sad comment.

  • @ashleytanner06
    @ashleytanner06 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    First it was close your legs now they want us to open it. I am so confused...smh

    • @dream_on_sammi
      @dream_on_sammi หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      They’re confused too. They just won’t admit it. They don’t want women with a high body count but at the same time they don’t want us to be celibate. Make it make sense.

    • @tarablue4472
      @tarablue4472 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      @@dream_on_sammi They're not confused, they know exactly what they want. BOTH. They just won't admit it because it's so obviously selfish. So they blame us🙄

    • @bdaddy503
      @bdaddy503 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Its not complicated ladies. Just because a man doesnt want a garden tool doesnt mean he wants a nun.

  • @coast2coast8306
    @coast2coast8306 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    Dating apps are 🚮

  • @marissa._
    @marissa._ หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    Never used bumble or any other sleezy dating apps, however, I am confused.
    If bumble was supposed to be this "woman empowerment" thing where women get to "make the first move", now all of a sudden they're "burdened" by that? What exactly was the point of making an app that women were going to feel "burdened" by/with?
    Secondly, how the hell is celibacy, abstinence/virginity, asexual, etc. - a "punishment" to men? I saw a video of some dude parked in his car saying celibacy was a "punishment to men!" So...if men don't want women with a "high body count", when they themselves have high body counts:
    1. wouldn't f***in' a woman CONTRIBUTE to her body count? 🤔
    2. wouldn't being a virgin/celibate = no/low body count? 🤔 Thus, also equalling women "keeping their legs shut"? 🤔
    3. when women and girls keep their legs shut, why exactly are they mad? 🤔
    Lastly, why does being "sex positive" have to equal talking about sex and announcing sexual things you like, to people who didn't consent to that? Its almost similar like a guy sending a "D" picture without permission!

    • @laurennelson3918
      @laurennelson3918 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I guess it’s that saying about how equality sounds like oppression to the privileged.

    • @silversilk8438
      @silversilk8438 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Merissa, such good points! One, two, three strikes and their whole worldview just crumbled.
      I think the reason is: Different guys say different things, hence society’s contradictory messages. Also, for those guys who want open legs, I think it’s
      1. Influenced by porn, where they choose what they want based on their own lusts, and the woman can’t say no.
      2. Entitlement. These below bare-minimal effort men feel entitled to the best while putting in the least. It’s a mindset of selfishness…
      3. Being flat out unworthy and knowing it. And that’s why I’m not on the market for selfish men, and am very much celibate. The right guys will be okay with that. The wrong guys know they don’t deserve that and while they may be looking to “conquer” I will probe their shallowness and reject them. The only guys I’ll look at are the ones committed to cherishing their woman and being responsible for their own actions. Bur of course, even with that, being wary of lovebombing.

    • @LadyAstarionAncunin
      @LadyAstarionAncunin หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm asexual and a virgin, and I plan to remain a virgin until I pass on from this world, not only because I have no interest in having se,x but because I see that it's not worth it. What men think about that is worth less than what I flush down the toilet every day because at least that served a purpose at some point. They hate us whether we give or don't.

    • @redleeks6253
      @redleeks6253 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I explain: Men want some women to be promiscuous to make them easier to f*ck them and release their balls BUT them don't want the women they desire as having a big body count.
      Men see women as objects so lets use the cars example. A man who just needs a low cost or free ride from point A to point B won't mind pay for a uber who has taken thousands of passangers, he doesn't even mind if its a good new car or not, he just wants to pay (little) fot that specific ride that he needs to satisfy his ponctual need of going from point A to point B.
      Now, men who want to buy a car, want an expensive car, a car with status and a car with 0 miles, brand new. Ofc not them all can afford it, and some might buy a bugatti in 2nd or 3rd hand (others dont have to know) and if they cant buy a porsche or Bugatti they might still bebok with an average car with 0 miles. And ofc the guys who cant afford uber or expensive cars will ride a 3rd hand old fiat punto and not treat it very well, just while it's serving him the man will keep it (placeholder women).
      Hope my explanation was helpful. Always remember that men don't see women as humans like them but objects to serve them, like cars, and not all cars are the same even if they all do the same function.

    • @shea5542
      @shea5542 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@silversilk8438I love everything you said. Yes maam ❤❤❤❤

  • @the_agate_gate3782
    @the_agate_gate3782 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    Fucking “Blurred Lines” is the Robin Thicke song. I remember when it came out it played on loop fucking everywhere. 🤮

    • @laurennelson3918
      @laurennelson3918 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I didn’t know that was what it was about until now.

    • @NovaPrincess
      @NovaPrincess หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Knowing what we know about those Hollyweird parties (like Combs) it is likely this song also referenced spiking alcohol... 'blurred' vision to have a chance assault the victim.

    • @bm5_5_5
      @bm5_5_5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This used to play in every nightclub when I turned 18. Had no idea how messed up that actually was.

    • @LadyAstarionAncunin
      @LadyAstarionAncunin หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's weird that the woman said it was a good song, considering the refrain "You know you want it." On some "she wanted it" ish.

  • @missinterpretation4984
    @missinterpretation4984 หลายเดือนก่อน +87

    The song she’s trying to remember is blurred lines and it’s effing awful!!!! It’s dehumanizing.

    • @goverlord
      @goverlord หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      is that the one that Weird Al Yankovic was parodying when he wrote Word Crimes?

    • @Alex-ie8cw
      @Alex-ie8cw หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@goverlord yeah, that's the one

  • @ambasd733
    @ambasd733 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    Bumble and other dating apps dont realize ... its gonna be some "Slow singing and flower bringing" if you incentivize men to think i owe them something 😊

  • @LifeofShay33
    @LifeofShay33 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    The first ad that came up on this video was for “Bumble” …. 😂.

    • @TheNdygo
      @TheNdygo หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I saw that too! 😑😑

    • @Jujubean9795
      @Jujubean9795 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Any publicity is good publicity.

    • @BB-jx6hb
      @BB-jx6hb หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Lmfaoo i keep getting the bumble ad so annoying 😂

    • @mllwstrm
      @mllwstrm หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me too WTF! 😂😂😂

    • @DuskyJewel
      @DuskyJewel หลายเดือนก่อน

      They are all over the place 😂😂

  • @purplemonsoon8376
    @purplemonsoon8376 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Celibate for 6 months and I love it 😍

  • @BWTM
    @BWTM หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    LOL That app has been trash for years. Every man I “met” on that app showed how trash they were within 5 minutes of messaging them. I was so traumatized by my last encounter that I still remember the guys name and we NEVER met in person 😬

  • @blondebeaker938
    @blondebeaker938 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    I feel like it's demeaning to women and the current political climate

  • @jesseking9043
    @jesseking9043 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Bumble is like a male author writing women 😭💀

  • @MuslimAndProud201
    @MuslimAndProud201 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Bumble will tumble then fumble and many men will be humble 💅

    • @Darkstalker1012
      @Darkstalker1012 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Nice one 🤣🤣🤣👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @eddielacrosse2
      @eddielacrosse2 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Why??? What does Men have to do with this? We can’t even message on this app? Men don’t even like this app 😂😂😂 we are only in these comments to laugh at all this. Bumble is horribly sexist towards Men, and you’ll think that’s actually a good foundation to form relationships with people 😂😂😂 why would
      Men be humbled by this !?? This was a women’s decision to make the app this way 😂😂

    • @bdaddy503
      @bdaddy503 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      What does bumbles fumble have to do with men. You thought you cooked huh? Lol

  • @RedDeadReverie
    @RedDeadReverie หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Glad more women are speaking up about this ❤

  • @rwiley8535
    @rwiley8535 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    The campaign was so out of touch. Based on male entitlement. They "blamed: Women instead of doing a deep dive on the toxic environment dating apps cause. Male toxicity, is ignored. And they want Women to get back into the game again, risk their lives and open your legs. There entire vibe is sad

  • @rodemates
    @rodemates หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Messaging gives me the ick. The company is very clear it wants to pimp women out for profit.

    • @eddielacrosse2
      @eddielacrosse2 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      How are they pimping out women…. Men cannot message women on the app!!!!!!!!!!! Only women can message 😂😂😂 if you’re a pimp, how are you going to sell your hoes if your customers cannot even contact you ?
      What you said is bullshit and whoever said that they followed is an idiot
      Bumble is disrespecting women AND men.

    • @tiahnarodriguez3809
      @tiahnarodriguez3809 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      That’s the goal of all of these dating apps. Tinder and Grindr even market themselves as hook-up apps, so they know what they’re doing.

  • @DeMarkeba
    @DeMarkeba หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    And the ads are relentless

  • @Scrittlescrattle
    @Scrittlescrattle หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    Wonderful video as usual, though I’m flabbergasted I got a BUMBLE ad right at the start 😂

  • @ramunebradfordtake2710
    @ramunebradfordtake2710 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Sex and the City ?! Girl, what? Honestly, that show really missed the mark on a lot of things regarding sexuality, race (especially), lifestyle choices and class. So no a Samantha Jones campaign would not be a good look. lol. No no no no no no no no no.

  • @ladyeva1980
    @ladyeva1980 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    The second girl was talking about Blurred Lines

    • @elishh8173
      @elishh8173 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Yeah disgusting song. Thank God it would never be a hit today

    • @AG-iu9lv
      @AG-iu9lv หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ew

    • @WynnWynn-gl3fk
      @WynnWynn-gl3fk หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@elishh8173it would

    • @WynnWynn-gl3fk
      @WynnWynn-gl3fk หลายเดือนก่อน

      You mean woman 👩 not girl 👧🏼. Stop infantilizing women.

  • @Tevs91
    @Tevs91 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I deleted the app YEARS ago and glad I never returned. It’s a joke

  • @Danyale01
    @Danyale01 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    the red pill podcasts and pearl gonna eat this one up, but honestly dating apps really aint it. Its just for people looking to have sex and the small percentage looking for a relationship. no thank you

    • @Childfree334
      @Childfree334 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I hate to disappoint you, but meeting men the "old fashioned" way is the same.

    • @jessikajane4967
      @jessikajane4967 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Not sure how they're going to "eat this up" when they've been screeching about women being "ran through" and having a "high body count".
      This campaign is against what they're saying.

    • @Danyale01
      @Danyale01 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@jessikajane4967 im sure they will find a way to flip it on women lmao but hey 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @NovaPrincess
      @NovaPrincess หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Childfree334Because it's the exact same sociopathic male whether he is on Hinge, Bumble, Tinder, or at the gym.

    • @tiahnarodriguez3809
      @tiahnarodriguez3809 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ⁠@@jessikajane4967 They’re going to flip this so that men are the victims. Pearl would say something like, “if women catered to men, men wouldn’t feel sexually frustrated, and this billboard wouldn’t be up”. Fresh n’Fit would say something like, “Ladies, you want a man, you’re going to have to show him how much he’s desired”. Tate would probably defend women not having sex cuz he has this weird obsession with women being virgins, but then he’d say something about “used up” women being mad or something like that.

  • @jojojams
    @jojojams หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Billboard: A bear standing in an aggressive pose in front of a jacuzzi: Ladies, we'll help you spot the difference. Boom. Done. Stay with the times billionaires.

  • @tigerlilly9038
    @tigerlilly9038 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    This campaign is literally GARBAGE CAN JUICE!!! 😂.. but seriously it is giving :"give me access to you even if you THOUGHT you didn't want to do so, you silly woman"
    CEO LINDIANE JONES will be replaced in 3...2..1 since she was *bragging about this relaunch in Bumble on NBC*

  • @anhangamirim
    @anhangamirim หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Even SAMANTHA JONES opted for CELIBACY when it fits her best interest! (yeah, that's in the show)

  • @joycejoy4119
    @joycejoy4119 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    No s@x before marriage
    No living together before 💍
    That’s a traditional way 😅
    Good luck 🤞

    • @nailahdawkins
      @nailahdawkins หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      _ADD_ to that list no ❌: vacations ✈️, joint business(es), kids before marriage, no joint bank accounts, no shared properties/housing, no shared vehicles, etc!
      Lastly, date/court intentionally by: asking the hard questions now *not* later, get therapy, practice self care, switch up your diet, get healthy, invest yourself, and don't date X amount of years and stop keeping folks as placeholders. Get married - either get off the 🚽 or 💩 already!

  • @mwatson4970
    @mwatson4970 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    The sad thing is, i have even had some girlfriend say that guys "need" sex. While here I am, having been in multiple months to years long relationships, where I've been celibate & they... find a way (rt or left hand) or do without. Good guys with some self-discipline don't need sex for intimacy, but most of the dusties have ONLY that on their mind bc their life is the opposite of rich or emotionally mature.

    • @lapris7380
      @lapris7380 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Fr that’s one of the reasons why I’m waiting for marriage. I’ll be able to weed out the men who lack self control and want to know me as a body instead of a person. Good guys are out here and I don’t think a lot of them are on dating apps or social media in general. Bad men are simply the loudest but i have bodily autonomy. I can choose to only give myself to a man deserving and that’s what i’m going to do. Self control is attractive.

  • @wanderlustoceans8205
    @wanderlustoceans8205 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    The irony is that i got an advertisement from Bumble on this video 😂

  • @TM-nb9zf
    @TM-nb9zf หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    That was definitely disappointing, but not surprising

  • @crystalsagesynergy
    @crystalsagesynergy หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Yes I've had to come off a dating apps long time ago. The men are gross, you don't even have to have a provocative picture anywhere on your profile, and they'll still come at you regarding sex. They're not looking for anything real or substantial.

  • @bm5_5_5
    @bm5_5_5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Bumble have just successfully turned even more people off online dating. Great job bumble 😂

  • @dariasdouble212
    @dariasdouble212 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    The algorithm cracks me up sometimes. I got TWO bumble ads while watching 😂

  • @PragmaticMoves
    @PragmaticMoves หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Bumble is showing you all the their site is just for sexual encounters....duh

    • @tiahnarodriguez3809
      @tiahnarodriguez3809 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This is true for all the dating sites even Plenty of Fish which was supposed to be a Christian website 💀.

  • @kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066
    @kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    So what's that advertisement promoting exactly?
    If you're a celibate woman.... don't go on that dating app?
    Because the men, don't respect and won't except that you're celibate?
    Ok then...
    Not using THAT app

  • @somebodycomelistentothispo7217
    @somebodycomelistentothispo7217 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    There was a bumble ad before your video started!! 🤣🤣 They are funny

    • @allMinabe
      @allMinabe หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I got the ad during the video 😂

  • @pri.sci.lla.
    @pri.sci.lla. หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Why would anyone use Bumble anyway? 😂

    • @Gumbier_Than
      @Gumbier_Than หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      People think being lonely isn't "that bad" but for some it is. Otherwise people wouldn't put up with the crap they do in relationships.

    • @eg4417
      @eg4417 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@Gumbier_Thannever met anyone who thought being lonely isn't that bad, but I've met plenty of people who prefer to be alone. There's a big difference between being lonely and being alone.

    • @WynnWynn-gl3fk
      @WynnWynn-gl3fk หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@eg4417it is more lonely being in a bad relationship than it is to be alone type lonely

  • @jlconnors7872
    @jlconnors7872 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    song is Blurred Lines. Once again these companies, or men rather, put the onus on women to make the world right again and try to push us to give into the entitlement of others.

  • @iamwolf805
    @iamwolf805 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I agree with that one woman who says Bumble has always been her least favorite. I’ve been on most of the apps and honestly I have always hated that one the most. Women do the most work in relationships as it is why do I have to do all the work there too? Awful.

  • @drcatrinaking
    @drcatrinaking หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    In this era, they would have done better to advertise their friend finding feature. It's obvious folks are over online dating.

  • @brooksiedoodle5087
    @brooksiedoodle5087 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    #boycottbumble

  • @MyriadLove
    @MyriadLove หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I'm genx, and when we were coming up, approaching a man was considered 'desperate'. So when Bumble came out, I always thought it was weird and backward. Men should be confident and go for what they want. Women respond. It allows her to be a lady.

  • @EyesOpenLegsClosed
    @EyesOpenLegsClosed หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    They fumble and stumble and will soon crumble.

    • @Gumbier_Than
      @Gumbier_Than หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      App will have weeds of tumble. 😂

    • @julesb2415
      @julesb2415 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      And the men will grumble

    • @EyesOpenLegsClosed
      @EyesOpenLegsClosed หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Gumbier_Than 🤣🤣🤣

    • @EyesOpenLegsClosed
      @EyesOpenLegsClosed หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@julesb2415 🤣🤣🤣

    • @Darkstalker1012
      @Darkstalker1012 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I’M DONE WITH Y’ALL 🤣🤣🤣🤣👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @lkf8799
    @lkf8799 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So much capitalism is anti-feminist. Glad we have enough players in the game to start making a difference against this kind of negative and manipulative messaging. Really interesting and smart takes in the video.
    P.S. You are so cute. What are you snacking on? 🤗

  • @matthewcaldwell8100
    @matthewcaldwell8100 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Right, lower usage of a dating app must mean celibacy. Why did any of us ever give any legitimacy to these things?

  • @sheritownsend5359
    @sheritownsend5359 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Bumble fumbled!!

  • @juliekswanson
    @juliekswanson หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    “The belle of the ball” 😂😂😂

  • @youresinningtoo3996
    @youresinningtoo3996 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    also, does anyone else think their entire basis of "women should make the first move" sounds like some thing a pick me or misogynistic man would say? The same kind of people that say "equal rights, equal fights." I've never trusted bumble because of that, it put a bad taste in my mouth from day one.

  • @purplemonsoon8376
    @purplemonsoon8376 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I love your accent ❤

  • @privateprivate5302
    @privateprivate5302 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Wouldn't it be funny if all women around the world, deleted their profiles and men actually had to be charming to score a date with you

  • @user-en2ct8ql4g
    @user-en2ct8ql4g 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    just a comment: I think you have good interview skills because you let the other person talk, and over time that person gets to the crux of their point. I found it really good, that you were not interrupting or talking over. Alot of youtubers do this

  • @akosuakoranteng3327
    @akosuakoranteng3327 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Disgusting messaging!

  • @RandomName-my2uo
    @RandomName-my2uo หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Dating apps will never be pro women as men tend to pay more, as they have to to get matches due to them being most of the users, and men literally see those apps as "order a free sex worker" apps. They will never cater to us

  • @Mustache_14
    @Mustache_14 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Crazy how the app gave incentives for women to make the first move but then realized its impossible, they are scraming around for solutions and this is how they do it 😂😂😂

  • @Rosemary46840
    @Rosemary46840 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Well I wouldn't see a problem with the ad on my own since I know they were just trying to be silly and funny to advertise but I also can't delegitimize these women's problems with the ad either since I understand their frustration with men

    • @NovaPrincess
      @NovaPrincess หลายเดือนก่อน

      What's scary about this ad is that it implies any and every woman on the app is- or should be- open to sex which is insane, especially given that this trash app is publicly traded. It's prostitution, and women have to pay in time and sometimes hyper-inflated membership for the 'experience' of allowing males access unpaid!! They are selling gamified access to women's bodies. Their goal is to shame women who aren't giving bodily access whether they're on the app or not, too. It's horrifying. Moreover, it does subtily target the youth who haven't lived long enough to truly understand the benefits of celibacy in a world intent on stealing women's bodily autonomy. The ad is pressuring women who remain on the app; it's the ol' 'grape' culture pressure of 'Well why are you on the app if you're not willing to have ... with strange males? Why did she wear those clothes? Why did she go to his house? Why did she leave the house? Why wasn't her door locked?' For any woman celibate, they're saying you're a fool for trying to be, that includes teens mind you. Sick, sick ad! It's pure propaganda.

  • @ijustneedtolaugh2137
    @ijustneedtolaugh2137 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Like 90% of the ads I see on TH-cam these days are for Bumble and Hinge. Is that happening for you guys too? I block them every single time I see one and they still won’t stop. It’s driving me crazy. They’re really scrambling 😂

    • @bm5_5_5
      @bm5_5_5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The panic is real 😂

  • @buckygal
    @buckygal 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    We live in a time where all sexual behaviors and tendencies are demanded to be normalized, as long as you are engaging in it. I can't believe in today's society celibacy is shamed.

  • @mirelastoica8752
    @mirelastoica8752 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    ❤❤❤

  • @bethbaxter2922
    @bethbaxter2922 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    How was this marketing approved?

    • @Gumbier_Than
      @Gumbier_Than หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Money. They want to keep the cash flow. Marketing is about manipulating folks into buying things. This was just a dumb campaign.

  • @opalviking
    @opalviking หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    YT’s algorithm be wiiiilllldd 😂 showing bumble ad breaks 💀

  • @priyap7041
    @priyap7041 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That Robin Thicke/Pharell song was Blurred Lines

  • @kimwhatmatters4085
    @kimwhatmatters4085 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Crazy I’ve never been on a dating app date

    • @bm5_5_5
      @bm5_5_5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me neither 😀 Just heard horror stories from friends

  • @ritikasingh9555
    @ritikasingh9555 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Sidebar, your skin is so glowy. I hope your peace and prosperity keeps going🙏❤️.

  • @DovaMaria
    @DovaMaria หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    God help women, let us get over this muddy road to become better people and get what we deserve

  • @uselessmemberofsociety4664
    @uselessmemberofsociety4664 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Also too dating app content like social media in general is so heavily curated to begin with, like you said that person's trying to pitch the idea of themselves to you and like someone once said, a crush is just a lack of information. So I've always doubted dating apps' potential for good as well.

  • @Ms.AnnDrist
    @Ms.AnnDrist หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lmao not a Bumble ad interrupting the video 😂

  • @llimettime
    @llimettime หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I wish you would put the creators names so that we can support them

  • @exuberanttarot
    @exuberanttarot หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thanks 😊

  • @manifest2203
    @manifest2203 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Boycott Bumble for this.
    Another fun fact: m4st of the m4n in dating apps are marr4ed m4n or m4n already in relationships.

  • @LadyAstarionAncunin
    @LadyAstarionAncunin หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Sad to say, it could have been a man AND/OR a pick-me that gave the final go-ahead. The tone is judgmental and entitled AF!

  • @ARelaxedSpace
    @ARelaxedSpace หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great channel just found you!

    • @MariaDavids
      @MariaDavids  29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for coming

  • @Miss_Patron
    @Miss_Patron หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    They tried to do the "no publicity is bad publicity" thing... big fail!

  • @bm5_5_5
    @bm5_5_5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dating apps running scared now a lot of us women and men have wised up to the scam of online dating 😂 Pure power play. We won’t be manipulated or desperate sorry not sorry ❤

  • @soullooker
    @soullooker หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I havent been on a dating app since 2016. Always knew what it was. Just creeps

  • @shea5542
    @shea5542 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The “full well” part sounds so condescending like they are a superior reprimanding you

  • @TiffanyNicholeCatley
    @TiffanyNicholeCatley หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I met my husband on Bumble. I appreciated that I could make the first contact. But this campaign is very tacky, immoral, and insensitive. However, a bad man will be a bad man without permission or influence.

  • @sumwitegurnm6558
    @sumwitegurnm6558 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The way i got not one, not two, but THREE bumble add on this video

  • @WholeHeartily
    @WholeHeartily 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Im app free and celibate as well. Not sure how dating will go, but 😮‍💨

  • @LKauf279
    @LKauf279 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Lost me at the Sex and the City campaign, highlighting Samantha Jones and not recognizing that millennials hate Sex in the City lmao! Hell no! Dumb idea!

  • @bodhisattva2348
    @bodhisattva2348 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Because these males with swear women are 304s sleeping with only top 10% top tier males 🙄